Why Is Fantasia Lying?

She’s married to her career! Where is some new music? Why did her house go in foreclosure?

trynabeme Says:

So if yall knew someone’s husband or s/o was creeping, would you say something?
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That’s a great question, it depends on who the person is. Like I said, most women know their man/hubby cheats.

trynabeme Says:

So if yall knew someone’s husband or s/o was creeping, would you say something?
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That’s a great question, it depends on who the person is. Like I said, most women know their man/hubby cheats.
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Which is why I posed the question. I’ll never forget me & my BFF stopped being friends for about 3yrs behind me tellin’ her her dude wasn’t ish! Everything I knew about him she knew…and this was over a period of about 4-5 mths. Finally she says to me, “I don’t know why you keep tellin’ me stuff. All you doing is hurting me.” I remember tellin’ my mama & she was like, “Don’t ever try to tell a woman NOTHIN’ about her man.” I didn’t get then, nor agree…that incident alone wasn’t why me & the BFF stopped speaking but it was the beginning of the end.

I feel the same way as you about women already knowing. The way I see it, you (the wife/gf/boo) are LIVING that life. Anything I know is just the tip of the iceberg because women don’t disclose the REAL about their relationships (unless its already common knowledge). I have a friend who complains about the dude not working & ish like that, but mutual friends who move in a more gutta circle say he

But ultimately, to answer my own question…it depends.
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Before you typed your comment I was going to add that if you tell someone who already knows it’s like you are pouring salt on a open wound, and you being the friend generates anitomosity from her unto you instead of where it should be “her man/hubby. I tell anyone who complains to me about their mate, if you don’t want me to say the truth that you already know don’t ask me shyt. I don’t believe in pity parties. I tell them how I feel. Ususally it starts with “you knew what he was about before you got with/married him. If he didn’t have a J O B before you got married why the hell you think he should have one now? The problem with ppl is that we think we can change somebody as Intense said the only person we have control over or can change is “ourself”. But we don’t have to allow some of this nonsense that goes on in our lives. We really do get what we attract. When we start looking at us and changing us and wondering why am I in yet another miserable realtioship/marriage and doing something about it things will get better. Can’t really get mad and what you attracted or layed down with and had a child and now to you he is the scum of the earth, just goest to show your own character in choosing a mate and that makes you look stupid in my eyes.

missy Says:

To me both are wrong but…..the fact that he may be talking to another person about our business may rub me the wrong way because I feel like why don’t you just talk to me…….But I agree with @kwall I would rather you just tell me you want to end the relationship no matter how much you think I love you……..just be honest and tell me what you want to do and leave if you want to then possibly hurting me…..
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That’s what hubby said along time ago, if you want to cheat you can just let me know. Wasn’t it reported that A Rod was in a intimate relationship with Madonna but they never had sex. His wife filed for divorce because she said she could’nt compete with a emotional affair.

@trynabeme,
When ppl cheat they are trying to use the sympthy card for the other person. My wife doesn’t do this and my wife doesn’t do that. He is basically having his cake and eat it too because the mistress falls for it. She listens. If you ever watch talk shows with escorts, a mistress or a prostiute they always hear the same old reasoing of why the man is cheating with them on their wives. For some woman the maternial instinct kicks in and they think they are doing nothing wrong if they are gettins something out of it. :jewerly, car, condo, bills paid. The man gets a woman who is not his wife not nagging, asking him to help take care of the kids or run errands as soon as he walks in the door, the mistrees does not have to sit downn and write out checks for bills knowing there may not be enough to cover the check. She does not have to wash his clothes or cook his meals(they go out to eat with no kids in tow). The mistress gets pais to listen to him complain about his wife. If I have a problem with my hubby I go to my hubby and tell him and vs versa. I have not invested 12 yrs of marriage for sitting back and letting someone else slip in. Some women don’t mind sharing their man because they are so done with him that the thought of kissing them makes them vomit. They want to maintain the lifestyle at any cost and still think that they have not broken up a home by being the one who left or kicked him to the curb.

Ms.kaylamomma Says:

Anna says:

5 Yrs is a long time to be a mistress. Did he tell her he is staying with his wife until the last kid leaves the nest? It never happens. I suggest she move on with someone who is not in a relationship, she is only wasting her time and if she got the dude all too herself she is not going to want him anymore and I don’t believe that she never things that if he did it with me he will do it to me. I believe in Karma and it comes a knocking when you forgot all about it.

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She don’t think Anna. I have told her several times. Him and the wife don’t have any kids. I’ve asked her “What does it feel like to not be able to spend any holidays together?” She doesn’t care… She just wants to say she has a man. She has been back and forth to the clinic. Yuck!!! She has very low self esteem. I would rather be without a man than to share a man. Of course, he has told her that he can’t leave his wife. Some chicks…, I swear.
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The jump off/mistres has the kid and he still keeps the wife first? To think she is special because she has a child with him that she can’t share at holidays or everyday is good enough for her? Are you kidding me? Back and forth to the clinic”. It makes me wonder who the hell else are they all sleeping with? Yuck is right along with icky, eeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwww and what the hell. Grosss, Nasty and engroonant.

Karamelkisses76 Says:

Mya was fantastic, but really. How many of her “fans” actually made a point to call in? Just sayin’….
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There must have been plenty for her to have stayed on the show as long as she did. I have watched the show from day one and it has turned/ always been a popularity contest. My girl Toni and Viv could dance their butts off. Kim K should have been voted off the first night. While watching a commentary someone said that Kim was a disappoinment on the show “she has all that azz and can’t dance”. LOL. I never saw the Ray j sex tape that made her famous for doing what some do with a mate in a committed relationship but for her to go on that show that I love and ‘couldn’t show her azz out was funny”. Her azz is more infamous than she is in my opinion. I do think that she is beautiful isn’t that a dime a dozen living in some places? It’s what is within that makes you beaufiful and not the media making or breaking your career. Donny won and I am happy, It’s not black, white or anything other than “sibling riveraly at it’s best”. Donny just wanted to beat his sis Marie and he got voted the winner. I wonder if Jack, Kelly’s brother wlll join next years cast.