You can tell when a man really loves his wife when he shows the utmost respect for her in the presence of others. It means something when a man bans all other women from his presence when he's with his wife, like Kobe Bryant did recently.

When a man cheats on his wife it is because he lacks respect for her and for the sanctity of their marriage. It doesn't mean he doesn't love her, it means he puts his own selfish needs above hers, which is a sign of disrespect. A boy becomes a man when he learns to put his needs aside to meet the needs of his wife and children.

Kobe has learned his lesson, according to Page Six.

Kobe Bryant's security was so tight, it even banned female cocktail waitresses from his VIP area at the Hennessy Black All-Star after-party Saturday night at Boulevard 3 in LA. According to an insider, Bryant's team also carried out two sweeps of the club in the days leading up to the event. "Kobe had a lot of male friends with him, and I'm pretty sure they would not have minded fe male cocktail servers," said one spy. Instead, Bryant kept his at tention on wife Vanessa, who mixed his drinks for him at the table.

That's respect.

Photo: Splash News Online

  • jazi65

    Anybody who believes Kobe has learned his lesson, I got a bridge to sell ya cheap :lol:

    Is there any truth to that rumor about him being served with paternity papers after a game?

  • Bri

    Nessa said, "Hide ur kids, hide ur wife, hide ur cocktail waitresses cause I'm bussin them ova the head if they come near ma husband."

  • Phrozen1der

    Ummmm but he does'nt like Black women... You slick little rascal you!!! :rofl:

  • sexyphillygirl

    lol, yeah ok

  • TerranceAllen

    Yeah he just didnt want to have to be bothered with Nessa later on...going upside his head & sh!t...she more than likely was the 1 that made him do it...I bet he still get it in though with other sideline pieces

  • WalkingKontradiction

    LOL! Well whether he did or didn't I could care less cause I'm #TeamKobe!

    But all jokes aside, it was a nice gesture though, lol

  • Dawn

    Guess he ain't never coming to the Velvet room...

  • West Coast Chick

    Kobe has a beautiful family... I like Vanessa for him.. she keeps that azz in check ... Shyt.. the way AIDS is runnin rapid, I sho dont blame her for keepin the skanks at bay- :thumbsup:

  • 2012

    OOOOOOOOOOOOh it's never never greener ooooooooooon the oooooooother siiiiiiiiide......stick with your black queens, stick with your black queens, ooooh brother stick with your black queens!

  • Thetruth32

    He would catch hell at home if he didn't do it. Kobe know Nessa don't play..Nessa

  • Zoe B.

    :yahoo: Yay no more abortion post!

    -------

    Kobe was right. Liquor, whores and married men don't mix very well. :nono:

  • BigCityGirl

    That ain't respect...thats I'm scared of the millions I will have to pay in child support and alimony...AND the tell all book that she will write out of spite!

  • West Coast Chick

    Thetruth32 says:

    He would catch hell at home if he didn’t do it. Kobe know Nessa don’t play..Nessa

    ______________________________

    Nessa.... :lol: ( RIP Bernie Mac)

  • 2012

    But for real tho...if a black woman treated her husband the SAME EXACT WAY that vanessa does, wouldnt that be the SAME EXACT REASON that brothers say they can't deal with a black woman?

  • Zoe B.

    That ain’t respect…thats I’m scared of the millions I will have to pay in child support and alimony…AND the tell all book that she will write out of spite!

    --------
    :cosign:

  • mrsloveleighwilliams

    boy he learned his lesson huh lol

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    VANESSA AND THEM FUKN BOWS :nono:

  • Zoe B.

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    VANESSA AND THEM FUKN BOWS

    ------------------------------
    :rofl:

  • LovelyLady

    Respect :no: Insecure :yes:

  • 2012

    Vanessa gotta be a very tall broad too.

  • sexyphillygirl

    :offtopic:

    Is anybody looking forward to Jermaine Jackson baby mama tell all book or am I the only one lol? I know she has a lot of dirt on them Jackson's

  • 2012

    @LovelyLady

    Tell me something LovelyLady.....if vanessa was a black woman, do you think that kobe would still be with her, insecure and all?

    i just wanna know?

  • datsmdubya2u

    @2012

    2012 says:

    But for real tho…if a black woman treated her husband the SAME EXACT WAY that vanessa does, wouldnt that be the SAME EXACT REASON that brothers say they can’t deal with a black woman?

    ------------------------
    :cosign:

    BTW :newbie:

  • mrsloveleighwilliams

    @LakerChic i agree!!!! I'm soooo beyond sick of her dressing those girls like they are going to church all the time

  • 2012

    They say vanessa keeps kobe in check, but they call dwayne wades ex-wife crazy?

    Can someone figure that out for me?

  • ALBoy

    Preemptive Shut Up YSO! whateva you bout to say bout Kobe :coffee:

  • 2012

    @datsmdubya2u

    Your Gravatar is the TRUTH!!!!

  • Thetruth32

    The oldest girl outfit remind me of a sister, sister outfit

  • mrsloveleighwilliams

    sexyphiillygirl says:Is anybody looking forward to Jermaine Jackson baby mama tell all book or am I the only one lol? I know she has a lot of dirt on them Jackson’s

    I can't wait to hear what she has to say :popcorn:

  • 2012

    @datsmdubya2u

    By the way welcome to the battle field! LOL!

  • sexyphillygirl

    mrsloveleighwilliams says:

    sexyphiillygirl says:Is anybody looking forward to Jermaine Jackson baby mama tell all book or am I the only one lol? I know she has a lot of dirt on them Jackson’s

    I can’t wait to hear what she has to say

    I no I cant wait either lol, I know that family is a hot mess and she is all in the middle nasty heffa having babies with 2 brothers smh.

  • Alex

    "Bryant’s team also carried out two sweeps of the club in the days leading up to the event."
    _________________________
    Who the fluck do they think they are? The POTUS? :shrug:

  • mrsloveleighwilliams

    Thetruth32 says:

    The oldest girl outfit remind me of a sister, sister outfit
    :cosign:

  • Zoe B.

    :waves: Alex

  • ALBoy

    Dat :welcome:

    Where you from
    how you make your money
    kids?
    male female
    fav celeb
    Fav Sr Member

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    Why are people always trying to make something about race? :shrug:

    I don't get it...

  • Alex

    Hey Zoe :hug:

  • Anna

    Vanessa was prettier when she was sitting by her man @ his news converence. Noone wants to break up a family, but she should have left him. If she is worried about a waitress while in her presence, Lord only knows what is going on behind her back. She knows she can't trust him, so why bother. Take the money and be seen all over town (ie shaunie)w/another man helping to spend the money.

  • 2012

    @Mamacita

    It's just a simple question.

    I've observed that mouths are quite when it is a non-black woman verses when it is a black woman.

    Nothing Personal, just observation.

    Like I said if vanessa was black, nobody would be saying '' she is keeping him in check''

    They would rather be saying:

    Angry black woman

    Insecure black woman

    Crazy black woman

    Nothing personal, just observation.

  • Dawn

    I'm fina get off work... you people be easy!

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    @Alex "Who the fluck do they think they are? The POTUS?"

    :lol:

  • Dawn

    says:

    “Bryant’s team also carried out two sweeps of the club in the days leading up to the event.”
    _________________________
    Who the fluck do they think they are? The POTUS?
    _____________
    I thought they meant sweep as in clearing out all the white groupies/jump offs who were posing as waitresses, bathroom attendants, bartenders... etc

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    @2012 Still don't see what the post has to do with race...

    To answer your question. No I don't think it would be any different. Not to me anyways...

    Besides, the men who claim black women are "angry" or "loud" aren't ones you want to date anyway! They obviously don't want you so why do you care? :shrug:

  • KDub

    No Female Cocktail Waitresses for Kobe Bryant
    --------------------------------------
    Nope just a wife who look like Count Chocula...that day.

    Google and tell me she does not look like that Count.

  • OSHH

    LOL I agree with Anne, that's not respect that's lack of trust.
    Insecurity. Not saying she doesn't have a reason to be, but who wants to live like that??? It's too much work honey.

  • bnatural

    KDub says:

    No Female ****tail Waitresses for Kobe Bryant
    ————————————–
    Nope just a wife who look like Count Chocula…that day.

    Google and tell me she does not look like that Count.

    --------------------

    :rofl:

  • yallcrazy

    If I was Vanessa I'd be embarassed that MY HUSBAND has to go to these lengths to act right.

  • 2012

    @Mamacita

    Ok. Tell you what I'll do... I will save this post for a future topic, and I'm pretty sure there will be a future topic very similar to this one; but the only difference is that the woman will be black... we shall see then how the comments now will compare to later.

    Fair enough?

  • LovelyLady

    @ 2012,

    Honestly Im not sure. ALL black me are not like that, this i know for a fact. Plus we all know Kobe don't like black women lol

  • Alex

    Dawn says:

    says:

    “Bryant’s team also carried out two sweeps of the club in the days leading up to the event.”
    _________________________
    Who the fluck do they think they are? The POTUS?
    _____________
    I thought they meant sweep as in clearing out all the white groupies/jump offs who were posing as waitresses, bathroom attendants, bartenders… etc
    ____________________
    So bishes hanging out in baffrooms for 2 days now? :shrug:

  • Thetruth32

    KDub says:

    No Female ****tail Waitresses for Kobe Bryant
    ————————————–
    Nope just a wife who look like Count Chocula…that day.

    Google and tell me she does not look like that Count.
    =========================
    :rofl: just :dead:

  • LovelyLady

    *men

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    Kobe my NIGGA!
    **5 rings and counting my nigga**

    Vanessa is dime. She's gained a lil weight but she's still sexy as hail. She has to learn to accept a LITTLE bit of cheating. That comes with territory. But seems like they have a happy balance of discreet cheating/public respect.

    :thumbsup: for happy marriages!

  • yallcrazy

    sexyphillygirl says:

    "Is anybody looking forward to Jermaine Jackson baby mama tell all book or am I the only one lol? I know she has a lot of dirt on them Jackson’s"
    -------------------------------------------------------

    No, but please give us a summary when you do read it.

  • SummerSweetie

    Sandra says:
    When a man cheats on his wife it is because he lacks respect for her and for the sanctity of their marriage
    --------------------------------------------------------------------
    Auntie, are you freakin' kiddin' me??!!!! Um, Mr. Kobe Bryant has been there, done that, and wrote the doggone book and sequel.

    The reason he does not allow female cocktail waitresses, ahem..when he's around his wife... is because of that little hoochie attack he had back in Vale, Colorado a few years ago. 'Member that? And I'm sure Vanessa reminds him of that every day of his freakin' life.

    Not gonna put him on a pedestal :nono:

  • Thetruth32

    So bishes hanging out in baffrooms for 2 days now?
    -------------------------------
    The crazy 1's will...damn shame

  • West Coast Chick

    why do ya'll say that Kobe dont like Black women? Didnt he date Brandy and the chick he was with before his NBA big break was Black also.. dark skinned sistas to be exact..

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    That slope-headed nig ain't learned nothing except how to keep Nessa from cutting his azz and/or taking him for half his chit. :coffee:

    @ALBoy

    Try harder next time. :nana:

  • KDub

    It means something when a man bans all other women from his presence when he’s with his wife, like Kobe Bryant did recently.
    ------------------------------------------------------------
    Doug Christie and his CAH-RAZY wife. "Infinite Love" my AZZ.

  • 2012

    @LovelyLady

    Let me ask another question....

    Does kobe Not like black women?, OR is kobe Not attracted to black women?

    I ask because if it is the former, then we come back round to square one: Why doesnt he like black women?

    Is it because he thinks they are

    Angry

    Loud

    Insecure or

    Crazy?

  • Alex

    sexyphillygirl says:

    Is anybody looking forward to Jermaine Jackson baby mama tell all book or am I the only one lol? I know she has a lot of dirt on them Jackson’s
    _________________________
    I AM!! I am dying to know what that nicca use to slick his damn hair down like that. :waiting:

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    @2012 :thumbsup: Works for me.

    And as fas as your comment regarding D Wade's ex, wasn't she sleeping around on him and then "claimed" he gave her an STD? Only to find out later that she lied and she really got it from the side dude she was banging? Then she became so mentally unstable that the judge had to remove her kids from her custody and place them with the father?

    I believe that's what happened but correct me if I'm wrong.

    Two totally different situations. There is a reason his wife was deemed crazy...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @SANDRA ROSE
    "When a man cheats on his wife it is because he lacks respect for her and for the sanctity of their marriage. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her,
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    :preach:

  • West Coast Chick

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Kobe my NIGGA!
    **5 rings and counting my nigga**

    Vanessa is dime. She’s gained a lil weight but she’s still sexy as hail. She has to learn to accept a LITTLE bit of cheating. That comes with territory. But seems like they have a happy balance of discreet cheating/public respect.

    for happy marriages!

    _______________________________

    :cosign: every word.. surprisingly

  • Thetruth32

    I think Brandy and kobe was just friend nothing more

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    @West Coast Chick I was wondering the same thing. I never knew he didn't like black women. Maybe i missed that.

  • candibfly

    55 comments and not ONE nig told me we done moved posts?! :mad:

    *stomps off and takes my light skin curly haired azz on the train* hmmmph

  • 2012

    @Mamacita

    Was D wade's ex sleeping with another man because it was in her nature to cheat on her husband, or did she do it because she was trying to get back at him for cheating on her first?

  • His_Mommy623

    which one of Vanessas daughters made that dress shes wearing in the top pic? that chit is raggedy as heyul...and why did she tear her face up so bad? that ho looks nothing like she did when Kobe put that "im sawwy i let another bish wet my dyckie" ring on her finger....that child looks scary..

  • Thetruth32

    @ 2012 Do you like Kobe or something?

  • 2012

    ''' .that child looks scary.. ''

    This shit here is Funny as hell!!! LMAOff@His_Mommy623

  • Alex

    Why are all they all dressed up and Kobe got on a sweat suit? :shrug:

  • 2012

    @Thetruth32

    Naw, I'm just trying to analyze why we arent making harsher comments on Vanessa like we do others...

    I mean it's clear that vanessa is a

    Loud

    angry

    insecure

    bat shit crazy broad, but I don't hear us saying it like we sooooo readily do others.

    Nothing personal, just observation.

  • Thetruth32

    Alex says:

    Why are all they all dressed up and Kobe got on a sweat suit?
    --------------------------
    Nessa don't care how kobe dresses

  • EssenceofU

    In the words of OchoCinco, "Chile Pleaz!" If he had to remove the females just so he could keep his attention on his wife, what does that tell the wife? Obviously she only holds his interest when no one else is around! If I hold my hubby's attn solely when other beautiful ladies are around, now that's RESPECT! And with all of Kobe's $$$$$$$$$$ can she not get a stylist?

  • His_Mommy623

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Kobe my NIGGA!
    **5 rings and counting my nigga**

    Vanessa is dime. She’s gained a lil weight but she’s still sexy as hail. She has to learn to accept a LITTLE bit of cheating. That comes with territory. But seems like they have a happy balance of discreet cheating/public respect.

    for happy marriages!

    :dead: @ Vanessa is a dime...get ur head outta ur ass @Man...what Vanessa is, is CRAZY and er'body knows it...see Kdubs comment, she'll tell u who the plump btch looks like :rofl:

  • candibfly

    that's either respect or not wanting to give her any reason to take half his money

    it's cheaper to keep her

  • yallcrazy

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    VANESSA AND THEM FUKN BOWS
    -----------------------------------

    What about the big lil mama's dress :dead:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @WEST COAST CHICK
    "Kobe my NIGGA!
    **5 rings and counting my nigga**

    Vanessa is dime. She’s gained a lil weight but she’s still sexy as hail. She has to learn to accept a LITTLE bit of cheating. That comes with territory. But seems like they have a happy balance of discreet cheating/public respect.

    for happy marriages!

    _______________________________

    :cosign: every word.. surprisingly"
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    Why is everyone "surprised" when they agree with me? :think:

  • His_Mommy623

    kids are off limits right??
    I guess I better sit on my hands cuz..... :rofl:

  • Thetruth32

    2012 says:

    @Thetruth32

    Naw, I’m just trying to analyze why we arent making harsher comments on Vanessa like we do others…

    I mean it’s clear that vanessa is a

    Loud

    angry

    insecure

    bat **** crazy broad, but I don’t hear us saying it like we sooooo readily do others.

    Nothing personal, just observation.
    --------------------------
    cause we said that year ago about Nessa. you are the only one keep talking about it. If we say them will we get a :yahoo: out u or something..#justaskin

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    (worried that 2012 is sorta making sense to me; goes to check self in at nearest emergency room STAT)

  • yallcrazy

    @His
    Kids clothes and hairbows are not off limit :)

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    @2012 The hell if I know! I ain't his damn wife :lol:

    What I do know is those are two totally different situations.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @HIS
    " :dead: @ Vanessa is a dime…get ur head outta ur ass @Man…what Vanessa is, is CRAZY and er’body knows it…see Kdubs comment, she’ll tell u who the plump btch looks like "
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    Yeah, she's gained a lil weight but she's STILL pretty as hail! You can't even deny that! Any nigga woulda wifed up Vanessa real quick!

    What woman ISN'T crazy??? :coffee:

  • West Coast Chick

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Why is everyone “surprised” when they agree with me?

    ______________________________

    :lol: maybe you should go back and read some of those comments you typed from yesterday... that should answer your question :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @2012
    "I mean it’s clear that vanessa is a

    Loud

    angry

    insecure

    bat **** crazy broad,"
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    :think:
    Exactly how is that "clear?" I think she has done 5 interviews or so over their 10 year marriage and NEVER discusses their personal lives.

    How can that be categorized as "loud and angry?"

  • KDub

    He might like the sistas. True. But I think he like banging yt girls who work at the hotel...bent over a chair.. more.

    Not sure why I think that... :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    All women are crazy. Some are just crazier than others. And some are worth dealing with their crazy azzes and some ain't. :coffee:

  • His_Mommy623

    @Man actually I AM denying that...I dnt find Vanessa pretty AT ALL these days...I mean er'one can't look as good as I *flips hair*

    @Yall, oh I see but its not the clothing that's disturbing me :wail:

  • West Coast Chick

    I'm lost... what makes ya'll guys think Vanessa is crazy? :shrug:
    I think any good woman/ wife would want to protect their family from predators.. even more so in Kobe's case, there are women out there that would LOVE to break up his home.. I think Vanessa is smart enough to know that.. I think she's pretty damn smart if you ask me.. shyt, I would have stayed my azz right there too, after he cheated.. shyt, stupid my azz- LOL

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @2012
    “I mean it’s clear that vanessa is a

    Loud

    angry

    insecure

    bat **** crazy broad,”
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    Exactly how is that “clear?” I think she has done 5 interviews or so over their 10 year marriage and NEVER discusses their personal lives.

    How can that be categorized as “loud and angry?”

    -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    :cosign: The only time I ever see her is when she's with Kobe or at a Laker game.

  • KDub

    Any nigga woulda wifed up Vanessa real quick!
    -----------------------------------------------------------------
    Dying to wife the Countess Nessa up huh? Its b/c of HER pesky azz Chocula genes them babies got winders peaks!

    And I wanna burn them dyed black at the Pic N Pay prom shoes Nessa got on.....

  • His_Mommy623

    what i dnt understand is why we cannot talk about that dress that she has on!

    what kinda Home-Ec creation??

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    "All women are crazy. Some are just crazier than others. And some are worth dealing with their crazy azzes and some ain’t."
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    I :cosign: what this crazy bytch said.
    :coffee:

  • ALBoy

    @ YSO you right about that :yes:

  • Phrozen1der

    @WCC He went to prom with Brandy for show....plus it does'nt matter who he dated, who did he make his "Queen" and reproduce with?...She's beautiful but she isn't black. Which means he isn't checking for them black waitresses so she was def. in the clear.. :lol:

  • West Coast Chick

    he loves her.. he ALWAYS leans into Vanessa when they take pictures....#bodylanguage

  • StillASassyOne

    I actually agree with every post 2012 has made here. :shrug:

    And whoever said that this is not "respect"- it's "insecurity." What's sad is that Vanessa doesn't ralize that Kobe hasn't got enough sense (or discipline) to be able to "check a bish" that step to him while with his wife. So he takes the easy way out....just banning temptation in all forms.

    :rofl: who really evny/admire that bullsh*t. Vanessa is no more unaware of Kobe's cheating than we are of the damn weather....NEXT!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    I firmly believe that no one outside your home can break it up. Just like any bloodsucker, the other person has to be invited in.

    So if the only way to keep your husband from flucking another chick is to isolate him and his wandering eye/dyck, then you don't have much of a marriage and you are crazy to stay.

    Especially when you have his kids and can take half his chit and be set for life. Just sayin'.

  • Anna

    West Coast Chick says:

    I’m lost… what makes ya’ll guys think Vanessa is crazy?
    I think any good woman/ wife would want to protect their family from predators.. even more so in Kobe’s case, there are women out there that would LOVE to break up his home.. I think Vanessa is smart enough to know that.. I think she’s pretty damn smart if you ask me.. shyt, I would have stayed my azz right there too, after he cheated.. shyt, stupid my azz- LOL

    ~~~~~~~~~
    Smart about what? Staying when she could leave w/half. She never looks happy to me, her smiles are for show, nothing but fake. She stays w/Kobe because of the Status, if she leaves she really can't be apart of "The Sun Beams" anymore. Khloe and Lamar have a reality show coming up, don't remember seeing any clips w/Vanessa.

  • Thetruth32

    he loves her.. he ALWAYS leans into Vanessa when they take pictures….#bodylanguage
    ---------------------------
    That b/c she is talkin under her breath kobe you better put your arms around me like you love me...lol j/k me might love her

  • yallcrazy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Man actually I AM denying that…I dnt find Vanessa pretty AT ALL these days…I mean er’one can’t look as good as I *flips hair*

    @Yall, oh I see but its not the clothing that’s disturbing me
    -----------------------

    Is it the Ms.Staches that we were talkin about the other day? :rofl:
    *rhetorical?*

  • Secret

    @ Anna

    Well no one force Kobe to sling his stuff into another woman either. So if something happens to his home, it will be of his own doing.

  • Zoe B.

    sexyphillygirl says:

    Is anybody looking forward to Jermaine Jackson baby mama tell all book or am I the only one lol? I know she has a lot of dirt on them Jackson’s
    _________________________
    I AM!! I am dying to know what that nicca use to slick his damn hair down like that.

    -----

    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWrKEZYUJ6Q Ace

    *walks into to this lovely untainted post*

    Hows everyone here...whatcha talkin bout? :coffee:

  • West Coast Chick

    @ Phrozen- I feel you... it does kinda seem like he dumped the Black chick from college as soon as he became famous... but then again, I dont know- Somebody needs to tell Brandy's delusional azz that it was for show.. I heard her say in an interview that her and Kobe used to date...

    but Kobe gets a pass with Nessa.. I mean, she's not technically yt.. she's brown.. if the cops pull her peoples over at 2AM.. they're subject to get the rodney king treatment just like a nicca :lol:

  • ALBoy

    @ SASO you right banning them says to me that if they come in here Im gone get in trouble/or a waitress :coffee:

  • Phrozen1der

    @Anna because Vanessa does'nt like Khloe and will not allow her into the "Sun beams" :rofl:

  • His_Mommy623

    :dead: @Yall :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @Anna

    Exactly. :yes:

  • yallcrazy

    Her dress looks like that dress from the movie Sweet Sixteen!

  • heavn_sent

    He leans in because he is over a foot taller than her!!!!! In order to be in the same pic he ahs to accomodate.

  • Phrozen1der

    @WCC Kobe didn't go to college :lol: Yeah #NoComment on Bran-NU tho...

  • yallcrazy

    Dear Kwall,

    Can you look through your braille e-mails and see if you overlooked one from nessa's stylist? If so, please share.

    Thank you,
    Smurfette

    #feelingcrazysigningmynameasacartoon

  • pinksghetti

    Every since the Colorado "incident" Kobe & Vanessa haven't looked happy. They may be one of those couples where they would rather stay together and be miserable then to break up and prove some people right. Or maybe they look like they because they don't like the spotlight *shrug*

  • Phrozen1der

    How are they unhappy looking, are'nt they smiling?! :shrugs:

  • West Coast Chick

    @ Anna.... its a little different when children are involved... I have 2 kids, I totally understand where Vanessa is coming from. Nobody wants to be a single mother, no matter how much money is involved.. Some women who love their children are willing to put their happiness aside for their kids well being.( not to say, that she's not happy.. I wouldn't know.. she looks fine to me- LOL) She may look sad to you, but those beautiful girls looks VERY happy.

    I fully respect a woman that understands the gravity of keeping their family together, especially when they have kids! .. besides leave him and watch the next bytch take my spot... I DONT THINK SO BEW BEW

  • Dymond

    that whole family is very unfortunate looking :coffee:

    and who wants a man (his $$ not included) that you can't trust unless you all in his grill all the time? #notI

  • His_Mommy623

    WHAT beautiful grls?
    *backs out of post*

    I'm sawwy SR that slipped.
    forgive me and those faces :rofl:

    @Dymond :coffee: :cosign:

  • mirsmommy

    Phrozen1der says:

    How are they unhappy looking, are’nt they smiling?!
    ___________________________

    Nessa stay with her gums on full blast!!!!! :lol:

  • Dymond

    West Coast Chick says:
    I fully respect a woman that understands the gravity of keeping their family together, especially when they have kids! .. besides leave him and watch the next bytch take my spot… I DONT THINK SO BEW BEW
    -------------------

    sorry, i dont respect that..that's why there are so many miserable ass women in this world...u think I'm worried about the next chick? fvck the next chick, there was a reason we didnt work and she can have his ass #neverlookback

  • His_Mommy623

    I'm out Fam! :nite: to all!!

    *electric slides to the parking lot*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @Dymond

    That's what I've been sayin. :coffee:

  • mirsmommy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    WHAT beautiful grls?
    *backs out of post*

    I’m sawwy SR that slipped.
    forgive me and those faces
    _____________________________

    :rofl: Can you and KDub please escort yourselves outta this post?!?!?!?!

  • Secret

    @ West Coast Chick

    I understand about the children but wouldnt it be better for the kids to be surrounded by happiness instead of making a relationship work that you know is not working?

  • Dymond

    hello HIS :coffee:

  • mirsmommy

    Nessa gotta notepad that keeps track of the mileage in the car, Kobe's frequent flyer miles, and hotel stays, medical info, shyt, bish prolly be performing physicals, and pap smears (yes, I said paps) on his azz!!!! :lol:

  • Dymond

    goodbye HIS :coffee:

  • His_Mommy623

    FCK! :cosign: Dymonds ass again... :coffee:

    My son won't be happy unless I'M HAPPY...and I damn sure won't teach him how to settle just because there are kids involved...It takes (in my opinion) a much smarter and STRONGER individual to walk away from a damaged relationship and find true happiness than it does for a dingbat to stay and received 'i'm sawwy' jewelry, make homemade dresses and go BOW shopping all for the sake of stature...

    I'm not known to stick around after a nigga fck up...Money or no Money and I have been with both...why should I wait for him to fck someone else and have his fun at my expense. Then drag his wack ass home to tell me about how he learned a lesson and the groupies are not worth it yadda yadda yadda and we live happily ever after while some broad lives life knowing she "slipped in" even if it was just one time...I can't deal with that.. :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWW5NhVpi_U Man, I just don’t care™

    @HIS
    "I’m not known to stick around after a nigga fck up…Money or no Money and I have been with both…why should I wait for him to fck someone else and have his fun at my expense. Then drag his wack ass home to tell me about how he learned a lesson and the groupies are not worth it yadda yadda yadda and we live happily ever after while some broad lives life knowing she “slipped in” even if it was just one time…I can’t deal with that.. "
    __________________________________________________________________________

    That's called "pride."
    It's usually at it's greatest before "the fall."
    :coffee:

  • His_Mommy623

    Mirsssssssssssssssss :yahoo:
    what happened to our love gurl! yeen loving me like ya used too! :hug:

    oh i'm still here Dymond :coffee:

  • Dymond

    @ HIS :preach: :coffee:

  • Secret

    @ Dymond and His

    :cosign:

  • mirsmommy

    Heyyyyyy His, bew!!!!! :hug:

    I'm sorry, but these fools here have been working my azz, like a damn slave. :wails: I thought I was supposed to get February off, shyt, it is Black History Month. :lol:

  • http://twitter.com/_imOther_ Mamacita

    I've never understood how people can ASSume someone is unhappy when they've never been around them. They look fine to me and I think his kids are just going through those awkward stages where certain features just have to be grown in to. We all go through it.

    I wonder how people would feel if they saw hundreds of comments on the internet about how "unfortunate" "ugly" or "crazy looking" their children are.

  • His_Mommy623

    @Man, yeah iight...thats why u have the taste in females that u have...u (like most niggas) know EXACTLY who to go after... I'm good how I am bew

    My pride and standards got me an awesome 10 years (and counting) relationship with the hardest working man I know, a wonderful father for my son, a beautiful ass crib that I live in and a peen (a HUGE one) that stands up for ME only so u can be gone with that shyt....keep fcking with birds and see how far u get :bye:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    :rofl: @Mirs

    I'd believe it. :yes:

    #RatStacksSalute
    #RatNation
    #RatTatt

  • mirsmommy

    Mamacita says:

    I’ve never understood how people can ASSume someone is unhappy when they’ve never been around them. They look fine to me and I think his kids are just going through those awkward stages where certain features just have to be grown in to. We all go through it.

    I wonder how people would feel if they saw hundreds of comments on the internet about how “unfortunate” “ugly” or “crazy looking” their children are.
    _____________________________________

    How you been??? :waves:

    Mine have unfortunate heads. :lol:

  • West Coast Chick

    Mamacita says:

    I’ve never understood how people can ASSume someone is unhappy when they’ve never been around them. They look fine to me and I think his kids are just going through those awkward stages where certain features just have to be grown in to. We all go through it.

    I wonder how people would feel if they saw hundreds of comments on the internet about how “unfortunate” “ugly” or “crazy looking” their children are.

    _________________________

    :claps: well stated... and I so agree!

  • His_Mommy623

    good thing my son is a hawt peice o' ass! :yahoo:

  • Secret

    @ Mamacita

    Sometimes you dont have to be around someone to get those feelings. Either you feel it or you dont. It happens. And the kids could be going through that awkward phase. You either grow into or you dont.

  • mirsmommy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Man, yeah iight…thats why u have the taste in females that u have…u (like most niggas) know EXACTLY who to go after… I’m good how I am bew

    My pride and standards got me an awesome 10 years (and counting) relationship with the hardest working man I know, a wonderful father for my son, a beautiful ass crib that I live in and a peen (a HUGE one) that stands up for ME only so u can be gone with that shyt….keep fcking with birds and see how far u get
    ___________________________________

    A billed trip to the doctor's office or clinic due to an, uhhh, itch, or burn????? :lol:

    I'm fuggin with you @Man. :lol:

  • mirsmommy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    good thing my son is a hawt peice o’ ass!
    _________________________

    :lol: My boys are handsome as hail, but those heads are serious!!!! :lol:

  • Dymond

    :rofl: @ HIS
    -------------
    Mamacita says:
    I think his kids are just going through those awkward stages where certain features just have to be grown in to. We all go through it.
    I wonder how people would feel if they saw hundreds of comments on the internet about how “unfortunate” “ugly” or “crazy looking” their children are.

    that was a real nice and mature thing to say :coffee:

  • Zoe B.

    Nessa gotta notepad that keeps track of the mileage in the car, Kobe’s frequent flyer miles, and hotel stays, medical info, shyt, bish prolly be performing physicals, and pap smears (yes, I said paps) on his azz!!!! ------------

    :dead:

  • His_Mommy623

    @Mirs, oh mines has quite a milkdud on those shoulders :rofl:

    but those long ass lashes...grl it makes me sad! I aspire to have his lashes one day *sigh*

  • His_Mommy623

    before I bounced (fa'real this time) I had 2 take another looksie at the family pic up there....yep, still :rofl:

    :nite:

  • West Coast Chick

    Secret says:

    @ West Coast Chick

    I understand about the children but wouldnt it be better for the kids to be surrounded by happiness instead of making a relationship work that you know is not working?

    _____________________________________

    I think we're reaching to say that she's not happy.. I mean, we don't know that. But to stay depends on the situation and the person, I would imagine. I watched the Atlanta housewives reunion last night, pretty much all of em felt the hurt from their kids being raised without a father. It was pretty sad and either way, it can have a negative impact on the kid. .. Speaking from personal experience, I stayed with my daughter's father through some really tough times, and I can honestly say that I DO see the difference in kids ( girls) being raised with their father, than just their mother.. it speaks volume here in CA.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @His

    Get out and stay out!! :kona:

    See you tomorrow. :hugs:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Secret says:

    @ West Coast Chick

    I understand about the children but wouldnt it be better for the kids to be surrounded by happiness instead of making a relationship work that you know is not working?
    _________________

    How do you know their relationship is not working?

  • mirsmommy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Mirs, oh mines has quite a milkdud on those shoulders

    but those long ass lashes…grl it makes me sad! I aspire to have his lashes one day *sigh*
    ________________________

    Your baby has long lashes, too??? Girl, mine got those long, thick, and tightly curled lashes. Girl, my azz be jealous as hail!!! Ready to cut em off, and create a lacefront lashes for myself. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wkEeNpWMvgk YSoSerious

    @WCC

    No we aren't in their relationship but how can a woman possibly be happy with a man she can't trust to be alone around other women? :shrugs:

  • West Coast Chick

    wait a minute..... @ Phrozen.. he sho didnt go to college.. LOL- where did i get that info from? :shrug:
    I swear i thought I heard he had a Black girlfriend ....maybe it was high school??

  • Alex

    It's too many convos going on on SR!!! :wail:

  • Secret

    Sandra Rose says:

    Secret says:

    @ West Coast Chick

    I understand about the children but wouldnt it be better for the kids to be surrounded by happiness instead of making a relationship work that you know is not working?
    _________________

    How do you know their relationship is not working?
    ____________________________________________________________________

    I wasnt talking about Kobe and Vanessa. I was responding to what WCC was saying about women and kids in general.

  • Anna

    109 Phrozen1der says:

    @Anna because Vanessa does’nt like Khloe and will not allow her into the “Sun beams
    ~~~~~~~~~
    Vanessa needs all the friends she can get, she does not come off as a warm person, she needs to either show her true colors like Khole(I'll cut a bytch, if I have to)or let us see that the maids are not the only ppl in her life or her little girls. She could warm up to Khole and get her own spin off. What does she do besides parade around w/her daughters?

  • heavn_sent

    It amazes me how quick people are to call someone ('cuz I don't about people's kids) PRETTY, simply becuase they have curly and fair skin. I'm not saying Alek Wek is the true definition of what beauty should be either..but let's be real. #anybodyremembermonchichis

  • heavn_sent

    curly hair

  • Dymond

    :yes: @ heaven_sent

    i promise if those kids had more afro-centric features we would have 400 comments about how ugly and dark they are

    if i dont think a kid is cute, i say it, for instance, i dont fall all out over halle berry's daughter, she looks mean as hail and her hair is always all over the place

    and no i dont have any and am not in the least bit worried that they may be unfortunate looking because i called someone else's kid noncute

  • SuthernBelle4

    I know it's late, but hey everyone!
    #1 Kobe and Nessa deserve each other, she was looking for a come up and he dumped his girlfriend cause Nessa did some things ole girl couldn't do.
    #2 @heavn_sent I have to agree with you, I don't think the girls are ugly, but they are not cute, pretty, or beautiful- but I don't think Vanessa is all that pretty without makeup.
    #3 Nessa is miserable, Kobe is miserable, and unfortunately those kids may be miserable. I think the only reason Vanessa is not leaving is because she enjoys the perks of being Kobe's wife and she got it in for that negro.
    That is all, I hope everyone enjoys the rest of their hump day

  • Anna

    West Coast Chick says:

    Secret says:

    @ West Coast Chick

    I understand about the children but wouldnt it be better for the kids to be surrounded by happiness instead of making a relationship work that you know is not working?

    _____________________________________

    I think we’re reaching to say that she’s not happy.. I mean, we don’t know that. But to stay depends on the situation and the person, I would imagine. I watched the Atlanta housewives reunion last night, pretty much all of em felt the hurt from their kids being raised without a father. It was pretty sad and either way, it can have a negative impact on the kid. .. Speaking from personal experience, I stayed with my daughter’s father through some really tough times, and I can honestly say that I DO see the difference in kids ( girls) being raised with their father, than just their mother.. it speaks volume here in CA.

    ~~~~~~~~~~
    Should a woman have to stay in a relationship for the sake of the kids? Seems too many women stay and it's not in the best interest of the chid. A kid knows when a parent is unhappy, there does not even have to be fighting. If a woman leaves a relationship w/the kids, is that suppose to automatically give the man a free pass not to parent if he is not in the home????

  • West Coast Chick

    YSoSerious says:

    @WCC

    No we aren’t in their relationship but how can a woman possibly be happy with a man she can’t trust to be alone around other women?
    __________________________

    show me an NBA ball player that CAN be trusted?? LOL rest my case :coffee:
    but seriously, i know plenty of women that are the same way.. its thier insecurity, and it usually has nothing to do with the man.. they'd be the same way if thier man was starvin and broke and nasty looking.. some women are just insecure :shrug:

  • Dymond

    :nite: errbody and be safe

  • West Coast Chick

    ......and its usually the prettiest of women that are extremely insecure

    #noshade beyonce / halle berry

  • Secret

    @ Dymond

    Goodnight

  • heavn_sent

    Beyonce is insecure???

  • Secret

    @ heavn_sent says:

    Beyonce is insecure???

    HOW DID SHE GET PULL IN THE SUBJECT :lol: Please not her today

  • Secret

    @ heavn_sent

    Oops nevermind I saw.

  • West Coast Chick

    @ Anna
    I think each situation is different and the parents needs to figure out what works best for them and their family :shrug: But for you lovely ladies that havent started your family yet... just be careful and choose wisely

  • SuthernBelle4

    @West Coast I see where you are coming from, but working with kids when they live in households like that they act. I don't think being together for the sake of the kids always works because children know when things are wrong

    I said hello to you bishes, I am not saying hello again :coffee:
    I kid, I kid :)

  • SuthernBelle4

    dangit sorry for the errors meant to say, that I know what it is like working with kids living in these type of households, they tend to act out. Sorry guys

  • West Coast Chick

    heavn_sent says:

    Beyonce is insecure???

    ____________________________

    I would love to know Beyonce, I dont know if she's insecure, but I hear via blogs, the same type of stories about her and Jay, and how she cant stand pretty chicks near her man.. I hear she flips out- just using a pretty lady as an example.. same with Halle Berry- beautiful woman- flipped out with her baby daddy over that Kim Kardashian fiasco and KIm aint got NOTHIN on Halle- real talk

  • Daisy

    I so don't like Kobe he is a bitch :rolleyes:

  • Secret

    @ WCC

    What about the child Jay Z reportedly have with that model who looks just like them. This would be another prime example of staying with with someone just because of their money or thinking they could change someone. I think the difference with them and regular folks is they are looking at the money they stand of losing as well as everything thing else.

  • mirsmommy

    Daisy says:

    I so don’t like Kobe he is a ****
    __________________________

    :lol: Well Damn!!! What cuss word did you use??? I don't think I've ever saw you use a bad word before. :lol:

  • West Coast Chick

    @ Secret -yeah- I heard that he has a child.. but he's never seen with him. the child might as well be fatherless- I don't think Jay plays an active role in the child's life.. I bet the mother is hurt over that. I can only imagine how hard it would be for a woman to raise a man alone.

    if the chick was even with Jay to begin with, she should have stayed, maybe her son would have had a real father.. IDK
    - but some chicks thinks they can do it alone.. I don't know , maybe they can- I just believe that since I didn't get myself pregnant, then I shouldn't be forced to raise the child alone- point blank period! And I also know that people grow out of love, but you'll still have a common bond- the children

  • MsSoloDiva

    Hey People...

    Have not posted in a while but this is foolishness.... this just means his a$$ is trying hard not to be tempted in her prescence ... that dont mean he respects her any more than before his dumb a$$ just learned how to pick his battles and not get caught i dont think he has changed like that.

  • Taten1

    Obviously there is no trust in their "relationship" I personally believe without trust you are wasting your time. Everytime he walks out the door do you want to worried about what his doing? When he doesn't pick up his cell do you want to be worrying and thinking what's he upto and with you?

    We know Vanessa is crazy but I think she is also insecure and has really low self esteem to ask such silly requests.. LEAVE HIM nessa and get a fat cheque while you're at it.

  • GoldenGurl

    2012 says:

    @Thetruth32

    Naw, I’m just trying to analyze why we arent making harsher comments on Vanessa like we do others…

    I mean it’s clear that vanessa is a

    Loud

    angry

    insecure

    bat **** crazy broad, but I don’t hear us saying it like we sooooo readily do others.

    Nothing personal, just observation.

    --------------

    You forgot BITTER, black women are always bitter when they are wronged by someone. SMDH

    Damn, Kobe is one UGLY MUTHAFUKKA. Ewww...

  • GoldenGurl

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    Kobe my NIGGA!
    **5 rings and counting my nigga**

    Vanessa is dime. She’s gained a lil weight but she’s still sexy as hail. She has to learn to accept a LITTLE bit of cheating. That comes with territory. But seems like they have a happy balance of discreet cheating/public respect.

    :thumbsup: for happy marriages!

    ---------

    Really? Comes with the territory, huh? :nono: Sounds like an EXCUSE to me. Cheating is a personal decision based on one's moral compass whether that individual is in the NBA or your regular everyday blue collar worker.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    GoldenGurl says:

    Damn, Kobe is one UGLY MUTHAFUKKA. Ewww…
    __________________

    That's your opinion and you're entitled to it. But that man is not ugly. I feel sorry for your kids if they don't measure up to your standards of beauty. Will you call them ugly too? :lol:

  • KDub

    Can you look through your braille e-mails and see if you overlooked one from nessa’s stylist? If so, please share
    ----------------------------------------------------------------
    Vanessa's stylist...Consuela Mercedes Maria Suarez-Lopez...said the following (thanks for telling me she might contact me!)
    ……….:::………:::::::……:::::::………….::: : ::: …………………: ::………………..
    ……….:::::::::: …………………..: ::………………..: ::: …………………: ::………
    ……….:::..:::::……….:::………:::::::……:::::::………….…………………: ::………………..
    …………………..: ::………………..: ::: …………………: …………………..: ::………………..: ::: ……………
    …………………..: :
    ………:::……….:::::::……:::::::………….:

  • KDub

    Translation for the email...

    Dearest KDub,
    I heard that you accept email from the blind so I decided to contact you. I know I was dead wrong for dressing Vanessa in that God awful dress (clutches crucifix). But her and I are from the same barrio and I know that is what she likes! She wore it without fuss! However, I want it to be KNOWN...that the white wedding shoes that are dyed black from Payless were all HER idea. I don't want to be responsible for that shyt.

    Thanks,
    Consuela Mercedes Maria Suarez-Lopez

  • BruhMan5th Flr

    MORNING ALL!!!!!

    :waves:

    Morning Auntie :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dfrJ2qL6gCs&feature=related LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA WONDER WOMAN

    :dead:
    Kwall I see you still at it

  • B

    I would much rather have a man who is strong enough to handle himself in the company of ho's and groupies and all manner of women than to be with a man who has so little self control you have to ban a whole class of sex from his presence.

    This is sad and whether he chose to do this or not speaks volumes about the state of his marriage or lack thereof... a solid union doesn't need to resort to these stupid childish antics.

    I can't believe people are on here saying kudo's to Kobe or Vanessa should know her place - this is why black men so fucked up now - black women we have got to do better and demand respect from our men both by our actions and in the actions we allow from our men towards us.

  • lovinme

    This has nothing to do with race black woman or white woman or in this case Mexicn woman what Vanessa is doing is nothing but Insecurity at its best and Kobe not wanting to give up millions in a divorce..

    Any woman regardless of race doing this is insecure she aint crazy or possesive she is insecure..

  • Kittle

    that is def not respect. If you are unable to come in contact with a female, that's a sign of a weak ass flesh. smh, he's still out there!