I remember when I was in high school in Miami, Florida and if a student got herself pregnant she was transferred to an alternative school for pregnant girls. We never ever saw a pregnant kid walking the halls in jr. high or high school. But we're living in different times now.

In this article, a white reporter with CBS News struggles to understand why 115 girls in a single high school are pregnant. Robeson High has a population of 800 students. And of course the school is majority black.

The reporter has probably never watched the highly sexualized rap videos on BET or heard the degrading lyrics in Hip Hop songs catering to these same kids.

The writer probably doesn't know that the girls at Robeson high are products of a Hip Hop culture that glorifies violence, sex and crimes against women. And that these girls grew up watching rap videos portray black women as sexual objects for the pleasure of rappers and their thug entourages.

Rappers routinely spit lines about challenging authority and breaking society's rules by encouraging promiscuity among today's youth.

Surely the writer is familiar with rapper Lil Wayne and how he freely plants his seed in any bimbo opportunist who is willing to open her legs to him. In fact, there was a recent incident where black chicks shot up his tour bus because he refused to have sex with them.

So far the tally of baby mamas knocked up by the rapper this year alone stands at 4. Wayne already has a 9-year-old with reality tv personality Antonia Carter.

Robeson Principal Gerald Morrow blames the pregnancies on the girls home life and absentee fathers. He doesn't mention to the white reporter the destructive influence Hip Hop has had on an entire generation of youth. Maybe because he knows it's a black thing and she wouldn't understand.

Thanks to loyal reader BevG for the tip!

  • mirsmommy

    The high school I went to had a day care in it!!! :/

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    wow. this is very disappointing. all 4 years of highschool, i only remember 1 girl being pregnant at my school.

  • Nina

    I guess daycares at middle and high schools will be the norm then...smh

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    BevG sure does send in a lot of tips. hey Bev *waves*

  • ontaya brooks

    Sandra you are wrong on all types of account on this one, Hip Hop has been alive since Afrika Bambatta, however you spell it, and they did not influence being pregnant as a fad. This all stems from the home and the way these fast ass girls are being raised. I don't give a damn if you watch videos all day,that don't make you go out and have sex. Point the blame where it belongs, with the sorry ass mothers that have children and do not do their share and raise them correctly.

  • PAGESINADIARY

    same here sandra, the girls that got pregnant were xferred to an alternative school.

    aahhhhhhhhh! i remember those days. (high school that is)

  • KaraZ

    They did that at my high school too, if you got pregnant you got transferred out to the school for kids with disciplinary problems. I was in the school from 7 -12 grade. Only 2 girls got pregnant.
    Our rival high school got a daycare in 1996 to support the 16 or so teenage mothers who were at risk for dropping out, by 1997 the number of pregnant teens/teen mothers had tripled in that school.

    Teenage pregnancy is a disease.

  • missy

    You can't blame music for all this again this has to be blamed on the parents and out all 115 children i'm sure there are few of them who have a present father and still ended up pregnant and there are some of them who are being raised by a young mother so the cycle just continues and continues.

    And when i graduated from high school no one was pregnant but there was one girl who graduated before me and it was rumored that she was pregnant because she wore a jacket for almost the whole semester. I mean why would they want to bring a child into this world and you don't even have your high school diploma, i think people(some)need to stop glorifying this type of behavior and give these children a harsh reality of how it is to raise a child by yourself(because they have there parents and want to through them off on them )

    Also like i said before parents need to talk to their kids and stop letting other people who don't have there same values raise their kids.And most of these kids are probably doing this for attention.

  • Charles

    ~5

    Wrong it is hip hop and the culture of hip hop which has evolved into making black women whores and black down low male thugs who can't stay outta prison or comb their hair

  • PAHairston

    Hello All. What the U.S. govt needs to do: stop sending out checks first of the month to these single mothers (not all but most). Subsidize their housing, give 'em food stamps and give em a voucher to buy their clothes at the thrift store or salvation army and I guarantee fewer unmarried, unemployed young girls will get pregnant. We give them to much, make 'em earn it, like my hard-working mother> For 50 yrs of her precious life she worked hard as a maid and nanny to rich, southern white families, then she would come home and cook and clean for us 5 siblings and our father. It was hard, but she made it and we made it. All 5 of us turned out to be hard-working Americans who carry our load. I'm just saying. Peace.

  • ELove

    Robenson isn't the ONLY H.S. with this problem ...

    YT-Girls have multiple abortions during H.S. years ...

    Other ethnic-groups have teen-age pregnancy problems ALSO

    LACK of Parental Control & Parenting-skillz is a FAR BIGGER problem than Hip-Hop trends and Videos and Songs ...

    ALL absentee fathers aren't absent because they WANT TO BE ...

    And principles of schools NEED to be more cautious of how they answer questions IN A PUBLIC FORUM regarding Real Social Issues that affects our community ...

    THAT IS ALL !!!!! :lol:

  • missy

    *(because they have there parents and want to throw them off on them)*

  • pinky2083

    This is absolutely ridiculous!!

    When I was in junior high we had one, and in high school maybe two. They were always looked down upon.

  • Charles

    @11

    What white girls, sorry but black people have higher rates of teen pregneancy and abortions than whites its a fact and a higher chance of being on welfare.

    I hate when people come here and instead of address they throw inaccurate shade at white people. Sorry that white people make more, graduate college at a higher rate, get into college at a higher rate despite affirmative action and sorry that are less likely to be in jail than college unlike blacks

  • KaraZ

    @ELove :cosign:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    The first thing they need to do is remove these fast girls from regular public schools and place them in an alternative school designed to deal with teenage mothers. I bet that would put a dent in these teenage pregnancies. This is ridiculous.

  • kwall

    well. i could come up here and spew all kinds of shat.

    how i had a baby at 17. my dad was NOT absentee. and i wasn't the FIRST girl to get preggers at my school and i wasn't the last...

    but what difference will all of that make.

    only thing i will say is what my parents told me...

    "you are only a statistic if you allow yourself to become one.."

  • ELove

    @14 :rofl: WHEN Will The FOOLISHNESS End !!!!! :rofl: AGAIN

  • LovelyLady

    Why most you always pointout how bad blacks are to you. We get it you hate the black race. Everytime there's something posted about blacks ur are very very negative. But hey thats ur way of thinking. This entire post could have been wtitten differently. But every chance you got you were sure to say,

    "of course this is a black school", wtf, u act as if ONLY blacks do things like this. I remeber a year or 2 ago when all the white girls got pregnant at the same time by random guys just to have a "pack", "click" or whatever. So please stop acting as if this is a race thing when its a problem across the country with all races.

  • Charles

    @10

    Yessss I agreee

    :cosign:

    And music creates a culture in black people because normally black people re loyal and exclusive to only black music and most people are too stupid to have individiual thought so they follow bandwagon ideology and so these girls are probably happy they are pregneant and love having baby daddys who are in jail

    It is the hip hop, if these people listened to britney, taylor, justin( the king of r&b) they wouldn't have these issues

  • LovelyLady

    @ Elove you better :preach: :clap:

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Yes teenage pregnancy birth rates for Hispanic and black teenagers are more than double the rates for non-Hispanic white teenagers. And I do agree that it is all in the parenting. If you play an active role in your children's lives and make sure they are getting good grades in school and participating in extra-curricular activities then 9 times out of 10 they won't get pregnant or get anyone else's daughter pregnant. But let's not let these fast little boys with their hormones racing out of control off the hook either because they only grow into men whose hormones are out of control i.e. Lil Wayne.

  • missy

    wow....A real life Uncle Ruckus(like someone said before)

    :wtf:

    Race isn't really important in this matter because I mean blacks,whites,hispanics,asians this is a problem that a lot of races face.It's not just a black problem and lets not forget that.

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    charles u are kidding right? i went to an all white school, so i know what goes on. they drink, party, and have sex. Elove is right, there were plenty of abortions at my school. only one actually had a baby though.

  • mirsmommy

    What state was that where the girls had a damn pregnancy pact?

    Anyway, pregnancy rant through my middle school and high school like it was contagious. Like a damn disease. It missed me, cuz I had a vaccination. :lol:

  • LovelyLady

    pinky2083 Says:

    This is absolutely ridiculous!!

    When I was in junior high we had one, and in high school maybe two. They were always looked down upon.
    ---------

    SMDH people and the way they think. Thank God i was not a teen mother (not a mother at all matter fact), but to have some one looked down on someone because they got preggors at a young age wow. Well i guess its no different then being locked down on for being black. People are ignorant swear.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    kwall says:

    “you are only a statistic if you allow yourself to become one..”

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    I ABSOLUTELY AGREE WITH THAT!!! There are plenty of girls who got pregnant at a young age and went on to do something positive with themselves. But if it can be avoided I am an advocate for that as well.

  • LovelyLady

    This whole board is probably full of teen mothers

  • shunda

    @Kwall I am right there with you. I had my daughter at 17. I was not fast. Had one boyfriend. My parents talked to me about sex and I was on birth control. I went on to graduate from high school at the top of my class. But hey maybe we are the minority.

  • kwall

    It is the hip hop, if these people listened to britney, taylor, justin( the king of r&b) they wouldn’t have these issues
    ------------------------------------------
    britney's sister was a teen mom. and it was rumored that she had an abortion b/c she was too busy trying to LIE about being a virgin back when she first hit the scence.

    white is not always right.

    i guess next you are gonna say they need to listen to miley cyrus who had a 23 yo BF huh? cause you know good and dayum well that a 15 yo girl and a 23 yo MAN are not holding hands...

  • Charles

    @16

    :cosign:

  • mirsmommy

    A lot of YT girls may or may not get pregnant at a young age, but they damn sure start the drinkin and druggin early. And it be that hard ish too. Heroin, crack, coke, alcohol, oxycotin, etc.

  • PAHairston

    One last thought about black and white girls. When I was in high school in the early seventies, white girls didn't give up the booty, they gave up the head. That way they, not all but most, didn't get pregnant and technically remained a virgin. But that was yrs ago and change is constant.

  • kwall

    @Kwall I am right there with you. I had my daughter at 17. I was not fast. Had one boyfriend. My parents talked to me about sex and I was on birth control. I went on to graduate from high school at the top of my class. But hey maybe we are the minority.
    --------------------------
    yes. cause the reason i did NOT go to an alternative school (believe me the school system was trying to make me...) was b/c while they can accommodate teen mothers they cannot accommodate honors students. my dad asked them did they have the AP classes that i was CURRENTLY enrolled in....the answer was NO.

  • missy

    mirsmommy Says:

    What state was that where the girls had a damn pregnancy pact?

    Anyway, pregnancy rant through my middle school and high school like it was contagious. Like a damn disease. It missed me, cuz I had a vaccination.

    ------

    :lolol: I probably got that vaccination too (mama and father would kick my butt if i didn't get that diploma)

    And I don't look down on people who get pregnant in school or who are teen mothers I just feel like some(not all)just don't learn from it and end up pregnant again and again.

  • LovelyLady

    @ mirsmommy

    it was in Massachusets where 17 girls joined a pact and got preggors by random guys so they could deliever and raise their babie stogether. One girl (i believe) even went as far as getting preggors by a homeless man. SMDH.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    First off its the parent faults not the schools, and secondly, I blame blogs as well for always posting up ho shyt and praises it. I on the other hand try to preach the truth but nobody wants to listen to me, nobody wants to help me spread the message. I go hard on Mr. Simmons’s site and yet he won’t spotlight me but pen's Amber Rose as a cleberity and post up Tila ho quotes. All the media does is spotlight ho shyt. I'm fighting a battle on my on, they call me negative and judgmental. All because I tell the truth, do you think I get a spot in a magazine like other bloggers, or my own t shirt line like other bloggers, nobody even links to my blog. I don't get the oppertunties like other bloggers to go out and speak with Rolling out however if I bent my phat azz over in a picture or got on some ho shyt I would be just as big as others but I wont do it. We need to sweep around our own front door before we point the fingers, cuz Sandra I asked you for help as well and you won’t even link to my blog. But yet you seem to blame hip-hop when it’s the bigger than that.

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    sandra can u post about the changes in the morehouse college dress code.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ismyle4me ursmyle4me

    kwall says:

    “you are only a statistic if you allow yourself to become one..”
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I so agree with this statement. I had my daughter at 17. She is 15 and I am 32. This IS A PROBLEM, and I definitely want my daughter to understand this is NOT the way to go. Statistically, they say when you have a child at a young age, your child will have at a young age, etc. But that's just what it is.. "a statistic".. my mom had me at 32.

    I do remember in high school having that "isolated" feeling because getting pregnant was like, "dang, you f#$% up, versus getting group hugs from other pregnant people.

    I wish they would separate them. I can't even stand to hear my daughter say, "aww that's a cute baby, without giving her the 10 minute run down of how "cute" is just the beginning of HELL.

    I say a prayer to anyone with a teen child. I need all the prayers. I always thought my biggest fear was pregnancy, and boys, but it's not. We gotta fight off girls, women, boys, men, drugs, swine flu, food..everything now.

  • ELove

    @K-Dub (#17)
    Well considering I found out I was going to be a Father at 19 I fully understand and I WAS told the same thing... And I graduated H.S. at 16 :wink:

  • LovelyLady

    @ Nichelle

    I really agre with you, thats why I lOVE ur blog

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Thanks Lovelady, my posting is slow because I'm in the middle of writing two books, however I will post today on this topic.

  • Charles

    How am I uncle rukus im sorry the facts are the facts its not my fault black society and black children are criminals and whores nope not at all

    And the % of whites doesn't even compare to the % of blacks and you'd be a fool to say otherwise

    As far as the teen mothers on this board its not what happend in the past that matters its not for anyone to judge!

    But don't come on here and say white people are the same or worse they are better white people idolize carrie underwood, selena and demi, miley cyrus etc.... and maybe if black people bought their kids white barbies and brought them up on white music I assure you they'd have none of these problems

    Sure there would be a minority few. But it would be a equal % not one disproportinatley greater

  • Divinebrown

    I wasnt having sex in high school. But, tell you what...when I did start, I marched my arse right on down to Planned Parenthood BY MY DAMN SELF. WALKED...FROM THE CRIB!

    Having unprotected sex is a personal choice. So, is a planned pregnancy. I don't want to hear this sh!T. They start teaching HEALTH AND SEX EDUCATION IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. They know better....ole skanky lil girls

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Charles now I rocks with you but miley cyrus is a lose you know what please. I refuse to buy anything she sells. Is okay for her to sleep with grown man and get controlled by grown man??? I vote Ke Ke Palmer anyday

  • flyqtnva

    IM COSIGNING CHARLES ALL THE WAY ON THIS 1

  • mirsmommy

    @ Divinebrown

    They started teaching us sex ed in elementary, real talk. I was in 3rd grade at the time.

  • kwall

    miley cyrus is a lose you know what please. I refuse to buy anything she sells. Is okay for her to sleep with grown man and get controlled by grown man???
    ===============================
    and again i say.....

    white is not always right.

    i guess next you are gonna say they need to listen to miley cyrus who had a 23 yo BF huh? cause you know good and dayum well that a 15 yo girl and a 23 yo MAN are not holding hands…

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    this is a white man's world of course they will always ahead of us Charles so get off there nuts, there the main reason black people are screwed up.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Divinebrown Says:

    They know better….ole skanky lil girls

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    wow

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    @kwall Says:

    right and I always tell black girls when I go out and speak, you can not do the same things as white girls so get it out of your head.

  • Charles

    I thinnk its better to plan and have a foundation ready for children!

    And yes the white girls are smart give up the head not the coochie =) I grew up in a white community a upper middle class and I can't really remember people getting pregneant, I do remember people drinking, drugs, sextypical fast ass white people thing but never this..... people just had sense

  • Divinebrown

    HOLD UP....THIS IS WHAT I HATE, PEOPLE COMING AROUND LIKE THEIR OPINION IS FACT. THIS DATA IS FROM THE CDC...THEY DONT HAVE ANYTHING FOR THE PAST 5 YEARS BUT THIS IS WHAT IT SAYS:

    Birth and abortion rates fell for non-Hispanic white and black teenagers and for Hispanic teenagers through 2004. The declines in birth and abortion rates during 1990-2004 were 37 and 65 percent, respectively, for white teenagers; 46 percent and 43 percent for black teenagers; and 18 percent and 31 percent for Hispanic teenagers. After generally continuing to decline through 2005, birth rates for each population subgroup increased in 2006.

    CHECK YOUR FACTS...your opinion is null and void. Now let me find more current info. be right back...

  • ELove

    CO-SIGN @48 Completely (BTW I really LIKE your blog also)

    @46 ... I HAD that class in the 4th grade :lol:

    And :rofl: at the vaccination reference !!!

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    And another problem is grown folks talking about grown folks business in front of there kids. When I grew up my momma always dismissed the kids when it was time for the grown folks to talk.

  • Divinebrown

    wow what? I said it....

    Moving on....if someone can go to jail because they had sex with you...YOU SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX. BOTTTOM DAMN LINE....

    Jail bait is real...

  • missy

    Those disney girls aren't good examples they date grown arse men compared to them and some of them aren't even able to drive yet............so again :wtf:

    this is a societal problem not race.

  • Charles

    @divine @nichelles keke palmer

    :cosign:

    They do know but see you don't accidentley get pregneant the problem isn't per se they somehow got pregneant its the fact they simply don't care about preventing them or dealing with them they are more happy fullfilling a stereotype than being intelligent enough to make smart decisions and that's the truth.

  • rjk8

    :newbie: Illegitimacy is the root cause of the majority of the social issues in the black community. Ie crime, illiteracy, unemployment (yes unemployment), the disrecpt that we have for one another ect.. After the civil rights movement, for the last forty years, our leaders have told us the solution is more money from the government. Ha, laugable! There is no community or country in the world that can progress with 70% illegitimacy None!

  • kwall

    How am I uncle rukus
    -------------------------
    more like uncle tom.

  • missy

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:

    And another problem is grown folks talking about grown folks business in front of there kids. When I grew up my momma always dismissed the kids when it was time for the grown folks to talk.

    ---

    :preach:

    And if you get caught listening you got a nice spanking for being disobedient.

  • Charles

    @divine

    Ok and my facts remain the same

    Black people are the worst group!

  • mirsmommy

    @ NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com (Comment 54)

    My Mommy did the same thing. When it was time for grown folks to talk, kids had to go. I got the same damn rules. When Mommy and Daddy, or any grown folks are talking, all kids gotta get the eff out.

    I just had to get on my niece and lil brother for that ish. They try to be all in the mix when adults are talkin. I tell them with the quickness, "KEEP YO A** IN A CHILD'S PLACE". Go sit down somewhere while grown folks is talkin.

  • Divinebrown

    SANDRA....CAN I POST A LINK WITH INFO ABOUT TEEN PREGNANCY?

    IT HAS ALL THE FACTS THAT WE NEED to have an educated conversation about this topic. It is supportive of the FACT THAT AFRICAN AMERICAN CHILDREN ARE NOT HAVING BABIES MORE THAN ANY RACE.

    Actually...white teens are having more babies.

    GTFOH....CHECK FACTS, NEGROS...CHECK 'EM!

  • kwall

    what about the story about the yt woman who had 15 abortions by the time she turned 33.

    15 terminations in 17 years...

    and her need to share that tidbit of information.

    Irene Vilar. google her.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    Divinebrown Says:

    wow what? I said it
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    WHOA! HOLD ON!!! Is it really that serious? Yes you said it, but I have had the opportunity to mentor teen age mothers at the high school I once attended and you'd be surpised at what a lot of these "ole skanky lil girls" have been exposed to in their youth which introduced them to sexual behaviors in the first place. Every teenage mother should not have to carry the burden of society placing them in a box because they made a choice that altered their lives. Now that choice can bring a negative outcome if the girl doesn't have access to the proper resources, or it can be used as a stepping stone to make that girl do more for her and her child. As a few of the posts already stated, there are a few teenage mothers in this blog community...does that mean that we should look at them in a negative light as well?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    LovelyLady Says:

    SMDH people and the way they think. Thank God i was not a teen mother (not a mother at all matter fact), but to have some one looked down on someone because they got preggors at a young age wow. Well i guess its no different then being locked down on for being black. People are ignorant swear.

    ***********************************************************

    We are not lookin down on the girls, we are disapproving of their behavior. these girls are old enough to know better! Despite all the appeals for them to have safe sex, they get pregnant anyway. We're not talking about 17 girls making a pact, we're talking 115 fast ass girls in one high school! Next week it will be 120! If they want to be grown then we should treat them like they're grown! They should be transferred to an alternative school so they don't share the hallways with your kids who were raised right with the proper morals! I'm sick of people making excuses for these wild children. :mad:

  • flyqtnva

    13-18 years old you cant tell em NOTHING....Im sure anyone will tell you of COURSE MY MOMMA SAID NO...BUT...13-18 your friends, YOUR FAV RAPPER & SINGERS have MORE CONTROL OVER YOUR KIDS THEN YOU! JAYZ said it himself on OPRAH!

    Peer pressue is hard to overcome..mix that in with a culture that promotes sex, drugs, a baby mamadom and this is what u get!

  • alove

    @ontaya brooks-I agree. My mother was pregnant with my sister @13yrs old. She was beaten pregnant and all. She was not allowed to attend school even after giving birth. She tried the system and the father told the school system. Night school was the only option for pregnant teens.

    When I turned 17,I went to clinic and got pills. My dad found out and tried to kill me. I know I didn't want a baby and I know they would have killed me literally. None of my mothers 4 daughters were teen moms. We had to learn from her(fast butt) lesson. Talking about it was her first time and she got pregnant.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    flyqtnva Says:
    IM COSIGNING CHARLES ALL THE WAY ON THIS 1

    ************************************************************

    :surprised:

  • flyqtnva

    @Sandra Rose
    another people dont wanna admit...THESE GIRLS will be given SECTION 8,,,FOODSTAMPS,,MEDICAID,,TANF,, and will be living off us MY TAX MONEY! FOR YEARS....and steady having MORE BABIES & BUYING MORE DEREON AND ROCAWEAR WITH THEY TAX RETURNS...its too late Sandra anit nothing NOBODY can DO...look forward to more of this is the future cuz America as we knew it IS NO MORE!

  • kwall

    Ok and my facts remain the same

    Black people are the worst group
    ------------------------------
    what facts. you need more numbers and more people.

    @divine i already knew that was true for my state but could not speak on all states.

    i volunteer and give alot of money to the adolescent and pregnancy prevention coalition of nc. they send a brochure every year stating facts. hardcore facts.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    This s*** is so pathetic I can't read the article.

    Sidebar: Iscream, I will put a post on my lil blog about your book. You lil Gremlin you. :-)

  • flyqtnva

    THEY TOOK GOD OUT OF SCHOOLS AND REPLACED HIM WITH:
    condoms, birth control, sex ed, metal detectors, & security
    ITS WORKED OUT GREAT SO FAR DONT U THINK?
    NO FEAR OF GOD = MORAL-LESS SOCIETY

    SOMEONE GRAB A HISTORY BOOK...

  • pinky2083

    I totally agree with you on this one Sandra.

    I am so tired of these uneducated and lazy people (not just blacks before yall start throwing daggers) draining the system by receiving all of these benefits at my cost!

    I have chosen not to have children until I am done with school and started my career, can I get food, low rent and medical too?

  • Charles

    @68

    Surprise? Nothing I say is a lie its reality, most people simply can't handle it! The truth is too much!

    You all act as if im stating lies its the truth!

    @69

    :cosign:

    Tooo true

  • missy

    @ fly....

    I agree you can't tell people sex is evil and then hand them the tools for it.

  • Divinebrown

    @MrsHawthorne77

    Well let me say this...I was exposed to "sexual" acts at a young age but not sex. BY RELATIVES AT THAT...

    My mother had 2 kids by the time she was 18. She admitted to having sex at 12, got pregnant at 14, had my brother at 15. My father is 4 years older than she is. (Statutory Rape all day) My grandmother died when my mom was 7 and she was raised by my grandfather and Big Momma. BACK THEN....BACK THEN...THERE WAS NO SEXUAL EDUCATION. NONE.

    Each individual case is not the same, I'll give you that. But, we know kids are watching TV...I see Trojan condom commercial, birth control, and Gardasil commercials. THERE'S SEX ED IN SCHOOL....not to mention 115 of these girls are preganant. I"m sure it didnt happen on the same day and I'm sure that someone in their family got preganant at a young age. THERE'S EMAMPLES EVERYWHERE.

    It is my firm belief that saying you don't have the resources is a cop out. Unless, you can give me examples to change that. 115 girls pregnant? Im sorry...that's foul to me.

  • Charles

    @73

    Good for you

    :cosign: :clap: :preach:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Isn't the show SIXTEEN AND PREGNANT that airs on MTV based more around WHITE GIRLS!!!!!

    Damn Sandra I thought you were changing the flow of this blog? Does it only qualify for your favorite black girls? Do you ever post something to uplift the black race.

    I didn't have my son till my 20's but doesn't matter bc I wasn't married so u'll still shyt on me. Michelle Obama wasn't a teen mom, had her kids while married and you still shyt on her. :shrug: Do you need Kool aid hair in order to get respect from you. I mean really.

    & this is a sad sad case. I agree with Ana the govt needs to stop giving aid to these people. If they had to actually take care of these kids out of pocket the rate would go wayyyyy down.

  • http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

    its the parents and schools fault they need to bring back whoopin in schools i remember when the whole class got lined up and paddled cause we wouldnt tell who took the teachers lounch lol. but then again all these young mamas gonna say aint nobody gonna be spanking my child but me

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    flyqtnva Says:

    …its too late Sandra anit nothing NOBODY can DO…look forward to more of this is the future cuz America as we knew it IS NO MORE!

    **********************************************************

    I agree with your assessments. But I don't think it's too late for the school system to removes these girls from the student population. I swear if I had kids in school with pregnant girls I would raise hail and remove my kids myself! I bet you don't see pregnant girls parading up and down the halls in private schools. What you're seeing is the offspring of teenage mothers who grew up on hip hop and are now having babies themselves.

  • Divinebrown

    Man...I wish I could get some woman, no children assistance. HAIL...(Shout out to Pure Pisces...and the rest of my BELOVED EMAIL FAMLAY...)

    If I could get section 8...I would be dressing my arse off right now. DESIGNER SHIET all damn day...

    Damn it....RENT IS EVIL!!!!!!

  • wiggy2272003

    @ Divine while your statistics are encouraging that the rates in teen pregnancy birth and abortions dropped i am sure in your searching you have found that hispanic and black girls do get prenant at a much higher rate than white and asian girls. You should also find that most attribute that to a contraception being more accessable for those and this is my opinion I just think it is accepted more easily in black and hispanic communitys than the white/asian and in poorer communitys the girls have less going on their lives outside of school(more time to spend on the other sex and less to lose if you do become pregnant.JMO
    My sister was a teenage mother and she was not fast. In fact she was the opposite. My mother had just died , she had one boyfriend and didn't even realize she was pregnant till she was about five monthes. We were laying on the bed and my hand hit her stomach and I was like oooooh, and she said I cant be pregnant I only did it once and I got my period after that and I havent done it again. She had even asked my father to take her to the dr becaus she kept throwing up. I can't answer why the dr didn't give her a pg test. She was six months by this point. The school didn't make her quit they can't but she did go to an alternative school after she had him because they had a nursery. But they couldn't force her to do that. She wasnt the only one. But one teacher at our neighborhood school did call them out by name one day something like you don't want to end up like so and so and so and so. Although my father wasn't happy about raising two teenage girls and now a granson alone best believe he went up to the school after we heard about it and raised hell. They made that teacher give an apology to THE ENTIRE SCHOOL. Teenage pregnancy has always happened and always will. Hip Hop is not the problem. The moral devolution in ALL SOCIETY is the reason for this and countless other issues. Instead of pointing fingers offer your hand. You have no children become a mentor to an at risk girl. don't talk about be about it.

  • kwall

    Michelle Obama wasn’t a teen mom, had her kids while married and you still shyt on her.
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    :preach:

  • Divinebrown

    @WIGGY...lawd hammercy....I got thru the first paragraph and went foggy. Lemme read this...WHEW, HELP ME LAWD.

  • Daisy

    :popcorn:

    Isc you are correct that MTV show 16 and prg had ALL WHITE teenage girls except one bi racial girl.

  • Charles

    @divine

    :preach:

  • missy

    iscream Says:

    I didn’t have my son till my 20’s but doesn’t matter bc I wasn’t married so u’ll still shyt on me. Michelle Obama wasn’t a teen mom, had her kids while married and you still shyt on her. :shrug: Do you need Kool aid hair in order to get respect from you. I mean really.
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    My mom had my bro out of wed lcck and she was in her 20's but I don't have a problem with that(even if my mom didn't do it)I have a problem with girls not getting a high diploma (i dont know how sandra feels)

    @east... :lmao: so true

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    pinky2083 Says:
    I totally agree with you on this one Sandra.

    I am so tired of these uneducated and lazy people (not just blacks before yall start throwing daggers) draining the system by receiving all of these benefits at my cost!

    *********************************************************

    And that's just one high school in Chicago. I'm sure the story repeats itself in all the urban high schools in Chicago. I agree that once these children give birth, the cost of raising their offspring will fall on the overburdened taxpayers in Chicago which boasts the highest state tax in the country! Hmmmm I wonder why?

  • goat76

    Oh S hi t.....here we go with this Hiphop did it again s h i t......

    Whats up K-Weezy, DB, E-love, Daisy............Chuckie sit yo a$$ down somewhere.........

  • Divinebrown

    @wiggy...damn it....I typed this so many times. I cannot be a mentor. I JUST CAN'T...

    All the times I been sloppy drunk and wildin'....that is not what mentors are made out of, but you are right about mentorship... I feel like I'd be a hypocrite. lol

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    How is moving them to an alt school going to help. They need to crack down on gov't aid to these people. If you have a friend and see that she is struggling trying to make ends meet to fed her child. That's a hint in a half for that ass that you better not want to go down that road.

    They may not be in the schools but they are still in your neighborhood. They are still inviting you to their baby shower. I think its a shame. Teenagers have enough pressure of trying to fit in, trying to find their way through life. I don't think I could handle the pressure of being a mother at a teen. I can barely handle it in my 30's.

  • ELove

    @Goat... Whaddup Pimp !!!
    And AGREE BIG-TIME with the last part :rofl:

  • Divinebrown

    BROTHER GOOOOOOAAAAAAAT...HOW'S IT HANGIN, FELLA!!!!!!

    LOL

    WHAT IT DOOOOOOOOOO???

  • kwall

    hey cuzin goat. what's popping?

    i too agree with the last part.

  • MrsHawthorne77

    I DO agree that 115 girls pregnant in the same school should DEFINITELY wave some red flags. But I just think that the issue is bigger than music videos and the media at large. If we as a people (black people) would place more emphasis on instilling the proper values in our OWN children and being more of an example for them to follow then we wouldn't need to look around and wonder why we have 115 girls pregnant in the same school.

    I am speaking from experience on both sides of the fence when I post my opinion on this subject because I was exposed to sexual abuse by a relative, I was a teen age mother, AND I dropped out of high school in the 9th grade after becoming pregnant. I had resources available to me to help me get my life in order. When I say resources, I mean I didn't use my babysitting sources for nights out at the club...I used them so that I could work 2 jobs from the ages of 15-18...I've NEVER collected a welfare check or Section 8. My daughter is now 17 years old and will be attending the University of Hawaii to pursue a career as a Forensic Pathologist next year. Did people look at me as a statistic??? He77 YES! Did it hurt? He77 YES! Am I more accomplished now as a 31 year old with a 17 year old daughter than some of the folks who looked and pointed fingers at me? ABSOLUTELY.

    Now what was MY problem you ask? The abuse that I endured was enough to bring my self esteem down to a level where I didn't respect my body. I didn't feel like I was worth it. It took a very long time for me to be able to look in the mirror and like the person looking back at me. So when my daughter's father came around telling me how pretty I was that's all it took for me to fall hook, line and sinker for the okie doke. That is why I felt it was important for me to be a part of the teenage mother mentoring program when I was offered the chance. So that I can be an example to these girls who have fallen off course for whatever reason to have higher standards for themselves than a welfare check and a section 8 housing program.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Sandra why do u say Chicago like it's only here what about your babymomma fest in atl that get ther own reality Shows where the little girls just like them. It starts at nome but there momma prob to busy unnong behind a man herself. But this keep on happening if we as women don't step up and start being ladies instead of whores ourselves.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ attrnymom

    :hug: does that mean you likey :D

  • Charles

    @goat

    You mad?? This is why I say raise ur kids in the white suburbs! Im telling you it worked for my family iy can work for urs

  • wiggy2272003

    At divine I wasn't directing that mentor part at you. I was directing at those that call out problems and wrongdoings and point fingers but never offer solutions or try to help.
    The main point of my novel was that the rates are higher for black and hispanic girls, My opioion on why.(Its not race its socioeconomic check a trailer park,or ask a waffle house waitress how old she was when she had her first child.

  • flyqtnva

    @pinky2083
    NO YOU DONT GET SH!T cause you doing it the right way!

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    Sorry for the typo's my IPHone does it own thing

    Sandra why do u say Chicago like it’s only here what about your babymomma fest in atl that get there own reality Shows where the little girls grow up wanting just like them. It starts at home but there momma prob to busy running up behind a man herself. This will keep on happening if we as women don’t step up and start being ladies instead of whores ourselves.

  • Charles

    @95

    :clap: :clap :clap:

  • Anna

    attorneymom Says:
    Sidebar: Iscream, I will put a post on my lil blog about your book. You lil Gremlin you.
    ~~~~~~~~
    How long did it take for you to get your book. We need a SR book club, but I need to order my copy.

  • tippmos

    @ Charles, I don't understand how you are saying that the black community need to raise their kids up listening to white music. I don't see the purpose in that because Blacks and Whites are different. The only reason white girls % is lower than blacks is because a lot of the white girls parents force them to get an abortion. I was not a teen mother, however I don't think it's just the black community and I definelty don't think it's because of Hip Hop Music. It is the parenting, and some girls just are missing that piece in their lives as far as having a father figure so they seek it with different guys.

  • flyqtnva

    @Divinebrown

    FINALLY I KNEW WE WOULD AGREE ON SOMETHING...A CHICK WOULD BE DECKED OUT ...U HEAR ME! I WISH I COULD PAY $1 FOR RENT OR GET 600 A MONTH FREE MONEY FOR FOOD! AND I GET 2 SIT ON MY A@@ ALL DAY....

  • Daisy

    *waving* HEY GOAT!

    Anna I ordered my book yesterday I will let you know when I get it! I agree we need a book club here or somewhere.

  • flyqtnva

    AND THE MORE KIDS I HAVE THE MORE SUPPORT I GET...THATS WHATS UP...and thats exactly what these kids is thinking...JACKPOT! nOW i TO CAN BE GHETTO FAB!

  • mirsmommy

    I agree with the comments regarding the government. Stop aiding this ish.

    Last summer, I went to the social services office and SET IT OFF!!!!! Didn't care who I offended. Last spring, Hubby got laid off, and then I got laid off at the end of that summer. I applied for assistance, and got denied because, get this, I made TOO MUCH MONEY at my previous position that I was laid off from!!!!! Yes, you heard right. I was told that based off of my ONE week's gross pay, I was already over the monthly income limit or guideline or whatever it is. Anyway, I went off by saying, there are people living off welfare, having four or five babies, depending on welfare and benefits, and because I actually worked, and made good money, I can't get help?!?!?

    I've worked since the age of 18, and I've always maintained an office position. I didn't have my son until I was 28, and this was my first time applying for assistance.

    And they basically said :nono:

  • bk2atl

    I think that everyone would agree that teenage pregnancy is nothing new. I had my son at 18...walked across my HS stage 4 months pregnant, but no one could tell since i wsn;t showing yet. I came from a 2 parent household, so I had a father present. My mother had us in church EVERY Sunday, so we were taught morals. My dad got off of work at 3, so he was home BEFORE we got home from school, so there WAS constant parental supervision in my home. My point is...don't underestimate the power of PEER PRESSURE. IMO where my parents went wrong is that we didn't have HONEST OPEN conversations about sex. It was simply...don't do it.

    My 17 y.o. son confessed to me that he turned in his "V" card this summer. First thing I did was take him to his doctor to let his doctor know that he was sexually active, so they could have a frank discussion about the pitfalls of teenage sex....and how importnatn SAFE sex is. We have to teach our children to HONOR and RESPECT their bodies. And not just our daughters, but our SONS as well (HELLO, someone is impregnating these girls!!). Speak frankly to your kids and will get you a lot further.

    Shout out to DB, KWALL AND GOOOOOOAT!!!! lol

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    @flyqtnva Says:

    what about the countless number of GROWN women who cheese chase and chase a baby sitting check from your fav rapper. It starts with us as women if our standards are low so will the youth because there watching our every move.

  • kwall

    I applied for assistance, and got denied because, get this, I made TOO MUCH MONEY
    -------------------------------
    i got denied cause i make too much unemployment. what kinda shyt is THAT?

    some DUMB shyt. that's what.

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    oh please...as if ONLY black girls under 18 get pregnant in this country....lets blame XYZ when the blame is on 1)parents 2) lack of sex ed education

    please stop bringing down the Black race by constantly degrading it and thinking all problems are only exists in the black communities when that is not the case. also a few yrs ago, alot of girls was pregnant in some hick town highschool and they were white.

    teens have sex black white and other wise (maybe not Asian)

  • heavn_sent

    What I don't understand is why people waste time arguing with Charles. "Wise men say never argue with fools, 'cuz from a distance people can't tell who is who."
    Apparently, they taught neither spelling nor punctuation in this white neighbirhood/school.

  • mirsmommy

    I don't think hip hop, rappers or videos, have anything to do with these kids having sex. It's the parents job to sensor and monitor what is going on with these kids.

    So many parents are too busy trying to be young again, out clubbing, chasing men and women, worrying about what designer clothes, shoes, and handbags they wanna buy, and so on and so forth.

    Some of these girls mothers and fathers are prolly only 12 and 13 years older than them.

  • heavn_sent

    **neighborhood**

  • Anna

    flyqtnva Says:

    AND THE MORE KIDS I HAVE THE MORE SUPPORT I GET…THATS WHATS UP…and thats exactly what these kids is thinking…JACKPOT! nOW i TO CAN BE GHETTO FAB!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    You get what you pay for. I lived next to a home owned by a church. It was section 8. I got the neighbors from hell on a couple of occassions. I hate to say it but I wished that house would catch on fire. It did not catch on fire but my first day of vacation this year 9/14/09, the house was torn down. It's just a empty lot.

  • The Divine Ms. K

    Sorry, we can't blame everything on music and the hip-hop culture.

    I'm 29 - grew up watching videos and yes, they got raunchier as time went on. BUT, I had Anita Lewis in my house. And Estella Lewis and Leona Pipkins - Mother, Grandmother, AND Great-Grandmother who RAISED me and THEY were my influences.

    I applaud those who even though they were labeled statistics by having babies as teens, they got their lives together. What's different now is that a lot of parents DON'T talk to their kids and society has glorified all kinds of fecal-like behavior. BUT the end result is that a kid shouldn't have a video influecning their lives.

    It's up to PARENTS to raise their damn kids.

    All this stuff about growing up in a white suburb and listening to white music only - it just sounds ridiculous as hell. It's ok to acknowledge problems, but don't ridicule a race - ESPECIALLY your own - and put some other race on a pedestal. That's just ignorant and shows self-hatred.

  • kwall

    THANK YOU @109.

    hey back atcha!

    well said.

    and i had my daughter at 17...3 days before my 18th and 36 days before graduation. i told my parents that if i could not graduate with my PEERS....kids i had been going to school with since elementary school....that i did not want to graduate at all. so they, my guidance counselor, and a VERY special teacher who home schooled me to make sure i did not fall behind AT ALL....made sure it happened.

  • ELove

    @114
    BAM!!! The very Young raising the Young is Too Difficult - IMO

    And the Government Assistance is a COMPLETE JOKE ...
    Hard working citizens get STR8 JACKED and LAZY MF-ers prosper
    :shrug:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:
    Sandra why do u say Chicago like it’s only here what about your babymomma fest in atl that get ther own reality Shows where the little girls just like them.

    *********************************************************

    Tiny and Toya are not teenagers so I'm not sure what they have to do with this story. They are grown women. There's a difference between seeing grown women with kids on tv and seeing your fellow student pregnant right there in high school. As I said, when I was a teen I never saw a pregnant teenager and I never even heard of a pregnant teenager and we attended a very large school. I guess we just had better morals and values than these wild children today.

  • mirsmommy

    @ Kwall

    It's some bull ish, that's what. Especially being that we, as citizens pay into all of the assistance ish from every damn paycheck.

    I even tried to get assistance with day care for my son while I was on unemployment, and they said that my employment income could not be more than $27,000 a year, and that unemployment is not considered an income!!!!!!! I told them to give me Section 8, Medicaid, and Food Stamps, and then I would have no problem making less than $27,000 a year.

    But I bet if any of these pregnant youngins applied today, they would get anything that the government has to offer.

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    I was going to talk to Nichelle/and or now attrny mom if we could get something going on their board. Its just hard for me to comment on AM Board from my phone. About the book club. Cause I don't think Sandra would proposely let us use her board unless we :offtopic: it.

    Speaking of babies did yall see ATLHW yesterday.

    Name one word.

    CHILD SUPPORT!!!!! :rofl:

    her mother is fun-ny. & NeNe son looks just like her "dad". I wish that man would've hugged her. He was as mean as an ox. I actually liked Sheree's clothes..

    & one last thing. In the begining of the show why did they have that note saying.. This was recorded prior to the death of AJ.. :| If he is alive isn't that obvious? :shrug: sorry for going off topic

  • flyqtnva

    @13-18 IS NOT THE PARENTS...if most of us in this community of SR are black..WHY ARE WE SITTING HERE FRONTIN..i grew up in the HOOD..what do you see: A DAMN

    RAP VIDEO IN THE HOOD EVERYDAY:
    -Come outside in the morning
    -everybody g'd up..fresh kicks, hair, everything
    -go to school
    -walk the hall
    -all the dope boys on one side
    -all the girls looking at the d boys
    -I want that one
    -he buy you a couple pair of kicks..riding you around in a FIEND BMW
    -u think u the sh!t
    -you anit listening to mommy or daddy
    -cuz @ 13-18 u THINK YOU KNOW IT ALL
    -6pm everybody outside ..drinking..chilling..shooting dice..playing cards..hoes dancing & fighting in middle of street
    -ALL THE OLD HEADS WATCHING ALL THE LIL GIRLS WALK BY
    picking out which one they running game on next
    -u end up prego
    -move into the building right next to moms
    -NEVER ENDING CYCLE
    -THAT HAPPENS TO LOOK JUST LIKE ANY RAP VIDEO!

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    :cosign: 109 its not just the girls!

  • mirsmommy

    @ ELove

    I'm tellin u.....

    The ish is crazy. I remember this one Hispanic girl, when we were in 7th Grade, yes, 7th grade, and she was pregnant with her SECOND, yes SECOND child....

    And she was in the same classes with all the non-pregnant 7th graders...

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    @sandra

    They are grown women.

    Right and we are suppose to lead them right???

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    bk2atl Says:

    I came from a 2 parent household, so I had a father present. My mother had us in church EVERY Sunday, so we were taught morals.

    **********************************************************

    You are the exception. But I don't think your parents thought they had to speak to you about teenage pregnancy because you were smart enough to know not to get pregnant. My mother had "the talk" with me at age 13 and all she said was "don't get pregnant or you will shame me in front of the whole neighborhood." What she didn't know was that I wasn't interested in babies or the D at all.

  • wiggy2272003

    @ divine although I wasn't directing that mentor thing at you I believe you would be a better mentor to girls BECAUSE OF your past. You would not be a hypocrite. Like Ms Hawthorne speaks to the teenage moms they listen to her because they know she understands. You are pretty, smart,(according to your posts) and have a great understading of life. You would be an excellent mentor.

    Personal Disclaimer (who the hell am I too be telling you all that?)

  • coaretained

    wow... so much to say so little time... For starters.. I was a teenage mom... 17 just like kweezy said. I had a mother father and a step daddy. I didn't start having sex cause of videos. I did it cause I WANTED to. Hell... I even got PAID as part of an adolescent pregnancy prevention program from 13-15. Didn't change the fact that I had sex.. got pregnant..had a child. I also went BACK to school when my son was 2 weeks old JUST SO I could graduate 3 months later with EXTRA credits. Had I NOT have had said child.. I might not have graduated.. been in jail.. you name it. I needed a priority just because THATS MY PERSONALITY. Not my parents, not society, not BET.

    Don't judge.

    @54 ( I think.. too many comments to remember) my high school had a daycare AND an elementary school in it. And the year I graduated ( @17 yrs old mind you) it seems pregnancy was in the water.. and in the years to come it became homosexuality that ran rampant.. but hey...who am I to judge.
    @#65 you say stop making excuses.. but you are blaming music for human beings personal choices.
    @#69 That is yet another stereotype that even OUR people believe which is probably WHY it turns out to be FACT. I had my first @ 17, second @ 20 and 3rd child @ 24.
    -during my last two pregnancies I was in college.. graduated last year.
    -waited 4 years for section 8.. had it 5 months and opted to instead purchased a home
    -held down a reputable acctg job WITHOUT my accounting degree

    as kdub said.. you're only a statisitc if you choose to be. Only thing I CAN say is I'm unwed.. but we're working on that. ;)

    p.s. All my kids have the same daddy too.

    Word.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sandra writes, "We are not lookin down on the girls, we are disapproving of their behavior. these girls are old enough to know better! Despite all the appeals for them to have safe sex, they get pregnant anyway. We’re not talking about 17 girls making a pact, we’re talking 115 fast ass girls in one high school!"
    *********************************************

    I missed your rational. Blank stare.

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    Sandra Rose Says:

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:
    Sandra why do u say Chicago like it’s only here what about your babymomma fest in atl that get ther own reality Shows where the little girls just like them.

    *********************************************************

    Tiny and Toya are not teenagers so I’m not sure what they have to do with this story. They are grown women. There’s a difference between seeing grown women with kids on tv and seeing your fellow student pregnant right there in high school. As I said, when I was a teen I never saw a pregnant teenager and I never even heard of a pregnant teenager and we attended a very large school. I guess we just had better morals and values than these wild children today.

    UM how old is Toya, and how old is Reginae? and that makes her how old when she had her????

    COME ON NOW

  • kwall

    There’s a difference between seeing grown women with kids on tv and seeing your fellow student pregnant right there in high school.
    ----------------------------------------
    but that woman who is grown now was once a teen mother.

    wasn't toya preggers at like 13/14?

  • The Divine Ms. K

    Didn't Toya have her daughter when she was like 14 or something???

    And if you are going to call out teenage mothers like there is just something morally wrong with them - you have no choice but to call out the ones who continue having kids by men - sometimes different ones - and who don't get married or whatever.

    I mean, if someone's gonna play moral police - do it all the way. Other wise, the argument is baseless.

    DISCLAIMER - I am NOT the moral police - no one on the Earth can be. I'm just saying that we can't excuse the behavior of grown women who continue to have multiple babies by people and let it ride because "they are grown".

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:

    I go hard on Mr. Simmons’s site and yet he won’t spotlight me but pen’s Amber Rose as a cleberity and post up Tila ho quotes. All the media does is spotlight ho shyt.

    **********************************************************

    I think the blogs understand that a certain segment of our community enjoys ho sh|t. I don't waste my time on that site because I'm not interested in ho sh|t. :shrug:

  • flyqtnva

    I'm glad all of you were in this house and LIVING BY THE WORDS OF YOUR PARENTS @ 13-18... WE GOT A BUNCH OF SAINTS IN THE SR COMMUNITY! tHEY all listened to their parents during their teenage years....WHICH DEFIES ALL THE STUDIES YOU HEAR ABOUT EVERYDAY ON PARENTS & TEENS!

  • kwall

    You are the exception
    ------------------
    looks like there are a whole lotta exceptions up here. cause just like THESE girls in the chi....teen pregnancy did not start nor is it gonna STOP with them.

    gone head @coa :preach:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Toya had her daughter at 13.... :coffee:

    All teenage mothers become adults one day.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    coaretained Says:

    And the year I graduated ( @17 yrs old mind you) it seems pregnancy was in the water..

    **********************************************************

    This is why I made my point that prego kids should be removed from schools. It's just too much of an influence on other fast girls.

  • flyqtnva

    @coaretained

    made the only honest statement so FAR: SHE DID IT BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO & LIKE I SAID...13-18 parental units MEAN NOTHING NOT A THING!

  • Daisy

    Sandra Toya was a teen mother not sure about Tiny maybe thats what she has to do with this convo.

    @Isc I :rofl: @Kandis mama the ENTIRE show! I DIED so many times last night on my couch. Sherees clothes were nothing special IMO basic dress(wasnt that cute to me), black skirt(high waisted cute but seen it before) n blouse :shrug:

    :rofl: @Anna wanting the sec 8 house to burn down beside her

    Jesus wept

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    flyqtnva Says:

    WE GOT A BUNCH OF SAINTS IN THE SR COMMUNITY! tHEY all listened to their parents during their teenage years….

    ********************************************************

    Trust me, for some of us the difference is they didn't have sexually explicit rap videos back then.

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    My only beef with this topic is that its implied that only black teens get knocked up, and white folks do no wrong (of course to charles they dont) that infuriates me. teens have sex, parents have got to do better across all races. period.

  • pinky2083

    Lol @ Fly :)

  • flyqtnva

    I did have any kids out of wedlock or any kids while i was a teen...HOWEVER my sis did, my cousins, etc....AND I LEARNED FROM THEIR MISTAKES...none of us had bad parents...WE WERE ALL JUST HARD HEADED AT THAT AGE & YOUR PEERS, CULTURE have more control over you then your parents!

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    My point here is we women need to stop trying to be like men and start raising our daughters and men need to step up and be fathers to there son and stop running off like Pu$$ies

  • KaraZ

    kwall Says:
    How am I uncle rukus
    ————————-
    more like uncle tom.
    --------------------------------------------------------------
    :rofl:

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    oh and that hiphop/rap is the devil incarnate (yet you continue to worship TI) that causes teen pregnancy....i know maybe its obama fault, at least he had abortion in his health care reform........

  • kcicero

    Hypocrisy at its finest, SMH...Girls are just fast period these days and it doesn't matter their skin color. The ONLY reason white girl's MAY NOT have children at the same rate as blacks is they have abortions. My niece went to a all white high school and abortions were the norm there. BUT you would never know because there is no trace unless a list of the people who had abortions are mad public which I would hope is never done.

    At the end of the day people want to make excuses about GOD etc., but the bottom line is it starts at home, regardless of what's on the tv or radio it starts at home. I refuse to give my children up to this society and if more people had that attitude maybe there wouldn't be so much foolishness going around.

    Finally Charles you really have some self hate issue's and I :pray: that you get some help one of these days!

  • kwall

    I’m just saying that we can’t excuse the behavior of grown women who continue to have multiple babies by people and let it ride because “they are grown”.
    ----------------------------------
    or because they made a few albums.

    or b/c they hit the baby favah jackpot (if there IS sucha thing) and fukked the right dude.

    cause let me tell you....some of them...not naming no names....they ays are the "exceptions". trust and believe if they were regular kool aid colored round the way filet....they story woulda played out in their OWN local social services office.

    and for the record when i went and tried and got denied some stamps it was my first time ever. i consulted one of my friends who plays the system like a fiddle :violin: that i SHOULDA gone BEFORE my unemployment started. now if i was a system regular i woulda known that....i DID know enuff to conveniently leave my husband name OFF my application. i had a story ready and everything if i was asked to say "idk WHERE he is...he abandoned us 4 months ago..."

    :shrug: better luck next time.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Daisy Says:
    Sandra Toya was a teen mother not sure about Tiny maybe thats what she has to do with this convo.

    ***********************************************************

    Those children don't know that by watching her on tv. I still don't see how a grown woman influences teenagers to get pregnant. But when your child's friends are pregnant and their friends are pregnant, it has a big influence on a child. I never saw any pregnant teenagers growing up. So my friends were not pregnant because they didn't see any either. That's why I say remove these kids from the general student population to stem the tide of teenage pregnancies.

  • kcicero

    AND PEOPLE KEEP TALKING ABOUT THE FAST TAIL GIRLS BUT WHAT ABOUT THE BOYS OR MORE OFTEN THAN NOT MEN WHO SHOULD KNOW BETTER LAYING DOWN WITH THESE GIRLS...

  • pinky2083

    I liked Sheree's clothes.

    Is it just me or is Kim losing weight?

    Last night's episode was kinda boring to me.

    Nene's dad didn't have to be so dayum cold though.. I guess maybe because of the cameras and what not..

  • free

    Sandra writes, “We are not lookin down on the girls, we are disapproving of their behavior. these girls are old enough to know better! Despite all the appeals for them to have safe sex, they get pregnant anyway. We’re not talking about 17 girls making a pact, we’re talking 115 fast ass girls in one high school!”

    ************************************************

    sandra, parents are scared to hurt their kids feelings and schools are scared of lawsuits. all of a sudden, it's a bad thing to frown on poor behavior or "judge". that's why it's RAMPANT.

    back in the day, there were consequences to that type of behavior and nobody gave a DAMN where you came from or what your circumstances were. now, we shake our heads in private but give the girls baby showers because they can't afford to buy their own pampers.

    if your circumstances are so bad, how does that equate to being good a f*cking? another thing that pisses me off is "slow" children who are killers.

    they need to start throwing these girls out AND the fathers and putting them all in a place where they can WORK and learn together.

  • Daisy

    Sandra the music was sexual in my day (90s) and I JAMMED to Bump n Grind, I wanna sex you up, flex time to have sex but guess what I NEVER did so STOP blaming everything on music and videos. Teenage pregancny is caused by a number of factors and MAYBE ONE of those factors can be videos or what have you BUT please believe teenagers been getting prg since the BEGINNING OF TIME they were either sent south for the summer or sent to the clinic. ALL races fall prey to being teenage mothers NOT just Blacks.

    The BIGGER QUESTION like I ALWAYS ASK IS WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO DECREASE the number of teenage mothers???? BLACK WHITE LATINO ASIAN etc????????? :waiting:

    If you not part of the solution then you are a part of the problem :coffee:

    Kids don't always listen to the :rules: even when they have parents talking to them about sex

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    how do you turn fast unless your seeing it at home, my grandmother always told me the apple don't fall to far from the tree...

  • coaretained

    138Sandra Rose Says:

    coaretained Says:

    And the year I graduated ( @17 yrs old mind you) it seems pregnancy was in the water..

    **********************************************************

    This is why I made my point that prego kids should be removed from schools. It’s just too much of an influence on other fast girls.

    **********

    It didn't influence me....sh!t just happened...and I accept full responsibility for it and wouldn't trade in my heathens for the world! Had I been removed from school, I probably wouldn't have WANTED to graduate so badly. I would have WANTED to quit and sit @ home watching Maury and collecting welfare. Would have continued doing the DUMB shyt I was doing IN HIGH SCHOOL.

    I got on that shyt(welfare)... and got off. Used it for what it was.. a stepping stone.

    The only thing that folks I think are failing to realize is TEENAGE PREGNANCY ANNNNNND STATUTORY RAPE USED TO BE THE NORM!!

    Go check out ya'lls grandparents.. how many grandparents.. or even great grandparents got the male 10+ years older than the female and she started birthing shortly after SHE CAME OUT THE WOMB HERSELF???

    History will constantly repeat itself and worsen every time.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Iscream, stop begging Sandra. If you don't pay her, she does not post. You are small cheese so the best she will do is approve your comments with the links to your book.

    Get on skype and we can handle our business. I am about to blow up big time within the next 3 months so you better get me now while I am healing and have the free time. Send me an email at: attorneymom96@yahoo.com

  • Daisy

    Sandra my point was she was a TEEN mom I never blamed her or anybody for teens getting prg that is YOUR JOB :coffee:

  • starr

    This is sad.

    smh

    wen it comes to things like this, you can give ur kids all the tools they need, and hope they do the right thing protect themselves. I think its better than just straight up telling them not to do it. 115 at one school is alot!! There were only 2 the whole time i went to h.s.

    I'm 22 stil have my v card, and proud. But thats not whats in these days.....

  • kwall

    How am I uncle rukus
    ————————-
    more like uncle tom.
    ————————————————————–
    :rofl:

    that is his new name now. i was the one who gave him the name chuckles. so now i am gonna call him uncle rukus/tom.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    @ Daisy

    thats why I go out and speak to these young girls because sometimes you don't want to listen at home. However parents who where fast and bad try to cover up there past for there kids, They don't want there kids to know who they were instead of sitting them down and telling them the truth.

  • Charles

    @113

    Fool? Who are you? What do you do?

    Icantypelikethsanducanstilunderstnd

    That's how the magical brain works how dare you call me a fool I think you should be :ban: end of!

  • Daisy

    Hey KC *waving*

    Sponge back up on my TI :wink:

  • flyqtnva

    @Daisy
    Here is your answer:
    1. take pregnant teens out of regular school
    2. Turn off the TV
    3. SEE # 2
    4. Put your kids in ALOT OF ACTIVITIES...so many that they cant think about sh!t else.
    5. make then clean up all damn day on the weekends..take a nap..and clean up some more!
    6. Dont let the devil in your house..VIA VIOLENT MUSIC..VIDEOS..MOVIES what have you..just because your above the assualt doesnt mean your SEED WILL BE!
    7. Instill the fear of GOD in your children (their is a consquences (sp) for what U DO IN THIS LIFE!
    8. feel free to add on

  • coaretained

    how do you turn fast unless your seeing it at home, my grandmother always told me the apple don’t fall to far from the tree…

    ***
    fast defined: screwing a whole bunch of boys and giving head in the locker room, back of the bus, etc

    being human: having sexual attraction to the opposite.. hell.. even the SAME sex ( I don't judge) and quite possibly acting on it.

  • Daisy

    @Nichelle :clap: I work with teens as well. I am just as hard on my young men as the girls.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    kcicero Says:

    Hypocrisy at its finest, SMH…Girls are just fast period these days and it doesn’t matter their skin color. The ONLY reason white girl’s MAY NOT have children at the same rate as blacks is they have abortions.

    ***********************************************************

    Girls are just fast these days, which brings us back to the promiscuous Hip Hop mentality that they were raised in. As for white girls, you can't give me accurate figures on how many of them get abortions. So that point is moot. What we do know for a fact is that 115 fast ass girls in one Chicago high school are pregnant. Let's deal with that because it is a problem that the parents, community and school system needs to address before it gets out out of hand and half the student body turns up pregnant.

  • flyqtnva

    @starr
    YOU BETTER GO GIRL (martin voice)

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    SMH....why bother.... ignorance is bliss :coffee:

  • Daisy

    @fly I know some girls in the church who had Jesus and the fear of God and still got prg. a few were preacher kids at that so thats not always a gurantee either. Not a bad list but kids can sneak and listen to music at school or out of your care as I am sure you already know.

  • kwall

    1. take pregnant teens out of regular school
    2. Turn off the TV
    3. SEE # 2
    4. Put your kids in ALOT OF ACTIVITIES…so many that they cant think about sh!t else.
    5. make then clean up all damn day on the weekends..take a nap..and clean up some more!
    6. Dont let the devil in your house..VIA VIOLENT MUSIC..VIDEOS..MOVIES what have you..just because your above the assualt doesnt mean your SEED WILL BE!
    7. Instill the fear of GOD in your children (their is a consquences (sp) for what U DO IN THIS LIFE!
    8. feel free to add on
    -------------------------------------
    9. and they STILL might end up pregnant. or a teen father.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    @daisy I really don't speak to boys because I don't know anything about being a man. But I speak with the girls and yes sometimes they don't listen but they will always remember my words like I remember my mothers.

  • coaretained

    @kdub.. for the record I started uncle ruckus right before my last banning :coffee: Just want my credit!! :hugs:

  • Daisy

    KC your point is not moot with me cause I know both black and white girls who have been to the clinic some more than once :coffee:

  • ELove

    @fly (comment #144)
    I GUESS I'm the exception is that regard and my college attending Daughter can testify to that...

    When we talk SHE would constantly tell me ABOUT the conversations her & her friends be having about H.S. AND the stories they would tell had her JAW DROPPING & Eyes Rolling... They would always ask her, HOW come you never have any such stories to tell ???

    And she would tell them ...
    IF I had done ANY OF THE THINGS that y'all talked about I wouldn't be here with Y'all today... I WOULD BE DEAD because My Father would've Broke-My-Neck -- LMAO

    She can be a headache at times BUT She MAKES ME PROUD also
    :wink:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    For those of you who are reading but can't comment: don't email me saying white girls do it too. White girls have the common sense to use condoms or some other form of birth control. Your point is moot unless you can show me a high school with 115 pregnant white girls.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    we can go back and forward all day the only way to stop this is start back being a tight united..

  • kcicero

    Hey Daisy!1 waving extra hard. By the way I just got got home not to long ago from observing classes in an inner city Philadelphia High School, I observed two classes and not one of those girls were pregnant and guess what race the majority of them were?

    Ding Ding Ding Black and on top of that one of the classes was AP Econ. How about we also talk about the many minority girls/students that against all odds and obstacles are making it and doing what they have to do to get their education. That is what should be glorified.

    SANDRA HOW ABOUT YOU DO A WEEKLY POST ON POSITIVE BLACK STUDENTS MAKING A DIFFERENCE THROUGH EDUCATION AND COMMUNITY SERVICE?

  • coaretained

    oopss.. I called him CHUCKUS... carry on

  • starr

    Daisy Says:

    @fly I know some girls in the church who had Jesus and the fear of God and still got prg. a few were preacher kids at that so thats not always a gurantee either. Not a bad list but kids can sneak and listen to music at school or out of your care as I am sure you already know
    ***********

    knew a gurl in the church. Sang on the choir and everything. Cool good gurl. We don't see her a while. Couple years lata, we start seeing her again....with twins. Me and my friend assume it was her nieces or somthing. Turns out they were hers. We were so shocked. We were asking if she was married, cuz this wouldn't of happened to the gurl we knew. Well, she got pregnant. So yea....i agree wit u....and thats just one story....have so many of those.

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    DAMN did yall see the news report video, those girls look Older than my 28 yo self...sheez

  • kcicero

    @ Sandra so is abortion a form of birth control? just curious :coffee:

  • coaretained

    @sandra...do you have all 115 girls myspace pages? Are we POSITIVE they are all black?

  • kwall

    oh @ coa. i thought he named hisself that.

    well uncle rukus/tom he is then.

    i CANNOT wait for my 14yo's dad to show up to pick her up in about an hour.

    gonna tell him hip hop influenced me back in 1994...that he is a statutory rapist...he is an absentee dad...we need to add more miley cyrus and carrie underwood to her ipod....we made a HUGE mistake...that the lil pregnant girls running around her hs school are a bad influence...

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    and for the record my momma stills tell me I am wrong for having sex and not married and I am grown. she tells me you gone bust hell wide open, my momma has never told me it's okay to have sex, so when I did it each time I knew I was wrong, I'm a nun now but hey that's me.

  • missy

    @ starr

    i'm probably the youngest here cause i'm younger than you *coughs* 18 but i :claps: girl we in the same club(i still have my v card) child and if i wasn't I wouldn't blame hip hop or anyone for what i did it would be my choice.

  • starr

    one blk school that this happened too. And btw, i went to diverse h.s., and a pretty whyte college, and they know how ot get rid of it....w/ out going to a clinic

  • coaretained

    @ starr

    usually they force a marriage that ends in divorce 2 years later.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Daisy Says:
    KC your point is not moot with me cause I know both black and white girls who have been to the clinic some more than once

    ************************************************************

    And I'm sure you're standing at the clinic door with a clipboard keeping stats on how many black and white girls go in. :coffee:

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    one word here Sarah Palin

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    @ attrnymom

    Thanks and I got you. Will hit you up...

    In the words of Positive K...

    "Cause when I blow up don't try and kick it to me later.."

  • coaretained

    @kdub
    lemme know what he says...LOL

  • kwall

    White girls have the common sense to use condoms or some other form of birth control
    -------------------------------
    what about the story about the yt woman who had 15 abortions by the time she turned 33.

    15 terminations in 17 years…
    -----------------------------------
    can we get a medical minute on what multiple terminations do to a woman's body? i have read both. they do NO damage and they do MAJOR damage.

  • coaretained

    @190 :clap:

  • goat76

    What up Dani....How's it goin........

    Hey DB.....it's hangin to the right...I'm right handed....

    What up Coa....BOTC..How are you doing....LOL

    Elove.....ain't nothing, jus enjoying football season...RollTide!!!

    KWeezy....Im just chillinn

    Chuckster....That was my way of greeting you.....LOL...jus playing wit you Chuckie.....what's happenin....did you go to the BET Awards last weekend...LOL

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    why is it about race anyway? :shrug:
    every race has this issue, we need to combat it. point.blank.period

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    Sandra Rose Says:
    White girls have the common sense to use condoms or some other form of birth control

    seriously sandra? SMH

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    thats why they walk around with herpes in there mouth from sucking on all that _ _ _K please

  • MrsHawthorne77

    pinky2083 Says:

    Last night’s episode was kinda boring to me.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Yes it was...but next week looks like it's going to be filled with all sorts of drama. But I wanted more from the guy who claims he's NeNe's dad. How can he NOT want to answer any questions right then and there? I mean what was the purpose of him wanting to meet her? If all he wanted to do is see what she looked like he could've gotten a picture sent to him...:shrugs:

  • goat76

    Hey Coa.....BOTC = Baby of the Clique(Click)......LOL

  • coaretained

    hey goat!! I miss you!!!!
    :wave:

  • Daisy

    Missy you 18?

    That is one of the reasons I like Teyana Taylor she is proud to say she still has her V card and plans on holding onto it for awhile. I do think our girls need more young postive role models they can look up to.

    Sandra you know white girls get prg. Sarah Palins daughter, Brittanys sister and all the girls at the school in Mass oh and the 16 and prg show on MTV.

    @Nichelle your mama sounds like my grandma :rofl:

    I am a nun now as well no :hump: for me..only in my dreams lol

  • kwall

    ROLL TIDE!!!! Heck Yeah...

  • Daisy

    @Nichelle and I dont think its cute to go around giving head like its a kiss I am 33 and never gave head only my hubby will be so blessed n lucky

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Look everyone is to blame for this ish. From the parents to the entertainment industry to the churches to Corporate America to government. Our god became money. It is all about the dollar bill. That is all that counts. Not spirituality, not morals, not character, not love, not self respect, not your brother's/sister's keeper etc. It is all about me phi me. It is my thing; I do whatever I want to do with it. Never mind the impact it will have on our lives, our children's lives, or our neighbor's lives. We have the foolishness called "Political Correctness" and "Pop Culture" to dictate how we should think and feel about ourselves and each other.

    Just say, “No to Jesus.” Muhammad is alright, Buddha is alright, the Dali Lama is alright, even satan is alright, Freud is alright, Darwin's crazy azz is okay, but just don't talk about Jesus.

    We rather teach homosexuality than abstinence. It is okay for little boys dress up like jail birds and little girls (and little girls like little boys).

    Let me stop right now because my azz is getting really upset…. More after the break.

  • http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

    right Daisy, I don;t understand it

  • missy

    yep im young as heck but I act old for my age.

  • kwall

    she is proud to say she still has her V card and plans on holding onto it for awhile.
    -------------------------------
    i think the fact that she is a baby lesbun :lick: helps t.taylor out a lot @daisy.

    i could be wrong :coffee:

  • starr

    missy Says:

    @ starr

    i’m probably the youngest here cause i’m younger than you *coughs* 18 but i girl we in the same club(i still have my v card) child and if i wasn’t I wouldn’t blame hip hop or anyone for what i did it would be my choice.

    **********

    I :claps: for u too!!!!

  • coaretained

    kwall... kona.. stat

  • kwall

    i know that somebody is gonna send me to the kona for 208.

    so i'm going...i'm going....

  • kcicero

    "Our god became money."

    Now you're talking AM!

    :cosign: :preach:

  • kwall

    kwall… kona.. stat
    --------------------
    see?

    DEAD.

  • coaretained

    get yo psychic azz outta here!! you know me so well!!

  • flyqtnva

    Like i said before sandra rose got A LOT OF SAINTS THAT DID EVERYTHING THEIR PARENTS TOLD THEM! EVEN THOUGH SOME HAVE ALREADY CONFESSED TO BEING TEENAGE PARENTS...& ONLY 1 woman on this whole post to the truth JUST ONE WOMAN...

    MY point is as a parent to anyone in the 13-18 age group you have little influence on your children...hate it or love it.....THE LIST is things you can try to do...NO ONE SAID CHURCH GIRLS WERE IMMUNE...and youre not going to know everything about your child..JUST LIKE YOUR PARENTS DONT KNOW EVERYTHING YOU DID...

    YOU CANT HAVE AN HONEST DISCUSSUIN WHEN PEOPLE WANNA ACT LIKE THEY PERFECT....POINT BLANK 13-18...FRIENDS, MUSIC HAS MORE INFLUENCE THAN PARENTS

    @ ELOVE
    YOURE DAUGHTER OBVIOULSY DIDNT GIVE IN TO PEER PRESSURE.... SHE PROBABLY LOOKED AROUND A SAW A BUNCH OF NONSENSE LIKE I DID...AND REALIZED THESE KNUCKLE HEAD BOYS WANST WORTH HER TIME...BIGUPS TO HER

    now i gotta go I will be back later.

  • mirsmommy

    @ kwall

    LOL.

    I applied before unemployment, too. I left Hubby's name off the papers, and told them, I had no clue where he was. They still shut me down.

  • ELove

    @goat ... YEAH Bama is looking REAL NICE and that WR-Jones is going to be A BEAST in the NFL

    @198... DAMN you dropping BOMBS like WEIGHT :lol:

  • goat76

    @109.......BK2ATL.......I kinda remember saying he was gonna turn it in.......Keep talking to him about this here real world we living in......

    Coa.....me misses you to.......here hit this :blunt:

  • coaretained

    thanks cousin goat...

    :party:

  • starr

    missy and i are in the minority among our peers. shame

  • kwall

    EVEN THOUGH SOME HAVE ALREADY CONFESSED TO BEING TEENAGE PARENTS…& ONLY 1 woman on this whole post to the truth JUST ONE WOMAN…

    JUST LIKE YOUR PARENTS DONT KNOW EVERYTHING YOU DID…

    YOU CANT HAVE AN HONEST DISCUSSUIN WHEN PEOPLE WANNA ACT LIKE THEY PERFECT
    -------------------------------------
    what truth? what confession?

    my daughter's birth certificate confesses everything it needs to so call 'fess up to. when it has "mother's age"...and then a "17" beside it. i could give a rats azz on what YOU or anybody else feels is MY truth. this is not a catholic church with a confessional.

    is there something to be ashamed of? cause that is the connotation i get from the word "confess".

  • Nina

    I look at that photo up top...and it seems like pregnancy for them is a fad and something to show off. These girls definitely aren't thinking about the BIG picture and how their life will change from "all about me" ... to "all about these multiple babies." I wonder what the STD rate is with all this unprotected sex. Where are the 115 baby daddies?

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @flyqtnva, "MY point is as a parent to anyone in the 13-18 age group you have little influence on your children…hate it or love it."
    *****************************************************

    Preach. You can't start raising a child at age 13. It is a rap at that point.

    The bottomline is that you (not your mama, father, grandmother, ancestors etc) have decide what kind of life you want to live. Period.

    The problem is that too many people get bailed out of their ish before they can hit rock bottom. We spoil our damn kids. We stopped whippin their azzes (thanks to DYFS) and started giving them time outs. That ish don't work. We allowed them to rule our homes starting at age 2. We have become some punkazz parents.

  • goat76

    @Elove.....that running game is very impressive....better QB this year...they forcing it to Jones a lil too much....just throw it up, he gonna go get it....D-Fence looking good......still a lot of football to be played....
    The NFL is off the Chain this year......Your either good or your bad......

  • Shauny

    WHEW I missed this discussion but I'm kinda glad I did.

    Damn Robeson! I bet you I know some of these kids parents. SMDH

    Parents and parental control. We gots to do better.

  • ELove

    @fly... Uhhhhh I'm pretty sure I HAD alot to do with her Perception to RECOGNIZE-n-REALIZE those facts of life. TRUST ME they didn't just pop in her mind and consciousness BY ACCIDENT... I Drilled AND Instilled those things, AGAIN I'll gladly let her tell you that herself :lol:

  • kwall

    now i gotta go I will be back later.
    -----------------------------
    take your bible and your assumptions with you....

  • Charles

    Lmfao

    I have self hate issues? How many of you even know what I look like much less who I am or what im about, haters fall back! Sorry the incovienent truth isn't to your liking,

  • Daisy

    Kwall :rofl: She is not a lesbun lol That was funny though

  • PAHairston

    First of all, as long as there is a God in heaven, there is hope. Our young girls often get pregnant on the very first time because as a young woman, these are your most furtile yrs. Sex education is school is necessary, it can help a young lady understand her body and when she's furtile. We as parents should teach our girls that their bodies are temples and to cherish their virginity and not be ashamed of it. I have a sister who was a virgin when she was married at 21 and her husband of 40 yrs loves the ground she walks on. (We are so removed from Biblical days when they stoned women for losing their virginity.) Don't give up on this generation, they are our future. If each one teaches one, it will make a difference. As for hip/hop/rap, in my opinion, worse music that could have ever been invented, all the cursing and lewdness, and many have little or no talent not to mention a voice. I gr4ew up with the Delfonics, Temptations, Supremes, Earth, Wind & Fire, real soulful music. I don't need lyrics that tell me how to suck a dick. Peace.

  • Daisy

    @the offtopic housewives comments I enjoyed the show last night Dwight was funny so was Kandi's mama.

    Shauny I tried not to get in this convo but got sucked in lol

  • coaretained

    :confused:

    riiiight....

    again.. for the record... I'm not ashamed for ANY SEX I HAD... ok.. maybe some... as a teenager... That sex brought me the greatest gifts on earth and it's not my fault that not everyone a)agrees with it b) takes the same opportunity and blows it.

    My choices as a teen have defined who I am as an adult. Lets not go putting folks in boxes just because of your own personal thoughts. I did not hurt anybody...or hell maybe I did.. by the choice to lay down and get pipe as a youth.

  • flyqtnva

    @kwall
    did u understand what I said yo...or do u just wanna be an ignoramus

    IF YOU TOLD YOUR PARENTS EVERY SINGLE THING YOU DONE FROM 13-18 I COMMEND YOU... YOU DESERVE A STANDING OVATION!

    I SAID ONLY 1 PERSON CAME HERE AND SAID EVEN THOUGH MY PARENTS SAID NOT TO I DID IT CAUSE I WANTED TO!

  • missy

    @ starr i know it really is a shame

  • kwall

    no ma'am. do not try to back track. please don't what you said was...

    EVEN THOUGH SOME HAVE ALREADY CONFESSED TO BEING TEENAGE PARENTS…

    & ONLY 1 woman on this whole post to the truth JUST ONE WOMAN…

    ----------------------------
    what is the truth?

  • Daisy

    @goat and elove I am a FOOTBALL junkie! I cant wait for the Saints and Giants game Sun!!!!!!!!! Goat I agree you are either good or bad this yr in the NFL.

  • flyqtnva

    @ELove
    NO OFFENSE HON..IM AT WORK..DOING A REPORT & POSTING AT THE SAME TIME! i WOULD NEVER DOWNPLAY YOUR ROLE AS A PARENT....i STILL STAND BESIDE ME FACT 13-18 PARENTS HAVE LITTLE CONTROL...PEERS HAVE MORE...ITS BEEN STUDIED SEVERAL TIMES! you told your parents EVERYTHING YOU DID AS A CHILD?

  • coaretained

    everyone please refer back to 156.. stop acting like this shyt is brand new.

  • ELove

    @goat
    Yeah the QB play actually shocked me BUT I always thought last years QB was WAY OVERRATED... And the Defense GOOD but not GREAT and that may end up biting them in the butt come crunch time... SEC Championship & Whatever Bowl Game after-wards but DEF a legitimate argument can be made that BAMA is the best team right now !!! :wink:

  • coaretained

    :waiting:

  • Charles

    Its hip hop culture

    It ruined the parents it ruined the kids. And of course most black people and black families don't value educations o without education they don't have original thought and follow a bandwagon mentality, the one that's most popular normally and the dumb parents and dumb kids follow hip hop and how they want to filet minion and slepe around and be hoodrats, white people are historcially better educated are smarter(higher act sat asvab any way u look @ it) and althougth there music is slutty, it doesn't glorify violence and crime

    And that's why I say make them listen to white music.

    But of course im attacked because im negative to blacks, but the black community has a lot of issues....... instead of raising credit scores or creating savings they buy lv purses and rims for their car

    ^^
    Am I lying?

  • coaretained

    @chuckus...

    what race/ethnicity/economic status group does NOT have issues??

    Name ONE. Yeah us black folks might fukk alot but we ain't in rehab like the yt folks.

  • Shauny

    Some of you mfs are so rude. I need to start weening myself back off from posting and just lurk.

    Daisy - Girl Kandi's mother had me cracking up last night. At least she said she liked him and thought he was a nice guy.....just not for her baby..lol

  • Charles

    Sandra Rose Says:

    For those of you who are reading but can’t comment: don’t email me saying white girls do it too. White girls have the common sense to use condoms or some other form of birth control. Your point is moot unless you can show me a high school with 115 pregnant white girls.

    :preach:
    :cosign:
    ;clap:

    Sandra im glad u agree with me, white girls do not do this and guess why

  • ELove

    @fly... My Grand-Mother (R.I.P.) was my BEST FRIEND and she wouldn't have it any other way. SHE always stressed to me that NO ONE your age knows more OR have experienced more than Me (meaning my GM) AND BECAUSE I was already a uniquely smart child she said YOU CAN'T LEARN NOTHING SIGNIFICANT from someone that's not smarter than you or AT LEAST as smart as you... And YES I used those same protocols-n-guidelines with My Daughter, My Nephews/Nieces and My God-Kids :wink:

    Honesty IS the best Policy :lol:

  • kcicero

    The BLACK community has issues, THE BLACK COMMUNITY HAS ISSUES...REALLY? THE CRUSADES, THE HOLOCAUST, SLAVERY, COLUMBINE, THE BOMBING OF HIROSHIMA AND NAGASAKI...Blacks may have issues but don't dear try to make it like WE'RE the only ones. And for the record I don't have a problem with the white community I'm married to a white man but believe it was for love and not for any self loathing issues, I love my people regardless of the many things we have to work on thanks to the WHITE MAN.

    AND CHARLES DO ME A FAVOR AND DO YOU RESEARCH ABOUT ANCIENT KEMET AND EDUCATION, THIS DIDN'T JUST HAPPEN TO OUR COMMUNITY OVER NIGHT...

  • flyqtnva

    @KWALL

    PLEASE SEE 129 135 & 139

    THEN LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE! cuz its obvious u and daisy are saints.....daisy claim she anit giving up no head (HAHA) and you told your parents EVERYTHING YOU DID...cause you dont wanna say I'M RIGHT

    Google it right now somebody...who has the most influence on 13-18 years olds

    WE ADULTS AND CANT ADMIT THAT WE HID SHIT FROM OUR PARENTS....smh....

  • ELove

    @Shauny... Whaddp HOMIE !!! :lol:

  • flyqtnva

    @ELove
    Good for you my mom was my best friend as well..but I went to CITY LIGHTS A couple times when I was supposed to be at my cousins house...lol....of course I told her as an ADULT...but not when I was a teenager cause she would have beat the brakes off me (lol)

  • coaretained

    @fly.. I don't know what is different bout what I said and what anyone else said that was a teen mother... obviously if they were a teen mother.. they weren't listening to their parents and did what they WANTED to do.. that's what IM reading anyway.
    *checks glasses*

    yup. Thats what I see

  • kwall

    and you told your parents EVERYTHING YOU DID…
    -----------------------------------
    who said that i did or didn't?

    i guess that is what i am supposed to be confessing?

  • Charles

    @246

    Yesss the blacks where is ancient kemet now? Where are these great socities now?

    The europeans have been here for thousandssss of years and are still here today, makes you wonder!

    And I could careless about the holocaust, hiroshima that was the better part of 50+ years ago. Lets get into today and this hs with 115 black pregneant girls!

    @242

    Asians the yellow ownes, japanese chinese korean =)

  • Daisy

    Fly dont start none wont be none! I have not said anything sideways at you so dont even try me today. I am ALWAYS on here saying we are ALL SINNERS or at least I am so DONT even come at me with saint talk. I am far from. In case you missed it the other 100x I said I am a SINNER saved by GRACE! I know what I have and havent done so I am good. Now you have a blessed day!

  • Shauny

    Whats up E! It's a mess on here, it really is. I can't take this chit on a Friday...lol

  • http://myspace.com/dannyblaq dblaq

    Thats because women like to be sexually free and liberated. So the more guys are shooting, the more chances that somebody will score!

  • coaretained

    @two fitty two

    them asians got issues too.. them folks up here in MY state killing each other in gang wars and hell just cause they feel like it. Dude was in the woods just offing folks for no reason a few years ago.

    But you just had to prove a point, right? Black folks ain't shyt... betchu can't wait for the next racial draft.
    :eyeroll:

  • Daisy

    Shauny Kandis mama has entertained me this entire season :rofl:

    @Coa I guess FLY has in her mind somehow that ALL of us DID everything our parents ever told us when NOBODY said that was the case in the 1st place so that is what she wants confessed for some reason.

    Yall have a good weekend :party1:

  • Daisy

    :party:

  • ELove

    @Fly :rofl:
    Luckily for me THE PLACES I did frequent (Sneaked Out To) My GM knew quite a few people who frequent the place and of course they would tell her... By the time I would sneak back in SHE would be right there waiting on me and YES I got a few beatings behind it... But it ONLY made me more wiser and respectful for THE EFFORT she put to trying to straighten me out ... But EVERY-TIME she asked me what I was doing AND where I was at I ALWAYS TOLD HER THE TRUTH !!! :wink:

  • kcicero

    Charles besides telling BLACK people to marry WHITE people and to assimilate which many would argue may be the very problem with the Black community, what are you doing to help stop 115 more girls from getting pregnant?

  • kwall

    daisy claim she anit giving up no head (HAHA)
    ---------------------------------
    that is her biz if she is or is not.

    what daisy got to do with me and you sis?

  • flyqtnva

    You cant say with one vocie OH ITS THE PARENTS FAULT...WHERE ARE THE PARENTS...when you know damn well when you were young you could have had the best parents on earth & you still were influenced at 13-18 by EVERYONE BUT THEM (YOUR PARENTS)

  • coaretained

    @ kc

    he's gonna hit the :homoswitch:

    sorry couldn't resist!!

  • kwall

    @Coa I guess FLY has in her mind somehow that ALL of us DID everything our parents ever told us when NOBODY said that was the case in the 1st place so that is what she wants confessed for some reason.
    ---------------------------------
    fly is one of the ones who makes assumptions and when you call her on it and make her realize that what she is spewing are accusations, assumptions, half truths, etc. all while sitting at her desk thumping the Bible... she tries to back track and say she did not mean it like that....

    used to be amulet. now it is her.

  • flyqtnva

    @ELove
    i NEVER HAD THE GUTS TO SNEAK OUT...i waited until I was at someone else house ..then we hit up the club..fake id and everything...WHY CUS I WANTED TO BE JUST LIKE MY SIS & HER OLDER FRIENDS AND HIT THE CLUB

  • flyqtnva

    @ELOVE
    1 time I skipped school to see Method Man....i met him and nnedless to say HE GAVE ME A SHOT OUT ON THE RADIO said I MET ONE OF THE PRETTIEST YOUNG LADIES TODAY & SHE MY BIGGEST FAN!

    I went home like I was at school all day....I heard my mom screaming before her car pulled up..SHE SAID I KNOW FOR A FACT ITS ONLY ONE GIRL WITH YOUR NAME IS THIS AREA..i had to tell her then cuz i was BUSTED!... i didnt get in trouble though cuz she know I loved METH!

  • kcicero

    lmao @ kwall and coa :rofl: the ignorance of some is blinding...

  • flyqtnva

    @kwall

    You cant say with one vocie OH ITS THE PARENTS FAULT…WHERE ARE THE PARENTS…when you know damn well when you were young you could have had the best parents on earth & you still were influenced at 13-18 by EVERYONE BUT THEM (YOUR PARENTS)

    I WAS GOING TO JUST IGNORE YOU BUT

  • Charles

    @262

    :cosign:

    @260
    Lmfaooo I think you should marry who you love I say that marry whites as a joke. I think people should marry for love and have kids after marriage the way it should be done.

    And black people fullfill too many stereotypes for me to want to claim them. I've known people more concerned about 22"s than paying child support, its sickening.

  • ELove

    @fly (#168)... SEE how best friends look out for each other :lol:

  • coaretained

    it's SOME parents faults. Most of the folks I knew in h.s. were setting the example and TEACHING girls how to be as ya'll call it fast. Them the ones on Maury....

    then there's OTHER teenagers who just do it cause they think they are in love but don't know SHYT bout love cause they are young.

    see my previous definitions.

  • flyqtnva

    And i dont make assumptions I'm reading your own STATEMENT..YOU SAID IT ALL FALLS ON THE PARENT...I SAY 13-18 YEAR OLDS ARE MORE INFLUENCED BY OUTSIDE PRESSURE.... I STAND BY THAT STATEMENT ALL DAMN DAY LONG!!!
    Now if it al falls on the parent... :wtf: did yours do wrong?

  • mirsmommy

    Sorry, but we blacks ain't the only effed up race. Like I said, there's YT kiddies, that get high off of serious drugs. Heroin, crack, coke, oxycotin, etc. They shoot up schools, malls, and other public places. And the list goes on.

    Maybe they don’t get pregnant as teens at an alarming rate, but they do other things in means of crying out for attention. Crazy ish I might add.

    Recently, there were 2 young YT girls, caught on camera, tellin Soulja Boy that they would suck his d*ck.

    So it ain't only us.

  • kwall

    1 time I skipped school to see Method Man….i met him and nnedless to say HE GAVE ME A SHOT OUT ON THE RADIO
    ----------------------------
    (GASP)....you used to listen.....to hip hop?

    did it influence you? do you have 50-11 chiren? from the way you shout that the devil is in hip hop i would have ASSUMED you came out your mama's cooch listening to gospel.

    if there is ONE hip hop group that might have all those hidden messages you speak of in their music...

    yep wu-tang is it...

  • kcicero

    @ Charles ok k k, lol now that I know your joking about that you really had me nervous.

    But even if you don't want to claim them what are you doing to help stop the problems of the Black community? I genuinely want to know, we need to get back to the I am my brother's keeper, it takes a village to raise a child mentality.

  • flyqtnva

    @kwall
    with your ignorant smart @ss...now thump on that bible

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice =)

    WELL DANG. :popcorn:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sidebar: Are Tannia and Sheree dating?? Why is she on RHOA?

  • kwall

    @kwall
    with your ignorant smart @ss…now thump on that bible
    --------------------------------
    you do enough bible thumping for all of us sis.

    see u at church on sunday okay?

  • kcicero

    I'm exiting stage left on this and going to pop some :popcorn: , but when ever you get time Charles please pray tell what you can do as an individual to stop this problem. I know what I'm doing :)

  • kwall

    who on here said that when folks don't see things their way, and they don't have anything else to back up their opinions... they start calling names?

  • coaretained

    :rofl:

    kdub... you too much...LMAO

  • mirsmommy

    @ attorneymom

    I was wondering the same thing about Tania and Sheree....Did you see how Tania was looking at Sheree while she was tryin on them clothes?????

    :rofl:

  • flyqtnva

    @kwall
    see 274..and dont say nothing else until you answer that..im convinced you dont read..you pick out words...AND HOW THE HELL U THINK I FIGURED OUT THE DEVIL IS IN HIP HOP...from experience...and unlike you...I VALUED MY SELF ENOUGH TO WAIT FOR A HUSBAND BEFORE I STARTED SPITTING OUT BASTARDS....y ...cuz Jesus told me to...how you like dem apples....

  • starr

    OH NO SHE DIDN'T!!!!!

  • Shauny

    Kumbaya my Lord Kumbaya

  • coaretained

    ok.. fly.. now you got ME fukked up cause my kids ain't no bastards... thank you VERY fukkin much.

  • intensemocha

    SO SANDRA OF THE 800 STUDENTS WHICH YOU STATED IS PREDOMINANTLY BLACK HOW MANY OF THOSE STUDENTS ARE FEMALES, (TO SELF-HATE RACIST BLACK BOYS DROP OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL) SO IT'S SAFE TO ASSUME THAT MORE THAN HALF OF THE STUDENTS ARE BLACK FEMALES SO OF THOSE 1OO OR SO ARE PREGNANT

    AND IF ALL OF THE REASONS YOU STATED ABOVE ARE SO TRUE....THEN HOW COULD IT BE THAT THE REMAINING BLACK FEMALES MANAGED NOT TO GET PREGNANT

    LOL-BOY PEOPLE LIKE TO MANIPULATE FACTS TO FUEL THEIR OWN ILLOGIC AND STEREOTYPES DON'T THEY

    LOL

  • mirsmommy

    Did Sheree and Tania both hit the :homoswitch: ?

  • SunnyPA

    Wow, you guys are ridin' hard on a Friday afternoon.

  • Charles

    @280

    :offtopic: nobody cares

    @275

    Blacks = higher % end of its a fact! And a groupie cna come and any race and color

    @277

    Assimilating =) I educate myself and don't fall for anything and try to fullfill a stereotype. There's not much I can do for everyone else just set a example

  • intensemocha

    I WONDER IF MONICA AND TINY KIDS ARE CONSIDERED BASTARDS?

    JUST WONDERING.....I PERSONALLY WOULD NEVER REFER TO ANY CHILD AS A BASTARD

    IT'S A SLANG WORD THAT JUST LIKE NICCA IS FOUND IN THE DICTIONARY, IT'S DEROGATORY, AND USED TO MAKE SOMEONE FEEL INADEQUATE

  • kwall

    well i got a husband now. better late than never. a TRUE christian sees others faults and embraces them. you are the biggest "i am SUCH a christian woman" joke i ever did see.

    i can see you and your lil prissy self listening to meth right now. prolly got all good and wet when he said "I first met you in my cousin's house, a week later...we was fucking on your momma couch"....cause that was you huh?

  • kwall

    ok.. fly.. now you got ME fukked up cause my kids ain’t no bastards… thank you VERY fukkin much.

    JUST WONDERING…..I PERSONALLY WOULD NEVER REFER TO ANY CHILD AS A BASTARD
    -------------------------------

    believe me if i know from previous posts on here....she will be back tracking in ONE second....

  • kwall

    cause that is what she is....a bible thumping, back tracker.

  • flyqtnva

    kwall
    u know im talking to ur ignorant a@@

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    intensemocha Says:

    AND IF ALL OF THE REASONS YOU STATED ABOVE ARE SO TRUE….THEN HOW COULD IT BE THAT THE REMAINING BLACK FEMALES MANAGED NOT TO GET PREGNANT

    ********************************************

    I think it's bad enough that 115 black girls in one school are pregnant. Can we focus on that instead of hypothetical situations? :shrug:

  • coaretained

    quick to quote the bible but skipped the part bout not judging folks....

    I'mma need you to take yo hypocritical azz on somewhere. RAT now. You don't disrespect folks children but come up here praising Jesus.

    :angry:
    :mad:
    :whateverthehellgetsmyfukkinpointacross:

  • coaretained

    flyqtnva Says:

    kwall
    u know im talking to ur ignorant a@@

    *****
    if her kids are bastards wtf are mine????????????

  • flyqtnva

    and its funny you never answered the ? MISS I BLAME THE PARENTS..GTFOH

  • BLACKBARBIE404

    OFF TOPIC:

    I'VE SKIMMED THROUGH ALL OF THE COMMENTS...AND I HAVE NO COMMENT! ;O) (DOG CHASING ITS OWN TAIL)

    FURTHER, ON THE POSITIVE SIDE OF LIFE, I APPRECIATE EVERYONE THAT EMAILED ME REGARDING MY EVENT NEXT SATURDAY. SEE YOU THEN!!!

    "THE FIRST STEP OF CHANGE BEGINS WITH OURSELVES, THEN WE CAN BEGIN TO CHANGE THE WORLD"...NOONE IS PERFECT.

  • starr

    Shauny Says:

    Kumbaya my Lord Kumbaya
    ****

    too late for that

    I barely recognize u in ur new gravi

  • Shauny

    Charles as a FYI a guy SHOULD NOT be saying "end of". Cut it out.

    I think Tania is being tested out to see if she could become a Housewife. I don't like her ass. Keep her rude suspect lesbun ass to herself. Say NO to the hoe.

    kwall says
    a TRUE christian sees others faults and embraces them
    *****************************************
    :preach: I always SMH at judgement and bible versus popping up in the same comment. That's why I just stay away.

  • pinky2083

    DAYUM!!! Went to lunch and came back and it done turned into WW3.

  • missy

    @fly your comment at 286 had me laughing a little bit but it does come off as a little judgmental but I believe that everyone in this world is a little hypocritical at some point because we learn everyday and change our opinions so no need for everyone to be getting heated over the computer(even if you don't take it personal )

  • intensemocha

    YOU SHOULD BE VERY CAREFUL HOW YOU LABEL PEOPLE AND TALK ABOUT THEM BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO WILL BE THE ONE TO GIVE YOU YOUR LAST DRINK OF WATER, OR CARE FOR YOU ON YOUR DEATH BED

    MIGHT BE THAT SO CALLED "BASTARD" WHO MIGHT SAVE YOUR LIFE OR CARE FOR YOU IN YOUR TIME OF NEED

    PEOPLE ARE LABELING A WHOLE GENERATION OF CHILDREN SIMPLY BY THE FACT THAT THEIR MOTHER WASN'T MARRIED WHEN SHE GAVE BIRTH......AND THAT DOESN'T DICTATE WHAT THEIR VALUE IS NOR WHAT THEIR CONTRIBUTIONS TO THIS WORLD MAY BE

  • flyqtnva

    @coaretained
    if your attacking me as kwall was in the above post then this ones for you too...if not keep it moving please...

    I have a problem with the same OLD A@@ LADY attacking me then she get mad when i GO OFF...just dont respond to my comments...i only respond when someone makes sense,,,and as i stated before everyone saying BLAME THE PARENTS WHEN YOU KNOW DAMN WELL PARENTS DONT INFLUENCE YOUR CHOICES AT THAT AGE...

  • flyqtnva

    @missy

    I told you I DONT START THEM BUT I WILL END THEM....

  • flyqtnva

    @intensemocha
    IF MY LAST DRINK HAD TO COME FROM KWALL.....I WOULD RATHER ME MY MAKER....BELIEVE THAT YO

  • Shauny

    starr - I'm going back to Melo. I feel like I'm cheating :lolol:

    Sandra says
    I think it’s bad enough that 115 black girls in one school are pregnant. Can we focus on that instead of hypothetical situations?
    ***********************************************
    From my understanding of what instense said. There are 800 people in that school, 115 girls are pregnant. How many of that remaining 685 are girls and ARE NOT pregnant? That isn't hypothetical, based on your post it's a fact. Put your focus on praising the ones that ARE NOT pregnant instead of highlight the ones that are.

  • intensemocha

    OK MY DEAR-THOSE ARE THE FACTS

    800 STUDENTS ONLY 100 OR SO ARE PREGNANT DISCOUNT THE MALES THERE HAS TO BE A WHOLE DAMN GROUP OF BLACK FEMALES THAT DIDN'T GET PREGNANT

    AND THEIR BLACK TOO AND IF THOSE ARE THE REASONS WHY THOSE 100 OR SO ARE PREGNANT THEN HOW IN THE HELL DID THE OTHERS MANAGE NOT TO GET PREGNANT?

    VALID QUESTION MY DEAR-NOT HYPOTHETICAL AT ALL

    HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • flyqtnva

    MEET MY MAKER

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    :newpost: IS UP! :pc:

  • coaretained

    you called her kids a bastard b/c she wasn't married when I said was not either.. just a second ago you were singing my praises for "confessing" but now HERE YOU ARE calling out bastard kids. YOU started by attacking INNOCENT children. Don't do me boo-boo.

    I sincerely hope your mother was married when she got pregnant with you.

    God bless.

  • intensemocha

    YOU SAY THAT NOW BUT YOU WOULDN'T KNOW THAT UNTIL THE TIME PRESENTED ITSELF

    YOU DON'T KNOW OLE GIRL LIKE THAT-WHAT YOU GET ON THIS BLOG IS JUST A FRACTION OF WHAT SHE'S LIKE

    I'VE BEEN ON HERE BEEFING BEFORE SO I KNOW IT CAN GET HEATED BUT WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE I COME BACK AND POST AGAIN-IF WE REALLY DISLIKED SOMEONE OR THE SITE SO MUCH WE WOULDN'T COME BACK AT ALL

  • kwall

    I’m reading your own STATEMENT..YOU SAID IT ALL FALLS ON THE PARENT…I SAY 13-18 YEAR OLDS ARE MORE INFLUENCED BY OUTSIDE PRESSURE…. I STAND BY THAT STATEMENT ALL DAMN DAY LONG!!!
    ---------------------------------
    you told me to go back and read number 274...i never said i was the one who blamed anything on any parents. mine, me as a parent....

    i DID however call you a bible thumping back tracker tho.

    you were prolly "becky champion 1998" at western branch hs huh? you prolly did not get caught up with a teen pregnancy...cause since you are so ENTHRALLED with who gives head and who doesn't on this post (daisy)...you prolly swallowed all of your early "would be" babies. being how you admitted that u listened to method man and all. and how hip hop influences folks.

    DISCLAIMER....those are not facts....they are my assumptions. since folks make some on me i think it is high time i came up with some of my own....

  • missy

    @ fly i can tell :)

  • kwall

    IF MY LAST DRINK HAD TO COME FROM KWALL…..I WOULD RATHER MEET MY MAKER….BELIEVE THAT YO
    -----------------------------
    i would offer you one.

    but if i had to piss on you if you were on fire that is another story.

  • BLACKBARBIE404

    LMAO @ SANDRA...NEW POST IS UP!!!

    MY LIL POSITIVE COMMENT GOT HOP-SCOTCHED ALL OVER.... LMAO

    WHEW....ENJOY YOUR WEEKEND & STAY WARM!!!

  • starr

    I miss seeing kym's post

    (tryna change the subject? lol)

  • flyqtnva

    @intensemocha

    AND SHE DONT KNOW ME BUT EVERYTIME I POST SOMETHING SHE WONT ANSWER THE ? BUT GOT SOMETHING TO SAY...& I MEAN EVERY DAY & EVERY TIME..... THEN EVERYONE RUN TO HER DEFENSE CUZ HER LIL FEELINGS GOT HURT....BOO THE HELL HOO..I DIDNT SAY I DISLIKE HER...I SAID IF MY LAST DRINK OF WATER HAD TO COME FROM HER i WOULD RATHER MEET MY MAKER...THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT! SHE WOULD PROBALY POSION ME ANYWAY!

  • Shauny

    OH WOW!!! Have a nice weekend everyone. This is too serious now.....:shotsfired1:

  • kwall

    i'm sorry bb. i saw you sis. and i miss ya!

    hope your event is a success...they always are tho!

    much love to ya!

  • BLACKBARBIE404

    LMAO @ KWALL *WAVING*

  • flyqtnva

    EVERYTIME I POST SOMETHING SHE WONT ANSWER THE ? BUT GOT SOMETHING TO SAY…& I MEAN EVERY DAY & EVERY TIME…..

  • kwall

    again...i don't have any feelings. sorry. try again.

  • intensemocha

    LOL-I AINT GOT NOTHING TO SAY I'VE BEEN ON BOTH ENDS BEFORE

    BY TOMORROW I'LL BE TRYING TO EXPLAIN MY SIDE TO SOMEONE ELSE

    ACTUALLY PROBABLY NOT, I USUALLY SPEAK MY PEACE, DO SOME CUSSING, AND THROW UP DEUCES AND BOUNCE-LOL

  • SunnyPA

    Oops, I meant to say "ridin' hard" on a Friday afternoon.

    As someone coming in late reading the comments ... except for the name calling, y'all pretty saying the same thing in different ways "we have a problem in our community". Co-sign with the person who said this is like a dog chasing his tail.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Shauny Says:

    Put your focus on praising the ones that ARE NOT pregnant instead of highlight the ones that are.

    ************************************************

    We need to highlight the 115 girls who are pregnant because their pregnancies will impact the taxpayers of Chicago who already have to deal with the highest state taxes in the country. So pardon me if I don't applaud the 685 black girls who haven't gotten pregnant YET. I'm sure they are working on it considering the permissive environment that they are currently in.

  • flyqtnva

    @kwall

    I WOULD PREFER YOU LET ME BURN THE HELL UP!

  • SunnyPA

    dammit .. I mean ridin rough. My mind is elsewhere today

  • flyqtnva

    @intensemocha

    i KNOW I C U YO......PEACE
    I LIVE TO POST ANOTHER DAY

    SIGNING OFF THE NEW LIL MISS PRISSY!

  • kwall

    SIGNING OFF THE NEW LIL MISS PRISSY!
    --------------------------------
    you were prolly “becky champion 1998? at western branch hs huh? you prolly did not get caught up with a teen pregnancy…cause since you are so ENTHRALLED with who gives head and who doesn’t on this post (daisy)…you prolly swallowed all of your early “would be” babies.
    -----------------------------------
    why didn't you sign off "becky champion 1998 of western branch hs" ??????

  • kcicero

    "So pardon me if I don’t applaud the 685 black girls who haven’t gotten pregnant YET. I’m sure they are working on it considering the permissive environment that they are currently in."

    AND THIS STATEMENT IS A PART OF THE THE PROBLEM :coffee:

  • MistaO

    Yes, applaud the girls and boys who have not fallen into this trap.

    I've read most of the reasoning for why this is happening here, but to boil them all down, the MAIN reason for this is the fact that I can almost guarantee that 90-99% of all these pregnant girls come from homes WITHOUT a F-A-T-H-E-R in them. Trust, it's fact.

    But yet this will NOT change because so many women have bought in to the "i don't need no man" mantra and therefore only encourages more of this nonsense...

  • intensemocha

    YADA YADA-YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE OTHER GIRLS WILL OR WON'T DO

    THE FACT IS 100 OR SO IS PREGNANT AND THAT'S THE ONLY FACT

    I LOVE PEOPLE LIKE YOU-I LIKE TO SEE THEIR FACES WHEN THEY TALK BAD ABOUT YOUNG MOMS, SINGLE MOMS, BLACK WOMEN ETC.

    FOR THE RECORD IF TEENAGE PREGNANCY ENDED TODAY THE GOVERNMENT AINT GOING TO REFUND TAXPAYERS THEY'RE GOING TO USE THE MONEY FOR THE WAR AND TO PAY THEIR HIGH ARSE SALARIES OR SOME OTHER BULLSHIAT

    SO STOP THE BULLSHIAT, I GET A PAYCHECK EVERY TWO WEEKS NO WHERE ON MY PAYCHECK DOES IT INDICATE TEENAGE MOMS

  • coaretained

    :cosign: 336 and 338

  • coaretained

    just scrolled up.. only one of the pregnant girls in the pic looks even REMOTELY melanized...

    FAIL!!!

  • Shauny

    Samdra you don't applaud anything positive that has to do with Blacks outside of your favorite ATL darlings so it's no shocker.

    Just remember that you are the same person who praised Diamonds statement about accepting only 90% of her man because all men cheat and as long as the other girls know she's the main girl she's o.k. You said she was keeping it real right? SMDH

  • intensemocha

    AINT NOTHING WRONG WITH A WOMAN CHOOSING NOT TO BE WITH A SORRY ARSE MAN JUST TO SAY SHE HAS ONE

    MOST WOMEN WHO SAY THEY DON'T NEED A MAN DON'T-IT ISN'T WISE FOR ANYBODY TO NEED SOMEONE

    NOW WANT IS A WHOLE NOTHER STORY-IT'S RARE TO HEAR MEN RUNNING AROUND TALKING ABOUT I NEED A WOMAN

    GET THE FUG OUTTA HERE WHY YOU SO BUSY PREACHING TO THE WOMEN ABOUT HOW TO FIX OUR ILLS IN THIS SOCIETY

    GO HOLD A RALLY AND GET AT BLACK MEN WHO DECIDED TO ABANDONED THEIR CHILDREN CAUSE THEY AINT FUGGIN THE BABY MAMA NO MORE

    GIVE THEM THE MEMO:

    YOU CAN STILL BE A FATHER TO YOUR CHILD EVEN IF YOU AND THE MOTHER ARE NO LONGER A COUPLE OR AINT FUGGIN-LOL

  • Charles

    Now imagine if they livEd ina rich suburb with white kids =) listened to pop music

    I bet maybe 2 would be pregneant

  • http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

    Damn...I didn't think the post will be this huge!!!

    Well I am 24 years old and I have no children yet, no abortion from unplanned events, and take BIRTH CONTROL everyday :) !!!

    I plan on having kids after marriage and I will make sure that unwanted pregnancies will be prevented by making sure I am protected from both my end and my spouse.

    People need to stop waiting for that sex talk and start talking to your children about sex. If not, they will make mistakes that could have been avoided :cry:

  • intensemocha

    MATTER OF FACT FATHER'S HAVE THE RIGHT TO VISITATIONS

    IRREGARDLESS IF HE'S PAYING CHILD SUPPORT OR NOT TWO SEPARATE ISSUES

    A MAN CAN DO AND WILL DO WHAT HE WANTS BUT HE MAKES A CONSCIOUS CHOICE TO WALK AWAY FROM HIS CHILDREN-THAT'T NOT A CHOICE A WOMAN CAN MAKE FOR HIM "HE" AND "HE" ALONE DOES THAT

    SO AGAIN-HOW IS IT THAT WOMEN ARE TO BLAME FOR MEN NOT BEING FATHER'S ? WOULD IT BE FAIR TO ASSUME THEN THAT EVERY MAN WHOSE BEING A FATHER IS BEING FORCED TO DO SO BY THE CHILD'S MOTHER-PROBABLY NOT MOST LIKELY IT'S BECAUSE HE CHOOSES TO BE

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    hauny Says:
    Samdra you don’t applaud anything positive that has to do with Blacks outside of your favorite ATL darlings so it’s no shocker.

    Just remember that you are the same person who praised Diamonds statement about accepting only 90% of her man because all men cheat and as long as the other girls know she’s the main girl she’s o.k. You said she was keeping it real right? SMDH

    ***********************************************************

    Again, Diamond is a grown woman in a committed relationship with the same man for years. Can we credit the sistah for not ho hopping? Oh, and the same goes for Monica and Tiny who are also in committed relationships. Pardon me if I show them love for not being hos like Lil Wayne and Gabrielle Union. :)

  • intensemocha

    MAN PUHLEEZE I WENT TO A PREDOMINANTLY WHITE SCHOOL WHICH LATER BECAME MIXED AND THOSE WHITE HEFFAS WAS HAVING ABORTIONS LEFT AND RIGHT

    THIS AINT JUST A BLACK ISSUE-PEOPLE JUST WANT TO BELIEVE IT IS

  • http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

    Another thing...I recall a story like this in a predominately Hispanic school where alot of the female population was pregnant.

    This is happening in every community not just in the black community. I am honestly glad to see these children not at Planned Parenthood, getting rid of their children.

    Instead of trying to cast stones, put literature on how we can communicate with our kids :) !!!

  • intensemocha

    WHO MADE YOU PUZZY PATROL

    WHY YOU CARE SO MUCH ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE ELSE IS DOING WITH THEIR PUZZY

    AND IF DIAMOND MAN IS FUGGIN OTHER PEOPLE SHE AINT IN NO DAMN COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP-COMMITTED MEANS TWO PEOPLE COMMITTED TO ONE ANOTHER NOT ONE COMMITTED AND THE OTHER FUGGIN OTHERS

    DAYUM PUZZY PATROL-TRYING TO CONTROL WHO FUGGIN AND WHOSE NOT

  • ELove

    YEAH at what @339 SAID !!!!! :lol:

  • intensemocha

    AND IF GAYS AND LESBIANS COULD GET PREGNANT THEIR DEVIANT, HOE HOPPING WAYS, WOULD BE EXPOSED TOO

  • ELove

    @intense... I'm riding everything you're saying:
    And then FINALLY comes comment #351 -- BOOM !!!!!
    :rofl:

  • intensemocha

    LOL-I'M GOING TO GET CYBER JUMPED ONE OF THESE DAYS

    ME AND MY DAYUM MOUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Nina

    @ 351 :rofl:

    I just watched the reporter's video from this school...Wow at her revealing ---> some of these girls are getting pregnant for "the pursuit of public aid."

  • Charles

    @351

    Wowwwww!

    :pc:

  • aqtpie

    :rofl: @ 351!!!

  • Daisy

    GUCCI! WELL DAYUM

  • Anna

    Nina Says:
    I just watched the reporter’s video from this school…Wow at her revealing —> some of these girls are getting pregnant for “the pursuit of public aid.”
    ~~~~
    Some get pregnant so they can have someone to love, and someone to love them. How sad.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    intensemocha Says:
    AND IF GAYS AND LESBIANS COULD GET PREGNANT

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    The last time I checked, lesbians can and do get pregnant. :shrug:

  • http://myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

    SMH still.....*goes to build dungeon for 5 yo daughter, and chastity belt*

  • Divinebrown

    dang...I'm mad I got busy and missed the rest of this thread.

  • pointhimout

    wheeeeeeew, this was a hot topic. 360 comments? damn, did monica chime in or something?

    anyways, i was driving thru dekalb county and saw two chicks up from the high school who were pregnant. i just shook my head. sandra, i too remember being in high school and every girl walking around was pregant; incoming freshman and definitely sophomore. i knew then that black people were going nowhere fast. well, my generation that is. here we are years later and i was right. damn kids beating and/or raising the parents.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Anna Says:

    Some get pregnant so they can have someone to love, and someone to love them. How sad.

    *******************************************************

    I was going to write that in my post because that's always been the case with underprivileged black girls. Only in our community do young girls get pregnant to feel wanted by someone because they don't know how to nurture a real relationship with a partner. All they know is ho hopping. It's sad... :(

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    coaretained Says:
    just scrolled up.. only one of the pregnant girls in the pic looks even REMOTELY melanized…

    *******************************************************

    *Sigh* It's a photo illustration...

  • Anna

    Sandra Rose Says:

    coaretained Says:
    just scrolled up.. only one of the pregnant girls in the pic looks even REMOTELY melanized…

    *******************************************************

    *Sigh* It’s a photo illustration
    ~~~~~~~~
    Is the pic really a female? I see a non six pack and under arm hair. The two females on the left showed their baby bumps and "cuffed" up their T-shirts. I see more stretch marks on the person on the right than I do the preg girls.
    It's a dude with a gut and man boobs. LOL.

  • Daisy

    SAY IT LOUD IM BLACK AND IM PROUD :cheer1:

    JESUS LOVES US THIS I KNOW :pray:

  • http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

    Anna Says
    It’s a dude with a gut and man boobs. LOL
    *************************
    :rofl: dear lord I was thinking the same thing. The one that's closest to the right of the screen. :rofl: I can't, I can't... he even has that man cut by the waist gong towards the peen.

    :rofl:

  • Anna

    iscream Says:

    Anna Says
    It’s a dude with a gut and man boobs. LOL
    *************************
    dear lord I was thinking the same thing. The one that’s closest to the right of the screen. I can’t, I can’t… he even has that man cut by the waist gong towards the peen.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    At my age it is so nice to know I am not just seeing things LOl

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Sandra, let me know when you cross over to the hetero side. I have someone (a God-made male) I can hook you up with.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @intensemocha, AND IF GAYS AND LESBIANS COULD GET PREGNANT THEIR DEVIANT, HOE HOPPING WAYS, WOULD BE EXPOSED TOO
    *******************************************************

    :rofl: The guy in the black shorts is probably gay. LOL. We can thank the media for calling the pregnant "male in my head" female a pregnant man.

  • Shauny

    Sandra how is Diamond in a commited relationship? That usually involves 2 people not me, my man, and others. I don't know anything about Monica's relationship so not sure why you mentioned her BUT T.I has bee well known to cheat on Tiny...very publicly at times too..so u may wanna let that go.

    Just like you want to praise Diamond for not being a hoe, Insense and I were saying do the same for the rest of those teenagers at Robeson who are NOT pregnant. That would be too much like right though.

  • intensemocha

    WE ALL KNOW LESBIANS ARE CAPABLE OF GETTING PREGNANT BUT THE FACT THAT THEY DO IS DYSFUNCTIONAL TO SAY THE LEAST-BECAUSE LAST I CHECKED BEING A LESBIAN MEANS THAT YOU SLEEP WITH WOMEN

    AND IF YOU STEP OUT TO HAVE SEX JUST TO GET PREGNANT BY A MAN-HOW NAZZZTY IS THAT

    LIKE I SAID IF IT WERE POSSIBLE FOR MALE/MALE AND FEMALE/FEMALE TO PROCREATE NATURALLY THEIR SHIAT WOULD BY ALL OUT THERE FOR THE WORLD TO SEE-THE ONLY THING THESE GIRLZ ARE GUILTY OF IS HAVING SEX

    AND ALL I'M SAYING THEIR NOT THE ONLY ONE'S FUGGING THEIR JUST THE ONLY ONE'S THAT HAVE A BELLY TO PROVE IT

  • intensemocha

    YOU WOULD THINK FROM YOUR POST AND CONSISTENT FOCUS ON BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN THAT WE INSERT BABY'S LIKE TAMPONS-ALL BY OURSELVES

    BUT IT'S SO EASY TO TAKE A JAB AT THE PEOPLE WHO SOCIETY DEEMS AS THE WEAKEST AND THE SOLE SCAPE GOAT FOR ALL OUR SOCIETIES ILLS

    EVERY DAY WE CAN COUNT ON SANDRA LIKE SEVERAL OTHER MEDIA OUTLETS TO POST AND REINFORCE NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES ABOUT "OUR" PEOPLE ALL DISGUISED WITH THE I'M JUST KEEPING IT REAL AND TELLING IT LIKE IT IS OR I'M TRYING TO HELP

    NO WHAT YOUR DOING IS SELLING-OUT FOR HITS-BLACKS TO YOU ARE ONLY GOOD FOR ONE THING MEANS TO AN END

    AS LONG AS YOU CONTINUE TO GAIN NOTORIETY YOU'LL THROW ANY GROUP UNDER THE BUS.....SPEWING NEGATIVITY ABOUT BLACK FOLKS TO STIR UP CONTROVERSY-ISN'T THAT CLASSIC....LOL

    YOU MIGHT AS WELL STRAP YOUR BOOTS ON AND PUT ON YOUR WHITE HOOD MY DEAR, YOU WOULD FIT RIGHT IN WITH YOUR RACIST VIEWS