Her mother is a good one, not suing his ass for child support in the first place.Pssssh,

Yeah, she need to live her life but she has a right to be acknowleged whether the man has money or not (which he probably don’t)

When Thomas Jefferson had all those black kids… Black people supported the black kids saying those are just as much his kids as the white one.

Society has conditioned us to silently sit down and shut the fuk up cause how we feel inside is not important.

Well, she’s not a child anymore. I’m among those people who was abandoned by their parent. You’ll drive yourself insane continuing to dwell on it. You’ll serve yourself as well as your posterity better by just moving on.

I’ve had to live with the uncertainty of whether or not my parent loves/wants me. If they did me like that all my life, thus I have ‘issues’ in my adult life…I don’t care, it’s time to cut them off and find new ground to stand on. Even if they come back later trying to ‘be close’. And they’ll try that ****, too, when you get older and if they ain’t got **** themselves.

If for your whole life they keep the fact they they are your parent hush-hush, IMO they take your life for granted. And this is usually the type parent that will seem receptive/open to having a relationship with that offspring, but they end up taking advantage of them instead - borrowing money, ‘do this for me’, ‘help me show face so I’ll look good to others’, ‘can I come stay with you?’, ‘i’m sick, come take care of me’…

They use you up, invite the other family members to use you, talk about you, because you’re the black hole of the bunch…no one wanted you. And that’s just how some families are. Trying to brush a child under the rug is a sign of this.

You know, someone like that does not deserve grandchildren, they don’t deserve to be associated with anyone I marry, or procreate.

Just cut the cycle of reject and pain off!