PICS: T-Boz & Frank Ski B-Day Bash At Havana Club

Sandra Rose May 5, 2010

TLC member Tionne “T-Boz” Watkins and WVEE (V-103) Morning Show host Frank Ski celebrated their birthdays with friends and family at Havana nightclub last night. T-Boz’s groupmate Chilli, who currently stars on her own reality TV show, was there along with music mogul Devyne Stephens, and other local Atlanta celebs and execs.

Frank Ski’s custom cake was in the shape of the tools of his trade: a microphone and a set of headphones

Frank Ski, Chilli and T-Boz

Do you think Chilli and millionaire Devyne Stephens make a cute couple? Judging by Chilli’s very picky preferences on her new dating show, he’s rich, but he wouldn’t make the cut.

Devyne Stephens, DJ Infamous and Frank Ski

T-Boz is probably wondering why Chilli keeps turning down gorgeous eligible me on her dating show. Chilli doesn’t hide the fact that she’s superficial and only wants a guy with money

The fly Decatur Flavas were in the house

T-Boz’s cake was designed in the shape of her favorite high end shoe

Photos by Prince Williams/ATLPics.net

Ms. Thickness

I HAVE A PURSE LIKE T-BOZ BUT IN BROWN…THE REAL THING..LOL
Krysi J

Hmmmmm…. so you’ve been wearing the same hairstyles since…..what maybe ’95?
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

Oh snap look at “Bucky” from Flavor of love season 2….

Ummm..I see both Chili and t-boz had the baby hair on full effect for the night….

And the cake looks bad…She should have gone to “Ace of cakes” or somewhere else at least the shoe could look a little more real and the writing on the cake looks horrible…

But hey I didn’t pay for it so I don’t care…Who did the cake Frankie or Neffie…or did Chili let her son do that cake for free….
Mspeng

I do not find Chili to be as beautiful as most people like to claim she is. I wouldn’t even really call her average either. She’s not attractive to me. However, she has really really great skin!
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

Heck I am ashamed to know that I can recognize that girl from Flava of love…. Got her thinking she famous and ish… :*SMH*

Oh and yes I know they are just eating the cake but if you are going to put a design on it let it be cute…..
TSRBenz

i havent seen that chick from flavor of love in a minute and that mic cake is lame
Redeemed777

They all look very cute!

Oh yeah…..

Sandra? can you post the story about your name-sake, Sandra Bullock, and how she wants Mr. Jesse James to help her raise LOUIS?

Sandra Bullock gonna do a 360 degree backflip on all yall talking bout some “congratulations” SMH
Redeemed777

Sandra your site makeover is very good!!!
OutsidetheBox

Those are nice cakes. I love baking.

Ahhhh TBoz: my first girl crush! HB!!!!

Is that BUCKY?!?!
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

Chili knows she needs some makeup on with these closeups at this age

Frank looks like he’s sucking in his stomach.

TBoz, the hair is not the bizness.

Everyone looks tired
Candi Apple

Chilli has beautiful skin. She still looks younger than her age. Too much makeup ages the skin so I like that she limits her use. After a while women begin to develop crators, pours become damaged and the skin dries easily.

T-Boz has beaten many odds and at one point she had a tumor removed from her brain. She couldn’t talk or speak. I am happy she is living and recovered from her tramatic experience. She looks good
Candi Apple

Sorry she couldn’t talk or walk.
ajonesy

i see frank ski fell for the skinny jeans trend.

i predict a testie yeast infection coming on in 5…4…3…2…1
Ms.kaylamomma

More like the Cobb County Cootie Queens
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

@Sandra, did you see Comedian Katty Kim’s (sp) last two videos. Hilarious. She went hard on Frank, Chili and Nina. I can’t wait until the next one.

Sidebar: Swiper no swiping. Stop stealing folks’ pictures and not give them any credit.
Al-Ameera

Them with that damn baby hair. Geez, I hope when I come to ATL I don’t catch the case of the baby hair
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

@attorneymom, don’t you see the photcredits link? How about you stop being the intanets police and go cook dinner for your lovely family.
http://facebook.com/Im2thick4u 2thick4u

LMAO at T-Boz looking like she just came from a Winter/Spring sale and wore shit from both seasons!!!

I hope every1 had a good time cause they damn sure don’t look like it!!!

The only people who looked like they enjoyed themselves are the chicks that don’t nobody know, expect for Buckeey from Flavor of Love!!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

This party looked lame
Nika405

Baby hairs unite!
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

@Sorry, Sandra. I was looking at the pictures from my blackberry.

@KaraZ, is your avatar a picture of you? *&*(*

Never mind.
http://www.facebook.com/evieannie speaknoevil

Man are ya’ll about to go hard on again..lmao! @attorneymom and @KaraZ! Omg!!!
Daisy

@Al I been in the A 10 yrs and I have NOT ever caught a case of the baby hair don’t put that on all women in the A!
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

@ Missy, I am cracking up at your gravi of Kobe and his 2010 Minstrel Show photo shoot.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

KaraZ says:

@attorneymom, don’t you see the photcredits link? How about you stop being the intanets police and go cook dinner for your lovely family.
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KaraZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 I laughed so hard my homegirls cat just ran under the couch and wont come out…she’s gonna gill me
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Does Chilli and T-Boz have a hairstyles dedicated strictly to their baby hair.. IMJUSSAYN you’re in your 30’s ladies…..
gypsyeyes

Hey everybody. Karaz be good. Didn’t I say no cutting up while I’m out this week? Just hardheaded.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

SOMBODY please tell BUCKY! She still lookin a lil flavor flav quality like. SMH!!! Go get your state job back chick
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Hey gyp!! love your gravi (wish I could put mine back up…but oh well…two years of SR loyalty don’t even get you gravi instructions) JUST DAMN
Daisy

@Missy’s gravi
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@ggouch
I found it funny and im happy he did that photoshoot it gives me something to laugh at

@Karaz- *dead* …i cant with you no more…
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

DAMN Comment 26 should have said Stylist. pick up new contacts friday
shunda

They look bored. _______^______ dead at Missy’s gravi
http://snailmymail.com The Doll

Chili is so beatiful to me. T-Boz looks like she didn’t want to be at her own party she looks very thrown together. I hope she’s doing okay.

Speaking of the “millionaire” what happen to LisaRaye’s announcement of her engagement?
Ms.Everything

I think T boz is so pretty. Left Eye was gorgeous but T Boz has always had a natural drama free beauty about her. Its good to see her

Oh and you’ll see more baby hair in CA than ATL. IDK why they think that’s cute
topworld

Chilli seems way awkward with Devyne…
TSRBenz

lol @ 31 please keep that gravitar
ohpretty1

re: baby hair – Sometimes Chili overdoes it but this isn’t the case tonight. I’d rather see it slicked down and back instead of displaying an uneven hairline. I don’t recall women getting lined up, lol. Yall just go hard sometimes. #noshade
Reality

Look cute
FloridaChick813

Well I think the ladies look great… I remember in middle School, I used to rock the baby hairs..

and I thought I noticed Buckey when I looked at the pics, but I couldnt remember her name.

Ooh and that cake looks a mess.. Is the heel on the shoe leaning???
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

Morning y’all

@TRSBenz i change my avatar/gravi more than some people change their underwear ..so i can’t guarantee I will keep this long but for now it stays ……
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Flo it does look like it leaned.I wonder If Tionna smalls (chili’s matchmaker)…you no what never mind …..it probably fell off and they stuck it back on
Ms.kaylamomma

I swear Kobe looks like a gay slave. Good morning all

Why won’t my radio let Rickey Smiley Morning Show be GREAT. Waka Flocka is on today and I need to listen.
FloridaChick813

@ Missy

Uh huh, I read your mind.. I already know what you were gonna say.. ((taking my belt off so I can stripe your behind))

You really cant see it leaning in this pic, but I saw it on another site and it look like it was sippin some of that lean
FloridaChick813

HEY MKMOOOOOOMMMMMMMMAAAAAAAAAAAA

That dam.n Waka Flocka has some pretty lips. I’d like to take a seat…. Well nevermind
BROWNSUGAPOET

Mornin Fam
Ms.kaylamomma

Heyyyy FloRida, Brownsuga, Missy, e’rybody!!
Ms.kaylamomma

Wacka Flocka is an interesting looking dude. He’s cute but just not my type.
TruGemini

Wonder why they chose to have their parties together…just seems so random to me?? Bucky…girl BOOOOOOOO! She choking the hell outta her 15 minutes!

T-Boz look a pure-tee mess. Chili thank she flyyyyy wit her wack ass. And them cakes really look a fool. BUT who am I to complain…it ain’t my party.
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Ms.kalya -HEEEYYY

@Flo- You want me to call the Internet Protective services for you….. and that cake is on some serious lean for real….

But hold up you trying to beat me and you talking about that Waka Flocka *pulls out bug spray* *sprays computer screen with bug spray*
FloridaChick813

Ms.kaylamomma says:

Wacka Flocka is an interesting looking dude. He’s cute but just not my type.
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Interesting indeed… Not my type either though, only thing im interested in is those lips

LOL
FloridaChick813

:lolol: @ Missy

#DodgesBugSpray

***HEY BROWN***
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Good Morn-TING SR FAM!!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

GG! Mornin Guh! as my big mama would say
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

Sandra are you going to post the Video of Monica on “Chelsea Lately” last night…She was trying to hook Chelsea and Rodney up…she said he still got swag and she heard Chelsea like rappers…That interview was too darn funny…
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@GG – Morning
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Morning y’all
FloridaChick813

The photoshopped pictures of Kobe on another blog are tooooooo da.mn Funny!!!!!!!!!!!!

I bet he’s kicking himself in the as.s for doing that photoshoot!
FloridaChick813

@ Missy –

I love Chelsea, she is toooo funny!!! I’ll have to watch the interview when I go home though.
Ms.kaylamomma

@ FloRida, I’m sure Kobe knew what they would look like BEFORE they were put in a magazine. He wanted people to laugh his ass all the way back to the plantation. That’s the look he was going for. A Gay Kunta Kintae!

Morning @ GG and Yvonne
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@FLo- That is where I got my gravi from (if your talking about RWS)..When i saw them i couldn’t resist…
BROWNSUGAPOET

so you like stiletto Flo????????
FloridaChick813

DEAD @ MKM && “a gay kunta kintae” With them puckered lips!!!!!!!!

@ Missy, yes @ RWS.. Which one did you choose?? Cause I still see the 4 “fun boys”..

@ Brown, yea I love me some heels, but I also have a sneaker fetish too.. My job just announced that my dept can dress casual(basically means jeans) til Labor Day, and Im excited cause I rarely ever get to wear my sneakers.. But on another note, its HOT as a monkeys as.s in FLA in the summer time, and uhhhhh, jeans are not quite the “ideal” outfit. IDK why they didnt do this during the winter time, that wouldv’e been great
BROWNSUGAPOET

I see Frank is gettin his Peabo Bryson on! Kara I think Chili looks fine without make up
BROWNSUGAPOET

FLO you know i tiold you I was gonna be stuck up after I got my haircut right? Well i thought I was cute yesterday anyway so I was walkin in the parkin lot of the shop and had some heels on and fell on my azz! I was so happy the parkin lot is in the back of the shop!
FloridaChick813

@ Brown…. Hmmmmmm, you had that “stank” walk too… Why is it when women(dont matter the race) always feel like the sh.it when they leave the hair salon??

GIRL, last week I had on this cute sundress and some cute lil heels. Tripped over a rug in the break room and fell DOWN. On my face.. Had to catch myself and ended up squishing my sausage biscuit. I was soooo glad no one was in there
Ms.kaylamomma

Pics please
BROWNSUGAPOET

Flo one time I was walkin and saw this nice piece of eye candy at work and had on a new outfit and heels and slipped on somethin……..i fell and slid up under a rail and damn near did the spilts! He busted out laughin! He was like How in the hell did you fall like that!

MKM pics of what???
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

Good mornting….

Sandra, can you fix the emoticons page… it doesn’t help just showing me the emoticon and no code.
FloridaChick813

I wanna see some pics too please!!!!!!

Of the new dou!

@ Brown doin splits and ish… How the he.ll you slid up under a raul????
FloridaChick813

Hey ms. Truth

I was wandering if the smileys would ever work again!
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Flo- I use the one with the oats box … it says “Now extra moist”
Ms.kaylamomma

I love eye candy

“Pics of what??” Lemme think about that one… Ok, I’ll settle for pictures your new ‘do chica!!!!!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

Flo you’ve seen my haircut! You know seen it’s natural now I have to keep it tight! it was a rail not too far from where i was and i fell in this real awkward position! I feel like I’m already at a disadvantage since I’m bowlegged and pigeon toed anyway! I’m a slip and fall waitin to happen!
Ms.kaylamomma

Why does my whistle emoticon look like Kobe with his lips puckered??? I can’t see the notes that come out when he whistles. Sandy, I no longer like this white background.
FloridaChick813

@ Missy – Thats perfect, just perfect!!!!!
Ms.kaylamomma

Morning MsTruth.

Where is Sandra??
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Ms.kaylamomma you have to look at the emoticon real hard and you can see it…..
FloridaChick813

@ Brown, ooh okay, so you just got edged up and sh.it… Owwwww!!!!!

Girl im soooo clumsy… and forgetful… Sometimes I think Im supposed to be blonde
BROWNSUGAPOET

“Now extra moist”

I could really take this and run with it but I’m not!
FloridaChick813

Ms.kaylamomma says:

Why does my whistle emoticon look like Kobe with his lips puckered??? I can’t see the notes that come out when he whistles. Sandy, I no longer like this white background.
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I think its being lazy today. I dont like the white background either, its tooo damn bright.

But for some reason its loading sooo much faster
FloridaChick813

BROWNSUGAPOET says:

“Now extra moist”

I could really take this and run with it but I’m not!
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Please and thank you
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

Waka is fine until he opens his mouth. He is 6’6 with dreadlocks. Rickey tried to clown him about his country accent. He was born in NY, but raised in the south.

Sidebar: Isn’t it funny that some Comedian become mad when you clown them? Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it. Selah.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

:Newpost:
Ms.kaylamomma

I thought I heard that last night. Like biting into a freshly baked cake.
BROWNSUGAPOET

Flo you don’t have to beg me not to, I’m gonna behave today
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Where’s Sandra??? I desperately need to be entertained
BROWNSUGAPOET

Biting Ms Kay??? Really???? Are you tryin to bait me?????
Ms.kaylamomma
FloridaChick813

Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it.

This is the new slogan in my household
BROWNSUGAPOET

exiting stage left
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

Y’all minds in the gutter ..

Any who has anyone been on the takeout today…they have some juicy details about D.wade and his wife..and it is juicy ..but I think d.wade leaked those documents

And Siovaughn got the clap from a dude she lost her virginity too…
FloridaChick813

I need to be entertained as well..

Que’s in Strippers!!!!!!!!!!!

OoooOooOooo I love biting/to be bitten (MEOW)
Ms.kaylamomma

**eyes Brownsuga** No ma’am. I’m not! You’re going to behave today? So will I.
FloridaChick813

@ Missy

I cant access that site from work, but I will check it out from my phone Gotta see what exactly was clappin.. :lolol:
Ms.kaylamomma

***cues Juve “Back dat ass up” *** Coming to the stage……
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Flo @ “Gotta see what exactly was clappin”

She needs to drop the suit because that documents makes her look way bad and she was cheating from 2004..and the last child might not be dwaynes … …wow

I hope she take the money and run…..
Ms.kaylamomma

Mannnnn @ Missy. I hardly believe anything Takeout says. Boooooo!
Al-Ameera

@ Missy, huh, what, who got the clap…..What did I miss about Mr. & Mrs. Wade???
Man, I just don’t care™

@MISSY

Take that picture DOWN! Insulting the greatest basketball player of all time!

BLASPHEMY!
FloridaChick813

Ms.kaylamomma says:

***cues Juve “Back dat ass up” *** Coming to the stage……
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#ThrowsMoney@MKM (Hoping for a one on one later)

LOL

My bad I spelled “cues” wrong
FloridaChick813

missy says:

@Flo @ “Gotta see what exactly was clappin”

She needs to drop the suit because that documents makes her look way bad and she was cheating from 2004..and the last child might not be dwaynes … …wow

I hope she take the money and run…..
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Girl if I poot my baby will be like “Ewwww Mommy, your booty was clappin”..

And I cant see it from my phone either, when I blow it up it only gets blurry But I will def. check it out when I get home.

Is there proof that she was cheating??? *side eye* at her for calling the kettle black.
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

I got my money ready!!! Anyone coming to the stage?
flsun99

Got dammit, I’m so sick of all that damn baby hair…..Ugh!
FloridaChick813

@ Yvonne, hell I thought MKM was up there
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Ms.kaylamomma-but the takeout can be on point at times..and if someone spent their time doing that then they are losers…it makes Siovaughn look bad and d.wade look like a angel..

@Man-Kobe looks sexy in that pic

@Al-Its on the take out ..it is so much drama .I can’t even write it …

@Flo-Yeah it did say she was cheating… :s ..from 2004 she was fooling around and she blacks out when she gets angry…. I quit ….this is to messy for me…
Ms.kaylamomma

***coming out in my stripper shoes and bedazzled bra and panties, eyes the crowd, sees FloRida, licks lips, heads her way***
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

ms.truth says:

Good mornting….
Sandra, can you fix the emoticons page… it doesn’t help just showing me the emoticon and no code.

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It’s fixed. I’ll look into that whistle smiley as well.
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

Can we have another Dr. Phil session today?
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

*Coming to the stage*

Kobe bryant and his puritan outfit…..

*Ladies please get the dollar bills out” …

*playing shake that azz” by mystical
Man, I just don’t care™

***coming out in my stripper shoes and bedazzled bra and panties, eyes the crowd, sees FloRida, licks lips, heads her way***
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OH CHIT!
**checkin wallet for some bills!**
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Aw snap! *inching closer to the stage*
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

It’s official!!! Missy is retarded as hell
FloridaChick813

@ Reporter Missy,

Thanks for the info hun, I will check up on that later.

Mumbles to self “People always tryna to use that ‘i black out when i get mad’ as an excuse for acting a dam.n fool… I know I do”
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Well um Good Morning…
Rare forms are heavy in here today lol at Attny and KaraZ

T Boz looks pretty to me Chili is washed out she needs to let the red color in hair go those cakes made me laugh so horribly done…
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

@Mstruth: Yes, we can have another Dr Phil moment. Let’s start with me!

How often do you think about sex?
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Ms.kaylamomma you got competition..

Kobe just pop locked and dropped it and did a split….

*drops a penny on a stage* how you gone upstage that….
Man, I just don’t care™

*Coming to the stage*

Kobe bryant and his puritan outfit…..

*Ladies please get the dollar bills out” …

*playing shake that azz” by mystical
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**quickly closes wallet and moves far away from the stage**
FloridaChick813

Ms.kaylamomma says:

***coming out in my stripper shoes and bedazzled bra and panties, eyes the crowd, sees FloRida, licks lips, heads her way***
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(points at my chest) WHO ME???? (turns around to look behind me, then back at MKM) ME????

Ima need the DJ to play Too Short “Bounce that as.s” – I wanna get EVERY penny worth of as.s shakin!
BROWNSUGAPOET

so now yall got sweaty balls all pver the stage!
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

Fred knows good and well that he got those deposition documents from Dwayne Wade’s camp.

I am going to have to stop blogging about this case from a legal aspect. Very interesting.
Man, I just don’t care™

Kobe just pop locked and dropped it and did a split….

*drops a penny on a stage* how you gone upstage that….
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**leaves tip on the table and exits…**
FloridaChick813

THANKS SANDY!

((Looks over at ms. truth while MKM bounces that fatty in my face))

((Sips on Blue Long Island))

Whats wrong hun??? SPILL IT
FloridaChick813

missy says:

*Coming to the stage*

Kobe bryant and his puritan outfit…..

*Ladies please get the dollar bills out” …

*playing shake that azz” by mystical
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BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

((throws tomato’s))

I think i’d rather see his wife and her Cruella Deville eyebrows..
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@yvonne who me????

@Flo lol Reporter Missy is always here to give the info ……
FloridaChick813

yvonne79 says:

@Mstruth: Yes, we can have another Dr Phil moment. Let’s start with me!

How often do you think about sex?
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TOOO DAMN OFTEN!!!!!!!!!!! Atleast ONCE a MINUET
BROWNSUGAPOET

I was about to introduce my new trick but Kobe ruined it so I’ll wait!
Ms.kaylamomma

**sees Yvonne out the corner of my eye licking her lips** You next!! *cues “Seems like you’re ready” R.Kelly** **walks up to FloRida, nervous, biting her lip** **whispers in her ear**Don’t be nervous sweets, I won’t hurt you! **turns around annnnnnnnnnnd…***
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

Why can’t y’all let Kobe be great???? he can’t always grease up the polls …….

Kobe doing work…
Ms.kaylamomma

@ Missy. I can’t with you today!
BROWNSUGAPOET

I know somebody better answer they’re damn email!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

@MS Kay: “Seems Like your ready” is my jam!!!!

@Flo: Ok, I thought it was me. Now I don’t feel so bad especially after reading you and some of Brown’s comments I was telling my mom that I think something is SERIOUSLY wrong with me. That’s all I think about. A song…someone eating fruit….anything will trigger my mind to wander (and not to a good place) And I’ve noticed each year it gets worse.
BROWNSUGAPOET

*their
Ms.kaylamomma

Yvonne says:

@Mstruth: Yes, we can have another Dr Phil moment. Let’s start with me!

How often do you think about sex?
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Every minute of the hour! I’m constantly thinking of new tricks to try. I’m going to hell, yes, I know!
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

*young money bed rock* playing

Kobe takes off his puritan hat and his white shirt and start “dick slangin” (yeah kobe knows about the new dance craze)..

He then drops to his knees and begins singing “I can make your bed rock girl ” and pops his booty…

@MKM you were doing private dances and …Kobe decided to entertain everyone whiles you working….I know you cant get to everyone at one time….
BROWNSUGAPOET

yvonne I’m appalled! I started late so I’m just makin up for lost time!
ohpretty1

Good morning all.

question – Can one be sent to the kona b/c of their gravi?
FloridaChick813

**Checks email**

It aint me!!!!!

@ Yvonne – I hear the older women get the higher their sex drive goes. Im a little worried about myself, cause I couldnt imagine being more sexual then I already am.

I have a co-worker, she said she never wants to have sex. She said she only gets h0rny right before her cycle comes on, but other than that, she said she’d rather go without it.. I said “well, sounds to me like you havent had good sex”
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

so as most of you know, I’m getting married in September…my fiancee is on my facebook, along with a guy that I used to talk to. We never got into a relationship, were just friends, because of some things that he was dealing with (babymomma, 2 kids), but I developed feelings for him, until I found out about the 2nd kid, and then my feelings for him went away because I knew I couldn’t trust him. I stopped talking to him around the same time me and my fiancee met. So today, I wrote a very encouraging message for myself on facebook as my status, and the ex-friend commented on it and said something to the effect that he doesn’t know why people are hating on mine and my fiancee’s relationship because I was too sweet to have enemies…my fiancee got mad cause he said we were doing it in his face. Now about him, as I said before, our 2nd year was rough, and I found some emails from him to his ex. This was done behind closed doors.

My question is…I know that there isn’t anything going on between me and my ex-friend, and he’s sincere about being happy for me and my fiancee, he’s even engaged himself. What we say to each other is done in the open on facebook. What I do know is that my fiancee’s ex isn’t happy about us being engaged, and those emails were done in the dark. I don’t think they’re still communicating, but I don’t understand why he’s mad about this when he did something behind my back. Am I wrong for still communicating with the ex-friend in the open on facebook?
FloridaChick813

“dick slangin”
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GIIIIRRRRRLLLLLLL them boys KNOW they need to STOP.. Then as one does the dance, they others stand around and watch, talking about “Owwww” or “Uh Oh”.. WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT HIS D!CK JUMP AROUND???? Girl that is tooooo much..
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@Flo in my riley voice form boondocks “Those Niccas ghey!!!!”
Ms.kaylamomma

@Missy, I really can’t take Kobe serious with him looking like burnt beef in your gravi

@ Flo, it is true. The older a woman gets…You told you’re coworker right. Good sex makes you want to keep on.
ohpretty1

@ ms.truth – No. I think it is because you used to talk to this guy, your fiancee may (strong emphasis on ‘may’ b/c I don’t know him) think you are still leaving a window of opportunity open.

@ missy – It was your gravi I was speaking of. It was the first thing to catch my eye and I just dropped my head. :hugs:
BROWNSUGAPOET

why is he even respondin to his ex
FloridaChick813

@ Missy

@ ms. truth – I dont think what your doing is “wrong”.. However it might just make your fiance feel a tad insecure.. But I do feel like if you still communicating with FRIEND is causing problems in your relationship, then stop the communication.
Ms.kaylamomma

I know sumbody betta check THEIR damn email.
http://twitter.com/ms_missy2791 missy

@ms.truth – He just doesn’t like the taste of his own medicine..and he may be afraid you still have feelings for him…but he is wrong for e-mailing his ex and they may have been inappropriate so he may think y’all are doing the same thing…

@ohpretty1- I know it was for me.. you have to blame KOBE not me..
Ms.kaylamomma

@Mstruth, he got mad because he was probably doing something himself with the ex. Maybe! He feels guilty. Men are simple. He hid those emails from you because?? You found them or did he voluntarily hand them to you?
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

FloridaChick813 says:

**Checks email**

It aint me!!!!!

@ Yvonne – I hear the older women get the higher their sex drive goes. Im a little worried about myself, cause I couldnt imagine being more sexual then I already am.

I have a co-worker, she said she never wants to have sex. She said she only gets h0rny right before her cycle comes on, but other than that, she said she’d rather go without it.. I said “well, sounds to me like you havent had good sex”
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Hmmmm, I hope it doesn’t get any worse than what I am experiencing. This is hell for real!!! And what makes it so bad, I don’t have a signifigant other so I don’t have THAT release. When I did have one, I couldn’t get enough. I wanted it all day, every day. Dude even complained that he was not a machine could not perform on command. Go figure! Going to the gym, swimming or walking doesn’t help. I try to read my Bible and pray this sexual spirit off me – nothing!!! Honestly, I think I need to sit on someone’s couch. I have an addiction.
FloridaChick813

@ Yvonne –

I say im addicted to “busting nutts” all the time.. Its just the feeling that I get when it happens.. WHOOOOO WEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I trully feel for you though hun. Its not fun having a high sex drive and no one to release it on. Might I suggest you may want to take a walk to the “adult toy store” – I have made GREAT friends from there!!!! And im able to hide all of them under my bed
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

@ohpretty…but that’s the thing…when I say I have been faithful to this man, i mean FAITHFUL. I’ve never cheated on him and never will. I know in my heart that this is the man that God made for me, so I def wouldn’t miss it up, not to mention that I have no desire to.

@Brown…he says that he was just messing with her head, but I got in his butt about that…that doesn’t even sound like a logical answer. he knows the chick is psycho, why would he open up that can of worms. I honestly think he just wanted to see if he still had it.

@Flo, I think you’re right. We’re not even close friends or anything. He’s just a cool dude.

@MKM…I found them. I snooped after I emailed her asking her to stop trying to communicate with him and she said that he had been responding to her and that they were friends and were going to continue talking…I honestly don’t think they’re talking anymore because she’s calmed down and he’s serious about doing right and getting married, and if he’s lying in the church, then God will punish him, not me.
FloridaChick813

@ ms truth

How long ago did you find the emails??
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

@Mstruth: Most people with double standards are committing an offense. For example, my ex used to check my phone and emails looking for something, anything regarding me talking to another man. Come to find out, he had all of these side chicks he was cakin’. To keep me from finding out, he would try to cover his tracks and delete emails and text messages so I won’t find anything. He was being insecure because of what he was doing. Not saying your guy is like that but I wouldn’t put it past anyone.

Now, I don’t see anything wrong with you talking to your ex-friend on Facebook. The entire conversation is out in the open for ANY and EVERYONE to see. That’s innocent to me. When you have to sneak around to send emails, that would make me give a dude the side eye. Now, if talking to this guy upsets your beau and causes him to feel insecure about your relationship, end the friendship. Keep in mind, he should do the same!
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

FloridaChick813 says:

@ Yvonne –

I say im addicted to “busting nutts” all the time.. Its just the feeling that I get when it happens.. WHOOOOO WEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I trully feel for you though hun. Its not fun having a high sex drive and no one to release it on. Might I suggest you may want to take a walk to the “adult toy store” – I have made GREAT friends from there!!!! And im able to hide all of them under my bed
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Tried that, just can’t get with apparatus in the cooch I was soooo bored with the one I had. I figure if I’m gonna kick it with B.O.B than I may as well wait for the real thing!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@Ms.Truth
I think you are wrong for doing in the open but not because of your fiancee but because perhaps you and your friend should keep what you two have to say to yourselves-isn’t this how your fiancee handled it-you are trying to show him there’s nothing for you to hide but that doesn’t matter to your fiancee who is dealing with his own guilt and very well may be still in contact with his ex….
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

@Flo, it was like a year and a half ago, this was all before we both started trying to do right.

@yvonne, you are right. before, I would have thought something was going on, but I honestly don’t think it is now. I think you can tell when a person has changed, and I can honestly say I think he’s changed. I mean we both used to cuss and smoke and everything, and neither of us do that anymore. He changed his number and blocked the chick’s email and everything. I think he’s insecure, but I don’t understand why. if anything, I should be the one cautious.
ohpretty1

Well I vote to send KOBE to the kona indefinitely. When Gary with the Tea said he looked like a gay pilgrim, I rushed to get to a computer. Having a feminine gay man say “That’s gay,” speaks volumes.
BROWNSUGAPOET

SOMEBODY AINT GOT NO DAMN EMAILS!

Ms truth the worse thing you can do is go after her because if he repspects you he wouldnt he communicating with her period and if you know he has a genuine problem with your friendship then you’d have to give up yours and if your friend is a true friend he’ll respect it. One of my best freinds since middle school was a guy and he got married and his wife had a problem with us being friends because of her insecurities, hell her sister was married to my cousin so she knew me but I had to step back and respect their union
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

@Choco…I see what you’re saying, but honestly, I’m not trying to prove that I don’t have anything to hide, because I really don’t. I was just commenting back to him, which I thought was innocent.
FloridaChick813

yvonne79 says:

FloridaChick813 says:

@ Yvonne –

I say im addicted to “busting nutts” all the time.. Its just the feeling that I get when it happens.. WHOOOOO WEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I trully feel for you though hun. Its not fun having a high sex drive and no one to release it on. Might I suggest you may want to take a walk to the “adult toy store” – I have made GREAT friends from there!!!! And im able to hide all of them under my bed
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Tried that, just can’t get with apparatus in the cooch I was soooo bored with the one I had. I figure if I’m gonna kick it with B.O.B than I may as well wait for the real thing!
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GIRL YOU AINT LYIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not sure if this is TMI, but I used to bust within like 2 mins while playing with the toy.. Now it takes about 10-15 and a bish be tired…
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

thanks Ladies!!! I think I’ll give up the friendship…nothing’s worth giving up my babes.
FloridaChick813

ms.truth says:

@Flo, it was like a year and a half ago, this was all before we both started trying to do right.
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Key words “BEFORE YOU BOTH STARTED TRYING TO DO RIGHT”

So if he’s trying to do right now, dont bring up old sh.it. Ya know??? Its like this, before me and my honey got serious and moved in, we both knew we had other “friends”.. I cant hold him accountable for what he did before we both got serious. I can only hold him accountable for whats going on now.

But like everyone is sayin, if it makes your fiance feel insecure, just cut the ties. No hard feelings.
FloridaChick813

ms.truth says:

thanks Ladies!!! I think I’ll give up the friendship…nothing’s worth giving up my babes.
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http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

FloridaChick813 says:

Key words “BEFORE YOU BOTH STARTED TRYING TO DO RIGHT”

So if he’s trying to do right now, dont bring up old sh.it. Ya know???

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http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@MsTruth
there you go girl you know what’s more important to you – see Ladies don’t you wish all of our Dr. Phil moments are this easily resolved…
FloridaChick813

@ Choco
LilNancyDrew

Topic ruined with all that personal mess. Anyways, T-Boz and Chilli look great! As for the baby hair, that’s how Chilli hair grows. I really don’t see the problem with it.
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

I’m glad we can have these Dr. Phil sessions … I really don’t trust anyone that I really know when talking about issues with my man. Females can be triflin these days and use it against me…You guys help me out a lot!
FloridaChick813

@ MS. TRUTH

girl I feel the same way… I dont like involving my friends or family. It gives them reasons not to like him and to disapprove.. so since yall bish’s really dont know me, I’ll just tell ya’ll :lolol:
http://twitter.com/mrs_truth ms.truth

:lolol: so true Flo!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I concur 100% with telln it all…
misslee21

Chili trippin on her show, I dont even watch that mess anymore