Ed Hartwell is back on the market; Lisa Wu Confirms split

The blogosphere is buzzing about the breakup of former “Real Housewives of Atlanta” cast member Lisa Wu and her husband, former NFL player Ed Hartwell. Wu tweeted confirmation of the split on her Twitter account today.

But that didn’t stop tongues from wagging about money troubles and infidelity being the leading causes of the breakup. Much of the gossip centers around who hunky Ed Hartwell is dating now. Atlanta’s chronically single ladies are already plotting and setting their traps for Ed.

Unfortunately for them, Ed is working to reconcile with his former flame, Lisa, if only for the sake of his 3-year-old son EJ.

A source close to Lisa’s camp tells us that Ed moved out of their home in June of this year — but he didn’t go far. Let’s just say he lives nearby so he can maintain his relationship with his son.

Another family friend says rumors that Lisa is now dating actor Malcolm Jamal Warner, whom she’s pictured with at the Bronner Brothers hair show this past weekend, are completely false.

Despite reports that Lisa Wu left Ed because of his shaky finances, they actually separated because people who are in love do eventually grow apart. That’s life. Even if you are married for 5 years like Ed and Lisa were. “He was my soulmate,” Lisa said to a family friend about the breakup. But the couple remain good friends and loving parents to their son.

“Ed will always support his family,” said the friend, who added that Ed gets retirement checks from the NFL that equal what most people earn in their lifetimes. Ed hasn’t worked in 4 years and his last football gig was for an arena football team in Las Vegas.

Meanwhile, Lisa Wu is a successful business woman who earns a modest income from her numerous business ventures. She’s also in the process of writing a book and she just wrapped a film she was working on in Philadelphia with actor Charles Dutton. In addition to all that, she makes time for EJ, and her other sons Jordan, 16, and Justin, 13, whom she shares custody with singer Keith Sweat.

Lisa Wu keeps in close contact with her tight circle of friends, including former “Football Wives” cast member Chanita Foster, who invited Lisa and other Atlanta celebs to travel to Africa with her to help children affected by the famine.

Foster, 32, is known in Atlanta for her generosity and benevolence in helping others who are less fortunate.

Both Lisa and Ed are telling friends they are separated, which some cynics say is code for “we’re shopping a reality TV show about a former NFL player who is separated from his former reality TV star wife.”

Lisa Wu changed her Twitter name in June from @1LisaWuHartwell to just @1LisaWu. And Ed changed his Facebook status from “married” to “separated” when rumors of their separation first surfaced last week.

Photo of Lisa and Malcolm: Talkingwithtami.com.



 


  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    alrighty. thanks 4 clearing that up :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmlG6HGpXo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Um ok

  • NaijaGal

    Wonder if she’ll try to get back on the housewives show

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt5ghXdq6Z0 Zoe B.

    alrighty. thanks 4 clearing that up :coffee:

    _________________

    :cosign:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    She needs to stop lying…she knows damn well she split cause his ass cant get picked up by an NFL team….

    They was all lovey, dovey on the show…..and trying to make babies and chit…NOW all of sudden they fell outta love!! Bull chit :coffee:

  • Ty

    Ed is fine as hell!!! I thought Malcolm moved in with Regina King :think: Is Ed working at all now? I don’t think it was about money. He probably lost his pride because he kept getting dropped by teams.

  • http://twitter.com/eastpointvet eastpointvet

    that wouldnt make him a soul mate if you split after 5 yrs right?

  • GAGIRL87

    I loved these two together I hope they can work things out they said separated NOT divorced and that daymn Ed is so fine Sandra’s I need a morning glory on Ed ASAP :yes:

  • TruGemini

    If anybody was gone leave anybody over money, then he shoulda been leaving her cuz i clair it don’t sound like she doing much. Writing a book? Who wanna read that isht? Doing a film? Who wanna see that isht?

    The elder son look JUST LIKE Keith Sweat’s ass…
    Is her middle son with Ed, too?

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    Um…who wrote that post?? Cuz it sure wasnt Sandra Rose.

    Lisa’s cute, but she always seemed rather FAKE. Since when did Ms Rose become such a fan of this chick. Color me confused yet not really caring. :shrugs:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I heard they was some “Closet Freaks”…..and I aint just talking about that clothing line she tried to put out either….

  • ValerieB1

    I thought Jamaal was with Regina King. I hope they work it out!

  • TruGemini

    eastpointvet says:

    that wouldnt make him a soul mate if you split after 5 yrs right?
    ____________________________________________

    Damn! You said it before I could.

    If people were “meant” for each other and are “in love” then they don’t grow apart.

  • TruGemini

    …they grow together

  • MrUnapologetic

    I’m sorry to hear about Ed and Lisa’s break-up. However, the rumor that she is dating Malcolmn is kinda crazy to me. I thought he was dating Regina King?

  • Yardgirl

    I thought Theo was dating Regina King? :shrug: Or is that so “months ago”?

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    LOL TruGemini…I just pretended I didnt read abt her business ventures. Aint nobody reading nothing she pen. The nerve of people who think they can just up and write books LOL

  • http://www.ashland86.com TheRealAshland

    i bet the split had something to do with him not having a job,… i could be wrong though.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    :waves: @Ty

    Yeah, I don’t have much to say about this story…I just kinda saw it coming… :shrugs:

  • Yardgirl

    MrUnapologetic says:

    I’m sorry to hear about Ed and Lisa’s break-up. However, the rumor that she is dating Malcolmn is kinda crazy to me. I thought he was dating Regina King?
    *********************

    Jinx :)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    eastpointvet says:

    that wouldnt make him a soul mate if you split after 5 yrs right?

    ___

    I was thinking the EXACT same thing… but oh wells….

  • KDub

    Lisa….are you :snort: again hun? Not that I am starting a rumor.

    “I just heard. Not that I am one to talk…so you ain’t heard that from ME”

    X Ms. Benita from “In Living Color”

  • TruGemini

    SugarPieHoneybunn says:

    The nerve of people who think they can just up and write books
    _____________________________________

    And what the hell is she gonna write about?? We all saw how boring and FAKE she was on the show…

  • brenden

    Ed is a good Brotha. Maybe next time hell find a woman his age and not get caught up in the superficial. You gettin old bruh. I wish him well. I’ll keep my feelings on Lisa mute. I’d hate for Hismom to lose the high regard she holds for me :biggrin:

  • SugarPieHoneybunn

    You know u cant take a pic with someone without gettin in their draws. Its the law. smh

  • Al-Ameera

    Well is Ed broke? I mean I know he doesnt play but there are many ways he could of invested to still generate income… I hope he was smart with his money.

  • Chocolatte

    TruGemini says:

    If anybody was gone leave anybody over money, then he shoulda been leaving her cuz i clair it don’t sound like she doing much. Writing a book? Who wanna read that isht? Doing a film? Who wanna see that isht?

    :hahaha:

    The “character” she portrayed on the show always seemed extra to me, and not real at all. I was happy when i tuned in to season 3 and she was MIA.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmlG6HGpXo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Brenden I left you a message from YSO in the Rihanna post!

    I really wanted Ed and Lisa to make it

  • Ty

    :wave: Hey FeFe :hug:

    @ KDUB…I am the one to gossip, so what chu know?!?!? Spill it :popcorn:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    I KNOW NOTHING about NOTHING regarding them but I’m just reading these comments and I have ONE Question…

    Who is considered Better LQQKING (More Attractive) between Lisa and Regina ?!!? :think: I MEAN, If a Dude got the GREEN LIGHT that he could HIT Lisa (Would HE Pass on that Opportunity ?!!?) :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I heard that He by Shree’ aint coming back to the show…My hubby read that in Jet magazine…. I wonder why… :think:

  • caligirl

    Sorry to hear that, that the Reality Show curse……

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @ELove
    IMO Regina King is a sexy bish…..she seems very classy and her hair is always laid….

    Lisa is pretty, but that’s really it…..

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    I bet it’s about money. As sson as Keef Swizzet wasn’t making ‘dem hit rec-cords, she ditch his arse too! :nono:

  • Ty

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:

    Brenden I left you a message from YSO in the Rihanna post!

    I really wanted Ed and Lisa to make it

    ______________________________________________________________________
    No Brown…u really wanted Ed :rofl: Me too :hump:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmlG6HGpXo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *gasp* TY I AM TRULY OFFENDED! HOW DARE YOU JUST IGNORE MY SINCERITY!!!
    but he could get it :coffee:

  • KDub

    @Ty I read that long time ago when RHOA FIRST started on why Keith Moanin Sweat got custody of their boys. Cause their momma was a :snort: head. I ain’t the only one who read it either. Somebody in the SR fam said something when her and the boys were on this site last week.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmlG6HGpXo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    KDUB I remember hearin that and how she supposedly blew a bunch of Keith’s money

  • brenden

    @Elove :waves: <<thats a very masculine headnod, don't get it twisted. I would say Regina is more attractive. I used to be in love with her whilst she was on 227. As an adult I see she has a weird build. Uptop. Same as Tisha Campbell. All the same homeboy Regina is gainfully employed, which to me is much more attractive than Lisa. Although sleeping with and/or marrying rich men, then using their money to become a business woman is admirable *cough cough* Shaunie, Jennifer, Evelyn, and a ton of others…And don't get me wrong just because many of Lisas ventures have gone bust…It happens to the best of us…Id be more comfortable with Regina. She's been working since she was a child. Now that's sexy…Would I pass on the opportunity to 'hit' Lisa. No, I'd smash. I'd just make sure that none of my lil fellas are introduced to nerry a one of her 40plus year old eggs :whistle: not that I'd have the chance, I can't even keep the minimum balance to sustain my checking acct. Funny thing is, I bet Lisa can't either…

  • Daisy

    Waits to see of Tami will pop in and comment :coffee:

    :popcorn:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @ELove

    I think it’s all about preference. Is Regina as pretty as Lisa?? Maybe not in a way that Hollywood sees fit. But, I do think Regina’s a pretty woman with nice eyes, a bangin’ body (y’all saw This Christmas) and a bubbly personality…Lisa seems like she’d be a hot roll in the sack but then you’d get tired of her after awhile…that’s JMO, which means nothing because I’m not a guy… :shrugs:

  • ICYTIFF

    They have a beautiful family. Ion really watch the show so idk anything abt their personal life :coffee:
    i do hate to see families split, especially black ones. We need to stay together, and work towards leaving something for our children to inherit. ppl wonder why these white kids have money for college, cars in high school, etc.. its bcuz their parents made sure they left something for them. meanwhile we have fathers sprinkling their seeds all over the dayum garden, out here buying million dollar chains & chit. and wonder why we grow up with absolutely nothing… :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmlG6HGpXo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    FeFe
    you see my new link I did for YSO and Meerkat

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @Luscious

    Nope, lemme go check :pc:

  • brenden

    I know Lusheeeeez. And please tell her that those rumors about me and FayFay hooking up in the prknglot of the PigglyWiggly are purely fictional. Well mostly fictional. Tell her eye shorry it was just a one time thing. Fayfay got the double D’s, who could resist? To put a call block on my number was uncalled for! Shyt she got the phone in my name, but won’t accept my calls? Tell her I said good luck retrieving those WIC vouchers she left at my mamas house :coffe:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @Luscious

    I clicked ur link but my work computer blocked it…I’ll have to wait until I get home…

  • Ty

    @ Kdub I always wondered why she didn’t have custody of her kids. She even wanted them on the show but Keith wasn’t having it. Now it makes sense.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @Brenden @FeFe
    Regina LQQKS Odd & Weird to ME & Her EYEZ doesn’t make up for THAT FACT and Her Body is Funny-Built to ME Also… BUT That’s just HOW I FEEL regarding Her

    NOW Lisa does look like She’ll be FUN (For a HOT Minute…) and then become a COMPLETE BORE :rofl: IT Is What It IS — JMO :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @ELove

    The only thing about Regina that I can agree with you on is her mouth…she has some interesting teeth/gums. But I’ve always thought her eyes were gorgeous…and her body is very toned, taut, and fit, that’s all I meant regarding that…

    And yes, Lisa will probably fulfill ur fantasy and make you want to smack her azz across the face less than a week later…

  • cheeks8683

    Relationship status updates are the devil…

  • Lovely One

    Malcolm Jamal Warner is MARRIED to Regina King so I sincerely hope that rumor is not true.

    Lisa may have snorted coke but maybe that was a “side effect” of Keith Sweat beating her. I also heard Lisa was caught with one of the Blackstreet members but I think that was after the Sweat beatings

    Lisa was “over the top” on Bravo but I think that comes from trying to be the “Super Black Woman” in order to dispell the black ghetto woman stereotype (i.e. Tami & Evelyn from Basketball Wives) :shrugs:

    SN: I do like Tami though

  • brenden

    @FeFe it’s the song gangster lean.lol. Lusc is crazy…im reminded of being at home watching that video on the JukeBox network and doing the dip to the side-in that gangster lean-dip to the side in that gangster lean dance with them.lol

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    cheeks8683 says:

    Relationship status updates are the devil…

    ——

    Which is why my single ass doesn’t have any type of relationship status listed. I hate that everyone feels the need to share when their relationship is complicated or any other nonsense.

  • MsOnederful

    wait. what happened to Yso?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Lisa may have snorted coke but maybe that was a “side effect” of Keith Sweat beating her. I also heard Lisa was caught with one of the Blackstreet members but I think that was after the Sweat beatings
    ______________________________________
    Damn I didnt know Keith Sweat had Ike Turner tendacies….he looks too slow to beat anybody…but I guess you never know….

  • cheeks8683

    Which is why my single ass doesn’t have any type of relationship status listed. I hate that everyone feels the need to share when their relationship is complicated or any other nonsense.
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :cosign: I keep that info blank on my profile as well. If u want to know ask. I hate when people have theirs as its complicated..wth, Why are you letting everyone know yall are having problems…smh

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @brenden and luscious

    I used to LOVE me some Gangsta Lean. That was the ‘hood anthem for all the fallen homies…

    *pours out some out likka from my 40 oz. e-bottle of St. Ides for YSO and Mirs*

    (whispers: get back up in here soon y’all!)

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    MsOnederful says:

    wait. what happened to Yso?
    ___________________________________
    Auntie banned her, when its other people that need to be banned… :coffee:

  • rockstar

    I thought Malcolm was dating Regina King?

    :offtopic: Toya’s new husband got arrested today at AHJ Airport. Why???? He brought a gun into the security area. People were taking pictures and everything. I wonder how long before one pops up………..

  • TruGemini

    Malcolm Jamal Warner is MARRIED to Regina King so I sincerely hope that rumor is not true.
    ______________________________________________

    Really? When? I just thought they were shacking up…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    Damn I didnt know Keith Sweat had Ike Turner tendacies….he looks too slow to beat anybody…but I guess you never know….
    ___

    @chiby

    Get out of my head! I was thinking the same thing! And, why wasn’t this a factor in their divorce proceedings if he did indeed slap her around?

  • West Coast Chick

    chibytex says:

    She needs to stop lying…she knows damn well she split cause his ass cant get picked up by an NFL team….

    __________________________________________

    :yes:

  • brenden

    Oh Msonederful. It’s so awful. Wait are you single? Lemme intro myself, my name is Brenden. That’s pronounced Brawn-Dillion. I’m Creo/Itallian. I’m 5’2. 265. I enjoy uh um no wait, my bad…You asked a question…She was banned :wails:

  • Mamacita

    So more folks gettin banned?

    Anywho, I like them together. *sigh* Marriages these days just don’t last.

  • ICYTIFF

    @Chiby I been meaning to ask, what did they do to get banned? i think someone said they were disagreeing w/ auntie’s posts or sumn…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    :waves: @Mamacita

  • KDub

    Toya’s new husband got arrested today at AHJ Airport. Why???? He brought a gun into the security area. People were taking pictures and everything.
    —————————————————–
    Just like when Petey Pablo azz got caught a few months ago at our airport with one. I had TEARS when the news channel ran some pic some yt man captured on his phone. Folks know they will whip their phones out and start snapping.

    How embarrasing.

  • West Coast Chick

    FeFe says:

    Damn I didnt know Keith Sweat had Ike Turner tendacies….he looks too slow to beat anybody…but I guess you never know….
    ___

    @chiby

    Get out of my head! I was thinking the same thing! And, why wasn’t this a factor in their divorce proceedings if he did indeed slap her around?

    _______________________

    not sure what happend, but Keith got custody of the kids :coffee:
    hey girlz :waves:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Why do people bring guns to airports?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Toya’s new husband got arrested today at AHJ Airport. Why???? He brought a gun into the security area. People were taking pictures and everything. I wonder how long before one pops up………..
    ________________________________________
    Dumb niggas….why the fukk you taking a gun to the airport??? Just why, why, why….

    Nigga trying to hook up with T.I. before he leaves the slammer….

  • Eb

    Just testing my log in :coffee:

  • brenden

    Aint that the truth @mamacita. Me n you could break the mold, I’m just sayin :whistle:

  • West Coast Chick

    KDub says:

    Toya’s new husband got arrested today at AHJ Airport. Why???? He brought a gun into the security area.
    ____________________________

    :blink: a gun?? his goofy looking ass? :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    :waves: @WCC

    :lol: @Eb

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YdmlG6HGpXo LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Eb I think I might just log off! Ion wanna get in trouble for laughin

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @East.. DEAD

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @Luscious

    If you click my link you’ll find the irony of the situation too… :yes:

  • KDub

    So am I late and yall went off topic and already discussed Lil Wayne bussin his heat to the white meat? Just read that dumb azz shat.

  • WUTWUZMISSIN!

    TruGemini says:

    eastpointvet says:

    that wouldnt make him a soul mate if you split after 5 yrs right?
    ____________________________________________

    Damn! You said it before I could.

    If people were “meant” for each other and are “in love” then they don’t grow apart.
    ———————-
    I think people give up on love to much. In marriage, you are going to have days when you can’t stand each other, some days you wanna just pitch their arses right out the window and drop the big screen on their heads, but that’s apart of the growth process of marriage. You make a vow until death do you part… It’s become to easy to walk away these days.

    Disclaimer: I do not condone people staying in abusive marriages! If there is actual physical fighting going on then yeah move on…

  • WUTWUZMISSIN!

    West Coast Chick says:

    KDub says:

    Toya’s new husband got arrested today at AHJ Airport. Why???? He brought a gun into the security area.
    ____________________________

    a gun?? his goofy looking ass?
    ———————–
    Look goofy… is goofy… :mad: who da hell don’t know they packin heat?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Two things:

    Im not really confident that Lisa isn’t sneaking in on the other team…

    And this just in

    “If you want some come over tonite”

    “Got me a new one threw the old one away”

    This was in response to a text about deordorant irritating someone’s skin but came back to the reply of the first text :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    :cheer: Wesssssttttt SIIIIIIIIDDDDDEEEE!
    Hey bew!!

  • sexyphillygirl

    Its ashame they couldnt work it out, you couldnt pay me to be on a reality show if I was married putting my business out for the world to see is not a good thing in my opinion. The things I would do on Ed’s chest…..woo sai….woo sai…

  • Mamacita

    @FEFE :waves: Hey!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    **TESTING TESTING**

  • Mamacita

    @brenden :lol: we could couldn’t we? :thinking:

    Even if it doesn’t last I can always count on your crazy ass for a good laugh!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I think people give up on love to much. In marriage, you are going to have days when you can’t stand each other, some days you wanna just pitch their arses right out the window and drop the big screen on their heads, but that’s apart of the growth process of marriage. You make a vow until death do you part… It’s become to easy to walk away these days.

    Disclaimer: I do not condone people staying in abusive marriages! If there is actual physical fighting going on then yeah move on…
    ________________________________________
    :cosign:
    People these days dont want to work or fight for chit…If it aint always positive :rolleyes: (sometimes I hate that word) then people dont want to deal with or talk about it…every day aint gonna be great or uplifting or POSITIVE for that matter…its called fukking life…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    not sure what happend, but Keith got custody of the kids
    hey girlz
    __________________
    :waves: Boo – I think the rumor about Lisa being a :snort: head is what may have led her to loose the custody fight

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    TESTING TESTING**
    ________________
    :lol: :lol:

  • rockstar

    Toya tried to tell him he was wrong for doing that and he brushed her off and was like ” whatever it ain’t no big deal”…He seems stupid to me. That’s a federal offense and I do believe a 7,500 to 10,000 fine. Talking about he got a license to carry. Not on a plane you don’t :haha:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Toya tried to tell him he was wrong for doing that and he brushed her off and was like ” whatever it ain’t no big deal”…He seems stupid to me. That’s a federal offense and I do believe a 7,500 to 10,000 fine. Talking about he got a license to carry. Not on a plane you don’t
    ________________________
    That would make me question my matrimony to him :lol: :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @cocoa
    IF a Female wants Her Husband to get caught with a GUN at an Airport… She’ll PACK HIS BAG for Him :coffee:

  • Lovely One

    Damn it! It appears that Malcolm & Regina are NOT married. That sucks :-(

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    Um…

    In that pic with Lisa and her boys, is she sure she brought home the right child the first time cause uh… something don’t look right about that oldest boy. :think:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    I agree that people do give up on love too easily. Lisa seems like she bores very easily. Like she needs to be constantly fulfilled through her image and/or through her possessions. I don’t know her obviously, but when watching her on the show I gathered that vibe from her…

  • Dawn Sheen

    I too am back on the market.. I recently seperated from my boo of 3 weeks.. my waterproof bullet… pinky (as I so fondly called her) met the tragic fate of my dust buster (the hand held vacuum, not my snap back) I keep tapping her hoping to get a buzz but the chit just got real and I have decided to bury her behind the nearest starship…

  • Lovely One

    @ Cocoabana says:

    Why do people bring guns to airports?
    ———————
    Why would you chill at a place where you think you need a gun? Men annoy me sometimes :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @Man

    That oldest on looks JUST like Keith…look at his nose and eye area… :coffee:

  • sexyphillygirl

    The only couple on the show that I was shocked about breaking up was Eric Snow and his wife…he looks like a innocent little boy….apparently I was wrong lol….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    :hugs: @Dawn…keep ur commentary coming!

  • Dawn Sheen

    OAN and I haven’t been in love since 2003… I was in lust for like 2 mins with my daughters dad and them 2 mins turned into an 18 year love affair, with my chicken little not his simple azz… eff love… okay not really bu maybe one day… I am optimistic…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    FeFe
    :whistle:
    What you gonna do when you get outta jail
    I’m gonna have some fun…………

    I just changed mine again!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    I think people give up on love to much. In marriage, you are going to have days when you can’t stand each other, some days you wanna just pitch their arses right out the window and drop the big screen on their heads, but that’s apart of the growth process of marriage. You make a vow until death do you part… It’s become to easy to walk away these days
    ^^^

    I DON’T WANT ANY Female that FEELS this way about me AS A WIFE living around me Everyday of MY LIFE :nono: TOO Much Damn Potential for being a Star of a “Snapped” episode (NOT I !!!) :coffee:

  • mrsloveleigh

    I liked them as a couple. Hope they work it out. I with EastPoint on how are they soul mates but giving up on each other. Where is the for better or for worse

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    sexyphillygirl says:

    The only couple on the show that I was shocked about breaking up was Eric Snow and his wife…he looks like a innocent little boy….apparently I was wrong lol….
    _________________________________
    Them be the main ones you have to watch…cause they think they can get away with chit cause no one is expecting them….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @Luscious

    :danban1:

  • sexyphillygirl

    Any relationship whether its your bff or husband takes work, trust me its a lot of days where I want to kick my bff in her back but I dont cuz I love her lol.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I DON’T WANT ANY Female that FEELS this way about me AS A WIFE living around me Everyday of MY LIFE :nono: TOO Much Damn Potential for being a Star of a “Snapped” episode (NOT I !!!) :coffee:
    ______________________________________
    I hope you dont think she’s gonna be happy with your ass EVERYDAY….that’s not realistic….

  • Mamacita

    chibytex says:

    sexyphillygirl says:

    The only couple on the show that I was shocked about breaking up was Eric Snow and his wife…he looks like a innocent little boy….apparently I was wrong lol….
    _________________________________
    Them be the main ones you have to watch…cause they think they can get away with chit cause no one is expecting them….

    ——————————-

    Right! Look at Tiger Woods…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    Them be the main ones you have to watch…cause they think they can get away with chit cause no one is expecting them….
    __

    :yes: My ex boyfriend had the most boyish face, all innocent looking. He even had a soft-spoken voice and gentle nature. That ninja was out doing everything UNDA the sun the last year we were together…was out there getting chicks pregnant, denying the baby was his, getting caught with other chicks whose husbands caught them in the act, the whole nine yards!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @ELove

    That feeling can be mutual. The chicks who snap on your are usually unassuming, and the men never see it coming. But if a woman openly admits when you are getting on her last nerve she’s usually just being real with you. I know there are days when my husband wants to knock my head off my shoulders…that’s what happens when two DIFFERENT people live together, sleep together, and join families. Folks get TIRED of each other, but the key is your diligence to commitment and sticking those tough times out. Every couple I know that has made it past 25 years has openly discussed damn near hating each other at one time in the marriage…it’s a part of any relationship whether it be friend or spouse…

  • mrsloveleigh

    The best lesson I’ve learned in marriage is to learn how to fight. If me and hubby are fighting over money we fight over money. Not money and how you pissed me off 5 years ago. And once the fight is over it’s over. I might not want to run and kiss on you but we WILL BOTH be sleeping in this bed tonight. Learning how to do that has saved us alot of stress. After 12 years neither of us have ever left the house or threatened to leave each other. Real talk

  • mrsloveleigh

    I agree FeFe. I’m halfway to the 25 yr mark. We haven’t hated each other yet though lol

  • WUTWUZMISSIN!

    @ Chiby and FeFe

    :yes: I wanna hear about couple that are “Still Togeda” like that couple on In Living Color.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    The best lesson I’ve learned in marriage is to learn how to fight. If me and hubby are fighting over money we fight over money. Not money and how you pissed me off 5 years ago. And once the fight is over it’s over. I might not want to run and kiss on you but we WILL BOTH be sleeping in this bed tonight. Learning how to do that has saved us alot of stress. After 12 years neither of us have ever left the house or threatened to leave each other. Real talk
    ________________
    Good advice I hope to remember these words when Im married – starting now on learning how to argue and let it go! Growing up can be FUN :grin:

  • mrsloveleigh

    @Wut my in-laws have been married 32 years. I think that really helps my marriage because my husband got to watch them have their ups and downs and come back to the good. So he already knew everyday won’t be roses but it still works

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    MARRIAGE SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    I anti saying she not gold digger but she messing with know broke men

    1. Teddy Riley
    2. Wesley SNipes
    3. Keith Sweat
    4. Ed Hartwell

  • mrsloveleigh

    @Choco it’s amazing how good it works for us. We can have a horrible agrument tell each other to eff off and shut up and 10mins later I go to him and say ok what are we having for dinner and he usually laughs. Or we argue during work hours and when we get home it’s peace

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @SANDRA
    “Ed will always support his family,” said the friend, who added that Ed gets retirement checks from the NFL that equal what most people earn in their lifetimes.”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :blink:

    “Most” people must be janitors. This dude gets like $5K a month from his retirement. :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    chibytex SAID:
    I hope you dont think she’s gonna be happy with your ass EVERYDAY….that’s not realistic….

    NOT Being Happy and Causing Severe Bodily Harm or Death AIN’T The Same DAMN THING :lol:

    @FeFe
    I’m Different then because I can’t FUNCTION Properly in a Marriage or Significant Relationship with HATE & DISGUST running Rampant

    @mrslove
    AIN’T NO FEMALE sleeping with ME (In the SAME BED or ROOM) and She’s UPSET or ANGRY With ME :nono:

    If that is JUST HOW IT IS regarding being Married then BEING MARRIED is the LAST THING I’m striving for IN LIFE :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    it’s amazing how good it works for us. We can have a horrible agrument tell each other to eff off and shut up and 10mins later I go to him and say ok what are we having for dinner and he usually laughs. Or we argue during work hours and when we get home it’s peace
    ________________
    My friend and I do that now – before when I was a cougar in long relationships they didn’t understand how I’d be like whatever let it go! But with he and I we argued had words last night and we both were like I don’t want to argue with you – he said my mouth gets on his nerves and I said yours does too – Him: Well we have that in common – argument over :grin:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    might not want to run and kiss on you but we WILL BOTH be sleeping in this bed tonight. Learning how to do that has saved us alot of stress. After 12 years neither of us have ever left the house or threatened to leave each other. Real talk
    _______________________________________
    :applause: THIS is the key…..

  • mrsloveleigh

    Awww Luscious when you pick the right one marriage is great. I’ve seen some really bad ones but i’ve witnessed some great ones too. I love being someone’s wife because I picked the right one for me

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Yeah Im a divorcee but I haven’t ever given up on marriage just knew I didn’t want to be at one point in my life

  • WUTWUZMISSIN!

    mrsloveleigh says:

    @Wut my in-laws have been married 32 years. I think that really helps my marriage because my husband got to watch them have their ups and downs and come back to the good. So he already knew everyday won’t be roses but it still works
    —————–
    My mother had 6 kids my father had 8. They divorced and married each other and had me. They have been together for over 45 years… my dad is 95 :coffee:

  • BigCityGirl

    SOUL MATE is another word used very loosely! Just because the sex is good and your bills are being paid doesn’t make your partner a SOUL MATE. Folks come into your life for a reason, season or lifetime. It seems like the season are over for them….

    My grandparents were married for 55 years! For better or worse, richer or poorer and in DEATH they did part….and in ‘their day’ they went through some stuff…NOW thats what I call SOUL MATES….We need to go back to basics with this marriage stuff….

  • mrsloveleigh

    @Wut that’s what i’m striving for.
    I think the key to our releationship was the foundation. His dad always told him marry someone you grew up with. We were high school school mates and got together 2 years after graduation. We were friends first and we have a common history and friends. We just made sense together

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @Man :hahaha:

    I didn’t think he was paid like THAT either! I just thought I’d leave that little tidbit alone…

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    BigCityGirl says:

    SOUL MATE is another word used very loosely! Just because the sex is good and your bills are being paid doesn’t make your partner a SOUL MATE. Folks come into your life for a reason, season or lifetime. It seems like the season are over for them….

    My grandparents were married for 55 years! For better or worse, richer or poorer and in DEATH they did part….and in ‘their day’ they went through some stuff…NOW thats what I call SOUL MATES….We need to go back to basics with this marriage stuff…
    _________________________________
    :cosign:
    But we had the conversation the other day…I feel like cheating isnt the worse thing that can happen in a relationship….I wouldnt neccessarily up and divorce because of that….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @ELove

    :nono: You misunderstand bruh…no one is saying that’s how the mood is even HALF the time…but those times do come and the key is to make sure the good always outweigh the bad… I would say literally 95% of the time my husband and I are GOOD…but the 5% is so annoying sometimes that I want to strangle him… :shrugs: Why would I leave him over a measly 5%?

  • mrsloveleigh

    Chiby me and hubby been together 12 yrs and he has a 10 yr old daughter. We were young then and had no true commitment so I forgave that but he couldn’t pull that ish now

  • West Coast Chick

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    not sure what happend, but Keith got custody of the kids
    hey girlz
    __________________
    Boo – I think the rumor about Lisa being a head is what may have led her to loose the custody fight

    ______________________

    :shocked: nooooooo waayyyy??!!

    hey Choco :hugs:

  • mrsloveleigh

    Agreed FeFe. Hubby gets on the nerves only about 5% of the time also.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @chiby

    My grandparents have been married for like 57 years and my grandma waited until I was grown to tell me some deep stuff….my grandfather cheated on her when the kids were almost grown, she said it still hurts her to this day but she has forgiven him and that little blip on the radar was nothing in comparison to the family legacy they’ve built together with their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. They are the matriarch and patriarch to the family on my father’s side… The are both old and still love each other even more than ever…

  • sexyphillygirl

    Wow didnt no he made that little bit of money on retirement, he needs to do some commercials or something lol.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @mrslove

    Right, and don’t those 5% times sometimes make you wanna throw something? But you ALWAYS get past it, talk it out, and get back to that 95% of the time… :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @Bigcity girl.. say it again my grandparents were married for 52 years they never used the word soul mate but i do because to make a marriage last that long especially these day your souls must be aligned in some way.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @FeFe
    YOU SAID: but the 5% is so annoying sometimes that I want to strangle him…

    ^^^
    YOU (NOR Anyone Else) can convince me THAT THIS IS KOOL or NORMAL… AGAIN, I’m just a Different type of DUDE… That’s a Hall & Oates scenario I can never ROLL With (“I CAN’T Go For THAT”) :coffee:

    For THOSE that are Married (And making it WORK) I have nothing but Respect for Y’all !!! :yes:

  • PAHairston

    Hello All. Soulmate: one who can finish your sentences; one that ALWAYS has your back; one that is trustworthy; one that will give you their last dime if you need it; one that will feed you when you’re sick, comfort you when you’re sad and lift your spirits when you’re down and out; like someone said, get mad, cuss yo ass out– up one side and down the other–and in the next minute, kiss you on the cheek and ask what you want for dinner.

    I’m sure I left stuff out but that’s a soulmate.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @MrsLove
    I’m not saying that if this nigga was cheating habitually it wouldnt be a problem. but if its once or twice over a 20 year period, then no I’m not divorcing him…my grandfather cheated on my granny and had outside kids, but she didnt leave him cause at the end of the day he was still a good husband to her, and he took care of all 13 of his children… Personally I believe its damn near impossible to be married for 50/11 years and NO ONE in the relationship ever cheated….the chit doesnt sound humanlly realistic IMO….if you married for love and companionship there will be things that you can overlook….

    you may leave your husband over cheating and end up with somebody way worse than that…like an Ike Turner or Lil Wayne

  • mrsloveleigh

    ELove not the Hall and Oates refrence lol. It’s really no different that a sibling releationship. You grow up together, you fight, you make up. No matter how mad a sibling made you you would still go the ends of the earth for them. It’s all baout knowing the other person

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    Ok, @ELove

    You are divorced correct? (If I’m wrong let me know)…

    You can’t tell me that your ex-wife or an ex-girlfriend has never just p1ssed you off to the point where you wanted to grab their azz and squeeze the life out of ‘em…of course you don’t DO it, but you have had to THOUGHT about doing it at least once in your life…

    Like Chris Rock said, unless you’ve thought about killing your mate and even plotted about where you’re gonna bury the body, you haven’t been in love! :lol:

  • BigCityGirl

    @ FeFe…thats what I’m talking about….love hearing stories like that. At my grandparents 50th anniversary party I remember they danced to song NO PAIN, NO GAIN…by Betty White. And even though we didn’t know everything they way they were dancing and swaying to the song…everybody knew…they went through some stuff but were still standing!!!!

  • mrsloveleigh

    I def feel like hubby is my soulmate.

  • mrsloveleigh

    Wow No Pain No Gain!! I was too young to understand that song until now. Preach Betty!

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @FeFe
    There are times when I want to kill my hubby for doing dumb chit…but all you can do is cuss his ass out and move on…hell I’m sure there are times when he wants to shoot me too….( I can have a very mean tongue when I want to) but he knows what he married..so we argue and get over it….

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9d9FA3fCf4 FeFe

    @BigCityGirl

    I remember that song, my grandma used to play it all the time with her other blues records…lol!

    And, although you should never put up with perpetual bullshyt in a marriage, it is very true that there is no gain without pain. The pain doesn’t always have to be cheating and it should never be abuse, but sometimes the pain just comes from growing and changing. I think both mates probably go through a point in their life when they want out, the desire to be gone is painful…but commitment and diligence to the marriage pays off in the long run…

  • mrsloveleigh

    I agree somewhat Chiby. I just hope that if it gets to that point we can come to an agreement. Once the trust it broken it’s hard to repair. Who knows maybe we will both get bored and both look for something outside. I have to get there before I can say what i will and won’t do

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @mrslove
    My ELDER brothers can’t get NO SUCH Admiration or Respect from ME… BLOOD doesn’t dictate such treatment from ME (Real) Once you’ve showed me YOUR AZZ in direct action to MY Kindness or LUV (It’s A WRAP !!!) :lol:

    @FeFe
    YEP YEP (I Was Married Before…) And when THOSE MOMENTS came up I had to re-evaluate if this is the Person I Really NEED TO BE WITH (In This Capacity) Especially when the SAME THINGS just keep happening even after we’ve talked about it IN GREAT DETAIL Afterwards :yes:

  • mrsloveleigh

    Shoot me and Hubby talk now about man if i was single…..lol it’s half joking half serious. that’s life. you will always want what you don’t have. if we weren’t married i’m sure i would be pining away for that

  • pointhimout

    all relationships come to an end. It may not be next week or next year, but it will come to an end. Trust me. There’s no bad blood or animosity. We’re cool but are no longer interested in each other. Such is life.

    We’re living in a new day people and it’s time we all accepted it. Prenups should become the norm for common folks too because again, IT WILL COME TO AN END. yesrs 1-3, we each leave with what we came, considering joint debts are settled from our joint incomes. years 3-7, 7-10, 10-15 etc, the terms become a little bit more aggressive. It’s a reality all must deal with so get a prenup, discuss up front how ur going to split things up when this marriage ends.

  • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

    @Daisy chile people gone run their mouth when they dont know chit! I have better things to do! I posted on my blog and thats, that. Arguing with folks I dont know,ain’t gone solve chit!

    I’m always amazed at how people think they know someone personally, after reading a blog or watching them on a scripted tv show #Fail! I’ve never seen my friend do drugs and she is a great mom. People also dont know that she has “JOINT” custody of her boys. When people dont know, they assume,she will be just fine! I’m sad though that they are separated(tear). #movingon

  • http://www.1021online.com/1021online_006.htm Fieryearthchild

    @talkingwithtami Adding… When anyone looking on the outside in assumptions can get the best of people. Not many wants the story straight that’s boring. Salacious sells for many and believable. With both being back on the market company isn’t an issue, it’s whether they want to work it out or move on. NP Al Greene’s STAY TOGETHER for nostalgia.

  • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

    @Fieryearthchild true so true lol

  • TwinMom

    My parents have been married 50 years and my husband’s parents were married 25+ years. You can learn a great deal about relationships just by watching the relationships of your parents. With that being said, you also have to select good mates and not go into marriage with a hidden agenda. You also shouldn’t try to fix your mate into who you want them to be. People are born they way they are going to be on this planet. If you can’t enhance who they already are…..they are not for you.

    I leave on this note….Dear single young ladies who are in such a hurry to get married, here’s a quick piece of Biblical advice: Ruth patiently waited for her mate, Boaz. While waiting on YOUR Boaz, don’t settle for ANY of his relatives: Brokeaz, Poaz, Lyinaz, Cheatinaz, Dumbaz, Cheapaz, Lockedupaz Goodfornothinaz, Lazyaz or Marriedaz and especially his third cousin Beatinyoaz. Please, wait on your Boaz & make sure he respects Yoaz! bahaha….

  • ohpretty1

    While waiting on YOUR Boaz, don’t settle for ANY of his relatives: Brokeaz, Poaz, Lyinaz, Cheatinaz, Dumbaz, Cheapaz, Lockedupaz Goodfornothinaz, Lazyaz or Marriedaz and especially his third cousin Beatinyoaz. Please, wait on your Boaz & make sure he respects Yoaz! bahaha….

    :applause: That’s it in a nutshell. NO ONE should settle or be pressured due to your age, what your friends are doing and your family’s opinion.