Mission Impossible: Seeking Straight Black Males in Atlanta

Sandra Rose January 4, 2010

I found this pic of this seemingly macho black man on Ms. Wanda’s blog yesterday. To some of you, he may seem like the hunk of your dreams, who simply oozes sex appeal.

Unfortunately, this brotha likes the same thing you like.

Pop the hood to see why…

This is the dilemma faced by many sistas in Atlanta who meet brothas like this every weekend in the nightclubs. Yes, he looks good, ruggedly handsome with sexy lips — but he’s also as gay as Kanye and Adam Lambert.

Black women in Atlanta struggle mightily to separate the eligible men from the many queens who prowl the same nightclubs they do looking for the same men they are looking for.

For this reason the competition for straight men in Atlanta is very fierce, and the hopes of finding a straight one who isn’t married is dismal.

whatdoesitmatter

Ladies, maybe it’s time to relocate.
nika405

If he arched his eyebrows, put on some gloss and shaved the stache…he would make a decent girl!
EricaDenese

*Gucci Mane voice* WELL DAYMN!
He gets a big from me, gay or straight…
http://jankobot.blogspot.com jankobot

yes he is serving that wig!!!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Hell naw!!!!
MrzzSmitty

LMAO!
heavn_sent

Please tell me why my three y.o. just climbed up in my lap, looked at the screen, and then looked ay me and said, “Mommy is that a girl or a boy?” I was stuck!
Shauny

BWAHAHAHAHAHA

He looked HUD to me in the first pic. Something about the way he holds his mouth and he watches Top Model because he’s smeyesing (smiiing with his eyes). Such a waste of lips because they do look good.
CivilEngineer

I @whatdoesitmatter…time to move on to greener pastures
tippmos

He CLEARLY looks gay anyway nothing sexy about him
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

The devil is a liar. Let’s stand in the gap for our Black men. Pray! Pray! And if you are not married, close your legs. If your married, give your husband some good sex and porn alone.
Cinderella

I live in the ATL, but I think youre exaggerating Sandra. Yes there are a lot of gay Black men here but there are also a lot of straight men as well. A lot of these gay men came from other cities and states.
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

LAWD NOOOOOO.
WHAT IN THE WORLD!?!?!?!
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

I meant leave the porn alone. Get the devil out of your bedroom.
Toni

I just caught a fever looking at those pics!
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

he is WORKING THAT WIG
Vonnie_F

he looked gay to me b4 i clicked the link…
Kia512

Happy New Year all!!!

Now I know why all my cuz in ATL are single!! Prayer changes things. This is a big !!!
Shauny

Does anyone else picture his singing a Donna Summers or Weather Girls song after they click the link?
Anna

Does he have on his mama’s or grandma’s pearl earrings?
cheeks8683

Wow…yeah, I agree ladies time to ship out. Perhaps Dallas, that’s where I found a good one
heavn_sent

am: You starting the year out with all these prayer posts, I take it that you are going to stick to your resolution of not preaching and cussing in the same comment.
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

SO does he wear the wig and not shave his mustache and goatee?? Men, if you see this and you still want to holla at him, then you are just as crazy as his azz. And he shaved his armpits!!! WOW!! Good morning all.
VAALLDAY

So damn sad.
Shauny
CivilEngineer

@Shauny can I get some of that
Ebony

What? I’m 24, I live in Atl my husband was born in raised in flordia though
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

The devil is a liar. Let’s stand in the gap for our Black men. Pray! Pray! And if you are not married, close your legs. If your married, give your husband some good sex and porn alone.
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I-awwwwwwwwwwwww …I know I been CHANGED…I-awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I know I been changed eye eye eyeah I know I been changed…cause the angels in heaven have signed my name…hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

That’s why you get you an Old School country boy!!! Not one of these wayward transients!!
Daisy

I been living n the A for 9yrs so this is nothing new. While I don’t think all or most men n the A or gay or on the DL I do see my fair share of suspect men daily. I am keeping hope alive though

Kanye is not gay

That is all
Adair

Good morning, everyone!!

@ AM- If you don’t mind me asking, what type of law do you practice?! I think I read up here that you don’t like when people ask you legal favors, but I was just wondering b/c I am in law school now! I am in my second year.
scandalous1

Is there a shortage of sane black women in atlanta as well? I hear alot of straight men say they can’t find a woman here because there are too many gold diggers or they can’t keep their mouths closed long enough to let a man be a man. What about the plethera of butch lesbians that lead straight men on? Sandra why are lesbians so possessive?
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

Sandra, I mean heave_sent, I have re-dedicated my life back to Jesus. I can’t cuss folks out any longer. Thanks for sharing your hopes for me in the new year.
Shauny

My first of they year goes to my girl Daisy. Kanye IS NOT gay
va_shawty

I’ve only got one thing to say: Sashay, Shante!
BROWNSUGAPOET

I stepped in the water and the wa wa wa wa wa waa water was cooollllllllddddddd!

BIG UPS TO SHUN PACE RHODES!

GGOUCH you just took me waayyyyyy back
Ebony

Are there any closeted gays in Atl anymore? Everyone seems to be out
j.c.

i just don’t know what to say
Cinderella

@ scandalous, I agree. I find it funny that lesbian is always trying throw gay men or supposed gay men under the bus w/o mentioning that there are a lot lesbians and bisexual women in the ATL. There are some malls I don’t go to because the lesbians are always on the prowl.
http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

Well dayum…I didn’t think there was anything sexy about him in the beginning, also, my gaydar was beeping from the get go. Living in Atlanta for almost 10 years has sharpened my gaydar tremendously.

I often meet my BFF at Gordon-Birsch Brewery for drinks and you can see the type of men entering Bulldogs (for all the non-ATLiens, that’s a gay club) and they are not flaming and flamboyant, they’re your everyday, regular man. I’m talking from suit and ties to baggy pants and timbos…SMH…My thing is if you’re going to be gay then be gay. Don’t do that DL crap.

and Daisy….Kanye is not gay.
DarkChild

It’s guys like that that make the “straight” guys a rare commodity. My brother lives in the A and he has well edcated women with GREAT careers catering to him just because he IS straight. Ladies if you live in the A and you’ve got a good man you better keep your eyes open because there’s more than likely a chic lurking in the bushes waiting to snatch him. I’m just saying!
http://hok.com ATL_Reese

There are a FEW of us STRAIGHT men in ATL!!
Daisy

Men use that excuse about women in the A cause they have so many woment to choose from they dont want to settle down and commit to one woman. They are like kids in a candy store. IMO men can find any kind of woman they want in the A. Not all women make 6 figures or even close, not all women turn their nose up at blue collar men either I have heard it all. There is enough blame/fault to go around for both men and women. Lets move forward and start working on the black family again.

Anybody see the nightline clip about the number of single black women in the A?
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

im straight and easy to find
scandalous1

@ cinderella…
I’ll go out on a limb and assume also that sandra continues to post these stories about gay men because its no secret that the gays and lesbians do not get along. Not sure why but that seems to be the way it is in atl. But I was having a discussion with a good lesbian friend of mine last night and apparently not too many lesbians care for one Mrs. Sandra Rose. Care to elaborate Sandra?
in2wishon

Lol what the hell….In the pic without the wig…Any man who arches is eyebrows is gay…..and very suspect.If a man preps his self and arch his brows more than a woman…oh yes he is gay…absolutely!
BROWNSUGAPOET

eastpointvet Says:

im straight and easy

I couldnt resist
cheeks8683

@ Daisy….yesssss I saw that nightline clip on my friends fb page….Wow, those women where sooo pretty and successful and has no man in sight. It made me feel bad…To begin with there are already double the amount of black women to balck men, then u have to take out the gay ones, the onces in jail, the crazy women beaters, the ones that don’t like us women of color and what do we have left???
http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

Daisy Says:

Anybody see the nightline clip about the number of single black women in the A?

I saw that on Facebook. The reality is that the ratio of women to men is 24 to 1 (or something close to that). On top of that, a large percentage of the men are married, gay or incarcerated. What does that leave us with???
WatsonElite30

@ Daisy…

I have not seen the nightline clip, but I’m sure the numbers are staggering. I agree with your comments for sure. I have lived here in Atlanta for 3 years, and I have never seen anything like it. To be actually SCARED to date is hella frustrating.

I will look for the clip…
dani818

This is the reason why I WON’T move to Atlanta!!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

cheeks8683 Says:

@ Daisy….yesssss I saw that nightline clip on my friends fb page….Wow, those women where sooo pretty and successful and has no man in sight. It made me feel bad…To begin with there are already double the amount of black women to balck men, then u have to take out the gay ones, the onces in jail, the crazy women beaters, the ones that don’t like us women of color and what do we have left??
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Men that look like Al Roker
Quitta

He doesn’t make a cute woman at all. FAIL!
Daisy

@eastpoint like the women in the nightline special said we may be able to find you for a date but are you trying to settle down and say I do is the BIG question?

@cheek Yes those women were beaituful and that is what you see in the A all the time which goes back to my pt about men being like kids in a candy store BUT I am keeping the faith!!

@Brown
nika405

My coworker tells me that her cat died over the weekend and that she hopes her husband doesn’t keep the body in the freezer for 2 months like the last one….WTF! I don’t even know if I should stay at work all day now I’m too traumatized to finish my work!
http://groups.msn.com/televisionland CaliGirlinGA

Thanks renegadesince1985 – I almost embarrassed myself and my hubby; I’ve seen that “Bulldogs” restaurant on P’Tree and wondered if the food was good, and even asked my husband if we should try it (we used to go to the Vortex that once was across the street). LOL!! Wow, that would have been way embarrassing.
nika405

Men that look like Al Roker

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cheeks8683

@ Brown…LOL Riiight!!!! It just ain’t fair! The men get to shop at Saks and us women get the dollar store!

@ Daisy yep, I have to keep the faith because its really bad out there for us.
shannon04

Hot A%& mess!
Al-Ameera

Wow, who knew. I don’t even know what to say. People keep telling me that Atlanta is the home of the DL but I just refuse to believe it. I guess I’ll come out of denial one day
BROWNSUGAPOET

Nika is she of Anglo-Saxon decent? If so tell her you know of a place where she can get it stuffed and she can put it on the wall! Now you know whose food not to eat on potluck day!
http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

@ CaliGirl

You are most welcome! Crisis averted!
LilMissRed

aint this about some bbbbbbbbbulllll snick-a-dity! SMH.. yeah thats how our ‘MEN’ in the ATL get down.. dayum shame too! BUT… to each his own.. SOMEBODY LUBBBBBBSSSSS that!
Cinderella

@ scandalous, I read somewhere that the reason why butch lesbians and flaming gay men don’t get along is because deep down inside they want get each other.
nika405

@ Brown yes she is one of them…I have been avoiding her because she may want to talk about it more and I just can’t!
CivilEngineer

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

Nika is she of Anglo-Saxon decent? If so tell her you know of a place where she can get it stuffed and she can put it on the wall! Now you know whose food not to eat on potluck day!
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on the eating…I have a coworker who loves baking cookies and fudge. She told me a while ago that her cats play in her pots and her dogs climb on the counter to eat the catfood!

I’ve never eaten from her EVER!!
intensemocha

ANYTHING TO FEED THE HYSTERIA THAT THERE ARE NO AVAILABLE BLACK MEN LEFT AND WOMEN NEED TO PANIC OR THOSE THAT HAVE ONE NEED TO RUB IT IN THOSE WHO DON’T FACES AND ACT ALL PARANOID THAT EVERYONE SINGLE WOMAN IN THE WORLD IS AFTER THEIR MAN-LOL

BAH HUM BUG-WHATEVA

THE MEDIA KEEPS FEEDING THIS NONSENSE AND BLACK WOMEN CONTSTANTLY REACT NEGATIVELY TO IT

IF THIS IS REMOTELY TRUE MOVE SOMEWHERE ELSE-PROBLEM SOLVED!
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

@daisy
YEP
BROWNSUGAPOET

CE that’s like my brother in law cuttin up the turkey with his oil stained fingers! Had his fingers all in the meat so guess who didn’t have any meat on xmas!
Cinderella

@ Civil, that’s why I don’t eat anything made by my co-workers. I don’t know how clean their kitchens are. A co-worker made me some Christmas cookies that I gave to someone else.
m9ser1

Off topic. Sandra i had no idea how many people have a hate for you.. it’s quarter after h8 over here.. i still luv you.
CivilEngineer

I can just see her stirring the bowl and letting her dog lick the spoon, then back to stirring the bowl again Civil aint having none of that!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Do they have speed dating in Atlanta? Just curious……
MistaO

While there are plenty of gay dudes and dudes on the low, I also believe stories like this are just another relief valve for females who can’t find, get, or keep a man…

They tell these stories over and over until they believe them. Clearly, there are gay dudes around but there are also plenty of straight men as well who for reason, aren’t necessarily “checking” for many of the whiny crybaby broads who believe the sky is falling.

Instead of stories like this, why not shine the light on the reasons so many men don’t want the females who cry about not having a man…

But we all know how many females resist the truth when it concerns themselves…
dani818

Off topic Can someone tell me how to upload a pic on here?????
Daisy

For my ATL ppl did you hear Frank this morning discussing the nightline clip?

@Yvonne they have had speed dating events before in the A but I never went not my cup of tea

@eastpoint ok
TruGemini

Oh, trust and believe it ain’t just ATL…NC is crawling with them too…
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

@Daisy: Not my cup of tea either but I’m thinking it would be interesting. I’m willing to try almost anything at least once to say I’ve been there, done that!
http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

Daisy Says:

For my ATL ppl did you hear Frank this morning discussing the nightline clip?

Sure did…listened for a few mins on my way to work. That was interesting what he said about the number of strip clubs vs. regular clubs. I don’t really go to clubs that often at all, but I do notice when I go that it’s mostly women in there. And he’s right..Magic City stay packed! LOL!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Daisy Says:

For my ATL ppl did you hear Frank this morning discussing the nightline clip?
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I heard a small clip of the young lady speaking while I was trying to find out what was up with 75/85N. What did I miss?
Yolanda77

He looked gay before he added the wig to me…
ShoYaRight

The real interesting thing is that the guy above is not who women should be weary of. He obviously has no qualms about his sexuality. Gay men are not the straight woman’s “enemy” or obstacle to happiness. It’s the married men that creep with other men, the boyfriends that cheat on their girls with dudes, the guys that date both men and women and keep women in the dark about their history or preferences. I have heard stories that will make your jaws drop and it takes a lot to shock me in this day and age. And the married men on the dl are so deep in the closet that they often will only fukc around with other married men. It’s the world we live in.
http://facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1224695543 Karamelkisses76

No, Daisy. What was he talking about? Something about not being so focused on your education or career…..
Cinderella

@ Daisy, I heard Frank talking about the clip this morning. It seems to me on the morning show at least once a month they discuss the “Single Black Professional Women in Atlanta” epidemic. They don’t really offer suggestions but point out the obvious. When they try to give suggestions the women usually don’t listen.
terika83

Nope, Gaydar went off BEFORE I popped the hood so this “he may seem like the hunk of your dreams, who simply oozes sex appeal” did not come anywhere near crossing my mind.
Daisy

Frank was stuck on women and education and how if you are so focused school and career then you couldnt/didnt/wouldnt find time for a man cause that isnt your priority then in the next breath he would say you can have more than one priority. He was also stressing living aborad and traveling (my passport stays ready) he was like you can go to school in France or S America he was all over the place

I agree they dont offer any solutions either.
http://www.myspace.com/importantblackwomen Necelove

Awwwww Daaamumm! Whyyy???? Just Whyy? He not my type anyway but it’s so scary out here. My lil sis wants a dude so bad. She always complaining about them at her college How You Doinnn. What is this next decade going to bring. SMH
starr2910

he would make a cute female..
http://www.myspace.com/importantblackwomen Necelove

@renegadesince1985 Dang I missed it. had to be at work at 6 I love Frank and Wanda. I listens to them everyday. Do they still come on at night?
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

nika405 writes, “My coworker tells me that her cat died over the weekend and that she hopes her husband doesn’t keep the body in the freezer for 2 months like the last one….WTF!”
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Please don’t eat anything your co-worker brings into the office. That is just morbid and nasty.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

intensemocha writes, “ANYTHING TO FEED THE HYSTERIA THAT THERE ARE NO AVAILABLE BLACK MEN LEFT AND WOMEN NEED TO PANIC”
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scandalous1

@ cinderella

I seriously doubt that. Lmao. Those lesbuns and gays know exactly what they want and it ain’t each other. Question though, since when did a gay man wearing a suit and tie or some timberlands make them DL. If you are gay, are you suppose to dress like a woman or wear tight fitting clothes?
MsG

intensemocha Says:

ANYTHING TO FEED THE HYSTERIA THAT THERE ARE NO AVAILABLE BLACK MEN LEFT AND WOMEN NEED TO PANIC OR THOSE THAT HAVE ONE NEED TO RUB IT IN THOSE WHO DON’T FACES AND ACT ALL PARANOID THAT EVERYONE SINGLE WOMAN IN THE WORLD IS AFTER THEIR MAN-LOL

BAH HUM BUG-WHATEVA

THE MEDIA KEEPS FEEDING THIS NONSENSE AND BLACK WOMEN CONTSTANTLY REACT NEGATIVELY TO IT

IF THIS IS REMOTELY TRUE MOVE SOMEWHERE ELSE-PROBLEM SOLVED
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I have to Amen you on this. We need to stop feeding into the media’s need to continously display us as “toxic people.” They constantly want to tell us we are diseased,criminal-minded and hopeless even when we are achievers. Now our black butts are beginning to believe that mess. Yeah, the devil is a liar.
Not to get preachy, but what God has for you is for you. I don’t care what is on Sandra Rose or what you see in front of you or what the numbers on TV say, there is nothing too hard for God. None of this caught him by surprise.

Furthermore, for those that viewed the clip the numbers they were sharing were nationwide. They were not just indicative to Atlanta. All homosexuals did not up and move to Atlanta like we want to believe because it makes you feel comfortable with your own surroundings.
MsG

Frank Ski is the last person to talk about the dilemma of single women in Atlanta. I’mma keep the rest of that to myself.
Krysi J

luckily he’s not my type….but I didn’t see that wig coming…ITS really sad
EJLOVE

Soooo who said he was straight in the beginning? is he hiding? Sandra you wont stop till someone gets killed…Damn what is wrong with you? why you hate Black folks, Black men straight or gay so damn much?
EJLOVE

Maybe if half of yall refered to gays as people and not it..or use words the show them as a disease or monsters this would not be that much of an issue.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

@Soror MsG, when does Frank go home? He is always in da club according to his tweets. Isn’t he married to a Soror?
EJLOVE

@ Attorneymom, I hear you on the Frank Ski show, promoting something…
MOUTH
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

Elove, I was telling the black men that we need them. It was around the time the Chicago honor student was caught on a video.
http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

He is no B. Scott. Next!

No seriously. Is it really that HARD in the ATL to find heterosexual single men? Please clue me in.
LadyTaurus

I am a native atlien, got a man, who is a native atlien, and he is not gay. The gay people are not natives, they are transplants, I guess they heard this is like san fran and dc. I hate people dogging my city out when we all know its the nasty ass transplants not the few natives that live here. Hell they gays have ran the natives off.
sexywitwhatigot

@dani

go to gravatar.com and follow the instructions. hope this else.
SweetNee

Ummm, he didn’t seem straight to me in the first pic.
SweetNee

I have a question: is Atlanta really how SR makes it out to be? Are most of them men gay and the women fight like wildebeest at the watering hole of any possibly straight man? My bf lived in Atlanta as a child. He loved it there and wants to move back, but after hearing all this stuff, I’m kind of like…
H.B.I.C

Work it bish!

Hell finding an eligible Black man PERIOD is a challenge. They either don’t like chocolate, Love other men, want the title of the man but wants to be treated like the woman in the relationship while bringing nothing to the union, have a slew of bastard children and baby ma ma’s to match, got a sick penis, want to be gangsta’s or celebrities because they watch too much tv, got that Chris Brown syndrome OR all of the above. Its been time to make that SWITCH!
pointhimout

without reading one word i could look at his “str8” pic and see that he wasn’t. wig and additional accessories did not aid me in my decision.

um, ATL ladies, I have no advice for you. I really dont know why they keep saying atl men, atl men. The guys come from all over and land in atlanta where apparently it’s easier to d!ck a boy, fem boy, ts or whatever in the booty and get away with, and continue living your life.

A coworker showed a picture of a guy she just met. I honestly know a TS who know the same guy in the pic. True story. I end this story the same way I started it; I dont know what to tell you ladies. Am I proud that I can pull your man? No, not at all. I look at the same guys that a lot of women are with and think ‘how can she not tell?’
pointhimout

sorry ggouch, the country boys too. im not sure if it’s a fad or phase, but no particular area or region is off limits. these dudes get to atlanta and begin living freely, or wanna see if what theyve heard is true (bj from a guy, etc). I have to say no str8 guy is the least bit curious about what his d!ck feels like in the mouth of another man, bi, gay, fem, etc.

And the married guy that loves getting his guts banged out? I’m still scratching my head on this one.
EJLOVE

LadyTaurus Says:

I am a native atlien, got a man, who is a native atlien, and he is not gay. The gay people are not natives, they are transplants, I guess they heard this is like san fran and dc. I hate people dogging my city out when we all know its the nasty ass transplants not the few natives that live here. Hell they gays have ran the natives off.
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Soooo let me get this right, ATL produced NO gay folks…its all the “nasty transplants” wow…well if the ATL didn’t produce gays, it did produce stupid a$$es who wallow in Ignorance and biggotry so…good job ATL…
reality101

@ MSG….I concur 100%

EJLOVE Says:

Maybe if half of yall refered to gays as people and not it..or use words the show them as a disease or monsters this would not be that much of an issue.

100%
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First and foremost gay people exist EVERYwhere. Not just Atlanta. The demographic here is exploited and in some instances this area caters heavily to that population as most urban cities do; and because of this people feel liberated to be themselves when not oppressed by thier environment. Cities like NY, San Franciso, CHicago, Miami, and any urban area will always have a dense mixing pot of ppl that more expressive i.e. the drag queens and wig wearers. Quit lookin for reasons to dethrone black men.

As far as the dateline interview….Through a mutal friend I am familiar with 2 of the girls on that show and they will remain nameless. Love them. Both of whom are established but unfortunately accustomed to dating football players and guys making a 7 figure salary. Why cant black women be optomistic but realistic?? All of you won’t marry a foot ball player or b knocked up by a rap star. Stop tryin so hard!! Your mechanic, or trash guy stares you in the face regularly but you turn your nose up at him. Black men face unfathomable odds as it is, stop finding other ways to destroy them and or community with unnecessary insecurities and scrutiny. Black women, Sandra Rose is an open and proud llesbun lol. Her banter is for entertainment. Know the difference.
reality101

@ SweetNee

Dont listen to these insecure h*** who have a plethora of insecurities and self esteem related issues. Atlanta is a wonderful city if you’re not a toxic pessimist who believes everything you read
LuvKaya

nasty
Musiqal1

I am DYINGGGGG!!!! LMAO!!!!
birdofbeauty09

I with @renegadesince1985, and @ShoYaRight

@TruGemini: What part of NC do you live in? I just moved from California (the Bay Area) to Charlotte for graduate school. So far, I haven’t experienced NC’s nightlife.

I have to agree with the posters who are saying it’s just not an Atlanta problem. Like I wrote, I’m from the Bay Area, Berkeley to be exact, and I have seen PLENTY of gay, lesbian, transgender people to last me a LIFETIME.
BostonGirl20002

I AM SO LOOKING FORWARD TO MOVING HOME TO ATL TO FOR FAMILY AND BUSINESS REASONS BUT DAMN I GOTTA BRING MY OWN MAN FROM BOSTON THERE. WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON NOWADAYS…WHO SAID THIS MESS WAS OKAY. I MEAN THEY ARE TAKING THIS STUFF TO FAR. I TRULY DONT BELIEVE ALL THESE FOLKS ARE LESBIANS AND ARE GAY I THINK THEY ARE TRYING IT ON LIKE CLOTHES BECAUSE FOR SOME REASON SOMEONE SAID THIS MESS WAS OKAY. WHAT HAPPEN….WHERE DID THINGS GO WRONG. ENOUGH IS TRULY ENOUGH. AND THE SAID PART IS THAT WHAT ISNT GAY IS BEING SHARED OR THE WOMEN ARE TURNING TO OTHER WOMEN. WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON. I GUESS OYU CANT LOOK AT THE WRAPPER ANYMORE BECAUSE THE INSIDE OF THE PACKAGE IS NOT WHAT YOU WANT. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE BLACK MEN I DONT CARE HOW DOGGISH THEY ARE OR HOW MANY TIMES THEY BREAK MY HEART I LOVE BLACK MEN I DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH ATLANTA BUT CAN SOMETHING BE DONE ABOUT THIS BEFORE I GET THERE PLEASE….
Kimi

Meh, I could move to ATL and have a man on one knee in a year tops…..those ladies need to get on they’re game . Other than that I agree with E-JLove. The homophobia present today in the Black community is sickening
MsG

attorneymom says:
@Soror MsG, when does Frank go home? He is always in da club according to his tweets. Isn’t he married to a Soror
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Yes, he is married to a soror. She is a sweetheart.
No, he obviously doesn’t stay at home because he is too busy being concerned about the single black female population in Atlanta.
MsG

For the people asking if Atlanta is that bad or its that hard to meet a good man… NO.

Sandra Rose is a blogger. She has a responsibility like a rapper to keep the hits coming….at all costs,even when it means exaggerating and exploiting others or “their” truth.

Please do not use a blog as a means to understand a city, a culture, race, politics or anything. Blogs are based on personal opinion 99% of the time, not facts.