I receveived about 3 emails today with the subject line 'Richard Jefferson Calls the Wedding Off'. After the 3rd email, I clicked on the link to see who the heck this Richard Jefferson was.

Turns out he's a 29-year-old NBA star who, at the last minute, got cold feet and decided to call off his lavish wedding to former Nets cheerleader Kesha Nicole Nichols.

Pictures of the smiling couple are splashed on sports blogs all over the net. She looks like the typical gold digging LSLH groupie that these dumb jocks run behind because she fits the prerequisite Beyonce mold.

You can see the dollar signs in the chick's eyes. No doubt, Jefferson came to his senses after NFL legend Steve McNair was gunned down by his jumpoff who then turned the gun on herself.

According to the NY Post, Jefferson spent $2 million planning his wedding and even handed his boy his AMEX black card to splurge the night before the wedding.

"He called about two hours before the wedding. It was nuts," said one Jefferson pal.

He never showed up at the hotel, but "all his boys were there," the friend said. "He gave his best friend the Black Amex [credit card] for the night."

After seeing what happened to McNair, Jefferson probably realized he could have his cake and eat it too without spending TWO MILLION dollars of his hard earned money on a wedding. Any chick who would allow her man to spend $2 million on a damn wedding (as opposed to investing it) isn't worth marrying!

When are our brothas going to learn that these trifling gold diggers aren't housewife material? Especially not a cheerleader whose purpose for becoming a cheerleader was to meet and marry some dumb jock like Jefferson.

At least he wised up before it was too late.

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  • starr

    wow....u can tell all that just by looking at her huh...hmph

    Jefferson was punk with the nets, and he'll be forever be a punk. What real man calls off the wedding ova email to his bride. What a coward.

  • http://thechoklitfactory.wordpress.com/ ChokLitFactory

    Hahah $2 Million later he wised up?? He better go get that AMEX back! The girl is cute, she looks Asian thought. Oh well...

  • lovezoe

    Gold digger or not, there is a way to handle matters and that was not the correct protocol. No man is worth anything if they are willing to EMAIL they're intended and tell them the wedding is off. That is a punk a@@ b______.

  • miamore73

    He still spent that $2 million dollars you best believe. So what he did was waste $2 million dollars. You have a hall, church, caterer, musicians, flowers, cakes, all that stuff needs to booked sometime before the wedding. Then you pay a deposit which you can probably get back up until what a month or so before the wedding if you don't cancel said vendors by that time you need to pay up the additional monies owed.

    Homey just wanted out!!! He didn't want his money cause it was already spent and ain't nobody given that back.

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    she DOES look generic LSLH... i hate skinny chicks nothing to play with .... like being with a 11 yo old boy ..no homo just saying what i hear from the guys..that said if i was engaged and he didnt want to marry i would be very upset to hear it through a dang email... poor thing dont even have a kid for child support....but its a dumb jock born every minute...she'll be ok

  • ELove

    RJ will never get caught-up LIKE Steve McNair because you have to be SEXXING ALOT of WOMEN to get in that kinda situation...

  • starr

    I'd luv to know what REAL Woman would take him seriously afta hearing this though.

  • Anna

    I guess it sucks to be her right about now. Well I guess both will be household names. I never heard of the guy. I think he should have just did it, it was way to late in the game to call it off, isn't that what divorce is for. LOL. J/k.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I ain't saying she's a gold digger. She ain't messing with no broke n*&^%.

  • miamore73

    I wonder did she do something?? Maybe it was like Mia in The Best Man. I can't see throwing away $2million on a wedding and then not going through with it.

  • iscream

    smh at your commentary (but at least it takes away from the MJ, obama post).

    Why did you fail to mention the fact that he got traded to another team. Probably with a bigger contract and probably figured that he didn't want to take a chance and part with 1/2.

    Can't see why you are putting any of the blame on her because of the complexion of her skin.

    He obviously loved her enough to propose.

    "Any chick who would allow her man to spend $2 million on a damn wedding (as opposed to investing it) isn’t worth marrying!"

    You say that but you big up Deshawn Snow like she is the
    all-migh-T. Did you see the BS she was doing on RHWOA. Hiring all that staff for that house when she didn't have a job.

  • pointhimout

    LOLOLOLOL. s*** happens, right? sucks for her. a cheerleader? stop it I say. he got clowned so hard for that bs, he had to call it off. how did the cheerleader get to you? will she lose her ho card for this?

  • aqtpie

    Wow!!!!! If I were her, that reception nor honey moon would have gone wasted

  • lovezoe

    How is a woman a golddigger? The man is the one who is giving up the trinkets. She wasn't that much of a ho for him to want to marry her. Regardless of what people may think of her, she did not deserve to be treated that way. He handled it immaturely and he should not be considered cool because he dipped out the he did.

  • Daisy

    I wonderd if you would post this story and what commentary you would add to it..lol

    So glad Steve Harvey admitted that MEN created that BS word golddigger NEXT :coffee:

  • Kymystry

    :yawn:

  • Prissydiva71

    Iscream, Lovezoe and Starr, I totally agree. Sandra, you con't to remain messy. How in the heck do YOU know she's a gold digger? Oh, I get it: She's light skinned, with long hair and pretty! Yep, gold digger! SMH!!!!!!!!!! You really need to stop the madness, Sandra. Do YOU know her personally?

  • lovezoe

    MOST people have weddings based on the money they have in the bank. A 2 million dollar wedding also is not planned in a day. I am sure they had other investments as well. What you are failing to report is that as of 2005, he was married to another woman. It seems to me as HE is the one who has issues, and should have been more careful before jumping into another relationship.

  • Daisy

    @love now that is some tea for real as Gary on rickey smiley would say..lol I didnt know he was married before.

  • masonmom

    would it make a difference if she had SHORT hair? thats exactly why im rockin the halle berry cuz everyone lumps light skin ladies in the typical category of having long hair. are there any dark skin gold diggers?

  • starr

    @mia

    I wonder the same. Golddiggers come in all races, shapes n sizes.

  • ELove

    I GUESS the real golddigger question should be...
    Are ONLY STR8-Women considered Golddiggers ???

  • jazi65

    Hope he didn't make any sex tapes..Hell has no fury like a woman scorned.

  • Daisy

    I wonder how many cheerleaders marry ballers

  • Dhoward1913

    This is some crazy shyt! His ass gets no props for calling it off $2 million dollars in. He should have thought about this before he asked her ass to marry him. If she was a golddigger, I am sure that she showed her golddigging claws before the day of the wedding.

    The same thing happened with Stephen Jackson(I forgot who he plays for, but he was in that ruckus with Ron Artest a few years back) a few years ago, he kept trying to get a chick he was marrying to sign a prenup and she refused, even the day of the wedding she refused. She already had a baby for a dude that played for Atlanta, so she probably was only into dudes with chips. Why the hell did you continue on with the planning if she wasn't signing the required documents. Dumb ass fools!!!

  • Anna

    ELove Says:

    I GUESS the real golddigger question should be…
    Are ONLY STR8-Women considered Golddiggers ???
    ~~~~~~~~
    Great point. Being men coined the term "gold digger" can a gay man be a "gold digger" with his gay lover(s)? Or is it called a "Trick Digger, Gay Digger? Women are also coined to be "Man Eaters". I will call a gold digging man a "MAN EATER". Some times I crack myself up. ROTFL. It's a good thing my chair has arm rests on it. I really would have fell out my seat.

  • Anna

    I will call a gold digging man a “MAN EATER”.
    ~~~~~~~
    gold digging "gay" man a Man Eater.*

  • starr

    And this so does not help the gay rumours

  • starr

    If this chick was golddigger....she would of been knocked up already...thats just what i think. To guarantee her income....idk the golddigging ways...so i'm just guessing

  • http://myspace.com/erikamagaly Hermosa

    well, according to sandra, all LSLH women are golddigging hoes with mean girl personality.

    im still confused on this whole LSLH thing. is this term used for everyone bc I thought it was just a term used to describe black folks. im curious to know.

    and why does this chicks skin color/hair color/occupation matter? I remember there was a post of Dwayne Howards baby momma and she was a cheerleader. So I guess that makes her a golddigger that has completed her mission...shes his baby momma...SET FOR LIFE. But shes not considered a golddigging mean hoe bc shes not LSLH.

    smh...

  • KaraZ

    He might not have gone about it the right way, but if you feel the need to call of a wedding, you might as well do it, because a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. After she gets over the humiliation, she will be happy he saved her the headache of being married.

  • ELove

    @starr
    ANY Multi-MILLIONAIRE Athlete ESPECIALLY a very-highly paid and regarded NBA player WHO HAPPENS to be a black man LIKE Richard Jefferson WHO ...

    Isn't Married OR have A Baby-Mama -- Singular !!!
    Have a steady GF OR several GF(s) or Side-pieces
    At Least several VERIFIABLE groupie tales (Maybe TWO...)

    Whether it's RIGHT or WRONG...
    GETS put on the Suspect-List AND possibly the DL List

    RJ will make $14.2 Million this year AND $15M next year
    Him, Kenyon Martin and J-Kidd went to the NBA Finals TWICE back with New Jersey (Lost to The Lakers and Spurs)

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    He leaves her at the alter and she's the bad guy? I don't get it. Oh my bad, she's light skinned with long hair (possibly weave) and therefore she deserved that humiliation. What the heck was I thinking?

  • http://atlNORTHonline.com dj_dceezy

    or how about dude mighta found out some foul shit at the 11th hour??? maybe its just that?

  • http://myspace.com/docjam1 Doc Jam

    bravo!!! way to go!!!!! tell these gold miners that it's a new day..they have to step they pushy all the way up to get the ring..

  • buttercup24

    The hatred for lightskinned people is off the chain. Someone must've had a hard time growing up, so now they're projecting it on their site. Anyways she's better off without him, if all he could muster up was an email letting her know it's over, he's not ish.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @ Butter, I don't view it as hatred toward like skinned people. I think black folks are tired of the Willy Lynch syndrome being perpetuated by our rich black men and the entertainment industry as a whole. Take a survey and see how many of our "successful" black men have either light skined or white wives, concubines or jumpoffs. Let me know how your survey turns out.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

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  • Daisy

    I thought Dick Gregory confirmed that the Willie Lynch letter wasn't real?

  • keely107

    I couldnt agree more Sandra, 2 million on a wedding? Something is seriously wrong with that picture! I dont care who it is.

  • intensemocha

    SO IT'S OLE GIRLS FAULT THAT SHE WAS LEFT AT THE ALTER?

    AND IT TOOK OLE BOY ALL THIS TIME TO FIGURE OUT SHE WAS A GOLD DIGGER?

    WHAT THIS NEGROID DID WAS PLAIN TACKY AND SELFISH-IF HE WANTED TO CALL IT OFF THAT'S FINE BUT TO LET GUEST AND EVEN YOUR OWN FAMILY ARRIVE AND NEVER SHOW UP IS TRIFLING

    I TELL YOU "US" WOMEN WILL FIND AN EXCUSE OR EXPLANATION THAT WILL ALWAYS END WITH THE MAN BEING FAULTLESS FOR HIS ACTIONS

  • intensemocha

    AND NICCAS STOP TRYING TO SOOTHE THE REJECTION OF YOUR PAST WHEN YOU WERE BROKE AND WITH NO MONEY AND THE HONEYS DIDN'T PAY YOUR ARSE NO ATTENTION-BUY SEEKING AND PAYING FOR A CHIC WHO WOULDN'T GIVE YOU A SECOND GLANCE IF YOU WEREN'T RICH/FAMOUS

    GOLD DIGGING WOULD COME TO A SCREECHING HALT IF NICCAS STOPPED FEEDING THEIR EGO BY THINKING THEY CAN BUY EVERYTHING-YEP YOU CAN GET A VIDEO/MODEL CHIC THAT'S BEAUTIFUL AND BODY IS BANGING

    BUT YOU CAN'T BUY LOVE AND LOYALTY

  • http://www.myspace.com/foxybrown411 LADYWOODS

    Sandra,
    i have to disagree with you on this one. Unless you know that girl how can you say such hateful things like she is a golddigger etc. She may be a good christian woman but since she is light skinned with long hair you automatically assume. that's not right. I have had to deal with issues concerning brothas choosing my light skin best friend over me and all the other girls in my click (and mind you were are all some bad B_t_c_hes 2. But i dont hate all light skin people cause everybody is not the same.

  • http://XSCAPESIGHTINGS.COM crystal

    She planned the wedding that came to the 2 million dollar bill, he paid for it! he proberly got hip and said "wait aint the father of the bride was suppose to pay for this here wedding? then he wrote her a dear John letter via e-mail. He is a punk for that and she is suspect for over spending early in the game. Sighn the papers then go to the bank with no prenupt.

  • intensemocha

    JUST READ ON ANOTHER SITE-THAT HE'S GIVING HER A LUMP SUM OF MONEY SO SHE CANS START HER LIFE OVER AND THAT HE E-MAILED HER TO CALL IT OFF-AND HIS FAMILY DIDN'T SHOW CAUSE HE TOLD THEM IN ADVANCE

    DUDE SAID THERE WAS TENSION IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND HE COULDN'T GO THROUGH WITH IT-SO HE FLEW TO LONDON WITH HIS BOYS SO HE WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO CHANGE HIS MIND

    I STAND CORRECTED-SHE KNEW ALSO BEFORE HAND

  • http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

    This is just WRONG on so many levels.
    For Mr Jefferson to leave chick the way he did, I really think he caught wind of SOMETHING! Whatever it was, it wasn't that serious where you couldn't talk to your fiance in person. After discussing whatever the issue is, if he felt he couldn't continue with the wedding, he should've said so. You don't send a freaking email. How insensitive is that! And then you have the nerve not to call and/or email ALL your guests and let them know the wedding is off. Only a punk will hop on a plane and fly to London to avoid confrontation. :smh:

  • Daisy

    Plenty of millionaires spend way more than 2million on a wedding that is chump change to somebody in the NBA/NFL hell on plat. weddings ppl spend a million sometimes.

    Tension could be because she was planning a weddng if I had to guess but I dont know since I have never planned a wedding..lol

    I agree in the end he could have handled the situation better if he didnt want to marry her anymore thats fine he just should have handled his business in a different way.

    In the end she will look back and be happy that she didnt marry him.

  • maema

    regardless of how much the wedding costs, you don't go through with it if you have serious doubts. if you are married, you know what i am talking about. this is supposed to be commitment for LIFE. if you are not feeling it 2 months, 2 weeks, 2 HOURS beforehand, don't do it.

    yes it is embarassing and yes it is messy, but it is the best thing in the long run. The only thing I fault him for is the email (if it is true).

    he gave her a six figure lump sum to help her move on. what more should the man do?

    p.s. she is half white, half black.

  • KaraZ

    Hey at least she got something to start over, some people get stuck with half the bill.

  • mizzdallas

    OMG! I cant believe Im co-signing with Intensemocha comment #42 but you spit that e-truth

  • Daisy

    @mae I dont think anybody feels he should have gotten married cause he spent 2million on the wedding. He should have been a MAN showed up and handled his business in person he owed her and his family and hers MORE than that plain and simple!

  • Anna

    KaraZ Says:

    Hey at least she got something to start over, some people get stuck with half the bill.

    ~~~~~~~~
    I think it's a new celeb "fad". Simon Cowell broke up with Terry S after dating for 6 yrs. He told her from the beginning that he did not want to get married. After they broke up he left her with a home and cash. She makes her own money, of course it's not "Simon" money. Simon will get $144 mill to do next years AI.

  • pointhimout

    can gay guys be gold diggers? well of course. guys in general can be. why the double standard? who cares. 2 guys together is disgusting, but 2 women together is beautiful.

    i think what makes the person a digger is when they have the audacity to ONLY wanna mess with people who have more than what they (digger) bring to the table or offer, i.e. you're a money making atty and i'm a shoe salesman. another salesman gets the gas face, but the atty can get it all day long. needless to say diggers are truly about the come up and are known opportunist.

  • miamore73

    @attorneymom I don’t view it as hatred toward like skinned people. I think black folks are tired of the Willy Lynch syndrome being perpetuated by our rich black men and the entertainment industry as a whole. Take a survey and see how many of our “successful” black men have either light skined or white wives, concubines or jumpoffs. Let me know how your survey turns out.

    -------------------

    I see your point and I agree. HOWEVER, I do feel the hatred of LSLH's. Why direct that at the women it's not they're fault that our men are ignorant. What we need to do is teach our sons that black is beautiful. That they don't necessarily need a white women or a LSLH on their arm to complete their suceess. Really it's a self esteem issue.

  • miamore73

    In my bag here, I HAVE A FULL PROOF METHOD FOR CONTROLLING YOUR BLACK SLAVES. I guarantee every one of you that if installed correctly IT WILL CONTROL THE SLAVES FOR AT LEAST 300 HUNDREDS YEARS.

    --------------------------------------

    I wonder did they get they're money back??