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Video: Big Girls - Single Ladies Video Remix
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This is hilarious! i LOVE my big confident women! There’s no shame in their game! 
Thanks to loyal reader 2bme for the tip and thanks to Zedi for the video hook up!
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COMEDY!!!
Maybe if they were actually dancing (like Monique when she and her girls did their spoof) it would have been a lot better. Yes, it’s funny, but what are they really doing?
@ heaven .. Monique’s DANCER’S danced .. Mo did nothing but shimmy and sweat …
I thought they were gonna work it out, boring and not funny at all
Monique was gettin’ Kym! Stop playin!
THESE CHICKS ON THE OTHER HAND…*side eye and high beams*
The one chick did a split…WOW!!
If yall say so …. back to my lunch … lol
LOST FOR WORDS
@ Kym..LOL
But for real, why do big girls ALWAYS have to be so extra? Don’t get me wrong, as a former big girl myself (size 20) I say, DO YOU..but loud does not equal confident. On the contrary, it’s the exact opposite.
I’m just saying…
Monique and them was something to marvel at.
Hail, depending on the song and my BAC, I can get tired from one song.
I know these chicks gotta get tired from dancing to one song!
Loud=insecure?
please explain….
Lol too funny. Like how they said f it and made up their own moves. LOL
Haven’t seen it but it was only a matter of time…
Once the Flames-n-Gay Dudes get on the bandwagon…
IT’S On ;-)
@ Divine..Yes.
Confidence is strong and assertiveness is sure.
why couldnt they have some big gals who could actually dance. they was stiff like old white women. i give props for the full split, but i was expecting more. the gay guy who did this on tmz is in one of my co worker sig. its sooooo funny and disturbing at the same time.
from a personal stand point almost every larger sized lady i know is loud…but more of the life of the party…not insecure so much….
only know ONE quiet as a mouse larger lady and that is my mother in law. and i am convinced the ONLY reason that heffa is so quiet is b/c she is busy thinking of new ways to beat folks outta some money. scheming. she NEED to get up and exercise and dance. sending my husband this video and title it “a hint for your mammy…..”
applaud these ladies and every confident big sista.
stop PLAYING teecee you know somebody who know the gay guy? me and my daughter watch that vid all the time. yes funny yet disturbing.
Fat is what is wrong with America, if people were in shape do you know how cheap health care would be………………………………..
@divinebrown, I tend to agree with that too. I think people who are loud and aggressive and just overcompensating and deflecting attention from their shortcomings. Monique could not sell me that crap about being proud to be a big girl; the way she made sly comments about slimmer people just spoke to how insecure she was about her size.
Its not just about size either, people who are bullies are often projecting their insecurities on other people and act crazy to distract others from the truth
They could have done better!
i applaud them alright…cute little routine, however they need to lose some of that damn weight…was that a split? damn, i’m glad i’m not that carpet…they were barely moving…they should’ve really gotten into it AND consider making it apart of their exercise routine…horny little (i meant big) devils…
@elove: the Flames-n-Gay Dudes are already on it…that skinny white boy killed it…
@Kwall…girl don’t start that shyt today, i just got outta the dentist and my mouth hurt too much to stretch open and holler at your crazy self!!! : ) : ) lol lol
MissG .. how in the sam hill u gonna have dental work done thanksgiving WEEK ? ? ? ? lol .. lol
@Kym…girl i know!!! but trust…i’m gon’ be swallowin’ some serious azz drugs so i can get my eat on…i don’t know WHAT the he!! i was thinkin’!!!! lol lol
Its not just about size either, people who are bullies are often projecting their insecurities on other people and act crazy to distract others from the truth
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Being fat is unhealthy being obese is deadly nothing about it is beautiful
This sh!t was wack! Them girls weren’t even trying to dance! If you have the energy to get dressed up, put a dance routine together and record it for the the world to see. . .um, make sure you’re actually GOOD!
missg…i cannot stand that lady right there…. and her and my father in law are coming on the 6th and staying….for TWO weeks.
they just took some pics and sent one so my daughter can have one of her grandparents and she got on a purple dress….i told my husband…i didn’t know his daddy was married to a california raisin….
he got mad and left for about 4 hours…on a sunday…was so mad he missed football….which =’s mad as hell at our house.
bloggergirlz Says:
i applaud them alright…cute little routine, however they need to lose some of that damn weight…was that a split? damn, i’m glad i’m not that carpet…they were barely moving…they should’ve really gotten into it AND consider making it apart of their exercise routine…horny little (i meant big) devils…
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Agreeed who wants to die of a heart attack at age 45
KWeezy … KWeezy … Kweezy !! .. lol .. Chile .. the man’s MOMMA .. lol .. lol .. lol
kwallace577 Says:
missg…i cannot stand that lady right there…. and her and my father in law are coming on the 6th and staying….for TWO weeks.
they just took some pics and sent one so my daughter can have one of her grandparents and she got on a purple dress….i told my husband…i didn’t know his daddy was married to a california raisin….
he got mad and left for about 4 hours…on a sunday…was so mad he missed football….which =’s mad as hell at our house.
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You mean, thats his mom………………
Kwall
You wrong…….you know you ain’t NEVA spose to say nuthin’ bad about a man’s mama……….whether she took the time to care for his ass or not! Just like you can’t say nothing bad about a lil girls’ daddy…….whether he took care of her ass or NOT! LOL
Dang kwall why don’t you tell us how you really feel LMAO
This is similar to YT saying that all blacks are ghetto and loud.
I know plenty of skinny chicks that’s loud and ignant. Ain’t nobody saying that they are loud because they’re skinny. My sister is a big girl and is not this loud and attention seeking person you speak of. Everyone seeks attention in their own way. She knows she needs to lose weight but exudes confidence authentically. (dressing her azz off, keeping her wig B U S T E D, and having jokes for days)
I happen to be the loud and aggressive one. AND AGAIN…I’m not this attention seeking person you have come in contact with. My mother is loud, my father is loud and all my uncles ARE LOUD! I’m loud because I can’t hear.
I think too many people are playing street psychologist and attempting to breakdown other people. The more comfortable you are with YOURSELF the less you notice about other people’s personality flaws. Loud and fat does not mean insecure, by any means of the word. That is a complete misconception on your part. Loud and fat is just that…loud and fat!
Americans are lazy..we get it. Heart disease is the #1 killer of American women…point taken. I wasn’t trying to start a soapbox..or a Sandra Rose Save-A-Life campaign. Sandra called them confident, I was trying to figure out how she got that of this mess. Entertaining, yes.
And kwallace..YOU KNOW YOU DEAD WRONG!!!!!! LOL
@ Divine..
Sure sweetie, whatever you say.
Interesting comments (STILL haven’t watched it yet)
I’ll go with @hermosa…
If you going to do it THEN do it right HONEY (Snap Snap) ;-)
heavn_sent…
Great…I’m glad we could “conversate” about this
i’m loud cause i am country dbrown. the big ladies i know again are more of the life of the party vs. loud. i don’t think there is nothing wrong with being loud…
i was wrong @prynn. i know i am. i feel like a villian everytime i say something bad about her. but it ALL comes rushing back when she start calling on wed. cause she know he get paid on friday to BEG. she called this morning on my way out of the house. guess due to the holiday she wanted to get her ask in EARLY. keep trying to brainwarsh myself to be on my best behavior while they are here…
Ok, I’ma need them to remake the video when they can get those few little steps down pat. If you’re gonna rep the big girls you better do it right. If Mo’Nique can do it so can they.
“Aint nothing wrong with a big strong girl”- Jus and lil Nik.
Did anyone see the clip from Tyra wit Bey on it when she brings out the wedding gift.. A life size poster of Jay Z in a chair. When Ty tried to sit next to him Bey said (jokingly) get away from my man. I swear that was the first time I ever heard her speak of him in that way. About time!
& again I went online to watch her perform at the AMA since I missed that (I miss everything thank goddness for youtube) and again they deaded another clip.
heavn_sent is officially part of the fam….
KWeezy … i remember you tellin us something to that affect … WOW … it’s sad really .. she calls EVERY WEEK ? …
@heavn_sent,
I have to say that I agree with you.
Loudness does compensate for insecurities sometimes. Cause sometimes if you really closely at a big loud woman sometimes they really look more uncomfortable when they are quiet. It’s like their being loud is their drug for assurance.
Blogger-
What’s poppin tomorrow in the Chi for Black Friday?
@kwallace..
Awwwww..thanks! And right before Christmas too, huh?? We in a recession, so don’t come looking for no gift!
I agree with Hermosa and Bird. Bird did you watch the Game on Friday? I am so disappointed in Melanie.
@Charles:
More like how cheap healthcare would be if people didnt smoke them killer cigarettes! Dont rip on the big girls.
kwallace577 Says:
stop PLAYING teecee you know somebody who know the gay guy? me and my daughter watch that vid all the time. yes funny yet disturbing.
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@kwall…. oooohhhh u said mammy. lol ill be looking for you on the news before the weeks are up. lol just remember to give us a shout out and smack fred shopshire for added effect lol i dont know, u know peoples and their imagination, they think up all sorts of things that might or might not be true.
they really getting it in
So let me get this straight…..
EVERY LOUD FAT GIRL…IS LOUD BECAUSE SHE IS INSECURE ABOUT HER WEIGHT?
@ Amulet.
I have a cousin who was a REALLY BIG GIRL, I’m talking 6 feet, size 32 big. Funny as hell though! Wherever we went she was ALWAYS the life of the party..always jonin’ (I’m from DC) Keeping everything live. But on the real, she was really unhappy (lost a lot of weight, but hasn’t shed the issues). I learned that that was her defense mechanism. She won over the crowd, before people started making jokes about her, etc. I’m not saying that every big girl is insecure. I’m simply pointing out that the vast majority of those that are loud..that have to be seen, etc. are SERIOUSLY overcompensating.
So if every loud fat girl is loud bc of insecturities, then why are skinny women loud?
yes @ kym. she calls wed-friday and when he send her the $$ we don’t hear from her til the NEXT wed. the part that burns me UP is my husband is 1 of 7 chiren. and they HAVE a working child right there in the HOUSE with them. why she call us every week? to top it all off my FOL has no IDEA she getting the $$. a mess.i try to keep my head down.
i promise no asks for gifts @44. LOL.
@Hermosa:
I didnt wanna say that earlier, but I wanna know that too. Loud people are just loud as hail, what does weight have to do with it? My loudest friend is 125 soaking wet, and beautiful so Im waiting to hear this.
ANNNNNNNNND…No matter how happy big girls say they are, I don’t know one that doesn’t talk about losing weight. Monique (that chick is a whole nother story) can say what she wants, the truth is the truth. NOBODY should be discriminated against because of their size, color, sexual orientation, etc. that’s why I’m not jumping on the bandwagon about they should lose weight, etc. WHO CARES, it’s their life to lose. My point, is simply, tell the truth.
@ hermosa and keely..
same reason.
@heavn_sent: i understand exactly exactly what you’re saying in post #50…
@hermosa: there’s a ton of stuff going on…wait, are you referring to shopping or parties? are you off on friday? i’m off but my cousin is pissed because she has to work…
That can be said about anyone…
skanky girls wear whorish clothes because that’s all the have to offer. Overcompensating…
skinny girls are loud because they are insecure about being skinny…
HOES share their body with everyone because they are insecure…
Why are men loud? Because they are overcompensating for their small penises?
I”m just saying…just because 1 person does it, doesn’t mean an entire category of people do it. I happen to have an aunt that is very insecure about her weight and would never do anything to draw additional attention to herself. I could have the argument that all fat people are shy because of their weight. But, it just doesn’t apply since I haven’t encountered all the fat people.
Don’t assume someone is insecure because they are fat! I KNOW SOME BIG BISHES THAT BRING IT!
AND WILL BACK YOU UP IN A FIGHT…QUICKER THAN SOME “CONFIDENT” BONY BROAD RUNNING CAUSE SHE CAIN’T DO NOTHIN.
…hell, they do need to lose weight…that sh!t is unhealthy…
that’s why I’m not jumping on the bandwagon about they should lose weight, etc. WHO CARES, it’s their life to lose. My point, is simply, tell the truth
heaven .. Mo’ LOST weight .. she said she did it to be healthier .. she was in ‘Essence’ talkin about it .. I Just don’t care for her … I am a size 14 and I can’t STAND being this size … and am I insecure ? ? sure.. we ALL are .. am I loud … it depends on who I’m around .. family and CLOSE friends .. YOUBETCHA .. (my man .. he’s CUT the HELL UP ,muscles for no reason at all .. and he tells me he dosen’t like skinny women and I’m beautiful .. says it often and without provocation).,.. shurgs …
Just know this … imma be Loud this weekend around family .. cause thats where Love Lives
@K-weezy………..Don’t catch a case while your in-laws are in town…….
#44 said:
We in a recession, so don’t come looking for no gift!
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We in a recession??????
I been broke all my life……..plus 9 months. I had no clue. LOL
goatttttt .. i was JUST thankin bout chu (how’s that for southern) … lol
Glazin will commence TONIGHT … lol
@ Divine..
Pump your brakes Boo. Take a breath.
Nobody said ALL BIG GIRLS ARE INSECURE. Did I not say that I was a big girl at one time? I was not insecure. Insecurity has nothing to do with weight. There is a difference in being loud, because that’s how you talk, were raised, etc. and having to be seen, drawing attention to yourself, acting an ass.
@hermosa, the same reason.
@ heavn_sent
Hold up. . .Every women on the face of this planet at one point or another is unhappy about their weight. Every women I know, fat, skinny or in between has talked about wanting to lose weight. So for you to say that big girls aren’t happy is wrong and stereotyping to the max!!! I’m not a skinny girl but I’m also not as big as these girls (im size 10). I’m as happy as can be, would I like to lose weight to look better in my bathing suit? sure. Which woman doesn’t?
Talk about stereotyping!
kwall, I feel you.
Gotta meeting @ 2. Hit y’all when I get back!
@ heavn_sent
And another thing, I’M LOUD AS HELL TOO. I’M AM THE LIFE OF THE MOTHA F*CKEN PARTY AND I AM COMPLETELY CONFIEDENT IN MYSELF. YOU CAN’T TELL ME NATHAN!
BLOGGER -
I’M talking bout parties!!!
I’m heading to lunch, be back in an hour!
Not everybody, but some people.
@kymy………….I hope that nigga got his life jacket, cause he’s gonna need it wit all that stored up Glaze you been saving………
@Kwall…dammit girl…i’m writhing in pain from my mouth stretched open!!!!! didn’t i tell u don’t start that shyt today!! it’s too late…i gotta trot off and medicate myself right now!!! *not California Raisin!..girl if i called my mother-in-law that shyt my girls would be scrapin’ up bail $$ cause i would have to knock the shyt outta my husband, he’d be ready to fight!!! LOL LOL LOL LOL
Darn. When did this conversation take a turn for the worst. Fat does not equal low self esteem and sure as heck doesn’t equal loud. Who even made that statement and then hit the submit comment button.
*sigh* as addicted as I am to the internet (& this site) I will never understand how ppl try to make their lives so blissful behind a moniter. Turn off the net and pick up a book. Anorexic ppl are some of the most insucure ppl there is. & that’s a fact not opinion.
My point is…
when there is a person that likes to draw attention to themselves and acts an ass, THAT IS NOT FAT…why are they that way?
If fat girls are attention seeking because they are fat.
Bottom line…I guess it’s about personal experience. I have yet to encounter the “loud cause you fat” phenomena. I happen to think that is another self imposed stereotype in the community. But, hey…that’s my opinion!
For all of yall on the FAT girls……….
I was the SKIN-T broad. The one who couldn’t fit a size DOUBLE ZERO….I HATED IT with a passion. I was 102lbs and could (still can) shut a buffet DOWWWNNNN! It was not all that it was cracked up to be. I’ve had ppl come across the INTERCOM at a gas station on a beautiful, sunny, spring Saturday morning and say (FOR ALL THE WORLD TO HEAR):
“YOU ARE TOOOOOO SKINNY”…..
Stopped me dead in my tracks! I cried all the way home. I HATED IT! I went as far as to write Oprah about my issue. (hey Op, if you reading this, call a sista - I got a story to tell you - LOL)
I in turn, snotted and cried til I was damn near “blue in the face” to my doctor to help me. She prescribed me an antihistamine. I gained 18lbs in a month. I was the happiest woman alive………….or so I thought….
I had ass and tits for days. You couldn’t tell me NUTHIN’. That was until, my cutty buddy (at the time) seen me and flat out said, you’re fat. Look at your face, look at your hips……….yall I was still in a size 2. Never seen him again…….EVER!
I am now happy. I love my weight and my size and I just want to say that:
THIN is NOT ALWAYS IN! I refuse to be as skinny as I once was. Eat right, say your prayers and stay fit and active. You will NEVER have anything to worry about.
Oh I am now 137lbs and I wear a size 6.
again i am loud cause i am country as all outdoors. we all loud in my fam. and i am 10/12. medium sized. and i used to be so skinny when i was growing up until about 3 years ago (i was on prednisone for my asthma and eczema and i literally went from a size 5/6 to a 12…in about 6 months) that i got teased endlessly about being a skinny minnie and olive oyl.
i was more insecure as what mo’nique would call a skinny heffa than i am as a size 10/12. i see classmates on the street and they are like…”dang…you SHOLE ain’t 100 lbs. no more.” LMAO.
my point is god makes us how he wants us. period.
if it is good enuff for the big guy it should be good enuff for society. i am happier as a 10/12 than i was when i was a 5/6.
and i was loud as hail as both.
my momma just came up here a few min. ago and told me she could hear my big mouf on the elevator with one of my co-workers….
pryn!!! Didn’t we say that we are cousins or some kin!!! That is the same story of my life!! I HATED being the small broad (but I still rocked that frame like no one’s BUSINESS), and even at a size 6 now people try to bring me down, but I LOVE ME NOW!!!
Kym has Kwall and I have you…awww, how sweet.
Baaaaaack!
Divaaa .. where you BEEN !!… lol
girl .. when i get down to my size 10’s … lawd JESUS ..
matta-o-fact .. THIS and Get Me Bodied will be on rotation when I hit that track … lol
Kym, between trying to get work done before I leave today and prepping for family coming in tomorrow, I have been swamped! I HAD to get on here and speak before I left, though! What are you doing for the holiday again?
And believe that this and Get Me Bodied are on my cleaning playlist…the same one that listen to right before I hit the CLUB!!!
happy turkey day diva. i know you are happy about your fam coming!
I am goin to KWeezy’s neck of the woods … North Carolina .. hopefully I’ll see her ….and my sweetie will be here late tonight … whooooo hoooooo
@prynsexxx, I weigh 135 and I wear a size 2, and 3 sometimes a 5.
I must be wearing the wrong size. lol
@Amulet
It depends on how tall you are
I am 5′3 and I wear a size 6. I look a bit chunky but I like it lol. Now my daughter who is the same height wears a zero because the size 14 girl pants aren’t long enough and I can see her bones.
@amulet…how tall are you? i’m 5′6”, 125 lbs and wear a size 4/27…my greedy a$$ is itching into the next size though lol…
@ Amulet, I weigh 135 and my clothes vary depending on what it is amongst those sizes, too. I’m 5′5. You must be tall, right?
bloggers, I feel you! my greedy self had to work HARD at eating to get to this size 6!!! It’s not always easy on the other end of the spectrum, some people just don’t realize that!
Size 6!! Well cry me a river! Y’all trippin. I guess you really can only speak from your own experience.
Yeah, I’m kind of tall.
@divamama, I eat a lot too to gain weight. I’m 5′7′.
I work out, so that I can keep my stomach flat though.
heavn_sent, yeah, some may think that we are, but when you are little, you get picked on for being bones and nonexistent the same way that the big girls get picked on for being overweight. And trust, I’m not by any means complaining about my size 6 - I love it!! It’s my little scrawny days that bothered me that I would cry you are river about.
@divamama
You are making me feel bad for calling my daughter bones
However, her vain little behind does not care. She blows kisses to herself in every mirror she passes. Since she is only 11 I am dreading what will happen in the teenage years.
Shunda said:
I am 5?3 and I wear a size 6.
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Guess we’ll be swappin clothes then. I’m 5′3 as well. But remember I had to take meds to get to this size. I have a small frame. Size 2/3 and 5, uuuuhmmm NO! When I 102 I used to be able to wear my daughters size 8’s in kids. Real talk!
Shunda said:
I am 5?3 and I wear a size 6.
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Guess we’ll be swappin clothes then. I’m 5′3 as well. But remember I had to take meds to get to this size. I have a small frame. Size 2/3 and 5, uuuuhmmm NO! When I 102 I used to be able to wear my daughters size 8’s in kids. Real talk!
Shunda said:
I am 5?3 and I wear a size 6.
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Guess we’ll be swappin clothes then. I’m 5′3 as well. But remember I had to take meds to get to this size. I have a small frame. Size 2/3 and 5, uuuuhmmm NO! When I 102 I used to be able to wear my daughters size 8’s in kids. Real talk!
What kind of meds make you gain weight besides Creatin and birth control shots?
BTW, I take neither.
I apologize for the triple post. LOL
Sandra, can you fix that?
Shunda, don’t give the baby a complex. LOL One of my mothers friends called me “STOVEPIPE” forever! I don’t even think she knows my real name AND I’ve been knowing her for as long as I can remember! LOL
@prynn
I used to be up in Limited too with my daughter clowning trying on the same outfit she was getting. She would be like mommy you are embarrasing me but she took so long to try on stuff I got bored. It was all in fun
WELL … I’m the amazon i guess …5′10 a size 14(uhggg) lol a work in progress
@Amulet
Some prednisone will make you blow up. That is why I don’t take it when my Asthma gets real bad.
@#97
Periactin - a prescribed antihistamine
Cyphrohedadine (sp) is the generic name for it. It is used to treat anorexia and something about some Cushing syndrome or something.
I referred to them as crack pills. They had me eating things that I don’t/didn’t normally eat like potatoes, pasta, sweets (allllll the time), ice cream. I would fall asleep with a bowl of ice cream on my tits and a soyburger in my hand. I would wake up and brush the bread crumbs off my mouth and pick up where I left off at….real talk…..it was bad!
Crack pills, I tell ya’!
@diva: what’s funny is bumping into old friends from elementary and high school…i was as frail as a rail…but now i get the “you feeled out well” look…while i give the “your a$$ got fat” look…lol…
i dated a guy whose uncle took him to stick to skinny girls when he was younger cause most of the “thick” girls blow up once they have babies (or get older)…
@kym: girl hush, you ain’t no damn amazon…
She blows kisses to herself in every mirror she passes. Since she is only 11 I am dreading what will happen in the teenage years.
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sounds like…..she will be like kirah (my 13 yo) who again states to me EVERY day… some times twice a day…. “i am sooo FLY. ain’t i fly momma? don’t hate on me momma.”
she is a size 3/4 with a shape that is killing ‘em. i try to buy baggy clothes but like jay z said….she got one you can’t tie a sweater over or hide it with pajamas. LOL. SIGH. we are IN for it. i see already.
I didn’t even know there was a such thing! lol
It’s so funny that skinny people want to be bigger and big people want to be smaller.
I’m getting some Periactin, or least begging for some on my next doctor visit :o)
Thanks Pryn
see my above post. prednisone made me blow UP. also made me eat UP some shyt. when i first went on predisone i went to the sonic and got like a coney dog combo…then had second thoughts and ordered two….
only problem was…i was alone…on my lunch break! LMAO.
@107
Be careful, be VERRRRRRRYYYY careful. Those pills are the devil!
1 pill twice a day = 4lbs a week
Foods that you don’t normally eat, you might as well make a palate in the kitchen, between the stove and the refridgerator. I cried to my doctor for those pills (not knowing what I was up against), she sent me home. She told me there was nothing that she could do for me. I was having too many mood swings……come back in a week. A week later she was writing a script…..like it was the new super pill……..and it was.
I get the “you gained weight, you wear it well, very well” comment alllllllllll the time and i started taking those back in 2004′ish. Went to the Bahamas and had men coming out of the bushes on a sista. Saying (in that accent) “you got a fat ass.” LOL
My response: “Where we going to eat?” LOL
I’m a greedy B!tch
Amulet Says:
I didn’t even know there was a such thing! lol
It’s so funny that skinny people want to be bigger and big people want to be smaller.
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That’s because the world is judgmental that we all have a hard time being comfortable in our own skin.
blogger, same thing here! I love that I filled out somewhere! And, yes, I heard that the ones with the big ones tend to drop those big ones when they get older - unless they have some good genes. I know that some people are till HOLDIN’!
So to the ex-fat girl that lost all the weight.. Were you fat and loud then? And are you skinny and quiet now?
Yall aint gonna tell me of all the sistahs on this site only one is a 14? everyone else is a sz10 and under? Well Im 5′10 and I wear a size 16. Im the shy,quiet type. Not ghetto, and loud… Im not on a diet either and no need. The only thing round on me is my ass……
^5 CANDI…. i’m in the booty impaired club tho … lol
i don’t have CAKES .. i have CUP-CAKES .. just enough NOT to be flat … lol .. lol
but i GOTS some Killer Legs .. and the girls .. well .. lets say … I like my girls …
@ candi
I’m going to assume that you mean me (ex-fat girl).
No, I was not fat and loud. I was never insecure..Please read back. And nope, I’m not skinny and quiet. I’m a size 10 and me. Always been assertive (not the same as aggressive) and confident. My friends say I’m the type that should come with theme music. Fat, healthy, or indifferent, that hasn’t changed.
Lmao @ these food stories. @ least there is a pill to make you fat. If I get my hands on that skinny pill. I’ll be so rich I wouldn’t have to worry about weight (which I am happy with)
My X use to always have something to say about my weight (mind you I had just had his kid) that was the only time I felt bad about my weight. But my bf now… loves me just as I am and for me @ least that’s all that matters. (Not that I need his approval bc I’m now more mature and comfy in my own skin)
AMEN ISCREAM! Comfortable is the way to go!
I am OUT!!!! I hope all of you have a SAFE and WONDERFUL HOLIDAY!!!
(And skinny girls, eat up!!! We got a ways to go!!! LOL!)
@divamama, thanks and you too.
@Kym… I LIKE your girls Too ;-)
Enjoy for Holiday-Weekend and Think about Me Sweet-CoCo
I’ll end by saying… Singing…
“I Only Meant Just to Wet My Feet” The Whispers
Amulet Says:
I’m getting some Periactin, or least begging for some on my next doctor visit :o)
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When I was in high school I took Periactin liquid to help me gain weight too. The problem is the weight gain is a side effect of the drug and not all people experience the same side effects. So what works for you may not work for others. Also, the side effect wears off after awhile and you stop gaining weight. Additionally, Periactin will make you very sleepy because it’s an antihistamine.
Sandra, thanks for the tip.
Damn…I was stuck in traffic and ya’ll hit 122 in this post
Good night fam!
@Prynn:
Sorry I missed your comment earlier, LOL because I can identify with that. I was this skinny chick for the longest too, I was at my first baby shower and not even showing I was so small. Didnt gain weight after the baby either, well we are on 3 and I am a 14 and I love it, love it, love it!
Ok, these chicks barely even moved. I’m not sure we can classify this as dancing
keely, I thought that my 2 kids would give me weight. Dead wrong. I weighed LESS after the first one and went back to regular weight after number 2. HATED IT!!!
I HEART big girls,but they could have done better. Where was the actual dancing and the SPLIT….DEAD @ that split.