I read some of the comments in the Driving Miss Daisy post and I see the typical responses from clueless women who don’t find it strange that a man is driving around the sticks late at night with a woman who isn’t his wife.
Once again I am called a man hater for trying to hip you ladies to the truth. I guess that’s why the divorce rate is so high in our community?
Thank you to loyal reader Neicy for pointing out the fact that Morgan Freeman’s wife sought a divorce from Freeman after she found out he was hitting on one of her “friends”. Care to take a guess who that “friend” is?
Freeman’s wife Myrna, 67, is consulting a divorce attorney after hearing that Morgan, 71, cheated on her, the report says.His wife reportedly sought out the attorney after learning that Freeman had become “intimate” with a woman who had been her friend, a source told the Enquirer. READ MORE…
Rule #1: Never have your female friends in your home around your man. When you ask a man to be faithful you put intense pressure on him because their brains are not designed for that.
I know women who won’t invite their female friends to their house around their men. They meet their girls at the club for girl’s night out or for brunch at their favorite restaurant. If your female friend spends more time at your house than at her own, that spells trouble!
Don’t be dumb! Put that n*gga out at the first sign of trouble! Don’t wait until you’re 67 to get a divorce or end up in a freezer.
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You ain’t never lied Sandra….I do not have my friends around my man, and vice versa…..
I don’t put nothing past NOBODY!
it’s not just the woman you should be concerned about it’s everybody!!!…your man might be going out with his homebody all the d*mn time…and you find out he’s gay or even bisexual.
C’mon Sandra…again, you’re reaching. And you posted the Enquirer as a source.
when your source is the national Enquirer i keep reading. aint nobody talked to them about jack last nite.
If they live in MS.. why would a DENVER paper have the “inside” info … r-e-a-c-h-i-n-g
Since black people don’t even be getting married like that my guess would be the the divorce rate amoung whites is just as high if not higher. BUT I personally would be pissed if my man was alone with any woman. I’m not going to assume that Morgan is cheating with this lady, but it was inappropriate, in my opinion, for him to be alone with her anytime let alone at night. As for his wife wanting to divorce him over a friend, I doubt it was this friend as it seems that at least up until the time of the accident they were still friends.
I can agree with Rule #1:
Rule #1: Never have your female friends in your home around your man.
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…….mine goes a lil something like this(I’ve said it before and I’m saying it AGAIN)
NEVER LET A FEMALE IN YOUR HOME. IF SHE WANTS TO RETURN THOSE SHOES SHE BORROWED LAST WEEK, TELL THAT B!TCH TO THROW’EM IN THE YARD AND KEEP ROLLIN’!
71 and still hitting? Wow! Look, I’m No advocate for infedelity, but damn - THEY BOTH ON THE DOWNSWING! They need to stay together - WHO WANTS THEIR CRUSTY ASSES, NOW? Helloooooooo - does she NOT realize she stands a chance at cashing in - CA-CHING!
Yep, they’re right. You’re a man-hater. every chance you get you point out how men cheat and women are stupid for beleiving them..yadda, yadda, yadda. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been there, but life goes on. This society is too caught up on physical appearances and materialism which is why so many people (men AND women)cheat. People cheat, straight, gay, indifferent. Be clear, my dear. Lesbians and gays face the same problems as heteros. I’m sorry you didnlt get asked to the Prom, Homecoming, etc. It isn’t just MEN who are responsible for the demise of your femininity!
I agree teecee! LMAO! Your real friend ain’t going to do jack s*it with your man! Bottomline!
Whatup prynsexx
And since we are going to go there. I didn’t want to speculate in the “Driving Miss Daisy” post, but I do believe in my own heart that “Miss Daisy” was pleasuring him. It has been known to happen. Take Teddy P. for example, hell or even me……..I’m just sayin’.
@prynsexxx
You ain’t never lied. I wish one of my friends would. That is an unwritten law. If I ever caught my man with one of my friends I would be singing just like Jazmine Sullivan “I bust the windows out your car” lol
Sup @ NY
again, i am in memphis and why does it matter who the lady is and who she works for? this lady is not the reason for the divorce. are you a women scorned?
Daaaaaaaaaang.Well my mom always says don’t ever bring your single friends around your men or don’t even tell them about your sex life because they would try to tap that.
“NEVER have your female friends in your home around your man”. I guess that means women shouldn’t have men, because who’s going to NEVER, EVER bring their female friend to their home? I understand that women should not give their female friends intimate details regarding their sex life and other stuff about their man.. but that rule seems a bit tooo extreme. If that’s the rule we should follow, I guess that means we should not have men, period. And they are right, you are a man hater. And for the record, I am not naive and I know enough about men from past experiences.. I just think that rule of yours is past extreme.
ReadTheBlog Says:
WHO WANTS THEIR CRUSTY ASSES, NOW?
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Er um ah Morgan Freeman is a wealthy celebrity. He is one of the most successful actors in Hollywood, black or white. Even if he was 100 he could pull 20 year old dimes at will. Don’t get it twisted. I was thinking about taking a trip to Mississippi my damn self to see if I could get me a 97 Maxima. hehehe
And all this paranoia about bringing women in your house when you have a man is ridiculous. If the trust is so minimal that you can’t have female visitors from time to time you don’t need to be with that dude.
@ Bird: *co-sign*
Pick a better man and different friends!!! Plain and simple.
To add to Bird, Morgan ain’t no bad lookin man….I know PLENTY women (in MS, here too, LOL) young (past 30, LOL) and old who would get with that…
To Destiny,
I know girls (who call themselves my friends), who have went behind their friends, cousins, even their sisters, and slept with their men….
My man has only attended one party of theirs, with me….and he will never go to another.
I have been knowning them for almost 20 years, and nothing they do suprises me…if they will fucc with their kinfolks man, they will do anybody’s man.
Just like you never underestimate a man’s actions, never underestimate a woman’s……it is a sad way to be, but true.
I don’t put NOTHING PAST NOBODY!
@ #17
You’re a mind reader, cause that’s exactly what I’m thinking! Like, damn! Don’t let the broad in the house to return the shoes, though!? lol
If you gotta do it like that then you need to be single!
Friends or Associates?
Never have your female friends in your home around your man.
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How about finding trustworthy FRIENDS and a trustworthy man, they may seem rare but they do exist, a REAL FRIEND would never sleep with her FRIEND’S man regardless anyway. If a man is going to cheat he is going to cheat. He doesn’t need to wait until you bring an ASSOCIATE home to be low down enough to hit on/or sleep with her. If an ASSOCIATE is low down enough to hit on/sleep with your man, she doesn’t need the opportunity to do so when she comes to your house.
It depends on the circumstances and the woman if I would have a problem with him taking her home by himself or not.
ITA with Bird….
With your real friends, you won’t have to worry…such a friend wouldn’t do it.
But when you got whorish homies, I think you gotta know how to play them……
And since when does a man have to wait for his woman to bring home her friends if he wants to cheat?
katgirl33 Says:
I know girls (who call themselves my friends), who have went behind their friends, cousins, even their sisters, and slept with their men….
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Who needs enemies when you got friends like that!?
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ou know that old saying, “If you lay with dogs, you’ll wake up with fleas”?
It’s more like, “If you lay with dogs, your MAN will wake up with fleas”!
@Katgirl33.. I understand what you’re saying. However, if you’re own friends will do something like that to you or their own family members, then they should NOT be your friends, period. How can someone have a friend knowing that they go around sleeping with their fam member’s men, and you wouldn’t be surprised if they would do that to you? I could never keep friends like that..
I agree with bird.
The unwritten law is that you don’t mess with your friend’s man. I don’t care how good he looks or what kind of problems they are going through you keep your behind away.I had a friend that had to learn that the hard way when she was walking 5 miles home.
Destiny,
That’s why they see me once every two to three weeks….LOL
They really are great girls, from good family, both Mom and Dad…..they were very strict on them when we were teens…. when the ding a ling becomes involved, seems like they turn into other people.
They know I don’t get down with how they live, but I don’t hold that against them, nor will I bring my man around them…I’m still the good friend, telling them when they ain’t right, and being there for them when they fall.
Birds of a feather don’t always flock together.
As far as keeping certain friends away from my man - THEY KNOW! It’s one of those silent rules that the trifling ones already know about. I have a “new sister-in-law” that tries to use the “that’s my brother-in-law” crap to express her love for family. Most of my true friends wouldnt do it. The trifling ones will take an a@@s-whoopin just to try it.
It’s sad we live in a society that we think all men cheat. I don’t think my husband will ever cheat on me, but I would be a fool to think it can’t ever happen.
if ur man wants 2 hit ur friend (and she’s willing), it will happen! don’t bring single women around ur man, oh my gosh, like it really matters! so if ur friend is in a relationship, it decreases the odds of this happening?! maybe there’s some truth to this, but based on what we c, hear n read about on a daily basis it doesn’t matter…
…the type of women that are being discussed shouldn’t be considered friends…the term “friend” is used way to loosely these days…
hi hun…waving peace flag for 2day
And I didn’t say I wouldn’t be suprised they did it to me, I said “nothing they do suprises me”
I would be stepping in their azzes if they did it to me….it wouldn’t be about the man, I would beat that azz for the betrayal of my trust, and the violation of our friendship…I don’t play you like that, so don’t even think about playing me.
They know how I feel (I’m very vocal about this subject, lol), and I don’t take my around them, so there are no misconceptions/confusion/conflict/police reports.
I say to each his own, just don’t involve me and mines.
It’s not about not being able to trust your man, it’s about not trusting ANY female. PERIOD. For all you women who SERIOUSLY think…”Oh she’s my best friend and she’s married, it’s okay” WRONG. It doesn’t matter if she’s married, single, bisexual, your sister, or whatever…women are sneaky. The only time my mom had her girlfriends in the house was when my dad was at work. You know the whole lets have tea or have lunch or whatever…but they weren’t around when he was…that’s just the way things happened. And it doesn’t just go for women either, if you’re home alone and your man’s “friend” or whatever stops by while he’s out at work…then you need to tell your man to check his homeboy, cuz ain’t no reason that a grown man should stop by the house just to return something…he can leave it on the porch with a note.
See, that’s why all my firends are fat & ugly!
..I KID! I KID!
Hi, bloggergirlz!…I can’t find a smiley face sticking up it’s middle finger, so I guess a smiley face will do!
(I Kid! I Kid! It’s all love!)
I don’t have time to be worrying about who might steal my man and all of that. I mean, there is no need to move a homegirl in the house, but I don’t have to keep my friends away like they’re 14 and my man is R. Kelly.
I say, keep God in your marriage, be confident in who you are and who you love, and LIVE. Live your life right and just maybe you won’t fall victim to the bs. I can’t be bothered… too much other stuff in life to do.
Whatup Hun!
I am going to send you a friend request on myspace shortly!
I agree with mostly all of you women on here! DON’T HANG OUT WITH WHORES!
ITA w/Chocolate Drop…..
Sad as it is, and hard to believe, but Biyatches WILL pull it…..
I have seen too many Cheaters episodes where folks catching their mates, with THE BROTHER, COUSIN…..I even seen one where the MOTHER was getting down with her DAUGHTER’S MAN…..I mean BJ’s and ERRTHING! 2 parent household….when the Cheaters folks came in, the daughter got to jappin out on her mother and the dude, and Daddy didn’t know what the hell was going on…..When the girl stopped crying long enough to tell her Dad, he started jappin too, then had a heart attack….just fell the hell out!
And no, this was not a sister…..
Welp … my best friend is married and I absolutely can’t STAND her husband never laid eyes on him a day in my life and don’t want to …and she never met my use to be man when we were together …
I did have a “friend” who met my then man ONCE and everytime my man was in town (he is in the military) she wanted to Hang out with us .. needless to say .. that NEVA happened .. HE didn’t like her “Vibe” and I wasn’t having that …
I choose my friends AND Men wisely.
I’m glad my best friend turned lesbian, but I still don’t allow her in my house. Man or no man……..she got some drug issues going on.
#30 said:
Birds of a feather don’t always flock together.
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True!
#30 said:
Birds of a feather don’t always flock together.
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prynsexxx Says:
True!
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FALSE!
“Show Me the Friend and I’ll Show You the [Wo]Man!” Why would you hang out with people who do things that are TOTALLY contradictory to what you do or believe in?
Ya’ll better listen to your girl, NYCUTIE, it’s simple enough: DON’T HANG OUT WITH WHORES!
“Don’t hang with hoes because people from a distance can’t tell who’s who.”- HunE916
I used to try and stay loyal to friends and go with that whole birds of a feather is not always true until a guy in a bar told me he thought I was like my girl. She had to go. You have to be careful of the company you keep. Like HunE916 said people from a distance cannot tell.
@#41
Uhm my best friend with whom I have known since kindergarten. We have NEVER and I repeat NEVER, fell out over anything! But……..this chick, smokes, drinks, SNORTS, was a major “get arounder”, theif then turned LESBIAN and that has never deterred me from being her “friend”. I feel like The Almighty places ppl in your life for a reason. I think she is now beyond a friend and more like a sister. If something happened in my life and MY WHOLE family was taken away (Almighty forbid) guess who would be next of kin. HER. I don’t drink, or do drugs. I don’t hang in the streets or anything. I also don’t have thin skin. I would be no good if something ever happened to her. I pray for my friend on the daily. We talk about her drug use and everything. I tell my friend I love her all the time. We have an unbreakable bond. But she and I are on totally opposite ends when it comes to the way we live our lives. She at one time thought she was going to get a key to my house, uhm NO. I would NEVER bring her around my male counterparts when she wasn’t “lesbian”. Being I knew who I was dealing with at the time and even still. You know the saying “guilty by association” well ppl who know us, know that “it’s not me, but her” who has the problem. At one point in time I felt as though I was being a bad friend by not getting her help. But I also have a life that I have to live and I can’t be worried about some grown ass woman who makes a choice to live, work and act the way she does. I think I’m more of a friend for being there to listen to her when she needs it and giving her “tough love”. But I’m still her friend, regardless. It’s just some lines that you don’t cross and she knows it.
I think I just rambled, but I hope y’all what I’m trying to convey.
Well, as far as my homegirls, I have been knowing them since High School (34 now), before the ding a ling made them lose their minds….LOL
We have had our ups and down, disagreements, good times, crying moments, all that over our near 20 year relationship, just like friends do.
I’m not going to stop being friends with them b/c they choose to be whorish…that’s just like not being friends with a person b/c they are disabled, or whyte.
Would any of you honestly let go of a childhood friend, just b/c she has whorish tendencies, not involving you?
It depends on the friend whether they have to go or not. The friend I told I could not be friends with anymore was not a long time friend so I had no bond there. I am a firm believer in the quality of friendship over quantity. I have been friends with my best friend since the 7th grade. I also have 2 friends I have been friends with since kindergarden. The one chick could not get near my man now. She had all my left overs in highschool even the ones that it did not go beyond a date. I didn’t care then but I would be damned if it happened now.
And on a note regarding whorish friends. As far as I know, I don’t have any. Who wants a friend who’s d!ck crazy???? I get way too bored with women whose #1 focus is men. I have a friend or two who might sleep around, but geez, they have morals and only sleep with single guys who can show them a good time with no drama or strings attached. The world is FULL of d!cks and I would prefer to hang with some biatches who understand this concept and don’t need to try to get mine b/c they have their own admirers beating down their doors. Needless to say, I aint got no hood rat friends, super fat friends, or anybody who might be DESPERATE.
Now, wait, I do have one married homegirl who’s “fat fine” and she likes to bend over and show her too small panties sometimes. I caught her doing that the other day and I nudged my husband, we laughed, and I told her that if she ever wants to show all of that again, please bring another dude with her (or female) so we can get a FULL SHOW. If my husband ever hooked up with her I’d be more disgusted than mad. LOL
Real Talk … the chick who wanted to hang with my man and I when he was in town and I went out… MOST of the Men there knew her in a biblical way .. she was very free with her coochie … simply by me coming to HER comfort zone I was hit on like I was giving out 2 for one BJ’s .. I had to Squash them negroes with the QUICKNESS .. I let it be known .. I don’t get down like that … what SHE does with her cooch SHE does … mine is lined in mink and too valuable to be run up in like that … I was QUICKLY left alone at the table while they took turns kickin it with her ….
Sooo .. NO .. I will not associate with someone with whorish tendacies … tried it .. didn’t like it ..
#46 said:
regarding whorish friends. As far as I know, I don’t have any
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LOL you know what they say:
“If you don’t have no H O E ass friends……..then you the h o e!”
LOL j/k
But I have heard that before
*Disclaimer: I heart Smokie. LOL
LOL
This was a very engaging(and mess free)conversation we had today SR Family!
@ katgirl … sure was
prynsexxx Says:
“If you don’t have no H O E ass friends……..then you the h o e!”
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I’m at work HELLA weak!
See we can talk without name calling
katgirl33 Says:
This was a very engaging(and mess free)conversation we had today SR Family!
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We are all Ass Backwards! lol
How we argue over “First” and “The Corner” but have a civilized conversation about hoes and tricks? LMBAO!!!
“That’s Love! That’s Black Love!”
LMAO LMAO
#53 said:
We are all Ass Backwards! lol
How we argue over “First” and “The Corner” but have a civilized conversation about hoes and tricks? LMBAO!!!
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I betchu if you drop the name “Trina” in the mix, all H E L L will break loose, like when you at the family reunion and somebody shows up and takes the last piece of rib off the grill and didn’t even bring a beer cap full of piss water to contribute.
Awwww HAILLLL no .. not THAT Trick .. she’s the the Rick James of Tricks … SUPA TRICK !! lol ..lol
Oh LAWD!
It just like this
“I don’t trust you as far as I can see you” it doesn’t matter if you hang around whores, church going sisters your best friend,married,single or gay. All of them can sleep with your man ans think no more about it. But who you need to be mad at is the man cause he’s the one who has let his penis do the thinking once again. So in the end all you can do is put your trust in god, live life and deal with whatever situation comes your way.
prynsexxx Says:
#46 said:
regarding whorish friends. As far as I know, I don’t have any
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LOL you know what they say:
“If you don’t have no H O E ass friends……..then you the h o e!”
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~looks around, with deep uncertainty…. trying to remember if I’ve done anything ho-ish in the past uhm… decade…OH MY!~
Nah, I had ho azz friends in my earlier years… kinda had to let those fade away. We might still be “in touch” but we are more than distant, too.
why do we have such long discussions about cheating when it is as common as macaroni and cheese?
Sandra I’d have to agree with you on this one. It’s unfortunate but a lot of women think “oh no, not MY man”, when in reality they may be doing something that the woman does not approve of. Whether if that’s flirting, having sex with, talking to, and etc with other women. There are a few and I mean FEW good men out there still, but in reality this is the case a lot of the time. Unfortunately…
i told yall sump wudn’t right. the 1st post i saw i knew sump was fishy as hell with dude driving at night with some woman NOT his wife. shame.
but anyway as i said before, still glad he’s doing fine.