Nas Ordered To Pay Big Bucks To Kelis

Sandra Rose April 13, 2010

$10,000 a month in spousal support is a mere drop in the bucket to a baller like Nas.

Even so, Nas should have persuaded his baby mama Kelis to have his baby here in Georgia where the couple had a home together. Judges here don’t care how much money a celeb makes. The standard child/spousal support check here in Georgia comes to about $2,500 a month.

Just ask rappers T.I. and Jeezy.

Nas went to court Monday over his divorce with Kelis — and walked out a little lighter in the wallet.

According to documents filed in L.A. County Superior Court, Nas had to immediately fork over $47,249.42 in back child support and $40,454 in back spousal support.

The judge also ordered Nas to pay $10,000/month in spousal support until he pays off the $299,015.50 he owes Kelis.

Nas also has to pay 90% of Kelis’ legal fees in the amount of $155,787.28.

Lastly, Nas has to pay $48,549.83 to cover Kelis’ accounting expenses. Read More…

lexdiamonz

somewhere Carmen(1st baby mamma) is laughing her azz off. dang Nas!!! now i hope men dont justify this is why they don’t get married Kelis man at least get your damn hair done with the money
Khunfuzion

He kept her relevant and she had to find a way for him to continue to do so, hence, the long drawn out divorce and the outrageous child and spousal support. Goes to show you she was broke when he wifed her.
Carmez79

situations like this make me sick. there is no way in hell she needs all this money especially when she has her own job. bitterness only gets you so far.
Nightshift

That is why its better to wife the hood girlfriend you have known for years instead of these industry cash registers.
ShoYaRight

this bish ain’t playing! i can’t even be mad.
Krysi J

ATTENTION ANYBODY who ever had the THOUGHT of dating the rapper NAS post his divorce, pleast take note, that HE WILL NEVER….EVER…MARRY AGAIN. Please believe the kitty and nothing else you think could be put on him can compare the memory of the bank statement he will have to look at after all of the said deductions.
s_johnson07

Cheaper to keep her. Kelis and Shaunie are both paid.
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

Men, please leave these bisexual skeezers alone! They fcuk up your head with their lezbianic tricks & find a way to milk you dry… You might think you’re enjoying all of it, but you one day wake up with a sore azz like Nas here.
Man, I just don’t care™

**BREAKING NEWS**

Nas set to appear in the third installment of “Why Did I Get Married?”

This will not be the first acting job for Nas and he says that is excited about the part. Stating that he “identifies” with his character and that he will pull from “personal experience” to add depth and believability to the part.
Cinnamon Kisses

SMH
SoulWithSass

I’m not mad at her. When you marry somebody, do right, or karma will bite you in the a**. And no…I have ZERO respect/sympathy for somebody who leaves their wife and is flying around the world cheating on her while she is PREGNANT of ALL things!

I love Nas but he and TIki Barber can both burn in Hell for that trifling crap. Shiftless a**ed men. Oh well, gotta pay when you play.

Good luck with that!
AWESOME ARSENAL

another extreme example of one of the many causes of our demise as a community/civilization.
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

at Man…..
ohpretty1

@ Soul – What did I miss about Tiki???
ohpretty1

Wait, this baby isn’t even a year old and he already owes back child support???
Anna

SoulWithSass Says:

I’m not mad at her. When you marry somebody, do right, or karma will bite you in the a**. And no…I have ZERO I love Nas but he and TIki Barber can both burn in Hell for that trifling crap. Shiftless a**ed men. Oh well, gotta pay when you play.

Good luck with that!
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Why was I mad at Tiki like he was my brother or his wife was my BFF. I guess hoeish ways comes in all personalites. Why Tik gotta go and cheat w/the nanny.
Man, I just don’t care™

@SOUL WITH SASS
“I’m not mad at her. When you marry somebody, do right, or karma will bite you in the a**. And no…I have ZERO respect/sympathy for somebody who leaves their wife and is flying around the world cheating on her while she is PREGNANT of ALL things!

I love Nas but he and TIki Barber can both burn in Hell for that trifling crap. Shiftless a**ed men. Oh well, gotta pay when you play. ”
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I agree. I have NO problem with Kelis finding someone dumb enough to get married. LOL.

SHE cheats on him on tape AND SHE gets the money AND the child? LOL. If the “rules” continue like this marriage will finally be a thing of the past by 2050.

Need some more ~~hoes~~….women like Kelis.
mirsmommy

I don’t even know what to say. SMH @ Kelis. Nas needs to do better in his choice of women.
LilMissRed

ha! Cha-Ching Mo Fo! Cha-Ching!
LLani

That’s ridiculous!! She took his bootay to the cleaners!!! Damn! I don’t think she deserves all of that money, did he have a prenup? If not he’s a dumb mothatrucka!
pyt305

DAMN!!! I had no idea Nas was making that kind of money to even pay her lol kelis is bitter and nas is paying for it
ohpretty1

Why was I mad at Tiki like he was my brother or his wife was my BFF. I guess hoeish ways comes in all personalites. Why Tik gotta go and cheat w/the nanny.
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@ Anna – Not the daggone Nanny! I swear if I didn’t have an education and a hustler’s mentality (will work for mine) I’d be a nanny. They are really coming up in the world! (Elin, etc.)
AWESOME ARSENAL

@mirsmommy
no shade, but i’d like you to answer a couple of questions if you would entertain me for a moment….
if a woman was to get into a physically adusive relationship and leave only to get into another physically abusive relationship, would you think that she was to blame for being beat up as you implied in your comment?
if a woman didn’t cheat on her man but treated him like shit should he be punished for wanting to leave her?
does having a child together make the man an endentured servant to the mother?
again no shade, i’d just like to hear your opinion
Krysi J

**BREAKING NEWS**

Nas set to appear in the third installment of “Why Did I Get Married?”

This will not be the first acting job for Nas and he says that is excited about the part. Stating that he “identifies” with his character and that he will pull from “personal experience” to add depth and believability to the part.
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ROTFLMAO!!!……stop playing nicca!

And yea Nas still has to reap what he sows….I just know damn well he will NOT be entertaining marriage before 65 in the future.
bigtyme

nas said he is not making that type of money and doesn’t know how she expects to get it!
MS.G

The reason why he owes back child support is bcs apparently he hasn’t given up any cash to help with the child…the order is starting back from the day of birth! that’s the law here in the DMV…the judge will order you to pay arrears! Can’t be mad at the law! It is what it is! If only I could get my 5,937.03…smdh
Man, I just don’t care™

@AWESOME ARSENAL
“does having a child together make the man an endentured servant to the mother?”
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Yes, yes it does.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KRYSI
“And yea Nas still has to reap what he sows….”
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What exactly did he “sow?” Besides being foolish enough to get married?????

Now that I think about it, I wonder if Kelis fugged the judge that made this buffonish decision?
mirsmommy

AWESOME ARSENAL Says:

@mirsmommy
no shade, but i’d like you to answer a couple of questions if you would entertain me for a moment….
if a woman was to get into a physically adusive relationship and leave only to get into another physically abusive relationship, would you think that she was to blame for being beat up as you implied in your comment?
if a woman didn’t cheat on her man but treated him like **** should he be punished for wanting to leave her?
does having a child together make the man an endentured servant to the mother?
again no shade, i’d just like to hear your opinion
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Yep, it’s all the woman’s fault if she gets her a** whooped.

Yes, the man should be punished for wanting to leave her.

And yes, the man should be an endentured servant to the mother.

Just jokin, no shade.

How you gather those questions from my comment??
Anna

ohpretty1 Says:

Why was I mad at Tiki like he was my brother or his wife was my BFF. I guess hoeish ways comes in all personalites. Why Tik gotta go and cheat w/the nanny.
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@ Anna – Not the daggone Nanny! I swear if I didn’t have an education and a hustler’s mentality (will work for mine) I’d be a nanny. They are really coming up in the world! (Elin, etc.)
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Maxwell S married “The Nanny”. Yep Tik ran off w/the 23 yr old white Nanny. What women hires a young nanny? My nanny is going to be older than my hubby but an olympic gold medalist to keep up w/the kids.
mirsmommy

Damn, I hit submit, before finishing.

But, I said what I said, because, me, personally, if I was done so wrong in my marriage to the point of divorce, I don’t want ish from ya a**. Just take care of ya kid. I shouldn’t have to force (child support) ya a** to support the life of ya child. You as a person should do that ish willingly.

That’s my opinion. Plus, I said Nas needs to make better choices in women, since, Carmen, his baby mama, was out suckin and f*ckin JayZ, and then he and Nas had a damn public beef goin back and forth. And then his wife, had a damn sex tape out of her suckin and f*ckin. Now, I’m not sure if that was before or during the marriage, but it was a tape out there.
Krysi J

What exactly did he “sow?” Besides being foolish enough to get married?????

Now that I think about it, I wonder if Kelis fugged the judge that made this buffonish decision?
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You’re right he shouldn’t have married her, if he knew he couldn’t be faithful. NOW DON’T START DAT SHYT TODAY MAN!
mirsmommy

@ Anna.
AWESOME ARSENAL

@mirsmommy
excuse me for assuming but you mentioned his bad choice in women as if he was more at fault than the system and how scorned women can use it to their advantage.
i mean, you probably know a woman/friend who has been a victim of domestic abuse but i doubt that she came home from the first date talking about “yeah girl he punched me in my mouth but i think he’s the one!”
Ms.Everything

This mess is so wrong and I use to LOVE her but this mess changed all that. You don’t mess with anyones money, that’s their livlihood. He worked for that and I’m sure he would’ve gave her a decent settlement. Bitter women do some messed up things and he’s probably gonna go broke from this in a couple years and then she’ll realize how stupid this was
mirsmommy

AWESOME ARSENAL Says:

@mirsmommy
excuse me for assuming but you mentioned his bad choice in women as if he was more at fault than the system and how scorned women can use it to their advantage.
i mean, you probably know a woman/friend who has been a victim of domestic abuse but i doubt that she came home from the first date talking about “yeah girl he punched me in my mouth but i think he’s the one!”
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You crazy. I hope nobody comes and tells me no mess like that!

Some people don’t always see the flaws in others, but sometimes, people can be blinded to the flaws due to love, lust or even their own insecurities. Just my opinion. From what I’ve heard, Nas had some ish goin on too, but the man been played twice publicly by women that I’m sure he loved at one point or another. He prolly sayin his I coulda, shoulda, woulda’s, now that she hit him up for all that money.
Krysi J

he’s probably gonna go broke from this in a couple years and then she’ll realize how stupid this was
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by that time he won’t even care anymore. She better be glad he keeps a job, most dead beats won’t even work just to avoid paying child support.
pinksghetti

I thought Kelis was one of those eccentric artists but if all of this is true about the spousal/child support, it seems like she is just another greedy person. I think she has issues with men to tell the truth, don’t forget “I Hate You So Much Right Now” that song should have scared Nas or any other man off.
mirsmommy

Krysi J Says:

he’s probably gonna go broke from this in a couple years and then she’ll realize how stupid this was
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by that time he won’t even care anymore. She better be glad he keeps a job, most dead beats won’t even work just to avoid paying child support.
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That is sooooo true. My niece’s dad, well donor, is a deadbeat like that. His a** stopped working to avoid paying child support. We just recently heard that his a** is working under the table now.
Ms.Everything

@Man and Anna. Anna what I don’t get is why these rich folks hire nannies anyway especially if one isn’t working. One of the first lessons I learned about dating and men is you don’t leave ANY woman around your man unattended for long periods of time period. My best friend in hs fvcked my man while I was in the house sleep and never again did that happen. A man who wants to cheat will do it anyway but bringing in a woman especially a young one to live with you and your man is just asking for trouble in my opinion. Take care of your own kids, have a sitter on call and put those babies in day care or preschool if you have to work or need them out the house during the day. Eff a nanny unless you’re a single parent on your own
Lady_L

I agree with Kunfuzion, I think she was basically broke when he wifed her..
ohpretty1

bigtyme Says:

nas said he is not making that type of money and doesn’t know how she expects to get it!
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Sell that Phantom, he’d be caught up. He could also give up a couple of the five homes they claimed to own.
AWESOME ARSENAL

@mirsmommy
exactly. they both did dirt and one having to pay disproportionately is like a drug dealer calling the police on another drug dealer saying that since they came in the game together they deserve some of the others’ money because they aren’t as successful.
but this happens every day on a smaller scale where men are having their children taken from them reguardless of whose more capable/willing to take care of them. i’m all for going after deadbeats but i work and see dudes that pay child support every day but are regulated to seeing their children every other weekend, if at that, and it goes to mothers that don’t work or put in nearly as much effort in providing for their children. so really fuck nas, i don’t really care about his situation but it’s really an example of how men in general and black men in specific are getting fucked
intensemocha

IT’S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER, OOOOH IT’S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER

MY MAMA USE TO SING THIS SONG ALL THE TIME

LOL!!!!
intensemocha

JUDGE HAS THE FINAL SAY-POINT BLANK

ARGUING IS A MUTE POINT-GREAT WAY TO PASS THE TIME, BUT YET IN STILL A MUTE POINT

OOOOOHHH IT’S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER
Krysi J

I mean I wouldn’t put anything pass Kelis, we don’t know her azz…and if she did cheat on him ALSO, and still did him like this because she’s angry then yea its a fukked up situation indeed. And let me also add that if this shyt about kelis is true, I do not expect Nas to re-marry in this LIFETIME.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KRYSI
“You’re right he shouldn’t have married her, if he knew he couldn’t be faithful. NOW DON’T START DAT SHYT TODAY MAN!”
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is HE knew HE wasn’t going to be faithful? WTF? Wasn’t SHE the one that was unfaithful…ON TAPE?

Not that I even fault her (or him) for being unfaithful because chit happens.

I fault him more for actually signing a contract that he dind’t benefit from AT ALL. SMH.

Ain’t no way.
ohpretty1

Maxwell S married “The Nanny”. Yep Tik ran off w/the 23 yr old white Nanny. What women hires a young nanny? My nanny is going to be older than my hubby but an olympic gold medalist to keep up w/the kids.
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That was too funny (you can tell I still watch reruns). In his defense, Mr. Sheffield was a widow, he wasn’t cheating on anyone and it was years before they went ‘there’. It was really a love story. What happend to grandma or great aunt watching the kids if you needed? Any woman coming into my home with be 55+, “one leg and a kick stand” or a gay male.
Man, I just don’t care™

@INTENSE MOCHA
“JUDGE HAS THE FINAL SAY-POINT BLANK

ARGUING IS A MUTE POINT-GREAT WAY TO PASS THE TIME, BUT YET IN STILL A MUTE POINT

OOOOOHHH IT’S CHEAPER TO KEEP HER”
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It’s cheaper to never “have her” (get married).
mirsmommy

AWESOME ARSENAL Says:

@mirsmommy
exactly. they both did dirt and one having to pay disproportionately is like a drug dealer calling the police on another drug dealer saying that since they came in the game together they deserve some of the others’ money because they aren’t as successful.
but this happens every day on a smaller scale where men are having their children taken from them reguardless of whose more capable/willing to take care of them. i’m all for going after deadbeats but i work and see dudes that pay child support every day but are regulated to seeing their children every other weekend, if at that, and it goes to mothers that don’t work or put in nearly as much effort in providing for their children. so really **** nas, i don’t really care about his situation but it’s really an example of how men in general and black men in specific are getting ****ed
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I’ve actually witnessed black men and black women go through b.s. when it comes down to child support. My Dad’s baby mama (my little brother’s mother) took him through hell and high water regarding child support, and scheduled visits because she was a b*tch. My Dad ALWAYS took care of us. If my Mom or my sister’s Mom, was working, we were with my Dad, because he didn’t have a set schedule. Our Moms didn’t have to file child support, because he handled his business. Before his baby mama filed for child support, he was handling his business with my little brother. Spending time with him, picking him up from school, taking him to restaurants, amusement parks, buying him clothes, toys, etc, and he got hit with paying $175 a week for an 8 year old.

My sisters got hit with the sh*ts end of the stick as well. Their kids’ donors don’t pay for sh*t and don’t spend time with the kids’, at all. hell, one was even locked up for child support, and still don’t pay sh*t. One Judge ordered my two nieces’ dad to pay an additional $13 a week for the youngest when she was only 6 months!!!! Just because her dad was into sports, and was a coach!!
qtipthecat

I think what you mean is “MOOT POINT”. I could be wrong, but I don’t think so.
Anna

Ms.Everything Says:

@Man and Anna. Anna what I don’t get is why these rich folks hire nannies anyway especially if one isn’t working. One of the first lessons I learned about dating and men is you don’t leave ANY woman around your man unattended for long periods of time period. My best friend in hs fvcked my man while I was in the house sleep and never again did that happen. A man who wants to cheat will do it anyway but bringing in a woman especially a young one to live with you and your man is just asking for trouble in my opinion. Take care of your own kids, have a sitter on call and put those babies in day care or preschool if you have to work or need them out the house during the day. Eff a nanny unless you’re a single parent on your own
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What I don’t get is why does Elin have a Nanny, isn’t she the Nanny? I do agreee that you don’t let a female move in with you, no matter how much you trust your man.
mirsmommy

Anna Says:

Ms.Everything Says:

@Man and Anna. Anna what I don’t get is why these rich folks hire nannies anyway especially if one isn’t working. One of the first lessons I learned about dating and men is you don’t leave ANY woman around your man unattended for long periods of time period. My best friend in hs fvcked my man while I was in the house sleep and never again did that happen. A man who wants to cheat will do it anyway but bringing in a woman especially a young one to live with you and your man is just asking for trouble in my opinion. Take care of your own kids, have a sitter on call and put those babies in day care or preschool if you have to work or need them out the house during the day. Eff a nanny unless you’re a single parent on your own
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What I don’t get is why does Elin have a Nanny, isn’t she the Nanny? I do agreee that you don’t let a female move in with you, no matter how much you trust your man.
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Soooo true. Did anyone on hear ever listen to Wendy Williams when she was on the readio? Right before she went to TV? If so, do you guys recall the situation with The Nanny, The Husband, and The Wife? The husband and that nanny needed their a**es whooped!!!

If you guys don’t know what I’m referring to, it was a white couple, that hired a young black nanny, and the husband and the nanny began having an affair, and the nanny got pregnant.
mirsmommy

*here*
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

Tiki hired his mistress as his babysitter, he was fcuking her before the twins were even born so it’s not a case of his wife was slipping. Besides the fact that he confessed to his wife, lets me know his side ho was a ho on a mission.
Man, I just don’t care™

Tiki’s relationship with his baby mama was over. No one to blame, it was just over. He moved on and she needs to do the same.
AWESOME ARSENAL

@mirsmommy
believe u me i do sympathize with a lot of the single mothers’ plight. my momma was one. she had 4 boys and didn’t get no child support,food stamps, subsidized housing, section 8…my auntie was gone off crack so my momma ended up with her 4 too. my aunt’s daughter had 4 and my mother ended up with 3 of them. my momma bust her ass and for 8 years she didn’t get any help from anybody until me and my brothers were old enough to hustle and bring home money. i don’t have any sympathy for deadbeat fathers, mothers, cousins at all. i got cousins who get child support but don’t raise their kids but won’t give the money to grandma or auntie whose doin the work.
the reality is the men that actually want to be in the kids life are taken to the cleaners in court and pushed away more than people would like to admit and the ones who weren’t gonna be around anyway pretty much get off or the women don’t go after them. i could beg on them street and come up with more than $13 a week. shit, i could be a gigolo and have some woman paying it for me. my brother is a deadbeat and seriously if he wasn’t he wouldn’t be part of my life at all. i raised his daughter for 2 years when i got kicked out of college cause he wasn’t shit and the child’s mother was a teenage alcoholic. hell, my sons’ mother had two kids before me and as soon as i moved her in my crib child support was coming after me for them. i could keep going but i’m sure you get my gist
Ms.Everything

The problem with judges ordering ridiculous settlements imo is that there are so many deadbeats being brought before judges that they are automatically biased and assume that every man is gonna be like the last. I never heard anything regarding him not taking care of his other child. If I was his lawyer id request a new judge and start a whole new case, which is possible (at least it is in CA) so I don’t know why his lawyer hasn’t done that yet. I mean there are some trifling ass women out there who don’t do crap but sit home and collect a county check while they’re baby daddy is doing everything for the baby and then the county goes after a man who is already taking care of his child. Or who will collect that child support check and use it on themselves while the kid is looking raggedy. I know a guy who pays 575 for his 5 year old but has her 4 1/2 days out the week, + he takes her to all medical appts + buys all her clothes, food, toys because the mama won’t and drives 2 hours to get her every Wednesday night and 2 hours to drop her off every Sunday night. The mom is only willing to drive if she needs to get her money and that money is going straight in her pocket. No one needs that much money to take care of a child or themselves. If you can’t live with whatever you get in child support/spousal support get a damn job. If that still doesn’t work for you let him raise the baby simple as that. Kelis has a job that makes her money she doesn’t need all that meanwhile I’m sitting home with 4 kids and not a dime in support, I have an order that they can’t collect on, but did I sit back crying and go broke? Hell no I kept a job bringing in enough to support all of us and have gone about my merry way.

And she needs to be careful cause if he fails to pay the IRS or dies suddenly they will go after her ass to collect. That happened to my mom. She was paying my dads debt to Uncle Sam 5 years after he died which was 10 years after they divorced.
mirsmommy

@ AWESOME ARSENAL

I understand where your coming from. That’s a damn shame. That’s sad that your moms took on others’ responsibilities, with no help whatsoever.

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the reality is the men that actually want to be in the kids life are taken to the cleaners in court and pushed away more than people would like to admit and the ones who weren’t gonna be around anyway pretty much get off or the women don’t go after them
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That is beyond the truth!!!
When my Dad was going to court for child support and visitations for my little brother, one Judge didn’t wanna hear nothing he had to say. The first judge told my Dad to keep all of his receipts, and the second Judge told him, literally, what you do for the child outside of paying child support does not matter.
intensemocha

qtipthecat Says:

I think what you mean is “MOOT POINT”. I could be wrong, but I don’t think so
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WHAT I MEANT IS WHAT I POSTED-OBVIOUSLY YOU GET THE POINT, I’M ASSUMING SINCE YOU ARE TRYING TO CORRECT ME

DUH-SOME PEOPLE POST JUST FOR THE SAKE OF POSTING AND ADDRESS ME JUST TO HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY!?!?WTF

SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE-SERIOUSLY
mirsmommy

Ms.Everything Says:

The problem with judges ordering ridiculous settlements imo is that there are so many deadbeats being brought before judges that they are automatically biased and assume that every man is gonna be like the last. I never heard anything regarding him not taking care of his other child. If I was his lawyer id request a new judge and start a whole new case, which is possible (at least it is in CA) so I don’t know why his lawyer hasn’t done that yet. I mean there are some trifling ass women out there who don’t do crap but sit home and collect a county check while they’re baby daddy is doing everything for the baby and then the county goes after a man who is already taking care of his child. Or who will collect that child support check and use it on themselves while the kid is looking raggedy. I know a guy who pays 575 for his 5 year old but has her 4 1/2 days out the week, + he takes her to all medical appts + buys all her clothes, food, toys because the mama won’t and drives 2 hours to get her every Wednesday night and 2 hours to drop her off every Sunday night. The mom is only willing to drive if she needs to get her money and that money is going straight in her pocket. No one needs that much money to take care of a child or themselves. If you can’t live with whatever you get in child support/spousal support get a damn job. If that still doesn’t work for you let him raise the baby simple as that. Kelis has a job that makes her money she doesn’t need all that meanwhile I’m sitting home with 4 kids and not a dime in support, I have an order that they can’t collect on, but did I sit back crying and go broke? Hell no I kept a job bringing in enough to support all of us and have gone about my merry way.

And she needs to be careful cause if he fails to pay the IRS or dies suddenly they will go after her ass to collect. That happened to my mom. She was paying my dads debt to Uncle Sam 5 years after he died which was 10 years after they divorced.
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That first statement you just made, is exactly what I told my Dad. And that’s the messed up part about it, because you do have the cases where the Dad is not a deadbeat and actually doing what they can for the kids.
ohpretty1

the reality is the men that actually want to be in the kids life are taken to the cleaners in court and pushed away more than people would like to admit and the ones who weren’t gonna be around anyway pretty much get off or the women don’t go after them.
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mirsmommy

Damn it, I did it again.

And they, the non-deadbeat Dads, get the sh*ts end of the stick.
Anna

KaraZ Says:

Tiki hired his mistress as his babysitter, he was fcuking her before the twins were even born so it’s not a case of his wife was slipping. Besides the fact that he confessed to his wife, lets me know his side ho was a ho on a mission.
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What wife would agree to this? SMH. My husband is not going to pic a Nanny for our kids.
ohpretty1

I told a cousin of mine to keep all of his receipts and to give the child’s mom money orders or checks instead of cash. He pays for EVERYTHING for his daughter. He didn’t want to listen, stating “She’s cool.” I told him, we’ll see how cool she is if you ever get into another relationship and/or finish school. Long story short, seven years later, he’s getting married and now owes seven years worth of back child support and this woman has a very checkered work history for the past 7 years, and retail at that. It doesn’t take a genius to see there’s no way she could have supported that child and herself working at the mall.
mirsmommy

ohpretty1 Says:

I told a cousin of mine to keep all of his receipts and to give the child’s mom money orders or checks instead of cash. He pays for EVERYTHING for his daughter. He didn’t want to listen, stating “She’s cool.” I told him, we’ll see how cool she is if you ever get into another relationship and/or finish school. Long story short, seven years later, he’s getting married and now owes seven years worth of back child support and this woman has a very checkered work history for the past 7 years, and retail at that. It doesn’t take a genius to see there’s no way she could have supported that child and herself working at the mall.
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SMH at the ish some women pull. I know his a** was pissed!!!
AWESOME ARSENAL

@mirsmommy
yeah, the stress of working 2-3 jobs to take care of all of us finally got the best of her and she passed in 2002 2 months after my first son was born. i used to be angry at her and wondered why she wasn’t more selfish and just take care of her own, not to her face though. i grew older and realized that the world needs people like her, otherwise we’d all be fucked, so i’m extra hard on folks that just sit on their ass and let the government take care of them. it’s funny because these are the same chicks that always scream how independant they are and how they don’t need anybody’s help.
what my momma did had a residual effect on 3 of her sons though. we all have raised children that were not our own and took them in many times at our own detriment. i couldn’t believe that the state started taking money out of my check for the two kids that weren’t mine and i had to go to court to straighten it out. at the time i had been the kids’ father for 3 years and i got them when they both were still in diapers. it was fucked up that i had to stand them in front of the judge and tell him that i’m not the kids father in front of them.
Anna

ohpretty1 Says:

I told a cousin of mine to keep all of his receipts and to give the child’s mom money orders or checks instead of cash. He pays for EVERYTHING for his daughter. He didn’t want to listen, stating “She’s cool.” I told him, we’ll see how cool she is if you ever get into another relationship and/or finish school. Long story short, seven years later, he’s getting married and now owes seven years worth of back child support and this woman has a very checkered work history for the past 7 years, and retail at that. It doesn’t take a genius to see there’s no way she could have supported that child and herself working at the mall.
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Child support should be set up imediately. The courts will go back to date of birth once you file. Keeping receipts in some states mean nothing.
mirsmommy

AWESOME ARSENAL Says:

@mirsmommy
yeah, the stress of working 2-3 jobs to take care of all of us finally got the best of her and she passed in 2002 2 months after my first son was born. i used to be angry at her and wondered why she wasn’t more selfish and just take care of her own, not to her face though. i grew older and realized that the world needs people like her, otherwise we’d all be ****ed, so i’m extra hard on folks that just sit on their ass and let the government take care of them. it’s funny because these are the same chicks that always scream how independant they are and how they don’t need anybody’s help.
what my momma did had a residual effect on 3 of her sons though. we all have raised children that were not our own and took them in many times at our own detriment. i couldn’t believe that the state started taking money out of my check for the two kids that weren’t mine and i had to go to court to straighten it out. at the time i had been the kids’ father for 3 years and i got them when they both were still in diapers. it was ****ed up that i had to stand them in front of the judge and tell him that i’m not the kids father in front of them.
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You are absolutely correct with the world needing more people like her.

Did the kids’ Mom file for child support against you for the two children, and this is what caused them to garnish you?
AWESOME ARSENAL

@mirsmommy
the state came after me because since we weren’t married i couldn’t add her/them on to my insurance. one of the kids had to go to the doctor and she used the state insurance. i’m guessing they thought that i was the father and we were somehow trying to get over for paying for it. when the letter came to my house it had the biological father on it so i really didn’t pay it any mind because i thought it was about her trying to get a child support order against him. in wisconsin if they send you a letter and you don’t respond they’ll take that as an admission of guilt and start garnishing your check. from my understanding they thought she was using an alias for me because we weren’t getting any stamps or nothing like that.
evryting ended up getting dropped and we stayed together for another 5 years after that. she didn’t get any child support from dude the entire time.
mirsmommy

AWESOME ARSENAL Says:

@mirsmommy
the state came after me because since we weren’t married i couldn’t add her/them on to my insurance. one of the kids had to go to the doctor and she used the state insurance. i’m guessing they thought that i was the father and we were somehow trying to get over for paying for it. when the letter came to my house it had the biological father on it so i really didn’t pay it any mind because i thought it was about her trying to get a child support order against him. in wisconsin if they send you a letter and you don’t respond they’ll take that as an admission of guilt and start garnishing your check. from my understanding they thought she was using an alias for me because we weren’t getting any stamps or nothing like that.
evryting ended up getting dropped and we stayed together for another 5 years after that. she didn’t get any child support from dude the entire time.
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Oh, okay.
Ms.Everything

@Awesome, wow that’s a messed up story but it seems like you’re a good man. I can’t stand trifling parents be they mothers or fathers period. If you know you aren’t willing or capable to take care of a child get fixed get on some type of semi permanent bc or dont do the deed at all. I don’t believe in abortion but when I see some mothers with their kids I start to really think about that. Although there are a lot of deadbeat no good fathers there are just as many deadbeat mothers out there, the spotlight just isn’t on them. I worked my ass off until they fired me only taking one week off the entire time I’ve been sick. I only took that week because I was in the hospital. I would leave the ER at 3 am and be back at my desk on time the next morning at 8 and I did that so my kids could eat, have insurance and a roof over their heads and so they could see that you don’t depend on others to take care of you. Now that I’m home I still get up get dressed and let them see me taking care of business. While I was waiting for my unemployment checks I went and applied for food stamps. Here I am, have worked my whole life and these women with 50/11 kids are sitting there dressed better then me, labels head to toe, hair freshly done and the kids are dirty and bad as hell. 5 years old sucking pacifiers and shit. Then I get inside and the worker looked at my son and couldn’t believe that he was intelligent enough to sit quietly and read a book while I was filling out paperwork nor could she believe that there was only ONE father for my 4 children and that he was my husband. She checked birth certificates wanted to see my marriage license and everything because that was apparantly such a rarity. I was so damn upset by the time I left there that all I could think was how do these chicks do this every month and think its okay, that having the government all up in your business is just the thing to do so you can sit home and do nothing but talk on the phone and make some more babies. And in CA they actually have a cutoff on the amount of children you can have while getting paid. I can’t remember the actual number but after a certain amount of kids are born and you still haven’t got off welfare they will not increase your check. You’ll get more food stamps and the baby will have insurance but you’ll have the same amount of money each month. They also only give you 5 years of receiving cash aid and then they will cut you off and only allot a certain amount to the kids and food stamps but these chicks still find away to get around it smdh. I couldn’t do it

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