NOW LET’S WORK ON THESE TRIFE NICCAS…….

In all humbleness I am not trying to offend or attack you but when typing and not having a face to face the convo. comes off different and words get in the way. Like you said we don’t know eachother so we would not understand what the other person is trying to say while posting comments. From your response I can see that you are a mature female and I enjoy your point of view on all your comments.

while i appreciate where your coming from , your wrong, I never meant YOU IN THAT WAY, but she should know that, i don’t even know her, but maybe your right.

We have been convoing for a couple of days and everytime your post come off somewhat accusatory because you point finger by using words like Example:1 “I think what you are missing and a lot of others who have that opinion”. Example 2 “that’s my point, why would you (woman) want to do that. So of course, as a woman you should know how it feels and have some respect for that female”… You pointed @intense by placing her at fault using the word YOU. You place blame on people instead of taking responsibility for your words. So she felt offended.. Just an opinion….

The sentence should read… Example 1) I think what is missing in some opinions is the other woman is at fault too. Example 2) My point is why would a woman want to do that… It’s all about word choice and usages..

I learned that the hard way.. I try to take responsibility for my words and actions behind them… I am not meaning to offend you at all… It comes off as an attack… Hey celebrities are up for grabs all the time…..

that’s right, but some people feel like it’s completely nothing wrong with a woman who does this, this is what has be baffled, i mean she is trifling and has no respect for her damn self that’s all i’m saying.. that woman has an issue whether it be childhood or just freaky. i had no problem with intense i just thought we were talking and she made it like i was talking bout her.

now i was just convo with you ,you don’t have to take it their, cuz i could say you sound like a woman who dates married men and so on, but i was not at all angry, but i have friends who have friends who have friends so you know how that goes, and I have experienced a cheating man who hasn’t i won’t get on the internet and play another life. but so what does that have to do with it, cuz i am a real woman i don’t care i will never belittle myself to play second to no man. I am not with the man that cheated on me, but you are so concerned with the lady being wrong, or it’s like you relate , anybody with sense know they BOTH ARE WRONG. You automatically think i’m with a person who cheats because of my view on it, i have views on everything. let’s be mature, I think that you are one of those woman since you took it their, and i am willing to bet. I hate i have to leave early, i would love to conversate more, but it seemed like i hit a nerve did you think i knew you?

I agree w/ points that you both are making. IMO at the end of the day its the choice of the WOMAN to deal or not deal on both ENDS. Why afford some man the luxury of your time if he doesn’t deserve it? Whether your his side chick or his wife - he took vows and should honor them. Woman overall need to recognize when a man is no good and when its time to be done. If he has a wife and is cheating with you 9 times out of 10 he will step out on you too, if you have children together or anything else then its time to just GET GONE.

My time is too valuable to waste. Real talk. I was the other woman not knowing, but as soon as I received that call I knew what I had to do, whether feelings were hurt or not, I don’t want any parts of DRAMA @ the end of the day. And I love me to much to deal with whatever the MAN is coming up with – which 9 times out of 10 will be lies.