Over 700 marriage applications were filed Sunday in New York City -- the first day gay marriages were legally recognized in the Empire state.

Mishan Moore left, 39, exchanged vows with her partner Jacqueline Rodriguez, 34, during their wedding ceremony at Queens Borough Hall in New York on Sunday. NYC becomes the sixth in the U.S. to embrace same-sex marriage.

Meanwhile, according to Splash News, thousands of gay marriage opponents marched on Sunday in protest of the new law. They called on lawmakers to allow a vote on gay marriage on the next ballot.

Additionally, a conservative group filed a lawsuit against gay marriage. Members of the Leaders of New Yorkers for Constitutional Freedoms asked the courts to halt gay marriage ceremonies while the case is heard. They also want any of the hundreds of same-sex marriages performed in New York over the past 48 hours to be declared void.

New York State Senator Ruben Diaz, Sr. rallied thousands at Dag Hammarskjold Plaza in NYC. Their rally and march, which took place the first day same-sex marriages were legally performed in New York, were attended by several thousand people, many of them Hispanic members of the Bronx church run by Diaz, who is also a Penetecostal minister. During the speeches, men and women waved bibles and sang hymns; cries of "Jesus, Jesus" and "Let the people vote" reverberated through the city streets. Also in attendance were a cluster of about 70 Orthodox Jewish men also protesting same-sex marriage. Source

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Hmmmm :think: Gay marriage is the least of our worries in fact it's none of our business!

  • Cariblife

    Its always the ones leading the protest that are the worst of the bunch. Waiting for some kind of sex scandal to hit his church in 5..4..3..2....

    What people do in their own bedrooms is nobody's business and I don't see how gay people getting married is gonna change their lives or their bread so they need to go somewhere wid all that.

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    Feels like they should be able to have civil...if they chose to get "married" under the eyes of the Lord, that should be up to their pastor if he feels comfortable doing so...

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    *civil unions

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    We have so many bigger fish to fry than to be worrying about who the heck people are marrying. I mean really. How important is that in the grand scheme of things?

  • howmanylicks_07

    Boooo to them

  • lady_cn

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Hmmmm Gay marriage is the least of our worries in fact it’s none of our business!
    _______________________________________________________

    :cosign:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    My cousin lives in NYC...I wonder if her and her girl are gonna get married...they already went through invetro and a baby together....

    I wanna go to the wedding if they do...

  • lashellebelle

    *HEY PROTESTORS*
    Those two ladies got married, AND GUESS WHAT??? My life didn't change ONE bit. & I bet neither did yours.

  • howmanylicks_07

    Now Mariah and Da Brat can really make it offical

  • Anna

    chibytex says:

    Feels like they should be able to have civil…if they chose to get “married” under the eyes of the Lord, that should be up to their pastor if he feels comfortable doing so…

    ~~~~~~~
    True, and who cares? One of my daughters friends came out of the closet to me this Summer. She didn't want to tell me, she thought I would be upset and wouldn't love her anymore. I told her I knew she was gay the first time I met her. LOL. Now when she tags along when my daughter and I go shopping , she freely shops in the mens department.

  • laterthannever

    Its all good, there we no protests at offensive black unions, just murders and lynching.

  • prynsexxx

    Where is the good Bishop Eddie Long and his toupee, now? Is he leading the march or inside the ceremony signing on the dotted line? J/A

  • mirsmommy

    The gay protestors are gay themselves.

  • MsOnederful

    lashellebelle says:

    *HEY PROTESTORS*
    Those two ladies got married, AND GUESS WHAT??? My life didn’t change ONE bit. & I bet neither did yours.

    YOU, BIRD, AND CHOC JUST ABOUT SUMMED IT UP! KUDOS!
    WHO CARES! LET EVERYONE BE GREAT!

  • Anna

    chibytex says:

    My cousin lives in NYC…I wonder if her and her girl are gonna get married…they already went through invetro and a baby together….

    I wanna go to the wedding if they do…

    ~~~~~~
    Sounds interesting. Someone sent a text on TJMS, about 2 guys getting married saying "bitch I'm wearing the dress, no bitch, I'm wearing the dress. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    so fcking ridiculous smh

    I love the gays!!! amd they should have their rights like er'one else...

  • mrsloveleigh

    let these people be. it kills me how some think their opinio should be the end all across the board. are these people protesting when women marry men who beat their azzes and sometime end up killing them? No! They are flucking with folks who aren't hurting anyone and just want to express their love

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *grabs everybody's hands*

    :whistle:
    What the world needs now
    Is love sweet love..............

  • ELove

    Ms Choco
    TOTALLY AGREE !!!

    Sooooo Let me take a WILD Guess... The ONE with the Flowers is the FEM (WIFE) Right ?!!? :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Somebody's son in that pic look a lil pissed off!
    Why I gotta be at this damn courthouse!
    Why they gotta put me in this damn pic!
    I hope nobody from school sees this!

  • KDub

    I hope on all things GOOD this sparks some outrageous gay wedding photos. Cause we know the gays do it big.

    *ESP* the NYC gays....I cannot WAIT to see 15-tier cakes and tuxedo's with trains and chit :yahoo:

    ...DJM...

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    mirsmommy says:

    The gay protestors are gay themselves.
    _________________
    :yes:

  • mrsloveleigh

    Luscios says: What the world needs now
    Is love sweet love…………..

    It's the only thing that there's just to little of

  • prynsexxx

    Luscious says:

    Somebody’s son in that pic look a lil pissed off!
    ______________

    He looks like "Jordan" off of The Bernie Mac (RIP) show.

  • mia2bmore

    People really needs to stop. Gay people getting married only has an affect on the married couple. People will not stop breathing and the rapture will not come just because a gay couple is allowed to marry. People need to worry about serious issues like the US educational system sucking and health care costing an arm and a leg. March about something serious. :rolleyes:

  • ELove

    @K-Dub
    The AP News had pics of the Gays standing in line waiting to get Married and ALOT of THOSE PICS were Quite Interesting (To Say The Least...) :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    I hope on all things GOOD this sparks some outrageous gay wedding photos. Cause we know the gays do it big.

    *ESP* the NYC gays….I cannot WAIT to see 15-tier cakes and tuxedo’s with trains and chit

    …DJM…
    _________________
    IKR...that's why I hope that if my cousin gets married, I get an invitation....cause that bish balling...she got a 2 seater BMW, a house that's PAID for that she rents out in the Brox somewhere, but her and her girl live in Brooklyn some where...they stay traveling somewhere...

    I know if they get married..their wedding will be off the chain...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    KDUB yo ass best start followin me STAT!
    brownsugapoet

  • http://Twitter.com/Ms_TiaCouture MsPretTiTi

    Hmmmm Gay marriage is the least of our worries in fact it’s none of our business!
    _________________________________________________________________

    :cosign:

  • prynsexxx

    mrsloveleigh says:

    Luscios says: What the world needs now
    Is love sweet love…………..

    It’s the only thing that there’s just to little of
    _______________________

    :2dance: :nino:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    :cosign: with Mirs, Luscious :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    Luscious says:

    Somebody’s son in that pic look a lil pissed off!
    _______________
    :lol:
    He looking like "Dayum, now I got TWO mama's to deal with...one was ENOUGH" I wonder if they'll let me go stay with my daddy?"

  • Dawn Sheen

    So, you know how some topics are "different" until they hit home? Well my mama got civil unioned recently.. it was different for me, having grown up with a daddy and being taught that gay was/is wrong. It's been an adjustment but I am glad she found love. My glass house already cracked so I had to learn to give people the right to be. They had a nice ceremony. Its still growing on me but I don't even look at my mother and feel negativity at all... She just mines her business.

    I have a hard enough time balancing my relationship w/ God along with all the day to day choices I make.

    We should so be fixing the economy and chit

  • YSoSerious

    People need to get their own houses in order and stop worrying about what other people want to do in theirs. :rolleyes:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Dawn
    What would you say has been the hardest part? The struggle with God or seeing your mother affectionately with another woman?

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Yso

    WHY IN THE FUCK IS KOBE CARRYING CURIOS GEORGE??? JUSY WHY? WHY? WHY?
    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLYbDg242EY&safety_mode=true&persist_safety_mode=1 His_Mommy623

    Yso yo gravi aint shyt! :rofl:

    whoever on twitter better follow Noochii_B
    word up!

  • Dawn Sheen

    His_Mommy623 says:

    Yso yo gravi aint shyt!

    whoever on twitter better follow Noochii_B
    word up!
    -----------

    Follow DawnSheen..

  • Dawn Sheen

    chibytex says:

    @Dawn
    What would you say has been the hardest part? The struggle with God or seeing your mother affectionately with another
    ---

    Neither, I would say my own prejustice... worrying about what people would say or think. I was selfish about the whole thing...

  • ELove

    @YSO
    :nono: at YOUR Gravi Choice :(

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    HIS
    I just followed you hun :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Dawn
    see post 36

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I always "side eye" a person who is so caught up on what other people are doing in their own personal lives!

    Again, I believe that people choose this as their "protest voice" because it's easier to get someone on board w/you even though half the protesters want to get tooted, toot, lick or get licked themselves!

    As my mom says, you have 24 hours in a day - 12 to mind your business & 12 to leave my alone! What are you doing that don't seem to be appeasing to GOD! Worry about that! When you put what you may call my sins on your plate, your shrinking your chances of getting into the "Pearly Gates" because you've taken on some chit that ain't even your concern! While I'm loving who I chose to love and working on my relationship w/God, you're letting your's fall by the wayside because your busy focusing on me! Half of these bible thumpers are not gonna make it they dayum self!

  • Bigbadwolf

    Where is the good Bishop Eddie Long and his toupee, now? Is he leading the march or inside the ceremony signing on the dotted line?
    _____________________________________
    :dead: I was watched Daddy's Little Girls the other day and never noticed him in the movie until then. He's such a hipocrite.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    His if you think that gravi aint shyt wait til you see my profile pic

  • Bigbadwolf

    @ Yso please put ur gravi back :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Dawn
    so did your mother just "turned" gay or was it something that she always struggled with?

  • YSoSerious

    See, y'all fine funny bishes gone make me sign up for the Twittah. I want to have fun with y'all. :wail:

    And y'all know that nig is all kinds of curious. The monkey is really just a beard. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    YSO I need you in my twitter life!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    I always “side eye” a person who is so caught up on what other people are doing in their own personal lives!

    Again, I believe that people choose this as their “protest voice” because it’s easier to get someone on board w/you even though half the protesters want to get tooted, toot, lick or get licked themselves!

    As my mom says, you have 24 hours in a day – 12 to mind your business & 12 to leave my alone! What are you doing that don’t seem to be appeasing to GOD! Worry about that! When you put what you may call my sins on your plate, your shrinking your chances of getting into the “Pearly Gates” because you’ve taken on some chit that ain’t even your concern! While I’m loving who I chose to love and working on my relationship w/God, you’re letting your’s fall by the wayside because your busy focusing on me! Half of these bible thumpers are not gonna make it they dayum self!
    ___________
    Let the chuch say Amen & Amen again!

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Tatted
    I feel you but you have to remember that most people arent quite adjusted to this new "open" society... As much as I love my granny she would have been totally disappointed if I have brought home Brandy, instead of Brandon... some religious people truly believe its a sin to be gay...

    I personally dont...but I can understand why folls still oppose it...

  • YSoSerious

    But Twittah is the debil's romper room. :nono:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    And y’all know that nig is all kinds of curious. The monkey is really just a beard.
    _______________
    :dead:

  • rockstar

    If gays can marry, then a man should be able to have multiple wives. IJS

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    *goes off to find SUGAMAMITITS on twitter*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    FRENCHTITS
    when you find me please dont hate on my profile pic

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    His if you think that gravi aint shyt wait til you see my profile pic

    _____________________________________________________

    is that sisqo?!?!?!?!? :wtf:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    @Rocstar most men don't wanna get married to ONE woman much less have multiple of them yapping in their ears! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    Yso I thought it was The Debbil's Notepad? :think:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    rockstar says:

    If gays can marry, then a man should be able to have multiple wives. IJS
    ____________________
    I kinda agree...fair is fair...if he can take care off of the wives...I dont see what the problem is.... :shrug:

  • Dawn Sheen

    chibytex says:

    @Dawn
    so did your mother just “turned” gay or was it something that she always struggled with?
    ---

    I don't think people turn anything, I think it is a trait... for example, I have an attraction to both sexes. I struggle based on how I was raised vs how I feel. Although I may or may not act on the feeling, the attraction does not go away. It is something I remember as far back as 3rd grade, way before tv, and the present fads... I do feel it is apart of who you are or aren't. Every man has a struggle... that I will say. I am very comfortable w/ where I am and I accept her decision w/out questioning where or how ya know.

  • YSoSerious

    @FAYLA

    That's right. :yes: Facebook is the debil's romper room.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Chiby...as much as I can respect those who oppose it opinions, I REALLY DON'T CARE WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT WHAT I CHOSE TO DO! ONCE A BISH START SIGNING A CHECK I CASH, HOLD MY LIFE IN THEIR HANDS, OR HAVE MY BEST INTEREST IN THEIR HEARTS and not make this a personal agenda because of what THEY DON'T LIKE, I HIGHLY DOUBT I WILL LOOSE A BIT OF SLEEP ABOUT WHAT they think! I'm still married, I'm still in love, I'm still successful & I'm still THAT BISH! :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    :whistle:

    "it's raining it's pouring the old man is snoring...."

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    for example, I have an attraction to both sexes. I struggle based on how I was raised vs how I feel. Although I may or may not act on the feeling, the attraction does not go away. It is something I remember as far back as 3rd grade, way before tv, and the present fads…
    __________________
    I can totally identify with this...I just stopped acting on it...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    I just don't agree with the way society is trying to force us to be ok with it, everyone doesn't have to accept that lifestyle.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNDfreK0Yno LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Frenchtits you best be followin me

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    I just don’t agree with the way society is trying to force us to be ok with it, everyone doesn’t have to accept that lifestyle.
    __________________
    :popcorn:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    It's crazy how people figure people are "forcing" people to accept it! HOW DOES A PERSON BEING LEGALLY ABLE TO MARRY SOMEONE ELSE (hetero or homo) affect your life, your finances, your home, your relationship! IT SHOULDN'T!

    I remember reading and being told by my grandmother (because I am not old enough to experience this as my truth) people feeling the same way about Black people being allowed to vote, interracial couples being allowed to marry! I'm not saying gay/lesbian liberties are the same as civil rights, I'm just saying WHY DOES IT AFFECT A PERSON WHO has their own life to live as much as it does!

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Tatted
    it goes back to what I was saying...people who follow the bible believe its a sin...and they may feel like society is trying to get them to accept something that God doesnt accept...

    Im just playing devil's advocate here BTW....

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I FOLLOW THE BIBLE, I'MMA BELIEVER BUT that is not the only sin that's in the BIBLE! God doesn't accept coveting another's spouse, JUDGING, having sex outside of marriage....LET'S START RACKING THOSE MILES UP AS WELL BECAUSE the last I checked, there is no big or little sin! SIN IS SIN!

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    You didnt have to capitlize judging muthafuker... :rofl:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    AND AGAIN, this will not be debated by me! I don't have to debate it! I live it! We can go back & forth about this, I just choose not to because it won't sway my decision one bit as it won't sway yours or anyone elses.

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    that is not the only sin that’s in the BIBLE
    ___________________
    So do you agree that its a sin?
    :think:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :rofl: Chiby...I SWEAR TO GOD if I ever get a chance to meet you, I'mma give your ass a GREAT BIG HUG....AFTER I HAVE YOUR ASS IN A HEADLOCK FOR ABOUT 20 MINUTES!

  • YSoSerious

    Being asked to be fair and equal is not the same as being forced to accept something you don't personally agree with.

    You don't have to like what someone does to let them do it freely as long as they aren't hurting anyone.

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    @Tatted
    :cosign:

    Once again, what someone else is allowed to do in their own life doesn't have any bearing on someone accepting something. Those are your own internal feelings, they aren't going to change regardless if that's truly how you feel about something. No one is asking to borrow your house to have a ceremony or borrow your bed either. So, once again, how doesn't that equate to forced acceptance?

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I AGREE THAT IT IS REFERENCED AS A SIN IN THE BIBLE! Plain & simple! I'm not here to debate the Bible, not one bit! What I'm saying is God knows my heart. He is a loving God. AND I'm married to my WIFE and doing right by that relationship.

    I'm waaay to intelligent for you to TRAP me into an answer. Come correctly next time Chi! :rofl:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Thank you Alex, but you know it'll be we're in cohoots together because we're both "heterosexually challenged!"

    AND IT CRACKS ME UP, how people will fugg other chicks, and then when it's time to accept marriage "it's a sin!" GTFOH!

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    Being asked to be fair and equal is not the same as being forced to accept something you don’t personally agree with.
    _____________________________
    I agree with this statement...fair is fair...and people are people...that's why I think CIVIL unions should be legal...and I think getting married in a church should be up to the preacher, IF that's soemthing he's comfortable with....

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    I AGREE THAT IT IS REFERENCED AS A SIN IN THE BIBLE! Plain & simple! I’m not here to debate the Bible, not one bit! What I’m saying is God knows my heart. He is a loving God. AND I’m married to my WIFE and doing right by that relationship.

    I’m waaay to intelligent for you to TRAP me into an answer. Come correctly next time Chi!
    ________________
    :hahaha: :rofl:
    Dayum....that bish caught on to what I was doing???
    :rofl:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    EXAAAACTLY, CHI! :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    Some ppl agree with everything.....

    @Chi
    Right! And whenever I log on, there seems to be some type of "heterosexually challenged" convo going on. There are bigger things in life to worry about than what someone else is doing with theirs. It seems some ppl want to find a reason to make it ok if they don't "act on it anymore". God knows what's in your heart anyway so it really doesn't matter.

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    I meant @Tatted, not Chi.

  • YSoSerious

    @CHIBY

    I think you know how I feel about church and the bible and all that so I won't go there.

    But if someone thinks homosexuality is a sin and all sins are equal in the eyes of the Lord, why shouldn't gay folks have holy unions just like everyone else? They say we're all sinners so, to be fair, no one should get married in a church then.

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    There are bigger things in life to worry about than what someone else is doing with theirs. It seems some ppl want to find a reason to make it ok if they don’t “act on it anymore”. God knows what’s in your heart anyway so it really doesn’t matter.
    _______________________________
    Well I choose not to act on that part because I am attracted to women sexually however I cant be in no relationship with one...I'm not mentally or emotionally attracted to women....thus the reason I dont act on it....hell I'm attracted to other men and I'm married, it doesnt mean I'm suppose to act on it and cheat on my husband does it? :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    But if someone thinks homosexuality is a sin and all sins are equal in the eyes of the Lord, why shouldn’t gay folks have holy unions just like everyone else? They say we’re all sinners so, to be fair, no one should get married in a church then.
    __________________
    I said it should be up to the pastor if he wants to marry them in a church...but I dont think its should be against the law for them to marry at a damn courthouse... that's why there is seperation of religion and politics.....

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Alex....I am so intuned w/what you are saying! Half of these bish's be acting as if someone is gonna "bump" into their "pumps" or something! As if lesbians/gays are not choosey! I have to tell my friends husband on a regu...NO ONE IS CHECKING FOR YOUR WIFE, TRUST! You don't even want her, what makes you think I do! I'mma little more choosey than your average bear! BELIEVE THAT! I just feel this is an easy agenda for the "voiceless' because they feel they will attain a following w/this one!

    Start worry about all the men/women you have to confess to sleeping w/and stop worry about who I'm letting drill! SERIOUSLY

  • YSoSerious

    @ALEX

    Sandra sets it up that way cause I think deep down she believes homosexuality is an aberration and unnatural. In fact, she has so this on more than one occasion.

    Often her tone sets the tone for the entire comments section. Especially when it comes to "obviously" gay men. Some members just follow her lead and run with the negativity that they already carry in their own hearts and minds.

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    First off, there are other ppl who fall under that "category" than you. I was not directly speaking to you. But in response to your question, cheating and being attracted to someone is not the same thing. Apples and oranges. No, you're not supposed to act on an attraction to someone else while married. Yet I say again, apples and oranges....has nothing to do with same sex attraction.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I agree w/what you've just said YSO. I have always felt that way!

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    has nothing to do with same sex attraction.
    ___________________
    I'm looking at from an attraction point of few...
    If a man is attracted to another man but does not act on it does it still make him gay???

  • YSoSerious

    @CHIBY

    Yes I believe it does. The heart (and the body) wants what it wants. If a man is sexually attracted to another man he's at least bi if he's also attracted to women in the same way. And vice versa.

    Not acting on a thing doesn't change how you feel about it imo.

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    @YSO
    Oh, I know that's how Sandra feels. She doesn't hide that. But what I can't stand is when ppl make statements that they know nothing about. I don't even want to go to the other post bc of that. People need to read more. It's not just black and white. And let's not get homosexuality confused with gender identity. Sometimes they do overlap but most ppl don't have an understanding of it. Sometimes ppl are just born different. If a baby can be born with 10 toes and 7 fingers or with both sexual organs, why is it so hard to believe that sometimes ppl are born with brains and bodies that don't match up? But I know this isn't what you were speaking on. I just had to address that. Homosexuality, in general, has a bad rep bc of ppl that do "come over and play" bc they're tired of men or women or they wanna do what their friends do. That is NOT ALL OF US!!!! Some of us didn't just wake up one morning and "choose" this. Why would we?!? Who wants to deal with the backlash and bullshyt everyday?!? Not me!! But I am who I am....and that is no mistake!!

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    @Chi
    Let's be real....at the end of the day you yourself are either bi and found the one that you could settle down with and it happened to be a man or you are straight and were one of those ones who just wanted to "come over and play" for a while.

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    CHIBY

    Yes I believe it does. The heart (and the body) wants what it wants. If a man is sexually attracted to another man he’s at least bi if he’s also attracted to women in the same way. And vice versa.

    Not acting on a thing doesn’t change how you feel about it imo.
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    Sandra should do a post on this...

    I had this conversation day with my gay guy friend...and we were talking about people who get their genders changed...I was totally confused as to why they do it...but this is a good explanation as to why....even though its confusing as hell...

    But please remember that society is JUST now being open to GLBT lifestyle so it may take a while for society to really understand how deep this goes...first society has to accpet that people are born gay..that is the first step...

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    OMG Alex you better PREACH ABOUT IT! Half the mf'ers that disagree have not one iota clue about any of this except for what they've heard!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    AND NOT TO MENTION, half the mf'ers that oppose or disagree w/it and talk about "it says it's a sin in the bible" if they picked up a Bible, it would zap and burn in their hands all the dirty dawg chit they've done. Let alone walk inside a church, it would probably split in half on the spot and fall on to the ground on both sides!

    #GIMMEABREAK

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    Let’s be real….at the end of the day you yourself are either bi and found the one that you could settle down with and it happened to be a man or you are straight and were one of those ones who just wanted to “come over and play” for a while
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    I've always felt an attraction to both since I was about 8...but its like after I bust a nut with a girl its like get the fukk up off me, let me put on my clothes and get the fukk outta here...we aint finna cuddle and have pillow talk...and go out to eat and hold hands and chit...with a man I like all that....

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Alex is soooo RatchetFree says:

    @Chi
    Let’s be real….at the end of the day you yourself are either bi and found the one that you could settle down with and it happened to be a man or you are straight and were one of those ones who just wanted to “come over and play” for a while.
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    Which cracks me up (not you in general Chi) because half of these bi men and women hide behind their relationship w/a guy because of what everyone else thinks but be the 1st to condemn someone on actually having the balls (no pun intended) to live their life in the open!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    i meant to say hide behind their relationships w/a guy (women) and w/women (men).

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    @Chi
    Could it be that you wouldn't allow yourself to get emotionally attached bc you didn't want to take ownership of actually being bi? You keep referencing being attracted to both but you won't acknowledge "bi".

  • YSoSerious

    @CHIBY

    So I think what your saying is that you feel that as long as one is not emotionally invested in the same sex but are still sexually attracted they are not gay or bi?

    I thought one's sexuality was about who one was sexually attracted to, not necessarily who one would want to have a romantic relationship with. So would it be okay for your man to want to fck or be fcked by another man as long as he didn't actually do it? :think:

  • YSoSerious

    @ALEX

    I was just thinking the same thing...

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    Which cracks me up (not you in general Chi) because half of these bi men and women hide behind their relationship w/a guy because of what everyone else thinks but be the 1st to condemn someone on actually having the balls (no pun intended) to live their life in the open!
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    No seriously in college you can say I tried the girlfriend thing for a while...chit didnt work out...I'm overly emotional...I cant deal with another female's emotions...its just too much estrogen for me...

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    So would it be okay for your man to want to fck or be fcked by another man as long as he didn’t actually do it?
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    Ok so I've already stated (and I know this may sound extremely judgemental and double standard)
    But a man cant be bi...I'm sorry...the chit is gross to me....once I find out you've stuck your peen in another man's ass...all bets are off...

    And ya'll can say what you want...I dont care...that's my opinion and Im sticking to it...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    I'm not trying to debate with anyone about this because at the end of the day it's my opinion and I'm entitled to it, I just remember when being gay was frowned upon and now it seems like it's the in thing, like a fad. Yes I know that no sin is greater than the other, and I know we are all sinners that doesn't mean I don't have the right to say how I feel about the situation, many of you sitting here defending this was attacking Casey Anthony and castings stones now you wanna call those who are in disagreement out...hypocritical much? She sinned, just like you are okaying a sin, so why is it ok to pass judgment on her?

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    She sinned, just like you are okaying a sin, so why is it ok to pass judgment on her?
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    :think:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    BUT YOUR NOT BASING YOUR STATEMENTS OFF OF OPINION, CHIBY, especially not when you challenge others opinion! You only get that "That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it" mentality when others question YOUR opinion versus you questioning theirs. Like my statements above, it wasn't just "my opinion" when you were THINKING you were trapping me into saying something you believed!

    YOU CAN'T HAVE DOUBLE STANDARDS, which is what I've noticed!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    If your referring to me D, I'm not debating a thing w/you! I'm stating my opinion, just as you've stated yours! This is not directed towards you! WHAT I'M SAYING IS I don't feel I have to debate this one bit! I live this chit!

  • Carmez79

    these protestors disgust me!!!! If they are so worried about the sanctity of marriage being destroyed then they need to protest these stupid reality shows like the bachelor and bachelorette, the for the love shows, and damn near all of hollywood because they make a mockery out of what marriage is supposed to be. And marriage is the union of TWO PEOPLE WHO LOVE EACH OTHER! these bigots make me so freaking sick

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    Smh. I personally have not said anything about Casey Anthony, nor will I other than to say who am I to judge her. I don't agree with the attacking. But just because something is more known now doesn't make it a fad. Gay ppl aren't going away like wearing your jeans backwards went away. Like I said, a bad rep it has gotten thanks to some wannabes.

    @Chi
    Just bc you wouldn't be with a bi man doesn't mean a man can't be bi.

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    Like my statements above, it wasn’t just “my opinion” when you were THINKING you were trapping me into saying something you believed!
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    Personally I dont know if I believe its a sin or not...I feel like why would God intentionally make someone gay only to turn around and call he/she wrong for living the way God made them...

    But it IS in the bible that its a sin...so IDK...

    and honestly and truthfully Tatt I was just trying to get an honest opnion from someone who lives an openly gay lifestyle....

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Chi...it's cool. I'm not offended. My skin is thick. My family loves & accept me! I'm blessed! I have just seen quite a few posts on your "disbeliefs" and if your son was gay you would be disappointed. Things like that! Which is cool, but I definitely think if hypocritical seeing that you "dipped" in a few times.

    To each is on! & I can definitely appreciate your heart on this blog!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Like I said, a bad rep it has gotten thanks to some wannabes.

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    Yes I agree with this, I have gay family members and we all knew they were going to be gay growing up but now you have these young girls and young boys who are just experimenting and I foresee parents blaming it all on music videos (Lady GaGa, Nicki Minaj), movies, commercials, etc. Which is what I meant when I said society is forcing it on those who do not support the lifestyle. I have nothing against gay rights but you have to admit some things are taken out of context and way too far. Celebrities have to watch what they say on twitter for fear they might upset the gay community. People have even gone as far as comparing gay rights to civil rights.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I definitely agree w/you Dmisses!

  • http://youtu.be/8A2Mfu0Yc5Q chibytex

    @Tatt
    BTW....ur weddng ring is pretty...it puts my lil shit to shame... :lol:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Awww thanks, Chi....I appreciate that! And I'm sure it DOES NOT put yours to shame! I've seen quite a few that puts my to BED let alone shame!

  • bigmarv

    Look folks! Gay folks are not trying to shove their lifestyle down your throats! They just want to be free to be who they are... No one is able to change their sexuality. It's so unfortunate that we have all of these people out here that know that they are gay, but choose to suppress it and try to live a "straight" lifestyle. The only way they can cope with their inner feelings is to hate themselves, and anyone that is like them. The first one in a group to start bashing a gay is always a gay themselves. I recently attended a party where a man made a toast and started gay bashing in the middle of the toast. About 15 minutes later at the party, he was hitting on me. All I'm saying is... leave the gays alone, they're not trying to make you gay!! If you think that, then you are gay deep down inside, and that's OK too!!! Trust me!

  • http://youtu.be/5L1tr0PIx20 Alex is soooo RatchetFree

    @DMisses
    Yes, I agree with that. Musicians kissing each other on stage just for the hell of it should not be happening. I can see how that will confuse a child. "Mommy, why is that woman kissing another woman if she doesn't really like women?" That I don't agree with.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    @ Alex right, like how is a parent supposed to explain that ish smh

  • Ump!!!!

    72.I FOLLOW THE BIBLE, I’MMA BELIEVER BUT that is not the only sin that’s in the BIBLE! God doesn’t accept coveting another’s spouse, JUDGING, having sex outside of marriage….LET’S START RACKING THOSE MILES UP AS WELL BECAUSE the last I checked, there is no big or little sin! SIN IS SIN!

    by Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven on

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    So freaking Agreed with this, and If u are a lesbian not sure but you just got my respect ms. lady.. I'm straight but I have a live in man, SIN is SIN True words to live by

  • KayCeiSoul

    72.I FOLLOW THE BIBLE, I’MMA BELIEVER BUT that is not the only sin that’s in the BIBLE! God doesn’t accept coveting another’s spouse, JUDGING, having sex outside of marriage….LET’S START RACKING THOSE MILES UP AS WELL BECAUSE the last I checked, there is no big or little sin! SIN IS SIN!

    by Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven on

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    Tatted. You done preached yo' eyeshadow owwwwwwff with this right here!
    :cosign: :cosign: :cosign: !!!!!!!!

  • Daisy

    Congrats to all the newly happily married gay couples

  • lexdiamonz

    I say let PEOPLE get married and stop saying THEM or THE GAYS because they are REGULAR damn people and yall wrong about SandraRose because she has FREELY admitted she is GAY .... aint NOBODY COTDAYUM business the government KILLS me .... people need to worry about poor education, poverty, war, famine, genocide, and why the hell they still showing Oprah reruns instead of what two GROWN AZZ PEOPLE do!!! I work for the military and these jokers worrying about don't ask, don't tell is going to effect the armed forces....WORRY ABOUT ending this bogus azz war with Afganistan and Iraq........that is why we getting our azz handed to us now ....show me any where in the NEW TESTAMENT where homosexuality is MENTIONED moreless told to be a sin......

    *steps off soapbox*

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Ump!!!! says:

    So freaking Agreed with this, and If u are a lesbian not sure but you just got my respect ms. lady.. I’m straight but I have a live in man, SIN is SIN True words to live by
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    Yes Ump!!!! I am a lesbian and I am a happily married one! I thank you for your kinds words above.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    KayCeiSoul says:

    Tatted. You done preached yo’ eyeshadow owwwwwwff with this right here!
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    You are sooo goofey Kay. Thank you, mama!

  • LadeeA

    Real Talk- I don't hate gays, I have family members that are gay and old friends. However, the Lord does not like the sin of homosexuality.

    Someone asked how does God hate something that he created in the first place. Let's be clear. Sin is NOT from God. It is from the Devil. We are ALL born into sin since our first parents Adam and Eve sinned.(Who were tempted by the devil and gave in) This is why Christ died for our sins to bring us back to God. It is upon acceptance of him in your heart that you are reconciled back to God. We can only be cleansed through him and that is a work in progress. It doesn't happen over night. A gay person can easily ask God to forgive them of their sin, just as a murderer and a liar can too. He doesn't turn a deaf ear to anyone. He loves all of us.

    If we're going to constantly quote things from the bible like "Judge Not" then we can't conveniently skip over things about fornication, homosexuality, etc.

    When someone quotes things of God, people get offended and then start throwing stones at those who stand up for God. Saying things like "are you perfect?" It's not about being perfect, it's about educating the world on the things of God so they are not in the dark about it. Honestly, some people of God are judgemental about it and mean and that is NOT how we are supposed minister to ANYONE. We are to do it in truth and in love.

    Especially when this world is imposing sin on people and telling them it's ok. Please do not be deceived.

    For those who are gay. You can be changed, but only by God through Jesus Christ. Just like if someone has a drinking problem or a crack addiction. Where there's hope, there's life and there is life in Jesus Christ. You can like my comments or not, but I'm going to always stand up for the things of God and no I am not perfect, but I am a work in progress growing everyday. Trying to make my way into Heaven.

    Love you all.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    No one is throwing stones @ the person who is standing up for God BUT be about God when you're SO CALL standing up for him! The same people standing up for God on Sunday, are the same ones that was in the club on Saturday, over some man's house on Friday, gossiping about a co-worker on Thursday, etc. This is not directed perse' at you Ladee, but God hates SIN, not just the ones some people deem as such....People need to quit making THIS their agenda and start standing up for God on ALL sins ...having sex without marriage & children out of wedlock, gossiping, hormongering, JUDGING, being sloathful, greed, envious, etc.

    Half the people who think they are going to Heaven will have another thing coming when they get to those gates!