Mashonda Publicly Embarrasses Herself (Again)

This Mashonda chick just can’t seem to get over losing her cheating dog husband Swizz Beatz to Alicia Keys.

Mashonda, who is going through a divorce from Beatz, wrote this long letter on Twitter.com (using Twitlonger.com) in response to some random tweet that Alicia Keys wrote last week that Mashonda felt was disrespectful.

She promises to keep posting that letter on Twitter until AK responds. But writing a book on twitter isn’t going to bring Tucan Sam back to her or make Alicia Keys respect her.

Her seeming desperation only gives the home wrecker that much more power over her. No doubt, Alicia Keys is somewhere laughing at Mashonda, who portrays herself to be a strong woman yet she comes off as weak, manipulative, bitter, clingy nag — the exact reasons why her man probably left her in the first place.

Still, Mashonda didn’t need a 10,000 character letter to say:

“I made a poor decision in marrying the wrong man. But thank God he is someone else’s problem now. Thank you Alicia Keys for opening my eyes. I once was blind, but now I see!

If you haven’t read Mashonda’s letter yet, read it after the break.

On Saturday 26th September 2009, @MashondaLoyal wrote:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.

Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

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453 Responses to “Mashonda Publicly Embarrasses Herself (Again)”

  1. 1
    kwall says:

    for once i agree with auntie. it is not often.

    the wife needs to just give it a rest. yes he left you for another woman. get over it. and stop branging up old shat cause he BEEN gone. keys and swiss been together for a minute now. so what you did not think your marriage was broken…comes to find out it WAS…even if you were the last to know.

    shat be’s like that sometimes sis. take the high road and keep all these emotions to yourself and stop playing yourself on such a public stage. go buy a ticket to the islands and get over it already.

  2. 2
    LadyJustice says:

    i feel that her letter was on point. shes just trying to reach out to alicia. hopefully alicia wont have to go through the same thing mashonda went through… karma

  3. 3
    starr says:

    This wasn’t the opinion i expected from u sandra….but i gotta say….iagree with u

    And she can post that tweet forever…..alicia doesn’t need to talk to her…she doesn’t owe her ****….if she and swiss have worked out their situation…then that should be the end of it.

  4. 4
    Divinebrown says:

    I’m embarrassed for her….it’s getting to the point where she has no pride. This is a sad situation. Why is she on alicia’s twitter page anyway?

    Seems a bit stalker-ish if you ask me.

  5. 5
    Nina says:

    This whole episode is dreadful and happens way too often. I will not judge what Mashonda did with this letter because she is obviously hurt and I know how that feels. Karma is real.

  6. 6

    I’m on the fence with this I know I’ve called up a chick before so I can not blame her, people heal there own way. And if she has to call Alicia 15 bishes everyday until she’s over it I don’t blame her. And why is she looking dumb I believe the ill party is Swiss who is the poster child for ” a can of woop azz”. Just my two cent~~I wont name call a woman who is hurt and wants her family because that once was me but time does heal all womb ~~and nobody can not make me believe Swiss is not double dipping between his wife and Alicia that’s why it’s hard for her to let go~~~

  7. 7
    flyqtnva says:

    KWALL, DIVINEBROWN & STARR

    ? are any of you married? just shacking up huh? any children? had them out of wedlock? NO PRIDE? r u people for real?

  8. 8
    kwall says:

    me, starr, and divine are >>>>>>>HERE<<<<<<<<

  9. 9
    Daisy says:

    @fly you need to really quit ASSuming things about people. If you agree with Mashonda then you agree with Mashonda but name calling really isnt that serious and like I said earlier MARRIED ppl have called Mashonda out as well so not all married women co sign her letter. Just because one doesnt co sign the letter doesnt mean they have no morals or values either or that they have been the other woman.

    Sandra I agree with you 1000% on this issue. Well done :clap: I need to save this date lol

  10. 10
    intensemocha says:

    EVEN IF AK IS GUILTY OF EVERYTHING SHE ACCUSED HER OF-IT STILL DOESN’T CHANGE A THING

    WHAT IS SOMEONE SUPPOSE TO DO BEAT SWIFT BEATZ ARSE AND MAKE HIM GO BACK HOME

    AND/OR TAKE TO THE STREETS AND PROTEST AT AK’S HOUSE OR CONCERTS

    MY DEAR IT’S UNFORTUNATE BUT THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THIS SHIAT HAPPENS EVERYDAY-IT DOESN’T MAKE IT RIGHT BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY THE WORLD DON’T OWE YOU SHIAT AND THIS IS PROOF OF THAT

    LIKE SANDRA SAID YOU CHOSE THIS MAN AND THANK GOD THAT YOU KNOW SEE IT WAS A POOR CHOICE AND NOW YOU CAN MOVE ON AND LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND MAKE WISER ONES

    A PUBLIC LYNCHING OF AK IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE THE FACT THAT “YOUR HUSBAND” NO LONGER WANTS TO BE THERE AND HAS MOVED ON

    AND NOBODY CAN BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN SWIFT AND HIS SON-AK CAN’T STOP HIM FROM SEEING THE CHILD

    WHAT’S APPARENT TO ME IS THAT YOU PROBABLY WANT TO CONTROL THE VISITS AND WANT THEM UNDER YOUR SUPERVISION-HIS VISITS SHOULD BE WITH HIS CHILD AND NOT “YOU” AS HARSH AS IT SOUNDS IT IS WHAT IT IS “FAMILY TIME” IS IF AND WHEN HE CHOOSES TO SPEND IT WITH THE BOTH OF YOU BUT ALL HE IS REQUIRED TO DO IS BE A FATHER TO HIS CHILD

    IT’S FUNNY HOW YOU SAY THAT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND ARE IN A GOOD PLACE AND GET ALONG FINE-BUT YOU STILL HAVE BEEF WITH AK-LOL TRUTH BE TOLD LIKE ALWAYS A WIFE WILL ALWAYS FORGIVE HER HUSBAND INSTANTLY IF SHE BELIEVES HE’LL COME HOME BUT YOU HOLD A GRUDGE WITH AK AND BLAME HER FOR WHAT YOUR HUSBAND CHOOSES NOT TO DO -LIKE SPEND TIME WITH HIS CHILD

    TRUTH BE TOLD-HE’S NOT COMING CAUSE HE DOESNT’ WANT TO BE AROUND YOU AND EVERY DAY YOU CARRY ON LIKE THIS IT’S JUST A REMINDER OF WHY HE LEFT YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE

    IF YOU WANTED HIM BACK (NOT WISE) YOU SHOULD HAVE PLAYED YOUR POSITION KEPT QUIET, AND TOOK CARE OF HOME AND THE BABY
    AND AK MIGHT HAVE JUST BEEN A PHASE AND HE WOULD COME HOME WHEN HE GREW TIRED

    LOL-JUST ANOTHER TESTAMENT OF A DUMB AZZ WIFE BLAMING EVERYBODY ELSE BUT HERSELF AND THE MAN SHE MARRIED

    IF IT WASN’T AK IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ANOTHER OPPORTUNIST

  11. 11
    Peachizz says:

    TO be quite honest with you, I dont think she embarassed herself with this one this is an open letter to a family crasher…some of the good pointers in the letter i like:
    “choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone”…
    “If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.”

  12. 12
    mizzdallas says:

    Somepeople are just sooo damn insenstive, maybe this is her way to handle her emotions, to move forward, everybody handle their emotions differently and if you read the letter, she said that “someone read AK twitts and call her about it” thats why she wrote the twitterlong…….

    I do feel for her, and I do hope she truly moves on, because if Swizz didnt respect their marriage then he most def dont respect her.

    But AHoe and Swizz Chesse they will get theirs, Karma is a bish

  13. 13
    kwall says:

    i am married.

    if i had a problem with some woman i would take it to my husband. and make HIM handle it. behind closed doors. not posting about it on myspace, twitter, fb…

    then if he doesn’t THAT is when you address the new woman in his life.

    and never in public. hail i used to work at the paper and got discounted ad rates. that is like me taking out a newspaper ad and using that as a forum to air my gripes.

    you just don’t do that.

  14. 14

    And Mashonda needs to get on some Trif shyt and get her a boyfriend and have him over at that big azz crib he paying for~~I would be so dirty Swiss would hate me I swear. I would have my new man walking around in his clothes he has left over there~~and when he comes over I will tell him “my new man said you can only come by when he’s home okay~~Cuz I got to build my relationship with him so your not welcome.~~he would hate me~~Men always want to keep control over your puss and still do them I would make him sick as a dog and I bet his twits would turn to I hate my baby momma..

  15. 15
    flyqtnva says:

    As a married woman she has every RIGHT!

    WHAT STANDS OUT @ ME THE MOST THAT EVERYONE ELSE IS OBVIOUSLY IGNORING:

    “You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues.”

    And thats when alicia should hae backed off…they could have went to marriage couseling, while there if they both came to conclusion that the marriage COULD NOT BE SAED..then by all means go on ahead and divorce…BUT AK couldnt step off…

    when you marry someone you are supposed to fight…I will damn dure fight for whats mine! ALL THIS GET OVER IT NONSENSE…yeah if you playing house get over it…if you boyfirend and girlfriend..get over it…not a husband and a wife..what has happened to morals..the union of marriage..AK wrong whether some of u like to admit it or not…she would have been STONED RIGHT ALONG WITH SWIZZY

  16. 16
    crystal says:

    well the same Alicia Keys got Swizz is the same way she is going to loose him!

  17. 17
    kwall says:

    and see even daisy who is an akeys stan can see this was on point.

    thanks @daisy about the assuming. thanks.

  18. 18
    aqtpie says:

    I wish she would just leave vow breaker and vow breaking enabler alone to let karma do it’s thing. I cosign with your post Sandra!!! This is sad!!!

  19. 19
    mizzdallas says:

    @nichelle

    exactly, everybody handle their hurt and emotions differently just like you said “And if she has to call Alicia 15 bishes everyday until she’s over it I don’t blame her”……

  20. 20
    Divinebrown says:

    @fly…I am none of those things you assummed about us. However, clearly he has moved on and she has no choice to do so. Publicly attacking someone over a failed relationship is practically throwing a temper tantrum.

    It’s one thing to fight for a marriage that can be saved. It’s another to chase and drag behind a man that left you and parades around the world with someone else. And looking quite happy doing it.

    Have some pride and move on quietly.

  21. 21
    shannon04 says:

    I agree LadyJ. It just appears that Mashonda is trying to reach out to Ak and say “let’s be a little more respectful about the situation”.
    She may still be mad that he left but at least she’s making an effort to be a woman and accept that he is with her. Mashonda wants to be comfortable with Ak, in terms of her son, and I can understand that. I wish her the best and I hope she can move on and find peace in her life for her and her son and find a good guy.

  22. 22
    intensemocha says:

    OKAY LET’S ALL START A RIOT AND WHUP SWIFT BEATZ ARSE AND MAKE HIM GO HOME AND BE WITH HER AND THEIR CHILD

    PUHLEEZE-WHAT GOOD IS ANY OF THIS GOING TO DO

    AT THE END OF THE DAY HE STILL AINT HOME…….

  23. 23
    Divinebrown says:

    There it is Daisy!

  24. 24
    Peachizz says:

    In the beinging I was like Mashonda just go away but fromwaht she said she is “comfortable about her self to move on”…. although this divorce is in the public front, she is trying to be the biger person and now is getting the backlash for doing so!!……

  25. 25
    Ilovepink1981 says:

    I feel bad for her-Mashonda. It hurts to find out that you were lied to for an extended period of time, hey she may have not wanted to see what was before her. I think this situation is different because it played out publicly. If she signed a prenup doesnt cheating void that?

  26. 26
    starr says:

    @ fly

    ain’t ready for marriage or a relationship :)

    @divine
    I think she said someone alerted her to ak’s tweets. Either way….sounds stalkerish to me

  27. 27
    mizzdallas says:

    @fly

    Im not married Im a single person, but I see that marriage has become a joke a looooong time ago. Mashonda has every right to fight for her FAMILY, just like you said, smdh some people are quick to file for divorce when they havent even tried!

  28. 28
    flyqtnva says:

    THOSE WERENT ASSUMPTIONS THOSE WERE QUESTIONS..LOOK AGAIN & THANKS

  29. 29

    @kwall Says:

    I swear I would do that shyt~~I got real silly on this one bish went to her hood when I was done with him I post up flyers with her face and and a copy of my x phone bill because the chick was married to__I put her azz on blast and I slept good that night~~I sure did and do not regret it. My BD called me like what if her husband tries to kill me~~I said so what thats the chance you take when you sleep with another man wife good luck..~~I was done with him and sick of her lying to me~so I told her since you want to keep sleeping with him I am telling your husband~bish thought I was kidding until she woke up that morning and I had her block posted up with that bill and hubby called me up and I told him everything I could have~~don’t do me~~because I feel like if you can dish it take it…. and I bet she won’t sleep with another taken man after I got done with them~~~and I can care less of what people think of me either..

  30. 30
    intensemocha says:

    ALICIA KEYES IS HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND WHY DO SHE AND MASHONDA HAVE TO SIT DOWN AND TALK FOR WHAT

    NOT EVEN SURE IF THIS IS LONG-TERM, IS SHE GOING TO DO THIS WITH EVERY GIRLFRIEND HE HAS

    AND IF IT WERE THE OTHER WOMAN WHO HAD THE CHILD-WOULD THE WIFE BE WILLING TO SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER SO THEY COULD GET ALONG FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILD -HELL NO!

    LET ME TELL YOU WIVES EXPECT NOT TO BE TREATED LIKE HOES BUT IF YOU HAVE A HUSBAND WHO LIES DOWN REGULARLY WITH WOMAN THAT HE HAS NO FEELINGS FOR AND CAN WALK AWAY WITHOUT REGARD OR EMOTION THEN TRUST HE CAN DO THE SAME TO HIS WIFE AND CHILD CAUSE HE’S LEAD BY HIS D$CK AND THAT’S THE ONLY THING HE’S LOYAL TO

  31. 31
    Daisy says:

    I still say this is only ONE side to the story.

    @Mizz if this happend last wk last mth hell even last yr then yes but its been two yrs if not longer she has had plenty of time to call AK every name in the book and then some. Build a bridge and get over it by now. IF he wanted to be with Mashonda he would be he has had plenty of time to go back home. IMO she does not want to talk to AK she wants to embarrass her plain and simple and I would have more respect for Mashonda if she kept it 100 and just said as much. She cant think this novel is going to make AK reach out and have a convo with her.

  32. 32
    Daisy says:

    Also did Mashonda sit down and talk to the GROUPIES and the other women Swizz was cheating with during their relationship and marriage HAIL NO lol

  33. 33
    toosexy says:

    @MICHELLEWALKER…REAL RECOGNIZES REAL.I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU

  34. 34
    iscream says:

    Guess once she hears A Keys album is called The Element of Freedom she’ll be writing a book. Which she would be better off doing since she can actually get a check for airing her dirty laundry.

    I said it before. If there is no beef with Swizz the common denominator then these ladies should have no beef.

    And

    If/once Mashonda finds her a new man she’ll stop all this twitter beef. This is a classic case of misery loves company.

    She is no different from Deb, Irv’s wife. She just needs that wake up call.

  35. 35
    intensemocha says:

    @DAISY

    THANK YOU TOO MANY STORIES I’VE HEARD ABOUT HIS MANHOOD FROM SEVERAL GROUPIES

    WHY IS IT YOU HAVE BEEF WITH AK, YOU SHOULD HAVE ADDRESS THEM ALL

    AS LONG AS IT WAS SEX ONLY AND NOT A RELATIONSHIP YOU WASN’T TRIPPIN

    YOU KNEW WHAT YOU HAD DON’T ACT ALL SURPRISE NOW

  36. 36
    flyqtnva says:

    @mizzdallas

    it really hurts that people just dont care anymore..pretty soon nothing will be sacred…i feel for Mashonda and I dont know her, but I know I’m married with two little ones, I love my husband and my children, and if I ever found out he cheated and I asked the woman to back of & allow me time to try to fix it and the bish still saying no..i would go ballistic..i guess people just get married to say I’s MARRIED NOW…and dont care about the vows they saying to GOD…..i pray that NO ONE that has spoken out in defense of AK ever ever ever ever finds themself in this situation.

  37. 37
    shannon04 says:

    @ Nechelle….OMG..I am at my desk cracking up…you so crazy :-)

  38. 38
    flyqtnva says:

    @Daisy
    come on daisy..u always say you go to church..ask you preacher what they did to adulters…THEY CALLED THEM OUT & EMBRASSED THEM & STONED THEM & SOME WORE THE SCARLET LETTER

  39. 39
    shannon04 says:

    I can agree with that also misery does love company. As soon as she gets herself together and finds someone else it’ll be all good but she just has to get to that point of letting it go and moving on.

  40. 40
    intensemocha says:

    NOBODY HAS SPOKEN IN AK’S DEFENSE IF ANYTHING PEOPLE ARE SAYING IT IS WHAT IT IS

    HE’S WITH HER AND THERE’S REALLY NOT MUCH THAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT IT

    SO MOVE ON……

    WHAT THE HELL ARE WE SUPPOSE TO DO-WHUP HIS ARSE AND MAKE HIM GO HOME?

  41. 41
    starr says:

    @nichelle

    LOL

  42. 42
    Daisy says:

    @Intense get out my head and let me save this damn date for real cause I have to co sign and ^5

    @Fly I pray I am never in this situation but I have always felt like that IF YOU DONT WANT ME THEN DONT TALK TO ME GO HEAD AND FREE YOURSELF. I have way more pride n dignity to go out like that. Why the hell would I want a cheating no good husband I love myself way to much for that. Sorry. I am all for marriage and I am old school and will take my vows very serious but a repeat offender cheater is a NO GO! She needs to be glad he is AKs problem and get her alimony child support and keep it moving. She can have a come to Jesus meeting, cry, pray find a thearpist but her marriage is over as sad as that may be.

    Again stop ASSuming

  43. 43
    intensemocha says:

    AND LET ME GUESS IF AK WASN’T IN THE PICTURE THEY WOULD STILL BE TOGETHER RIGHT NOW

    YADA YADA-WAKE UP AND STOP LIVING IN A FAIRY TALE

    THE REASON SWIFT IS GONE IS BECAUSE HE WANTED OUT OF THE MARRIAGE-AK OR NOT

    IF IT WERE MY HUSBAND OR YOUR HUSBAND WE’D HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO MOVE ON AS WELL

  44. 44
    Daisy says:

    @fly Although I attend church I have a personal relationship with my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ and I am well aware of what the bible says about adultry thanks for checking though :coffee:

    @shannon I agree if she had a new man she would so not care she knew his black azz been cheating lol he always came back home but not this time

  45. 45
    Divinebrown says:

    The only perspective we see right now is Mashonda’s. From the outside looking in, it seems like Alica is a homewrecker. However, we don’t know what was really going on behind the scenes. I’ve seen this situation too many times. No one knows what Swiss was telling Alicia about his marriage. 9 times out of 10 he was telling her that he was so miserable, he needed out, and that he had every intention of divorcing her. Yadda Yadda Yadda.

    Whatever the case…Alicia went for it. Hook, line and sinker. I personally cannot date a married man because of my own standards and expectations. I’ve seen this situation play out so many times. Bottom line is people are going to do what they want regardless of what anyone else has to say. Is he trife? Hail yea….is Mashonda shameless? Hail yea…

    He still doing it and going continue to do so.

  46. 46
    Charles says:

    lmfao

    Wow

    Just go to his house and shoot her ****tttt

    Oops didn’t mean to advocatemurder, maybe do a brenda richie and woop her ass and his too

  47. 47
    Peachizz says:

    Damn Nichelle…. I’ve done some things like changing his voicemail and calling different woman back… every reconnectig his phone after he disconnected it… but never blasting like that.. LOL

  48. 48
    intensemocha says:

    AND THEN WHAT GO TO JAIL AND HAVE AK AND HIM RAISING THE BABY AND NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT AND POCKETING THE MONEY

    YEAH THAT SOUNDS VERY SMART…

  49. 49
    kwall says:

    i used to have that kinda agenda @ nichelle cause that mess you said was funny. but then…i don’t know what happened. i think after one relationship in particular that i had an epiphany. that epiphany was….

    short of pulling a kathy bates “misery” type move and disabling a man by hobbling his azz, amputating a limb, or other last ditch desperate acts…you can’t make him stay. you can’t make him want you. you can’t make him live up to any vows spoken or implied.

  50. 50
    flyqtnva says:

    THE FACT STILL REMAINS …HATE IT OR LOVE IT…AK THEY SUPERWOMAN HAS NO MORAL COMPASS…SHE WAS SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN..THE WIFE FOUND OUT AFTER THEY LIED ABOUT IT & ASKED THE HOMEWRECKER TO BACK DOWN & ALLOW HER TIME TO REPAIR HER MARRIAGE…SAID HOMEWRECKER DECIDED NOT TO…NOW SHE PUT ON BLAST..MAYBE IF MORE WIVES DID THIS…HOMEWRECKERS WOULD STOP!

    AGAIN I LIKE AK MUSIC…USED TO ANYWAY..BUT I CANT AND WILL NOT CONDONE HOMEWRECKING..I DONT CARE IF i AM IN THE MINRIOTY!

  51. 51
    toosexy says:

    @dIVINE WHY IS MASHONDA SHAMELESS? I don’t know…I just think once you have walked in a situation then you are able to have a more valid opinion because you still can’t judge people…. It seems to me mashonda is hurting and I feel like if she wasn’t in the public eye it would be no different than the girl round the corner…

  52. 52
    starr says:

    agree if she had a new man she would so not care she knew his black azz been cheating lol he always came back home but not this time

    ****************

    Some woman turn their eyes to their s/o or husband’s cheating ways because…”he’s coming back home”….smh

    I pray I am never in this situation but I have always felt like that IF YOU DONT WANT ME THEN DONT TALK TO ME GO HEAD AND FREE YOURSELF. I have way more pride n dignity to go out like that. Why the hell would I want a cheating no good husband I love myself way to much for that. Sorry. I am all for marriage and I am old school and will take my vows very serious but a repeat offender cheater is a NO GO! She needs to be glad he is AKs problem and get her alimony child support and keep it moving. She can have a come to Jesus meeting, cry, pray find a thearpist but her marriage is over as sad as that may be.

    *************

    I never understood woman running afta a man who doens’t want them. I think way too much of myself to be mothered with that.

  53. 53
    whyohwhy says:

    Her letter is in an attempt to be able to interact with AK not bash her. No matter what happen between them there is still a child that needs his father and if Mashonda is willing to let him be with his dad knowing AK is going to be there than they should get along and that’s what she is simply trying to do. If AK did than Karma is going to come around no matter what…

  54. 54
    intensemocha says:

    OK AK IS A HOE

    AND NOW WHAT?

    YEAH RIGHT WOMEN ARE GOING TO STOP SLEEPING WITH MARRIED MEN BECAUSE YOU TALK ABOUT THEM PUBLICLY

    USE YOUR EFFORTS TO CHOOSE A BETTER HUSBAND

    IF YOU DON’T MARRY A WHORISH MAN THEN YOU DON’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH WHORES

  55. 55
    LadyJustice says:

    i agree with Divinebrown. he was probably telling her he was having marriage problems, getting divorced soon, blah blah blah. and alicia fell for it. either way SHE KNEW he was still married.

  56. 56
    flyqtnva says:

    I guess thats y they say marriage isnt for everybody. Its not something you walk in and out of like a damn bank! COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING….if the marriage was INDEED IN TROUBLE….WHY NOT WAIT UNTIL HE IS DIVORCED

  57. 57
    kwall says:

    i guess people just get married to say I’s MARRIED NOW…and dont care about the vows they saying to GOD…..
    ———————————————
    people get married for different reasons. they always have.

    back in the 40’s (and during times of war since) they got married before they went off to war. in the 50’s they got married b/c ole girl got knocked up and it was the socially acceptable “right thing to do”.

    in some cultures marriages are arranged.

    some are staying married now (and it happened in the 80’s too) b/c in a bad economy what better roommate to have than somebody you are married to?

    who are we to say any of those scenarios are wrong?

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    intensemocha says:

    YEP AK KNEW HE WAS MARRIED

    AND GUESS WHAT SO DID SWIFT BEATZ DUH

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    intensemocha says:

    YALL HEFFAS ARE TRIPPIN THINKING YOU CAN FORCE SOMEONE TO RESPECT YOU

    WHEN THE TRUTH IS YOU CAN’T-YOU CAN BEAT EM, TALK ABOUT EM, HARRASS EM

    BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY NOBODY OWES YOU SHIAT

    IS IT RIGHT, WRONG, BAD, OR GOOD-WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE IF A WOMAN SLEEPS WITH YOUR HUSBAND KNOWINGLY WHAT MAKES YOU THINK SHE IS GOING TO BE WOMAN ENOUGH TO HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH YOU AND FOR WHAT??? JUST CAUSE YOU WANT HER TO SO YOU CAN GET YOUR SHIAT OFF?

    AK IS JUST THE GILRFRIEND SHE DOESN’T NEED TO SPEAK TO HER ABOUT THAT CHILD UNLESS AK IS WATCHING HIM AND I DOUBT THAT-SHE’S TOO BUSY BEING SINGLE AND CHILDLESS AND TOURING THE WORLD AND FUGGIN SWIFT BEATZ TO BE CONCERNED WITH MASHONDA’S EVERYDAY AFFAIRS-RIGHT OR WRONG IT IS WHAT IT IS

    YOU CAN’T MAKE A BIATCH RESPECT YOU OR YOUR MARRIAGE,THAT’S UP TO THE TWO PEOPLE IN IT TO DO THAT AND IF THAT WAS THE CASE THIS WOULDN’T HAVE EVER HAPPENED

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    Divinebrown says:

    @Too sexy…WTF? You’re saying that because I”m not currently in a marriage with a man that is cheating on my and parading a woman around the globe that I can’t speak on it.

    You have no idea what I”ve been through or my current situation. Therefore…again, let us not assumming what the next person has been through.

    Tell you what…I’ve been with good men and I’ve been with foul. What Mashonda and I do have in common is that!!! I’m not judging her. I just think it makes her look foolish. HE MOVED ON!!!!!!!! AFTER THE FIRST TIME SHE CONTACTED ALICIA..WHY DID SHE KEEP TRYING? CLEARLY IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN. SHE DOESNT CARE! Wasted effort chasing after a man that doesnt want you…

    say what you want

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    @kwall Says:

    lol and the tripped out thing was I didn’t want him I just wanted him to leave and be with her I was done~~however this trick was married and he couldn’t be with her so he called himself forcing me to be with him.

    I told this bish listen I’m not fighting you for Ike Turner come help him move his bags and you two live happy ever after I’m done. The bish say he can’t come stay here and you can’t tell me who I can fluck. I say oh yeah I’m telling your husband… I said if you so thirsty for them 5 minutes of dyck he giving out I’ma do me and your husband a favor so you can have him, She got all smart at the mouth talking about you don’t know my business~~she didn’t know my gangster was serious. I told her where she went for middle school I said “ho I know your whole life and you’ll see in the morning I mean business~~and In the morning she saw I mean what I say..

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kwall
    YOU ARE CORRECT…and whats the % of those who stayed married 50-60-70 years?? You cant deny NOW we have a 50/50 chance of sucess rate…some black women will never SEE IT AT ALL….yet people still smacking out all these damn babies…lets all just have a little more respect for OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER!!
    OOPS i forgot this america…we dont respect sh!t but the al mighty dollar…and to hell with everythng else..including marriage!

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    yvonne79 says:

    These comments are hilarious!

    Looking from Mashonda’s point of view, I think she is putting too much time and energy into speaking to AK. The only reason Mashonda and AK have any cause to speak is if Swizz and AK plan on marrying. I for one would want to know how this chick interacts and treats my child. If they’re just phukking, let sleeping dogs lie. Put your time, effort and energy in raising your son.

    As far as the comment that Mashonda asked AK to fall back, for what? Like everyone else said above, that nigga married Mashonda. AK didn’t marry Mashonda, so she doesn’t OWE you a damn thing. Work on a marriage? There isn’t a marriage to work on per se if a negro stepped out! And this is NOT the first time he’s stepped out. GTFOH… I guess it stings a little more because the chick (AK) is mnore talented and has more paper than you do. :shrug: The chick dude is cheating on me with BETTER be an upgrade vs. a downgrade. Give Swizz dap, congratulate him on finding a winner, pack your stuff and keep it movin’. It’s over…let it go!!!!

    Was AK wrong for sleeping with a married man? Yes, she was but what goes around, comes around. There isn’t any need for blasting her on Twitter. What you do in the dark will ALWAYS come to light.

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    kwall says:

    i am in TEARS at nichelle. DAYUM. just dizzayum!

    you made a way for them to be together. they should thank you for paving the way.

    lmfao.

    i needed that.

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    Daisy says:

    I said it before and I will say it again separated people date all the time right or wrong. I believe there are married men and women who run the I am leaving my spouse game and they know that aint nobodys truth and I know men and women who have gone on to get divorced. The divorce is still not final 2yrs later cause a settlement can’t be reached (per another site) so do you think Swizz or any man is going to sit around for 2yrs or longer until the ink is dry on the divorce papers to get a new piece?? Yeah I didnt think so lol

    I have friends in the same situation and they are dating. Neither one of them ever thought they would be in a sitation where they would be legally married but dating. They are legally separated but if your soon to be ex is contesting the divorce that drives the cost up but both of my gfriends want to be divorced yesterday if they had their way. Their soon to be ex’s dont even live in the same state anymore. Are they supposed to sit and keep waiting forever until they can date again. I am talking 4-5 yrs now.

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    flyqtnva says:

    What you do in the dark will ALWAYS come to light
    ___________
    and this time it came to light via twitter :lmao:

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    yvonne79 says:

    The divorce is still not final 2yrs later cause a settlement can’t be reached (per another site) so do you think Swizz or any man is going to sit around for 2yrs or longer until the ink is dry on the divorce papers to get a new piece??
    ———-
    Probably not but actions speak louder than words. If you are serious about leaving a spouse, sign the papers or give that person whatever they want to be RID of their ass!!!! Until then, you will not get my time, my body, my conversation-NOTHING! If you want to be with me, we will wait for the ink to dry. To each it’s own but Separated = married in my eyes. But that’s just me….

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    flyqtnva says:

    i know this will go all day..so for those in which i do not agree…we will agree to disagree.. and a word of advise to all the homewreckers in the house…FIND YOUR OWN MAN!!! YOU’LL NOT ONLY LOOK BETTER, BUT YOU’LL FEEL BETTER 2! LOL SMILEY FACE

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    BLACKBARBIE404 says:

    UNTIL WE ARE PUT IN THE SAME SITUATION THERE’S NO TELLING HOW WE WOULD HANDLE IT. I PRAY FOR ALL OF THEM.

    CALL ME CRAZY OR WHATEVER… BUT I GOES IN FOR MINE. WE ACT CRAZY ABOUT OUR BOYFRIENDS SO I’M DAMN SURE I’D WHOOP-RICO A BISH ABOUT MY HUSBAND. O AND HE’D GET WHOOPED TOO. THEN I’M DONE. IT’S THE GEMINI IN ME! (SCARY MARY LAUGH)

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    ELove says:

    A-Keys IS A Home-Wrecker and She is Trifling for her PART in this Fraud-of-a-Marriage… You CAN’T turn Dirt into Sugar !!!

    But Swiss is THE REAL REASON why any of this is even possible for NOT BEING a stand-up man from the beginning and letting his WIFE Know-n-Understand that He’s Going, Going, GONE and that A-Keys ISN’T the reason why he’s filing for divorce from her …

    Ignoring the obvious is what got His Wife to acting out like this… THIS WOMAN has to rear your child and SWISS should only be concerned with making sure she’s mentally ready to do so BY TELLING HER how he really feels about her and why their marriage isn’t working and why he’s UNWILLING to try and make it work

    If Swiss really and truly CARES ABOUT A-Keys he would do HIS PART to shield her from all this kind of Foolishness and put the FOCUS on him regarding his Soon-to-be Ex-WIFE … Have Mashonda solely confront him REGARDING HIS RELATIONSHIP with A-Keys !!!

    It’s very clear that Swiss is A Black Male (NOT A Black Man)
    IMO

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    aqtpie says:

    I am 1000% with Yvonne79!! If I made as much money as Slick Beak I’d give my soon to be ex whatever he was asking for if it meant him signing our divorce papers, me being able to close that chapter of my “unhappy marriage” and move on where I am happy at. I remember that scene from “What’s love got to do with it” when Tina gave up everything she worked her a$$ off for except her name to get rid of Ike’s a$$ and on with her divorce and peace of mind!!!!!

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    KaraZ says:

    Alicia’s luck all she’s getting is a letter on twitter (but Mashonda, why not Facebook?).

    Mashonda needs to leave this one to the world to handle though. The world is round and whatever Alicia Keys and the meerkat put out will surely come and hit them back. So Mashonda needs to focus on raising her son and getting her child support and alimony checks (on time & in full); whores like Alicia Keys aren’t affected by words or emotions, they just want what they want, all you do is pray for them and pray they get what they deserve too.

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    Smokie says:

    On the cool, I feel bad for Mashonda… BUT. Come on. This is too much. Swizz and Alcia were wrong; I believe that…. and they WILL get theirs… but what Masonda did was sad. She wants to make sure that all of AK’s fans know that she’s a homewrecker. We get it. However, this is just not the thing to do. If Mashonda would just live her life everything would eventually fall into place.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @yvonne79
    aaaahhhh A WOMAN OF true VIRTUE i THOUGHT YOU WERE EXTINCT!

    but just in case u end up with a married man….know that u will have alot of people on SR who got ur back! lol smiley face

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    Peachizz says:

    @intensemocha Says:
    OK AK IS A HOE..
    No she a home wrecking hoe, a family crasher!!!!.. Mashonda asked her to back off and allow them time but she had to have it all husband and all… Mashonda’s not shameless just hurt… imagine if someone just messed up what you tryed so hard t keep together and kept lying about it for a year… what i do know is that Karma she spoke about is coming bak and coming back HARDDDDDD…

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    flyqtnva says:

    Peachizz
    where u been…a sista needed some support up in here! lol

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    Elizabeth says:

    I don;t know Sandra… I don’t agree with your view on this one.. That letter does not spell out anything like bitterness.. I would say that she’s said what she needed to say in a very respectful manner. You don;t know whats going on behind closed doors and why she has resorted to using this channel to express herself… Good luck to her!

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    shunda says:

    I have been in the same situation as Mashonda and there is nothing she can do to make him stay. She needs to get a grip and live for her son. That is what I had to do. I realized no matter what I did he still left and the woman he left with only lasted 2 years and now he is on woman number 6. I don’t have time to talk to every woman about the fact that I had a child with this man. I only talk to a bish when they step wrong to my son. Other than that good luck with the no good bum.

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    intensemocha says:

    WITH ALL THAT SAID AND DONE

    THEIR STILL TOGETHER….GET THE POINT

    I GUESS NOT YOU AND MASHONDA GOT THE SAME PROBLEM-DON’T KNOW WHEN IT’S TIME TO LET GO AND MOVE ON FOR YOUR OWN SANITY

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    Peachizz says:

    I been here…posting… I’m 100% Mashonda check up above…..

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    flyqtnva says:

    one of my fav AK songs right here… and its obvious these words hold true for MASHONDA…WHEN ITS REAL ITS UNCONDITIONAL!!!!!!!

    I’m a woman
    Lord knows it’s hard
    I need a real man
    to give me what I need

    Sweet attention
    Love and tenderness
    When it’s real it’s unconditional
    I’m tellin Y’all

    Cause a man just ain’t a man
    If he ain’t man enough
    To love you when you’re right
    Love you when You’re wrong
    Love you when you’re weak
    Love you when you’re strong
    take you higher
    When the world’s got you feelin low
    He’s givin you his last
    cause he’s thinkin of you first
    Givin comfort when he’s thinkin that you’re hurt
    That’s what done when you really love someone
    I’m tellin y’all

    Cause You’re a real man
    And lord knows it’s hard
    Sometimes you just need
    A woman’s touch

    Sweet affection
    Love and support
    When it’s real it’s unconditonal
    I’m tellin y’all

    Cause a woman ain’t a woman
    If she ain’t woman enough
    To love you when you’re right
    Love you when You’re wrong
    Love you when you’re weak
    Love you when you’re strong
    take you higher
    When the world’s got you feelin low
    She givin you her best
    Even when you’re at your worst
    givin comfort when she’s thinkin that you’re hurt
    That’s what’s done when you really love someone
    I’m tellin y’all

    Sometimes you wanna argue
    Sometimes you wanna fight
    Sometimes it’s gonna feel like it’ll never be right
    But something so strong keeps you holding on
    It’s don’t make sense but it makes a good song

    Cause a man just ain’t a man
    If he ain’t man enough
    To love you when you’re right
    Love you when You’re wrong
    Love you when you’re weak
    Love you when you’re strong
    take you higher
    When the world’s got you feelin low
    He’s givin you his last
    cause he’s thinkin of you first
    Givin comfort when he’s thinkin that you’re hurt
    That’s what’s done when you really love someone
    I’m tellin y’all

    I’m tellin y’all that a woman ain’t a woman
    If she ain’t woman enough
    To love you when you’re right
    Love you when You’re wrong
    Love you when you’re weak
    Love you when you’re strong
    take you higher (and Higher)
    When the world’s got you feelin low
    She givin you her best
    Even when you’re at your worst
    givin comfort when she’s thinkin that you’re hurt
    That’s what’s done when you really love someone
    I’m tellin y’all
    I’m tellin y’all

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    toosexy says:

    @divine…calm down.. .I just asked why did you think mashonda was shameless…I was only giving the rest of my comment…that part was not directly to you or something.. I was interested in your thought of her being shameless…

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    intensemocha says:

    YOU ALL ARE PROBABLY THE SAME WOMEN HIDING IN THEIR CARS SPYING ON THEIR MAN AS HE’S LEAVING THE CLUB

    CONSTANTLY CHECKING HIS VOICEMAIL AND PHONE

    CONFRONTING WOMEN WHOSE NUMBERS YOU FIND IN HIS PHONE

    CHECKING HIS POCKETS FOR NUMBERS AND EMPTY CONDOM WRAPPERS

    THE ONE WHO ALWAYS LOOKS DISTRESSED AND IS AFRAID TO LEAVE HER MAN ALONE IN THE ROOM WITH ANY FEMALE INCLUDING FAMILY MEMBERS

    AND THE TRUTH IS-YOU KNOW WHAT TYPE OF MAN YOU HAVE AND YOU KNOW HE CAN’T BE TRUSTED SO YOU DEDICATE YOUR LIFE SNOOPING, SNEAKING, AND BLOCKING ANY POTENTIAL AFFAIR IN HOPES YOU CAN KEEP HIM

    CAN YOU SAY LOW SELF-ESTEEM-I SEE WOMEN LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME CAUSE THEY CAN’T STAND TO BE ALONE AND HAVING A MAN IS THE HIGHEST ACCOMPLISHMENT THEY’VE EVER MADE IN LIFE

    TRULY SAD-GET A LIFE YOU CAN ALWAYS GET ANOTHER MAN

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    Peachizz says:

    @ instense,
    for you not to be one of those woman you sure know alot about them…

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    kwall says:

    does anybody think mary j. blige is a homewrecker? just asking? a real valid question.

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    intensemocha says:

    MY DEAR SCROLL UP AND READ MY COMMENTS-NEVER ONCE HAVE I COME TO AK’S DEFENSE OR STATED A WORD ON HER BEHALF

    BIATCH YOUR DELUSIONAL AS WELL AS MASHONDA

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    Peachizz says:

    @kwall,
    If I recall correctly he was alredy out of a failed relationnship/marriage….. not sure..

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    yvonne79 says:

    @flyqtnva…
    Hell, isn’t AK acting out the lyrics to the song too?!?

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    kcicero says:

    ***Disclaimer, married mother of three, well almost three, for four years***

    Mashonda bares some of the blame for this. It’s the classic trap a man by having a baby syndrome and whether your married or not it doesn’t work, have never worked. If a man is ready to leave then there is nothing that you can say or do to stop him.

    BEAKMAN WAS CHEATING BEFORE ALICIA AND CHANCES ARE HE’LL PROBABLY CHEAT ON HER AT SOME POINT, BOTTOM LINE IS ALICIA DIDN’T BREAK THAT MARRIAGE IT WAS ALREADY BROKEN. MASHONDA NEED TO LET IT GO AND MOVE ON FOR THE SAKE OF HER HEALTH AND THE HEALTH OF HER CHILD….

    Mashonda and everyone else crying about what they’d do about their husbands need to pick better spouses. I am 99.9 percent sure that I have a man that only has eyes for me, when I met him he was a V and I’m the only one he’s ever been with. Now if for some reason he decides that what I’m giving him ain’t enough he can find another wife as long as he can financially take care of me and her in the same life style that I’m accustomed to or he can leave. Either way I wouldn not be checking for him…

    Mashonda girl you’re looking rather foolish….

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    Smokie says:

    Hmmmm I have to admit that I actually agree with this, ALL CAPS and all:

    flyqtnva Says:

    THE FACT STILL REMAINS …HATE IT OR LOVE IT…AK THEY SUPERWOMAN HAS NO MORAL COMPASS…SHE WAS SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN..THE WIFE FOUND OUT AFTER THEY LIED ABOUT IT & ASKED THE HOMEWRECKER TO BACK DOWN & ALLOW HER TIME TO REPAIR HER MARRIAGE…SAID HOMEWRECKER DECIDED NOT TO…NOW SHE PUT ON BLAST..MAYBE IF MORE WIVES DID THIS…HOMEWRECKERS WOULD STOP!

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    yvonne79 says:

    kwall Says:

    does anybody think mary j. blige is a homewrecker? just asking? a real valid question.
    ——–
    What’s the skinny on MJB?

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    Smokie says:

    I’ve been in a situation with a man who said he was separated and thisclose to a divorce. When the wife called me and told me the real deal and asked me to back off I BACKED OFF. I coulnd’t have lived with myself or believed in my relationship (with the married man) if I would have ignored her desperate call. It didn’t feel right when she called…

    AK and Swizz won’t last. AK will leave Swizz when she’s done playing with him. That’s one reason why she’s never talked to Mashonda. This whole thing is not THAT serious too her, I don’t think. I actually think she got a kick out of stealing someone’s man. I think she got a rush from it. With that boring azz new song…

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    toosexy says:

    @peachizz…I agree ..always coming to defend them…and stating scenarios from the side line whores prespective…

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    ELove says:

    The TERM Home-Wrecker is just a cause-n-effect scenario – IMO
    The said FEMALE was the OTHER WOMAN while said Marriage was being torn-apart therefore being attached to breaking up a so-called Happy Home …

    But in truth the MAN is the true Home-Wrecker if he allowed the OTHER WOMAN to even being exposed to his wife in a way that would lead his wife to say or think SHE IS THE REASON you’re leaving our family — IMO

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    Smokie says:

    hey… why does intense mocha call him SWIFT? LOL!

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    intensemocha says:

    A WOMAN WHO HAS A WHORISH MAN BELIEVES SECRETLY THAT EVERY WOMAN IS A SUSPECT

    THEY ACTUALLY BECOME DERANGED, PSYCHOTIC, AND STALKERISH

    RUNNING UP AND DOWN THE ROAD CONFRONTING ANY WOMAN WHOSE COME IN CONTACT WITH THEIR MAN

    YOU LIKE PEACHEZ AND MASHONDA ALL YOU HEFFAS ARE LOOKING FOR SOME TO BLAME OTHER THAN YOUR CHEATING SPOUSES

    FOR THE RECORD BIATCHES I’M DATING AND HE AND I BOTH ARE NOT MARRIED AND GUESS WHAT WE AINT EVEN FUGGIN

    LOL-JUST CAUSE I THINK MASHONDA IS WASTING TIME BLASTING AK DOESN’T MEAN I AM AK-DUMMIES

    BIATCHES I’M A DIME AND I BE DAMN IF I LET ANOTHER BIATCH SEE ME SWEAT, EVEN IF A WOMAN HAD BEEN WITH MY MAN I WOULD NEVER LET HIM OR HER KNOW THAT IT BOTHERED ME

    I WOULD BE TOO BUSY MOVING ON TO WASTE ANOTHER SECOND ON EITHER ONE OF THEM

    DON’T GET MAD AT ME CAUSE I DON’T HAVE LOW SELF-ESTEEM LIKE YOU BROADS

    STEP YOUR GAME UP-HAVE YOU GOTTEN FAT SINCE YOU’VE BEEN MARRIED, IS YOUR APPEARANCE HAPHAZARD AND RAGGEDY CAUSE YOUR MAN GOT YOU STRESS, STEP UP YOUR GAME UP A WOMAN WHO HAS HER HEAD ON STRAIGHT, WHO LOOKS GOOD, AND HAS A LIFE IS ALWAYS ATTTRACTING MEN MARRIED OR NOT

    LOL

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    intensemocha says:

    @SMOKIE

    SIT AND SPIN MY DEAR

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    Daisy says:

    Hey KC I AGREE with what you said :clap:

    I am still an AK fans and woman of virtue so I am good :coffee:

    I have never and will never fight over a no good man who still does that you fighting the side chick aint gonna make him do right if his sorry azz wasnt doing right before his azz needs to follow the :rules: or step

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    Divinebrown says:

    OMG…

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    Smokie says:

    she told me to sit and spin! LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL!

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    kcicero says:

    But in truth the MAN is the true Home-Wrecker if he allowed the OTHER WOMAN to even being exposed to his wife in a way that would lead his wife to say or think SHE IS THE REASON you’re leaving our family — IMO

    :clap:

    Sooooo true…

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    intensemocha says:

    YEP SURE DID

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    spongebobfan says:

    goodness gracious……. where do i start……….
    :popcorn:

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    Daisy says:

    @Elove I said the same thing on another site I HATE the term homewrecker (always have this aint nothing new for me) I swear a man came up with that term so women can go at each other while he gets a free pass although they claim not be giving him a free pass :clap:

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    toosexy says:

    MAN YALL ARE REALLY TRIPPING UP IN HERE LIKE WHEN A MAN CHEATS IT’S ALWAYS TROUBLE AT HOME..PLEASE…AND A NOTHER THING THERE ARE WOMAN YOU ARE STRAIGHT UP HOUNDS AND GO AFTER MARRIED MEN AND SOME JUST DONT’ CARE AND MAKE IT VERY DIFFICULT FOR A MAN TO BE FAITHFULL.. I KNOW AND YALL TOO. YES THE MAN IS WRONG BUT SO IS THAT WOMAN..AND THE DIVORCE THANG AND WE HAVING PROBLEMS IS THE OLDEST LAME TRICK IN THE BOOK AND IF WOMEN ARE STILL FALLING FOR THAT THEY NEED TO BE SHOOT… AND POINT BLANK… SWISS LIED FOR TWO YEARS ALONG WITH AK …WHAT DON’T YALL UNDERSTAND? SHE LIED WITH HIM AND SHE WAS WILLING TO STAY ON THE SIDE FOR WHATEVER AMOUNT OF TIME..MAKING HER ALSO DESPERATE… SWISS COULD HAVE TOLD MASHONDA BUT WHY DIDNT’ HE UNTIL HE HAD NO OTHER CHOICE? CLEARLY BECAUSE HE WAS STILL TORN AND PROBABLY WOULD STILL BE THERE IF THE SITUATION WASN’T FORCED OUT.. GUYS DON’T JUST RUN OUT AND CHEAT CUZ THEIR PROBLEMS… SOMETIMES YES BUT OTHER TIMES IT’S NO…. IT MIGHT BE SOME CHICK THAT WON’T BACK OFF UNTIL SHE GETS WHAT SHE WANTS NO MATTER IF THE MAN IS MARRIED AND SHE CONTINUES TO CAUSE PROBLEMS AND CALLS THE WIFE TO START TROUBLE WITHIN A MARRIAGE… SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT SHE IS DOING….

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    Smokie says:

    I’mma do that real swiftly TOO. LOL!

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    spongebobfan says:

    mashonda has every right to feel hurt and salty. i would but the 1 reason why i can care less about her is SWIZZ WAS CHEATING THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP…

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    ELove says:

    @intense (#83)
    YOU forgot the females that check her husband’s UNDERWEAR for Nut-Juice RESIDUE as soon as he puts them in the dirty-laundry hamper … I HAD one like that!!! :lol:

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    kwall says:

    the skinny is the reason her and kendu had to wait so long to get married? cause he was still married. and his wife was trying to sue her for breaking up the marriage. and she too had small children. i remember it was presented as a blind item somewhere back when they were a new couple. but it was blatant on who it was. i don’t recall folks running around calling mary a homewrecker is my point…

    if Mashonda was smart instead of penning letters on twitter she would be trying to dig up dirt that can prove Alicia is at fault with the breakup of her marriage. since she is hell bent on blaming Akeys. sue the hail outta her if she is so mad, hurt, etc. most states have laws that make that possible. that is not gonna save her marriage but she can at least smile while she is spending Akeys money….

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    Daisy says:

    @sponge PREACH Let the church say AMEN lol

    I still say I want to hear Swizz side of the story lol Just to keep mess going lol

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    kcicero says:

    Hey Daisy!!!!!

    So true, if he doesn’t follow the :rules: why continue embarrassing yourself by staying in the situation. I really do think it’s a self esteem issue with some women.

    And I still like Alicia’s music as well. Ye without sin cast the first stone…

    I guess we should put the “Homewrecking of an already wrecked home hoe” (sarcasm) out of work by not buying her music….

    Well lets see the next time the rest of us sinners do something wrong I think our jobs should be informed so we can be put out of business too…People need to build a bridge and get over it…

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    mizzdallas says:

    This relationship with AK N Swizz will NOT last, this homewrecking whore is NOT affected about Mashonda words but if I was Mashonda I would cut that hoe, that just the oakcliff in me! lol! ON the real nobodys know how they would handle the situtation unless there in it. I feel that Mashonda has respect for herself and that she is just trying to get over this bridge of feeling hurt n deceived.

    Oh I just read ELove n Karaz comment right no point

    @fly

    THE FACT STILL REMAINS …HATE IT OR LOVE IT…AK THEY SUPERWOMAN HAS NO MORAL COMPASS…SHE WAS SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED MAN..THE WIFE FOUND OUT AFTER THEY LIED ABOUT IT & ASKED THE HOMEWRECKER TO BACK DOWN & ALLOW HER TIME TO REPAIR HER MARRIAGE…SAID HOMEWRECKER DECIDED NOT TO…NOW SHE PUT ON BLAST..MAYBE IF MORE WIVES DID THIS…HOMEWRECKERS WOULD STOP

    You betta preach! Im glad Mashonda blasted AHoes, now everybody see that hoe for what she really is a HOE

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    Smokie says:

    I want to say that Mashonda’s emotions got the best of her… but it has been 2 years. After 2 years I would be deeply in love again with someone else, I’m pretty sure.

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    intensemocha says:

    OTHER THAN INCORRECTLY SPELLING HIS NAME DO YOU CARE TO CHALLENGE THE CONTENT OF THE POSTS

    YEAH YEAH SILLY HEFFAS STAY TRYING TO CLOWN-TOO BUSY LOOKING FOR TYPOS INSTEAD PAY ATTENTION TO THE CONTENT

    THAT’S ALL YOU GOT TO SAY ABOUT MY POST-THEN THAT SHIAT MUST BE GOOD THEN

    LOL-I SLAY MYSELF

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    Daisy says:

    @Kwall Alot of ppl arent called homewreckers. Usher is NOT legeally divorced as originally reported if he really is kicking it with his new boo nobody is calling him a homewrecker

    Sean Penn aint divorced he all out n about with Jessica White.

    Brangelina still going strong

    Julia roberts still with her hubby

    The list goes on and on. I guess if the other party doesnt care and also want out then you are not a “homewrecker” but if they are then you get labeled one :shrug:

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    intensemocha says:

    I’M CERTAIN ALL OF THE MEN OF THE WOLD WILL NOW AVOID AK LIKE THE PLAGUE BECAUSE SHE’S BEEN DULY NOTED AS A HOMEWRECKING HOE

    AFTER HIM, SHE’LL NEVER DATE AGAIN

    TOO MUCH FOCUS ON AK AND NOT YOUR CHOICE IN A MAN AND HIS PHILANDERING WAYS

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    spongebobfan says:

    …NICCA BEEN BROKE HIS SO CALL VOWS…SHE JUST SALTY THAT HE BOO LOVING WITH GRAMMY AWARD WINNER, ACTRESS, HUMANITARIAN, BEAUTIFUL ALICIA KEYS ,ITS LIKE GOING FROM A HONDA TO A BENZ. SO NOW SHE WANNA ALL HAVE AK NAME ALL IN HER MOUTH…NO ma’am…
    and regardless if someone told her to read that tweet on AK page or not.. the orginal tweet was a random generic question about love nothing about how she just Blew swizz in the studio or something really bad. so that excuse dont cut it.
    THE MARRIAGE IS OVER POINT BLANK ITS NOTHING TO WORK OUT.AND NOTHING TO TALK TO AK ABOUT…TALK TO SWIZZY…hop on eHarmony or something…

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    mizzdallas says:

    @kciero

    hey girl!

    People need to build a bridge and get over it…

    And your sooo right, like Im sooo over this…

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    Peachizz says:

    “YOU LIKE PEACHEZ AND MASHONDA ALL YOU HEFFAS ARE LOOKING FOR SOME TO BLAME OTHER THAN YOUR CHEATING SPOUSES”

    Instence… Your wrong my dear… You caps and outburst don’t scared me I’ve watched your style for too long… I said I meant it.. That’s that…

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    Daisy says:

    KC Girl you better PREACH up in here lol

    Nobody knows Swizz or AK side. Mashonda turned a blind eye to all his cheating until Swizz left for good and moved on for real. I could care less if Swizz and AK last he isnt cute enough for her but if they like it I love it.

    @Mizz I will not come visit you in jail/prison either :coffee:

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    mizzdallas says:

    Intense you really feeling huh! carry on…

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Peachizz
    dont she

    :rofl:

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    Daisy says:

    @sponge :rofl: I am DEAD you said eharmony LOL LOL You still PREACHING as well you and KC gonna have me shouting sooner than later CHURCH!

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    mizzdallas says:

    I meant to say “you feeling yourself boo” carry on

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    kcicero says:

    NICCA BEEN BROKE HIS SO CALL VOWS…SHE JUST SALTY THAT HE BOO LOVING WITH GRAMMY AWARD WINNER, ACTRESS, HUMANITARIAN, BEAUTIFUL ALICIA KEYS ,ITS LIKE GOING FROM A HONDA TO A BENZ. SO NOW SHE WANNA ALL HAVE AK NAME ALL IN HER MOUTH…NO ma’am…
    :ROFL:

    HEY MIZZZZ HOW YOU BEEEN GIRL?!!!!!

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    mizzdallas says:

    @kcicero

    Im good! How are you n the baby?

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    Krysi J says:

    Now, really I would like somebody to explain to me how Mashonda embarassed herself, but Alicia gets all the props for what….successfully committing adultery with someone’s husband?? I really wanna know why we live in world that promotes shyt like that, and come down on a wife for being hurt in the situation as if there is some sort of justification in it because Swiss cheated with the “Woman’s Worth” Alicia Keys??

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    kcicero says:

    I’m doing good Mizz, I’m actually on bedrest right now :( But I’m home with the kids so I can’t really complain :)

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    Smokie says:

    Was this to me?

    intensemocha Says:

    OTHER THAN INCORRECTLY SPELLING HIS NAME DO YOU CARE TO CHALLENGE THE CONTENT OF THE POSTS

    YEAH YEAH SILLY HEFFAS STAY TRYING TO CLOWN-TOO BUSY LOOKING FOR TYPOS INSTEAD PAY ATTENTION TO THE CONTENT

    THAT’S ALL YOU GOT TO SAY ABOUT MY POST-THEN THAT SHIAT MUST BE GOOD THEN

    LOL-I SLAY MYSELF

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    intensemocha says:

    YEP SHOW IS FEELING MYSELF-I KNOW MY WORTH

    AND AGAIN COMPREHENSION IS A MOTHERFUGGA NEVER STATED ONE WORD IN AK’S DEFENSE OR BEHALF

    JUST STATED THAT ITS STUPID TO CHASE AFTER A MAN WHO DON’T WANT YOU AND THAT MASHONDA IS STUPID FOR PUBLICLY HUMILIATING HERSELF TIME AND TIME AGAIN WITH ADDRESSING AKEYES AND FAULTING HER FOR THE DEMISE OF HER MARRIAGE

    IF YALL WANT TO HAVE A PITY PARTY AND OBSESS OVER THE NEXT CHICK YOUR MAN WITH-MORE POWER TO YOU

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    Anna says:

    Krysi J Says:

    Now, really I would like somebody to explain to me how Mashonda embarassed herself, but Alicia gets all the props for what….successfully committing adultery with someone’s husband?? I really wanna know why we live in world that promotes shyt like that, and come down on a wife for being hurt in the situation as if there is some sort of justification in it because Swiss cheated with the “Woman’s Worth” Alicia Keys??
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    I’m with you on this.

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    kcicero says:

    “I could care less if Swizz and AK last he isnt cute enough for her but if they like it I love it.”

    Ain’t that the truth Daisy, he is sooo not cute!

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    intensemocha says:

    THAT WOULD BE YES MY DEAR

    AGAIN THAT COMPREHENSION THING IS REALLY ELUDING YOU HUH

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    miamore73 says:

    I think she sounds like a complete lunatic. The man has been gone for over a year. You say you’ve worked things out with him but yet he’s afraid to spend time with his child AND your sending letters to the other women via Twitter. ARE YOU REALLY KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW!!??

    So because she hasn’t been able to contact her she takes to her twitter page. That is some of the most immature mess I’ve ever heard. How old is Mashonda?? Her actions sound like those of someone either young in age or young in mind. Like someone else said I’ve called a number or two but dayum that was almost 20 years ago.

    If there is a baby involved why not take care of your baby and put more of your energy into the act of being his mother vs. chasing after a women that could really give a rats ass about you. She doesn’t owe you anything. She didn’t stand at that alter with you…..HE DID!! If you’ve worked things out with him then it’s time to be a big girl and let it go.

    Oh yeah I also think she’s using the baby as an excuse to continue this ridiculousness.

    “My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you.”

    She’s only going to be comfortable after she gives Alicia a piece of her mind. But judging from her actions she may need to hold onto that little piece she has left.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @toosexy
    Thanks …thats what the hell I’m talking about…

    @ the end of the day…WE HOLD THE POWER…u decide who u will and wont have sex with…men dont….u can like me or love me all day…that dont mean I will sleep with you…before I was married I had a marry man try me several times…and I always said GO HOME TO UR WIFE YO! My heart cant handle all the what ifs….the family, the kids….to many what if’s.. i guess that means I can FIND MY MORAL COMPASS & its not between my legs but inside my brain….i I also believe if Swizz didnt love her he would not have LIED..you LIE to PROTECT..y protect someone yall claim he didnt love anyway..GTFOH!

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    Divinebrown says:

    I would really like to hear Alicia speak on this. I mean did she not care about her image at all.

    Don’t justify a lie with the truth….I get that much but seriously, there needs to be some damage control. Can we get a statement? This whole thing is kinda tarnishing her image regardless of the details. Not saying anything in the situation is just making it look worse.

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    intensemocha says:

    WHOSE GIVING AK’S PROPS?

    WHERE IS THAT ON HERE?

    I HAVEN’T SEEN OR HEARD OR READ ANYONE CONDONING HER

    WHY IS IT THAT BECAUSE PEOPLE HAVE STATED THAT HER ISSUE SHOULD BE WITH HER HUSBAND AND SHE’S WASTING HER TIME ADDRESSING AK THAT FOR SOME REASON THAT’S INTERPRETED AS PROPS OR CONDONING ALIICA

    IF YOU DON’T AGREE WITH WHAT A PERSON IS DOING THAT MUST MEEN YOU AGREE WITH WHAT HAS BEEN DONE TO THEM-IS THAT THE LOGIC UP IN HERE

    LOL

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    LadyJustice says:

    COSIGN WITH KRYSI J

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    Smokie says:

    Look ALL CAPS with the white baby as her picture, I thought you were making a play on words time after time again. I had no IDEA that you were just plain ole stupid, and accidentally calling Swizz, SWIFT. A Dime? Dimes post their pictures. Even uneducated dimes post their pictures.

    And I guess you are too busy/stupid to read UP and see that I DID comment on the subject at hand.

    Intense is right!

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kwall
    IF WHAT U SAY IS REALLY TRUE THAN YES MJB IS A HOMEWRECKER…THAT NIGGA WONT THINKING BOUT A DIVORCE TIL SHE CAME ALONG

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    flyqtnva says:

    @KWALL
    U SEE HOW HIS KIDS TURNED OUT…HIS DAMN DAUGHTER HATES him!

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    intensemocha says:

    GREAT HE LIED TO PROTECT YOUR ARSE AND NOW HE’S GONE

    I GUESS HIM BEING WITH AK AND LEAVING YOU AND YOUR BABY BEHIND IS REALLY HIS SECRET WAY OF SHOWING YOU THAT HE LOVES YOU MORE TOO-LOL

    YALL GO TO THROUGH MUCH WITH THESE MEN AND YALL WILL DO ANYTHING TO KEEP THEM, AND YOU WANT SO BADLY TO BELIEVE THAT IT’S NOT HIS FAULT, AND WILL DO ANYTHING TO KEEP HIM

    LOL-THAT SHIAT IS SICK

    HE LIED TO PROTECT ME-YADA YADA AND HE WAS ONLY FUGGIN ALICIA CAUSE YOU WAS ON YOUR PERIOD AND COULDN’T

    LOL-THE LENGTHS YALL GO THROUGH

    THAT SHIAT AINT BOUT NOTHIN

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    ELove says:

    @fly
    DAMN & DOUBLE DAMN — YOU are actually making TOO MUCH SENSE
    :lol:

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    Daisy says:

    @DB AK has never spoken on her private life and I doubt she starts now. I wouldnt either if I were her keep making the rounds promoting your new single and cd coming out in Nov/Dec. She has to answer to God at the end of the day like everybody else :shrug:

    I love her new single by the way! Cant wait on the new cd.

    KC How long have you been on bedrest? Bless your heart

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    miamore73 says:

    @Smokie All caps with the white baby is intense isn’t it??

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Smokie
    UR MY NEW bff & YOU ARE SO DAMN FUNNY…. :ROFL:

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    toosexy says:

    @fly..that’s exactly how i feel..when married men approach me they can’t even get to the we having problems because once you even state that the conversation is over.. I am a woman and i respect the next wowan…I won’t be the one to enable a cheater to do what he does..not cuz there’s something wrong with that wife because some men just love Azz. AND THAT’S THE ONLY REASON…What’s so wrong with woman having respect for there own selves…MAN YALL SITTING UP HERE TALKING ABOUT MASHONDA….WHEN YALL KNOW IT’S SOME WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN DATING A MARRIED MEN FOR YEARS AND YEARS STILL HOPING ONE DAY….IT MUST NOT BE THAT BAD AT HOME HE CAN’T LEAVE…GROW UP AND REALIZE YOU WOMAN’S WORTH AS ALICIA PUT IT… SHE SHOULD HAVE PRACTICED WHAT SHE PREACHED AND WHAT DOES IT MAKE IT BETTER CUZ HE CHEATED BEFORE? NOPE NOT TO ME… AND ANOTHER THING WHY DOES EVERYONE ASSUME THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU ACKNOWLEDGE THE WRONG DOING OF THE WOMAN THAT YOU ARE NOT UPSET WITH THE HUSBAND..? WE ARE NOT SAYING THAT IT’S OK FOR THE HUSBAND JUST THAT WOMAN SHOULD RESPECT THE NEXT AND HAVE RESPECT AND SOME KIND OF MORALS…I SO AGREE WHAT KIND OF WORLD ARE WE LIVING IN

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    flyqtnva says:

    ONLY DIMES POST PICS..LET ME HURRY UP AND CHANGE MY GRAVATAR..RIGHT QUICK…LOL SMILEY FACE

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    intensemocha says:

    IF I DON’T POST A PIC I’M NOT A DIME

    YEAH I UNDERSTAND THE LOGIC-WANTING TO BE ANONYMOUS WOULDN’T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT HUH OR BEING AT WORK

    YEAH I’M DUMB-I MADE IT ALL THE WAY THROUGH COLLEGE TWICE AND I’M DUMB

    THANKS FOR THE NOTICE-THEY FORGOT TO TELL ME THAT WHEN THEY HANDED ME MY DEGREE

    LOL-

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    Daisy says:

    :rofl: @#143 you are on a roll today lol

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    Peachizz says:

    @Instence…
    “THAT WOULD BE YES MY DEAR AGAIN THAT COMPREHENSION THING IS REALLY ELUDING YOU HUH”

    With the exception with a few grammatical errors that were corrected……
    “You’re wrong my dear… Your caps and outburst don’t scared me, I’ve watched your style for far too long…..and like I said , “I said it , I meant it and that’s that!!!!!”

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    Krysi J says:

    FIRST OF FUKKING ALL….THEY STILL FUKKING MARRIED PEOPLE!!

    did u MF forGET!!???

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    ELove says:

    @intense (#143)

    “A Few Good Men” with Jack & Tom Cruise and the very famous line — YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH !!!

    That’s the premise when it comes to lie-ing to someone that you really care about AND that you know wouldn’t handle the TRUTH as you would expect them to :shrug:

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    Krysi J says:

    That was not directed at all of yall….I READ ONE COMMENT AND GOT PISSED OFF before I could gather myself to read the rest!!….hold up….

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    Smokie says:

    Girl, you are in TELEMARKETING. There’s no other early reason for your CAPS LOCK key to be activated 24×7.

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    kcicero says:

    For two weeks Daisy…:( It could be bad I could be on strict bed rest in the hospital, since I’m home I can cheat a little bit.

    :popcorn: this is too funny……:lol:

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    intensemocha says:

    EVERY MARRIED MAN THAT CHEATS ON HIS WIFE STATES HE’S MARRIED FROM THE DOOR BECAUSE HE’S HONEST AND THAT’S WHY HE’S OUT LYING TO HIS WIFE AND CHEATING IN THE FIRST PLACE

    I REFUSE TO GET ANY WOMAN’S SLOPPY SECONDS AND A MOTHERFUGGA WITH A FAMILY HAS LIMITED TIME AND FUNDS TO SPEND ON ME SO ANY REAL WOMAN WOULDN’T FUG WITH A MARRIED MAN NOT BECAUSE HE’S MARRIED BUT BECAUSE IT’S NOT WISE OR BENEFICIAL TO HER TO BEGIN WITH

    IT’S A LOSE/LOSE SITUATION ALL THE WAY AROUND-YALL KEEP TRYING TO GET AT ME BUT I AINT FUGGIN YOUR HUSBANDS/MANS ETC HELL I AINT FUGGIN AT ALL CAUSE I DON’T WANT TO BE LIKE YOU DUMB BROADS WHINING AND COMPLAINING AND ARGUING WITH THE NEXT BROAD ABOUT A PIECE OF D$CK

    THE SHIAT DON’T RUN THAT DEEP FOR ME……ALOT OF NICCAS AINT ABOUT SHIAT AND I BE DAMN IF I HAVE A NICCA POUNCING UP AND DOWN ON ME LIKE TONY THE TIGER AND HE IS NOT COMMITTED TO ME, PUBLICLY OR PRIVATELY ALL WHILE I PLEDGE MY UNDYING LOVE AND REMAIN FAITHFUL TO HIS PHILANDERING ARSE

    THAT SHIAT AINT BOUT NOTHING YALL CAN HAVE THAT LIFE-WITH THE HOES, DISEASES, AND THE OUTSIDE BABIES

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    Smokie says:

    Yeah, I wrote “early” instead of earthly, but I BET I won’t repeat that typo in the next 5 posts.

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    intensemocha says:

    I TYPE IN CAPS CAUSE I WANT TO

    PLAIN AND SIMPLE

    DON’T LIKE IT SCROLL PAST

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    intensemocha says:

    I’M SO OFFENDED SOME ANONYMOUS POSTER CALLED OUT MY TYPO

    LOL-SWEETIE PUHLEEZE

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    Smokie says:

    Now, I can understand Mashonda getting just CRAZY as soon as the affair happened and tweeting out of anger, but it’s been 2 years… She should focus on moving on at this point. Now, she just looks crazy while Alicia gets to smile for the cameras. I hope Mashonda’s not expecting a response though. Lil Mama would get one first. LOL

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    Daisy says:

    @elove I call BS lol They LIE cause they know we WONT let them have their cake and eat it to well any woman with some self respect and esteem. I can handle the truth you just wont like the decision I make AFTER you tell me the truth therefore putting an end to your cake and ice cream lol Let me decide if I want an open relationship or marriage and the answer will be HAIL NO! The man knows that so he claims to LIE to PROTECT me NOPE I aint buying it

    @krysi you have alot to catch up on if you just coming up in here lol

    KC girl you better take it easy! Thats an order lol

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    Smokie says:

    T.E.L.E.M.A.R.K.E.T.E.R…. stop commenting in between calls! :-)

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    flyqtnva says:

    @toosexy
    GIRL MY AUNT BEEN WITH A MARRIED MAN SINCE I WAS 7 AND i WILL BE 30 THIS YEAR…and this nigga anit left his wife yet….YEAH MY AUNT LOOK BETTER THAN THE LADY…SO THAT ANIT IT…that nigga love his wife thats y he anit gone..and my aunt is a piece of a@@…we all laugh at her..she says marriage is a joke..but everytime someone in the fam get married she be crying giving a damn speech at the reception…..I would feel the same way to if I been with a married man for 20 years and he still at home..lol…that goes to show anit nothing wrong at home…he just like pu@@y…IF YOUR HUSBAND IS REALLY TIRED HE WILL COME OUT AND SAY YO IT ANIT WORKING I WANT A DIVORCE…ESP if HE SO UNHAPPY HE BOUT TO DIE…NOW IF HE COVERING SH!T UP …HE ANIT SURE…lets be clear If I was Mashonda I would talk to her I need to know what type of ho around my baby….her hubby to blinded by THE NEW PU@@Y TO CARE WHO HE HAS AROUND THE CHILD..ak might be pinching the baby lips..arms..legs..u never know…cant be to careful w/ur babies

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    Daisy says:

    @Smokie not lil mama let me go to lunch I know it will be 200 post by the time I get back lol

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    intensemocha says:

    OOOH I’M GETTING CYBER JUMPED

    RUN FOR COVER

    I DON’T AGREE WITH THE MASSES I HAVE MY OWN OPINION AND I DON’T CARE WHO DON’T LIKE EM I’M STILL GOING TO POST EM

    TYPOS INCORRECT SPELLING AND ALL

    LOL-YALL HEFFAS CAN’T SILENCE ME

    HELL THAT NICCA AINT MY HUSBAND AND AK AINT FUGGIN WITH MY PUZZY SO I COULD CARE LESS-THAT’S MASHONDA’S LITTLE RED WAGON AND I’M GOING TO LET HER PULL IT

    AND TAKE NOTE-SANDRA ALSO POSTED THAT SHE BELIEVED MASHONDA EMBARRASSED HERSELF AGAIN

    BUT YALL TRYING TO GET AT ME CAUSE I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREE-SHE DID AND AGAIN-LOL

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    Smokie says:

    This was fun…. :-)

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    spongebobfan says:

    TEAM LOVE
    Not every marriage works, kids or not, and we all know this…

    @daisy…alicia my girl but that new single is gonna have to grow on me,,, lol its no adult comtempory

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    intensemocha says:

    TELMARKETERS HAVE TO MAKE CALLS RIGHT

    LOL-BUT I’M POSTING ON HERE YEAH RIGHT

    HELL -WITH THIS ECONOMY A JOB IS BETTER THAN NO JOB

    IF I WERE ONE I WOULDN’T BE ASHAME TO ADMIT IT, BUT I’M NOT SO FALL BACK WITH THAT ONE MY DEAR

    ACTUALLY SEND SANDRA AN E-MAIL MY WORD E-MAIL ADDRESS SPECIFICALLY APPLIES TO WHAT FIELD I’M IN-LOL SORRY TO DISAPPOINT YOU

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    ELove says:

    @Daisy
    THAT may be true of most instances BUT if a MAN truly mis-stepped and he truly wasn’t trying to but just got caught up SOME KIND OF WAY… He’s not going to risk LOSING HIS WIFE if he already KNOWS his wife isn’t going to believe what he tells her … So if he can get away with Lie-ing then HE WILL because he doesn’t want to LOSE HIS WIFE

    It’s called SELF-PRESERVATION :lol:

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    kcicero says:

    I will, I will Daisy, lol.

    @fly I agree with you I have an Aunt that’s in the same situation. What makes matters worse is his wife is sickly…

    But does that change the fact that the man is still wrong? And did Mashonda want to know what other type of hoe’s BEAK-MAN was banging and possibly having around their child? Did she have this heart to heart with his other BABY MOMMA?

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    spongebobfan says:

    @fly a divorce is pending..alicia is not just pu@@y to swizz
    im sure mashonda is demanding extravagant amounts of assets and money(As she should) and its holding up the preceedings (or she simply dont want to sign the papers) Swizz is worth millions with producing and publishing..he aint no broke nicca…i think she gonna come out way better than kelis!

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    aqtpie says:

    :rofl: @ Smokie!! I agree Krysi!!

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    miamore73 says:

    yeah I agree with smokie. If this was something that happened in the last six months I could see her acting like this. But it’s been almost two years this can’t be healthy.

    I know people always that you don’t know what you’d do if this was you so you shouldn’t judget. But let me tell you this I know another random b**ch that I don’t have any personal ties doesn’t owe anything and could really give a **** less about me and my children. So all responsibility for this type of situation would fall on my husbands shoulders. I’ve told him already if you ever feel the need to cheat don’t bother walk away and if you should happen to slip and fall into some pu&&y don’t bring your dirty **** back here. Cause I don’t want it.

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    Divinebrown says:

    Yes Sponge….I didnt even make it to the chorus. And I love Alicia’s music. *Diary is my signature karoke song….lmfao* But, ur, ummmmm, that new single doesnt do it for me. I’m really feeling Letoya’s cd, though

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    Shauny says:

    OH LAWD!!!! Some of your are a MESS and some of you I feel sorry for…..but carry on. I’m glad to see different points of view on this situation.

    :popcorn”

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    Krysi J says:

    HELL I AINT FUGGIN AT ALL CAUSE I DON’T WANT TO BE LIKE YOU DUMB BROADS WHINING AND COMPLAINING AND ARGUING WITH THE NEXT BROAD ABOUT A PIECE OF D$CK
    —————————————————-

    yea I knew it….I bet you looking really ugly behind that fukking keyboard….but you wanna speak on other people’s looks and intelligence….gurl…its hard aint it, living the life of a nobody ON and OFF the web….SMH, poor thang. PSA: PLEASE DISREGARD ANY AND EVERYTHING INTENSE HAS SAID IN THE PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE….PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND TO HER FOOL AZZ COMMENTS, AND ENJOY THE REMAINDER OF YOUR DAY.

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    spongebobfan says:

    ‘NO ONE’ had to grow on mw and that ended up being my joint.. this one is a lil slow…

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    Shauny says:

    sorry :popcorn:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @daisy

    Come on now…you dont think a man thats REALLY FED UP & ABOUT TO DIE CAUSE HE HATE HIS WIFE SO MUCH GONNA STAY FOR NOTHING & HE RICH & FAMOUS……..I KNOW YOU HAVE CRITICAL THINKINHG SKILLS….USE THEM…SO Y DID HE LIE…MASHONDA not gonna break him with the divorce…yall said he anit love Mashonda…so y lie then????

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    miamore73 says:

    Even if she wasn’t gonna break him maybe he didn’t want to be seperated from any of his money. Remember Puffy pays Kim on a monthly and while it ain’t breaking him it’s still missing. Also, remember he’s only paying child support. Alimimony on top of child support would have to hurt a little.

    Maybe he lied cause of the baby. Maybe just like alot of us he wanted his kid to be brought up in a two parent household.

    I don’t know really just throwing ish out there.

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    Peachizz says:

    LOL…. Kyrsi… :-)

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    free says:

    she keeps hitting on AK so swizz will get tired of it and give up more cheese during the divorce to get rid of her. bottom line.

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    spongebobfan says:

    I hope he not worried about the money…Alicia got him…

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    Smokie says:

    Hell, Intensegirl, you can CLAIM anything on here…. I’m really Michelle Obama. There. It’s a fact. I send Sandra emails from the White House all the time.

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    flyqtnva says:

    iM JUST SAYING ITS NOT ALWAYS BECAUSE A MARRIAGE IS broken…SOME NI@@AS CHEAT WHEN ANIT NOTHING WRONG…The man my aunt with anit nothing wrong with his wife..he just a ho….mashonda maybe knew that..maybe not…but once I’m married my man is out of bounds…and as a woman I know the man waiting on me to say yes I will sleep with you…NOW WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT ME IF I DO IT??

    WHY DID AKEYS SLEEP WITH A MARRIED MAN?

    DID HE RAPE HER?

    WHY DIDNT SHE SAY no SWIZZ YOU MARRIED!! I WONT BE THE ONE

    AND WHEN YOU HAVE A NEW BABY 2 YEARS IS LIKE YESTERDAY.. MY NANY 2 AND IT DONT FEEL LIKE 2 YEARS HAS GONE BY @ ALL..NOW MASHONDA GOTTA GO THROUGH THIS SH!T ALONE..when she did it BY THE BOOK>LOVE >MARRIAGE> BABY CARRIAGE…SO SWIZZY & DEF the great akeys are LOSERS!

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    miamore73 says:

    Even though he messed up he’s still human maybe after all of it he just didn’t want to hurt her.

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    flyqtnva says:

    THAT WAS SUPPOSE TO SAY MY BABY 2 YEARS OLD AND IT DOESNT FEEL LIKE 2 YEARS HAS GONE BY

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    ELove says:

    @fly
    I HAVE an aunt that’s the same way and her MARRIED man’s WIFE is sickly… And he lives with My Aunt (TRULY PATHETIC !!!)
    IMO

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    flyqtnva says:

    @ELove
    LOL… WHY MY AUNT be calling for this man with a voice box so she sound like a man…she be like..hey is joe home…lol its sad..and to this day her daughter (my cousin) ONLY WANTS MARRIED MEN!!!!!!

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    Shauny says:

    kwall I just read the MJB story. I have NEVER heard this before. If the story is true….yes (and I love me some MJB) but she’s in the same boat and AK IMO.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Smokie
    I’m Hillary Clinton,, so I think I know a thing or two about staying with a cheater! TIL DEATH DO US PART
    :rofl:

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    ELove says:

    @fly
    IF these broads only knew the DAMAGE that THEIR ACTIONS caused
    :shrug:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Shauny
    me two..cuz they made it sound like MJB just met him in studio and they fell in love…awww how cute…damn mary…BTW.. MJB does not LOOK HAPPY with dude EVER!!!! THATS WHY U NEED TO TALK TO WIFEY! :rofl:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Shauny
    me 2….cuz they made it sound like MJB just met him in studio and they fell in love, awww how cute damn mary

    BTW.. MJB does not LOOK HAPPY with dude EVER!! THATS WHY U NEED TO TALK TO WIFEY! :ROFL:

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    free says:

    mashonda is not interested in what’s best for the kid; she wants to WIN. AK is a third party in M and swizz’s relationship; why is M checking for AK? AK ain’t got no money for her!

    she wants to make AK look bad. she initially did that but her continuing saga now has diminishing returns–the general public is over it and has moved on. the 300 blog readers who “now” hate AK and will not purchase her records do not put a dent in her sales, lol!

    she wants to make swizz look and feel bad by throwing the kid in there–insinuating that he may not see the kid or the kid may not spend time with him or the kid might suffer. when the kid is in swizz’ custody, swizz is responsible for what goes down, who the kid interacts with and how, not M. if swizz was good enough for her to produce the kid with, what’s the problem now?

    my husband had a bitter ex and i actually wanted to reach out to her for the kids’ sake but HE told me when the time was right. maybe this is not the right time seeing as though they are still negotiating and M is playing games. swizz invited her to the party, she played games w/AK by acting like it was all good, and now this.

    amazed at how everyone seems to know exactly what went on even though swizz said something contrary. i find it hard to believe, seeing M’s state of mind, that she is telling it exactly how it went down. AK seems to be the smartest one in the group.

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    Krysi J says:

    NOW MASHONDA GOTTA GO THROUGH THIS SH!T ALONE..when she did it BY THE BOOK>LOVE >MARRIAGE> BABY CARRIAGE…SO SWIZZY & DEF the great akeys are LOSERS!
    ———————————————————-

    Yea I have to agree….Mashonda might be crazy in yall book, but dammit ALICIA AND SWIZZ DEAD WRONG, for real, no ifs, ands, or buts about it. And all that shyt Alicia be singing about, SMH….she know she wrong. I can’t believe yall expect Mashonda to just “GET OVER IT”, like nothing happened, that some real shyt right there man….this woman was happily married and had just experienced motherhood for the first time with her HUSBAND…now all of a sudden after 5 years of marriage its over….and yall expect her to get over it in a YEAR??….they are still married the divorce isn’t even finalized the JUDGE ain GOT OVER IT, how da hell you expect her too??…and on top of that Alicia just know she got it like that huh??…can walk around talking bout how much she in love with a married man and know her fans gone support every minute of it…..MUST BE NICE.

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    Krysi J says:

    All Im saying iz, Mashonda may not be thinking clearly, but CLEARLY she’s NOT the ONLY ONE.

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    yvonne79 says:

    Man, went to lunch and came back….200 posts! :popcorn:

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    goat76 says:

    Swizz shoulda got divorced first then went about his biz……but who knows maybe Mashonda wasn’t a good wife, IDK….but why fix something if its your husband thats doing all the breaking…..

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    miamore73 says:

    No don’t get me wrong I’m definately not saying that her husband cheating on her with AK or anyone else was okay. But her twittering about it just makes her look like a lunatic. There are certain ways that adults handle themselves and this just isnt it.

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    spongebobfan says:

    getting a divorce is not that easy, and obviously she was not able to let go THEN(she may be now) also its alot of assets and money to divide…..the papers been filed for over a year now

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    kcicero says:

    People who can’t let themselves go eventually make themselves crazy, my birth mother is one such woman and now she’s Bi-polar and schizophrenic nothing not any man is going to make me act crazy and lose my mind because they don’t want me…real talk…

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    kcicero says:

    people who can’t let *things go

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    goat76 says:

    Im just saying if Swizz wasn’t happy with his marriage he should have waited until divorce was finalized before getting into another relationship

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    Daisy says:

    @FREE you better PREACH and close out the sermon that KC and Sponge started earleir where is my collection plate lol

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    ELove says:

    To THOSE THAT say Mashonda is acting wrongly or NOT Appropriately …

    Tupac said regarding his actions during some VERY TRYING TIMES in his life that … How do I suppose to ACT LIKE AN ANGEL while their are DEVILS ALL AROUND ME !!!

    HOW does a WRONGED WOMAN (By HER husband & HIS Mistress) is suppose to act EXACTLY

    I’m AMAZED this chick hasn’t done a FULL-BLOWN Fatal Attraction OR at least a L-Bobbit and CUT HIS Thang OFF !!!
    :lol:

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    Daisy says:

    @goat in a perfect world thats what ppl would do but sadly that isnt the case with most divorces and that goes for men and women in my circle and again I am NOT saying that is right but it is what it is :shrug:

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    free says:

    krysi/goat, it’s wrong to use the bathroom and not wash your hands afterwards but some people at my job do it anyway, lol!!! that means i gotta protect myself.

    sh*t happens and life is not promised to us from day to day. i would not forgo my happiness because my ex wanted to delay our divorce.

    i’m not saying M should take all of this lightly but, if i were AK, i would be reluctant to break bread with M because she puts all of her business out in public. who in their right mind would discuss anything privately with this woman just to see her version of it posted later?

    she’s baiting AK and AK is not falling for it.

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    Daisy says:

    @elove I would NOT air my BUSINESS in the streets. I know the Lord he heard my cry I would take it to him vengenace is mine say it the LORD :coffee:

    I am not trying to be insensative to Mashondas pain I wouldnt wish this situation on anybody but its been 2yrs so I am going to need for her to do better she is NOT the 1st woman whose husband left her for another woman and sadly she wont be the last.

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    Daisy says:

    @Free ^5 and co sign again

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    aqtpie says:

    Mashonda’s letter could not make Alicia look bad if it were not true!!!!

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    spongebobfan says:

    PREACH Free… have we met, im sponge,,,,, lol

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    Krysi J says:

    HOW does a WRONGED WOMAN (By HER husband & HIS Mistress) is suppose to act EXACTLY
    —————————————————–

    Thats what I wanna know too………don’t worry I’ll wait :confused:

    I definitely agree that she should not have made this issue public, but I definitely can’t condone AK and SWIZZ still frolocking around like everything all good in THE PUBLIC for all the world to see…? Its like yall got all this fukked up shyt to say about what Mashonda doing, and how she should be embarassed….DAMN….I would’ve thought Alicia would be embarassed…NO? And if not, how in the FUKK SO?

  221. 221
    free says:

    elove, this is what teddy p said:

    I don’t love you anymore.
    It’s just that simple.
    No, no, no, not like before.
    Such a shame — dirty shame.

    We can’t work it out,
    No, not this time.
    We can’t be together.
    We can only be friends.

    I’ll take care of my responsibilities.
    I’ll send you your money,
    Every month, you can depend on that.
    You better believe that you can.
    But we can’t live together.
    This way we’ll be much better.

    lol, just playing with ya! [no, i’m not]

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    ELove says:

    @Daisy
    Nah… A PERFECT WORLD would be if a FEMALE who claims to be A WOMAN willingly chose to SEX-UP a Married Man AND succeeds in making this Married Man her own WHILE IGNORING the Married Man’s WIFE pleas to back-off & allow her to TRY-n-SALVAGE their troubled marriage

    Then JUST LIKE dogs that get locked-up & can’t get loose from each other during a sexual encounter… THE SAME DAMN THING should happen to the Married Man and His Mistress AND ONLY the Wife can come in BY HER WILL can un-due their tangled-n-strange so-called Love-Connection

    If the WIFE chooses to do nothing…
    Then they will stay BOND LIKE THAT FOREVER !!!!!

    That would be a PERFECT Situation in My Eyes :lol:

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    Peachizz says:

    LOL…. Damn Free with the Teddy P…LOL Nice to meet you I’m Peachizzz.. Welcome.. LOL

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    ELove says:

    @Free … Yeah LUV the Teddy-P reference

    And don’t forget when he was with HM & The Blue Notes
    That “Be For Real” is some powerful WORD-PLAY (For Real Thou)
    :lol:

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    Krysi J says:

    I don’t think Mashonda is trying to salvage her marriage at this point, hell she is the one who filed for a divorce right??…..I think she’s hurt and thats something she can’t help, she didn’t ask to be in that situation regardless of who Swizz fell in love with during their marriage, I just don’t see how anybody could talk down on this gurl at all…but thats just me. Who but Alicia better watch it….she better ask Brittany Spears and Ol girl and Kevin weren’t even married….!!

    Tom bout, Mashonda embarassing herself in the public with some tweets….WOW, Alicia Keys is in the public throwing B-day parties for a STILL married man, proof that she willingly committed adultery….and she shouldn’t be embarassed huh? WOW… :shock:

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    spongebobfan says:

    Again we are assuming AK just threw herself on Swizz and said Fucc mashonda, nicca I’m taking you from you wife and son and you will be mine…… the main issue is we dont know how it STARTED… If swizz wanted mashonda they would be together.simple. and like whats already been said…you cant take a happy man from his home…he obviously wanted to leave so he left, point blank, whats not to understand.
    personally i dont think mashonda should say ‘oh well darn’ its not gonna be easy for her either . But for all the shade to be on AK without knowing the full story is crazy. this so called Open letter to AK is unnecessary and uncalled for. She already summed it up: “Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents”(BUT HE DONT SEE HIS SON as you stated) Ok than mashonda what else needs to be said to AK then for…NOTHING.

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    Daisy says:

    @Elove that was just one ex and you gave another BUT as we both know NEITHER people or the world is perfect…

    @Free Alright now love me some Teddy lol My fav song is its so good loving somebody and somebody loves you back you cant tell me that aint my JAM lol

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    Daisy says:

    @sponge ^5 and co sign AGAIN lol

    I am still waiting to hear the OTHER sides of the story Mashondas is only one and IF Swizz wanted to be with her then he would be when he ready to leave AK he will or vice versa it is what it is she can write an open letter everyday if it helps her sleep better at night but it wont get my sympathy vote :coffee:

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    kcicero says:

    @ sponge :clap: hammer meet nail head…

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    ELove says:

    @Daisy
    I KNOW I’m just messing with you Baby-Boo :lol:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @ELove
    thats one of my fav Tupac quotes…yo

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    ELove says:

    @fly … MINE TOO !!!

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    flyqtnva says:

    @spongebobfan & daisy & anyone else

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    KaraZ says:

    Krysi J Says:
    Now, really I would like somebody to explain to me how Mashonda embarassed herself, but Alicia gets all the props for what….successfully committing adultery with someone’s husband?? I really wanna know why we live in world that promotes shyt like that, and come down on a wife for being hurt in the situation as if there is some sort of justification in it because Swiss cheated with the “Woman’s Worth” Alicia Keys??
    ————————————————————–

    Pretty much.

    Like I said, Alicia Keys is lucky that all she’s getting is twitbeef… some other women get acid thrown on their face or get the beat down that makes her forget even her mama’s name.
    I don’t for one second believe that rodent face ever lied to Alicia about his marital state of affairs; after all most men who are truly done with a marriage move out & go file for divorce. Married men who are done with the relationship don’t even sleep with their wives talk less of getting them pregnant. Most married men who are done with their relationships don’t need their girlfriends or freak of the weeks to lie to their wives about the status of their relationship.
    Mashonda needs to focus on herself & hit them where it hurts alot, their pockets. She should pray that Alicia married her ex & then sue for an increase in child support since their joint assets will increase his income.

    As for all of you all who know how you will or will not act, unless you’ve been in the exact same shoes, you really don’t know what you’re going to do. Mashonda’s reaction is human, so I cannot fault her for it. Too bad they don’t sleep together anymore, because I sure would sggest that she chop up some habeneros with her bare hands and handle his peen right after…

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    spongebobfan says:

    “There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!”

    Lame Excuse.

    I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human

    this is a good point. Celebrity/Human..one and the same. People put celebs onto pedestals like they can do no wrong. AK is a R and B singer and pianist. I put nothing past anyone. If she drowns kittens, dont pay taxes, rob from rich and give to poor or f^cks people husbands on the daily, Its not my Business. If i like your music i like it. At the end of the day none of this is any of our concern

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    flyqtnva says:

    @spongebobfan & daisy & anyone else:
    THE POINT here is keep your legs closed to married men and u want have to worry about ALL THIS NONSENSE..U CANT argue…dispute..the fact akeys was not raped, drugged, duped..and she made the choice…to lay in bed with a MARRIED MAN..we all knew Mashonda and Swizz were married and just had a baby…

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    flyqtnva says:

    WHAT HAPPENES WITH A NEW MARRIAGE & BABY…DADDY STARTS TO FEEL IGNORED BY MAMA CAUSE SHE got this little baby to watch after…then u know the rest! It happens all the time…daddy thinks mama loves the baby more…and here come dum a@@ akeys in the pic..and what could have been saved is now destroyed…THATS WHY U KEEP UR LEGS CLOSED TO MARRIED MEN! i’M BEGINNING TO THINK MOST OF U MUST BE SEEING A MARRIED MAN THATS Y U DONT WANT TO FEEL FOR THIS WOMAN! HIS WIFE! & MOTHER OF HIS CHILD!

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    spongebobfan says:

    IT hasnt been confirmed that they had sex…. :coffee:

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    coaretained says:

    I just want to know did she ask SWIZZ to back up from AK before she asked AK to? Maybe AK did back up and Swizz was like FUKK that…

    *eats tootsie pop*

    The world may never know…

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    flyqtnva says:

    @KaraZ

    YES i’M IN AGREEMENT

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    spongebobfan says:

    LMAO@ quoting NENE

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    spongebobfan says:

    :rofl: @ coa…Good Question

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    ELove says:

    @239
    I ACTUALLY believe that she did IN FACT do that …
    And Swiss completely IGNORED HER & BLEW HER OFF (Is It Wrong)
    :lol:

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    kcicero says:

    “WHAT HAPPENES WITH A NEW MARRIAGE & BABY…DADDY STARTS TO FEEL IGNORED BY MAMA CAUSE SHE got this little baby to watch after…then u know the rest! It happens all the time…daddy thinks mama loves the baby more…and here come dum a@@ akeys in the pic..and what could have been saved is now destroyed…THATS WHY U KEEP UR LEGS CLOSED TO MARRIED MEN! i’M BEGINNING TO THINK MOST OF U MUST BE SEEING A MARRIED MAN THATS Y U DONT WANT TO FEEL FOR THIS WOMAN! HIS WIFE! & MOTHER OF HIS CHILD!”

    @ Fly two kids working on three and MY HUSBAND was too busy changing diapers, holding HIS children, and working TWO jobs to even think of another woman…If your marriage is right then you don’t have to worry about other women.

    You say to the woman close her legs I say to the man shut your **** down…it’s not hard…

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    kwall says:

    THE POINT here is keep your legs closed to married men and u want have to worry about ALL THIS NONSENSE..U CANT argue…dispute..the fact akeys was not raped, drugged, duped..and she made the choice…to lay in bed with a MARRIED MAN..we all knew Mashonda and Swizz were married and just had a baby…
    ———————————————-
    most importantly…neither was mr. beats.

    he was not raped, drugged, duped neither and HE TOO made a choice and HE TOO knew he was married.

    that is the problem i think i have. the person she need to hold CO-RESPONSIBLE and call out is her husband. that is who she need to have just a big of a problem with.

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    flyqtnva says:

    Wasnt it Martin Lawrence that did New pu@@y versus old pu@@y.. and martin was like NEW PU@@Y CANT READ!!

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    coaretained says:

    It takes TWO people to work on a marriage.. if he wasn’t a willing participant.. what would it have mattered if AK did back off? He mighta went after Keri Hilson or someone.. who knows…Flesh is flesh and completely fallable…

    And how are we even sure SHE’s not the one fabricating a story? She’s the only one fukkin talking!! I mean… I do think it’s wrong ANYWAYS.. but.. yeah.. leave it be homegirl and stop trying to ruin AK’s name.. if it’s meant to happen her name will be trashed anyway…

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    ELove says:

    @244
    AGREE Completely … MEN need to want to be held accountable
    And GOOD MEN actually strive to be Good Husbands & Fathers !!!

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    yvonne79 says:

    @Coaretained: In my Martin voice, “Co….you STOOPID”….

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    Daisy says:

    @Fly You said that like its breaking news and like I didnt say 100 post back I don’t do married men. I am a woman of virtue tried and true. I aint been waiting 9 yrs to be anybodys other woman you got me bent as my gfriend would say lol

    My point is and will remain every situation is different and I want to hear ALL sides of the story. We all have our own crosses to bear at the end of the day. There will always be women that sleep with married men that is not going to change sad but true no matter how wrong it may be.

    I am still an AK STANS and I dont have a problem saying that :cheer:

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    Daisy says:

    @KC and Kwall thank you and this is coming from MARRIED women FLY :coffee:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kcicero
    and if your old enough to know your worth …..u already know that its the woman choice to make….if u kept ur legs closed to married men..u wouldnt have to worry about a scorned wife putting u on blast off!!

    Unless u just pursue men…then I understand

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    kcicero says:

    MEN need to want to be held accountable
    And GOOD MEN actually strive to be Good Husbands & Fathers !!!

    :clap: SO very true E-Love…

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Daisy
    Ah yes, the other side…that translates to Come on AK CONVINCE ME Y U DID IT…TRUE LOVE ..U SAW A SPARK IN HIS EYE FROM ACROSS THE ROOM..UR HEART FLUTTERED WHEN U SAW THIS MARRIED MAN…

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    Daisy says:

    @Elove I am glad we dont have these kind of problems in our relationship :love: :kiss:

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    free says:

    come on now sponge, swizz has hit.

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    coaretained says:

    @kweezy

    I completely agree.. if you are so cool with him.. leave her alone… it is what it is…if you still take issue with him.. then go ahead and have an issue with her.

    And her point about him wanting to spend time with his son…obviously SHES the one creating a barrier if he wants to spend time with him so bad but can’t for ( insert dumb azz reason here). There’s more to that…

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    kwall says:

    akeys was indeed wrong. don’t want nobody to think i am giving her a pass.

    mr. beats is wrong too.

    and finally mashonda is wrong too for branging up OLD shyt. her letter MIGHT have affected my sensitive married woman side of “we must band together to protect our homes from hoes, homewreckers, and loose women” IF it woulda been penned say TWENTY FOUR MONTHS AGO.

    but to be written in sept. 2009? you STILL salty two years LATER? really? she might need some outside help in that case in coping with the breakup of her marriage…which is not a bad thing. b/c to be festering and stewing over it two years later is downright unhealthy.

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    ELove says:

    @Daisy
    We ALL GOOD Baby-Boo !!! :kiss: :hug:

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    kcicero says:

    @ Fly is it not true that Swizz has another baby mother? The kid is only like three or something right? How long was Mashonda and Beak-Man married? Are there not other rumors that he had other jump-offs so because Alicia the straw that broke his back she gets put on blast.

    I HAVE NO SYMPATHY FOR WOMEN WHO CONTINUE TO STAY IN F’D UP SITUATIONS IT’S NOT HEALTHY FOR YOU OR YOUR KIDS AND IT WOULD NEVER BE ME. I KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO IF I WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION AND IT WOULDN’T BE STARTING BEEF ON TWITTER. I’D TAKE HIS ARSE TO THE CLEANERS AND GO ON ABOUT MY BUSINESS… :coffee:

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    yvonne79 says:

    Are we going to make 300 comments today?

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    kwall says:

    mashonda and herletter done made this post blow up. it has been a loooong time since we have seen a topic debated over almost 300 posts and ALL of them have been on topic.

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    KaraZ says:

    spongebobfan Says:
    IT hasnt been confirmed that they had sex….
    ————————————————————–

    I too believe that Alicia Keys is 100% LEZBYAN!

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    kwall says:

    we said that at THE SAME TIME @yvonne

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    Krysi J says:

    @ Fly two kids working on three and MY HUSBAND was too busy changing diapers, holding HIS children, and working TWO jobs to even think of another woman…If your marriage is right then you don’t have to worry about other women.

    —————————————————–

    for your own sake KC, please do not speak on this stuff referring to yourself and situation.

    BOTTOM LINE FOR ME, Im not wit dat shyt, Im not accepting that shyt from AK or SWIZZ, I mean they made it public first….so Mashonda dealt with it the best way she could. ITS A FUKKED up situation and just like the 2 of them knew they were wrong for hooking up before the marriage was over, they also know ain nothing good gon come outta dat shyt. Mashonda just needs to pray for strength, cuz I know it has to be hard……shyt it gotta be……a baby……..and on top of that Mashonda and Swizz was together before they got married…..on top of 5 years of marriage…..Damn…..that shyt gotta be eating her alive. It aiight ma, somebody better will come along. Don’t think that I don’t agree with her filing for a divorce from a man that obviously doesn’t deserve her, but ain no way in the hell Im going to try and justify that shyt just because its Alicia Keys…sorry.

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    flyqtnva says:

    AND YES I’m married and I will go to the depths OF HELL AND BACK FOR MY HUSBAND! (NOT MY FAMILY) my husband… WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER LET NO MAN/WOMAN TEAR ASUNDER! i’m at his top, he’s at my top..so many times people dont know what the hell marriage is I DO…I knew he was the one not from some fairytale **** I saw on TV but by his actions. I take up for Mashonda cause it some **** to know you was trying…yall talk about PRIDE…she went to this chick and said step off…thats REALLY PUTTING PRIDE TO THE SIDE…their is no room for pride or egos in a marriage! AND come on she still better than most of us..becuz if it were my man it would be the last MARRIED MAN SHE SLEPT WITH..I WOULD GIVE HER THE A@@ KICKING OF HER LIFE..SHE WOULD NEVER DO IT AGAIN TO ANOTHER WOMAN!

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    free says:

    @coaretained (#239), exactly. i’m thinking swizz is in the background orchestrating. really, AK reports directly to swizz. whatever he doesn’t want to go down should not go down. AK must respect his judgement and wishes during this time as only he knows M, shares a child with her, and is engaged in financial/custody battle.

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    toosexy says:

    @kwall ..old shyt…where does it say how long to be hurt?\\ I mean everybody is different some times people go on in life and never get over their ex’s..even though they go on with life…DANG THIS WAS THIS WOMAN’S HUSBAND..are we forgetting that…do we forget how QUICK 2 YEARS CAN GO BY ….if she still hurting she has a reason…AND LOOK AT YALL….SHE SUPPOSE TO ALREADY BE IN LOVE AGAIN WITH SOMEONE ELSE….. why? she needs to heal before getting involved again….. I say take as much time as she needs…who are we to judge what’s the correct time and if she needs counseling just because she is still hurt…maybe yes maybe not the point is you have so much compassion for ak but to mashonda it’s all negative… AK could stand for some counseling as well to play seconds for a year until she got caught and MASHONDA FILED FOR DIVORCE NOT SWISS and until MASHONDA CAUGHT HIM NOT HIM SAYING I LOVE AK I’M GOING TO BE A MAN IF I TRULY LOVE AK AND TELL MY WIFE IT’S DONE..NOPE IT DIDN’T GO LIKE THAT… So by her asking for a divorce that means she IS NOT LETTING HIM OFF THE HOOK AS WELL WHICH SOME OF YOU KEEP SAYING SHE KEEP BLAMING AK EVIDENTLY SHE BLAMING BOTH… I mean i want to see how some of you would really react ITS SO EASY TO SIT UP HERE AND JUDGE AND SAY OH I WOULD NEVER DO THAT AND NEVER DO THIS AND THEN THAT SAME SITATUION HAS A WAY OF KNOCKING ON YOUR (IN GENERAL NOT YOU DIRECTLY)DOOR…i HOPE YOU HAVE THE SAME JUDGEMENTAL TONE TO YOURSELF AS YOU DO TO MASHONDA.

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    Krysi J says:

    what would it have mattered if AK did back off? He mighta went after Keri Hilson or someone.. who knows…Flesh is flesh and completely fallable…
    ———————————————————

    DAMN dawg….but think about it this way……WHY THE HELL WOULD ALICIA KEYS (out of ALL people) want to be with a man like that???……….is this the type of dude she was singing about in all her songs??? hell naw….SMH :shock:

    She did hold Swizz accountable thats why they are getting a divorce??!!

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Krysi J
    U KNOW I WAS ABOUT TO JUMP OUT THE WINDOW AT THAT ONE BUT ITS ALL GOOD…my marriage is fine I dont care if people get personal…it is what it is…

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    kcicero says:

    @ Krysi “for your own sake KC, please do not speak on this stuff referring to yourself and situation.”

    What the hell is that suppose to me? Are we all not speaking from our own experiences and situations? WTH…

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    attorneymom says:

    @Sandra, you just don’t understand the pain that infidelity causes a spouse. Since you don’t, keep your opinions to yourself and stop kicking a woman while she is down. Ain’t you a lesbian?? I thought you were down with women. SMDH

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    coaretained says:

    I do feel Mashonda on her letter.. at least to PUT IT ON PAPER and hold on to, hand deliver, burn and drink and scream WHAT HAVE YOU….but…*neffeterria voice* AT THE END OF THE DAY…what good did that do?:confused: I hope she got the release she was looking for.. b/c to say how she would sit in the car listening to AK back in the days…she makes herself sound…pathetic almost…no one needed to know that info..and me PERSONALLY I wouldn’t have said that OUTLOUD. Especially if that’s how she REALLY feels about her.
    Either beat her azz or STFU…. :shrug:

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    attorneymom says:

    @AK, I know you are a honorary Soror, but you are wrong for committing adultery with Swizz Freak. All the community service will not erase what your azz has done to Swizz’s wife. Karma is a b****.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @coaretained
    maybe thats y she wants to meet….so she can whup dat A@@.. “oh alicia mashonda just knocked your mama off.. now what u going do” lol

    but 4 real…just deck her a@@ mashonda

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kcicero
    it means ur speaking from: barbie fairytopia

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    Bird says:

    Looks like Swizz is trying to dodge a bullet with this one. Ladies ladies ladies, if the n*gga don’t want you no more, leave his azz be. Screw one of his boys or something if you just gotta get back at him, but please don’t be playing yourself out like this a year after dude has called it quits officially and two years after he has called it quits unofficially. And damn sure don’t be crawling to the new chick trying to be friends after you done put her on blast. Geez. Swizz needs to try to hook her up with a career so she can get some kinda life. Being a kept woman is doing nothing for her self esteem.

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    coaretained says:

    @krysi

    and she FORGAVE him.. she isn’t writing him open letters on twitter…

    AK is human too.. maybe they started off as friends and it grew? IDK.. I wasn’t there…I’m just saying if he was cheating already.. why be mad now?? Is it b/c she is actually succesful and not just some tramp sucking him off in the club??

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    mizzdallas says:

    Dang! I come back its pass 200+ posts…

    Well, anyway, its doesnt matter how the affair got started AHoes N Swizz Monkey are phucking around while Swizzy is still married to Mashonda, yall mfo’s act like she supposed to be quiet about the situation, she has some pent up frastrations that she need to let it out,and if it means twitterlong, writing a damn novel or whatever she wants to, thats her prerogative. how else is she supposed to handle her broken marriage in public….?

    @karaz
    Pretty much.

    Like I said, Alicia Keys is lucky that all she’s getting is twitbeef… some other women get acid thrown on their face or get the beat down that makes her forget even her mama’s name.
    I don’t for one second believe that rodent face ever lied to Alicia about his marital state of affairs; after all most men who are truly done with a marriage move out & go file for divorce. Married men who are done with the relationship don’t even sleep with their wives talk less of getting them pregnant. Most married men who are done with their relationships don’t need their girlfriends or freak of the weeks to lie to their wives about the status of their relationship.
    Mashonda needs to focus on herself & hit them where it hurts alot, their pockets. She should pray that Alicia married her ex & then sue for an increase in child support since their joint assets will increase his income.

    I agree 100%

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    Divinebrown says:

    you can be married all day and night….you can WANT TO be married all day and night.

    However, if your husband decides that he wants to leave you for another woman, AINT NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. YOU’RE FIGHTING A BATTLE THAT CANNOT BE WON. So, you can fight tooth and nail for your marriage if you want to…but you will be the only one doing it. He will be with his new woman while you sitting there BITTER AND PISSED OFF. That’s the entire reason for this post.

    HE MOVED ON…SHE HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO DO SO ALSO.

    THE REASON WHY THIS HASNT HAPPENED TO ME….BECAUSE I HAVEN’T ALLOWED IT TO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY…BECAUSE I’M HANDLING MY SH!t! WHY, YOU ASK? BECAUSE I AINT WITH THAT BULL!!!!!!!! YOU WILL RESPECT ME!

    What kind of wife doesnt know the status of her marriage? I THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD MARRIAGE….YOU THOUGHT, BUT YOU AINT KNOW SH!t OBVIOUSLY! I don’t think NATHAN ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIPS…I FCKIN KNOW IT!

    Get some situational awareness…and keep it progressive!

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    Daisy says:

    Krysi not that it matters but Mashonda went public before Swizz/AK were seen on the scene after 2yrs I guess they felt it was time to go public :shrug:

    @Coa lol I feel you though

    @elove thats right before long we will be :hump: thanks for your patience :wink:

    300 post coming in 5 4 3 2 1……

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    coaretained says:

    @fly

    then she shoulda did it at the party instead of shaking her hand.. THAT woulda been more newsworthy and RELIEVING than an open letter on twitter.

    She had her chance.. and if she still so mad.. she shoulda clocked her.. I would have.. IF I cared enough to be writing her letters and sending emails and sh!t.

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    Daisy says:

    Shauny you need some more :popcorn: lol

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    coaretained says:

    :clap: @ DB

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    kwall says:

    i HOPE YOU HAVE THE SAME JUDGEMENTAL TONE TO YOURSELF AS YOU DO TO MASHONDA.
    ————————————–
    i don’t think i am judgemental. i think i am awful dayum real. you let mr. kwall walk up in here right now and tell me he loves someone else and want to gather his shat. i’mm help him. throw his azz two fangas. hail i might even ask him how far he is traveling and pack his azz a bag lunch. now does that mean i am not gonna be hurt? yes i will be…will prolly shed a few tears at night too but i am a true believer that certain laundry needs not be aired for all to see. that is old school. me and my husband can be fighting like cats and dogs calling each other all kinds of names but nobody would ever know or NEED to know unless someone said something. and i always admired celeb couples who handled their sensitive issues at the HOUSE instead of airing it for all to see.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Bird
    spoken like a true bird

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    Divinebrown says:

    And another thing….supposedly there’s some people in here who date married men.

    Well odds are…someone in this room has a spouse thats CHEATING!!!!!!!!!! Being married aint bout sh!t if that mutha****a stepping out on your a$$!

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    kcicero says:

    Awwww hell no, Swizz is suppose to be muslim too, aw hell naw…don’t don’t have no sympathy for his arse. Mashonda leave Alicia alone and take his behind to the CLEANERS!!!

    flyqtnva Says:
    @kcicero
    it means ur speaking from: barbie fairytopia

    What the **** is barbie about what I said? Not a damn thing. I demand my husband be a husband and father and that’s what I get! Before we married I KNEW what type of man i was getting to quote DB:

    “THE REASON WHY THIS HASNT HAPPENED TO ME….BECAUSE I HAVEN’T ALLOWED IT TO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY…BECAUSE I’M HANDLING MY SH!t! WHY, YOU ASK? BECAUSE I AINT WITH THAT BULL!!!!!!!! YOU WILL RESPECT ME!

    What kind of wife doesnt know the status of her marriage? I THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD MARRIAGE….YOU THOUGHT, BUT YOU AINT KNOW SH!t OBVIOUSLY! I don’t think NATHAN ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIPS…I FCKIN KNOW IT!

    Get some situational awareness…and keep it progressive!”

    Now thats real talk and on that note I’m removing myself from the convo cause people catching feeling…Never chased after a man and never will :coffee:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kwall
    WE DONT BELIEVE YOU…U NEED MORE PEOPLE

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    kwall says:

    MY sis DB. she JUST said what i said in my VERY FIRST POST THIS MORNING….

    “so what you did not think your marriage was broken…comes to find out it WAS…even if you were the last to know.”

    :clap: :clap:

    “What kind of wife doesnt know the status of her marriage? I THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD MARRIAGE….YOU THOUGHT, BUT YOU AINT KNOW SH!t OBVIOUSLY! I don’t think NATHAN ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIPS…I FCKIN KNOW IT!”

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    Daisy says:

    I know she aint call anybody judgemental you JUDGING AKeys is just as wrong as her affair in GODS EYES IMO. Sin is sin and we all sinners and have our own crosses to bear yes I said it lol I know I am a sinner saved by grace and have to many of my own sins to worry about to point out somebody elses sin. I know what the bible says about adultery and judging othes.

    Kwall I feel you I love when couples keep their business in their house and out the streets

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    kcicero says:

    Awwww hell no, Swizz is suppose to be muslim too, aw hell naw…don’t don’t have no sympathy for his arse. Mashonda leave Alicia alone and take his behind to the CLEANERS!!!

    flyqtnva Says:
    kcicero
    it means ur speaking from: barbie fairytopia

    What the f*&k is barbie about what I said? Not a damn thing. I demand my husband be a husband and father and that’s what I get! Before we married I KNEW what type of man i was getting to quote DB:

    “THE REASON WHY THIS HASNT HAPPENED TO ME….BECAUSE I HAVEN’T ALLOWED IT TO! WHY…BECAUSE I’M HANDLING MY SH!t! WHY, YOU ASK? BECAUSE I AINT WITH THAT BULL! YOU WILL RESPECT ME!

    What kind of wife doesnt know the status of her marriage? I THOUGHT IT WAS A GOOD MARRIAGE….YOU THOUGHT, BUT YOU AINT KNOW SH!t OBVIOUSLY! I don’t think NATHAN ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIPS…I FCKIN KNOW IT!

    Get some situational awareness…and keep it progressive!”

    Now thats real talk and on that note I’m removing myself from the convo cause people catching feeling…Never chased after a man and never will :coffee:

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    kcicero says:

    Why is my comment awaiting moderation?….

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    Daisy says:

    @DB let the church say AMEN AMEN and AMEN again lol

    You said a mouthful in post #288

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    rochele08 says:

    ya’ll preaching today
    :popcorn:

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kwall

    OH YOU ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE TYLER PERRY ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT: NO MATTER WHAT GOES ON IN UR HOUSE IT STAYS IN YOUR HOUSE..CHEATING,,PEDOPHILIA & ALL HUH?

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    Daisy says:

    KC did you use to many W in your post?

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    free says:

    kwall, i went to church with a couple–usher and choir member–who obviously divorced without any of us knowing. was swapping kids on sunday and everything. we didn’t have a clue until homeboy starting bringing his new ole lady. all three of them were in the same service and no drama. no drama with the kids either. i have the utmost respect for this couple (esp the ex-wife who SEEMED still single) and loved how they handled it because you know how it gets in church. NOBODY knew.

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    coaretained says:

    :clap: @ kweezy… I believe you , you got enough people.
    :coffee:

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    Daisy says:

    @Coa you are a FOOL lol

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    free says:

    i just wanna get to 300….

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    coaretained says:

    @fly

    Does it NEED to be public?? If no ones getting abused, physically sexually or otherwise.. why would the outside world need to know??

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    Divinebrown says:

    kwallz, coa….ya’ll knoooooooow how we do!!! >>HERE<<

    Daisy…you have no idea the things that I have seen married people do. One word: Military. That’s all I need to say!

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    kwall says:

    @kwall
    WE DONT BELIEVE YOU…U NEED MORE PEOPLE
    —————————————————-
    coa, db, keely, goat, and a few others know me personally.

    so i got people who can vouch on me and mines.

    i am a firm believer in you gotta keep it strong for if nothing else your own sanity and your kids. be prepared for if that nukka leave you RIGHT NOW you and your kids not gonna starve, you not gonna be cold, and you will survive (in my gloria gaynor voice). your feelings gonna be hurt but you need to pick yourself up after awhile and close that chapter.

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    kcicero says:

    @ Daisy no mam I’m not sure what the problem is but I was whole heartedly agreeing with what DB said.

    And addressing fly’s ignorant comment about me speaking from barbie land…in any case people on the other side taking this too personal so I’m going to bow out :coffee: To many things going on in my BARBIE life to be concerned with other people’s marital problems…

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    free says:

    DB, i have lots of married guy friends. almost all cheat (or have cheated at one point or another). one divorced (and damn, the accusations in that divorce were UGLY); yet after all the sh*t-talking, they are engaged to be remarried.

    thank yall for helping my day go by. thank you mashonda!!

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    Daisy says:

    @DB I just found out about a military story from my gfriend her hubby has a baby with somebody serving with him thats the same age as their youngest child together. The womans hubby called her cause he doubted he fathered the child and sure enough he didnt my gfriends hubby did they did the DNA test and everythng. Needles to say she filed for divorce but he doesnt want a divorce cause he could loose his ranking in the air force. He is about to leave for another tour in a few mths just a hot mess.

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    coaretained says:

    ctfu @ free

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    flyqtnva says:

    @coaretained
    if you got a pedophile in ur home & your one of those keep it in my house people what happens? That pedophile goes out and does it to other people….U CANT KEEP EVERYTHING IN HOUSE ALL THE TIME…I KNOW YOU SEEN I CAN DO BAD ALL BYMYSELF,,,AND WHEN KWALL SAID THAT THATS WHAT I THOUGHT ABOUT..CAUSE THATS THE SAME LINE FROM THE MOVIE!

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    Daisy says:

    Bye KC this was a good conv. Take care of the lil one on the inside *waving* I shall be praying for yall.

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    KaraZ says:

    Divine Browna Says: kwall echoes:
    “What kind of wife doesnt know the status of her marriage?
    ————————————————————–

    Ummm… many married women who claim to KNOW the status of their relationships KNOW NOTHING about their husband’s philandering ways. Let’s not fool ourselves ladies, unless someone you trust tells you or you see it with your own eyes, you’ve probably been cheated on and carried on happily because you were ignorant of the true facts. Mashonda isn’t extraordinarily stupid for believing or wanting to believe her husband when he said he was faithful. So unless you’re God, the only thing you can be sure of when dealing with someone else is yourself.Period.

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    coaretained says:

    @daisy

    he shoulda kept his hand out the cookie jar then…

    My thing is.. for all the women on this post who are sure there men won’t cheat.. not saying they will…but even faith in GOD can’t predict nor control what your man will do. You may say “he’ll never cheat on me with another woman.. he loves me”

    But he might be sleeping with another man… the world is crazy and you can’t put shyt past ANYONE.

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    ELove says:

    I’ve read the LAST 60+ comments WHEW It’s getting HOT IN HERE

    And the Willfully Delusional women who don’t know the True Dynamics of their marriage IMO are Stubborn to be Stoopid !!!
    :lol:

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    toosexy says:

    @karaz I totally agree…some of these women funny….how can you not know…easily.. Some men are so good it’s true you won’t know… he comes home every night ..you getting no phone calls at night..everything is good…CUZ HE GOT THAT SERIAL HOMEWRECKER WHO KNOW HER PART(AK) WHO WILL STAY AROUND AND NOT CAUSE PROBLEMS… AND YOU THINK IT;S ALL GOOD OF COURSE YOU GUYS WILL HAVE PROBLEMS MUST MARRIAGES DO THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU EXPECT FOR HIM TO HAVE A WOMAN ON THE SIDE..

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    kcicero says:

    Bye Daisy!!! I will! Yes keep us in your prayers :)

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    coaretained says:

    @fly

    pedophilia and extra marital affairs are too different things.. if you keep mum about a PEDOPHILE RAPIST hell Hannibal LECTOR in your house.. your endangering other people.. keeping quiet about your husband creeping, ya’ll getting a divorce, the status of a paternity test is protecting YOURSELF from UNNECCESARY (sp) scrutiny.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kcicero
    DONT DISH IT IF U CANT TAKE IT….HONEY
    MAYBE YOU SHOULD SCROLL BACK UP & RE-READ YOUR COMMENT ADDRESSED AT ME…again its all love..im not upset at all..i dont have to resort to saying **** like..i keep my body right..my hair long…im pretty…i handle mine..to keep my husband like some of you have done above me… I know because of God and trust and believe if he feeds my spirit (its over) I will know before my husband.

    all that I I I I I & ME ME ME ME ….means nothing at the end of the day marriage is supposed to be rooted in GOD..women intuition (sp) is real…I lean ONLY ON THE LORD…and I can be sarcastic when time requires

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    Peachizz says:

    OMG…. I haven’t seen 300+++ can’t recall the last time I’ve seen this many post….

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    kwall says:

    @kwall OH YOU ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE TYLER PERRY ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT: NO MATTER WHAT GOES ON IN UR HOUSE IT STAYS IN YOUR HOUSE..CHEATING,,PEDOPHILIA & ALL HUH?
    ——————————————–
    no sis i live in that barbie land you accused kcicero of living in.

    ken dolls are not even anatomically correct enough to cheat OR be pedophiles….

    that is what happens in barbie land.

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    free says:

    toosexy, if you are married to a man, then you should know. if you don’t, you don’t know your man well enough and you need to pay more attention to him. i can see if you are a girlfriend because you are still in the learning stage and some things can get by you.

    there is a definitely a change in behavior and attitude. no man steps out and stays the same. they aren’t that smart. sorry.

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    KaraZ says:

    coaretained Says:

    My thing is.. for all the women on this post who are sure there men won’t cheat.. not saying they will…but even faith in GOD can’t predict nor control what your man will do. You may say “he’ll never cheat on me with another woman.. he loves me”

    But he might be sleeping with another man… the world is crazy and you can’t put shyt past ANYONE.
    ————————————————————

    How about THAT!

    The type of men I’ve been around, I put nothing past anybody. I know pastors who maintain several households, with nobody having knowledge of the extra marital affairs. A few men have actually perfected the art of double lives.

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    coaretained says:

    @kwall

    Dead I say… DEAD.

    Is the corvette still pink in barbie land??

    DEAD

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    Divinebrown says:

    @free…some women have to have a man regardless of the character of that said man. End of story….

    I know some married men that aint cheating because they actually love the woman they married.

    Karaz…you are exactly right. I got cheated on TWICE!! At that time, I was in my mid-twenties and I tell you what…MY INSTINCTS TOLD ME I WAS BEING CHEATED ON. I TELL YOU…I KNEW I KNEW I KNEW. I chose not to do anything at the time. But when the sh!t his the fan…I was equally as disappointed with myself because his habits changed, his sex got boring, and there was plenty of unaccounted periods of absence. I CHOSE TO IGNORE ALL THE SIGNS AND RED FLAGS And I didnt have access to passwords, online banking, and cellphone bills. We have to accpet responsibility for the men that we choose.

    I operate much differently now. But, it took all of that happening for me to get where I am today.

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    kwall says:

    women intuition (sp) is real
    —————————————
    where was Mashonda’s?

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    coaretained says:

    @323

    in barbie land with you and KC

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    Anna says:

    free Says:

    kwall, i went to church with a couple–usher and choir member–who obviously divorced without any of us knowing. was swapping kids on sunday and everything. we didn’t have a clue until homeboy starting bringing his new ole lady. all three of them were in the same service and no drama. no drama with the kids either. i have the utmost respect for this couple (esp the ex-wife who SEEMED still single) and loved how they handled it because you know how it gets in church. NOBODY knew.
    ~~~~~~~~~
    I am dipping. Now that is class and the way it’s suppose to be. No need for those in the circle to have to pick sides. It’s not about the divorced couple it’s about the kids. It had to be a hot topic with him bringing the new gf to church with him, but everyone had egg on their face when they realized the couple was divorced. LOL. They did it the right way, kept everyone out of their business. A marriage is between two ppl as should the divorce be(unless one cheated and you want to sue them for the demise of the marriage).

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    kwall says:

    there is a definitely a change in behavior and attitude. no man steps out and stays the same. they aren’t that smart. sorry.
    ———————————————
    PREACH!

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    KaraZ says:

    free Says:
    there is a definitely a change in behavior and attitude. no man steps out and stays the same. they aren’t that smart. sorry.

    ————————————————————–

    NOT TRUE. Some men are indeed that smart, nothing is amiss & their wives are 100% with the man that they married, not his alter ego.

    Women don’t deceive yourselves by thinking all men are stupid, or specifically your man is stupid. Your good-good isn’t that good to keep a man faithful, nor is your sparkling personality, sharp wit or gourmet home cooked meals. Only the fear of God & respect of his own self can keep a man faithful. You cannot and will never know everything about a man, even after 50 years of marriage.

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    ELove says:

    K-Dub
    Her’s got lost during the Ump-tenth time she WILLINGLY ignored HIS cheating ways & Side-piece Mistress(s) :lol:

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    Krysi J says:

    It iz what it iz, and its fukked up, but hey….one can only hope those who agree with the adultry factor never endure the same situation for themselves. Other than that…stay up Mashonda, and don’t allow people to take what dignity you have left and throw it in the gutter, as much as it hurts…what these people are telling you is to hold all those feelings in no matter what pain you are in, and accept defeat…since marriage is some sort of game, and swallow your pride and smile and hide your tears in silence. Please do so, you do not want to publicly humiliate yourself for peopele who could careless about you, Swizz, or AK…cuz it can get down right ugly up in here.

    Second…

    Only on planet earth in the 21st century would this shyt even be acceptable….so WHATEVER. Hell in a handbasket, yea thats where the world is headed….and IM GLAD!!

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    coaretained says:

    @327

    that’s cause they were prolly ON ONE from the get go. No need to change behavior.. he’s always BEEN an a$$.

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    ELove says:

    @KaraZ (#327)
    I REALLY THINK your giving away TOO MUCH Info (Right Now) :rofl:

    But you’re EXACTLY RIGHT and ON-POINT (No Doubt about that)
    :lol:

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    Daisy says:

    Krysi I am dead serious and not trying to be a smart azz or catty (think thats what i was accused (not by you) of before but I disgress) WHO in this post said ADULTERY was ok?

    I want Mashonda to stay up and move on. God Bless her and I feel sorry for her pain but I will never co sign on the letter and how she choose to handle the situation. She can write a letter everyday if thats is what SHE needs to do to get over it hope it helps her heal. I would have given her more props had she kept it 100 and said AK is a BISH etc etc vs trying to front that this was the mature way and only trying to get her to have a convo. I aint buying that BS at all.

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    Daisy says:

    @karaz I agree you can never know a man or woman 100% BUT in this case his azz had been cheating and she knew but turned a blind eye she didnt want to play the victim card (which tech. she is so I will give her that) until it was AK and HE LEFT FOR GOOD.

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    Daisy says:

    I am off to the gym I bet it will be 500 post by the time I get home this evening lol Toodles its been real

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    glamdiva83 says:

    There’s 2 sides 2 every story & we don’t even know the whole story. All we know is he left her 4 AK. We don’t know if she was cheating,stealing $(like Shawnie did Shaq),manipulating we will never know because all Mashonda wants us 2 know is he a dog & AK a so-call homewrecker. I feel she only doing this 4 attention & want people 2 feel sorry 4 her. Swizz said on twitter he will not answer questions about his personal life on twitter that’s personal & how some people are going about things childish he a grown ass man who don’t resort 2 twitter 4 gossip or personal business about other people lives. He right she going about this in a high school manner trying 2 bring them down in public making herself look stupid,childish & a little girl not a grown woman. She need 2 just move on & worry about her son

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    flyqtnva says:

    @Krysi J
    youre right….mashonda dont let this break you…u will heal in time…and know those two will get theirs in the end.. if u did try as u stated & asked her to stop thats all u can do, u tried..but dont be embrassed at all…

    and for those of you living n fairytopia have fun..cooking..cleaning..keeping your weight down…staying sexy…handling ur biznezz….have fun with that…see where it takes u..without God I will see you on twitter writing a letter to your mans mistress

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    starr says:

    I goes n gets my hair done, and come back to 300+ comments……i’ma make me a sandwich and read through em…

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    Krysi J says:

    Women don’t deceive yourselves by thinking all men are stupid, or specifically your man is stupid. Your good-good isn’t that good to keep a man faithful, nor is your sparkling personality, sharp wit or gourmet home cooked meals. Only the fear of God & respect of his own self can keep a man faithful. You cannot and will never know everything about a man, even after 50 years of marriage.

    ——————————————————-

    YOU BETTER know IIIiiiiit!

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    coaretained says:

    cosigning w/ Daisy #332… she shoulda eitha punched the bish… or played on her phone.. called her up playing some mokenstef..something PRIVATE.. by trying to embarass AK on a public forum, she’s just embarassing herself.

    But that does not excuse Beats and Keys… they still got some ‘splainin to do Lucy…

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    keely107 says:

    @Coa:

    Not only did you leave the 339 comment about this woman scorned, but you had to mention Mokenstef>>>>>>>>>>>bye!

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    kwall says:

    without God I will see you on twitter writing a letter to your mans mistress
    —————————————-
    again another assumption. who says that folks don’t “have God”??

  344. 344
    kwall says:

    “he’s mine you mighta had once but i gotta all the time.”

    mokenstef. 1995.

  345. 345
    Divinebrown says:

    Why can’t people have a debate with out personally assaulting someone that opposes them? Why?

    I’m trying to keep it clean…but it’s about to get dirty. Then Sandra will bust up outta nowhere with the big ban letters because I took it there.

    Whatever the case maybe….everyone gets cheated on. EVERYONE! Fool me once shame on you….fool me twice shame on me. Words to live by…

  346. 346
    kwall says:

    “u can’t sleep at night….”

  347. 347
    kwall says:

    I’m trying to keep it clean…but it’s about to get dirty. Then Sandra will bust up outta nowhere with the big ban letters because I took it there.
    ———————————-
    me too.

  348. 348
    coaretained says:

    “when keeping it real goes wrong”

    DB.. don’t get rebanned… like you said.. some folks don’t want to accept reality.. sh!t happens…and the thing is sometimes folks NEVER KNOW.

    They just move to Barbieland.. I’ll never get over that one..

  349. 349
    Divinebrown says:

    Clean…kwalls, Clean!!! lol

  350. 350
    coaretained says:

    I’m telling you something that just ain’t cooooooo

    NEver fall in love with a man who don’t love you
    ohhh…

  351. 351
    KaraZ says:

    Daisy Says:
    @karaz I agree you can never know a man or woman 100% BUT in this case his azz had been cheating and she knew but turned a blind eye she didnt want to play the victim card (which tech. she is so I will give her that) until it was AK and HE LEFT FOR GOOD.
    ————————————————————–

    If he was cheating prior to Alicia HoAss Keys & he chose to stay & work things out with his wife who was willing to work with him, I don’t see why that’s a negative point for Mashonda. You don’t know if he begged & pleaded and promised not to do it again or seeked professional help. I don’t understand the tone that I am getting in many responses that Mashonda should be ashamed or embarrassed by her cheating husband or the loose pu$sy trick that slept with… they went there first so its whatever

  352. 352
    Divinebrown says:

    lmfao!!!!!! Coa…you aint got good sense. If been crackin up at you all damn day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  353. 353
    Krysi J says:

    I would have given her more props had she kept it 100 and said AK is a BISH etc etc vs trying to front that this was the mature way and only trying to get her to have a convo. I aint buying that BS at all.
    ———————————————————–

    shyt trust me SHE WOULD’VE called dem MFs BYTCHES with a capital FUKK U, bUT….she knew that the bloggers would have torn her to pieces for sure, and AKEys and her lil friends would have roasted that azz too….so I agree she tried to make it seem like she was taking the high road….but yall tom bout she public with hers…..WELL SHE READ ALICIA SHYT ON TWITTER FIRST….hellllooooo, we all just biased in this bytch! I’m an Alicia fan, but I don’t like that shyt…cuz I’ve been there done that—thank GOD I wasn’t married, but there are other Alicia fans that I feel like are just agreeing with the Swizz and AK situation because they are simply fans….cuz other than that…..agreeing with that shyt makes nooooo sense to me what so ever. However, we would never agree on anything completely….so be it. I never said anything too much about the shyt before this post, because I never liked it…at ALL, its just not cool to me….I guess Im just disappointed….ALiCIA KEYS??…..not Ms. “Womans’ Worth” and you proud?? All on twitter tweeting bout love and shyt, is that really how you get down….boy Im still in shock. You could have never told me ALICIA KEYS would want anything to do with someone who is married….or cheated on his wife in any way period…she seemed so positive and intelligent, inspiring even…….just WOW :shock:

    Its just sad….the whole damn thang is disappointing.

  354. 354
    keely107 says:

    fun..cooking..cleaning..keeping your weight down…staying sexy…handling ur biznezz…
    ___________________________________________________________

    Is this the only time folks perform these duties? When they have a man? WOW! I guess I BEEN out of my lane! LOL.

  355. 355
    mizzdallas says:

    lmao @ coa NOT mokenstef hahahahhahahahhaha

    I know said before I was done, but this is my last post…

    @krysi

    It iz what it iz, and its fukked up, but hey….one can only hope those who agree with the adultry factor never endure the same situation for themselves. Other than that…stay up Mashonda, and don’t allow people to take what dignity you have left and throw it in the gutter, as much as it hurts…what these people are telling you is to hold all those feelings in no matter what pain you are in, and accept defeat…since marriage is some sort of game, and swallow your pride and smile and hide your tears in silence. Please do so, you do not want to publicly humiliate yourself for peopele who could careless about you, Swizz, or AK…cuz it can get down right ugly up in here.
    ________________________________________________
    I really truly hope that she gets over this, she need a really hot guy right now, let me see who I can call for her…. j/k but this too shall pass…

  356. 356
    kwall says:

    They just move to Barbieland..
    ———————————
    i am not there alone. me and kc are there together with our kids and husbands.

    i am driving a pank corvette. she is driving the barbie van.

    she lives in the mansion (since her family is bigger than mine) and we live in the townhouse.

    she does not have Allah and I do not have God.

    we are cooking..cleaning..keeping our weight down…staying sexy…handling our biznezz….

    check us out on twitter sometime. cause according to SOMEONE without God (or Allah for our sis kc) THAT is where we are headed….

  357. 357
    coaretained says:

    You know what.. wtf does the damn twit even SAY?? Probably just a random a$$ thought…So now she can’t write love songs anymore cause who she wit? I am not even that much of a FAN of hers…they ain’t right.. period..BUUUUUUUUUUUT….she’s human too…

    @keely

    fa real…

  358. 358
    Krysi J says:

    :rofl:

    @344 and Coa

    Man, yall make me sick….take dat shyt to da KONA!!

  359. 359
    KaraZ says:

    Mokenstef… really? y’all are not going to kill me.

    But even in Barbie land I believe Ken is sleeping with Skipper & Steven.

  360. 360
    coaretained says:

    @kwall

    You’re fired…. from whateva position you hold in Barbieland… move on over to Bratzville

    :rofl:

  361. 361
    starr says:

    Afta readin these comments…it really got hot in the kitchen

    And why do so many people try to get personal…smh

  362. 362
    browni007 says:

    i was in that position – but once you have to step to another woman about your man he aint your man…I still dont have respect for the woman today but I wouldnt put her own broadway – its senseless – she didnt have respect for you when she cheated with your husband and she aint going to consider your feeling now – hard position to be in – keep praying and be strong for the child(ren) involved.

  363. 363
    Divinebrown says:

    I have been itching to say this and I know it doesnt have anything to do with anything…

    But he is so AIDS victim-like bony! IMAGINE WHAT THAT LOOKS LIKE NAKED…..*GAG*

    Them skinny dudes be grindin their hips all into you…making you swole the next day. I could prolly deal with it better if they had SWIFT’s money. LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

  364. 364
    kwall says:

    But even in Barbie land I believe Ken is sleeping with Skipper & Steven.
    ————————————
    of course. b/c right next to barbieland…also according to the SAME person with the SAME overactive imagination is….

    TYLER PERRYVILLE.

    a modern day sodom and gomorrah and pedophiles running amok.

    *(disclaimer) i did NOT make these scenarios up. someone else did……

  365. 365
    ELove says:

    @360
    Now THAT is some serious and much needed PERSPECTIVE !!! :lol:

  366. 366
    coaretained says:

    Kwall… I thought you was coming to the KONA with me?

    Cmon.. it’s thisa way….

  367. 367
    ELove says:

    @K-Dub … And THAT’S Perrysville with an “s” :lol:

  368. 368
    coaretained says:

    @361 DB

    I have a skinny man… no comment…none whatsoeva…

  369. 369
    kwall says:

    it has EVEYTHING to do with it @Dbrown. they fighting and carrying the hail on over SKELE-TOR.

    from grayskull mountain.

    i swear that dude is not cute.

  370. 370
    Divinebrown says:

    KWALLACE…KWALLACE…*if I could get fired from this job….IT WOULD BE YOUR FAULT*

    IF I GET ANY PAPERWORK BEHIND THE RIDICULOUS LAUGHTER COMING FROM BEHIND MY DESK….YOU ARE TAKING ME OUT FOR DRINKS ALL NIGHT AND I DONT CARE IF I HAVE TO COME UP THERE AND GET IT!!!!!!

  371. 371
    kwall says:

    @coa…

    your man might be skinn-ty but he do not look like a he-man action figure from 1986.

  372. 372
    coaretained says:

    I second that motion DB…. and I share a wall with my supa… Not Skeletor… NOT SKELETOR!!!

  373. 373
    Divinebrown says:

    Coa…I used to have a skinny man. *the kinda skinny that got 6 pack abs by default* I know what the biz is! TRUST!! But uh….that was a valid complaint with him.

  374. 374
    Krysi J says:

    I mean me personally…I would’ve handle the situation accordingly

    If you are not married, you have no say so in a man cheating….I hate to say it, but until you are married a man is never technically yours in the first place is how I see it. So when I experienced being cheated on, as much as it hurted I let the nicca go….I felt like I let her have the dog azz nicca, shyt and I did. Ain nobody take a MF thang from me I ain want….and he still dogging her dumb azz to this day, and Lord knows I get a kick outta it everytime…LAUGH my whole entire AZZ OFF AT IT infact. I want them to be together so that she can continue to suffer, from her own wrong doing. So Mashonda as a married woman you have to look at it the same I guess. True enough if I had been married, I would’ve whopped everybody’s azz before politely divorcing ah MF, but there would have been no reconciling going on….I mean, maybe if he PUBLICLY apologized and verified to his mistress that it was over and he was going to try and fix his marriage…..but really knowing me, I probably wouldn’t have went for that shyt either. Like I said its just sad, but why yall talking like Mashonda so stupid…..damn yall, that could have easily been any of us, any day…don’t ever forget that….thats a woman in a fukked up place, you mean to tell me nobody ever felt like that before, never been that hurt by somebody….yall some lucky MFs.

  375. 375
    Divinebrown says:

    :rofl: greyskull mountain…..DAMN YOUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!

    My chest is hurting….

  376. 376
    Krysi J says:

    *pulse fading*

    Kwall please….let me catch my AIR

    FAINT @ 367….couldn’t live long enough to survive 369…..DEAD__________________

  377. 377
    Krysi J says:

    BUAHAAHAHAHAHA @ DB #371, “6pak by default”

    Why?

    just tell me…..please….

    *tears*

    I HATE ALL YALL!!! :rofl:

  378. 378
    coaretained says:

    Irregardless of whatever….

    DNR me @ all….and someone sue kwall for wrongful death… please…on behalf of my chillren…

  379. 379
    kwall says:

    well @krysi i been hurt PLENTY of times. PLENTY. but she handled this all wrong. like coa and daisy said if it was that bad, you hurt THAt bad just beat that heffa azz and K.I.M. >>>>>>

    brenda richie beat a bish AZZ. and lionel’s too. drug that heffa back in like 1988. and lionel STILL married the chick that got beat down….but brenda got hers (guap), she NEVER discussed it publicly, and kept it murvin. now nicole was flucked up there for awhile but i think that stemmed from her adoption issues…NOT cause of their marital woes.

  380. 380
    keely107 says:

    Coa:

    I hope you were being sarcastic, cuz WE ALL know THAT IRREGARDLESS is NOT in the English language as a WORD, cuz if u didnt >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

  381. 381
    coaretained says:

    @keely

    *blank stare*

    really??

    :rofl:

  382. 382
    browni007 says:

    @ KJ once a cheating azz dirty mugga always – I laugh my head off too – I still get emails you look good, I wanna this and that and he wit the chick he wanted. Senseless.

  383. 383
    KaraZ says:

    Divinebrown Says:
    *the kinda skinny that got 6 pack abs by default*
    ————————————————————–

    :Jesusbeafencesmileyneeded:

  384. 384
    keely107 says:

    @Coa:

    Yeah, right up there with texted! In the DNNU (do not neva use section)

  385. 385
    Divinebrown says:

    ya’ll know bony dudes don’t have to work for abs. Looking all dehydrated….

    Hold up now…I”m finding conflicting info about “irregardless”….I just googled it.

    I typed in…is “irregardless a word”

    :rofl:

  386. 386
    Krysi J says:

    I HATE YOU COA .. :rofl: @ 367!!!

    DAMN YALL FUNNY MFs in here cracking jokes, I CAN’t even keep a straight face trying to type all dat serious shyt!!

  387. 387
    coaretained says:

    Divinebrown Says:
    *the kinda skinny that got 6 pack abs by default*
    ***

    That’s the kinda I got….

    Dayum…

  388. 388
    KaraZ says:

    Divinebrown Says:
    ya’ll know bony dudes don’t have to work for abs. Looking all dehydrated….

    :ghostsmiley:

  389. 389
    coaretained says:

    @krysi don’t hate me.. 367 was kwall…I just knew who she was tambout…I loved He-Man AND She-Rah.

  390. 390
    browni007 says:

    LMFAO – its hot up in here.

  391. 391
    coaretained says:

    @382
    Well let Sr.com be a VOICE to all those who think irregardless is a word. Oh.. and texted..

    Now I know.. and knowing is half the battle.

    :snicker:

  392. 392
    keely107 says:

    @DB: Did u get this?

    Irregardless is a term meaning in spite of or anyway, that has caused controversy since it first appeared in the early twentieth century. It is generally listed in dictionaries as “incorrect” or “nonstandard”.

  393. 393
    Divinebrown says:

    keely I got that and a few other things….

    This : Although one might reasonably argue that it is no different from words with redundant affixes like debone and unravel, it has been considered a blunder for decades and will probably continue to be so.

    man…is that a word? Why can’t I get over it? My OCD is kicking in.

  394. 394
    kwall says:

    @390 it shoulda went on to read that ONE PARTICULAR member of the SR community has a big problem with talking about the incorrect usage of the word.

  395. 395
    keely107 says:

    In a nutshell, no, folks just made it one and it so widely misused, Webster is beginning to question himself!
    hflkjahefklhelshflkjshgfregl;rd;

  396. 396
    Divinebrown says:

    POW!!!!!!! I had to know….

    The prefix ir- (i-r) is a negative prefix, so if you add the prefix ir to a word that’s already negative like regardless, you’re making a double-negative word that literally means “without without regard.”

    Language experts speculate that irregardless comes from a combination of the words regardless and irrespective and that another reason people might say “irregardless” is that they are following the pattern of words like irregular and irreplaceable. But regardless already has the -less suffix on the end, so it’s not like those other words.

  397. 397
    coaretained says:

    on the flo…

    :rofl:

    LITERALLY.. I think I’m logging off now…LMAO

  398. 398
    toosexy says:

    @free no i’m divored and engaged at the same time..I am remarrying in april of next year….

  399. 399
    coaretained says:

    wait.. someone wiki it and see if said sr member is listed!!

    I cain’t today……………………………

  400. 400
    Krysi J says:

    Oh and Browni I agreed with what you said of course…I went on about my business..and let them have it….BUT it still HURT, now….ain no need in acting like a damn superhero…the shyt was still painful…but I took it like a WOMAN i guess LOL. And I slipped up here and there, but I knew better than to be in an actual relationship with him again, I never did that, and that was my FIRST LOVE, so yall know Im cold on deez fools now! I don’t give a damn whats going on, HOW LONG WE’VE KNOWN EACH OTHER *side eye* FUKK all dat…..you just like the rest of em’ and I don’t put shyt pass na’an niccah…NEVA AGAIN. I haven’t been in love since, now I may love a person for who they are or even care about em a whole lot, but its been beast mode for a while now…im not even sure if love lives here anymore. Hell, I just do me…fukk what dey doin. My best friend got caught up in it even…..(oh but he got me back.. :rofl:, and thats why I can’t even be mad) It iz what it iz

    and I just hope Mashonda don’t let Swizz fukk her up for life. Cause once you turn cold sometimes its no coming back…..but thats what happens when you hold all that shyt in and cut off all your emotions to deal with something in silence…it turns you into another person….nothing good comes out of any of it in the end.

  401. 401
    Divinebrown says:

    394…that’s the word COA!! I’m sticking to it!

    So we got:

    Irregardless
    Conversate
    Texted

    I’m missing one…something that makes me cringe horribly.

  402. 402
    coaretained says:

    @krysi she’s been tambout it for a while though.. how is she being silent? If WE have to hear all this.. imagine what SWIZZ hears? His mama? HIs siblings?

  403. 403
    kcicero says:

    i am not there alone. me and kc are there together with our kids and husbands.

    i am driving a pank corvette. she is driving the barbie van.

    she lives in the mansion (since her family is bigger than mine) and we live in the townhouse.

    she does not have Allah and I do not have God.

    we are cooking..cleaning..keeping our weight down…staying sexy…handling our biznezz….

    check us out on twitter sometime. cause according to SOMEONE without God (or Allah for our sis kc) THAT is where we are headed….

    Darn it KWALL YOU ABOUT TO MAKE ME HAVE THIS BABY 3 MONTHS EARLY…I KNOW I SAID I WAS DONE BUT YOU, DB, COA, AND KEELY ARE CLOWNING IN HERE, JUST ALL KINDS OF OUT OF POCKET, LMAO…..

  404. 404
    Krysi J says:

    @krysi she’s been tambout it for a while though.. how is she being silent? If WE have to hear all this.. imagine what SWIZZ hears? His mama? HIs siblings?

    ——————————————————-

    Well good, I honestly don’t want her to be….she needs to let it out somehow, and her problem is trying to be nice when she’s angry thats why she can’t “get over it”, she’s still trying to cover it up…and either you are going to LET DEM MFs have it…..or walk away…….I kinda wish I would have let dem MFs have it, cuz who knows I may have messed over a good man, because of something that happened when I was too young to understand far as Im concerned…but thats what came outta of being SILENT cutting off all that hurt and pain. Its like I cut it off, and now I don’t know how to turn em back on…???

    I guess it depends on YOU, which would you prefer?

  405. 405
    Anna says:

    kwall Says:

    kwall Says:
    like coa and daisy said if it was brenda richie beat a bish AZZ. and lionel’s too. drug that heffa back in like 1988. and lionel STILL married the chick that got beat down….but brenda got hers (guap), she NEVER discussed it publicly, and kept it murvin. now nicole was flucked up there for awhile but i think that stemmed from her adoption issues…NOT cause of their marital woes. like coa and daisy said if it was brenda richie beat a bish AZZ. and lionel’s too. drug that heffa back in like 1988. and lionel STILL married the chick that got beat down….but brenda got hers (guap), she NEVER discussed it publicly, and kept it murvin. now nicole was flucked up there for awhile but i think that stemmed from her adoption issues…NOT cause of their marital woes.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Living well is the best revenge (after the beat down of course) Lionel ended up divorcing her also.

  406. 406
    Shauny says:

    still :popcorn: and crackin up. Yall clowned today. I knew this was going to be the topic of the day when I saw it this weekend.

  407. 407
    yvonne79 says:

    Y’ALL ARE SOME DAMN FOOLS :lmao:

  408. 408
    Daisy says:

    Yall are some PLUM FOOLS lol I love it though glad it ended on a happy note

    So barbie land is the new hot spot to live in now la la land has falling from grace lol

  409. 409
    spongebobfan says:

    Dang we were on a roll today….. lol

  410. 410
    Hermosa says:

    Where is Swiss Beats open letter on Twitter???

    Mashonda…GET OVER IT!

  411. 411
    flyqtnva says:

    Its not BARBIE LAND..ITS BARBIE FAIRYTOPIA get it right.. lol.. anyhoo as i stated before mashonda has every single living breathing right to be pissed…2 years is not a long time considering the baby is 2 & he didnt leave her as soon as she pushed the baby out.
    #2> Some one else bought up all that I know my husband want me because I HANDLE MY BIZZNESS, I dont ALLOW HIM TO CHEAT (btw THAT WAS THE DUMBEST SH!T I READ ALL DAY)..SOUNDS LIKE SHE TALKING MORE ABOUT A DOG THAN HER HUSBAND… and etc…I’m saying none of that sh!t matter..Mashonda kept herself up to dddduuuuhhh!
    #3> AT THE END OF THE DAY IF U SLEEP WITH A MARRIED MAN U ARE TRASH.. AND YES I LIKE AKEYS BUT OH WELL..I CALL IT LIKE I SEE IT…EVERYONE HAS THEIR DEMONS TO FIGHT…THIS MAY BE HERS..WHO KNOWS..AGAIN IF U DONT WANT TO BE ON FULL BLAST STOP SLEEPING WITH MARRIED MEN!

    GOODNIGHT!

  412. 412
    Divinebrown says:

    I made a comment similar to that one. And while you were on here trying real hard to convince us that you have a good marriage…

    your husband was getting head from an LSGH WITH NO GAG REFLEX.

  413. 413
    kcicero says:

    @ DB :rofl:

  414. 414
    flyqtnva says:

    WELL Divinebrown WHEN MY HUBBY TAKES HIS D@!K OUT YOUR MOUTH:
    “LEAVE MY $$ ON THE NIGHT STAND”

  415. 415
    Divinebrown says:

    Ummmm, boo! Dumb and Blind…I’m not LS!!! I bet your country a$$ is from Roanoke jumping on the board popping off. Wouldn’t do sh!t in person.

    You know what? You probably gunning so hard and calling people homewreakers because you’re husband cheated on you and you stayed with him. I’m willing to bet money…he cheated on you before you even married him. Based off what I can see…I understand. You are so hail bent on blaming the other woman this…don’t sleep with a married man. If you bisches could keep your man happy at home….he wouldn’t be in them streets. YOU’RE ONE OF THEM. BLAME THE OTHER WOMAN FOR YOUR HUSBAND’S WEAKNESS! Reality of the situation, you encapsulate everything that I’ve never wanted to be. (LOOK IT UP…I know your vocabulary is limited) I bet…you’re completely dependent on him and CAN’T LEAVE BECAUSE YOU AINT GOT SHAT OF YOUR OWN. That’s why you come here everyday bitter, negative and attacking people. When you look in the mirror, you don’t like the person looking back. Please believe…I”m out of your husband’s league…if he settled for something like you, I know for damn sure he likes ghetto, classless and uneducated defensive women that he can control because they have low self esteem and quite simply can’t do better. Stay with him…NO ONE WILL WANT YOU WHEN YOU LEAVE. On second thought, I don’t need to tell you that. You already tell yourself that everyday. WHAT A GREAT ROLE MODEL YOU ARE FOR YOUR KIDS!

    I see why he cheated on you…I’m turning my back on you and I dont even know you.

    now suck on that, wifey! *POOF*

  416. 416
    flyqtnva says:

    oH BISH PLEASE…IF U CAN DISH IT BE PREPARED TO TAKE IT! U MADE YOURSELF LOOK REAL WEAK YO….IM LAUGHING AT U RIGHT NOW MA…WANNA PLAY THE DOZENS & CANT POOR BABY! :crying:

  417. 417
    Divinebrown says:

    That’s what I thought….

  418. 418
    Charles says:

    417 COMMENTS

    SOMEBODY GONNA BE GETTING THEY QUICK WEAVE SNATCHED!!!!!! YALL KNOW NOT TO BE GOING THIS HARD WITHOUT ME, LEMME SCROLL UP!!!!!

  419. 419
    Charles says:

    I hope no one gets :ban: anywayssssssssssssss

    I feel like if she did a brenda richie showed up at the crib and wooped both they asses it would work realllllllllll good! =D shed get her point across all right!

  420. 420
    kwall says:

    that is what i said too @charles. pull a brenda richie Tuskegee 1988 on their azzes. the letter woula read diff.

    thanks for going there dbrown. somebody had to. i been trying NOT to all day. well said tho. she had been on the defensive since waaaay back at comment numba 7…. and when daisy called her out for make assumptions it all went downhill from there. and after she found out we were NONE of the things she had implied (? are any of you married? just shacking up huh? any children? had them out of wedlock?…you and starr have no kids are not shacking and i am married) it REALLY became clear she was just salty after that.

    see yall tomorrow. you too fly.

  421. 421
    flyqtnva says:

    u tried to tell a joke and got dissed couldnt take it and had to write a book…WOW…HA HA HA ..I FRIED THAT A@@ AND I DIDNT HAVE TO RESORT TO GUESSING ANYTHING ABOUT U …

    i WILL BE FROM ROANAKE, I WILL BE FROM TAPPAHANOCK IF U WANT ME TO BE…BUT U GOT THAT verbal lashing courtesy of NORFOLK VA 2 up 2 down…MY HUBBY & KIDS ANIT GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH THE FACT U TRIED TO TELL A JOKE AND I BACK HANDED THAT @SS …REALLY IS THAT THE BEST U CAN DO!

  422. 422
    flyqtnva says:

    @Divinebrown

    i’M FABO AND U BOW WOW RIGHT NOW

  423. 423
    flyqtnva says:

    IM Divinebrown BUT you can call ME MISS PIGGY
    I TRIED TO DIS FLYQT BUT SHE POWERED UP ON ME
    NOW ALL I CAN DO IS TALK ALOT OF SASS
    CAUSE MY MOUTH WROTE A CHECK THAT MY a@@ CANT CASH!

    Bigups to all my Roanoke Bishes in the house tonight!

    Thank you Sabers I will be here all SEASON!

  424. 424
    Divinebrown says:

    You got ethered…end of story! You had all night and that’s all you can come up with.

    Stick a fork in her people!

    Good morning to you!

  425. 425
  426. 426
    bk2atl says:

    DB, let it go boo, let it go.

  427. 427
    coaretained says:

    DEAD and DEAD.. DB :hugs:

    @krysi

    I’d prefer to whoop that trick and THEN tambout some shyt… until I get my hands on her ain’t really much to say…

  428. 428
    mizzdallas says:

    LMAO @ FLY

  429. 429
    mizzdallas says:

    #427

    WHOOP A BISH HECK NAW’LLL STRAIGHT CUT THAT HOE, THAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL REAL GOOD HAHAHAHAHHA

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    rochele08 says:

    ..it’s too early for all this..LOL!!

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    keely107 says:

    DB:

    ____________________________________________________________

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    flyqtnva says:

    dont say nothing else miss piggy:

    “JUST LEAVE MY MONEY ON THE DRESSER”

    “JUST LEAVE MY MONEY ON THE DRESSER”

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    flyqtnva says:

    FOR THOSE OF U WHO MISSED IT:
    Divinebrown Says:

    I made a comment similar to that one. And while you were on here trying real hard to convince us that you have a good marriage…

    your husband was getting head from an LSGH WITH NO GAG REFLEX.

    THEN I SAID:
    flyqtnva Says:

    WELL Divinebrown WHEN MY HUBBY TAKES HIS D@!K OUT YOUR MOUTH:
    “LEAVE MY $$ ON THE NIGHT STAND”

    THEN SHE WROTE A LONG LETTER :CRYING: CUZ MS PIGGY FEELINGS GOT HURT…

    SO NOW THE PHRASE OF THE DAY IS

    “JUST LEAVE MY MONEY ON THE DRESSER..

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    coaretained says:

    *raises hand*

    um fly… if that’s the case… wouldnt he be paying HER?

    that’s all I’m saying….

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    kwall says:

    i WILL BE FROM ROANAKE, I WILL BE FROM TAPPAHANOCK IF U WANT ME TO BE…BUT U GOT THAT verbal lashing courtesy of NORFOLK VA
    ————————————–
    you prolly from portsmouth (p-town) or great bridge (da bridge) someplace. stop playing.

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    flyqtnva says:

    KWALL

    WHAT DO U REALLY KNOW ABOUT PTOWN…I MEAN FOR REAL< SHOW ME WHO STUPID YOU ARE…CUZ DBROWN ALREADY DISSED ROANOKE…U DISSING P TOWN OR GREAT BRIDGE..REALLY?? U WONT SET FOOT IN PTOWN…

    IMA GO AHEAD AND DO U A FAVOR
    WHAT UP PTOWN
    HAMPTON…BAD NEWS..RICHMOND..VA BEACH…TAPPAHANOCK..NORFOLK..
    2UP 2 DOWN
    AND U STILL A CLOWN

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    keely107 says:

    HOLLERING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think this post is done.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @KWALL

    I TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT…CUZ ANY BISH THAT MADE IT OUT OF PTOWN IS A BAD BISH….

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    flyqtnva says:

    @keely107

    OKAY JUST HAD TO GET THAT IN FOR MY PTOWN LADIES

    ALL MY PTOWN LADIES TELL KWALL

    LEAVE THAT $$ ON THE DRESSER

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    kwall says:

    ain’t a dayum thing wrong with ptown.

    cause if they from ptown they sure ain’t gonna say they from norfolk.

    i’ll be in ptown and great bridge next weekend. come see me.

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    coaretained says:

    @kwall #440

    I was just about to say that…

    look @ fly bumping “run this town” at work…she ain’t running just HER town.. she say she run the whole dam state….

    :eyeroll:

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    flyqtnva says:

    i didnt say I run the whole state

    but calling out areas that I know like you must be from ptown..sounds like a diss to me. so i will rep for ptwon or anywhere else in va for that matter…i got peeps out there…so before she dissed anyplace else i call them all out. Thats all

    Then she came back and said anit nothing wrong with PTOWN
    Then why bring it up at all…real dumb it must be your OLDTIMERS huh kwall

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    kwall says:

    CUZ DBROWN ALREADY DISSED ROANOKE…U DISSING P TOWN OR GREAT BRIDGE..REALLY?? U WONT SET FOOT IN PTOWN…
    ———————————————–
    how old are you again? calling out cities and towns on the internet. this chick is repping for towns and hoods on the internet…..really? woooow.

    meet me at the corner of elm and george washington next weekend. don’t be tardy for the party.

    yeah come see me. let me see how fly you really are. or how fly you really ain’t.

    p.s. bring your perfect husband too.

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    flyqtnva says:

    @kwall
    your a WALKING OR CRAWLING CONTRADICTION…u started the internet beef w/ur friend ms piggy…then u called out ptown and asked ME TO MEET U MS LADY! U REALLY DO HAVE OLDTIMERS HUH

    meet me at the corner of elm and george washington next weekend. don’t be tardy for the party.

    :rofl:
    that was u right…u so lame yo

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    flyqtnva says:

    you got a crush on me dont u…i dont go that way …sorry

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    MrsHawthorne77 says:

    WOW…Miss a day and miss a LOT here at sandrarose.com LOL!

    Well, as for my two cents here goes: I am married. I feel that Swizz AND Alicia are wrong for committing adultery. Even though it has been said that AKeys doesn’t owe Mashonda anything she knew she was sleeping with a married man so I would blame her just as much as Swizz. HOWEVER, it IS time for Mashonda to move on. Regardless of what AKeys may or may not be posting on her Twitter account, for Mashonda to respond publicly only lowers her to the same level.

    Looking at it from another viewpoint, Mashonda is probably at the point where she has dealt with the public opinion and humiliation of losing her husband to another woman and felt it was necessary to put it out there exactly how she was feeling. Not only did she lose her husband to another woman, but this woman is on the same record label she was once signed to…she has sold MANY more albums than Mashonda…AND she was introduced to AKeys by Swizz. Now that HAS to be something that fukked with her womanhood.

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    coaretained says:

    you have a point #446…

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    Krysi J says:

    Ok, yall went from jokes to straight trippen….?

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    Krysi J says:

    :shock: and we still in this MF clowning I see….come on yall fukk dat shyt, we all agree Mashonda just shudda whooped dat azz and called it a day…..the rest of it, really don’t matter….its their life.

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    Krysi J says:

    oh yea and #446, just made me feel even WORSE for that gurl….Damn…..SMH

    ALICIA…………

    KeYS??……. :shock:

    say it ain so??

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    flyqtnva says:

    im in agreement with 446 @ I will for you krysi j

    @kwall
    Come out to the coast, we’ll get together, have a few laughs (die hard) lol fav movie

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    ELove says:

    @446
    I THINK alot of people missed the record-label connection WHICH DOES make it far worse than something remotely unintentional

    WHADDUP @Fly … I’m a HUGH “Die Hard” fan also :lol:

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    tintin says:

    this is so sad. Mashonda never saw a problem in her marriage, her man was just taken away by another woman. it happens.

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