Last night, the president of the United States held his first state dinner at the White House. The well-heeled invited guests included a Prime minister, a Nobel prize laureate, millionaire industrialists and entrepreneurs, Katie Couric of CBS News, Robin Roberts of ABC News, actors Alfre Woodard and Blair Underwood, and this odd pair - billionaire movie mogul David Geffen and his 26-year-old boyfriend Jeremy Lingvall.

That's Jeremy talking to Obama and that's David Geffen, 2nd from left, in the above picture taken at the dinner last night.

The seating arrangement was designed so as not to bruise some of the biggest egos in the world. So the First Lady had her own table where she broke bread with her distinguished guests and Barack Obama's special guests were seated at his table. I'm assuming there were other tables in the room as well.

Guess which table Geffen and his boy toy sat at?

Now I wouldn't be mentioning any of this if the boy, Jeremy, hadn't dashed home after the dinner to post pics from the dinner on his Facebook page along with little musings about the dinner and Obama in general.

According to Gawker.com, Jeremy and Geffen have been linked since last September when they met at an Obama fundraiser. Did I mention that Geffen is 66?

Anyway, once Gawker.com posted the pics from the kid's Facebook, the privacy settings on the account were abruptly changed. You'd think that Jeremy would have made his page private before posting the pics -- unless he wanted the world to see them?

Call me a prude or whatever, but a 66-year-old man bringing his 26-year-old sex object (what else is he?) to dine at the president's table in the White House just seems a bit irregular to me.

But I guess no one raised an eyebrow since Geffen is a billionaire who contributed generously to Obama's campaign?

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    who cares about them?

    how about you post the pics showing how FAB Mr and Mrs Obama looked.

    they were just gawjus! :heart:

  • mistarie

    PREACH Sandra!!!!!! Whew, you're on fire today!!!!!

  • Naes

    :rofl: you better do dat Geffen! you contributed and dared them to say something about his play toy!!! hahahahaaaa!!! :rofl:

  • kcicero

    ? I fail to see the point of this post...it would have been nice if you showed a pic of how beautiful Michelle looked in her gown last night... this gets a :yawn:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Maybe dude is an aspiring actor?

  • ReadTheBlog

    man I waited a long time for a new post and this is what we get? :argue:

  • mirsmommy

    Naes Says:

    you better do dat Geffen! you contributed and dared them to say something about his play toy!!! hahahahaaaa!!!
    -------------------------------------------------------

    Right?!?!?! That's prolly exactly what he said!!!!
    :rofl:

  • mirsmommy

    Although, the Obamas did look beautiful!!!!! :yes:

  • EJLOVE

    kcicero Says:
    ? I fail to see the point of this post…it would have been nice if you showed a pic of how beautiful Michelle looked in her gown last night…
    ------------------------------------------

    :cosign: A MILLION TIMES! :cosign: :cosign:
    :cosign: :cosign: :cosign: :cosign: :cosign:
    :cosign: :cosign: :cosign: :cosign: :cosign:

  • mstayindc

    Get it Geffen! Takin the tenderoni to the White House..guaranteed geriatric action! lmao eww even tho thats not a very appealing mental image

  • Lady_L

    Michelle looked so beautiful at the dinner. Her arms are the bizzness!

  • Redeemed777

    Now Sandra, you know doggone well Obama can't/won't say nothing.

    Geffen is on the same team with " THEY " if you know what I mean.

  • Anna

    Would there be a difference if Geffen's date were a 27 yr old woman? The Boy Toy is of age.

  • LovelyLady

    :offtopic:

    The President Just Gave Us 2 Hours Off Early :cheer:

  • shannon04

    @ Anna ...i guess you're right he is of age. But man, why the 66yr old like em' that young? oh well....

  • waterlily_76

    Obama looks real cerebral, like he is thinking WTF do we have here?

  • qtipthecat

    What base are you at LovelyLady? We haven't got the message yet.

  • http://facebook.com/Im2thick4u 2thick4u

    Ummm...okay!!!!

  • The Divine Ms. K

    Watch it @ EJLove. Sandra only allows two little emoticons per post. :)

    That being said, I :cosign: with you. I mean, Sandra, you were posting like Obama and the boy toy snuck off together. Unless someone is bringing a terrorists as their date, who the hell cares?

    And Michelle and Barack looked GORGEOUS and DAPPER and SHARP as a TACK as my granny likes to say. You can holler about Rihanna and whoever else you think is a style icon - Michelle looked graceful and fierce last night and no chick could hold a candle to her last night!

  • LADYTEE

    LovelyLady you are sooo lucky on leaving early today, being active duty in the Airforce we are the last ones to leave, it sucks

  • SouthernPrincess

    i fail to see the point of this. The young man is of age.
    If it were an older man with a younger woman would that be viewed as a problem worthy of its own thread

  • MOUTH

    I love my uncle Obama.

    Yes I'm a :koolaid2: I don't care how low his ratings are. If the Pope had contributed to my campaign he would have been seated at my table and I'm not even catholic. :cheers:

  • Divinebrown

    This spicy hot V8 I'm drinkin is so delicious.

    I just went to the store and bought the big bottle of Grey Goose for the homies! I cant wait to crack that bottle!!

    This week has been stressful.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Well we know Divine is getting ready early. Pass me a cup, I'm going to the in-laws :-(

  • ReadTheBlog

    What base is leaving early. I'm Vet Affairs and I want to go home early, too!

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    :offtopic: because it's pointless

    I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving day. Be thankful of what you have and not what you wish you had. Now, this is my first time cooking for Thanksgiving. Does anyone have any pointers for cooking collard greens. I've made them one time before and I used FRESH neckbones instead of smoke and my greens tasted like the water they were cooked in. :rofl:

  • Divinebrown

    Readtheblog....you need a shot!

    Here you go! :koolaid3:

    And I don't think they are letting us off early. YOU KNOW IT HEATED!!!!!!!!!!

    Shot for me too...

    :koolaid2:

  • Divinebrown

    I cannot type...I"m heated.

  • MOUTH

    No pointer here sorry I tried they were flavored well used seasoning & smoked turkey butts, but mushhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeee like mash potatoes.

    POINTER: Don't cook them too long!

  • Divinebrown

    My friend uses chicken broth in her collards and they are off the chain.

    After you cook the neckbone, change out the water. Did you do that? I like smoked neckbones, son. lol

  • EJLOVE

    @ Divine, thanks didn't know that
    ...But Sandra please stop linking the President to everything...it ain't that deep.

  • scorpio

    Sandra I'm with you on this one. These old White dudes love them some young and blonde dude hanging on their arms. It's like a daddy, boy fetish..It's just a matter of time one of them will have Levi Johnston turned out.

  • Angel

    Naes Says:

    you better do dat Geffen! you contributed and dared them to say something about his play toy!!! hahahahaaaa!!!

    :cosign:

    On another note I would have LOVED to see pics of Obama and his lovely wife. :shrug:

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Thanks @ Mouth. I think I cooked them for at least 3 hours because when I tasted them they kept tasting like water.

    @ Divine Brown

    No, I didn't change the water. That was my first time cooking them. I didn't know I had to season the fresh neckbones. Nor did I know to change the water. I just placed them in the pot. This time I know to use smoked neckbones and I may try the chicken broth this time.Thanks! LOL!!

  • ReadTheBlog

    MS. Kaylamomma I cook my smoked turkey wing part to death (keep the juice), then I cut my greens before I add them to the meat, 1/2 onion 1 chopped garlic clove, 1/2 bell pepper, salt and pepper to taste and add water and or broth as needed. Collards are the worst to cook becuase they are so freakin' tough!

    Thanks for the drink Divine!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Sandra, your GAYdar needs servicing. It has been working overtime this year.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Thank you Readtheblog. I have never tried the bellpeppers and onions before. They should be good.

  • Anna

    ReadTheBlog Says:

    MS. Kaylamomma I cook my smoked turkey wing part to death (keep the juice), then I cut my greens before I add them to the meat, 1/2 onion 1 chopped garlic clove, 1/2 bell pepper, salt and pepper to taste and add water and or broth as needed. Collards are the worst to cook becuase they are so freakin’ tough!
    ~~~~~~~
    They are tough. I can't just eat one kind of greens. I have always mixed them.

  • http://charleshater.blogspot.com Charles

    What's the point of this article, are you going to expose every sugar daddy, momma in the industry and their girl/boy toys ????

    If so lets start with the black ones, teyana taylor etc..

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    ReadThe!log, Kaylamomma and Anna, just said f*** this post, we are changing the subject. Good. LOL

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    LOL @ Attorneymom

    I'm just trying to past time because these greedy people won't let us off early. :mad:

  • mswarrior1

    :yawn: @ this post.
    Ohhhh. Y'all are talking about cooking greens. MMM. Makes me even more anxious to have some of my grandma's greens tomorrow. *stomach begins to rumble*

  • http://charleshater.blogspot.com Charles

    Im hungry sandy call monica and ask her if she's coming over for thanksgiving =)

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    LOL @ Charles

    I enjoyed your blog. Keep it up! :thumbsup:

  • ReadTheBlog

    I guess every mofo with a webpage and or blog is off today, caue ain't nuthin poppin anywhere!

  • j.c.

    does anyone else hate their boss? ugh! i work for the most sneaky, low down, lie to your face, person on earth

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    yall makin me hungry up in here *drools*

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ j.c.

    Don't hold back anything. Tell us how you really feel. LOL!!
    I'm just kidding. I hope its get better for you. I guess it could be worse.

  • ksmommy05

    @Ms.kaylamomma

    When I cook my greens. I normally buy some ham hock put it in the pot of water im going to cook my greens in. Add a little red peppers for spice, a lil oil, and salt. Bring it to a boil then add the greens. Cook it on low for a couple hours.

  • j.c.

    you're right mskaylamomma. at least i do have a job. but this jerk really gets me. it's not really that he's so bad, it's because he's bad and i can't say nothing because i know i need my job. you know that pisses you off even more, not being able to say it out loud!

  • missy

    I agree with RTB comment 45 all blogs are slow today......but today was slow in general to me at least.....

  • ksmommy05

    @j.c don't get yourself fired! you have your picture as your gravatar and you're on a well-known blog.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ ksmommy05

    What are ham hocks? Are they better than smoked neckbones?

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    I probably should give up my "I'm black" card for asking what are ham hocks??

  • j.c.

    oh crap@ ksmommy, now that you mention it..........let me fix that LOL!

  • ksmommy05

    @ms.kaylamomma, ham hock is basically a big hunk of meat/fat from a pig. Carries alot of flavor. Pretty much all you need, to flavor your collards with a little salt. Neckbones don't care much flavor without additive seasoning. at least in my opinion. You dont have to do much except for dump the ham hock in the pot, boil and add your collards to the water with the ham hock still in it. Real good because you'll have bits of meat in your greens when you go to serve it also.

  • j.c.

    yes mskaylamomma, hand it in............

  • Divinebrown

    What happened on Dexter this week?

  • ksmommy05

    @ ms.kaylamomma where are you from? I'm from the south which is the only reason why I know. I moved to NE and i went grocery shopping for some once and the guy looked at me like i grew a 2nd head.

  • j.c.

    @ksmommy, i am the only black woman i think my boss has ever dealt with so he really doesn't understand me. it's funny at times. he is almost scared of me. but that still doesn't stop him from being a jackazz

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ ksmommy05 I'm originally from Tulsa but I live in Savannah. LOL!! I will look for those hamhocks in the store tonight. Thanks!!

    LOL @ j.c.

  • j.c.

    @mskaylamomma, don't feel bad. the first time i cooked greens was for a guy and i burnt them. how the hell do you burn greens? i did. you would never know it cuz now i cook like my grandma and momma. but the only way to learn to to try until you get it right.

  • misslee21

    Not really a big deal that Obama had geffen at the dinner, heck he supported him Im sure with big dollars.

    Now the REAL question is the YT young male gold digger right here. Just goes to show they come in all shapes colors and sizes :coffee:

  • Anna

    .c. Says:

    @mskaylamomma, don’t feel bad. the first time i cooked greens was for a guy and i burnt them. how the hell do you burn greens? i did. you would never know it cuz now i cook like my grandma and momma. but the only way to learn to to try until you get it right.
    ~~~~~~
    Cooking truly is "trial and error". I was never one to measure only in baking.

  • j.c.

    @anna, i don't even own any measuring cups. i have no idea. i go by pinches and dashes

  • ksmommy05

    I dont measure either. Pinch here. Dash there. lol. Yes. Very much trial and error.

  • Silhouette

    Happy Thanksgiving SR family! I have been ripping and running today will have to go back and read all the post. Everyone have a happy and safe holiday weekend look forward to seeing you guys on Monday.

    I wanted to take this time to say what I am thankful for this year. I am thankful for my wonderful family and the wonderful bond that we share. Let's take time to love those who love us and the rest are inconsequential.

  • j.c.

    same to you and very well said sillhouette!

  • texarican mamacita

    Happy early Thanksgiving to everyone and be careful for all you black friday shoppers. Have a feeling there are going to be alot of loons out there hunting for bargains which most likely will lead to drama.

    I will be decorating the Christmas tree with my 3 year old who has been driving me crazy about the dang tree for 2 weeks.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    kcicero Says:
    ? I fail to see the point of this post…it would have been nice if you showed a pic of how beautiful Michelle looked in her gown last night… this gets a :yawn:

    ****************************************************

    Don't you get tired of Michelle Obama decked out in some gown that none of us can afford? :shrug:

    HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE! :)

  • texarican mamacita

    HAPPY THANKSGIVING SANDRA :) Be careful this weekend with your partying, we want to "see" you on Monday ready to dish!

  • missy

    Happy Thanksgiving everyone and enjoy yourselves ......and make sure you have your eating pants on.. ;) and be safe...

  • texarican mamacita

    @missy

    "eating pants" We call those stretchy pants in my house. And when all else fails pop that button on them jeans and let it all hang out. :lol:

  • missy

    @texa says:
    “eating pants” We call those stretchy pants in my house. And when all else fails pop that button on them jeans and let it all hang out.
    --------------------------------

    I normally just pop the button on my pants........but it is always good to wear those pants that are a little big so you won't feel to bad about what you ate........

  • ReadTheBlog

    What are eating pants? Is that what Amber Rose wears?

  • texarican mamacita

    Ew w w w w.......RTB, don't you dare ruin Thanksgiving food talk with talk about....... :sick: I couldn't finish the sentence

  • ReadTheBlog

    Oh my bad... I mean but they are stretchy...

  • texarican mamacita

    Actually meant to say :hurl:

  • texarican mamacita

    Off topic (are we even on topic?)

    Does anyone else have to drive far as hell to get to a store where they sell liquor? Texas and its "dry" areas makes me sick sometimes. I'm used to Puerto Rico where they sell ron (rum) just about everywhere including the local bodega (corner store). I need some Bacardi for my PR version of eggnog.

  • missy

    @texa

    It isn't hard for me to get liquor my family normally when we have parties buy enough liquor(barcardi and other stuff) to last until the next one because we don't really use a lot of it ........And we would have a party like every weekend (since september but it isn't as frequent any more) ......

    Basically summing up my long paragraph no I don't have to drive that far........

  • cjgrantjr

    Sounds like somebody's mad that THEY weren't invited.

    It's OK. I'm sure this blogsite ranks right up there with whotheheckareyou.com when it comes to the WH.

    That 26 year old "boy-toy" as you call him, got to meet the first black President of the United States of America.

    While we sit at our computers and flip through the pictures.

    I ain't mad at him. He even got a post on this blogsite. GO BOY TOY!!! You're a STAR now!!

    LLS...

  • The Divine Ms. K

    Sandra Rose Says

    Don’t you get tired of Michelle Obama decked out in some gown that none of us can afford?
    ____________________________________________________________
    I get tired of seeing Rihanna and every other celeb you worship carrying purses or wearing shoes the average person can't afford. And we see WAYYY more of them than we do our accomplished and intelligent first lady.

    Happy Thanksgiving! :lol:

  • The Divine Ms. K

    @ Texa - what part of Texas are you in?

    I live in the Dallas area and my suburb is dry - for now. We just voted to get beer and wine sales. Still can't get the hard stuff, but it's better than nothing.

    I have to drive to downtown to get hard liquor. :)

  • Anna

    texarican mamacita Says:

    Off topic (are we even on topic?)

    Does anyone else have to drive far as hell to get to a store where they sell liquor? Texas and its
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    I live in Ohio, they have liquor stores inside of Kroger and Liquor stores in shopping plaza's and we have just has many bars on streets as we do churches. It's a shame. I live by the Michigan border and they are trying to pass a bill that if you get a permit you can sell alochol until 4am. Just what I need more drunks that are not done drinking driving over the state line to drink for 2 more hours, come back over the border and side swipe my cars. LOL.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    The Divine Ms. K Says:

    I get tired of seeing Rihanna and every other celeb you worship carrying purses or wearing shoes the average person can’t afford. And we see WAYYY more of them than we do our accomplished and intelligent first lady.

    Happy Thanksgiving!

    *******************************************************

    Yes, but they are celebrities. Whereas Michelle Obama is not. :shrug:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    cjgrantjr Says:
    Sounds like somebody’s mad that THEY weren’t invited.

    **********************************************************

    I couldn't care less about being invited to the White House. If I did get an invitation I wouldn't go.

  • http://twitter.com/allthingsmwny allthingsmwny

    Hey I have no problems with Geffan he has been around for a long time... I remember his name from one of my textbooks from school... Anyhoot I am thisclose to joining in on the Obamahatecampaign I'm not there quite yet..but I am close...what happened to the stimulus package that was suppose to help create jobs?

  • MsG

    This post made no sense. What was the point again? Are we just making up "issues" with Obama now? At least let it be legitimate.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @SANDRA, HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!

  • Kimi

    I fail to see how this has anything to do with Obama and his administration. Plus, the fact that you are a gay person saying that he should have "raised eyebrows" just because he chose to date a damn near 30y/o man is even more confusing. I like you're blog, but the fact that you are so quick to support Republican, the same ones that hate you because of you're sexual orientation, don't believe you should have the right to marry, and look down on your lifestyle in general, is the icing on the whole screwed up cake you eat:-? Talk about self hate.........

  • http://charleshater.blogspot.com Charles

    Happy thanksgiving yalll =)

  • j.c.

    Happy Thanksgiving fam!!!!

  • MOVINONUP

    Who cares :yawn: I want to see some of the pics of the goregous first couple though. I love them.

    Happy Thanksgiving!!

  • KrayZKat

    Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Be safe.

  • mzloud

    Happy Thanksgiving!!!! :yea:

    Lets EAT!!!! :cheer:

  • Anna

    MOVINONUP Says:

    Who cares I want to see some of the pics of the goregous first couple though. I love them.

    Happy Thanksgiving!!
    ~~~~~~~
    Happy Thanksgiving to all. I invited 10 ppl but it always turns into 40+ It's ok, it's only once a year, yea right. Turkey Day, Christmas, Flag Day, Labor Day, 4th Of July, Bdays and just Somedays. If they smell food they will visit. I am just one that appreciates that they appreicate what I do. It is a big deal to cook for a big crew but I would not want it any other way.

  • browni007

    I'm mad b/c ive been so busy at work I keep missing the posts. HAPPY THANKSGIVING. HOPE EVERYONE'S FOOD WORKED OUT.

    i leave the cooking to the peopel who do better than I do.

  • texarican mamacita

    Happy Thanksgiving to everyone, specially to all my fellow Texans :cheer: GO COWBOYS :cheer:

  • Sweetkiwi99

    Am I the only Canadian in this piece? :blink:

    Happy Thanksgiving SR fam :)

  • Tonya8

    Happy Thanksgiving Guys LOVE You All :hug: :kiss:

  • laureninct

    Happy Thanksgiving to all! Sandra, are you cooking? I think I am the only one on this earth that is home alone this year..My father passed away in April of Lung Cancer and I just can't do the holidays this year. My son and fiance went to see his family for awhile and they are going to fix me a plate or two...lol. Hope I didn't depress anyone, since this is a happy holiday after all...I guess I am just very emotional this being the first Thanksgiving without my Pops..

  • miss_meka

    Happy Thanksgiving to everyone have a Blessed safe day.

  • Thando

    Oi Sandra!!! Rumour in UK has it Pussy Cat Dolls have split up for good.....any word???

    Not that I'm a fan but I dislike Nicole and would like to see if Karma really is a bish.

  • starr

    Just popping in to wish everyone a happy thanksgiving. Dinner was great

    @Sweetkiwi99

    ur not the only canadian....i htink mspeng is canadian too. and i saw another canadian around the time registration opened...but i'm not sure

    @thando

    nicole already tried going solo..it didn't work. If i'm not mistaken...i think the founder of the pussy cat dolls said of all of em were replaceable because the pussy cat dolls shows have been around for a long time..and the gurls always changed.....yadayada lol I think most ppl like em as a group....as individuals nuthing special...nicole has a good voice...but she's like bey in DC....

    i didn't mean to say all that...but i'm full...so i'm jsut sitting on my azz lol....but happy thanksgiving everyone

  • LADYTEE

    Happy ThanksGiving Everyone

  • LADYTEE

    Have a blessed day

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    I can't WAIT for this day to be over! If I hear another Beyonce song tonight... :mad: Call me paranoid, but I think the fam is doing this to me on purpose!

    @ laureninct: sweetheart, I hope you didn't spend the holiday alone. :(

  • CivilEngineer

    So Sandra, I guess you didn't watch her special on ABC? LAte to the party but HAPPY THANKSGIVING to everyone, enjoy it and be thankful!! :)

  • j.c.

    hey civil ****waves*****

  • SunnyPA

    Hello everyone! I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. I'm trying to stay awake to hit up some of the black Friday sales starting at 3:00am.

    Did anyone see where a couple crashed the White House State party? Yikes!!! So much for national security. lol. They didn't even know the couple wasn't invited until the guy posted a pic on Facebook.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @SunyPA, only white folks can breach White House security.

    Spent part of Thanksgiving on twitter with Charles. LOL I am nursing a back injury.

  • laureninct

    @Sandra, My fiance ended up coming back to the house with two of his Aunts and they practically dragged me to the car explaining that I need to be around family and if I needed to cry they were there...needless to day I enjoyed myself but it just wasnt the same without my father ya know? Thank you for your concern and Happy Thanksgiving!

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Sidebar: Thank God for Facebook. It also being reported that Mrs. Security Breach is trying out for the Real Housewives of Washington DC. Blank stare.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Laurnict, my father died of cardiac arrest in 2003 at age 55 right in my brother's arms. Thanksgiving was his favorite. I didn't call my grandmother, aunt or uncles. My brother called me to tell me that everyone was asking about me. He called them. I couldn't. I know what you are through. Grief is something you can't control. It just hit you suddenly out of no where.

  • CivilEngineer

    hey j.c. hope you had a great Thanksgiving...and everyone else :lol:

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @Sandra, I am watching re-runs of the Monique Show and see that Queen Latifah has a new CD. I think I will buy it.

  • Cinderella

    Good morning everyone. I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. I just read on a sports website that Shaquille O'neal paid for Shaniya Davis's funeral.

  • Anna

    Cinderella Says:

    Good morning everyone. I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. I just read on a sports website that Shaquille O’neal paid for Shaniya Davis’s funeral.
    ~~~~~~
    Happy Friday. I came on here to type the same thing. Did the dad not have insurance for his little girl? He was driving around in a BMW. I think something is not right with him. After his first 3 kids mom was killed in a car crash it wasn't him but his parents who raised those kids. The man can't admit that he slept with a crackhead and got her pregnant,and the little girl was living with his sister. I think the sister got tired of taking care of her and the dad had a out of town job and the sister did convince him to let the little girl go live with her mother. SMH. Nice of Shaq.

  • Redeemed777

    RANDOM COMPLAINT:

    Ok, I wanted to vent about people who call your phone, but can't hold a phone conversation, without talking to their damn dog, while you are on the other line trying to figure out if the person is talking to you or the freaking dog!!!

    I'm just gonna start hanging up the phone. Heck that will be my new year's resolution. Also, I'm gonna stop borrowing folks money, even if their life depended on it.

  • starr

    @anna

    lots of people don't have insurance on their kids...esp their 5 yr olds

  • Anna

    starr Says:

    @anna

    lots of people don’t have insurance on their kids…esp their 5 yr olds
    ~~~~~~~`
    This is something I will never get. A kid is a rider(once you add one kid all kids that are born after are automatically covered) on their parents policy. My oldest is still on mine until she turns 25 next Summer.
    I am so glad the guy who pays my salary called. We were dead at work and I am back home watching Rachael Ray. LOL.

  • Anna

    Redeemed777 Says:

    RANDOM COMPLAINT:

    Ok, I wanted to vent about people who call your phone, but can’t hold a phone conversation, without talking to their damn dog, while you are on the other line trying to figure out if the person is talking to you or the freaking dog!!!

    I’m just gonna start hanging up the phone. Heck that will be my new year’s resolution. Also, I’m gonna stop borrowing folks money, even if their life depended on it.
    ~~~~~~~~~
    I don't know what it is about my hubby's offsring, they take the time to call me but we can't have a conversation. They are too busy talking to their kids. When I talk to my mother-in-law she can't talk either because she is too busy fussing out grandkids. LOL. I value my time and I don't want anyone to call me and I can't get a word in or like you said "I don't know they are talking to me".

  • laureninct

    @attorneymom, My father was young as well, 54. He found out he had Lung Cancer last year and it took him so fast.. I have gone to Hospice and they have some good support groups but I haven't gone..I guess it's all still so unreal to me. It's good to hear that other people know what I am going through though and I'm not alone. This is the first person that I have ever lost that was so close to me..Grief is tough..really tough..

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @laureninct, it is going to be hard for the first year. I would say to myself he was here around this time last week, last month, last year. You and my family are in my prayers. Cry if you have to. And give yourself some time. The pain in your heart is still new.

    @Cinderalla, I read about Shaq paying for Shanaya's funeral on Sandra's best friend's website and posted it on my blog. I always had a lot of respect for Shaq and his mother.

    ***waving*** @Anna

  • laureninct

    @ attorneymom, Thank you, I write this with tears in my eyes. Thank you...

  • j.c.

    @laureninct, i totally understand what you are going thru. i lost my father in 2003 and it was sudden, heart disease. the first holiday without him seemed like i wouldn't make it. it's good that you have family that loves you and can help you thru this difficult time in your life.

  • laureninct

    @ J.C., Thank you, I definately realized yesterday how lucky I was to have my fiances family..My mother dosent get along with my fathers sisters so there has been a lot of family drama on my fathers side. I have distanced myself from them because it is just too much. My mother and I visit here and there but I am suprised and a little hurt at how she is dealing with it..Threw away all of his clothes, changing the house around, a new pet..I guess everyone deals with grief differently. The kind words I received here on Sandra Rose means more than posters understand..Love you guys :heart:

  • missy

    I hope everyone had a good thanksgiving......as I did

    @laureninct my heart is with you as I lost my grandmother last year the day before mothers day so suddenly (and my grandmother is born on christmas) ...so I can understand how celebrating the holidays can be hard.. ..........But it is good to have a good support system like it sounds you have because they can help ease the pain.....And celebrate the persons life and the good memories you had together...

    God bless .......Enjoy the weekend SR peeps..

  • Thando

    Any news on Tiger Woods? It's all Sky and BBC news are covering right now, but with more questions than answers.....

  • texarican mamacita

    @Thando

    I read on another site that before the crash happened there was a story from National Enquirer (trash I know...) that he had been caught cheating with some chick so the crash may have had something to do with it. Maybe the wife kicked his arse out. And yes, the other girl is another becky.

  • laureninct

    Just checking to see if my gravatar works!!

  • laureninct

    Oh thank goodness..it does! Thats my little man Marcus :smile:

  • texarican mamacita

    Dang, it looks like Tiger's wife put the beat down on him right before he got into his accident with the fire hydrant and the tree. I don't know how true this is but the interwebs are saying that she jacked up his face and that is the injury that he was treated for at the hospital.

    Becky was not having any of the H O shiat in her home :rofl: (laughing at the visual of her hitting Tiger upside the head with his own golf clubs not at the domestic violence aspect of it)

  • Redeemed777

    How is it that all of a sudden SQUEAKY CLEAN Tiger Woods got all of this drama going on in one month????

    I smell stinky Illuminati.

  • texarican mamacita

    @Redeemed, all I smell is a pissed off wife because their dirty laundry is being thrown in the public arena by way of tabloids and his sloppy indiscretions (the jump off has text messages she has shown to other people).

    I know the speculation is rampant right now but I don't think that Tiger is squeaky clean, he just has managed to keep all his dirt private as do many.

  • Anna

    Tiger has been able to stay "squeaky clean" because of who he is. His dad kept him out of the spot light. He married a Becky and I found that to be ok and normal, being all the white ppl he hangs around. Say it aint so that he is cheating? Before I took my after Turkey Day nap I had my son look up info about Tiger's crash. When I heard he hit a fire hydrant and a tree I was like "what the heck". I think I would have been better off knowing he was under the influence and not cheating, being it was a single car accident. Morgan Freeman was with a "Becky while getting a Becky when he crashed her car". I am a black woman trapped inside a white woman's body and I was talking earlier with hubby and I still to this day don't get why a black man can be with a whtie woman, they will call you everything but a child of GOD when they are mad. In my city we had a guy who got clemnacy after serving 12 yrs. for murder and a white woman accused him of the crime. The judge(old white guy) who sent him to jail was dying and wrote a letter to Our Gov. saying he did not believe the man did it and that all the evidence was not presented. The man in question was Pardoned and home for Thankgiving. I don't have a prob with blacks and whites marrying or procreating(I am a product of such) I just get mad when they don't know how to fight fairly and racial words are the norm. My white mother never called my dad any name other than her husband and vice versa.

  • starr

    Where did it say he was cheating. I'm not going out my way to find out much about this story....as long as he's okay, but where did ppl get this. Cuz i didn't see anywhere.....

    What i read was he n the wife had a argument, and thats why he was leaving...i don't care to knwo what they were arguing about.....its their business. If he is cheating, i'm sure they hungry for attention heffa will all up the papers with the story....about.....now

  • Anna

    starr Says:

    Where did it say he was cheating. I’m not going out my way to find out much about this story….as long as he’s okay, but where did ppl get this. Cuz i didn’t see anywhere…..

    What i read was he n the wife had a argument, and thats why he was leaving…i don’t care to knwo what they were arguing about…..its their business. If he is cheating, i’m sure they hungry for attention heffa will all up the papers with the story….about…..now
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Will the story fade or continue? They are scrolling what happened or they think happend on the bottom of my tv while I am trying to watch basketball.

  • flawless001

    i thought he was wasted :cheers:

  • Anna

    Ok, wifey used his golf club to smash out his window in his/their car. Why was he slipping in and out of conscienceness? How the hell do you whip/beat your hubby with what makes him money?. A golf club? Sorry to say but I may be a black woman but I am not going to "bite the hand that feeds me". I am a wife of 12+ years but I will never "Smash The Window(s) of hubby's car. LOL. "I Took A Louville Slugger To Both Head Lights". LOL . Women are not playing. I am SMH with a "extra WOW"! Becky will always keep and get you in trouble. My kids know the saying "If s/he can't use your comb don't bring her/him home. My son inpregnated a black woman and my daughters brought their bf/fiance' for Thanksgiving. The Apple does not fall far from the tree. My daughters have short mates but they look like they are missing a meal. LOL. My hubby is shorter than me but he looks like he is 5 months preggos with our 4th child. My daughters mates are short black men. It is nice being tall but my kids know not to let a good man go. I love me some tall men but give a short man a chance is my motto. I do still love me some "NELLY". My mouth watered typing "NELLY", talk about "MMM, MMM GOOD. I don't like a man with a "grill". tatts or diamond earrings, but he does something to keep me interested. I figured it out, he has a "natural swag" that I love. He does not have to sing a note, I just like looking at him.

  • Anna

    Ok the reports are in. He smashed his car and his wife was trying to save him?

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @laureninct, this is for you.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBoqJmarir4

  • texarican mamacita

    @ Anna:
    from TMZ: "We're told he said his wife had confronted him about reports that he was seeing another woman. The argument got heated and, according to our source, she scratched his face up. We're told it was then Woods beat a hasty retreat for his SUV -- but according to our source, Woods says his wife followed behind with a golf club. As Tiger drove away, she struck the vehicle several times with the club. "

    Read more: http://www.tmz.com/#ixzz0Y8ehi7Q0

  • MsG

    I was told by a VERY reliable source that Tiger has had black mistresses for years.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @MsG, wow, you rather showcase the white girl and hide the black one. SMDH

    The mafia is going to get rid of the white girl because she is f***** with their money and slave.

  • MsG

    @Attorneymom,
    Yes ma'am the person that told me that would certainly know. This is why he is on my "Gets None (no respect or attention that is) List". To know that this black man( I don't care what he calls himself) were rather use us for his sexual desires while wife-ing a Nanny disgusts me.

    Furthermore, this whole story gets a major side-eye from me because she know it would make absolutely no sense for Tiger to have an accident on his property if he was not drunk, could not see well, upset or fighting with her. I am pissed that more is being done to cover up for this story when if she was a sistah they would have put the truth on out there.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @MsG, I have an half black and half Asian cousin who doesn't accept his negro side. We went at it on facebook. I cussed his azz out. I told him that his last name is "Ruth" not "Lee" or "Chung". WTF is wrong with him. I had tagged a picture of his black side of the family. He untagged it so his white friends wouldn't see his nigga family.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @MsG, I guess Tiger hasn't learned anything from OJ. SMDH

  • laureninct

    @attorneymom Thank you..I needed that..made me cry. Off topic..is that your son in the video? He's so handsome!!!