If you are a regular reader then you know that I have a no holds barred level of utter disrespect for Usher’s ex-wife, Tameka Foster. Some of you will never know the real Tameka because she’s really good at hiding her dark side behind a mask of deceit and lies. But if you really want to know the woman behind the mask, all you have to do to cross her is tell her the truth about herself.

The real Tameka surfaced on her Twitter page yesterday when she posted a series of tweets attacking her ex-husband Usher’s current mother substitute, former Def Jam Records exec Grace Manuel.

Coincidentally, I saw Tameka looking lost and lonely outside Saks in Phipps Plaza yesterday. Actually, my lunch companion, fashion blogger/socialite Sarah Chapman spotted her first. Tameka is so pathetic. She will never get over her obsession with Usher. Poor Usher had to sneak Grace into Dallas for All Star weekend because he knows Tameka is stalking them.

Here’s the interesting part: According to Tameka’s former associate, Usher is still tapping Tameka’s back. Hard to believe, isn’t it? And then there’s this:

Usher and Tameka were recently spotted shopping together at the standalone Ralph Lauren boutique across from Louis Vuitton at Lenox Square mall. The sales rep asked me if I was sure Usher and Tameka are really separated. She said they sure didn’t act like it.