UPDATE:

My bad, this photo of Lil’ Kim was taken at Dreamz in Decatur. To the people emailing me: how was I supposed to know that? The site where I got the photo said it was Nigeria.

Anyway, this is Gucci Mane performing with her, and he looks like he needs a bath! But I guess this is how women in the South like their men to look. Men don’t know any better. They need to be trained on how to dress proper in the company of a lady. It’s a matter of respect. So when women continue to co-sign this madness – men will continue to think this is appropriate dress.

Thank God laws have been passed in Georgia to curb this type of style so at least we decent women don’t have to be subjected to it in public.


  • kpakpando

    that’s not in Nigeria, that’s in Atlanta.
    She wore a black dress with similar cut in Lagos.

  • http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

    LMAO…dude needs to pull his pants up and I’m mad that Kim
    didnt jump on her opportunity(meaning while she was in prison, she shouldve been writting and ready to release an album the next week.

  • J Gats Juice

    yes thats Gucci Mane… i cant find the words to describe what kinda mess he is. Whats really sad is that some little girl will sleep with him and be proud… SMH

  • Bookworm71274

    SIGH…
    SANDRA, THAT’S THE PHOTO FROM THEM IN THE ATL NOT NIGERIA BOO BOO! AND YES THAT IS GUCCI MANE.

  • http://www.findentertainmentnow.com miesha@FindEntertainmentNow.com

    omg that is gucci mane. hellz naw. yeah my lil sis met him recently and told me he had a lil beer belly. and his bootie all hangin’ out like he is just stacked…EWW! pls let no yung ghetto gurl sleep wit…wit…with THAT! how nasty yo…pull ’em up mane…pull ’em up!
    http://www.FindEntertainmentNow.com

  • coco21

    That’s not how all women in the south “like their men to look” Sandra!!!!!!

  • NoWay

    He is dressed appropriately. When in the presence of a Ho you don’t have to bathe or wear clothing. Now if she were a lady that would be another matter altogether.

  • Bsoul

    Someone should send him a picture of this. Just maybe then he’ll actually bother to put the pants on instead of wearing them as thigh-highs.

  • oneda

    “…in the company of a lady.” If there’s a lady in this photo I missed her. I agree with the previous post that he is dressed quite appropriately for the company he is keeping.

  • ms.peaches

    I hope that he is not in the process of getting hard on stage he looks a hot ass mess!!! & kim is one inch away from having a top on instead of a dress why the hell are they even on stage 2gether!!! PEEEWWWWWWW

  • sweetkiwi

    I think I threw up in my mouth a little. So much for lunch…

  • http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

    First of all WOMEN in the SOUTH do not allow their men to dress like this!!!

    Gucci don’t look no badder than T.I. ass going around on stage wearing a white T looking like his ass needs to be baptised.

    If I stand corrected alot of hip hop artists get happy and think their asses have a HOT BODY when they are really looking a HOT MESS!!!

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    milly Says:

    while she was in prison, she shouldve been writting and ready to release an album the next week.

    ********************************************************

    Kim ain’t never wtote a ryhme in her life.

  • Negrito

    LMAO That’s a hot mess. They seem to get a long pretty well though. Don’t be surprised if there’s a homemade sextape coming out in 08 featuring Lil Kim and Gucci Mane.

  • pinky2083

    UUGGGGHHHH!! He looks nasty!! I would never let him touch me, he looks like a ninja turlte.

  • NoWay

    Thank you Bird. I agree, she been f-ing for tracks since Big.

  • Coo Coo Bananas

    Yuck. I just want to kidnap em, drop em in a tub and scrub.

  • NaturalFromHead2Toe

    Ewwwww. He is just gross. His music is crap too.

  • dblaq

    He could have at least did some push up and sit ups. I thought guys take they shirt off because they knew they spent weeks in the gym

  • Bsoul

    He probably spent weeks in a gym too…gawking at those who were actually working out.

  • Nadine

    Lil Kim looks good…she lost some weight. Anyway Sandra, umma hafta disagree with you this time. This dude not only needs a bath, but he needs the gym. Look at that gut! He should think twice before partially disrobing in front of strangers and a camera.

  • hellava10

    LMAO!! Boogerbear gotta baby bump in the front…thumbs down. If you are gonna drop ’em come packing, baby. Mama needs groceries, not snacks.

  • http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    ech! I’m over lil kim

  • ReadTheBlog

    Awwww – I though Lil Kim was at some slow kids benefit show featuringone of the slow kids. I didn’t know it was Gucci Mane. He should change his name to Nasty Mane! Yuck!

  • Bsoul

    I think this look is the result of Gucci being so intent on wearing that Gucci belt. There is no way that little belt can be worn around his waist; he needs an belt extension.

  • http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

    OMG!
    Kim looks GREAT!! I don’t care who wrote her rhymes! She delivers them WELL…

    And YES!! Most BIRDS in the south like dudes who look like the typical “Dope Boy”, thus Gucci Mane fits the bill!! Not only does he need a BATH, he needs to do some serious CRUNCHES!! I don’t know what REAL grown women would want to have him in her company…

  • Bookworm71274

    Sandra said:But I guess this is how women in the South like their men to look

    So I guess all lesbians that live in Atlanta want a woman that looks like Rosie Odonell?
    You see how stupid and ass backwards that statement is? I just wrote it to match yours. How would you know what heterosexual woman in the south want???? Sometime you should just STFU and kill the bullsh*t you think/type sometimes.

  • http://www.myspace.com/birdshu Bird

    Tmekio Says:

    I don’t care who wrote her rhymes! She delivers them WELL…

    And YES!! Most BIRDS in the south like dudes who look like the typical “Dope Boy”, thus Gucci Mane fits the bill!!
    ************************************************************

    Damn, are you taking a shot at me?!?! What I do? I was just telling the truth. Sista girl don’t write no ryhmes. I could deliver it well too. I’m from the hood. I’m not from the south, but us Jersey girls like the “dope boy” look too so I can’t really defend against that. Coochie Mane and fittin no bill though.

  • luxe.li.

    The only reason women like Gucci (if they even like Gucci cause I know I don’t) is cause they gold digging and they “think” he’s on the come up, cause that is not cute. You really love stereotyping and categorizing big groups of people but its cool. See Im from the south and I like my men, black, educated, well grown, motivated, positive, and free of drugs, and I wouldn’t mind them having style and swagger like TIP or better cause I like when men look well groomed and put together with a nice sweater, nice jeans that don’t sag, or a suit, or dress pants, I hateeee dickey suits!

  • allnatural

    I think I just threw up in my mouth.

  • licia

    i would have to say hell to the naw that all women from the south like their men to look like that . granted there are some who love it , but not ALL. i am with no way on this . he IS actually dressed appropriately for the company that he is keeping . don’t get me wrong i love me some lil kim, but she ain’t been right for a long time . while she’s dry humping men on stage every week she needs to get back in the studio and put out an album worth something . bring back that hardcore lil kim .

  • http://www.myspace.com/mzmekpage Tmekio

    Tmekio Says:

    I don’t care who wrote her rhymes! She delivers them WELL…

    And YES!! Most BIRDS in the south like dudes who look like the typical “Dope Boy”, thus Gucci Mane fits the bill!!
    ************************************************************

    Damn, are you taking a shot at me?!?! What I do? I was just telling the truth. Sista girl don’t write no ryhmes. I could deliver it well too. I’m from the hood. I’m not from the south, but us Jersey girls like the “dope boy” look too so I can’t really defend against that. Coochie Mane and fittin no bill though.
    ***********************************************************
    I’m not taking shots at NOBODY… I’m from NY and I live in Jacksonville, FL now for the past 20 years (Off anf On) and I’m so tired of seeing grown azz MEN dressing like little “DOPE BOYS”!!..

    That shit is NOT attractive and dudes like this aren’t even on MY level.

    I guess it just depends on what your EXPOSED to. When u KNOW better you DO better.. (Boo Yah!) 🙂

  • hellava10

    I’m from the Dirty South (BOTTOM CLOSE TO MEXICO-as South as you can get without crossing the border). I don’t like it, most WOMEN down here don’t like it. He is NOT a representative from majority of the men down here.

  • ms.peaches

    To comment on the statement that most females like there men to look like thugs, may be true but I’m from VA now living in DC & I like the look if you keep yourself up & look like you took a bath in the past 24 hours example TI can get away with it, Lil Wayne can get away with it but not this fake ass Young Jeezy character!! Somebody throw him a white tee quick!!!

  • brit10

    well all i have 2 say is that im from the south and i dont appreicate ur comment southern women liking that kind of appearance…just because southern rappers are on top dosent mean we like or accept that..that is a bad stereotype and all men in the south don’t look like that!!!

  • Common Sense

    Lawd Have Mercy!!! Ladies, Ladies! Please tell me none of you would go out in public with a man dressed like this. We got to do better!

    -Sigh-

  • shante21

    Sandra mama i love your site but…i don’t like that comment you made about women in the south liking men who dress like Gucci Mane..i know you are very outspoken as am i but that comment was not an appropriate comment..i know you are entitled to your opinion..so am i and my opinion is that if you are not from the south then don’t comment on how we like out men..me for an example don’t like men like that..Gucci Mane looks sloppy! if a woman likes a man like that then she is sloppy herself! i like my man to dress to impress!! you can post this comment if you want or you don’t have to but i was just letting you know that i didn’t like that comment! and oh..yes i do live in Atlanta Georgia! and another thing…u said…”Thank God laws have been passed in Georgia to curb this type of style so at least we decent women don’t have to be subjected to it in public.”

    so are you trying to say that…the women here in Atlanta are not decent??

  • skyebutterfli

    Can we say L.A. Fitness???? They have great classes to get rid of the whale blubber…

  • http://TheBeatniks.blogspot.com Seattle Slim

    That sh*t is ugly and I don’t know how some women can be seen with men like that. He needs to look sharp all the time and give me a man in a nice suit fresh from work over some dope boy fresh from the corner any damned day.

  • nwhite21

    “Women in the South” ummm no I don’t think that it’s like that at all. I am from and live in the South and would never even acknowledge a man that looks this way. That is a very sterotypical comment to make as a general across the board statement because we all are individuals. PERIOD.

  • NaturalFromHead2Toe

    Well I live in Georgia also and I don’t go for men such as Stenchy Man. He does not represent “The Man of the South”.

  • http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

    Ummm I’m from NJ but I’ve been in the south for a while…and that is not cute or attractive to me.

  • mzpriceless

    Well obviously you guys didn’t see it because you would be even more digusted but I had the horrify pleasure of watching this atrocity from the VIP. What a grand opening it was! Let me just start by saying that when Gucci Mane first entered the stage he was very presentable. He was actually FRESH TO DEATH. However, he DID have on a shirt at that time. Then he started singing some sh*t like, “When I take off my shirt all the hoez stop breathing.” At first I was confused wondering why would he make up a stupid azz song like that and furthermore why would they stop breathing. Well, I soon found out when he removed his shirt. Woooooowwwwwwww!!!!! First of all we were about 50 feet away and you could see his azz crack all the way from the VIP (I have my own pics to prove it). Not to mention the road map of the ATL on his stomach and hips. You would’ve thought he gave birth to a whole African Village. Then Lil Kim came out and her dress was soooo short that you could see her twat (I’ve seen that same dress at City Trends, KILL YO STYLIST GIRL!). I felt sorry for those standing under the stage. Can you say gas mask? LOL! She couldn’t even get through the performance without tugging at her dress all night. And yes…..he was in the middle of a hard on because she wouldn’t stop grinding on him. Ewwwww! I was thinking maybe she thought he was Allen Iverson or something but then again she did used to mess with Biggie so I don’t know……. All I know is I was excited when “Freaky Girl remix” was over because I really thought that we were about to see live taping of project porno on the stage. LMFAO!

    As far as woman in the south preferring men men that look like that…..well that was just an ignorant and very stereotypical statement. I’m from Detroit but have been living in the A since 2008 and yes the dope boy look is very popular, however, not all people from or residing in the south prefer that type of guy. It can be very controversal to generalize a comment like that.