FanMAIL: Hill Harper

From an enlightened loyal reader who asked to remain anonymous:

Sandra, you are right again. so I’m cruising on twitter being nosy as hell and I stumbled across my “old” crush Hill Harpers page and girl he is GAYYYY! 90% of the people he twitters to are effeminate males, i.e singers or very homo-erotic looking men. And then I read twitter with him and this agentsmithfiles guy thats his assistant and they seem very very very close.

I knew he was too good to be true. Harvard Law Scool graduate in his 40′s and not married with no kids and always around Gabrielle Union but denys her as his girlfriend he’s gay in my mind cause she sleeps with every straight single or married men with a shlong. I’m sorry but what a freakin waist I was upset Sandra cause I was feeling him.

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162 Responses to “FanMAIL: Hill Harper”

  1. 1
    iscream says:

    Is he in the new Tyler Perry movie? Remember that fan mail we got before from Sandra’s friend.

    & if I was you I would’ve ****** out Gabby’s name. She is already sueing one gossip site.


  2. 2
    Krysi J says:

    Aw hell, here we goooooo…


  3. 3
    Daisy says:

    Ring the alarm..Round II


  4. 4
    attorneymom says:

    @ Sandra, stop lying. You know you wrote that fanMail. You think you are slick.

    Sidebar: I look side ways at any man past the age of 35 that is not married.


  5. 5
    KayCeiSoul says:

    Awww naaaaaawwwww! Not Hill!!? He is so doggone fine. Good Lawd nawwwww!

    ****Elizabeth I’m coming to join yah honey, and I got Hill Harper’s books in my hand!***********


  6. 6
    Daisy says:

    @Attymom that is so not right. Also are you always up late? I noticed the time you posted this am. Just asking.


  7. 7
    Shauny says:

    @attorneymom
    Are you looking at them sideways because you think they’re gay if they’re not married at age 35?

    As far as Hill Harper. I like him, such a positive brother. I have never and still don’t believe he’s gay. He was with Rae Dawn Chong for a long time. But even if he is gay who cares?


  8. 8
    KayCeiSoul says:

    @attorneymom – I never thought of it that way, but now that you mentioned the side-eye to that, most of the men I know over 35 are married, or have at least been married before.

    Hmmmm…this may be worth some trending and analysis.


  9. 9
    attorneymom says:

    @ Miss Daisy, I am having trouble sleeping at night. I wake up around 2:30 am and can’t go back to sleep. I just picked up a major entertainment client and I am too excited to sleep. : – ) It is my season. It is about to be on. I am commenting on my favorite sites because I will be unable to do so in the coming near future. : – (


  10. 10
    attorneymom says:

    Here I am performing my poem during the Miss Galaxy Pagent 1989: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vTZytOsSgw

    When? by Shwana Ruth aka Attorneymom
    ©1989

    When are we going to stop this madness and come together?
    So that we can make our lives, our African American lives, a whole lot better.

    When are we going to stop hurting our sisters and brothers,
    And learn to get along with one another?

    When are we going to stop being slaves to material possession?
    KNOWLEDGE and EDUCATION are the keys of life, this is a true confession.

    With fine clothing we nurture our skin.
    But what about our souls that dwell within?

    When are we going to take a look at that man or that woman in the mirror and stop blaming others for our mistakes?
    Learn from them that is all it takes.

    When are we going to give our sisters and brothers credit where it is due?
    Instead of putting them down because you wished it was you.

    When are we going to Wake Up and Learn from ancestors never to give up?
    Will this be before we self destruct?

    BUT WE ALL SHALL SEE IN THE END,
    THAT THE LORD JESUS CHRIST WAS OUR ONLY FRIEND!!!!!


  11. 11
    kcicero says:

    SANDRA I AM CONVINCED THAT YOU ARE ALLERGIC TO BLACK PEOPLE WHO ARE ABOUT SOMETHING…maybe you should hang out with different people for a minute and see if you pick up anything worthwhile.


  12. 12
    attorneymom says:

    @ Kay, there is not a shortage of good women to marry. So what is the problem??? Did they take a vow of celibacy??? I’m just saying. I know why women are lesbians. They are angry and are tired of playing with themselves waiting on a man. Right, Sandra??? Isn’t there a “male” shortage?? Women are suppose to out number men. Then why would a man be gay when he has so many women to choose from?? Selah


  13. 13
    ELove says:

    I’m a STR8 heterosexual MALE, So any GAY MALE doesn’t affect me because I don’t seek the attention or affection of Gay or Straight Dudes… With that being said

    WHY do straight females STRUGGLE SO BADLY with not-knowing that a guy is GAY ??? My Gaydar SCREAMS GAY when I see this dude!!!

    AGAIN HH’s sexuality doesn’t affect me in the least


  14. 14
    kcicero says:

    Love the video attorneymom very positive!


  15. 15
    Naima says:

    I don’t always look at a man over 35 not married with the sideye, but Hill is that rare combination of good looks, intelligence, talent and cultured, and thats why I was thinking he was gay.


  16. 16
    KayCeiSoul says:

    I just can’t accept this one. He is not gay. It wouldn’t change my perception of him if he was, but I just can’t ride with this one. I am in major denial.

    Besides, the more intelligent and spiritually sound a man is, the more prone he is to know what type of woman he wants to spend his life with, and can filter out the wrong ones. That takes time…I’m going to keep the faith that he’ll find the right woman, in God’s time. He might be 75, but he’ll find her. “Praise Him from whoooom…alllll ble-ssssiings flowwww…” :-)


  17. 17
    Daisy says:

    Both of his books were good and positive. I liked Hill in Get on the Bus. Great actor.


  18. 18
    Naima says:

    Women who are lesbians are tired of men? Um if that was case I think there would be a lot more lesbians than there are.


  19. 19
    anti-PC says:

    I remember Hill Harper on Married with Children. I loved him since then.

    If this is true then I am deeply saddened. That man is FINE!


  20. 20
    ELove says:

    @Kay
    AT LEAST you admitted that you are in major denial
    That’s a start LOL

    In order to find that perfect woman/female mate …
    YOU MUST TASTE THE FRUIT & Various TYPES at that
    AIN’T NO STR8-Male going to wait until he’s in his late 30′s to finally decide to start Sampling-the-Females he encounters

    Just a STR8 Man’s Opinion & Keep the Faith BABY !!!
    LOL


  21. 21
    Daisy says:

    @Elove who said he never tasted the fruit? Was there a memo sent, breaking news annoucement what?..lol


  22. 22
    KayCeiSoul says:

    attorneymom Says:

    @ Kay, there is not a shortage of good women to marry. So what is the problem??? Did they take a vow of celibacy??? I’m just saying. I know why women are lesbians. They are angry and are tired of playing with themselves waiting on a man. Right, Sandra??? Isn’t there a “male” shortage?? Women are suppose to out number men. Then why would a man be gay when he has so many women to choose from?? Selah
    *******************************************************

    Great points! But…he’s not the average Joe. He has much more to weigh when seeking a good woman. He has to avoid the gold-diggers, groupies, psychopaths and many other things.

    He could also be very introverted, but not necessarily gay. Even though he has the good looks, the money, and the intelligence to boot, it’s also possible that his dates may not be feeling HIM like that. He might be a habitual turn-er-off’er.

    I know..I know…this does not explain him being chronically single.

    Please don’t beat me up y’all. I’m just trying to shine a little light :-)


  23. 23
    iscream says:

    ((((((If he isn’t gay)))))))

    Maybe he just likes being single. Maybe he hasn’t met someone who he feels is worthy of all his fabness. Maybe he was engaged or in love and got his heart broken and is turned off by marriage. Maybe he doesn’t want There are many reasons why a man is single & Gay is at the bottom of my list.


  24. 24
    Gagirl73 says:

    He is one positive black male, but I’m from the outside looking in. So if a woman is over 35 yrs of age does that mean she gay?


  25. 25
    flyqtnva says:

    HE DOES NOTHING FOR ME…BUT IF ALL THE ABOVE IS CORRECT..SOUND SUS SUS SUSPECT


  26. 26
    MIZZ.I_REP_ATL says:

    Hill can’t be gay. Sorry….SMH


  27. 27
    Gagirl73 says:

    @ Shauny thanks for your help with the gavatar!!!!

    Oh yeah I’m 36 married with kids and the “few” females that are my age, who are not married just not going to take any Tom Dick and Harry last name of bull.


  28. 28
    attorneymom says:

    @ Kay, nice try. You are in denial. He has access to some of the “top notch” Miss Independents. So now what is the problem???


  29. 29
    KayCeiSoul says:

    Gagirl73 Says:

    @ Shauny thanks for your help with the gavatar!!!!

    Oh yeah I’m 36 married with kids and the “few” females that are my age, who are not married just not going to take any Tom Dick and Harry last name of bull.
    **********************************************************
    You bettah SPEAK THAT THING Gagirl73!!

    All day long! That’s my story and I’m sticking to it. I know too much, see that’s my problem. I didn’t get married straight off the meat rack, so a brother has got to get up EARLY in da mo’nin to run game on me. BUT, I DO DATE. Just not married yet, and I am 34. No crime and definitely no lez-bun-ism in that!


  30. 30
    ELove says:

    @Daisy
    MY last comment wasn’t geared towards HH but the topic of STR8 men regarding @Kay comment… I’m not trying to get caught up in the PSYCO-Drama with females and their stan-ness for these celebrity dudes LOL

    If Maxwell told you himself that he was gay …
    YOU STILL WOULDN’T BELIEVE HIM !!! LOL


  31. 31
    Smokie says:

    How could anyone think Hill’s straight?

    ~sigh~


  32. 32
    Smokie says:

    ELove Says:

    I’m a STR8 heterosexual MALE, So any GAY MALE doesn’t affect me because I don’t seek the attention or affection of Gay or Straight Dudes… With that being said

    WHY do straight females STRUGGLE SO BADLY with not-knowing that a guy is GAY ??? My Gaydar SCREAMS GAY when I see this dude!!!
    ___

    A lot of women are raised in female environments. They don’t even KNOW men so they don’t know straight from gay.


  33. 33
    Charles says:

    @4

    WHy?


  34. 34
    attorneymom says:

    I give him some credit. At least he is staying on his side of the gay fence.


  35. 35
    flyqtnva says:

    ELOVE & SMOKIE >>>u both made ome valid points….things that make you go hmmmm…so are they born gay or are they gay because they were also rasied in a feminine enviorment??????(men)


  36. 36
    flyqtnva says:

    @attrnymom
    WOW his side of the gay fence…lmao…


  37. 37
    Daisy says:

    ELove thats where you are WRONG! I have a gaydar(Neyo and Brian White to name a few) but I dont buy into every man with some home training and sense has to be GAY if they are NOT married by a certain age. Hell married men are GAY so that has NOTHING to do with the price of tea in China! Hill and another other men can be married and gay.If Maxwell came out and said he was gay I would believe him and still say he is SEXY as all get out he just don’t want what I have simple as that and keep it moving.

    I agree I am 32 and single and I aint dealing with the BS either!


  38. 38
    Coo Coo Bananas says:

    Yea. Of course he’s gay. He’s in his 40′s without kids and is single. He should be married with a couple of seeds already… like…Eddie Murphyyyyyy!!

    Some of you females who call yourselves women disgust me. Ugh.


  39. 39
    Daisy says:

    @Smokie I was raised with my father in the house and I have a brother and 5 Uncles I know men that has nothing to do with me not thinking Hill is gay..lol Nice try though

    Maxwells new song is on now JAMMIN! SANG it baby!


  40. 40
    Anti-believer says:

    To the female writer:

    Why is it such a shame aganist Hill, that you had a crush on someone that they did not fulfill your silly ass fantasy????

    It such a disappointment for you cause you had silly puppy love for someone who did not even know you even existed!

    Get real. You need a life.

    Also…
    All gay men aren’t flaming, queenie, effiminate, drag dressing, broken permanment wrist having, maybelline-cover girl make-up wearing, bee-ounce-say wanna-be people!!!!


  41. 41
    KayCeiSoul says:

    ELove @Kay
    AT LEAST you admitted that you are in major denial
    That’s a start LOL
    —————————————————-

    Right!! LOLOL! I just don’t want to think it, you know? There are some people out here who really are single by choice, and even celibate by choice. That doesn’t make them gay, but I’ve never followed Hill on a serious enough level to see it in him – just read his books and saw him in film and television. Y’all might see something I don’t. :-)


  42. 42
    Daisy says:

    @Anti I finally agree with somehting you said. The last part of your comment was ON POINT!


  43. 43
    Anti-believer says:

    Thx Daisy, I appreciate the love!


  44. 44
    Charles says:

    @34????????

    @40

    OWNED!!!!!


  45. 45
    Anti-believer says:

    COO-COO bananas

    You are truly bananas.

    Not everyone feels the need to have babies or get married. Obviously, you have not surrounded yourself around enough people to have mature idea of what personal choices people have.

    Life is not about making babies and getting married. SILLY!

    Most don’t even plan for it. It happens they have deal with it.

    having kids is a 20 year commitment for each child. 20 years!!! Are you ready?

    Don’t be so stupid. Also, life is not a fairytale. No prince is going rescued you from your sorrow ass life by a kiss on the lips. GROW UP!


  46. 46
    Naima says:

    Hill Harper grew up upper middle class and is Ivy league educated, he has had plenty of access to women just a fabulous as he is


  47. 47
    ELove says:

    @Daisy
    PLEASE re-read my comment (I DIDN’T question your gaydar)
    And the Maxwell comment ended with LOL (U know, Joking…)
    AGAIN I’M NOT TRYING to get caught up in the Drama !!!
    LOL

    As a young teenager I WAS Crazy-in-Love with Cheryl Miller and ONE of my many Gay female cousins told me she was a Lesbian… I WAS CRUSHED !!! But I re-grouped and Moved on ALWAYS saying to myself

    IF she was with me SHE WOULDN’T BE A LESBIAN !!!
    LMAO


  48. 48
    iscream says:

    @ Anti thank you. I just wrote then deleted something similar…

    & I’m sitting here watching the clock wondering… what is wrong with being gay?


  49. 49
    Daisy says:

    @elove *cyber hug and smooches* I go HARD for my Maxwell..lol Sorry..lol

    @Ice As a Christian I wonder the same thing. Let me know when you find out.


  50. 50
    lovejoy1 says:

    Attymom- I will look at your video when i get home- it wouldnt let me at work :(


  51. 51
    Naima says:

    There is nothing wrong with being gay, but if Sandra wrote the “fanmail” herself she needs to use spell check its waste not waist LOL.

    Better him being gay than with a WW


  52. 52
    lovezoe says:

    Maybe ole girl need to learn that since we are not talk about the man’s waist size, the appropriate word would be waste. OK. Thanks.


  53. 53
    iscream says:

    @ Anti I was referring to the comment you wrote about the reader not the stab to the gut you gave CoaCoa B.


  54. 54
    Anti-believer says:

    iscream….

    I don’t know. People are blinded by peer pressure to fit in, religion and not understanding sexuality.

    Negative **** spreads quicker than educated/scientific information because it takes longer to comprehend.

    People are born gay. It makes since to me because why would someone have sex with the same sex if they weren’t attracted to them. Plus, the purpose of marriage is to raise kids mainly. Not every human can produce a baby. Some females reproductive organs just doesn’t function. Some men sperm is not potent. You’re lucky if you can do it. Also, humans are born with both organs. So what do you tell them?

    People do not think on this board.


  55. 55
    Anti-believer says:

    iscream… i’d caught that :)


  56. 56
    Anti-believer says:

    *since= sense


  57. 57
    ELove says:

    iscream said:
    what is wrong with being gay?

    My Answer –
    IF you’re a Hot-n-Sexy female that I SO DEARLY want to
    “HIT IT” and you’re also GAY… Then that’s a REAL PROBLEM for me !!! LOL

    @Daisy
    I’ll forgive you THIS TIME because of our J-LO connection
    LOL


  58. 58
    missnee says:

    @ Anti Believer

    Thank you!


  59. 59
    Coo Coo Bananas says:

    @Anti

    LMAO oh wow. Sarcasm is NOT your forte is it? It’s cool LOL. I’m sure someone out there caught that.


  60. 60
    flyqtnva says:

    Gay>>>>straight>>bake a cake….


  61. 61
    iscream says:

    & since the waist, waste was pointed out. Its every single married Man not men. (& I’m the worst speller so whatever)

    @ Anti I had to re read CoaCoa comment to see whyyyyyy you went so hard. I think she may have been being sarcastic which is why she ended it with Eddie Murphy.. Who is a “known” bi sexual man. But I could be wrong.


  62. 62
    kcicero says:

    I know I’m johnny come lately but @ Elove some men can not have sex with women and not be gay.

    My husband was 22 when I met him and he’d never had sex with a woman and neither had any of his other three close friends but they are as straight as can be. Out of the four of them, two are still virgins but have been in committed relationships like Hill Harper and while the other has become a bit of a (hoe) dare I say it and then my husband who is of course married to me.

    It is possible and for the records my husbands friends are Black and they are not down load in any way shape or form and I know this for a FACT.


  63. 63
    goat76 says:

    I caught it Coo Coo….


  64. 64
    Daisy says:

    @Elove J Lo is working on a new movie cant wait to see her on the big screen again!

    @Anti-Now see just because people have different beliefs regarding gays does not mean they do NOT think. I agree with you on this issue (people are born gay 99% I do feel some esp women think its cute to go both ways esp if they think it will help keep their man..lol sorry I digress) We can agree to disagree w/o being disagreeable. Carry on..


  65. 65
    Naima says:

    @ 62
    down load? LMAO LOL LOL Bwahahahaha


  66. 66
    brwilso84 says:

    Attorneymom….I hope and pray that you dont use the same logic and syllogisms in the courtroom that you use on this forum. Hopefully thats merely a screename. Your argument and deductive reasoning is lauphable to say the least. Many subscribers left far more ignorant comments….but most of those weren’t worthy of a response. HOWEVER, I expected more from you bc of your youtube video production in 1989. The very premise of your youtube video was unity,uplifting our brethren, and empowering one another. Its almost sad reading how desperate some women become that they resort to discrediting another individual whom they know nothing about but bc he isnt married at 35 he is gay and now a waste to society and other women? Maybe he thinks marriage is a pointless tradition practiced by mindless individuals who need paper and public nuptials to validate what they have. Maybe he thinks marriage is like cable with one channel. Maybe he has more aspirations and more books to publish in an effort to uplift his community instead of just TALKING about it in a pageant….open your mind

    “ None are more hopelessly enslaved then those who falsely believe they are free ”

    Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


  67. 67
    Daisy says:

    Some of you females who call yourselves women disgust me. Ugh.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^Was that supposed to be sarcastic as well? Just asking


  68. 68
    ELove says:

    Coo Coo IS sarcastic the majority of the time

    I didn’t learn the art of being CELIBATE until I got married, I inherited that MAN-WHORE gene from my Father & was quite effective throughout my twenties… Got married at 30 and was divorced before my 35th birthday LOL


  69. 69
    Coo Coo Bananas says:

    Yes Daisy lol.

    But damm, sarcasm doesn’t translate well online does it? lol Well that just sucks because I’m a sarcastic wise*ss offline too LOL


  70. 70
    goat76 says:

    Well I betta hurry up….I’ll be 33 this year and I’m single……….


  71. 71
    iscream says:

    Oh Okay Coa Coa I was right.

    & I also think (some) people are born gay. & its a shame that people can’t be who they are without backlash from people who don’t understand them. Everything isn’t for everybody. & if we all walked around marching to the same drummer this would be a boring world.

    Checking my law books to see where it says a man has to be married before 35 or else he’s gay.

    & Maybe he doesn’t want to have children out of wedlock so his baby momma can be ridiculed by society as ruining this country. (Sorry Krysi couldn’t help myself)


  72. 72
    Gagirl73 says:

    To each it’s own in the end…..my husband and I have to worry about our own life style. That our kids see on a every day its not perfect but we sure don’t let them live in bs choices and the few peeps we do allow our kids around, already know if they come to our home front come correct. I’m like Martin I put peeps out..get to stepping!!! My husband tells me you go girl!


  73. 73
    ELove says:

    Don’t RUSH IT… If I had it to do all over again, I would’ve never got married (Real Talk)


  74. 74
    goat76 says:

    @Gagirl…………..No disrespect…..Are ya’ll swingers…..


  75. 75
    goat76 says:

    ****! Don’t worry, I ain’t rushing it…..


  76. 76
    Anti-believer says:

    Daisy…

    I agree. You should not (as female or male) go both ways to satisfied your lover.

    If you do open relationships, you’re just asking for your relationship to end. Just be single to do single thangs!

    COCO… if it was truly sracastic, i did not catch it. MY BAD. I’m not fan of people who are uneducated about gays.

    Straights have it easy. Gays have it hard. They can’t always be their self.

    Females who go both ways are appreciated. Men who are put down and called nasty.


  77. 77
    kcicero says:

    Naima Says:

    @ 62
    down load? LMAO LOL LOL Bwahahahaha

    typo but rather funny now that i think about it.


  78. 78
    Anti-believer says:

    Elove…

    what you said is real talk!


  79. 79
    Daisy says:

    @Goat DEAD that you asked her that..lol Swingers are on the ocme up in the black community though. I have a co worker who told me he was and I was like TMI to each their own..lol

    I am not saying men (or women for that matter) need to rush into marriage(it is not to be taken lightly at all) but I will say I dont want to date forever. I have a clock and I want kids, so at 32 I cant be dating you 5011 yrs waiting on you to decide to pop the question or not…lol


  80. 80
    ELove says:

    Anti said:
    Females who go both ways are appreciated. Men who are put down and called nasty.

    —–

    It GETS no Real-er than that statement and YES I’ve had my share of THOSE type of females… GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!
    LOL


  81. 81
    Anti-believer says:

    Elove…

    LOL @ “YES I’ve had my share of THOSE type of females… GREATLY APPRECIATED !!!”


  82. 82
    iscream says:

    @ Daisy E Harmony.

    @ swinger topic. I think if I was MARRIED for an excessive amount of time (10 plus years) I would be open to swinger parties. But that is speculation because I’m not married and once I say my vowes I may have a change of heart. But at this moment I think I would be open to it.


  83. 83
    Daisy says:

    @Ice NB has a topic about sex and ppl are ranting and raving about the silver bullet maybe thats another sign I need to get one..LOL


  84. 84
    Gagirl73 says:

    @ GOAT76

    Oh no I don’t get down let that!! I swing around the bed post at home for my HUSBAND, and swing my kids on their swing set!
    I play no games I not into sharing a man. Husband or not!


  85. 85
    shay1 says:

    GAgirl – off topic – do you work in Kennesaw? You look like someone Ive seen before.


  86. 86
    iscream says:

    Lmao. I don’t know what’s stopping you. But I would suggest the rabbit…. giirrrllll.


  87. 87
    miamore73 says:

    I have to agree with some posters in the opinion that Hill may be gay. It has nothing to do with him flaming or wearing makeup or being with a women at 35 or any of that. I think he may be gay because there is just a certain softness about him. When he’s in and out of character there is a certain softness in his eyes and the expressions on his face. HE’S SOFT!!!

    Now I can’t say I’m against gay people or that I’m not for gay people having they’re rights. I’m against the fact that everyone that isn’t for gay people are painted as ignorant. I think it’s ridiculous. I really could give a damn what a gay person does or doesn’t do but if I decided to not agree with all of a sudden I’m the stupid one.

    Everyone has an opinion because your opinion doesn’t match mine doesn’t mean your stupid or ignorant it just means we see things differently.

    I think a gay man is a waste to a women. Not to the human race but hell as a women there ain’t **** he can do for me. (think I’ve stated this fact before)


  88. 88
    Naima says:

    How can a gay man be a waste to a woman. He can still be a good friend, a nice co worker, your doctor, your brother, your cousin. Thats like saying you have no use for any man you are not screwing.


  89. 89
    Gagirl73 says:

    @ Shay1, nah I was born and raised in GA. From Saint Simon Island to the Atl. You never you Shay1 our paths might crossed at one point.


  90. 90
    ELove says:

    @naima
    THAT statement you’re questioning is more of a rhetorical thing because when I was a Man-Whore I FELT THE SAME WAY about a woman that wasn’t sexxing me !!! LMAO


  91. 91
    Peachizz says:

    I always thought Hill was a cutie…


  92. 92
    Charles says:

    @66

    I love you


  93. 93
    Charles says:

    @88

    People are dumb


  94. 94
    yvonne79 says:

    Great dialogue! Keep the comments coming…..


  95. 95
    Shauny says:

    Oh my word. Attend an infoshare and come back and folks are just reckless on here.

    @66 – One of if not the best comment on here. Too many candidates to point out the worst.


  96. 96
    Daisy says:

    Ice maybe I will venture out n live on the edge n get both lol

    I am waiting attymoms response I know it will be entertaining to say the least lol


  97. 97
    miamore73 says:

    Naima I’ll give you that one.

    Charles your dumb!!! What about that??


  98. 98
    attorneymom says:

    @ Brwilso84, Hill Harper, is that you? ; – )


  99. 99
    brwilso84 says:

    LMAO at ^^^Shauny. I couldnt agree more, its too many candidates to point out the worst. However, I dont think miamore73 (87) is far from gold. Luckly there are readers like Naima(88) Anti-Believer(40,54) and others who use more then the 2% of the brain that controls heartbeat and eye blinking to THINK!!!

    @ miamore73 (87) who said ” I’m against the fact that everyone that isn’t for gay people are painted as ignorant. I think it’s ridiculous. I really could give a damn what a gay person does or doesn’t do but if I decided to not agree with all of a sudden I’m the stupid one.”

    Would you express those same sentiments w someone who was a racist supremeacist and thought u were a waist to society because you were black, Jewish, Muslim? Im just saying….u r free to think what u want? But how is that thought process any different the Adolf Hitler’s, or the white supremacists who denied blacks their rights?


  100. 100
    brwilso84 says:

    LMAO @ attorneymom!! Im his mother ;)


  101. 101
    Daisy says:

    I was wrong about Attymoms response being funny maybe next time..lol


  102. 102
    missnee says:

    It’s different because god says being gay is wrong. it doesn’t get any more simple than that


  103. 103
    Daisy says:

    This screaming white baby is working my last nerve. I wish Sandra would have picked another pic to upload for everybody. Now back to your regular schedule programming.


  104. 104
    teecee says:

    Wow@ the topic… this is so crazy.
    It’s sad that you have to have a bunch of out of wed lock babies and tons women to define your man hood. I don’t know of any mother who tells their young so go and get as many babies as you can and sex up as many women as you so you can make mommy proud.

    I guess i grew up in a different time. When I grew up, men were not taught to be baby daddies, they were taught to be father and put your kids, wife and home first. They were taught to be providers for their families, not repliers on government or a woman. They also taught us to not have kids that you didn’t want or weren’t willing to take care of. As my grand mother use to tell us, you cant do nothing with a bastard child and pointed of out of wedlock children who stayed in trouble all the time and told us that’s why you need a mommy and daddy at home. They taught us not to get a baby by a woman you couldn’t take home to momma, didn’t go to church, keep a clean house or leave them alone without suspecting them of cheating.

    However, if a woman wants to say that because a man doesn’t want to be a husband/ father and opts out to be a baby daddy, sleeps with every woman in 100 mile radius or chooses to go to school become educated respectable man of the community instead of some street corner thug, I feel sorry for you. No wonder the quality the black family is crap. I dont really like kids, I love my nieces and nephews to death, mentored a few along the way. However, I love them best when they are at home with there parents after they have came thru and visited for 30 mins.


  105. 105
    brwilso84 says:

    @ missnee (102)

    Sweetie…are you a child? (Assuming that you are after reading that grammatically challenged entry :( ) This is an adult forum. Also, assuming that you’ve spoken to God and not god(lowercase) Its clear you believe in a monotheistic diety since your god was spelled in singular form without an “S”; What did he tell you?? DID your god tell you that gay is wrong or are you just regurgitating the same rhetoric you heard from someone else??


  106. 106
    attorneymom says:

    I have a confession to make – I am not familar with Hill Harper. I don’t know anything about him. I don’t know if he is a homo, hetero or bi.

    I don’t uderstand why it is necessary to tell the world about your sexual preference.

    If you are an author, just write books. If you are a basketball player, just play ball. Spare me the detail about your sexual perference.

    Why must the world bow down cause you are a fruity??


  107. 107
    iscream says:

    @ 102 Does he? Can you give me his number so I can ask for the lotto number. What’s so crazy is durning slavery yt people used the word of God to justify slavery.

    If God is love why would you think that he would say that being Gay is wrong?


  108. 108
    Daisy says:

    Who said the world had to bow down they just want the same rights and treatment


  109. 109
    Alana says:

    He’s not gay. I met him before and I didn’t get that vibe at all. He even called me sexy… :P


  110. 110
    Mspeng says:

    brwilso84 Says:

    @ missnee (102)

    Sweetie…are you a child? (Assuming that you are after reading that grammatically challenged entry :( ) This is an adult forum. Also, assuming that you’ve spoken to God and not god(lowercase) Its clear you believe in a monotheistic diety since your god was spelled in singular form without an “S”; What did he tell you?? DID your god tell you that gay is wrong or are you just regurgitating the same rhetoric you heard from someone else??
    *********************************************************

    I’ve been reading your responses and I find it hilarious that you can’t seem to successfully argue a point without feeling the need to put down others. So let me first point out to you that you said “Would you express those same sentiments w someone who was a racist supremeacist and thought u were a waist to society because you were black, Jewish, Muslim?”. Since we’re correcting spelling and grammar here. The word is WASTE, as in garbage, not WAIST as in your midsection.

    Second of all, I have alternate views about homosexuality that do not coincide with majority of the readers here. Therefore I keep my opinions to myself because I am not fighting a battle with people who are not open to hearing what I have to say. But please, DO NOT argue a point about equating homosexuality with race. It’s a total different ball game. If I find a dead, decomposed body and I run a test on it to find out who the dead body is…from that test, I can find out that it’s a white woman between 20-25 etc. Nowhere in that, will I find out that she’s a lesbian because it’s not genetic. Race is genetic. Don’t compare the two and the struggles of both.


  111. 111
    iscream says:

    Oh I see 105 wondered the same thing?

    @ attnymom he never said he was gay. Whoever wrote Sandra that letter assumed he was because he isn’t married or has children at 40. Oh and lets not forget banging his good friend Gabby Union because she sleeps with everything walking…. not sure who said he didn’t hit it.. But whose to say he did.


  112. 112
    ELove says:

    @Mspeng — #110
    BRAVO, BRAVO (Just Absolutely MARVELOUS !!!!!)


  113. 113
    missnee says:

    @ 105

    seeing as my sarcasm tag was deleted you wouldn’t know that i was being sarcastic. for the record, i’m an atheist. Go look in any other SR post about LGBT topics and you will see that. you will also find that i am far from thinking gay is wrong. i am one of the most vocal people on here when it comes for my distaste for religion and their “morals”.

    and because you weren’t aware i was being sarcastic i will over look your spelling errors.

    thanks


  114. 114
    attorneymom says:

    Mispeng, hat tip to you. I am at the hair salon.

    I find it rather insulting to compare being black or a women to being a homosexual.


  115. 115
    missnee says:

    i may not be a regular up in here but when SR posts about LGBT topics you will usually find me there defending my LGBT people. how could any of the regs miss my posts (with this grav nonetheless) and think i would agree with such ignorance….seeing as i’m usually very vocal about my distaste for religion and bigotry


  116. 116
    missnee says:

    LOL ms peng…you’re kidding right?

    BRWil was simply trying to say that ignorance is ignorance point blank and saying it’s your opinion doesn’t mean it’s any less ignorant.


  117. 117
    daninicole says:

    As someone above said, keep it coming!


  118. 118
    brwilso84 says:

    @ Mspeng (110)
    Thank you AKEELA. You are absolutely right. I did use “waste” out of context. My apologies. I was just a tad flustered. However, that was probably the only part of your entry that was relevant. My goal is only to challenge ppl to think. Know y you feel the way that you do. I dont care if your opionion differs from mine. Maybe in your world “because god told me it was wrong” will suffice….but not in mine. But in the words of iscream(107) PLEASE GIVE ME HIS NUMBER. People die every day in Gods name. Dont believe me….go to Africa or the Middle East.

    YOU SAID: DO NOT argue a point about equating homosexuality with race. It’s a total different ball game. If I find a dead, decomposed body and I run a test on it to find out who the dead body is…from that test, I can find out that it’s a white woman between 20-25 etc. Nowhere in that, will I find out that she’s a lesbian because it’s not genetic. Race is genetic. Don’t compare the two and the struggles of both.

    Assuming you hold a Ph.D in forensics, chemisty, genetics, biology and any other relevant science….then you CLEARLY must already know about the endocrine system and its resposibility of secreting a multitude of hormones in the body. You must also know about the endless lists of clinical trials suggesting that there is a direct correlation btw sexuality and genetics due to results yielding disproportionate levels of testosterone in some llesbians and estrogen in some gay men…..but im sure u also kno most of this is deemed theoretical data…..Dr. Leave the genetic breakdowns and the psycho analysis to someone qualified…….(sighs) The ignorance continues…(tear)


  119. 119
    brwilso84 says:

    @ Missnee…..I adore you. I could give you a hug right now. :)


  120. 120
    pointhimout says:

    yall mf’s kill me. all these sideway comments “i knew he was gay, my gaydar screams he’s gay, etc.” how you say all of that then end it with “so what he’s gay, who cares?” that’s comforting.

    attymom are you serious? i mean seriously. it’s women, who act like they will lose an ovary if they dont have a kid by a certain age. men dont have that going at all, so a man can be 35 or older and have never married. with that way of thinking AM, are you convinced the guy is more likely to be into women if he has married and divorced all before 35? does that man get a pass?

    i phuck what i wanna phuck. no, i dont broadcast anything to everybody but if you ask, depending on your relevance in my life, i will tell you. ‘society says’ it what got people unable to think for themselves now.

    the emailer is wrong, but she’s definitely entitled to her opinions. if your way of thinking causes you to lose interest simply by who a grown man chooses to communicate with via the internet of all places, so be it. not to throw Gabrielle under the bus, but maybe he dont wanna bang her out cuz it’s rumored that every body else has. contrary to popular belief, not every str8 guy wants to hit everything that moves. there are some men turned off by some things you women put out or the way you carry yourselves.

    all that this guy does and this is what we’re discussing. oh i get it. because he went to school with and is good friends with Obama, bash him. duuuuhhh, point ur so slow sometimes. good one sandra.


  121. 121
    Mspeng says:

    ^^^^

    I won’t even argue with you. I do not insult when I argue points. If you need to know my feelings…go back to reference post #110 that I wrote.

    Other than that, don’t say I said anything about God saying being gay was wrong. I didn’t mention God ONCE in my post. Nor am I religious. I have facts to back up my feelings and I never stated any of my feelings because I don’t believe I’m going to get into a cyber battle with people who I don’t know outside of sandrarose . com.

    And don’t tell me to leave the genetic breakdown to someone qualified because you have no idea what my job is. None. You don’t know me…you don’t know where I live…what I look like…what I do…what I feel…how I think…or anything. So while you perch on your pedestal thinking that you have the most relevant points here, just know that your attacks on me roll right off my back. It’s neither here nor there. I’m not that passionate on the issue. Save your wrath for someone else. Because this someone doesn’t care. I only wrote my first response as a reply defending someone after you came in here discrediting everybody’s opinions are foolish simply because they don’t agree with yours. That argument in itself is flawed because in order for you to get people to agree with you, you have to see things from their point of view in order to try to convince them otherwise.

    I am not ignorant…don’t call me such. Again…because you don’t know me. Makes no sense you reply to this…because I will not respond. I’m not into childish games. I have children and a husband to attend to.


  122. 122
    Mspeng says:

    ^^^

    My above post was directed at post #118


  123. 123
    missnee says:

    Gays and black people may not have the exact same issues and their struggles may not exactly mirror each other but cops weren’t just going into black neighborhoods and beating the **** out of black people. maybe if someone would care to even learn about the LGBT struggle, they would see that they weren’t treated with kindness or care. must i direct you to the numerous cases of gay people of all colours and backgrounds getting murdered or beat because they were gay.

    what makes me sick is people are justifying their ignorant opinions the exact same way they did back in the day. (religion/god)


  124. 124
    missnee says:

    Lawd…to be a young, black & gay. stay positive young ones


  125. 125
    miamore73 says:

    @brwilso84

    I personally find you offensive. The fact that you feel the need to belittle anyone that has a different opinion from yours shows your ignorance.

    If someone says that their belief in God, they’re religion or the Bible is they’re reason for not believing in homosexuality than who are you to say their belief is wrong. Why is that straight people be judged for their beliefs but everyone has to be tolerant of gay people and their beliefs.

    I also find it offensive to equate my race or my gender to being gay. I didn’t choose to tell everyone that I’m black or a women. Just like I don’t choose to tell everyone that I’m heterosexual.


  126. 126
    miamore73 says:

    Really to be young, black and gay is a wonderful thing if that’s for you. I just don’t need to know about it.

    How’s that for ignorance.

    I’m with mspeng. DONE!


  127. 127
    KayCeiSoul says:

    This is going to be an all-nighter. However, there are some interesting perspectives being posted.


  128. 128
    Daisy says:

    Now yall are writing novels n giving dissertations lol

    I do believe Gods word but I don’t believe being gay is a sin go figure

    As a christian I def talk to God in PRAYER all the time so you have to get your own number for that if you want to talk to him yourself. He also uses visions and dreams as well

    Also I said earlier folks need to disagree without being disagreeable we are all grown and have difference of opinions and that is what makes the world go round

    Carry on again lol


  129. 129
    iscream says:

    There comes a time
    When we head a certain call
    When the world must come together as one
    There are people dying
    And it’s time to lend a hand to life
    The greatest gift of all
    We can’t go on
    Pretneding day by day
    That someone, somewhere will soon make a change
    We are all a part of
    God’s great big family
    And the truth, you know love is all we need
    [Chorus]
    We are the world
    We are the children
    We are the ones who make a brighter day
    So let’s start giving
    There’s a choice we’re making
    We’re saving our own lives
    It’s true we’ll make a better day
    Just you and me
    Send them your heart
    So they’ll know that someone cares
    And their lives will be stronger and free
    As God has shown us by turning stone to bread
    So we all must lend a helping hand
    [Chorus]
    We are the world
    We are the children
    We are the ones who make a brighter day
    So let’s start giving
    There’s a choice we’re making
    We’re saving our own lives
    It’s true we’ll make a better day
    Just you and me
    When you’re down and out
    There seems no hope at all
    But if you just believe
    There’s no way we can fall
    Well, well, well, well, let us realize
    That a change will only come
    When we stand together as one


  130. 130
    missnee says:

    Mia

    There are many people throughout history that have used god/the bible/religion to do back their very ignorant and very wrong opinions. there’s some of them you would not agree with and think it’s wrong, but if their bible/god/religion is the reason why they believe that, who are you to say that it’s wrong????

    It’s very clear it’s hard for you see that because you think being gay is wrong, something that is choosen and should not be seen or heard. the fact you think that straight people are the victim here is laughable. you also don’t understand why it’s very important for someone that is gay (especially a celebrity) to come out of the closet…why it’s important for my young gay nephew to hear out loud that someone else is gay. you are very naive about LGBT history and YOU and people like ATTMOM are the reason why young gay kids growing up need to see visable gay celebrities. All the “JUST DO YOUR JOB AND ENTERTAIN ME” and “GAY SIDE OF THE FENCE” nonsense is old and tired.

    I find your ignorance completely offensive.

    just remember that bible was written by a man. do you need to get schooled on the history of organized religion and the church/bible and why it was created?

    may all bigots be blessed with gay children that grow up to resent them


  131. 131
    KayCeiSoul says:

    @ ISC – Just stood straight up off the couch a started waiving my remote back and forth singing wit’cha. I dropped my dern laptop on the floor! LOLOL!! You are cuttin up!


  132. 132
    missnee says:

    miamore:

    the young, black and gay statement was more directed towards the problems that they come in contact with in their community. you have to be real strong to be out and proud in the black community. not only that but you have to deal with racism within the gay community.


  133. 133
    attorneymom says:

    It is written, “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!” (Isaiah 5:20)

    I have one question: What is the purpose of a vagina and a penis?


  134. 134
    attorneymom says:

    Proverbs 21:2
    Every way of man is RIGHT in his own eyes: but the Lord pondereth the hearts.

    Proverbs 16:25
    There is a way which seemeth RIGHT unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

    Matthew 7:13-14
    Enter by the narrow gate; for wide is the gate and broad is the way that leads to destruction, and there are many who go in by it. 14 Because[a] narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.


  135. 135
    attorneymom says:

    Proverbs 18:22
    He who finds a wife finds a good thing And obtains favor from the LORD.

    Selah


  136. 136
    Daisy says:

    @Attymom I like Proverbs 18:22 my friends/family stay asking me when I am going to FIND a husband and I have to school them. Although I believe in God’s word I try not to use the bible to make a point because nobody follows it to a T we all pick and choose what we want to believe, practice/live. I will speak life and LOVE though ALL day everyday! I believe that was Jesus greatest message to love your fellow man (outside of saving souls). I try not to knock anybodys religion(dont like that word per say)/spiritual/beliefs etc. I would not want anybody knocking mine although I see people taking shots at Christians all the time on this site. I just rise above and keep it moving. People are FREE to serve or not serve any God they want to. As for me and mine we will serve the Lord!..lol Please believe it!..lol As the song says Can’t NOBODY do me like J E S U S!


  137. 137
    attorneymom says:

    @ Miss Daisy, can you please tell me at which time I knocked anyone’s religion or beliefs.

    No one has a problem when people can quote from the Qur’an, philosophers or motivational speakers, but just don’t quote from the Holy Bible. Only concentrate on God’s love, but not his anger or hatred of evil.

    Proverbs 6:16-19
    16These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
    17A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
    18An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,
    19A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.

    I love the study of Religion. I’ve always enjoyed learning about others belief.

    Sidebar: One thing about Muslims I like is they got folks afraid to challenge their belief and practices. When Mahmoud Ahmadinejad was interviewed during his trip to America, he stated that there are no homosexuals in Iran. To date, I have not heard one homosexual protest or condemn his statement. Oh, but let TD Jakes state something like that and there would be protests in the streets.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPdEN3Vzjjc


  138. 138
    Afro Goddess says:

    You know what? We’re so used to Black men who load up with baggage early in their lives that we don’t know what to do with one who has managed to live the high life of an upper middle class White man!

    Yeah, I said it! I know plenty of non-Black men who are about something and have managed to not end up with kids or married. They are living the high life with women upon women, but their games are so tight that their business isn’t all out in the streets. These are the men who decide to settle down, in their 40s mind you, with some 20 something sweet thang, leaving all the “older” ladies salty.

    Unless someone has a picture, a video, or a freakin’ drawing, yall need to leave Mr. Hill Harper alone. All he’s done is duck and dodge our stereotypes. Can we not be crabs in a barrel?

    Heck, we’ve got men with lotsa lotsa kids and not married, never been married, and with no plans to get married. How about we focus on them @ssholes?!


  139. 139
    Liberty says:

    LOL@people getting mad at fanmail. This is a GOSSIP site, nothing good comes out of gossip.


  140. 140
    lexdiamonz says:

    I love hill he is an educated, positive black man if he is gay so what!!!

    BLACK WOMEN STOP ASSUMING A MAN IS GAY IF HE NOT A HO!!!!


  141. 141
    Gagirl73 says:

    @ Lexdiamonz

    I co-sign your statement, and with that being said. There are some married peeps men and women on the DL. So does it make it okay because they are married? No it does not!
    Have a great week end to all!


  142. 142
    flyqtnva says:

    attorneymom
    tHE REASON why gay people have to tell the world their GAY is because they want to make it acceptable. Just like celebs going out endorsing stuff that can kill you…THEY DONT CARE…anything to get you as far away from the IMAGE JESUS had for you into what SATAN has planned for you.


  143. 143
    flyqtnva says:

    Attorneymom…..you made some excellent points. Guess what I learned….SINNERS dont want to hear nothing about the real true God…they say things like…no one knows the whole bible….everyone is entitled to live their life…etc….not knowing the purpose of the GAme is to WIN SOULS. If you are gay that is your affliction…your supposed to pray & fight it….we all have our personal afflicitions that were supposed to overcome…not give up and join in and march in the parade.


  144. 144
    attorneymom says:

    @ Flyqtnva, you done wrote a mouthful right there.

    I do not have a problem with homosexuals that are not practicing christians. I have a problem with the term gay christian. A gay christian is like dry water – there is no such thing.

    We are all born sinners (i.e., the free will to choose righteousness or evil). That is why you have to become born again and renew your mind.

    Now we have all these lukewarm and immature christians running around here quoting the Holy Bible out of context just like Satan.

    Revelation 3:15-16 states:
    15 I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. I could wish you were cold or hot.
    16 So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot,[a] I will vomit you out of My mouth.

    There are 3 people I don’t play with: (1) Jehovah, (2) my Momma and (3) the IRS.


  145. 145
    brwilso84 says:

    Everyone give miamore73(125) a hug and a kleenex. Its apparent she can dish it but not take it. I appluad you for expressing your opinions. However, the fact remains that they are opinions and ultimately will be subject to criticism in an open forum. IT WAS YOUR CHOICE TO SAY :
    …………………………………………………
    When he’s in and out of character there is a certain softness in his eyes and the expressions on his face. HE’S SOFT!!! I think a gay man is a waste to a women. Not to the human race but hell as a women there ain’t **** he can do for me!!! After all this Mspeng tries to save you with her response : DO NOT argue a point about equating homosexuality with race. It’s a total different ball game. If I find a dead, decomposed body and I run a test on it to find out who the dead body is…from that test, I can find out that it’s a white woman between 20-25 etc. Nowhere in that, will I find out that she’s a lesbian because it’s not genetic. Race is genetic. Don’t compare the two and the struggles of both. Dont get me started on Attorneymom…
    ………………………………………………..

    Because my retort didnt coincide w yours….dont take it personal. YOU ARE NOT THE VICTIM. All i did was pose an alternative and ask questions. If you and attorneymom, Mspeng, and who ever else are gonna make brash unfounded generalizations about ppl you know NOTHING about…..be prepared for some criticism…or at least be prepared to answer follow up questions. None of this was a personal attack on you, your beliefs, or your respective religions. I appreciated all of your responses as entertaining as they were. Sadly, you make it that much clearer why children at the tender age of 8 would choose to take their own lives then endure the pain from the hypocrasy of their families, classmates, and communities.


  146. 146
    flyqtnva says:

    @brwilso84
    I always wonder if a child of (8) knew about suicide and being GAY….why not know about Jesus….if you children are not protected spritually then anyone can take them. “religion” is not what I’m speaking of, I’m speaking of the love of Christ, it’s a love like no other..he simply wants us to follow and live in his word..while i know young children are impressionable, however a 8 year old baptized in the holy spirit & really knows his heaveanly father “anit” nobody going impress upon him/her enough hate or stress to make them end their own life. While you also made great points I feel like you want us to say it’s okay. If my job is to win souls I have to tell everyone the TRUTH, i cant pick sides & I have gay family members, thats y the church is a mess now, people are picking and choosing and trying to be politically correct with the WORD of God and its not going to work.


  147. 147
    attorneymom says:

    I hear crickets with regard to my Muslim comment cause you know you better not %$@# with a Muslim. They don’t play. You will not disrespect Prophet Muhammad like people disrespect Jesus. Muslims will turn it out. Remember when they got gansta on a Danish newspaper for their derogatory depiction of Prophet Muhammad.


  148. 148
    brwilso84 says:

    @ Mspeng (121) Sweetie did i hurt your feelings. That wasnt not my intention.

    YOU SAID: I have facts to back up my feelings and I never stated any of my feelings because I don’t believe I’m going to get into a cyber battle with people who I don’t know outside of sandrarose .And don’t tell me to leave the genetic breakdown to someone qualified because you have no idea what my job is. None. You don’t know me…you don’t know where I live…what I look like…what I do…what I feel…how I think…or anything. So while you perch on your pedestal thinking that you have the most relevant points here, just know that your attacks on me roll right off my back. It’s neither here nor there. I’m not that passionate on the issue. Save your wrath for someone else. Because this someone doesn’t care. I only wrote my first response as a reply defending someone after you came in here discrediting everybody’s opinions are foolish simply because they don’t agree with yours. That argument in itself is flawed because in order for you to get people to agree with you, you have to see things from their point of view in order to try to convince them otherwise.

    I am not ignorant…don’t call me such.

    Mspeng…First and foremost. GROW UP. No one is attacking you personally. UR NOT THE VICTIM. I dont need to know you to c that you know NOTHING about what you are talking about. HENCE THE VERY REASON I QUESTION Y U R TALKING AT ALL. At the very least know Y u are saying what you are saying. There was not ONE FACT in your ENTIRE plea for help and cry for validation. Clearly the only fact was that you were obviously upset and pissed that your opinions were not repected after your embarrisingly futile attempt to come to someone’s aid after their very subjective entry. U TYPED IT. Ur hiding behind a computer screen….i would think you wouldnt feel threatened by my words. Was your threatening cry for respect necessary? And you r right. Its clear you dont care…..but you care enough to post a comment on something you admittedly know nothing about or care to embrace. Would you care if that was your child who committed suicide?

    and for the RECORD….NOT once did i CALL u ignorant. Your responses speak for themselves. All i did was ask you to support your judgemental generalizations with facts or something more substintave.


  149. 149
    Daisy says:

    There is such a thing as GAY Christian a sin is a sin is a sin for those of you who believe being gay is a sin. You have lying christian, fornicating christian, thefts that are christians, muderers that are christian. Who are you to say somebody that’s gay can’t love the Lord. LOVE LOVE LOVE! God LOVES the SINNER but hates the SIN! That goes for gay’s as well for those who believe its a sin. I am Christian (saved, sanctified and filled with the holy spirit) but I dont think being gay is a sin. Some cant wrap their minds around that and that is fine but to say gay ppl cant love the Lord is a bit of a stretch. Gay ppl are in church every Sun.


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    missnee says:

    LOL I like how the answer to everything is jesus and god. makes it quit clear that some of you don’t live in the real world.


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    brwilso84 says:

    @ flyqtnva 146….I can truely respect your response. Very well said. I can truely appreciate it even though at this point in my life i disagree. At one point i had the same sentiments you did. Until i researched for myself what Jesus’s teachings were, and what they meant for me in my life and thats UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. What ppl have to understand is that we have been conditioned to think certain ways. Get out of that box. Ask questions. Its OK! Whats not ok is judging others based on misconceptions. Jesus never did that. We will never understand the universe, God (for those who believe), or Christ in its full entirety bc we just are not that complex or capable. No one on this forum has Jesus’ telephone number and Jesus did not tell anyone on this forum that loving someone of the same gender is wrong. MAN TOLD YOU THAT. THE SAME MAN THAT EDITED THE BIBLE< TO MANIPULATE YOU AND CONTROL YOU…THE SAME MAN WHO MURDERS IN GODS NAME. Most of the ppl quoting scripture dont even know how the bible was compiled and who wrote and how throughtout the centuries it has been edited to control the masses through political influence, the Vatican, MONEY, WARS…..etc. I use Jesus to help me understand the BIBLE. I dont need the BIBLE to KNOW Jesus. AGAIN….i dont need the Bible to know Jesus and understand his unconditional love….JESUS helps me understand the BIBLE(say that last sentence one more time until you feel it, and then maybe you will get where i am coming from)


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    flyqtnva says:

    @brwilso84
    WE DEFINATELY HAVE to speak on a personal level….my journey to God has been ruff…exactly because of what you said>>>we have been conditioned to think certain ways. Get out of that box. Ask questions.
    Is it that reason alone that for so long I was blinded until my mom passed. SOMEONE way bigger than ME took that walk for me. I didnt do it by myself. I was ready to check the HELL out of life….again I didnt quote nothing out the bible. I rarely do. I got to Liberty University my major is religion and physch…WHY…cause I need to know 4 myself. I’m not going off what anybody else is saying to me. I want to SEE proof myself, dates, times, what came first, how did this get in the bible, i could go on for days, but believe me all my opinions are my own in refernce to God. Its a hard subject to study but I cant take no mans word for it. Email me at twenty3rdofdec@aol.com and we can talk further I would like that.


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    brwilso84 says:

    @ flyqtnva (152). You inspire me. It because of you that I continued to respond to these entries. I knew eventually someone would appreciate my intentions. What you said brought tears to my eyes. You are absolutely right about so many things. Life is a journey. FULL of questions. Ask them and you will find the answers….or probably more unanswered questions, lol. But never let that deter you because if you dont ask you will never learn, or be educated enough to be freed from the invisible chains that unfortunately enslave so many people. Never accept anything. Even your professors won’t know everything! Neither will you. My grandmother once told me that Harriet Tubman kept a rifle by her side. Not for the slave owners but for the very slaves themselves whom she was risking her life to free. Unfortunately they had become conditioned, like many people today, and believed and accepted the conditions bc they had food and shelter and but had been stripped of all hope and vision. Harriet didnt accept that and because of that she was able to liberate thousands of ppl. I commend you. You have the opportunity to do the very same thing w your education….and merely talking to ppl on sandrarose. You never know who’s life you can change. I look foward to speaking w you. I will definitely be emailing you.


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    attorneymom says:

    Look everyone has an opinion. Christian (the church) need to quote scripture, not opinions. I am 41 years young. I have been through a lot of things in my life. But I know one thing Jehovah, Jesus, the Holy Spirit and angels are real and so are Satan and his demons. The word of God is our sword. It is powerful. The mind is the battlefield between good and evil. So if you want to win the war between good and evil, you must use the word of God. Your opinions are not match for craftiness of Satan. When Jesus was confronted by the devil in the wilderness, he said it is written and then proceeded to quote from Deuteronomy. He did not give his opinion. Jesus was the word of God made flesh. Should we not follow his example??

    The biggest mistake was when we quarantined the Holy Bible to Christianity. It is a book for living. It instructs us on how to live with authenticity, honor and dignity.


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    attorneymom says:

    Sorry, I meant to write “no” not “not”.


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    sdsthomas says:

    I am tooo hurt by this. I saw him on the Bill Maher show the other day. What a waste!


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    brwilso84 says:

    @ attorneymom 154. Well said. HOWEVER, what purpose does quotiing scipture serve if you dont consider its origin, who wrote it, what context it was to be taken in, and who its applicable to.

    Do you remember in the 90′s when “Phat” in some areas of the country defined how “dope, hot, tight” something was. These words are slang outside their literal definition. Something written in a magazine now in the United States can mean something ENTIRELY different elsewhere or be completely irrelevant after a matter of time. Just becuase you interpret something one way does not mean that was the authors intent, now, today, or centuries later.

    In elementary school my teacher involved our class in an experiment. She whispered the secret in one students ear. That student whispered the secret to the next student….and so on. By the time everyone relayed the msg with their own interpretation; by the end it had taken on an entirely different meaning.


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    brwilso84 says:

    @ attorneymom 154. What is GOD’s WORD? The scrolls and writings that we call the Bible were originally written mostly in Hebrew and Aramaic. That has been translated in over 100 languages. Also, the exact composition of the Bible is dependent on the religious tradtions of specific denominations and regions…..MEANING your Bible may be written ENTIRELY differnt then mine dependent on which culture and denomination you identify with or orginated from. Christianity for example …you may identify with a multitude of variations of Christianity that I do not. (Ex Catholicism, Easetern Orthodox, Anglican, Protestant…..and the lists go on and on down to various shisms of Christianity and then finally Baptists, Methodists, Presbyterians etc) Most people would be shocked at how many variations there are. Man has used organized religion to control people since the dawn of time. Im not saying scripture is not important. But what is probably EVEN MORE important is understanding where and when that scripture originated, how it was changed, and who it was intended for….if you are ever to discern what “God’s Word” is and NOT MAN’S.


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    missnee says:

    brwilso84:

    thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!


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    attorneymom says:

    @ briwilso84, and your point izzzz? Blank stare.

    Every book is written by a human being.

    Look, believe what you want. We will all have to give an account for our lives one day so there is no need to continue to beat a dead horse. I enjoyed the dialogue. Keep your head up!!! Increase the peace and all that good stuff.

    This is my last comment in this post.

    Sidebar: my email address is attorneymom96@yahoo.com


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    mzraychelle says:

    Is he really gay?


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    pointhimout says:

    #161, no, we believe he’s not. i haven’t seen raw footage, photos or anything else to force any of us to believe otherwise.


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