Oprah’s Half-Sister Turned Down Tabloid Cash

Sandra Rose January 25, 2011

Yesterday, talk Diva Oprah Winfrey, 56, revealed a family secret that her mother gave birth to a baby girl and gave the child up for adoption when Oprah was only 9. Oprah proudly introduced her half-sister, Patricia, to the world on her Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) yesterday.

Almost immediately, skeptics assumed that Patricia, 47, came forward to lay claim to Oprah’s abundant wealth. But the truth is that Patricia doesn’t want any money or Oprah’s favorite things: she just wants to know her sister.

Patricia, cared so much about her sister’s privacy and reputation that she turned down a blockbuster offer from a tabloid magazine to expose the truth.

“All Patricia wanted was the truth,” an insider tells me. “She wasn’t interested in selling her story even for a million dollars. She just wanted to know who she was, where she came from and if she had any brothers or sisters. She had no idea when she started this search she would end up being Oprah Winfrey’s half-sister.” READ MORE

This heartwarming story proves that not everyone is motivated by money, greed and material things.

http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

I’m first.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

**doing research on my family tree as we speak**

YES, I AM motivated by money. Fluck what you think about me.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

This woman is a beautiful soul. God bless her. I am so happy that she was able to find her biological family. I cried while watching the show.
FABULOSALAKER

happy for both AINT NUN LIKE FAMILY NO FRIENDS CAN EVER REPLACE UR PEOPLES!!
jUsTiAra

wtf sandra???? i leave for 15 mins and come back and you done put up 3 dayuuuuum new posts!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@LAKER

I don’t know, most of family ain’t chit…literally.
VAALLDAY

I hope this lady stays humble…I’m sure whatever she NEEDS not wants Oprah will get it.
Cariblife

Good for her, at least she isn’t some gold digging mofo trying to catch a ride on the Oprah gravy train.
FABULOSALAKER

@YSO I MEMBER WHEN I WAS YOUNGER LIKE 15 OR 16 AND I THOUGHT MY FRIENDS WAS MY ERRTHANG AND MAMA USED TO ALWAYS TELL ME “THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A TRUE FRIEND IN THIS WORLD ONLY FRIEND THAT WILL ALWAYS BE HERE IS UR MAMA AND GRAMA” AND WHO WAS RIGHT WAS HER I FOUND OUT LATER THAT MAMA WAS 100% CORRECTO AND SOME OF MY BFF’S WERENT SHAT BUT THATS JUST ME
tintin1979

she doesn’t want the money for now…. anyways Oprah gonna take care of her family.
stellabella

I watched the show yesterday, and I have a lot of respect for her sister. How do you hold a secret like that for 3 years?
MissHarlem

You get more out of life when you are not greedy. Good for her!!!
KK76

This is going to be, by far, one of the best decisions she has ever made to withhold that info from the public
jazi65

I choked back tears the entire show. What a humble & beautiful spirit she is.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@LAKER

I’m glad you have that kind of relationship with yours. The only one I could depend on when I was a kid was my grandmother and she had everybody else leaning on her too.

These days I really only have myself and my sisters when it comes to certain things. Seems like my people want me to be the new family crutch.
ALBoy

Miss H How you baby?
http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

Even though she not looking for hand outs I’m sure oprah will reward her and her kids for not putting out that info before she was ready. Oprah does take care of those who she deems loyal to her.
pinksghetti

That’s a great story. That’s what is so great about Oprah’s life story because she’s had to overcome so many obstacles but it didn’t stop her.
CivilEngineer

Let me find out Oprah’s a long lost half-great-aunt or something…
Zephyr1979

Why would she sell her story to a tabloid? Oprah is her sister, old Harpo’s money is looonnnnnnnggggg! I would try and stay on Oprah’s good side too
KDub

Ahh I woulda turned down tabloid money too…ESPECIALLY when my newfound sis got ARAB money

Secret is safe with ME woulda been MY motto….
AWESOME ARSENAL

Let’s see…. Outing your sis to the media who wouldn’t give a damn about you otherwise for a million dollars or,…..
Keeping a secret for your billion dollar sis that gives millions to random folks and wipes her azz with hundreds…….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

ROFLMAO at people thinking Ol’ Tricia ain’t countin them duckets she bout to get.

On a side note, Oprah’s Mom must didn’t know where babies came from or something.

How many babies did she “give” away?
AWESOME ARSENAL

I’ll take “People who hit the lotto without playing” for the win Alex!
DA REAL DEAL

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

**doing research on my family tree as we speak**

YES, I AM motivated by money. Fluck what you think about me.

DIDN’T WATCH THE SHOW YET, BUT I’M SURE THAT I WILL I’M A BIG O BABY WHEN COMES TO THINGS LIKE THAT. SOMETIMES FAMILY CAN TRULY CAN BE A BLESSING, I HOPE THAT THEIR RELATIONSHIP GROWS INTO SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL
WUTWUZINDAT!?

This is called being smart OKAY! What ever they were offering her could not be compared to Oprah money!!!
KDub

You let me find out I got a sib rich like O…I am bouncing up OUT this piece like the dude on “Half Baked”…..gonna get up on the mic we use for award presentations and shyt and get to announcing…

Fluck, you, fluck you, FLUCK YOU (*throws shoe at my annoying co-worker*) nah not chu lil nice yt girl….you’re cool…I’m OUT…(drops mic ala “Sexual Chocolate” and will march right up outta this hell hole)
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

This is so far beyond money when you are missing out on family……then money can come later.

As good of a spirit she may have…and I may have!! Anybody initial thought after finding out you are a sibiling of Oprah “THE GREAT” Winfrey is “CHA CHING…we in the money”!!!

As much as BS people say about Oprah she has truly preservered and transcended the odds. If she can….we can too!!
MissHarlem

ALBOY hey hun!! Im doin well cant complain at all in a great mood and its pamper dayyyyyy How you?
robin

What a beautiful story, glad it turned out positive for all involved. Oprah now has a sister, niece and nephew that she never knew about. That is amazing. My sisters are my best friends. Good for both of them.
aaron

I really hope Oprah appreciates her and tries to take time to get to know her. I know this will be a difficult process for Oprah since she was burned by other family members in the past. Oprah made a reference to her back in 2007 when her father threated to write his tell all book about Oprah. Let’s be honest, Oprah has known about Patricia for some time.
Anna

stellabella says:

I watched the show yesterday, and I have a lot of respect for her sister. How do you hold a secret like that for 3 years?

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Paitence. In being paitent there is always a bigger reward. She would rather have a relationship w/her sis than take a million and keep it moving. When you get older you learn to appreciate family more, especially sisterhood. There is no other bound like a sister bond.
miko

sandra ur lazy azz was gone all this time and this is all we get?! going back to lurkin other sites………..
aaron

Sandra, please take time to verify what I said about Oprah knowing about her sister. She mentioned to a New York newspaper talking to her sister in 2007 and her other sister Pat was already dead.
Daisy

Money doesn’t motivate everybody

I am glad they were all reunited

Such a heartwarming story

God Bless her
ALBoy

Miss H Im good baby just chillin at work with this crazy chick boss
Phrozen1der

I’m so happy that my Godmother..I like to call her “O” found my Aunt Patricia! I can’t wait for the party this weekend….
WUTWUZINDAT!?

therapist1911 says:

As much as BS people say about Oprah she has truly preservered and transcended the odds. If she can….we can too!!
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Thanks for the inspiring therapy….Therapist!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

Topic of the Day

What is your definition of “cheating”? (be specific)
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

At Wutwuz…I really can’t take u serious with that gravie LMAO
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

How could she have turned down a blockbuster offer from a tabloid when they didn’t know about her? Here Oprah reveals the true story and the press is still making stuff up. Geez.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

Patricia might be trying to get in good so she can sell an even better story down the line. I mean, just bing Oprah’s sister = $1 million. Having intimate details about Oprah’s life = $10 million.
Acemaster

She is a good woman.
Mean Kitty

@Phrozen: Ur a fool. Oprah told me that u r one of them “crazies” she was talking about on the show!!! LOL

I’m glad that she was able to find her real family. Oprah’s mom is a piece of work by denying the invitation to meet a woman claiming to be her daughter. I understand the shame she was and possibly still is having BUT at the end of the day thats your daughter. I hope she comes around and tries to have a relationship with her.
ohpretty1

I would have turned it down also b/c I wouldn’t want all the media attention that surrounds “O”. I really hope that Patricia and her kids can still live their lives w/ the least amount of media scrutiny possible now that the story is out.
MissHarlem

ALBOY fluck her she be aight

ACE to me it depends on the dynamic of the relationship in order to say what is cheating.
KK76

So Sandra were you off wheeling & dealing after the shout out E News & People?

The “Love That Girl” ad on here reminds me to ask…. do you guys like that show? I wanna like it because of Ashley, but it’s kinda blah. Latrell & “Om-unique” have a few funny lines
jazzyiest

@ Mean

*Runs does two somersaults, a back handspring, 6 backflips and dives into Mean’s arms*

Hey honey bunches!!!
Mean Kitty

@ Jazzy…..hey babe!!!!!
Supa_sexy

All I gotta say is Oprah is a truly kept blessed woman and I pray that she lives a long and healthy life. But her mama is a mess, like how can you be so cold? I guess its true what they say, just because you are older doesn’t mean you’re wise and honest. Oprah mother was loose and lost back in the day and her kids had to suffer for it, all I gotta say for her is, God have mercy on her soul when it’s her time for judgment. Follow and twit me at NaturalbeautyEP
jazzyiest

@ Ace

Cheating to me can consist of texting, rubbing, touching, gropping, sex (oral and intercourse), going out with someone else, kissing etc.

It really just depends on the scenario. Do you want to tell us something?
ALBoy

Miss H
Phrozen1der

@Mean

Cheating: Anything that you do outside of your relationship that you can’t tell your spouse. Texting,calling,dating,sex..If you have a guilty feeling about it..It’s cheating…And before asked if you DON’T have a guilty feeling then yo A$$ needs to stay single….
jazzyiest

@ Mean

I told my mama about your shenanigans and she couldn’t stop laughing. That had us going for at least two days.
Phrozen1der

Oh yeah @Mean my Godmother said no such thing..
jazzyiest

@ Phrozen & Ace

There you have it. Phrozen hit the nail on the head. If you can’t tell your boo about it 9 times out of 10 you’re doing something wrong and it may just fall into that cheating category.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

For the love of all things beautiful I wish Oprah would take her fat azz and stfu – now becuz ratings are low she finds her long lost sister bish Im prolly Kin to you – and WTF WHY would the sister accept money from the tabloid when OPRAH is her BANK!
candibfly

unless its about me getting tickets to her fav things episode i gives not one fvck. nigs find out all the time one of their parents was a rolling stone
Danielle

I really liked that show! They all have the same eyes. I know its technically her half sister but I didn’t like how Oprah kept mentioning that. To me if you got the same Mama thats your sister/brother point blank!
Phrozen1der

@Choco Be nice to my Godmommy she’s been through alot….
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Ace
Cheating to me is wanting that person on an intimate level and even acting on some facets of intimacy and secrecy…
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

All I gotta say is Oprah is a truly kept blessed woman and I pray that she lives a long and healthy life. But her mama is a mess, like how can you be so cold? I guess its true what they say, just because you are older doesn’t mean you’re wise and honest. Oprah mother was loose and lost back in the day and her kids had to suffer for it, all I gotta say for her is, God have mercy on her soul when it’s her time for judgment. Follow and twit me at NaturalbeautyEP

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lol u said all that and ended it with “follow and twit me at blahblah”
lmao….i don’t know why I found that funny
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@JAZZIEST
“There you have it. Phrozen hit the nail on the head. If you can’t tell your boo about it 9 times out of 10 you’re doing something wrong and it may just fall into that cheating category.”
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Naw, that ain’t it. Who tells their boo EVERYTHING? (answer: no one)

In order to “cheat” at something implies that there are some “rules” that need to be followed. That’s why there is really no such thing as “cheating” because at the end of the day everyone is out for themselves. The truth is that there aren’t any “rules” to this chit so people can’t “cheat” at something when there aren’t any rules.

All is fair in love and war.
Mamacita

Didn’t watch the show but this is a beautiful story.

At the end of the day nothing can compare to, nor replace your own flesh and blood! Cherish the ones you have while you have them.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Phro
I sawwwy booo :hugs: but you know your GODMOTHER is FAT FAKE AZZ
Phrozen1der

@Danielle my mom thinks like you too…She calls my younger brother by her, my siblings and I (3 from her previous marriage)”brother”..However, my fathers children are our “half siblings”..I let her have it and said if that’s how you think, he is my HALF sibling too!
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

Danielle says:

I really liked that show! They all have the same eyes. I know its technically her half sister but I didn’t like how Oprah kept mentioning that. To me if you got the same Mama thats your sister/brother point blank!

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Technically if they have one different parent then they only have HALF the DNA makeup…….so in essence they are HALF whether they traveled through the same hole or not
yvonne79

****comes out of lurk mode****

Good Morning all!! Hope everyone is having a productive day….

On topic, what a feel good story! I hope Oprah takes the time to build a bond with Patricia. It’s gotta be devestating to find out you have a half sister out there whom you’ve never met.

Regarding Ace’s question, you’ll have to give us more details to determine if you or your lady friend is cheating. Soooooo,spill it! We’ll await your response.
ChaCha

You know Gayle somewhere stitching a lil Patricia doll as we speak

Hello everyone :wave:
candibfly

so the topic is what? cheating?

*goes to heat up my lunch and lurk*
Phrozen1der

@Man but bruh you may not tell your boo everything. However, if it’s an act that has no merit then why keep the secret no bullshyt… If you had lunch with your ex..tell it so there is no drama later. I believe in being honest and sometimes my honesty is brutal.

@Choco
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

Am I the only person that could care less if they have a “long lost sibling” out there?

Unless of course they got money to burn and chit.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

So now OPRAH professes her love for GAIL and how GAIL is like a MOM to her and then the long lost sis and no one thinks for once this is for ratings
ChaCha

miko says:

sandra ur lazy azz was gone all this time and this is all we get?! going back to lurkin other sites………..

You stay killing me how you be coming at SANDRA Have you ever been banned..
jazzyiest

@ Man

Boy stop!!!! LOL I’m glad everyone doesn’t think like you. what kind of shyt is that? SSo there’s no such thing as cheating so we should just be able to go around and bang and screw anyone regardless of commitment, marriage or vows?!?!? I don’t think so.
Phrozen1der

So whores when put out to pasture become cold old church ladies????
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

If you had lunch with your ex..tell it so there is no drama later. I believe in being honest and sometimes my honesty is brutal.
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Exactly why I mentioned secrecy my x lover and and x came out the woodwork as soon I got involved and I let my beau know yeah they tryn to but that don’t mean Im falln for it!
ChaCha

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

Am I the only person that could care less if they have a “long lost sibling” out there?

Unless of course they got money to burn and chit.

SO YOU SAYIN YOU DONT CARE FOR ME YOU KNOW IM YOUR SISTA BOY!
yvonne79

@Phrozen: You’re a man after my heart…
*passes you a DR Pepper with a secret 39th ingredient I added*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@PHROZEN
“@Man but bruh you may not tell your boo everything. However, if it’s an act that has no merit then why keep the secret no bullshyt… If you had lunch with your ex..tell it so there is no drama later. I believe in being honest and sometimes my honesty is brutal.”
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I feel ya dawg, but everyone got secrets. Some secrets are created BEFORE you get wit someone, and some are created after you get wit someone. At the end of the day, they are still secrets. People don’t need to know EVERYTHING.

Only tell your partner chit that they NEED to know and that BENEFITS YOU.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

So whores when put out to pasture become cold old church ladies????
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Only the ones that claim to be saved!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

Only tell your partner chit that they NEED to know and that BENEFITS YOU.
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There is some truth to this as well but there will always be two sides to cheating I say old adage “what you don’t want done to you don’t do to your boo!”
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

@Man

I know I have a sister out there I never met. My dad acts as if no one knows but he should know my mom can’t hold water. I would like to meet her…I don’t have chit for her but a smile but I would like to meet her.
Phrozen1der

@ChaCha
ChaCha

Hey Phro… *rolls up and flicks your titanium nipple

HEY CHOCO drop it like its HOT!
jazzyiest

@ Phrozen

I’m with you. I’m just saying brother or sister…not time for all that half shyt.

BTW-Oprah made it clear that the reason she kept referring to Patricia as her half sister is because she didn’t want the media to misconstrue it and start saying that she (Patricia) was her (Oprah’s) dad’s daughter b/c she isn’t. The way I interpreted it was that she just kept saying that to make it clear to everyone else but on her own time she makes it seem like she just calls her “sister”.
Silhouette

I watched the show yesterday and I have to say I had a lump in my throat and tears welling up in my eyes.

@Danielle
She stated the reason she was calling her a half-sister b/c she did not want anyone to think that was her fathers daughter so for the sake of clarity she said half sister.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@JAZZIEST
“Boy stop!!!! LOL I’m glad everyone doesn’t think like you. what kind of shyt is that? SSo there’s no such thing as cheating so we should just be able to go around and bang and screw anyone regardless of commitment, marriage or vows?!?!? I don’t think so. ”
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Everyone DOES think like me. They just go through the pretense of lying about it.

And yes, we already do go around banging and screwing anyone regardless of “commitment, marriage and vows.” Always have, always will. Of course the pomp and pagentry of a “marriage ceremony” notwithstanding.
candibfly

is it rude to cut someone off before they finish and say “i’m at lunch” i mean i am, i need my peace, nigs are annoying me and my tum is growling

@cha cha *double d shake, michael jackson spin into the splits*
yvonne79

Choco aka Hippie says:

There is some truth to this as well but there will always be two sides to cheating I say old adage “what you don’t want done to you don’t do to your boo!”
January 25, 2011 at 11:47 am
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Definitely treat others the way you would want to be treated. On another note, how ya doing babes?
candibfly

*climbs up yvonne and plays in ur hair*
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Yvonne
Im making it babes can’t complain how about you?
ChaCha

CANDI *does the worm/snake over to you in a one piece leopard print body suit with no finger or toe outlets HEY PRETTY BISH
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CHA CHA

You know youz my sis!
:hugs:

…but I wasn’t bout to go looking for you and chit.
Phrozen1der

@Man What happened before them is NOT their business I agree. But while you are together you do owe them your honesty. Don’t put yourself in situations where you have to explain and you’ll be good money..

@Therapist I too have a sister whom I’ve never met she is the only one of us still on the West Coast..so to answer @Man’s question yes I would like to meet her.

@Yvonne @ChaCha
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

that was her fathers daughter so for the sake of clarity she said half sister.
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WHO Cares which parent tho OPRAH stay doin way to much – NOT A FAN but I guees you can tell huh
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

:hugs: @ CHA CHA CHA
MissHarlem

CANDIIII darling why do I feel so neglected

ALBOY its ok boo you can be sad here on these D’s

CHA CHAZILLE hey girly
jazzyiest

@ Man

When I’m in a committed relationship I’m in that relationship. I’ve never really even been the type to cheat. it’s just not my thing. Cheating is really to da** difficult in a sense that you have to tell all these lies, have all these alibi’s, call up your homegirls talking about, “If so-and-so calls you say I just left your house.” I don’t have time for all that ish. Furthermore, I don’t like to spread my goodies around like that anyway. I’m not a saint but I’ve never liked sleeping with more than one person at a time (Hahaha! that sounds funny but you know what I mean).
ChaCha

HEY BESTIE … I MISS YOU PRETTY BISH!
candibfly

i’ve never really watched okra like that. last episode i saw was probably years ago. when i did i remembered thinking umm wtf did u ask them a question if all ur gonna do is interrupt them and speak over them?
candibfly

*wraps harlem up in my love and starts humming our fav song…no hands*

i dunno why u would feel that way, even tho u ain’t speak to me yesterday baby jesus in the fubu platinum edition jean set why?!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@PHRO
“What happened before them is NOT their business I agree. But while you are together you do owe them your honesty. Don’t put yourself in situations where you have to explain and you’ll be good money.. ”
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I feel ya’ dawg. But chit happens, and when it does, like any rationale person, we lie about it.
yvonne79

Hey Candi! :hugs:

No complaints here Choco.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@JAZZIEST
“When I’m in a committed relationship I’m in that relationship. I’ve never really even been the type to cheat. it’s just not my thing. Cheating is really to da** difficult in a sense that you have to tell all these lies, have all these alibi’s, call up your homegirls talking about, “If so-and-so calls you say I just left your house.” I don’t have time for all that ish. Furthermore, I don’t like to spread my goodies around like that anyway. I’m not a saint but I’ve never liked sleeping with more than one person at a time (Hahaha! that sounds funny but you know what I mean).”
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There are better ways to cheat than having to get cohorts to cover your trails. But, I won’t elaborate. You’ll get there someday.
yvonne79

Hey Cha Cha!!! *shakes rack left to right*
ohpretty1

Choco aka Hippie says:

So now OPRAH professes her love for GAIL and how GAIL is like a MOM to her and then the long lost sis and no one thinks for once this is for ratings
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Jimmy Kimmel. That nut said Oprah brought it out on her show b/c she didn’t want anyone to exploit the story unless of course it’s HER. s/n I like his dry humor.
Henny Blaque

candibfly says:

is it rude to cut someone off before they finish and say “i’m at lunch” i mean i am, i need my peace, nigs are annoying me and my tum is growling

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No that aint rude, and when I see that aint workin I just get up and leave.
MissHarlem

CANDI IM soooooo sawwwyyyy yesterday I got so many patients so I couldnt really check and read comments. Please accept my WWCHD (what would Candi Harlem Do) bracelet that I handmade for you in leather with rhinestones last night
candibfly

@harlem u know i could never stay upset with u *begins stretching and pulls out a game of twister* i’m bored, let’s play!
MissHarlem

CANDI right hand red left hand green left foot yellow right foot green
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

Ace says:

Topic of the Day

What is your definition of “cheating”? (be specific)

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I appreciate all the responses to my topic of the day…

For those needing me to elaborate…this was not a personal question for me…as only person in my life right now is my loving E-boo Dimpz ..

But I’ve been thinking of my “current” definition of cheating and starting to think it was too harsh…so was curious what others definitions were…

My current definition: Anything You Wouldn’t or Cant do in front of your monogamous mate = Cheating

I’m thinking i need to readjust my definition…
ChaCha

candibfly says:

i’ve never really watched okra like that.

*hollerin … Why my late grandmother use to call her OatFra… tha hail

YVONNNNNNNNNNNE *motorboats your boobs!
yvonne79

@Ace: No, your definition is perfect just the way it is….
Phrozen1der

@Man True!
candibfly

harlem i dunno if i’m that flexible!

good thing i’m doing this free week trial at bally’s
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

Like marriage, family is overrated. It takes more than sharing a little blood for me to consider someone family.

And while there is no “our” in the word money, there is a “my”.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

@YsO

you stupid
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

My grandma used to call Oprah “Poo Poo”. She was somewhat less of a fan than Choco.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@Ace
<——But am I wrong.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CANDI
“harlem i dunno if i’m that flexible! ”
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I knew you couldn’t be PERFECT.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@YSO
“<——But am I wrong. "
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I don't know what you are referring to, but yes, yes you are wrong.
ChaCha

Hey YSOLITA how are you sistah guhl
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

My grandma used to call Oprah “Poo Poo”. She was somewhat less of a fan than Choco.
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@ Poo Poo

@Ace
You did all that for dimpz well so what the fuk do you and dimpz think cheating is Chit better make sure yall on the same page
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@OhPretty
Im just sayn the timing of it all so next week she found her long lost dog huh!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

Even when I’m wrong I’m still more right than you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@YSO
“Even when I’m wrong I’m still more right than you. ”
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**gently pats Yso on the head**
Of course you are. Here, I brought you some crayons to munch on.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

:hugs: @ ChaChella

I’m just being my sunny, happy self, obvs.
MissHarlem

CANDI its ok I am already settin us up for a class. I cant have my girl all stiff and chit
Phrozen1der

YSoSerious says:

Even when I’m wrong I’m still more right than you.
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#BurymeinmyChristeningOutfitandBritishKnights
Danielle

@Phrozen
Great minds think alike I know when you have 2 different parents you are technically half siblings. I just don’t see the reason in mentioning it. If you my brother or sis you are just that. Maybe its just how I grew up
FABULOSALAKER

WHAT WE TALKN BOUT IM TOO DANG LAZY TO READ THE COMMENTS AND I KNOW WE STILL AINT TALKING ABOUT OPRAH AND HER KINFO
ALBoy

Has anyone here been the “Last Call” for someone who is getting Married that you used to deal with?
Phrozen1der

@Danielle I agree, but immaturity and bitterness made her speak like that…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

(pushes proffered crayons back @ Man)

No thanks. They smell like azz. Did you let your little hamster friend have an arts and crafts break today? How considerate and chit.
Phrozen1der

@Yso Keep it up!!!!! You hitting that in 5,4,3,2……
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

Maybe its just how I grew up
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It is my daughter and son have two different fathers – both of their fathers took in the other like their own! It is in how you raised half nothing has ever been mentioned in our homes
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

Did you let your little hamster friend have an arts and crafts break today? How considerate and chit
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Girl I swear I don’t feel like going back and forth with you and MAN today but this one made me do it –
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@Phro

<—Dr. Pepper with sassy 42nd flavor
MissHarlem

RANDOM but I wish I could find my siblings Im still the “only child”
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Lake
Cheating I guess

@AL Last call no Im no one’s last call but x lover wanted to do it one last time
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

YSoSerious says:

Like marriage, family is overrated. It takes more than sharing a little blood for me to consider someone family.

And while there is no “our” in the word money, there is a “my”.

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Most definately quoting at the next family meeting…with a HEAVY sideeye
FABULOSALAKER

@choco first HEY ANGEL SECOND ME AND MY BRO HAVE DIFERENT DADDYS AND IF WAS TO CALL MY BROTHER HALF MY BRO MY MOM WOULD SLAP THE WETBACK OUT OF ME AND HAND MY AZZ TO THE LIONS IN HER MIND IF WE CAME OUT OF HER PUZAZAY WE BROTHER AND SISTER THE OVEN IS WHAT BAKES NOT THE DOUGH!!!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

RANDOM but I wish I could find my siblings Im still the “only child”
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Not random at all and I hope you do as well facebook hasn’t turned up anything for you but you said your real name isn’t on facebook
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@Choco

You know you miss it.
Phrozen1der

@Yso Clearly the Dr. and that 42nd flavor is giving you that ACT RIGHT!
FABULOSALAKER

**BAKES THE BREAD NOT THE DOUGH OR SUM LIKE THAT MY TRANSLATING IS AS BAD AS MY FUKN SPELLING
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

IN HER MIND IF WE CAME OUT OF HER PUZAZAY WE BROTHER AND SISTER THE OVEN IS WHAT BAKES NOT THE DOUGH!!!
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Im sooo like your mom I tell my kids all the time you lived in me for 9 months so you BELONG to ME
Phrozen1der

Did this ninja @Laker call herself a “Wetback” iQUIT SR for the day…
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Yso
I do but yall be wilding out and i be tired as chit from laughing alll day – better laugh than cry tho
MissHarlem

CHOCO no my real name isnt on fb and my last name is complicated it was changed so not all generations have my last name but its all one and the same. Moms side I am caught up thats all I know for the most part. Im rarely on that chit as is and dont have it linked to my phone anymore.
FABULOSALAKER

@PHRO U KNOW HOW SOME OF THE U.S BORN WETBACKS BE SAYING “IM NOT A WETBACK I WAS BORN HERE” SHAT IN THE U.S U A DANG MEXICAN WICH TRANSLATE TO WETBACK SHAT MY MOMMA IS ONE AND MY DADDY TOO SO FUK IT!! #WETBACKINGLEWOODHOODSHAT!!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Harlem
Well dayum how is GOD gonna send a blessing your way if you not willing to help him – GIRL you know what to do if you really want to meet them you will!
Danielle

@Phrozen
I almost choked reading that as well
yvonne79

That damn Laker!!!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

MY MOMMA IS ONE AND MY DADDY TOO SO FUK IT!!
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And that’s y you are a NOW SAY IT WITH ME IM BLACK AND IM PROUD I kid boo but you know where Im coming from
Phrozen1der

@Laker stop talking to me STAT!

@Danielle she is crazy
ELove

Good Afternoon My Boo …

@YSoSerious
YEP, YEP… Have Elder Brothers who AIN’T SHYT and Too Many Relatives who AIN’T SHIT when IN ACTUALITY Their ALL equivalent to a BIG Humongous PILE OF SHYT !!!
Phrozen1der

@Elove I second that notion! I stays in my bubble and to myself too…
candibfly

laker! *hops in a canoe and paddles my way across the RIO GRANDE to get to u*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

OH yeah… my email was recently hacked.
FABULOSALAKER

@CHOCO U KNOW IT IT’S AN ESE THING HOMES
@PHRO HEY HEY ITS TRUE BELIEVE ME I KNOW!!! THEN I GO TO MEXICO AND IM THE WHITE GIRL AND IN THE U.S IM A WETBACK BISH CONFUSED AND LOST
ELove

OH and Regarding this post…

Oprah’s MONEY > Tabloid Money
candibfly

i was bout to ask u that man, i ain’t read that shyt anyway
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

U.S IM A WETBACK BISH CONFUSED AND LOST
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CANDI
:bootypinch:
I been missing you wit yo’ sexy azz.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feMJefcB36U kingstonn

laker bish.. i think im coming to the D this weekend!
FABULOSALAKER

@CANDI **WAITS FOR U ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE RIVER WITH SOMBRERO AND FAKE LEGAL DOCUMENTS** UR PART OF THE FAMILIA AND WE STICK TOGETHER LIKE CHEESE ON A QUESADILLA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@ Man

Whatchu do now?
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Man
So you got lil heffa’s from here to Gazoo trippn and trying to find out who else you talkn too SMDH!
MissHarlem

CHOCO as always I believe in my FATHER and he knows his child. I am not into social networks etc I got into that because my college buds forced me too. Everyone that I lost contact with got in contact with me the old fashion way(s) so in that regard I am not worried. Girl I still got a house phone I am around and if people knew where I work its easy as hell to find me no one has my last name its unique so they can holla chit thats how my cousin (brother) found me
candibfly

i am sexy huh <—-see what i did there

#humble *flips hair*

manuel i hope u have already picked out my valentine's day gift
FABULOSALAKER

@BIG PAPA HEY THERE SEXY WHY DO I PICTURE U BEING LIKE 6’4 TALL CHOCOLATE BAR THAT I JUST WANT TO LICK??? #NASTY
candibfly

why does my fake passport say LaQuanelle Jenkins tho?! #stereotype
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@YSO
“pushes proffered crayons back @ Man)

No thanks. They smell like azz. Did you let your little hamster friend have an arts and crafts break today? How considerate and chit. ”
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**checks box**
Ok Yso, why are half the crayons missing then and you have have crayon marks around your mouf?
Phrozen1der

@Laker

@Candi I see
candibfly

really? i picture elove as light skinted (it’s a word)
AWESOME ARSENAL

About a month ago we found the 3 children my mother adopted back in the day…. So stay vigilent @Harlem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@ My ELove

I just saw my ignant azz older and only brother last night.
MissHarlem

LAKER you a hot mess but thats why I lubs you

EBABBBYYYYY I miss Daddy Hey lover
candibfly

*hops out a plane, pulls chord, and gently glides toward awesome*
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CHOCO
Yeah, whoever hacked my chit sent out emails to EVERYONE that eva been in my contact list! People I don’t even talk to no mo’.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

CHOCO as always I believe in my FATHER and he knows his child.
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Then I know you will be fine
AWESOME ARSENAL

*catches Candi on my shoulders while I ride full speed on horseback*
Sup….
MissHarlem

AWESOME I will I am actually rather positive and a lil giddy *corny I know*
ELove

@YSoSerious My Peach @Candi Whaddup Sexxy LADIES !!!

Heyyyyy My BOO… And Daddy MISSES You Too
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Man
I must not rank cuz I didn’t get a thang

Smack that bish with your dyck next time you see her tho hopefully you will find out who the desperado is!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CANDI

I’m goin ALL out for you for this Valentine’s Day! You gettin the Limited Edition of Kim K.’s new album when it drops!

I expect lots of hot sweaty monkey sex in gratitude from you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

@Man

Your little hamster buddy was hungry and afraid to go back into the dark smelly place so after he ate a few crayons, he jumped at my face and marked me up with residue before I could shove him back where you love him to be.

You’re welcome.
FABULOSALAKER

@CANDI GIRL I PICTURE ELOVE AS A TALL CHOCOLATE DEEP VOICE MAKES U CAT MEOW KINDA MAN **FAINTS**
@BIG PAPA
candibfly

*breaks up with man and slides next to awesome*

u can keep that kim k ~~paper weight~~ album

and unless ur flexible enough to suck and fvck urself u won’t be getting any hmmmph
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@YSO
“Your little hamster buddy was hungry and afraid to go back into the dark smelly place so after he ate a few crayons, he jumped at my face and marked me up with residue before I could shove him back where you love him to be.

You’re welcome. ”
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Well, why did you open your mouf while he was on your face? And you kept the crayons…

Are you into “scat sex?” Be honest.
MissHarlem

EBABY your baby has a bone to pick with you but Im in a good mood so I might let you rock
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feMJefcB36U kingstonn

is laker ignoring me?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

Smack that bish with your dyck next time you see her tho hopefully you will find out who the desperado is!
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3.5 inches ain’t gone force nobody to say chit but “That tickles.”
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

3.5 inches ain’t gone force nobody to say chit but “That tickles.”
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I you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CANDI
“*breaks up with man and slides next to awesome*

u can keep that kim k ~~paper weight~~ album

and unless ur flexible enough to suck and fvck urself u won’t be getting any hmmmph
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See, ladies don’t even ‘preciate a nigga these days!

**tears up contract with El Debarge and Tamia to perform privately and returns keys to new mansion**

….see, I was just gettin started with the Kim K. album. YOU GOIN MISS MY 3.5 INCHES WHEN YOU LAYIN BY YOURSELF IN THAT BED!
MissHarlem

YSO if that

LAKER is in the ignoring mood her ass aint speak to me either
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2IkBBTOhfCQ YSoSerious

My mouth was closed and YOU’RE the one with the rest of the crayons, not me.

As for “scat sex” I have no idea what that is but if you do, then I wants no part of it.
candibfly

YOU GOIN MISS MY 3.5 INCHES WHEN YOU LAYIN BY YOURSELF IN THAT BED!

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who says i’ll be alone?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

@MAN

i was wondering why ou was emailin chit from russia and chit..

bunch of $2 viagra links and chit…

Need i delete you adddress? got a new one yet?
candibfly

should i be ashamed i know what scatting is?

*adjusts halo* i saw it on discovery channel
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@ACE
“i was wondering why ou was emailin chit from russia and chit..

bunch of $2 viagra links and chit…

Need i delete you adddress? got a new one yet?”
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I only opened that email for “public” use. I don’t know how they got in there so Im scared to use my “regular” email. You can still hit me over there for now.

I changed my password so hopefully that helps…
FABULOSALAKER

@kingston my bad babes i have this tooth ache that is fukn with my dang mind **popped abot 5 pain pills** SO U COMING TO THE D TOWN ALREADY WHAT WE DOING WHAT WE WERING?? DON’T WANT TO BE TARDY FOR THE PARRRRTY!!
@HARLEM I WOULD NEVER IGNORE U MAMAS NEVER!!! HOW U DOING IM FINE KINDA IN AND OUT BUT IM GOOD
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

@CANDI
“YOU GOIN MISS MY 3.5 INCHES WHEN YOU LAYIN BY YOURSELF IN THAT BED!

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who says i’ll be alone? ”
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Don’t get my blood pressure and chit up ova here!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

@Man
Y don’t you just delete the account and remember to not fall asleep when you are creeping with a girl
MissHarlem

LAKER you def get a pass toothaches is the worse
ALBoy

whats going on in here?
Miss H whats Up baby
Choco
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

Al :hugs:
BSuga

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ALBoy says:

Has anyone here been the “Last Call” for someone who is getting Married that you used to deal with?
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I know I’m late but I was a Last Call. We had just broken up and he called but I was still mad at him for us breaking up. So the next day I’m at work chilling looking out at the beautiful day when along come this ninga and his bride to the county clerks office to file their marriage license. I was too out done, good thing he didn’t get the goodies. #thatisall
http://twitter.com/candyrayne215 spongebobfan

she should turn it down, shes oprahs sister, girly is set for life!
UltraVee

This touched my heart…
DeliciousOne

I am a massive fan of Oprah and I am so happy for her! Her sister, Patricia seems like an humble, genuine and classy lady which is good. I hope that both ladies can bond as sisters and that their family can rebuild and become stronger.
GoldenGurl

What a great heatwarming story. If I were in that woman’s shoes, I would have handled the sitution the same way. Imagine her suprise when she found out Oprah, of ALL people in the world, was her sister! I hope Oprah does a show on that girl that was kidnapped from a NY hospital when she was only 19 days old and recently found her mother!

:newbie:Hi Everyone!:hi:
aaron

Dad’s book is no Oprah pick
BY George Rush and JOANNA RUSH MOLLOY DAILY NEWS GOSSIP COLUMNISTS

Tuesday, May 22nd 2007, 4:00 AM

Oprah Winfrey
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt
Eva Longoria channeled her inner athlete at last weekend’s ‘Spike for Hope’ charity volleyball tournament in California. Related ArticlesIt could be a chilly Father’s Day for Oprah Winfrey ‘s dad.

The talk queen tells us she’s “shocked” and “disappointed” that she had to hear it from the Daily News that her 74-year-old pop, Vernon, is writing a book about her.

Winfrey said she laughed recently when “one of my assistants said, ‘The Daily News is calling. They say they heard your father is writing a book about you.’ I said, ‘That’s impossible. I can assure them it’s not true.’

“But then my sister said, ‘I think you should call your father.’ I called him and it turned out he is writing a book. The worst part of it was him saying, ‘I meant to tell you I’ve been working on it.’ ”

Winfrey, 53, confided, “I was upset. I won’t say ‘devastated,’ but I was stunned.”

“The last person in the world to be doing a book about me is Vernon Winfrey,” she added. “The last person.”

Oprah was 14 and pregnant when she left her mother’s home in Milwaukee to live with her father in Nashville. Her baby died weeks after he was born. She has said before that she’s grateful to her father for helping her go on, for teaching her discipline and the importance of education.

Nevertheless, Vernon, who plans to call his book, “Things Unspoken,” was quoted as saying he should have been tougher on her, because Oprah was “out of hand and an unruly child.”

“I have a good relationship with him,” Oprah told us Sunday, when she received the Elie Wiesel Foundation Humanitarian Award at the Waldorf. Though she hasn’t seen Vernon since he accompanied her on a trip to Africa a few months ago,
she said, “We talk, we talk, we talk.”

That’s why “I would have preferred to have known my father was working on this. It would have been a nice gesture, a courtesy,” she said.

Vernon isn’t the only biographer Winfrey has on her tail. This month, an Illinois court dismissed extortion charges against
Keifer Bonvillain, who sought $1.5 million for “embarrassing” information he claimed was destined for a book. Oprah is letting her lawyers deal with it – “whatever happens, happens.”

Potentially more troubling is the bio Kitty Kelley has under construction.

Oprah said she won’t try to interfere with it. “I’m not cooperating with it, but if she wants to write a book, fine. This is America. I’m not discouraging it or encouraging it.”

The maker of best sellers added, with a wink, “and you know I can encourage!”

Oprah, of course, has no shortage of famous admirers. Among those who donned black tie and gowns on a “Sopranos” night were Edie Falco, Katie Couric, David Bowie and Iman, Dustin Hoffman, Ron Howard, Sidney Poitier, Barbara Walters, Sydney Pollack and Martha Stewart.
aaron

I just re-read the article I posted. There is a typo, which might make folks think Oprah talked to one of her sisters, not assitants.
xcal86

Oh puleeez, finding out your sista is Oprah Winfrey is waaay more than winning the damn lottery. You know Oprah gonna fill her coffers with houses, cars, and money so she dont have to write a single line let alone a book. The odds are 1000x much better too. Patricia doesnt even have to buy an effing ticket. Oprah will see how she’s not the money grubbing type only to give her more paper to last 10 lifetimes. ..just sayin.
GoldenGurl

Ooops! Just read the Carlina White aka “Nejdra” post. Already reached out to Oprah and no response? Shame on you Oprah you coulda helped a sista out…But hell now that it has made national news, she just might be on the show.