ATL News: Is Rocko Cheating On Monica?; Ciara Makes a Cameo In Usher’s Video

In ATL news today, rumors are spreading that R&B singer Monica and her baby daddy, local rapper Rocko, are no more. Apparently, a jump off got Mo’s cell phone number and has been calling her phone and harassing her. Rumors about Rocko cheating on Monica are old news. Everyone in Atlanta has heard the rumors — including Mo. And that’s all they are: rumors. No one as proven anything.

But Monica does have some legal recourse if a jump off is calling her number constantly harassing her. I just got off the phone with my attorney who told me to advise Mo to get a TPO against the woman immediately — if, in fact, someone is harassing her. In the state of Georgia, it is legal to record a phone call (as long as one party knows) and use that as evidence to obtain a TPO.

I tried to reach Monica after receiving emails about the newest rumor. Here is what she said in a text message just a few minutes ago:

Hey sandra. Just waking up to the madness. I’m in la and worked with polow until 7 this morning. My phone is ringing off the hook and its all driving me a bit crazy because I didn’t askto be mixed in this. But that’s life. There’s always a rainstorm before rainbows. I’m going to call u once I get myself together some.

More after the break…

Pseudo-singer Ciara was spotted walking her adorable doggy in L.A. yesterday. According to Hello Beautiful, the shoot for Usher’s new single “Little Freak” featuring rapper Nicki Minaj went down yesterday and Ciara makes a guest cameo in the video. We don’t know what her part in the video is. But, hopefully it will lend a little boost to her career which is sagging worse than Amber Rose’s flat butt at this point.

If you haven’t heard Usher’s single “Little Freak,” yet click here.


Photos: UC

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  3. Video: The truth – what Rocko REALLY said on 106 & Park
  4. Rocko Da Don Breaks Silence on Breakup with Monica
  5. New Music: Rocko Da Don ft. Monica – Thugs Need Love Too

 


102 Responses to “ATL News: Is Rocko Cheating On Monica?; Ciara Makes a Cameo In Usher’s Video”

  1. 1
    imalurker says:

    poor Mo!


  2. 2
    MZN says:

    I mean really… Are we surprised that Rocko is cheating on her?


  3. 3
    Choco says:

    Oh well at least it’s a female he’s cheating with cuz I see suga in that nicca’s tank!


  4. 4
    pyt305 says:

    So are they together or not :coffee:


  5. 5
    MZN says:

    He looks like a cheater…


  6. 6
    Choco says:

    LOL at Sandra trying to remain positive you know damn well you wanna be all over this story!


  7. 7
    MZN says:

    She’ll be right back with him and he’ll continue to cheat on her… end of story…


  8. 8
    Choco says:

    Of course she will get back with him this is probably not the first time she’s faced this with him!


  9. 9
    CHARBEE1 says:

    Awww that sucks but I believe that every woman will have to put a bytch in check once in there lives. I have went thru it and I am sure some of you ladies here has too. But you know what it’s her decision on how to handle the situation.

    ****TEAM MONICA ALL DAY***** :cheer:


  10. 10
    pyt305 says:

    Everyone in Atlanta has heard the rumors — including Mo. And that’s all they are: rumors. No one as proven anything.

    **********************************************

    Stop being delusional…he has cheated her several times I’m sure….nothing about him is screaming upstanding gentlemen


  11. 11
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    So Kim lets you borrow her clothes, hair and paparazzi buddies. That’s a real friend right there…


  12. 12
    tampa813 says:

    Monica needs to let that stank faced thug go and focus on her kids and career. She can do alot better.

    Ciara..well she getting a payck so bless her heart.


  13. 13
    VIBABY says:

    So now LaLa, Ciara, and Kim K are the same person…..


  14. 14
    intensemocha says:

    IF IT’S TRUE SHE DESERVES BETTER

    HIS LOSS-THROW HIM DEUCES MONICA


  15. 15
    Anna says:

    Nothing worse than wasting your life on a man who truly doesn’t want you anymore, he’s just stringing her along because he doesn’t want her to be happy with anyone else.
    Ciara’s dog looks like Rhi’s dog. What ever happened to that dog. I remember, it was an accessory no longer needed.


  16. 16
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    Monica and Rocko? She ain’t gonna admit it, he ain’t gonna adress it. Makes it no less true….


  17. 17
    BellaBarbie says:

    I really really respect Mo as an artist, mother, and woman. And, at the end of the day she will still be STANDING! Men will be men. If Eric cheated on Halle Berry AKA the prettiest AA woman in the world it doesn’t matter who you are…all dogs will stray if given the chance. I guess they need to pick more low key trollops. I’m waiting for a heffa to call my phone with that foolishness because I am going to read her- her MF rights. Our men are soooooooo confused and lost!!! SMMH. I am sooooo pissed off about this BS. Monica deserves better. Hopefully it’s just hood gossip. But, then again the jumpoff had to get Mo’s # from somewhere. *side eye*


  18. 18
    liverpool says:

    lol SHE NEVER DENYED IT IN HER SHORT MESSAGE…

    LOOKS LIKE A STUNT TO SELL ALBUMS CUZ NOBODY WAS CHECKING FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP BEFORE HER “COME BACK”…

    :lame:


  19. 19
    OutsidetheBox says:

    *throws marshmallows at Smarty* :lolol: Leave CiCi alone….as soon as I saw that 2nd pic of her I googled “Kim Kardashian lace front”.

    Her ish look good.

    Monica seems like the type to “stay for the kids” #YeahImJudging


  20. 20
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    (Picks up my marshmallow and employs the three second rule) Did you find it and does it come in a 1b and 33 mix?


  21. 21
    chase says:

    Like we are surprised, he would be the last dude I ‘d consider faithful…

    Ana..RiRi said that it was C-Error’s dog and she was dog sitting for her. C-Error has 2 of those dogs Tyson and I forget the other dogs name…


  22. 22
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    @chase, I think she dropped her career off with it.


  23. 23
    iscream says:

    #Rockosalute

    Nah mean

    @ Sandra

    I will give it to you. You are a loyal person if you are on their team. You make any bad situation look good.


  24. 24

    I hope that this isnt an empty PR stunt and that Mo leaves the wanna be rapper/hustla with the comical mean mug alone. She can do better but she has to feel that way…Ocho Cinco wasn’t a bad look.

    :offtopic: I have always wondered why Polow looks all dirty and stink EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU SEE HIM. Well, he stays in the studio to 4 am and neglects to do anything to himself since it’s already the next day…MYSTERY SOLVED!


  25. 25
    rjk8 says:

    Everyone in Atlanta has heard the rumors — including Month
    *************
    Everyone except the loyal Sandra Rose readers. I’m sorry I thought this was a gossip blog.


  26. 26
    mirsmommy says:

    Sooooo, Charles got chicks calling Monica’s phone pretending to be Rocko’s jumpoffs???? :shrugs:

    I’m just jokin.

    I hope he’s not cheating on her. I never understood the concept of cheating. If yo a** ain’t happy wit what you got, then kick rocks, and move on. Why cheat???


  27. 27
    Ms.kaylamomma says:

    Soooo… why didn’t the text message say this: “Rocko and I are still together, despite the rumors…” end of story.


  28. 28
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Yeah, but its the staright hair Kym. Me no like. Looked a little like wet feathers….pigeon feathers. ATL pigeon feathers. The pigeons in the A are in a class of their own.


  29. 29
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    @mkm #27 < hey fab chica…..See #17.


  30. 30
    Anna says:

    chase Says:

    Like we are surprised, he would be the last dude I ‘d consider faithful…

    Ana..RiRi said that it was C-Error’s dog and she was dog sitting for her. C-Error has 2 of those dogs Tyson and I forget the other dogs name…
    ~~~~
    :lol: That does explain why the dogs look alike. :rofl:


  31. 31
    ohso says:

    Okay so we got the post and it seemed like Sandra denied the cheating more than Mo did. >:( Cheating niccas get me real heated…especially when it SEEMS like she was taking care of him financially also….Lawd a cheating broke *@# nicca for a baby daddy smdh….


  32. 32
    mirsmommy says:

    Ciara’s lil dog is too cute. :yes:


  33. 33
    Quitta says:

    Well hopefully this isn’t true. But even if it were, Monica’s not leaving him.

    She deserves better anyway.


  34. 34
    Quitta says:

    Hey Mirs mommy mommy!!! *waves*

    I know isn’t her dog so cute, look like a stuffed teddy bear :-P


  35. 35
    yesindeedio says:

    I kinda feel bad for Mo.


  36. 36
    OutsidetheBox says:

    “Why cheat???”

    The guy I told y’all about? He said something to the effect of his head being “messed up” from previous relationships…he assumed that I had to be cheating (I reminded him that’s because of his guilty conscious)… He was very truthful and offered up a lot of excuses but none of them changed my mind about him so….

    *Frankie voice* HoL-lA!!!


  37. 37
    mirsmommy says:

    Quitta Says:

    Hey Mirs mommy mommy!!! *waves*

    I know isn’t her dog so cute, look like a stuffed teddy bear
    _________________________________________________________

    Heyyyy Quitta Quitta.

    How you been? He does look like a lil teddy bear. :yes:


  38. 38
    Candi Apple says:

    Women always know when their man is cheating. Red flags always show bright. He is never around. When a man is into a woman he tries to hold her down if he doesn’t its always another girl/woman/whatever. Even if he is not commited to any of the girls and he jumps from different women nightly he still cannot be attached to you. He is just not ready and sometimes women will wait on that man to go through his phase but when the phase is complete it does not mean you/she will be the women he marries, he must love you really. That reality show and pictures from parties and family events and radio shows give a clear indication that Rocko is truely not apart of Monica’s life. T-Boze tried to tell her give that man some of the responsiblity of cheating. Its not the blame of the WOMEN (Plural for many) its his fault. He is not that into you kids or not.


  39. 39
    mirsmommy says:

    If he is cheating, I guarantee the jumpoff looks like pure sh*t. It seems like that’s usually the case. Beautiful wife/fiancee/girlfriend, but the jumpoff looks like last week’s trash. :lol:


  40. 40
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    OTB I wondered what happened but didn’t wanna ask in case you were still hurting. I don’t even ask those kinds of questions, the transgression is bad enough but say something stupid and :shotsfired:


  41. 41
    ShoYaRight says:

    Ciara finally got a decent hairstyle…must have gone to Kim Kardashian’s weaveologist.


  42. 42
    Kitrina says:

    Sandra got all that from that? No doubt Rocko is no Cliff Huxtable but she had to know that already look at em


  43. 43
    Ms.kaylamomma says:

    Hey Princess **scrolls up to #17 and reads BellaBarbie’s comment** Yes, I agree with BellaBarbie, Princess!!??!! :shrugs:


  44. 44
    ms.truth says:

    well from her text..sounds like they’re not together…good afternoon everyone… :coffee:


  45. 45
    KaraZ says:

    umm Rocko cheats on her in the open, Sandra, you know it, I know it, your loyal reader who harasses Tiny knows it. Monica is going to stay until Rocko decides to leave. Can’t keep calling it a rainstorm for years at a time :rolleyes:


  46. 46
    Kitrina says:

    someone mentioned Charles, that sounds about right LOL


  47. 47
    ohso says:

    @OTB no he didnt use the “Bag Lady” excuse…i would have told him :argue: hold up…dammit i use that excuse too! My bad OTB…charge that one to the game :whistle:


  48. 48
    Anna says:

    KaraZ Says:

    umm Rocko cheats on her in the open, Sandra, you know it, I know it, your loyal reader who harasses Tiny knows it. Monica is going to stay until Rocko decides to leave. Can’t keep calling it a rainstorm for years at a time
    ~~~~~~
    How old is she? After 25 you get tired of the BS and all the time you wasted on someone who is not ready or capable of commitment and you move on.


  49. 49
    SangriaSugar says:

    :rofl: @ outside and princess ya’ll killin me


  50. 50
    Ms.kaylamomma says:

    mirsmommy Says:

    Ciara’s lil dog is too cute.

    ———————————————————–
    I was going to say the same thing :yes:


  51. 51
    Quitta says:

    Been doing alright. How are you?


  52. 52
    SugarPieHoneybunn says:

    @OutsideTheBox
    I wanted to ask what u did with buddy but I didnt want to be nosey. Good for u girl. Put that trash on the curb!!!


  53. 53
    mirsmommy says:

    Quitta Says:

    Been doing alright. How are you?
    ____________________________________________________

    Doin good. Waiting for that real spring weather to get here.
    :lol:


  54. 54
    OutsidetheBox says:

    :yes: but more mad than hurt. Remember I hadn’t been “single” in years…so getting back out there was difficult…getting back in a relationship was even harder… I loved single me! But I did really like him… I’m mad I stopped dealing to deal with him but it’s all good :whistle:

    *^5s Trina* Single again, who’s who I’m mingling withhhhhh….


  55. 55
    OutsidetheBox says:

    :lolol: @ ohso. You know I *eyed* his arse something decent.


  56. 56
    KaraZ says:

    @Anna

    Monica has a history of choosing men that add nothing to her, she’s used to it at this point. This is her comfort zone and no amount of ridicule or age will make her leave that man. She KNOWS her man cheats, she can sing sideline ho all she wants, but that man is going to keep doing whatever she allows him to do.


  57. 57
    intensemocha says:

    YOU MAKE A CHOICE HOW TO SPEND YOUR TIME OR WHO YOU DEVOTE YOUR TIME TO

    AND AFTER BEING SHOWN REPEATEDLY YOUR TIME IS NOT VALUED

    YOU HAVE NOBODY TO BLAME FOR YOUR TIME BEING WASTED OTHER THAN YOU

    JUST LIKE A MAN CAN CHOOSE TO CHEAT-YOU CAN CHOOSE TO LEAVE

    HE’S NOT HOLDING A GUN TO YOUR HEAD TO MAKE YOU PHYSICALLY STAY-YOU ARE OPERATING UNDER YOUR OWN FREE WILL

    EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN YOU TO LOOK OUT FOR YOUR OWN BEST INTEREST WILL ALWAYS END WITH DECEPTION-YOU SHOULD NEVER GIVE THAT MUCH CONTROL OR RESPONSIBILITY TO ANYONE-BECAUSE IT ONLY BELONGS TO YOU


  58. 58
    VIBABY says:

    Sandra just tweeted Monica is going to confirm the breakup…… ninjas.


  59. 59
    Anna says:

    KaraZ Says:

    @Anna

    Monica has a history of choosing men that add nothing to her, she’s used to it at this point. This is her comfort zone and no amount of ridicule or age will make her leave that man. She KNOWS her man cheats, she can sing sideline ho all she wants, but that man is going to keep doing whatever she allows him to do.
    ~~~~~~~
    Wow, now that’s sad. Sounds like someone who needs to learn to love her self alittle more.


  60. 60
    Anna says:

    intensemocha Says:

    YOU MAKE A CHOICE HOW TO SPEND YOUR TIME OR WHO YOU DEVOTE YOUR TIME TO

    AND AFTER BEING SHOWN REPEATEDLY YOUR TIME IS NOT VALUED

    YOU HAVE NOBODY TO BLAME FOR YOUR TIME BEING WASTED OTHER THAN YOU

    JUST LIKE A MAN CAN CHOOSE TO CHEAT-YOU CAN CHOOSE TO LEAVE

    HE’S NOT HOLDING A GUN TO YOUR HEAD TO MAKE YOU PHYSICALLY STAY-YOU ARE OPERATING UNDER YOUR OWN FREE WILL

    EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN YOU TO LOOK OUT FOR YOUR OWN BEST INTEREST WILL ALWAYS END WITH DECEPTION-YOU SHOULD NEVER GIVE THAT MUCH CONTROL OR RESPONSIBILITY TO ANYONE-BECAUSE IT ONLY BELONGS TO YOU
    ~
    So true. The only person we have control over is ourself. Letting someone walk all over you is shameful.


  61. 61
    rjk8 says:

    Holding back gossip on a celebrity. Isn’t that like a police officer not disclosing crimes that he knows have been committed. Just asking


  62. 62
    Mspeng says:

    VIBABY Says:

    Sandra just tweeted Monica is going to confirm the breakup…… ninjas.
    ********************************************************

    :popcorn:


  63. 63
    ohso says:

    @OTB: *Cuz the next time that he cheats…ooooh u know it wont be on me* yep I’m having a certified Carrie Underwood moment! GET IT GIRL!!!!


  64. 64
    Candi Apple says:

    If she is leaving good for you Monica stop taking the abuse.


  65. 65
    Cinnamon Kisses says:

    Dayum…..Monica is to pretty and talented to be going through the bullshyt. Smh


  66. 66
    Mspeng says:

    According to Sandra’s twitter…

    SandraRose A teary-eyed, emotional Monica announces her separation from Rocko. Exclusive statement coming up.
    9 minutes ago via web

    So it is true!


  67. 67
    intensemocha says:

    IF THIS IS TRUE “THE BREAKUP”

    STAY STRONG SISTA GURL-YOUR BEAUTIFUL, TALENTED,& ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND A MAN WHO CAN AND WILL APPRECIATE AND LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO MARRY YOU AND BE FAITHFUL AND TREAT YOU LIKE THE QUEEN YOU ARE

    IF YOU TAKE HIM BACK “YOUR BUSINESS TO DO SO”

    MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN-AND I’M PRAYING FOR YOUR “FAMILY” IF THAT NICCA AINT RIGHT GOD REMOVE HIM


  68. 68
    CorporateHoodB-tch says:

    OutsidetheBox Says:

    but more mad than hurt. Remember I hadn’t been “single” in years…so getting back out there was difficult…getting back in a relationship was even harder… I loved single me! But I did really like him… I’m mad I stopped dealing to deal with him but it’s all good

    *^5s Trina* Single again, who’s who I’m mingling withhhhhh….
    _________________________________________

    I’m so glad to hear you are doing well!!! Now all you need is a single girls night out :party:


  69. 69
    WalkingKontradiction says:

    Nothing worse than wasting your life on a man who truly doesn’t want you anymore, he’s just stringing her along because he doesn’t want her to be happy with anyone else.

    **********************************************************

    If that aint the truest ish ever spoken right there! *WAVES* AMEN!!!!


  70. 70
    SnootyPooty1 says:

    Is the women he cheated with a home wrecker???????????????
    Cheating is WHACK!!!


  71. 71
    Mother Jefferson says:

    I hope Mo is happy with her relationship. IDK, she seemed kinda sad on her BET show, was she going through it with him then?

    :offtopic: Sandra, is there an actual link to a mobile site?


  72. 72
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    My bad MKM number I meant 17…..

    Sandra, you make yourself seem less than credible when you ignore what’s in front of you. I am a loyal friend, too and part of what makes a friend is being able to call them on their Bu**s*it. The whoe message seems like she already acted like she was done with him. I said acted becasue this is the same chick who had to be removed from the visiting list of amn doin life to be made to move on. You say she stays for the kids I say she can’t be without a man. Sounds like she might be singing Hell No or Why Her right aboutnow,. I’m sure he didn’t leave.

    This whole thing makes that video of his look even dumber than before. Really, what was the point?


  73. 73
    OutsidetheBox says:

    And I know y’all gonna be groaning and all but I called Ms. hickey too!!! LOL Messy! I just had to let the chick know about me….

    Welll WHY DA DURTY THANG ALREADY KNEWWWWW?!?!?! #wheredeydodatat

    Me: Hi, blah, blah, blah, do you know him? Are you seeing him?
    Her: Yes, i know him…well, what did he say?
    Me: Bish what? (LOL I did, for real) What do you mean what did he say? He said you knew he had a lady…But who gives a fuccc what he said?
    Her: Well, yes he told me about you…
    Me: Oh, so you just a hoe? Mmm. Youre perfect for him; good luck with that. *click*


  74. 74
    Cinnamon Kisses says:

    Ayntee Sandra….why is Registration open :waiting:


  75. 75
    WalkingKontradiction says:

    Guys I have an issue. How do I get thru to a friend who’s with the muttiest of dogs AND is whipping her behind? I’m afraid she will end up dead after this last Ike/Tina episode(minus her fighting back) and it has been almost 10yrs, same mess, just keeps escalating. Everyone is telling me not to get involved, but I refuse to sit front row at a funeral knowing there may have been something I could have done….


  76. 76
    Candi Apple says:

    He was never present on the reality show and when he did make an “appearance” he was distant and cold. I couldn’t recognize his support of her and the kids or her career.


  77. 77
    OutsidetheBox says:

    @Walking…In my experience you are doing all that can be done: Stay in her ear and be ready for that call (rescue) in the middle of the night when SHE is finally fed up (remember youre working on her time)…if everyone else has given up, you might be the last one so dont you give up too.

    You cant tell nobody ’bout they man tho… #askMonica


  78. 78
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    @Walking that’s your girl all you can do is be there for her and make sure she knows there are no stipulations on it. It’s been going on that long ain’t nothing you or anybody can do or say short of murdering one of them and that’s taking it too far.

    or start lacing his meals with that stuff they put down to kill rodents. It’ll take some time but works nonetheless… or so I heard :whistling:


  79. 79
    Ms.kaylamomma says:

    @WalkingK, if she has been with him for 10 yrs then there is nothing you can say to her to make her leave him. She has to want to and for some people it’s too late. Has he been arrested?


  80. 80
    Ms.kaylamomma says:

    :surprised: @ Princess


  81. 81
    leapyearpisces says:

    EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN YOU TO LOOK OUT FOR YOUR OWN BEST INTEREST WILL ALWAYS END WITH DECEPTION-

    If THAT AIN’T SOME TRUTH right there. You better :preach: I am gonna have to borrow that one.


  82. 82
    Candi Apple says:

    @Princess I am :ashamed: you said that.


  83. 83
    Soulstar81 says:

    @ Walking

    Just be there for her and let her know you will always be there for her. At this point, that’s all you can do. 10years of abuse is a long time to accept someone hurting you. When she’s ready to leave, make sure you are there to help. And take pictures of her bruises; document everything you witness. That way if she snaps and she needs evidence that he was physically abusive at her trial, you have it.


  84. 84
    WalkingKontradiction says:

    I’m sorry but :rofl: @Princess, OMG!!!!

    @ Outside, I actually did give up last year and our relationship has been strained because of it, but someone talked me into giving it another shot because everyone else is done with it, so I did, and got the call today. I’m thinking what’s it gonna take, you being wheeled out getting CPR performed on you? UGH!

    @Ms.Kay, OF COURSE NOT!!! That’s where I tried to get involved, I got friends in high places all it would take is a phone call and he’d be behind bars worrying about his patooty like Lil Wayne, but I was told to back off. :shrugs:

    I guess all I can do is talk, cause like I said, it’s been this way for years…


  85. 85
    KaraZ says:

    Jesus take the wheel! I agree with this

    intensemocha Says:
    YOU MAKE A CHOICE HOW TO SPEND YOUR TIME OR WHO YOU DEVOTE YOUR TIME TO

    AND AFTER BEING SHOWN REPEATEDLY YOUR TIME IS NOT VALUED

    YOU HAVE NOBODY TO BLAME FOR YOUR TIME BEING WASTED OTHER THAN YOU

    JUST LIKE A MAN CAN CHOOSE TO CHEAT-YOU CAN CHOOSE TO LEAVE

    HE’S NOT HOLDING A GUN TO YOUR HEAD TO MAKE YOU PHYSICALLY STAY-YOU ARE OPERATING UNDER YOUR OWN FREE WILL

    EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN YOU TO LOOK OUT FOR YOUR OWN BEST INTEREST WILL ALWAYS END WITH DECEPTION-YOU SHOULD NEVER GIVE THAT MUCH CONTROL OR RESPONSIBILITY TO ANYONE-BECAUSE IT ONLY BELONGS TO YOU


  86. 86
    WalkingKontradiction says:

    @Soulstar, thanks for the insight, I guess I will stop cursing her out and just say I’m here when/if you need me :shrugs: There’s really nothing else I can do, I will pray about it and let it go because I still have to live my life.

    SN: Still :rofl: @ Princess!!!!


  87. 87
    Choco says:

    @Walking
    I would start printing stories of how bad abuse can be like real life women being killed at the hands of their mate and anonymously mail them to her….


  88. 88
    mirsmommy says:

    WalkingKontradiction Says:

    Guys I have an issue. How do I get thru to a friend who’s with the muttiest of dogs AND is whipping her behind? I’m afraid she will end up dead after this last Ike/Tina episode(minus her fighting back) and it has been almost 10yrs, same mess, just keeps escalating. Everyone is telling me not to get involved, but I refuse to sit front row at a funeral knowing there may have been something I could have done….
    __________________________________________________________

    I’m sorry to hear that your friend is goin through that, but sometimes with people, men and women, the more you try to tell them to leave, the more they wanna stay and prove everyone else wrong.

    Just continue to be her shoulder to lean on, or hell, yall could jump his a** and teach him a lesson. If he can’t keep his hands to himself, then show him how it feels to have multiple hands beatin the ish outta him.


  89. 89
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    Just continue to be her shoulder to lean on, or hell, yall could jump his a** and teach him a lesson. If he can’t keep his hands to himself, then show him how it feels to have multiple hands beatin the ish outta him.
    _____________________________________________________

    I’m voting this out only becasue I read a book where they did this and once the dude healed and the friends weren’t around that beating put her in a coma.


  90. 90
    Princess Smarty-Pants says:

    :lol:

    @ MKM and Walking..I don’t know why yall are laughing. All BS aside she should start calling the police and those recorded domestic violence lines as well as taking the photos Soulstar mentioned.

    If any of you or the other friends are ever around for the beating kill him and say yall feared for your lives. :shrug: that way all the evidence is there. More importantly though take the photos whether yall call the police or not. Dont want Ma Dukes showing up at your trial hollerin’ NOT MY BABY!


  91. 91
    WalkingKontradiction says:

    Princess Smarty-Pants Says:

    Just continue to be her shoulder to lean on, or hell, yall could jump his a** and teach him a lesson. If he can’t keep his hands to himself, then show him how it feels to have multiple hands beatin the ish outta him.
    _____________________________________________________

    I’m voting this out only becasue I read a book where they did this and once the dude healed and the friends weren’t around that beating put her in a coma.

    _________________________________

    So true because he is a true abuser so if I were to say something to upset him the minute I’m not around he would beat the crap out of her, like yea your friend has a mouth let me show you what happens to women like her. That’s why I stopped going around, I’m like hell nah don’t say I’m causing your beatings, it’s just crazy. She knows how bad it can get, it’s not like she doesn’t know SHE KNOWS. I don’t even tell her to leave I just say get out of the situation, something so that you aren’t under his roof, have some space, your own space. He controls the ENTIRE SITUATION, he was a poor mate before the physical abuse even started, now it’s just like ok name one good thing about him and she can’t. Make him do something to prove he won’t hit you again instead of him just apologizing, buying you something, and then going thru the same cycle again. I’m convinced she is suffering from lower than low self esteem, because at this point even Stevie Wonder can see it isn’t love.


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    mirsmommy says:

    Princess Smarty-Pants Says:

    Just continue to be her shoulder to lean on, or hell, yall could jump his a** and teach him a lesson. If he can’t keep his hands to himself, then show him how it feels to have multiple hands beatin the ish outta him.
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    I’m voting this out only becasue I read a book where they did this and once the dude healed and the friends weren’t around that beating put her in a coma.
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    Oh damn. hmmmm, on to the next suggestion. :lol: BRB


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    mirsmommy says:

    @ Walking

    Does she have any family??? Does she work, or is he supporting her? Why do you think she stays? Do you think she’s scared to leave? Do they have children?

    Someone said to document the beatings and take photos, but she may be too scared to do that.. :sad: But some women are too scared to get the police involved.


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    WalkingKontradiction says:

    @Princess I’m laughing because you said what *ahem* PEOPLE have already been thinking :rofl:

    I told her to take pics, but this last episode she hid from everyone until she couldn’t anymore so I wasn’t able to snap any, and PLEASE BELIEVE he knows who to try it with because there has only been one incident in my presence and since I’m not sure if we’ve reached the statute of limitations I won’t mention how that result ended :lol:

    Needless to say, SHE STILL STAYED AFTER THAT AND IT WAS BAD THEN!!


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    WalkingKontradiction says:

    @mirsmommy, to answer your questions in order:Yes(can’t get thru to her either) Yes, No(she basically is the reason he’s afloat) Because she’s stupid(sorry, I know) has low self esteem and doesn’t want to admit that she’s wasted too many yrs of her life on a man that doesn’t deserve her so she continues to waste more. Don’t know if she’s scared to leave, I’d be more afraid he’d kill me if I stayed, and NOPE no children together, NONE FOR HER AT ALL…

    See why I’m at a loss :shrugs:


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    KaraZ says:

    @walkingKontradiction, you need to kidnap your friend. He’s going to maim, disfigure or kill her soon enough. Kidnap her, stage and intervention and find a therapy program for her.


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    Cinnamon Kisses says:

    If this true…Monica keep your head up…stay strong for your beautiful babies….and phuck Rocko…he will realize once your long gone that he phucked up. You are beautiful inside and out. Keep your faith….trust I know how hard it is to leave someone that you have kids with. :sad: :hug:


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    CorporateHoodB-tch says:

    KaraZ Says:

    @walkingKontradiction, you need to kidnap your friend. He’s going to maim, disfigure or kill her soon enough. Kidnap her, stage and intervention and find a therapy program for her.
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    :cosign: She doesn’t even have kids with him (still wouldn’t justify it) but it is even more an indication that she needs MENTAL HELP/THERAPY. If she can not afford help…try to get her family to help pay. Otherwise, even if she gets the strength to leave…he could easily convince her to come back to him.


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    mirsmommy says:

    KaraZ Says:

    @walkingKontradiction, you need to kidnap your friend. He’s going to maim, disfigure or kill her soon enough. Kidnap her, stage and intervention and find a therapy program for her.
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    :cosign: Ask her to ride with you to the store or something, and take her a** far away from him. Don’t give her no access to any phones, computers, etc. That’s sad.


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    WalkingKontradiction says:

    Lol!!! Y’all how the hell am I supposed to kidnap a grown woman????

    I had a friend tell me about the intervention thing too and I just said yea see if we can even get her away long enough to do it. HE AINT HAVING IT!!!! I agree @KaraZ I know what’s coming next, that’s why I try so hard, I’m trying to avoid it, but even with all that she keeps making excuses. I have a good mind to think that even if we did get her away, once we’re done with her she would go right back!!!

    *sigh* Really trying not to give up, I need a drink now, my head hearts.


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    lexdiamonz says:

    ah another victim of the reality TV curse tiny and TI take notes


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    Sexylenalove says:

    I live in Philly and two of my best friends and my 22 year old neighbor were all killed by boyfriends/husband. Bridget was shot in the face by her husband and he killed himself afterwards; Brennie was abused by her boyfriend and went missing 10 years ago, no one has ever heard from her; Asia was beaten by her boyfriend and set on fire.

    The first sign of a man acting possessive and weird…I’m out!


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