Comments on: Alicia Keys Begs Swizz Beatz To Save Her Career

By: intensemocha

intensemocha — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 14:49:20 +0000

GREAT DIALOGUE….PLAIN AND SIMPLE
AND IT’S FAIR TO SAY THAT MOST OF THE POSTERS ON HERE WOULDN’T SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN’S MAN-GREAT

NOW LET’S WORK ON THESE TRIFE NICCAS…….

By: Candi Apple

Candi Apple — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:32:33 +0000

@toosexy…

In all humbleness I am not trying to offend or attack you but when typing and not having a face to face the convo. comes off different and words get in the way. Like you said we don’t know eachother so we would not understand what the other person is trying to say while posting comments. From your response I can see that you are a mature female and I enjoy your point of view on all your comments.

By: toosexy

toosexy — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:12:25 +0000

@candi and i was meaning her missing my point, but other than that, nothing. I would never just say something about a person i don’t even know. but i guess like i said before you make sense so maybe i will be more careful not to offend anybody.

By: toosexy

toosexy — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:10:44 +0000

@candi

while i appreciate where your coming from , your wrong, I never meant YOU IN THAT WAY, but she should know that, i don’t even know her, but maybe your right.

By: Candi Apple

Candi Apple — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 19:08:02 +0000

@toosexy

We have been convoing for a couple of days and everytime your post come off somewhat accusatory because you point finger by using words like Example:1 “I think what you are missing and a lot of others who have that opinion”. Example 2 “that’s my point, why would you (woman) want to do that. So of course, as a woman you should know how it feels and have some respect for that female”… You pointed @intense by placing her at fault using the word YOU. You place blame on people instead of taking responsibility for your words. So she felt offended.. Just an opinion….

The sentence should read… Example 1) I think what is missing in some opinions is the other woman is at fault too. Example 2) My point is why would a woman want to do that… It’s all about word choice and usages..

I learned that the hard way.. I try to take responsibility for my words and actions behind them… I am not meaning to offend you at all… It comes off as an attack… Hey celebrities are up for grabs all the time…..