According to the White House, U.S. President Barack Obama is "grappling" with his feelings on the whole gay marriage issue even as he orders the Justice Department to stop defending the defense of marriage act (DOMA) in an ongoing court case.

The dictionary defines the word grapple as "engaging in a close fight or struggle without weapons" ie, wrestling with his thoughts.

What this really means is Obama is about to flip flop once again in order to appease the gays so he has a better chance of being reelected in 2012.

Expect gay marriage to be legalized in every state of the Union by the time 2012 rolls around.

Every special interest group knows that this is the best time to squeeze whatever bill they want out of Obama because all he cares about is getting reelected. Obama is so predictable.

The Justice Department announced Wednesday that, at Obama's direction, it would not defend the Defense of Marriage Act in a court case where it's being challenged.

Spokesman Jay Carney said Obama has always opposed the Defense of Marriage Act as "unnecessary and unfair." But Carney said there's no change to how Obama views gay marriage itself.

Obama said in January that he is still wrestling with whether gay couples should have the right to marry. He said his feelings on the issue continue to evolve but he still believes in allowing strong civil unions.

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AP Photo/Gerald Herbert

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    Auntie....

    Whats you stance on gay marriage? I'm assuming you FOR it...being a supporter for the community(if i remember correctly)

    Wouldn't Obama Flip Flopping in this case be a good thing?

    GooD Morning Fam!

  • ALBoy

    I dont get the big deal He Is a politician right? Dont they all do this kind of stuff around Reelection time? :no: :coffee:

  • candibfly

    *skips thru w/o reading the post*

    morning y'all :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    Mornin Fam! :yawn:

  • ALBoy

    Whats Up Ace?
    Candi how you this morning?
    Wonder woman whats going on sexy? :coffee:

  • jazi65

    Poor Obama is damned if he does & damned if he don't.

  • candibfly

    i'm ok, just waiting for lunch....it's bbq quesadilla day :yahoo:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    @AL...

    Chillin...you get to see me make a fool of myself in that vid yet

    :ontopic: i wouldn't want a politician who couldn't change his mind...

  • AWESOME ARSENAL

    WONDER WOMAN!!!!! :hug: How you feeling sweetie?
    Hey Candi!
    :ontopic: I'm not gay but far be it from me to try to deny folks' rights that don't affect me at all......

  • ALBoy

    Whats Up Jazi? Did you take that pic with a 110 camera? why is it so far away? Get Closer so we can see you :coffee:

    Its My Friday Ahhh Yea! :danban1:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    It that Turn My Frown Upside-Down BROWN!! :yahoo:

    MOANIN!! Welcome back. :hugs:

  • mirsmommy

    Morning Yall :waves:

  • candibfly

    my personal opinion: let ppl marry who they want. the end.

    *hand stitches awesome a pair of acid wash jeans* :hug:

  • ALBoy

    Nah I couldnt see it. Did you send it to Sandra :coffee:

  • ALBoy

    YSO Mirs Awesome Whats Up Yall?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    @Al

    Yeah she thanked me for it ...i guess i gave her a good laugh...

  • BruhMan5th Flr

    Morning Ace, Al, and everyone else :waves:

    *runs to CANDI and grabs her* Good morning my Queen :kiss:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    Awesome, I'm ok, still got a little pain but for the most part I'm good! Thanks for askin!

    Al
    nadda, frontin like I'm tryna catch up on work but since my new pffice furniture is here of course I'll spend the majority of the day puttin stuff up!
    #teamworkstoppage :thumbsup:

  • MOUTH

    Just when I thought you had written a sensible post about our president you strike again, why is that? His flip-flopping would be great for yourself and others, however your opposition is that he wants to get re-elected well news flash there is not enough in the G&L communities to populate a vote large enough to keep him or anyone else in off. News flash all G&L’s are not for gay marriage, so I guess your one of them if not you would welcome his flip flopping with open arms. :cya:

  • MrUnapologetic

    Hmmmm... didn't realize you were so damn jaded, Sandy. Despite what you may think about this recent development or the motivation behind it - it was a good move! It's time to let people live their lives on their own terms AS LONG AS they not hurting anybody. Big ups to President Obama and Eric Holder, U.S. Attorney General!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    *runs and does 3 cartwheels and a flip and lands in the splits on YSO's neck!

    :danban: :hug:

  • candibfly

    well good morning bruhman! :hug:

  • cheeks8683

    Good Moring Fam!!!

  • candibfly

    Just when I thought you had written a sensible post about our president you strike again, why is that?
    ----------------------------------------------------

    why would u think she would? i don't even bother reading the posts on obama. :shrugs: :no:

  • ALBoy

    Yeah Having a politician that wouldn’t change his mind might get us in a situation where say he thought there where Weapons of Mass Destruction then come to find out it wasn’t really like that he might just gone go to War anyway <---- Hypothetical :no: might need someone who is willing to Think about things then respond :coffee:

  • mirsmommy

    Heyyy AL. :waves: How you?

    @My Luscious Wonda Wowan, what's wrong??? Why you in pain? :hug:

  • candibfly

    Yeah Having a politician that wouldn’t change his mind might get us in a situation where say he thought there where Weapons of Mass Destruction then come to find out it wasn’t really like that he might just gone go to War anyway <—- Hypothetical might need someone who is willing to Think about things then respond
    ----------------------------------

    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    RE: Da Topic

    1) Politicians flip-flop all the time
    2) That doesn't sound like what Obama is doing here
    3) The RePUBElicans will never let statewide gay marriage happen
    4) Marriage isn't as sacred as those that oppose gay marriage want to think/want us to believe. If it's not hurting anyone, who the fluck cares?

  • brucebaner1

    It's America marry what or who you want. Just don't ask for incentives. In America marriage is defined as a relationship between a man and woman. Health care and head of household rules don't apply if you want to marry your blow-up doll.

  • http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

    President Obama will publicly align himself with rich educated homosexuals but doesn't want to appear to be too down with broke Black folks. Blank stare.

  • Alex

    Good Morning Fam!! I'm going to be on my best behavior today!! *fingers crossed*

    Candiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
    I need some more of those slippers so I can sell em for gas money. :danban1:

    Wonder Woman
    :no: I don't need you to be doing splits and cartwheels if you're already in pain. We need you to recover completely and expeditiously!! :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    ALBoy says:

    Yeah Having a politician that wouldn’t change his mind might get us in a situation where say he thought there where Weapons of Mass Destruction then come to find out it wasn’t really like that he might just gone go to War anyway <—- Hypothetical :no: might need someone who is willing to Think about things then respond
    ---------------------------------------------------------------------------

    :cosign:

  • ALBoy

    @ Cheeks how you today pretty lady?
    Whats up Bruh Man Mouth Mrunapologetic? :yes: <----- Head Nod

    @ Them Lips Yea I already Know I will spend my day looking for more chucks and counting down the time till I leave I will however have papers scattered all over my desk Just In Case :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    MEEERRRKKKAAATTTTTT!
    had surgery last week

  • ALBoy

    Bruce AttorneyMom Whats UP?

    Alex How you today? :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    brucebaner1 says:

    Health care and head of household rules don’t apply if you want to marry your blow-up doll.
    -------------------------------------------------------------------------

    You tell me i can't file my BeyonceLove Doll as a Dependant FLUCK!

    I need to call UPS ....Be right back..

  • Alex

    I am a part of the community but I don't know if I personally want to get married. However, I do feel like I should have the option if I want to. How the fluck somebody else going to tell me who I can't marry when most of these married heterosexuals are flucking up the sanctity of marriage any damn way? I just need to be able to sit in my partner's hospital room if need be and to be able to make decisions without a court fight. But if I want to get married in all white everything, at least give a bish the option.

  • candibfly

    alex! *makes u a deep pocketed onsie to collect all of ur cash*

  • cheeks8683

    Thanks Al :) I'm good and you?

  • mirsmommy

    Alex says:

    Good Morning Fam!! I’m going to be on my best behavior today!! *fingers crossed*
    _____________________________

    *side eye* Uhhhh huh, I bet. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    AL
    the Col is comin thru today so I'll make sure I keep my excel and power point up to look busy! :thumbsup:

  • brucebaner1

    @ALBoy - What's good Thundercat? @AttorneyMom long time no text....how are you?

  • mirsmommy

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN says:

    MEEERRRKKKAAATTTTTT!
    had surgery last week
    _________________________

    Awwwww Brownie (you're still my Brownie), :hug: (but not to tight, don't wanna hurt ya) I hope you feel better!!!!!!

  • jazi65

    ALBoy says:

    Whats Up Jazi? Did you take that pic with a 110 camera? why is it so far away? Get Closer so we can see you

    :rofl:

    I told mom to move up (looks in folder to find a better pic)

  • Alex

    @AL
    <------I'm good. Got on my apple bottom jeans and boots with the fur that Fernando bought me!! :danban:

    @Mirs
    I do believe you were encouraging said behavior. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    (rubs neck)

    @IDONTKNOWWHATTOCALLYOURAZZANYMORE

    Listen to Alex. No more cartwheels until you're fully recovered young lady. :nono:

    @AM

    How many poor black folks do you hang out with? Freely, that is? :coffee:

  • brucebaner1

    @ Ace - You tell me i can’t file my BeyonceLove Doll as a Dependant FLUCK!

    I need to call UPS ….Be right back..

    Yeah brother I had to give back my Amber Rose......I dyed her hair and everything......

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    candibfly says:

    *skips thru w/o reading the post*
    __________________

    Please take the time to read the post so that you will be well-informed when you attack my opinions on Obama. :coffee:

  • ALBoy

    :lol: @ Them Lips I already got spreedsheets OI's dropped down and ready

    Im Good Err Body Its My Friday!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    YSO
    When the anesthesiologist came in I told him firmly "I DO NOT WANT THE MJ SPECIAL"

  • candibfly

    umm i've never "attacked" ur opinion. :coffee:

  • Alex

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN says:

    YSO
    When the anesthesiologist came in I told him firmly “I DO NOT WANT THE MJ SPECIAL”
    ____________
    :dead:

  • candibfly

    alex why do u have that woman with the huge booty doo as ur gravie? :(

  • ALBoy

    @ Alex I see he keep you wrapped in the hood finest of everything :yes: You Looking all sexy with you team of stomachs I see you

  • Alex

    @Candi
    That's the kind of woman I like. :rofl:

    @AL
    :yes: we didn't even know they came in my size.

  • candibfly

    i swear AL doesn't have any sense. i picture him talkin with a deep souther accent and a lisp for some reason.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    exactly Alex, and he busted out laughin and said "Ma'am the difference is that I'm an actual anesthesiologist and you're in a hospital"

  • ALBoy

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN says:

    YSO
    When the anesthesiologist came in I told him firmly “I DO NOT WANT THE MJ SPECIAL”
    ___________________________________________________________

    :lol: you stupid

  • mirsmommy

    Alex says:

    @Mirs
    I do believe you were encouraging said behavior.
    ______________________________

    :blink: *points at self* Who me????? Encourage you and Phro's ghastly behavior?????? Not I. Never :no:

  • Alex

    @Wonder Woman
    I'm sure Dr. Conrad Murray has used that line before. :coffee:

  • mirsmommy

    :rofl: Why, Brownie, why?????? :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @Panthro

    You made a good point about politicians with immovable minds. :yes:

    And isn't everyday your Friday? :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Ace says:

    Auntie….

    Whats you stance on gay marriage?
    __________________

    My stance on gay marriage is gay unions are fine as long as they don't offend or threaten the rights and religious freedoms of others. For instance, my mom (who opposes gay marriage) should have the right to attend a church where the pastor isn't forced by law to marry gay couples. I still think the courts are wrong to create laws based on who a person decides they want to sleep with. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @IFTHISBROADCHANGESHERNAMEONEMOGIN

    I think I like that doctor. :lol: And I don't like doctors. :no:

  • ALBoy

    @ YSO almost everyday not yesterday cause they was playing with my money but today :yes: Did you know we have a facial emoticon :coffee:

  • yvonne79

    ATTENTION: As of this morning, effective 7:03AM EST, I have reclaimed my "single and free to mingle" card. I am now accepting applicants (serious inquiries only). You may feel free to apply within. Carry on!!!
    :coffee:

  • ALBoy

    @ Candi what I say? #NOLISP :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    *fills out application* :coffee:

  • yvonne79

    Oh, where are my manners? Good Morning everyone!!! :yahoo:

  • ALBoy

    You may feel free to apply within.<-----I dont know why this seems so dirty to me but it does and I like It :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    ALBoy says:

    @ YSO almost everyday not yesterday cause they was playing with my money but today Did you know we have a facial emoticon :coffee:
    ----------------------------------------------------------------
    :wail: <---

  • Alex

    Sandra Rose says:

    Ace says:

    Auntie….

    Whats you stance on gay marriage?
    __________________

    My stance on gay marriage is gay unions are fine as long as they don’t offend or threaten the rights and religious freedoms of others. For instance, my mom (who opposes gay marriage) should have the right to attend a church where the pastor isn’t forced by law to marry gay couples. I still think the courts are wrong to create laws based on who a person decides they want to sleep with.
    _____________________
    Sandra please!! Yo mamma does not have to attend the damn wedding. And as long as they don't offend or threaten the rights and religious freedoms of others.....um, doesn't heterosexual marriage threaten the rights of said others?

  • candibfly

    what happened yvonne?! lawd whyyyyy?! *hands u 12 breakfast margaritas*

    feel free to email me the scoop

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    a special thanks to my e friend who checked on me on a regular :kiss:

  • cheeks8683

    ATTENTION: As of this morning, effective 7:03AM EST, I have reclaimed my “single and free to mingle” card. I am now accepting applicants (serious inquiries only). You may feel free to apply within. Carry on!!!
    ______________________________________________________

    You too??? I reclaimed mine a few weeks back. Dtto to your statement :thumbsup:

  • Alex

    Glad I had my application filled out just in case. I'm emailing and faxing it right now. Hey Yvonne!! :hug: Let me know if you got my fax. :rules:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    Yes Whyvonne, care to share, do you need to lay your head in my bountiful bosom and let it all out, cry, lick them perhaps, cry some more?????

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    SAWEET CHEEKS!!!!
    You goin to see Chico this weekend

  • BruhMan5th Flr

    Gay Marriage.....sure, why not!!!!! :rofl:

    But seriously I feel like if people want to be happy and together let em, I am too blessed to be stressed or worried about an issue that does not pertain to me and it shouldn't to others

  • Mr.BluPhi

    I don't see what's the big deal. Im sure his experience as President thus far has changed how he views a lot of things. He seems more willing to listen to ideas and collectively do what will be better for America (as f**k'd up as this country can be at times, thats no easy task).

    And he is doing what EVERY president does around re-election time.....well except for Bushs who decide to evoke fear in Americans by starting wars.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    @Yvonne...

    Please ...details...

    Need to add to my book of things NOT to do...

  • cheeks8683

    @ Brown where Chico gonna be at?

  • ALBoy

    :hug: to Yvonne It will be alright :no:
    @ Sweet Cheeks if you want to talk let me know :coffee:

  • yvonne79

    @Candi: The long and short of it: the nigga was in a relationship with me but wants to conduct himself as if he's still single. Getting numbers and sh!t, calling women and trying to get to know them; talkin' bout you can never have too many friends. Is that right? OK, that's cool playa. While you're working on your friendship, your sh!t is packed and waiting at the porch for you to come pick it up. Come get it when you get off work.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    @ Cheeks
    Brown Suga Lounge on Sat

  • yvonne79

    @cheeks8683: (chest bumps) I don't know why but I love beng single!!!
    :yahoo:

  • candibfly

    the old we in a relationship but i'm still gonna act single scenario :no: i know it well.

    *puts on bey's single ladies and plans a girl's night out this weekend*

  • yvonne79

    Any more takers? (prints out more applications).....

  • ALBoy

    :no: Sorry to hear that Yvonne

  • Alex

    scrolls back in
    :whistle: all the single ladies, all the single ladies.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    "According to the White House, U.S. President Barack Obama is “grappling” with his feelings on the whole gay marriage issue even as he orders the Justice Department to stop defending the defense of marriage act (DOMA) in an ongoing court case."
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    :yahoo: <<<<TYLER PERRY

    :kiss: <<<<TREY SONGZ and DRAKE

  • MrUnapologetic

    Obama has always been clear about his stance on gay marriage, but recently he said in light of this recent decision "my opinion on this issue is evolving." What more can you ask for? We live in a world where racism is still very much alive - do we really think we can make homophobia disappear completely? As long as there's a black church - better yet any church - we can forget it!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @YVONNE
    "The long and short of it: the nigga was in a relationship with me but wants to conduct himself as if he’s still single. Getting numbers and sh!t, calling women and trying to get to know them; talkin’ bout you can never have too many friends. Is that right? OK, that’s cool playa. While you’re working on your friendship, your sh!t is packed and waiting at the porch for you to come pick it up. Come get it when you get off work."
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    Dang, you couldn't give them the benefit of the doubt? Some people are more friendly than others.

    You prolly was sick of that nigga anyway. :shrugs:

  • BruhMan5th Flr

    @ Yvonne, hold ya head ma ma some people cant appreciate what they got til its gone....I bet when all his "friends" decide he wack he'll be beggin to come back but you hold strong

  • candibfly

    :dead: manuel please go away! :rofl:

  • Mr.BluPhi

    And if a Pastor doesn't want to marry a gay couple, they shouldn't have to, but Im sure there are many pastor that will. And there are many religious institutes that will support their union.

    I think marriage is BULLSH!T....str8, gay, or whatever.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    *goes into chill mode cuz I know my app is gon be accepted* :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    (orders Yvonne a couple of cases of printer ink)

  • BruhMan5th Flr

    I think marriage is BULLSH!T….str8, gay, or whatever.
    ____________________________________________

    Right on the Nose!!!!!

  • cheeks8683

    @ Brown that may be a possibility...I want to see Hall Pass this weekend too.

    @Candi: The long and short of it: the nigga was in a relationship with me but wants to conduct himself as if he’s still single. Getting numbers and sh!t, calling women and trying to get to know them; talkin’ bout you can never have too many friends. Is that right? OK, that’s cool playa. While you’re working on your friendship, your sh!t is packed and waiting at the porch for you to come pick it up. Come get it when you get off work.
    _________________________________________________________________

    Girl u too!!! All I have to say is if you are going to login to fb at my house please dont forget to logout...smh

    @ Al- laying head on your shoulder as tears come out of my eyes..."I even cooked for him and ironed his church clothes" blowing nose...

  • yvonne79

    @AlBoy: Hey, there aren't any hard feelings on my end. I went into the relatinship giving 1255% of myself without regreata therefore I can walk away from the situation with my head held high!

    #TeamIAmAGoodWoman
    #TeamIKnowHOwToTreatAMan
    #TeamWhenOneDoorClosesAnotherOpens

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @BluPhi

    I think marriage is bullchit too. :dance:

  • candibfly

    marriage, as far as the state is really concerned, is nothing but a contract anyway :shrugs:

  • Mr.BluPhi

    ATTENTION: As of this morning, effective 7:03AM EST, I have reclaimed my “single and free to mingle” card. I am now accepting applicants (serious inquiries only). You may feel free to apply within. Carry on!!!
    _______________________________________________________________________

    Awww damn.... well they say the best way to get over somebody is the get under somebody....well unless you like to ride. :yes: LOL. But in all seriousness.... I hope you're ok =)

  • candibfly

    nonetheless, El and I will still be getting married this summer :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    *opening my "door" for Whyvonne*

  • yvonne79

    @Man: Truth be told, I was!! But benefit of the doubt? Not with her sending crotch shots to the cell talking bout I can't wait for you to taste me. And you've only known her for two days? Nah, nice try. You already know how that's gonna play out. You guys can be friends and I'll graciously step to the right.

  • Phillybruh

    My stance on gay marriage is gay unions are fine as long as they don’t offend or threaten the rights and religious freedoms of others. For instance, my mom (who opposes gay marriage) should have the right to attend a church where the pastor isn’t forced by law to marry gay couples. I still think the courts are wrong to create laws based on who a person decides they want to sleep with.

    Thats not a stance, its like your trying too justify your write up on the president, But like a poster said earlier your mom doesnt have to attend the ceremoney her pastor is officiating but i doubt her pastor would becuase thats where she gets her veiws on everything from what outfit to wear or who to vote for!

    Clearly Barak and Michelles Union is solid and allowing gays to get married wouldnt change that and that is what he has comes to terms with, seperating his personal beleif from the law.

  • ALBoy

    @ Sweet Cheeks Its okay taking my shirt off (because I worked out chest yesterday) to wipe you tears <----gentleman Gone Let It All Out :coffee:

  • Alex

    yvonne79 says:

    @Man: Truth be told, I was!! But benefit of the doubt? Not with her sending crotch shots to the cell talking bout I can’t wait for you to taste me. And you’ve only known her for two days?
    ____________
    :no: hellz naw

  • yvonne79

    (puts on last year's Nurse Betty Halloween costume and heads over to Brown's)

  • candibfly

    Al u lettin the moobs hang out today huh?! :clap:

  • yvonne79

    @Alex: Ain't that messed up? :yes:

  • candibfly

    yvonne how did u come across the crotch shots?!

    dang two days? nig works fast :no:

  • ALBoy

    candibfly says:

    nonetheless, El and I will still be getting married this summer
    ____________________________________________________
    And this Fall he will be trading you for dope :coffee:

  • Alex

    :offtopic:
    Do yall think that Forest Whitaker's wife can look him in the eyes when they have sex? :shrug:

  • candibfly

    *puts Al back on my list of ppl not to speak to* :coffee:

  • candibfly

    alex...which eye? :-/

  • cheeks8683

    @ Sweet Cheeks Its okay taking my shirt off (because I worked out chest yesterday) to wipe you tears <—-gentleman Gone Let It All Out
    _______________________________________________________________
    :rofl: such a gentleman

    #TeamIAmAGoodWoman
    #TeamIKnowHOwToTreatAMan
    #TeamWhenOneDoorClosesAnotherOpens
    _________________________________________________

    Jersey Shore fist pump!!! :)

  • Alex

    ALBoy says:

    candibfly says:

    nonetheless, El and I will still be getting married this summer
    ____________________________________________________
    And this Fall he will be trading you for dop
    ____________
    :dead: you leave my bff's hubby alone!!! :mad:

  • Alex

    @Candi
    How do you choose which one to look in on? :shrug:

  • yvonne79

    @candi: Men have a pattern. If you have inconsistencies or time unaccounted for, a red flag goes up. We're talking Code Orange in this bish! We will remain on alert until we've determined there isn't a threat. Let this be a lesson to all- if your signifigant other works for the phone company and you're on their account, said employee can get access to text messages as well as pictures you've opened as well as sent even if you delete them from the actual device.

  • Alex

    *lock in on

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    yvonne79 says:

    (puts on last year’s Nurse Betty Halloween costume and heads over to Brown’s)
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    *Hops back on bed and waits to get my bed bath*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    :dead: @ Panthro

    (wonders how many bags El would get for Candi)

  • cheeks8683

    Do yall think that Forest Whitaker’s wife can look him in the eyes when they have sex?
    _______________________________________________________

    Hey, hey now Forest looks ALOT better then he used to...Remember "Jason's Lyric"? That ninja looked like the Hunchback of Notre Dame...

  • candibfly

    y'all had a family plan?

    @alex i shudder at the thought :no:

  • candibfly

    *adds yso to the list*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @YVONNE
    "Truth be told, I was!! But benefit of the doubt? Not with her sending crotch shots to the cell talking bout I can’t wait for you to taste me. And you’ve only known her for two days? Nah, nice try. You already know how that’s gonna play out. You guys can be friends and I’ll graciously step to the right."
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    See, I KNEW IT. If you still loved that mayne you woulda been mad about the "sext" messages but it wouldn't have been the end.

    Shiiiiid, he MUSTA loved you to let you go through his phone like that. :nono: <<<<Me after a chick tries to go through my phone

  • ALBoy

    Do yall think that Forest Whitaker’s wife can look him in the eyes when they have sex
    ____________________________________

    Nope not unless she has an ey wranler of some kind to kepp the dead one from wondering and a roll of bounty paper towels to soak of the pus :no:

    @ Candi DeBarge you know I was only kidding the man set him up forced drugs on him to shut down his awesome gift of singing? :shrug:

  • Alex

    yvonne79 says:

    @candi: Men have a pattern. If you have inconsistencies or time unaccounted for, a red flag goes up. We’re talking Code Orange in this bish! We will remain on alert until we’ve determined there isn’t a threat. Let this be a lesson to all- if your signifigant other works for the phone company and you’re on their account, said employee can get access to text messages as well as pictures you’ve opened as well as sent even if you delete them from the actual device.
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    Bishes have patterns too. Why darling, why is your call history and text messages always empty? :coffee: I be on my detective shyt too. One of my exes told me oh yeah, I stayed at home last night. Took my key, went over and inspected the sink and the bathtub. You just got dressed and left home, huh? Why was there not one drop of water in the sink or bathtub? :shotsfired:

  • candibfly

    @manuel nobody tryin to go thru ur phone, only thing in there is a pic of some polo boots u saw at foot locker and some texts from big shirley bout the curly fry convention in july :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @YVONNE
    "Men have a pattern. If you have inconsistencies or time unaccounted for, a red flag goes up. We’re talking Code Orange in this bish! We will remain on alert until we’ve determined there isn’t a threat. Let this be a lesson to all- if your signifigant other works for the phone company and you’re on their account, said employee can get access to text messages as well as pictures you’ve opened as well as sent even if you delete them from the actual device."
    _________________________________________________________________________________

    DAYUM! He shoulda NEVER got with you cause how could he have a sidepiece knowing you can intercept and review his communications like that?

    He woulda had to change phone companies... or go back to the 1800's and mail letters and chit! :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    *makes note to NEVER date anyone who works for AT&T*

  • candibfly

    @ Candi DeBarge you know I was only kidding the man set him up forced drugs on him to shut down his awesome gift of singing?
    ---------------------------------------------------

    finally! someone understands me. I blame Reagan! :mad: and his 'war on drugs' he shoveled them into the black community and demonized us with that campagin!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI
    "nobody tryin to go thru ur phone, only thing in there is a pic of some polo boots u saw at foot locker and some texts from big shirley bout the curly fry convention in july :no: "
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    Big Shirley knows that she is not allowed to text me directly. She can only call me at work and even then she can't leave anything on my voice mail.

    :coffee:

  • yvonne79

    Candi!!! :lol:

    @Alex: I will ask a question over and over and over again in hopes you'll stop lying and just tell the truth. You're insulting my intelligence by sticking with a bullsh!t ass story and further insulting me if you think I will not go on a pursuit to find the truth. At the end of the day, that's all I want!!

    I wonder if he reads Sandrarose? Cuz he sure is calling my phone....

  • Alex

    yvonne79 says:

    I wonder if he reads Sandrarose? Cuz he sure is calling my phone….
    ____________
    Don't answer. :coffee: He'll start texting.

  • yvonne79

    @Man: And I warned him in the beginning! I said point blank. Yes, this is your account but it's under my employee account which gives. Just like I can see my children's text messages at all times, I can see yours too. You can't get over on me. What does he say? Ain't nobody trying to play games with you. You're my world. We're gonna get married blah,blah,blah.....Sike! And that's why you're calling from your work phone because your cell has been what? Disconnected!!! Jokes on you and your crotchshot taken friend.... :lol:

  • ALBoy

    :lol: at mailing letters I dont understand why he didnt have another phone :shrug: not condoning what happened Im just saying your girl works at Your Phone company :no: do better

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @Candi

    :hugs:

    You're worth more than all the Propofol bottles in MJ's secret precription drug stash. :yes:

  • StillASassyOne

    Mornin everyone!! :waves:

    @Yvonne
    :hug: You aight mama! He got a car? You got his clothes? We can do the Angela Bassett, "Waiting to Exhale" thing if you would like. I aint got no problem setting fire to a nigga's sh*t. :nono:

    Ask about me....

  • ALBoy

    @ YSO :lol:

  • yvonne79

    ALBoy says:
    at mailing letters I dont understand why he didnt have another phone not condoning what happened Im just saying your girl works at Your Phone company do better
    February 24, 2011 at 10:21 am
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    Right! How dumb can you be??.....NEXT!!!

    (hits the button to the "Now Serving #42" sign)

  • yvonne79

    @SASO: Hey lady!!! :hug:

    I'm great, thanks for asking! How are you? To answer your question,no that negro does NOT have a car. And to think I was carting him around Atlanta trying to help him find one.... :no:

  • StillASassyOne

    @Yvonne
    Tell that negro he better renew his bus-pass then!!

    You know how he gets home from work? When he gets off the bus, pull up beside him and ask him if he wants a ride so ya'll can talk.

    As soon as he gets close to the car- yell out the window: "better get a ride from that other bish!!!!!!!!!!!" and *screeeeeecchhhhhhhhhh*....pull the fukk off!

    I know..it's immature....but I'm a naturally vengeful, vindictive person. :shrug: :coffee:

  • cheeks8683

    @Man: And I warned him in the beginning! I said point blank. Yes, this is your account but it’s under my employee account which gives. Just like I can see my children’s text messages at all times, I can see yours too. You can’t get over on me. What does he say? Ain’t nobody trying to play games with you. You’re my world. We’re gonna get married blah,blah,blah…..Sike! And that’s why you’re calling from your work phone because your cell has been what? Disconnected!!! Jokes on you and your crotchshot taken friend…
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

  • yvonne79

    SASSY!!!!! :rofl: OMG, I just hollered out loud in this office......

  • Alex

    @Yvonne
    I didn't know you were here in ATL. Carting around ATL is no joke. :no:

    Hey SASO!!

  • candibfly

    why did his grown ass not have one?!

  • yvonne79

    @Candi: His whip got repo'd ... :shrug:

  • Alex

    yvonne79 says:

    @Candi: His whip got repo’d …
    _____________
    And so did his phone service. :rofl:

  • candibfly

    i guess i could understand that, kinda. i mean shyt we in a recession (or so they say).

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    :dead: @SASO

    I e-dore you but you're like that friend that co-signs and encourages the craziest chit when her girl has been wronged.

    But that's cool if you also have bail money and/or a good attorney lined up for them too. :lol:

  • yvonne79

    Alex!!! :rofl:

  • yvonne79

    YSoSerious says:
    @SASO

    I e-dore you but you’re like that friend that co-signs and encourages the craziest chit when her girl has been wronged.

    But that’s cool if you also have bail money and/or a good attorney lined up for them too.
    February 24, 2011 at 10:40 am
    *************
    :cosign: I also ride for my girls when they've been wronged....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @Yvonne

    But I don't support foolishness.

    Two wrongs don't make a right and I don't accept collect calls or send care packages when your revenge plan goes south. :nono:

  • Mannie

    Sassy!!!!!!!!

    Hey Boo!!!!!!!!

    @Yvonne just call pookey and dem to whoop his ass then dare him to pop slick!!!!

  • ALBoy

    SASO whats up sexy?

  • Mannie

    @ Alex

    Your gravi :dead:

  • StillASassyOne

    Hey Mannie! :kiss:

    And Alex!! (I didn't recognize you with that gravi!!!!!)

    And Al!

    @Yso
    Yes- that is me. :rofl: BUT...I always make sure we have an exit plan, and bail money on hold just in case.

  • Lady_L

    Just when I thought you had written a sensible post about our president you strike again, why is that?
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    why would u think she would? i don’t even bother reading the posts on obama.

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    Alex says:

    Do yall think that Forest Whitaker’s wife can look him in the eyes when they have sex?

    U.R.SO.WRONG.FOR.THAT! :dead:

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  • miamore1973

    Alex says:

    Do yall think that Forest Whitaker’s wife can look him in the eyes when they have sex?
    -----------------------------------------

    okay i was so ready to bounce in here and voice my opinion on gay marriage but this just flucked my whole head up.

  • Kimberly Jones the Third

    "Expect gay marriage to be legalized in every state of the Union by the time 2012 rolls around."?? If only we were so lucky!! Unfortunately I don't think that's going to happen. If you disagree with me, look at what Suze Orman says about gay marriage and financial issues. She's 100% right and rational.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Kimberly Jones the Third says:

    If you disagree with me, look at what Suze Orman says about gay marriage and financial issues. She’s 100% right and rational.
    ___________________

    Oh? And I'm not? :shrug: