A loyal reader who asked to remain anonymous sent this link to a blogger who insists she saw Lance Gross at LisaRaye’s party and he was not stalking her.

As someone who attended this party and saw Lance throughout the evening, this rumor holds about as much weight as a Dixie Cup. I didn’t think anyone was taking it seriously, but that’s what I get for giving people the benefit of the doubt.

Lance was not hounding LisaRaye. The closet they got was a picture together on the red carpet – and I don’t think in nine months there will be any new child to come of that pose.

Rest easy now.

First of all, I never said Lance was stalking LisaRaye. I simply relayed information from someone who is close to LisaRaye’s camp, and who heard the info from LisaRaye’s mouth. In fact, LisaRaye agreed to mention her encounter with Lance on Twitter last week, but for personal reasons she chose not to. I’m not mad that she left me hanging out there, but it does irk me that my credibility is being questioned.

My loyal readers know that I am simply the messenger when celebs or their camps want to release information to the masses. Why would I make up such a story about Lance and LisaRaye? How does that benefit me?

On the other hand, I am told that Lance is still having a difficult time getting over ex-girlfriend Eva Pigford. Maybe that’s why he posted the above pic on his Twitter page?

I’m told that Eva dumped Lance because she was sick of him hogging the attention wherever they went. They actually broke up a number of times before their last public split and since then, Lance has bombarded her with phone calls and text messages trying to get her back because he knows that without her, he’s nothing.

He really is pitiful, and Eva made a wise choice to change her numbers. Would you date a man who constantly posted pics like this of himself of the Internet for attention?

Ladies, please teach your children that looks aren’t everything!