msShayinGa said:

If Lauren did say this..this is no different from the numerous interviews where our beloved Monica has stated what kind of man she wants. So be mindful of those you preceive as “dumb” for wanting a hood brother when a lot of the industry chicks you big up are the same — Monica, Tiny, and the list goes on.

I co-sign this…. MsShayinGA!!!!

God Damn! I didn’t know Sandra allowed people to write so much *hit in one post. Sad but true, I don’t have that much time to read all that ya’ll are posting.. I am going to print it out and read this on my flight to Vegas.
Sandra, look into having a 400 word max per post or something.. Geesh!
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It was the weekend.

I believe that many may be born that way, but I think that a lot of them just are influenced. I am making this a gay or not gay discussion but I strictly point that out that I believe that a broken home can influence kids in a lot of ways just like joining a gang and murdering for it. The only reason why this happens is because they are looking for role models or someone to turn too. 60% of parents suck ass in parenting. You have to be a friend to your kid and many black parents don’t feel that way. That is when they create the Nu Nu’s.
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I also believe that there are ppl who were born gay. But then there are those who choose to be. Too many young kids are being left to take care of themselves. I am just glad that there are ppl like you that want to give them positive things to look forward to. I did view your website and was only able to donate $25 yesterday. Keep up the good work, these kids need to know there is hope.

~~~~was using the word n*gga really necessary???? could you express yourself without using that word???? all i can say is WOW!!!~~~~

Dudes kill me always trying to get philosophical when it comes to women and how we should conduct and carry ourselves when they have been leaving their families (women & children) behind, going to prison, and continously commit crimes at a higher rate than any other race of males.

News flash-there is a new breed of black women who refuse to be controlled by sexism -we have sex when we want and with whom we want and it doesn’t have to be in a relationship (that’s right we want a relationship but refuse to bend over backwards and jump through hoops to get it or keep it) We make our own money, graduate from college, have successful careers, all while taking care of the children…..

so stop dangling a carrot in our face with all this rhetoric-if we act according to your expectations then you will one day love us

guess what we are not holding our breaths…hell you act like you don’t love or need us & the grass is greener on the other side-so be it

what do you think happens to black women after years of doing everything by yourself? You adapt and adjust……

keep your carrots we don’t want or need em