Comments on: Al B. Sure not expected at son’s Super Sweet 16 party http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:47:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: indya9230 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-979 indya9230 Tue, 18 Dec 2007 04:18:29 +0000 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-979 I think this issue is deeper than what meets the eye. Why? Because, Kim was Al's girl/baby mama (in his Natalie video etc)before Puffy started working for what was once "Uptown" and clearly there was some sort of love triangle there; along with the fact that Puffy and Al were supposedly friends. Quiet as kept, Kim was once viewed as an industry groupie, and back in the day a blind mind could have seen that Puffy aka Diddy aka Mr Sean John had a business sense (whether you like him or not) while Al B Sure was becoming played out. I say all that to say, I think issues that have long been dormant between Puffy and Al B. "as men" are at the root of the ruptured relationship between him and his son. And at the end of the day it is simply unfortunate that Qunicy is in the middle. I'll add to that and say NO it's not Kim's fault. However, 3 kids and no real commitment later, I dont really see her as the type that tried to foster a relationship between Quincy and his biological father. Anddddd while Puffy is to be commended for stepping up and playing Daddy to Quincy, he need to get somewhere and throw a birthday party for that daughter we all now know about (TAKE SOME PHOTO OPS WITH HER IN ESSENCE!)that is his own FLESH and BLOOD! This is just my vantage point on the situation...not the gospel. One Love! I think this issue is deeper than what meets the eye. Why? Because, Kim was Al’s girl/baby mama (in his Natalie video etc)before Puffy started working for what was once “Uptown” and clearly there was some sort of love triangle there; along with the fact that Puffy and Al were supposedly friends. Quiet as kept, Kim was once viewed as an industry groupie, and back in the day a blind mind could have seen that Puffy aka Diddy aka Mr Sean John had a business sense (whether you like him or not) while Al B Sure was becoming played out.

I say all that to say, I think issues that have long been dormant between Puffy and Al B. “as men” are at the root of the ruptured relationship between him and his son. And at the end of the day it is simply unfortunate that Qunicy is in the middle.

I’ll add to that and say NO it’s not Kim’s fault. However, 3 kids and no real commitment later, I dont really see her as the type that tried to foster a relationship between Quincy and his biological father. Anddddd while Puffy is to be commended for stepping up and playing Daddy to Quincy, he need to get somewhere and throw a birthday party for that daughter we all now know about (TAKE SOME PHOTO OPS WITH HER IN ESSENCE!)that is his own FLESH and BLOOD!

This is just my vantage point on the situation…not the gospel.

One Love!

]]> By: donnia http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-972 donnia Tue, 18 Dec 2007 02:01:56 +0000 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-972 KWallace - At 16, Quincy has his own perception of his father. The one his father has given him, nobody else. Kim doesn't carry that burden. That's a burden Al carries because of the presence or nonpresence he has chosen to have or not have in his child's life. I don't fault Kim for this at all. It's obvious she makes every effort for Diddy to be able to bond with his children. Al has to want to be a part of Quincy's life. I commend Puff for stepping up to the plate and being a daddy to Little Q. KWallace - At 16, Quincy has his own perception of his father. The one his father has given him, nobody else. Kim doesn’t carry that burden. That’s a burden Al carries because of the presence or nonpresence he has chosen to have or not have in his child’s life. I don’t fault Kim for this at all. It’s obvious she makes every effort for Diddy to be able to bond with his children. Al has to want to be a part of Quincy’s life. I commend Puff for stepping up to the plate and being a daddy to Little Q.

]]> By: kwallace577 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-896 kwallace577 Mon, 17 Dec 2007 03:46:09 +0000 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-896 i blame kim if this is indeed true. the tuth remains to be seen, but it was up to THE MOTHER to make sure the child knows and respects who and what his FATHER (not daddy) is. even if al was a bum on the street, quincy should acknowledge that is who laid down with his momma and created the life that he is. wow. just wow. i have a 12 yo daughter and her father is not as well off as my husband and i, but she knows and respects who her father is. i have even had to loan him money to take her out for a burger but SHE doesn't know that. and really to be real, her father really COULD be a bum on the street but she is a daddy's girl through and through. she loves her father with all her might b/c that is what i have taught her. and he loves her right back. i guess she is lucky to have TWO daddies.... i blame kim if this is indeed true. the tuth remains to be seen, but it was up to THE MOTHER to make sure the child knows and respects who and what his FATHER (not daddy) is. even if al was a bum on the street, quincy should acknowledge that is who laid down with his momma and created the life that he is. wow. just wow.

i have a 12 yo daughter and her father is not as well off as my husband and i, but she knows and respects who her father is. i have even had to loan him money to take her out for a burger but SHE doesn’t know that. and really to be real, her father really COULD be a bum on the street but she is a daddy’s girl through and through. she loves her father with all her might b/c that is what i have taught her. and he loves her right back. i guess she is lucky to have TWO daddies….

]]> By: donnia http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-886 donnia Sat, 15 Dec 2007 19:49:05 +0000 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-886 I don't believe Al ever played a significant role in little Quincy's life. The party theme is "Stunning Like My Daddy", not my father. I believe it's very clear that Diddy is Quincy's daddy. Anyone can be a father. It takes a very special man to be a daddy, especially to someone else's child. Al needs to sit has butt down. I don’t believe Al ever played a significant role in little Quincy’s life. The party theme is “Stunning Like My Daddy”, not my father. I believe it’s very clear that Diddy is Quincy’s daddy. Anyone can be a father. It takes a very special man to be a daddy, especially to someone else’s child. Al needs to sit has butt down.

]]> By: CaliGirlinGA http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-864 CaliGirlinGA Fri, 14 Dec 2007 17:26:18 +0000 http://sandrarose.com/2007/12/13/al-b-sure-not-expected-at-sons-super-sweet-16-party/#comment-864 According to the website where Al B. works in LA: "Check me out every weekday from 9AM to 12 Noon, right here on Hot 92.3! I’ll be taking all of your Old School and R&B requests and dedications at 1-866-2_Hot-923!" So he's on the air now...give him a call and see if he'll answer your questions. According to the website where Al B. works in LA:

“Check me out every weekday from 9AM to 12 Noon, right here on Hot 92.3! I’ll be taking all of your Old School and R&B requests and dedications at 1-866-2_Hot-923!”

So he’s on the air now…give him a call and see if he’ll answer your questions.

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