FanMAIL: Are You Sure T.I. and Tiny Are Getting Married?

Sandra Rose June 2, 2010

A loyal reader writes:

Are you sure they are getting married. Why is Hoopz being spotted all over the place with him. Monique show & here what’s really good?
–mswomack

So everyone is talking about T.I.’s apparent renewed interest in the reality TV ~~skank~~ star Hoopz since he got out of prison. It seems that T.I. and Hoopz have been seen together (even when he’s with Tiny). Such as her appearance in the front row at the Mo’Nique show where T.I. was a guest. And last week, Hoopz was at Hush nightclub where T.I. performed.

You already know how T.I. and Tiny get down. So this should come as no surprise to any of you. I’ve said this repeatedly on my blog: that a powerful man is always going to have his jump off on the side. But Tiny will always be T.I.’s main lady and his side pieces know that. T.I. has already said that he’s not leaving Tiny. The two are expected to tie the knot at a private ceremony later this month. But that doesn’t mean that there won’t be other women — and Tiny knows that.

She knows that there are other women and she’s is alright with that because she loves her man and she knows he loves her. She’s mature enough to know that a man is going to be a man.

That’s why T.I. rewards Tiny with so many luxury gifts, such as expensive handbags and cars — because she dutifully stays in her lane.

Photos by INDMiX

KrayZKat

Welp, to each his/her own. If that’s how some people get down. I’d rather a man be faithful to me (which is not that much to ask for) than to have all the handbags, cars, and other stuff thrown at me like a baby with a pacifier. But again, I don’t life their lives, so…
CivilEngineer

Why bother promising faithfulness under GOD if you know you can’t/won’t be faithful
VIBABY

One time for #hoeshyt…..
KrayZKat

*live their lives*
OutsidetheBox

Speaking of extra chromosomes…look at Hoopz! Tip got a thing for un-traditional beauty. I respect that.

I wonder whats really going on with this messy mess.
VIBABY

Oh I forgot…..bless her stupid ass heart.
http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

Then why even get married. If they want to swing and get down like that, why go through the whole ceremony? I promise you this, 2010 is the year of the Jump Off. No doubt.
http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

Sandra,

Uhm aren’t they suppose to be getting married. How is it okay to have a side chick & a situation. Not to mention they had history where Tiny left him because of Hoopz. I guess she was writing him while he was in jail.

SMH if they get married I don’t see Tiny ever being a happy bride. She needs to drop him because he is controlling and he obviously has no respect for her.

RESPECT FIND OUT WHAT IT MEANS!
KsMommy

What the fudge cakes. She’s ok with being cheated on? Does AIDS, HIV, Herpes, mean ANYTHING to her?

I feel so sorry for her.
http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

CivilEngineer says:

Why bother promising faithfulness under GOD if you know you can’t/won’t be faithful

Exactly. That is what I said! If they want to play around and have threesomes and such, that is cool but to get married? Makes no sense. Unless it’s only so Tiny could be entitled to half.
Toni

They stay together cuz they all have the same STD:)
KrayZKat

I guess the, “love, honor, and cherish…forsaking all others” will be left out the marriage vows. Do people even repeat marriage vows anymore?
http://twitter.com/Queensj QueenSJ

Oh please. I don’t get this whole “main chick” idea. You’re still one of his chicks at the end of the day. If all of this is true, Tiny should know that she deserves better.
Man, I just don’t care™

@SANDRA
“She knows that there are other women and she’s is alright with that because she loves her man and she knows he loves her. She’s mature enough to know that a man is going to be a man.”
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SANDRA!
coaretained

wooooooooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww *in hoopz ex voice*

and @ vi baby.
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

if u gonna deal with a man in the industry then u know 99.9% chance at some point he not gonna be faithful then i think you much better at least knowing who he/she is sleeping with so if its a problem you know who to step 2. if its something you cant handle then you get a regular guy but at the same time they cheat 2 so you not winning in that arena either lol
http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

“That’s why T.I. rewards Tiny with so many luxury gifts, such as expensive handbags and cars — because she dutifully stays in her lane.”

Really Sandra? Tiny obviously has self esteem issues….any self respecting female would not accept handbags and cars as a reward for dealing with infidelity. If they have an open relationship, that is one thing…but i’m willing to bet $$ that if Tiny cheated on TIP he would beat her azz….
KrayZKat

Look, if my man is cheating on me, I better not know about it, but I sure as h.e.l.l. am not going to willingly “share” him. If he can’t control his assets, he needs to step.
SugaBrown

Visibly flaunting the side piece…how embarrassing. I don’t know how people can claim to love one another and then go around publicly doing sh*& like this. Tiny get some self respect and leave this mess behind you.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KRAY Z KAT
“Look, if my man is cheating on me, I better not know about it, but I sure as h.e.l.l. am not going to willingly “share” him. If he can’t control his assets, he needs to step.”
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Well, if you know about it, it’s not cheating. I think Tiny is just being real enough to realize that just because T.I. sleeps with other women, it doesn’t mean he doens’t love her.
VIBABY

@East Where does the foolishness end? You cant trust a sneaky bastard to be honest about anything. There is probably another bish somewhere laughing at the BOTH of these women.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

**crickets**
kwall

Just cause she knows and is okay with it…it’s not okay! How do they explain all of this mess to their KIDS? To her daughter? I used to be one of the ones who did not like her for whatever dumb reason and then I grew to be a pure STAN…but this mess? When you are a mother especially of a daughter there are things you just cannot put up with…otherwise your daughter will think it is okay for a man to do that shiesty shat to HER one day…smdh…I know it is easier said than done…and I am not judging…trying not to anyway…DJM…I have pure left a dude more than once tho to be that example I want to set for the sake of my girls…I feel bad for Tameka…
Cinderella

It’s been confirmed. Mariah Carey and Kloe Kardashian-Odom are both pregnant.
ShoYaRight

I can’t.
coaretained

my onnnnnnnnnnnnly comment will be that is wrong of him if that’s whats going on to be parading this hoe- eyed broad around when Tiny professes her love for him every other inteligible (sp) word. ANNNNND she ( hoopz) on twitter gassing things up.

Just when I started digging Tiny…..:no:
VIBABY

“Well, if you know about it, it’s not cheating. I think Tiny is just being real enough to realize that just because T.I. sleeps with other women, it doesn’t mean he doens’t love her”

WTF?! Thats EXACTLY what it means….he DOES NOT LOVE HER.
KrayZKat

@Man – Well, my definition of “love” probably differs from what other’s think it is. Love, to me, is not selfish, and if a man is screwing around on me, he doesn’t love me. He’s being selfish. Love is looking out for my best interest (not through material things) because he’s going to be protecting what he has. Cheap cooch is always easy to find.
CivilEngineer

Tiny is like that old car that’s always been reliable so you fix it up, put some money in it and make it look nice BUT it’s not fun to drive, doesn’t turn many heads so you just keep it in the garage…love it, don’t wanna get rid of it but seem to have no use for it

Tiny should learn some self-worth if this is all true…smh
coaretained

@kwall

I feel that I’ve posted that somewhere as well….can’t remember.
lovezoe

I had to google Jacoby Jones to make sure he was a Que, we can’t have just anybody throwing up the hooks. I guarantee that understanding does not go to Tiny, let her have a side-piece and see what happens.
Cinderella

On topic, I’ll be damned if Im gonna “stay in my lane” and let a “man be a man.” If T.I. expects Tiny to be loyal and dedicated, he needs to be the same. What type of example is she showing her kids, especially her daughter?
Anna

Cinderella says:

It’s been confirmed. Mariah Carey and Kloe Kardashian-Odom are both pregnant.
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Congrats to them. It’s going to be interesting being that both have had yo yo weight pre pregnancy.
http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

HEY COOOOAAAAA *waving*

I was just thinking if you still post here eariler. & here you go in a TI post & look at the babies aww. Hope all is well.

So, now because a man is in the industry that gives him a pass to disrespect his woman. GTFOH. Its not what you do but how you do it. Make that gutter rat sit in a cab outside away from cameras. There is no f’ing way her picture should be on blogs today associated with TI.

Tiny a fool cause I would whip both they azz. & she looks like she could take TI.
Man, I just don’t care™

@VI BABY
““Well, if you know about it, it’s not cheating. I think Tiny is just being real enough to realize that just because T.I. sleeps with other women, it doesn’t mean he doens’t love her”
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WTF?! Thats EXACTLY what it means….he DOES NOT LOVE HER.
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Yeah he does. He says it all the time. Nobody is perfect so I think Tiny has just come to accept her man flaws and all. Nothing wrong with that.
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

aint none of yall in the bedroom what if tiny has no interest in another man her interest may be the same as his and in that case she gets her side action also
t.dot

Ladies, earn you own money, your own home, your own ride and then you own the man….
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

Toni says:

They stay together cuz they all have the same STD
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Any who if you let a man run all over you ..over and over and over thats cool. for you. but me I have pride

Also doesn’t she have a daughter ..what a good role model… SMH
Man, I just don’t care™

@CIVIL
“Tiny is like that old car that’s always been reliable so you fix it up, put some money in it and make it look nice BUT it’s not fun to drive, doesn’t turn many heads so you just keep it in the garage…love it, don’t wanna get rid of it but seem to have no use for it ”
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MY DAD CALLED THAT CAR “BETSY SUE.” Not sure where the name came from but that’s what he called her! HA HA HA.

Anyway, you’re 100% right. You might keep that car but you still get you an updated one to drive as your “every day” car.
coaretained

hayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy iscream! :waving back: girl the comment section was getting a lil cramped round chea..had to take a break. But you know I post on the KANG. Babies are good…and grown.

But I have lost maaaaad respect son!!! Specially since I was JUST accepting the fact he don’t want m…I mean is as down for her as SHE is to him. Gives me the sads really. That is just downright disrespectful to her, her kids, her family, HIS family…*sigh*
Cinderella

@ Man, If T.I. really loved Tiny he would: Stop cheating, married her a long time ago and stayed his azz out of jail.
http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

Sandra Mae Rose, you need to shadditup with this nonsense. Let this be another woman in this same sitchyashun you’d have something slick to say.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KRAY Z KAT
“Well, my definition of “love” probably differs from what other’s think it is. Love, to me, is not selfish, and if a man ~~is screwing around on me, he doesn’t love me. He’s being selfish.~~ Love is looking out for my best interest (not through material things) because he’s going to be protecting what he has. Cheap cooch is always easy to find.”
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I crossed out the part of your statement that just isn’t true for every situation. Maybe for some, but definitely not true for all situations.
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Tiny is ok with Hoopz now? I recall her going off publicly about T.I.’s relationship with Hoopz a few years ago. Now she cool with it? I don’t think so.
coaretained

<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< Clifford…this side eye for YOU.

How you gonna make that ol syrupy sweet song and pull THIS foolishness? Maybe I need to listen again and get the subliminal msg??

I said I was done posting huh??

*leaves quietly*
Man, I just don’t care™

@CINDERELLA
“If T.I. really loved Tiny he would: Stop cheating, married her a long time ago and stayed his azz out of jail.”
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If Tiny loved T.I. she never would have left him in the first time he was “cheating,” wouldn’t question his motives and decisions and wouldn’t be possessive and selfish.
aqtpie

I’m confused I thought Tiny was bi-sexual & that is why she didn’t mind!!!
Al-Ameera

@ Civil…Nice analogy

If they like it, I love it
Champagne Wishes & Caviar Dreams

In my Gucci Mane voice , “Well Dayum” !!!!!!
http://facebook.com/renz.renegadesince1985 renegadesince1985

CivilEngineer says:

Tiny is like that old car that’s always been reliable so you fix it up, put some money in it and make it look nice BUT it’s not fun to drive, doesn’t turn many heads so you just keep it in the garage…love it, don’t wanna get rid of it but seem to have no use for it

That’s why I you…..hahahaaa….thanks for that
KrayZKat

@Man – it’s true to ME and that’s all that counts. If a woman can be bought, that’s her business, but I’m not the one.

Let me ask you something. Would you want your girl sleeping around with different men? Is sleeping around only acceptable if one has a penis and he’s the one doing so?
http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

Sandra, Can you please let Iyonah back in the SR jungle?

Back on topic:
I really don’t care what these two people do in their own bedroom, but I do however DONOT think these two should get MARRIED if they are partaking in orgies and other shyt!
VIBABY

@Man He can say what ever he wants to. TI’s actions say something else. I dont consider a person who refuses to be faithful to be “flawed”. He does not love her, but thats ok because she doesnt love herself either.
ELove

Last I checked… THREESOMES were Voluntary !!!

If Tiny didn’t want to WILLINGLY be a part of T.I. Threesome(s), Could HE REALLY make/force her to be CONTINUOUSLY !!!

HER Reality is (Going by the Comments…) NONE OF OURS by Far… If SHE Likes It, The I LUVS It (Being So Real…)
intensemocha

I DON’T CONDONE THIS NONSENSE IN ANY SHAPE OR FORM

BUT THIS IS THE PROBLEM WITH THE NEW GENERATION, MEN CAN AND ARE FAITHFUL EVERYDAY ALL DAY, BUT THERE ARE SOME MEN WHO KNOW THAT THERE ARE WOMEN OUT HERE THAT WILL MARRY THEM AND ACCEPT WHATEVA HE TELLS HER, IE-GAME

AND TO EACH THEIR OWN-DO YOU, A GREAT DEMONSTRATION IS THE WHOLE “PIMPS UP HOES DOWN” CULTURE-99% OF IT IS GAME, THE SPOKEN WORD, PEOPLE BUY & EAT BULLSHIAT BECAUSE THEY NEED SOMETHING/SOMEONE TO FOLLOW OR BELIEVE IN BECAUSE THEY LACK THEIR OWN SELF-IDENTITY

WHATEVER HAPPENED TO THE OLD SCHOOL MEN, FROM BACK IN THE DAY WHO MAY HAVE HAD A WOMAN ON THE SIDE BUT WOULD BEAT HER SHORT OF DEATH IF SHE EVER MADE HER PRESENCE KNOWN TO HIS WIFE OR FAMILY-NOPE I DON’T CONDONE VIOLENCE OR CHEATING, BUT TYPICALLY MEN WHO CHEAT, BEHAVE VIOLENTLY LACK SELF-CONTROL THEREFORE THEY FEEL IN CONTROL WHEN THEY CONTROL OTHERS

I’M A HARD HEAD, YOU CAN’T FEED ME BULLSHIAT AND EXPECT ME TO SWALLOW AND NOT ASK QUESTIONS, BEFORE I EVEN THINK ABOUT OPENING MY MOUTH

KUDOS TINY IF THIS IS TRUE-YOUR A PRIME EXAMPLE OF A DOOR MAT, AN EXPENSIVE ONE BUT NONETHELESS STILL A DOORMAT
Daisy

Will post 1st then read later

Let TI and Tiny be GREAT

How do we know TI invited her maybe he did maybe he didn’t. Tix to Moniques show are free maybe she was being messy maybe she wasnt

Tiny has free will to leave just like she could have when she 1st found out abt Hoopz but she didn’t and I doubt she leaves the KING anytime soon

He was looking right last night such a charmer *swoons*
Al-Ameera

KaraZ says:

Sandra Mae Rose, you need to shadditup with this nonsense. Let this be another woman in this same sitchyashun you’d have something slick to say.
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exactly! Wasn’t you the one that called out Ice Cubes wife about being miserable for staying with her cheating husband? I’m still mad about that one…You just don’t stay nothin’ bad about Mr. Jackson!
free

my hairdresser knows another hairdresser (or stylist as they like to be called now) who is in tiny’s extended clique. supposedly, the wedding IS going down on some island in georgia.

i’m sure tiny was given an ultimatum: you can have the benefits (finally) and the name but you gotta play the game. she accepted.
free

p.s. yall talking about somebody who was holding drugs for T.I. at this point, what does she care about some hoopz?
SangriaSugar

She has no self-respect…case closed!!! This is just more proof that they are getting married for of the nay-sayers cause at the end of the day nothing about their relationship is changing. He still sexing other chicks and possibly bringing home another incurable STD.

SMDH
Man, I just don’t care™

@KRAY Z KAT
“it’s true to ME and that’s all that counts. If a woman can be bought, that’s her business, but I’m not the one.

Let me ask you something. Would you want your girl sleeping around with different men? Is sleeping around only acceptable if one has a penis and he’s the one doing so?”
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It’s not about being “bought” per se. It’s about being “understanding.” I just don’t think you can make that broad assumption that sleeping with someone else automatically means that person doesn’t love you. Maybe that’s me.

When you say “my girl” are you talkin about my daughter or my ol lady? Not trying to be smart but just not sure. Anyway, if you are asking “should men be treated different from women,” which is what you are saying in a de facto sort of way, than the answer is yes.
intensemocha

OKAY THE WHOLE FIASCO WITH HOOPS AND TINY IS WELL KNOWN-I REMEMBER A RADIO INTERVIEW SHE DID AND SHE SPOKE ABOUT IT

OKAY-IF THIS IT “PIMP” SHIAT, IF THEY WANT A THREESOME OKAY DO YOU BUT WHY IN THE HELL WOULD IT HAVE TO BE WITH SOMEONE SHE HAD BEEF WITH???

TI FUGGIN WITH HER HEAD, SERIOUSLY, YOU CAN’T TELL ME HE ISN’T ABUSIVE!!!

WHAT KIND OF ISH IS THAT!?!?!
Man, I just don’t care™

@VI BABY
“I dont consider a person who refuses to be faithful to be “flawed”.
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Than what do you consider them?
BROWNSUGAPOET

SS I think it has a lot to do with her father getting sicker and her wanting him to give her away
http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

Al-Ameera says:

KaraZ says:

Sandra Mae Rose, you need to shadditup with this nonsense. Let this be another woman in this same sitchyashun you’d have something slick to say.
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exactly! Wasn’t you the one that called out Ice Cubes wife about being miserable for staying with her cheating husband? I’m still mad about that one…You just don’t stay nothin’ bad about Mr. Jackson!
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Sandra you are a hypocrite #thatisall
kwall

Tiny is like that old car that’s always been reliable so you fix it up, put some money in it and make it look nice BUT it’s not fun to drive, doesn’t turn many heads so you just keep it in the garage…love it, don’t wanna get rid of it but seem to have no use for it
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You remind me of my jeep, I wanna ride it
Something like my sound, I wanna pump it
Girl you look just like my cars, I wanna wax it
aqtpie

Do you Tiny & Tip!! Whatever goes on in your bedroom is your business!!! I’ve read that analogy/comment several times on posts just this week from allowing gays to be open in the military to having relationships while still legally married & all in between!!! If yawll like it then I’ll be quiet!!!
MzTrina

lol@East’s logic……maybe I dont get it because I dont know any hoisims :/
Musiqal1

I’m laughing cause Sandra is really trying to justify this mess. If what you are saying is true, I am very disappointed in Tiny to think that she would sit back and accept that mess. “A man is a man”? I’m sorry no…when you commit, you commit…that means you fell in love with the girl and all the goodies she has to offer, and you want nothing else. This is just plain said. And Tiny should “stay in her lane”? She doesn’t need a lane to stay in if she is his wife! She should come first and no one else should be on his brain. All that sexual tension he builds up on the road needs to be released on her when he gets home every time…smh..
pointhimout

well hell, if you gone actively be a part of foolishness, why not tell tip if he can have jump offs and ish sleep over at the house, surely he can stfu about you having a career and a show. i’ll assume this isn’t true. hoopz is the spokesmodel for akoo or something. gotta be. main chick my ass. be the only chick.
http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

@ Kwall

& her daughter isn’t some little chick who doesn’t have access to the internet.

Even if Tiny is okay with it. Keep that mess behind closed doors. No need to put yourself out there for people to judge you and yours.

@Coa

So what is Hoopz saying on twitter?

Are you on twitter? Iscream27 hit me up if you are.
KrayZKat

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@KRAY Z KAT
“it’s true to ME and that’s all that counts. If a woman can be bought, that’s her business, but I’m not the one.

Let me ask you something. Would you want your girl sleeping around with different men? Is sleeping around only acceptable if one has a penis and he’s the one doing so?”
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It’s not about being “bought” per se. It’s about being “understanding.” I just don’t think you can make that broad assumption that sleeping with someone else automatically means that person doesn’t love you. Maybe that’s me.

When you say “my girl” are you talkin about my daughter or my ol lady? Not trying to be smart but just not sure. Anyway, if you are asking “should men be treated different from women,” which is what you are saying in a de facto sort of way, than the answer is yes.
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@Man – I think that people have to determine what’s right for them. If Tiny is allowing Tip to cheat on her, I guess it’s fine. Again, my definition of loves means that he would not want to share that wonderful part of our relationship (sex) with anyone else. Period. That’s me, and to me, that is not love. I’m not saying that some men don’t make mistakes. It happens, but a serial cheater? Not me.

I meant “your lady” not your daughter. So, just because a man has a penis, it’s okay for him to cheat? Well, since there are a lot of men, and they have the cheating DNA, they have to cheat with someone. Why couldn’t it be with your girl?
Krysi J

Please…..

this publicity stunt is so obvious. I just wonder who needs it the most TIP or Hoops?? Hoops got a jumpoff reality show coming out or something?
lovezoe

TI don’t do it for ME, but Micheal Ealy sure does do it for me 100X over.
Cinderella

If not for herself, Tiny needs to think about the well-being of her children. Sure T.I. can financially provide for his family but what providing morals and values? These are things money can’t buy but are more important to a child’s development than designer clothes and expensive toys.
ladyloca

They’re aren’t enough LV bags and luxury cars in the world! But hey, to each is own

smh
ladyloca

*There aren’t
Musiqal1

Cinderella says:

If not for herself, Tiny needs to think about the well-being of her children. Sure T.I. can financially provide for his family but what providing morals and values? These are things money can’t buy but are more important to a child’s development than designer clothes and expensive toys.

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^^^ Exactly! Their world is twisted!
coaretained

@iscream

nothing really..just not confirming or denying…you know how they do.

I’m on twitter but only to see what THEY say. Not really well versed in “tweeting”.
Al-Ameera

@ Krysi J, I agree. Everywhere that Hoopz is being seen at is a public place. TI can’t keep her away from public venues.

I just can’t believe that after the drama that he would even be that cruel to open that wound back up for Tiny. Maybe Hoopz is just being messy to start speculation about them again. You know females can be really trifing.
Anna

ELove says:

Last I checked… THREESOMES were Voluntary !!!

If Tiny didn’t want to WILLINGLY be a part of T.I. Threesome(s), Could HE REALLY make/force her to be CONTINUOUSLY !!!

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This is the problem when one is more in love than the other. The one more in love will put up with the most crap, why do you think it’s been rumored that they(Tiny)uses estasy,(sp) it makes you want to be touchy feeling w/anyone and that becomes T.I.’ way of the threesomes. It’s not to say that she does it willingly, she participates for him and maybe she does like women and that’s T.I’s way of letting her have sex w/women. So many different scenerios.
Zephyr1979

I love what Tiny and T.I. are doing as a family. But if this is how he wants to get down, married or not, then I can’t go for that! If you can’t be faithful why even be in a relationship. Like somebody said earlier, if Tiny cheated on him he would probably beat her down (as most men would). What’s good for the goose is good for the gander imo.
LuvMySailor

“She’s mature enough to know that a man is going to be a man.”

Well I guess I am not engaged to a real man nor are my friends married to real men because they are faithful.

No real man will cheat. He will take care of his lady and their home. A real woman will appreciate her man for what he does for him.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Hoopz looks unclean…
Zephyr1979

And Hoopz isn’t cute at all, I think she looks more like a man than Ciara does.
Silhouette

This is so sad if true. How can you expect someone to love you when you don’t even love yourself. Emotional abuse is the :devil:
mzvirgo78

Oh my …what is this world coming too??? First Lesbianism as a “trend” and now THIS. God takes care of babies and fools and this situation will be no different. Jesus take the wheel. Smh
Biancasmom1

He sure likes them “facially challenged”. Goodness not a good picture.

Sandra, really? cars and purses makes cheating okay? Can she do it? What if it were Beyonce and Jay Z? How stupid would Beyonce be?
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

@silhouette – please change your gravi

every time I see it I feel like he’s looking for chocolate gold….
SangriaSugar

@ Brown…that could very well be the case. I never watched the show but from what I hear she has a lot of love for her father and that I understand. But why go through the charade of getting married if they’re not gonna take the meaning & symbolism of being married seriously. Why waste the money on something that holds no meaning…they should just put the money in their kids education account, open up some trust funds, or set some money aside.
Daisy

@coa what’s your username or Hoopz?

M Ealy is cute as well he looked nice last night also I can’t wait to see Takers so much eyecandy :yea:

Men been cheating since the beg of time and now women (some) do just as much dirt in some cases. Doesn’t make it right to me but folks know where the door is and how to take their left n right n STEP when they have had enough!
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

last i checked “kings” ruled the kingdom so they get to pick and choose who they want to have relations with lol. having sex is not the end all be all to all people. you place value on things she could very well leave him for kissing another females as opposed to having intercourse because thats what she holds sacred between them. you can have a faithful man and still have a terrible relationship it oculd be other things like religion that come into play that could cause you to have problems more than somebody sleeping with someone else
Silhouette

Hey MIssy :waving: I am looking actively looking for a new one.
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

Some people only get married for the benefits… . so tiny probably just wants the benefits if God forbid something happens to T.I. and if she isn’t in the will ..she will be screwed.
coaretained

@daisy therealhoopz I think…mines is shesacoldpiece (djm)
foryasoul

tiny know whats up ladies if cant beat em join em aint nothing wrong with having sex with another woman 3sum yall if u want some other chick will
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

*waves* heeeeyyyyy silhouette ..okay let me know when you change it…lol
mzvirgo78

KaraZ says: Sandra Mae Rose, you need to shadditup with this nonsense. Let this be another woman in this same sitchyashun you’d have something slick to say.

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You don’t see the SARCASM all up and THROUGH this post!?!?
Man, I just don’t care™

@KRAY Z KAT
“I think that people have to determine what’s right for them. If Tiny is allowing Tip to cheat on her, I guess it’s fine. Again, my definition of loves means that he would not want to share that wonderful part of our relationship (sex) with anyone else. Period. That’s me, and to me, that is not love. I’m not saying that some men don’t make mistakes. It happens, but a serial cheater? Not me.

I meant “your lady” not your daughter. So, just because a man has a penis, it’s okay for him to cheat? Well, since there are a lot of men, and they have the cheating DNA, they have to cheat with someone. Why couldn’t it be with your girl?”
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I understand your definition of “love.” If that’s how you define it, than I wish that for you. I like to beleive love is lot more encompassing than who you sleep with and isn’t negated by “cheating.” But maybe that’s me.

Oh, my lady. Ok. As for is it ok for man to cheat just because he has a penis. No, not necessarily. But there is a REASON the so called and poorly named “double standard” exists in every society in the world throughout the history of the world, because men and women are different and SHOULD be expected to act differently. Anyway, I’m all for open relationships. I think as long as both sides are honest and open about who they are sleeping with than it’s all good.
BROWNSUGAPOET

SS since they were supposed to be engaged they may have sped the date up since he’s sick.

I’m out. I may be back tomorrow and may not! Yall just unruly!
Man, I just don’t care™

@MZ. VIRGO
“First Lesbianism as a “trend”
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I’m pretty sure that’s here to stay!
http://www.facebook.com/evieannie speaknoevil

This is sad if its true. First…Hoopz has nothing on Tiny to me. Hoopz is used and abused. If I was Tiny I wouldn’t even be hittin that!
Daisy

@coa thanks will look u up when I leave the gym
SangriaSugar

Brown…have a good night
cutiechica

Can anyone explain to me how to add a Gravatar on this site? Thanks
Kittle

I am, so happy this is becoming the norm (sarcasm). The legalization of polygamy in all states will be the new gay marriage/interracial thing.
spelmangirl

I don’t know if you guys have been paying attention however ever since Sandra boldly announced that she wasn’t invited to their wedding, she has been throwing crazy shade at TI and Tiny. Point (1), When she made fun of the “big words” TIP used on Larry King, (2), The pictures she has been using of Tiny of lately look a hot mess, (3), Showing how controlling TIP is by pulling Tiny off of her reality show, (4), When she presented his mixtape on here she wrote about people saying he fell off [never heard people say that…heard he has been more lyrical since release] and lastly(5), this entire satirical article. Sandra knows TIP’s goons will be at her front door immediately if she throws shade directly. Sandra is smart. She is throwing her dirt but clearly you have to be paying attention. Only someone just as evil as Sandra is will see what she’s doing. Well played my friend…well played.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

spelmangirl says:
Only someone just as evil as Sandra is will see what she’s doing. Well played my friend…well played.

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What does that say about you? Normally I don’t respond to this type of foolish baiting, but I couldn’t resist this time. Has anyone ever told you that you sound delusional? Do people act uneasy around you? Has a member of your family ever suggested an intervention? Are you into conspiracy theories?
CorporateHoodB-tch

Gotdayum that is the ugliest picture I’ve ever seen of Hoopz!!!!
I used to think that bish was fine…back when Tiny was going whoop both of their azzes for messing around. BTW…thought TIP got rid of this bish then…ugh!!!
In this pic, Hoopz head looks too big for her body, her hair/weave is limp flat, stringy…
her outfit is…what a romper? >:(
I refuse to believe TIP is parading her around as his jumpoff.
CorporateHoodB-tch

@Sandra & @Spelmangirl
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Oooh, I hate to log off…it’s been some epic e-battles on SR today..LOL
Krysi J

I just can’t believe that after the drama that he would even be that cruel to open that wound back up for Tiny. Maybe Hoopz is just being messy to start speculation about them again. You know females can be really trifing.

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This is exactly why is obviously a LIE

1. Hoopz and Tip’s first episode was what 5 years ago??!!

2. He just got out of jail…..what happened, did she get some letters thru or something…a visit??

3. Why would Tiny WILLINGLY let Tip fukk another female on the side that looks 100x better than her?? Thats practically giving the niccah away, married and all……..and how will she put an end to this??

4. Why the fukk would Hoopz sit front row at a MONIQUE’s show….who the hell watches that show….you see it tooks weeks for people to even take notice…thats why the PR had to leak this crap to the NET

5. Hoopz is not TI’s type……..look at Tiny, do yall see any resemblances??!!
spelmangirl

@Sandra– Truth is, I know I have an mean streak. When provoked I can be a mess(pray for me). I’ve never had anyone suggest that I was “delusional” and I have never been much for conspiracy theories either. I am usually the one looking at the computer like “WTF”. Maybe my choice of word, “evil” was off but, you must admit, you can be mean to people and my perception was and still is that you are throwing shade. There is absolutly no way that you can believe some of the stuff you wrote in this article.

[She knows that there are other women and she’s is alright with that because she loves her man and she knows he loves her. She’s mature enough to know that a man is going to be a man. That’s why T.I. rewards Tiny with so many luxury gifts, such as expensive handbags and cars — because she dutifully stays in her lane.]

Really?!?!? Or…maybe you my friend, are the narcissists.
http://facebook.com/Im2thick4u 2thick4u

Well this is some crazy ass drama!!

I can’t even fathom the thought of waiting for my man for a year only to come home to see old females around, even if they aren’t fucking !!

I would put my foot in his ass and hers!! Well for each it’s own…glad it ain’t me!!
mzvirgo78

Ummmmmm Sandra …I took it that you were throwing shade as well. >>>>> *goes back to my seat in the back of the room*
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

Although this post was based on an opinionated email from a “loyal reader”, what goes on in TI’s and Tiny’s bedroom; is between the two of them. I would agree, it makes for great gossip however at the end of the day, they don’t own an explanation to us for what they do. And they for one damn sure aren’t looking for the Sandrarose readers’ approval on if this is how they should conduct themselves. As the world keeps spending, they will continue to do what they do. You know? Who are we to judge?
On another note, speaking hypothetically, would I willingly allow my husband to sleep with other women during the marriage? Absolutely not! We stood before our God, peers, friends and family and promised to love and respect one another, blah,blah,blah. All of those vows are in vain if I give you free reign to do whatever the hell it is you wish. Kind of defeats the purpose to me.
http://myspace.com/necee518 yvonne79

^spinning…
http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream

Daisy said: How do we know TI invited her maybe he did maybe he didn’t. Tix to Moniques show are free maybe she was being messy maybe she wasnt
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I don’t know if you’ve ever been to a talk show before but you usually don’t know who the guest is until you get to that taping. Besides why would she wait till NOW to start sniffing his arse again….

krysi J said: He just got out of jail…..what happened, did she get some letters thru or something…a visit??
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That’s what I think happened. When a nicca in jail and it’s just them four walls it’s no telling who he was entertaining. I think they rekindled that spark when he was in the clanks.
ELove

@Anna
Yeah ONE-SIDED Love is Very Deceptive-n-Deceiving BUT It’s Ohh So REAL !!!

@Krysi J
CAN You really make/find LOGIC in something that is Completely ILLOGICAL

@Yvonne79
Completely AGREE (Her Reality ISN’T Our Reality & Never WILL BE…)
Daisy

@yvonne thats what I was saying we really dont know

@iscream I am sure you can easily find out who is going to be on Moniques show before hand if you are pressed the A is a small circle all Hoopz had to do was make a few calls or she could have a spy at Grand Hustle TI could have very well invited her, I dont know I am looking at all sides as usual.
http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

Dead and on the floor at >>>VIBABY says: One time for #hoeshyt…..
dholmes212

“married man should not have a woman draped all over him like this. It’s inappropriate and a real man should sit The Dream down and explain that to him.”<—Does this apply to Tip also ?

* From the post on The Dream
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

dholmes212 says:
“married man should not have a woman draped all over him like this. It’s inappropriate and a real man should sit The Dream down and explain that to him.”<—Does this apply to Tip also ? *************************************** a. T.I. is not married, and b. I don't see any pics of women draped all over him.
Carmez79

its so amazing the sick passes ti gets on this site. SMH hard. this man can cheat and be a multiple felon yet still gets praise after praise. whats this world coming to. now i am not going to front like i dont like ti’s music but damn be fair.
AprilRain

Well I hope this mess has no truth to it. I really don’t think Tiny would go as far as allowing this just so her Dad could walk her down the marrige lane……unless of course they practice polygamy, which is taboo for most but practiced commenly in Utah, Montanna, and other states and countrys. :shrug:. Would I be ok with this? H3LL NO. I dont even like to share my candy much less my man. Would I do this for any car, bag, house,or material item??? H3LL NO again. To emotional distressing IMO…
TSRBenz

so T.I can do no wrong when it comes to sandra i guess its ok to cheat as long as you can afford to buy her all the expensive things she likes so when they get married and there are other girls seen with him i hope you make the same statement you just made about the dream
MiqueRu

This just don’t sit right with me.Tiny is a good mother, good soon to be wife, she stopped what she LOVED to be with you, she held your ass DOWN when you did your bid and you come out and pull this BULLSHIT? I don’t get it? He was sending her shizz from jail , love you this and love you that, to come out and to prance around town with this HOE-BAG rather than his so called wife -to be!!?? smh she got her own money she don’t need to get REWARDED she ain’t no damn show dog…well she shouldn’t marry him BECAUSE he going keep doing this after they say their vows….
crystal

I think the rumors with Hoopz or whatever her name is false and no one should be giving her back 15 additional minutes in fame. I think she happended to be there when the time T.I. was to be a guest on the show. I am sure Tiny was backstage. I don’t think her “Pink” Letter was ever written to him so they can be hanging out in about again. A wedding will take place soon. People should just let them live instead of assuming $hit. T.I. made it clear to all in 2010 of whom he want to spend his life with.
electrik

ehh i don’t play that “let a man be a man” nonsense. we are equal in the relationship so if you have a problem with me being with other men (which i wouldn’t want to do anyway unless i didn’t love you)then don’t be with other women

her definition of love is one thing i will NOT be subscribing to
coaretained

I’m just saying..when Tiny did come up on Monique..he was a tad bit..uneasy. But I guess I can see that when the chick I left her to be with is sitting in the front row all smiles and wet twat.
tintin1979

wow hoopz ain’t as hot as she used to be. her age is starting to show but don’t she have a man already.
borderlineamazing

At the end of the day it is THEIR life but I personally don’t agree with it. Why get married then? If it’s unacceptable for her then it should be unacceptable for him too.

I hate when people say well men are different that basically gives them an excuse. T.I. has a functioning brain, knows right from wrong- he can control himself but doesn’t because he knows HE CAN do it. As if being born with a penis instead of a vagina is reason enough to sleep around while the mother of your children is at home waiting raising the children. SMH.

I just don’t like the hypocrisy coming from Sandra. Not shocking but still.
Sheena215

@ civilengineer – I agree why get married? This is some straight bull ish sandra if ya man not gone stay faithful why get married. And I am pretty sure you dont know the definition of love because if you did you wouldnt have made that statement. Ti dont love Tiny if he did he wouldnt be creeping with other hood rats POINT BLANK PERIOD! So basically her getting designer bags and clothes from him is more important than his commitment? WHERE THEY DO THAT AT? She can be without him and still rock the best ish with all the dang child support checks she gone get. SMFH
Sheena215

ITS OK TI GO TO JAIL, ITS OK TI CHEATS, EVERYTHING TI DO IS FINE IN SANDRA EYES. I GOT ONE THING TO SAY SANDRA – STOP DI#K RIDING TI DAMN IS HE YA MAN TAKE HIS D#CK OUT YA MOUTH BEFORE YOU CHOKE! SMFH
Ace

Hello SR Fam,

My names Ace I’ve been lurking for months and finally have been blessed to join you. quick intro. I’m a 26 YBG who lives in NC(born in Seattle) and I’ve been reading SR for several months and been loving some of the commentary that has been going on. Gotta give some props to Civil and Man for hold it down for the men here. and i love me some Brown, Flo, krys and the rest of the lovely women here. and finally i get to join in. So let me break my SR virginity with my first post…(also need a gravcheck to make sure i did everything right….)

CivilEngineer says:

Why bother promising faithfulness under GOD if you know you can’t/won’t be faithful

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Who said they have to pledge faithfulness under god…its ironic Sandra mentioned the Monique Show in this post. Monique and her husband have been happily married for a while and they have a Open Marriage. Her husband is allowed to have sex outside of the union…and the faithfulness part WAS left out of their vows..People love differently…My love and your love can be completely different. its been programed into our head that its the Tradition way or noway at all..anyone every think maybe Tiny is OK with this(even tho from what I’ve read she has had beef with hoopz at some point) as long as her man comes home. I’m not saying everyone move to Utah and have 8 wives and s hit. But i just hate when people bash when others due things outside the “traditional” norm.
TruGemini

Sandra does not mean any of that bullsh’t she’s talking…she’s tryna keep her connects good I’m sure. I just refuse to believe that being okay with jumpoffs is cool. If this were any other woman she’d be called all kinds of stoopid…
MzTee

As the old folks like to say, ‘If Tiny likes it, I love it.’ Folks need to realize that marriage means different things to different people and people get married for all kinds of reasons. Obviously, and I do mean obviously, T.I. and Tiny have an ‘understanding.’

Bottomline, we don’t have to agree with their ‘understanding,’ nor do we have to like their ‘understanding,’ but it’s how T.I. and Tiny choose to live their lives. Their definition of marriage and being in a relationship is NOT my definition of those things, but they have the RIGHT to live their lives how they see fit. They are both grown azz people are doing their thing, AND since they have NO problem with it, I certainly don’t have a problem with it because it ain’t my situation.

I have way too much going on in my life to judge T.I. and Tiny and worry about why they choose to live an ‘alternative’ lifestyle. The reason they do is because they can and everybody just needs to deal with it and let these folks get on with their lives.
MzAkatude

I never heard the old story about Tiny going off about Hoopz, can someone forward me that old juice so I can play catch up. lol

And Anuntie Sandra can u give us some TI wedding hints, I know u know.

Any whatever happen to that big Welcome Home weekend of events u mentioned a while back?

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FreeToSpeakUp

@ Ace

I can’t agree with you on that. Is there any book older than the bible? No…religious texts are the oldest compositions to man kind. With that being said, infidelity is mentioned–hence adultery. Let’s not speak blasphemy.

Oh and and too!

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