Tiger Woods is a Narcissist, Not a Sex Addict
In an interview with ET, TV’s “sex Rehab” therapist, Dr. Drew Pinsky, referred to golfer Tiger Woods as a “sex addict.”
“It’s safe to say that sex addiction might be a part of his problem,” the TV doctor says, but also adding that with sex addiction there’s usually childhood trauma which he has not seen any evidence of with Tiger.
But conventional wisdom among therapists has long been that there is no such thing as a sex addict. All human beings are born sexual and there is no limit placed on the frequency of sexual encounters humans can engage in. Just as there is no limit to a human being’s freedom of sexual expression.
What some refer to as a “sex addict” is actually a manifestation of narcissism. In other words, Tiger Woods is a classic narcissist who believes all (white) women desire him sexually because he feels his sexual prowess is superior. The narcissist attempts to prove his sexual superiority by engaging in a pattern of repeated sexual relationships with women with no emotional attachment.
When all is said and done, it will eventually come out that Tiger Woods has had multiple affairs with women while he’s been married. We only know of 3 women because only 3 have come forward.
Another classic narcissistic sports figure was basketball great Wilt Chamberlain who boasted of having had sex with over 20,000 women.
The implication is that a sexual addict is somehow “broken” and therefore can be fixed. Narcissism is incurable and it is the root of excessive sexual behavior.
So when a man who has cheated repeatedly says he can change his ways, he’s lying. Narcissists are incurably unfaithful.
Narcissists lack empathy for others and possess an exaggerated sense of entitlement, self-importance or self worth. Narcissists like Tiger Woods engage in repeated sexual encounters to exert control over others — not for sexual pleasure because narcissists do not get pleasure from sex.
Narcissists are addicted to power, attention and fear — not sex.
Celebs Out & About
Rihanna showed off her thick thighs on the set of her new video “Hard”.
Alcoholic beverage in hand, singer Beyonce playing in the surf in the Dominican Republic. Maybe no one explained the dangers of drinking while swimming to Beyonce?
It’s his birthday. Jay Z turned 40-years-old today, 12 months after turning 40 this time last year. I guess he thinks we forgot.
Rapper 50 Cent on a book promo tour over in London.
Celeb Style: Rihanna!
I was just saying how I was sick of seeing Rihanna everywhere. Then I saw these pics. Isn’t it amazing how you see Rihanna’s curves in a revealing dress and it’s like you’re seeing her for the very first time?
New Music: Alicia Keys – Beyonce – Put It In A Love Song
Put ‘Em On Blast: DJ Chuck T
Hey Sandra:
I ran across this website and wanted to know your thoughts. I’m a brown skinned beauty with a gorgeous 10 month old son. His father is DJ Chuck T (the DList Mixtape DJ who leaked Lil Wayne’s Album). He has chose to be with a LSLH/mixed “model” and her three children (by another man) while his son and I are on the other side of town fending for ourselves.
He refuses to see the child at my place “out of respect” for the girlfriend. He blogs about his “baby mama” issues on twitter all day trying to gain sympathy. I’ve been called a “basic bitch,” “bum,” and his recent pleas have been for 50 cent to save me like he did Officer Ricky’s baby mama so he can lower his child support payments (www.twitter.com/djchuckt).
He filed for visitation/custody when our son was less than a month old. The girlfriend, his mother and sister have coached him on how to provoke me to anger then record the aftermath for court. It’s just wrong on so many levels. What’s your advice?
Jenny J.
If you do not tell the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about other people…Virginia Woolf
We Approve Of Pharrell Williams’ New Chick
The paps caught up with producer Pharrell Williams and his new chick yesterday. She’s an amazon but she doesn’t fit the standard cookie cutter image that these rappers usually go for. She looks a little on the young side, but cute. Don’t like the bob even though short hair is so in now (I’m trying to convince my friend of that).
Love the shoes.
Hate the baggy pants. Stop the madness.
Photos: FlyNet via Faded Youth
Celebs Out & About: Puffy, Polow Da Don, Chris Brown
B-list music mogul Sean Combs joined C-list celebs Polow Da Don, Rich Boy and Chris Brown at a party in midtown Atlanta last night. I don’t even know what the party was for.
My boy Kevin Wales was there (in the black jacket on left). Me and him go way back to my humble beginnings as an industry photographer. He always kept me in the loop when Puffy came to town. He also managed Another Bad Creation boy group back in the day. Remember them?
This beauty had Chris Brown cheesing and grinning like a fool. I thought he didn’t like brown skin honeys, only LSLH chicks?
Photos courtesy of Prince Williams/ATLPics.net
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