R&B singer and reality TV personality, Brandy, says she’s “just friends” with rapper Flo-Rida. But we know better. I’m not saying this email is evidence that Flo-Rida is cheating on Brandy. But I wouldn’t be surprised.

Loyal reader Gia writes:

Just thought I’d mention… I went to see a friend that works at Gold rush in miami and seems like flo rida was there boo’d up with a girl that is not Brandy.

I know why Brandy can’t keep a man: low self esteem. It’s also her low self esteem that compels her to make the wrong choices in men repeatedly.

God sends us signs about the people we should avoid in our lives. He then sends those people into our lives to test us. Women like Brandy often fail that test because her self esteem limits her ability to see that he’s not the right man for her.

Because of her low self esteem, she sees the outer package instead of what’s inside his heart. It’s really not that hard for men to tell when a woman has low self esteem. They can see their insecurities from a mile away. Some men even seek out women like Brandy so they can use and exploit them.

Ladies, please teach your children that looks aren’t everything.