Queen Latifah, who is slowly adapting to life outside the closet, recently sat down with Sister2Sister magazine for an in-depth interview.

The Queen discussed what she looks for in a woman, and we're not surprised to learn that she prefers her women covered up.

“I just like ladies who have class. Period," she said, "and if it’s ‘T and A’ you’re sellin,’ that’s fine, as long as that’s what you’re selling. But you don’t have to show everything, you know?"

She added:

"You can hold some back and just be yourself and let your personality shine and let your individuality show. To me, that’s sexier. A confident woman is a sexy woman, in my opinion. And I think guys find that to be the same way.”

You don’t have to show everything; you don’t have to put it all out there to attract a guy. Because what kind of guy are you gonna attract? What is he really looking for? If you wanna be a booty call, I guess you can throw it all out there. But if you’re looking for a relationship with someone who respects you and respects things other than your body—your mind, your spirit, your personality, your smile—then you have to kind of exude that more so than just yo’ booty and yo’ titties.

Unfortunately, Latifah's wise words are falling on deaf ears. The 41-year-old executive producer of VH1's "Single Ladies" is in a long term, off and on relationship with 40-something trainer Jeanette Jenkins. Women of our generation know what it means to respect ourselves because we grew up experiencing it.

But young ladies of today have no concept of self-respect because the black community in general promotes disrespect in all areas, from our lifestyles to our art and music.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    :coffee:

  • vero

    :coffee: too

  • Tommykimon

    Wow is Queen out?

  • http://www.ashland86.com TheRealAshland

    i would so date the queen, not that i am gay, but iono she do-able lol

  • ValerieB1

    Auntie :newpost: immediately.
    Where are the pics for Alex G birthday bash :pc:

  • GAGIRL87

    But young ladies of today have no concept of self-respect because the black community in general promotes disrespect in all areas, from our lifestyles to our art and music.

    Sooo true Sandra even doe I think I'm an exception mama didn't rasie no fool here :grin:

    Ere body knew Queen was gay after she play Cleo she played that role to mutherphucking good... :grill:

  • brenden

    Something looks off with the Queen in this pic :think: bad make up? Did she go down to :lick: Jeanette before Jeanette had a chance to uh ummmm mop da floors?

  • KDub

    Big Dana looks good in that photo.

    PAGING Stevie Wonder...in re to ANYBODY can see she is gay. Why is this still a big deal.

  • Zoe B.

    You want her so bad, all this trash talking is just your way of poking her on the playground :coffee:

  • vero

    Brenden, she actually looks great there !

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    I HATECHU BRENDEN!

    Qwang looks good in this pic. love the outfit :yes:
    Y do i NOT think she's coming out in this article? :think:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Kdub

    Why is this still a big deal.
    ___

    I actually know a chick (she's a big girl who used to have really low self-esteem) who has idolized the Queen for many years and she still doesn't want to believe that she is gay...I think there may be others who don't WANT to believe the obvious as well...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    for some reason i don't think she'll ever just come out and say "I'm gay." i think she'll just keep doin her & let ppl speculate (like we don't already know) DO U Qwang, i lubs u! :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    :offtopic: since the heat has turned me into a slave today, from this point on I'll be talking like this:

    I's shole is TIED Boss! DAWG tied. these hurr days shole is gettin longa..yah SUH boss :(

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Fayla

    I agree, and I honestly couldn't care less if she was gay. She appears to be gay for sure, but she doesn't owe anyone any explanations about her lifestyle...if she EVER comes out I think it will be when she's much older and pretty much settling down into the cooling off of her career. She knows that she's black and that she's a woman, so being a black gay woman could be bad for her money (in this world we live in). I respect her hustle and will continue to support her work...

  • mrsloveleigh

    You opening that door Queen?

  • Ty

    Women of our generation know what it means to respect ourselves because we grew up experiencing it.

    But young ladies of today have no concept of self-respect because the black community in general promotes disrespect in all areas, from our lifestyles to our art and music.
    _________________________________________________________________________
    Well Stated!

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    It doesn't sound like she said that in response to what she likes. Why you gotta try to play a sista out?

    Anyway, I was just thinking about what you said about young ladies after yet another Morning Wood post with a "respectable" young lady yesterday. When you have college girls and military women posing for booty shots talking about they want to be "models" you know things have taken a turn in a whole other direction. They taught their intelligence and respectablilty while aspiring to be like video hoes at the same time. It's very interesting.

  • brenden

    She look nice V, but sumthin looks off with her coloring...She appears red-ish...Is it just my phone? That's what I get for using prepaid...Speaking of which...Girl how is yo credit? :biggrin:

  • vero

    hey fayla !!! :hug:

    Very nice pic @ Bird !

  • http://vimeo.com/23452886 LaTechGrad02

    Queen is rocking that Cover Girl make up :) Good advice from the queen and Sandra all hope is not lost on the younger generation.

  • vero

    @brenden : very bad credit. they won't even lend me a helping hand

  • Supa_sexy

    That’s all I’ve been trying to say & the Queen has spoken the truth!!! It doesn’t take showing you’re A** to show that you are sexy, it’s more to that. I always say personality and confidence makes a beautiful woman but in today’s society your butt and titties is all one sees and don’t get me wrong your are suppose to dress to impress but showing to much only shows that you lack confidence and you need all eyes on you just to make you sure of yourself and that’s not a good look. That’s just my opinion.

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    vero says:

    Very nice pic @ Bird !
    **************************

    Thanks. I was trying to be artistic. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    vero says:

    @brenden : very bad credit. they won’t even lend me a helping hand
    ______________
    :rofl: Hey Ms. V!!

    @Mrs..guhl is dem dyckapenos in yo gravi? :shocked:

    FeFe, Qwang is A-Ok in my book. I think she's a fine entertainer, lovedid her since back in the UNIT-YYYY days
    AND i think she reps the curvier girls quite nicely :yes

  • FoxE

    In other :offtopic: News

    I saw that Toya & Memphitz have been named the new faces of Ampro Pro Style's gel.

    I mean people still use that? Its like $0.50 at the store...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    @Bird, i've been meaning to tell u i like ur gravi too..just wish the shadow wasn't so visible (ur face is pretty guhl)..i bet u have a killer smile, maybe i'll get to see it one day <---hint ;)

  • brenden

    Aw see, I knew we had sumthin in common Vero :biggrin: Thankfully we have the rush card :ashamed: I feel so confident at the Kroger market when they ask me cash or credit and I yell CREDIT!!! These crackas can't hold me down :coffee:

  • FoxE

    @Brenden

    Heeeyyy Boo!!! :wink:

    I think she got a really bad tan.. She does appear kinda redish tho :shrug:

  • ELove

    @K-Dub
    BIG Dana (I Like THAT...) :lol:

    On The REAL Though... Her ENTIRE Ensemble w/ the Shades is TIGHT :coffee:

  • candibfly

    i was just watching reruns of Living Single last night and i was like dang kadijah pulled all the dudes! Even had Cedric Ceballos (NBA player) fiendin for her :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

    doesnt she seem a little redrovish in the face ?!?

    is it just me??

  • brenden

    Fox!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :lick:

  • ELove

    @FoxE
    THAT'S the ONLY THING I don't like about that Pic Her... I just didn't KNOW how to state that w/o sounding Offensive (To Some...) Btw How's it Going Sexxy :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    :kona: <---ALL motivation to do ANY more work today.

    #ThisCantBeLife

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    :rofl: at this headline!

    I think Qwang did this to put Jeannette in her place. Latifah is still a woman (I know, I know... it's hard to beleive that) and she tryin that sublimininamaonal (sp?) chit on Jeannette. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    FoxE!! ELovah!! :hug:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI

    Hey there. I remember that episode of Living Single. Cedric kept laughing even when no jokes had been delivered.

    It was like he was thinking "Who goin believe I'm dating this dude?"

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    @Man.. :crying: is that a human centipede in yo gravi?? that mf got SECTIONS of fat :crying:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Man

    Can you please change you gravie please! :rules:

  • brenden

    O-M-G this ninja is a blocker!!!!!!! You just wait...Im in negotiations to have redeemed put roots on you! Yo a*s won't piss straight for weeks!!!!!!!

  • rjk8

    What she said is true as long as you're not walking around 200+ pounds. Your mind, your spirit, your personality, your smile....... Throw all those things out the window if you're fat. He probably will never take the time to get to know you.

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    Soooo she's officially out...I guess I missed her coming out ceremony :coffee:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @FELINE

    I TRIED TO CHANGE IT! IT'S STUCK!

  • candibfly

    sup manuel :coffee:

    she had all the athletes after her, dudes fightin over her (alonzo and scooter)

    as i was watching yesterday, i was like ain't no way :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    brenden says:

    O-M-G this ninja is a blocker!!!!!!! You just wait…Im in negotiations to have redeemed put roots on you! Yo a*s won’t piss straight for weeks!!!!!!!
    _______________
    :rofl: :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @rjk8

    Well dayum....

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    O yeah Sandy...where are the pics from the big bday celebrations

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    *celebration

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Man

    'Stuck' like he would probably be 'stuck' trying to get throught the door huh? :lol:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI
    "she had all the athletes after her, dudes fightin over her (alonzo and scooter)

    as i was watching yesterday, i was like ain’t no way"
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:
    Now that I think about it, all of em always had this smirk on their face on camera like "this chit is ridiculous! She couldn't even be my maid." :lol:

    Hmm... just thought about you in a maid outfit Candi. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    rjk8 says:

    What she said is true as long as you’re not walking around 200+ pounds. Your mind, your spirit, your personality, your smile……. Throw all those things out the window if you’re fat. He probably will never take the time to get to know you.
    __________
    u must didn't get the memo? quite a few men love plus-sized women :yes:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @FELINE

    quit lusting after my gravie photo.
    :coffee:

  • RoderickXYZ

    First Ellen and now Latifah?

    Why does a cosmetics line have lesbians as their spokeswomen?

    Are there that many lipstick lesbians out there?

  • IsaiahsMom

    :cheer:

    I'm just glad that she finally came out and is openly speaking about what she seeks in a woman as opposed to when a gay indivivdual feels compelled either via their songs or in interviews with the media (Luther Vandross, Missy Elliot--both two artists that I LOVE) to speak about straight relationships when they good and damn well that they ain't straight!

    Go King T-Go! :clap:

  • brenden

    I'm sayin Fay...He always throwing salt in my game...Its Highschool all over again. The popular boys always picked on me cuzz I was a cheerleader. Yeah E may be able to shoot a stupid ball through a hoop, but it takes a real man to do a tripple pirouette :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    @Man, that mf GOTS to have a catheter! aint no way he can reach that crushed up dack on his own :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Man

    Now that I think about it, all of em always had this smirk on their face on camera like “this chit is ridiculous! She couldn’t even be my maid.”
    ____

    Well let's be real here, I've always thought she had a very pretty face, and I personally know men that think Queen Latifah is a beautiful big chick, and there ARE a nice population of men who prefere larger women... IJS, let's be fair and balanced here.... :wink:

  • ELove

    @Fayla
    Heeyyyy BABY !!! :hug:

    @Brenden :dead:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    brenden says:

    I’m sayin Fay…He always throwing salt in my game…Its Highschool all over again. The popular boys always picked on me cuzz I was a cheerleader. Yeah E may be able to shoot a stupid ball through a hoop, but it takes a real man to do a tripple pirouette
    ____________
    :dead:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    RoderickXYZ says:

    First Ellen and now Latifah?

    Why does a cosmetics line have lesbians as their spokeswomen?

    Are there that many lipstick lesbians out there?
    _________
    :rofl: it would appear so!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @BRENDEN
    "I’m sayin Fay…He always throwing salt in my game…Its Highschool all over again. The popular boys always picked on me cuzz I was a cheerleader. Yeah E may be able to shoot a stupid ball through a hoop, but it takes a real man to do a tripple pirouette "
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    "Pirouette"-ing sounds like something real men do all the time. LOOOOL.

  • RoderickXYZ

    that should have been: butch lesbians as their spokeswomen.

  • FoxE

    Elove
    :hug: I like the way you think and speak :wink:

    :waves: Fayla

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @FELINE
    "Well let’s be real here, I’ve always thought she had a very pretty face, and I personally know men that think Queen Latifah is a beautiful big chick, and there ARE a nice population of men who prefere larger women… IJS, let’s be fair and balanced here…."
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    I never thought Queen was ugly in the face. Although she been looking more and more mannish in the face in regular photos.

    But yes, you are correct. Just like there are some people allergic to water, there are some men that "prefer" larger women. I think for a lot of these guys, this "preference" originates due to a lack of other options. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Man

    I think for a lot of these guys, this “preference” originates due to a lack of other options.
    ___

    I just LOVE your sarcasm... :lol:

    But, true story, I went to college with this guy who was fine, and I do mean fine, like he had chicks fighting over him on a regular. He preferred larger women and was not shy about it AT ALL. He used to talk about how sexy Queen Latifah was to him. One of my friends at the time had a full-figured women's magazine and he was looking at it like it was porn...I mean, I just can't make this stuff up...

    So, all I'm saying is that I don't think it's out of this world for regular and normal men to desire a larger woman...

  • KK76

    I doubt if her response was to "who do YOU like to date Dana?" This is probably some generic response that SR used to wink at Kang. If she ever comes out (and who cares, really?) it'll probably be on an Oprah or Barbara special.

  • FoxE

    @Brenden

    You need to come sit in my corner again?? Calm down... you are too EASY to upset :lol:

    But I see you got jealously traits :coffee:

  • FoxE

    rjk8 says:

    What she said is true as long as you’re not walking around 200+ pounds. Your mind, your spirit, your personality, your smile……. Throw all those things out the window if you’re fat. He probably will never take the time to get to know you.
    ______________________________________

    Welp we see you like skinny chicks. Would you divorce someone if they got fat??

  • rjk8

    Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    u must didn’t get the memo? quite a few men love plus-sized women
    __________________________________________

    Wrong, that's just the best that they could do. :cry: All things equal if they could get a woman with the curves of a Amber Rose or Ashanti they'd drop their fat woman in a heartbeat. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    rjk8 says:

    Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    u must didn’t get the memo? quite a few men love plus-sized women
    __________________________________________

    Wrong, that’s just the best that they could do. All things equal if they could get a woman with the curves of a Amber Rose or Ashanti they’d drop their fat woman in a heartbeat.
    _________
    sure, if u say so :rollseyes:

    #YDidIBother

  • laterthannever

    Damn Dana's looking good. She could get it.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :yawn:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    Some people need to understand that 'fat' or 'big' doesn't automatically equal out to ill-proportionate or ugly. My friend in college didn't care for chicks under a size 12, but they also all had nice shapely curves and beautiful faces... :shrugs:

    Whatever, some folks just refuse to see things OUTSIDE the box...lol

  • candibfly

    my friend is like 215 but she is a BRICKHOUSE u hear me?! tall, slim waist, and big butt/hips

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    Yall gone school em FeFe & Candi :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Choco

    Yes, SR is boring today for sure....lol

    @Candi

    my friend is like 215 but she is a BRICKHOUSE u hear me?! tall, slim waist, and big butt/hips
    ___

    That's what I'm saying, and Marilyn Monroe was a size 16 and we ALL know her legacy of beauty... :shrugs:

  • pinksghetti

    Bird says:

    It doesn’t sound like she said that in response to what she likes. Why you gotta try to play a sista out?

    Anyway, I was just thinking about what you said about young ladies after yet another Morning Wood post with a “respectable” young lady yesterday. When you have college girls and military women posing for booty shots talking about they want to be “models” you know things have taken a turn in a whole other direction. They taught their intelligence and respectablilty while aspiring to be like video hoes at the same time. It’s very interesting
    _____________________________________

    I completely agree! Too many young women don't think you can be sexy with clothes on. It's so played out and boring to see all these "models" on the internet.

  • Divinebrown

    I LOVE ME SOME QUEEN!!!!! WHEN DID SHE COME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHEN THOSE VACATION PICS DROPPED?

    It's so funny to me that the faceless people have so much input on standards and expectations. Talking real big sitting behind that computer looking like ROCKY DENNIS in this muthafcka.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    :rofl: @Divine!!

    #AintItMan

  • Divinebrown

    FAYLA...FAYYYLLAAAA >>>>HERE<<<<

    DON'T TELL ME SHYT BOUT SHYT TILL WE SEE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE!! Until then...you're Rocky Dennis. Hair style and all.

  • rjk8

    @FoxE

    Welp we see you like skinny chicks. Would you divorce someone if they got fat??
    __________________________________

    Why do black women always want to compare extremes to fat as if there is no other alternative? You know there is a lot of room between fat and skinny. :thinking: Once a man is married he's probably more willing to accept weight gained gradually over a period of time. At a minimum ladies. don't gain weight until you have the man.

  • ELove

    @FeFe
    I KNOW Plenty of Guys who LUV Big-Gurls (Real...)

    One of my Close Friends during My first Rip thru college dubbed Himself the Fat-Ho Pimp and ALL of HIS Females had HUGE Tiddays, Long REAL Hair and Were Face-Wise considered NOT Just Pretty but Beautiful (NO Joke) :coffee:

  • rjk8

    I never said there were no men who want fat chicks. That's a small percentage of men, ladies. Not the majority. There are men who have a fetish for all different types of women.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    :whistle: "Watch out for the big girls!"

    #Hmmph
    #NawIAintBig
    #ButStill

    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka JuicyFruit

    :rollseyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    Hey Divine!

    @rjk8

    But no one was talking about a majority or minority, just stating that there were a population of men who liked big women, that is all... :shrugs:

    And why does a larger woman have to fall into the category of a "fetish"?

  • rjk8

    @Divinebrown

    I can be whatever you want to imagine. Doesn't negate the fact that what I said is true. :grill:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Fayla

    IKR! I ain't big either, but I can't deny what reality is and what I've seen in my 30 years on the planet....

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    I'm actually with RJK8 on this..

  • candibfly

    gosh its boring :waiting:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI

    You always kill me when you add "...you hear me?" on to something you say.

    :lol:

  • Yall still crazy

    *just got back from checking on Brown* :lol:

    Any body call anybody a hoe yet?

    I wouldn't refer to QL as fat though :shrug:

  • rjk8

    @Feline Feminine

    But no one was talking about a majority or minority, just stating that there were a population of men who liked big women, that is all… :shrugs:

    And why does a larger woman have to fall into the category of a “fetish”?
    _____________________________________

    It's a very small population of men. That's important a lot of these fat women refuse to accept the fact that your weight is the reason you're single. Attraction to FAT is a fetish.

  • Yall still crazy

    *sends Twin old El magazine articles* #helpful

    Man, ole boy looks like a human caterpillar! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    I wouldn’t refer to QL as fat though

    ^^^^THIS!

    :waves: @yall

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    :think:

    Um... for those concerned, the mom of the kid on my football team that I coach got jacked in the face by her old man so I think Ima get my oppurtunity shortly. :thumbsup:

  • Yall still crazy

    Attraction to FAT is a fetish.

    ---------------------------------------------------------
    (I'm respectfully asking) How old are you? (Answer back the same)

  • rjk8

    @Feline Feminine

    IKR! I ain’t big either,........

    ___________________________

    Don't worry, with that mindset you'll soon get there. :hurl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    You know what, I'll be fair...I've never been attracted to fat men, or even larger men...so sure, everyone has a PREFERENCE...but I don't think that a chick who prefers bigger/fatter men has a "fetish", I think she has an alternate "preference" to mine... :yes:

  • Yall still crazy

    :shocked: What happened? #nosey Was it one of the bd's?

    -------------------------------------
    Hey Fi! :dance:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    :rofl:

  • candibfly

    twin!

    i'm going to see my boo in concert next weekend *double backflips into the splits* :yahoo:

    @manuel, its for emphasis :D

  • rjk8

    @Feline Feminine

    I wouldn’t refer to QL as fat though
    ____________________________

    Shiddddd :rofl: Ask a man if she's fat.

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @FELINE
    "You know what, I’ll be fair…I’ve never been attracted to fat men, or even larger men…so sure, everyone has a PREFERENCE…but I don’t think that a chick who prefers bigger/fatter men has a “fetish”, I think she has an alternate “preference” to mine… "
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    So I guess using that as a guide, there's no such thing as a fetish huh?
    Or how would you describe it?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @rjk8

    :lol: no sir, not I...too health conscious and I'd like to keep my current wardrobe...but alot of things can be said about someone with YOUR mindset.... :yes:

  • Yall still crazy

    IONO As I get older, a bigger guy seems more appealing to me. I recall not being attracted to them yrs ago :shrug:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CANDI
    "@manuel, its for emphasis :D "
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    I know. I have one friend that says it too. I can just "hear" it coming out of your mouth for some reason. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Man

    I think if someone prefers someone like that man in your gravie, then you can start calling it a fetish...he doesn't even look like he'll live another 30 days... :coffee:

  • Yall still crazy

    *begins getting your fits ready*

    I want you doing wardrobe changes right along with your man!!! :yahoo:

  • candibfly

    i seen some cute big dudes before but i never wanted to do em :shrugs:

  • candibfly

    twin i've already picked out 12 pairs of crotchless

    i need to get my bag packed, so far i've included a blueprint of the venue, a blindfold, magnums, bottled water

    what else do i need? :think:

  • Yall still crazy

    They gotta smell good and command respect! *snickers* Confidence is a muthaflucker....

    :newpost:

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @FELINE
    "I think if someone prefers someone like that man in your gravie, then you can start calling it a fetish…he doesn’t even look like he’ll live another 30 days… "
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Oh so the fetish weight limit is 600lbs huh? :lol:
    I don't know who you tryin to fool actin like you ain't moist lookin at my gravie.
    :coffee:

  • Yall still crazy

    candibfly says:

    twin i’ve already picked out 12 pairs of crotchless

    i need to get my bag packed, so far i’ve included a blueprint of the venue, a blindfold, magnums, bottled water

    what else do i need? :think:
    -------------------------------------------------
    You need:
    The Men in Black wand
    tweezers (for DNA sample) :rofl:
    Double Snuggie

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    :dead: @Man

    :rofl:

  • rjk8

    @Yall still crazy

    (I’m respectfully asking) How old are you? (Answer back the same)
    ___________________________

    Over 30 :thinking:

    You all act as if I'm saying something different than the way most men think and fill, Please. Most men do not prefer fat women. Black men prefer a women with more weight than men of other races but as far as preference it's only about 15 to 20 more pounds on MOST women. That means a white guy might PREFER his woman at 120 to 150. While a black man would PREFER that same woman at 140 to 170. Not 200+ POUNDS.

  • amatrex

    I'm wondering, what do most women out there consider too "fat" for a man. Cedric the Entertainer, CeeLo, Busta, Rick Ross, Big Papi (Red Sox Player)?

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @RJK8
    "You all act as if I’m saying something different than the way most men think and fill, Please. Most men do not prefer fat women. Black men prefer a women with more weight than men of other races but as far as preference it’s only about 15 to 20 more pounds on MOST women. That means a white guy might PREFER his woman at 120 to 150. While a black man would PREFER that same woman at 140 to 170. Not 200+ POUNDS."
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :cosign: all of this!

  • http://yallaintchit.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @AMATREX
    "I’m wondering, what do most women out there consider too “fat” for a man. Cedric the Entertainer, CeeLo, Busta, Rick Ross, Big Papi (Red Sox Player)?"
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    I think it depends on his bank account. Anything over 7 figures and Rocky Dennis becomes a "sex symbol" to most women. :lol:

  • rjk8

    @Feline Feminine

    Yeah ok, I think when you get older you're going to be a big fatty. Based on your mindset..... :coffee:

  • amatrex

    @rjk8

    You all act as if I’m saying something different than the way most men think and fill, Please. Most men do not prefer fat women. Black men prefer a women with more weight than men of other races but as far as preference it’s only about 15 to 20 more pounds on MOST women. That means a white guy might PREFER his woman at 120 to 150. While a black man would PREFER that same woman at 140 to 170. Not 200+ POUNDS.
    ------------------------------------------------------------------

    I feel you on everything. And black men obviously prefer to have those extra 15-20 pounds located in the woman's a$$, thighs, and tiddays. It's what we like to call THICK! But honestly nowadays, it ain't just black men who like thick women, or atleast women with some extra junk in the trunk. There are men of all races who prefer hourglass shapes to beanpoles.

  • Ms. Everything

    Everything she said is the truth... unfortunately so many young girls don't learn that they can be just as sexy if not more with clothes on :shrugs:

  • Ms. Everything

    And she's not coming out in this article :shrugs: She's one of those women everyone knows or has in their family that's been "single" forever but lives with, hangs out with their "best friend" that the grandmas and aunties talk about when she's not around but it's never actually confirmed lol... I've got a couple in mine

  • laterthannever

    Is "Rocky Dennis" a Work Safe google?

    I've noticed that my "you have such a pretty face" (Fat) friends and acquaintances tend to put up with a lot more from their suitors. One chick falls in love with everyone that gives her the time of day and ends up being a paymaster, calls herself confident, but is dependent on the validation of male attention. She only talks about weight loss when she's in between free loaders and carnies.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @Feline Feminine

    Yeah ok, I think when you get older you’re going to be a big fatty. Based on your mindset…..
    ___

    I just read this, good thing you aren't paid to think :coffee:

    #childish

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @rjk8

    Oh, and for the record, I used to have the most shallow mindset on the planet...used to think that just because I was thin and cute that I automatically looked better than a fat chick...then I grew up...moving on.. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes!!!!!!!!!!

  • Divinebrown

    HEY FELINE!!!!!!!

  • ELove

    @amatrex (Comment #122)
    AGREE with EVERYTHING except the Tidday part... Me and ALOT of Cats I know aren't Breast Men, NOT Having Huge Breast isn't a deal-breaker BUT Mos Def must have THOSE Azz-n-Thighs (WORD) :coffee:

  • rjk8

    @Feline Feminine

    used to think
    _____________________

    That's your problem right there. Don't think. Your thoughts are naive fairly tales. Black women are the only group of women who think they can tell a man what he should or shouldn't be attracted to.

  • rjk8

    @Divinebrown

    I can tell by your picture that you're fat. How tall are you and how much do you weight? :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    @rjk8

    And it begins! Why are we now bringing race into this? I NEVER once told you what you should be attracted to, I don't know you and don't care what you like! All I stated was that it is unfair to generalize the market for bigger women when I know for a FACT that there are men who love big women! WTF are you talking about? My point about how I used to think was to emphasize what getting out into the world can do for a limited way of thinking...

  • rjk8

    @amatrex

    I feel you on everything. And black men obviously prefer to have those extra 15-20 pounds located in the woman’s a$$, thighs, and tiddays. It’s what we like to call THICK! But honestly nowadays, it ain’t just black men who like thick women, or atleast women with some extra junk in the trunk. There are men of all races who prefer hourglass shapes to beanpoles.
    ______________________________

    Cosign

  • Divinebrown

    rjk8 says:

    @Divinebrown

    I can be whatever you want to imagine. Doesn’t negate the fact that what I said is true.

    _________________________________________________________________________

    I cannot speak from a man's perspective, but I don't think you are either. What you are saying is true from YOUR point of view only. 1 person cannot speak for an entire gender. FAT being a fetish is just as absurd as little azz peckerwood penis being a fetish. I'm sure if we polled the average man, many of them would WIFE QUEEN Latifah. Don't push your preference off on others as the male perspective.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmi_qbUGCKo&feature=related Feline Feminine

    I cannot speak from a man’s perspective, but I don’t think you are either. What you are saying is true from YOUR point of view only. 1 person cannot speak for an entire gender. FAT being a fetish is just as absurd as little azz peckerwood penis being a fetish. I’m sure if we polled the average man, many of them would WIFE QUEEN Latifah. Don’t push your preference off on others as the male perspective.
    ____

    THANK YOU!

    #overthis

  • Divinebrown

    rjk8 says:

    @Divinebrown

    I can tell by your picture that you’re fat. How tall are you and how much do you weight?

    _________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl: HHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAAAAA!!!! I can tell by yours that YOUR UGLY!! So my weight doesnt matter! Only a man with a penis the size of a pig in a blanket would say such a thing!!

    I'll be fat, Sir! I HAVE A GOOD CHUBBY CHASING AZZ MAN WHOSE DYCK STILL GETS HARD WHEN I COME IN THE ROOM, who is faithful, and paid! So much for your standards of weight cause my MAN IS SWEDISH!!! Straight EUROPEAN!!

    I'm fat! ooh thats comedy!!! HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAAAA!!! GO TO HAIL ROCKY DENNIS!!! LMAO!!

  • rjk8

    @Divinebrown

    Straight EUROPEAN!!
    _________________

    You can brag when he puts a ring on it. Until then you're his fyckanyggahslavehoe fetish. :rofl:

  • Ty

    :kona:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @Devine.. Hey you I guess I dont get a shout out... Where is our swedish man? When is the marathon?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @rjk8... NOW THAT IS TOTALLY UNNECESSARY AND UNCALLED FOR.

  • rjk8

    @Divinebrown

    I’m sure if we polled the average man, many of them would WIFE QUEEN Latifah.
    _________________________________

    As a common person or as a celebrity? Because as just a regular black woman you'd lose that bet if you polled the average man.

  • Divinebrown

    You can brag when he puts a ring on it. Until then you’re his fyckanyggahslavehoe fetish. <----------- THAT'S GHEY AS HAIL!

    Not only are you Rocky Dennis but you like to take it up the azz, too! This is too basic for me, I'm ashamed for even talking to you. Get your head game together and come stronger FAGIDITO!!! Your shyt is lame!

  • Divinebrown

    HEY SNOOTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY BAD, I WAS TOO BUSY READING FUCKERIFIC bull!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @Devine.. no worries sniff sniff tear tear!!!!!

  • Divinebrown

    LMAO!!! I'm sorry girl!!! :hug: I need to get it together!!!

  • rjk8

    @Divinebrown

    Just remember boo. Until he puts a ring on it. You just role playing. Master & Black Mammy. Do you like to be whipped and beaten. I's gone be good taday masa. I'm going to like your buddy hole just the way you like it. :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @rjk8... Its wrong to disrespect women like that. I know you wouldnt want anyone referring to your mom, daughter or sister in such away.

  • Divinebrown

    That's all you got? :coffee:

    OH...lol

    Round of :applause: for the Cross dresser, ladies and gentlemen! Hurry and get your surgery so they can turn that Vienna Sausage into a deformed vagina.

  • Divinebrown

    Snooty....do not address that thing!! He'll cut your face off, wear it, dance in the mirror to What What in the Butt!! :homoswitch:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    :dead:

  • rjk8

    @SnootyPooty

    You have a problem with my comments but not hers. :thinking:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 SnootyPooty

    @rjk8... my opinion is a little bias because thats my girl however you calling her a slave is still uncalled for she had to defend herself just like you did but we can disagree in a respectful way....

  • PAHairston

    Hello All
    "But young ladies of today have no concept of self-respect because the black community in general promotes disrespect in all areas, from our lifestyles to our art and music." (Present company excluded!)

    Lord have mercy Jesus, couldn't have said it better myself! The black community needs to get its act together before its to late. We pressing close. Peace.