Celebs Out & About: Usher and Grace Miguel

Usher and his shall we say “mature” lady love Grace Miguel went apartment shopping in the trendy Tribeca neighborhood in New York City today. As you study these photos, remember that Usher suffers from unresolved Oedipus Complex issues (look it up). This should help to explain his bizarre attraction to certain types of females.

By the way, Grace left her husband to run off with Usher to Atlanta. Doesn’t that make Usher a home wrecker?

MORE pics after the break!

Photos: Elder Ordonez/INFPhoto.com

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111 Responses to “Celebs Out & About: Usher and Grace Miguel”

  1. 1
    mirsmommy says:

    :wtf: is that on Grace’s head????? That ish lookin just like Animal the Muppet. :shrugs:


  2. 2
    LilMissRed says:

    WTF is she wearing??? seriously???? SMH here we go again with this ‘ish Usher.. here we go again SMH


  3. 3
    Ms. Thickness says:

    NOT EVEN SEEN TOGETHER…NEXT


  4. 4

    OMG …. :WTF: is that on her head!!! Oh hell naw!


  5. 5
    Bird says:

    Didn’t he also wreck Tameka’s home? And didn’t I hear him and Dallas came to blows over Chilli? Did he wreck that home as well?


  6. 6
    twchoc1 says:

    Gotta love SR! lol


  7. 7
    Krysi J says:

    oh yea that shirley temple curl peacock carrot top doo just screams MATURITY….how old is she again?? :coffee:


  8. 8

    I’m still reeling over her hair….but she what is she wearing though??? :wtf:


  9. 9
    cheeks8683 says:

    Someone slept on their roller-set…Or better yet someone was “trading places” like his song says :whistle:


  10. 10
    FloridaChick813 says:

    Damn Sandy, your on a roll today with all these post!!!!!!!!!!

    :rofl: @ Krysi J’s comment about her hair.. Really though??? That sh.it is UGLY!!!! Even I know that.. LOL


  11. 11
    mirsmommy says:

    Somebody played peek-a-boo while they were gettin dressed. :/


  12. 12
    Shauny says:

    What in the hell happened to her? I mean IMO she wasn’t cute when I saw her the first time but damn she looks a flaming mess. And is it me or does it look like she has bike/tire tracks on her face? Skin is horrible.

    I don’t think his taste in women has to do with his mother. He just likes a mature…and for the last few years basic chick.


  13. 13
    shoegal says:

    I never thought I’d say it, but even Tameka would be an upgrade from this chick. WTF is Usher doing?


  14. 14
    Bird says:

    As a cougar I love Usher’s love of women of a certain age (as my girl Wendy would say). I even like that he is attracted to average chicks like myself. Yay Usher!!!


  15. 15
    mirsmommy says:

    Usher better watch how he holds his wrist. :gay:


  16. 16
    T.Y'z Cha Cha says:

    I love that shirt Ush is wearing…. Grace is pretty… I do my 8 yr daughters hair like that sometimes :yes:


  17. 17
    Shauny says:

    yall know that hair do and outfit is on and poppin :lolol:


  18. 18
    brucebaner1 says:

    Sandra,

    Thanks for getting me to look up Oedipus complex because I learned all about Id, ego, and super-ego as well. Are you saying this woman resembles Ushers mom? Tamika as well? It would make sense, considering these woman are reasonably “mature”.


  19. 19
    mirsmommy says:

    That’s it, I got it!!!! I knew that bish looked like a Muppet. At first I thought she favored Animal, but ole girl looks just like Skeeter the Muppet!!!! :rofl:


  20. 20
    pdxBLK78 says:

    Usher is good a breaking up homes. His and others.


  21. 21
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @BIRD
    Didn’t he also wreck Tameka’s home?
    ________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    A male “homewrecker” ha ha ha ha. If Tameka’s ex husband somewhere sayin that chit he :gay:


  22. 22
    pinksghetti says:

    No one can say Usher goes for the superficial when it comes to women. I would have a chance but I’m the same age as him.


  23. 23
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @BIRD
    “As a cougar I love Usher’s love of women of a certain age (as my girl Wendy would say). I even like that he is attracted to average chicks like myself. Yay Usher!!!”
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    There is something to be said for having low standards.


  24. 24
    pdxBLK78 says:

    :rofl: @mirs

    I hadn’t seen muppets in a min so I googles Skeeter…


  25. 25
    chase says:

    I love what Usher has on… The shirt is hot!!!!


  26. 26
    FloridaChick813 says:

    :rofl: @Usher being a home wrecker!


  27. 27
    CivilEngineer says:

    I didn’t think it was possible BUT this one looks WORSE than the last one. He needs to go back to Blackfoot shyt

    :think: Usher clearly has poor taste in women, he went from the pedophile formerly known as Chilli, to Maneka, and now he’s with Big Bird :shrug:


  28. 28
    Choco says:

    I don’t know y no one gets it – USHER is Bi-Sexual just like Diddy – Grace and Tameka are beards I think he loved Chili but I think at the time he and Chili were dating he was in LUST with LA REID- Grace is not that last to grace the cover as Usher’s new girl :coffee


  29. 29
    T.Y'z Cha Cha says:

    @MAN

    DOES MY NEW GRAVI STILL HAVE ME RESEMBLING YOUR SISTER?


  30. 30
    pinksghetti says:

    mirsmommy says:

    That’s it, I got it!!!! I knew that bish looked like a Muppet. At first I thought she favored Animal, but ole girl looks just like Skeeter the Muppet!!!!

    ____________________________________

    I love Skeeter, LOL, and his sister Skooter (when they were on Muppet Babies, the cartoon).


  31. 31
    Choco says:

    Usher clearly has poor taste in women
    __________________
    Becuz he does not prefer women….

    @Sandra
    Your not going to do a post on Caviar – I mean it’s intriguingly gross


  32. 32
    CHARBEE1 says:

    CivilEngineer says:

    I didn’t think it was possible BUT this one looks WORSE than the last one. He needs to go back to Blackfoot shyt

    Usher clearly has poor taste in women, he went from the pedophile formerly known as Chilli, to Maneka, and now he’s with Big Bird

    ________________________________

    Agreed upon… :wink:


  33. 33
    T.Y'z Cha Cha says:

    chase says:

    I love what Usher has on… The shirt is hot!!!!

    me too…if he shower, shaves and cuts what looks to be a mohawk the hail off we will have ourselves a WINNER :champ:


  34. 34
    mirsmommy says:

    CivilEngineer says:

    I didn’t think it was possible BUT this one looks WORSE than the last one. He needs to go back to Blackfoot shyt

    Usher clearly has poor taste in women, he went from the pedophile formerly known as Chilli, to Maneka, and now he’s with Big Bird
    _____________________________

    :rofl: She does look like Big Bird, too! Especially with that stuff sittin on her head. :rofl:


  35. 35
    T.Y'z Cha Cha says:

    Choco says:

    Usher clearly has poor taste in women
    __________________
    Becuz he does not prefer women….

    @Sandra
    Your not going to do a post on Caviar – I mean it’s intriguingly gross

    What happened Choco…..tell us about it


  36. 36
    Zephyr1979 says:

    Love Usher’s shirt :)

    Grace doesnt look good in these photos, that outfit makes her look frumpy and dumpy :(

    :cosign: with Ms. Thickness, they arent in any of the photos together.


  37. 37
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @SANDRA ROSE
    “…remember that Usher suffers from unresolved Oedipus Complex issues (look it up). This should help to explain his bizarre attraction to certain types of females.”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    By the way, I heard Usher was “raped” by an older female flunkie while he was in New York under Puff’s “mentorship.” That’s when Usher’s Mom moved him from Bad Boy to Jermaine Dupri’s label.

    He has been with older women ever since. There is even a phrase for people that come to be attracted to those that abuse them but I forget what it is.


  38. 38
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @T.Y.
    “DOES MY NEW GRAVI STILL HAVE ME RESEMBLING YOUR SISTER?”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Notice I don’t even talk to you right?


  39. 39
    Val says:

    Usher is apparently not vein… his chicks.. with the exception of chilli.. be looking old and used up.. #justsayin :shrug:


  40. 40
    Shauny says:

    I will say that I like that Usher doesn’t cave in to the pressure of having the stereotypical girl on his arms. He likes who he likes..the regular looking chicks you see everyday. I’ll give him that.


  41. 41
    FloridaChick813 says:

    :lol: @Man for making a referrence but forgetting what it is.. You sure you dont partake in :blunt: ??? LOL


  42. 42
    Choco says:

    Urban X Award-winning performer Prince Yahshua is on schedule to make a full recovery from a freak “broken penis” accident he suffered during a sex scene on Aug. 23.

    Earlier this week Yahshua had his catheter removed and his doctor told him “the surgery was a 110 percent success.”

    “Everything aligned itself back up right. It will be a two-month recovery,” he told XBIZ. “So I’m very, very happy right now. Because definitely as soon as I got to the hospital that day they were like, ‘Whoa, let us let you know now that you may never do porn again if we don’t fix this right.’”

    Yahshua, who won the Urban X Award for Male Performer of the Year in July, was working with newcomer Bethany Benz for West Coast Productions when things went south. Benz was Caviar on the reality show “For the Love of Ray J.”

    “She’s a newcomer to the game, so I start the scene and I had her in the cowgirl position and it wasn’t working out too well. I didn’t like it and the producer didn’t really like it. So I spun her around for reverse cowgirl because we thought maybe it’d be easier for her because of her height. She’s around my height. Then 10 seconds into it, her rhythm wasn’t matching with my rhythm. As I put my head to the side to talk to her, the next thing you heard was…[crunch].

    “She jumped off and I guess it’s the equivalent of going to your backyard, you know how you turn on your garden hose and it sprays out? That’s exactly what happened out of my d*ck. It was like five to six people got massacred in the room, not killed, massacred.

    “I lost a pint and a half of blood. The reason why I didn’t lose consciousness is because I was shocked and I kept on biting my lower lip so I wouldn’t fade out.”

    Prince continued, “Luckily for us we had the producer and two other fairly big guys at the scene that were upstairs and they carried my big a*s out and put me in the director Terry Burton’s truck and he floored it to the hospital.”

    Yahshua said the group was running red lights and got pulled over by the police on the way.

    “When the producer rolled down the window so they could see all the blood on me they gave us a police escort to the hospital,” Yahshua said.

    “As soon as I got to the hospital they had to do an immediate emergency surgery on me. In layman’s terms I broke my d*ck. In the scientific world, it was my urethra, my pee hole was ripped and the aligning wall muscle to my d*ck was torn.”

    Yahshua said the normal procedure for a surgery like that is 1 hour, 20 minutes, but his doctor took three hours to work on him. He said the doctor knew who Yahshua was and actually was “a fan.”

    “It was thank you Jesus that I actually do have quite a few fans that actually know of me,” he said. “The head specialist ended up being a fan of mine. So I was in the hospital for three-and-a-half days.”

    Now that his catheter is out, he is regaining mobility. He has 32 stitches down there.

    “Now I’m getting the strength back in my legs,” he said. “They told me things came back together perfectly.”
    jacked from Bossip
    - sorry it’s so long but this shyt rite here had me :blink: :hurl:


  43. 43
    Val says:

    CHARBEE1 says:

    Usher clearly has poor taste in women, he went from the pedophile formerly known as Chilli,

    :blink: pedophile???


  44. 44
    FloridaChick813 says:

    Why is she wearing that big a$$, oversize maternity dress though???? And with blue leggins at that??? And those shoes!!!!!

    She looks a dam.n mess!!! Never mind the hair :rolleyes:


  45. 45
    TruGemini says:

    So…no pics of them TOGETHER? :rolleyes:


  46. 46
    FloridaChick813 says:

    Kinda reminds me of the up-do’s bish’s used to wear to homecoming and prom and sh.it.

    “give me a french roll in the back, some twist on the side, and candy curls on top” :D


  47. 47
    chase says:

    Exactly Cha Cha…


  48. 48
    TruGemini says:

    FloridaChick813 says:

    Kinda reminds me of the up-do’s bish’s used to wear to homecoming and prom and sh.it.

    “give me a french roll in the back, some twist on the side, and candy curls on top”
    _________________________________________________________

    :rofl: I always LOL at the three hairstyles in one


  49. 49
    Val says:

    Sandra Rose say:
    By the way, Grace left her husband to run off with Usher to Atlanta. Doesn’t that make Usher a home wrecker?

    ______________________________________________________________

    IDK.. but that hair style sure does makes her look like an idiot! :yes:


  50. 50
    FloridaChick813 says:

    :blink: @Choco

    WHOA!


  51. 51
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @CHOCO
    “In layman’s terms I broke my d*ck. In the scientific world, it was my urethra, my pee hole was ripped and the aligning wall muscle to my d*ck was torn.”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    That’s why he should have only been fuggin women with REAL vaginas.


  52. 52
    CivilEngineer says:

    Why does Grace look like she’s wearing those incognito glasses with the nose and eyebrows attached??


  53. 53
    MissHarlem says:

    :lol: @ FLO that was the go to hair style in the 90′s with the gold pins or pearls goin down the french roll. SIGH ahhhh the 90′s


  54. 54
    Anna says:

    .Y’z Cha Cha says:

    I love that shirt Ush is wearing….
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~
    It is a interesting shirt. I was watching Bernie Mac yesterday and he had on a black shirt that made it look like he had a chain link around his neck. I was like :wtf:
    Usher does seem to have mommy issues, many men under 35 want older women/mommy type mates.


  55. 55
    CivilEngineer says:

    :wtf: is wrong with Caviar cooch??


  56. 56
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @CIVIL
    “Why does Grace look like she’s wearing those incognito glasses with the nose and eyebrows attached??”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    she just ripped off the mustache part.


  57. 57
    MissHarlem says:

    CAVIAR = :hurl:


  58. 58
    Choco says:

    @Man and FLO
    Honestly tho I mean even when you are effn so hard it feels like your body is being shooked by King KONG is a peen that easy to break this bish broke a dyck WTH


  59. 59
    Anna says:

    Val says:

    Sandra Rose say:
    By the way, Grace left her husband to run off with Usher to Atlanta. Doesn’t that make Usher a home wrecker?

    ______________________________________________________________

    IDK.. but that hair style sure does makes her look like an idiot!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Does she even try to style her hair. Remember the pic w/the white dress? Her hair looked messy then too.


  60. 60
    Shauny says:

    WOW @ the porn guy story. So Caviar couldn’t find shyt better to do than get nutted on for money huh. Damn shame. I heard them talking on a radio show about her that she’s on one tape and the dude was dogging her out so bad that they were uncomfortable watching and felt sorry for her. The things people do for fast money.


  61. 61
    Choco says:

    @Civil
    that’s my question this whole damn story has me :think: and :blink: I mean everyone has effd hard – damn how do you do that unless he was doing way to much before their set???


  62. 62
    MissHarlem says:

    Not sure how many seen it but to have jizz on your face and talk chit while you getting clowned is mucho ridiculous. On top of that she caught chlymadia SMFH


  63. 63
    Val says:

    Choco says:

    @Man and FLO
    Honestly tho I mean even when you are effn so hard it feels like your body is being shooked by King KONG is a peen that easy to break this bish broke a dyck WTH

    __________________________________________________________________

    PUZZLED.. HOW IN THE PHUCK DO YOU BREAK A DYCK??… EXPLAIN!!! :popcorn:


  64. 64
    Choco says:

    that she’s on one tape and the dude was dogging her out so bad that they were uncomfortable watching and felt sorry for her.
    ________________
    SMDH but I thought she was doing porn before Ray J I couldv’e sworn it came out then – that man she was on the phone with was her pimp/friend


  65. 65
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @MISS HARLEM
    “Not sure how many seen it but to have jizz on your face and talk chit while you getting clowned is mucho ridiculous. On top of that she caught chlymadia SMFH”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    Proud Parents:
    “Daddy Bethany Benz” and “Momma Bethany Benz”
    :yes:


  66. 66
    MissHarlem says:

    @ SHAUNY there is a part 2 to that but on the second one she didnt want to be on camera until the end just to say that she don’t care and that she is going in her car and house and that she can only go to the top and will not go nowhere but to the top. I was like bish you are goin straight to the top of stupidity. I felt bad and sad for her. SMH


  67. 67
    Choco says:

    Not sure how many seen it but to have jizz on your face and talk chit while you getting clowned is mucho ridiculous. On top of that she caught chlymadia SMFH
    ________________________
    Whole up in the porn scene they was treating like a tricked out crackhead???? Who the hell is she signed with- GHETTO PORN R US


  68. 68
    Sandra Rose says:

    Anna says:

    Does she even try to style her hair. Remember the pic w/the white dress? Her hair looked messy then too.
    ___________________

    The key is to never change what he liked most about you when he met you. Obviously he liked her hair that way when he met her. A lot of women mess up when they start changing things about themselves after they get comfortable with ol’ dude. But Grace is smart. Take notes ladies. :coffee:


  69. 69
    Shauny says:

    @choco – oh was photographer the code word for pimp on For The Love of Ray J? :lolol:


  70. 70
    Val says:

    Anna says:

    Val says:

    Sandra Rose say:
    By the way, Grace left her husband to run off with Usher to Atlanta. Doesn’t that make Usher a home wrecker?

    ______________________________________________________________

    IDK.. but that hair style sure does makes her look like an idiot!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Does she even try to style her hair. Remember the pic w/the white dress? Her hair looked messy then too.
    ___________________________________________________________________

    :shrugs:


  71. 71
    MissHarlem says:

    @ MAN smh :no: now I will truly allow you to call her a HOE!! *cues Ludacris*


  72. 72
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @SANDRA
    “The key is to never change what he liked most about you when he met you. Obviously he liked her hair that way when he met her. A lot of women mess up when they start changing things about themselves after they get comfortable with ol’ dude. But Grace is smart. Take notes ladies.”
    ________________________________________________________________________

    ¿¿¿ :blink: ???

    :rofl:

    THIS CHIT RIGHT HERE!


  73. 73
    Choco says:

    @Shauny
    :yes: you know it :lol:


  74. 74
    Val says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @BIRD
    “As a cougar I love Usher’s love of women of a certain age (as my girl Wendy would say). I even like that he is attracted to average chicks like myself. Yay Usher!!!”
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    There is something to be said for having low standards.
    _____________________________________________________________________

    :dead:


  75. 75
    MissHarlem says:

    She gets a bish :bye: from me!!!!!


  76. 76
    Anna says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    Anna says:

    Does she even try to style her hair. Remember the pic w/the white dress? Her hair looked messy then too.
    ___________________

    The key is to never change what he liked most about you when he met you. Obviously he liked her hair that way when he met her. A lot of women mess up when they start changing things about themselves after they get comfortable with ol’ dude. But Grace is smart. Take notes ladies.
    ~~~~~~~~~
    That is so true. I went clothes shopping and the owner of the shop kept trying to get me to try on things that are not me. I am far from a girly girl that has to wear pink. I love neutral colors and pretty much dress the way I did when I first met hubby. I don’t wear mini dresses. I don’t get my nails or hair done.


  77. 77
    Choco says:

    The key is to never change what he liked most about you when he met you. Obviously he liked her hair that way when he met her. A lot of women mess up when they start changing things about themselves after they get comfortable with ol’ dude.
    __________________
    I disagree it’s way to much competetion out here you got the Tranny’s wearing fabulous gear and looking all sparkly and ish, you got the Nickis – looking like a reject Barbie- then you got the beckies who are now hood I mean it’s way to much flava out there for a female not to change it up every now and again


  78. 78
    Choco says:

    Eeel Sandra Grace is DULL and BORING and my GAWD not smart her new beau prefers the same guys she does :yes:


  79. 79
    HALLE'S MUM says:

    I want her to get someone help with her hair ,and wardrobe !!!!!


  80. 80
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @ANNA
    “I love neutral colors and pretty much dress the way I did when I first met hubby. I don’t wear mini dresses. I don’t get my nails or hair done.”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    :/


  81. 81
    T.Y'z Cha Cha says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @T.Y.
    “DOES MY NEW GRAVI STILL HAVE ME RESEMBLING YOUR SISTER?”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Notice I don’t even talk to you right?

    I figured as much :love:


  82. 82
    Sandra Rose says:

    Choco says:

    I disagree it’s way to much competetion out here you got the Tranny’s wearing fabulous gear and looking all sparkly and ish, you got the Nickis – looking like a reject Barbie- then you got the beckies who are now hood I mean it’s way to much flava out there for a female not to change it up every now and again
    __________________

    I respectfully disagree. That’s a sign of insecurity. It’s when you start changing that men begin noticing those other women. Men always say, “don’t change a thing about yourself. I love you just the way you are.” But you insecure chicks never listen. That’s your problem. :coffee:


  83. 83
    Choco says:

    IDK I will speak for myself when I switch my hair style my man liked it :shrugs: maybe cuz I date em young but I’ve always changed my hairstyles and I even change up my fashion styles – I get bored of my own damn look so I’m blessed he didn’t mind


  84. 84
    T.Y'z Cha Cha says:

    “As soon as I got to the hospital they had to do an immediate emergency surgery on me. In layman’s terms I broke my d*ck. In the scientific world, it was my urethra, my pee hole was ripped and the aligning wall muscle to my d*ck was torn.”

    Maybe she had on that CONDUM that has the teeth on it and it bit the chit out of him :shrug: maybe this whole story though is :hurl: but I guess I asked for it..LOL


  85. 85
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @CHOCO AND SANDRA ROSE
    “IDK I will speak for myself when I switch my hair style my man liked it maybe cuz I date em young but I’ve always changed my hairstyles and I even change up my fashion styles – I get bored of my own damn look so I’m blessed he didn’t mind”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    Maybe yall are BOTH right because Choco’s man got USED to seeing Choco rockin new styles.

    Thereby Choco WAS being “consistent” by being “consistently inconsistent.”
    :think:


  86. 86
    Choco says:

    But you insecure chicks never listen. That’s your problem.
    ______________________
    K first allow me to let you in on a secret-insecurity does not inspire my change in fashion what does inspire my change is fashion is my creativity and I express that in more ways than one-Now I used trends as an example but I don’t follow trends I do my own style and it changes when I see fit not becuz Niki is wearing a orange wig and Derek J or whatever his name is now wears makeup… K!


  87. 87
    Anna says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @ANNA
    “I love neutral colors and pretty much dress the way I did when I first met hubby. I don’t wear mini dresses. I don’t get my nails or hair done.”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    If I want nails I can grow my own. I can’t see spending my luch hour or weekends getting a balance or sitting all day in the shop getting my hair done. As far as my safe earth colors he did talk me into buying a few tops to wear w/my suit jackets. They are still in my closet w/tags on, baby steps. :lol:


  88. 88
    Choco says:

    @Man
    Agreed I have never been a one noter!


  89. 89
    Anna says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @CHOCO AND SANDRA ROSE
    “IDK I will speak for myself when I switch my hair style my man liked it maybe cuz I date em young but I’ve always changed my hairstyles and I even change up my fashion styles – I get bored of my own damn look so I’m blessed he didn’t mind”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    Maybe yall are BOTH right because Choco’s man got USED to seeing Choco rockin new styles.

    Thereby Choco WAS being “consistent” by being “consistently inconsistent.”

    ~~~~~~~~~~
    Correct. It can become a chore though. My brother had a gf who never saw her looking nothing but “whole thing”(at all times), you have to keep that up, he never saw her w/out her makeup because she would make sure she got up before him to put it on. Too much work if you ask me.


  90. 90
    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @ANNA
    “If I want nails I can grow my own. I can’t see spending my luch hour or weekends getting a balance or sitting all day in the shop getting my hair done. As far as my safe earth colors he did talk me into buying a few tops to wear w/my suit jackets. They are still in my closet w/tags on, baby steps.”
    ________________________________________________________________________

    I see. You ain’t one of them chicks talkin bout “I don’t need to shave…” and chit like that huh?
    :/


  91. 91
    Choco says:

    It can become a chore though. My brother had a gf who never saw her looking nothing but “whole thing”(at all times), you have to keep that up, he never saw her w/out her makeup because she would make sure she got up before him to put it on. Too much work if you ask me.
    _________________
    IMO this is insecurity – and this is not me


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    @Anna says:

    Correct. It can become a chore though. My brother had a gf who never saw her looking nothing but “whole thing”(at all times), you have to keep that up, he never saw her w/out her makeup because she would make sure she got up before him to put it on. Too much work if you ask me.o
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    Was your brother dating my sister? :rofl: I couldn’t do all that work even if I wanted to. My hubby wakes up earlier than me to stay one step ahead of me. I can’t nothing past him :lolol:


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    Choco says:

    I have my own nails I’ve grown my mother taught all her daughters the importance of being feminine and taking care of yourself and your body, she taught us how to give ourselves manicures and pedicures and didn’t mind when we would wear her expensive perfume to jr high school I grew up with a prissy woman-but I’m not knocking those that do like to pamper themselves with a professional manicure or pedicure diff strokes for diff folks


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    Sandra Rose says:

    @ANNA says:

    As far as my safe earth colors he did talk me into buying a few tops to wear w/my suit jackets.
    _______________________

    A woman’s best bet is to listen to what her man says. If he says buy a top, then buy it. If he says don’t change, then don’t change. :)


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    Sandra Rose says:

    Choco says:

    K first allow me to let you in on a secret-insecurity does not inspire my change in fashion what does inspire my change is fashion is my creativity and I express that in more ways than one…
    _______________________

    You missed the point. Insecurity is reflected in your desire to keep up with the trends. When really all you have to do is listen to your man. :yes:


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    Anna says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @ANNA
    “If I want nails I can grow my own. I can’t see spending my luch hour or weekends getting a balance or sitting all day in the shop getting my hair done. As far as my safe earth colors he did talk me into buying a few tops to wear w/my suit jackets. They are still in my closet w/tags on, baby steps.”
    ________________________________________________________________________

    I see. You ain’t one of them chicks talkin bout “I don’t need to shave…” and chit like that huh?

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    No I like to feel soft. I can’t stand seeing a female w/a tank top on and hairy pits. I work w/the men so I wear suits to work.


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    Choco says:

    When really all you have to do is listen to your man.
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    Sandra I wasn’t raised like that now I know what you mean but girl my man doesn’t have a say in everything I do and if you think that will keep me single for the rest of my life so be it I look good doing it and I’m having fun living it- but I think you missed it when I said I’m creative- very much so that what inspires my change in styles – but trust I hear what you are saying a big part of that is right but nowadays men don’t always know what looks good either my ex wanted my azz in a friggin miniskirt-I put it on around the house for him but I wasn’t going outside in that :nono:


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    @SandraRose…going deep in this post. First the diagnosis on Usher: Oedipus Complex issues (look it up). = PRICELESS

    Then: It’s when you start changing that men begin noticing those other women.
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    When I changed from my “club look” to semi-conservative work clothes…we had problems.
    Now, when I have to wear a suit…he knows whatever I have on underneath is going to be extremely sexy, either “club ready or private dance ready.”


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    Choco says:

    Also I don’t think men want a woman who just listens to everything he says- I mean I can be a handfull but I’m also respective and considerate but I don’t necessarily need to be lead-my Lover told me he likes a woman to get down on her knees and go to church! I’m like Really NOW I’m not that woman but yet that may be what keeps him intrigued – and he has a really strong personality I think it interest him more cuz I know not to push him to far-but I think he appreciates that I will push


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    Anna says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ANNA says:

    As far as my safe earth colors he did talk me into buying a few tops to wear w/my suit jackets.
    _______________________

    A woman’s best bet is to listen to what her man says. If he says buy a top, then buy it. If he says don’t change, then don’t change.
    ~~~~~~~~~
    That’s just it though, he’s not telling me anything. Now if I got my nails done every week and wore my hair down everyday and started wearing mini skirts that would be questioned because it’s not me.


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    ricanlbc says:

    SADLY….SHE HAS ALICIA KEYS TREE TRUNK LEGS…SO NOW WHAT? SHE ISNT EVEN PREGGO! GRACE IS NOT ALL THAT! HE WILL LEARN….HE LIKES OLDER WOMEN….BOTTOM LINE.

    HEY USHER IF YOUR READING THIS….CUT YOUR NAPPY ASS HAIR PLEASE?


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    Val says:

    @ Sandy.. so you think Usher wants to marry his mother??/ Im confused??!!


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    Daisy says:

    I like Ushers shirt as well :yes:

    Like Tru said no pics of them together :waiting:

    When I feel like changing it up I will that goes for clothes/hair/nails/make up(don’t wear much and usually on special occassions only) etc


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    miamore1973 says:

    Or is that because he can’t have his mother (because that’s just nasty) he goes for more mother type figures = the older women. They say girls tend to go for guys that have qualities that their dad may possess. Not neccessarily his same birth year but just the qualities.

    If he likes older women cause that’s what he likes that’s fine I mean really Usher ain’t all that young anymore anyway.


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    M_promp2 says:

    Gawd, she has fat knees. She looks awful.


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    Lady_L says:

    Didn’t Tameka leave her husband to run off with Usher also?


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    Itsnotboutme says:

    Can someone explain what a women should look like that Usher decides to date or marry.

    He likes what he likes and if she looks so bad, then what should she look like? Should she have long flowing hair, big brown eyes, small knee caps, a beautiful sundress on with fab accessories, A so called banging body?

    If she looked like an angel there would still be 101 things that most of you all would knock her for. Usher likes what he likes in women. He likes who he likes.

    Some of you all need to look in your past an think about what some of those people looked like that you have dated. And be honest. You’d be a liar to say that all your ex’s was banging and as fine as the best of them.


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    Anna says:

    Itsnotboutme says:

    Can someone explain what a women should look like that Usher decides to date or marry.
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    I think a real person does not have a answer. Some attract what they attract. LOL. I have kids w/a man “union job”. I am married to a man w/out a union job and the man who pays my salary is not in a “Union”. Maybe Usher likes a woman w/ a SAG card.


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    lexdiamonz says:

    usher likes the “mature meat” yall stop hating


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    kwall says:

    by mature do you mean geriatric?

    he need to leave folks wife alone.


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    kwall says:

    Didn’t Tameka leave her husband to run off with Usher also?
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    yes


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