Loyal reader Shari J. Flynn took issue with the comments under this picture of Oscar winner Jennifer Hudson in a post I wrote yesterday. I totally agree with her assessment that there is nothing wrong with Jennifer Hudson's body. The majority of you must be physically perfect with no flaws the way you talk about others. At some point you will all have cellulite and wrinkles if you live long enough. There is no avoiding it. You can laugh at the physical flaws of others today, but in the end Nature will have the last laugh on you.

I'm not saying you can't express your opinions, but the challenge is in finding a tactful way to do so.

Shari writes:

I think it is amazing that I read so much criticism and judgement about Jennifer Hudson's body in a swinsuit. So often I read comments on your site of how people want to see pictures of real women and how they are not represented and all of these women have fake plastic bodies, but when we see pictures of a real woman with curves and a little cellulite then it is a problem. Most women have cellulite... it is a genetic problem most of the time and has little to do with weight. This was never a small woman to begin with so to continue to analyze, criticize, and judge her body is a waste of time. She looks great even amazing. She is what most REAL women look like! It is about time we see something other than the plastic OR anorexic bodies that Hollywood is filled with!

Shari J. Flynn
Doctor of Pharmacy Candidate 2011

Thanks Shari!

  • ksmommy05

    Agreed. It's easy to laugh at someone when you're hiding behind a computer monitor. She looks fine.

  • Mahogany03

    There's nothing wrong with Jen's pic. I'm younger than her and I wish I had the courage to rock a bathing suit in public. Jen is REAL woman who just had a kid not too long ago. Leave her alone!

  • VIBABY

    Thank you Shari :clap: The only issue I had and didnt even bother posting was her boobies were not supported. Other than that, :shrug:

  • FloridaChick813

    She's a beautiful woman! Beautiful smile! Beautiful personality.. and lets not forget that the girl can put goose bumps on your arms from her voice..

    ...and I am telling you... :whistle:

  • Bella

    What's the problem with her body? We're not the ones F***ing her so why is it even an issue?

    Not everyone is a size 6. And yes, she still looks good and better than a lot of smaller women. I don't get it. SMH

  • http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

    Agreed. I didn't read the comments on that particular post. I am one to make my feelings known about pictures, but I love JHud and never a negative word shall leave my lips about her.

  • Lala11_7

    Auntie Says: I’m not saying you can’t express your opinions, but the challenge is in finding a tactful way to do so.

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    Dear Auntie...PLEASE pratice what you just preached regarding our President...THANK YOU!!! Other than that...I wish I was where J-Hud is RIGHT NOW!!! (Of course, if I were, I would be sportin' a "phony pony"...human hair of course)!!! LOL!!!

  • KayCeiSoul

    ***My REPOST from yesterday***

    I ADORE Jen for the following;

    A. Pursuing her dream and making it happen. It takes a lot of courage. (That goes for her and her husband. Do what you want to do, isn’t that what we teach our kids? Dream and pursue it?!)

    B. Being a strong sister in spite of her challenges.

    C. Not falling in to the Hollywood facade regarding her body - EVERYBODY was not meant to be a 2, with perfectly toned thighs, abs, boobs etc. Everyone in the industry is not an eye-candy model. She is representing what the majority of sisters look like FOREAL, without the extras, even though she can probably afford to get them.

    D. She’s a work in progress. There will always be something for someone to point out about everyone. Sad, but true. Her man knows enough about physical fitness to help get her together. Like another poster said, I have seen some straight foolishness on the beach, and she looks like a butterfly compared to the dried and fried prunes I’ve seen.

    Back to sporadically popping in. Got a meeting. Miss y’all much.

  • Bella

    Forgot to add- I'm thin and I have cellulite. So to all the critics, I guess I should go kill myself huh. LOL. My man doesn't care about cellulite and neither do I!

  • intensemocha

    GOD BLESS HER-SHE'S LOOKS LIKE SHE IS ENJOYING SOME FREE TIME AFTER "HAVING A BABY"

    HER MAN DOESN'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT-WHAT MAKES PEOPLE THINK SHE'S CONCERNED OR EVEN CARES ABOUT THEIR OPINION OF HER??

    LOL-EXACTLY

  • MizzLeelee

    AGREED!!!

  • M3z

    Agreed! Let's stop tearing down our beautiful black women. I mean nobody is perfect. It's easier to see the thorn in others eyes while you have a log in yours..a la Jesus

  • http://myspace.com/foxybrown411 LADYWOODS

    Co sign...

  • RachelRachel

    I guarantee you that MOST of the negative comments about Jennifer's body is coming from women who look much worse nude. I guarantee you! Self hate is so very typical of women who buy fake hair, fake nails, fake tits, fake arse and a fake life style for your fake Brains.

  • CHARBEE1

    M3z Says:
    Agreed! Let’s stop tearing down our beautiful black women. I mean nobody is perfect. It’s easier to see the thorn in others eyes while you have a log in yours..a la Jesus

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    I so agree with you.

  • Danielle84

    I totally agree! Most would think everyone on here was a beautiful supermodel the way "some" people on here talk about others! Its one thing to critique a style of dress but to attack someone's face or body is out of order! IMO

  • mirsmommy

    I agree with you Sandra, but I also think you should practice what you preach. :wink: Didn't you also go in on Rhianna about her having cellulite in a pic you posted of her? :shrugs:

    I love JHud, and I 'm also very proud of her for not falling victim to the "industry". :yes: She also does not need to be a size 2, with a fake a**, and boobs, cuz she has real talent.

  • LovelyLady

    :popcorn:

  • Natasha

    :cosign:
    :woot:

  • Daisy

    Morning,

    I went back and re read that post and there were NOT that many negative comments about her body size/celly. There were a few BUT there were also ppl who defended her/gave her props as well so I think this loyal reader wanted to see if Auntie would give her a post and it worked :coffee:

    I don't have celly and neither does my mama so I :pray: I dont get any but I am a gym rat who is always fighting the lil bit of fat I do have! I see skinny women at the gym with celly and Kim K is forever talking about hers so is Tyra so it does and can happen to the best of us!

  • Daisy

    Hey Lovely *waves*

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    mirsmommy Says:
    I agree with you Sandra, but I also think you should practice what you preach. Didn’t you also go in on Rhianna about her having cellulite in a pic you posted of her?

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    I don't recall going in on Rihanna for having cellulite. :coffee:

  • cheeks8683

    Morning all!!! Yep, that's why I did not participate in roasting J Hud yesterday...heck I won't even put on a bathing suit lol. My hateraide is strictly aimed towards out of order outfits/hair styles/ and plastic surgery gone wrong (i.e. lil kim)...and of course people who act foolish such as jumpoffs and such, oh and people that make x-rated comments on the wall on subjects that are random (last week lol)...

  • LovelyLady

    Hey Dasiy :-D

  • http://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

    Getouttamyhead @ Daisy. I was just getting ready to say the same thing. The general consensus in that post was she was beautiful and comfortable in her skin. C'mon Sandra.

  • Anna

    cheeks8683 Says:

    Morning all!!! Yep, that’s why I did not participate in roasting J Hud yesterday…heck I won’t even put on a bathing suit lol. My hateraide is strictly aimed towards out of order outfits/hair styles/ and plastic surgery gone wrong (i.e. lil kim)…and of course people who act foolish such as jumpoffs and such, oh and people that make x-rated comments on the wall on subjects that are random (last week lol)…
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    Ditto. Many comments on that post was about David and his career choice.

  • Mahogany03

    I agree with you Sandra, but I also think you should practice what you preach. :wink: Didn’t you also go in on Rhianna about her having cellulite in a pic you posted of her? :shrugs:

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    I think Sandra actually praised Rihanna for being a "real" woman & may have even said that those pics were photoshopped. However, she did roast Beyonce (I think) for not keeping it real & making people believe that she has the perfect body :lol:

  • terika83

    I agree....I wouldn't expect J Hud's body to be perfect anyway cause she doesn't do all the plastic stuff. I'm not gonna say she can NEVER wear a bathing suit or go swimming because she's not fully toned. Not like she has on a bikini.

  • mirsmommy

    Sandra Rose Says:

    mirsmommy Says:
    I agree with you Sandra, but I also think you should practice what you preach. Didn’t you also go in on Rhianna about her having cellulite in a pic you posted of her?

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    I don’t recall going in on Rihanna for having cellulite.
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    :ashamed: Okay, okay, you might be right. I had to hit up your archives for that. I also forgot that you would defend Rhianna no matter what. :lol: But back when you used to tear Keri Hilson down, you did have something to say about her not having an a**, though. And we all know, if Keri Hilson had a fake a**, you would go in like you do on your homegirl, Nikki Minaj. :lol:

    Soooo, even though Keri Hilson is skinny, and JHud is a full figured woman, shouldn't they both be proud of their natural bodies?

  • mirsmommy

    Mahogany03 Says:

    I agree with you Sandra, but I also think you should practice what you preach. Didn’t you also go in on Rhianna about her having cellulite in a pic you posted of her?

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    I think Sandra actually praised Rihanna for being a “real” woman & may have even said that those pics were photoshopped. However, she did roast Beyonce (I think) for not keeping it real & making people believe that she has the perfect body
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    :lol: Yeah, I had to go back and do my research after Sandra's comment, and I do have to admit, as much as I hate it, Sandra did not roast her. :lol:

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    I didn't see anything wrong with the pic yesterday or today (as I commented yesterday). Jen has an average body and I've seen much worse on the beach. Much.

  • chase

    I did not go in on her, I am proud of her...she looks like me after I had my son in 2007!!!

    If she had lost every single pound and then some, people would be going in on her for losing to much weight and how she was not being true to herself..

    Damned if you do and damned if you don't.... Do u Jennifer, u have been through a lot..

  • FloridaChick813

    Damned if you do and damned if you don’t….
    _______________________

    :cosign:

  • ReadTheBlog

    I'm not a big girl, but I see nothing wrong with the picture, either. She had a baby less than a year ago, and she's never been a skinny woman. I think she looks like most black women.

    There's worse, you know :-D

  • SangriaSugar

    I think JHud looks great...I'm glad she isn't a size non-existent! Go look at that pic of Donatella V. on the beach...it was wrong on so many levels.

  • Itsnotboutme

    THis is what most women look like medium sized and full figured.Even though nowadays full figured isn't really full figured..Since when is a size 10 full figured

  • Itsnotboutme

    Do I have to earn my opportunity to change the crying baby from my profile :lol:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    I was about to comment on the cellulite yesterday but I didn't i just said I digress. I don't recall people goin in on her because of her size. So Shari was wrong in that aspect. Most of us felt she should tone up some before she put that suit on and I will stand by how I feel! I know for a fact I need to tone up big time before I get back in a suit and just like I don't like seein it on me I don't like seein it on other people! Sandra you had to know we were gonna comment on the cellulite as much as we notice even the smallest thing in a pic so you shouldn't be surprised. You used to dog out Keri Hilson and then when you saw she gave you a shout out all of a sudden she's sexy! None of us are perfect and we all have flaws but you know when you post a pic we are gonna disect that pic.

  • KaraZ

    She seems to have all her baby weight, because she looks smaller than her pre-baby size to me. I didn't think there were any extremely rude comments in yesterday's post, perhaps future PharmD (really did she have to put her future degree in her signature :rolleyes: ) Shari needs to stop taking Tylenol for JHud's non-existent headache.

  • Timika7

    Lost at how everyone can say how good Jhud looks in her bathing suit, but attack Fantasia in hers.
    *Blank stare*

  • in2wishon

    There have been lots of other things said worse about other celebrity's on this blog......whats the big to comment on jennifer's body....sandra critizied beyonce for her cellulite.....whats the difference.....

  • Tasha

    Jennifer is beautiful! She just had a baby and she looks better than alot. Her man aint complaining so that's all that matters. I'm happy for her. We all have some type of flaw, right?

  • Anna

    Timika7 Says:

    Lost at how everyone can say how good Jhud looks in her bathing suit, but attack Fantasia in hers.
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    We have seen Fannie smaller before.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    I have to dissent. Jennifer Hudson chose to be a performer. She should be in the best physical shape because her career depends on it. Does she have to look an anorexic? Of course, not. But she does have the resources to lose the extra weight. Stop making excuses for her.

  • mirsmommy

    in2wishon Says:

    There have been lots of other things said worse about other celebrity’s on this blog……whats the big to comment on jennifer’s body….sandra critizied beyonce for her cellulite…..whats the difference…..
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    :-o That's who it was!!!! It was Bey-Nappy that Sandra went in on about cellulite. Thanks in2wishon. I knew Sandra went in on somebody about cellulite, and I thought it was Rhianna, but it was Bey-Nappy. :lol:

  • KaraZ

    Seriously by the looks of this picture, JHud has less cellulite than Venus Williams who is in top physical shape, so why would anyone be complaining about her cellulite. Also her stomach is significantly flatter than before she had the baby, I don't know why anyone would want to give this chick a hard time about her weight or body. Truth be told, Jen looks better than she has looked in a loooong time. That being said, nobody rode her hard yesterday.

  • s_johnson07

    @BROWNSUGAPOET

    I was about to comment on the cellulite yesterday but I didn’t i just said I digress. I don’t recall people goin in on her because of her size. So Shari was wrong in that aspect. Most of us felt she should tone up some before she put that suit on and I will stand by how I feel! I know for a fact I need to tone up big time before I get back in a suit and just like I don’t like seein it on me I don’t like seein it on other people! Sandra you had to know we were gonna comment on the cellulite as much as we notice even the smallest thing in a pic so you shouldn’t be surprised. You used to dog out Keri Hilson and then when you saw she gave you a shout out all of a sudden she’s sexy! None of us are perfect and we all have flaws but you know when you post a pic we are gonna disect that pic.
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    YOU feel that she should tone up before she puts on a bathing suit? Why should it matter to her what you "feel"? Are you paying her bills? Are you sleeping with her every night? As a matter of fact, why don't you put an entire body shot of yourself on the internet and let society and their standard's point out all of your flaws, all of the things that are unattractive about you, how your body type is SUB par, how you need to take care that acne & skin discoloration, how you need to lose 50 pounds, how you need to get rhinoplasty, how you need to get a breast lift, how your waistline should be smaller, etc etc. If you don't like those things (or dissections as you sadly put it) and if you don't like society imposing a false standard of "beauty", stop being HYPOCRITICAL because that is exactly what you are doing. Imposing how YOU believe someone should look. Who cares if you don't like seeing it on other people. Who are you? TRUST boo, they will continue to do them and you know why? Because it's THEIR life and it is what makes them HAPPY. So go ahead prepare to frown and become embittered & miserable for the rest of your life because there are going to be PLENTY of more things you don't like seeing on other people.

    Question?? Didn't think so...

  • kwall

    she still need a swimsuit with a better built in bra.

    :coffee:

  • s_johnson07

    @attorneymom

    Jennifer Hudson came into this industry with her body type. She's done some AMAZING things, shared her talent in music and film, won many many awards, she's in a solid relationship most certainly, she is a mother. Why should she have to change now? For whom should she change? Don't worry, I'll wait............

  • kwall

    never said anything about her body. which looks actually good after a baby and i know she had been trying to workout prior to baby. she'll lose it in due time.

  • FloridaChick813

    kwall Says:

    she still need a swimsuit with a better built in bra.
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    Now I must say, I do agree with that

  • VIBABY

    lol @ Kwall...that was my post. Aint nothing wrong with a lil support :)

  • mirsmommy

    :popcorn:

  • kwall

    that was the ONLY thing i said yesterday at 48 and 49...i got skipped on the heavy chested gene (not all flat either) but the ladies in my family who DID have it..pull out the big guns so to speak in the support department. lol. my mom and aunties will drop big money on good bras, get swimsuits customized etc. my aunt said once that a good bra changed her LIFE.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    @s_johson, unless she wants to be type cast in Effe-like role for the remainder of her career, she better up her game and stop acting like she is slow when people talk to her.

  • in2wishon

    No one said anything about her weight, no one said she was fat..needed to loose 50 pounds..none of that....the comments were about her cellulite.....what's the big fu**in deal....she has cellulite and it should be toned up.....yea i said it!

  • gypsyeyes

    Let me tell you I love the water and if I was going to not do something based on other's peoples feelings I wouldn't even go outside. I understand that she chose to be in this industry but if she is happy then let her be happy. I have the self esteem of a size six chick with 18-20 body. I'm 6 feet tall and if I must say so myself I carry it well. I'm toned and healthy. I could use more exercising in my day but until then if I want to wear a bathing suit I'm going to wear what I feel beautiful in. J-Hud must be feeling beautiful and feels validated by herself. Some people don't wait for validation from someone they go by how they feel when they look in the mirror. All I can say is that "I'm beautiful damnit".

  • pinky2083

    Well tell them how you really feel s_johnson07. Lol.

    Like I said yesterday I think she looks great!!!!

  • pinky2083

    @in2wishon, some people cannot get rid of cellulite no matter how much they workout..

  • heavn_sent

    @ s_johnson07..U must be new here. Don't waste your time..seriously.
    The only negatve comments I saw from yesterday were from Civil talking about her hairline (plz don't get me started on "men" that gossip..or get on blogs and talk about people).
    Sandra is just being messy..AS USUAL.

  • KaraZ

    s_johnson, Voltron, defender of the Universe... the thing is Jennifer Hudson chose this career path, she sought out the limelight and criticism of everything comes with the territory; so if a member of the general public openly criticizes her, its not that they're being hypocritical or hypercritical, it's just what comes with the territory of being a celebrity.

  • FloridaChick813

    my mom and aunties will drop big money on good bras, get swimsuits customized etc. my aunt said once that a good bra changed her LIFE.
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    My mom got me into good bra's ASAP and I dont even have tig ol' bitties like that..

    But support is a MUST.. It def. enhances the shape of the breast.

  • FloridaChick813

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Let me tell you I love the water and if I was going to not do something based on other’s peoples feelings I wouldn’t even go outside. I understand that she chose to be in this industry but if she is happy then let her be happy. I have the self esteem of a size six chick with 18-20 body. I’m 6 feet tall and if I must say so myself I carry it well. I’m toned and healthy. I could use more exercising in my day but until then if I want to wear a bathing suit I’m going to wear what I feel beautiful in. J-Hud must be feeling beautiful and feels validated by herself. Some people don’t wait for validation from someone they go by how they feel when they look in the mirror. All I can say is that “I’m beautiful damnit”.
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    PREACH!

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    @ s_johnson07
    I voiced my opinion on how I felt along with a few others who said they felt she needed to tone up!
    And since you went into detail about acne, skin discolorations, body bein sub par etc apparently some one must have said that about you at some point because your azz is a little too emotional about the topic. How am I being a hypocrite because I said what I believe! I said I had the same problem she has so how the fuck is that being a hypocrite! The last time I checked I didn't say anything about "society imposing a false standard of beauty" in my comment so where you got that from I don't know. If you're gonna comment on what I say make sure you SAY EXACTLY what I said and don't add, take away, paraphrase or try to sum up shyt because then you get shyt twisted! So why I'm sure you'd like to think that I'm bitter and miserable you are far from wrong. When you make the decision to get in the entertainment field you know people are gonna look at you are lot more closer than the average person because you are in the public eye so you can take that high morale road bullshyt somewhere else darkness! Just like every other pic Sandra posts I am gonna comment on and chances are they will never see or care what I say but I still have the right to my opinion. So why don't you release the lock jaw from J-Hud's nuts and relax!

  • in2wishon

    AND I QUOTE FROM WHAT SANDRA WHAT SAID ABOUT BEYONCE:

    A few loyal readers emailed me a challenge to post this pic of Rihanna leaving a London area nightclub after dancing for hours last night. Obviously she’s a little tired and her muscles are sagging in some areas. Yet my loyal readers insists this is cellulite.
    Obviously these are Beyonce Stans who objected to my posts on Beyonce’s cellulite problem . The two don’t compare since rumor has it that Bey is pushing 38 while Rihanna is only 20. When was the last time you saw cellulite on a 20-year-old? Some of you are really reaching.

    THEN THIS IS HER POST ON BEYONCE.......

    Loyal reader Kelly sent us this pic of Beyonce performing during the EMAs. Her scanty corset couldn’t hide Bey’s cellulite. Beyonce’s cellulite contradicts her claims that she works out regularly. I don’t see where she works out, but I’m not a Beyonce Stan so I really would hardly notice.

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    KaraZ Says:

    s_johnson, Voltron, defender of the Universe :rofl: :rofl:

  • gypsyeyes

    Thanks @Florida. Who knows what someones comfortability level is. It's how they feel at that time.
    Hey Brownsuga!!! *waving hard so you can't see anyone but me in a crowd of cellulite*

  • in2wishon

    So its ok for readers to challenge Rihanna's cottage cheese but not Jennifer's...please....she's no exception

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Hey Gypsy!!!!

  • mirsmommy

    :popcorn: Anyone?

  • mirsmommy

    What's for lunch? I'm hungry. :lol:

  • gypsyeyes

    Hey Mirsmommy-one of my classes got cancelled today and the kids are downstairs at the sitter's who happens to be my aunt. I took my shoes off at the bottom of the steps and sneaked up so that I could enjoy my lobster bisque and salad alone. I can relax until 2:30pm is what I thought but I just got the phone call that I have been caught.

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy Says:

    What’s for lunch? I’m hungry.
    ___________________

    You and me both.. But I need something light, cause I had a case of food poisoning over the weekend and still havent fully recooperated.. :rolleyes:

  • FloridaChick813

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Thanks @Florida. Who knows what someones comfortability level is. It’s how they feel at that time.
    __________________

    I agree!!! Plus, confidence is key..

  • cheeks8683

    hey brown....did u cool off yet? :)

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    cheeks I'm fine girl, gettin ready to leave for the day in about 20 minutes

  • mirsmommy

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Hey Mirsmommy-one of my classes got cancelled today and the kids are downstairs at the sitter’s who happens to be my aunt. I took my shoes off at the bottom of the steps and sneaked up so that I could enjoy my lobster bisque and salad alone. I can relax until 2:30pm is what I thought but I just got the phone call that I have been caught.
    __________________________________________________________

    :rofl: See what happens when you don't wanna share. :lol:

    My 3 year old called me out on not sharing. :lol: I had some chips, and he asked me for some, and I told him, No. My baby stomped his foot and said "SHARE". I couldn't stop laughin.

  • mirsmommy

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    mirsmommy Says:

    What’s for lunch? I’m hungry.
    ___________________

    You and me both.. But I need something light, cause I had a case of food poisoning over the weekend and still havent fully recooperated..
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    :-o My Dad, and little brother were sick with a stomach virus over the weekend. Feel better.

  • FloridaChick813

    BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

    cheeks I’m fine girl, gettin ready to leave for the day in about 20 minutes
    __________________

    Lucky you

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy Says:

    gypsyeyes Says:

    Hey Mirsmommy-one of my classes got cancelled today and the kids are downstairs at the sitter’s who happens to be my aunt. I took my shoes off at the bottom of the steps and sneaked up so that I could enjoy my lobster bisque and salad alone. I can relax until 2:30pm is what I thought but I just got the phone call that I have been caught.
    __________________________________________________________

    See what happens when you don’t wanna share.

    My 3 year old called me out on not sharing. I had some chips, and he asked me for some, and I told him, No. My baby stomped his foot and said “SHARE”. I couldn’t stop laughin.
    ____________________

    Who you tellin??

    One day I said a curse word and my 6 year old son said "Practice what you preach mommy!!!! No bad words!!!!" :lolol:

  • BROWNSUGAPOET

    Yall have a nice day. I'm out

  • FloridaChick813

    mirsmommy Says:

    FloridaChick813 Says:

    mirsmommy Says:

    What’s for lunch? I’m hungry.
    ___________________

    You and me both.. But I need something light, cause I had a case of food poisoning over the weekend and still havent fully recooperated..
    ________________________________________________________

    My Dad, and little brother were sick with a stomach virus over the weekend. Feel better.
    ____________

    Thanks Lady -- Im trying

  • SangriaSugar

    @ Kwall, your aunt is right...a good bra always makes me feel better so I don't mind breaking out the wallet!!

  • luvly1957

    ok tried to not comment but Sandra u da pot callin da kettle BLACK as they say, who besides Tiny and Monica have u NOT talked about on ur site.. Beyawnce, Vivica and LisaRaye til she called you. Hell, ur whole site is nothing but u talking about ppl (jay-Z, trey songz) give me a break...

  • CivilEngineer

    heavn_sent Says:

    @ s_johnson07..U must be new here. Don’t waste your time..seriously.
    The only negatve comments I saw from yesterday were from Civil talking about her hairline (plz don’t get me started on “men” that gossip..or get on blogs and talk about people).
    Sandra is just being messy..AS USUAL.
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    Yep...made TWO ( :-O ) comments about her hair sliding back. It's a blog, get the f*ck over it!

  • mirsmommy

    Let me get my :popcorn: ready.

    Hey Civil :lol:

  • ms_tootie

    Sandra your the one talk talk cause you do the same thang. the pic you posted of bey in the red get up. You were all over her talking bout her cellulite. You need to stop it. Your the main one.

  • CivilEngineer

    Hey @mirs...no :popcorn: necessary, this is DONE!! :yes:

  • KrayZKat

    Excellent comment, Shari!
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    M3z Says:

    Agreed! Let’s stop tearing down our beautiful black women. I mean nobody is perfect. It’s easier to see the thorn in others eyes while you have a log in yours..a la Jesus

    I cosign 100%!!!

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    People who criticize a lot are usually very insecure. People are always calling others judgmental when they are the target of the judgement, yet some of them are the biggest judgmental people around. The manner in which we judge will also be given back to us the same measure. Man looks at the outward appearance, God looks at the heart. We'd be in a better place if we followed that example.

  • heavn_sent

    Awwww man..I missed this before he left the room!

  • mirsmommy

    CivilEngineer Says:

    Hey @mirs…no necessary, this is DONE!!
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    :lol: Awww man, I was lookin forward to a midday snack. :lol:

  • heavn_sent

    Feel free to cut and paste: GOSSIPING IS A FEMALE TRAIT!!!!!

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    I agree. I saw this story on several sites and didn't even have a comment because they look like such a normal couple. What can you say about that?

  • CivilEngineer

    Class over....and if gossiping is a female trait then being athletic is very masculine, therefore all female athletes must be gender confused!

    Hell I have more of a right to be critical of a woman then you do...I'm a man! Women are my thing! It's dumb to think that men don't have opinions...maybe that's true under the rock you crawled out of :shrugs: I stand by what I said...end of!

    I hate when people come to a GOSSIP blog with one-sided, ignorant azz opinions but it's a free country for idiots too!

    Too harsh?

  • heavn_sent

    You're right..obviously it's a free country for idiots..and bamas..and b!@#$-ass men too! Yes, men do have opinions, but usually they share them with other men..or even people they actually know! How many of your 'boys' blog..ON A GOSSIP site! LOL..u're funny. Gee, I miss goat and elove..men who actually had comments on topics as opposed to what who is wearing and who looks like what.
    Get your jollies off at these broads that ride your jock if u like, but check the facts homey..you are a minority because real men could give a damn about Beyonce's weave (her body ofcourse!) anything less screams :homoswitch: or more accurately: PUNK.
    And FTR, my opinions aren't one-sided..Negativity is a disease.

  • CivilEngineer

    :rofl: I'm glad you wrote the book on what is to be a man...obviously you must live life as one! Untuck your balls from now on because you have some nerve trying to dictate what I comment on.

    Glad to know I have a fan since you obviously hang on every comment I make on here. I think you've written something about me before...you need me to send you some of my boxers? (you can sniff 'em or wear 'em) Get a f*ckin life and don't worry about what I say in my comments...again this is a BLOG. I'm here for a laugh, that is all!

  • kwall

    dayum. i hope this doesn't push you to leave us civil. don't go. some of us value your man point of view. i know i am one.

  • CivilEngineer

    Naw @kwall...it'll take more than that. And thanks!! I'm glad to know someone wants to hear (read) what I have to say.

    I don't think we're e-beefing, just having a discussion.

  • heavn_sent

    Ummmm..read back Boo..I wrote on what a man isn't, not what he is. But since you obviously are clueless, I guess you wouldn't get that. And FTR, no neither one of us lives as a man..me or you. I wrote from a woman's POV. Like I said, perhaps they appreciate your comments, but I can't believe that any woman (fan club or not) would be happy to say, "yeah girl, my man be bloggin on Sandra Rose." Chile, bye. Heck take a poll if u like. A lot of the posters are married..have boyfriends. You get so much love because you, my friend, are the "only". Yes, there are other men here and there, but they apparently have more important stuff to do..How sad for you. Unless, that is, u are actually using this as a ploy to meet women. Now that I could see, it would still be almost as pathetic, but atleast understandable. Ok, Ok..I'm done. It's late. I only came back for a little fun. Oh @ kwall: Don't worry hun, he ain't goin' no where..Why would he?

  • CivilEngineer

    Damn...that would have been better in ALL CAPS. I'll say it again...this is a blog (speaking real slow for the remedial)

    That is all :yes:

    And that's a really cute kid in your gravi @heavn_sent...and no sarcasm there.

  • Tasha

    :popcorn:

  • LaTechGrad02

    Wow, I should've logged in last night.....