The public viewing for Cincinnati Bengals star WR Chris Henry was held today before a memorial service in Westwego, La. Henry's fiancee, Loleini Tonga, and their 3 children attended the service.

Henry died Thursday, Dec. 17, from head injuries after falling from the back of a pickup truck being driven by Tonga following a domestic dispute.

Cincinnati Bengals wide receiver Chad Ochocinco, second from left, is comforted while viewing teammate Chris Henry before a memorial service in Westwego, La., Tuesday, Dec. 22, 2009.

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  • pyt305

    The first pic is too sad :(

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    That really creeps me out seein that! I dont even view bodies when I go to funerals

  • http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

    That is so sad!

  • starr2910

    creeps me out too..I kind wished i never saw that pic..hate to see dead ppl..When I go to funerals I don't look at the body, cuz I'd rather my image of them be from when they were alive...rip to him

  • starr

    It creeped me out too. I've never been to a funeral....maybe thats why

  • j.c.

    May God bless his family especially the children. I don't think I would have let my child see that

  • MOUTH

    Why do people take pics of the dead, I never understood that.

  • Krysi J

    I wonder what is going thru Tonga's mind right now?

    can somebody tell me what the hell happened that night that was SO serious, that it cost this 26 yr old man his life??

  • Vneezy

    Eww! Too creepy looking at that first pic. RIP Chris. Eww. I hate that 'death' look.

  • mirsmommy

    :blink: OMG Sandra!!!!!!!!! Please give a warning for things like this!!!! I was not expecting to see that man lying there.. :sad:

    RIP to Chris Henry. Your family, especially your children are in my :pray:

  • laterthannever

    I could have done without the corpse. Yikes.

  • Mahogany03

    The pics really didn't creep me out (maybe because I've been to more than enough funerals). That first pic is heartbreaking. The children probably still don't understand that they'll never see their father again :sad:

  • netta0281

    They said a witness said they heard Henry said if you drive off im going jump off the truck and kill myself his fiancee was their right by his side when the police and ambulance arrived on the scene

  • laterthannever

    The pictures originally posted of his fiance must have been a few years old? :yes:

  • SunnyPA

    Krysi J Says:
    can somebody tell me what the hell happened that night that was SO serious, that it cost this 26 yr old man his life??
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    From what I gather it wasn't serious at all. They were having an argument -- she jumped in pick up sped off -- he jumped on bed of pick up to get her -- fell off, hit his head -- she didn't even know he was hurt and kept driving -- he was found later on side of road.

    Again, that's what I gathered from reading the stories. Death can take you in the blink of the eye --- doesn't have to be serious.

  • Daisy

    I so wish I would have had a warning I HATE seeing dead folks and what have you!

    God Bless his family :pray:

  • Anna

    MOUTH Says:

    Why do people take pics of the dead, I never understood that.
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    For that last final pic. Where we take our family members, the makeup artists makes them look like they are sleeping, Chris looks dead.

  • http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

    :(

  • SunnyPA

    netta0281 Says:
    They said a witness said they heard Henry said if you drive off im going jump off the truck and kill myself his fiancee was their right by his side when the police and ambulance arrived on the scene
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    If it's suicide the insurance policy won't pay.

  • http://hok.com ATL_Reese

    R.I.P. Chris Henry...

  • Daisy

    @starr how old are you to never have attended a funeral? I dont view the bodies and I only go to a funeral when I abs. positively have to as in close FAMILY mbr or close FRIEND. I had a classmate from high school pass a few mths back and I was so glad her funeral was during the week vs wkend and I couldnt attend due to work #dontjudgeme I know it was wrong.

  • Krysi J

    From what I gather it wasn’t serious at all. They were having an argument — she jumped in pick up sped off — he jumped on bed of pick up to get her — fell off, hit his head — she didn’t even know he was hurt and kept driving — he was found later on side of road.

    Again, that’s what I gathered from reading the stories. Death can take you in the blink of the eye — doesn’t have to be serious.

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    I would be mortified and completely DEVESTATED...I hope she doesn't come across Rhianna's "Russian Roulette" on somebody's radio station during one of those moments.

  • http://twitter.com/allthingsmwny allthingsmwny

    May he rest in peace and just sending prayers to his family, teammates and friends.

  • http://myspace.com/katgirl33 katgirl33

    ESPN said that the call was placed by the car driving behind her....

  • http://myspace.com/theflyestmom Nekita

    OMG, I thought that was a Southern thing to do (take pics of dead people). My Auntie Bootsie will go to the funeral home early to take pics. Then when we get to the service, she acts as if that's her first time seeing the body. I'm like Auntie......... STOP IT NOW!! Acting like Wanda on Good Times.

  • CivilEngineer

    I've been to a few funerals but I've never seen anyone taking pictures. Cameras aren't welcome there IMO! This is a tragedy...we're losing people everyday over nonsense :(

  • Anna

    netta0281 Says:

    They said a witness said they heard Henry said if you drive off im going jump off the truck and kill myself his fiancee was their right by his side when the police and ambulance arrived on the scene
    ~~~~~~~
    I heard both this version and SunnyPA's. I also heard that he was not happy about the cost of the wedding and they had a argument the day before. Not that that is cause for any of this.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Rest in peace Chris. I pray for strength and peace for the family and friends during this time. I can't imagine...

  • netta0281

    SunnyPA Says:

    I know i just read that on NFL.COM and if they dont pay im pretty sure one of his team mates will pay for the funeral...

  • Anna

    SunnyPA Says:

    netta0281 Says:
    They said a witness said they heard Henry said if you drive off im going jump off the truck and kill myself his fiancee was their right by his side when the police and ambulance arrived on the scene
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    If it’s suicide the insurance policy won’t pay.
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    There's a 36 month probationary period, it will pay out after that.

  • Caligirl101

    This is waaay to sad!! My prayers go out to his family especially his children. :pray:
    RIP Chris :sad:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @NEKITA
    GUL YOU GOT PROFESSIONAL MOURNERS IN YOUR FAMILY TOO????? GIRL I HAVE AN AUNT THAT HAD 18 KIDS RIGHT SO YOU KNOW IT WAS A FEW DIFFERENT SETS OR DADDIES, WELL ONE OF THE DADDY'S DIED AND THESE CHICKS GO TO THE FUNERAL AND PERFORM LIKE THEIR LIFE DEPENDED ON IT! i'M TALKIN BOUT PASS OUT WITH FOLKS BRINGIN THEM WATER AND FANNIN THEM! TELL ME WHY THEY WERE AT THE WRONG FUNERAL! THESE BROADS DONE SHOWED UP TOO LATE TO GET AN OBITUARY AND THEY DIDN'T REALLY HAVE ANY INNTERACTION WITH THEIR FATHER!

  • Krysi J

    I’ve been to a few funerals but I’ve never seen anyone taking pictures.
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    hey Civil...and please don't take this the wrong way, because I don't know if they do this in all of LA or not, but anyway....have you ever been to one of those funerals with the band playing jazz and everybody dancing down the street to the cemetary

    just asking :sad:

  • Krysi J

    i’M TALKIN BOUT PASS OUT WITH FOLKS BRINGIN THEM WATER AND FANNIN THEM! TELL ME WHY THEY WERE AT THE WRONG FUNERAL! THESE BROADS DONE SHOWED UP TOO LATE TO GET AN OBITUARY AND THEY DIDN’T REALLY HAVE ANY INNTERACTION WITH THEIR FATHER!
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    now that ain nothing but a damn shame :nono:

  • missy

    @civil

    I've seen people take pics at a funeral ...and i wanted to jump and punch the devil out of them :mad: ..Pictures taken at a funeral is a touchy subject for me (my aunt did it twice and she was so insensitive doing it )...

    May he R.I.P. (i don't like the first pic because i don't like to see dead people)

  • missmiami

    Not sure how I feel about children attending a funeral and actually looking @ the body. Either way chick must feel very guilty. Is she going to be charged? Hope they had a will cuz legally they were not married so who know's who the monies/property & etc will go to.

  • kwall

    i have ALOT of professional funeral go-ers in my fam too. @krysi i have been to a real NOLA jazz funeral for my great uncle. he was from 'bama but left when he was 16 and lived 70 years in NOLA. it was awesome. i never saw anybody get put away like that. but his wife was a native and gave him QUITE the homegoing.

    RIP chris henry. DAG ON 26? smdh...

  • Daisy

    @Krysi if I didnt think u were serious I would send you to the KONA asking Civil that :rofl:

    I ran out the church at my Godmothers funeral when they were about to open the casket I dont PLAY that! I bout lost my mind trying to get up out of there.

    My gma will CUSS you out if you go to a funeral and dont bring her back an obiturary mess around and catch your death!

  • ReadTheBlog

    God knows what he is doing. That is really messed up the situation that went down behind his death. I bet neither one of them thought it escalate to that point. Imagine the countless times they've likely been through it before?

    If people can't get along without yelling and hitting and chasing after one another, they need to learn to walk away.

  • starr

    @Daisy

    I"m 22

  • CivilEngineer

    @Krysi...no, that's what they do in New Orleans. I can't think of the name of it right now but it's a way of celebrating the dead person's life.

    I didn't realize he was from La...we're never in the news for anything positive :-|

  • missy

    @brownsugapoet

    I have a professional mourner in my fam..This woman starts screaming and shaking during a funeral.... :eek:

    One time she ran to the casket and hopped on it...... and the sad thing she didn't even know the person that well..

  • Daisy

    @Starr that is good to live that long and never attend a funeral.

    @Civil you mean the band? I thought it was called a 2nd line or something like that :shrug:

  • Anna

    missmiami Says:

    Not sure how I feel about children attending a funeral and actually looking @ the body. Either way chick must feel very guilty. Is she going to be charged? Hope they had a will cuz legally they were not married so who know’s who the monies/property & etc will go to.
    ~~~~~~~~
    A child should attend their parents funeral, it's not haunting, it's a way to remember and to say goodbye. I do have a much harder time when a spouse passes away and the surviving spouse does not go to the funeral. I am talking grown "golden year" folks. To me the younger one is exposed to death and funerals it makes it the reality that life truly is also about death.

  • KunnyLove

    my deepest condolences to the henry family especially to his children. so very sad to spend christmas and the new years without your father. i cannot even imagine what they are going thru. :-(

  • ReadTheBlog

    My mother said that people that know The Lord don't act a fool at funerals.

  • missy

    Oh & i don't think kids should see a dead body....I remember when I went to my Grandma's funeral I couldn't dare to look at her body........Because that would have been the last image I would have seen of her.... & I was 17 at the time so I could only imagine what could be going through that little girls head......

  • missmiami

    @ readtheblog your mom is a wise woman cuz that makes sense. why act a fool if you know they are in a better place :shrugs:

  • CivilEngineer

    @Daisy...that's it! I kept think drumline :lol: Thank you! They do 2nd lines for weddings also

  • Daisy

    @RTB I agree with your mother to a degree. If you have to bury a child there is no telling how one may act at the funeral regardless of how much Jesus they may have IMO.

  • Dorcely

    The 1st pic is heartbreaking

  • Tasha

    Too sad. Poor children had to see their father like that. I pray that this family can make through these tough times.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @BrownSuga
    Not meaning too but that story made me lmao-wrong funeral LOL

    Can someone explain to me why Loileni doesn't appear as though she was crying? I wore dark shades to my father's funeral my eyes were looking swoll shut I was crying so hard!

  • Daisy

    I don't think all those kids are his just the baby but I guess he was helping her raise them

  • Shauny

    Hey all, DAMN I come back to check in after a hiatus and what's the first thing I see...A PICTURE OF A DECEASED YOUNG MAN. Can a sista get a warning next time. RIP Brother! Condolences to the family.

  • CivilEngineer

    I went to my cousin's funeral 2 years ago and I still remember all the screaming. She was either 17 or 18...the preacher told my family if they couldn't keep it down he was going to shut down the services. I wasn't emotional until he said that...except I was pissed :mad:

    I do agree that some people go to funerals just to show out and make a spectacle of themselves :yes:

  • missy

    @Choco

    People mourn in their own way......Some people pretend to be strong in public but break down behind close doors......But some people are cold blooded..... & I don't know her personally to put her in either category...

  • Krysi J

    my deepest condolences to the henry family especially to his children. so very sad to spend christmas and the new years without your father. i cannot even imagine what they are going thru.
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    I didn't even thank about that....Lord, and everything is so fresh.....its just too much. JESUS Christ what were they arguing about again???!

  • CivilEngineer

    Hey Shauny!! CONGRATULATIONS!!

  • ricanlbc

    NOONE CAUGHT WHAT THE LITTLE GIRL WAS SHOWING HER DADDY? HER ETCH A SKETCH! I WONDER IF SHE COMPREHENDS HE IS DECEASED? AWWW BREAKS MY HEART! LOOK AT WHAT SHE IS DOING AND THAN WHOEVER IS HOLDING HER ..(CANT BE TONGA LOOKS "HARD") THE GIRL IS LOOKING AT THE DRAWING...IF THAT IS TONGA, SHE SURE LOOKS DIFF THAN ON HER MYSPACE....

    IM SORRY I FEEL SHE SHOULD BE IN JAIL SHE SHOULD HAVE PULLED OVER WHEN HE JUMPED IN POINT BLANK! SHE KEPT DRIVING THIS COULD HAVE BEEN PREVENTED!

    LASTLY...I WONDER WHTA HIS FAMILY THINKS OF HER...SHE KILLED HIM/.

  • intensemocha

    GROW UP FOLKS!!!! IT'S A NATURAL PART OF LIFE

    I SHARE THE SAME SENTIMENTS AS SOME OF THE OTHER POSTERS, I ONLY GO WHEN I HAVE TO-FAMILY & VERY CLOSE PERSONAL FRIENDS

    BUT ONE DAY EVENTUALLY WE WILL ALL HAVE TO ATTEND A FUNERAL-AND AS UNCOMFORTABLE AS IT MAY BE IT'S A REMINDER HOW PRECIOUS LIFE IS AND HOW EASILY IT CAN BE TAKEN

    SOME PEOPLE NEED TO SEE A DEAD BODY TO CHANGE THEIR LIVES OR TO APPRECIATE THE LIFE THEY HAVE

  • missy

    Hey Shauny....remember BGC is on tonight

    I'm out y'all *be easy*

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

    @Missy
    Your right I forgot about how people mourn differently thanks for pointing that out....

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ missy

    Those are the family members that I don't do at all!!!! My brother died and she had the nerve to ask me if we would give her somethin sayin my brother was her brother so she could get some type of discount on her flight here! I WENT SMOOOTH THE PHUCK OFF! My brother hadn't seen or talked to her since they were around 10 and he was 42 when he died!

  • CivilEngineer

    Be safe @Missy

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    I find it intriguing to see a beloved one deceased. It sparks questions as to how someone was once warm and smiling one day is now cold and expressionless the next. I am also very into the human anatomy and find dead bodies to be like a mystery. We all know or should know the physical is exactly that, physical. The person we miss is the spirit of the person that once in inhabited that shell. Thats why while we alive we must take care of mind body and soul so that those who wish to mourn us can remember us not only as what we looked like but for our beautiful mind and spirit.

  • Krysi J

    My brother died at age 22 from carbon monoxide poisoning, I hated the pictures everybody took....he looked old and dark, it was a horrible image to remember....at the funeral I just put my head down and cried, I was 12 at the time....sometimes people should just keep the casket CLOSED!

  • SunnyPA

    Sometimes I think it helps the child understand what's happening (going to a funeral) ... that the person is not coming back. Personally, I have to see the body lowered into the ground to come to grips that it's over.

    I once tried to explain a relative's passing to a 4 y/o. I said the person went to heaven. The child asked me where's heaven. I say way up in the sky. A couple of weeks later, I saw my little cousin staring at the sky. I asked what was she looking at. She said that she was trying to see unckie.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Daisy, my mother also said children aren't ours, they are a loan from God.

    A family member of mine lost a 3 month old child about a month ago. Her pregnancy was just as unexpected as his death.

    But God knows what he is doing :-)

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Why do we need to grow up because we don't like seeing dead bodies????? I feel the same as other people, I don't want that image stuck in my head. The last thing I want is for that vision of my close friend or family member to be stuck in my head.

  • Daisy

    Intense I dont care how natural it is I am cool calm and collected until somebody dies and then I am NO MORE GOOD! I am not dramatic per say I just cant function and shut down it takes my mama to talk about me. Death shuts me 100% down always has and more than likely always will

    @Missy I agree ppl do mourn differently my Godmother was my Aunts best friend she was all strong and what not and everybody knew she was going to BREAK/CRACK at any min but she never did about 2wks after the funeral we came home and found her in the kitchen floor crying her eyes out no telling how long she had been there.

  • Daisy

    @RTB that is true as well but we are still human and my sister lost a baby as well and I watched her and she didnt fall apart because she had a 1yr old as well but everybody is different. I would not fault a mother for cutting the FOOL for a min or two burying their child sure wouldnt.

  • ReadTheBlog

    Crislex, I love Anatomy too! But it's something a little different about a dressed dead body than a dissected one...

    I know a guy who died in a housefire recently. But they did a good job cleaning him up - even his hair, which was obviously burned off. The only thing was his hands. They were in gloves and clenched. They say whenever someones hands are clenched in death, it's usually not a painless passing.

  • missmiami

    :cosign: @ 65

  • LovelyLady

    rip

  • prettypink

    @missy....I respect that you don't like to see dead bodies...my own mother is like that for the most part. But I think his little girl will be fine. If anything she will be more traumatized by losing him than actually seeing his body. I attended my first funeral at 4, it was my grandfather, and I remember being curious and asking questions. I was even allowed to touch his body. I was not traumatized, simply being a curious child. I lot my own father at 8, and while I did not touch him, I did view his body at both the funeral home and at the church for the funeral. It did not mess me up to see this. To this day, death does not scare me or bother me....it actually losing loved ones that affects me. I think children learn by our examples, and if we teach them to be scared of these things they will. Death is a natural part of the life cycle, and I believe we should not shelter our children from it, especially when it has happened to someone so close to them........At the same time, i do understand not wanting your last memory of someone to be in a casket. But death is so unreal when it is someone close anyway, I think it is good to see for little children so they can understand.

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    @ RTB

    Yea I am weird like that. I used to and still is the kid that would go to rotten dot com or other shock sites that show dead or mangled bodies. I do not look at them for entertainment but to see the body inside and how that person died, or was ti painful or not. I HATE looking at deceased children. CANT STAND IT!! Those are the images that I cry about immediately. I also have a friend that her family runs a funeral home and Ill stop there to say hi and check out the deceased while im there.<<<WEIRDO

  • mirsmommy

    A close friend of mine had a 2 month old daughter that passed away, and I could never judge her for how she mourned at the funeral. She had her grieving moments here and there before the funeral, but the loss really hit her at the funeral. :sad:

    I refuse to go to funerals if I do not have to, because I will always have that memory of the person lying there.

    Even as adults, death is hard to deal with. I'm sure most people understand that everyone will pass one day, but it is natural for the surviving family and friends to grieve in their own way.

  • ReadTheBlog

    The minute we are born, we begin to die, but I don't think we will ever truly understand it - it's the time in between that should be most important.

  • Daisy

    @Mirs :cosign:

    @Cris I dont even watch 1st 48 or CSI I cant deal with all of that. I cover my eyes watching Greys sometimes I cant deal :nono:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ RTB

    WHICH EMAIL SHOULD I BEGIN FLOODING????

  • j.c.

    crislex, i'm that way too. kinda morbid, yes but i just like to examine death like that. :ashamed:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Brown - the VA one :-)

  • Krysi J

    @Cris I dont even watch 1st 48 or CSI I cant deal with all of that. I cover my eyes watching Greys sometimes I cant deal
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    :cosign:

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    @ Daisy

    WHHHAT! First 48 is my show!! I love sitting there cursing out damn people that they interrogate like Im in the room with them lol

  • mirsmommy

    Crislex Says:

    @ Daisy

    WHHHAT! First 48 is my show!! I love sitting there cursing out damn people that they interrogate like Im in the room with them lol
    _______________________________________________________

    :lol: :cosign:

  • Redeemed777

    Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted. May his soul find peace with Christ.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    you have mail

  • Shauny

    Thanks Civil!!

    HEY Missy...I will be on tomorrow to discuss BGC tomorrow...lol

    @Kyrsi I can't stand and don't understand why people take pictures of dead people at funerals either. Really, what's the logic behind that. In the words of Ceddie the Entertainer...I WISH a nicca would pull out a camera and try to snap anyone I care about. It's going to be ugly. We don't play that

    I've seen enough dead bodies to not want to see another one EVER but I know that wont be the case. I've seen a couple of people actually take their last breath (you never forget it). So many young people have died during my life that I averaged a funeral a season. So for me I've seen it and don't like to see it, has nothing to do with not growing up.

  • Daisy

    @RTB my father n sister work at the VA in NC

    @Cris my gfriends love 1st 48 I cant do it I am scared of stuff like that. I dont do any kind of horror or crime mess :nono: again :lol:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    SGT MASON IS MY GIRL!!!!! *with her lisp* "NOW LOOK HERE, WE AINT EVEN FIXIN TO GO THROUGH THIS TODAY. YOU WERE THERE, WE KNOW YOU WERE THERE, WE GOT YOU ON CAMERA AND EYE WITNESSES SO WHAT YOU GONE DO??? YOU GONE BE STRAIGHT UP OR WHAT"!!!!

  • commonswifey

    The first pic is really sad, it looks like she was trying to show him her toy and talk to him :(.When my father died, he looked very nice but I could of done without the casket photos. I was looking through my grandmas photo album and she had his casket pic in there, it just took me back to that horrible day. I think the worst part of a funeral is when they close the casket.I walked out on that part

  • Shauny

    Oh lawd, I have to leave this post. My heart is hurting reading about all of the young deaths while I'm sitting here looking at my little light bulb. I just can't

    Have a good one!!!

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    @ Brown

    I love SGT Mason... People be saying she a bitch but I be like look, she aint sleep in 24 hours or more. she aint get to get her nails and hair did, cause some lying a$$ negros who wanna cover each other butts SHE GONNA GET HER CONFESSION!!

  • ReadTheBlog

    Don't yall ever wish Dr G would show more footage? Those re-enactments are the worst!

  • crzasallgetout

    OFF TOPIC
    Is Intense on medication???

  • commonswifey

    I love the first 48. The so called tough guys always tell on somebody or themselves :lolol:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    HOW IN HAIL SHE GONE RUN IN THEM HEELS IF A GUNFIGHT BREAK OUT! SHE HAVE ON THE SHIRT WITH THE FUR AROUND THE COLOR, ALL HER RINGS AND BANGLES AND SHE WILL BE AT HER DESK CURLIN HER WEAVE!!!! THAT'S A BAD CHICK!

  • j.c.

    :popcorn:

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    @ RTB

    I started watching Dr. G when she did some documentary discussing her autopsies, but when she got her own show and didnt show the real thing and these re-enactments BLEW ME! I stopped watching..

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    SGT MASON IS MY GIRL!!!!! *with her lisp* “NOW LOOK HERE, WE AINT EVEN FIXIN TO GO THROUGH THIS TODAY. YOU WERE THERE, WE KNOW YOU WERE THERE, WE GOT YOU ON CAMERA AND EYE WITNESSES SO WHAT YOU GONE DO??? YOU GONE BE STRAIGHT UP OR WHAT”!!!!
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    :rofl: OMG... You got her down on point!!!!!!!!!!! :rofl:

  • Daisy

    @crza on that note I am gone for the day :rofl:

    Missy and anybody else who watches BGC I will be back on later 2nite to look for yall

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    crzasallgetout Says:

    OFF TOPIC
    Is Intense on medication???
    ___________________________________________________________

    BAAAAWWWWAAAHHHHHHHHH! I SPIT MY WATER OUT! :rofl: :rofl:

  • mirsmommy

    Crislex Says:

    @ Brown

    I love SGT Mason… People be saying she a **** but I be like look, she aint sleep in 24 hours or more. she aint get to get her nails and hair did, cause some lying a$$ negros who wanna cover each other butts SHE GONNA GET HER CONFESSION!!
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    :rofl: How bout the episodes when she be at her desk with her mirror, curling her hair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • j.c.

    bye daisy!

  • aqtpie

    RIP Chris!!!

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    WHAT THE FLEEZY??????? MY COMMENT IS AWAITNG MODERATION

  • crzasallgetout

    @mirsmommy

    I remember that one. What about the one she was at home in her closet with her dog. I had to check the guide to make sure I was watching the right show.

  • mirsmommy

    commonswifey Says:

    I love the first 48. The so called tough guys always tell on somebody or themselves
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    :lol: Did you see Mike Epps' stand up when he was talking about that??? He said something like when they go to commercial, the cops go and get the suspect a Red Lobster meal, cuz every time they come back from commercial, the people always end up telling. :lol:

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    @ Mirs

    YES SHE BE SERIOUS!!! And she does her job well and I be not damn near nutta gonna say something to her when she doing her hair. She always look "red ta go" when they call about a death...

  • mirsmommy

    crzasallgetout Says:

    @mirsmommy

    I remember that one. What about the one she was at home in her closet with her dog. I had to check the guide to make sure I was watching the right show.
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    :lol: Wasn't her house empty as all hell???? It looked like she barely had any furniture!!!!!!!

  • crzasallgetout

    I think that cop with the slickback was a pimp before he was a cop. I can't think of his name.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I am following the same funeral plans as my homegirl Tisha Murphy - no funeral. Funerals are the dumbest ish we do as human being. If you didn't give me flowers while I was living, then no need to pay for a floral spread to lay on top of my grave.

  • Anna

    crzasallgetout Says:

    OFF TOPIC
    Is Intense on medication???
    ~
    Why, because she only has one comment in a room filled with over 100, or what she said? What she said was the "real". How many kids have gone to a family members funeral that was not doing the right thing, always in trouble, it makes those living want to change their ways/lifestyle.

  • crzasallgetout

    @AM
    so what did they do for her?

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    *grabs suspect's hands* "You seem like a good person, you could have went their to talk and things may have gotten escalated and outta control. I understand shyt happens but you'll feel a lot better if you tell the truth. I'm here"

  • commonswifey

    @mirsmommy :lolol: yea,he taped that special here in detroit.alot of times they dont have alot of evidence and the dumb criminals always tell. Then they start shouting and crying about they didnt mean to do it.

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    lmoa @ Brown

    We obviously watch this show too much.. and I CANT STAND JUST WHEN THEY BOUT TO CONFESS......... they go to commercial..

  • crzasallgetout

    @ Anna
    neither. Because she is ALWAYS on the defense. She gives off the confrontational vibe IMO. I couldn't get past the "grow up folks" part to even read the rest.

  • commonswifey

    My mom told me if she dies to cremate her and have a nice memorial service.Not the kind of conversation I wanted to have but it is reality, especially when you already lost one parent

  • mirsmommy

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    *grabs suspect’s hands* “You seem like a good person, you could have went their to talk and things may have gotten escalated and outta control. I understand shyt happens but you’ll feel a lot better if you tell the truth. I’m here”
    _________________________________________________________

    :lol: Yes, and as soon as they tell, she's like, "Well, you're being charged for FIRST DEGREE MURDER", and their slapping the cuffs on em, and walkin em to the elevator. :lol:

  • ReadTheBlog

    Intense need to be :hump: real good, or a good boo-boo, cause she got some pent up frustrations from way down deep inside.
    #noshade :rofl:

  • crzasallgetout

    I love the dudes that hold out. I'M WRONG I KNOW but I do. That one episode where the dude had like 50/11 kids and they thought one of his daughters killed him was a mess. He was a true pimp

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    all right peeps I'm out! A-REE-VA-DARE-CHAY!!!!

  • commonswifey

    :lolol: @RTB

  • crzasallgetout

    @rtb
    It's something. I wasn't picking but all of her post have something negative about the women on here. It's disturbing. haha. ok maybe not

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    I FEEL ALOT OF ANGER WHEN I READ HER POSTS

  • mirsmommy

    crzasallgetout Says:

    I love the dudes that hold out. I’M WRONG I KNOW but I do. That one episode where the dude had like 50/11 kids and they thought one of his daughters killed him was a mess. He was a true pimp
    __________________________________________________

    :blink: What???? I missed that episode!!!! I like the ones that hold out, too. :ashamed: Don't judge... :lol:

    I like watching shows like this, becuase it shows how some people don't value human life.

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    bye Brown...

    I just starting posting on this site but I am wondering about people Sandra let on here. They dont take their medication before they turn on their PC.

  • ReadTheBlog

    :peace: Brown!
    :ditto: Crislex!

  • ReadTheBlog

    I guess Imma make up my own emoctions :shrug:

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    *sidenote*

    I didnt know chick from ANTM Nik is a baby momma????? AWW man I liked her

  • gypsyeyes

    ok on utube there is a guy that is at his own funeral standing up. No lie. Please look it up.

  • Anna

    crzasallgetout Says:

    @ Anna
    neither. Because she is ALWAYS on the defense. She gives off the confrontational vibe IMO. I couldn’t get past the “grow up folks” part to even read the rest.
    ~~~~~~
    :lol: are you new? Insense can make valid points and I have found to just read her comment. If nothing else sometimes she can start a whole new post w/in a Post.

  • Krysi J

    OFF TOPIC
    Is Intense on medication???
    ---------------------------------------

    that answer will probably be a no.

  • Anna

    gypsyeyes Says:

    ok on utube there is a guy that is at his own funeral standing up. No lie. Please look it up.
    ~~~~~~
    Is he Mexican or Light Skindeded, Sandra had a post last year about him.

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    DEAD @ Krysi...opps maybe I shouldn't say dead in this post... recants: LMAO @ krysi

  • kcicero

    This is so sad! My heart hurts for those kids. I think about death on a constant. It's not about this world but the hereafter. I really don't have any feelings either way about seeing the dead at a funeral since I've been to so many from a young age. Growing up in the projects will do that :(

  • crzasallgetout

    Yep I'm new. She makes valid points but the added stuff throws me off. But then again I can't deal with someone saying " you're a dumb weak wife that will stay with your cheating husband" and then turn around and say some philosophical stuff. They don't go.

    @krysi
    thanks. :)

  • Krysi J

    DEAD @ Krysi…opps maybe I shouldn’t say dead in this post… recants: LMAO @ krysi
    --------------------------------------------------------

    we ain right on dis bytch ... :rofl: LMAO!

  • crzasallgetout

    oops I forgot to post ON topic.
    I said I would never go to another funeral since the last one I attended the dudes brother LITERALLY picked him up of the casket!! That was enough for me.

  • Krysi J

    I can’t deal with someone saying ” you’re a dumb weak wife that will stay with your cheating husband” and then turn around and say some philosophical stuff. They don’t go.
    ------------------------------------------------------------

    :rofl:

    AJAKIUHDIUHNSAKJSAKJAHGAGAGAGHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

  • pointhimout

    just looks asleep to me. sad nonetheless. has the fiance ever said what really happened? did she realize he was on the back and sped up, or suddenly slowed down to throw him off?

  • http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

    @crzasallgetout

    You will soon learn the psychological issue with Intense. I am new or some what as well and I have got a small debate with her. I tried to give her therapy and she didn't want it. And the site did not want to put in a collection plate to pay her deductible for her sessions with a therapist. She called us dumb hoes who will try and control a man and her and her CAPS disappeared.

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    @ Pointhimout

    I don't think the truth will ever come out. Just a sad accident.

  • missy

    Okay folks I am back

    @Daisy-I will try and be on to talk about BGC :crossesfingers:

    @Shauny-see you tomorrow about the BGC discussion

    Oh an I don't have a problem with children going to a funeral ....I don't think they should go to see the dead body....but to each its own.....

    I am gone for a few min. and y'all cuttin up in here......I will :pray: for y'all ....

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @crzasallgetout, Cremation and a small memorial for family and three close friends. That's all folks.

  • MOUTH

    @Shauny
    I’ve seen a couple of people actually take their last breath
    _____________

    I would be snitting bricks. WTF

  • Krysi J

    You will soon learn the psychological issue with Intense. I am new or some what as well and I have got a small debate with her. I tried to give her therapy and she didn’t want it. And the site did not want to put in a collection plate to pay her deductible for her sessions with a therapist. She called us dumb hoes who will try and control a man and her and her CAPS disappeared.

    ---------------------------------------------------------

    :rofl:

    FLATLINED......_______________________

  • mirsmommy

    gypsyeyes Says:

    ok on utube there is a guy that is at his own funeral standing up. No lie. Please look it up
    _____________________________________________________

    I saw that some time ago. It was a Spanish guy, right?

  • gypsyeyes

    Yes, it was a Puerto Rican man that planned his funeral at 24. It was crazy, sorry I was late on that. How have y'all managed to talk this long about dead people. This convo is so morbid. But on the lighter side, remember in the movie Kingdom Come and the daddy was dad and he had on those ballet slippers because he died with his toes pointed. Now that is some funny shiat!!! :rofl:

  • mirsmommy

    I wonder how Chris Henry's family is treating his fiance after this has happened. Are they blaming her, do they feel as though it was an accident, etc. I wonder..... :shrugs:

  • mirsmommy

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Yes, it was a Puerto Rican man that planned his funeral at 24. It was crazy, sorry I was late on that. How have y’all managed to talk this long about dead people. This convo is so morbid. But on the lighter side, remember in the movie Kingdom Come and the daddy was dad and he had on those ballet slippers because he died with his toes pointed. Now that is some funny shiat!!!
    __________________________________________________

    It's effed up when a 24 year old plans his funeral. :sad: I can't remember how he died. Wasn't he murdered??

  • Anna

    crzasallgetout Says:

    Yep I’m new. She makes valid points but the added stuff throws me off. But then again I can’t deal with someone saying ” you’re a dumb weak wife that will stay with your cheating husband” and then turn around and say some philosophical stuff. They don’t go
    ~~~~
    She uses the name INTENSE, it takes guts, and knowing who you are to do that, (or somebody done told you), she knows who she is and fore the most part I read what she types and know before I am done reading her comment it going to turn.

  • crzasallgetout

    @anna
    See that's not guts to me. That's a shit starter. LOL. But to each its own. Sorta sad to be that "intense" i.e. angry all the time.

  • gypsyeyes

    All I know is that they found him under a bridge. Considering he planned his own funeral he couldn't have lived a perfect life. I mean who plans a funeral if you are not sick or part of the street life.
    **********************************************************
    Did anyone see that Alyssa Milano portrayed "Snooki" the chick from Jersey Shore in a photo? That was hilarious. I'm just glad that it is not just us acting a fool.

  • http://myspace.com/theflyestmom Nekita

    @ #60....... I actually saw some more pics. The baby was standing by the casket drawing hearts and showing them to her daddy. I mean I really cried when I realized it was hearts. Poor children.......... RIP Chris!

  • Daisy

    :rofl: and :pray: at the same time

    I cant I just cant get sucked in :nono:

    That scene from Kingdom Come was funny as HAIL why did he have on ballet shoes LOL

  • gypsyeyes

    @Daisy- His toes were pointing and they couldn't get any other shoes on his feet. I have to also talk about the play "Meet the Browns" and they was at Pop Brown's funeral and he was singing "Silent Night".

  • Daisy

    YES the Silent Night scene was FUNNY as well lol

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    Wow, it is being reported Henry's fiancee/babies mama spoke at the funeral.

  • Leesa

    I can't believe someone took a pic of him in the casket. I can't lie they did a good job. :-/

  • ladedj1819

    so sad i know he will be truly missed

  • Necelove

    I know he shouldn't have jumped on a moving truck but I really don't understand how she didn't hear him jump on the truck then disappear! Something is strange there. RIP Chris. Another Athlete gone by the mist of a woman. So sad.