Schwarzenegger’s Wife and Mistress Gave Birth 5 Days Apart
He must have been so proud: former California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger’s wife, Maria Shriver, 55, and his mistress of 20 years, Mildred Baena, 50, gave birth to his sons only 5 days apart.
According to London tabloid, The Daily Mail, Baena and Arnold’s son, Tanner Baena, 13, was born on October 2, 1997 in Burbank, California. Maria’s son, Christopher Schwarzenegger, was born on September 27 of that same year.
Schwarzenegger and Shriver have three other children besides Christopher: Katherine, 21, Christina, 19, and Patrick, 17.
A birth certificate obtained by gossip website TMZ.com lists Baena’s then-husband, Rogelio Baena, as Tanner’s father.
The Baena’s divorced in February 2008, supposedly after Rogelio learned his wife had been unfaithful. Mildred Baena has 3 other children besides Tanner — none of whom were fathered by Rogelio.
The Guatamala-born Baena’s duties included cleaning, laundry, cooking and other chores around the Schwarzenegger’s Brentwood mansion. She reportedly began to “pursue Arnold” in the late Nineties.
Schwarzenegger, 63, reportedly had a strong sex drive, and he often had unprotected sex with his maid during the daytime while the rest of his family were out of the house.
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Tanner, who was named after a character in one of his dad’s movies, is said to enjoy sports, school and occasonally goes door-to-door in his neighborhood canvassing for local charities.
Baena’s neighbours described the teenager as “the type of kid you just want to be around. He is so sweet, funny, and handsome.”
Shriver was led to believe Baena was carrying Rogelio’s baby. Reportedly, Baena informed Schwarzenegger that Tanner was his son when the boy was a toddler.
According to TMZ, Shriver found out about her husband’s affair with Baena in January and fired her.
But 6 months before she left his employ, Schwarzenegger bought Baena a $250,000 home in Bakersfield, about 120 miles north of Los Angeles. Neighbors say a real estate agent told them the movie star had purchased the home.
Baena, her children and her new partner, Alex, have not been seen at the home since the story broke worldwide earlier this week.
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Greasy and foul but not surprising
CAN YOU SAY FILTHY!!!! EWWWW BOTH OF THEM, TO SLEEP WITH THIS WOMAN AND YOUR WIFE LOOKS AT HER EVERYDAY AND FOR HER TO SLEEP WITH THIS WOMAN’S HUSBAND KNOWINGLY AND BE SKINNING AND GRINNING IN HER FACE
UGHHHHH-MORALS ARE OFFICIALLY #DEAD#
This ish just keeps getting better and better. SMDH
AMAZING WHAT’S DONE IN THE DARK EVENTUALLY COMES TO LIGHT, DON’T RUN AND HIDE NOW YOU DIDN’T HAVE ANY SHAME WHEN YOU WERE DOING THE DEED
DON’T BE SHAME NOW-FACE THE SCRUTINY!!
yep, still busted back in the day when he was diggin her out
Who’d let Arnold’s old wrinkled azz climb on top of them?? And I thought steroids killed your libido?
Morning folks!
cute kid, wonder how many kid he has floating around… …..
this shyt is just…ugh
JAZZY!
(yes thats ur hair) 
“But 6 months before she left his employ, Schwarzenegger bought Baena a $250 home in Bakersfield, about 120 miles north of Los Angeles.”
$250 home?
And why Arnold? All the women in this world, and you went and laid up with the help? That’s what would crack my head right there.
This chit aint gon never die down….. still waiting for the other women to come forward
Oh she was Right back in the day I would have
in her too 
Schwarzenegger bought Baena a $250 home
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i think there’s something missing. shiiiid i want a $250 home!
Shame! Maria was probably passing her babies hand-me-downs to Patty. Basically funding her own stepchild UNKNOWINGLY!
Just nasty as hail!!!!! Triflin azzes.
Good morning.
CIVIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wonder if she washed the sheets after they did the doo in the wife’s bed WOMEN take notes sometimes it is the “ho” right under your nose!!!!
I always wondered what the terminator saw in maria shriveled besides the kennedy money i mean face it he mad thick so i know he had those old bones rattling in the bed now CONCHITA of course is MEATY she can handle all those ROID -FILLED pelvic thrusts …. OMG i am cracking up here can u imagine him trying to talk sexy with that VOICE
ewww probably passing all kinda other stuff to her too. he’s going around having unprotected sex then hopping in the bed with his wife and knockin her down
intensemocha says:
CAN YOU SAY FILTHY!!!! EWWWW BOTH OF THEM, TO SLEEP WITH THIS WOMAN AND YOUR WIFE LOOKS AT HER EVERYDAY AND FOR HER TO SLEEP WITH THIS WOMAN’S HUSBAND KNOWINGLY AND BE SKINNING AND GRINNING IN HER FACE
UGHHHHH-MORALS ARE OFFICIALLY #DEAD#
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Say word, Intense. Say word.
I would have had to mop the floor with her before I fired her. That shyt turns my stomach. All in my face and around my kids, cooking my food, warshin’ my drawls, living in my house, getting paid my money and you screwing my husband? AND you got the nerbs to look like Molly Weasley from Harry Potter? GTFOH.
I’da mopped the basement, bathroom, kitchen, den, AND the patio wit’ dat azz.
And Arnold would have came up missing. I’da told the news the Terminator got him. IJS.
Mirs whats up baby? How you today lookin all good and ungangsta
Even though I despise Michael Baisden, he made a good point yesterday about the convience of the maid. Arnold wasn’t looking for a dime piece, he was just looking for something that was there when he needed it. If the maid isn’t easy access then I don’t know what is!
BROWN!!!!!
IF THIS ISH WAS ME………..they would definitely have to move me outta state BECAUSE I would have to kick off in both Arnold’s and the ex-maid’s ass! Arnold because – nygga, how dare you downgrade to a pudgy, wide-nose & hand beast that smells like Pine-sol & Arm & Hammer ALL DAYUM DAY! AND THE BEAST because – HOE, YOU KNOW THAT SHYT IS FOUL…you probably all up in my face talking about pregnancies and that fact that we are both due around the same time! AND I would even have to cut Ahhhhnold because, dude, you’re gonna let her stay employed & retire from us so she can collect Retirement Benefits AFTER you’ve been diggin’ her out! I’M SO APPALLED LIKE I’M PHUCKING MARIA OR SOMETHING….OKAY TATTED…TAKE A MOMENT!
Low down dirty dog!!!
@Blu… Gloria Allred has been retained by a woman who claims to have be having annual “trysts” with Arnold for “quite some time” at one of his charity functions..
must be ya azz cause it ain’t ya face
My thing is Arnold is a married man!!! If you are gonna get out there especially with him being a public figure, why wouldn’t you use protection? I can’t believe that peeps still have so much reckless sex.
@ Candi
I want one Too they look real nice! 
give me two of them I’ll rent one out
This makes my stomach turn. That is so trashy of the both of them.
Heyyyyyyy Civil
Long time, no comment. 
What it do???
Princess Pleasure Me says:
@Blu… Gloria Allred has been retained by a woman who claims to have be having annual “trysts” with Arnold for “quite some time” at one of his charity functions..
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Ohhhhh….well damn. I wonder how many more will come forward
mirs
Yellow1 says:
Even though I despise Michael Baisden…
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He DID write a couple good books, though.
Shameful! What a disgrace
that damn boy looks like Conan right there
Candi!!!!!!!
What it do?????
It is what it is…
“Schwarzenegger bought Baena a $250 home in Bakersfield”.
@ Mirs It do whatever you need it to do.
candibfly says:
yep, still busted back in the day when he was diggin her out
Mr.BluPhi says:
This chit aint gon never die down….. still waiting for the other women to come forward
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Hello All. I don’t really understand why people are acting like they’re so shocked about this whole affair, especially black folks. Back in the day, black folks were fu@king, and they still are! (Richard Pyror 40 yrs ago: There will never be a shortage of ni@@ers ’cause ni@@ers are fu@king!) Take a friend of mine, 10 siblings. When her mother’s husband died after she’d had 4 children, she got pregnant by 3 different men, some married, and had 6 more children. My friend said she used to spend the night with her half sisters and didn’t even know they were her half sisiters til she was grown. The mother of the half sisters, did she know that her husband was screwing cross town and bringing his kids to their house to spend the night with their chidren? Probably. It ain’t as bad as fu@king right under the same roof but the outcome is the same: children. Peace.
the maid smiling in maria’s face all that time with arnold’s dyck on her breath #trife
@Princess Pleasure Me- yeah, but its his voice and the way he cuts people off on his show that urks me. I can’t stand people that think they know everything and will dog everyone else’s opinions. He is quick to ask what people think, but mock it at the same time.
PAHairston says:
did she know that her husband was screwing cross town and bringing his kids to their house to spend the night with their chidren?
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Who did he say the kids were? Hail, Matt kept Kelly at home with Beyonce and Solange…
the maid smiling in maria’s face all that time with arnold’s dyck on her breath #trife
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We still on this tragic looking/shaped hoe?
Who thought cause she changed the sheets it was okay for her to get betwix them with the mister?
She was the most hit azz looking preggers woman OF ALL FUGGIN TIME.
candibfly says:
the maid smiling in maria’s face all that time with arnold’s dyck on her breath #trife
May 19, 2011 at 10:54 am
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mrsloveleighwilliams says:
that damn boy looks like Conan right there
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I don’t think it was really about the looks with Arnold but more so about the thrill of having secret sex with someone in your own home.
candibfly says:
yep, still busted back in the day when he was diggin her out
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@Yellow1 Dang! What kind of show does he host?
CandiPants and #44…
Lexdiamonz says: @mrsloveleighwilliams GRAVI
You know you like my baby Arnold
That heffa shaped like a Teletubbie.
The red one.
The Baena’s divorced in February 2008, supposedly after Rogelio learned his wife had been unfaithful. Mildred Baena has 3 other children besides Tanner — none of whom were fathered by Rogelio.
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chich been gettin it in. sound like she got a high sex drive to me as well. her and arnold was prob fuggin in the pool, on the roof, on top of the washing machine
@ Princess Pleasure Me – He does a radio show in the afternoo/evenings. I try to listen to him when I’m in my car, but then he starts talking crazy. Whote women do this, black women do that, men are great because of this, young people have sex this way. Everything is an opinion and if your opinion is not similar to his, you get disconnected. It was funny at first, then it just got annoying.
Soooooo @AL, are you saying that, *in my best TI voice* “i could have whatever I like??”
GROSS
Another fake azz republican trying to act all “family valuish & ish
They’re throwing this “news” around because they don’t want us talking about the debt ceiling.
BRB
This whole situation makes me SUPER NAUSEOUS!!!
Arnold must have really hated his wife.
Hey mirs!! I had to make it to summer to start commenting again…school’s out!! How have you been?
I think we are more shocked at the fact that he kept a child secret for so damn long! Well at least I am.
@ Mirs
That mistress is shaped just like a damn box truck.
dis chit gettn greasier by the second
smh
I’ll be glad when the rest of them come out so this can be over and done with
I’ll be glad when the rest of them come out so this can be over and done with
The more I think about this situation, I can’t help but feel this is the most foul sh!t any person can do to anyone!. Yes, Ray Ray and Tyrone may display this type of behavior in the hood on the daily however it doesn’t make it right. While everyone is out being selfish and “getting theirs”, no one is sitting back to think about the children and how our decisions affect them. Hell, a lifetime can be ruined in thirty pumps or less. It’s not worth it to me……
Shame! Maria was probably passing her babies hand-me-downs to Patty. Basically funding her own stepchild UNKNOWINGLY!
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Said at that baby shower…where she looking like Grimace the big azz purpa thing from McDonalds….that Arnold and Maria sent MAD gifts!
I expect some of Maria’s female cousins from Boston and Hyannis Port to show up ANY-T day now in Bakersfield…to hire somebody to drag Patti’s azz. They are Kennedy women so they too rich and classy to do it they ownself! Might not show up. Sure it can be handled with a call.
@ Candi I know right but she hit the Jack Pot with Tanner though
@Civil, i’ve been good, and behaving myself.
@AL, I’n with it.
*I’m
The kids are probably close friends too!
Men, I tell ya….
How didn’t Maria know about the big money being spent.
Mirs, Maria might need somebody like Fancy to choke both them jokers out…
I doubt it @mirs
@ Mirs i knew what you meant and you could get it typos and all!
Question, they practically impeached Bill for sleeping with an intern… Have they said anything about teminiating the Terminator for the extra kid?
*methinkstheyscared*
Its humiliating but as I said before I believe Maria knew for sometime about this situation, but decided being the Governor’s wife was more important….when he left office thats when it hit the fan…this is some kind of KARMA..but whose KARMA is it….Maria’s or Arnold’s…hmmmmm
Damn shame she getting them for RETIREMENT, UNEMPLOYMENT AND CHILD SUPPORT! This bish done hit the jackpot! All these gold diggin, groupie bishes got it ALL WRONG!
#bouttoquitmyjobandbecomeanannygetpreggarsgetfiredandretirebeforeim40
Yall
they had separate accounts
twin! *presents u with a hand sewn monokini for the beach this summer made of recycled crown royal bags and mad dog 20/20 bottle caps*
There’s more to this story! I think Arnold is still hitting it til this day!
@WUT &YA’LLCRAZY HOW YA’LL LADIES??
This is gross and I just wouldn’t want Arnold in any fashion – she is looking hagard and suspect – this chit is ridicously sloppy
she prolly doin it froggy style to arnold as we speak *barfs*
lexdiamonz says:
I wonder if she washed the sheets after they did the doo in the wife’s bed WOMEN take notes sometimes it is the “ho” right under your nose!!!!
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You’ll be alright if you consider ALL peen to be shared community property.
Not that it matters but that Chick aint got nothing on Maria!
Candi I’m send you an email about aonther potential 6 percent pay cut
86 QuettaV says:
There’s more to this story! I think Arnold is still hitting it til this day!
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Of course he is. She is getting both paid and laid… Arny was smart he knew if he stopped doing any of that she would have told on him long ago! I am willing to bet her salary went throught the roof when he was the Governor.
*faints*
lawd why brown?
*thinks up some numbers for the lotto*
CANDIBFLY!!! U do the most suga, make ya guhl on a dem chit sound hawt
Where in the Hell can I find me a $250 home?!!!
AND
That Mistress was cutting up wit her out of shape looking self! The husband left you because you was unfaithful…
NONE of the kids were HIS (The Husband’s)!!! LMBO…
WHAT?!!! Wheretheydothatat…
Hiya CFREEE!
How are you!!!
al
them bags are so versatile. this chick in high school was using one as a pencil bag.
Yellow1 says:
Arnold wasn’t looking for a dime piece, he was just looking for something that was there when he needed it.
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Which proves my point that most married men who cheat don’t care what a chick looks like, as long as she has a working vagina and walks upright.
cfrizzle i got u!
u gon be turnin heads at the beach this simma
@QuettaV
Of course he is!
Which proves my point that most married men who cheat don’t care what a chick looks like, as long as she has a working vagina and walks upright.
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I will give you this cuz my ex hubby used to cheat with some dogs #RUFFRUFF
*holding my gift to my chest* Awww Candi, thank you.
Brown, she sposed to been nosey though. She’s got Kennedy money, shoot now I’m thinking that she did know.
That boy looks just like him… Hmmp
Candi, froggy style? Y u say that? i got a visual
@AL
thanks a lot Al
She probably smells of thick double-knit polyester and mothballs
So the “Botox Mom” made that whole story up for $$$
She said she never gave her kid botox and the tabloid “The Sun” paid her to do it. Doctors did tests on the little girl and confirmed that she was never given botox. woooooowwwwwwwwwww
prynsexxx says:
Damn shame she getting them for RETIREMENT, UNEMPLOYMENT AND CHILD SUPPORT! This bish done hit the jackpot! All these gold diggin, groupie bishes got it ALL WRONG!
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I so agree!!!
@ Smurfette what up guhl!
intensemocha says:
AMAZING WHAT’S DONE IN THE DARK EVENTUALLY COMES TO LIGHT, DON’T RUN AND HIDE NOW YOU DIDN’T HAVE ANY SHAME WHEN YOU WERE DOING THE DEED
DON’T BE SHAME NOW-FACE THE SCRUTINY!!
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Now she wants to go into hiding…but she wasn’t hiding when she was all up in Maria’s house f–king her Husband. Nasty heifer! UGH!
She said she never gave her kid botox and the tabloid “The Sun” paid her to do it. Doctors did tests on the little girl and confirmed that she was never given botox. woooooowwwwwwwwwww
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SMDH at desperados
How didn’t Maria know about the big money being spent.
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The money being spent woulda been a clue…yes…but that won’t the problem. Problem had already happened by the time the money was gone. And the REAL “problem” was downstairs dusting probably…..
whatnow says:
Arnold must have really hated his wife.
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Not necessarily. I’m sure he loves her very much. Studies show that it’s not natural (or healthy) to ask a man to be faithful to just one female. Look it up.
Yall I dont think her Kennedy money is more than the 300 million he’s worth!
I was watchin ENtertainment Tonight and they were at some event and asked Jane Seymour what she thought about it and you could tell she was holdin back but she led on that it was well known he was a cheater
Cfree, you took the words right outta my mouth (keyboard)…
Froggystyle though? She’s definitely not a “Spinner” though
Hell, this bad body bish probably can’t even do froggystyle
Sandra Rose says:
Which proves my point that most married men who cheat don’t care what a chick looks like, as long as she has a working vagina and walks upright
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….and walking upright doesn’t always have to be a factor. Man on trial RIGHT NOW b/c he done humped a chick with MS….she was bedridden. Some say he was a cop, others say he was a nurse, either way, she couldn’t walk!
Another man was just sentenced……he had been screwing dead corpses while working as a morgue attendant.
#walkinguprightisanonmuthafukkinfactor
Please I bet you Arnold told her azz to go into hiding so that Kennedy old money won’t find her arse in someone’s body of water – he is protecting her and his child Im sure – that bish put a hex on his azz
yallcrazy says:
How didn’t Maria know about the big money being spent
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As rich as she is I’m sure she probably didn’t even notice it. This whole situation is so dirty!
WUT im Super good!
nah im lying a bish in PMS”N ready to go HAM at any given moment 
@ Mirs right back at you baby
@twin big chicks be limber as hell!
ella from house of payne can do a split
Kdub says:
And the REAL “problem” was downstairs dusting probably…..
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The hoe wasn’t dusting shat but the cobwebs off her puzzay!
@Ya’ll comment 116
They said that Maria found a sex tape in her house said they taped over Kindergarden Cop
Uggghh, stop with the visuals…
renegadesince1985 says:
So the “Botox Mom” made that whole story up for $$$
She said she never gave her kid botox and the tabloid “The Sun” paid her to do it. Doctors did tests on the little girl and confirmed that she was never given botox. woooooowwwwwwwwwww
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Guess she made a come up??
Al, shatt up, you play too much. You almost had me too
Guess she made a come up??
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Same thought here! Geez, only in m’effin America can a nobody (that ain’t ish) be somebody and then the rest is history…. $$$$$$$
Kids 5 days apart and Arnold didn’t think it was his…:no: Them celebs like to party with their help, so I know the kids played together at some point. Even though it wasn’t confirmed they all knew.
Damn arnold was G,
the maid while the fam was out and then made her clean up after that is some baby boy ish right there. Probably told her after go make me a sandwich after you clean the bedroom and kitchen
They said he used to stuff her cooter with roids and go “get” them said she is suing cuse her cotter is angry and big
Sandra Rose says:
whatnow says:
Arnold must have really hated his wife.
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Not necessarily. I’m sure he loves her very much. Studies show that it’s not natural (or healthy) to ask a man to be faithful to just one female. Look it up.
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BUT one can choose to be faithful if they want to. We ALL have choices.
All this cheating talk made me think of this question
Can you be in Love with more than one person?
old singer engaged in numerous sex acts included sodomy and Urolagnia.
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This just in about Raz B – Beijing China is looking for him for having sex with a 15 y o boy – what does Urolagnia mean – Sandra? Anyone?
Forget it – he basically pee’d on him!
@ Choco Im not sure but I really want to know now
scared to type it in though 
Clarifications:
#127 was for Candi’s #122
That was a joke, right?
&
#129 was for Al’s #126<–
@Knowledge, he ain't no g. Hmmp and
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@AL
It’s a sexual fetish involving urination but they made that chit sound FOREIGN with that word!
TheRealAshland says:
cute kid, wonder how many kid he has floating around… …..
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I was watching Joy Behar(sic) the other night and one of her guest said that Arnie has at least two other children besides the one with the maid.
Arnie should have wrapped it up.
So, uhh, RazB is like rkelly?
(but w/boys…)
*hanging head low* I do believe that you can be “in love” with more than one person at the same time.
*sends His a softdrink to wake her up*
ALBoy says:
She probably riding Arnolds face reading Sandra Rose right now!
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2011 is another year of the celebrity scandal.
@ Choco thanks I figured that but I thought it was gone be like peeing inside some one or something
ALBoy says:
All this cheating talk made me think of this question
Can you be in Love with more than one person?
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I would say yes, because everyone is different. What made u luv one person may not be what works for the next. Some people start with physical attraction and other’s are from mental, or spiritual. My final answer is yes.
“Guess who’s bizzzzack”
What yall tawkin bout????
They said that Maria found a sex tape in her house said they taped over Kindergarden Cop
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All this cheating talk made me think of this question
Can you be in Love with more than one person?
I think so..although I think u will always be in love less with one than the other..
@ Rod I just hope the other chicks arent sick faced like big Patti!
This just in about Raz B – Beijing China is looking for him for having sex with a 15 y o boy
we get a Razzberry Beret (Raz B) post….let the fluckrery begin!
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@Al
I know becuz of spelling
I don’t think you can be in love with more than one person I think you can love more than one person but not be in love!
Last year I fell in love with this guy for a couple months..I’ve been married a few years though..
im reading all of the comments and ctfu!
guys/people aint chit i tell you! but everyone involved needs there butts whooped! even maria b/c if you knew and just rocked with it to be the govenors wife! smdh ooh hell 2 the naw! little fufi is a trife whore she needs immagration called on that ass!
ALBoy says:
All this cheating talk made me think of this question
Can you be in Love with more than one person?
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Great question AL!
I certainly have, but I always hear others say it’s not possible.
I know one thing, I never want to be in that place again.
The shyt ain’t fun.
@ yallC thanks and hey, it was a joke he was smashing the help in the house while the fam was gone. that has to classify you as something BOLD, stupid but BOLD none the less. plus you told maria about the child later and she was preggo the same time, maria had yours. then on top of it the maid told wife it was hubby at the time. Both of you were Bold as a mofo. it kinda does rank up there as G status. Getting it in, in the same house under maria nose.
Maria really deserves to be able to haul and whoop this helfas ass. I usually don’t believe in getting mad at the other women cause she wasn’t standing on the altar with me. BUT in this case. They were probably both all excited when they were pregnant. Probably bought her a baby present when HER HUSBAND WHORE HAD HIS BABY!! Fluck fish grease what’s hotter than fish grease???? that’s where I would be.
ALBoy says:
All this cheating talk made me think of this question
Can you be in Love with more than one person?
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Yes
So no one is gonna ask about $250 house. Did I read it wrong? Did he get a major discount because he was the governor ??
Well, at least the boy got his looks from his papa, cause ole girl is…. I can’t even go there, but at least the kid is cute!
Can you be in Love with more than one person?
Can you be in love with more than 1 person?
Can I?
@ Mirs we taling bout how Edith Bunker was riding Arnold in Marias bed. I asked a question can you be In Love with more than one person?
I think you can have the same amount of love for more than one person.
I think you can be In Love with more than one.
Ladies when you say you were in love with one than one person I believe @FAY said for a couple of months is this being in love or lust #GREAT QUESTION AL becuz now I want to explore further for my own info
Blu you don’t see those other 0′s?
I honestly dont believe there is a difference in love In vs Just Love I see Love as Love period.
just me though
@OHONEY
That’s what is Im incapable of being in love with two men – I’m in love with a man now and won’t move forward with a real relationship becuz I am – and becuz of this I’m sorta in a holding pattern that I don’t want to be – but when Im on dates with other guys all I think about is him – so I know I can’t be in love with two different men -
My ex has 2 babies that are 2 days apart…now why he cant make headlines?
ALBOY get the fluk out k? Edith Bunker? u aint right
ALBoy says:
@ Mirs we taling bout how Edith Bunker was riding Arnold in Marias bed. I asked a question can you be In Love with more than one person?
I think you can have the same amount of love for more than one person.
I think you can be In Love with more than one.
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If you are or were in Love with more than one person how do you choose? I mean how do you stop with one and keep the other?
@ Mirs can I taste your drink
@AL for me there is a difference I love my ex husband and care for his well being but I’m not in love with him – the feelings I have for him as just loving him don’t compare to the feelings I have when Im in love
Hey
Topic:
I see blu forgot his helmet
KayCeiSoul, Fayla, and ValerieB1 care to share your life experiences with other women of the same peer group? <<<< see what I did there?
VAL, cuz a diff nig wud make headlines E’r day!!! dawg azz niccas
My ex has 2 babies that are 2 days apart…now why he cant make headlines?
is it becuz you didn’t go H A M on him 
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@ Mirs we taling bout how Edith Bunker was riding Arnold in Marias bed. I asked a question can you be In Love with more than one person?
I think you can have the same amount of love for more than one person.
I think you can be In Love with more than one.
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I agree..also I think that if a marriage has any longevity it’s almost inevitable for an affair to occur, on either mate’s part..jmo
@2know, he still ain’t a g
(just messin’ with ya-I knew you were joking yo)
<<<< see what I did there?
lawd this brings back memories PHROZEN we miss u bruh
Sup OHoney Chile
Filthy is not the word to describe his actions that’s being nice! 5 day’s apart and she only found out the truth 20 yrs later??? Did she ever look at the boy once and see Arnolds smile that didn’t cue her off? Or maybe the way the boys hair grows outta his head just like his daddy?? Maria had to be on 3 Valums a day or something to not catch that???….
Hey CFREE wuz good?
@AL
Ditto – it’s make me vulnerable to an extent but I know when and if you don’t deserve me being in love with you – I will leave!
OHoney says:
Blu you don’t see those other 0’s?
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Ohhhh…..I coulda sworn it said $250, and since no one said anything, I thought maybe that was normal in LA…but in my defense I was tryin to blog and teach…LOL
I would kill Arnold this chick has control/ access to the food I eat she could get mad one day and spit in my food just cause she’s sleeping whit my husband! Yea I would have def had to rip him a new one after this jewel came out!
Fayla says:
I agree..also I think that if a marriage has any longevity it’s almost inevitable for an affair to occur, on either mate’s part..jmo
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I hear this all the time My question is How could you or do you forgive a person that you love that cheats on you. I mean do you ever really let it go or do you push it down?
@Kei
*construction worker whistle @ ya*
Mr.BluPhi says:
OHoney says:
Blu you don’t see those other 0’s?
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it did say $250 before
but in my defense I was tryin to blog and teach…LOL
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You shouldn’t try to multitask when teaching you are wasting taxpayers money
@CHOCO… I went HAM just didnt want a doc number at the sheriff office. He didnt make them on me…or that would have been breaking news
@Kei … lmfaooooo. Naw must have read it wrong…lol
Haha
@ Cfree
ALBoy says:
If you are or were in Love with more than one person how do you choose? I mean how do you stop with one and keep the other?
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As my brother once told me, “If you can’t decide between the two, you have the wrong two”. LOL.
ALBoy says:
If you are or were in Love with more than one person how do you choose? I mean how do you stop with one and keep the other?
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Eventually I got a glimpse of some things that I knew I couldn’t handle from one of them, and that made the choice. Plus, even though I was in love with two people, or loved two people, however you want to state it, I could never really split myself equally between the two, no matter how I tried. Somebody is going to feel that shortage, and that’s when it goes down badly.
Hi Ohoney
It’s actually happened twice in my marriage that I’ve caught feeling for another man. 1st time (2003) we were separated & living apart. Hubby knew all about it..2nd time (last year) he doesn’t know about & while we were separated again, we were still living under the same roof that time. It was totally unplanned & really did just happen. We both fell hard actually, & we’re both married. We live in different states though which makes it easier..
ALBoy says:
Fayla says:
I agree..also I think that if a marriage has any longevity it’s almost inevitable for an affair to occur, on either mate’s part..jmo
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I hear this all the time My question is How could you or do you forgive a person that you love that cheats on you. I mean do you ever really let it go or do you push it down?
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This convo is one of the main reasons I’m not trippin about being married. He and I need to be on the same page when it comes to this. Infedelity in a relationship is much less serious than in a marriage.
I’ve been engaged once and I did not hesitate to call it off when I saw the signs
@AL
I’ve been there you push it down until you have to let him go! I don’t believe there is a place for cheating in any relationship or marriage. I think once you’ve done that you sorta took the sacredness out of marriage. I didn’t marry after I left my ex hubby becuz I didn’t want to feel as though I was joking myself when taking my vows…
2 Cfree What happen to Phrozen? Dont nobody know him email him?
AL so you daddy aint chit either huh?
<< smh
OHoney, im making just tryna get thru this difficult time
ALBoy says:
If you are or were in Love with more than one person how do you choose? I mean how do you stop with one and keep the other?
@ Mirs can I taste your drink
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I chose, married, adopted a baby, had a baby, and got recently separated with one love, all while the other was/is still in my heart.
Of course you can taste my drink
@Kei, bring Jonah back, if just for 5 minutes….
candibfly says:
Mr.BluPhi says:
OHoney says:
Blu you don’t see those other 0’s?
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it did say $250 before
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Oh ok. I never saw it say $250
Me being a former other woman, it’s pissing me off that people keep calling her whore’s and shyt. I understand your not supposed to cheat, but shyt happens. I feel sorry for the maid, she had to hold that in for years. Not only her “relationship”, her feelings, and her child. U have to try to act cool and not show signs, you’re on 24 hour alert. You have to make the choice whether u want to be happy or try to keep everybody else, happy but u. Most people settle for what they have and complain the whole time they’re together. It’s easy to “he’s married”, but it’s not easy to just give either of them up.
Maria looked just as bad as the maid back then. They both got on them ugly azz flower dresses that pregnant people wore then. The maid’s hair is actually better looking than Maria’s.
I just had to get that off my chest….carry on
*your
Mr.BluPhi says:
@Kei … lmfaooooo. Naw must have read it wrong…lol
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surprisingly u were right this time
As my brother once told me, “If you can’t decide between the two, you have the wrong two”. LOL.
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PSA:
I f someone offers you gum or a mint theres a reason behind it. Goodness, I wanna tap this chick on her shoulder and tell her mouth smells like she’s been eating bbq cow chips…
#random
Cfreeeeeeee what’s the matta hun?
ALBoy says:
Fayla says:
I agree..also I think that if a marriage has any longevity it’s almost inevitable for an affair to occur, on either mate’s part..jmo
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I hear this all the time My question is How could you or do you forgive a person that you love that cheats on you. I mean do you ever really let it go or do you push it down?
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I forgave, but never forgot.
Im not judging that Hagard Witch – Arnold played his role -
@Yall
He’s with my parents until 6 I’ll then fedex him to you….
I hear this all the time My question is How could you or do you forgive a person that you love that cheats on you. I mean do you ever really let it go or do you push it down?
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In all honesty, my husband cheated 1st & No, u never rly get over it. U CAN push it down, but it nvr goes away. There will always be a reminder. The only way it will work is if the person who cheated is 100% remorseful & the person cheated on wants to continue the marriage for w/e reason. I will say for myself, If we didn’t have our son I wouldn’t still be married to him & that’s real talk. But it doesn’t mean I don’t love him or have my moments when I feel how it was when we 1st got together. I just don’t think I’m the marriage type. I don’t think it suits me..
@Bigbadwolf it’s good to hear a point of view from the other side. That is the only nice thing I have to say.
Forgetting about an infidelity imo is brushing the real problem under the rug – when I cheated on my ex hubby it’s becuz he was not satisfying me on many levels not to mention I had my own suspicions after 3 years of trying to make it work – I opted to be out – Some couples are strong enough to survive someone being unfaithful – some are not – and that’s because the relationship itself wasn’t strong imo
Which proves my point that most married men who cheat don’t care what a chick looks like, as long as she has a working vagina and walks upright.
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WELL I HEARD OF A CHICK LOCALLY THAT’S A PARAPALEGIC AND SHE’S PREGNANT NO MAN/HUSBAND IN SIGHT, RUMOR HAS IT SHE’S PREGNANT BY A MARRIED MAN
TALKING BOUT SHE HAS A RIGHT TO GET HER SWERVE ON AND HAVE A BABY IF SHE WANT
QUESTION IS CAN THEY FEEL IT, IS THEIR VA JAY JAY FUNCTIONAL/OR WITH NERVES/FEELINGS ETC IF THEY’RE A PARAPALEGIC????? INQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW OR AT LEAST I DO-PRAY FOR ME
I just don’t think I’m the marriage type. I don’t think it suits me..
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Then what will you do it sounds as if you stayed for your child and not for you?
Kei says:
@Yall
He’s with my parents until 6 I’ll then fedex him to you….
but a gravi pic will do, just want to see how big he’s gotten.
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Fayla says:
I just don’t think I’m the marriage type. I don’t think it suits me..
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You had to get married to figure that out? That’s a serious question, I’m not trying to be rude.
so in you knowing that you spouse cheated does that make you more likely to cheat (tit for tat) or do you say I dont want to be like that and I want it to work?
@BBW
Thanks for sharing but me personally I wouldn’t ever want to be the other woman! A casual fling is different the other woman is getting the short end of the stick…
intensemocha says:
Which proves my point that most married men who cheat don’t care what a chick looks like, as long as she has a working vagina and walks upright.
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WELL I HEARD OF A CHICK LOCALLY THAT’S A PARAPALEGIC AND SHE’S PREGNANT NO MAN/HUSBAND IN SIGHT, RUMOR HAS IT SHE’S PREGNANT BY A MARRIED MAN
TALKING BOUT SHE HAS A RIGHT TO GET HER SWERVE ON AND HAVE A BABY IF SHE WANT
QUESTION IS CAN THEY FEEL IT, IS THEIR VA JAY JAY FUNCTIONAL/OR WITH NERVES/FEELINGS ETC IF THEY’RE A PARAPALEGIC????? INQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW OR AT LEAST I DO-PRAY FOR ME
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On a serious note, a high school classmate’s Grandfather was paralyzed from the waist down, and he was still able to “get up.” The Grandparents had four more kids after he was paralyzed.
So yeah, that area still functions.
@AL
For me it was both until you wake up one day and be like Naaaahhhh – the trust is totally crucified and I don’t see how a couple can survive once that’s gone
Choco aka Hippie says:
but in my defense I was tryin to blog and teach…LOL
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You shouldn’t try to multitask when teaching you are wasting taxpayers money
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lmfaoooooo…. Ive checked out. We got 15 days left
Then what will you do it sounds as if you stayed for your child and not for you?
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I am doing it for my child. He didn’t ask to come here, that was our choice so I won’t make him suffer for our mistakes. He’s only 6 so I will wait until he’s stable enough to handle the split. We don’t have a typical “bad” marriage, meaning, we don’t have argument drama etc. We laugh & have fun & all that..it feels like we are more friends to me (with a healthy sex life to boot
I think after his affair I chose not to fully love the way I am capable. I will only allow my heart to go so far into it nahmean?
ALBoy says:
so in you knowing that you spouse cheated does that make you more likely to cheat (tit for tat) or do you say I dont want to be like that and I want it to work?
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I never cheated. I was gettin down when me and Hubby (before we were married) were on breaks.
@ Intense there is a chick here like that paralyzed from the waist down be at all the clubs dudes regular beating her down she got pregnant and had dudes fighting at the hospital because she lied
I wanted to know if she could feel it too. :shame: not really
@ Mirs you where on a break huh
I feel you Ma!
Choco aka Hippie says:
@BBW
Thanks for sharing but me personally I wouldn’t ever want to be the other woman! A casual fling is different the other woman is getting the short end of the stick…
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I know many women who prefer to be the other woman. They don’t have to hear all the nagging, they don’t have to cook but get taken out to eat, they don’t have to wash his dirty draws, they don’t have to hear him bytching about the bills. When they are done w/him they can send him home to his wife.
I think after his affair I chose not to fully love the way I am capable. I will only allow my heart to go so far into it nahmean?
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Yes I do – and I understand the complexity behind it all GOD BLESS!
ALBoy says:
@ Mirs you where on a break huh I feel you Ma!
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You had to get married to figure that out? That’s a serious question, I’m not trying to be rude.
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I gotcha..& yes most def bc I hadn’t been married before & didn’t know what all it really & truly entails. It’s def not for the faint of heart & if/when this one ends, I will NVR do it again. I will be content having a boyfriend who has his own living space.
#toofreespirited
I know many women who prefer to be the other woman. They don’t have to hear all the nagging, they don’t have to cook but get taken out to eat, they don’t have to wash his dirty draws, they don’t have to hear him bytching about the bills. When they are done w/him they can send him home to his wife.
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That’s good for them wouldn’t work for me! I don’t have to do all that either unless I wanted to
she got pregnant and had dudes fighting at the hospital because she lied
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DAYUM SHE MUST HAVE SOME BOMB ISH-WOW THEY OBVIOUSLY LIKE IT
EWWW, BUT THE PARAPALEGIC I’M TALKING ABOUT HAS A COLOSTOMY BAG AND CATHER-EWWWWWWWWWW
eww
OPPS CATHETER
Fayla how old were you when you got married?
so in you knowing that you spouse cheated does that make you more likely to cheat (tit for tat) or do you say I dont want to be like that and I want it to work?
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in my case, no. In fact, I waited 6 years later b4 I had my own thing. I really didn’t want to “sink to his level” but it happened..
I think that the “other woman” should be a far away secret &
I think they only become refered to as “whores” when people find out.
Hey, it’s the truth
#toofreespirited
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I am like that now but as I age I do want a partner in life – I don’t know about a marriage becuz I think I’ve been unmarried for two long and have become so independent I would object to it for fear it would change me – and then there’s the silly little girl in me that justs wants the hoopla of a wedding #IM GOOD THO!
Fayla how old were you when you got married?
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24 y/o..too young for me..i nvr wanted to get married before i turned 30. but when i met my husband that idea changed..
I KNOW SLAP ME PUHLEEZE-
I’M GOING TO PUT MYSELF IN THE CORNER 
intensemocha says:
she got pregnant and had dudes fighting at the hospital because she lied
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DAYUM SHE MUST HAVE SOME BOMB ISH-WOW THEY OBVIOUSLY LIKE IT
EWWW, BUT THE PARAPALEGIC I’M TALKING ABOUT HAS A COLOSTOMY BAG AND CATHER-EWWWWWWWWWW
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Ewwwwww,
Folks will sleep with any and errythang just to get the nut off. 
Marriage….I fear it
these conversations aren’t helping.
You can visualize all you want about “your” marriage but when you speak to people that are already married, though their stories vary, it is an eye opener
@Yall
I got you on the pic mama
OMG I got married at 19 and left him at 23 he didn’t grant me a divorce until I was 28…
WOW Choco really?!!
@OHONEY
Don’t let anyone elses experiences deter you from marriage if it something you want outta life every relationship is different….
So once you “sinked to his level” did it make you understand a little better how it happened with him?
Marriage….I fear it these conversations aren’t helping.
You can visualize all you want about “your” marriage but when you speak to people that are already married, though their stories vary, it is an eye opener
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VERY TRUE, YOU HAVE NO IDEA MARRIED LAST YEAR AND WHAT I VISUALIZED/EXPECTED IS DEFINITELY DIFFERENT FROM WHAT IT ACTUALLY IS
ALOT OF COMPROMISING-MOSTLY ON THE WOMAN’S PART IMO
Choco aka Hippie says:
I know many women who prefer to be the other woman. They don’t have to hear all the nagging, they don’t have to cook but get taken out to eat, they don’t have to wash his dirty draws, they don’t have to hear him bytching about the bills. When they are done w/him they can send him home to his wife.
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That’s good for them wouldn’t work for me! I don’t have to do all that either unless I wanted to
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It wouldn’t work for me either. This just goes to show that some ppl really have a misconception on marriage, it’s not a life sentence, or a everyday chore. I could not marry someone who is not willing to contribute to the household. Marriage has to be wanted by both spouses.
@OHONEY
Yes I had our daughter at 16 and I had been dating him since 13 very young I know and I lived life in the fast lane only it suited me – I was really mature for my age as soon as I moved out of my momz house we eloped
Choco aka Hippie says:
@OHONEY
Don’t let anyone elses experiences deter you from marriage if it something you want outta life every relationship is different….
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Yada yada yada
I understand what you’re saying but If I see you burn your hand on the stove please believe I don’t have to touch it to know it’s hot.
I want to get married one day…..I can wait though until I am sure I have found a man that has the same morals and values as I do. Im 27….maybe 30
@OHONEY
Don’t let anyone elses experiences deter you from marriage if it something you want outta life every relationship is different….
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Every single relationship is different, & every person is different. But you can’t miss out on life because of fear. If something fails, it’s ok, you pick yourself up and keep trucking. Life is too short NOT to do everything you want to!
OHoney don’t be fearful of it, it CAN be beautiful when done properly. My best advice to u is to know ur partner! Make sure u & he want to the same things out of life & have a unified plan to reach those goals. Make sure he understands how important fidelity is to u & ask how he feels about it. Let him know that it’s not an option in ur union if he plans to keep u. Marriage is made of many sacrifices to work. It’s just too much work for me!
Exactly at Anna becuz in my household my ex hubby loved to cook and he would help out with the chores I believe thats what some women tell themselves to keep themselve warm at night – Even in a casual fling I have to feel as tho I’m a priority in the relations…
it’s ok, you pick yourself up and keep trucking. Life is too short NOT to do everything you want to!
Every failure I’ve made has molded me into the strong confident woman that stands before you today
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OHoney says:
Marriage….I fear it these conversations aren’t helping.
You can visualize all you want about “your” marriage but when you speak to people that are already married, though their stories vary, it is an eye opener
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Please don’t let other peoples’ marriages deter you from your own, or your future marriage.
Choco says
Thanks for sharing but me personally I wouldn’t ever want to be the other woman! A casual fling is different the other woman is getting the short end of the stick…
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That’s what a lot of people think, but we’re not the one’s that they aren’t happy with, we make them happy. The wives get the short end. We get the time, the money, the dyck, without the attachment. The buddy and the booty, they go home with an attitude because they have to go home, while I can lay in my King size bed that he paid for. I got plenty of rings, he bought the one on my ring finger too. That was wrong. I did feel guilty and that’s why I ended it. It’s not fair to me, him, or her. I didn’t want to tear apart a family because of me. That wouldn’t have been right, but I can say she never found out and ended it anyway.
@Ohoney
I don’t know if you believe in GOD but give it to him he would bring the man you will marry into your life when you are ready for him spiritually emotionally and mentally
So once you “sinked to his level” did it make you understand a little better how it happened with him?
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Hellz no bc he was on some revenge shyt..what happened with me was I met a guy I fell for. I fought the feelings for a while, but eventually gave in..I do understand how easily it can happen. & I also understand that love does not have to play a factor in an affair at all & how easy it is to come home to ur spouse like nothing happened..:shame:
Choco aka Hippie says:
it’s ok, you pick yourself up and keep trucking. Life is too short NOT to do everything you want to!
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Every failure I’ve made has molded me into the strong confident woman that stands before you today
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Exactly!!!!! I don’t call them failures though, just “life lessons.”
*going to Mickey D’s*
#dollarmenu
What I know about marriage is this Put it all out there! Everything you expect what you wont tolerate and be real about what you say dont just assume anything be straight forward and OPEN! Communication of thought and feelings will help a Whole lot! KNOW WHO YOU MARRIED. Make your spouse feel comfortable enough to come to you with ANYTHING! when you feel like you cant talk to your spouse thats when problems can come
yallcrazy says:
<<<< ya'll see that I gave myself a round of applause 
@ But you can’t miss out on life because of fear. If something fails, it’s ok, you pick yourself up and keep trucking. Life is too short NOT to do everything you want to!
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I am doing what I want in life….maybe not when I want but I will get married and I only plan to do it once. I can remember thinking “I wanna be married by 25″ once 25 approached it was “I wanna be married by 27″ now here I am like “I’ll do it when I find the right one” I was engaged at the age of 21…it’s not a game to me and I refuse to play with anyone who thinks it is
DANNY DEVITO I LOVE YOU!!!!
but we’re not the one’s that they aren’t happy with, we make them happy. The wives get the short end. We get the time, the money, the dyck, without the attachment. The buddy and the booty, they go home with an attitude because they have to go home, while I can lay in my King size bed that he paid for. I got plenty of rings, he bought the one on my ring finger too. That was wrong. I did feel guilty and that’s why I ended it. It’s not fair to me, him, or her. I didn’t want to tear apart a family because of me. That wouldn’t have been right, but I can say she never found out and ended it anyway.
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Im not sure what makes you better in this situation if you look at it you weren’t valuable enough for him to leave his real life – you were a welcomed distraction and more than likely stroked his ego – payment for sex makes you a prostitute so all the materials things he bought you was becuz you played your position as other woman – who has no rights over this man
somebody bring me some clothes since I’m buckey nekkid up in this post please! I haven’t even properly introduced myself..smh LOL
@Fayla
I like your personality. Im goin to lunch peeps 
@BBW
Im not saying it makes you a prostitute but the gifts in exchange for sexual relations is a very old trade…. I mean did you get support from him when you weren’t feeling well or just needed him and wasn’t available I think some women who want to be the other woman is a hurt one – or her standards and self-esteem may be low – Marriage is work like any relationship so if you were really making him happy how come he didn’t leave her – and even if he said he would he wouldn’t imo
Exactly!!!!! I don’t call them failures though, just “life lessons.”
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Agreed 100%
Interesting conversations, carry on!
I KNOW I’m extremely late but here’s My MALE Perspective from Marriage as far as AVOIDING THE OBVIOUS to keep your union from being the TYPICAL Marriage …
DON’T STOP having sex with Your Husband… RATIONING OUT Your Puzzy to YOUR HUSBAND is a definite contributor for Your Husband seeking another female’s PUZZY !!!
Yes I KNOW sex isn’t everything but let’s be real LADIES… Your SEX APPEAL along with the SEX Y’ALL Enjoy Together had alot to do with WHY Y’all were willing to get MARRIED to begin with
OKEY BYE
Thanks OHoney! Ur one cool chica urself
Ohh and this TMZ YT Dude is playing with FIYAH constantly digging into these Celebrities PERSONAL BUSINESS… Some individuals won’t tolerate you prying & exposing THEIR Business LIKE THIS (Real…)
Arnold ain’t a MFer you should be playing with in THIS MANNER — IMO
yallcrazy says:
*going to Mickey D’s*
#dollarmenu
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I had my asst pice me up a McChicken, Fries and a Sprite, from the dollar menu. LOL.
@BBW
And Im not coming for you Im simply holding a conversation I hope I don’t come across as judging more or less just responding to your train of thoughts….
Please Maria is the Kennedy she will make Baena dissappear
@ALBoy and Ms. Choco (Comment #283)
U married AL?
am like that now but as I age I do want a partner in life – I don’t know about a marriage becuz I think I’ve been unmarried for two long and have become so independent I would object to it for fear it would change me – and then there’s the silly little girl in me that justs wants the hoopla of a wedding #IM GOOD THO!
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I think I will have a life partner, just 99% sure I won’t be married to them. & I’m not anti-marriage, just don’t think it’s the right move for who I am as a person. I’m happy when it works for others though
Choco… Lemme find out the Kennedys is gangsters
Choco aka Hippie says:
Im not sure what makes you better in this situation if you look at it you weren’t valuable enough for him to leave his real life – you were a welcomed distraction and more than likely stroked his ego – payment for sex makes you a prostitute so all the materials things he bought you was becuz you played your position as other woman – who has no rights over this man
CHOCO …
@ELove
I know you know there’s alot more to it but I definitely cosign what you said………
officially the Sperminator, mr. Governor.
@ Fayla Yea
@ CHA CHA whats up sexy? Lovin the pic!
@AWESOME
@ALBoy: Like ELove, I too am late in commenting but here goes…..When it comes to love, falling in love, and staying in love; I’ve always had eyes for one person (the one I’m in a relationship with). Don’t get me wrong, I may think another man is attractive but that’s as far as it goes. And I may even go as far as talk sh!t with my girls about keeping my options open because these men out her are trippin…
Truth is, when I’m in a relationship, there isn’t a person that can deter or tempt me into being with someone other than my beau. What can I say, I’m extremely faithful and loyal. Can you be in love with two people? No, I can’t be. I do believe people start to feel a certain attraction towards someone other than their mate because their lacking something in their relationship. Instead of communicating to your mate what it is you need, one seeks fulfillment elsewhere. But that’s just my opinion….
I’m happy when it works for others though
That’s wassup I like you already 
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@CHA
Really im coming from a good place I don’t think it’s ever a good thing when anyone is happy with settling for 2nd best male or female…
@ Yvonne
I feel you
Thx Choco! Preshate that..u cool in my book 2
@Yvonne
we are here!
How come for as long as Arnold has been over here his accent is still very strong and he still talks a little funny
Is it safe for me to come back…is Big Bad Wolf still in here trying to bully people….
Choco aka Hippie says:
How come for as long as Arnold has been over here his accent is still very strong and he still talks a little funny
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He tuned out Maria for so long, he’s kind of deaf.
ALBoy says:
@ CHA CHA whats up sexy? Lovin the pic
Thanks AL BOO BEAR *gets cozy over your nostrils
SUP E LOVE
@ YVONNE
I may be too late to respond to the topic. With that said I ONLY HAVE ONE MORE DAY OF SCHOOL LEFT!!!!!!!! Singing **schoooooools out for summer!! Schooooools out forever!!!**
@ Choco, just got out of a meeting
He’s was willing to leave his wife, but I didn’t want him to. I was the one telling him that he needed to appreciate her and actually commit to her. I was giving him suggestions on how to work on his marriage on a female prospective. It wasn’t just sex, we we’re actually friends and valued each opinions. That was one of the things that brought us closer. We actually didn’t have sex until year 2. It was more mental and emotional than physical. The material shyt came because we were out, I liked them and he bought them. He was hiding me, we did go out in public, I know his family and he knows mine. I could have said no leave her, be with me, but that’s not what it was about. It was two adults that were comfortable together that become more than friends.
@BBW
I get all that you are saying but they way you portrayed it and also it seems as if you knew his wife – which isn’t my business but you gotta be sure you watch what you do – becuz it will come back to you – and even if it wasn’t about you two being together – you took the opportunity to counsel him about his marriage and as adults I’m certain you both felt the attraction and chemistry early on – if even before he had problem in his marriage whose to say you weren’t a problem also in their marriage – the only reason I’m passionate about this is becuz I indirectly dealth with females such as yourself in my own marriage. So him hiding you made you feel happy? Becuz you mentioned happiness here I’m just asking. But you must start with this BBW how would you feel when and if it happens to you – and any man willing to leave one woman for another is not secure within himself!
Rule # 1 never have another woman hopping around the house cause ish like this happens when everyone is away. Arnold was giving the maid hush money all these years smdh!
WHO IS JAYNE SEYMOUR? SHE SAY ARNOLD HAS 2 MORE LOVE CHILDREN..THIS HAS MADE NEWS HEADLINES
Valerie she’s an actress
google jane seymour:arnold has more love children
ValerieB1 says:
WHO IS JAYNE SEYMOUR?
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Dr Quinn Medicine Woman, and a host of Lifetime Movies. LOL.
MzDetermined says:
Rule # 1 never have another woman hopping around the house cause ish like this happens when everyone is away. Arnold was giving the maid hush money all these years smdh!
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It wasn’t hush money,(she had no reason to tell), that was child support. LOL.
@Anna (Comment #312)
EXACTLY !!!
Ummmmmmm. still shaking my head….