Keyshia Cole Pregnancy Rumors Confirmed
Keyshia Cole is pregnant according to Sister2Sister magazine:
A source close to the “Trust” singer told S2S that Keyshia is expecting and the baby is due in March. There’s no word on what the baby’s gender is at this time.
This news confirms rumors that Keyshia is pregnant. She’s also been spotted several places sporting a prominent baby bump. Most recently she was seen courtside at a Cleveland Cavaliers game cheering on her man, Daniel “Boobie” Gibson.
Although, the couple is having a baby together, they’re not planning to jump the broom just yet. Put simply: Daniel hasn’t put a ring on it yet.?That isn’t the only new addition to Keyshia’s family, though. We found out that Frankie has located another of her long-lost children, a 17-year-old daughter, who is also expecting.
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Congrats Keyshia!!!! Hope you have a healthy baby.
and even though I know people will drag her for not being married, congratulations Keyshia….she wants a family so bad….I know that people who come from broken families fall short to the idea of having one…at least they are both very capable of taking care of the baby.
I really thought she was smarter than that. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree I guess. Sad!
ITS A BOY!! …. per this site i just read
Congratulations!
If she likes it, I love it.
She’s having a boy and that’s the reason why Franki broke down at the hip-hop awards because they (rumors) are saying that Keyshia has nothing to do with Neffee and Franki…HOLLA MAN DOWN
Awwww congrats Keyshia! I
Keysh! I think that she will be a good mom!
And she was good enough to lump up but not good enough to wife..? please.. She better read the signs.
Congrats KCole on your blessing *cough*child support*cough*
lol…but I’ma need you to get your damn mother….geez Frankie, damn.
Congrats to her, I didn’t know she wanted a family happy for her. And to the antibabymomma yes she’s single but she is still a big improvement from that last generation.
I apolgize but that picture could be a before shot for proactive before advertisment and her eyes a looking a little simple like the old folks say.
Sandra she is a pretty girl why that pic?
Congrads! I hope they get married before the baby comes though, it would support her overall image.
Although, the couple is having a baby together, they’re not planning to jump the broom just yet. Put simply: Daniel hasn’t put a ring on it yet.?
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Honey, this is the new ” black” for the black family. People act like you have cussed them out and you acting “bougie” if you mention that we have more babymamas and daddies than married couples in our community. I know marriage ain’t all what it seems, but it shole don’t hurt us to try.
Im soooooooooo happy for cuz I know she been wanting a family and love and look
Congrats Keyshia. I hope it works it…yea she aint married but at least she is happy and thats what matters…I love me Keyshia Cole!!!
alabamagirl77 Says:
I really thought she was smarter than that. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree I guess. Sad!
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Why is she dumb for having a child? If she wasn’t breaded & was still sittin’ here in East Oakland, collecting a different kinda check, then I could see your point.
While I’m not anti marriage, for those of you holla’n about Boobie puttin’ a ring on it….ummmmmmmmm Tiger put a ring on it ANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNND WHAT????
Congrats Keysh! Phuck these haters!
And im glad she left frankie and neffee alone…They was sucking her dry!!!
And im glad she left frankie and neffee alone…They was sucking her dry!!!
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I don’t think that she left them alone per se I just think that she is loving them from a distance!
ok i understand love and all but didnt they just meet??? next she is getting pregnant with no ring on it???..how old is he??? anyways, even if he cheats or whatever you still are the official one..you still are the one who can take him for what he is worth when you bust his ass with the sidechick..well, that is if you dnt sign that prenup…
At least she’s smarter than her mother and Neffe and isn’t getting used up by a broke man…the guy that is using her up has money.
Sandra per your twitter you said KC wasnt preggeros so I guess ****ie was right POW!
Congrats Keisha!! If shes happy,thats all that really matters!! cosign trynabeme
I missed the memo on KC wanting a fam now cause on her show she said she wasn’t ready to have kids now cause she wanted to focus on her career and her dogs were her kids for now
Congrats though babies are a blessing!
@trynabeme I didn’t say she was dumb..I said,
I thought she was smarter than that”. According to my definition(dictionary.com) of smarter.. is to feel shame or remorse. I wouldn’t never call a person dumb if don’t know them.
@ MsG-
@ alabama, I stand corrected. However, smarter than what? Unless you’re sayin’ what wft/#17 said about the length of time they’ve been involved (which only they really know)…
I
with trynabeme. It would be nice if she got married, but it ain’t like she’s broke and will be depending on our tax dollars to raise her kids. And Boobie ain’t broke either. Her mom and her sister could take a lesson. I hope she keeps that Crackhead away from her baby.
i have a confession. i’m frankie’s other long lost son.
Keyshia isn’t the 1st and will not be the last Black woman to have a baby before marriage. What sets her apart from the average Black woman is her finances and Daniel’s as well.
@pointhimout
in my neffie voice “are you serious?”
GOD BLESS HER!!!!!CONGRATS KEYSHIA
*sigh*
I wish I could see how many congrat’s were being tossed when Neffie announced she was having her last child. How is it congrats for her but Tiny gets torn down? (Shoutout to Charles & his Blog)
How long has Keycole dated this dude? She has to be about 6 or 7 months pregnant have they even been together a year?
Who is this dude? I never heard of him before he got with her? This sounds like his come up.
He is a male LaLa if u ask me. No different than Sollow.
Babies are a blesing so congrats.
Divamama where u at with the inside scoop?????? 
KEYSHIA CAN’T HAVE A BABY BY HER MAN
BUT EVERYONE SHOULD RESPECT LALA AND HER MAN’S RELATIONSHIP ALTHOUGH SHE JUST HIS BABY MAMA
(waving my hand widly…) Teacher, teacher, excuse me…Does having a health BANK ACCOUNT make you immuned from the HIV virus?
AND DOES BEING MARRIED GUARANTEE YOU WON’T CONTRACT THE VIRUS
WOW NICCAS ALWAYS GOTTA BE SO NEGATIVE
TOO MUCH LIKE RIGHT TO THINK POSITIVE
THAT THESE TWO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER
THAT THEY WILL GET MARRIED
I SWEAR NICCAS ARE CRABS IN A BUCKET-DON’T WANT THE NEXT MOFO TO HAVE ONE CRUMB MORE THAN THEY HAVE, ACTUALLY THEY WOULD LIKE IT IF YOU HAD LESS
intensemocha Says:
AND DOES BEING MARRIED GUARANTEE YOU WON’T CONTRACT THE VIRUS
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Damn intense, you took the words right outta my fingertips.
mirsmommy Says:
intensemocha Says:
AND DOES BEING MARRIED GUARANTEE YOU WON’T CONTRACT THE VIRUS
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Damn intense, you took the words right outta my fingertips.
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WH-WH-WORD
WH-WH-WORD
WH-WH-WH-WH-WH-WH-WH-WORD!
@missmiami
She made like one comment on Tuesday I think….but I haven’t seen any more since then……..& I don’t know if she had the baby….
Umm Congrats!
Ummm how many damn kids does Frankie have?
I do recall that you stated that Keyshia wasn’t pregnant Sandra
when the pictures clearly showed she was!!!
Congrats to them having a child together…hope they get married and live happily ever after
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@Intencemocha
Right? Not as long as we have our Tigers, Braynts and O’neals…..
Someone said she is better than the last generation… that’s only because she came up singing. What would she be doing otherwise? I remember reading an interview where she said that Tupac ran her off telling her and her fass ass firend to go home. Truly, people runnin gin industry circiles have the same dreams. Some make it, others fall by the wayside and becomeJUMPOFFS AND BABYMOMMAS!
LMAO @ Keysha riding through strip club parking lots trynna spy on Jeezy. Typical
PEOPLE LOVE TO SIT IN THEIR GLASS HOUSES AND THROW ROCKS AT OTHERS
BUT CAN’T STAND IT WHEN ONE GETS THROWN AT THEM AND THEIR PICTURE PAINTED PERFECT WORLD GETS EXPOSED FOR WHAT IT IS..
ReadTheBlog Says:
LMAO @ Keysha riding through strip club parking lots trynna spy on Jeezy. Typical
December 2nd, 2009 at 3:40 pm
IF SOME OF YOU BECAME A CELEBRITY OVER NIGHT AND PEOPLE BECAME REMOTELY INTERESTED IN YOUR PAST I COULD ONLY IMAGINE THE SKELETONS THEY WOULD EXPOSE
IT’S EASY TO SIT ON A BLOG ACTING SELF-RIGHTEOUS AND HIGH MINDED, AND BIGGITY AND PRETENDING TO BE BETTER THAN EVERYONE ELSE BECAUSE YOUR ANONYMOUS
YOUR NOT A FORTUNE-TELLER, NOR GOD TO PREDICT ANYONE FUTURE BASED SOLELY ON THEIR LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES
STOP BEING SO DAMN NARROW MINDED -WHAT YOU NOSE UP IN THE AIR LOOKING DOWN AT OTHERS
KEEP ON LIVING MY DEAR AND THE VERY CIRCUMSTANCES YOU SHUN AND LOOK DOWN AT OTHERS FOR MAY BE YOUR VERY OWN IF NOT YOURS MAYBE YOUR DAUGHTERS
I HATE WANNABE BOURGOUISE BIATCHES
Oh hell no another illignimate bastard child, check ma blog yall I posted on keyshia
KC hasnt been on twitter either but I dont think she or Shauny have delivered just yet but they are both ready to POP
intensemocha Says:
IF SOME OF YOU BECAME A CELEBRITY OVER NIGHT AND PEOPLE BECAME REMOTELY INTERESTED IN YOUR PAST I COULD ONLY IMAGINE THE SKELETONS THEY WOULD EXPOSE
KEEP ON LIVING MY DEAR AND THE VERY CIRCUMSTANCES YOU SHUN AND LOOK DOWN AT OTHERS FOR MAY BE YOUR VERY OWN IF NOT YOURS MAYBE YOUR DAUGHTERS
Well, well, well, well! Let the church say AMEN!
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charles you are too off the chain. i got hiccups now.
missimiami, i didn’t wanna say nothing but it IS getting a lil too INTENSE….
i will disclose this though, i damn sure woulda got with big poppa, i ain’t nobody’s baby momma, and i ain’t got no n*gga’s name on my body.
oh, i can read and write too (got a mba).
So, do we continue to not speak up via blogs or general conversation about the disintegrating black family structure for fear of sounding “BOUGIE”…
Do we say ok, I’m okay with being a babymama opposed to a WIFE, for fear of being bougie
When you have the blessings of fortune of fame, shouldn’t you especially be held to a higher standard than the common round-the way girl? Are you not able, if not DRIVEN, to make better decisions for yourself?
aww congrats keyshia
I agree with u “intensemocha”….u hit the nail on the head.
I had a child w/ my hubby while we were just dating and we had another one after we got married. I did not see any difference in the way we raised both our son’s. Some people make it seem like marriage is everything, when it is not. A baby does not come out knowing that their parents are married, and trials and tribulations do not skip over married families. I say if you have your head on straight and can raise a baby without the help of the government then go ahead and have your baby. If Keyshia worked at starbucks and Daniel worked at walmart as long as they can love and care for their baby, more power to them…
Congrats to Keyshia and Daniel, I wish them nothing but the best…
Here’s some info about Daniel Gibson: Plays for the Cleveland Cavs, native of Texas and attended the University of Texas, 23 yrs old, comes from a two-parent family, honors student in High School, and no criminal record. While he’s young he seems like a great guy. I wish them both nothing but happiness.
I LOVEEEEEEEEE me some Key Cole!!! Congrats to her
However I must say I do wish she would’ve waited and got married first (and for the record I sits on no high horse just wanna clear that up). But it is what it is, bless her.
HOW ABOUT PRAY FOR THE PERSON YOU SPEAK OF SO POORLY
HOW ABOUT REACHING OUT TO HELP SOMEONE
AS A TEEN I WAS NEVER MOTIVATED BY MEAN SPIRITED SO CALL WELL INTENDED ADVICE
Judging Vs Opinon
ggouch – I blog a lot and this is the sentiment I read everytime the “baby mama” issue arises. Some see being a baby mama as okay; some don’t. Why is marriage such a “four letter word” (yes, it is treated like a 4-letter word) in the black community. I’ve never seen so much anti-marriage, “marriage is just a piece of paper and won’t guarantee anything” diatribe in my life. Our community is littered with children being raised out of wedlock and living below the poverty level. Many in our community aren’t fairing well when it comes to this trend. All we have to do is open our eyes. Yeah, if two people love each other, blah, blah, blah. Yeah, but how many people are making babies with men or women they love? Sometimes I believe people spend more time deciding what kind of hair style to have than what the huge responsibility bring children int the world means. Having a child is a huge responsibility. It’s not only the financial issue, but so many other elements.
ggouch, you preaching to the hoodrat choir with cotton in their ears.
Bourgeoisie is good – I’m gonna have to look down my nose on this one.
Oh, and btw, I have NOTHING against women who have babies w/o being married. They do it everyday, celeb or not.
YOU DON’T MOTIVATE PEOPLE TO DO BETTER BY BELITTLING THEM
WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THEY WOULD BE INTERESTED IN ANYTHING YOU HAVE TO SAY
AGAIN, PEOPLE JUDGE OTHERS AND GIVE LIP SERVICE ABOUT VALUES AND THE BREAK UP OF BLACK FAMILIES
BUT WHAT EXACTLY ARE YOU DOING TO HELP THE SITUATION OTHER THAN BUMPING GUMS ON A BLOG
AND FOR THE RECORD I DO VOLUNTEER WORK WITH YOUTH IN MY COMMUNITY
OFF TOPIC FOOD FOR THOUGHT:
” And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the Lord. And Nathan said unto David, the Lord hath put away thy sin; thou shalt not die.
However, because by this deed thou hast given great occasion to the enemies of the Lord to blaspheme, THE CHILD ALSO THAT IS BORN UNTO THEE SHALL SURELY DIE.
And Nathan departed unto his house. And the Lord struck the child that Uriah’s wife bare unto David, and it was very sick.”
II SAMUEL 12:13-15
Can somebody tell me why GOD would take the life of the “innocent” child, since people claim every child is a blessing ( regardless of how the child came into this world?? )
I agree with Intense with what Intense said, At the same time I would’ve loved for her to have waited and got married first. But because she didnt doesnt mean the child will be raised with less support.
@ Chase believe it or not you are one of the few. “now and days” when a man and woman have a child they do not stay together . Shut damn near every friend i had mama wasnt with they daddy.
Im far from perfect so i try my best not to judge anyone. However i states my opinions.
KrayZ, sane and responsible thinking hold no merit here amongst some on Sandra Rose. Come back when you are either a homewrecker, you have a senseless reality show or, you are having a baby with a ball player.
Well, Keysha is amongst friends, on Sandra Rose. If Boobie walks out on her and Baby Boobie, at least she’s got the SR community to lean on
EVERYBODYS A CHICKEN HEAD, A BABY MAMA, A HOE, A JUMP OFF
ALL OF YOU DID IT THE RIGHT WAY AND WERE VIRGINS WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED AND OF COURSE GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE GOT ALL YOUR FINANCES IN ORDER THEN YOU DECIDED TO HAVE A BABY
YADA,YADA AND YALL THE MESSIAH SENT TO SAVE EVERYBODY….CAUSE YALL SO HOLY
KEYSHIA COLE HAVING A BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK AINT HURTIN YALL NONE AND LAST I CHECK HER AND HER MAN ARE STILL TOGETHER SO WHY THE FUG DO YALL CARE THAT TWO FINANCIALLY CAPABLE MATURE ADULTS CHOSE TO HAVE A CHILD
LIKE I SAID TOO MANY OF YOU WANNA PLAY GOD AND PREACH ABOUT MORALS, RIGHT AND WRONGS, AND HOW EVERYBODY OUGHT TO LIVE ACCORDING TO WHAT YALL FEEL IS RIGHT
AT THE END OF THE DAY THEY GROWN AND WHAT THEY DECIDE TO DO WITH THEIR LIVES YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER
JUST BUMPING YOUR GUMS ON A BLOG TYRING TO SOUND IMPORTANT
I had my first child out of wedlock. It didn’t mean I ran out and bought a t-shirt that said, I now support having children out of wedlock. If I had it to do over, I would be a wife first.
Reaching out? I am reaching out in the hopes that we as black women will stop condoning what is not right. We have to many single mothers. We have to many single black mothers that do not have the benefit of monatary assistance from the fathers of their children. We have to shift the loop-sidedness within the black family.
So when you are given the opportunity to live a better life. When you are gifted the chance to explore and experence life beyond bankhead, college park or ATLANTA. When you no longer have to wait until your next paycheck to get baby the shoes he needs. When you are provided the privillage of younger generations looking up to you and wanting to immulate you. When you can go out and SPEND thousands and thousands of dollars on name brand items…WHAT is $10.00 on a box of condoms.
I’m not having a baby out of wedlock is one of the steps I took to help the community. I knew growing up I wasn’t going to be another statistic and I’m 32 with zero kids. I’m not saying it’s wrong to be a BM but why label yourself that when you don’t HAVE to be. Yeah marriage isn’t the be all to end all but it’s more than BM status. Divorce??? yeah it happens but that’s why you go into it with doing whatever to NOT get one. There are TOO many single parent homes(I was raised in one) and that’s not how I want to begin my kids life. My mom did the best she could but I still wanted to be able to call somebody DADDY. Being a BM shouldn’t be the norm folks.
KrayZKat Says: Yeah, but how many people are making babies with men or women they love?
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i cannot believe that a person could be ready to have a child with someone before they are ready to marry that person. can somebody explain this to me?
a woman, as the vessel, i hold more responsible because the child comes from within her. she brings it forth. she can choose to have or not have even though both willingly participated in the sex act. she must protect herself if she is not ready.
marriage has certain responsibilities that are FAR more serious than booing-up. i dated my husband for over 3.5 years (knew him for over 8) and even lived with him for a year before marriage but once i got married, things got more serious because we made it legal. wills, financial responsibilities, insurances, assurances, compromises, putting up with sh*t i didn’t have to put up with before, etc. it’s a different world and a different vibe. i was surprised. if that mofo goes to the hospital, they will not deal with anybody but me. a boo does not have that privilege. look at mcnair and his boos (one dead and a bunch that have to fight the wife for food for their kids).
it’s the low value that we place on bringing children into the world more so than a high value on marriage. i don’t understand it.
ReadTheBlog – Chile, LOL! Let me tell you. This is PREVALENT on every blog I visit. People get really emotional about it. Ya know, I state my opinion and keep it moving, whether people like it or not.
@ggouch
AMEN!!! Preach girl.
I know plenty of women that wish they could be a wife BEFORE they were a BM but that’s life. At least they know that now. I just have higher standards for myself. Call it what you want. I refuse to wait on the next child support check IF he has a job. KC is rich but that doesn’t rule her out for at least trying to break the cycle that so many blacks repeat.
I agree with ggouch and crzasallgetout
WTF ARE YALL TALKING ABOUT WE AINT TALKING ABOUT KI-KI OR BONQUITA
WE ARE TALKING ABOUT KEYSHIA COLE WHOSE A WELL ESTABLISHED ARTIST, WITH HER OWN MONEY, AND SHE’S A GROWN AZZ WOMAN
THAT SHIAT YALL TALKING ABOUT DON’T APPLY TO HER OR HER SITUATION
SHIAT SHE GROWN AND SO IS HER MAN, THEY BOTH HAVE CAREERS, AND MONEY SO AGAIN WHAT MAKES ANY OF YOU SO HIGH AND DAMN MIGHTY TO SAY WHAT KEYSHIA SHOULD AND SHOULDN’T DO WHEN SHE HAS ACCOMPLISHED MORE THAN ANY OF YOU AND SHE HAS MORE MONEY???
LOL-TAKE THAT SHIAT TO THE STREETS AND PREACH IT THEN YOU WOULD BE DOING SOME GOOD KEYSHIA DON’T NEED YALL MOFOS PREACHING TO HER-I’M CERTAIN SHE’S WELL AWARE OF WHAT SHE’S GETTING INTO
@free
Because some women still believe in the “I’ll trap him mindset”. A baby does not keep a man. Hell from the friends I had……it pushes them away. Some young women are having babies just to have someone to love. smh.
Intense I dont think its that serious. No ones saying shes a hoe, a slut or has no morals. Just becasue someone made mistakes in their lives doesnt mean they dont have the right to try to steer the next person in the right way. we all will make mistakes and no one is perfect but Jesus. Keyshia herself even said she wanted to be married frist.
And truth is rather we want to face the truth or not more and more women are having kids out of wedlock like its nothing.
Ive made many mistakes but that doesnt mean im going to run around telling people its ok to do this and to do that because there are a lot of things i wish i wouldn’t have.
crzasallgetout Says:
@free
Because some women still believe in the “I’ll trap him mindset”. A baby does not keep a man. Hell from the friends I had……it pushes them away. Some young women are having babies just to have someone to love. smh.
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That is so true……..but you can’t tell some people nothing if they want to do it they will do it an have that same mind set……
Intense, Respectfully.
I just don’t get it? Are you okay with the plight of our soon to be exstinct family structure? Are you against upholding two parent households in the black community? Are you oppossed to our women being more than…girlfriends, more than baby producers. Are we not worthy of vowles before God. Are we not worthy of a committment that exceeds the commitment to mail the child support check on time.
If we do wrong, do we go forward and TEACH WRONG? I am not understanding it.
ALL SINGLE BABY MAMAS ARE NOT POOR, UNEDUCATED, AND LOOKING FOR THE NEXT HAND OUT
YALL MOFOS STAY LOOKING AT NEWS AND OF COURSE THEY DEPICTATE AND LUMP ALL SINGLE MOMS IN ONE CATEGORY-STANDING IN THE WELFARE LINE CRYING WOE IS ME……
AGAIN A POOR ATTEMPT TO CLASSIFY OR DISTINGUISH YOURSELVES AS BETTER MY DEAR
YES I WAS A SINGLE TEEN-MOM AND I HAVE FIVE GIRLFRIENDS WHO HAD THEIR CHILDREN MUCH LATER THAN I DID BUT I ACCOMPLISHED MORE THAN ALL OF THEM LUMP TOGETHER
OBTAINED DEGREES, PURCHASED A HOME, A DECENT JOB ETC. IT’S ALL ABOUT A PERSON’S MIND SET WHEN YOU WANT BETTER YOU DO BETTER
@free – AMEN TO EVERYTHING YOUR WROTE. I can’t explain it either. It really boggles the mind, doesn’t it? People don’t understand the benefits of marriage, as you so elequently put it. Good marriages have its benefits for children and communities at large. All people have to do is do some research. Marriage is NOT a guarantee that all will be perfect, but I liken it to the fact that we should eat right and exercise. Does that guarantee we won’t become ill? No, but it more than likely will prevent further problems in the future.
morals can’t be bought no matter how much money you have. I’m not saying she won’t make an excellent mother but who’s to say she won’t make an excellent wife too. We need to stop thinking it’s OK TO BE A BM FIRST!!! GEEZ. hell if I had the type of family she has, I’d been on the pills, depo, patch, ring, AND a condom. If Neffe isn’t pregnancy prevention I don’t know who is!!! She got 50/11 kids
WE ARE TALKING ABOUT KEYSHIA COLE WHOSE A WELL ESTABLISHED ARTIST, WITH HER OWN MONEY, AND SHE’S A GROWN AZZ WOMAN
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So FLUCK Family Structure as long as you’re a woman with your own money?…Still not getting it
ggouch Says:
I had my first child out of wedlock. It didn’t mean I ran out and bought a t-shirt that said, I now support having children out of wedlock. If I had it to do over, I would be a wife first.
Reaching out? I am reaching out in the hopes that we as black women will stop condoning what is not right. We have to many single mothers. We have to many single black mothers that do not have the benefit of monatary assistance from the fathers of their children. We have to shift the loop-sidedness within the black family.
So when you are given the opportunity to live a better life. When you are gifted the chance to explore and experence life beyond bankhead, college park or ATLANTA. When you no longer have to wait until your next paycheck to get baby the shoes he needs. When you are provided the privillage of younger generations looking up to you and wanting to immulate you. When you can go out and SPEND thousands and thousands of dollars on name brand items…WHAT is $10.00 on a box of condoms.
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You sound a lot like my mama. She often means well but seems to always come off sounding SUPER JUDGMENTAL. (Once explained = passionate about what she’s saying)
Based on what you shared above it seems that you just wanna share what you had to learn the hard way with other (not judging – because I learned the SAME lesson)…
Again, congrat Keysh!
I’M NOT IGNORANT-OF COURSE I SEE THE ISSUE WITH BLACK FAMILIES I JUST DON’T JUMP ON THE BANDWAGON AND BASH THE ONE CONSTANT FIGURE IN OUR COMMUNITY THE WOMEN WHO CHOOSE TO STAY AND RAISE THE CHILD AND OVERCOMES MANY STRUGGLES AND OBSTACLES TO AT LEAST MAKE AN ATTEMPT TO RAISE A SUCCESSFUL CHILD
YOU CAN’T MAKE A MOFO MARRY YOU-YOU CAN’T PUT A GUN TO HIS HEAD AND SAY MARRY ME OR ELSE
A MAN HAS THE FREEDOM TO WALK AWAY FROM HIS CHILDREN AND THEY DO QUITE OFTEN SO WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE WON’T WALK AWAY FROM A RELATIONSHIP-IF HE FEELS NO RESPONSIBILTY FOR HIS OWN BLOOD WHY DO WE PRETEND MEN ARE JUMPING UP AND DOWN READY TO GET MARRIED
HOW MAN CELEBRITIES LIKE LALA ARE STILL WAITING FOR THEIR MAN TO FINALLY MARRY THEM
YALL ACT LIKE WOMEN GET PREGNANT LIKE THEY INSERT TAMPONS
“ALL BY THEIR DAMNSELVES”
morals can’t be bought no matter how much money you have.
Even if you’re rich my view still stands marriage then carriage.
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WHAT MAKES YOU ASSUME THE FATHER WON’T BE THERE-MY DEAR YOU ARE MAKING TOO MANY ASSUMPTIONS
A CHILD CAN BE REARED AS A PRODUCTIVE, HEALTHY, ADULT BY A LOVING PARENT RATHER IT BE ONE, TWO, BIOLOGICAL OR NOT IT HAPPENS EVERY DAY MY DEAR
intensemocha,
I actually don’t get my facts from tv when it comes to child support and bm. I am the person that the bm call when they’re looking for the checks. I garnish wages so I know up close how bad it is for them. They get mad at me for the guys THEY picked to procreate with. The number of bm I get verses wives is staggering. They look forward to those checks weekly.
Oh I knew I saw a pic of her with a baby bump. However, congrats to them and a healthy baby!
PLEASE STAND IN LINE TO GET YOUR GOODY TWO SHOE AWARD
EXACTLY……..
it’s the low value that we place on bringing children into the world more so than a high value on marriage. i don’t understand it.
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That is really causing me think damm.
For me marriage is spiritual versus legal. It’s a vow that I took before God and I did that fearfully. I wanted to live right in his eyes and not the world. So to me marriage is everything. But to each it’s own. It aint easy and it sure is harder. Something about saying “I do” changes everything. Mind you we dated for 4 years before we were married. We r newlyweds 9 months strong and girl I seriously considered divorce within the first 6 months.
For me marriage is spiritual versus legal. It’s a vow that I took before God and I did that fearfully. I wanted to live right in his eyes and not the world. So to me marriage is everything
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Can we have an intelligent debate without the name calling of Biatches, Mofos and so on? It challenges the credibility of your passionate opinion. It screams hood-rat. And I am in no way calling anyone a hoodrat, but-tum… REALLY?
AT THE END OF THE DAY KEYSHIA COLE DON’T NEED YALL BLESSINGS TO HAVE HER CHILD
ggouch – You are batting at 100%!
crzasallgetout – You are on point. Thank you!
How did we as black people get the “ghetto”mentality and think it was ok? smh
@miss
Girl I’ve been married for 3 months but we’ve been together for 3 years and he works my last nerves. We went into it saying Divorce is not an option. God made our union so why would we go against that.
This is like beating a dead horse.
ggouch Says:
Can we have an intelligent debate without the name calling of Biatches, Mofos and so on? It challenges the credibility of your passionate opinion. It screams hood-rat. And I am in no way calling anyone a hoodrat, but-tum… REALLY?
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@ggouch
You beat me to the punch. haha
Ok, I hear everyone’s point and they all make sense, but can we black people agree that we have to do more to have stable two parent homes? Can we agree that you don’t have to follow the crazy patterns of the “world” and just go with what we feel? I understand things happen but what scares me with our “whateva man” mentality is that we are losing our real black family.
It’s not about judging, belittling or none of the other bull-ish because none of that behavior is going to save our families either.
@intensemocha – personally, my comments aren’t really even about Keisha. I don’t know her. I’ve never watched her show, so I have nothing at all against her. My comments are about the prevaling sentiment, as others have stated, in our community that having babies w/o the benefit of marriage is okay. It is not and it hasn’t, won’t and never will benefit us as a whole. That’s all I’m saying. I am not demeaning every woman who has a child out of wedlock, but I am demeaning those who have children they are not prepared for. We cannot take having children lightly and I’ve personally seen a lot of irresponsibility going on, and while we love to spout, “children are a blessing,” their some parents that aren’t a blessing to them.
Don’t turn this into argument you guys
everyone has an opinion, we all were raised different and we all think different. But thats what makes us able to have a mature convo.
So only married parents can raise children with morals? I bet Sarah Palin felt that way before Bristol got knocked up. Your marital status doesn’t determine whether you will be a great parent or not. It also doesn’t determine if your kids will be successful or not.
MsG Says:
Ok, I hear everyone’s point and they all make sense, but can we black people agree that we have to do more to have stable two parent homes? Can we agree that you don’t have to follow the crazy patterns of the “world” and just go with what we feel? I understand things happen but what scares me with our “whateva man” mentality is that we are losing our real black family.
It’s not about judging, belittling or none of the other bull-ish because none of that behavior is going to save our families either.
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YES!!!
O LAWD…..*throws self on the floor*
not one of these conversations aGAIN!!
ggouch, No. A hit dog will alwasy holler! LOL!
Oh that was not nice of me :-O
My son has a degree in communication from UOC, He is an employed, community productive black man, with no children. So understand this is not judgement.
This is just a stand to promote tradtional family structure over the other. It is only my opinion based upon my experience, perception and desire to see change. I am not knocking single parenthood. If you are doing it..do it AT your best. .
@ crzasallgetout: I hear u. Divorce was not an option either. LOL, but I sure called that attorney and thinking back it was over some petty mess. Anyone, that was when I accepted my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ & truthfully my marriage has been getting better each day. At the wedding everyone said “Keep God First” and they were right. The day I started putting him first everything is else came together.
TOODLES…………..
WORDS MY DEAR, SIMPLE WORDS-CHICKEN HEAD, HOOD RAT ETC
THAT SHIAT DON’T OFFEND MY WHY
CAUSE I KNOW WHERE I’M FROM AND WHAT I’VE ACCOMPLISHED-BOO YOUR WORDS DON’T DEFINE ME
SO GO RUN THAT SHIAT ON BONQUISHA OR KI KI NEM-HONEY I AINT THE ONE
HUGFEST @ Lovelylady, com’ere gurrrl!
I for one am proud to say I’m not a BM. lol. I am the only person of color in my office and when they found out I was 32, college degree, and ZERO KIDS, they looked at me like I was from Mars. haha. Was I offended? Nope because I know it’s rare. Do I condemn those that are bm..nope but that’s not what I wanted for myself. But I’m also not one to “try” heroin just to see how it makes me feel(had this discussion in one of my criminal justice class)
I heard about Key Co about a month ago…..
Congrats girl!
And let me add, my additional obsticle was becoming a mother at the age of 15. I am 38 today. I am blessed to have the child tht I have. But if God granted a Do-OVER…I would Do it Differently
@ GGOUCH ***in my Jim Carey voice from Dumb & Dumber**
“I LIKE U A LOT”
I agree w/u 100%. I learned the hard way and pray my DAUGHTER DOES IT THE RIGHT WAY. NOT THE WAY OF MAN BUT OF GOD. MARRIAGE IS UPHELD IN EVERY RELIGION.
@Cinderella, research has shown that children brought up in two parent, married households fare better. I did research on this years ago. Is marriage a guarantee that everything will be perfect. No, but it’s a start.
MY DEAR THE SAME SON I RAISED IS ALSO HAS NO CHILDREN, IS IN THE ARMY AND HAS NEVER SEEN THE BACK OF A POLICE CAR
YA DIG?????? WE BOTH DID IT DIFFERENTLY BUT OUR “SONS” TURNED OUT SIMILAR
THAT’S WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT……YOUR CHILD AINT NO BETTER THAN MINE CAUSE YOU WERE MARRIED AND I WAS NOT
IN A NUTSHELL
For you single ladies stop selling yourself short and u will stop being treated as such. Stop giving out house keys, letting dudes drive your car, sleeping w/you everytime he gets a hard on and etc. Seriously, I did all that and if I could do it all over again I WOULD DO IT RIGHT FROM DAY ONE. BUT LIFE IS THE BEST TEACH.
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missmiami Says: It aint easy and it sure is harder. Something about saying “I do” changes everything. Mind you we dated for 4 years before we were married. We r newlyweds 9 months strong and girl I seriously considered divorce within the first 6 months.
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girl, you ain’t neva lying!! it’s weird (because we too dated for a long time) but true. that piece of paper changes things and situations. if he walked tomorrow, yeah i’d cry but i’m damn sure gonna EXERCISE ALL MY RIGHTS AND PRIVILEGES UNDER THE LAW! lol.
Im not sure about anyone else but when i say marriage before carriage its not about morals but about my beliefs.
LOL)
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I LOVE TO HEAR WHAT YOU GUYS HAVE TO SAY BELIEVE IT OR NOT I CAN LEARN ALOT FROM JUST READING UR OPINIONS. I HAVE BEEN ON THIS BLOG FOR 3 YEARS OR SO AND HAVE LEARNED ALOT (AND NO THE BLOGS AND INTERNET IS NOT WHERE I GET ALL MY INFO
BUT I THINK IM ONE OF THE YOUNGEST HEAR 22 AND ALTHOUGH I DONT AGREE WITH SOME I STILL LEARN ALOT FROM READING U GUYS COMMENTS. WE ARE ALL DIFFERNET. SOEMTIMES THE SAME PEOPLE CAN AGREE ON ALOT OF THE SAME THINGS AND DISAGREE ON SOME.
IF YOU PAY ATTENTION TO MY COMMENTS FROM A YEAR AGO THE WAY I THOUGHT WAS A LOT DIFFERENT NOW THAT I HAVE ACCEPTED JESUS CHRIST. THERES A LOT OF THINGS I ALSO WOULDVE DONE DIFFERNETLY BUT IT IS WHAT IT IS AND EVERYTIME I GET A CHANCE TO STEER A YOUNG MALE/FEMALE IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION IM TAKING THAT CHANCE. THATS WHY I SAY SOME PEOPLE MIX UP OPINIONS WITH BEING JUDGEMENTAL. KEEP UP WITH YOUR COMMENTS WHETHER OTHERS AGREE OR NOT BECUASE SOME PEOPLE DO LEARN FROM THEM (I.E “ME”)
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@ TRYNABEME
I’m lost as to why people are anti marriage but ok with being a baby mama.
@miss miami # 95, i totally feel where you are coming from. my hubby and i dated forever but when we got married, the first six months were hell. i kept thinking, we’ve been together all this time and to have it end so soon, but we hung in there and realized that it ain’t gone be easy and that our love meant too much to us.
Oh and also, I DO try and better my communtiy.
-I encorugae my age group to go to church
-My family and I do a food drive for the homeless EVERY OTHER MONTH
-Me and 2 best friends have started a non profit targetign young males and females with aspirations to become succesful and its called Another Way Advancing Youth “AWAY” we just started it a year ago and its on the come up.
-I donate to non profits who are looking to better our community.
crzasallgetout Says:
I’m lost as to why people are anti marriage but ok with being a baby mama.
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Yeah, I don’t get it either. I see this mostly among black people, and I don’t know why.
Let’s break up the monotoany now since ain’t no ‘mo new posts.
I just rec’d this on email:
Random Thoughts for the Day
1. I think part of a best friend’s job should be to immediately clear your computer’s history if you die.
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong.
3. I totally take back all those times I didn’t want to nap when I was younger.
4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.
5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
6. Was learning cursive really necessary?
7. Map Quest needs to start their directions on #5. I’m pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.
9. I can’t remember the last time I wasn’t at least kind of tired.
10. Bad decisions make good stories.
11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren’t going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.
12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray? I don’t want to have to restart my collection…again.
13. I’m always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to the ten-page paper that I swear I did not make any changes to.
14. “Do not machine wash or tumble dry” means I will never wash this — ever.
15. I hate it when I miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Damn it!) but when I immediately call back it rings nine times and goes to voicemail. What’d you do after I didn’t answer? Drop the phone and run away?
16. I hate leaving my house confident and looking good and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste.
17. I keep some people’s phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.
18. My 4-year old son asked me in the car the other day “What would happen if you ran over a ninja?” How the hell do I respond to that?
19. I think the freezer deserves a light as well.
20. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lites than Kay.
lovelylady, you are truely an inspiration being so young. i’m only a few years older than you but your mind set is well advanced. keep it up!
LovelyLady Says:
Oh and also, I DO try and better my communtiy.
-I encorugae my age group to go to church
-My family and I do a food drive for the homeless EVERY OTHER MONTH
-Me and 2 best friends have started a non profit targetign young males and females with aspirations to become succesful and its called Another Way Advancing Youth “AWAY” we just started it a year ago and its on the come up.
-I donate to non profits who are looking to better our community.
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God bless you in your endeavors, girl!
@125crzasallgetout
And some people know the relationship isn’t going any where but they feel like they need them and don’t want to be lonely…so instead of getting married they rather stay in the relationship for yrs…..IMO
Im still catchingup on the comments but why should she get married. Wont it still be bad if she gets married only to get divorced later, or find out her husband is sleeping with some groupies?? I could never be a BM cause Im crazy and responsibility needs to be shared 50/50 but I dont think she should get married. The world is corrupt and as long as they are both present in the childs life it’s okay for me. AND maybe her having a horrible mom made her want to raise her own family and provide her child what she nvr got
@ LovelyLady I
my SR family. It’s great to know that there are some intelligent black women in the world. This site proves that African-Americans do have morals and values. I learn something new everyday.
Thanks J.C
Oh NOOOOOOooooooo! They still at it
WHYYYYYyyyyyyyyy??
THAT’S WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT……YOUR CHILD AINT NO BETTER THAN MINE CAUSE YOU WERE MARRIED AND I WAS NOT
IN A NUTSHELL
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OMG…PEACE BE STILL!!
Did you get that from that? From tht you got: my kid is better than your kid? I am going to have to be done with this, because you and I are not on the same page. We are not even in the same library.
Tryna, martha has a tutorial on folding a fitted sheet, it’s actually not that hard, sad that I actually know that. And I know by 12 if Im going to BS the rest of the day away, go sleep in an empty office or take a long extended lunch at Lenox
@ Krysi J
I seent yo remix for Fanny in the other post…you should do a “I Might as Well Have ___________” for Keyisha
Pretty, I know whenever I come to work & log into SR BEFORE I log into ANY of my work programs. SMDH
Trynabe says:
1. I think part of a best friend’s job should be to immediately clear your computer’s history if you die.
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong.
3. I totally take back all those times I didn’t want to nap when I was younger.
4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.
5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
6. Was learning cursive really necessary?
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I won’t post all but I agree with all those above…….and that email is cute…..
But #2 struck a nerve because there are a lot of times during an argument I realized I was wrong and wanted to stop but I couldn’t swallow my pride..and kept arguing.
and you didn’t even read my statement to make matters worse…I was not married at 15 dear….so not only are you offensive, but you are missinformed and offensive…
and I mean that in the utmost bougiest of ways
But #2 struck a nerve because there are a lot of times during an argument I realized I was wrong and wanted to stop but I couldn’t swallow my pride..and kept arguing.
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Meeeeeeeeeee too!
It’s the Capricorn in me!
Jesus….i ain’t know it was poppin like this in this post…
oh to keyshia…i said it yesterday but will again…you coulda went to your sister house and picked you out a kid. but congrats i guess.
me? if my sister had a tribe i would keep my girlish figure and go skrait over to HER crib…
@ggouch
Just let it go. I think it’s hopeless.
17. I keep some people’s phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.
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most all of my numbers in my phone are like this.
16. I hate leaving my house confident and looking good and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste
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OKAY!
but seriously that entire post was fukking GENIUS!! LMAO
RANDOM THOUGHTS OF KRYSI J
1. I must be the only black person in the world that gets off at 5:30pm
2. I hate stupid people and the idiots that taught them in school
3. I stay on Sandra Rose to keep from killing deez MFs at WORK
4. I need to cop a PS3 for my 8 year old this xmas
5. Thats a fly azz leather jacket dat bISH got on!
6. “I was gonna clean my room…..until I got hIgH”
7. “Do you suffer from DRY EYES….”
8. I love the songs from those swifter commercials “LUUUUUUUUV STINKS…yea yea”
9. I forgot to bring an umbrella to dis bytch and its raining like ah MF!
10. Only 10 more minutes to GO!
I’m not judging KC but I feel sad for her that she didn’t get married first like WE ALL KNOW she wanted to do. She’s said more than once that she wants to be married and have kids, etc. I just hope he does right by her and gives her what she wants.
Kwall Says:
oh to keyshia…i said it yesterday but will again…you coulda went to your sister house and picked you out a kid. but congrats i guess.
me? if my sister had a tribe i would keep my girlish figure and go skrait over to HER crib…
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@trynabeme
It is the Aquarius in me…..I do apologize though after everything cools down….
Ya’ll… let’s just agree to disagree. This is worse than debating over how to hang toilet paper (over vs. under). No one way is better than the other… it’s just different and done based on personal preference. Such is life…
trynabme: That was funny. Thanks for that email. It did it’s purpose.
Nope, I get off at 5:30 too
5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
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the only people i know who know how to properly fold them are my aunts and my momma.
Gotta use that one……
Rinola I like hanging my TP under, it rolls out better and will tear better
@TRYNABEME……
Is your Zodiac Sign LEO??
Pretty, I know whenever I come to work & log into SR BEFORE I log into ANY of my work programs. SMDH
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me too! me too!
yep!
7. Map Quest needs to start their directions on #5. I’m pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood
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13. I’m always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to the ten-page paper that I swear I did not make any changes to.
happens to me all the time but i just go to the undo tab and see what changes i made.
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20. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lites than Kay.
Takes the icing. That email was to cute.
KrysiJ Says:
8. I love the songs from those swifter commercials “LUUUUUUUUV STINKS…yea yea”
9. I forgot to bring an umbrella to dis bytch and its raining like ah MF!
10. Only 10 more minutes to GO!
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Honestly I have thought all of those…….especiall #10 that is my fav. to say no matter where I am…..
Redeemed777 Says:
@TRYNABEME……
Is your Zodiac Sign LEO??
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MINE IS AND I FIT THE DESCRIPTION TO A TEE LOL
Seeeeeeee, TRUE CAP! I won’t apologize for it, BUT I’ll laugh about it….& “maybe” admit I was WRONG AS TWO LEFT SHOES.
I like that people have different opinions but sometimes it gets uncomfortable just lurking when you guys are disagreeing (e-arguing). I don’t know… I guess I just don’t get it. Everyone has an opinion and noones opinion is better than the next person. I think sometimes, in here, we are trying to convince someone to believe what we are saying is the best, hands down, written in law fact and their opinion is not.
RINOLA Says:
Ya’ll… let’s just agree to disagree. This is worse than debating over how to hang toilet paper (over vs. under). No one way is better than the other… it’s just different and done based on personal preference. Such is life…
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Oh seeeeeeeeee now you wanna start som’mo shiat! OVER!
@LOVELYLADY…….
Yeah you sound like a LEO, very intelligent. I’m a LEO too!
trynabeme Says:
Random Thoughts for the Day
1. I think part of a best friend’s job should be to immediately clear your computer’s history if you die.
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong.
3. I totally take back all those times I didn’t want to nap when I was younger.
4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.
5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
6. Was learning cursive really necessary?
7. Map Quest needs to start their directions on #5. I’m pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.
9. I can’t remember the last time I wasn’t at least kind of tired.
10. Bad decisions make good stories.
11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren’t going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.
12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray? I don’t want to have to restart my collection…again.
13. I’m always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to the ten-page paper that I swear I did not make any changes to.
14. “Do not machine wash or tumble dry” means I will never wash this — ever.
15. I hate it when I miss a call by the last ring (Hello? Hello? Damn it!) but when I immediately call back it rings nine times and goes to voicemail. What’d you do after I didn’t answer? Drop the phone and run away?
16. I hate leaving my house confident and looking good and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste.
17. I keep some people’s phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.
18. My 4-year old son asked me in the car the other day “What would happen if you ran over a ninja?” How the hell do I respond to that?
19. I think the freezer deserves a light as well.
20. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lites than Kay.
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1. I must be the only black person in the world that gets off at 5:30pm
*dead*
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Nope i do to. never undrstood my cheap as job. They gave us an hour lunch AND ONLY PAY FOR 30 MINS WTF. When people ask me whats my hours i wanna say 9-5 but that damn unpaid 30 minutes o flunch
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6. “I was gonna clean my room…..until I got hIgH”
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9. I forgot to bring an umbrella to dis bytch and its raining like ah MF!
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Me too
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10. Only 10 more minutes to GO!
I got 4
@ Redeemed777
Nope, Capricorn! January 18th!!!!!
This post = Argumentum ad baculum:
If x accepts P as true, then Q.
Q is a punishment on x.
Therefore, P is not true.
@trynabe
I only apologize to people I care for……..
other people I have not apologized to them even if I was being a little to harsh……even though I wanted to my pride wouldn’t let me because I feel like they win…..Pride is a mutha…….
@ Krysi
I get off at 5, but I never leave on time becuz I’m either still commenting or lurking on SR.
First Congrats to Keyshia Cole!!love her
Second I am a BM of two beautiful girls and yes it get hard doing a two person job in a one person body on a one person income..I saw my mom being a single parent and my grandmother as well..I watched as my mother worked hard while my dad abused her and came around every now and then when he felt like it…now they weren’t married but what if she said well I am going to marry him just for the sake of saying I was married to my child’s father and would have raised me in an abusive household..I don’t think no one wants to have a baby and not want the father to be there but in life u never know what is going to happen u shouldn’t have to make a man be a man and take care of there child..my mom never put my dad on child support and I have not put my kids father on child support either I was always taught that God will make a way and he always have..I never went to bed hungry, I always had clean clothes I had a good childhood those are the same things I do for children..I say this to say in life whether u are married or not curves ball will come your way so don’t think just because u are married u can’t still become a BM I am all for marriage but I am also a realist and I don’t put all my trust in no man but in God alone!!!
missy Says:
@trynabe
I only apologize to people I care for……..
other people I have not apologized to them even if I was being a little to harsh……even though I wanted to my pride wouldn’t let me because I feel like they win…..Pride is a mutha…….
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Are U a Leo. Damn im just like that. I be wanting to apologize but be like bump that whatever. Just stubborn.
missy Says:
@trynabe
I only apologize to people I care for……..
other people I have not apologized to them even if I was being a little to harsh……even though I wanted to my pride wouldn’t let me because I feel like they win…..Pride is a mutha…….
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Are U a Leo. Damn im just like that. I be wanting to apologize but be like bump that whatever. Just stubborn.
K I am done now. U gotta laugh to keep from crying cuz I bet some folks take this stuff to heart. SERIOUSLY!
@lovelyLady ….No I am an Aquarius
Whew, this is the chit I stay away from because everyones opinion differs and it always gets personal.
I think if you actually read what each other are saying there wouldn’t be so much back and forth. I get exactly what Intense is saying but I also agree with what the other people are saying too about pro marriage. Can’t yall just agree to disagree. I totally agree with the people in glass houses notion.
I don’t know if this has been said before but Keyshia is about to be the next Tiny — IF Boobie stays with her. We may never get another CD from her.
10. Only 10 more minutes to GO!
I got 4
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and we STILL here….damn u SANDRA ROSE!! LOL!
lol @ smokie. girl after her last cd she went down hill. I’m still bumping TRACES OF MY LIPSTICK
I was referring to Keysha going down hill. Her first cd was the bomb. I could play it from beginning to end w/out skipping a track.
Lol @ Krysi I know right, Yall know how yall open another tab and it tell you your most visited site. Well i bet just like mine most of yalls is Sandra Rose. Mine defintley is. Everytime i see that im like damn its that bad. lol.
BTW, checking the LADIES HANDBOOK & U NEVA PACK UP & MOVE TO WHERE A DUDE IS **IN MY FRANKIE VOICE**. U guys discuss it and decide on an amicable residence TOGETHER if u are gonna shack up
missmiami Says:
I was referring to Keysha going down hill. Her first cd was the bomb. I could play it from beginning to end w/out skipping a track
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Girl yes in deed i still got that CD. Thats a classic to me. I lovedddd the old Key Cole when she was all hurt and letting Jezzt run over her (not that i wanted that to happen) Just like Mary she made the best music when she was sad and depressed.
*** That’s how u know the
is good. She packed her bags & moved away. LOL, shoulda been the other way around if anything. Oh well…….
Fav verse from Menace to Society: “I feel sorry for your mother”
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thats my shAT!!
“hurry up and buY”
missmiami Says:
I was referring to Keysha going down hill. Her first cd was the bomb. I could play it from beginning to end w/out skipping a track.
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You no likey the 2nd one either?
Krysi GO HOME
Krysi I get off @ 5:30 too girl
I wish Keyshia good luck and hope dude stays with her. He is younger than her (early 20’s) so this does kind of remind me of another Melo/LaLa situation except Keyshia is the bigger star. Boobie is HUGE in Cleveland (I think behind Lebron he was the 2nd most popular before Shaq came) and I think he’ll do well in the NBA. He probably will have more money than Keyshia when he signs his next contract. Hopefully they will stay together, continue with their careers, raise theit child and when they’re ready get married.
I do think she got pregnant REALLY fast though. She met him this year, she had to immediately get pregnant by him. Wasn’t she just stalking Jeezy in like March/April? Good luck girl
2nd cd was ok. But I only liked a handful of songs; 3 or 4 to be exact. Girl that first cd was the BOMB **n my martin voice** Got me through some tough times in my immature days.
@ 186 Krysi J: “What u say bout my mama” :rofl)
trynabeme#129–copying and pasting that to save, lol.
Dang, I read too slow–comment #136 was the last one I saw before posting my comment, lol.
Girl that first cd was the BOMB
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It really was! I remember having that same feeling like when MJB hit the scene. Like, “Heeeeeey who’s this chic???”
Then to find out she was homegrown flava! YEEEEE
MJB = sisterinmyhead
KC = cousininmyhead
Anyone watches the soup with Joel Mchale when he has the whitney clip “kiss my azz”
that is funny
(i know it’s random )
“CRACK IS WHACK”……..yelling “BBBBOOOOOOOOOBBBBBBYYYYYYY”
Eat the cake Ida May **IKE TURNER VOICE**
@ missmiami
“aye look bytch stop following me around dis MF, you getting on my nerves”
“I don’t want any trouble…just get out”
Missy was it like in a song/remix? I saw somethin’ like that on youtube a while back.
You know you done ****ed up, don’t you?
You know it, don’t you?
You know you done ****ed up.
IDK it was on an E! show called the soup that’s is the only place i’ve seen that.
NUTBUSH SCENE
*Ike cuts off the music*
“LOOK HERE ANN, what da fukk was that? WHAT DA PROBLEM IZZzz, wha what you dun forgot the words”
TINA: “Course i can remember the words IKE i WROTE IT!”
Ike: “Yea, you wrote ah MF song, and now you can’t even remember the GOT DAMN WORDSsss…what da fukk you doing?”
You know you done ****ed up, don’t you?
You know it, don’t you?
You know you done ****ed up.
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ahahahahahahahahahaha
thats still my favorite scene
I still say dat shyt to this DAY!
@ 201
STILL
@ Ike and Tina
B**CH I’ll Kill ya ***in my ike turner voice***
There is way too much to comment on, so I’ll just say WOW and keep it moving.
He say he wont me to be his new sanger!
Anna Mae, getcho gullible country a$$ out the clouds!
Goodnight SR Fam!!
AND of course night night Intencemocha….
BTW: “A good listener tries to understand what the other person is saying. In the end he may disagree sharply, but because he disagrees, he wants to know exactly what it is he is disagreeing with.”
Kenneth A. Wells quotes
All these ppl getting pregnant out of wedlock can’t be that stupid. Stupid just doesn’t run rampant like that. She or they planned it. They haven’t even been together a year yet. They weren’t together 6 mths when she got his name tattooed on her body…………Oops, then again maybe she or they are stupid.
If he get’s hurt she’ll drop him like a bad habit.
This is why i luv sandrarose. The comments went from serious, personal, to funny lol hehe
I think my only problem with this is that she hasn’t been with him that long…..it hasn’t even been a year…come on
And agree with whomever said we may never get anothe cd from her….i feel the same way about jhud
@ggouch IMO #209 helped me understand why there was so much confusion in the discussion – petty to say the least & does not set a good example of those values you were preaching. Did you really mean her well or turning the handle on the switchblade?
@ LOLA
Turning the handle is an overstatement. There is no such thing as an emotional argument on a blog. We don’t go home and shut ourselves up in rooms grieve and mentally ponder over a fellow bloggers opinion, statements or otherwise, even at the subtle attempts to make it personal.
Intensemocha is a long time poster on SR. I have appropriate respect for her and her opinions. Not sure how you determined the quote reflects poorly on my statements here today. The quote by Kenneth Wells, IMO, provides a lesson to Mocha and I both.
It reiterates, it is ok to disagree, but disagree with clarity of the other person’s point of few or admit your failure to grasp the understanding…admittedly I did not and still do not understand most of Moch’s views as it relates to his post, beyond her defending KC’s right to be an unwed mother. If that was her point, then I am good in understanding.
Mocha, did not understand mine however. And that’s ok…we move on…
In the end we are all adults, and this is and should always remain a platform for entertaining, healthy, thought provoking, conscious generating, and debate worthy conversation. I hope that answers your question.
@ggouch that was a very mature way to handle the little situation. I usually agree with intense, but she seems to be one that is so vocal, and passionate about her views, along with being so used to being on the defensive with people, that at times she doesn’t recognize when she isn’t being attacked. You were in fact agreeing with her that single mothers can and do raise good children, and I find your story inspirational
key key u go girl and that child needed somebody to love that damn frankie is a hot azz mess i am happy for her and boobie or whatthe hell his name is DEF an upgrade from old greezy!!!:party:
Lmao….
@208!!
MAKE ME OVER SCENE
IKE: “ROUGHER Anna Mae ROUGHErrrrR”
TINA’S MAMA: “ROUGHER…I wanna know what u mean by ROUGHER…now, u got her sounding like a MANE!”
Kimi , I want to thank you for receiving my comments as I intended them. I agree Mocha is one of SR’s outspoken and passionate posters. I more times than not enjoy the energy she generates in expressing herself. I am a fan of people who take a stand, whether or not the views are parallel to my own.
“Annamae If you die I’ll ‘keel’ you, hear me **** I’ll ‘keel’ you.” Dead!! Ike was a crazy mofo!
I’m not going to retract sh!t. Keyshia is a dumb a$$. She knew dude 2.5 seconds and ready to breed to for him. Yes I am anti baby ma ma because we got too damn many. And the bastard breeders/supporters on this board are the main ones who complain about a dude not being involved or taking care of his kid. Black women are so quick to breed as soon as a guy sniffs their behinds. Marriage is a dirty word to them yet Black women keep out numbering all the other races in the number of out of wedlock children, HIV, living in proverty etc. Too many Black chicks pride themselves on doing something that any 8 year old with a period can do HAVE A BABY. And stop Hiding behind “Babies are a Blessing” Babies are the consequence of unprotected or failed birth control. And that “Baby” ideal you idolize is short lived a baby is an ongoing taxing responsibility. How is putting your child at a disadvantage upon conception by not being married, being black and more than likely parented by only one parent a blessing?! Black women need to do better.
If a man really wants you he wife’s….. you legally. All of you pro-baby ma ma anti-marriage supporters fail to realize yall don’t get nuthin but a nut and stuck….stuck raising a kid or kids on your own. While the dude you were so sprung on marries the next chick. If you’re lucky as a baby ma ma you may get child support. But see the WIFE that was smart enough to get papers have rights to all the things she shared with her husband, assets, finances etc. So while baby ma ma’s, “wifey’s” Play house…..A wife gets to keep it! Peep game.