Another Narcissist Joins Twitter

@RTB…I always wondered about those. I love me some Jimmy Dean hot sausage.

Ladies…Please tell me what you would do in this situation…

Me and my fiancee went to Applebee’s a couple months back. When we first got there, I noticed the waitress trying to flirt. So I was like, ok, I’m not going to say anything, I’m going to be cool about it because I already got him anyway. As we kept eating dinner, she kept smiling and flirting with my fiancee. Then when we get ready to pay for the ticket, she asks if it’s going to be on separate tickets. I clearly had on my engagement ring, and not to tote my own horn, but it’s an eye catcher. I catch women staring at it all the time…shoot, I always look at it myself…But anyway, what would your reaction be? How would you feel about that question?

Brown, are you ok??

Hey Flo!

I was thinking maybe it was just me, but I wanted to go upside her head. I didn’t answer when she asked, I let him answer, but gave her some death looks when she came back. I brought it up because we had the heffa again last night. First thing she said, “I’ve had you guys before haven’t I?” I could’ve slapped her right then, but I kept my cool. I was mean to her the entire time and was just wondering if I was wrong. I mean me just being mean to her kept her from getting a beat down. My fiancee noticed she was flirting too. He tried not to look at her after he saw me give her the death stare. He knows I have a short temper with females. I just can’t deal with disrespect, especially in my face.

Men do think it’s us being insecure, but I just can’t stand the disrespect. I’ve never been the type to want another woman’s man, and I feel women should show me the same respect. I told him she can’t be our waitress anymore He thinks I’m being insecure, I’m just trying to keep her from having a broken nose.

@Free…I would have been BEYOND pissed at that. I can’t lie, I would have wanted to call her up.

@ggouch…that’s what I can’t understand. people can be so trifling these days.

and @ IM MODE.

speakinmymind Says:

@ Flo
some men may think that’s being insecure…guess it depends on the man and what else is going on in the relationship. i live in Atlanta and have been here since i was a kid. it’s totally different here than it was say five years – heck, even ten years ago. it just seems women are a lot more blatantly disrespectful than they used to be, and even hubby and his friends notice it. i say all that to say that insecurity isn’t always the case. i’ve just grown tired of smiling it off while seething inside so i just go in on a ho’ and let her know that there’s an @$$ whoopin’ attached to this one. sometimes hubby beats me to the punch and handles it in his own diplomatic way (he’s such a fukkin nice guy!) but if i get to ‘em first…my mouth is legendary when it comes to checking a bish!

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@speak, yes ma’am. We were in Atlanta, and it’s happened before too. I had a heffa at wing joint off lawrenceville hwy say to him, “dang, your card all bent. You must be a baller.” and started smiling, laughing and flirting. I wasn’t so cool that time, I got loud with both of them. Fiancee walked out the store cause he knew I was about to act a fool. He called his momma to try to change the subject, she was cosigning with me I have never experienced as many desperate women until I moved here.

@ggouch…I feel that’s how it should be done. As well as if it were a waiter, he should address the male at the table majority of the time. I think it’s just etiquette and most young, black females don’t even know what it is.

@ms.everything… females choose to ignore the obvious signs trying to be cute.

@speak…I think it may be because it’s so many gay/dl men here. It’s hard to find a good, straight man so females are super desperate. Being desperate is going to get their females hurt though.