This is really sad if it's true. It's very sad that we can't accept ourselves for who we are. But innocent babies don't have a choice and they can't defend themselves.


My friend bleaches her 9 month old son. She only dates light skinned men as she puts it " who doesnt want light skinned children black is dirty". Both her sons were born with more or less the same colour as her, now she bleaches the both of them. The father in the picture, is totally unaware of this. I have spoken to her on a number of occasions to stop but my words have fallen on deaf ears. I am not one for minding peoples business but what she is doing is dangerous. Do you think i should tell the daddy?

And while we're on the subject of innocent babies with peculiar features, loyal reader Natasha sent this in:

Beautiful eyes right?

According to recent Studies, the chances of an Afro-American baby with blue eyes being born are 1 in a million. There are “brown” people with light eyes, usually light brown, green or gray, but they also share the Anglo-Saxon characteristics such as pug nose and Light hair, but a baby with all the physical characteristics of the afro-American race with blue eyes was almost impossible. Seems like Globalization is working right? It will be more common to see mixes like this one day after day. This baby [is] 19 months now and since he was 12 months old got a full contract and a life insurance with Paramount Pictures; you will see him in movies, commercials and magazines very soon! Read More...

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    What a cuuuuuuuute baby! :hug: Come to mama!

  • Redeemed777

    I bet 90% of the comments will be " OH he sooo cute"

  • Candi Apple

    Wow how sad for this baby. The mother needs to be shot.. Tell the baby daddy what she is doing.

    The second baby is cute he looks like a happy baby.

  • LadyLew

    SO she worried about telling the baby father but she sending the pic in to be posted all over the net. Tell this broad to get it together. "She not one for minding people business" LMAO
    Anyway the mother is ridiculous. She need to be smacked too!

  • Redeemed777

    Heck I take that back. I bet 99% of the comments will be " He sooo cute "

  • TruGemini

    Might as well give up all the info since the BABY'S face wasn't covered...e'rybody know who that baby's people are :rolleyes:

    And I'm sorry but blue-eyed baby look scary... :-o

  • FloridaChick813

    Well I guess my boo has the Anglo-Saxon characteristics because his eyes are as blue as baby number 2's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • aqtpie

    That is so sad about the first baby! Cute kids, if the second baby had dark brown eyes he'd still be cute!!! My ex dated a chick with dark skin and blue eyes, they were a little darker than the second baby though!!

  • Candi Apple

    what you sayn' the baby not cute?

  • FloridaChick813

    Redeemed777 Says:

    Heck I take that back. I bet 99% of the comments will be ” He sooo cute “

    Aint nothing wrong with that!

  • Shauny

    Both babies are beautiful

    I really hope this story isn't true and the mother isn't using skin lightening cream on the baby. It's SO ignorant for her to think he couldn't get a girl because he's not lightskinned.

    How did the babies picture get on the net? Now for the bish who took this baby picture and so people like SR can attach it to their blog, YOU hoe, are not this girls friend. If you were her friend you would let the daddy know what she is doing to his child, try to talk some sense into her, call DCFS, tell her family, something. The best you could come up with was to send her picture to a fvcking blog. With friends like you're stank know the rest.

    I grew up with a dark skinned, coarse haired, baby blue eyed boy. Who knew he was 1 in a million. The little boy is adorable as well.

  • Redeemed777

    So you mean to tell me that because this BLACK CHILD has BLUE EYES that is why he has a full contract and insurance with Paramount Pictures?????

    So you mean to tell me that this mother bleached her BLACK CHILDREN'S skin because she does not like ( probably hate ) dark skin??????

    I'm looking forward to the day when YT says "CHECKMATE"

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Damn Shauny! :lol:

  • Shauny

    @Redeemed....I'm guessing you think one of both of the babies aren't cute?

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Redeemed777 Says:

    Heck I take that back. I bet 99% of the comments will be ” He sooo cute “

    And he is, soooooooooo, what's your point? :shrugs:

  • eastpointvet

    doenst sugar shane have blue eyes? well at least they are now they will be black come saturday

  • OutsidetheBox

    Where these Black people so rare at? OMG talk about ignorance.

    Anyway @fake friend...tell the dam.n daddy. Idiot. She gonna write Sandra has no children Rose with this foolishness. What?!?! I dont even think I believe this anyway.

  • Mspeng

    My friend had a baby in Feb who has blue eyes. She's black, her husband is black. Her husband's eyes are kinda light brownish but the baby is almost 3 months old and has blue eyes. Not light blue like this baby but hers is more of a deep blue. It's fascnating.

  • AprilRain

    What the Fkuc ever!! Yes the baby is sooooooo cute, and those eyes! The mom in the first post gets a >:(

  • pinksghetti

    A lot of babies are light when they are young and brown as they get older. I hope that's the case and not some crazy bleaching. There are some mad crazy people in this world as well as self-haters so it wouldn't impossible though. The blue eyed baby looks really unusual but he's cute the same way most babies are cute.

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    @Outsidethebox, I don't believe it either. Trying to give my people the benefit of the doubt that they wouldn't write a blog concerning possible abuse of a baby instead of contacting Children Services or anyone else first.

  • Candi Apple

    The commenters only said the baby is cute because it is so. I'm more concerned about the mother bleaching the child skin. You know what kind of health risk she is setting that child up for. The former concerns me more than a blue eyed cute baby who looks happy and healthy. White's already said "checkmate".

  • Jalisa

    I was on the city bus one time and this lady was on it.She had very dark skin like Eddie Murphy color and she had blue eyes. I kept staring at her because I was like this lady is too old to be wearing contacts, But I have never seen someone that dark before with pure blue eyes. She caught me staring and laugh and said yes, I have blue eyes. I kind of felt embarrassed. She was old too probably around her 70's.

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    Um honey, if you are so worried about your nut-case of a friend's baby, why dont you call DCFS on this hoe instead of posting this BS on the internet? You sending in pics but you haven't even told the daddy yet?? Girl stop!!

    So your friend thinks "black is dirty" but yall cool. LOL!! You are just as touched as her. You hang with this dumbass chick, right?

    IDK what the hell is going on with scary baby #2. I mean, he is cute and everything but he is scary. #noshade
    I do know a guy that is darker than that with blue eyes like this kid and he looks scary as hell too. Sexy and scary. Damn. He is from Ecuador.

  • Val

    if she is bleaching the baby's skin.. i wonder if the baby doctor has noticed?? the blue eyed baby looks pretty scary to me but I love his skin color

    and to the mom that is bleaching her kids.. she must have NOT seen sandra Bullocks beautiful BLACK baby
    sandy's baby is a lot prettier than hers and he's darker... just sayin.. babies are babies- maybe she should just have nasty sex with white dudes- ugh- lol

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    @ shauny>>>>>>>>>here<<<<<<<<< she know gat dayum well that she is all kinds of wrong. AND YES THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL BABIES!!!!!!

    @ eastpoint..... :rofl: yes they will.

  • Shauny

    The entry says
    There are “brown” people with light eyes, usually light brown, green or gray, but they also share the Anglo-Saxon characteristics such as pug nose and Light hair, but a baby with all the physical characteristics of the afro-American race with blue eyes was almost impossible...

    WHAT!!!!! "brown" people? And so you have to have a pug nose and light hair if you're eyes are anything other than normal brown? I just caught this shyt.

    I don't know what color my babies eyes are yet and she's 4 months. One day they look light brown, the next day green, gray, green with blue on the outer parts. And she doesn't have a damn pug nose or light hair. Stop the madness

  • Shauny

    sandy’s baby is a lot prettier than hers and he’s darker… just sayin.. O_o

  • Daisy

    Such a cutie patootie! A heartbreaker in the making!

  • FloridaChick813

    Sandra, my boo is pissed you said he has "anglo saxon characteristics"...


  • aqtpie

    :rofl: at the comments. Sandra just copied and pasted the entire commentary from a link.

  • OutsidetheBox

    @Sahuny...what color when she first arrived? I'm a pro with "eyes" as we call it in my family.

    My gmoms are gray. My 9yo are very green-brown (gray ewhen born). When I brought her home (I delivered in another state), HIS family was *side eye'n* the shi.t outta me! LOL

    His sister finally told me, "My mama dont think thats his baby"

    Well damn! Bitch aint nobody got to lie on your wack ass son!


  • QuettaV

    I hope and pray that the crazy momma understand that the chemicals in that cream may be to harsh for that baby's skin and may cause irratation or the baby can substain a rash or even a severe burn from the chemicals. :mad: someone needs to bleach the mothers eyes black and blue and then turn around and bleach the friends eyes too for sending in this story instead of going to the childs father. The nerve of some ppl!!!!!!

  • M3z

    One of our family friends has blue eyes! She wears tinted glasses to hide them. It's a strange yet beautiful thing to see... Cute babies...Lawwwd help that momma stop bleaching that baby! BLACK is beautiful!

  • Cinderella

    I am really weary of these "situations" that are posted online. If you really care about the well-being of the child, wouldn't it make sense to go to the mother and/or father about this instead of a blog?

  • va_shawty

    So, she couldn't tell the dad, but she could email Sandra and and have the baby's picture posted on a blog. Ummmmmm. Sweetie, you not only just told the dad, you have now told the world. If this was your intention... Well, MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!

  • Shauny

    @OTB - We couldn't tell, they were gray and blue looking. I was trying to put her in the light and everything to see but you know it was to sensitive for her eyes. Then one day I'm like o.k they're light brown but low and behold a few hours later they were back to that grayish blue. Hubby and his mom said she gets it from their side. His grandmother eyes did that.

  • biglegs36

    I believe the bleaching story! It was a chik on Tyra that was doing the same thing to her children. IDK why Tyra didn't beat her azz and the call the people on her so they can take her kids from her. Bish ain't got no buzness with kids!

    Light eyes, my grandma has light gray eyes, she looks like a cat or something. Freaky looking shYt. I use to date a guy that was black as smoke and he had some funny color eyes too, his shyt use to change colors. That was the weirdest shyt I have ever seen! Took me a min to look him in the eyes, because i was scared he would put a spell on me. LOL!

  • QuettaV

    The time she sent tying a e-mail to Sandra she could of got the father on the phone so he would know what is going on with his child instead of waiting until something bad happens to this baby!

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    OutsidetheBox Says:
    Well damn! **** aint nobody got to lie on your wack ass son!

    :rofl: OKAY, you aint neva lied. A mama's love is something serious because they be swearing somebody wana put a baby on their broke ass sons. What they really be meaning is, "I know my son aint sh*t and I dont want to be babysitting on the weekends he is SUPPOSED to have this kid." LMAO

  • QuettaV

    oops... *spent and typing is what I meant*. This post got my blood pressure up!

  • Cinderella

    @biglegs36, after reading some stories about how Tyra and her producers have casted paid actors on her talk show, she's lost all credibility in my eyes.

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    For real Cinderella?? I did not know about that. Maybe that's why Tyra is ready to end the show already. #fakeass

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    And who ever made the comment about being tired of seeing RICKY ROSS old ugly ass, :cosign:

    Who the hell is paying this nicca to do anything? #oldassyukface

  • Ms. Thickness

    There was this one guy that went to high school with me that had 1 blue eye(left) and 1 gray eye (right) no BS. It looks scary as hell... I bet if he read this he would be mad being that he didnt get a deal with paramount and dressed like crap in high school. lol

  • OutsidetheBox

    @SugarPie so you feel me :yes:

    LOL money is on hazel...and as she gets older...back to gray...gmom's did that too. I'd bet she is gaw-jus!!

  • biglegs36

    Cinderella, you know I was wondering where in the hell was she getting these crazy ass people from.

  • leapyearpisces

    That baby is cute, but he would be cute without the blue eyes, he's just a cute baby....and my dad is dark skin and he has blue eyes, but they are more of a navy blue...but they did not turn that way until he was 40. We thought he had cataracts at first, so he went to the doctor [because glaucoma runs in our family-his dad went blind from it] and the opthamologist said that everything was fine, he said he was basically how some white babies are born with blue eyes then they turn brown..he was like my dad was the reverse of this.. :shrug:

    Anywhoo, lets get to the real business at hand which IS...why I have a VERY vivid dream about Drake last night and I am not even a fan! I guess I will be now because of my dream :wink: it started off good and than ended up the dream he had sisters and they broke us up because they didn't want us together,so I spent the rest of the dream trying to get him back...then the alarm went off... I just thought it weird because number 1 that dream was SOOOOO real, and number 2, I don't find him attractive in any way...STRANGE...

  • leapyearpisces

    *excuse the typos, I swear I am not Charles, just in a rush to a 4:00 meeting***

  • htown-chick

    my friends nephew also had those blue eyes and he was brown skinned

  • ms.truth

    I bet he wear brown colored contacts when he gets older. If not, he's going to be a 'display' all of his life.

  • Cinnamon Kisses

    :rofl: @ leap :rofl:

  • mirsmommy

    Both babies are beautiful.

    Some people should not be allowed to have children. How the f*ck are you gonna go and bleach your baby's skin?!?!?!?

    Dumb muthaf*ckas

  • KrayZKat

    If true, I think the mother's mental status needs to assessed to deal with her deep rooted issues for bleaching her poor, innocent child's skin. So many people have been trained like little seals. It almost makes you think people should be tested for mental astuteness before having children so they don't pass their psychosis on to their children.

  • JDWhitedst

    The blue-eyed baby looks blind. Sorry. Freaked me out a little bit...but hey, God doesn't make mistakes.

  • qtipthecat

    @ east
    Shane Mosely has violet eyes and I am seriously hoping your wrong about the fight. I am so hoping it turns out the other way around and big mouthed clown Mayweather has the black eyes.

  • Candi Apple

    @leap do you feel like your loosing something

  • leapyearpisces


    No, not other than my mind...LOL.. but I have been worried because I got a promotion, but I have been having a little anxiety because I accepted tenatively until I could see the offer letter [HR recruiter was out of town] and sure enough the offer is not what it should be I am in the process of writing my counter...but other than don't feel like I am losing anything...

  • Shauny

    Ms Thickness are you from Chicago? The guy with the blue eyes that I grew up with had a brother with a blue and gray joke

  • Shauny

    :rofl: @ leap. I have dreams like that too sometimes. They're so real, you feel all in love or you break up with someone and be SO

  • Choco

    Am I the only one who is a little scared of the baby with the blue eyes - sorry it's looks sorta of demonic and to think I always thought that would be cute a chocolate baby with blue eyes-my son is brown his eyes go from gray, hazel, to light brown depending on what color shirt he wears and even that looks more normal to me-I'm glad I saw what that would really look like and my great great grandfather is 100% white so a lot of my cousins and family members have light eyes but they are also light....

  • leapyearpisces


    What are you talking about? I was DEVASTED and RELIEVED at the same time when I woke up...LOL...Girl, I was BEGGING him not to leave me.....shoot, he had even bought me one of those friendship ball bracelets....LMAO!!! :rofl: IT WAS SO REAL!!! The emotion was REAL!!!!

    That's what I get for trying to be good and not have me a goodnite :cheers: before bed...LOL

  • Shauny

    I use to have CONSTANT dreams like that about Jay Z when I was a stan in my 20's #dontjudgeme

    His mama use to be telling him don't do my like that when he was acting a fool (his REAL mama was in the dream too) :rofl: , I use to wake up like SERIOUSLY, did that just happen?

    Glad those stopped when I wasn't checkin for him anymore. My girl Isc can have Jigga. He's all yours Isc :lolol:

  • KaraZ

    Wait you can get paid for having a brown baby with blue eyes? FUUUUGGG, my cousin's kids need to get signed up pronto. His wife is biracial and both of his sons came out with blue grey eyes like their grandmother and everything else looking like him. It's really not that uncommon these days.

    that woman bleaching her child skin needs to kill herself, she is ruining that child for life, he'll be green before he's 5.

  • Man, I just don’t care™

    BABY #1: No need to overreact about the bleaching unless the products she's using are dangerous. Most are ineffective or temporary anyway. I would be more concerned about the mental aspect of how she treats "dark skin." How would the Dad NOT no how his wife felt about "dark skin?"

    BABY #2: I agree with what someone said earlier, that blacks are more frequently having different eye colors, along with other non-traditional black features. Not sure if this baby is any more "one-in-a-million" than anyone else.

  • KaraZ

    Man, you clearly haven't seen what long term use of even the mildest bleaching creams does to the skin after prolonged periods of time.

    Please go to youtube and look up skin bleaching in jamaica, one of the top results will be a clip uploaded by current tv. See for yourself. It's not overreaction.

  • whatdoesitmatter

    That blue eyed baby is really freaking me out. It makes me think that something may be medically wrong which I'm sure it's not, but that is so strange.

  • cahjan

    "True blue is growing up. He should be about 5 years old now. Here is a link to a current photo.

  • 2thick4u

    What the hell...bleaching the baby skin?!! Wow, she should tell him immediately. I am sure that it is harming those kids.

    The beautiful baby with blue eyes is so cute. I can't wait to see him in commercials and movies!! Gotta love them kids!!

  • free

    OMG. the dad should be able to tell there's something wrong with the skin. it really does look like he's bleached. she doesn't know what the long-term ramifications of applying those products will be. the friend should call child protective services and definitely tell the dad.

  • allwrightyden

    Both babies are cuties. Blesching a baby's skin is downright abusive and someone needs to report her!

  • allwrightyden

    I meant to say "bleaching"