Study: Children Raised By Lesbians Have Fewer Behavioral Problems

Sandra Rose June 7, 2010

A nearly 25-year study shows that children raised in lesbian households have fewer behavioral problems than children raised by gay men.

But does this study really prove anything? Women are naturally more nurturing than men, aren’t we?

A nearly 25-year study concluded that children raised in lesbian households were psychologically well-adjusted and had fewer behavioral problems than their peers.

The study, published Monday in the journal Pediatrics, followed 78 lesbian couples who conceived through sperm donations and assessed their children’s well-being through a series of questionnaires and interviews.
Funding for the research came from several lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender advocacy groups, such as the Gill Foundation and the Lesbian Health Fund from the Gay Lesbian Medical Association.

Wendy Wright, president of the Concerned Women for America, a group that supports biblical values, questioned the legitimacy of the findings from a study funded by gay advocacy groups.

“That proves the prejudice and bias of the study,” she said. “This study was clearly designed to come out with one outcome — to attempt to sway people that children are not detrimentally affected in a homosexual household.” Read more…

pointhimout

Sandra, put down the gay bible as the chapter named Eve and Yvette is not real, and it is not cho friend.
http://www.inkblock.webs.com iscream

So, are you thinking of adopting…
http://twitter.com/Ms_Missy2791 missy

pointhimout says:

Sandra, put down the gay bible as the chapter named Eve and Yvette is not real, and it is not cho friend.
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So Sandra you trying to tell us you are going to adopt…
MZN

no comment…
aqtpie
FloridaChick813

Are we really more nurturing???

Some more then others I believe. But I think a man or two men can be just as nurturing as anyone else.
KK76

Agreed @ Flo. Some heteros shouldn’t be parents and some g&l’s shouldn’t be parents.
OutsidetheBox

There is no formula people. Man + woman, woman + woman, man + man, woman alone, man alone = you could still end up with a #batshytcrazy kid.

Stay prayed up LOL
Redeemed777

I just hope that picture above is not what I think it is.

Two white dudes raising a black girl.

Unh Unh. Nope nope and no.
http://www.inkblock.webs.com iscream

My two Dads…

So, let me get this right. Children (mainly boys) according to Sandra raised in a home with just One woman will likely grow up to be a menece to society, hate and beat on women

BUT

If two women raise this same boy he will grow up to be great? o-O
http://www.ashland86.com TheRealAshland

who are these people? why have you violated there privacy by posting this picture? not cool… besides your sexual orientation doesn’t determine whether or not your a good parent.
FloridaChick813

@ “batshytcrazy” – R U THE CREATOR OF THAT TERM OTB???? Cause I swear I manage to use it just about EVERY DAY!!!
Ebony

My mom was in the army so half of my life I was raised by my Uncle Bridgette and auntie shannon. I was well behaved so I agree
Anna

This pic is not two lesbians, two gay men, yes.
lakercrazy

as long as the parets provide a healhty loving home for children to live and learn from who cares what sex they are….
KK76

@ Ebony. I’ve got an Aunt Tom too!
lakercrazy

@ebony i got and uncle ashely lol love her
OutsidetheBox

That wasnt me @Flo…One of these fools on here though…LOL
TruGemini

I do not think that a child raised by two women (or men) will be less of a behavior issues solely because of the sexual preference of their “parents”. I don’t think that even matters… I do believe that children raised in G/L homes will have more emotional and psycological issues which could then lead to behavior issues…
Daisy

@flo @Vibaby says batshytcrazy

I am all for kids being raised in any safe n loving household
Silhouette

seriously?
I have to agree with OTB, anyone can a “batshytcrazy” kid!
Mamacita

My two Dads…

So, let me get this right. Children (mainly boys) according to Sandra raised in a home with just One woman will likely grow up to be a menece to society, hate and beat on women

BUT

If two women raise this same boy he will grow up to be great? o-O
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That’s the same thing I was thinking! Something about this study doesn’t seem right. Doesn’t make sense at all IMO.
SangriaSugar

Any study that releases statistics of this nature are wrong because parental relationships with children CANNOT be generalized for today’s population.

Was this study cosigned by the APA?? I think not…because if you look at the actual study then you will see that important variables have been left out (psychological reports of family history) and the cross-tell used was a joke.
Ashley

Find that research article…people that summarize these things for print/newspapers usually leave out a lot of important information about how they completed the study and so forth and come to find out the research is pure trash.
VIBABY

@daisy

Lol, I do say it alot, but I think I got it from the TINY/TOYA youtube spoof. The part when Tiny says “what do you do if your man is bathsyt crazy” lmao.
Al-Ameera

OutsidetheBox says:

There is no formula people. Man + woman, woman + woman, man + man, woman alone, man alone = you could still end up with a #batshytcrazy kid.

Stay prayed up LOL
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Basically
OutsidetheBox

Yeah VI’s ass! *pointing*
http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

Most children who come into the world under the following conditions will have less behavorial problems:
— planned
— older, mature parents
— stable financial environment

This study is flawed. Without comparing children of heterosexual parents who fall under the same conditions as listed above, we really can’t tell if the children have fewer behavorial problems.

Who did they compare these kids to? I bet they didn’t compare them to children raised by lesbian parents who are out in the club and still sleeping with men on the under.
http://www.inkblock.webs.com iscream

Lol I love that tiny & toya youtube spoof.
ELove

THAT Picture is Very Disturbing (REAL…)

And LESBIANS aren’t Better OR Worst than NON-Lesbian parents… THEIR just people trying to be THE PARENTS they think they NEED to be IN REGARDS to rearing children in THEIR Household (Nothing More, Nothing Less IMO)
MandaPanda0408

As long as the parents are loving what should it matter? However that picture is creepy….
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I think this topic has some relevancy becuz the kids are already raised to understand difference in people and respect other’s choices
FreeToSpeakUp

To each it’s own, my beliefs are what “thus said the LORD,” however when it comes to issues of homosexuality I feel as though that community tries to force their lifestyle amongst everyone. They want to be “different” but yet wants us (society) to believe they are the same. It’s contradicting to say the least.
OutsidetheBox

“..raised to understand difference in people and respect other’s choices..”

WHICH A LOT OF HETERO PARENTS DONT DO.

Yes, you. Not you, Choc. But Them! The ones in school with my kids who don’t know how to say please and thank you…yep. Yours!

They are so precious and well-behaved with their 2.5 parents and picket fences and birth certificates with their very married woman and man parents listed…so well behaved that they are never in the office with the BRT getting picked up early…oh wait, yes they are :/
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@OTB
Yeah a lot of people need to accept folks for who they are no one is able to fully judge someone else and what’s worse rarely does someone’s judgement mean anything more than one’s owns insecurity
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

“..raised to understand difference in people and respect other’s choices..”

WHICH A LOT OF HETERO PARENTS DONT DO.

Yes, you. Not you, Choc. But Them! The ones in school with my kids who don’t know how to say please and thank you…yep. Yours!

They are so precious and well-behaved with their 2.5 parents and picket fences and birth certificates with their very married woman and man parents listed…so well behaved that they are never in the office with the BRT getting picked up early…oh wait, yes they are

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But respecting the difference in people and their choices has nothing to do with mannerism.
OutsidetheBox

@Free how so? Elaborate for us. We have people in that lifestyle (? I think thats crass/negative and I cringe as I write it but…) who post here regulary…

“They want to be “different” but yet wants us (society) to believe they are the same. ”
I didnt know gay folks were part of a different society
FreeToSpeakUp

They’re not of a different society, they live a different lifestyle and they want everyone to embrace their CHOICE to be homosexuals. If you want to be different live with the reality that comes with it. “They” want to be different but want o be compared to a man and woman raising a child. “They” want to be different but they are a man acting as a woman and vice versa which is all a contradiction.
qtipthecat

I am counfused. Are those two people men or just manly looking lesbians? I have another question, and not because I am judging anyone. Just because I am curious to how it all works. Why do some lesbians, not all but some, try really hard to look like a man, if they don’t even like men?
FreeToSpeakUp

qtipthecat says:

I am counfused. Are those two people men or just manly looking lesbians? I have another question, and not because I am judging anyone. Just because I am curious to how it all works. Why do some lesbians, not all but some, try really hard to look like a man, if they don’t even like men?

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Exactly…
OutsidetheBox

Why not? They are all manners and social customs… and should be taught at home. Point being that any combo of genes can raise a healthy, well-rounded, socially conscious kid.

I bought up hetero parents because that’s the standard… and these kids are just as bad as other kids.
OutsidetheBox

They live a different lifestyle? And? Dont we all? I try to avoid any and all things nature, so I live a different lifestyle then folks who enjoy the great outdoors…I surely hope no one wil infringe on my civil rights and force me outdoors cause I hate butterflys and chit..

You must be around some aggressive ass homos cause where I’m from they want to be left alone…I mean the ones who are obviously looking for attention get it but for the most part, they just like us, e-homie.

I still havent heard how they want to be different. You think homosexuality is a choice. And that, I cant help you with cause I’m way beyond that…if you can be born hetero…surely you can be born homo…so “choice” kind of flies out the window…
LovelyLady

pointhimout says:

Sandra, put down the gay bible as the chapter named Eve and Yvette is not real, and it is not cho friend.
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FreeToSpeakUp

Going back to this: “..raised to understand difference in people and respect other’s choices” Where in this line does it state anything to do with mannersim? It seems the focus is acceptance of a life choice IMO. It’s always about them being accepted for their sexual orientation. If you want to be different, be it. Don’t “mimmick” the life of heterosexuals.
FreeToSpeakUp

You’re born hetero because you are born a man or either a woman. We are meant to be with the opposite sex, we were made to reproduce. Otherwise you wouldn’t even be here if the whole world operated with only homosexuals.
OutsidetheBox

So raising kids is a heterosexuals only right? Mimic? That’s like saying people who use proper English are trying to sound white… White people don’t own proper engliush and hetero people don’t own rights to raise decent kids.

Going back to this: “..raised to understand difference in people and respect other’s choices” Where in this line does it state anything to do with mannersim?

Well maybe we approach child rearing from different views. It is my understanding that it is my responsibility to teach my children manners /customs of all types…and in my house it is manner-able to attempt to understand someone who is different from you…from the Down Syndrome kid in my son’s Kinder. class to the Mr. and Mr. Hawkins who parent little Nathan in my daughter’s class… this isnt my kid’s world. They share it.
OutsidetheBox

Meant? Who said? God? When He wrote it in that book that has chapters deleted and missing…? Right?

And we are made to reproduce, no doubt, we are animals. But I fail to see how that means that only hetero people can raise good kids..

“Otherwise you wouldn’t even be here if the whole world operated with only homosexuals.’

You do too much :lolol: I dont think of the world in such black and white terms…so lets just agree to disagree.
ELove

Whaddup @LovelyLady !!! Are U back on twitter ?!? If so please re-send me a Request (You disappeared for a LONG Minute…)
FreeToSpeakUp

Mimick as in marriage, acting as another sex when you are really the other, etc. “That’s like saying people who use proper English are trying to sound white” is just pure ignorance and doesn’t share the same basis of this type of conversation. But back to square one “..raised to understand difference in people and respect other’s choices” they are speaking in reference to their sexuality and not mannerism. PERIOD
ShoYaRight

Surely you could have found a picture to match with the article. What do Adam and Steve and Bonquisha have to do with this post?
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Meant? Who said? God? When He wrote it in that book that has chapters deleted and missing…? Right?

And we are made to reproduce, no doubt, we are animals. But I fail to see how that means that only hetero people can raise good kids..

I will not speak blasphemy…….. We are not animals (at least I am not), we are creatures. I never said that they couldn’t raise kids. What I said was why are they always comparing their lifestyles to those who are heterosexual? Want you to be homosexual then be that. Don’t be a man/woman dressed in drag or butch, marriage is to be shared by a man and woman. Back to the bible, your vows are taken for THE BIBLE. How dare ANYONE throw that out when it’s feasible for their situation and pretend like it doesn’t exist! CONTRADICTION.
Mamacita

OutsidetheBox says:

Meant? Who said? God? When He wrote it in that book that has chapters deleted and missing…? Right?

And we are made to reproduce, no doubt, we are animals. But I fail to see how that means that only hetero people can raise good kids..

“Otherwise you wouldn’t even be here if the whole world operated with only homosexuals.’

You do too much I dont think of the world in such black and white terms…so lets just agree to disagree.
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I’m with Free on this one…if homosexuals were made to reproduce with eachother they wouldn’t have to use OUTSIDE SOURCES in oder to have a child. God didn’t create us that way

As far as the study is concerned I was raised by a man and a woman and i’ve always been able to get along with others and accept people for who they are. Hell one of my really good friends is gay and i love and respect him just like anyone else. I don’t approve of his lifstyle but i’m not here to judge him. My parents raised me this way so I don’t think it has anything to so with the gender and everything to do with the type of person that’s raising the child.
BROWNSUGAPOET

@ Free

So what about the people that are born with both parts??? WHat sex are they considered?
OutsidetheBox

Okay. I see where we miss each other. You believe that marriage is only for hetero folks and I don’t… so….I don’t think we can change each other’s minds on that…gay people don’t want marriage for the paper or the under Christ (or maybe they do : shrug: ). I thought they wanted the protection that comes with marriage in this country… not just to wave the paper and exploit wedding registries…but to say, visit the other on the death bed?

I’m sorry you don’t see how that is relevant to our convo…hetero people don’t own the rights to parenting and white people don’t own the rights to proper English… I used that analogy cause surely you’ve heard someone get teased for sounding “white” when they speak proper English…as if white folks own proper English…

Bully kid of hetero parents who is much too concerned with other kid’s homo parents probably stemming from a lack of attention while his parents searched for President Obama’s birth certificate and popped Xanax: “Ha ha you have two moms!”

Perfectly normal kid with homo parents who has been raised to accept others since his parents know discrimination all to well: “Okay and…?”

Bully kid: “Yeah. I’ve got nothing.”

*Flo from Progressive voice* And were walking….
FreeToSpeakUp

Born with both sexes is called a hermaphrodite. If you look like a man, you use that sex and vice versa.
OutsidetheBox

Okay then forgive me I thought we were talking about hetero vs. homo parenting… I can’t answer questions about dressing in drag because I don’t. I also don’t think it’s being forced. I think it’s something that’s out there in the open more now especially with the internet and if you visit certain places you will see more of it…

Good for you @Mamacita. Too bad lots of hetero people have to use outside sources to get preggos too… walk light. Lots of women here have had trouble conceiving…
OutsidetheBox

“If you look like a man, you use that sex and vice versa.”

Pink is only for girls and blue is only for boys too right?

Challenge something. Anything. Men used to wear dresses. Critical thinking is necessary.
FreeToSpeakUp

Marriage isn’t for heterosexuals? I missed that memo. Or are the vows (from the bible) are re-written to “fit” to “their” marriage

Minister: Dearly Beloved, we are gathered together here in the sign of God – and in the face of this company – to join together this man and this woman in holy matrimony, which is commended to be honorable among all men; and therefore – is not by any – to be entered into unadvisedly or lightly – but reverently, discreetly, advisedly and solemnly. Into this holy estate these two persons present now come to be joined. If any person can show just cause why they may not be joined together – let them speak now or forever hold their peace.

Marriage is the union of husband and wife in heart, body and mind. It is intended for their mutual joy – and for the help and comfort given on another in prosperity and adversity. But more importantly – it is a means through which a stable and loving environment may be attained.

In my book (bible) a husband is a man and a wife is a woman????
FreeToSpeakUp

Wearing dresses or pants does not make you a man or a woman. But when you are wearing a dress, with lipstick and heels, carrying a handbag THEN you are a man pretending to be a woMAN!

My mind is always critically thinking got something better than that?
LovelyLady

Heyyy Elove Bayyy Bayyy, Yea Im still on twitter, just don’t use it as much. But i’ll resend u a request hun
Mamacita

@OutsidetheBox This is very true but it is POSSIBLE for men and women to produce a child through intercourse, it is IMPOSSIBLE for two men or two women to produce a child through intercourse. And not all hetero couples get married for the piece of paper and not all homosexual couples get married just because of rights. Trying to generalize the reasons for marriage to a particular lifestyle shouldn’t be done.
BROWNSUGAPOET

FreeToSpeakUp says:

You’re born hetero because you are born a man or either a woman. We are meant to be with the opposite sex, we were made to reproduce. Otherwise you wouldn’t even be here if the whole world operated with only homosexuals.

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This is what I was referring too when I asked about the people born with both parts.
how do they know which sex to choose???

I’ve seen flat chested women with a lot of facial hair and if I didnt know them I’d think they were a man so because they look like a man are you sayin they should live as one?
FreeToSpeakUp

IMO if you have both sexes and your OUTER appearance is a WOMAN, live as such. Being flat chested or hairy but you look like a woman to me does not make you a man.
FreeToSpeakUp

But you know what, a hermaphrodite being confused about sexuality is easier to deal with. They were in FACT born that way.
OutsidetheBox

So if they don’t use the vows from the Bible that’s okay? Youre so Christian like with your acceptance of others and whatnot…

As long as they dont invoke God and the Bible they can have the other rights THAT ONLY MARRIED COUPLES ARE OFFERED IN THIS COUNTRY?

And Im not talking the ones from God…I mean simple ole tax and health care laws.
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

So if they don’t use the vows from the Bible that’s okay? Youre so Christian like with your acceptance of others and whatnot…

As long as they dont invoke God and the Bible they can have the other rights THAT ONLY MARRIED COUPLES ARE OFFERED IN THIS COUNTRY?

And Im not talking the ones from God…I mean simple ole tax and health care laws.
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Marriage comes from the bible as well as they vows that are taken place. It amzaes ME how that fact is ignored to suit the purpose of homosexuals. You want to take GOD out of the equation for your needs at that time BUT in the same breath you’re following his word. There’s Contradiction again. If you want to be with the same sex, stop trying to live the same life as those who are not. That’s all I am saying. If you are going to a woman to like a woman, why shave your head and dress like a man. I mean, doesn’t that mean you’re actually attracted to a man? How confusing. A man dating a man in drag, doesn’t that mean he’s attracted to a woman…………………..
OutsidetheBox

Your response to me saying men used to wear dresses is very telling…my point was that you have had all your thoughts developed for you…by a book written ages ago…a book missing books…Books chosen 300 years after Jesus left us…

…I could but you live your life (and the life of others) by the Book and even I know better than to try to reason with that!
Mamacita

OutsidetheBox says:

So if they don’t use the vows from the Bible that’s okay? Youre so Christian like with your acceptance of others and whatnot…

As long as they dont invoke God and the Bible they can have the other rights THAT ONLY MARRIED COUPLES ARE OFFERED IN THIS COUNTRY?

And Im not talking the ones from God…I mean simple ole tax and health care laws.

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I feel marriage is an odinance made by God and deferring from what he states is an abomination. You don’t take the 10 commandments and say “well we’re gonna use the ones we like or the ones that are easier to keep and throw all the rest out because they don’t fit our lifestyle”, do you?

We can’t alter His word! If He said it, it is final. Love all my GLBT family but I can’t get with the whole gay marriage thing. But I still have lots of love for ya
OutsidetheBox

Well fluck marriage then! A union! Can they have a union??????? I think we are going back and forth about the word…!

Okay. You lost me (again..) with your #66. I think gay people should be afforded the same rights as heterosexual people and you dont…I got that right?
OutsidetheBox

This is why people think Christians are blinded by hate. Even if they don’t do it in front of the God you all have dibbs on, they still can’t get nothing. That’s just selfish. :lolol:
Mamacita

@Free I think alot of people who claim to be gay are confused and just don’t know what they. I never got why women want women that look like men and why men want men who dress and look like women…seems like it’s more about sexual exploration than actually being in love and wanting a relationship with someone. Sex is taking over! Everything is about sex these days.
FreeToSpeakUp

Christians aren’t blinded by hate, as a matter of fact we are taught not to hate. Homosexuals had something called domestic partnership. They could’ve faught to share rights under the partnership that would legally bind them but nooooooooooooooooo they want to have a marriage like heterosexuals.

I am with Mamacita, I will not speak abomination to GOD’s word, however the homosexual lifestyle wants to live according to the word but take out the parts that don’t pertain to them. It’s all contradicting.

OTB, you’re probably that person if in a life threatnening situation/struggle would say GOD please help me now that you “need” him huh?
FreeToSpeakUp

Mamacita says:

@Free I think alot of people who claim to be gay are confused and just don’t know what they. I never got why women want women that look like men and why men want men who dress and look like women…seems like it’s more about sexual exploration than actually being in love and wanting a relationship with someone. Sex is taking over! Everything is about sex these days.

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I agree with you. They’ve made homosexuality a fad. Almost all of them have been with the opposite before they “changed.” Chile pul-lease
Mamacita

OutsidetheBox says:

This is why people think Christians are blinded by hate. Even if they don’t do it in front of the God you all have dibbs on, they still can’t get nothing. That’s just selfish.

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How is that being blinded by hate? It’s not that Christains hate them but if it’s wrong and goes against what we know is right then we can’t agree. If it doesn’t line up with the word then it doesn’t get a pass with me. Sorry…let’s just agree to diagree…
borderlineamazing

I think women can raise children on their own and they can be productive adults but children being raised by men only doesn’t seem right. I know it has been done but who doesn’t want a mothers love? It has been done for years so I guess two women is just better.
OutsidetheBox

“OTB, you’re probably that person if in a life threatnening situation/struggle would say GOD please help me now that you “need” him huh?”

No but I am that person who will defend tooth and motherfuc.king nail others rights to do it And I see you want to take this somewhere else so you have a good day.

And God still didn’t write the Bible and it’s still missing chapters

@Mamacita: Have you all ever thought they maybe they are trying to fit in? Society has said that men where pants and women were dresses…if you with everything in you felt like a man wouldn’t you want the world to view you as one? These are just my guesses and conclusions that I have come to from talking to people who are going thru these issues.

I’m not gay, but I am understanding.
Redeemed777

“…..Be not deceived :
neither fornicators ( i.e. PORN/ONENIGHTSTANDS/SEXBUDDIES/etc), nor idolaters (i.e. BUDDISTS/WITCHDOCTORS/SCIENTOLOGISTS/etc), nor adulterers (i.e. SWISSBEATS/ALICIAKEYS/DWANEWADE/GABRIELUNION/SHAQ/FANTASIA/COOK/etc), nor effeminate( i.e PEREZHILTON/RUPAUL/MISSSOPHIA/etc), nor abusers of themselves with mankind ( i.e THREESOMES/PENISSUCKING/VAGINASUCKING/etc), 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.”

Reference- 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
OutsidetheBox

@Mamacita I said that in jest; see the :lolol: emote?

“I think gay people should be afforded the same rights as heterosexual people and you don’t…” I’m not speaking rights under God. Thats all I was saying.

Not change the Bible. Not go against God. Just let a bull-dagger visit her dam.n femme when the bish bout to kick the bucket. Cotdam.n. Surely that’ll get you a place in Heaven.
OutsidetheBox

“..nor abusers of themselves with mankind ( i.e THREESOMES/PENISSUCKING/VAGINASUCKING/etc)..”

Awww heck naw! No oral either!!!! *incredulous*

God is a good God. I know you lying!

and
FreeToSpeakUp

@ OTB

Really?? That’s a bit childish, thought you were up to a mind simulating conversation. I don’t want to be laughing now and crying later. As long as MY soul isn’t lost and is saved, as well as my family and loved ones I’m good. One thing I do not do is impose my religion onto anyone as I respect the same for people “CHOICES.” Don’t live the word and then disregard it.

Just like the government took prayer out of school because the confusion amongst different religions, but low and behold in the court room you must swear upon the what? The Holy Bible. GTHOH!!!
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

@Mamacita I said that in jest; see the emote?

“I think gay people should be afforded the same rights as heterosexual people and you don’t…” I’m not speaking rights under God. Thats all I was saying.

Not change the Bible. Not go against God. Just let a bull-dagger visit her dam.n femme when the bish bout to kick the bucket. Cotdam.n. Surely that’ll get you a place in Heaven.

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Like I said before, they had DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIP. Why not fight for rights under domestic partnership? Nah, they want to get married like a man and woman that’s why.
OutsidetheBox

Yeah it was childish but “OTB, you’re probably that person if in a life threatnening situation/struggle would say GOD please help me now that you “need” him huh?” came from where exactly? We were having a convo then you went there. I got the implication.

I do unto others, as they do unto me. I think you assume I do not believe in God because I challenge the Bible and its archaic views. So be it.
Mamacita

FreeToSpeakUp says:

OutsidetheBox says:

@Mamacita I said that in jest; see the emote?

“I think gay people should be afforded the same rights as heterosexual people and you don’t…” I’m not speaking rights under God. Thats all I was saying.

Not change the Bible. Not go against God. Just let a bull-dagger visit her dam.n femme when the bish bout to kick the bucket. Cotdam.n. Surely that’ll get you a place in Heaven.

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Like I said before, they had DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIP. Why not fight for rights under domestic partnership? Nah, they want to get married like a man and woman that’s why.

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Yeah I thought they already had all these rights covered in domestic partnership. I don’t know all the ins and outs of the whole thing but I do know it applies to same sex and opposite sex couples and in some states they even see it as an equivalent to marriage. I guess that wasn’t good enough so they had to still push for marriage. IDK…
Daisy

I have no problem with gays being/getting married. If its wrong then God will deal with it on JUDGEMENT day like he will do w/us and every other “sin”. Gods word says LOVE thy neighbor as well.
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Yeah it was childish but “OTB, you’re probably that person if in a life threatnening situation/struggle would say GOD please help me now that you “need” him huh?” came from where exactly? We were having a convo then you went there. I got the implication.

I do unto others, as they do unto me. I think you assume I do not believe in God because I challenge the Bible and its archaic views. So be it.

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I went there when YOU went there. Scroll back up (#45/46) if you need a reminder.

@ Daisy

You are absolutely right. But what I was saying is I don’t like how they force people to accept their life choice. This went biblical because I said “to each it’s own BUT I live as thus as the LORD” meaning heterosexual. Never did I impose my religion and OTB took it there…I never said homosexual would be judged differently than me, my thing is if they want to be homosexual why live the life of a homosexual. That it.
OutsidetheBox

And we have come to an end. For such ardent opposition, y’all don’t even know the facts… The federal govt does not recognize partnerships..and if they don’t, who does?

A lot of states don’t recognize domestic partners and some places will take your ass to jail for it! If gay ppl move from Cali to here they could lose their kid because Florida bans gay adoptions…

Heck naw it aint good enough when your peers expect everything from you but deny you what they get…

I guess I’m just too nice. Ggouch told me. SMH
FreeToSpeakUp

*of a heterosexual
OutsidetheBox

Yeah. I got nothing. *lost*
Mamacita

Daisy says:

I have no problem with gays being/getting married. If its wrong then God will deal with it on JUDGEMENT day like he will do w/us and every other “sin”. Gods word says LOVE thy neighbor as well.

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While you are correct, the bible also states that passivity is a sin so as Christains/believers of the word we can not just sit back and not say anything when we see something is not right. “God’s people parish for a lack of knowledge”. I can’t sit back and not educate people when i feel the need to be informed on certain topics. Now what you do with the information I type is up to you but you can’t say i was passive about it.
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

And we have come to an end. For such ardent opposition, y’all don’t even know the facts… The federal govt does not recognize partnerships..and if they don’t, who does?

A lot of states don’t recognize domestic partners and some places will take your ass to jail for it! If gay ppl move from Cali to here they could lose their kid because Florida bans gay adoptions…

Heck naw it aint good enough when your peers expect everything from you but deny you what they get…

I guess I’m just too nice. Ggouch told me. SMH

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Did you NOT see me when I said “why not fight to have the SAME RIGHTS AS A MARRIAGE UNDER DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIP???? Geesh!
OutsidetheBox

Girl bye.
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Yeah. I got nothing. *lost*

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It’s your comment 46/47. You took it there to be disrespectful puddin’
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Girl bye.

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Get a clue
OutsidetheBox

I tried.

Got lost in the circles… I’m blond in my head tho so, surely, its me, not you.
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