When troubled singer Rihanna danced like a slut in the streets of her native Barbados last week, many people came to her defense, saying her naughty dancing was part of the tradition of the Kadooment Day festival on the tiny nation island.

Well, dancing like a trollop or a hussy may be customary for the other drunks in the street, but Rihanna is a worldwide superstar with legions of female fans -- many of whom are under 18.

Rihanna has a responsibility to her young fans, says singer Mel C, who criticized Rihanna for her inappropriate' overtly sexual behavior, her pot smoking and her drunken binges that are the talk of the industry.

The 37-year-old mother of 3, took to Twitter today and posted:

"For the record. I am a big fan of Rihanna, I am also a mother. People have to take some responsibility because we’ve got to a point where over-sexualisation of young children has gone too far,’ the Mirror reported. I think music is a big part of that. Women in music, very successful women, are extremely sexual and they have young fans. It is inappropriate.

The Spice Girls singer used herself as an example of an artist who performs without over-sexualizing her stage routines.

"Rihanna has responsibility and although culture’s always changing, it’s changed too much. It needs to be dealt with. It’s reached saturation point, we owe it to our kids to protect them. Rihanna’s free to do as she pleases, of course, but I think her take on the criticism she’s had is interesting." Source

Souce: DM

  • H-Townmama

    :rolleyes: Ok Mel

  • Zoe B.

    Change the channel :yawn:

  • FoxE

    "For the record. I am a big fan of Rihanna, I am also a mother. People have to take some responsibility because we’ve got to a point where over-sexualisation of young children has gone too far"
    _______
    People = Parents need to take some responsibility for what your kids are exposed to... Stop trying to make every celebrity a ROLE MODEL! Their job is to provide entertainment :rolleyes:

  • MzDimplez1123

    Mel needs to \_ didn't she have a kid by a guy she knew less than a year that has totally disowned her ass? What kind of example is SHE leading?

  • BigCityGirl

    Rihanna is young and loves attention. Thats what this is all about...she's doing a good job with the attention because everybody is talking about her...I just hope she finds love soon. She's much calmer when she is in a love affair.....

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Well Rihanna can do her cuz I wouldn't be letting my young daughter watch her and if I did my daughter would understand how distasteful and disgusting showing your crotch, azz, boobs, gyrating all that extra sexual behaviour is outside of your own bedroom :coffee:

  • H-Townmama

    :waves: Hey Choco!

    also :cosign:

  • NaijaGal

    The interview is pretty choppy...I'm sure some things have been twisted and taken out of context

  • mirsmommy

    Ummmm, don't you mean Mel B????? :shrugs:

  • KDub

    Is she still throwing up her meals after eating?

    Bulimic much Mel C.? That was a GREAT example for the young girls back when you were a Spice Girl hmmmm????

    Imma call you....Eating Disorder Spice.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ?!!? :blink:

  • mirsmommy

    If Mel can't appreciate Rihanna's slutty behavior, then she shouldn't let her daughter listen to her music, or watch her videos, etc. :shrugs: She's the parent.

  • caligirl

    Spice Girl Mel C :shocked: The one who had a baby by :gay: Eddie Murphy? The one who use to stay on Blast back in the day? Chile Please.

  • http://n/a n1kk1a

    Shut up Mel. Didn't you have a baby out of wedlock with Eddie Murphy?? Great role model. Keep it up. ( we are talking about Mel B right??)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @mirs
    THAT'S exactly what I was thinking :think:

    @Zoe
    Precisely because this post is Stuck on "Channel ZERO" :coffee:

  • KDub

    Lets see...

    There was Badly Built Spice (Geri)

    Anorexic Spice (Vicky)

    Hoe-Azz Spice (Mel B.)

    Eating Disorder Spice (THIS heffa)

    Am I missing one?

  • CFREE

    @37 y/o mother of 3...STFU :rolleyes: those are yo kids which YOU are responsible for not Rhi, da fugg u tawkin bout

  • MzDimplez1123

    Did I read that wrong? I thought it said Mel B.

    #ReadingIsFundamental

  • http://n/a n1kk1a

    How did we post at the same time callgirl? Lol!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ KDubb...Baby Spice/Emma

  • KDub

    No we tambout Mel C. The one who was supposedly "sporty" but was spotted in bathrooms worldwide purging. :hurl:

    Mel B. is the one who had a baby with Eddie.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @K-Dub
    I think BABY-Spice (The Youngest DITZY One) NO ?!!? :blink:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Lawd wrote a whole comment on Cha's blog and the chit got lost

    #1 No children or children take your pick
    #2 The son helps mom (good), mom and wife don't get along (immaturity) hubby doesn't tell wife he helped his mother (problematic) Wife getting upset over hubby helping mom (fukn dumb)
    #3 WRONG POINT BLANK PERIOD

  • caligirl

    @n1kk1a Great Minds...lol

  • Aprilbaby

    When was the last time Mel C had a gig? Until you said Spice Girls I was lost!

  • mirsmommy

    KDub says:

    No we tambout Mel C. The one who was supposedly “sporty” but was spotted in bathrooms worldwide purging.

    Mel B. is the one who had a baby with Eddie.
    ___________________

    Ohhhhhhh, so there's a Mel B and a C?????

    #sonotintheloop :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I really just put all that in the wrong post #SCREAMS

  • MzDimplez1123

    Sorry Mel B! Sporty needs to \_ too though

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    ISN'T THE SAYME BISH THAT GOT THREE (3) KIDS BY THREE (3) DIFFERENT DADDIES??????

    BISH BOOO BYE, wit'cho weird arse!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ MM...Yup! There were two Mels :yes:

  • http://n/a n1kk1a

    Oh, and wtf cares about Mel C anyway? I saw her grab Baby Spices ass on Wannabe (watch it again). *gasp* how inappropriate!

  • Daisy

    Chile pls

    Honey Boom

    :rolleyes:

  • caligirl

    She had a reality show for a minute, with her non-working husband. I guess he suppose to be her manager. My batteries were dead in my remote and I was too lazy to get up and turn. I SWEAR

  • KDub

    @ KDubb…Baby Spice/Emma
    -------------------------------------
    How the heck could I forget Emma?

    She is Pale Faced Spice.

    She done needed some sun since 1996.

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    *cracks knuckles before I begin my rant* First of all Spicy Sport WETF your name is...didnt you have a baby by Gay Murphy? STFU and sit ALL the way down.raise your own daughter and teach her from right and wrong not rely on musical artists or entertainers to do so! SMDH And Auntie, Rhi Rhi playin mas is tradition! Something you dont know about but Im suprised you dont being as your from UK and they have a big west indian population out there. Dancing and celebrating in carnivals is tradition and does not make you a slut!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Ooooh, sorry. Just saw Kdub's clarification post! LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    @K-Dub
    OK Soooo Mel C. is the ONE who couldn't wait for Her Food to come out of HER AZZ... So SHE decided to make Come Back OUT of HER MOUTH ?!!? NOW It All Makes Sense (To Me) :coffee:

  • ValerieB1

    Rhianna acting out because she want CHRIS.. :newpost: auntie before my shift ends..

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Choco that gyrating you speak of is nothing short of what you see in dance clubs, am I right? I for one, will raise my daughter my way and not rely on entertainers...thats so stupid of people to get mad because someone isnt a role model for YOUR child. SMH Mel D needs to have a seat and have that baby!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    Isn't this the Sporty Spice chick? Well ummm, yeah, you're no longer relevant anyway, so how about you censor what your child watches...mmmkay?

  • mrsloveleigh

    Rhianna can get pretty raunchy but i did allow my daughters-10 and 13 to go to her show here in Dallas. The 10 yr old said she was grinding on a chick and that was too much lol. So although it was sorta rated r my girls knew that while they like her they don't want to imitate her

  • candibfly

    oh. this is where y'all hoburgers went

  • Dymond

    So the white Mel said this? Cuz Sandra you should have shown a pick of the black Mel in her bikini 11 mos pregnant and the bish was HOT!!

    All I know is when I was Rhi's age you couldnt tell me I wasnt the hottest chit going and she is feeling herself right now, she is still in party all the time mode

  • mrsloveleigh

    @Xamayca Mel B had the baby with Eddie and was Scary Spice. Mel C is the one that was Sporty Spice

  • candibfly

    mel c is still alive? oh.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    Noooooo, Scary Spice aka Mel B is the one who had a child for Eddie Murphy...this is another chick in the group that's talking slick about Rih...

  • mrsloveleigh

    people need to be role models to their own children and not let celebrities be the end all. I'm a damn celebrity in my house. They check out my body of work regularly--when they look for that check lol

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    Awww hell! LOL Thanks LoveLeigh! Oooppps I take what I said back about you having a seat Mel B...I direct my comments to Mel C...why are we posting what a YT woman says abt Rhi on this blog :shrugs: she was irrelevant a LOOOONNGGG time ago.

  • mrsloveleigh

    Xamayca i'm kinda ashamed that I still know them apart lol. Used to watch Spice World with my nieces all the time

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    LMAO its okay boo! I wont tell;-)

  • Anna

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Well Rihanna can do her cuz I wouldn’t be letting my young daughter watch her and if I did my daughter would understand how distasteful and disgusting showing your crotch, azz, boobs, gyrating all that extra sexual behaviour is outside of your own bedroom
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    My 11 yr old niece like Justin Bieber, it beats Rih, yes parents need to be their own kids role models, and quit complaining. It's the parents who buy the t shirts, posters, lunch pals for the kids, "Tommy aint got know job".

  • KDub

    Sandra....gone head and admit the onliest reason you subjecting us to a post featuring what a SPICE GIRL said is cause you were born 'cross the pond (UK)....

    @Elove yes Mel C was the purger. Not sure why she going in on Rhi. My sister and my cousins who were all about 10-11 when the Spice Girls were IT :love: these heffas...I was 18+ and hated them...Guess she did not think nooooobody was gonna remma her pesky lil eatin' disorder. I don't forget ISH.

  • Dymond

    Hey there xamay :hi:

  • ValerieB1

    Who is Mel C? I cant be that young

  • ValerieB1

    Who is Mel C? I cant be that young

  • mrsloveleigh

    If every child behaved the way they see celebs behave theywould all be out there having wild sex and drugging and drinking. I think the press gives celebs too much credit for shaping the youth

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dymond
    Do I have your email you must have mine let me know and dont make me chase your azz from post to post :lol:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Xamayca.. :rofl: I think that's what threw me too. I just KNEW auntie had to be quoting black Mel. Who gives a shyt about any of them really? The only one still relevant is V. Beckham and she probably too frail to type.

  • Anna

    no job* When kids want something they come to us to buy it. Kids should not have a choice in what we do or don't buy them.

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Anna :yes: you are right about that! Buying them concert tickets and shyt!

    @ Dymond Heeeeeyyyy boo-bear :hug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    “Tommy aint got know job”.
    _____________________
    :lol: Granted Rih could be more considerate but I mean damn if she ain't don't mean we are all azz out! #STEP UP TO PLATE

  • Dymond

    omg I turned to 106 the other day and I had no idea who some of those kids were...there's this group called Mindless Behavior-----nevermind, I dont want to talk about kids but their mannerisms and attire --> :dead:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    I'm not Rihanna fan for many reasons and I find nothing about her worthy of being a model for any woman of any age.

    Still, I don't have any fcks to give about any of this. :shrugs:

  • Dymond

    @ Choco
    sorry boo awhailnall@gmail

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Dimpz LMAO IKR I was bout to get pissed too when I read the post LOL thinking "no this bish did not come for Rhi" LOL

  • mrsloveleigh

    LOL I won my Rhianna tickets so that's why my girls went. I don't know that I would've bought them for them. It's all about knowing your kids. My girls like her music but said the grinding was too much

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Anna
    See my kids were spoiled they got what they wanted when they were young well culture shock babes cuz you will work for what you want now - take out trash, wash moms car, lil chores here and there my son is now learning :nono: Mommy doens't give a 13 y o a pair of brand new sneakers and my car is still dirty #WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Dymond! I saw that too! I was SMDH at that fukcery! boys lookin like girls talking bout Mrs Right! I wish my son would.

  • Ms. Everything

    I'm all for parents policing their own kids and monitoring what they see and are exposed to BUT as parents we can not be everywhere and see everything no matter how hard we try. I can refuse to let my children listen to certain songs but best believe they're learning them in school from other kids whose parents aren't as strict. I can refuse to let my kids watch videos so they don't learn certain dances but best believe they're learning them in school. Unless you intend on homeschooling your kids there is no way to completely shield and shelter them from all of the inappropriate messages that are being put out there by these artists :shrugs:

    So yeah, parents are the first and foremost role models for their kids and yes we do have a responsibility to keep them from inappropriate messages and what not but these artists who are intentionally marketed to teenage audiences (yes Rihanna is and she knows that she is) do have a responsibility to at the very least carry themselves respectfully or their teams need to market them differently. I set a great example for my kids but that's not always enough

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    @KDUB

    SANDRA just wanted another reason to plaster her blog with Rih's crotch shots. :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dymond
    I just sent it

  • mrsloveleigh

    Dymond says: omg I turned to 106 the other day and I had no idea who some of those kids were…there’s this group called Mindless Behavior

    OMG Dymond my kids love them!!! I thought they were kinda cute lil boys. The song was catchy
    :whistle:
    Where is Mrs Right? I gotta see her :whistle:
    lol i can't wait til they go back to school

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Who asked her to chime in on what this young lady should be doing? People need to quit expecting these celebrities to be role models for their children, with all due respect Rihanna's last album before this was titled "Rated R" which should tell you the age limit her fan base should consist of! I hate it when people say that these women should be mindful of their actions, that girl doesn't have any children why should she not be entitled to live her life the way she sees fit? That's just like parents getting upset with Nicki Minaj for pulling a dildo out on stage during her performance of "Did it On Em" my first question would be why was your child at her concert in the first place? True she has some songs that are catchy and clean but overall this is a grown woman who does NOT make music for kids! You child should be listening to Justin Bieber or Willow Smith!

  • http://www.scottwaypublishing.com Jazzy Mommy

    People kill me with their holier than thou bullchit. Worry about raising your own kids before you put that job on celebrities. Shouldn't you be more worried about whether or not your kid looks to YOU as a role model Mel???

    Understand that EVERYTHANG aint fuh kids!!! POINT BLANK PERIOD! If your kid is watching Rihanna smoke weed and grind on men and women I hate to be the bearer of bad news but honey the problem is a lot bigger than Rihanna!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Dymond...My daughter LOVES Mindless Behavior and gets pissed as hell every time I refer to them as Metrosexual. Two or Three of them lil boys almost look like girls :yes:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    SANDRA just wanted another reason to plaster her blog with Rih’s crotch shots.
    ______________________
    :lol: :yes:

  • candibfly

    i too am out of freshly baked fvcks to give :shrugs:

  • Dymond

    rhi has some issues and demons to work out and I think she lets all that loose on stage or when she is performing

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Choco I feel you on that. My 5 year old is constantly asking me for toys and whatnot I tell him you need to start doing chores to work for an allowance. Empty the trash and you can get your toy.

  • http://www.scottwaypublishing.com Jazzy Mommy

    DMisses says:

    I hate it when people say that these women should be mindful of their actions, that girl doesn’t have any children why should she not be entitled to live her life the way she sees fit?

    ________________________________________________________________

    :cosign:

  • CFREE

    @DYMOND, I passed by 106 one day while my daughter was watching it, I saw what u saw :no: :tape:

  • Anna

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @Anna
    See my kids were spoiled they got what they wanted when they were young well culture shock babes cuz you will work for what you want now – take out trash, wash moms car, lil chores here and there my son is now learning Mommy doens’t give a 13 y o a pair of brand new sneakers and my car is still dirty #WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT

    ~~~~~~~
    I know that's right. Back in my day the most sexual singer we had was Elvis and his swivel hips. Now if you're not showing skin or grinding your career is not going to survive. Look how Kelly Rowland has had to try to reinvent herself.

  • CFREE

    candibfly says:

    i too am out of freshly baked fvcks to give
    _________________________________________________

    :hahaha:

  • mrsloveleigh

    @Choco my kids know they have to work for what they want. You want a toy go take out that trash. My step-daughter is visiting for the summer and she can't even beat it. She wanted $20 to go skating and to the mall so she vaccumed the floors and mopped

  • candibfly

    well i hope El gets down and dirty on stage at his concert this week and gyrates his hips in my face :yahoo:

  • Zoe B.

    Does anyone have any interesting stories? :shrugs:

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    *stares dreamily into Dimpz brown eyes* I wub your pic:-)

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ LoveLeigh we are --->here<--- LOL I said the same thing "take out the trash"

  • mrsloveleigh

    When the kids were watching the Mindless Behavior videos and picking which one they liked i was like gag lol. Then I told them I was the same way over New Edition and showed them the NE Heartbreak video and they were like they are all ugly!!! I told them Ronnie Devoe was the chit back then lol

  • Ms. Everything

    When I was coming up with all the random raunchiness and other crap in the songs and videos at least the women carried themselves with respect when they were out and about. You didn't see tabloid pictures with them walking the streets half naked, you didn't read stories about how and who they liked to fvck, and all the other nonsense that goes nowadays (and it isn't just Rihanna), I don't ever remember a nude picture or nip slip scandal from "black" artists or any of the other straight foolishness that you see nowadays. I'm sure some did that stuff but it wasn't publicized for the whole world including children to see. That's where the artists personal responsibility has to step in because they are making it seem as if sloring it around and carrying yourself like a tramp is okay and it's not. And again, parents can only do so much because at some point our children have to go out into the world and if little girls clothes are getting shorter and tighter, what's acceptable for women to wear is getting shorter, tighter, sheerer and more revealing, grown men are dressing like thugs and young men are dressing like girls... what is a responsible parent supposed to do? Kids listen to parents but they are inspired fashion and music wise by their peers, especially as they get older. Something has to give

  • mrsloveleigh

    LOl at Candi.... I love El but i can not get down with a dude thrusting his sacks in my face :nono:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    smh... things will stay the same..

  • melinla

    OK Soooo Mel C. is the ONE who couldn’t wait for Her Food to come out of HER AZZ… So SHE decided to make Come Back OUT of HER MOUTH ?!!?

    I fuggin can't with you guys today!!!!!

  • candibfly

    he can thrust and i will catch! :D

  • MzDimplez1123

    :ashamed: <---Blushing @ Xamayca

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA CHA aka Cali Sunkissed

    NaijaGal says:

    The interview is pretty choppy…I’m sure some things have been twisted and taken out of context

    :cosign: I was like who said what now :shrug: :hahaha:

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Ms Everything, I hear you. We as parents have to instill in them what is right and wrong so when they are out on thier own and not under our watchful eye, they make the right choices and wont say "oh well Rhi does it so its okay", instead they will say "my mom/dad explained to me why this is wrong" Or even better "my mom/dad will kick my ass if I do this" LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    *drinks Ms. Everythings drink in her gravi and claps* love ur comment :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    mrsloveleigh says:

    When the kids were watching the Mindless Behavior videos and picking which one they liked i was like gag lol. Then I told them I was the same way over New Edition and showed them the NE Heartbreak video and they were like they are all ugly!!! I told them Ronnie Devoe was the chit back then lol

    ______________________________________________________________

    Lmao omg my daughter loves that band!

    @ Ms. Everything are you an 80s baby? The reason I ask is because hoes have been around for yrs, Madonna was the main one who wore provocative clothes and made raunchy music. This isn't something that just started sex has been selling for decades! Let's not forget about the original Foxy Brown Ms Pam Grier, I'll never forget the day I saw her photo nude, I was about 10 or 11 and I can still remember the shock when I saw her huge knockers lol

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    Dimpz!!! :pacifier: hi bewwwwwwwww

    Candayyyy :hug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Xama
    Girl the earlier the better my kids were spoiled but are respectful so when I had to tell my son ummmm you know has a car note again - so uh you know Im not going broke for a pair of sneeks :lol: puts things into perspective and you know darn well how much them sneakers cost nowadays

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Jazzy Mommy says:

    People kill me with their holier than thou bullchit. Worry about raising your own kids before you put that job on celebrities. Shouldn’t you be more worried about whether or not your kid looks to YOU as a role model Mel???

    __________________________________________________________

    I agree, there is something wrong with that picture, I remember idolizing Janet Jackson as a child but I always wanted to be like my mommy.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    Cha Cha :love: u make me weak in one knee bew :hug:

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    LOL@ Choco I cosign that! LOL

  • MzDimplez1123

    Hissy! :kiss: Where you been heffa?! :wail:

  • Zoe B.

    @MsEv With all of that said, I think we have to come to terms that our children will be exposed to a lot of things we don't approve of. We have to give them JUDGMENT and VALUES! We as adults have sense to know what is wrong and what is right and the sense to act accordingly and that is what we need to arm our children with, not suffocating shelter.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    @CANDI

    I hope your immunizations are all up to date. :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Mrs
    Nothing wrong with that - becuz kids are manipulative little creatures that will attempt at taking advantage of you - REAL STORY so mother's day comes up my daughter is out of work at the time and my son's father was out of work - no biggie cuz I like the gifts they make for me - girl I told my daughter to paint me a picture - she's not into art and was procrastinating for like a month finally did it and it turned out great I framed the pic and put in my bathroom - so then she needs something and Im looking at her like surely you dont expect it right away and I took my time - I treat them how they treat me however we know whose FIRST IN RANK - to this day I get on her about being that damn lazy to make me a gift WTF

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA CHA aka Cali Sunkissed

    Dymond says:

    So the white Mel said this? Cuz Sandra you should have shown a pick of the black Mel in her bikini 11 mos pregnant and the bish was HOT!!

    :hahaha: AT YALL GOING IN ON THE WRONG MEL.....

    CHOCO.. Tis Okay MAMAS :hug: Lemme Hold you :pacifier:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    Dimpz dnt even txt me no more! :cries:

    but i love her still...

  • MzDimplez1123

    :hi: Choco

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    i know i spoke to Cha Cha :shank:

  • http://chachafiles.blogspot.com/ CHA CHA aka Cali Sunkissed

    His_Mommy623 says:

    Cha Cha u make me weak in one knee bew
    :rofl: HEY MY SEXAY BEWLICIOUS

    DYMOND ............... I :heart: YOU LIKE CRAY CRAY

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    *puts shank away*

  • kingstonn

    DIMPZ.
    i've been talking to u half the day and u didnt even mention u had a new gravi. :mad:

  • Ms. Everything

    DMisses - yep an 80's baby and that's why I said black artists cause Madonna was doing all kinds of crap back then but for the most part the majority of our artists did not walk the streets the way these artists do now nor did they say the stuff in interviews that they do now. Playboy spreads don't count in my eyes cause that's a strictly adult medium and any child reading and looking knows they're not supposed to

    Xamaycan - Lol my kids already I'm not playing with them when it comes to these fast ass songs and dances and shows.. I will embarrass them in front of their friends and not care but even though they may not be foolish enough to try me by imitating what they see and hear the message still gets in their heads, that's what bothers me

    His - its a raspberry cheesecake martini

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :2dance: with HIS and DIMPZ :hunching: CHA looking back like the little JOCKEY riding SECRETARIAT : )

  • PAHairston

    Hello All. @Ms. Everything, you put it all in perspective. Times ain't what they used to be, neither are parents and entertainers. Many are lacking. One things for sure: Change is constant.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    (demands to be served a raspberry cheesecake martini asapedly)

    :waiting:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ His....You don't text a bish neifer! :wail:

    Hey Cha-Bella! :kiss:

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    @ Ms Everything Yea I hear u! Kinda scary right. Its getting harder and harder to raise kids with the changing times.

  • KDub

    One of those lil Mindless Behavior boys reminds me of Roger (Marques Houston)....back when he had that asymetrical bob.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Kingston.............. I used that one before, I think. :shrug:

    I still lubs you! :hug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    asapedly
    ___________
    :rofl: GHETTO AZZ making up bigger words :rofl:

  • xamayca 2 di bone

    Im out ladies!! Have a good one!

  • Ms. Everything

    Zoe B. coming to terms doesn't mean liking or accepting it. I've armed them and my kids seem to have a good sense of right and wrong and they all know what is acceptable in my house and when they're out of my house but if things are like this now what's it gonna be like 10 years from now. My kids are still young, in 10 years they'll be teens, that's where my concern is.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ KDub....Iono who they remind me of but, it can't be anybody too masculine. :no:

  • KDub

    (demands to be served a raspberry cheesecake martini asapedly)
    -------------------------------------------------------
    * waits alongside @Yso for mine to get here...expeditious like....

  • KDub

    Iono who they remind me of but, it can’t be anybody too masculine.
    -----------------------------------------------------
    That is why I used Marques as an example...

    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Ms. Everything idk if it was playboy lol I just remember seeing it and was like omg I want boobs like that when I grow up! I understand where you're coming from and I agree to a certain extent, this isn't all on the artists a lot of them are pressured into being sexual to sell albums. The industry is all about sexuality nowadays, that's why it's hard for artists with talent that keep all of their clothes on to get any shine. I can name a lot of underrated talented singers that don't get nearly as much attention as Beyonce and Rihanna! I guess Kelly felt the same way and that's why she's turned into such a raunchy artist because a couple of years ago she didn't carry on the way she has been either. It's sad and kind of pathetic but it's been going on for yrs, I remember getting a whooping when I was little for singing "Juicy" by 3-5-7, I didn't know what they were singing about I just liked the song lol.

  • MzDimplez1123

    I do like the onr lil boy's afro though and that lil one better hope no one jacks him for his pigtails

  • Anna

    In a few yrs Rih will change her bad girl ways. Look at Angelina Jolie, she was kissing w/tongue her own brother on the red carpet. Wore a vile of Billy Bobs Blood around her neck, didn't know if she was straight or gay, broke up a marriage. Now she's ambassador and adopts kids from other countries trying to redeem her past.

  • mirsmommy

    Did anybody see JayElectronica's tweet about Watch the Throne???????? :rofl:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Anna
    That's if she doens't Amy Winehouse herself to death in a few years that's my only concern for her now becuz those around her are not putting their foots down!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    *sniffles* is that Kingbew :hug:

    @Dimpz... 2 wrongs no make it right! :karate:

    @Everything. Exactly...1 or 2 parents against basically a slutty world, makes raising these kids hard as heyul. and dnt think u can turn to someone else for advice becus if ur talking about their favorite musician, they have nothing but bullchit and defensive statements to make.. u have to deal with the few like minded ppl who actually agree that perhaps this "fame and celebrity" shyt is getting out of hand..

  • Zoe B.

    @Ms. E I'm a young mother and I remember seeing a lot of things when I was young, but I also had sense which my Mom gave to me that saved me from hoedom etc. when I was a teen. I was just speaking from my child perspective and I try to remember that side of me while parenting.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @MIRS
    This whole Watch the THRONE movement is overrated and stupid I pass on anything that has to do with it but ummm what did he say :grin:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    @CHOCO

    I stole that from PHROZEN so :nana:

    (looks at my empty hand and KDUB's too)

    Who's a bish gotta :shank: for service around here?!

  • MochaC

    Rihanna is the one who needs to sit down. If we take the kids out of the equation, why should WE be subjected to this all the time. I listen to CD's because I can't stand the music on the radio. I don't watch videos at all because of the excessive sexual content. Celebrities nowadays take things way too far. Rihanna, lately, has been pushing the envelope and although she has a nice shape, her face is not that cute.

  • Zoe B.

    @Mirs please do tell :rofl:

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    I agree with her thanks in part to the "respectable" young ladies that were sending booty shots to this blog for Morning Wood posts. Parents can only do so much. Children are influenced by popular culture. That is a fact. I don't even mind Rihanna doing it and I don't really blame her. I blame the entertainment inudustry because they are the onse force feeding our kids this bull crap. They are not putting the marketing behind the clothed, talented artists. They are putting it behind the Rihanna's, Brittney's, Beyonce's. Look at Kelly Rowland's video for Motivation. That video is not suitable for children's consumption.

    Anyway, that's just my two cent.

  • KDub

    “Juicy” by 3-5-7
    --------------------------------------------------
    Juicy got ‘em crazy..........got ‘em crazy.........got ‘em cold goin’ mad!

    I am going to HAIL for that :wail:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I remember getting a whooping when I was little for singing “Juicy” by 3-5-7, I didn’t know what they were singing about I just liked the song lol.
    ___________________
    Y must I have a blast from the past OMG I thought I was cute :whistle: JUIIICCCCYYY :smack: What did you just say :crying: nuthn

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    I wish YSO would take Dashikianetta out of her damn gravi :lol:

    those brows are slaying me..

  • http://roughroots.blogspot.com Banana

    Mel go shit down somewhere ...... Rihanna was just doing what is apart of her culture....that is how everyone acts at carnival.. no behaviour!

  • mirsmommy

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @MIRS
    This whole Watch the THRONE movement is overrated and stupid I pass on anything that has to do with it but ummm what did he say
    _________________

    Him said.....

    #strangeCoincidences Watch the Throne drops, The US Economy starts planking, and London erupts in riots

    :hahaha: :dead:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @YSO
    K well here's one I heard today - everything is just fine I aint feening for no caffeine :rofl: I was like what :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    KDubble<3 :yahoo:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Lmao @ KDub and Choco man I was doing the dance and everything my mama tore my behind up, I was so confused I didn't know what I was getting a whooping for lol

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    #strangeCoincidences Watch the Throne drops, The US Economy starts planking, and London erupts in riots
    ________________________________
    :lol: Gotta give him :thumbsup: for that one! DAMN

  • http://roughroots.blogspot.com Banana

    If you don't want your child listening to rihanna monitor them!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ His.................I promise to do better. :ashamed:

  • mirsmommy

    @Choco-Frappe, I was soooooo done when I read that!!!!!!!! :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    @HIS

    <---Dashi (what she likes to be called for short) requests that you come and do her eyebrows like yours. She has top of the line Sharpie Lo brand eyebrow pencils for you to work your magic. :lol:

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    Yes, there were a few provacative celebs back in the day, but since there were a FEW and not a LOT, they didn't have as much of an impact on kids. You can "raise you kids right" and talk to them until you are blue in the face, but if just about every song that comes on the radio is about sex, and if all of the young celebs are flashing tits and ass, then there is a 50% chance that your talking and good example setting will fly straight out the window. Sure, the kids will probably straighten out when they are in their 20s but while they are (for the most part) teens who just want to fit in, there is a good chance that they are buying what Rihanna is selling over what good OLD mom is selling. You can try to keep your kids away from tv, the internet, and the radio all you want to, but unless you are homeschooling them and not letting them out of your site they will be exposed. Public figures need to take more responsibility.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    Banana says:

    If you don’t want your child listening to rihanna monitor them!

    ***************************

    You can't monitor your kids activities around the clock. They go to school and they have social lives outside the home.

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    sight

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=12d1zyG2ojs#at=12 His_Mommy623

    @Smokie :cosign:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    then there is a 50% chance that your talking and good example setting will fly straight out the window.
    ___________________________
    Riddle me this my 13 y o son who is a momma's boy lives with his DAD now will come over my house lay on my bed and watch Disney Channel all night #KOOL someone text his phone and I hear the music playing "bish suck my dyck" I fukd you good last nite all this crass azz rap music I look at him like :blink: WTF this is him "its just a song mom" Oh okay well how the hell did you get that song on your phone :think:

    So Im stuck with do you call DAD and make a big deal out of it or thank GOD that your son is still into Disney Channel but listens to hard core rap

  • http://roughroots.blogspot.com Banana

    @bird not around the clock, but u can block those channels, listen to their ipod etc....

    and Yso you should have seen what Dashi had on

  • http://www.scottwaypublishing.com Jazzy Mommy

    Nothing in the world has changed since the 80's. The same chit that was here then is still here now. The only thing that changed is technology so things that were well hidden now have access tto be shown in the light. Instead of complaining about artists having a bad influence on kids I'm wondering how many of those same parents spend time outside in the backyard with their kids as opposed to letting them plop down in front of the television or computer screen and let popular culture mold and shape the thoughts, values and opinions of their kids.

  • Kitrina

    this is Mel C- she was sporty spice, not Mel B the black one LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    It is very much so possible to monitor what your kids are listening to and what they watch, and there was just as much sexual music back when I was growing up as it is today. I think most parents these days are lazy, it's easier to place blame on what these celebrities are doing rather than taking responsibility of what your own children do! I don't even listen to rap music when my children are in the car with me, we listen to 94.5 KSoul and 105.7 which plays old school r&b. I also listen to pop and alternative I expose my children to different genres of music. They don't know all the words to Waka Flocka and Lil Wayne but there are some parents out here who think that's cute that their kids do and can't even tell you the name of the school they go to.

  • http://roughroots.blogspot.com Banana

    @Choco you should call dad and ask how that song got there....when you look he be getting girls to suck his dang a lang. And yea its a good thing he still watched Disney, I guess. Just remember there are lots of grown men that still watch cartoons too, men/boys are just like that.

    The other day my little sister was playing Benz punany (vybz kartel) and I almost slap the headphones out of her ears

  • caligirl

    @Choco aka Hippie.
    1. His daddy ain't yours. You don't need to check in with him...
    2. Have him change his ring tone IMMEDIATELY.
    3. Take his phone and read his messages. Who the hell is he talking to and about.
    4. Matter of fact take his phone for a couple of days. Monitor that joker.

    I just went through this with my son. My phone is now in my purse. HMPH

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    @ Choco, I sure can't answer that. I'm always busting in the room, taking the cell phone, locking the computer, praying, letting him spend time with his dad (who will tell him not to listen to rap but he's listening to it himself).... It's a constant battle between Lil Wayne, Lil B and all the other lil thugs. You take them to church, talk to them, watch Disney movies with them...but that other stuff will still seep through if you are in ANY way a normal parent with a normal life.

  • http://roughroots.blogspot.com Banana

    Very good point @Jazzy Mommy and @DMisses

  • Ms. Everything

    :cosign: Smokie

    Yso and KDub ya'll gonna have to wait for me to find one cause I found the recipe online lol.. I'm gonna try and make some this weekend

    and Dmisses, :lol: I've been there I used to get in trouble for singing stuff too even though my mom wasn't as strict as she probably should've been cause I wilded out in hs :shrugs:

    Zoe B, I'm was a young mother too and I think that actually helps in some ways because I remember the stuff that tempted me and had me acting a fool so I can use my experiences to guide my own children away from that stuff but at the same time alot of my friends who had kids at my age don't feel the same way about things so I have to be careful when my children are around them. :shrugs: Parenting is hard and society today is just making it harder for the responsible parents out there

  • caligirl

    @Banana - his dad ain't paying attention to his phone like that. I'm sure he didnt' put the song there?

    @Choco aka Hippie?
    What up girl....My bad... : )

  • http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    I guess some parents are perfect and super sonically monitor their kids 24X7. I guess some parents are perfect and never ever get tired of having to check the phone, the computer, etc. I guess some parents are perfect and do everything like their parents did...beat the kids, don't let the kids have a cell phone or television. I guess some kids are perfect and wouldn't dare look a video on the friend's phone at school and run away from any kid who their mother wouldn't approve of. Must be nice. LOL

  • caligirl

    OFF TOPIC...I'm suppose to be sitting in traffic, half way home, got side tracked. Why did someone say she was going to lunch at 3:30 and just got back? JOB MARKET IS TIGHT THESE DAYS....

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    but that other stuff will still seep through if you are in ANY way a normal parent with a normal life.
    __________________
    :preach:

    @Cali and Banana
    Well Im certain Dads know of the ring tone and I've been targeted with being overprotective and suffocating
    My daughter she will go thru his phone for me her and I are here where's thats concerned! And she will let me know it's nothing major
    Now here's the deal with having him change the ring tone first it could be moot at this point 2) doesn't mean he wont' hear the same crap in his Dad's car or his friend Dad's car 3)I don't like the context of the song but Im thinking I need to find a compromise here - yes its repulsive but my son is not into fast girls at all and he will tell me if she's fast so he knows that girls want his body and they may be older women who want his thingy but he is to give it up to anyone... before 18 wishful thinking I know but he know what we expect of him so that helps that we have set some guideline and even then Im like your going to college you dont' want to be a father in your 20's hes like NOPE
    The internet I don't get to monitor and Im hoping his DAD is for the most part his father is strict on him but lets him be a kid of today if that makes sense

  • caligirl

    I know I'm not perfect, and I know my child is not perfect, but I'm not trying to be a NON perfect grandparnet, or taking your grown behind to the doctor for some nonsense. I TAKES time to monitor what's poppn off, cause I will punch you in your throat. I know my mom prevented me from doing alot of dumb shizz with her nosey arse. LOL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    I feel like kids have to earn the privilege of privacy through behavior and level of maturity/responsibility.

    As long as I'm paying for it, I have the right to monitor it; be it phone, tv, internet, whatever. If you don't like, you better act you do regardless.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Cali
    You could be wrong his father lets his son express himself we try not censor but mos def discipline like my son wanted his ear pierced me and his father were agaisnt it but my son is such a good kid (knocksonwood) respectful student son friend brother - so first we both said no - then he was like pls come on pls all my friends have them and I was like so when you friend does something stupid are you gonna follow he's like no MOM its an earring :lol: not funny but me and his DAD gave in I won't lie it looks cute on him

    Its just not an easy cake walk and you def have to be flexible about things

  • Ms. Everything

    Banana, I have parental controls on the tv, my kids don't have their own ipod so they are at the mercy of what I listen to and I don't listen to rap or anything suggestive around them, they don't watch BET or MTV, I sit and watch their tv shows and movies with them, if they're not in school then they are with me for the most part, I take them out and play with them, so the tv does not babysit but guess what?? My daughters still learn the new dances (and get the mess popped outta them if I see the ish), they still learn songs I don't approve of, my son still comes home asking questions no 8 year old should know about. Why? Because it's out there and too many other parents do not shield their kids from it. And even commercials are out of hand so even though you may have parental controls unless they're watching Disney or Nick random commercials still come out that are sexually inappropriate. Or the billboards. Or music that people are playing in their cars loud as hell. You can be the best parent in the world but there simply is no way to shelter your children from everything this world is throwing at them before they're ready

  • MizzLee_Lee

    Mel C is not the one who had a baby by eddie M. Mel C is sporty spice!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I feel like kids have to earn the privilege of privacy through behavior and level of maturity/responsibility.
    _____________________
    I agree while he is maturing he is honest and communicates so that gets him points everytime - like I know when and when he doesn't have a girlfriend - if he's kissed her or not - I will aks and he's not embarassed to answer me - one girl he broke up with and I was like y he said cuz my friend told me her mouth was messed up and I was LIKE WHAT you didn't notice before he was like yeah I did but then she starting calling me to much

  • caligirl

    @ms everything WELL SAID!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    HE IS NOT TO GIVE IT UP BEFORE 18

  • mirsmommy

    Sooooo, I have a question. How would you folks feel about the below situation????

    A girl (young woman) is 18 or 19 years old, and goes to college. Mom works, and is now single. Dad is, and always was a whore, and has babies all over God's creation. Has had babies while in a relationship with Mom, and has a total of 11 or 12 children. Girl (the 18 or 19 year old) gets pregnant. Dad insists, and stresses for Girl to get an abortion, and takes her to get one. How do you folks feel about this situation????

    Me personally, I find it very hypocritical that Dad takes his daughter to get an abortion, but you have children all over the US.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    I get tired of doing a lot of the things I have to do for my kids, but, as a parent I do that sht anyway. Cause if I don't, who will? The government? The media?

    When parents stop caring, so does everyone else; especially the kids.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Me personally, I find it very hypocritical that Dad takes his daughter to get an abortion, but you have children all over the US.
    ________________________
    I think he did it becuz he does have kids all over the US and was prolly trying to protect her from repeating his pattern! I think it's good that her father was there to intervene at the point in her life it could've made a world of difference

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I get tired of doing a lot of the things I have to do for my kids
    ________________________
    Single parenting is exhausting but I promise you there are rewards when you see how well you boyz have turned out!

  • mirsmommy

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Me personally, I find it very hypocritical that Dad takes his daughter to get an abortion, but you have children all over the US.
    ________________________
    I think he did it becuz he does have kids all over the US and was prolly trying to protect her from repeating his pattern! I think it’s good that her father was there to intervene at the point in her life it could’ve made a world of difference
    ________________

    I left that part out. He's a part-timer.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    Smokie says:

    I guess some parents are perfect and super sonically monitor their kids 24X7. I guess some parents are perfect and never ever get tired of having to check the phone, the computer, etc. I guess some parents are perfect and do everything like their parents did…beat the kids, don’t let the kids have a cell phone or television. I guess some kids are perfect and wouldn’t dare look a video on the friend’s phone at school and run away from any kid who their mother wouldn’t approve of. Must be nice. LOL

    *************************************

    :cosign:

  • http://www.scottwaypublishing.com Jazzy Mommy

    YSoSerious says:

    I feel like kids have to earn the privilege of privacy through behavior and level of maturity/responsibility.

    As long as I’m paying for it, I have the right to monitor it; be it phone, tv, internet, whatever. If you don’t like, you better act you do regardless.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    You betta :preach:

    I remember PLENTY of days when I took things away from my daughter such as tv watching and cell phone use and MADE her write 500 word essays as to why she's in trouble and why she won't do whatever it was again. You can't be a part-time parent and expect full-time results!!!

  • Anna

    mirsmommy says:

    Sooooo, I have a question. How would you folks feel about the below situation????

    A girl (young woman) is 18 or 19 years old, and goes to college. Mom works, and is now single. Dad is, and always was a whore, and has babies all over God’s creation. Has had babies while in a relationship with Mom, and has a total of 11 or 12 children. Girl (the 18 or 19 year old) gets pregnant. Dad insists, and stresses for Girl to get an abortion, and takes her to get one. How do you folks feel about this situation????

    Me personally, I find it very hypocritical that Dad takes his daughter to get an abortion, but you have children all over the US.

    ~~~~~~~~~
    SMH, how did he make her get an abortion? Was she living with him? She's 18/19 yrs old. You know how some parents are :it's ok for me, but not for you. Do as I say, not as I do. I still don't get how a woman can get w/a man with all those kids. LOL.

  • Ms. Everything

    Mirs: I think the dad is an ignorant hypocrite but then again alot of parents don't want their children to have the same struggle/life that they had but don't take the time to educate the child on how to avoid making their mistakes so then they try to play catch up and do damage control when it's too late

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    @MIRS

    She's grown and he has no right to force her to do anything with her body. Period.

    If he's worried about his daughter becoming some kind of whore, he should have set a better example of how women should be treated instead of setting her up with major daddy issues that may have led her to get pregnant in the first place.

  • Zoe B.

    @Mirs Maybe he doesn't want her to be the same as him but suggesting is o.k., forcing her is just WRONG! :no:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @MIRS
    No you didn't but you see he stepped in her life when it could've changed her life for good or bad all Im saying is he thought he did what was right by his daughter becuz he didn't want her to make the mistakes he made REAL TALK if he didn't care he would've stayed out of it

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @MIRS
    But did she want the baby that's the bigger question and was she able to take care of it?

  • mirsmommy

    @Anna, Ms. Everything, & Yso, she lives on campus. I feel like that was ignorant as hell of him, too. The Mom was with him before he had all those kids. The daughter is his first born, and he had all those kids while they were together. The household wasn't stable, because he treated the Mom like trash. The parents split about 5 or 6 years ago, but he was never there like he should have been. He was too busy running the streets making babies, and is still running the streets.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1ESq1nYo8Q YSoSerious

    I still feel that he had no legal, parental, or moral right to force his adult daughter to abort her baby.

    He shoulda been dragging them chicks he knocked up to the clinic and maybe he wouldn't have a dozen kids of his own. Bastid.

  • sammy

    AT LEAST SOMEONE WHO TRULY CARES FOR HER STEPPED UP SHE NEEDS HELP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE I THINK SHE IS ON DRUGS I DONT THINK SHE RECOVERED FROM THOSE BEATINGS FROM CHRIS SHE MIGHT BE STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM AND ITS STILL KILLING HER WHAT PPLE WILL SAY HER MUM SHOULD TRY TO HELP HER BE4 ITS TOO LATE

  • CookieMonsterZ

    I'm confused. Mel C has one child, and Mel B has 3. They are both spice girls, so which one is it?

  • mirsmommy

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @MIRS
    But did she want the baby that’s the bigger question and was she able to take care of it?
    __________________

    She's in college, and living on campus. I don't think she's currently able to take care of a child, but I also feel she's a responsible young lady. She was always a good kid, but I just think that should have been her decision, not his, especially with all his chit. She did want the baby, but she was also scared and unsure, due to her being in school, but for him to flip out, and basically make her get an abortion, I think he was wrong.

    It's one thing to explain to her that you don't want her to go down the same road as you, but it's another to pop in and out of her life, and when she needs you, and your advice, you basically make her do what you want her to do. I think he was wrong for that.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Smokie in response to being a "perfect parent" well first of all my kids are 11 so they don't have facebook, myspace and twitter pages thus monitoring their computer activities, I'm also mindful of the friends they hang with. I am dealing with little kids so I can't speak for the other parents on the board who might have teenagers so maybe that's why I say parents should be more mindful of what their kids are getting into. Lots of parents work and can't watch what their children are doing 24/7 but that is no excuse to be blind to the things your children are doing daily. I hate it when parents give their children too much freedom and then when they get into trouble with the law or wind up pregnant that's the first excuse they come up with, "well I can't watch my kid 24/7" none of us can but a lot of things can be avoided if we weren't so tied up with our own lives and not paying "enough attention" to what our kids are doing! Like I said blaming the celebrities is an excuse to me, a cop out, YOU are responsible for your own kids not these celebrities! That's just like when white folk blame violence on rap, as if there isn't any violence going on off of television and the radio. Sexuality is everywhere, it's in magazine ads, it's on televisions shows, commercials, so why is all the blame being placed on singers like Rihanna and Beyonce when they don't even have any kids? Like Jazzy Mommy said this ish has been going on, Rihanna and Beyonce aren't the first singers to be over sexual with their performances and they won't be the last. I even pointed out a few artists and sexually explicit songs from back in my day and like I said I got my butt whooped! A lot of you seem out of touch with reality, there are a lot of rappers who promote the use of illegal drugs, are we going to blame them if our kids start smoking weed? I mean seriously the parent has to take some responsibility in this, first of all why are children under 18 even listening to these artists? You are supposed to talk to your kids about safe sex, drugs, smoking cigarettes, etc. Not Jay Z, Lil Wayne, etc.

  • kingstonn

    :blink:
    yall writing narrative essays and shizz?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    but for him to flip out, and basically make her get an abortion, I think he was wrong.

    It’s one thing to explain to her that you don’t want her to go down the same road as you, but it’s another to pop in and out of her life, and when she needs you, and your advice, you basically make her do what you want her to do. I think he was wrong for that.
    __________________________
    I agree wholeheartedly with this - I didn't know he wasn't being supportive but forceful and damn sure didn't know he didn't communicate y he thought that was the best decision for her - however she will learn a lesson in all of this and she may be better off right now without a child becuz GOD is in CONTROL! #Feel me

  • mirsmommy

    kingstonn says:

    yall writing narrative essays and shizz?
    _____________

    :hater: Sandra is having another contest. We have to type a 300 word essay in the comment section to win VIP tickets to see Kelly Rowland in concert. :lol:

    Heyyyyy guhl :waves:

  • Ms. Everything

    :cosign: @Mirs and Yso... abortions don't make problems go away and sometimes they can make it worst. Not to mention that I know countless girls who've had abortions just to get pregnant again right away and either have the new baby out of guilt or start using abortions as birth control. If she wanted the baby but was scared he would've been better off letting her talk to someone who could actually help instead of giving his opinion and driving her to the clinic

  • Ms. Everything

    worst = worse

  • mirsmommy

    @Choc-Duggie, I feel you, but I just think his hypocritical azz shoulda sat all THEE way down with that one. She's grown, and she and the baby's father, should have been able to make that decision on their own.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    Why are children under 13 on facebook? Why is your child watching 16 and Pregnant? Shouldn't you be teaching your child(ren) things you wish your parents taught you or did teach you growing up? I wasn't allowed to watch certain shows, like The Simpsons, I know kids who are allowed to watch Family Guy and Boondocks and those are adult cartoons smh these are the same mothers who post pictures on facebook with their azzes tooted up in front of spotted mirrors, or send "Morning Glory" pictures to Sandra Rose half naked portraying an "aspiring model", the same mothers who's idol is Nicki Minaj and walks around calling themselves barbies. Maybe we as mothers should start being better role models and our little girls wouldn't look up to Rihanna, Beyonce, and Nicki Minaj! It starts at home!

  • MzDimplez1123

    I have a step aunt who was forced to have an abortion as a teen. She became an alcoholic and cries for those babies and says she hears them crying for her everytime she gets drunk. They say she used to be really sweet, she's borderline hateful sometimes now.

  • mirsmommy

    @Ms. Everything, I feel the same way about abortions not always solving the problems. I mean, to each his own, and IMO it is a woman's right to choose, but I just don't think they are always problem solvers. And I know a few chicks that use them as birth control. SMH. Getting abortions at 5 or 6 months pregnant. Crazy as hell. SMDH

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    but I just think his hypocritical azz shoulda sat all THEE way down with that one. She’s grown, and she and the baby’s father, should have been able to make that decision on their own.
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    Right but what Im saying is perhaps this was GOD's divine intervention you know - I mean he is in CONTROL I've had an abortion but I knew I didn't want that baby at the time and my situation was fine I was not ready so while it hurt Im glad I didn't

  • mirsmommy

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    I have a step aunt who was forced to have an abortion as a teen. She became an alcoholic and cries for those babies and says she hears them crying for her everytime she gets drunk. They say she used to be really sweet, she’s borderline hateful sometimes now.
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    Oh wow. :blink:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Okay no abortions should not be used a birth control chicks being irresponsible and waiting 5 to 6 months make me side eye them REAL!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @DIMPZ
    How long ago did she have the abortions - the alcohol abuse could be making her mood swings worse as well

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ MM....She's in her 50's still yearning for babies she was forced to abort at 16yrs old! Then she'll start going off on her mom telling her how she hates her and she ruined her life. It's sad

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Choco...i'm sure the alcohol is making it worse but her family says she's been a mess since she was forced to have the abortion. We're talking like 30something years ago

  • mirsmommy

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ MM….She’s in her 50?s still yearning for babies she was forced to abort at 16yrs old! Then she’ll start going off on her mom telling her how she hates her and she ruined her life. It’s sad
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    She never had any babies after the abortion???

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Dimpz
    I :pray: that she will learn to cope with her loss but could there be something else going on like maybe being bi-polar pls don't take offense but it took us years to figure out that was wrong with my sis - she was in her mid 40's when she was diagnosed

  • mirsmommy

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Okay no abortions should not be used a birth control chicks being irresponsible and waiting 5 to 6 months make me side eye them REAL!
    ________________

    Girl, when I was told about two chicks that I knew (I wasn't too close to them to knock them upside their heads) did that chit, I was disgusted!!!! :wtf: does that chit. They were both so far along that it was a two day procedure. SMDH again.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ MM........She had a set of twins, the ones she aborted were twins also. One twin lived, the other died. More reason to be depressed.

  • http://roughroots.blogspot.com Banana

    Yea no offense but sounds like something else is wrong with your aunty

  • mirsmommy

    @Dimpz, has anyone tried to get her some help???

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    They were both so far along that it was a two day procedure.
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    I knew someone who waited until she was 7months y not just keep the child at that point Im a little judgemental when it comes to this REAL TALK NO SHAME

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ MM....@ 5 or 6 months, all they do is induce your labor and crush the baby up when you deliver it. @ that stage, they could survive with proper care. They may as well put them up for adoption.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsV10dbUAys:// ELove

    ALOT of Great-n-Insightful comments and Some are Befuddling To ME... But for me IF a PARENT chooses to be A LAZY PARENT then be prepared for THOSE Eminent CONSEQUENCES because they will be Practically UNAVOIDABLE !!!

    You CAN'T Reverse what's Never EVER Been Restrained or Discouraged :coffee:

  • mirsmommy

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ MM……..She had a set of twins, the ones she aborted were twins also. One twin lived, the other died. More reason to be depressed.
    ______________

    I feel so bad for her, that she's suffering all these years after that. :sad:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ MM......Honestly, not that I know of. They just let her have her fits and drink til she passes out.

  • Ms. Everything

    Mirs I have people who will talk about me for having 4 kids but if they had kept all their babies they would have more than me... too many people look at abortion as an easy way out and it's not. MzD, I know a woman who had an abortion at 18 because she didn't want to ruin her life by having a baby so young but she never got over having the abortion which is sad. I got pregnant at 18 and I won't lie it was hard as hell and still is but I wouldn't trade her for the world and don't regret having her

  • mirsmommy

    @Choco & Dimpz, bishes should have just had the babies and gave them up for adoption. SMH.

    #sillybroads

    I'm out you guys and gals. :cya: tomorrow.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ MM...Me too. I wonder if she would be a different person had she been allowed to keep them cause the one son she has, she is RIDE OR DIE for that fool! He is a FEWL too!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Ms. Everything...I'm in the same boat as you, had mine at 17, wanna choke her out some days but, I don't have any regrets concerning her.

    @ MM...That's what I say too!

  • mirsmommy

    Ms. Everything says:

    Mirs I have people who will talk about me for having 4 kids but if they had kept all their babies they would have more than me… too many people look at abortion as an easy way out and it’s not. MzD, I know a woman who had an abortion at 18 because she didn’t want to ruin her life by having a baby so young but she never got over having the abortion which is sad. I got pregnant at 18 and I won’t lie it was hard as hell and still is but I wouldn’t trade her for the world and don’t regret having her
    _________________________________

    I know folks just like that. Talk chit about women that have more than one or two children, but they're the same ones that have had three or four abortions. Uterus is just destroyed by then.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvOeA7rqxnM DMisses

    ELove says:

    ALOT of Great-n-Insightful comments and Some are Befuddling To ME… But for me IF a PARENT chooses to be A LAZY PARENT then be prepared for THOSE Eminent CONSEQUENCES because they will be Practically UNAVOIDABLE !!!

    You CAN’T Reverse what’s Never EVER Been Restrained or Discouraged :coffee:

    ____________________________________________________

    lol Amen. Of course lazy parents would say "well I guess you're the perfect parent" there is no such thing as the perfect parent but at least I know I did my part and tried to prevent and/or avoid certain things from happening to my children!

  • Ms. Everything

    MzD :lol: mine drives me crazy but she's a good kid with a good head on her shoulders

    Mirs: I used to get hurt by it til I finally got to the point where I just started telling people at least I had mine :shrugs:

  • #SOWHATWHOGIVESAFUGIMSTILLGONNAPOSTBISHES#

    BENDING OVER GRINDING WITH SOME RANDOM DUDE SIMULATING SEX FROM THE BACK IS SLUTTY BEHAVIOR, 18, 21, 35, 48, BLACK, WHITE, SPANISH, JAMAICAN, ETC

    NO MATTER HOW YOU CUT IT, SLICE IT, DICE IT, TRANSLATES IT THE BEHAVIOR WHEN YOU TAKE AWAY WHO SHE IS, IF IT WERE ANY OTHER RANDOM CHICK MOST OF YOU WOULD HAVE YOUR NOSE TOOTED ABOUT SAYING THE EXACT SAME THING SLUT!!!

    SHE IS YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL & SEXY-BUT BY NO MEANS DOES THAT EXCUSE HER FROM THE SAME STANDARDS SOCIETY JUDGES ANY OTHER WOMAN BY-RIHANNA OR NOT

  • binks

    A lot of great comments on this post from both sides. I don’t know the situation but a lot of these kids NEED something I was just watching the news and a kindergartner was trying to sexually assault another kindergartner in the school’s closet…sighs… I don’t know if I want to kick the little boy, the parents or society'a behind first but these kids are out of the box

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    BigCityGirl says:

    I just hope she finds love soon. She’s much calmer when she is in a love affair…..
    ___________________

    I totally agree. She's acting out publicly like a spoiled child because she wants attention. It's really sad to see how she's deteriorated mentally since the CB incident. Now I wish I had gone on tour with her like she wanted. :(

  • ichatsemaj

    Rihanna is a grown ass woman. If she chooses to act out publicly...Let her. She's only hurting herself. Parents need to monitor their kids more and become a role model to their kids...Not have their kids look up to a damn music entertainer that sings sexually explicit songs.

  • Supa_sexy

    I’m not a Rihanna fan at all however she is an artist and they change up their style from time to time but her slutty sexual acts and dancing is a little over the top and needs to stop!
    Mel B is right! Even though young girls should NOT look at Rihanna as a role model because that’s not Rihanna’s job, BUT THEY DO and she needs to watch how she acts and how she talks because most of her fan base are young girls who are trying to express and find themselves and they do it through music and mimicking singers, models, and actresses so if you are in the spotlight, you should watch how you portray yourself and defiantly care who’s watching you, that’s just common sense.

  • GAGIRL87

    Are we talmbout Eddie Murphy's jumpoff/ babymama Mel B? :coffee:

    Glass houses people Glass houses lol

  • andrea

    Didnt she have some kind of burlesque type stripper show in Vegas a couple years back?
    #sitdownho

  • andrea

    Didnt she have some kind of burlesque type stripper show in Vegas a couple years back?
    #sitdownho

  • jazi65

    Rih Rih has a responsibility to no one but herself. Parents always trying to blame everyone but themselves when it comes to their children. And if she's gonna attack Rih Rih she can say he same about other female celebs, ex. Minaj with her raunchy performances (playing with a dildo on stage)

  • karenbx832004

    hmmmm, this is coming from someone who was in a group who wore similar clothing(not mel c. herself). spice girls got a lot of flack on how they dressed back in the day so i would think mel c. would be more understanding. Rhianna will settle down when she gets older just like.....hmmm now who does Rhianna's sexual stuff reminds me of ?? oh yes, Madonna,hmmmm... anyway, a real parent with half a brain can listen to Rhianna's lyrics and see that her songs are not for children. i'm a married 28yr old mother of one, while my son is only 4yrs i do have nieces who are in their early teen years who do listen to Rhianna so i understand the concerns but it falls on the parent.

  • chilly

    I agree with Mel C, if you have talent why all the sexual stuff? Why don't she just do porn? Kids should be able to watch videos without all that extra stuff. I watched videos as a kid. 106 and Park plays her videos do they not? And that's a kid's show. She should have more respect for herself, she's just attention seeking.

  • LadyLioness

    Parents need to take responsibility for raising their own children and stop pushing it off on these entertainers. Televisions, radios and computers are not supposed to be raising your children. Rihanna only has a responsibility to herself.

  • AllNYC

    Mel B performs? Where? Let's see what she does to get attention if her CD EVER sees the light of day.
    Nice job getting some shine talking about somebody else, though!

  • karenbx832004

    it's MEL C saying thing,aka Sporty Spice. MEL B is Scary Spice. i dont know where some people are seeing Mel B at?

  • karenbx832004

    * It's MEL C taking about Rhianna...
    sorry :)

  • http://n/a n1kk1a

    They said the same thing about Elvis......

  • West Coast Chick

    so Rih's a role model now?? :shrugs: Im confused