Zeralyn Speaks On Strippers in the Lesbian/Gay Community

Sandra Rose July 14, 2010

DZ Pookz and Zeralyn
Those of you who don’t frequent adult entertainment establishments may be surprised to know that over 50% of the exotic dancers inside are either lesbian or bisexual.

The real reason behind the disparity between the sexual orientation of strippers and their line of work (stripping for men) remains an enigma.

But it might have something to do with the fact that most exotic dancers are victims of past abuse at the hands of men, including being molested by male family members as children. It’s common knowledge that some dancers secretly loathe their male customers.

Stripper-turned-blogger, Zeralyn, is one of the few exotic dancers outside of the strip club who is willing to speak up about being bisexual. She was interviewed recently by Studology 101 TV

CivilEngineer

So is she your new boo Sandy??

Is that why we should care about what she says?

Or is it because she’s ranked in the top 10% of her stripper class at the largest strip club in the south?
Cariblife

No surprise about the strippers being lesbians or bisexual, but I also believe that alot of them do it to support their drug habbits and are into prostitution and whatnot on the side.

But I’m sure they have a good heart though.
Man, I just don’t care™

The lesbian on the left looks like she is 11 years old.
iyonah

I have nothing
Man, I just don’t care™

Are “Stud” Lesbians required to wear a baseball style cap?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcqOgnQyXp4&feature=youtube_gdata Ebony

Sandra did you GTD yet
LaTechGrad02

This is recent? This looks like a clip from Teen Summit. Can we get a real topic….
Thetruth32

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

The lesbian on the left looks like she is 11 years old.
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@ Man she/he do and the other one look 16
Krysi J

Here we go

#SillyshytForJason
VIBABY
Cinderella

at this post and Zeralyn. After all the shine she getting on SR, I can see why she doesn’t get tipped: she ain’t cute.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcqOgnQyXp4&feature=youtube_gdata Ebony

Zeralyn looks like a bigger version of Solange
spongebobfan

#sillyrabbittricksareforkids

#pickupabook
Krysi J

@ #2!!!!
Cariblife

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KayCeiSoul

Who would find it surprising that anything goes in the strip clubs
(Den’s of Sin)???
Cariblife

*Shenehneh

Sorry this damn school computer is messin me up.
Krysi J

@ EboOOOOONnnnnnYYYYyyy
Thetruth32

@Ebony

she do kind of. LOL
Redeemed777

“Behold, I come as a thief. Blessed is he that watcheth, and keepeth his garments, lest he walk naked, and they see his shame.” – REVELATION 16:15
Man, I just don’t care™

The world would like to thank Zeralyn for keeping us abreast of the going on with in the ~~hoe~~ *ahem* “exotic dancing and LGBT” community.
missmiami

no words
M3z

There are no men and women anymore…just male and female

#thatisall
kearalove

Zeralyn needs to stop digging in Kelly Rowland’s garbage cans, recycling her old wigs like that.

But I disagree with this “the fact that most exotic dancers are victims of past abuse at the hands of men, including being molested by male family members as children.” Contrary to popular belief, not all strippers were abused or came from broken homes. Some just like the fast money it provides.
I do agree with this “It’s common knowledge that some dancers secretly loathe their male customers.” And yes, I am speaking from experience.
iciaantica

After seeing Players Club I always figured most strippers were bi or lesbian. I think any and everything goes on in a strip club.
The stud in the middle loos like the chick that was on Cheaters this pass weekend. She pushed her gf on the ground after she found out. I’m going to have to research and find out if it’s her!lol That episode as hilarious!
Man, I just don’t care™

@KEARLOVE
“I do agree with this “It’s common knowledge that some dancers secretly loathe their male customers.” And yes, I am speaking from experience.”
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Yup. Which is why I ain’t eva breakin bread up in them joints.
2cents

Why is it that kind of sh*t is magnified? If blogs/media keep giving these women air time we will never get rid of people like Kat Stacks and Zeralyn.
artistman999

This is relevant because??? It’s not secret that most strippers are bi or lesbian…
iciaantica

@kearalove I agree with u! Alot of my friends who are strippers like the money and were rebillious kids that didn’t want to listen to their parents and now they’re are addicted to the fast money and can’t get out the stripping game
Ace

Who put the Beatle Juice Voodoo powder on Z’s head…

looks disproportionally small…#justsayin..
OutsidetheBox

This looks like a clip from Teen Summit.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Ebony that was funny!!

Hey Reedemed….
kearalove

iciaantica says:

“and now they’re are addicted to the fast money and can’t get out the stripping game” <———- This is SO true. The fast paced lifestyle and money can prove to be toxic, esp. when you are young. It's definitely like a drug.
2cents

Sandra I just read an article stating:

“The charges against the New Black Panthers were downgraded by the Bush Department of Justice:The decision not to file a criminal case occurred before Obama was even in office.This means that the case was downgraded to a civil case 11 days before Obama was inaugurated, 26 days before Eric Holder became attorney general, and about nine months before Thomas Perez was confirmed as head of the Civil Rights Division.”

Your thoughts and or apologies to the president please.
BROWNSUGAPOET

and this is news why????
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

same rule applies to male and female strippers
kearalove

eastpointvet says:

same rule applies to male and female strippers
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That sexy azz dude with the third leg usually ain’t checking for poon–he checking for peen.
pinksghetti

I believe those stats. Plus some may get into the job so they can be around other naked women (men probably do that too).
Cinnamon Kisses

I had a friend who got turned out stripping. She started out dancing……then came the #hoeshyt…….she no longer was just stripping….she was doing thee most….she was doing doing shyt that made me stop being her friend. She was abused by many men and after her father passed she really just said phuck it. She was a beautiful girl too. After she started with this lifestyle….she turned into a totally different person….it was as if I never even knew who she was…….smh.
KayCeiSoul

w/ east,

I NEVER got into male strippers…never. There is just something animalistic and suspect about grown men shaking their packages on stage. I will watch a body building show to see a borther cut up nice, but all that extra movement, sweat, and stank at a male strip club is not attractive.

Women have more for men to enjoy looking at IMO. I think all male strip clubs should be burnt to the quick.
Cinderella

2cents says:

Sandra I just read an article stating:

“The charges against the New Black Panthers were downgraded by the Bush Department of Justice:The decision not to file a criminal case occurred before Obama was even in office.This means that the case was downgraded to a civil case 11 days before Obama was inaugurated, 26 days before Eric Holder became attorney general, and about nine months before Thomas Perez was confirmed as head of the Civil Rights Division.”

Your thoughts and or apologies to the president please.
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It would be nice if she did apologize or give a retraction, but that’s unlikely.
Ms. Thickness

WOW…THIS IS RELEVANT BECAUSE ZERALYN IS WHAT? WHY ARE WE BEING SCHOOLED ON A STRIPPERS SEXUAL PREFERENCE…#WHOGIVESADAMN
KayCeiSoul

*brother. Typo.
Mamacita

@2cents No one really takes her Obama post seriously and her opinion on the president really doesn’t matter to me. Thanks for posting the truth . I’m convinced that Sandra posts negative and incorrect info on Obama to get everyone to hate him as much as she does but she’s not succeeding in her efforts
Ms. Thickness

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qtipthecat

So are those two little boys on the left strippers too?
Krysi J

!!!! @THICKNESS!!!
Cinderella

@ KayCeiSoul, There’s nothing sexy about a man booty-popping in a G-string.
roro17

Who is this chick and why should we care about her opinion she looked like one of the busted strippers who dance in pinups or pleasers lol. To say that most strippers were abused by men is bs. We all grown now, let’s not let our past affect our present or our future. Please miss me with the sob stories. Most of these chicks just want fast money and so they strip. Sandra please stop trying to make this chick relevant.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KEARA LOVE

I’m sure there are some young women reading this blog, and to assist them making informed decisions with their future, would you care to give some stories of interactions you had with some of the customers (and coworkers) you loathed?

As much detail as possible please.
2cents

@Man

Here you go again.
Man, I just don’t care™

@2 CENTS
“Here you go again.”
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Just tryin to help the kids.
lakercrazy

GOOD MORNING SR FAM HOW ARE WE DOING TODAY???
kearalove

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@KEARA LOVE

I’m sure there are some young women reading this blog, and to assist them making informed decisions with their future, would you care to give some stories of interactions you had with some of the customers (and coworkers) you loathed?

As much detail as possible please.
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Ain’t no way in the world am I taking that bait, @Man! I will say though that I worked in a strip club way back when I was in college for several years and that it opened my eyes to a different perspective on both men and women. Very valuable information that I still use to this very day.
kearalove

@Man….AND that doesn’t mean that I actually stripped
free

well, if you can show the world your tits and twat, and twerk them on demand, i’m sure there are very few other, if any, sexual taboos or rules.
Man, I just don’t care™

@KEARA LOVE
“Ain’t no way in the world am I taking that bait, @Man! I will say though that I worked in a strip club way back when I was in college for several years and that it opened my eyes to a different perspective on both men and women. Very valuable information that I still use to this very day.”
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DON’T YOU CARE ABOUT THE KIDS? You could do so much good sharing this wisdom you acquired with those reading this.

How selfish of you! What happened to “Each one teach one?” SMH.
free

kearalove says: I will say though that I worked in a strip club way back when I was in college for several years and that it opened my eyes to a different perspective on both men and women. Very valuable information that I still use to this very day.

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then you need to shed light….
Al-Ameera

Who is Zeralyn, and what did she do to get so much noteriety as of late?
Val

free says:

kearalove says: I will say though that I worked in a strip club way back when I was in college for several years and that it opened my eyes to a different perspective on both men and women. Very valuable information that I still use to this very day.

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then you need to shed light….

July 14, 2010 at 11:26 am
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chase

Wowzers…
kearalove

I ain’t into writing novels, y’all. Plus, mostly everything is common knowledge now, thanks to ppl like Zeralyn who blog about it and TV and movies.
spongebobfan

i just found out that ‘drinking the kool aid’ term came from Jim jones and him killing them by drinking kool aid.

#themoreyouknow
Man, I just don’t care™

@SPONGE BOB
“i just found out that ‘drinking the kool aid’ term came from Jim jones and him killing them by drinking kool aid.”
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And just out of curiousity, where you researching Kool-Aid or something? That just seems kind of random.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Cinderella and 2cents: the case was downgraded to a civil case because it was not a criminal case (they didn’t physically attack anyone). The case was eventually won, meaning the New Panthers were found guilty of violating the civil rights of the Philadelphia voters. But it was Eric Holder who gave the order to drop the charges entirely. Please read recent news on this case from a legitimate news organization and not Wikipedia. Thanks.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Ms. Thickness says:

#WHOGIVESADAMN

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You must have given a damn because you read the post and now you’re in here commenting on it.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!! Next.
http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

Strippers are strippers, who’s job is to get that dough from anyone…man, woman….confused…whoever.

This topic is a non-topic. Let’s get some real dirt.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

I didn’t read the comments or post! Just stopping to speak to everybody.

HEY EVERYBODY

These clients are working me today!
LaTechGrad02

Wow, Sandra, you’re feisty today
rjk8

@Sandra It’s common knowledge that some dancers secretly loathe their male customers.
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Is that what they tell you while you’re making it rain on them?
miss gia

Not all strippers were abused by men. I’ve actually met strippers that were from decent home who went in the game, got money, got out and were fine. Granted there were not too many because its hard not to get caught up with the whole lifestyle but if you’re a strong person ain’t chit no one can tell you.

Also as far as strippers being bi-lesbian yes theres a huge majority, but the bisexual ones are usually so for pay or for their ‘man’ aka pimps. The bis are usually a farce.

And strippers usually hate men because a strip club is one place a man can go to and be his real self and guess what, dancers can’t say shit. I’ve heard friends say ‘ lets go to a club and treat these h*es like chit, they can’t do anything ‘ and it made me sick. So yeah, after having to talk to guys tyou have zero interest in, make them believe oyu’re all in love, have to dance on a nasty guys lap while you feel his jank, pushing some old guy off you, I am sure you start to hate men.

So thats that from me. If you’re a strong woman and I mean STRONG you can do your thing. I find it unfortunate that these girls make a lil money and think they’re flossing and all. Sorry ladies you’re only flossing if your mortgage is paid for the year, you got hella cash in ya bank account, everything is taken care of and you got you a good job during the day. Those Louis bags, expensive weaves, leased cars and vacuous shit you spend money on aint CHIT!
PAHairston

Hello All. To each his own. All I know is, in DC, they strip and dance buck-naked! NASTY GALS! “It’s yo thang, do what you want to do, I can’t tell ya, who to sock-it-to!” And if this is legal, why ain’t prostitution? Just asking. Peaceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
TruGemini

I do not frequent strip clubs but am not surprised that half of them are …
free

miss gia says: And strippers usually hate men because a strip club is one place a man can go to and be his real self and guess what, dancers can’t say ****. I’ve heard friends say ‘ lets go to a club and treat these h*es like chit, they can’t do anything ‘ and it made me sick. So yeah, after having to talk to guys tyou have zero interest in, make them believe oyu’re all in love, have to dance on a nasty guys lap while you feel his jank, pushing some old guy off you, I am sure you start to hate men.

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smdh. thanks for that insight though. i’m almost starting to feel for them.
miss gia

Free:

It took me having a huge sense of self, self love and above all, love for my life to not walk away a mess. Yes I had months where after I paid my rent I had nothing else, yes I had weeks I made over 5k, I have gotten way too close to doing regrettable shit for money and it was always a struggle. I credit myself with being a very good actress because of all the time I danced ( 2 years ) not once was I ever attracted to anyone i danced for and even there there was a guy I found attractive ( which were maybe less than 4 guys ) the idea that I was being paid was a turn off. I have high morals but hey I needed some serious money.

I put myself on, my family and walked away with a LOT of money, lots of experience in my career ( during that time i was allowed to focus on getting experience and not just working at some shit job to make it through school ) I traveled like nobodys business, I highly benefited from it. So yeah it was hard and it took a lot of will power, but I know more women like me out there and if you danced and you turned ish out instead of letting money turn you out raise your hand, cause ain’t no shame if you handled yours, whatever it is that you did. As long as you cool with your values then do you, I had mine and managed to get through.
miss gia

Also, I wouldn’t “feel bad” for most of these women. Cos every time they make some money, instead of stashing it away to get out of that dump, most spend it on material things to show others how they’re ‘stuntin’ and just flat out losing sight of things. A lot of them also give it to their ‘ boyfriends’ to help out while they sit on their ass at home all day. Sadly a lot of these weak minded chicks see that as ‘holding it down ‘ for their man, PLEASE its called ‘ It ain’t trickin if you got it ! ‘

I am disgusted by women that have danced for 3-4-5-6 or even 7 years. In LESS than 2 years you can make enough gwap to get your life right, you have NO excuse to go over 2-3 years.

/Rant

I put my opinion out there so people understand that stripping aint always easy as some say it is, but most chicks in the game are there cause its true, they aren’t good for much else. So when you go to a club, have some sort of respect because these chicks are working too and you can easily tell who’s there to work and whos there to party.

Also, funny story, I danced with that tramp Heartbreaker from the Love of Ray J
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

miss gia is schooling us on the stripper game.
miss gia

@sandra

haha I hate saying it, but there is that 5% of the girls in the game that aren’t addicted to the fake stuntin’, the drugs, the fast money. Yep I had my moments where I spent like a gat dayum fool and all, but trust me my outside life kept me from falling deep in the game.
sweetie23

@iciaantica that is the chick from cheater, watching it on the dvr now