Tiki Barber Banned From Delivery Room Where Wife Delivered Twins

Sandra Rose May 28, 2010

According to the NY Post, unemployed former NFL star Tiki Barber was banned from his estranged wife’s delivery room while she was giving birth to his twins.

A hospital spokesperson confirmed the former NY Giants running back arrived at NY hospital with his girlfriend on Monday, but he was denied access to his estranged wife, whom he dumped for his blond co-worker.

Ginny Barber’s representative Jesse Derris declined to reveal the baby’s names, but he did confirm that “Ginny gave birth on Monday, and Tiki was there at the hospital.”

The couple also have two sons together.

CivilEngineer

He would have been passed out on the floor anyway
Anna

Good for Ginny. When you are in labor you really don’t care if your worst enenmy is in the room, you want that baby born. In this case if I were his wife I would not want him in the delivery room either.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

This man is a fool he should really put the drug cocktail down I mean my GAWD he is unable to make any type of good sound decision…
TSRBenz

he probably dont wanna be there anyways hes obviously moved on with his life and its not his first child he will be home on that day letting his new girl scratch his balls
Man, I just don’t care™

I bet she ain’t hesitate to put his name on the birth certificate tho. She goin be the MAIN one tellin those kids how he “don’t want to be in his life” and chit like that.

She got four kids so she set. I don’t see what she has to be mad about.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

What did he want to be in the delivery room for…you left her while she was pregnant…I don’t get it. And please don’t anybody say: HE WANTED to SEE his children born…becasue my comeback is going to be: REALLY? Did he really?
Anna

CivilEngineer says:

He would have been passed out on the floor anyway
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that is not true. They had kids already and he may have been at previous deliveries. My son is 22 and was in the delivery room when his baby was born, just like his dad was in the delivery room when he was born.
FloridaChick813

I dont agree to him bringing the girlfriend along (considering the circumstances) — However not allowing him to see the birth of his children is wrong. Lets not punish these men by using their children.
mirsmommy

He arrived at the hospital with his girlfriend??????? *rubs eyes, to make sure I read that correctly*

Oh hail no!!!!
starr

Word on the street is he brought the gf along…ain’t that some ish right there
leat

but did he really have to bring the GF…..DAMN!!! hes just DISRESPECTFUL!!!
kcicero

mirsmommy says:

He arrived at the hospital with his girlfriend??????? *rubs eyes, to make sure I read that correctly*
Oh hail no!!!!
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I thought I misread that as well…

@Man why wouldn’t she put his name on the birth certificate? She’s his WIFE not his mistress.
starr

considering the amount of stress this woman was under during the pregnancy, as a result of his behavior….I agree with her not having him in there. I’m not one for cleaning a dude out…but in this case i’m all for it.
CivilEngineer

I’m pretty sure him bringing the girlfriend had more to do with the ban then anything. That’s insult to injury right there.
M_promp2

Sorry for the kids caught in the middle, but good for his azz. He ain’t got no business seeing her goods anymore any ways. Bald-headed beast.
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

He showed up with his whore? WTF? The b itch couldn’t wait in the car? Ginny please take his az to the cleaners!
mirsmommy

The girlfriend must got some exxxplosive puzzy or head, cuz ole boy is definitely trippin.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Ya’ll tripping!! IF this dude was so concerned about “SEEING the birth of his children…perhaps he should have kept his jump-off at bay just a little while longer. HE walked out on this girl while she was pregnant…and then he brought his GF to the hospital!!!! GTFOH!!!
VAALLDAY

That is so triff. Why bring your girlfriend…she didn’t help make the kids.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KCICERO
“why wouldn’t she put his name on the birth certificate? She’s his WIFE not his mistress.”
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He’s her HUSBAND not her “one night stand” so if he good enough to be on the certificate he good enought to be there. IMO.
nyvixen

IMO he has a lot of NERVE, first to show up to the hospital WITH his GIRLFRIEND and second, to EXPECT to view the birth!!!! Yes they were married and they already have four kids together, but come on people! Let’s put ourselves in his wife’s situation. We don’t know all the ins and outs of their relationship, but if my husband left me for another woman and then didn’t show ANY respect by bringing his current girlfriend to the hospital while I am in birth, there is no way in HELL he would be getting in the delivery room.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

KaraZ says: He showed up with his whore? WTF? The b itch couldn’t wait in the car? Ginny please take his az to the cleaners!
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RIGHT!! This MF just don’t give a DAMN right?!!! Labor pains and your whore!! oh hell no!! HE trying to kill her!!!
Cinderella

@Man, She’s an attorney. He’s gonna be left with a mattress and a George Foreman grill when she’s done with him.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

He’s her HUSBAND not her “one night stand” so if he good enough to be on the certificate he good enought to be there. IMO.
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MAN!!!! I wish you were hear to see my face!! I am about to curse you
starr

ggouch says:

Ya’ll tripping!! IF this dude was so concerned about “SEEING the birth of his children…perhaps he should have kept his jump-off at bay just a little while longer. HE walked out on this girl while she was pregnant…and then he brought his GF to the hospital!!!! GTFOH!!!

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yokiyamee

mirsmommy says:

He arrived at the hospital with his girlfriend??????? *rubs eyes, to make sure I read that correctly*

Oh hail no!!!!
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He had a lot of audacity considering he left his wife and children, while she was pregnant, to be with a scallywag. Did he really think he was going to be allowed access to the labor and delivery?!?!
mirsmommy

nyvixen says:

IMO he has a lot of NERVE, first to show up to the hospital WITH his GIRLFRIEND and second, to EXPECT to view the birth!!!! Yes they were married and they already have four kids together, but come on people! Let’s put ourselves in his wife’s situation. We don’t know all the ins and outs of their relationship, but if my husband left me for another woman and then didn’t show ANY respect by bringing his current girlfriend to the hospital while I am in birth, there is no way in HELL he would be getting in the delivery room.
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Exactly.
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

Kciero ,Anna,mirsmommy and ggouch …

They said everything I wanted to type…

if she puts her last name it would be a whole lot of drama….. soooo yeah.. HE THE DADDY AND SHE THE WIFE..SHE CAN PUT HIS LAST NAME
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

umm Man he walked out on her, to be with his children’s babysitter. Actions speak louder than words, he’s not interested in Ginny, so why should he get to see her puzzy again? Besides Childbirth is already stressful enough, if it would stress her out to see him, her health trumps his desires.

Or maybe Ginny grabbed the scalpel and he was kept out for his own health and safety.
crzasallgetout

@kc
You kids are too cute. Good seeing you on here.

On topic
Tiki is dead wrong for bringing the gf. As someone stated why couldn’t she wait in the car. Just trifling.
kcicero

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@KCICERO
“why wouldn’t she put his name on the birth certificate? She’s his WIFE not his mistress.”
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He’s her HUSBAND not her “one night stand” so if he good enough to be on the certificate he good enought to be there. IMO.
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He forfeited the right to be in the room when he brought his Becky along with him to the hospital…Pregnancy is a stressful time, there is no way in the world you want that type of Drama while you’re pushing…Of course you wouldn’t know what we go through because you’re not a woman…
H-Townmama

I will probably be in the minority for this but I feel as though he should have been allowed in the delivery room…now the gf would not have been able to come near me or my children…but he is the dad and regradless of what was done…you have to take the high road when it comes to children. Im saying this based off of experience, not just speaking on something Ive never had happen to me.
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

@yokiyamee -Your gravi is super duper cute
cheeks8683

Just how all the ish went down, he was messing around while they where married, no divorce yet, she didn’t need all that stress on her in the delivery room…Good for u ginny, and the girlfriend agreed to come. Jumpoffs have no morals whatsoever…well what can u expect, just wow!
crzasallgetout

@yokiyamee
Is that your baby?
FloridaChick813

H-Townmama says:

I will probably be in the minority for this but I feel as though he should have been allowed in the delivery room…now the gf would not have been able to come near me or my children…but he is the dad and regradless of what was done…you have to take the high road when it comes to children. Im saying this based off of experience, not just speaking on something Ive never had happen to me
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*sings* you are not alone, I am here with you
FloridaChick813

missy says:

@yokiyamee -Your gravi is super duper cute
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Sooo precious!!!!
kcicero

crzasallgetout says:

@kc
You kids are too cute. Good seeing you on here.
On topic
Tiki is dead wrong for bringing the gf. As someone stated why couldn’t she wait in the car. Just trifling.

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Aw thanks crz! They keep me busy…I’m always lurking or catching up when everyone else has logged off…How u been?
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

kciero says:

He forfeited the right to be in the room when he brought his Becky along with him to the hospital…Pregnancy is a stressful time, there is no way in the world you want that type of Drama while you’re pushing…Of course you wouldn’t know what we go through because you’re not a woman…
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This woman is carrying twins …having one baby is stressful but multiples is more..when she was sick he was with his groupie not even their for his wife…

She doesn’t need that negative vibe whiles giving birth…IMO
kcicero

@Yoki and Htown Beautiful Chirren! *martin voice* Their faces belong on a t-zube
crzasallgetout

@kc
I’ve been good. Need a vacation though.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

I will probably be in the minority for this but I feel as though he should have been allowed in the delivery room…
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High-road? Who? Is there a highroad in this situiation. The high-roads were bulldozed down when he publically left a pregnant wife. There is no more room for HIGH ROADS!!! ask yourself, he brought his GIRL-FRIEND….if that does not scream “Just popped through to say what’s up”…then I don’t know what does.

WHY??please tell me why this man should have been in this room!!! was he checking DNA…did he come to offer his jump-off’s services as a baby sitter!! he said a mouthful when he left a pregnant wife!! SHowing up to the hosipital was just an AUTO PILOT response!!
H-Townmama

TY@ Flo
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My oldest daughter’s dad was not supportive at all while I was preg and I was on bedrest 14 weeks. He came to not one visit and then had the nerve to tell me he was engaged!!!! Mind you we were always together, had keys to each others place and was rarely apart…I was so shocked. When he came to the hospital to see Sydney there was no time to be mad or bitter…that was the first child for both of us. I just got my revenge by losing the 14lbs of baby weight I gained and then some and by getting over him and finding a real man…if you lurking baby I Love you!!!
honeygrahm

What I read from this is that he was banned from the delivery room, not from the hospital. So yes, he should see his kids in the baby room and hold them and etc etc. But in the delivery room? where majority of the time spent in the delivery room is pure labor pains…where a mother needs to be kept calm to ensure blood pressure levels/heart monitors are safe and for babies too? For the health and well being of both the mother and babies, it was definitely a good decision. What good is he being present in the room with someone who’s emotions can rage out of control, not just in an angry sense, but a depressive sense. Too much is at risk health wise. So yeah, stay on the other side of that door!
kcicero

@crz lol July isn’t coming fast enough…
ELove

I THINK his Wife (Future Ex-Wife…) is of Asian-Decent and HIS current Piece-of-AZZ that He’s F-ing is a Becky-BISH (Right???)

Tikki & Becky-BISH should have their AZZ(s) WHOMPED ASAP (Being So Real…)

at Cinderella’s comment (#23)
FloridaChick813

@ Htown

Thats sweet
FloridaChick813

where a mother needs to be kept calm to ensure blood pressure levels/heart monitors are safe and for babies too? For the health and well being of both the mother and babies, it was definitely a good decision.
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Now that my dear, is a good point
Mother Jefferson
crzasallgetout

@H Town
I think the probably was that he was trying to get in the delivery room not just the hospital. WITH HIS GF!I see where you’re coming from but it was his wife that he left while pregnant with twins for someone else. He was wrong.IMO
H-Townmama

Thanks @ kci. Yours are too cute!! @ Yoki I just wanna pinch and gobble up those cheeks!!!

@GG
I dont play games when it comes to the children. There is always a high road when it comes to children. PERIOD. Im actually in the process of suing for full custody of Sydney but her dad and I are still able to talk on the phone and act like adults because I wont have it any other way. I have been cussed out and dragged through the mud by him…but at the end of the day my head is held high and Im proud of how Ive handled myself. We women are emotional (im a cancer btw) by nature, but when it comes to some things you have to be rational and not emotional. Sydney’s dad made an emotional decision that forced me to go to court for full custody because I now feel that when he gets mad at me he will use her as a pawn as he has done in the past. Just look at D-Wade’s wife. I think she is so hurt that she is using her emotions to get the besy of her and allow her to make poor judgements. As a parent we should always have the best interest of the child at heart.
But thats just me.
jazi65

He needs a brick upside his chrome dome. Bad enough he left his wife while she was pregnant but to bring your shame to the hospital is another slap in the face.
http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

This MF is beyond disrespectful! First of all, you left your wife for another woman while she was pregnant and then, you’re not even DIVORCED and you bring this broad to the hospital while she’s in labor?

That’s some obnoxious, disrespectful, classless shyt right there! I USED to like this dude.

What kind of hoe would even want to be at the hospital while her boyfriend’s CURRENT wife is in labor? Sometimes you have to say, “Call me when you get finished, bay.”

SMH
H-Townmama

I would only agree to keep him out of the delivery room if by him being there her health was in jeopardy. At that point ninja wait yo trif azz outside please and thanks.
FloridaChick813

crzasallgetout says:

@H Town
I think the probably was that he was trying to get in the delivery room not just the hospital. WITH HIS GF!I see where you’re coming from but it was his wife that he left while pregnant with twins for someone else. He was wrong.IMO
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I def. agree that it was wrong to bring the girlfriend!
waterlily_76

Catch new 1-hour episodes of Snapped on Sundays at 10/9c.

Just thought I would share………
starr

From what i read it was a difficult pregnancy, and she was on bedrest for a better part of it towards the end…..
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Carrington says: Sometimes you have to say “Call me when you get finished, bay.”SMH
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HELL FLUCKING YEAH!!! …be a smart and respectful whore sometimes bishes!!!
FloridaChick813

H-Townmama says:

I dont play games when it comes to the children. There is always a high road when it comes to children. PERIOD. Im actually in the process of suing for full custody of Sydney but her dad and I are still able to talk on the phone and act like adults because I wont have it any other way. I have been cussed out and dragged through the mud by him…but at the end of the day my head is held high and Im proud of how Ive handled myself. We women are emotional (im a cancer btw) by nature, but when it comes to some things you have to be rational and not emotional. Sydney’s dad made an emotional decision that forced me to go to court for full custody because I now feel that when he gets mad at me he will use her as a pawn as he has done in the past. Just look at D-Wade’s wife. I think she is so hurt that she is using her emotions to get the besy of her and allow her to make poor judgements. As a parent we should always have the best interest of the child at heart.
But thats just me.
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We are >>>HERE<<< mama.

But different strokes for different folks
mirsmommy

waterlily_76 says:

Catch new 1-hour episodes of Snapped on Sundays at 10/9c.

Just thought I would share………
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Cinderella

I remember years ago watching Tiki and his twin Ronde on T.V. crying about how their father left the family and how it affected them. Now he turns around does the same thing to his famiy.
mirsmommy

starr says:

From what i read it was a difficult pregnancy, and she was on bedrest for a better part of it towards the end…..
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And wasn’t she recently in the hospital for about a week due to complicaitons????
FloridaChick813

Carrington says:

What kind of hoe would even want to be at the hospital while her boyfriend’s CURRENT wife is in labor? Sometimes you have to say, “Call me when you get finished, bay.”
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The same kinda h0e that would be with a man that left his pregnant wife

But I def. — that was not her place and it was straight disrespectful!
FloridaChick813

waterlily_76 says:

Catch new 1-hour episodes of Snapped on Sundays at 10/9c.

Just thought I would share………
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Man, I just don’t care™

I can see now that “Ginny” is going to be another “Siovaughn Wade.” Tiki better get that DNA test. How you don’t want the FATHER around for his children? She ain’t goin turn that ~~gold diggin~~ *ahem* “child support” check away tho!

~~She ain’t stressed bout nuthin. She know she set for life. I hope this fool got a prenuptial. Proll not.~~
http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

Cinderella says:

I remember years ago watching Tiki and his twin Ronde on T.V. crying about how their father left the family and how it affected them. Now he turns around does the same thing to his famiy.
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I don’t like this dude, but I also don’t agree that when you leave a RELATIONSHIP, you “abandon” your children. There is a difference in leaving your wife because that relationship didn’t work out, and “abandoning” your children.

To me, abandoning your children means you walked away and they haven’t heard from your a$$ in a few years. Leaving the relationship with your child’s parent is something totally different.
FloridaChick813

Cinderella says:

I remember years ago watching Tiki and his twin Ronde on T.V. crying about how their father left the family and how it affected them. Now he turns around does the same thing to his famiy.
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Is he not in his childrens lives anymore???

Just because he left his wife, doesnt mean he’s not in his childrens lives
H-Townmama

@Man
I hope she doesnt become another Sio
I really think Siovaughn is so hurt and upset that she’s going to end up letting herself lose custody of her kids. You dont ever give one individual that much control over your life…its never worth it.
H-Townmama

@ Carrington and Flo
Anna

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

I can see now that “Ginny” is going to be another “Siovaughn Wade.” Tiki better get that DNA test. How you don’t want the FATHER around for his children? She ain’t goin turn that gold diggin *ahem* “child support” check away tho!

She ain’t stressed bout nuthin. She know she set for life. I hope this fool got a prenuptial. Proll not.
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It is so obvious how women and men are wired differently. Why the hell would she want the man in the delivery when she has been in and out of the hospital with a high risk pregnancy and he shows up with their ex babysitter his now hofriend.
starr

Tiki is still in the children’s lives. Atleast it sounds like it. And @man is acting like she doesn’t want him around the kids. He did in indeed see the babies after delivery.

And u don’t have to worry about paying up if u don’t phuck around on ur wife.
http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

I can see now that “Ginny” is going to be another “Siovaughn Wade.” Tiki better get that DNA test. How you don’t want the FATHER around for his children?
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I’m a brother, and I can EASILY see why a woman whose husband left her for an intern while she was PREGNANT would not want his disrespectful a$$ in the delivery room with her. Leaving her for another woman aside, even if she WAS going to let him in with her, when she found out that he brought the broad he left her for to the hospital WITH him, like she’s sharing in some shyt, I can DEFINITELY understand why she would change her mind and asked that he wait in the lobby. LMAO!
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Htowne: In some situations you are right …using children as pawns in your marital riff is wrong and bless the parental unit that chooses to put his/her children before their own emotions..I am not disputing that. I have great relationship with my ex-husband and my son’s father. A a matter of fact I have the option of staying with my Son’s father and his wife when I am in LA. So I commend your situation…

BUT in this situation…this man’s actions demonstrated his seriousness and his commitment to these children. HE BROUGHT HIS GiRLFRIEND HTOWNE…HE BROUGHT THE WOMAN WHO he allowed to but his relationship ASSUNDER!! Kudos to those who brought to point the health and mental risk he put his wife through. DIDHE have the best interest of the children? ASK yourself was his motive the morning of the delivery DAMN I WANT TO watch the birth of my children…or did he wake up a coward!! Halfass going through the motions of what was naturally expected of him? He didn’t really want to be there..if he did…if it was about THE MOMENT…he would have come alone. He would have done better…but he is a punk azz
lacountrygirl

@man…go check the other forum. I think we know the same person. Also, I disagree with your opinion on this topic
pointhimout

they just keep poppin out these meal tickets, even during the damn divorce proceedings. hell, who can I get pregnant by? find me a dumb ass athlete..shouldn’t be hard, huh gang?
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

FloridaChick813 says: Is he not in his childrens lives anymore???

Just because he left his wife, doesnt mean he’s not in his childrens lives
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She is not keeping him out of his children’s life..they have two children togther already…this is nnot what this is about….In this situation…THIS MOMENT!! he was out ofline
H-Townmama

@GG
I agree he is definitely a punk azz no good man. I also agree he should have come alone and left his slutty gf elsewhere. But I still think that barring him from the delivery room b/c she was mad at him is wrong. Lets just agree to disagree…because unless he was abusing her or her health was at risk he should have been allowed in, IMO of course.
H-Townmama

T.I is on wendy williams show
FloridaChick813

ggouch says:

FloridaChick813 says: Is he not in his childrens lives anymore???

Just because he left his wife, doesnt mean he’s not in his childrens lives
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She is not keeping him out of his children’s life..they have two children togther already…this is nnot what this is about….In this situation…THIS MOMENT!! he was out ofline
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I didnt say she was.
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

pointhimout says:

they just keep poppin out these meal tickets, even during the damn divorce proceedings. hell, who can I get pregnant by? find me a dumb ass athlete..shouldn’t be hard, huh gang?
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ummmm..point I think it will be hard to get pregnant..but you can find someone..
Lyssa02

In a situation such as this, I can’t give her wrong. In any labour, why would you want to be placed in a stressful and uncomfortable situation??? I could understand people saying she was wrong if she said he couldn’t see his kids, but I’m sure after the birth he got to see them.

The problem here is the gross disrespect that he displayed by bringing his girlfriend, whom he cheated on his wife with, to the hospital with him during such a precious/intimate/emotional experience!!!! Also, if what others are saying about her having a complicated pregnancy is true, then he definitely did not belong in there!
Cinderella

@ Carringon, Tiki left his family IMO. The life those kids had with a mother and father in the home has changed. They probably had a routine of doing things as a family. The kids have probably seen their mother crying and upset.
pointhimout

@ LOL stop hatin missy. i’ll break u off, dont worry.
FloridaChick813

@ Point

Everytime I see your name I sing to myself “Give me a name, no better yet, POINT HIM OUT” — Weezy
CivilEngineer

@point…you let me know when that happens so I can prepare for the end, unless they implant you with a uterus
pinksghetti

She did the right thing for her health and the health of the babies. Like the others said that is already a stressful time she doesn’t need him to add to it. He was probably just trying to win points because if he really cared about the children and his ex he wouldn’t have cheated on her while pregnant in the first place.
OutsidetheBox

So who in here remembers popping out the womb?

Because I fail to see how him being in the delivery room is for the benefit of them kids…sick or not. I dont give a fugg if she was sitting up in there eating ice chips, getting a foot massage, and a manicure…him and his bitc.h need to wait out there in the lobby.

#DoneLostY’allDam.nMinds
http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

Cinderella says:

@ Carringon, Tiki left his family IMO. The life those kids had with a mother and father in the home has changed. They probably had a routine of doing things as a family. The kids have probably seen their mother crying and upset.
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Sooooo, if you have children, no matter how bad the relationship is, regardless of whether you’ve reached the point where you hate your mate, or your mate hates you – you suggest staying in that relationship just so that your children can continue the “routine” of game night?

Really? My opinion is that, if the relationship with my son’s mother doesn’t work out, she and I can separate and continue to co-parent our SON, but we don’t have to live together in order to do that.

Is it REALLY beneficial for a child to be raised by two people who have separated in a PRODUCTIVE co-parenting situation, than to be in a TOXIC, dysfunctional household with people who HATE each other all in the name of eating dinner together? What message are you sending to the CHILD? Children aren’t stupid, they know when the relationship isn’t there.

This thought process is exactly what HARMS the black community because, at some point, the parents simply co-exist and one, or both of them end up seeing other people and the kids SEE that shyt and think that that’s what a marriage is supposed to be.

Strive for more…

So, if you prefer to live in a fairytale land, live on… I’m a realist and I lived in a house with people who stayed together simply for the sake of being together – it’s not hot!
Daisy

@htown Unless it was for health reasons he should have been allowed in the room. The GF will be in the pic right or wrong so she will be around his kids sooner than later.

I twins and wish all of them well!!
NOBODY MOVE, NOBODY GETz HURT

WHY WOULD YOU BRING YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO THE HOSPITAL WHILE YOUR ESTRANGED WIFE IS HAVING YOUR BABY…THATS JUST LAME…
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Unless it was for health reasons he should have been allowed in the room. The GF will be in the pic right or wrong so she will be around his kids sooner than later.
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We are going to def come to agree to disagree point here. For whose consious sake did he need to be in that room? The born twins would not have come any later or sooner…so for whose SAKE was it necessary for him to be in the delivery room?

In theory the father being in delivery room is for the sake of the couple…and the bonding process…in theory during that time and any medical experts please correct me if I’m wrong…In the delivery Room, less is more. He absolutely put her health at risk…therefore placeing his unborn twins in distress. This is not a situation were it was simply lipstick found on his color a month or two before the delivery……HE HAD AN AFFAIR!! WITH THE HELP, LEFT PREGNANT WIFE and TWO CHILDREN….For whose sake was his presense necessary. IMJUSTSAYIN PEOPLE!!
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

pointhimout says:

@ LOL stop hatin missy. i’ll break u off, dont worry.
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Hey if you gone break me off some of the change…I don’t care who you trap…I would even help…. (not donating my womb though lol)
OutsidetheBox

@Daisy…you wouldn’t mind letting the man who walked out on you while you were pregnant… *Lela Rochon voice* “with two kids” … look all up in your snatch while you’re stretched out sweating, heaving and hoing?

You must be a strong sister and I admire that. I would be so venomous that nigga would be scared to be within 10 feet of the hospital much less the delivery room…

Peash. LOL It hurts to have babies and that nigga bought his girlfriend and left his birthing womb…he came to watch ????
Cinnamon Kisses

@GG>>>>>>>>here<<<<<< WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID!!!!! This bobble head mofo didn't care about no one's feelings but his!!!! Phuck the high road…..low road….two way street……..and furthermore if he really wanted to be there he woulda left the cum bucket @ the house! Karma is a phat bytch……

@ man *in my OTB voice* u phuckin perplex me!!!!

@ cinderella….. not one mattress and the george foreman grill
OutsidetheBox

@Cinna. Dont get caught in that @Man confusion. Slippery-slope. *whispers* And I heard he light skinned… *perplexed*

And yes, for good measure why not leave the nanny at home? With the kids! Where she belongs! She is the nanny right? The new babies dont need tending to; there mama is there!

He got one puzzy in the waiting room and wanna go in there and look in another?

I just cant fathom it.
Cinnamon Kisses

@ OTB……he’s lucky that’s all he got was rejection from the room…..shyyyyyyyyt phuckin wit me and my krazy people he woulda needed a room in the ER.
honeygrahm

@ggouch You would be correct in eluding to medical experts believe less is more. What some may not understand or may be looking over is that there is a fetal stress monitor that is placed onto the woman who is in labor to monitor the babies heart rate. There is also monitors that check the mother as well. If one or the other is abnormally low or high, it is a danger to BOTH so to stress out the “carrier of said babies” is not in ANYONE’S best interest. Now we all know he could give a flying eff about her emotional well-being but to place that on her during labor I would see that as a threat to her physical well-being. So if it wasn’t the mother speaking up saying “get the h e double hockey sticks out” it would’ve been the staff saying that. Trust they would say that if they see a change in the fetal stress level and link it to his mere presence. If he had an ounce of care for her life and his babies lives, he should put the ego aside and kindly wait in the viewing room for his babies. Is is very true when they say a pregnant woman has one foot in the grave. Dying while giving birth is a reality people and stress is a big factor.
nevesnanna

My oldest daughter’s father did that dumb shyt. Bought his new girlfriend to the hospital while I was in labor, then had the nerve to tell me the name he came up with – which was a combination of HIS name and HER name. Please note: He walked out of my room after I presented him with a GOLDEN SHOWER courtesy of my bed pan. BYATCH..Take that. Take that.
Jessie

“Man, I just don’t care™ says:

I bet she ain’t hesitate to put his name on the birth certificate tho. She goin be the MAIN one tellin those kids how he “don’t want to be in his life” and chit like that.

She got four kids so she set. I don’t see what she has to be mad about.”

OK, YOU ARE EVEN MORE CRAZY THAN TIKI!!!!!
OutsidetheBox

“GOLDEN SHOWER courtesy of my bed pan.”

@his urine soaked ass!
meanNsurly

Question: Would you guys rather him stay with the wife and be in an unhappy marriage until she gave birth and THEN leave? Yall would have slaughtered him just like we slaughtered the Dream for living Chris Mili! I’m not condoning anything that he did but you have to remember there was/is a problem in the marriage that hasn’t been solved which is why he cheated on her with Becky. Now Becky should have stayed her as.s at home or Ginny (after giving birf) should have got up and beat her senseless! I think its wrong to deny him to see his child being born. Thats something that dude can never get back. But for real yall…….what was he to do. Remember Becky can’t break up a happy home unless the home was slightly broken in the first place.
Jessie

H-Townmama says:

I will probably be in the minority for this but I feel as though he should have been allowed in the delivery room…now the gf would not have been able to come near me or my children…but he is the dad and regradless of what was done…you have to take the high road when it comes to children. Im saying this based off of experience, not just speaking on something Ive never had happen to me.
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Whatever your experience was, I’m sorry you had to go through that. However, I believe Ginny did the right thing. Being in labor is so stressful. Tiki doesn’t give a damn about Ginny nor those babies. If he did, he wouldn’t have his ass at the hospital with his whore but he would have stuck with his wife and raised those precious children his trifling ass made. I hope Ginny takes him for everything including the mattress and the George Foreman grill. If he wants something Ginny, leave his ass a half roll of toilet tissue.
aqtpie

Team Ginny!!! Giving birth is the most beautiful thing in the world. Experiencing that journey with your husband ( I’ll say husband since she has one) is definitely a beautiful bonding experience. Having your husband cater to your whims, rub your feet & belly & comfort you if you do experience Braxton Hicks is priceless.

It would definitely be MY choice if I wanted my estranged husband whom left me for another woman and his girlfriend in my delivery room. It depends on how my relationship was with my estranged husband made me feel at the time I was delivering, I wouldn’t risk my bp going up, who knows maybe hers went up when she heard he was their with his slut.

Good for you Ginny. It’s not about punishing him, it’s about making her happy & comfortable, he made himself happy by divorcing her for his skank, while she was pregnant. He should have thought about his choices prior to his WIFE’S labor and delivery!!! He has plenty of time to bond later but I’d be damned if I let any mofo on this earth have ruined my beautiful moment of delivery!!! Dueces I’ll tape that shit for you though!!!
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

@Mean

I don’t think the marriage was unhappy for ginny..but I may be wrong. ..it seems he had no communication with her…so they both could have been on different pages of their marriage…

I do believe you can get a divorce but he was so tacky with it..he was messing around with some chick and his pregnant wife was on bed rest…I think that is so wrong..Also he has the gall to bring her to the hospital… :eek:….her pregnancy was already at risk..so I think she did the right thing…if he is stressing her out then he can stay in the waiting room…and see the babies when they are born…
honeygrahm

@Meannsurly

He did whatever he had to do make HIMSELF happy and she has to do whatever she had to do to keep herself alive. Now it has not been said she is withholding her children or keeping him from them. The only thing that is being mentioned is that she had a HARD pregnancy with MANY complications which could be most likely be caused by the stress she PUT under. My perception is obviously he wasn’t happy with her…okay the way he went about it was a lil jacked off but its done. And as adults sometimes our actions come with consequences. Some good, some bad, which can vary greatly. Now he CHOSE to be as in-your-face as one could get with cheating on a pregnant wife with the nanny so because HE is happy now the world should be too? C’mon man?!?! He can’t have his cake and eat it too. So I personally would let him live his life and I would live mine. I would have a SAFE delivery and ensure my health and well-being by not allowing the SOURCE of my stress into the room where I could either give life or lose life. and that’s all I got to say on that.
Silhouette

I know I am late, but in full agreement with GG and OTB
OTB you took the words out my mouth “who remembers popping out the womb?”
Just plain disrespectful, self entitled Jackholes make me sick!
OutsidetheBox

@Mean…think of it this way. He does not want her puzzy any more. Why would he care to see that woman’s insides? At that point, he should just do it because… even if he doesn’t feel right..

Who gives a hoot about Becky with her fugly plain self? This is not about her. As a woman you would feel so *deep sigh* I can’t even think of the emotion….but why does he get that satisfaction? In the delivery room? Waiting in the lobby…or peeping in that lil outer room wasn’t good enough? You left dude. Publicly. Give me peace at delivery time where my body is open and I could literally die in an instant. Birth is major. MAJOR.

And then you are forgetting that this man stayed bashing his own fathers for the actions he has now taken…
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

nevesnanna says: . Please note: He walked out of my room after I presented him with a GOLDEN SHOWER courtesy of my bed pan. BYATCH..Take that. Take that.
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Team Nevesnanna!! Honey said it, EGO brought him there, not his sense of parental support or his committment to his children!! PURE-GRADE A EGO…his integritty to the situation was darkened when he brought the chick!!!
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Question: Would you guys rather him stay with the wife and be in an unhappy marriage until she gave birth and THEN leave______________________________________________________________
No…not at all. I am going to give him the benefit of the doubt and say Ginny had to have seen the signs that told her that her marriage was in trouble long before now and perhaps long before the news broke about the affair. I am going to assume!! she did not just look up one day and BAM CNN top story was her husbands infidelity.

My argument or what comes into question is the BLATANT disrespect and selfish poor judgement…..what has happened has happened but in the case of showing up at hosipital with your WHORE in TOWE to witness the delivery of your children, whom you left in vitro is a dark and selfish act.

It just is.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Really, behind the hell…WHY would any woman want to share this intimate moment with this man at this time. What if the girlfriend in the lobby started to get bored…texting him”are you done yet”
honeygrahm

RE: …texting him”are you done yet”

@GGouch Oh wow?! But you know, you have a point there. I wouldn’t put it past this broad.
Silhouette

I really would like to know Becky’s motive for being there? I mean really who the heck does that?
There was absolutely no purpose for her presence.
OutsidetheBox

@Sill *Nicki Minaj voice* She’s, like, 12.
meanNsurly

I guess the man part is coming out in me for this topic. I see yall point of view but I can’t say that I necessarily understand. I do agree that Becky should have stayed her as.s at home and that he was wrong for bringing her to the hospital. I just think childbirf is special and should be shared by both parents and thats a moment that Tiki can never get back. Do yall think she would have let him come in if Becky wasn’t wit ’em?
FloridaChick813

nevesnanna says:

My oldest daughter’s father did that dumb shyt. Bought his new girlfriend to the hospital while I was in labor, then had the nerve to tell me the name he came up with – which was a combination of HIS name and HER name. Please note: He walked out of my room after I presented him with a GOLDEN SHOWER courtesy of my bed pan. BYATCH..Take that. Take that.
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OutsidetheBox

@Mean I think she would have spit on him. Or thrown pee. . Really this was for the best. LOL
Daisy

@OTB I dont have time for hate and drama I got JESUS so I am good on all that. I would be hurt and all that but thats still his child and if HE wanted to be in the room I would have allowed him. We would have to start co parenting at some point so why not start there. If he did dirt he will get his God can get somebody back better than I ever could.
KsMommy

I have no idea how to respond to this point. Part me of understand the anger and hurt his ex wife would have felt. But at the same time, the man has a right to see his child being born. It IS a very special moment. You know, not all men just sit and watch. some men will cut the umbilical cord, catch the child as it’s being born. just seeing your child fresh out oven is a WONDERFUL memory. You can NEVER get back. Idk. Becky should have stayed her ass at home, but he should have been allowed in.
OutsidetheBox

LOL
yokiyamee

Thanks everyone! The gravi is my daughter. Sorry everyone for not responding right away, had to go shopping.
Silhouette

This isn’t their first rodeo, they have two children already, he has witness the miracle of child birth twice. Same thing happen last time is the same thing that was going to happen this time.
I don’t know if she would have let him in if he hadn’t brought Becky, but he took that option away.
KsMommy

Silhouette says:

This isn’t their first rodeo, they have two children already, he has witness the miracle of child birth twice. Same thing happen last time is the same thing that was going to happen this time.
I don’t know if she would have let him in if he hadn’t brought Becky, but he took that option away.
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Same toilet, different sh*t.
Anna

meanNsurly says:

Do yall think she would have let him come in if Becky wasn’t wit ‘em?

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No. He was parading around town with Becky while she was in the hospital on bed rest well before the babies were delivered.
Ms.Everything

I would’ve banned his sorry butt too. I banned my husband once. The delivery room needs to be a peaceful place for the mother and he showed up with his girlfriend to top it off? Yeah he needed to stay in the lobby
http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

People are loosing their mind daily! This fool is crazy as hell! Smh! He need his a** beat!
http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

Dead….Need oxygen mask to resuscitate me right now, on the floor @Cinderella >”She’s an attorney. He’s gonna be left with a mattress and a George Foreman grill when she’s done with him”.lmao!
Ms.Everything

I had to stop halfway through reading the comments just to say TRBenz (or whatever) and Man y’all sound like some damn fools but you’re men so you wouldn’t understand. Delivering a baby is stressful and the closest a woman who is healthy all her life will ever be to death. So many things can go wrong if her blood pressure goes up, if she gets upset if there is any stress so no he does not need to be in there considering the circumstances. I agree with Htown and Flo that you never hold a child away from its father but while delivering said child his presence does not need to be there if its going to upset her. He can stop by the nursery, hospital or house later preferable without his trollop. I know that pain she felt when she found out he was cheating all too well, I almost lost my last baby when a bish called and said she was pregnant by my husband. Went into labor at 6 months pregnant the next day and was on bed rest the remainder fighting off contractions. I have csections and even then he was not in the operating room. Doesn’t mean I kept him from her or the other kids but I wanted someone with me who could support and calm me not someone who was gonna anger me. Id say you’re men and don’t understand but Civil, Carrington and Elove prove that y’all just ignorant men. Anyway back to reading now
Ms.Everything

GG I don’t think I’ve ever with you like today. Same thing @OTB

@Neves you sound like me I would’ve pulled something like that

@Mean, maybe if he wasn’t with her shed have given him that shot but he didn’t give her any respect by showing up with the woman he publicly left her for and was running with while she was in the same hospital on bed rest so I doubt it. Yes, its a joy to see your child born but he can start bonding from the nursery. Many men miss the actual birth for different good reason but are still able to bond with and love their child. The most important thing is getting mother and child through the birthing process.

@Daisy, you’re too nice which is good and bad at the same time.

And finally, @Carrington, I love when you post. Don’t always agree (I do today though) but your intelligence either way is extremely attractive and good to see vs what some other men (and women) come on here and say
OutsidetheBox

*waves* @Ms.

FYI Sandra came up in a thread a couple of days ago saying that folks with out gravis would be deleted…just thought I would tell you in case you missed her post.
H.B.I.C

Ok. My contacts must BE cloudy because did I read that this Negro showed up with his GIRLFRIEND at the hosptial where his WIFE just delivered THEIR twins?! Uhhhh yall marniate on the sentence above and tell me what’s wrong with the details outlined. I’ll wait………………….

Tiki should have his scrotum removed with a fork. Basturd!!! [that is Not a typo!]
VIBABY

Some of ya’ll are plum dumb. My mama would have shot his ass. Him and his whore would not have even known I went into labor until the birth announcement came in the mail. If it was all about the birth he wouldnt have taken his concubine………wtf.
Ms.Everything

*waves back*
Hey OTB, I saw that in another post and am working on it. My computers broke so I’m trying but it may be Monday or Tuesday before I get one up cause I can’t get the gravatar site to work with the pictures on my phone. Believe me I’m trying
http://aol Luci Liu

GET YOUR MONEY GINNY. AFTER THAT, HIRE A NANNY, GET IN SHAPE, AND BUY YOURSELF A BOYTOY OR TWO. A FINE FACE, AND A YOUNG TIGHT BODY BEATS AN OLD BALD HEADED, BROKE DOWN EX-FOOTBALL PLAYER SNY DAY OF THE WEEK!
http://aol Luci Liu

I MEANT TO SAY “ANY DAY OF THE WEEK”.
smallbite

Tiki.. what a louse you are. How different are you than your father. You abandoned your family and your responsibilities. I am glad that you no longer work for NBC. YOu need to take Matt Lauer out the door with you. For though, you took your whore to the hospital. What planet were you born on. HOW tacky. I want to believe that your mother did not raise you to be soooooooooo callous….. HOW SHALLOW you are. I hope that your wife takes you to the cleaners during the divorce. I hope that you are only left with a shiny new dime. Then you can give that dime to your two bit whore. You are the bama of the week!! week!!