And side note. Everybody makes mistakes. Everybody didn’t have a good life growing. Some harder than others. Some of go thru ish, some of us go thru ish harder than others. What she’s going to tell her child, is her business, and no one else. This can for we know, make her a better mother. Cuz trust, I child who grew up in good stable situation wouldn’t of been out looking for love (lust) in the arms of an older wealthy man. I’m not holding anything against anyone who did something like this when they were a child, probably going thru who knows what at home. An adult like R. Kelly now……he should be totally responsible. He was the ADULT (and mean that with more than age), and he knew exactly what he was doing.