Most of us have that one friend who seems to fall in love as easily as he or she changes their underwear.

She’s the one who calls you every time she’s met “The One” — and she wants to share the exciting news with you — again. Your friend has run through literally a hundred men. All the rest were “losers,” she says, “but this guy is different. He understands me.”

Before you know it, she’s already planning her dream wedding to a guy she met just one week ago. She uses language such as, ‘I met a new guy… he swept me off my feet!,’ ‘I LOVE him!,’ ‘He’s so hawt!,’ ‘I CAN’T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!’

One of the reasons why your friend falls so hard for every hawt guy she meets, is because she is flying high off a dopamine rush. Your friend has what psychologists refer to as an addictive personality.

Addictive personalities are easy to spot: they’re the ones with cigarette butts dangling from their lips every time you see them. They can’t stop drinking or put down that weed, and they can play video games nonstop for hours on end without stopping to take a bite to eat.

Dopamine is the primary chemical in the brain that causes addictive personalities.

Basically, dopamine brightens and highlights our connections with the world around us, says David Goldman, Ph.D., a neuro-scientist with the National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. “It’s essential for associating something that happens with the feeling of pleasure.” In other words, it reinforces behaviors that make us feel good. Source

Human beings are naturally inquisitive. Some of us (especially men) tend to show more interest in the world around us than the world between our partner’s legs. How many times have you had to use your feminine wiles to coax your man away from a ball game on TV or to keep him from running the streets with his boys?

God knew that this inherent disinterest in sex would not suffice if prehistoric man was to populate the earth. His first experiment with Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden failed miserably. Despite Eve’s best efforts, Adam stubbornly refused to show a sexual interest in her.

So God went back to the drawing board to design a way to sustain and prolong man’s interest in pleasurable activities such as sex. God finally decided on two chemical neurotransmitters in the brain: Dopamine and Norepinephrine. (But for the purposes of this post we’ll just focus on dopamine.)

Dopamine is the main neurotransmitter (chemical) in the brain that is responsible for intensifying our response to pleasurable stimuli such as sex. But as a drawback, dopamine also heightens the pleasure response to other non-productive activities, such as drugs, alcohol, videogaming, pornography, gambling, etc.

In addition to sustaining humans’ interest in sex (at least long enough to produce a baby), God also intended for dopamine to sustain the prehistoric man’s interest in foraging/hunting for food, so he wouldn’t die from starvation. The dopamine rush from hunting helped to overcome man’s fear that he himself might be eaten by the wild game that he was hunting.

From that failed initial experiment with Adam and Eve in the Garden, God realized that dopamine was necessary for the survival of the human species.

But seriously, to get a better idea of the effects of dopamine on the brain, think of a cocaine or crack addict. Cocaine blocks the reuptake (absorption) of dopamine in the brain. So the cocaine user’s brain is literally swimming in dopamine, which intensifies the cocaine high. This dopamine bath in the brain intensifies the coke user’s high to the point where they can think of doing nothing else but snorting coke.

According to Psychology Today, dopamine increases highs of infatuation, new love, joy, self-confidence, and motivation.

But like all roller-coaster rides, dopamine highs have their dangers because that chemical is important in triggering the joyously obsessive nature of first love.

Most of us remember our first love — thanks to the effects of dopamine, which caused our hearts to race and our breathing to increase whenever we saw him or her. Some of us got over our first initial reaction to that dopamine fueled rush of puppy love — but those people with addictive personalities didn’t get over it.

For addictive personality types, reproducing the intense highs from that first experience with love will become their lifelong pursuit. For them, that first experience with puppy love was like that first hit of the crack pipe for a cocaine addict.

Check back tomorrow for part 2 of Medical Minute: Addictive Personalities, on Sandrarose.com!


  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    So just gna write a WHOLE post about my damn sister and not even run it by me SANDRA? #TheNerve!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    excuse me, there should be a *you* between so and just 😆

  • caligirl

    I have a girlfriend who has planned her wedding out on the web…she does it with every guy she meets..

  • Yall still crazy

    People are addicted to my personality :shrug: #notthesamething

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    I read with the “you” @his 😆

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ His_Mommy623:
    who’s your sister? 😆

  • Yall still crazy

    And here I thought that dopamine was good to have!

  • TruGemini

    Yes, I do have a friend who has planned her wedding. The only thing she’s missing is the dude. Every other month the new “one” shows up. Every other month the new “one” makes her feel so comfortable. Every other month the new “one” feels like somebody she’s known all her life, yadda yadda yadda…its sad and damn near depressing for me to listen to this every other month…

    :rolleyes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    caligirl says:

    I have a girlfriend who has planned her wedding out on the web…she does it with every guy she meets..
    _______________

    Please direct her to this post! And, everyone, feel free to share your personal stories about your addictive personalities :yes:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    HISSSSSS – THAT DAYUM GRAVI!!!! *snaps all over the fugg’n place*

    I have plenty of girlfriends like this! They all say “(my government), i want what you have!” I’m like “bish, it took years to get this. I had to seed that grass, water that grass & trim that grass on a regular basis! That yard didn’t just come all green & pretty! You have to put in a lot of fugging work, even more work when you wanna throw up your hands & say fugg it!” We have a society of microwave men & women! They want EVERY-THANG now but don’t want to put chit towards it!

    I ALSO HATE WHEN WOMEN MOVE NEW NIGGA’S INTO THE CRIB ALL SOON & THEY GOT CHILDREN AND CHIT! Stop doing that! There’s no possible way you know who your dealing with! Sometimes it takes years to completely know someone AND SOMETIMES YOU NEVER KNOW THEM!

    #endsrant!

  • TruGemini

    Yall still crazy says:

    People are addicted to my personality
    _______________________________________

    Good one! :lolol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    This could be about me as far as falling in and out of love – but hey I know the deal so Im kool with it – in all actuality I don’t fall in and out of love but I will leave a fool quick :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Yall still crazy says:

    And here I thought that dopamine was good to have!
    ________________

    It is VERY good! But only in moderation. Most people are sensitive to dopamine, and therefore they go crazy with it :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @SR, my sister was obv ur inspiration for this post…heffa thinks er’body is “the one”..

    they usually are tho. The one who mushes u in ur head in front of yo friends crib….The one (or 22) who cheats on ya…The one who moved out right before he was s’posed to give up his half of the rent money, then came back begging after he spent it :rofl:

    she irks me to my core 😡

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ TruGemini:
    You will probably have to make the hard decision to cut her loose real soon.

  • West Coast Chick

    who we talking bout? Royce from basketball whores?? :shrugs:

  • TruGemini

    I ALSO HATE WHEN WOMEN MOVE NEW NIGGA’S INTO THE CRIB ALL SOON
    _______________________________________

    OMG…Amen to this shyt right here!!

    Two weeks of texting and an occassional fukk does not a “roommate” make :nono:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    You will probably have to make the hard decision to cut her loose real soon.
    ______________
    Y becuz she has a new man every month WTF?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @Tatted :preach: all over this fuggin post!

    and thank u bew :hug:

  • lisaROSE

    @sandra, my bestfriend is defitnetly addictive to love but she is also a compulsive liar sometimes she knows shes lying sometimes she doesnt even notice (i think)….. is she addictive to lying also? she said she was bipolar but she could be lying lolol

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *waits for Redeemed to come ban Sandra to hell for her story bout adam and eve*

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Tru….BISHES GET ON MY NERVES W/THAT CHIT! But you know how these whores are “mama need a life too!”

  • TruGemini

    You will probably have to make the hard decision to cut her loose real soon.
    _______________________________

    I know. I’ve gone back and forth with that for years now. It will definitely be hard since we’ve been friends for so long…

  • Yall still crazy

    I ALSO HATE WHEN WOMEN MOVE NEW NIGGA’S INTO THE CRIB ALL SOON
    ——————————————————————-
    😡 low self-esteem having bishes. Hope yall are reading clearly. Got the kids calling the dude daddy and ish.

    Then wondering how he killed the baby. Stupid azz broads 😡
    —————————————————————

    *puts my dopamine on moderation-mode*

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ lisaROSE:

    your best friend is probably a narcissist in addition to being bipolar. Narcissists share some of the same characteristics as addictive personalities, but narcissists are well known for lying. :yes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:

    *waits for Redeemed to come ban Sandra to hell for her story bout adam and eve*
    __________________

    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @Tatted dnt bring Jodys mama into this 😆

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I know. I’ve gone back and forth with that for years now. It will definitely be hard since we’ve been friends for so long…
    _________________
    Im confused is her lifestyle harming yours in any manner I mean if this is over her thinking each new man is the one IDK y that would hinder yall’s friendship

  • TruGemini

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    You will probably have to make the hard decision to cut her loose real soon.
    ______________
    Y becuz she has a new man every month WTF?
    _____________________________________

    No. For me it would be because it’s getting old. I’m tired of the same stories, with the same outcomes but different dudes. She’s not listening to or taking any of my advice. When i finally said, “look, I’on wanna hear about this no more” she was mad at me for about two months…when her and the dude broke up and she was down and out again.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OtFBNflNX-U OHoney

    About dang on time Sandra 😡

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ HISSSS – I was wondering if anybody was gonna notice that! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    HAMHOUCK
    my phone aint rung yet!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    Speaking of bipolar…that shyt is now joke :no:

  • TruGemini

    narcissists are well known for lying
    _________________________________

    Ohhhhh yeaaahhhh…that does make sense :think:

    Seems like every person I know who lies all the fukkn time are the ones who think they’re the shyt…but really have low self esteem. We got this chick at work like that. Lies about every-fukkn-thang BUT walks around like her shyt don’t stink.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Tru
    Gotcha I had a friend whose behavior got old and a bish had to be like I really dont like you cuz you run your mouth to much :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    *takes a dopamine bath*

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Yall still crazy says:

    I ALSO HATE WHEN WOMEN MOVE NEW NIGGA’S INTO THE CRIB ALL SOON
    _________________

    Don’t you hate when they do that? 😆 Tomorrow we will discuss the difference between women like her and the rest of us who think more clearly when it comes to matters of the heart. :yes:

  • Yall still crazy

    I think I’m with Choco on this one, my friends choices are just that “hers”. If it’s not affecting me why should I not be her friend any longer? :shrug:

    Now with my personality I don’t think that my friend would keep telling me about Mr. Right, because she would be opening herself up to monthly In-Your-face Ridiculing!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Oooh, Sandra. I cannot wait for that post! I’m all in! 😉

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Is Jody’s mother a good example I mean Ving helped Jody get rid of the gun, told him his momma is his woman and he need to get his own, bust that nicca in the face and all the while they maintained their relationship 😀

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    I understand what Gemini is saying…that chit IS tiring. My damn sister gets mad when I tell her that so n so is a no good nigga. I mean pissed the FCK OFF (but mind u when so n so cheats, steals or just doesnt come home, she forgives this nigga in 3 hours but will stay mad at me for 2 weeks)but when the mufugga takes her money and leaves her and HER kids (none are his) with nothing, she calls ME begging and using the churrens stomachs for reasoning as to why I should as her sister “be there for her” but when I try 2 be there and tell her that so n so is a fckhead with no goals nor future, I think im better than her because my man has been working for 11 years (im sorry I thought he was being a MAN) and er’body dont love the same and I need 2 get up off my high horse….GTFOH

  • Yall still crazy

    That’s was Tatted’s post, but I’ll take the credit Auntie 😉 We all agree!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @HIS

    Can you intro me to your sis? Does she look like you? I won’t do her as dirty as those past niggas.
    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OtFBNflNX-U OHoney

    You know what Brown, I thought you was talkin to me in the other post when you blurted out HamHock but I was not gon ask you to see. 😆

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    TruGemini says:

    No. For me it would be because it’s getting old. I’m tired of the same stories, with the same outcomes but different dudes.
    __________________

    Exactly! Addictive personalities are very draining because they need constant approval from you and others – just like narcissists.

  • vero

    Oh it’s here at last !! thank you Sandra.
    I’ll translate and send it to my son’s dad. He won’t believe he has issues with alcohol, and sex, and alcohol… that should help him !
    mine is with food… i’m working on it on a daily basis !!
    thank you again !

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Now with my personality I don’t think that my friend would keep telling me about Mr. Right, because she would be opening herself up to monthly In-Your-face Ridiculing!
    _________________
    :yes: and this would surely deter the conversations between said friends 😆

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Choco, I get what you’re saying. I never get involved w/my friends personal business and only comment when they ask for advice, but they do crack me up when they move the dude in AFTER bringing him home from the club (and he has never left) and then all of a sudden wonder why she getting strange calls from other bishes, extra funds coming up missing, all of a sudden he staying out all night! I’M LIKE “THE REASON BISH IS BECAUSE HE DOING YOU THE WAY HE DID SOMEONE ELSE WHEN HE MET YOU, FUGGIN’ GENIUS!”

    UGH!

  • Bigbadwolf

    Wow Sandra that was very informative. I need to stop :koolaid3: and :blunt: I get irritated wit people too quickly so thinkin he’s the one is out the question.

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @HIS

    Get off your high horse and cause bum niggas need puzzy too.
    :yes:

  • prynsexxx

    :koolaid2: <—– dopamine

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Sandra can you do a medical minute on why some women get a “high” when the penus first goes in?????????

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    #TeamAddacktivePersonality 😳

  • ValerieB1

    @Tatted :cosign:
    I hate when women move these dudes in quickly, then you and your family end up on the news because you left him home with your kids..SMH

  • Yall still crazy

    Only 9 more personality disorders Medical Minutes to go Sandra. LOL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    then all of a sudden wonder why she getting strange calls from other bishes, extra funds coming up missing, all of a sudden he staying out all night! I’M LIKE “THE REASON BISH IS BECAUSE HE DOING YOU THE WAY HE DID SOMEONE ELSE WHEN HE MET YOU, FUGGIN’ GENIUS!”

    UGH!
    ___________________
    I can totally appreciate and comprehend your frustration along with HIS… If her life isn’t affecting mine I would more than likely remain friends with her until it did

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Val….it needs to be a post on THAT ALONE! That should be a medical minute….Moving Nigga’s in Waaaay To Soon! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    i guess sandra gon ignore my request

  • foxxyish

    This is by far my favorite blog site! OK..Im glad u posted this article! I know several ppl that suffer from this and I can go on and on but its sorta pathetic! I know some women who even cling to married men..this one idiot says she has found her soul mate and cant live without him..now mind u this is someone’s husband..smfh! My cousin has been in 3 hardcore relationships within the past 2 yrs..moved all of em in and has every last name tatted on her..SAD! I really dont think she can be alone for 2 weeks..I just dont get it!

  • Yall still crazy

    Damn, straight from the club though!? :dead:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Choc (Bliss) Oh, I will NEVER not be their friend because of that! We’ve all made bad decisions when it comes to men/women and the like! My point is, learn from them! PLUS, when they come to me for advice and keep doing the same thang, I tend to disallow them to discuss such matters w/me again. I’m a firm believer that “INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THING & EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS!”

  • mirsmommy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    So just gna write a WHOLE post about my damn sister and not even run it by me SANDRA? #TheNerve!
    __________________________

    Guhl, she tawkin bout my sister, too!!!! 😆 And an old friend of mine. SMH.

    @Sandra, is there a medical condition where women let their children call every man that they’re dating, “Daddy?”

  • KDub

    Shole hope my friend who is a straight up whore…ahhh addictive personality…is reading this. Love ya girl! Told your azz 12 years ago you needed some kinda diagnosis for your bed hopping…errr…addictive ways…

    Thanks Sandra (Searching HARD for “Don’t Save Huh” by Project Pat on my iPod)

  • StillASassyOne

    OMG! I had (emphasis on “had”) a friend like this to the “t!” I had to cut her azz off earlier this year though because I don’t deal well with idiots or weak people….and she was both.

    So I can definitely feel TruGem’s pain on this.

    @Sandra
    According to that test you posted awhile ago- I’m a “Narcissist” personified. Am I a great liar? :yes: But do I do it often? :no:

    So…I’m just saying…I beg to differ. :coffee:

  • Beautyisme

    I knew I had a personality disorder but I attributed it to my astrological sign #gemini. I am in :love: with being in love but will drop a nicca quick.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    noone cares about my posts except MAN?! *kills myself*

    @Man no my sister looks like Jada Pinkett, height, facial features and complexion but my sister doesnt have a hard ass gym body shes just a lil petite pretty thang with low self esteem…I do love the heffa tho..

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Some females can’t be alone they feel less and those are the ones with deeper issues than addictive personalities – I haven’t ever understood why a female would go to such lengths to say she has a man – I look so damn FLY single and owning it! #CHECK AND MATE

  • kingstonn

    i wish the lady at work who just had gastric would read this post. she met a man monday and is already planning her wedding. :rolleyes:

  • Yardgirl

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:

    *waits for Redeemed to come ban Sandra to hell for her story bout adam and eve*

    ===============================
    :dead: This has got the be the funnieset thing I have read on this blog!!

    I have a friend who is with a guy who told her he is not attracted to her; told her she looks like a monkey and beats her up, just for kicks (pun intended) SHE bought the ginormous engagment ring (chick is being PAID!!), pays for them to go on extragavant vacations, KNOWS he cheats on her and she is still planning a big wedding!!! I politely declined her offer to be in the wedding because when the preacher asks for someone to say why they should not be married, half of the church is going to stand up and explain why. She is highly educated, but a gat damn fool and no matter what we say, she does not want to hear it.

    I will copy this and send to her. Not sure if it will help, but it is worth a try

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @MIRS
    “is there a medical condition where women let their children call every man that they’re dating, “Daddy?”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    :think:
    Badu-izm?

  • kingstonn

    EXCUSE ME
    but PB, i’m gonna need a smoke signal or something when you decide to change gravi’s. i have to be prepared in advance.. 😀

  • Bigbadwolf

    mirsmommy says:

    His_Mommy623 says:

    So just gna write a WHOLE post about my damn sister and not even run it by me SANDRA? #TheNerve!
    __________________________

    Guhl, she tawkin bout my sister, too!!!! And an old friend of mine. SMH.

    @Sandra, is there a medical condition where women let their children call every man that they’re dating, “Daddy?”
    __________________________________
    :rofl: Daddy or Uncle

  • KDub

    Sandra, is there a medical condition where women let their children call every man that they’re dating, “Daddy?”
    ———————————————————
    Or when your dumb azz take the new man (new one erry month) to the fuggin PTA meetings at cho chiren school? Thus letting their teachers and the parents of the children they interact with…know yo azz a hoe too?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I am in with being in love but will drop a nicca quick.
    ________________
    OMG MY TWIN – I :cheers: and :blunt: if that makes me an addictive personality so glad my addictions aren’t any worse – for real I won’t ever stop smoking weed but I dont’ think that makes me addict – I won’t sell azz if I can’t get it so IDK Labels Mables

  • ValerieB1

    @Choco
    :Cosign: your post #67

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    FCK LOVE!
    FCK MARRIAGE!
    #salty

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    SOUND LIKE MY HIGH SCHOOL FRIEND I SWEAR IF SHE POST “GIRL PLEASE I LOVE U AND ONLY HMU” SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH A DIFERENT CHICK A WEEK AGO NOW SHE GOT A NEW ONE THAT DUMPED HER AND SHE POSTING ERRDAY “SO BORED I MISS HER ILY GIRL WE WILL ALWAYS LOVE EACHOTHER” :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    *smangs it on Kingbew*

    Hi my lovely!! :hug:

  • TruGemini

    Sandra Rose says:

    Exactly! Addictive personalities are very draining
    __________________________________________________

    “Draining”….that’s exactly the word I was looking for.

  • Krissy

    “INSANITY IS DOING THE SAME THING & EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS!”

    @Tatted ………….Nothing but the turth!!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    I saw my SASO :hump:

  • StillASassyOne

    @Man
    :rofl: Go to hell! I love Ms. Badu and all 56293441191914 of her children and their respective daddies!!

    Say it to her FACE!

  • candibfly

    had a friend like that, she just couldn’t be single, every guy she met she tried to make it work bc i think she didn’t want to be alone

    i got tired of hearing her cry on the phone about the dude that hit her, dumped her, etc.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    IHATECHU LUSC…

    BTW, hey everyone, that nigga in the pic looks like “stewiehead” Ron Artest, don’t it!

  • Dawn Sheen

    This is also VERY common within the lesbain community as well. I know first hand women that swim in the same circles. They date the ex of the ex and so fourth and so on.

    Not just younger people but women well in their 40’s… I’ve been in a room and everybody in the room has dated, been a baby mama/daddy, dada, or side piece..

    Every girl is the one… few months later new girl, who is the ex of the last girl… which gets in my craw because bi-sexual females get flack from lesbians for having been with a man but to me I am no less than her seeing as how she got more hoes on deck than strippers loading up for ALL Star Weekend.

    I used to have this medical minute but then I learned all I needed to do was face my own demons, insecurities, growing opportunities. I subjected myself to a whole lot of bullchit but I’ve learned that love and lust are as different as night and day. This post is so true… I used to fall faster than a heel on the foot of Precious but then I learned that everything has a season and we attract who we are or what we feel we are lacking. I had to preception, and learn to sit still, keep my legs closed, and eyes/ears open. I also stopped wearing underwear… figured I can’t fall in love if I don’t have underwear to change. :) Thanks for the post Sandra I hope ur not like the lesbians I know… some of them are just dog as biscuits…

  • StillASassyOne

    Your SASO saw you too, bew! @His :kiss: :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Tatted what I do????
    I was thinkin more like a darker Terrance J

  • Krissy

    *Truth* 😳

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    i wish the lady at work who just had gastric would read this post. she met a man monday and is already planning her wedding.
    _________________
    :haha: Ahahhahhaah

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    IHATECHU, DAWN!

  • Yall still crazy

    Yardgirl, she’s gonna un-invite you to the wedding if you send this to her :rofl:

  • candibfly

    but she didn’t really love him until after he hit her :rolleyes:

  • AprilRain

    :rofl: Sandi, you ARE so funny! You crack me up! But yes, addictive personality is real…

  • KDub

    I used to fall faster than a heel on the foot of Precious
    ——————————————————–
    Log the fugg back out. I was feeling you until ^^^ THAT ish.

    Goodbye. >>>>>>>>

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @HIS
    ” no my sister looks like Jada Pinkett, height, facial features and complexion but my sister doesnt have a hard ass gym body shes just a lil petite pretty thang with low self esteem…I do love the heffa tho..”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    I see. And she’s flexible right?…
    :coffee:

  • TruGemini

    Beautyisme says:

    I knew I had a personality disorder but I attributed it to my astrological sign #gemini.
    ____________________________________

    Heeeey fellow geminian :waves:

    I know I have a split personality…which is different from an addictive personality. I am moody but I ain’t clingy and desparate.

  • lisaROSE

    thanks sandra, i knew it!!! i feel bad for her but sometimes i dont, we have grown apart cause of her addictive behavior. she has slept with more then half of the block (on the low :tape: ) is always out drinking and her excuse (cause she alllways has one) is “f*ck it im young” ! her constant lying and making issues always about her has gotten me tired. i hope she meets a great guy willing to put with her cause i signed off on that friendship…..

  • StillASassyOne

    @Dawn
    “I used to fall faster than a heel on the foot of Precious….”
    ———

    :kona: Dawn….

  • AirForceGirl

    Hmm…sounds like my sister-in-law, except she doesn’t have the sense God gave her to realize the dude is NOT the one til his sorry-dont have a job-aint paying no bills-sneaking in the bathroom talking to other bishes on the phone-wanna stay wit HER mama-leaving and disappearing for days on end-azz actually leaves for real. THEN and only THEN does she get the point that he was NOT the one. Then the next guy comes and does it all over again, but he’s “different”. :shrug: IDK why she tells me all her business, cause if my man was doin ALL of that and I ignored it, I wouldn’t tell nobody my business :no:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Lusc, cuz you was like

    FCK LOVE
    FCK MARRIAGE
    FCK THE BABY IN THE BABY CARRIAGE! :rofl:

  • vero

    Is it because I’m too pretty that no one says hello? :cuss:

  • flsun99

    Sandra–what do you call a person who has been married for 20+ years decides to separate from her husband but now having phone $ex with a guy she dated before she got married? I told her that she is repeating the same cycle. Everytime she and her husband would separate she runs to another man then get back with her hubby. Its a cycle but she says this time they are over. I told her it wasn’t healthy to be sexting a man when its only been a month she was crying her self to sleep about her marriage.
    Is this an addictive personality?

  • candibfly

    lol vero i can’t deal with ur gravi, those (lack of) teeth make me just want to skip over ur font :crying:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    also stopped wearing underwear… figured I can’t fall in love if I don’t have underwear to change.
    _______________________________
    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Tatted
    *in my adam sandler voice from wedding singer*
    LOVE STINKS!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @DAWN
    “This is also VERY common within the lesbain community as well. I know first hand women that swim in the same circles. They date the ex of the ex and so fourth and so on. ”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :think: I noticed this too but thought it was just me…

  • Dawn Sheen

    StillASassyOne says:

    @Dawn
    “I used to fall faster than a heel on the foot of Precious….”
    ———

    Dawn….

    You know I had to sneak stuff in there

  • Drag_Anne_fly

    @Tatt, I also want what you have :)
    I don’t think that girls nowadays don’t want to put in work, I just think that they don’t like being cheated on. My sister said to me, the other day when we were having this convasation, that men cheat and to save yourself heart ache, you’ll do well with drilling this in your skull. She said that most of the young women today are inlove with the idea of being inlove, that love is an action not a feeling. Feeling is something you could loose with a Omar Epps or Rhianna ménage à trois.
    I don’t know, I get the feeling that most black women have accepted that brothers have a roaming eye.

  • StillASassyOne

    OMG! Sandra, what about this one…

    I have a friend who everytime she sleeps with somebody within 3 days of meeting them, it was because “she was drunk.”

    Aint that much drunkenness in the world!! What is that called?! Burns me up she just can’t admit to her hoe shyt like everybody else. You weren’t “drunk” ho, you were “fast!” Stop lying!

  • candibfly

    folks still be having phone secks? 😆

  • Krissy

    After reading these comments about fools…..Im thinking maybe people get addicted to being treated like shit! :thinking:

  • Drag_Anne_fly

    @Tatt, I also want what you have :)
    I don’t think that girls nowadays don’t want to put in work, I just think that they don’t like being cheated on. My sister said to me, the other day when we were having this convasation, that men cheat and to save yourself heart ache, you’ll do well with drilling this in your skull. She said that most of the young women today are inlove with the idea of being inlove, that love is an action not a feeling. Feeling is something you could loose with a Omar Epps or Rhianna ménage à trois.
    I don’t know, I get the feeling that most black women have accepted that brothers have a roaming eye, as long as they don’t know about it, it’s all good.

  • Zoe B.

    I have a friend who is CONSTANTLY high LITERALLY!! :rolleyes: He even takes “cigarette” breaks at work. He also tells everyone he lives in Scottsdale (A nice part of Arizona) just to keep acting like he is higher than everyone. Always tweeting about how he is on this street or that street, at this restaurant or that one. If only his followers (and some co-workers) knew he lived on in Southside Phoenix.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    cause if my man was doin ALL of that and I ignored it, I wouldn’t tell nobody my business
    ____________________
    So true! 😆

  • TruGemini

    DAWN SHEEN SAYS:

    we attract who we are
    ___________________________________

    Just about the realest statement on here.

    Chicks get mad cuz all the thug niggas tryna holla BUT when you’re riding around in your Range, all the windows down, Gucci blasting on 100 and Cocaine, your pit bull, is in the back seat, then what the fukk do you expect to attract?

    As my Maw-Maw used to say, “ain’t nuthn attracted to shyt but flies…” (or something like that)

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I have a friend who is CONSTANTLY high LITERALLY!! He even takes “cigarette” breaks at work. He also tells everyone he lives in Scottsdale (A nice part of Arizona) just to keep acting like he is higher than everyone. Always tweeting about how he is on this street or that street, at this restaurant or that one. If only his followers (and some co-workers) knew he lived on in Southside Phoenix.
    ______________________
    Everything about this is strange and odd – him lying, him lying and tweeting, him faking and lying :shotsfired:

  • Yall still crazy

    Vero, stop cussing folks out 😆

  • Bigbadwolf

    candibfly says:

    but she didn’t really love him until after he hit her
    _________________________________________
    Well dayum. That’s sad but most of them do. They think that it proves that the dude/chick loves them. If they didn’t care, they would let them go out wit their friends and dress how they want to dress. *side eyes my sister* remembering she told me that chit before :no:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I don’t know, I get the feeling that most black women have accepted that brothers have a roaming eye, as long as they don’t know about it, it’s all good.
    ____________________
    Your right you don’t know cuz I don’t any of my black females friends that accept a roving eye!

  • Dawn Sheen

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @DAWN
    “This is also VERY common within the lesbain community as well. I know first hand women that swim in the same circles. They date the ex of the ex and so fourth and so on. ”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    I noticed this too but thought it was just me…

    Nope, and that turns me off faster than an unpaid electric bill… I’m so to the point of dating my index finger

  • CFREE

    :rofl: @HIS i think i know your sister, i know alot of your “sisters” po thangs :no: SMH

    Just like e’rbody else, i too have a friend like that and all i can do is :pray: for the chile (grown azz woman) :rolleyes:

  • StillASassyOne

    @Drag_Anne_Fly
    That’s bull. I hate when people say: “men cheat- deal with it” because if you tell a man that “women cheat, deal with it”, he’ll look at you like you just sprouted a new head.

    If you accept that “all men cheat” and it’s just something you’ll have to deal with, then keep your pitiful, no self-esteem having azz single then!

    ALL of them don’t cheat. After age 25, aint NO reason for a grown azz MAN to be cheating. If he is “cheating” (that means lying so you’re not aware of it because some silly hoes just accept this), then he is weak and a punk and scared of you- hence why he won’t tell you to your face.

    Cheating is for kids and teenagers, MEN dont do such.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    CANDI
    errbody need a good phone bone/conference call once in a while….so i heard

  • howmanylicks_07

    Some people are that friend so if you dont know one then you are that person
    :whistle:
    I’m talking to the man in the mirror

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Hi Vero….WIT’CHOO PURTY ASS!

    @ Drag_Ann….WELL, YOU KEEP POSTING KELIS PHOTOS, YOU MAY JUST SNATCH ME UP! LOL –

    @ Man, I’ve been in 2 Serious Lesbian Relationships. I mean, I banged a few broads OR SHALL I SAY LET THEM BANG ME, but I was just never loose w/myself when I dated men OR women! I can’t bed hop OR just give up the cookie to anyone….IT’S WAAAAY TOO GOOD FOR THAT! :yes:

  • candibfly

    i can say that at least it didn’t take her a long time to realize that he was not the one, after he beat her up and stole her computer (well hid in a bush) she got a restraining order and that was the end of that :shrugs:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    ODD FETISH
    A friend of mine :rolleyes: has a friend who when they french kiss he like to suck the air out of her mouth – I said that’s a form of someone trying to steal your soul anyone agree with me on this – and then friend told me he said I c you didn’t let me suck your insides out????

  • caligirl

    Auntie Sandra – Thanks for posting this. There are some really thirsty, desperate, no count, trifling women out here. They really got a sickness. They plans wedding and stalk men. Somebody answer this. Why would you say to a dude, I can’t believe you didn’t choose to be with me? Are you pressed or what? If a man said he chose to be with someone else. Say goodbye, thank him for letting you know and keep it moving! There is no reason for you to be calling or texting him and checking on his status bi-weekly. Apparently in her mind she thinks she the cat’s meow. Nigga don’t see her on the week-end. Only goes to her house after 9pm. He don’t answer his phone on the week-end. You think you been seeing him for 2 years, but you just the chic on the side. I affectionately call these dummies CRUMB CATCHERs. Ladies (lil girls) get it together and stop chasing after these men. Didn’t your mother, grandmother, your Aunt Sandra tell you that you are the prize in the relationship? You don’t chase a man, you let him chase you!!! Period Point Blank!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    Im addicted to these pepperjack tostitos :crying:

    I also am addicted 2 hating DAWN!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :yahoo: VEROOOOOOOOO!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    LICKMELOW
    are you m or fem

  • Dawn Sheen

    TruGemini says:

    DAWN SHEEN SAYS:

    we attract who we are
    ___________________________________

    Just about the realest statement on here.

    I just kept it 100 ALL the flucked up relationships I’ve had I knew they were flucked up… I don’t blame nobody but myself.

  • CFREE

    what about a chick that gets her tooth punched out, and takes the guy back and says he’s not violent. Or puts a pistol to her head, or wrecks her car after a nite of drinking and drags her out of the car into the woods, b/c he’s wanted by the po po’s #truestoriesofdumbhoes

  • candibfly

    @brown i had a friend, we’ll call her fandice, who did that in like college but i guess when u got skype u don’t really need phone secks (i think of phone secks as phone only) :think:

  • howmanylicks_07

    What it do @ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

  • Yall still crazy

    Always tweeting about how he is on this street or that street, at this restaurant or that one.
    ———————————————————–

    There was something online a month ago talmbout how the NEW DEPRESSION comes from FB or Tweet, because people aer getting depressed over how many FB “friends” they have or don’t have, and folks making up lies and not being able to deal with their “real” reality etc.
    —————————————————————
    Nobody saw anything about that?

    :hi: to Vero again! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    :dead: @ Fandice :rofl:

  • kingstonn

    @ pb
    where is Kita bread?

  • StillASassyOne

    @Candi
    “Fandice,” huh? Is she originally from Houston and now a proponent of “Carolina Blue?” :thinking:

  • Krissy

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    ODD FETISH
    A friend of mine has a friend who when they french kiss he like to suck the air out of her mouth – I said that’s a form of someone trying to steal your soul anyone agree with me on this – and then friend told me he said I c you didn’t let me suck your insides out????

    :no:

    Tell her to :kona: before he put a spell on a bish…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    we attract who we are
    _______________
    I disagree with this I date men who have a rough edge or a past but that is not who I am by any means I would get bored of the type of man who was just like me!

  • AirForceGirl

    @ Zoe B. says:

    I have a friend who is CONSTANTLY high LITERALLY!! He even takes “cigarette” breaks at work. He also tells everyone he lives in Scottsdale (A nice part of Arizona) just to keep acting like he is higher than everyone. Always tweeting about how he is on this street or that street, at this restaurant or that one. If only his followers (and some co-workers) knew he lived on in Southside Phoenix.
    ____________________

    Not the Southside??? Scottsdale and the southside of phoenix are like Beverly Hills and compton being compared! LOL…I’ont even go on the south side, :no: I stay in my lovely west valley! :yes: Nice and quiet!

  • TruGemini

    There was something online a month ago talmbout how the NEW DEPRESSION comes from FB or Tweet,
    ___________________________________________

    And I can imagine how FB or Twitter can cause depression in a person who realizes they don’t have a life. They get on there and read about what people are claiming to be doing, then realize they themselves ain’t doing shyt, ain’t got shyt to do, ain’t got no real friends to do shyt with…hence, the lying and false realites begin…

  • vero

    lol @ candi/choco/yall
    i know. too much sexiness kills it.
    let me go back to my regular self.

    hi everyone !

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :rofl: @ Fandice

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Krissy
    Im like that’s deep :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @KingBew, she hasnt emailed not texted me today :crying:

    Kitaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • Zoe B.

    Everything about this is strange and odd – him lying, him lying and tweeting, him faking and lying

    ————————–

    I know he just wants to “appear” rich. Buying expensive clothes, $600 car note PLUS $200 insurance. Every month asking to borrow money, then turns around and tells me I have no class because I drive an 02 Infiniti. At least it’s paid for.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    :dead: at Fandice

  • candibfly

    SASO i see what u did there

    if ur implying that fandice is me u are mistaken *sits in the corner reading cealis 6:8*

  • Dawn Sheen

    *disclaimer* About to make a few people mad

    Some of you are commenting about your friends, family members, etc BUT a lot of you have this problem.. We are often unable to grow because we are to busy drinking from the river of denial… I recommend reading this post and having a reality check yea it could be ur best friend, ur ex friend but most likely its you… OAN before you puff up.. if u puff up at what I just said.. <—-it IS you!

    *fine print.. this comment does not represent the views of Sandra Rose or any of her affiliates (Aunt Sandra, Sandy, Sweet thang, etc)

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @SASSY
    “Cheating is for kids and teenagers, MEN dont do such.”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:
    😆

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    what about a chick that gets her tooth punched out, and takes the guy back and says he’s not violent. Or puts a pistol to her head, or wrecks her car after a nite of drinking and drags her out of the car into the woods, b/c he’s wanted by the po po’s #truestoriesofdumbhoes
    _______________
    We :applause: them becuz they are keeping them insane in the membranes COCONUTS away from us!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Candi
    so you sayin “Fandice” is into skypin now????????

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    :yawn:

  • Zoe B.

    Not the Southside??? Scottsdale and the southside of phoenix are like Beverly Hills and compton being compared! LOL…I’ont even go on the south side, I stay in my lovely west valley! Nice and quiet!

    ——————–

    You live out here?

  • Yall still crazy

    :hi: Fandice & Vero

    @TruGem, what I read stated it’s more prevalent in the middle school/high school ages, but I can see some adults “really caring” how many “friends” they have.

  • candibfly

    nope, it ain’t mine

    man what u laughin at, u ain’t never got nobody so u can’t cheat anyway :shrugs: ain’t seen no ass since roseanne was on air

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :rofl: @ Dawn….spewing the Truff!

  • Dawn Sheen

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    we attract who we are
    _______________
    I disagree with this I date men who have a rough edge or a past but that is not who I am by any means I would get bored of the type of man who was just like me!

    ION know.. I’ve seen you rumble on here quite a few times.. like if Ihad a e-fight.. I’d attach you to the email…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    HIS
    that’s it, say ahhhhhhhhh!
    *takes out somethin to stick in that purty mouth*

    HOWMUSTILICKU
    so you just gon ignore my question

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dawn
    I admitted to possible having an addictive personality difference is I recognize it and curve it!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :rofl: @ Man :rofl:

  • candibfly

    @brown i’m sayin in general i think technology such as skype has replaced traditional phone secks bc u can see rather than just listenin to someone moanin on the phone

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @Dawn, well I WAS TALKING ABOUT MY SISTER and I have never been to nor drank from such a river…is it nice? is it a good place to take pictures?

    :shrugs: er’body dnt have bird tendencies. Same gene pool or not

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CALIGIRL
    “Didn’t your mother, grandmother, your Aunt Sandra tell you that you are the prize in the relationship? You don’t chase a man, you let him chase you!!! Period Point Blank!!”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    Having a vagina don’t make everywoman a “prize” tho. The maximum some can achieve is side hoe…. and they lucky if they aren’t the 4th or 5th string side hoe. :shrugs:

    Grandma musta left that part out. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    so Candi
    you still didnt say whether or not Faandice was into skypin

  • vero

    Ok I’m here. Luscious I see you’re back with your old self :)

  • Dawn Sheen

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @Dawn
    I admitted to possible having an addictive personality difference is I recognize it and curve it!

    So.. you agree to have my back next e-battle?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dawn
    Yeah but I state my point try to refrain from name calling unless Im called out and even then sometimes I let it ride I mean yeah I have a temper but I am not like the men I have dated! If anything the opposite is what attracts me

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Oooh, Man! IHATECHU RIGHT NOW! :rofl:

  • candibfly

    fandice may have indulged in a skype session or two with her bf when she was in a long distance relationship, she and i are no longer friends tho :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    that Luscious is so fresh! *booty pinch*

    hey FANDICE!! fck u doing yo? lets plan a sleepover :yes: I wanna give u shirley temple curls with glitter bangs!

  • CFREE

    Dawn u tryna say we using this post as therapy to air own fkd up chit :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    I have this friend we’ll call her Gidget and she’s made it known that she was curious about skypin

  • Dawn Sheen

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Dawn, well I WAS TALKING ABOUT MY SISTER and I have never been to nor drank from such a river…is it nice? is it a good place to take pictures?

    I bought my coupon on groupon.. :) OAN how you like hating me? I’m the best thing since the anal war on twitter last night.. I swear you need to randomly log on.. they blame me for everything…

  • StillASassyOne

    I’ll never forget I had a friend (my bff at the time- who is the same one I cut earlier this year) who would think every dude she met was “it.” She loved him and would be talking about the kind of hair their babies would have after 2 phone conversations <—– yes, she was one of "those" Black chicks…

    I remember for her 20th bday, I and one other friend went out with her, her man and his friend. Keep in mind, it was supoosed to be a group of about 13 of us celebrating her bday at a restaurant, but because she was running 3 HOURS LATE because she had to BAIL her man outta jail and then get his car out of hock….everybody bailed on her but me and one other girl.

    Nonetheless, I went and two days later ended our friendship for a while because she got upset and wanted to fight me because her man on her birthday in her car around her friends, spent the ENTIRE night hitting on me and making sexual comments to me in front of her damn face and I ain't say nothing but just ignored him…. :eyeroll:

    All of us hated her man, he was rude, disrespectful and ignorant and abusive to her mentally (imo.) I remember having to persuade him that he should take her out to dinner one day because he said (in front of her and me and his friend in the car) that she couldn't get anything but "chessesteak subs from G&G." That same convo in the car, he called a friend and said I was "single" and he wanted to hook them up with me. His friend asked: "does she look good?"

    I swear on my brother's grave…with me, my bff (his girlfriend), and his other friend in the car, he answers: "HELL YEAH! She looks way better than (insert my friends name here)!!"

    I went off on him in the car because that was disrespectful….and she got mad at ME and told me NOT to cuss out ehr man and she could check him herself from now on. Yet, just a few months later, she was ready to fight me cause I adhered to her wishes.

    We ain't talk for a year until one day I ran into him in a mall and found out he had dumped her…… I guess he told her he ran into me and told me the truth (cause she was on Myspace fronting like she left him), cause then she wanted to get all back in my good graces. :nono:

    I side-eyed that bish every since then until earlier this year when I blocked her number and emails and just let it go…. dumb hoes. Just dumb.

  • candibfly

    *looks around for fandice* don’t tell me this bytch signed up for SR 😡

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    ooooooooooooooooooh Man just dnt ever wanna be shat! :ghost:

  • AirForceGirl

    @ Zoe B. says:

    Not the Southside??? Scottsdale and the southside of phoenix are like Beverly Hills and compton being compared! LOL…I’ont even go on the south side, I stay in my lovely west valley! Nice and quiet!

    ——————–

    You live out here?
    _________

    Yes, Thursdays thru Sundays. I live in Avondale. On Monday-Thursday I work in Vegas. Long commute!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI
    “man what u laughin at, u ain’t never got nobody so u can’t cheat anyway ain’t seen no ass since roseanne was on air”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    Well, to correct you, I’m in a “relationship” at the moment to a lucky young lady that I somewhat respect sometimes.
    :coffee:

  • KDub

    Im addicted to these pepperjack tostitos
    ———————————————
    I am addicted to those Cheddar Jalapeño Cheetos :wail: Vending machine man came last week and I done ate ALL the bags that was in dere…they hard to find in the store….wtf Imma do til he brang his azz back NEXT week…not that I know his sked or anything….

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dawn
    Considering you are one of our TOP RANKED COMIC RELIEF COMEDIANNE I highly doubt anyone on this board is coming for you – but if so watch this :shotsfired: and :karate:

  • Dawn Sheen

    CFREE says:

    Dawn u tryna say we using this post as therapy to air own fkd up chit

    Roger that… now if we could just discuss gravis and how some body in here looks likes James Earl Jones damn photoshop

  • vero

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    Well, to correct you, I’m in a “relationship” at the moment to a lucky young lady that I somewhat respect sometimes.

    :dead:

  • AirForceGirl

    @ Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @CALIGIRL
    “Didn’t your mother, grandmother, your Aunt Sandra tell you that you are the prize in the relationship? You don’t chase a man, you let him chase you!!! Period Point Blank!!”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    Having a vagina don’t make everywoman a “prize” tho. The maximum some can achieve is side hoe…. and they lucky if they aren’t the 4th or 5th string side hoe.

    Grandma musta left that part out.

    _______________

    :dead: :ghost: :kona:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :dead: @ Dawn.

  • CFREE

    ain’t seen no ass since roseanne was on air

    hail naw!! :rofl:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @SASSY

    You were wrong in the situation with your friend. SMH.
    :no: <<SMH'in

  • Dawn Sheen

    KDub says:

    Im addicted to these pepperjack tostitos
    ———————————————
    I am addicted to those Cheddar Jalapeño Cheetos Vending machine man came last week and I done ate ALL the bags that was in dere…they hard to find in the store….wtf Imma do til he brang his azz back NEXT week…not that I know his sked or anything….

    I fell in love with peperjack cheese, kraft, kroger brand it didn’t matter I ate it like Da Brat eats.. well lets just say I ate it alot.. my poor starfish has never been the same..

  • candibfly

    u and big shirley made it official? awww shyt :woot:

  • StillASassyOne

    Sorry about the long post but everytime I think about that sh*t I’m mad all over again and pissed I ain’t go meet that bish at HER house to give her the fight she wanted and knock some sense into her azz… 😡

    @Candi
    I love you for that Roseanne comment…and to correct you, Man ain’t seen puzzi since “Matlock” was on air, actually.

  • Krissy

    Dawn Sheen says:

    *fine print.. this comment does not represent the views of Sandra Rose or any of her affiliates (Aunt Sandra, Sandy, Sweet thang, etc)

    :ghost: …..at this!

    But I do get what you are saying, We all play the fool sometimes BUT if you keep doing the same shit over and over again its much more than denial, it then becomes some mental issues. I cant for the life of me understand how one can get use to being treated like shit under someones shoe…..Like I told my mother I DONT EVER WANNA BE IN LOVE LIKE THAT :no:

  • Yall still crazy

    :waves: Vero
    :dead: @ the real fandice
    Cfree :hug: Hey Sug!

  • caligirl

    @Man, I just don’t care:

    If you are on the startup team or your have never going to go pro, you definitely are not suppose to call a nigga or be pressed. Cause getting called into the front office and told you didn’t make the team or you just on the practice squad is reason more for you still sit your :chickenhead: arse down.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    how some body in here looks likes James Earl Jones damn photoshop
    ______________________
    See this will surely start a riot in here :rofl:

  • vero

    :hug: @ Yall 😀

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    So Candi can you have Fandice give Gidget the scoop on skypin????

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @Saso, lemme tell u how my sister babydaddy of her youngest daughter came to my house one day to pick up the kids becus they spent the night with my son…this nigga comes in and looked at some pics I was cropping on my computer, turned around and said “you know ur the sexy sister right? u should lemme get a taste” so I politely picked up the phone in front of him and called my sister and said these exact words “ur man is here 2 get the kids and he wants 2 eat my puzzay becuz apparentely I’m sexier than u.” this heffa got off work and called me to have me tell her again exactly what he said. I didnt hear from for 3 weeks after that and then she shows up at my mothers house one day talking about, “Paulette (me) u cant judge ppl based on who they love. He admitted he was wrong and he said he was high…let it go!”

    2 weeks later we found out he tried 2 fck a 12 year old daughter of my sisters neighbor :no: (which he is still serving time for)

  • Yall still crazy

    Sassy, you’re stories always rock! lol

  • CFREE

    Dawn Sheen says:

    CFREE says:

    Dawn u tryna say we using this post as therapy to air own fkd up chit

    Roger that… now if we could just discuss gravis and how some body in here looks likes James Earl Jones damn photoshop

    Well… for the record, aint nar nicca gone be able to drag cfree like said above post. I just aint got it in me, lucky me. :coffee:
    anywho, who da fluk lookn like James :blink:

  • http://psgoodloving.blogspot.com/?zx=a740537a30234348 CHA CHA

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    @ Tru….BISHES GET ON MY NERVES W/THAT CHIT! But you know how these whores are “mama need a life too!”

    :nono: Leave Baby Boys mama out of this :hahaha:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @AIR FORCE GIRL
    “Having a vagina don’t make everywoman a “prize” tho. The maximum some can achieve is side hoe…. and they lucky if they aren’t the 4th or 5th string side hoe.

    Grandma musta left that part out.

    _______________

    :dead:
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    Women need to stop telling their daughters how “oh so special (their) vaginas are and it is a prize for someone to work for blah blah blah.”

    The reality is most puzzy is good and yours ain’t no more special than the next one.

  • Bigbadwolf

    Roger that… now if we could just discuss gravis and how some body in here looks likes James Earl Jones damn photoshop
    _______________________________________________
    :rofl: IKR

  • Dymond

    :rofl: shuttup Candi!!!!! :rofl:

    anddddddd aint no way you can convince me my chit aint no prize :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ flsun99:
    If she was married for 20+ years it sounds like she’s pretty stable. Especially if it wasn’t an abusive relationship. Some people just grow apart. As far as her sexting a guy she knew before she got married, I don’t see a problem with that. At least he’s not someone she met on Twitter. :shrug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Sass
    So him making sexual innuendos didn’t prompt a response from you but when he said you looked better than her friend it did?

  • TruGemini

    @HIS

    Your 199 is soooo fukked up!! 😮 What was he doing when you were on the phone w/your sister? Just standing there looking stoopid?

  • StillASassyOne

    @Man
    Fukk you and that simple despertate bish…I was nowhere NEAR wrong.

    She thought she had a prize because some dude with light skin, light eyes and “good hair” finally paid her some attn and she lost her damned mind!

    I definitely went up in her face with the :hahaha: after I found out he dumped her azz. Just a simple, simple, simple ho. Simple as hell!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI
    “u and big shirley made it official? awww shyt :woot: ”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    HAIL NO! I don’t flugg with her big azz no mo!
    ** :smack: for bein that horny those several nights**

    Anyway, my new chick look sorta look like Cassie. SHE’S LEGAL!

  • Yall still crazy

    The reality is most puzzy is good and yours ain’t no more special than the next one.
    ————————————————————-
    That’s a lie. Hmmmp.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @Gemini, exactly! well he was kind of giggling..he knew she wasnt gna leave him..smh

  • Yardgirl

    Yall still crazy says:

    Yardgirl, she’s gonna un-invite you to the wedding if you send this to her

    ===========================================

    If I am lucky she will!! :pray: I don’t want no part of that fluckery!! :no:

  • KDub

    The reality is most puzzy is good and yours ain’t no more special than the next one. <<<<< don't agree with most of what he say…but that is truff.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    Yall still crazy says:

    The reality is most puzzy is good and yours ain’t no more special than the next one.
    ————————————————————-
    That’s a lie. Hmmmp.

    :preach: I know my shyt is sum’m proper like! *pops my collar and hollers*

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    2 weeks later we found out he tried 2 fck a 12 year old daughter of my sisters neighbor (which he is still serving time for)
    ____________________
    Damn shame so glad none of my sister’s men have tried to come on to me and rude at that I would be :duel: before I told my sis and let her handle y he got his azz kicked by me

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @DYMOND
    “anddddddd aint no way you can convince me my chit aint no prize :coffee: ”
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    Uh huh. What makes your “prize” better than Kat Stacks “prize?”
    :coffee:

  • Drag_Anne_fly

    SassyOne, co-sign that statement, boo!

    @Choco, I should have said “most black women I cross paths with” I only got one girlfriend with that mentality. She once told me that my hard headed ass will be single forever if I don’t conform that status quo. Fux that, I’d rather omit my 3 kids and a husband dream than conform to that shiaaat!! con

    @Tatt, I love me some pre-Nas Kelis:)

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ ChaCha…YOU KNOW THESE HOES SCREAMS THAT CHIT!

    @ Dawn……Cornbread Earl & Me! :rofl:

  • StillASassyOne

    @Choco
    Huh? No…I jumped around in my post a bit, him saying I looked better than her came a few months before her bday night when he made the comments all night long. When I jumped at him about the comment he made about looking better, she got at me and told me not to check her man “on no dumb sh*t” cause “that’s my man and I can handle it myself.”

    So a few months later when he made comments all night long in her face straight disrespectful. Instead of cussing him out again, I ignored him and didn’t say sh*t as she requested because “that was her man and she could handle it herself”, remember?

    She ain’t like that either. So fukk her.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I wont even comment on who got goods and who don’t!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @DAWN:
    A lot of lesbuns and gay men have abandonment issues or separation anxiety issues from their childhoods. And some of us just didn’t have that bond with a parent or both parents that most healthy children have. So you shouldn’t be surprised by the relationship recycling that goes on in that community.

  • Dawn Sheen

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @CANDI
    “u and big shirley made it official? awww shyt ”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    HAIL NO! I don’t flugg with her big azz no mo!
    ** for bein that horny those several nights**

    Anyway, my new chick look sorta look like Cassie. SHE’S LEGAL!

    —-

    Sorta like Cassie and in she has two plums and a candy cane? Cassie is shaped like a pretty lady boi… clear it up man.. you did say one puzzy ain’t no diff then the next?

  • CFREE

    @HIS :wtf: #199 :huh:

    Ya’ll C’mere suga :hug:

  • mirsmommy

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Saso, lemme tell u how my sister babydaddy of her youngest daughter came to my house one day to pick up the kids becus they spent the night with my son…this nigga comes in and looked at some pics I was cropping on my computer, turned around and said “you know ur the sexy sister right? u should lemme get a taste” so I politely picked up the phone in front of him and called my sister and said these exact words “ur man is here 2 get the kids and he wants 2 eat my puzzay becuz apparentely I’m sexier than u.” this heffa got off work and called me to have me tell her again exactly what he said. I didnt hear from for 3 weeks after that and then she shows up at my mothers house one day talking about, “Paulette (me) u cant judge ppl based on who they love. He admitted he was wrong and he said he was high…let it go!”

    2 weeks later we found out he tried 2 fck a 12 year old daughter of my sisters neighbor (which he is still serving time for)
    __________________

    :blink: Can I have permission to knock your sister upside her head????

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Drag_Ann….PREACH. I LOVES THAT BISH! Mmmmmm (fantasize)

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Drag
    :thumbsup:

    @Sass
    Gotcha babe 😉

  • Dawn Sheen

    Sandra Rose says:

    @DAWN:
    A lot of lesbuns and gay men have abandonment issues or separation anxiety issues from their childhoods. And some of us just didn’t have that bond with a parent or both parents that most healthy children have. So you shouldn’t be surprised by the relationship recycling that goes on in that community

    Nobody warned me before I moved it… hell I was 26 and got ruint by a 40 year old.. then at 28 a 25 year old but looking back I realized I ignored all the warning signs.. so I gave myself those scars…

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    StillASassyOne says:

    I have a friend who everytime she sleeps with somebody within 3 days of meeting them, it was because “she was drunk.”
    ________________

    In a way she’s right: she was drunk off that dopamine! 😆 She’s still exhibiting hoe’ish behavior. But now you know the psychology behind that behavior.

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @DAWN
    “Sorta like Cassie and in she has two plums and a candy cane? Cassie is shaped like a pretty lady boi… clear it up man.. you did say one puzzy ain’t no diff then the next?”
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Nothing to clear up babe. She’s thin but she got more azz/tits than cassie but they look similar.

  • caligirl

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @AIR FORCE GIRL
    “Having a vagina don’t make everywoman a “prize” tho. The maximum some can achieve is side hoe…. and they lucky if they aren’t the 4th or 5th string side hoe.

    Grandma musta left that part out.

    I’m sorry my Grandmother, mother was not referring to my a VAGINA when they were saying you are a :trophy:. Women should be treated with respect and if she’s a good women with morals and values, she worth her weight in gold. It ain’t got nothing to do with puzzy. This is why women got the game confused, ain’t no ass ever kept no man around. A man will screw you and maybe wash his dyck off before he go to the next chic house. I’m saying have some self esteem so you seem like a prize, rather than a ATM machine or a hole for him to stick his dyck in. IMO

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    DAWN
    you know he like chicks with dycks

  • StillASassyOne

    @His
    Didn’t that sh*t make you wanna hit your sis dead in her fukkn mouth!

    After that night, my friend aint hit me up for like a week, then called me and started a convo that said: “I figured I should call and let you know what you did and why I’m not talking to you…”

    :blink:

    WHAT BISH?!

    I laughed in her ear and then cussed that ho out so bad, she was talking about she was on her way to my house to kick my azz for getting at her like that and yet not saying anything to her man althouogh she told me NOT to say anything to him!

    I swear! 5 yrs later and I’m sad we ain’t get to have that fight! Dammit! I brb. I’m mad all over again. 😡 :shotsfired:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Sandra and Dawn
    My daughter is a lesbian and I remember when Jerry Springer use to come on she came out at 13 to me I was like are you sure look at how desperate they are to cling onto a toxic relationship – well as you know you are who you are – now my daughter is in a committed relationship however I find her and her girlfriend to be co-dependent well more so her girlfriend which changes some things in my daughters character after discussions and a temporary break my daughter was able to see what I was saying however I still watch for the signs becuz I don’t want my daughter feeling that way

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ StillASassyOne:
    You’re right, all men don’t cheat. Just the ones who are married or in relationships. 😆

  • TruGemini

    Sandra Rose says:

    StillASassyOne says:

    I have a friend who everytime she sleeps with somebody within 3 days of meeting them, it was because “she was drunk.”
    ________________

    In a way she’s right: she was drunk off that dopamine!
    ___________________________________________

    :rofl:

  • Zoe B.

    :whistle: R.Kelly Put my T-Shirt On

  • TruGemini

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    My daughter is a lesbian and I remember when Jerry Springer use to come on she came out at 13 to me
    __________________________________________

    Wow. How did you handle that?

  • Dymond

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:
    Uh huh. What makes your “prize” better than Kat Stacks “prize?”

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    1) disease free
    2) still tight
    3) never been touched by souljer boy or any other misc. rappers
    4) it’s attached to me and not anybody named “kat stacks”

    need more? :coffee:

  • Dawn Sheen

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @Sandra and Dawn
    My daughter is a lesbian and I remember when Jerry Springer use to come on she came out at 13 to me I was like are you sure look at how desperate they are to cling onto a toxic relationship – well as you know you are who you are – now my daughter is in a committed relationship however I find her and her girlfriend to be co-dependent well more so her girlfriend which changes some things in my daughters character after discussions and a temporary break my daughter was able to see what I was saying however I still watch for the signs becuz I don’t want my daughter feeling that way

    —-

    The Lets Be In I was in like with was co-dependant as well but I was in my early 20’s and idn’t know any better… Now she still doing the same old same old same chit diff toilet.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Tru
    I handled it fine IDK I’ve just always been that type of parent to have very open lines of communication with my kids becuz I know how important it is – I was just like are sure and is this a phase she said no I asked if she was already actively having sex she say just kissn (lies : ) but she’s a well grounded woman with a loving heart and mind so I had a lot of confidence in her to respect herself and her body and she did

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    @Mirs, yes u have all my permission

    @SASO oh I definitely tried 2 knock that btch upside her head but my sister only comes up to my damn tiddays so I feel bad tryna pimp slap that heffa…shes 6 years older than me tho..

  • StillASassyOne

    @Sandra
    Yes- she’s just a fast-azz but can’t admit it.

    And that’s ONE way of looking at the cheating thing. I don’t think ALL men cheat anymore than I think all women cheat. I truly and whole-heartedly believe women cheat wayyyyyyyyy more than men. Can’t nobody convince me otherwise.

  • Yall still crazy

    Umm Sassy, you’ve hit your 1 fight maximum for the year already hun :)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    I e-heart Dymond 😆

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dawn
    yeah I had to watch my approach becuz my daughter saw it as me not liking her girlfriend and at times i didn’t but even she has a very loving and generous heart but extremely co-dependent on my daughter like my daughter doesn’t have any friends she hangs out with outside of her girl and small small circle of friends – but I trust my daughter hears my voice in her head from time to time

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @DYMOND
    “Uh huh. What makes your “prize” better than Kat Stacks “prize?”

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    1) disease free
    2) still tight
    3) never been touched by souljer boy or any other misc. rappers
    4) it’s attached to me and not anybody named “kat stacks”

    need more? :coffee: ”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Give me one more and I’ll concede my error.
    :coffee:

  • StillASassyOne

    @Yall
    LOL! Thanks for reminding me! I ain’t finna fight that chick though. I wouldn’t even give her the pleasure of knowing that I’m still mad I ain’t try and kick her azz. She’s pretty much dead to me now anyway. :shrug:

  • Dymond

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:
    Give me one more and I’ll concede my error.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    5) I can show ya better than I can tell ya :coffee:

  • YSoSerious

    I don’t make a habit of dealing with silly btches. I’ll let someone more generous with their time and patience deal with them for me. :coffee:

  • AirForceGirl

    @caligirl says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @AIR FORCE GIRL
    “Having a vagina don’t make everywoman a “prize” tho. The maximum some can achieve is side hoe…. and they lucky if they aren’t the 4th or 5th string side hoe.

    Grandma musta left that part out.

    I’m sorry my Grandmother, mother was not referring to my a VAGINA when they were saying you are a . Women should be treated with respect and if she’s a good women with morals and values, she worth her weight in gold. It ain’t got nothing to do with puzzy. This is why women got the game confused, ain’t no ass ever kept no man around. A man will screw you and maybe wash his dyck off before he go to the next chic house. I’m saying have some self esteem so you seem like a prize, rather than a ATM machine or a hole for him to stick his dyck in. IMO
    __________________________

    I didn’t say that!! I was just :dead: at the comment! #thatisall

  • howmanylicks_07

    I’m a female

  • Drag_Anne_fly

    :offtopic: Rick Ross Titties = Weapons of Mass Disgusting. Blergh!!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    ODD FETISH
    A friend of mine has a friend who when they french kiss he like to suck the air out of her mouth – I said that’s a form of someone trying to steal your soul anyone agree with me on this – and then friend told me he said I c you didn’t let me suck your insides out????

    _____________________________________________

    SOooooooo my 1st love (guy i lost my virginity too) use to do that to mee all the time…..when he 1st did it i was like :wtf:
    but i liked it and it turned me on……but it never was said it was a form of taking someone’s soul…… :rofl:

    damn is that what that :lame: do to me! i was hooked to his no good ass for 3yrs!

  • Drag_Anne_fly

    My spirit needs to be ministered to, right now by the powerful testimony of Sister Amy Winehouse. Y’all done evoked some long buried emotions.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @French
    But yes that is a form like that movie a long time ago about the troll that would suck the air outta of the baby mouth and the cat killed the troll the parent thought it was the cat trying to get milk off the baby mouth that movie was back in the 80’s but yeah it’s a form of doing so from what I understand he does it all the time to her

  • http://www.facebook.com/evieannie speaknoevil

    Im separated from my husband right now. I am trying to see if i’m really just addicted to him and having to be with someone. I have put up with way to much abuse and have been cheated on so many times. I don’t know if I love him or love the fact of being in love. Im in counseling now to figure this whole thing out…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Speak
    :hugs: it’s never an easy course to end your marriage I will tell you this I was in the same position as you once my ex hubby cheated lied apologized cried all the trick and I kept forgiving for over a 10 year period – I fell out of love with him and fell back in love with myself if he is not treating you the way you want to – BOUNCE he won’t change

  • Bigbadwolf

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @French
    But yes that is a form like that movie a long time ago
    _________________________________
    :yes: Or that movie Streetwalkers, in the 90’s that the dude and mother were scared of cats and transformed and chit. That soul taking made me think of how he was doing her in the cemetary.

  • Hard Hitter

    Oh so we just having confessional up in hena, huh :gossip:
    We just gone dry snitch on folks …#kobebryant -lol :haha:

    My dopamine rush for …is #limitless :hump: – “No one man should have all this power” (queue the choir clapping and hmmming) :party:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :thumbsup: @ HH

    @Big
    Yes I remember that movie weren’t the mother and son having sex with one another they tried to kill his girlfriend – what’s crazy is that she said her thoughts have been consumed with him and if they get in a tif when they make up and kiss he tries it again – one time she pulled away from him and was like NOPE and then he was like y not! #CREEPY FREAKY

  • Hard Hitter

    Hey Choco

    Have you seen the movie Machete? There’s a character in there (Lindsay Lohans’s character’s dad) …you have to see it

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @HH
    No I haven’t seen it but I will make sure I cop it :thumbsup: thanks for the tip

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ speaknoevil:
    Thanks for sharing your story with us. It doesn’t sound like you have an addictive personality if you’re in therapy. People with personality disorders usually don’t seek therapy. It seems like you’re depressed about the break up of your marriage, which is normal. I’m glad you’re in therapy if you’re dealing with depression. No matter how low you are feeling right now, things do get better.

  • MZN

    Sandra you should never use God and failed miserably in the same sentence or as a description. That’s total disrespect. How can God fail at anything?

  • MZN

    Sandra, why would you even say that? Why would you say God failed miserably at something? SMH

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ MZN:
    I said “the experiment” failed miserably. But more importantly, I was joking.

  • Daisy

    … at this post and comments

  • Terri B

    Good read, now it all makes sense. I know some who this fit to a “T”.

  • Joewolf

    Damn