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Sandra Rose July 18, 2008

All day today I’ve received emails from readers begging me to let them register to comment on this blog. Can someone explain the thought process behind this type of request?

If I visit a blog and I disagree with what the blog owner writes, I don’t email him/her venting my rage. I just click the back button and keep it moving. Why can’t you?

What is that sense of urgency that compels you to be rude to a complete stranger even though you gain no benefit from your actions?

I very rarely leave a comment on a blog and I will never register to do so. The thought of begging a blog owner to allow me to register is completely foreign to me. I had a reader offer me her 1st born child if I open registration. I realize she was just joking, but still…

https://www.sandrarose.com pyt_504

THATS CAUSE WE ARE THE SH!T!!! And your shit is poppin and they know it… Ok I gotta go it is 3:05…

SEE YA MONDAY!!!
ThatCarmen

The haters want in Sandra! You have enough loyal readers that post on here that give you their 2 cents when they disagree with you. You sure as hell dont need some body else’s stans with the ablitly to comment just to dog you every second of the day. …Speaking of which, I think you need to do some clean up…JMO.

BTW, Im still mad about that last Obama post but, …. Imma drink a Martini on that one.
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

Is it really that serious to beg for registration JUST to tell someone off because you don’t like what they said? And they call YOU childish?..i’m officially done
candycane

I had no idea the blog world was that dayum serious. This is my second blog, well does a message board count as a blog?? Anyway, I read this site long before I registered, had I not been able to register I would still come read the posts and keep it moving. Not email someone begging to be let on, or complaining on another blog.

Who knew??
ReadTheBlog

Maybe you should allow a new one when you block another? Just a suggestion. Just don’t block me, m’kay?
MOCHAMOMMY

ReadTheBlog, I’m with u!! LOL

We’re all very loyal, respectful and we have the ability to have adult conversations without calling it “hate”. We agree to disagree and we dont need newbies comin in here with foolishness!! Sandra, keep doin what u doin cuz obviously its workin!
sdsthomas

You know Ms. Sandra, you got a lot of haters out there. I was tripping big time when I saw the sandra rose is a hater blog. Girl, you have made some enemies! But for my sake, continue to keep it real, your opinions and all. It’s entertainment. As Wanda Smith said this morning about cursing, it clears my sinuses. Continue to keep it real love. When they stop hating on you, then get worried and stop emailing you to get on your blog just to hate, then get worried. Smooches!
hellava10

So they can come over here and tell us their opinion in all caps?????? I know they are reading this too……don’t like it, start your own !#(&@ blog.
ELove

@sandra… Your An Original…
w/ Very Sarcastic Humor (I can Relate)

So haters are going to always follow you
Keep Getting-at-they-AZZ !!!!!
arkdiamond

wow…people are really checking for this site aren’t they? You must be doing something right!!! I really just wanted to make sure I was still registered…lol..
Lucy

I get so tired of that 1st s*it like frist graders on the play ground. Thanks for being selective.
karaz

LMAO. OMG this has got to be one of the funniest days in recent times on here.
hellava10

I agree Mocha! LMAO @ReadTheBlog

Sure is cold on the outside looking in.
solodove2008

Cuz err body know that SR is da shyt!! lol

I know I don’t comment much, I am glad I got my approval before registration was closed. lol!!
ThatCarmen

BTW, since I put my email address up on the other post….I got a hater’s stan email asking me why Sandra asks for work emails to register….

Idiot,… its because she attempts, to the best of her ability, to eliminate the children as we adults can rant and rave and move on and kids get their feelings hurt and be ready to go to school the next day with a gun! LOL There is a method to her maddddness…obviously, its not a full proof plan but, about 90% effective.
Coop

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It’s almost the same as blogging about stars that you don’t know.

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lajajar

that’s crazy
http://www.crys-thecrystalmethod.blogspot.com/ Crys

i think it’s kind of like when people from the hood go riding around looking at houses, and they happen upon a gated community. if you follow another car in, you can drive around and view the neighborhood as much as you like – but you AINT PULLING UP AND PARKING IN NO GARAGE BOO

leaving a comment on sr = pulling up and parking in the garage in the gated community…..so grand

lmao!
Sharonda

All I can do it but laugh.TO me, it’s not that serious.If she is not opening registration, don’t force her to.I glad you have to register because it be so much spam and just imagine how much “spam” will get in here.
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

It is what it is! Let the children fall back and do whatever the hell they feel they need to do to stay relevant in their little lives..yall know I can’t stand other people’s children anyway..I AM A NEWBIE HATER AND PROUD OF IT,lol
chat bout

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< sucking my teeth.
tkotuki

@ThatCarmen…a random person emailing you just proves that not everyone should be allowed access.

I appreciate my 2nd chance registration. I was not offended when Sandra originally told me that the registration was closed. I just continued to be entertained by the wonderful content/comments everyday.
PAGESINADIARY

THIS IS THE ONLY BLOG SITE THAT I LEAVE COMMENTS ON. I GUESS YOU ARE POPULAR SANDRA!!!! WHEN THEY SEND THOSE EMAILS LIKE THAT…..PUT THEM ON BLOCK!!!
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

OOOH SANDRA CAN I HIT THE RED BUTTON PLEEEEEEASE??????
MzTee

Dang…folks have way too much time on their hands.

I was on the YBF blog and someone actually has the alias “I Hate Sandra Rose” and uses it when commenting. I thought I was the lead for a column until I looked again. Again, folks have too much time on their hands if they are willing to put time and energy into hating someone they’ve never even met.

Sandra…keep it moving honey and thanks for doing what you do.
kitty4shigady

They just want to come in and start some shit and DO that stupid ass first shyt wtf is that all about. That is so dumb
shannymowill

Although many people may not agree with your opinion, your blog is hot and you usually have juicy info!
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

This is the only site that I comment on and for the life of me why would people think you would open up the comments so that they could bash you….. Its entertainment if people don’t like what you say then keep moving or just dont stop by!!!! It’s not rocket science will there ever be a method too the madness?
@thatcarmen…. I agree with you
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

Sandra, be thankful that you have people wanting to be a part of your blog. Just think, had we not registered, you would not have been so bogged down to have closed registration. Recognize your blessings and let them on in..
makvay

well in the end a blog is just someone’s opinion…if people care enough to come read they probably are they type that would like to offer theirs as well. and I don’t need any unborn kids but would gladly offer my privileges up to the highest bidder..haha
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

@MOCHAMOMMY…. where have you been today?
http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

Thats crazy…I love me some sr.com but the only thing ima beg for is my life, sorry boo
NYCUTIE

You got a point helluva Reading a post in all caps gives me a migraine.. That is why I don’t read them
MAJAHINEVERYWAY

I’m a loyal reader for so long, I registered waaaay back when you didn’t need a work e-mail to register. Sandra, I want to know how to change my pic. My little doggies have been adopted and it’s about time I show my face.
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

lawd who let the child in? Sandra where’s the button dear?
hellava10

2bme, I’m trying to understand the point attempting to be made.
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

sis..on EVERY post damn near what TRULY is the point?..see one day Sandra will listen to me about letting these kids in here..cuz an adult wouldn’t act this way
shunda

I have been reading for a long time and could not wait to post for adult interaction with professionals. The people that want to join do not have good reasoning. Who knew blog wars existed? I love the content and the blog fam at SR.com. All the others can kick rocks
Anna

This site is like a country club. Everyone is not welcome. Sandra for a specific reason chose to only open the last few registrations to work email accounts. If you have a job someone was willing to give you an interview and you were intelligent enough to get a job that has a office computer that you use each day to do your job. I too don’t like to read comments in caps. It only makes it harder to read and the comment is sometimes over looked(by some). It makes me dizzy and I do read all comments but I have to damn near put my face against my computer screen to see what was typed. I like to quickly read the comments while at work. I don’t want to have to work to read one in caps. Just my $.50 cents. We in the room do agree to disagree and may have our bad days. My husband loves this site and emails it to his buddies. Hubby and I talk about Sandrarose.com like we are having our own Oprah book club. (not a Oprah fan but had to use it for an analogy). He does not read the comments thank GOD(I use my real name and he would be on my ass about that. Hard to forget your own name.LOL). Sandra we the people love this site and being I am 41 the only change I want is a change in replacing our president. No need to let the “I’m first ppl in. Not my call but yours. I just appreciate that I can log on and have a decent yet what the hell you talkin bout chat with ppl of all walks of life. I know that dblaq has a nonprofit orginazition with young men in peril that I donated 50 bucks to,a tax deduction at that. It’s a win win. We may be states or miles apart but as it has been said by PYT many times we are a dys fun shinal family. (sorry Pyt if I did not spell it as lavishly as you always do). My point is (why do I have Mariah in my head) We belong to together. Sandra, I am not concerned with the looks of the ppl in the room. If they choose to have a gravitar with a pic it is a plus. When one reads between the lines you do know what you are going to get. I don’t want to get immature ass comments because someone thought it was cute to post it. I like adult conversation with real ppl with a real voice. Sometimes your little rosebuds may slip and attack each others commets, but that is not a day to day thing. Sandra I appreciate you and the choices you made for your rosebuds because I really don’t want to be in a room where ppl don’t read what was typed and repeated 500 times. this room is a small community of ppl who just want to chat to ease or make the work day go by faster. Have a great weekend to all the Sandrarose readers and especially to those who are not afraid to comment because your feelings may get hurt. At the end of the day it is just a blog and it does not pay my bills or put gas in my car. It may for Sandra and I say’ You go, do you, get that money. Sandra is like a foster mother who brought us all together, for that Iam happy and feel more blessed because I appreciate this web site as I do black and married with kis.
http://www.myspace.com/mrs_khan18 Quinetta1

Leave as it is, you don’t need anymore such mere negative comments but I have a question.. Why do we constantly find negative when only positive exists? I’ll never fathom the reasoning behind this..
http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

Anna we love you girll..but damn the bathroom reading sis!lol
Anna

@ 2bme. I was on a roll. It does not take much to make me happy. Once my brain and fingers connect I can’t stop typing. Laughing at me after a few hours of sleep. LOL.
cocoa49

sandra…..you said it all….i wonder the same thing….why register to spit hate….if you don’t like the person or subject that is being posted keep moving…your comment won’t affect them anyway…..i love this site…this is the only site that i believe is very accurate with most of the postings
whatnow

Anna, like you, I hate posts in all caps. But unlike you, I love me some paragraphs.
AlwaysSweet

I’m glad I got in before you had to have the work email address. I truly count myself fortunate.
free

the velvet rope!!
katgirl33

I agree that negative comments are definitely not needed in the family…LOL

It wasn’t hard for me to register….didn’t know it was like that…..but I’m glad to be a part of the family!
iscream

What happens if you loose your job and/or no longer have that email address?…
Kymystry

I’m just glad to be back in the house again …. This IS the only Blog I comment on … for that matter .. this is the ONLY blog I read or visit…..
JrzeeMa

Im just glad you limit it to work emails.. lol i mean ui be on other sites and all the “internet gangstas” are annoying and like many before me stated at least we as adults can make a statement and comment on it and thats all it is.. Aint no internet beef!! lmao I agree keep the kids away Sandra!
iyonah

I know I am late on this post, but I just wanted to say to Sandra to keep doign what you do. Its A BLOG you are entitled to your opinion. I personally come here because even with your slanted post, its a place where I can engage in conversation w/ other mature people. I check plenty of sites for there news recaps and so on and so forth. Your blog is maintained nicely – I can’t say that for other, its annoying to read a comment that says 1st, 2nd or 3rd. And even more annoying to read comments that are advertisements.
brwnsugga4you

MOCHAMOMMY Says:

ReadTheBlog, I’m with u!! LOL

We’re all very loyal, respectful and we have the ability to have adult conversations without calling it “hate”. We agree to disagree and we dont need newbies comin in here with foolishness!! Sandra, keep doin what u doin cuz obviously its workin!

~~~~you 2 i agree totally. the strange thing is people want to come on here and battle the bloggers…i’m like huh???…this is entertainment…we state our opinion and roll out..it’s not that serious!! this the only site i blog on and I LUV IT!!!…i like the fun we have on here…with each other..i like how we respect and appreciate everyone’s opinion…i like the fact the sandra let’s out express our opinions in an adult fashion. i know sometimes we get out of hand playing (smiling) but, it’s all love on this site….THANKS SANDRA…KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DOING!!!!
IamdaQueen

You know what Sandra, for all the BS that you print, I have to say that you stay true to yourself. You will have haters and admires that want to be seen and heard. There are bloggers who are well known on other sites who want to be well know here as well. I don’t even use the same SN here as I did on another website.

Be happy San, you are loved/hated. Let them keep talking about you. That way you will never be forgotten.

Now let me get back to reading some more of your stories, I’m sure something well piss me off too ;~P

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