No wonder Devery Broox seemed to show no love, concern, or caring for the well-being of the young boy in the shocking video he sent to Worldstarhophop.com.

According to thesmokinggun.com, Broox is not the boy's biological father.

Orlando cops busted Broox on September 26 after they were tipped off by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children who viewed the disturbing video online. Broox initially claimed the off-camera whipping was "staged". He also told the unidentified child to lie and say the scars on his legs occurred when he fell off a bicycle.

The boy later told police "that Devery 'whips' him ‘all the time' " and told him to lie about the whipping because he didn't want to go to jail.

Orlando police describe the 25-year-old Broox as a “mentor” of the seven-year-old boy, with whom he has “no familial relationship.”

Loyal reader, Kim M., who sent us the link to the Smoking Gun article was disgusted by my readers' comments defending Broox for brutally assaulting the boy.

It is clear that our attitudes toward violence -- even when it is perpetrated against small children -- proves that we routinely resort to violence to resolve conflicts because we lack basic communications skills.

The fact that the majority of black people who viewed the video were unable to tell the difference between discipline and an all out assault on a defenseless child is disturbing. The reactions to the video demonstrates the lack of basic parenting skills in the black community. The natural ability to give birth does not qualify some of us to be parents.

When questioned by police, Broox admitted posting the video on YouTube and Tumblr, but claimed that the off-camera beating was “staged.” When officers disclosed that the child said he was beaten by Broox, the suspect “repeated several times that he will take responsibility for his actions,” adding that he regretted putting the video online.

The jarring video, which was filmed September 14, opens with Broox questioning the child about misbehaving in class. Broox, standing with a leather belt around his neck, and the seated boy are seen inside a bathroom. Broox, who told cops that he met the child through the boy’s grandmother, said he was “recommended to the family as a mentor.”

Broox appears angry that the child has ignored his demands (and those of the boy’s grandmother) to respect his teacher and other adults. “You want us to reward your bad behavior,” Broox tells the boy, who answers questions with “Yes, sir” and “No, sir.”

A spoken word performer whose Facebook page lists his employer as the United States Navy, Broox announces to the child, “Your hair is gone,” as he picks up an electric razor. He then proceeds to shave a haphazard pattern into the boy’s hair. “You want to be a class clown? I’ll make sure you go back to school looking like a clown. So that everybody can laugh at you,” he adds.

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    Well now, I guess since he was only a “mentor” some folks will call this bullsht for what it is. :coffee:

  • Redeemed777

    '' The LORD preserveth the strangers; he relieveth the fatherless and widow: but the way of the wicked he turneth upside down.''

    Psalm 146:9

  • JMO

    :smack:

  • pointhimout

    it takes a village, right?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    uh oh this is ammo for Sandy..

  • TPtotalpackage

    This is just bizzare on so many levels...

  • Mother Jefferson

    The fact that the majority of black people who viewed the video were unable to tell the difference between discipline and an all out assault on a defenseless child is disturbing. The reactions to the video demonstrates the lack of basic parenting skills in the black community. The natural ability to give birth does not qualify some of us to be parents.
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    :preach: :applause:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    YSoSerious says:

    Well now, I guess since he was only a “mentor” some folks will call this bullsht for what it is. :coffee:
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    I always thought it was child abuse...there is away to get your point across without SHAVING off a child's eyebrows and humiliating them in front of the world...

    Where is this boy's mama?

  • Anna

    So does he have bio kids to bully?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I hope he wasnt "messing" with that boy. They need to check for sexual abuse as well....

  • KDub

    I hope he wasnt “messing” with that boy. They need to check for sexual abuse as well….
    ------------------------------------
    I thought the same thing...

  • free

    my opinion about parental discipline--whippings and getting bopped in the mouth--has not changed.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    oh lawd sexual abuse now too! :smack:

    Chi u shot out!!

  • KDub

    Is Broox the same as Brooks? I don't think I have EVER seen it like that...

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @CHIBY

    No. It was "discipline" before cause that was the boy's "father". It shouldn't become "abuse" now that that man is shown to be no relation, right? :coffee"

  • Yardgirl

    This story get more and more disturbing!! Where are the parents of this child? Other family? :waiting:

  • BklynJa

    @ Free I agree with you completely....We need more fathers to stand up and discipline their children so they won't need "mentors"

  • chocolate divalicious

    Some people take the meaning spare the rod, spoil the child too far. Now his mother needs to be brought up on some charges u allowed this man to humilate ur child. I could care less if he was the real father. There is a way to raise ur child without beating or embarrasing them

  • SamYell JacksEm

    Where are the boy's parents? Why is the grandma calling this guy to discipline the boy?

  • Anna

    chibytex says:

    YSoSerious says:

    Well now, I guess since he was only a “mentor” some folks will call this bullsht for what it is.
    ______________________________________________________
    I always thought it was child abuse…there is away to get your point across without SHAVING off a child’s eyebrows and humiliating them in front of the world…

    Where is this boy’s mama?

    ~~~~~~~
    I didn't comment in that post. I did not agree w/what I was reading. It was child abuse to me. Some things warrent a butt whipping, but not everything. My kids hated being grounded, they wanted the whipping, grounding worked better for me because they had a week to sit in their room and think about what got them there.

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @point Indeed it does take a village
    @Auntie Since we're taking it back to our African roots...the African proverb does say 'It takes a village to raise a child" :shrug: and honestly my opinion still stands

  • MzDimplez1123

    Well, I never watched the video but, from what I heard, I considered it abuse and where the hell are his damned parents that dude was spending so much time with him anyway? I'm all for discipline but, shaving a kid's head/face to prove your point makes you just as big of an idiot as you are trying to stop them from being.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    His_Mommy623 says:

    oh lawd sexual abuse now too! :smack:

    Chi u shot out!
    __________________________________________________
    I mean IMO that's what it looks like. No REAL father would do that to their child. Plus I dont trust other men around children...That mentor chit is always suspicious... Eddie Long was suppose to be mentoring too...and we all know how that turned out.

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @Chi Lawd why'd you have to bring in the sexual abuse

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @CHIBY

    I won't speak against mentors cause some children, especially boys, need them. Just not his kind of "mentor".

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @DIMPZ

    Exactly.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @CHIBY

    No. It was “discipline” before cause that was the boy’s “father”. It shouldn’t become “abuse” now that that man is shown to be no relation, right? :coffee”
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    I personally never thought it was discipline....I think dude was too extreme....and then to think that aint even the boy's father. I wish another muthafuker would shave my child's eyebrows off...

    We gonna have some serious misunderstandings...

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    I STILL THINK A WOPIN IS NECESARRY :yes: BUT IT DOES CHANGE THINGS WHEN U ARE NOT THE PARENT TO ME... :shrug:
    @CHI IDK ABOUT ALL THAT BUT MIGHT BE POSSIBLE

  • MzDimplez1123

    Although I never thought to bring up sexual abuse, some abusers will use it as a form of demeaning, humbling, embarassing or "teaching a lesson". I hope he didn't do that but, you never know how far he was willing to go to get his point across. :shrug:

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Guys enjoy your day... :hug:

  • KDub

    I said I thought it might be more to it (MAYBE other types of abuse...I just thought it..fleeting thought) from reading the following...The boy later told police “that Devery ‘whips’ him ‘all the time’ ” and told him to lie about the whipping because he didn’t want to go to jail.

    That is what abusers normally say to young victims...don't tell anybody...if asked you need to say XXX...

  • SunRiseBlossom

    Three things I hate to see being mistreated:

    Children,Old People, and Animals!!! :crying:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Tainted_Love says:

    @Chi Lawd why’d you have to bring in the sexual abuse
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    I'm sorry, but I dont put chit past people these days....

    But I'm sorry for putting that thought in ya'lls head....

  • vero

    I still don't see the abuse; If he was the mentor, he sure cared about the kid.

  • West Coast Chick

    hair cutting.. push- ups, and the talk he gave him was fair, especially for a Black man..

    example: I went to Oakland this weekend and there were a group of KIDS shooting at each other.. this is the result of parents NOT disciplining their children.. these kids nowadays have no self worth, there is no consequence for their actions.. nobody cares for or about them.. this is a fact! So, to see a father, a young father show concern about a child's behavior speaks tremendous volume.. being that most kids that boys age will be dead or in jail in about 3 to 5 years

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    he boy later told police “that Devery ‘whips’ him ‘all the time’ ” and told him to lie about the whipping because he didn’t want to go to jail.

    That is what abusers normally say to young victims…don’t tell anybody…if asked you need to say XXX…
    ______________________________________________________________
    :yes: Exactly....

  • vero

    Morning Kdub, Dimpz, HoRny... i will not scroll all the way up so :waves: everyone !

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    if the man was abusing the boy, he deserves to be prosecuted. the grandmother trusted the boy with him so she must have thought he was okay for something. i would stand by ALL my comments if this were the childs father, ok so it isn't and now im curious because this story is strange...where is his parents? and who is this man? maybe he was the only father figure the boy had..

  • free

    BklynJa says: @ Free I agree with you completely….We need more fathers to stand up and discipline their children so they won’t need “mentors”

    **************************************

    a lot of exasperated women "delegate" discipline to male family members and those outside of the family like their ole man or a child's coach. i believe nobody loves you like family so this is something you have to watch closely if you do that.

    i DO have a problem if the child has bicycle-like bruises on him though. in all the whippings we had, and we had a lot, we never had anything but redness that lasts a few minutes.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    THIS IS GOING TO BE A HOT POST TO BE IN... :kona: SOoo NOT IN THE MOOD TODAY SO SEE YA!! :steer:

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    What does this change?
    That's why I don't get involved with anyone elses child outside of family. Hell, even with some family.

    And cause he a mentor that disciplined a child there must be sexual abuse?
    :smack:
    :no:

  • Bigbadwolf

    I still don't think it was abuse. The grandmother brought the boy to the guy so he had permission to discipline him. The neighbor across the street was able to whoop my azz if my mama said she could. And with him explaing the reasons why he was doing what he was doing, tells me that it wasn't coming from a bad place, he had good intentions.

  • KDub

    Hey @Vero... :yahoo:

  • West Coast Chick

    Now, as a mentor, he went too far. Where's the mom? Nobody has said anything about her.. this story doesn't really make sense.. if he wasn't the father, how did the boy end up in protective custody? Why didn't the police just notify the person legally responsible for the child?

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @HIS :cosign: IF ITS NOT THE FATHER MAKES IT KINDA WEIRD LIKE WHAT ELSE WE DONT KNOW ABOUT U KNOW.... :think:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Well, I never watched the video, nor did I read the post when SR posted it, but I spank my kids, and I allow my closest friends and family members to spank their azzes as well if they get out of hand. There is also a big difference between spankings/azz whoopings, and child abuse.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @WCC
    I am ALL about discipline and giving aways so ass :whip: But I dont agree with shaving the lil boy's eyebrows off and then sending the chit to website for the ENTIRE world to see...then come to find out her aint even the boy's daddy.... :nono: that chit dont sit right with me.

    Before I ever laid a hand on my step daughter, I talked with her mama and she gave me permission to spank her. People are real funny about their children as I am with mine. You have to real careful.

    My stepmom has never ever laid a hand on me in the 24 years she's been in my life. If I acted up she'd tell my daddy and he'd tag my ass...

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Man - You may want to check the T-Boz post. Your name has been brought up by soemone I'm sure you would not appreciate! :coffee:

  • KDub

    And cause he a mentor that disciplined a child there must be sexual abuse?
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    Because he asked a child to lie. To save his own azz.

    A good mentor/respectable adult does not ask a 7 yo boy to LIE. Or any child for that matter. IMO.

    Morally wrong. Again JMO.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Man, basically...i guess he will be investigated for that soon...

  • Anna

    vero says:

    I still don’t see the abuse; If he was the mentor, he sure cared about the kid.

    ~~~~~~
    Mentors whip other ppl kids? That's not a mentor.

  • MzDimplez1123

    Um, for the record, just because I give someone permission to mentor, or work with my child on some level does not mean I am giving them permission to lay ONE finger on them. This is also why I do not discipline ANYBODY'S child that is not mine beyond a certain point. I will take them right back to their parents, tell what they did, if my discipling didn't work and not take their bad asses anywhere else til they get a grip.

  • http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/8/mayor-talks-tough-to-black-teens-after-flash-mobs/ LaTechGrad02

    Where was grandma while he was shaving the little guy's head and whipping him? Did she question his methods? Why didn't his friend say "hey man you're going too far with this"? So many questions, so few answers.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    Gluck all this talk bout "embarrassing" too because some judges sentence kids to hold signs of their guilt or do public cleaning wearing jump suits. It's the same thing.

    I guess Ol boy should have put on a robe and then it would have been ok. Smh

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    THE FACT HE TOLD THE BOY TO LIE IS A BIG NO FOR ME...

  • vero

    :D Kdub... please make me laugh. please.....

    I did miss SR but today, wow. just Wow

  • candibfly

    didn't watch the vid but what was his purpose for sending the vid to the reputable site that is wshh?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    And cause he a mentor that disciplined a child there must be sexual abuse?
    ____________________________________________________________
    I didnt say he was.. I said I HOPE he wasnt....

  • KDub

    Teachers mentor kids everyday...would one have a problem if you found out that your child's teacher asked them to tell a lie...

    Red flag to me that sinnister stuff is going on to the point lies are being told from the mouthes of wee ones. What else has this baby been asked to lie about by Mr. Broox that has not come out yet?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Laker, well thats not exactly what I meant..

  • West Coast Chick

    the work out and talk is as far as he should have taken it, since it wasn't his child.. you just don't treat other folks chil'ren like that- If it was his kid, discipline the boy as you the parent sees fit. Nobody knows YOUR child better than you do- FACT!

    Its easy to say what someone will or wont do, especially when you don’t have kids of your own.. raising kids aint no joke.. I don’t fought folks for doing what they feel is necessary to save their kids lives… that’s what your fighting for.. to save their lives, cuz the streets/ destruction/ prison LOVES Black men

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Unpre...I agree with the ppl you listed above but, my thing is, how well did the grandmother even know this dude? He could have been referred to her by somebody else and she just passed this boy over to him. Then again, granny may not even know what he was doing to him before the video was released.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Um, for the record, just because I give someone permission to mentor, or work with my child on some level does not mean I am giving them permission to lay ONE finger on them.
    ____________________________________________________________________
    Exactly.....mentor does not mean discipline....

  • kingstonn

    oh. okay. :coffee:

  • Nita-No-Clothes

    Ain't NO damn way this fool is in the Navy with them dreads in his hair. #that'sallIgot

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Being that this kid's parent are MIA, he probably has some serious azz behavioral issues, that the grandma can't handle by herself. IMO, no grandparent should be raising a child, unless the parents are dead or too sick to care for them.

  • West Coast Chick

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    THE FACT HE TOLD THE BOY TO LIE IS A BIG NO FOR ME…

    ______________________

    right! Because everything he has tried to teach the boy has went out the window..

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Red flag to me that sinnister stuff is going on to the point lies are being told from the mouthes of wee ones. What else has this baby been asked to lie about by Mr. Broox that has not come out yet?
    ____________________________________________________________________
    This is why I think its more to this story and it will come out. If granny KNEW what was going on, why did he tell the boy to lie? Chit aint adding up...

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    He also told the unidentified child to lie and say the scars on his legs occurred when he fell off a bicycle.

    The boy later told police “that Devery ‘whips’ him ‘all the time’ ” and told him to lie about the whipping because he didn’t want to go to jail.
    _____________________________________________________________
    Why are you whipping a child to the point where you feel that you can potentially go to jail. That's called CHILD ABUSE!!!

  • MzDimplez1123

    Maybe i'm just overbearing but, I wouldn't let certain relatives of mine discipline my kids. NO way in hell a mentor better try it. How long was he even mentoring this kid anyway?

  • KDub

    I just read the police report. Granny did NOT know about the beating and Broox told the boy to LIE to Big Momma about it as well...

    She saw bruises on the lad when she gave him a bath. And she watched the video and seemed upset cause she did not know.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @HIS :lol: NO I COSIGN WHAT U SAID AND ADDED MY LIL OL FEELINGS TO IT.. THE FACT THAT HE IS NOT THE FATHER MAKES IT A LIL WEIRD FOR ME... I WONT ALLOW MY BF TO SPANK MY SON HE HAS PERMISION TO DO TIME OUT TAKE TOYS AWAY BUT WHEN IT COMES TO SPANKING ME AND MY MOTHER ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO ARE ALLOWED TO SPANK HIS LIL AZZ.. THE BF SPANKED HIM ONCE AND I LOST IT A LIL U CAN DISIPLINE MY CHILD WITH WORDS BECUASE U ARE THE ROLE MODEL IN HIS LIFE BUT U WILL NOT PLACE A HAND ON MINE EVER AGAIN!! POINT. BLANK FUKN PERIOD :no: IM HIS MOTHER AND HIS SPERM DONOR IS NOT PRESENT AND IM THE ONLY ONE HERE TO PROTECT HIM SO I WILL TO THE END

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    I'm just failing to see the problem here.
    It's best to avoid other peoples kids, especially if u r a man.

  • SamYell JacksEm

    @Lakes
    Do you have a kid/kids with your bf?

  • Moe

    West Coast Chick says:

    hair cutting.. push- ups, and the talk he gave him was fair, especially for a Black man..

    example: I went to Oakland this weekend and there were a group of KIDS shooting at each other.. this is the result of parents NOT disciplining their children.. these kids nowadays have no self worth, there is no consequence for their actions.. nobody cares for or about them.. this is a fact! So, to see a father, a young father show concern about a child’s behavior speaks tremendous volume.. being that most kids that boys age will be dead or in jail in about 3 to 5 years

    _________________________________________________________________________

    I 100% agree. For those of you who do not work within the justice system TRUST ME when I say these children need that kind of discipline in order to stay OUT of the system. That is exactly what the gov't wants for these kids to keep acting up, talking smack, picking up guns, smoking weed and then some. You know why?? So they end up in jail.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @SAM :yes: I DO ONE

  • MzDimplez1123

    Ok, I know my imagination can go to far at times but, if he taped most of what he did to him, why not whoop him on camera too?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I just read the police report. Granny did NOT know about the beating and Broox told the boy to LIE to Big Momma about it as well…

    She saw bruises on the lad when she gave him a bath. And she watched the video and seemed upset cause she did not know.
    ______________________________________________________________
    Did it say how the man became the boy's "mentor?"

  • MzDimplez1123

    Also when Granny asked Broox about the bruises on the kid, he denied spanking him.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Laker, Exactly.. thats how I feel about mines. I wish a mufugga would stare at my son too long let alone touch him. thats how any parent who is an active parent would feel. it seems as though in this case the parents are not present. so its strange...but im not gna immediately start saying the man is a abuser and a pervert...maybe he just cared too fuggin much and overstepped...i'll never know. i wasn't there #shucks

  • KDub

    I spank my kids, and I allow my closest friends and family members to spank their azzes as well if they get out of hand.
    -----------------------------------------------
    I do too. WORST spanking my oldest daughter EVER got was at the hands of my BFF (her godmother).

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Chi...........A friend recommended him to her.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @SAM ONE OF THE MAJOR REASON WHY I DO NOT ALLOW MY BF TO SPANK MINE IS BECAUSE I HAD A STEP-DAD WHO NEVER EVER LAID A HAND ON ME HE TALKN TO ME HE DID TIME OUT AND DEMONSTRATED TO ME WHAT A LOVING MAN SHOULD BE AND RESPECT WITHOUT LAYING A HAND ON ME... I WANT THE SAME FOR MY SON HE RESPECTS MY BF AND KNOWS THAT IF MY BF SAY NO TO SOMETHING OR DECIDES THAT U NEED TIME OUT FOR 30 MIN THAT IS WHATS POPN BUT IF U REALLY MESSD UP AND U NEED A AZZ :whip: THAT IS MY JOB... NOW WITH MY DAUGHTER I ALLOW HIM TO SPANK HER BECAUSE ITS HIS BLOOD ALSON I KNOW I KNOW DOUBLE STANDARD BUT IM NOT BUDGIN AT ALL

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    So dude kidnapped kid, beat him, shaved his head, taped it, told kid to lie, posted video and gave kid back to grandma who had no idea any of this was going on?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @SAMYELL *records me shaving ur brows and sends it to TMZ*

    hey bew! :hug:

  • SamYell JacksEm

    @Lakes
    Are you planning on the pappy staying you, i.e. marriage or something like that? If so, you're undermining his authority.
    no shade

  • West Coast Chick

    chibytex says:

    @WCC
    I am ALL about discipline and giving aways so ass But I dont agree with shaving the lil boy’s eyebrows off and then sending the chit to website for the ENTIRE world to see…then come to find out her aint even the boy’s daddy…. that chit dont sit right with me.

    __________________________________________________________

    I don't agree with shaving the boys head either. But I was under the impression that that boy belonged to him. I mean, I wouldn't want my son's head shaved, but Ive learned not to question other folks discipline tactics. I don't know what the child did to deserve such treatment. Maybe he was one of those kids that thought he was too fly to learn in class, idk.. but some of the things I do to my daughter may seem harsh. I'm one of those parents that will come up to the school and beat yo ass, so I digress

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Man...All of that applies except him kidnapping the boy

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Laker, well its ur child, ur rules. can't say nothing bout that..

    @Man #84 :smack: lol i guess thats what had dun happened here..

  • JMO

    KDub says:

    And cause he a mentor that disciplined a child there must be sexual abuse?
    ———————————————-
    Because he asked a child to lie. To save his own azz.

    A good mentor/respectable adult does not ask a 7 yo boy to LIE. Or any child for that matter. IMO.

    Morally wrong. Again JMO.
    ____________________________________________________________

    Thanks for the shout out :wink:

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @LAKER
    what u mean u "allow" him to spank HIS daughter?

  • SamYell JacksEm

    Sup His!! :peace: :blink: <--- not really, but that's how you look with no eyebrows

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    but some of the things I do to my daughter may seem harsh. I’m one of those parents that will come up to the school and beat yo ass, so I digress
    _______________________________________________________________
    My cousin did that to her child and it took her 5 years to get Child Protective Services outta her life. They would stop by unannounced. They made my cousin's life a living hell for 5 years all because she whipped her daughter's ass at the school....

    Be careful with that...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    KDub says:

    I spank my kids, and I allow my closest friends and family members to spank their azzes as well if they get out of hand.
    ———————————————–
    I do too. WORST spanking my oldest daughter EVER got was at the hands of my BFF (her godmother).
    ___________

    And I bet your oldest never did whatever it was that got her that spanking again.

    Hell, I got spankings, and I ended up just damn fine. :coffee:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @SAM :yes: I DO... BY NOT ALLOWING HIM TO SPANK MY SON??... WELL SO BE IT I WONT ALLOW IT AT ALL HE SPANKED HIM ONCE AND LEFT A HAND PRINT AND A BRUISE ON HIS AZZ AND I DID NOT LIKE IT AT ALL.. I DONT WANT MY SON TO BE AFRAID OF HIM I WANT HIM TO RESPECT HIM AND UNDERSTAND HE IS THE MAN OF THE HOUSE AND TRUST HIM.. SO FAR IT WORKS MY SON LOVES HIM AND CALLS HIM HIS BEST FRIEND SO I WONT BUDGE HE WILL NOT SPANK HIM AT ALL :nono:

  • http://www.reverbnation.com/chuckthurgood BK2ATLMAN

    Sup fam, going to go and look at this video before i comment.. :hahaha:

  • West Coast Chick

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    So dude kidnapped kid, beat him, shaved his head, taped it, told kid to lie, posted video and gave kid back to grandma who had no idea any of this was going on?

    __________________________

    :rofl: that doesn't even sound right! Clearly, their trying to make it look worst than it really is, so that folks wont think to even TRY to discipline their kids.. the government wants to discipline our kids...troy davis style

  • free

    Man, I just don't care™ says: So dude kidnapped kid, beat him, shaved his head, taped it, told kid to lie, posted video and gave kid back to grandma who had no idea any of this was going on?

    *******************************************

    grandma was tired of this lil boy acting up at school and home and she sent him to get his azz whipped. period.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @DIMPZ
    but how did he get the boy unless someone handed him over

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    So dude kidnapped kid, beat him, shaved his head, taped it, told kid to lie, posted video and gave kid back to grandma who had no idea any of this was going on?
    ____________

    I'm wondering if Grandma may have had some knowledge to the whoopings and and shaving, but won't admit it, cuz she's afraid she may got to jail for allowing it. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    lmaoooo i raised a brow @ "allow" but hell i tell my man about what i allow him to do all the time (not that he cares but i like 2 hear myself talk lol) so i can see how she chose that word.. :yes: :lol:

  • candibfly

    awesome! *leaps over a chair and lands at ur feet* :hug:

  • Mannie

    This is BS so the father clearly isn't in the boys life and a strong black male has stepped in to help shape him into something other than a another good for nothing NIGG@...all these parents who are worried about the boy being humiliated need to stop being your child friend and be an effing parent!!! I got whipping from my mom when i got outta line and i turned out just fine...and for SR to keep calling on the communication fairy to help the kid understand i can say she clearly doesn't have kids...all of that talking is how kids think they have choices...

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @MAN OK I DONT "ALLOW" PER SAY BUT I DONT STOP HIM HE IS HER FATHER AND HAS EVERY RIGHT TO SPANK HER SO THAT I WILL NOT SAY SHYT ABOUT.. MY SON DIFERENT STORY :coffee:

  • MzDimplez1123

    The report says the granny sent the boy to the man for guidance. She was unaware of the fact that he was discipling him with the belt. I confused why she didn't call the authorities herself though when he came home hairless.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I'm ok with FAMILY giving ass beatings...but the buck stops there. No teacher, principal, mentor or friend can touch my baby...I aint playing that chit....

  • daprinceofradio

    The boy's REAL father needs to whoop his son's mentors AZZ.

  • Mannie

    Now back to my :kona:

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @FREE
    :claps:
    THAT'S what I was driving at!
    Grandma sentthat nigga for a whupping and now lying bout it.

  • SamYell JacksEm

    Candi!!! :hug: Your absence was noticed yesterday.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    daprinceofradio says:

    The boy’s REAL father needs to whoop his son’s mentors AZZ.
    ___________

    If they can find his REAL father, or even his REAL mother. :coffee:

  • West Coast Chick

    I felt a certain kind of way about the video, especially the end, when he little face was crying.. my heart did go out to the boy.. but I live near the city, where kids kill each other daily.. those kids could use someone to show some sort of concern for them, cuz at the end of the day, kids just want to be loved and they need to know that someone cares for them.. most kids like discipline anyway.. it lets them know that you care.

    I watch my brother make my newphew lay down on the bed and take an ass whoopin.. yes, I feel sad, but you can SEE THE DIFFERENCE IN MY NEPHEW AS OPPOSED TO THOSE KNUCKLE HEADS IN THE STREETS WITH NO FATHER- REAL TALK

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I’m wondering if Grandma may have had some knowledge to the whoopings and and shaving, but won’t admit it, cuz she’s afraid she may got to jail for allowing it. :shrugs:
    ________________________________________________
    But WHO is dude. Is he a friend of the family. A church member. Where the hell he come from? That's my question....

  • Mannie

    West Coast Chick says:

    I felt a certain kind of way about the video, especially the end, when he little face was crying.. my heart did go out to the boy.. but I live near the city, where kids kill each other daily.. those kids could use someone to show some sort of concern for them, cuz at the end of the day, kids just want to be loved and they need to know that someone cares for them.. most kids like discipline anyway.. it lets them know that you care.

    I watch my brother make my newphew lay down on the bed and take an ass whoopin.. yes, I feel sad, but you can SEE THE DIFFERENCE IN MY NEPHEW AS OPPOSED TO THOSE KNUCKLE HEADS IN THE STREETS WITH NO FATHER- REAL TALK
    ------------------------------------------------------------------

    :cosign:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @HIS EXACLY MY SON MY FUKN RULES!!! :grin: U KNOW I DINT MEAN IT LIKE I GIVE HIM PERMISION THE BF WOULD LOOK AT ME LIKE THIS :blink: THIS IS MY CHILD BISH!! BUT MY SON :nono: PLUS MY SON IS A GOOD KID NO CUSSN NO TALKN BACK U KNOW SO THERE IS NO REASON FOR HIM TO SPANK SHYT LIL MAN GETS SSCARED WEHN HE SCREAM AT HIM "ALEX COME HERE WHY U DO THIS AND THAT NOW GET UR LIL BUTT IN THE CORNER AND DONT MOVE TILL I SAY" LIL MAN WALKN HIS LIL BUTT TO THE CORNER :cry: AND AFTERWARDS ASK MY BF "U NOT MAD AT ME DE I BE GOOD" AND THEN ITS OVER WITH..

  • West Coast Chick

    Unpredictable says:

    daprinceofradio says:

    The boy’s REAL father needs to whoop his son’s mentors AZZ.
    ___________

    If they can find his REAL father, or even his REAL mother.
    ________________________________

    :cosign:

    The real father needs his ass whoop for NOT being there to begin with..I bet he enjoyed that :hump: that got him here though :rollseyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    chibytex says:

    I’m wondering if Grandma may have had some knowledge to the whoopings and and shaving, but won’t admit it, cuz she’s afraid she may got to jail for allowing it.
    ________________________________________________
    But WHO is dude. Is he a friend of the family. A church member. Where the hell he come from? That’s my question….
    _____________

    It's obvious that the Grandma knew his azz. Plus, somebody said that the Grandma's friend told her about him.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Chi.......It just says he's some guy that was referred to granny by one of her friends.

  • kingstonn

    i remember this white lady threatened to call CPS on my mom in the grocery store because she was smacking one of my brothers for talking back. moms told her as long as she was calling them to call 911 too cause she was gonna beat the chit out the nosy white bish in aisle four. :rofl:

    which led me to wonder why people think smacking their kids is child abuse? some of these badass kids need the belt in their lives.. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Awesome, i have my brows bew. u dnt :boobs:

    @Man and Free, pretty much. this is being sensationalized because mufuggas are bored. give the mentor some boundaries. he probably didnt have none because granny was chylling while he was mentoring. he definitely shouldnt spank him cause its not his child but again, maybe he cared too damn much.. didnt look like "abuse" to me.. that lil boy probably bad ass hell. first thing er'body in here would say if his lil ass tried to snatch ur purse or some chit is, "YOU NEED UR LIL ASS BEAT!" u ain't even about to stop and start preaching about slavery and the YT mans ways of conditioning us and timeout...this is too much..i cnt

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    I'm not against spankings and I would be a lie if I said I never spanked my own or won't spank them in the future. I've done it out of anger and out of fear but mostly out of love but only as a last resort. But I'll be damned if someone else will put their hands on my child and force them to lie about it.

    Also, I say what that "man" did is not spanking; it's abuse. And I said that even thinking that he was the boy's father.

    I'm just going to have to agree to disagree on this topic. But I will end with this...

    Maybe some of the folks defending this type of "discipline" are doing so because, to admit this was abuse, would be to admit that just maybe they were abused as kids too. Many might not want to face a thing like that.

    I'm done now.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    The real father needs his ass whoop for NOT being there to begin with..I bet he enjoyed that :hump: that got him here though :rollseyes:
    ________________________________________________________________________
    THAT'S who needs their damn eyebrows shaved off...
    #realtalk

  • KDub

    And I bet your oldest never did whatever it was that got her that spanking again.
    ---------------------------------------------------
    Kirah and my BFF and HER daughter (both girls the same age..) go out to the Wally Whurl. They at checkout..

    Kirah: Auntie can I have some some Skittles?

    BFF: No. We are on our way to McDonald's...and you will get ice cream.

    Kirah: OK

    Bff swear she STILL don't know HOW she did it...BUT the girls had lil purses (they were 7-8ish)...that night she picking up and what falls out of Kirah's purse...a bag of fuggin Skittles. :wtf: She woke them UP out their sleep and questioned/spanked folks. Mine for doing it and hers in case she got any ideas!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    kingstonn says:

    i remember this white lady threatened to call CPS on my mom in the grocery store because she was smacking one of my brothers for talking back. moms told her as long as she was calling them to call 911 too cause she was gonna beat the chit out the nosy white bish in aisle four.

    which led me to wonder why people think smacking their kids is child abuse? some of these badass kids need the belt in their lives..
    ___________________

    :rofl: I would've went off on her nosy azz, too. I'll be damned if my kids show their azzes, and don't get DDT'd for that chit.

    Like I stated before, I got my azz whooped, and I turned out fine.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    It’s obvious that the Grandma knew his azz. Plus, somebody said that the Grandma’s friend told her about him.

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ Chi…….It just says he’s some guy that was referred to granny by one of her friends.
    __________________________________________________________
    So granny just let some random dude she didnt really know come pick her child up and abuse him.... Granny might need her ass beat too...
    :coffee:

  • SamYell JacksEm

    @Lakes
    I get what you're saying. I'm just saying. Any and all kids that come under MY roof get treated the same at the most basic level. There is no separate set of rules for anyone other than what they have earned through their individual behavior.

  • West Coast Chick

    chibytex says:

    but some of the things I do to my daughter may seem harsh. I’m one of those parents that will come up to the school and beat yo ass, so I digress
    _______________________________________________________________
    My cousin did that to her child and it took her 5 years to get Child Protective Services outta her life. They would stop by unannounced. They made my cousin’s life a living hell for 5 years all because she whipped her daughter’s ass at the school….

    Be careful with that…

    ______________________________

    chile please! my daughter is 16 yrs old, not pregnant, (no kids) at least a B average... I aint playin.. I do what I HAVE to to make sure mines is straight. Fuking up is NOT an option.. the teacher and the principle knows me.. they'll even say "wow, we really wish we had more parents like you"

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    The real father needs his ass whoop for NOT being there to begin with..I bet he enjoyed that that got him here though
    ________________________________________________________________________
    THAT’S who needs their damn eyebrows shaved off…
    #realtalk
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    This some ignant chit right here. A MAN does NOT decide to have a child. That is a WOMAN'S SOLE DECISION.

    SHE decided to have that child. That we know for FACT.
    He might not have even wanted a child. :shrugs:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    YSoSerious says:

    Maybe some of the folks defending this type of “discipline” are doing so because, to admit this was abuse, would be to admit that just maybe they were abused as kids too. Many might not want to face a thing like that.
    ____________________

    PREACH SISTA!!! :applause:

  • Mannie

    kingstonn says:

    i remember this white lady threatened to call CPS on my mom in the grocery store because she was smacking one of my brothers for talking back. moms told her as long as she was calling them to call 911 too cause she was gonna beat the chit out the nosy white bish in aisle four.

    which led me to wonder why people think smacking their kids is child abuse? some of these badass kids need the belt in their lives..
    ___________________

    I would’ve went off on her nosy azz, too. I’ll be damned if my kids show their azzes, and don’t get DDT’d for that chit.

    Like I stated before, I got my azz whooped, and I turned out fine.

    ___________________________________

    :preach:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Maybe some of the folks defending this type of “discipline” are doing so because, to admit this was abuse, would be to admit that just maybe they were abused as kids too. Many might not want to face a thing like that.

    I’m done now.
    ____________________________________________________________
    You have a valid point!!!!

  • http://twitter.com/candyrayne215 spongebobfan

    nothing wrong with a SPANKING not whipping, not kunta kente Roots type ish (that my mom was on back in day)
    but in regards to this lil boy, clearly something more is not right in his life, this 'non family member' (which explains why he sent video in, he didnt care about helping the kid, he wanted some hits on World star, i dont think a real parent would do such a thing)
    if some strange man hits my kid, thats assult and/or child abuse. they may have a case here, but what do i know :shrug:

  • candibfly

    sometimes i spank snoopy :coffee:

    @awesome was i? *waits for my welcome back present*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    KDub says:

    And I bet your oldest never did whatever it was that got her that spanking again.
    —————————————————
    Kirah and my BFF and HER daughter (both girls the same age..) go out to the Wally Whurl. They at checkout..

    Kirah: Auntie can I have some some Skittles?

    BFF: No. We are on our way to McDonald’s…and you will get ice cream.

    Kirah: OK

    Bff swear she STILL don’t know HOW she did it…BUT the girls had lil purses (they were 7-8ish)…that night she picking up and what falls out of Kirah’s purse…a bag of fuggin Skittles. She woke them UP out their sleep and questioned/spanked folks. Mine for doing it and hers in case she got any ideas!
    _______________________

    :rofl: I bet neither one of them ever stole a damn thing after that!!!!!!!!!!!! I would've been whoopin azz, too. I'll be damned if my kids become thieves. :nono:

  • http://www.reverbnation.com/chuckthurgood BK2ATLMAN

    ok i watched it. Not as bad as I thought by reading the comments. The cursing, shaving eye brows and videotaping and putting it online is waaay too far. The ass whooping and making the kid do some drills is needed sometimes when a child gets out of control.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Yso, bew thats a bit of a stretch to say that ppl have supressed abuse issues because they believe in whooping that ass..girl!

    no, we are aware of the times we live in...some of these lil assholes need they ass beat...point blank...and to all the kids living with scary ass adults please come to my house...i will fugga kid up! :karate:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @SAM I SEE THAT BUT AT THE SAME TIME THE BF DOES NOT BELIEVE THAT LIL GIRLS SHOULD BE SPANK AS HARD AS A LIL BOY SHOULD AND HE WILL NOT EVEN SPANK HIS OLDER DAUGHTER BECAUSE HE SEES HER LESS THAN MY SON AND MY SON STARTED TO NOTICE THAT HE GOT SPANK AND HIS LIL GIRL DINT SO THERE HE LOST ALL KINDS OF RIGHT OF TOUCHING MY SON... HE WAS QUICK TO SPANK ALEX BUT WOULD TALK TO HIS SO HE LOST HIS DAM MIND AND I DONT TOUCH OR SPANK HIS EITHER I DO TIME OUT AND WEN IT COMES TO HER TALKN BACK I SEND HER TO HER FATHER...

  • West Coast Chick

    I feel more sorry for folks that DONT do anything to straighten their child out.. those are the ones t hat go killing our kids and shat
    #disgusted

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    This some ignant chit right here. A MAN does NOT decide to have a child. That is a WOMAN’S SOLE DECISION.

    SHE decided to have that child. That we know for FACT.
    He might not have even wanted a child.
    _______________________________________________________________
    Anytime you lay down with someone UNPROTECTED then you take a risk on becoming a father. And as a real MAN you have to step up and take responsibility regardless if she was a jump-off, bust-down or your wife...

    It takes TWO make a baby and it takes TWO to properly raise a child, IMO!!!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    YSoSerious said that! I agree 100%. At some point we have to learn to communicate effectively with our kids without falling back on the archaic traditions of our ancestors who lacked basic communications skills. This is 2011! We must do better for our children!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    :lol: lawd.

  • West Coast Chick

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Yso, bew thats a bit of a stretch to say that ppl have supressed abuse issues because they believe in whooping that ass..girl!

    no, we are aware of the times we live in…some of these lil assholes need they ass beat…point blank…and to all the kids living with scary ass adults please come to my house…i will fugga kid up!
    _________________________________

    co- mutha fluckin sign :yes:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Jay....I'm all with your mama. The difference is, those are her kids and she loves them. Whose to say dude even likes that lil boy and i'm not going to label shawty a badass when I don't know exactly what he did in this instance or may have done previously. Who's to say granny didn't initially sent him to hang with just because she felt he needed a male in his life.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @YSO
    "Maybe some of the folks defending this type of “discipline” are doing so because, to admit this was abuse, would be to admit that just maybe they were abused as kids too. Many might not want to face a thing like that."
    _________________________________________________________________________________

    Maybe...

    OR maybe this is much ado about nothing and pretty soon EVERYTHING will be categorized as some form of abuse.

    We got whole generations of niggas that KNOW what an azz whooping really is and what being underfed really meant and completely different definition of "poor."

    Yet today a nigga get a low haircut he ain't like and it's "abuse."
    :no: <<<<SMH

  • http://www.reverbnation.com/chuckthurgood BK2ATLMAN

    @sandra Its 2011 and these kids are 100 times worst then they were back in the day. Plus the parents are kids themselves and have no idea of what a functioning family is. I bet money that the mother of the kid comes from a single parent household and she probably in her early 20's and jobless...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @SR didnt u say in the previous post on this topic that our ancestors (the african ones) were like, model parents who didnt whoop ass?

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @HIS

    He didn't just spank that boy.

    And I wonder if we would be saying the same thing if that was a little girl instead. Would all of that still be okay and necessary?

  • West Coast Chick

    This some ignant chit right here. A MAN does NOT decide to have a child. That is a WOMAN’S SOLE DECISION.

    SHE decided to have that child. That we know for FACT.
    He might not have even wanted a child.

    ___________________________

    welp, that dump ass nigga shoulda got spaded or wore a condom- DUH

  • free

    SamYell JacksEm says: @Lakes
    I get what you’re saying. I’m just saying. Any and all kids that come under MY roof get treated the same at the most basic level. There is no separate set of rules for anyone other than what they have earned through their individual behavior.

    *************************************************

    that's my point about having so many households run by women and why i wanted to hear from men.

    i'm curious to see lil man's scars though.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHIBY
    "This some ignant chit right here. A MAN does NOT decide to have a child. That is a WOMAN’S SOLE DECISION.

    SHE decided to have that child. That we know for FACT.
    He might not have even wanted a child.
    _______________________________________________________________
    Anytime you lay down with someone UNPROTECTED then you take a risk on becoming a father. And as a real MAN you have to step up and take responsibility regardless if she was a jump-off, bust-down or your wife…

    It takes TWO make a baby and it takes TWO to properly raise a child, IMO!!!

    ___________________________________________________________________________

    As a real WOMAN if YOU make the decision to have a child YOU should be able to raise said child and NOT force it on someone else.

    If TWO people have unprotected sex TWO people should be able to make a decision on the consequences of the unprotected sex. Point blank period.

    Again, we know FOR FACT she WANTED this child or she wouldn't have had him so SHE needs her azz whupped.

    Anything you say about HIM is an AZZUMPTION. <<<that's a FACT :yes:

  • kingstonn

    oh okay.
    so little Billy beats the chit out his lil sister and talks back to his Mom. he shouldn't get dealt with? rather we should effectively communicate and give Billy a time out and ground him for a week right? or Billy tells his mom to fck off and gtfo his face? what would be the best way to deal with him using excellent communication skills? ask him why he hates you and give him a hug? LOL Americans, i tell you. :rolleyes:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @MAN WOW BRUH... JUST WOW!!

  • KDub

    bet neither one of them ever stole a damn thing after that!!!!!!!!!!!! I would’ve been whoopin azz, too. I’ll be damned if my kids become thieves.
    --------------------------------------
    She said she KNOW hers was guilty by at the very LEAST association. Said she had to get boff of them for a numma of reasons aside from the obvious; stealing is a :no:

    I told you NO and you did it ANYWAY.

    I done took yall lil azzes to McDonald's so NOW you done had ice cream AND candy.

    There was a balled up bag in the bottom of the purse; which indicated there were TWO bags of Skittles.

    Yall ain't even smart enough to just eat ALL the dayum Skittles...and throw the bags away.

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @YSo and Auntie Im trying to figure out how you guys came to the conclusion that nude and discipline were the same thing

    Everytime m parents and grandparents laid a hand on me they made sure I knew the reason and they made sure I learned my lesson.
    Im not a parent yet...but I plan on using the same methods.I think I turned out really well.Back in the day parents were allowed to displine theirs children now people are getting CPS called on them. Back in the day kids weren't acting the way they are today because they knew their parents would handle their buts when they got home!

  • candibfly

    the phrase 'point blank period' has always bothered me for some reason :think:

    *sits back in the 'i don't have anything to add to this topic' corner*

  • http://www.reverbnation.com/chuckthurgood BK2ATLMAN

    :rofl: put him in timeout

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    As a real WOMAN if YOU make the decision to have a child YOU should be able to raise said child and NOT force it on someone else.

    If TWO people have unprotected sex TWO people should be able to make a decision on the consequences of the unprotected sex. Point blank period.

    Again, we know FOR FACT she WANTED this child or she wouldn’t have had him so SHE needs her azz whupped.
    _______________________________________________________________
    Sounds like you've paid for your share of abortions in your life time...
    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    BK2ATLMAN says:

    @sandra Its 2011 and these kids are 100 times worst then they were back in the day. Plus the parents are kids themselves and have no idea of what a functioning family is. I bet money that the mother of the kid comes from a single parent household and she probably in her early 20?s and jobless…
    __________________________

    Exactly!!!!!!

  • MzDimplez1123

    And for the record, i'm not saying children should not be disciplined, i'm saying not any and everydamned body should be able to discipline a kid just because they know them.

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    *abuse instead of nude lo Im in my phone lol

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @YSO
    “Maybe some of the folks defending this type of “discipline” are doing so because, to admit this was abuse, would be to admit that just maybe they were abused as kids too. Many might not want to face a thing like that.”
    _________________________________________________________________________________

    Maybe…

    OR maybe this is much ado about nothing and pretty soon EVERYTHING will be categorized as some form of abuse.

    We got whole generations of niggas that KNOW what an azz whooping really is and what being underfed really meant and completely different definition of “poor.”

    Yet today a nigga get a low haircut he ain’t like and it’s “abuse.”
    <<<<SMH

    #THIS :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    WOW so where is the real dad?
    I really have no commetn per se...point blank...period
    heeeeeeeey CandiB :2dance: I went thru a few pics you posted of Snoopy
    #SnoopyStalker

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Hey HIS :hi: is the kitchen back open?

  • KDub

    Sounds like you’ve paid for your share of abortions in your life time…
    ---------------------------------------------
    :dead:

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @Kingston Exactly ....Americans let their kids get away with murder

  • MzDimplez1123

    Hey Honey! :hug:

  • West Coast Chick

    Maybe…

    OR maybe this is much ado about nothing and pretty soon EVERYTHING will be categorized as some form of abuse.

    We got whole generations of niggas that KNOW what an azz whooping really is and what being underfed really meant and completely different definition of “poor.”

    Yet today a nigga get a low haircut he ain’t like and it’s “abuse.”

    ___________________________

    :rofl: its the waaay you say it that was funny :lol: but I totally agree

    I remember this dude said something like, I'll slap that hoe and shoot that nigga :blink:
    Men dont fight anymore?, no level of consequences, just take a life, we have to start rearing out kids at home. by any means necessary.. you try and talk to them, give them voice of reason and wake up in the Melendez brothers house :lol:

    yt aint alaways right :no:

    my momma beat the shat outta me, and look, I aint killed no body, I got a job, no drug habit, my own shat, and Im still afraid of disrespecting her :lol:

  • candibfly

    OHoney :2dance: <--- to the theme song from lassie

    he is quite the character :D

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    As a real WOMAN if YOU make the decision to have a child YOU should be able to raise said child and NOT force it on someone else.

    ^^^ THIS RIGHT HERE JUST FUKN LOST!! FORCE IT?? DID I FORCE UR DAK INSIDE ME?? DID I FORCE UR NUTT INSIDE ME??? SO U SAYING UR DESICION TO KEEP THE CHILD THAT I SKEEET SKEET OUT MY DAK NO RELATION TO ME THO UR PROBLEM.... ABORTION EXPERT I GUESS!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Tainted :lol: i was like "whos nude up in hea?" :lol:

    @Yso, i dnt think boys and girls should be disciplined the same anyways unless ur raising a butch lesbun or something.. i mean, its a girl. why would u be treating a girl like a boy? My spankings were different from my brothers but i got dealt with none-the-less

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    @Kingstonn, I would've beat his lil azz. :yes:

    Some parents are soft as hell nowadays, but I'll be damned if I let my kids act a pure azz and don't get handled.

    Parents need to get ahold of their kids before the bs justice system does.

  • JMO

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    The real father needs his ass whoop for NOT being there to begin with..I bet he enjoyed that that got him here though
    ________________________________________________________________________
    THAT’S who needs their damn eyebrows shaved off…
    #realtalk
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    This some ignant chit right here. A MAN does NOT decide to have a child. That is a WOMAN’S SOLE DECISION.

    SHE decided to have that child. That we know for FACT.
    He might not have even wanted a child. :shrugs:
    ___________________________________________________________________

    Not even gonna go there today :nono: ... I'll watch the responses to this one :popcorn:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Hey Dimpz :cheers: <<<< chocolate and apple martinis

  • kingstonn

    @ tainted
    this lil bad ass boy was cursing his mom out in the store cause she wouldn't buy him something.. i can't remember what it was. and the mom was just like "okay sweetie, don't use those words, we'll go buy it" i was like :huh: i wish my ass woulda talked to either one of my parents like that. :lol:

  • free

    KDub says: Bff swear she STILL don’t know HOW she did it…BUT the girls had lil purses (they were 7-8ish)…that night she picking up and what falls out of Kirah’s purse…a bag of fuggin Skittles. She woke them UP out their sleep and questioned/spanked folks. Mine for doing it and hers in case she got any ideas!

    *******************************************

    i stole one of them lil ring candies and put it down my shirt. in the car, packaging kept crackling and crackling. when i got back to my grandma's, she was like "show me what you got". i was like "what?" she was like, "show me what you got!" she beat my azz til my nose bled and then called my mom who woke me up and beat me again. that was my only double beating. a few months later, she gave me the ring pop. i think she forgot i had stole it!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Honeyyyyyyyyyyyy *fondles the back of that* yeah im making baked chicky tonight (its the :hump: ) :rofl:

    UnPredyckz!! :hug:

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Some people don't know if they are going or coming.

    :coffee: but to each his own.

  • kingstonn

    @ mirs
    really! that's the problem with most of these damn kids..

    "spare the rod, spoil the child.." :yes:

  • West Coast Chick

    As a real WOMAN if YOU make the decision to have a child YOU should be able to raise said child and NOT force it on someone else.

    ___________________________

    Im comopletely fukin lost! Please tell me how a REAL WOMAN can create a child alone? If you get pregnant, its because HE made you pregnant. thats not just YOUR child that child belongs to the both of you

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Kingstonnnnnn I still don't curse around my parents and I'm 20 something<< see what I did there?

  • SamYell JacksEm

    My gal's sister has 4 boys and she is the epitome of the stereotypical young black single mother that doesn't want anyone to say anything to her boys until she can't control them. They have reckless mouths, feel entitled to everything, and don't have any reprocussions for their behavior. She asks me to step in for her (which I don't necessarily mind) but what is me setting them straight for a day gonna do if you're gonna reinforce all the bs that has them acting that way in the first place as soon as they're not around me?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    :hahaha: @Free

    thats cute lol

    Kingbewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! hey gawj<3

  • West Coast Chick

    kingstonn says:

    @ tainted
    this lil bad ass boy was cursing his mom out in the store cause she wouldn’t buy him something.. i can’t remember what it was. and the mom was just like “okay sweetie, don’t use those words, we’ll go buy it” i was like i wish my ass woulda talked to either one of my parents like that.

    ______________________________

    hump.. give his ass 10 more years...lawd help him :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    When I was little, my mother beat my ass with a wooden broomstick for breaking a living room window and I survived it. So was that abuse or discipline?

  • kingstonn

    @ honey
    :lol: same here. moms put the fear of God into me when i was little. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    :lol: @Free. I remember I stole a Monie Love - Born to B.R.E.E.D. cassette tape years ago. My moms found that tape, and knew my dumb azz stole it.

    Ooooooooo-weeeeeeee, that was THEE worst azz whoopin I ever caught!!!!!!!!

  • West Coast Chick

    YSoSerious says:

    When I was little, my mother beat my ass with a wooden broomstick for breaking a living room window and I survived it. So was that abuse or discipline?

    ____________________________

    how many more windows have you broken after that ass whoopin? :think:

    if none, I call it discipline

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @Kingston I remember when this little white girl was running around the store and ran right into me.I picked the white girl up and her parent got mad that I didn't apologize and the little girl rolled her eyes at me. Before I knew it I had my hand in the mom and dads face telling them they lost their damn mind... I told them they needed discipline their child and they said no we don't do that, that's what's wrong with you people. If my sister and boyfriend wouldn't have been there I would have had to lay hands on them

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    YSoSerious says:
    When I was little, my mother beat my ass with a wooden broomstick for breaking a living room window and I survived it. So was that abuse or discipline?
    _______________________________________________________________
    Were there no belts around? Was the stick broken? Did she make you sweep up the broken glass with the same broom after the beating? :thinking:

  • MzDimplez1123

    <----Got maybe one whooping my entire life and i'm not a mental case, a menace to society or any other form of criminal. I think different kids need different types of discipline though. I have and will whoop/spank mine but, talking to them or denying them privileges works better with them than anything else. I do understand all kids aren't like that though and sometimes, being too aggressive in discipling a kid can make them go bad too. They can end up feeling unloved or feel like they're immune to discipline because they've been getting it forever.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Can I get a Morning Glory/ Morning Woody post please? :happy:

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @WCC

    Really? Okay.

    I'll see y'all in the next post.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    so i have to slap kingbew and unpredyckz eh? :shank:

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @His lmao I don't know how my phones auto correct turned abuse into nude lol

  • http://www.reverbnation.com/chuckthurgood BK2ATLMAN

    Its bad out here, I know a chick that was telling me how her son is so bad and never wants to listen, and acts up in public. She said that the kid dropped to the floor screaming in the middle of the store cause he wants a ice cream sandwich, so she got him one.. I was like :smack: i would of left him there, and then to find out the kid is like 4 yrs old. I told her to get that shit straight now, cause if you don't the kid going to be buck wild in 3 years

  • KDub

    But I think I have another problem with it b/c it was taped. Why are you taping yourself beating somebody child and sending it to a mediocore azz website??? Did it make you feel important? Esp b.c you done went as far as to tell the boy to lie...but then you turn around and send this to folks? I am just angry that the mentor that was chosen is a big fuggin DUMMY.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    IM HUNGRY!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Hony theres one..the previous one with all them skrawng mufuggas..

    the 2nd pic will get u randy girl!

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @DIMPZ

    :claps:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :waves: SR FAM

    Im confused! and don't know where to begin becuz of all the questions I have! I feel for the kid

  • kingstonn

    hisssssssy! :hug:

    @ tainted
    kids run and break chit in the store and they just let em. kids open up candy and chit in the store and the parents just say "oh, he has such a creative spirit"... :blink: bishhhhh! :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I told them they needed discipline their child and they said no we don’t do that, that’s what’s wrong with you people
    ___________________________________________________________
    YOU people!! :rofl:

    They used to beat our asses during slavery and it worked, hell its STILL working.. :lol: All we are doing is using the same method on our OWN children to get them to behave and now they wanna say :whip: are wrong...

    White folks always figure out a way to flip the script on our asses...

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Tainted_Love says:

    I told them they needed discipline their child and they said no we don’t do that, that’s what’s wrong with you people. If my sister and boyfriend wouldn’t have been there I would have had to lay hands on them
    ____________________

    And you don't see the problem with your semi-violent response? You don't see that you responded that way due to your upbringing?

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    @ His_oneandonly

    I like there bodies to look at as art I hardly go to a museum to see.

    I need to look at some fluckable art I can have right now.

  • West Coast Chick

    SamYell JacksEm says:

    My gal’s sister has 4 boys and she is the epitome of the stereotypical young black single mother that doesn’t want anyone to say anything to her boys until she can’t control them. They have reckless mouths, feel entitled to everything, and don’t have any reprocussions for their behavior. She asks me to step in for her (which I don’t necessarily mind) but what is me setting them straight for a day gonna do if you’re gonna reinforce all the bs that has them acting that way in the first place as soon as they’re not around me?

    _________________________________

    I see a lot of young single mothers ( and some fathers) that raise their kids alone and they feel bad about it, so they give their kids a lot of leeway that usually fuks them up in the long run

    thats why I felt a certain kind of way about how those old bytches doggin draya out about her son..Im like fukin help her, bringing her down and making her feel bad it NOT gonna fix the situation.. she's young, their old hags.. help her out.. it wont kill you, and hey, GOD may even bless you for it

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ SamYell JacksEm: the natural ability to give birth does not qualify some of us to be parents.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    i remember my mom and my brother had a lil spat when he was like 13 and he came out the room and said to me "give this to HER" (he empahsized the her and he was talking about my mom) lawddddd my mother grabbed the broom and whacked his azz like he owed her money and told him "as long as im breathing u better not EVER disrespect me and call me "her" again! I am ur MOTHER and I will knock ur head off to get that point across." he understood her point..

  • Ms. YaYa

    :popcorn:

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @WCC/LAKER/CHIBY

    I don't believe in abortion BUT am I not stating a FACT that a woman and a woman ALONE decides whether she will have a child? :shrugs:

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @Kingston they come up with all type of synonyms for bad a$$ kids lol
    Let a black kid open something in a store...they're going be hanging the childs pic up with the shoplifters

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I agree with Dimpz...you have to discipline each child differently. I was never scared of a spanking...as a matter of fact I'd do chit knowing ALL I was gonna get was my ass beat. As long as I could still go outside and run with my friends and do whatever I was cool.

    But putting me on punishment was death. That was the worst thing ever.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    oh the slavery chat is back!

    lawd pls tell me SR is working on a new post :pray:

  • SamYell JacksEm

    @Dimpz
    I feel you. All my step daughter has to do is hear from a third party that I might could be disappointed in something she's done and she'll choke up and be crying with the snot bubbles and everything. Didn't have to whoop her. Don't really whoop my boys but they know that option is ALWAYS on the table. Most times that's more than enough. And my kids are extremely well behaved

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @LAKER

    If I give you a gun, and YOU DECIDE to kill someone, am I murderer?
    :think:

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    I bet if montel and oprah was still around 10 years from now and had this young man on their show... He will be valedictoria, all-star football kid, mad scholarships and a role model for other youth... AND you kow who he would give thanks too... grandmom and Mr. Devery and would reflect to say he was grateful for his discipline... loook outside your small box and asked how many successful people had AZZ whoopings!!! until the white man start caring about animals that when they consider human abuse to be unlawful....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    His_Mommy623 says:

    so i have to slap kingbew and unpredyckz eh?
    ___________

    I'm sorry bew!!!!!!! :hug: How you be???

  • http://www.reverbnation.com/chuckthurgood BK2ATLMAN

    I never had to put my hands on my son and he's 11 yrs old. I think as long as you start at a very young age, teaching your child discipline and also showing that in your actions you don't have to beat your child.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    chiby whos that in ur gravi? *puts on specs*

  • Anna

    SamYell JacksEm says:

    @Lakes
    Are you planning on the pappy staying you, i.e. marriage or something like that? If so, you’re undermining his authority.
    no shade

    ~~~~~~~
    I have been w/my husband for 16 yrs. I had kids coming into the marriage, from day 1 he knew that putting his hands on my kids was not going to happen. They have a dad.

  • kingstonn

    i got beat with a chancla once for telling my mom NO, i didn't want to wash dishes. y'all think i ever said no to her again? chit. :no:

  • West Coast Chick

    BK2ATLMAN says:

    Its bad out here, I know a chick that was telling me how her son is so bad and never wants to listen, and acts up in public. She said that the kid dropped to the floor screaming in the middle of the store cause he wants a ice cream sandwich, so she got him one.. I was like i would of left him there, and then to find out the kid is like 4 yrs old. I told her to get that **** straight now, cause if you don’t the kid going to be buck wild in 3 years

    ______________________________________

    my son did that a few times too. But I told his father about it, and somehow it never happend again.. swear* we go into the store, I'll say "no, Ba (my nickname for him) next time.. he'd be like ok big girl (his nickname for me) :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Un, i'm good doll, urself?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    His_Mommy623 says:

    chiby whos that in ur gravi? *puts on specs*

    October 6, 2011 at 1:05 pm
    ______________________________________________
    Doug and Jackie Christie at their first wedding....
    :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    :tape:

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    *holds hands with His_oneandonly*

    I hope she is working on one...

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    Violence begets violence. Just cause they would never dare raise a hand to you doesn't mean they won't raise one to someone else. :coffee:

    @SANDRA

    Can we get a new post pretty please? :grin: <---Most sweet and innocent smile.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Sam...That's how my daughter used to be, I could say, Nikki I am very disappointed in you and she would cry her eyes out, hell she still does it but, she's growing out of it a bit and the same with my son but, when they were younger and now, I talked/talk to them ALOT and sometimes a simple reprimand goes alot further with them then screaming, yelling and laying hands. It doesn't always work but 9/10, it gets the job done with them.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Un, i’m good doll, urself?
    ___________

    I'm good, just been busy as all lately. :sad: I miss yall heffas.

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    All of yall talking about this slavery and its working thing... How about abuse has been since the old biblical times... so please stop violence has been since who knows...caught the crap!!!!! stop walking around with ya slaved mentality..

  • JMO

    OHoney says:

    YSoSerious says:
    When I was little, my mother beat my ass with a wooden broomstick for breaking a living room window and I survived it. So was that abuse or discipline?
    _______________________________________________________________
    Were there no belts around? Was the stick broken? Did she make you sweep up the broken glass with the same broom after the beating? :thinking:
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :hahaha:

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    @Sandra I responded tht way because she hit me with the you people. I don't fight for senseless reason or even become confrontational for b.s. but she allowed her child to run into me and expected apology and then made a racist comment. &&yes my upbringing did play apart in that because my mom taught me not to take crap and not to accept disrespect. And this all happened at Trader Joes in Midtown Atlanta

  • candibfly

    looks like dough and jackie before her gender reassignment surgery *squints*

  • JMO

    BK2ATLMAN says:

    I never had to put my hands on my son and he’s 11 yrs old. I think as long as you start at a very young age, teaching your child discipline and also showing that in your actions you don’t have to beat your child.
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :yes: Great point ... The last whoopin I got was when I was 5 and it was because no one would take me to the corner store for candy so I took my damn self ... Yell at me one good time and I was done ... my dad was a sucker for tears :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @Jay Bee
    I was really being sarcastic cause the white lady told Tainted "that's what's wrong with YOU people." My point that it was alright when HER people did it. We just using the same method.... :shrug:

  • candibfly

    dough is pronounced dough in croatia :coffee:

    *typo but y'all know who i was talkin bout*

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    All these typos :cuss: Damn you Evo

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    :lol: @Candi

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I was disciplined with azz whoopings and Im telling you this what more kids need today I knew to respect my elders I knew to be responsible for self and I knew if I didn't do what was expected of me there would no doubt be circumstances for me! I can count the time I have whooped my kids but my kids will let you know their MOMZ don't play that! :nono:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    candibfly says:

    looks like dough and jackie before her gender reassignment surgery *squints*
    __________________________________________________________________
    :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Girls the birchbox advertisment at the top of this page is the bizness I get a surprise box every month and I love the samples I have been receiving the actual product is expensive but fortunately the samples last long enough!

  • West Coast Chick

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @WCC/LAKER/CHIBY

    I don’t believe in abortion BUT am I not stating a FACT that a woman and a woman ALONE decides whether she will have a child?

    ______________________________

    if you lay down with that woman and she gets pregnant, its both of your reponsibility, not just hers.. what if she gave you AIDS? would that be her responsibility that you didnt protect yourself?

  • free

    His_Mommy623 says: i remember my mom and my brother had a lil spat when he was like 13 and he came out the room and said to me “give this to HER” (he empahsized the her and he was talking about my mom) lawddddd my mother grabbed the broom and whacked his azz like he owed her money and told him “as long as im breathing u better not EVER disrespect me and call me “her” again! I am ur MOTHER and I will knock ur head off to get that point across.” he understood her point..

    ****************************************

    girl, you bringing back memories, lol! NO DISRESPECT! the most we could get away with was slamming the door on our way to our rooms (not too often but every now and then) and mumbling slightly but just loud enough so that they could hear that we were mumbling.

  • MzDimplez1123

    What's a Chancla? :shrug:

    Hell I have cousins that got a whooping for everydamned thing, no matter how big or small, not talking to, just asses beat, by their dad. Hell he broke one's jaw one time disciplining him. One of them, RIP, grew up to be a criminal and the other one went to the military but, he has anger issues out of this world. The military has sent him to anger management atleast 3x. They both hate/hated their dad and have issues wiht their moms for allowing it but, you know how that goes. Sad part is, I know/knew them both well and know that beneath all the anger and issues they have that they were/are really good guys.

  • JMO

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ SamYell JacksEm: the natural ability to give birth does not qualify some of us to be parents.
    ________________________________________________________________

    :cosign: ... This reminds me of the hate I see when women are with their children and their hair, nails and everything is done yet the child looks a hot mess :mad:

  • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

    New post please Auntie! !!

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Is there anything to eat today?

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @hony :grin:

  • JMO

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Girls the birchbox advertisment at the top of this page is the bizness I get a surprise box every month and I love the samples I have been receiving the actual product is expensive but fortunately the samples last long enough!
    ________________________________________________

    Where is this ad?? :think:

  • kingstonn

    @ dimpz
    a sandal or house shoe.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    I just recently told my Dad that he was gettin soft in his old age. :lol:

    My lil brother has always been a handful, and now he's 13. He would do things or say stuff, and me and my sisters would be like, :huh: , when my Dad didn't handle his azz. Now let that had been us, or my older brother, and we woulda got our azzes handed to us on a dirty azz platter.

    Now, his azz talks all types of chit to my Dad, he's been in counseling, and just basically acts a pure azz. SMH. One day he thought he was gon talk tough to my Dad in my presence. Cheeeeiiiiit. I hopped over on that azz so damn quick, he didn't know wtf to do. Dad might not whoop yo azz, but he damn sure got back up. :yes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ MzDimplez1123: there is no way that a parent can harshly discipline a child and not damage that child emotionally or psychologically for life. A lot of us have anger issues. Yet we think beating a child is okay.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Jay..............Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

  • Torae

    If people learned how to talk it out with their kids. Then maybe we wouldn't have a "bullying" problem in our schools. Black folks are always so quick to beat their kids and Sandra is right, it all goes back to slavery. The first time slaves get out of line, masta beat us! and black folks think it's alright to it with our children.

    I also don't like to see a man spanking his daughter's! It seems so strange to me that people rant and rave about a man beating his wife or girlfriend, but black people see no problem with a grown ass man spanking his daughter. I have a 4 year old and both me and my husband HAVE NEVER LAYED A HAND ON HER! We talk it out and I take her toys away if it comes to that. She's not disrespectful, and I think talking has let her understand how to deal with conflicts in school.

  • West Coast Chick

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    I was disciplined with azz whoopings and Im telling you this what more kids need today I knew to respect my elders I knew to be responsible for self and I knew if I didn’t do what was expected of me there would no doubt be circumstances for me! I can count the time I have whooped my kids but my kids will let you know their MOMZ don’t play that!
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    :cosign:

    thats one thing that I can say, my kids are respectful and Im proud of them.. I wouldnt do anything different. I dont go home and try to kill them, but they know when the line has beemn crossed. I refuse to allow my son to grow up in this hell we call life without knowing thwe difference between right and wrong...
    #notryodavis

  • JMO

    Jay Bee says:

    I bet if montel and oprah was still around 10 years from now and had this young man on their show… He will be valedictoria, all-star football kid, mad scholarships and a role model for other youth… AND you kow who he would give thanks too… grandmom and Mr. Devery and would reflect to say he was grateful for his discipline… loook outside your small box and asked how many successful people had AZZ whoopings!!! until the white man start caring about animals that when they consider human abuse to be unlawful….
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    Did you ever see that rant from Montel's daughter?? She said he's never around, he has anger issues and he thinks sending their mom child support checks makes him a great father even though he doesn't spend time with them

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @Dimpz
    That sounds like my bother n law(him and my hubby has different daddies). My brother n law's father used to beat the chit outta him. He once beat him with a baseball bat and broke his arm. My brother n law has so many issues right now. He got kicked out the Navy for attacking folks and was accused or raping this white girl on base. I personally think he hits on my sis n law. He's very aggressive and doesnt take no for an answer.

    It all stems back from getting beat by his daddy.

    I also have a homegirl that used to be beat by her daddy. Now every nigga she gets with beats her ass and she thinks the chit is normal. And men are weak if they dont beat their woman...

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @JMO
    At the top of this page for $10 a month they send you a box with 5 items in them i've had carols daughters samples great lift serum, lavendar and ginger facial cream, the new nail craze stickers, lip balm, parfum samples I love getting my box every month have not been disappointed yet

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @MAN IT TAKES TWO AND IF SHE GAVE UR AZZ SUM AKA HERPES AKA AIDS IT WOULD BE HER FAULT BUT SINCE THE MAN IS GIVING NO RESPONSIBILITY RIGHT?? U GAVE HER UR NUT U DECIDED TO NOT USE A CONDOM ITS UR DAK WHY WOULD IT BE UP TO HER TO STRAP UR DAK UP... BOTH WERE CARELESS BOTH SHOULD BE HOLD ACCOUNTABLE... :hug:

  • West Coast Chick

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ MzDimplez1123: there is no way that a parent can harshly discipline a child and not damage that child emotionally or psychologically for life. A lot of us have anger issues. Yet we think beating a child is okay.

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    beating kids isnt ok.. having somebody child run up and car jack you, or try to rob you at gun point aint OK either.. but hey, they grew up thinking they could do wahtever to whoever... who wins?

  • Redeemed777

    .

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    :lol: @Kingstonn. I got spanked with belts, a bare hand, a shoe, an extension cord, a switch, a rolled-up magazine, newspaper, etc. :lol:

  • West Coast Chick

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    @MAN IT TAKES TWO AND IF SHE GAVE UR AZZ SUM AKA HERPES AKA AIDS IT WOULD BE HER FAULT BUT SINCE THE MAN IS GIVING NO RESPONSIBILITY RIGHT?? U GAVE HER UR NUT U DECIDED TO NOT USE A CONDOM ITS UR DAK WHY WOULD IT BE UP TO HER TO STRAP UR DAK UP… BOTH WERE CARELESS BOTH SHOULD BE HOLD ACCOUNTABLE…

    :preach:

  • kingstonn

    my dad used to spank me when i was little. so what?

  • LuvnMeIzEz2Do

    BK2ATLMAN says:

    I never had to put my hands on my son and he’s 11 yrs old. I think as long as you start at a very young age, teaching your child discipline and also showing that in your actions you don’t have to beat your child.
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    I promise that kids act different with their mother. Dad can give them a look and it's over but girls AND boys act uglier with mom and push her much further.

  • West Coast Chick

    Unpredictable says:

    @Kingstonn. I got spanked with belts, a bare hand, a shoe, an extension cord, a switch, a rolled-up magazine, newspaper, etc.

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    :rofl: me too.. I would NEVER hit my child with the shat my moms used to use- but I love her and I know she loves me tyoo

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    :lol: i could be in here all day with this crap...but i won't be..

    some people are full of it.. :coffee:

  • JMO

    OHoney says:

    Kingstonnnnnn I still don’t curse around my parents and I’m 20 something<< see what I did there?
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    :lol: I always say, "excuse my french" right before I curse in front of my parents. Sometimes you need to curse to reinforce the point youre trying to make :shrug:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @CHOCO :kiss: :hug: JUST CUZZ!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Chi..........Wow, that's sad. That's why I think you should KNOW your kid to see what works best with them.

  • SamYell JacksEm

    I have been w/my husband for 16 yrs. I had kids coming into the marriage, from day 1 he knew that putting his hands on my kids was not going to happen. They have a dad.
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    I was coming from speaking on if the other father isn't in the picture. Even then, there is no deviation from the rules I set in MY house. The reality is that azz whoopings rarely occur in my home but the option is always on the table. I would expect that anyone that did not agree with my ideology would keep it moving.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ MzDimplez1123: there is no way that a parent can harshly discipline a child and not damage that child emotionally or psychologically for life. A lot of us have anger issues. Yet we think beating a child is okay.
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    I agree. I tend to think mental abuse its worse than physical abuse. I dont think its right for parents to be :cuss: calling them lil whores and bishes and you aint gonna be chit...ALL that chit takes a toll on a child and sets the child for emotional failure as adult...

    My mama use to :cuss: me out so bad at times she didnt need to lay a hand on me. Her words would make me cry and tear me down...

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @WCC
    I agree with preparing children for whats outside of your home! My kids know how to behave in school don't let no teacher call me talking bout your kids was cutting up in class its just so much that facilitates your childs good behavior with moderate discipline I don't take my frustrations out on them but hell if I've warned you 3 times before - you know what's next! Im all for responsible discipline in moderation - I promise it helped me become the woman I am today!

  • JMO

    Redeemed777 says:

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    Did you mean this --> . O #justcurious :coffee:

  • Bigbadwolf

    About him telling the boy to lie IDK. I've told my son to lie regarding my :blunt: He's 14. he knows the smell. The little ones are never there. If asked, all they know is Mommy only smokes cigarettes.

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ His..............I think you should say whatever you are thinking.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    That’s why I think you should KNOW your kid to see what works best with them.

    ^^^ YES TO THIS!!! NOT EVERYCHILD IS THE SAME...
    @KINGSTON THE CHANCLE WAS MY MOMS FAVORITE WEAPON :lol:

  • kingstonn

    @ mirs
    shoot, whatever they could reach at the time.. mom would be like "Go get me a belt!" & I'd bring her the flimsiest one but she'd be like Hell nah & reach for a shoe. :lol: i think i only got spanked a good 2 times in my life tho. Bish could look at me sideways & I'd immediately hush & act right.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Chit can we get a new post please?

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Chi..............I know a chick talks to her kids that way, it makes me cringe.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Lakes :kiss: I :heart: you

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    My thing is, if talking it out with your kids works for you, then so be it. But talking does not work with some kids. I spank mine, and I take things away, and so far, they could care less when I take things away, but they do not want that spanking.

    My Dad spanked me, and I'm great. I don't disrespect my parents, I respect my elders, and others in general. I am not violent, unless someone pushes me to whoop some azz.

    After my son started walking and talking, I even apologized to my parents for anything that I had did to get the spankings that I got. Because now as a parent, I understand why they spanked and grounded us.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @WCC
    :smack:
    You just aren't getting it.,,

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    LuvnMeIzEz2Do says:

    BK2ATLMAN says:

    I never had to put my hands on my son and he’s 11 yrs old. I think as long as you start at a very young age, teaching your child discipline and also showing that in your actions you don’t have to beat your child.
    ________________________________________________________________________

    I promise that kids act different with their mother. Dad can give them a look and it’s over but girls AND boys act uglier with mom and push her much further.

    thank u! my hubby only has use ONE damn eye and cut it over in my sons direction and he gets it right together...my son has steps with me :lol: it begins with the baby ish...he thinks im sweet on him so he can hit me with the bullshyt lmao and when that doesn't work he will ask me the same shyt over and over until i'm close to setting him on fire...oh that child o' mine...once he gets me right and ready to kill him, he makes me laugh...he thinks im unaware of this routine but im much smarter than he *taps forehead*

  • kingstonn

    @ his
    I agree a hunnid thou percent! :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Unpredictable says:

    :lol: @Kingstonn. I got spanked with belts, a bare hand, a shoe, an extension cord, a switch, a rolled-up magazine, newspaper, etc. :lol:
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    My mama threw a pack of frozen wieners at me...cause I was talking about how I couldnt find them in the freezer ( I really didnt want to cook my brothers nothing to eat) She said if I find these hot dogs in here that your ass....I :rolleyes: at my mother and the next thing I know them frozen hot dogs was coming at my chest...felt like I had the wind knocked outta me...now that was abuse....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    kingstonn says:

    my dad used to spank me when i was little. so what?
    __________________

    Mine spanked me, too. :shrugs:

  • JMO

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @JMO
    At the top of this page for $10 a month they send you a box with 5 items in them i’ve had carols daughters samples great lift serum, lavendar and ginger facial cream, the new nail craze stickers, lip balm, parfum samples I love getting my box every month have not been disappointed yet
    ________________________________________________________________

    Thanks

  • iheart405

    chibytex says:
    I agree. I tend to think mental abuse its worse than physical abuse.
    ___________
    :cosign:

    My dad used to :cuss: me and my brother all the time and that scarred me waaaaayyyy more than any whooping i ever got

  • Doc Holiday

    gotta love exposure...

  • kingstonn

    :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @JMO thats where redeemeds crazy ass is..

    .<-----redeemeds crazy ass

    O<--er'body else..

  • Christi

    Some of you are laughing to keep from crying. Sad that many of you have been abused and have yet to realize it. You are destined to become abusers because you think that just because you survived being beat with any foreign object in sight that that made/makes the abuse an acceptable form of discipline. Smh. In this instance this guy, father or not, was completely wrong. I saw that video and the way he talked to that boy was inappropriate. Shaving his head and eyebrows had no connection to the child's misbehavior at school and made no sense whatsoever. And to record it and submit it. At least he was so stupid so that the child could be rescued. I bet he never thought to go to the school and sit in the child's class or do any school related things with the boy.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    About him telling the boy to lie IDK. I’ve told my son to lie regarding my :blunt: He’s 14. he knows the smell. The little ones are never there. If asked, all they know is Mommy only smokes cigarettes.
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    :dead: :dead: :rofl:

    I cant deal with this today.... :rofl:

  • JMO

    Unpredictable says:

    kingstonn says:

    my dad used to spank me when i was little. so what?
    __________________

    Mine spanked me, too. :shrugs:
    ________________________________________________________________________

    I knew what I could get away with when it came to my mom and I knew what I could get away with when it came to my dad ... I knew which parent to go to if I wanted something too :lol:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @HIS MY SON IS HATES FOR THE BF TO BE MAD AT HIM HURTS HIS WIGGLE FEELINGS BUT LET THE BF GIVE HIM THAT LOOK... LIL MAN SHUT UP SITS DOWN AND KNOW HE BETTA NOT EVEN SAY A WORD... BUT HE TRY THAT BABY SHYT WITH ME ALL THE TIME HE DO HIS LIL PUSS IN BOOTS EYES AND CHIT :lol: BY THE WAY I CANT WAIT TO SEE THE MOVIE... :ashamed:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    chibytex says:

    Unpredictable says:

    @Kingstonn. I got spanked with belts, a bare hand, a shoe, an extension cord, a switch, a rolled-up magazine, newspaper, etc.
    ___________________________________________________________________
    My mama threw a pack of frozen wieners at me…cause I was talking about how I couldnt find them in the freezer ( I really didnt want to cook my brothers nothing to eat) She said if I find these hot dogs in here that your ass….I at my mother and the next thing I know them frozen hot dogs was coming at my chest…felt like I had the wind knocked outta me…now that was abuse….

    :dead:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Unpre... :clap: I'm not anti discipline, i'm anti doing too much.

    Hell believe me, my kids aren't saints. I have a teenager so, she does lil shyt to see how far she can take things. She got into so many issues the beginning of last school year, nothing major, just thinking high school was as lenient as grade school and I kept talking to her and she kept acting up, end result, I denied her the opportunity to go to homecoming. She recently told me something she did that made me wanna die 1000 deaths but, I had to respect that she told me and that I didn't find out some messed up way and that we have a good enough relationship that she felt she could be honest with me. This year though, school has not been an issue at all and she is highly excited about attending homecoming game and dance.

  • JMO

    chibytex says:

    Unpredictable says:

    :lol: @Kingstonn. I got spanked with belts, a bare hand, a shoe, an extension cord, a switch, a rolled-up magazine, newspaper, etc. :lol:
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    My mama threw a pack of frozen wieners at me…cause I was talking about how I couldnt find them in the freezer ( I really didnt want to cook my brothers nothing to eat) She said if I find these hot dogs in here that your ass….I :rolleyes: at my mother and the next thing I know them frozen hot dogs was coming at my chest…felt like I had the wind knocked outta me…now that was abuse….
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    :tape: :yes: ... yes that was

  • pointhimout

    yall are crazy. you can't sway back and forth. I still say he should not have sent the vid to WSHH. I don't know where or how we even turned this into abuse, and of sexual nature on top of that.

    He was the apparent disciplinarian, mentor or dad (or not). He still shouldn't be in jail for whippin the lil dude's ass. Like Man said, this is why I too stay outta saying anything to other folks kids because the first thing all wanna say is the man must be doing something to the kid, since it isn't his. crazy.

  • SamYell JacksEm

    You just aren’t getting it.,,
    ------------------------------
    I do. And I agree. :yes:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :lol: @ HIS

    Hmmmm whats really good!

  • iheart405

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ Chi…………..I know a chick talks to her kids that way, it makes me cringe.

    ____________

    My Bff talks to her kids like that and I cant stand to hear it. She just says "girl they don't listen if i talk to them regular"

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    Still no new post? :(

    *sigh*

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    and that scarred me waaaaayyyy more than any whooping i ever got
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    :yes: and that's the reason why I'm nervous about my mama coming to visit..cause she can still be abusive with her words...I aint gonna lie its because of her that I have most of the issues that I have. And I didnt get most of my physical discipline from her. My daddy would beat my butt with his belt...my mama would beat my butt with her mouth...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Lakerrrrrrrrrrrrrr btch im feenin' ala Jodeci for Puss and his solo debut u hear me! omg im excited *squeals* ion even care if my son comes to the movies with me or not..

    "THIS ISNT ABOUT U LIL NIGGLET!"

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    He still shouldn’t be in jail for whippin the lil dude’s ass.
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    I disagree with you if parents can be charged for abuse how come he shouldn't he's not even the childs parent!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Choc! sup ma? :hug:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ HIs....I thought I was the only grown ass excited about Puss In Boots. :yahoo:

  • JMO

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @JMO thats where redeemeds crazy ass is..

    .<—–redeemeds crazy ass

    O<–er'body else..
    ____________________________________________________________________

    Or maybe Redeemed forgot to copy & paste the religious text but instead copied the . :think: ... i've done that before

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @LAKER/WCC

    If two people make a mistake why is ONE bound by the decision of the other?

    The WOMAN DECIDES to have the child REGARDLESS of whether a man wears a condom or not. Condoms are 100% now are they? Yet he is BOUND by her decision.

    Why are u comparing natural diseases to HUMAN DECISIONS? :shrugs:

  • MzDimplez1123

    Hey Choco! :hi:

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    YsoNayorYea

    I know what the fluck is wrong with Sandy Mae I can't take his beating convo anymore... I do not want to add my dictatorship.

  • pointhimout

    and I got an ass whoopin with an extension chord, held down so I couldn't move. that's abuse. it was my grandmother. I didn't care for her since, even as an adult. when she passed away, it was like, oh well. I've gotten whipped by mom, so even as a child I knew the difference.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Chiby
    Have you ever considered speaking to a licensed therapist? If not maybe you should - not trying to offend at all but sometimes to me it seems as though your life issues are because of someone else and I know what its like to be abused and while each victim is different I don't want to be a victim so I conquer it!

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    JMO says:

    Jay Bee says:

    I bet if montel and oprah was still around 10 years from now and had this young man on their show… He will be valedictoria, all-star football kid, mad scholarships and a role model for other youth… AND you kow who he would give thanks too… grandmom and Mr. Devery and would reflect to say he was grateful for his discipline… loook outside your small box and asked how many successful people had AZZ whoopings!!! until the white man start caring about animals that when they consider human abuse to be unlawful….
    ________________________________________________________________________

    Did you ever see that rant from Montel’s daughter?? She said he’s never around, he has anger issues and he thinks sending their mom child support checks makes him a great father even though he doesn’t spend time with them

    ~~~~~
    Right.... but they dont hear that tho!!!!!

  • iheart405

    @ Chiby, I feel you.... I don't live in the same state as my parents but when i go visit i am still nervous to leave my son with my parents because my dad talks to my nephew the same way he used to talk to us and if I EVER hear him talking to my son like that :shank: :karate:

    I got whoppings from both parents also but i have far more issues with my dad because of how he talked.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Where is the love up in here? *going around hugging people*

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I denied her the opportunity to go to homecoming. She recently told me something she did that made me wanna die 1000 deaths but, I had to respect that she told me and that I didn’t find out some messed up way and that we have a good enough relationship that she felt she could be honest with me. This year though, school has not been an issue at all and she is highly excited about attending homecoming game and dance.
    _____________________________________________________________________
    I sorta believe after like 14 yo beating your ass is a waste of time...and MY fukking energy..That's when you start taking chit away...cause see she gonna look back and realize she missed her first high school homecoming cause she was acting up in school. I bet you wont have that problem no more...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Dimpz im thinking about taking Persia (my Fur-daughter) to go see it. She wants 2 marry puss. I know she does!! they would make a bytchin cat couple!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :waves: Cutie Pie Dimpz!

  • kingstonn

    :blink:
    this bish is ten grapes short of a fruit basket. :no:

  • MzDimplez1123

    :hug: Hony

    Well, kids are a sensitive subject and everyone deals with them differently. Sorry if anything I said offended anybody or put them up in arms.

  • MzDimplez1123

    :rofl: @ His

    @ King..Of who do you speak? :coffee:

  • MzDimplez1123

    **whom

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    kingstonn says:

    this bish is ten grapes short of a fruit basket

    :dead: because I knowwwwwww :rofl:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :hugs: HIS

    Not much is up going to happy hour tonite with a jr high school friend looking forward to that

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @iheart
    If mama comes here next weekend talking chit to my child then we gotta problem. I dont curse my child out and aint NOBODY gonna do that chit. My mama will be homeless in the Chi for a weekend if she pop off on my ladybug...

    @Choco
    Yeah I've actually been to counseling. I'm considering going back. Still some chit I need to deal with that I havent...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    as my aunty (RIP) would say "that elevator doesn't go all the way up" :no:

    :hahaha:

  • kingstonn

    :coffee:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Chi...Denying Homecoming got a lot of improvement. I was gonna allow her to go to the WinterBall but, her school cancelled it. So far this year, there have not been a shytload or demerits or detentions. Total turn around from last year. Maturing plays a factor too though.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    CutieDimpz

    I need to snuggle this post as been lonely and fluck... certain things I don't like talking about... I NEED SOME SEXINESS IN THIS BIATCH

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Kingston..... :waiting:

  • 2know the ledge

    So much I would and could say and not enough time. Ok this was not this child's bio and no one fully knows what went on. Is this man wrong for posting this on world star? yep, was he wrong to tell this child to lie yep? "mentor" or whatever the hell you want to call it there are plenty of men/women that are parnets and showing no type of compassion or disclipine to their own flesh and blood that they created. Was this humiliation of the kid 2 much yes but reprimending a child with his form of disc. no one can really say how or what how they are going to discpline there kid b/c every situation calls for a different action. I know from my own experience my 5 yr old knows I don't play and my form is my form am I stupid to post my tatics on a social site no b/c that is my household and my flesh and blood. We are so quick to condem one of their tatics but fully don't know the whole story. the beating mental state of those of color wasn't auto from us let's not forgot that. We were beating from whom "our slave masters" and just like anything that was taught and seen and carried over to us when we became so call free. #IJS off soap box

    be easy SR!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    chibytex says:

    I denied her the opportunity to go to homecoming. She recently told me something she did that made me wanna die 1000 deaths but, I had to respect that she told me and that I didn’t find out some messed up way and that we have a good enough relationship that she felt she could be honest with me. This year though, school has not been an issue at all and she is highly excited about attending homecoming game and dance.
    _____________________________________________________________________
    I sorta believe after like 14 yo beating your ass is a waste of time…and MY fukking energy..That’s when you start taking chit away…cause see she gonna look back and realize she missed her first high school homecoming cause she was acting up in school. I bet you wont have that problem no more…
    ________________

    When my kids are 14 years old, and decide to act an azz, I'm moving the furniture in the living room, and I'm squaring off with their azzes. "You ain't never too old to get an azz whooping." :lol:

  • MzDimplez1123

    I need a new post! :wail:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Chiby
    You mos def should continue seeing one - I went and she helped me with a lot of childhood issues! And just from reading your comments I can see you are struggling a lot and it's almost as if your past is haunting you which is very unhealthy and will eventually break you down talking from experience

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    I need to see Cfrees Prince Gravi! :mad:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    You ain’t never too old to get an azz whooping.”
    __________________
    Damn Skippy my daughter told me to shut up at 15 - what you think happened!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    get yo snuggle on Dimpz! *pushes u*

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Choco...My daughter rolled her eyes at me once, IONO how her and the chair she was sitting in both ended up on the floor. :whistle:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    You ain’t never too old to get an azz whooping.”
    __________________
    Damn Skippy my daughter told me to shut up at 15 – what you think happened!
    ______

    :karate:

    Heyyyyy bew :hug: I missed you!!!!

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ HIs...Check your phone! :mad:

  • iheart405

    This chit is getting to depressing :kona: til we get a new post

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Abuse is so much more than physical and sexual. Exposing your child too much is abuse in IMO. Bringing different men over your children's head is abuse IMO. Not spending enough time with your child can be abuse. Talking chit about the other parent in front of the child is abuse IMO...

    Its a lot of ways to damage a kid. Physical and sexual are just scratching the surface....

  • kingstonn

    LMAO.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Sandy locked us in here as punishment... she is trying to be a parent again *lol*

    PS: Said with a chitload of love

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    Since I'm too lazy/addicted to go anywhere else... :lol:

    If a woman decides to have a baby fully aware that the sperm donor wants absolutely nothing to do with the child, she should be solely responsible for it. Meaning no child support.

    Yes, both decided to risk pregnancy by not protecting themselves. But, there was a risk that dude wasn't gonna want to be a father. If she didn't want to be a single mother, she should have told dude he wasn't getting nothing unless he wrapped it up. Too many women have babies just to force the man to have to deal with them or to get a check.

    I'm not advocating dead beat dads but you can't force someone to be sht when they ain't. And you knew they wasn't when you fcked them.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :2dance: @ MIRS

    @DIMPZ
    And this is why Im for discipline I wish I would be like okay give me your cell phone for a week after she told me to shut up! NOT she immediately recognized her mistake

  • DoNotDeleteMe

    Well, my daughter (Black young lady) has never been spanked (I reared her as a single parent). She is a high school graduate, bought her first car herself, is in college, and is working fulltime. I don't know what is it about Black people and flogging. They seem to think that this solves all of their problems. :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Ysoooooo, heyyyy bew :hug: mixed with a lil #ratnation :shotsfired:

  • KDub

    My mother is crazy. Always. You do not cross her. You do not lie to her. You do not talk back. You do ish the first time you are asked or you will feel the wrath. PERRUD. Not to mention that she hits like a MAN.

    Worse thing I ever got hit with object wise...a METAL spatula.On my arm. She said it was reflex. I was in the kitchen tawkin slick..she was in there cooking...she picked it up off the counter and whacked my azz. I tried to move (heard that muffuga slice the air...) but won't faster than her..and ended up with those lil slat marks that be on slotted spoons/spatula's for a WEEK.

    Oh an if mama KDub hitcho azz...she did NOT believe in apologizing. In fact I think my sister got her azz beat for asking for an apology once :no:

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    ^^^ I agree Ysoyeaornay

    You might have Man come thru your screen kissing you and chit.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @Kingston
    I like that gravie. :lick:
    :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    @Choco and Un
    I mean like pulling out a belt and chit like that...You are never to old to get slapped across the mouth for talking chit. I believe if I talked too much chit to my daddy, he probably still smack the chit outta me. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    YSoSerious says:

    Since I’m too lazy/addicted to go anywhere else…

    If a woman decides to have a baby fully aware that the sperm donor wants absolutely nothing to do with the child, she should be solely responsible for it. Meaning no child support.

    Yes, both decided to risk pregnancy by not protecting themselves. But, there was a risk that dude wasn’t gonna want to be a father. If she didn’t want to be a single mother, she should have told dude he wasn’t getting nothing unless he wrapped it up. Too many women have babies just to force the man to have to deal with them or to get a check.

    I’m not advocating dead beat dads but you can’t force someone to be sht when they ain’t. And you knew they wasn’t when you fcked them.

    :cosign: :clap: do u have time 2 ring my homegrl later? she dnt get it when i say it lol

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Choco.....Taking my daughter's phone is the BEST punishment ever! :yes:

    Like, I said I may be coming off as passive but, when she turns things up a notch, so can I. :coffee:

  • JMO

    I can't believe some of you have teenagers??!! Good genes ladies ... good genes :thumbsup:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    chibytex says:

    @Choco and Un
    I mean like pulling out a belt and chit like that…You are never to old to get slapped across the mouth for talking chit. I believe if I talked too much chit to my daddy, he probably still smack the chit outta me.
    _______________

    At the age of 14, I would still whoop their azzes with a belt. :shrugs:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I don’t know what is it about Black people and flogging.
    _______________________
    I don't know what it is about you and fukn thinking abuse is only reared from Black people I deplore ppl with your mindset!

  • MzDimplez1123

    :cosign: YSO

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    I don't want no teenager... I am stopping my soon to be 10 yr old at 10 period :no:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Unpre...I can honestly see you being half your boys size and beating their asses. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    Well, my daughter (Black young lady) has never been spanked (I reared her as a single parent). She is a high school graduate, bought her first car herself, is in college, and is working fulltime. I don’t know what is it about Black people and flogging. They seem to think that this solves all of their problems.
    ____________

    Ummmm, dear, Black folks ain't the only ones that spank or discipline their kids. :shrugs:

  • Bigbadwolf

    I don’t know what it is about you and fukn thinking abuse is only reared from Black people I deplore ppl with your mindset!
    _______
    :cosign:

  • MzDimplez1123

    I have a 16 (10/22) year old and a 10yr old. I'm gonna be semi kid free by the time i'm 41! :yahoo: Good times! :thumbsup:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    TAHW EHT KCUF LLAY SECHTIB NOID! :danban:

  • West Coast Chick

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    You ain’t never too old to get an azz whooping.”
    __________________
    Damn Skippy my daughter told me to shut up at 15 – what you think happened!

    ____________________________

    :shocked: *covers my eyes* :tape:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Oh an if mama KDub hitcho azz…she did NOT believe in apologizing. In fact I think my sister got her azz beat for asking for an apology once :no:
    _________________________________________________________
    That sound like my mama...she aint gonna never ever, ever, ever, EVER apologize. Her motto: Get over it, I done it, and stop being so damn sensitive...

    @Yso
    I understand your point...but I dont understand how a man can walk around and call himself a man when he got kids out there that he does NOTHING for. Im not even talking about financially, I'm talking about time...

    Them types of niggas need to be put to death...Worthless muthafukkers...

  • kingstonn

    so um.. i graduated high school, have my own apt, own my own suv, work fulltime and is two years away from my ph.d and i got spanked. i don't see the point. :shrug:

  • DoNotDeleteMe

    I am not saying that it is only Black people but I hear a lot more Black people with this hardcore, gangsta-gangsta approach towards "disciplining" (and I use that term very lightly) their children. Just look at the ignorant mindsets on the posts in this thread. It is pathetic. Some of you scare me that you are parents and as a teacher I have to deal with your dysfunctional children.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ Unpre…I can honestly see you being half your boys size and beating their asses.
    _____________

    :lol: My youngest is 5, and is already standing at my new firm reduced boobs. So I know they will be taller than me within a few years. I will be handling their young and old azzes indeed. :yes:

  • MzDimplez1123

    Black ppl sure aren't, I attended school with a biracial girl who lived with her white mom and she would come to school filthy, dirty and on occassion bruised up.

  • Bigbadwolf

    Hey Luscious :kiss:

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    PINTSIZE!! :shotsfired:

    Am I gonna have to :whip: yo ass for NOT changing that name?

    HIS!! :hugs:

    If she ain't listening to you she damn sure ain't gonna listen to me. :lol:

  • free

    Man, I just don't care™ says: I don’t believe in abortion BUT am I not stating a FACT that a woman and a woman ALONE decides whether she will have a child?

    ******************************************

    i completely understand where you're coming from but you're never going to win this argument. i have watched you bring this up and get jumped on for years.

  • MzDimplez1123

    Luscious! :hug:

  • DoNotDeleteMe

    The point is you can rear successful children without physically "disciplining" them.

  • kingstonn

    brownaaaaayyyyy! :yahoo:

  • MzDimplez1123

    :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Dimpz, its in the car.. i will be heading out there in a few :lol:

    @Kdub I heard that shit lol shyt was real back in the day. i have been slapped with a joy smelling HOT azz dishrag all on my back numerous times for forgetting whos house i was in and my mothers backhand was taught to her by satan himself :no: my mother slapped so random and fast that my damn cheek wouldn't even sting for 10 mins...she'd be off somewhere else and my face would be on FIRE....i remember the time i fought my pregnant sister on the steps in our house and my mother came from that dishpan...chile all i saw was soap suds and fury. she whacked me like a fuggin slave for fighting my pregnant sister..the btch started it tho (shes 6 years older than me) she STOLE my red nikes and wore em to her ugly boyfriends house..i had a party to go to that night and i forgot she was knocked up lol

  • West Coast Chick

    Bigbadwolf says:

    I don’t know what it is about you and fukn thinking abuse is only reared from Black people I deplore ppl with your mindset!
    _______

    my white sis in law... :karate: Her daugter gets the bizzness REAL TALK.. sometimes I fee bad for the little girl, but she can be really fast when she wants to

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    The point is you can rear successful children without physically “disciplining” them.
    ____________

    If that works for you, then so be it.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Ok so let me share something...

    The other day I was speaking aloud about what I wanted for my birthday. So I said "I want a new car". My 4 yr old said to me "Mom, my daddy will buy you one". I said, "Who told you that he will buy me one.". She said "Mommy, I know because when you put on makeup and something cute and short, daddy likes it and will give you everything you want." I almost died inside.

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @KDUB
    :rofl:
    How u get a second azz whupping for asking for an apology for the first azz whupping! :lol:

  • kingstonn

    and my point is you can rear successful children with the use of disciplining them. so...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Luscious!!! u hawt bish :hug: *goes to the kitchen*

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Chiby
    I got beatings with a belt when I was younger if Im disrespected by my child they just better hope Im not in a bad mood - but I slapped the chit outta her just like she did me with talking to me like that.

  • Creamychic

    :coffee: A HOT mess

  • West Coast Chick

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    I am not saying that it is only Black people but I hear a lot more Black people with this hardcore, gangsta-gangsta approach towards “disciplining” (and I use that term very lightly) their children.
    ________________________

    :lol: most parents talk more shat than they actually do ( like me) Im serious about my kids, but I say what Ima do more than actually doin it
    #scare tactic...it works too :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    Just look at the ignorant mindsets on the posts in this thread. It is pathetic. Some of you scare me that you are parents and as a teacher I have to deal with your dysfunctional children.
    __________________________________________________________
    My daughter's daycare sent home a work sheet on how to discipline your child without spanking them. I read it. And I agree to some of it. But at the end of the day if Ladybug acts up I'm tapping them legs and those hands...

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    :stop:

    Wasn't this topic hot enough without turning it into a black vs white thing?

  • MzDimplez1123

    Hey Creamy! :hi:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Hony oh damn :lol:
    the kids on to you

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Yso.....I thought so. :shrug:

    AT the end of the day, imo, just like kids are individuals, you have to use individual methods of raising them.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I am not saying that it is only Black people but I hear a lot more Black people with this hardcore, gangsta-gangsta approach towards “disciplining” (and I use that term very lightly) their children. Just look at the ignorant mindsets on the posts in this thread. It is pathetic. Some of you scare me that you are parents and as a teacher I have to deal with your dysfunctional children.
    __________________
    I love it when you are not around!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    Me and my sisters got our asses beat and one time 3 of us got beat together! We were on the bed rollin over each other screamin! I only had to get a few before I got some act right. My brother on the other hand who was coddled because daddy wasn't around didnt get any and he stayed in and out of jail

  • JMO

    Honycoatd--- Lightning Don't Strike The Same Place Twice says:

    Ok so let me share something…

    The other day I was speaking aloud about what I wanted for my birthday. So I said “I want a new car”. My 4 yr old said to me “Mom, my daddy will buy you one”. I said, “Who told you that he will buy me one.”. She said “Mommy, I know because when you put on makeup and something cute and short, daddy likes it and will give you everything you want.” I almost died inside.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    West Coast Chick says:

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    I am not saying that it is only Black people but I hear a lot more Black people with this hardcore, gangsta-gangsta approach towards “disciplining” (and I use that term very lightly) their children.
    ________________________

    most parents talk more shat than they actually do ( like me) Im serious about my kids, but I say what Ima do more than actually doin it
    #scare tactic…it works too

    *mouths "i lubz u"* i do that too..my son gets away with quite a bit of crap but i verbally remind him of my crazy :yes: #effective :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    i have been slapped with a joy smelling HOT azz dishrag all on my back numerous times for forgetting whos house i was in
    _____________________________________________________________
    That chit stang...and it'll leave a welp!! :lol:

  • West Coast Chick

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    Black ppl sure aren’t, I attended school with a biracial girl who lived with her white mom and she would come to school filthy, dirty and on occassion bruised up.

    _______________________________

    I grew up living next door to this white girl, her mom was a hooker, I think :think: and would leave my friend alone for days..I think she was on drugs.. needless to say, the white chick starting prostituting too. She used to curse her mother out, like B!TCH F#uk you, you whore.. I be like :blink: ...time to go :kona:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ Yso…..I thought so.

    AT the end of the day, imo, just like kids are individuals, you have to use individual methods of raising them.
    _________

    :cosign: to you both.

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @DELETE

    You could have made that point without making it a race-specific issue. Wasn't Sandra bringing up slavery enough? :shrugs:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @YSO
    Some dumb azzes think everything is about black and white and this fool is a teacher who is biased so glad my child won't ever be taught by that!

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    I hope not... I divorced him almost 3 years ago. But he does what he has always done and I am not with anyone so his gifts for my birthday are super :smile:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    I am not saying that it is only Black people but I hear a lot more Black people with this hardcore, gangsta-gangsta approach towards “disciplining” (and I use that term very lightly) their children. Just look at the ignorant mindsets on the posts in this thread. It is pathetic. Some of you scare me that you are parents and as a teacher I have to deal with your dysfunctional children.
    __________________
    I love it when you are not around!

    OMG I HOLLERED :ghost:

    and :rofl: @Luscious

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    i verbally remind him of my crazy #effective
    __________________
    Exactly once they seen crazy from Momz they don't wanna meet that one again!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    <---- still :rofl: "i love it when ur not around!"

  • Bigbadwolf

    AT the end of the day, imo, just like kids are individuals, you have to use individual methods of raising them.
    _________
    :yes:

    :rofl: @ WWC

  • kingstonn

    oh, damn. well i thought teachers had kids to teach than throwing their wack ass opinion back and forth on a blog. i hate when ppl try to make themselves seem better by bragging and then try to bring others down. :rolleyes:

  • http://www.tallmenshoes.com/ Man, I just don’t care™

    @Hony
    So, are u gonna get a car?
    :coffee:

  • DoNotDeleteMe

    It is not a Black and White thing...it is the fact that Black WOMEN do not know how to be tender with their children and they are creating monsters and the system is left to contend with them. Black WOMEN have been at the helm of Black families for the past 30 years or so since the Black family began to break down and now we know why...ignorant mindsets and letting someone with a made up name (DEVERY) discipline your children.

  • KrayZKat

    I agree with everything Sandra said.

    Many black people were abused as children (being whipped with extension cords, Hot Wheel tracks, branches from trees, etc.) all in the name of discipline. G'ma did it; mama did it; the children do it to their children. This also includes verbal abuse as well.

    The line is blurred in some people's minds between abuse and discipline. I've said it before, and I'll say it again, I think we in the black community are too quick to hit our children instead of just educating them on why what they are doing is wrong and giving them a chance to correct their errors. I've seen cruel mothers spank their potty training toddler for soiling themselves. How evil is that!

    When I was 12 years old, I saw my neighbor beat the living daylights out of her 6 year old daughter with a clog. The mother was mad because her husband had not come home that night, and she took it out on the child. I saw this woman straddle her daughter and beat her about he head and shoulders. Afterwards, that baby looked like she had been in the ring with Mike Tyson. I ran and got my mom.

    Child abuse, regardless of the race of the offender, is evil. When it comes to harming a child, that is one of the greatest sins known to man. Some people just don't know what to do with these precious jewels God entrusts in the parent's hands.

    S/N: I don't think there is anything wrong with spanking per se as long as it's done in love. My mom never had to raise her voice. She did get on us at times, but thankfully she never, ever verbally or physically abused her children.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    :dead: @Choco!!!!!!!!!

  • Creamychic

    MsDimpz :yahoo: hey love and afternoon all :waves:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    oh.

  • kingstonn

    i raised my three dogs without spanking them, should i be next in line for the Nobel peace prize as well?

  • West Coast Chick

    His_Mommy623 says:

    West Coast Chick says:

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    I am not saying that it is only Black people but I hear a lot more Black people with this hardcore, gangsta-gangsta approach towards “disciplining” (and I use that term very lightly) their children.
    ________________________

    most parents talk more shat than they actually do ( like me) Im serious about my kids, but I say what Ima do more than actually doin it
    #scare tactic…it works too

    *mouths “i lubz u”* i do that too..my son gets away with quite a bit of crap but i verbally remind him of my crazy #effective

    ___________________________

    :lol: right! Their at the "give you an eye" stage.. All I really have to do is look at them a certian way.. my 2 yr old too, and they'll know to shape shyt up real quick.. but I cant even think of the last time I actually whooped my daughter.. I have before, but not lately. She's at the "talking to" stage right now..my 2 yr old... whole nother story :lol:

  • Bigbadwolf

    Some of you scare me that you are parents and as a teacher I have to deal with your dysfunctional children.
    _____________________
    So, r u on lunch break, or is school out?

  • kingstonn

    but aren't all names made up? someone had to think of em, right? :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @DIMPZ

    Exactly.

    My personal experience colors my view toward discipline vs abuse but I think that is true for everyone. It's hard to have general rules for such a specific issue cause it really does come down the individuals involved.

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    Man, you want us to drive out in it?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    Choco aka Hippie says:
    I love it when you are not around!
    _________________________________________________________________
    Well dayum

  • West Coast Chick

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    It is not a Black and White thing…it is the fact that Black WOMEN do not know how to be tender with their children
    _________________________

    :rofl: I dont know why I found this to be hilarious :rofl: I love my son.. he calls me "Big Girl" I think that is sooooooo cute :love:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    sweet baby jaysus...i cannot with these comments :crying:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    It is not a Black and White thing…it is the fact that Black WOMEN do not know how to be tender with their children and they are creating monsters and the system is left to contend with them. Black WOMEN have been at the helm of Black families for the past 30 years or so since the Black family began to break down and now we know why…ignorant mindsets and letting someone with a made up name (DEVERY) discipline your children.
    ______________
    Shut the FUK UP you are an IGNORANUS! DUMB BLOKE! If you are black then go die and come back all puritan white if you are white I hope a BLACK WOMAN beats your azz and fails to show you tenderness!

  • West Coast Chick

    Bigbadwolf says:

    Some of you scare me that you are parents and as a teacher I have to deal with your dysfunctional children.
    _____________________
    So, r u on lunch break, or is school out?

    ________________________

    :dead:

    I'd get my child teacher fired for blogging during school hours :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I grew up living next door to this white girl, her mom was a hooker, I think :think: and would leave my friend alone for days..I think she was on drugs.. needless to say, the white chick starting prostituting too. She used to curse her mother out, like B!TCH F#uk you, you whore.. I be like :blink: …time to go :kona:
    _________________________________________________________________
    It used to get bad like that with me and my mom. as I got older I just lost all respect for her....she'd call me a hoe or a bish (even though she never caught me doing anything or saw me cause I did my dirt outside the house)and eventually I got tired of all the verbal abuse. I'd say chit like I learned it from you. You the one that got 3 different baby daddies... chit was really fukked by the time I turned like 17.

    But when it comes to my daddy, I hardly ever talked back. If my sister get disrespectful now I will get on their asses. I dont play disrespecting my daddy or my step mom cause they were excellent parents. My damn sisters got it made in the fukking shade now...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *raises hand*
    SANDRA PLEASE DELETE HIM/HER

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    kingstonn says:

    i raised my three dogs without spanking them, should i be next in line for the Nobel peace prize as well?
    _________

    I whoop my dogs, too. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    kingstonn says:

    i raised my three dogs without spanking them, should i be next in line for the Nobel peace prize as well?
    _________

    I whoop my dogs, too. :coffee:

  • West Coast Chick

    Shut the FUK UP you are an IGNORANUS! DUMB BLOKE! If you are black then go die and come back all puritan white if you are white I hope a BLACK WOMAN beats your azz and fails to show you tenderness!

    ___________________________

    :ghost:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @HIS
    Im telln you I wish DELETE would DELETE ITSELF! UGLY BROAD is pushing buttons

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    kingstonn says:

    but aren’t all names made up? someone had to think of em, right?

    ok so im not the only one..
    *kevin harts voice* btch booop! backspace delete!

  • West Coast Chick

    Unpredictable says:

    kingstonn says:

    i raised my three dogs without spanking them, should i be next in line for the Nobel peace prize as well?
    _________

    I whoop my dogs, too.
    ____________________________

    :wail: I HATE when my sis n law (who's white) beat her dogs.. that has to be one of the saddest things Ive ever seen...she be like, theyre just dogs- geesh :cry:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    It is not a Black and White thing…it is the fact that Black WOMEN do not know how to be tender with their children and they are creating monsters and the system is left to contend with them. Black WOMEN have been at the helm of Black families for the past 30 years or so since the Black family began to break down and now we know why…ignorant mindsets and letting someone with a made up name (DEVERY) discipline your children.
    ______________
    Shut the FUK UP you are an IGNORANUS! DUMB BLOKE! If you are black then go die and come back all puritan white if you are white I hope a BLACK WOMAN beats your azz and fails to show you tenderness!

    *tears* cnt breeve :dead:

  • West Coast Chick

    *kevin harts voice* btch booop! backspace delete!

    ________________

    chris brown voice: Im done :dead:

  • Yall still crazy

    I am not going through all 50-11 comments

    BUT What the fukc we got a teacher on here?! :mad:

    That's child abuse!

  • KrayZKat

    DoNotDeleteMe says:

    It is not a Black and White thing…it is the fact that Black WOMEN do not know how to be tender with their children and they are creating monsters and the system is left to contend with them. Black WOMEN have been at the helm of Black families for the past 30 years or so since the Black family began to break down and now we know why…ignorant mindsets and letting someone with a made up name (DEVERY) discipline your children.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Yup! I usually don't generalize because I know people of all races abuse their children, but I have to semi cosign this comment. I've seen it all too often. I think that's why many black men hate black women. They hate their mothers because of the abuse they've endured growing up.

    I'm a black woman and would never, ever do harm to a child, so I don't want to indict all sisters. I've seen some wonderful, loving black mothers who would die for their babies, but I've seen enough of the others to see that many sisters don't know how to talk to or discipline their children.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    :stop: don't hit the animals!!!

  • iheart405

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Shut the FUK UP you are an IGNORANUS! DUMB BLOKE! If you are black then go die and come back all puritan white if you are white I hope a BLACK WOMAN beats your azz and fails to show you tenderness!

    ___________

    I am in fuggin tears at this shyt richea :crying: :dead:

  • kingstonn

    chocoooooooo! :rofl:
    dumb bloke! OMG, tears are streaming down my face :wail:

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    Sooo...You're just gonna dig yourself deeper by making it about black WOMEN. Mkay.

    (gets the fck outta the way of the coming shtstorm)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @WCC Omg i saw one of my brothers friends kick his pit down the steps with a timberland boot on..i NEVER spoke to that nigga again. the dog pee'd in his closet and this nigga fought that dog like he was an american citizen. oh i cursed my brother out like he did it, i was so damn pissed..

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDHXThl93OI&feature=fvwrel OHoney

    The ignorance in this post :smack:

  • West Coast Chick

    @ chibytex- I just wanna give you an e-hug bew :hugs: ...take dis too :kiss:

  • Bigbadwolf

    :rofl: @ Choco

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    it is the fact that Black WOMEN do not know how to be tender with their children and they are creating monsters and the system is left to contend with them.
    _________________________________________________________
    :nono: I do NOT talk to my daughter the way my mama talked to me. I tell my baby I love her everyday, as many times as I can. I hug her. and kiss her...none of those things I ever remember my mama doing...and from what my mama told me her mother never did it to her...

    So they cycle can be broken IF its something that you want to break. I refuse to let my child grow up the way I did.

  • MzDimplez1123

    ION Wanna be friens with JAJ (you know you are) anyTmore! :wail: :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    Ho'Boygahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh *hands u 2 new outfits*...be blessed baby *spanks dat* :hug:

  • iheart405

    <<<<< Still :rofl: @ Choco

  • West Coast Chick

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @WCC Omg i saw one of my brothers friends kick his pit down the steps with a timberland boot on..i NEVER spoke to that nigga again. the dog pee’d in his closet and this nigga fought that dog like he was an american citizen. oh i cursed my brother out like he did it, i was so damn pissed..

    _______________________________________

    :dead: @ American citizen :rofl:

    but no, I hate aminal cruelty, its plain wrong.. just wrong :no: dogs dont understand like human do :wail:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    :hug: <<<<<< the tenderness DDM didnt receive

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    @ Chiby

    True but you, yourself, need to heal.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    *holds Dimpz* its okay sugabutt! :love:

    she knows not what she be doing..lol

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    I think that’s why many black men hate black women. They hate their mothers because of the abuse they’ve endured growing up.
    _____________________________________________________________
    :think: Interesting thought...makes since...

  • Bigbadwolf

    I have 3 boys and I tell them that I love them, I kiss them, I hug them, tell them they're doing a great job, give him high 5's, on a daily bases, but when they fluck up, they get flucked up. Sorry no high 5's for bad behavior :no:

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    (jumps up and down and waves the :newpost: sign)

    Can we please leave this mess up in here? I'm so tired of it I'm not even gonna break out the Fabuloso to clean up this time. :lol:

  • kingstonn

    wait a minute... hey, those are my initials!
    what i do? :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    No really DELETE should be outed! I hope one of it's students get that biased treatment and tells the BLACK PARENT about it so the BLACK PARENT can go right up to that school and get DELETE removed!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    HIS
    you and Kingston have mail

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS says:

    <<<<<< the tenderness DDM didnt receive

    OMG BTCH!!! Whyyyyy? :ghost:

  • MzDimplez1123

    :hug: His. Shouldn't HER ass be in school? :hahaha:

  • Honycoatd— Lightning Don’t Strike The Same Place Twice

    My_Luscious_Lips :kiss: :hug:

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Luscious... Why I ain't got none? *pops gum*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Even though I am a Black woman that talks to and/or spanks her male children due to something that they do, which they already know is wrong, does not mean than I abuse my children. Yes, I spank my dogs as well, if they do something that they know is wrong. If I walk in the house, and one of those bitches comes to greet me, with her head hanging low, she gets an azz whooping. Simply because, bish knows she was wrong, and that's why she was hanging her big azz head low. :lol:

    :karate:

  • West Coast Chick

    As I was growing up, I've seen white kids get it waaaay worst than my mom could even muster.. cuz with white people, its not just physical abuse, its sexual, abandonment, and some cases they actually sell their kids to tricks for drugs or money… or casey anthony/ scott petterson their asses- REAL

    #generalizing

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I think that’s why many black men hate black women. They hate their mothers because of the abuse they’ve endured growing up.
    _____________________________________________________________
    Interesting thought…makes since…
    _________________________
    We got backwood azz backward thinkers in this piece who the fuk said all black men hate black women - FUKN JUST TARDS!

  • iheart405

    His_Mommy623 says:
    this nigga fought that dog like he was an american citizen.
    ___

    Fkn :dead: I don't know why i heard this in Katt Williams voice when i read it :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    Thank you Ho'boygurghh, they're beautiful and tight in all the right spots :wink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Bigbadwolf says:

    I have 3 boys and I tell them that I love them, I kiss them, I hug them, tell them they’re doing a great job, give him high 5?s, on a daily bases, but when they fluck up, they get flucked up. Sorry no high 5?s for bad behavior
    ____________________

    :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    um, Luscious is NOT allowed to email me no more! :rofl: but i guess :lol:

  • vero

    :newpost:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Or many black men Imma say this - wherever you both are from Im so glad Im not from there! Or whatever your small minded issues are free yourself from your own bondage! oh and #FLIPS BIRD

  • MzDimplez1123

    @Chiby...I kinda believe that too, IN SOME CASES, cause I know a guy like that. Well, he doesnt interact well with female on an emotional level because his mama wasn't affectionate with him but, i'm not gonna condemn all black mothers because some black men are issued. :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Oh yeah, and IMO, there is a difference between an azz whooping, and extreme azz whooping.

    I don't do extreme.

  • Yall still crazy

    #teamwhoopinwhennecessary :karate: I'm like whoever just said, you fluck up you will get flucked up!

  • kingstonn

    its Thursday, I'm at work! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bfDHCu6MuQ LUSCIOUS LOLITA AKA SUGA WALLS

    *mouths I Love You to His*
    I'm out folks so yall have a good one

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    @Mini thug i salute ur tiny fighter ass :lol:

    @iheart oh in my mind that dog was up on his hind legs with boxing gloves on his front paws, fighting for his life!! and the nigga gna tell me "girl its a pit" i almost kicked his head clean off his shoulders

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @HIS
    Lolita is right - chiiddd when I was a teenager I had a baby so I knew what the fuk I was doing and where it would get me! Can't go around acting like I didn't know anything - chit if Im drinking and smoking as a teenager and I get into some chit Im not gonna play like Im clueless

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    I see ignorance done took a shat in this post. :no: <-----SMH.

  • Yall still crazy

    :shrug: But what does the dog's citizenship :hahaha: have to do with anything?! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    bye Luscious! :hug:

  • West Coast Chick

    Bigbadwolf says:

    I have 3 boys and I tell them that I love them, I kiss them, I hug them, tell them they’re doing a great job, give him high 5?s, on a daily bases, but when they fluck up, they get flucked up. Sorry no high 5?s for bad behavior
    __________________________

    :cosign:

    I teach my kids how to spell their name, read, count, take my son to the skate board park. We have movie nights, ect.. I dont just sit up there looking and waiting for reasons to fight kids and shyt.:rofl:

    I think thats the same for all of us.. just because we expect respect and for our kids to be decent, doesn't mean we dont give them their do share of love and affection..I'd rather love on my kids than discipline them anyway...most Black women ( that I know) would also

  • MzDimplez1123

    @ Kingston............ Oh. :hug:

    Going to lurnch, be back!

  • KrayZKat

    Why does discipline always have to be in the form of putting your hands on your child? I know many parents who don't have to raise their voices or whip to get the job done. People repeat what they know. If someone is whipping their child, and the child continues to do the same thing over and over again, something isn't working? That's common sense.

    If a child breaks a window or spills something BY ACCIDENT, why are you going to beat them? It was an accident. Accidents happen. Parents make them too.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex

    some cases they actually sell their kids to tricks for drugs or money…
    __________________________________________________________
    My cousin's baby mama did that...and she aint black OR white... she been on heroin for 20 years now. she left her 3 older daughters in the house with no food and in filth and took the baby out tricking with her (hoping she would gain some sympathy) and she tried to sell my lil cousin or let the man feel up on my lil cousin for a $40 bag of heroin. The man called the peoples on her and CPS took them girls...

    But NOW all them girls is fukked up. I think only one has finished school. One of them is a stripper with 3 kids. One dropped out in the 8th grade and already got a drug case...

    Blacks arent the only ones that abuse their kids....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    ion know! @Ho'boygah im just sharing the feelings i had as a witness...to this day i wonder if the dog ever pee'd again...he probably holding that shyt..poor thing, its been about 2 years :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    His_Mommy623 says:

    @Mini thug i salute ur tiny fighter ass

    @iheart oh in my mind that dog was up on his hind legs with boxing gloves on his front paws, fighting for his life!! and the nigga gna tell me “girl its a pit” i almost kicked his head clean off his shoulders
    ________________

    And people wonder why pits be attackin their owners and strangers. When you beat the shat out of a dog or person (not to be confused with spanked), they will eventually flip the fluck out.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Simply because, bish knows she was wrong, and that’s why she was hanging her big azz head low
    ________________________
    :cosign: My dogs get spanked to and that's how they know what house-training is! Im not white so nahhhh pooping and peeing on my floor don't mean I just go clean it up!

  • West Coast Chick

    Yall still crazy says:

    #teamwhoopinwhennecessary I’m like whoever just said, you fluck up you will get flucked up!

    _______________________

    :cosign: Right, cuz thats life baby.. best to learn while youre young :yes:

    Sup Yall :waves:

  • Yall still crazy

    But accidents can be deadly and if tell your azz not to touch something and you do it anyway YOU'RE GONNA GET IT.

    #becauseigonnahavetobetheonepayingforsomethingorsittingupintheER

  • West Coast Chick

    My cousin’s baby mama did that…and she aint black OR white… she been on heroin for 20 years now. she left her 3 older daughters in the house with no food and in filth and took the baby out tricking with her (hoping she would gain some sympathy) and she tried to sell my lil cousin or let the man feel up on my lil cousin for a $40 bag of heroin. The man called the peoples on her and CPS took them girls…

    But NOW all them girls is fukked up. I think only one has finished school. One of them is a stripper with 3 kids. One dropped out in the 8th grade and already got a drug case…

    Blacks arent the only ones that abuse their kids….

    _________________________

    spanking you kids is NOT child abuse... what Chibs is talkin about is and I have NO toleance for that type of shyt :nono:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    chibytex says:

    some cases they actually sell their kids to tricks for drugs or money…
    __________________________________________________________
    My cousin’s baby mama did that…and she aint black OR white… she been on heroin for 20 years now. she left her 3 older daughters in the house with no food and in filth and took the baby out tricking with her (hoping she would gain some sympathy) and she tried to sell my lil cousin or let the man feel up on my lil cousin for a $40 bag of heroin. The man called the peoples on her and CPS took them girls…

    But NOW all them girls is fukked up. I think only one has finished school. One of them is a stripper with 3 kids. One dropped out in the 8th grade and already got a drug case…

    Blacks arent the only ones that abuse their kids….
    ____________

    You know a lot of flucked up muhfuggas.

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    (starts dragging you bishes out this post one by one)

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :lol: @ HIS

    Girl I HATE generalizations and everything with the black race is so wrong! #PUSHES THELMA AND LOUISE OVER CLIFF

  • West Coast Chick

    KrayZKat says:

    Why does discipline always have to be in the form of putting your hands on your child?
    ____________________

    my moms used to say, you want a whoopin,. or punishment? :think:

    I'll take the whoopin for 200 alex :thumbsup:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    You know a lot of flucked up muhfuggas.
    __________________________
    :coffee: :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    :waves: <--my belt

    I was just joshing His...

    -------------------------------------------------

    I bet the teacher still ain't teaching ish, just sitting looking all stupid on here reading :coffee:

    #bishgettowork

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    KrayZKat says:

    Why does discipline always have to be in the form of putting your hands on your child? I know many parents who don’t have to raise their voices or whip to get the job done. People repeat what they know. If someone is whipping their child, and the child continues to do the same thing over and over again, something isn’t working? That’s common sense.

    If a child breaks a window or spills something BY ACCIDENT, why are you going to beat them? It was an accident. Accidents happen. Parents make them too.
    ___________________

    I can't.

    It's one thing if my kids trip and break something, or accidentally knock something over. But if my kids are told repeatedly to not do something, or to stop doing something, and THEN something breaks, then yeah azz whooping. :shrugs:

    #judgeme

  • West Coast Chick

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    @ HIS

    Girl I HATE generalizations and everything with the black race is so wrong! #PUSHES THELMA AND LOUISE OVER CLIFF

    _________________________

    :rofl:

    but we'd be wrong if we said that every white person murders their kids like scott peterson or casey anthony. Thats why a lot of people feel a certian kind of way about Sandra Bullock and that Black baby..

  • Yall still crazy

    Ooops, that wave was for you WCC :hug:

  • kingstonn

    MIRS! :dead:

  • Creamychic

    Can someone sum up, what is being said that sound stupid, its to many post to read PLEASE!

  • West Coast Chick

    I bet the teacher still ain't teaching ish, just sitting looking all stupid on here reading

    #bishgettowork

    ___________________________

    :coffin:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    #bishgettowork
    ________________
    :yes: :rofl:

  • West Coast Chick

    West Coast Chick says:

    I bet the teacher still ain’t teaching ish, just sitting looking all stupid on here reading

    #bishgettowork

    ________________________________

    :casket:

    I said coffin and its casket :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    But Yso, where we gonna go :shrug:

    :steer: <--I got the SR shuttle bus ready and everything :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Simply because, bish knows she was wrong, and that’s why she was hanging her big azz head low
    ________________________
    My dogs get spanked to and that’s how they know what house-training is! Im not white so nahhhh pooping and peeing on my floor don’t mean I just go clean it up!
    _____________

    Exactly.

  • West Coast Chick

    You know a lot of flucked up muhfuggas.

    __________________

    :ghost: :dead:

  • KrayZKat

    If you tell your child not to do something that will cause harm, and they disobey, that's one thing. If a child throws a ball and ACCIDENTLY breaks a window (especially if they are too young to know the consequences of their actions), why would you whip them for that? Isn't the job of a parent to teach their child(ren) or does teaching always have to involve the rod?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uukFcl_Cgog&feature=player_embedded#! His_Mommy623

    You know a lot of flucked up muhfuggas.

    :hahaha:

  • Yall still crazy

    Yall leave Chi alone, this is like her therapy where she can release all of that that's bottled up.

    Chi, it is good that you can speak freely on this & wouldn't be a bad idea to tell these things to a professional. I say that because they are trained to tell you how to handle these feelings and make them slowly dissipate, I think, but that's just my opinion :hug:

  • Yall still crazy

    Krazycat, then you whoop their parent! I have warned of balls bouncing in my home for years, this is well know, so if the little one (11y.o.) does it and then breaks something too, :yep: Yep, it's going down...

    It's all about R-E-S-P-E-C-T

    #findoutwhatitmeanstomer-e-s-p-e-c-t :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    KrayZKat says:

    If you tell your child not to do something that will cause harm, and they disobey, that’s one thing. If a child throws a ball and ACCIDENTLY breaks a window (especially if they are too young to know the consequences of their actions), why would you whip them for that? Isn’t the job of a parent to teach their child(ren) or does teaching always have to involve the rod?
    __________

    Da fluck?????

    What would you do if your 12 year old decides to call you a stupid fluckin cu-nt bish, which they know is wrong?????? Would you....

    a. ground them
    b. ignore them, and then cry about it
    c. spank that azz
    d. tell them that it's wrong
    e. do absolutely nothing

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Yall still crazy says:

    Krazycat, then you whoop their parent! I have warned of balls bouncing in my home for years, this is well know, so if the little one (11y.o.) does it and then breaks something too, :yep: Yep, it’s going down…

    It’s all about R-E-S-P-E-C-T

    #findoutwhatitmeanstomer-e-s-p-e-c-t
    ________________

    Exactly!!! :yes:

  • Bigbadwolf

    I bet the teacher still ain't teaching ish, just sitting looking all stupid on here reading

    #bishgettowork
    __________
    :rofl: U know she lurkin :hahaha:

  • Yall still crazy

    A,C, and D.

    Then C again if you're attitude is still not where it should be... DJM

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    I :heart: Chi. She's like our neighborhood punching bag, but it's all in love. :lol: #ikid

    I flucks with Chi tho.

  • Yall still crazy

    Yeah, lurkin, when she should be workin :mad:

    At least our bosses "think" we're working :grill:

  • Yall still crazy

    Krazycat, do you have any children? If so, what age are they now?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @YSO
    And that therapist would also say accept your contribution to your mistakes can't go around blaming others for your very own actions but I don't think we are picking on her! Whenever I address her most times it comes from a place of compassion and I honestly think its time for her to look at her own behavior and realize she had something to do with her being abused

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I Chi. She’s like our neighborhood punching bag, but it’s all in love. #ikid

    I flucks with Chi tho.
    ____________________
    :lol: Sick azz sense of humor :rofl:

  • sugar-booger

    This is so disturbing to me. I understand the boy may have needed a mentor but why couldn't this child mother or grandmother handle a small boy for goodness sake. I feel so bad for that poor baby and wish I could bring him home to my house. I hope he can take this negative experience and learn like I did that this is not the proper way to treat a child should he ever have any of his own.

  • Bigbadwolf

    If a child throws a ball and ACCIDENTLY breaks a window (especially if they are too young to know the consequences of their actions),
    _______________
    The child knows right from wrong if can they throw a ball at a window. My nephew is one can't speak more than two words, but if you tell him no, he's gonna start crying because you told him no. The reason doesn't matter. They know.

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    LUV has an important question in the next post. Your expertise is requested.

  • West Coast Chick

    KrayZKat says:

    If you tell your child not to do something that will cause harm, and they disobey, that’s one thing. If a child throws a ball and ACCIDENTLY breaks a window (especially if they are too young to know the consequences of their actions), why would you whip them for that? Isn’t the job of a parent to teach their child(ren) or does teaching always have to involve the rod?

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    :nono: fluck that petty shyt.. I whooped my daughter when she tried to climb in her window in the middle of the night.. attempting to sneak in.. I whoop her when she cut school, I whipped her when she stole a shirt out of the shirt.. she tried to follow the wrong crowd.. bet she wont do that shyt again.. now my son, I'll pop him on the hand if he does something that he KNOWS is wrong, but he's only 2 so boot camp hasnt really statred for him yet :lol:

  • KrayZKat

    @Yall, you missed my point. I said if you tell your child something, and they don't listen, that's one thing. If you are dealing with a child who doesn't know better, you teach them. That's what a parent does. Children do not always know the consequences of their actions, so you, a parent, explain it to them.

    @Unpredictable - Where in my comment did I mention anything about my child disrespecting me? If my child called me those names, they'd be dealt with severely. I would never take that, and I would hopefully never raise a child who would even THINK about calling me out my name. I never raised my voice to my mom or disrespected her. I thought things or talk about her out of ear shot (LOL) because I knew better to not even look like I was poppin off. We knew from the time we were young what was up. I never said that spanking wasn't necessary. It depends on the offense. To answer your question, it would be "c and d."

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    I Chi. She’s like our neighborhood punching bag, but it’s all in love. #ikid

    I flucks with Chi tho.
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    Sick azz sense of humor
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    :lol: I was just playing. :lol:

    I basically flucks with errybody on here, except for a few "special" folks. #nocliquetho

  • http://youtu.be/wHGc_v_cCIY YSoSerious

    @CHOCO

    What I do? :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe the Leggy Lynx

    well dang, I read through all the comments and this has been a decent discussion (with the exception of a few dumbazzes)...I agree with Dimpz the most, there's nothing wrong with disciplining with spanking but learning your children and what works best on each one is the best approach...I don't have kids yet and my husband and I were both spanked and came out just fine :shrugs: I don't plan on spanking my children frequently, I'm more of a talker, but if the situation calls for me to whip that belt out, I will do so within reason...

    No offense @Free but if you got spanked until your nose bled, that's abuse IMHO...but I'm not here to judge anyone or their past...

  • West Coast Chick

    The child knows right from wrong if can they throw a ball at a window. My nephew is one can’t speak more than two words, but if you tell him no, he’s gonna start crying because you told him no. The reason doesn’t matter. They know.

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    right! He already knows that he want to get hisway ALL THE TIME... but that NOT life, he NOT gonna get his way all the time ion real life. Might as well teach him now

  • West Coast Chick

    No offense @Free but if you got spanked until your nose bled, that’s abuse IMHO…but I’m not here to judge anyone or their past…

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    right, that aint cool :nono:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @YSO
    Being a INSTANT GATOR :lol:

  • Yall still crazy

    Krazycat, I haven't been here long enough today to see where/how the convo went this way.

    I was posting my opinion to the Whoopin Vs. Nonwhoopin.

    I agree with everything you wrote (to me) in 528.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    KrayZKat says:

    @Yall, you missed my point. I said if you tell your child something, and they don’t listen, that’s one thing. If you are dealing with a child who doesn’t know better, you teach them. That’s what a parent does. Children do not always know the consequences of their actions, so you, a parent, explain it to them.

    @Unpredictable – Where in my comment did I mention anything about my child disrespecting me? If my child called me those names, they’d be dealt with severely. I would never take that, and I would hopefully never raise a child who would even THINK about calling me out my name. I never raised my voice to my mom or disrespected her. I thought things or talk about her out of ear shot (LOL) because I knew better to not even look like I was poppin off. We knew from the time we were young what was up. I never said that spanking wasn’t necessary. It depends on the offense. To answer your question, it would be “c and d.”
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    I just simply posed a scenario like you did. Me personally, if my kids don't know something is wrong, of course I teach them. I don't just run around like lil Tommy from Goodfellas diving over on them, and beat the shat outta them. I whoops azz when necessary.

    For example, my youngest (yall see who stays in some shat), stole one of my little brother's remote controls to his Playstation. Now, that was the first time that he had stole something to my knowledge. I talked to him and let him know that stealing is wrong, but I also let him know that if he steals again, that azz is mine.

  • West Coast Chick

    KrayZKat says:

    @Yall, you missed my point. I said if you tell your child something, and they don’t listen, that’s one thing. If you are dealing with a child who doesn’t know better, you teach them. That’s what a parent does. Children do not always know the consequences of their actions, so you, a parent, explain it to them.
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    right! and as a parent concerned about their overall future and wellbeing, you reinforce it when necassary.. trust me life will do it for you if you dont.. if you dont deal with your kids at home, life will deal with them in the streets, prison, death, ect-

  • Yall still crazy

    *fixes Choco's hair just like Kelly's in the :newpost: *

    :rofl:

  • West Coast Chick

    but I also let him know that if he steals again, that azz is mine.

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    right! :applause: stealing is a crime.. further proving my point that if you dont handlr your kids and their upbringing.. the police will.. and we;re dealing with Black kids.. the police would try to kill a Black kid for stealing.. so in theory, youre saving his life

  • West Coast Chick

    Yall still crazy says:

    *fixes Choco’s hair just like Kelly’s in the :newpost:

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    :rofl: you juss wrong for that.. juss wrong :rofl:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :rofl: @ Yall im so trying to come back better but that chit TOPS! I owe u :rofl:

  • KrayZKat

    The child knows right from wrong if can they throw a ball at a window.
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    If a child is playing outside and they throw a ball, and their INTENT was not to break a window or cause some other damage, why would someone spank him/her for that? IF their INTENT was the break the window, do whatcha gotta do.

    Children do things without knowing the intended consequences. Teens do the same thing. Isn't that why we teach children based on their age and their ability to comprehend fully what right/wrong is. Again, I'm talking about the age of a child.

  • Yall still crazy

    Yeah Choco, I thought you'd like that one! :rofl: ( and the doo :hahaha: )

  • LuvnMeIzEz2Do

    His_Mommy623 says:

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    My mama threw a pack of frozen wieners at me…cause I was talking about how I couldnt find them in the freezer ( I really didnt want to cook my brothers nothing to eat) She said if I find these hot dogs in here that your ass….I at my mother and the next thing I know them frozen hot dogs was coming at my chest…felt like I had the wind knocked outta me…now that was abuse….
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    Giiirrrlll I'm so sorry but I needed that laugh! Sounds just like my moms... Dang! I'm sure it wasn't funny then but it sure tickled me now.
    LOL (and needed that)

  • Chgoprime

    I still stand by opinion of this young man. I applaud him for stepping in to help this grandmother. Can you imagine what this kid was probably putting granny thru? Black men are so selfish, you rarely see any of them reaching out to help anyone but themselves. He served this country. They need to free that man.

  • Chgoprime

    I forgot to say, neighbors whooped our asses all the time when we got out of pocket. Back then there was a lot less gang banging and kids killing kids though....

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=fvwrel ALBoy

    I thought this was a post about the college leaving now :coffee:

  • Starr

    Just got home, but I'm with you on this sandra. I know abuse when I see it. That was not discipline.

    The fact that the majority of black people who viewed the video were unable to tell the difference between discipline and an all out assault on a defenseless child is disturbing. The reactions to the video demonstrates the lack of basic parenting skills in the black community. The natural ability to give birth does not qualify some of us to be parents.
    :cosign: This

  • DapisDaShizz

    All I have to say is that if I look around at most of the serial killers, crazies, stalkers, corporate azzholes, and basically the people who become monsters they are mostly of a certain background. The ones that their parents put them in "time out", they were talked to and given hugs when they burned down the house, they saw a psychiatrist when they cut the cat or their sister become these people. I only received three tappings in my life but I knew that I had done something REALLY serious if you got them and I learned that that act was a definite nope. I treat my kids the same way and I spare the rod only when the crime is minor.

  • PrettyG07

    Although I don’t agree with what Broox did I don’t believe it qualifies as child abuse entirely. I think he went too far by shaving off his hair and posting the video online. Personally, growing up spanking was not the method of discipline chosen by my parents because they recognized early on that I didn’t respond to it. It’s all about what a child responds to. The most a spanking ever did was hurt my feelings and I would do whatever it was that I got in trouble for all over again. What got my attention was when they took things away from me, didn’t allow me to do previously planned activities, and made me the ENTIRE extended family’s house keeper at one point lol. At that point I would have welcomed the spanking. I wouldn’t equate spanking your kids to a slave owner beating their slaves because that was done out of hate and black parents these days do it out of mostly love and a lot of times out frustration in my opinion. Sometimes spankings are called for but not for every little thing. I won’t lie though once I got around 15 or 16 my mom would pop me in the mouth if I was talking too fly or would throw a hair brush at me from time to time but by that age I was old enough to know that I deserved it when it happened.

  • I Run New York

    "This some ignant chit right here. A MAN does NOT decide to have a child. That is a WOMAN’S SOLE DECISION."

    I'm confused who impregnates the woman? Jesus?

    "SHE decided to have that child. That we know for FACT.
    He might not have even wanted a child. "

    Why have unprotected sex if you don't want a child? Are you suggesting the man doesn't know where babies come from? Or was this child born through immaculate conception?