Update I, 2:24 p.m. ET:

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday. I'm still on vacay, but I stopped in to update you on legendary rapper Heavy D's cause of death. As we suspected, he died of blood clots in his lung that traveled from his legs (deep vein thrombosis, or DVT). This is the same clotting disorder that Tamar Braxton's husband, Vince, was recently hospitalized with. I will update you if there are any further developments...

Originally posted on Nov. 11, 2011 @ 10:18 a.m.

According to the NY Daily News, rapper Heavy D saw a doctor the day before he died tragically at age 44.

Rap legend Heavy D knew something was seriously wrong with his health the day before he suddenly collapsed and died Tuesday, officials told the Daily News.

“He had gone to the doctor the day before,” Ed Winter, Assistant Chief of the Los Angeles County Coroner’s office, told the Daily News. “He had what appeared to be like flu-like symptoms.”

“He was taking medication, so we want to see what the levels were,” Winter said.

Heavy D, whose real name was Dwight Arrington Myers, had just gotten back from a trip to England. “He said he had a touch of pneumonia, maybe from traveling," is cousin, Ruddy Phillips, told The News.

But Heavy D also could have died from a pulmonary embolism, a fatal consequence of sitting for prolonged periods of time during long distance travel. Pulmonary embolisms are often misdiagnosed as something else -- such as pneumonia or cardiac arrest.

In fact, some attorneys base their entire practice around misdiagnosed pulmonary embolism cases.

According to the Daily News, an autopsy was completed Wednesday morning, but a preliminary cause of death won't be released until toxicology tests are performed. The tests could take up to six weeks to complete.

Source: RWS

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    THIS IS JUST SOOOOO SAD! :wail:

    :whistle:
    DiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDeeeeeeeee

    :wail:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    :crying: :crying:

  • NaijaGal

    The conspiracy part of me is raising eyebrows with this pulmonary ish cause it seems everybody is getting it like the H1N1 which we never hear about anymore

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Its hard for me to look at Heavy D cause he reminds me sooooo much of my step father.....

    But Heavy D used to jam back in the day...and he could move his ass off...

    RIP Overweight Lova!!!

  • SunRiseBlossom

    :crying:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    NaijaGal says:

    The conspiracy part of me is raising eyebrows with this pulmonary ish cause it seems everybody is getting it like the H1N1 which we never hear about anymore
    __________________________________________________________
    Its that contaigon chit.....Just like the movie! :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    ok Sandra imma need a prozac or sumthin messin round with u on my day off all these heavy arse posts this mortink :crying:

    RIP Heavy :crying:

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    RIP HEAVY D

  • lady_cn

    :heart:

    He was my 1st 'big boy' crush!

    @NaijaGal I too am beginning to wonder about this pulmonary embolism stuff... :think:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    :crying: Heavy was indeed that dude, with crazy hits. I was jammin my azz off when he performed on the BET awards. I can't believe he's gone. VH1 Soul played all his videos the night he died, and last night. :sad:

    RIP Heavy D :sad:

  • vero

    I always liked him and found him sexy. this is so sad to pass at such a young age :(

    I won't lie, since Sandra started talking about pulmonary embolism, I make sure I stand and walk frequently in my office. i could really sit there for hours

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    Hold me Pint Size :hug: I still can't believe he's gone :crying:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :no: - This is just so upsetting!

  • Ms. YaYa

    Rest In Love Heavy D :cry:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    Hey Vero :hug: HBD to lil Vero! & i do love how Sandra drops her medical knowledge on us too :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    Still :wail:

  • vero

    Thank you fayfay :hug:

    For real, you can't deny it can be really informative at times

    :hug: Yso :hug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    Ta-Bew :hug: my hubby is the same age Heavy was :(
    #close2home

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    YSo :hug: :crying:

  • West Coast Chick

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    THIS IS JUST SOOOOO SAD!

    DiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDeeeeeeeee

    ______________________________

    :hugs: TATTTTTTED!!! I was sooo sad after I read this post, but you brought me back with your "DiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDiddlyDeeeeeeeee"

    :lol:

    we got our own thang :dance:

  • http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/profile.php?ref=profile&id=1335451522 therapist1911

    may his soul rest in peace

  • West Coast Chick

    :waves: hey fayla, chibys, vero, unpre, lady, sunrise, diva :waves:

    YSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO :hugs:

    happy friday ladies!!! :waves:

  • caligirl

    I'm :sad: Mr. Big Stuff, will be missed.

    @ Sandra - "In fact, some attorneys base their entire practice around misdiagnosed pulmonary embolism cases."

    A very close friend of mine died in the same manner, he too had just seen his physican. His family did in deed sue. They used the money to start a foundation at his high school.

    It's not even noon...I need a glass of wine :koolaid:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Fay Fay - My sis-in-law is that age and I will be that age in about 8 years....THAT'S TOO YOUNG! :yes:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ NaijaGal and lady_cn:

    Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as "Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and "Did you just get back from overseas?" If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don't do the basics such as asking the right questions.

  • CFREE

    Still in shock, can't believe it :no: :crying: :sad:

  • Creamychic

    :wail:

    :whistle: My favorite Jam HEAV

    What's the deal
    I wanna know is this love for real
    Or could it be lust that I feel
    You got it going on and on like a real fly sex appeal
    Physique extra ill sun sweet dress to kill
    You got me open like token hot and smokin
    Jacuzzi bubble bath laughin joking
    Candle light talking about how you and your ex-man fight
    Tropical sight beach sand white listen
    Seafood dishes wine cooler champagne wishes waterbed head
    Fine do with some riches
    our loveable hugeable I love the cute
    As long as I'm around and down nothin could ever trouble you

    I want your body
    The way you touch me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    You could be my big daddy
    Take it slowly
    Heavy hold me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    you could be my big daddy

    I spend quality time
    Cute face haircut like the Hally design
    Keep my day laced up with fly gear and makeup
    But you should see her when she wake up never could we brake up
    Shop till you drop cause the cream dont stop
    Buy you a bunch of outfits your sexy your hot
    So she could look good for Hev D
    Overweight loving MC rub you gently
    You know its C big CEO sex-o-pee
    Mac game similar next to gold and flex
    You might feelme creeping to your room late at night
    It's hell a waterbed so get it right
    You be like that its that big nigger we all up tonight
    Game ear tight why you caught up in the hype
    That's right that's miggie, miggie, biggie
    Baby your ready for big daddy

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ WCC - that was the jam!! :yes: :dance: <--- me really doing the prep!

  • West Coast Chick

    hey therapist, and Naija :waves:

  • Creamychic

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ NaijaGal and lady_cn:

    Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.

    ___________________________________________________________that is absoutly the rruth cause they ask me those exact question when i went fro my annual, all those questions to be exact and one i dont understand " DO I FEEL SAFE IN MY HOME :blink:

  • West Coast Chick

    Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven says:

    @ WCC – that was the jam!! <— me really doing the prep!

    _____________________

    :lol: you ont' no nofin bout dat, gal :lol:

  • Ms. YaYa

    caligirl says:
    It’s not even noon…I need a glass of wine
    ___________________________________________________________

    You and Me Both!!! :koolaid3: <----Razorback Red Wine

  • Creamychic

    ***truth***

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    VERO!! :hugs: x 5
    FAYLA!! :hugs:
    WCC!! :waves:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    :dance: to Creamy's song

    WCC! :yahoo: wut it dew bew?
    Naija!!!!! :hug: hola sweetness
    CFreezy :boobs: (consolement)
    Cali :cheers: witcha

  • West Coast Chick

    I want your body
    The way you touch me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    You could be my big daddy
    Take it slowly
    Heavy hold me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    you could be my big daddy

    __________________________________

    ohhhhhhhh shiiiiiiid! :danban:

  • Anna

    Creamychic says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ NaijaGal and lady_cn:

    Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.

    ___________________________________________________________that is absoutly the rruth cause they ask me those exact question when i went fro my annual, all those questions to be exact and one i dont understand ” DO I FEEL SAFE IN MY HOME
    ~~~~~~~~
    Domestic Violence.

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    I want your body
    The way you touch me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    You could be my big daddy
    Take it slowly
    Heavy hold me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    you could be my big daddy
    _______________________________________________
    I used to :heart: that song!!!

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @VERO

    Oh, and :happybirthday: to your baby!

  • CFREE

    :lol: FAY FAY always there for me :kiss: :boobs: :wink:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ Creamychic: the doctor was assessing your home environment to see if you're being beaten on the regular by an abusive spouse or boyfriend. That was a good doctor :thumbsup:

  • West Coast Chick

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ NaijaGal and lady_cn:

    Good doctors ask a lot of questions, such as “Do you have chest pain, difficulty breathing, pain in your legs? and “Did you just get back from overseas?” If Heavy D was complaining of flu-like symptoms after just getting off a plane from England, a good doctor would have drawn his blood and run a scan on him. Pulmonary embolism often gets misdiagnosed because doctors don’t do the basics such as asking the right questions.

    _______________________

    so you think the doctor failed to give him a blood test? Do we know if it was his regular physician?

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Goes to youtube to listen to Big Daddy! :pc:

  • NaijaGal

    @WCC :waves: hey diva

  • lashellebelle

    Gooooooooooooooooooood mornin' everyone!

    :offtopic:

    @ Chiby- Hey lady. What part of Texas are you in?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    TaBew me 2 (in bout 8) i mean we have VERY healthy ins. policies for our children & all, but ion want that money i want my MANE nahmean? we both want to die together.

    :whistle: I swear to gawt I hope we fuggin die 2getha

  • vero

    Thank you Yso :kiss:

    :hug: WCC

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    I want your body
    The way you touch me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    You could be my big daddy
    Take it slowly
    Heavy hold me
    Ridin in your Caddie
    you could be my big daddy
    _______________________________________________
    I used to :heart: that song!!!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Meeeeee toooooo! :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    CFreezy ALWAYS my breezy, ALWAYS :kiss:

    @lashellebelle GM :waves:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister says:

    TaBew me 2 (in bout 8) i mean we have VERY healthy ins. policies for our children & all, but ion want that money i want my MANE nahmean? we both want to die together.

    :whistle: I swear to gawt I hope we fuggin die 2getha
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    You make me sigg, because I all heard was Meth Man! :rofl:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    heeeeey Lashelle :hug:

  • lashellebelle

    :cheer:
    Hey Fayla Boo!

    Happy Friday!

  • lashellebelle

    Tatts!!! Hey Punkin. This ~~~~~~~~~> :pacifier: should be YOUR signal.
    Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerk!

  • West Coast Chick

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:

    Goes to youtube to listen to Big Daddy!
    _________________________

    :lol: me tooo! :lol:

    thats gone be my friday theme song

  • Creamychic

    @ Sandra and Anna thanks #Helpful, cause I look at her like WHY? Glad I know now :thumbsup:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    @lashellebelle AND it's a holiday :cheer: chillin like a mug!

    HAPPY VETERAN'S DAY TO MY VETS!! s/o to Mr. Fayla :kiss:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @Lashellebelle
    I'm not in Texas...but I'm originally from Dallas....

  • flsun99

    vero says:

    I won’t lie, since Sandra started talking about pulmonary embolism, I make sure I stand and walk frequently in my office. i could really sit there for hours
    ******
    Vero me too! I get up and walk every 30minutes to an hour. I'm even re thinking our drive to New Orleans for the Jay-Z concert.

  • caligirl

    @ Creamychic: My GYN also ask very detailed questions. At first I was shocked....

    What type of realtionship are you in?
    What are your methods of contraception, even though you have a tubaliagation.
    How long have you been in the realtionship?
    Are things going well?
    Are you happy?
    Is there any abuse?

    I was really shocked, but I really enjoy seeing her each year and saving my life earlier this year, when she was preseisnt about a growth of a tumor I had! Gotta love a well trained DOC!

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :dead: @ Lashelle! Thank you bew! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    TaBew i can't say what i really wanna in this here post boutcho gravi, but wait till Sandra brings a :newpost: :yes:

  • West Coast Chick

    @ YSO..about the good report card..what did you decide to do? :thinking:

  • Creamychic

    @WCC i see you up there doing the Wobble to BIG DADDY ,, Love it :yes:

  • lashellebelle

    @ Chiby;

    OH DANG IT. I thought you were still here. I guess I should pay better attention. I THOUGHT I saw something about you & Dallas. I was going to invite you to my birthday par-tay!

    @ TITTs (oooops, I meant TATTS) I'm just SAYIN'!!!!

  • lashellebelle

    @ Fayla

    And here I am at WORK!!! :mad:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    Watching this video and seeing all the swag and charisma Heavy D had....he put a lot of "pretty boys and well cut men" to shame!!

  • Creamychic

    caligirl says:

    @ Creamychic: My GYN also ask very detailed questions. At first I was shocked….

    What type of realtionship are you in?
    What are your methods of contraception, even though you have a tubaliagation.
    How long have you been in the realtionship?
    Are things going well?
    Are you happy?
    Is there any abuse?

    I was really shocked, but I really enjoy seeing her each year and saving my life earlier this year, when she was preseisnt about a growth of a tumor I had! Gotta love a well trained DOC!

    ____________________________________________________________

    you so right I was like :blink: when my doctor asked 50-11 ? but hey I see that she is doing a good job, so he is #helpful

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    lashellebelle says:

    @ Chiby;

    OH DANG IT. I thought you were still here. I guess I should pay better attention. I THOUGHT I saw something about you & Dallas. I was going to invite you to my birthday par-tay!
    __________________________________________________
    Thanks for the invite though! :grin: If I was at home I'd come...
    When is your bday?

  • caligirl

    :koolaid3:

    Fayla
    Ms. Ya Ya
    Creamy
    WCC

    Don't know the name but the guy at the wine store recommended it last week, it a DRY Rose Sparking Moscato. I'll give you details on Monday. 5:00 can't come soon enough...

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Fay Fay - OH REALLY????!!!! Now you got me curious! WAIT :stop:
    the presses! I'm not 'spose to be tawkin' to you today because you were braggin 'bout having today off! :mad:

    @ Lashelle - girl.......TRUST ME, I ain't stopping no traffic....NOT YET! Give me a few months! :lol:

  • vero

    FayFay that's right. Veteran's day. It's a big celebration here, even if there are like 1 or 2 left that fought during WWI. (in france i mean).
    But I love it because it's a day off :D

    Flsun i swear, Yesterday I drove for like 1 hour straight (it very long considering the island is small) and I was like wow, I need to get where I go ASAP. I couldn't to stretch my leg !

  • lashellebelle

    @ Chiby

    It's not until the 23rd, but the party is next Friday in Lancaster.

  • sexyphillygirl

    They dont have any rose moscato in philly I gotta check tonight and see again but my friend in NY swears by it...

  • Ms. YaYa

    It's Friday :party:

    @ Chiby
    Your hair looks real nice.

  • West Coast Chick

    Creamychic says:

    @WCC i see you up there doing the Wobble to BIG DADDY ,, Love it
    :yes:
    ___________________
    you brought me BACK with that song!!! :cheers:

    :hugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJewNV_LhnE&feature=player_embedded Zoe B.

    :offtopic: Rihanna You Da One got me snake gunning at my desk :danban:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    aww damn lashelle u makin me wanna go to D-Town! my folks been houndin me bout when i'm comin back :think:

  • lashellebelle

    @ Tatts- I don't believe that. Every time I try to scroll down, I have to do a double take & then keep going.

  • West Coast Chick

    :wave: hey Yaya.. who's the guy in your gravi?

  • lashellebelle

    @ Fayla-

    GET CHO TAIL down here then! :yes:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Awwww Lashelle - belle ---------YOU DON'T KNOW HOW HARD A BISH IS BLUSHING! :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    lashellebelle says:

    @ Chiby

    It’s not until the 23rd, but the party is next Friday in Lancaster.
    ___________________________________________________________
    See and I usually come home for about a week and half for Thanksgiving...but my parents and sisters are coming here for Thanksgiving....

    There is always next year!!! :yes:

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    :dead: @ Zoe! :lol:

  • West Coast Chick

    :waves: hey Cali

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @Ms Ya Ya
    Thanks suga....I'm trying something new...Going for an island/exotic look for the winter..... :lol: (a bish is really to lazy to come her own hair is what it really is)

  • Creamychic

    and morning Everybody :waves: and :kiss: 's

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    Don’t know the name but the guy at the wine store recommended it last week, it a DRY Rose Sparking Moscato. I’ll give you details on Monday. 5:00 can’t come soon enough…
    ___________________
    *licks lips* um yeah THAT sounds yum-E! please share :yes:

    @TaBew :stop: u know u couldnt stop speaking to me if u tried :no: :coffee:

    @WCC what's that FB info again?

  • caligirl

    @sexyphillygirl - I'm really exicted now. This guy sells me a different type of wine on a regular. We are well stocked through the holidays. Not sure if you like reds, but try Voulet, fizzy red wine. NOT TO BE SHARED.

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    Heeeey Creamsicle! :hug:

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    :hi: Creamy

  • Tatted Diva AKA The Makeup Maven

    @ Fay Fay - quit pullin' a bish hoe-card in front of ALL DEEZ HERE FOLK!

  • lashellebelle

    @ Chiby: :crying:

    & you're right! God willing, there's always next year

    @ Tatts:

    :ashamed: <~~~~~~ (blushing)

  • Ms. YaYa

    Hey WCC :wave: That's my lil quarterback, my heart, and the best son ever. He's in college playing football now AND he is still maintaining his grades always did keep a strong 4.0 or higher

  • http://youtu.be/wHTo_QgKM5g chibytex aka the people’s champ

    @Ms Ya Ya
    He's handsome.... :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6yW-Chp7Pw screwball69

    :newpost: is up. And it's about Rihanna.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJewNV_LhnE&feature=player_embedded Zoe B.

    @tatted I friggin love it

  • Ms. YaYa

    @ Chiby
    I am the same way. If I can't take my bonnet off and just shake and go I don't want it! :nono: I am wearing twist now and I am loving it.

  • Dr. O

    SANDRA !!!

    - Its almost impossible to misdiagnose a PE (pulmonary embolism).
    ex. SOB + hypoxia + clear c-xray + risk factor = PE

    Anyone with an MD knows this - doubt he died of a PE.

    Trust me- i know.

  • Ms. YaYa

    chibytex aka the people's champ says:
    @Ms Ya Ya
    He’s handsome….
    ____________________________________________

    Thanks Chiby!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg Fayla aka NotSammySosaSister

    :applause: Congrats Ms. YaYa! that's wassup 4 real, i luv it!

  • sexyphillygirl

    I remember when I flew out to Vegas this past Feb and my legs started hurting I immediately got up and started walking on the plane, I got scared I had a bloodclot forming.

  • Ms. YaYa

    @ Fayla Thanks! I'm proud, especially since I raised him by myself

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    sexyphillygirl says:

    I remember when I flew out to Vegas this past Feb and my legs started hurting I immediately got up and started walking on the plane, I got scared I had a bloodclot forming.
    ________________

    Your legs were probably just fatigued but you did the right thing! :thumbsup:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Dr. O says:

    - Its almost impossible to misdiagnose a PE (pulmonary embolism).
    ex. SOB + hypoxia + clear c-xray + risk factor = PE

    Anyone with an MD knows this – doubt he died of a PE.

    Trust me- i know.
    _____________________________

    And yet it happens all the time, hun. As for the risk factor, what if the doctor didn't ask if he had just gotten back from England?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ Dr. O:

    And what if Heavy D wasn't hypoxic? And what if the doctor didn't think to get a chest x-ray? You can't say it's "impossible" to misdiagnose PE because there are documented cases that proves it happens a lot.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ Dr. O:

    But if you're a real doctor, then I defer to you. :D

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :dead:

  • Dr. O

    @ sandra

    And yet it happens all the time, hun. As for the risk factor, what if the doctor didn’t ask if he had just gotten back from England?
    --------------------------------------
    -Part of seeing a patient is obtaining a complete and thorough history and physcical.

    @ sandra
    And what if Heavy D wasn’t hypoxic? And what if the doctor didn’t think to get a chest x-ray? You can’t say it’s “impossible” to misdiagnose PE because there are documented cases that proves it happens a lot.
    ------------------------------------------
    If the PE was severe enough to kill him he must have been hypoxic on some level -depending on what type of PE it is ( ex. a saddle PE will kill you quicker than your run of the mill PE)

    But I will give you this -I retract my words "impossible" and lets instead use the word improbable if the patient is appropriately examined.

    By the way.....I really am a doctor : )

    I don't post often - but I do enjoy your site daily !

  • I Go There

    Well Welcome back Chiby... whats up

    Hey tatted and YSO

    Whats going on yall.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    IGT

    you do realize all dem posts from nov 11'th right>?

  • iheart405

    The post in here are old Igo. I think we still in the Braylon post

  • iheart405

    @Ace, Where is our new question?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ I Go There: You're responding to old comments. Look at the dates.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    By the way, in case you're all wondering: Heavy D's survivors might have a good case against the doctor who diagnosed him with pneumonia.

  • MsOnederful

    Wow we have a Dr in the house! Do that Auntie! Dr. O!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    so sad...welcome back Auntie!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :blink:

    :crying:

    :coffee:

  • iheart405

    Choco, Getcho azz back in the Braylon post :mad:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    Ace's Random Question of the Moment

    (this gonna come out weird because my real question more power to you . This question gonna get answered all kinda of wrong as the freak level around here is quite high. so keep in mind this question is not about you personally as we know Everyone here is upstanding SR citizens :rolleyes: )

    As a single black man i run into alot of women who say they are looking for a man who isn't just about sex. But yet they want a man to have no kids, be "generous", have his own place, own car, good job, be "generous" ;have all these great qualities and expect us to peruse them for what they have to offer. And when a man ask a women what she can provide she get offended. Some women place themselves on pedestal. like they are the prize.

    so my question is(i think)

    Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?

    (If all that confuses you its because i had a question in my head but couldn't find the words and if you can't answer the above try answering the below)

    What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you?

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    This still makes me sad. :wail:

    Hello SR friends and neighbors. Hope everyone is still enjoying their holiday. I, for one, just want a nice little dark corner to curl up in until after the New Year. :yawn:

  • pointhimout

    :popcorn:

    well I keep it simple. I dont ask for what I can't offer. I want to see the repsponses too.

  • Yall still crazy

    :dead: at the me thinking that I was going crazy :hahaha:

    :whistle: The overweight lovers in the house :whistle:

  • pointhimout

    side-eye to all u heffas who are still off work.

  • I Go There

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ I Go There: You’re responding to old comments. Look at the dates.
    ___________________________________________

    yeah I know that now.... After I did it I was like WTF.
    :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :hugs: @YSo

    @Ace

    There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with asking a woman what more she has to offer. I actually have a friend who carries the attitude that she doesn't need to offer anything besides her "beauty" and "good company" and "pussy", but when it comes to more tangible things she gets all crazy and says that's for the MAN to bring...I think her attitude stinks and if more men looked for more in a woman than what's between her legs I think there would be less gold digging, scandalous, back stabbing situations at hand... :shrugs:

  • Yall still crazy

    *creates a corner for Yso outta her own dreads* :hug:

    Ace, good question. Personally I have alot to offer (other than great sex) :wink:

    If you can get a dude sprung on your thoughts and what your next conversation will be, he'll continue to be interested. Good sex is just a plus :coffee: IMO

  • http://bigghostnahmean.blogspot.com/2011/11/big-ghost-presents-take-care-review.html SamYell JacksEm

    @Ace No, you're not wrong. Not at all. A lot of men would do better if they asked the same question. :coffee:

    @YSo :hug: Where you been?

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @ACE

    :rofl:

    You know they goin say they don't "persue" men and then proceed to quote from the bible about "...a man finds his wife."
    Trust me.
    :coffee:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @ace an equal the drive and dedication to be my own woman be it money or carrer but be able to be his down bish if i had too... basicly dont depend on him bring my own $$ and morals to the table.. :popcorn:
    @iheart wats going on in the old post? :pc: HOLD UP DO I WANT TO KNOW??

  • Yall still crazy

    :hahaha: @ Igo

    :gossip: :embarrassedforyou: :grill:

  • pointhimout

    :lol: @ man.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @IGO :rofl: U THOUGHT CHI WAS BACK IN HUH?? GOT ALL ESSITED!!

  • Tertra114

    very sad lose

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    ACE!! :hugs:

    How you be?

    On to your questions...

    Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
    No he's not. Every natural born woman has one so if that's all you have to offer a man you're gonna get lost the crowd.

    What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you? Hm...My sunny disposition? Okay, seriously...My mind, my sense of humor, my honestly and trustworthiness, my fierce loyalty but low threshold for bs...And I can cook. Kinda. :)

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @YSO I MISSD U SUGAR DROP :kiss: **SPLENDA DROP SO I CAN TASTE IT!**

  • 2know the ledge

    Sad about Hev I read about this a few moments ago on another site. Hev is still missed.

  • Yall still crazy

    :dead: @ESSITED :lol:
    *adds that to the list (tessis, sessi)* Too funny!

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    FEFE!! YALL!! SAM!! LAKER!! Group :hugs:

    @PHO

    Who's that fish in your Gravi? Or is that a fish with a stick? :waiting:

  • Yall still crazy

    Merry Christmas Knowledge :hug:

  • I Go There

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @ACE

    You know they goin say they don’t “persue” men and then proceed to quote from the bible about “…a man finds his wife.”
    Trust me.
    ________________________________________________

    Yep... soon as you said Persue
    you got about 40% of em talking about how they dont persue a man. BS

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @YALL :lol: U KNOW I GO BY MY LAKEZDICTIONARY :yes:

  • Yall still crazy

    Yso, did you see you xmas gift I made for you outta your own hair :rofl:

    #nowwheresmygiftyo :rofl:

  • I Go There

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    @IGO U THOUGHT CHI WAS BACK IN HUH?? GOT ALL ESSITED!!
    _________________________________________________________

    Whatever... I know YOU not calling anybody that.
    LOL

  • 2know the ledge

    YALLC :kiss: :hugs: merry new year and happy xmas to you shawty hope you had a good xmas

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @IGO :rofl: SHUT UP!! :lol: I WASSS SSCARED NOT EESSITED!! :rofl: GET THE SHYT RIGHT!!! :mad:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    so um I just figured out what ESSISTED was and................

  • Yall still crazy

    Ace, maybe more guys should ask those questions. I could just imagine the look on some of my friends (really just acquaintances) faces when they figure out what they're being asked :shrug: and how they'd answer. SMH

  • KDub

    (If all that confuses you its because i had a question in my head but couldn’t find the words and if you can’t answer the above try answering the below)

    What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you?
    ----------------------------------------------------------

    Welllllll. I am smart. I am kind. I am important.

    I have good head to offer. SEE...that is not my hot box. You said...other than puss-cee..

    I can cook.

    I make my own money and I have secret bank accounts. Plural. And as my now estranged husband said "You thank your azz slick don't chu? You think I don't know you get your other statements sent round your momma house?" Nukka I don't care WHATCHU know. Whatcho azz DON'T know is my balance. GTFOH.

    I wouldn't ask you to be an instant step-dad to my kids. Cause chances are they gonna nignore the fukk outta you anyyyy-t-way. The lil one is waiting on her dad to come home (HA) and the oldest doesn't really give a fugg. If you let her drive your car she will leave us the hail alone and might een take her SISTER with her.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @LOLITA ESSITED :yahoo: USE IT EMBRACE IT LOOOVE IT!! :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @YALL

    I saw. I'm making your gift right now so don't peek. :grin:

    (tells Gravi to strain a little harder to get YALL's present out)

  • Yall still crazy

    :kiss: @Knowledge
    -----------------------
    I WASSS SSCARED NOT EESSITED!! :rofl:

    Brown, you created a new word that I think is "Existed". :lol:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @ACE

    It's a good question but I'd only ask it in response to a woman asking me something similar.

    Like you said, you know they always talkin bout a nigga bein "generous" and chit.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @ the men in the room...

    Even though I don't pursue men, and I think that men should pursue women, I STILL think that women need to have more than a pretty face, smile, nice azz, and a pussy to offer... :shrugs: I know that I was very focused on getting myself together mentally, spiritually, and emotionally before I met my husband...men also need to know how to recognize when a chick ain't got it together and move on instead of filling her head up with bullshyt, fcking her repeatedly, and making the situation even more messy...

  • Yall still crazy

    :cicimiddletoe: @ Yso

    #nasty :nana:

  • I Go There

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    @IGO SHUT UP!! I WASSS SSCARED NOT EESSITED!! GET THE SHYT RIGHT!!!
    _________________________________________

    NO you got ran off the block
    next thing you know you were putting up "50 feet" markers and shait.

    just backed up.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    :cuss: I hate when mfuggas hang up in my face then act like nothin happened!

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    **wants to change threads due to Tetra 114's gravie**
    :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
    _______________________
    No in fact I would want a man thinking like this anyway

    What are you have(other then your pu$$y) to offer a successful man that would give him reason to pursue you?
    ________________________________
    A nice smile, independence, I know my self worth, support, friendship concern and care

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    Chief
    I think "scared" and "ran off the block" is the same thing
    #helpful

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @FE FE
    "Even though I don’t pursue men, and I think that men should pursue women, I STILL think that women need to have more than a pretty face, smile, nice azz, and a pussy to offer… I know that I was very focused on getting myself together mentally, spiritually, and emotionally before I met my husband…men also need to know how to recognize when a chick ain’t got it together and move on instead of filling her head up with bullshyt, fcking her repeatedly, and making the situation even more messy…"
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    :think:

    Why don't you feel women should pursue men? Serious question. Seems to me a woman would WANT to be the pursuer since they take on most of the risk in a r/ship.

  • KDub

    Is a Man wrong for asking a women to take her pu$$y off the table and reevaluate her worth(what she has to offer a man)?
    --------------------------------------
    Well firsta all she need to have a seat and get her azz/hotbox up off your table anyway. That is bad manners. You not wrong for making her sit elsewhere.

    My own personal worth is measured in my life in other ways. My kids, my family, work, church, friends. My 401k statement and my now worthless newspaper stock is not gonna help me.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Leakes will appear on the season premiere of the show January 17, 2012 in an episode entitled “Yes/No” as a swim coach and recently confirmed via twitter that her character’s name on Glee is Coach Roz Washington.

    NENE annoys me!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    If all yall runnin into is chicks wantin you to be generous then I suggest you look elsewhere.
    I've never in my life told a niccah I was lookin for someone generous

  • iheart405

    @Yso, I left you a message in the Braylon post :coffee:

    Igo,Brown and Choco might like to see it too :coffee:

  • Yall still crazy

    Brown, I hate when folks don't say "goodbye" "bye" not even an "aight" etc and just hang up the phone.

    No home training! #nooffense

  • 2know the ledge

    *looks @double L :hunching:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    405
    please do not include me in your messiness!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Man

    If a woman WANTS to be the pursuer that's her prerogative...I said that I don't pursue men, and it's mostly because I've never had to...even men that I liked from afar ended up approaching me at some point in time...so I'm not really good at it, nor do I think it's an attractive trait (for me...)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    KNOWLEDGE

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    KNOWLEDGE

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    KNOWLEDGE

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @BROWN
    "If all yall runnin into is chicks wantin you to be generous then I suggest you look elsewhere.
    I’ve never in my life told a niccah I was lookin for someone generous"
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    Most don't say it outright, but allude to it and do chit indirectly.
    It is what it is. Nothing to be upset about. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    since that ass continue to stay in the dog house you gon have to do somethin special before you get this again

  • Yall still crazy

    I’ve never in my life told a niccah I was lookin for someone generous

    -----------------------------------------------------
    Me neither, but HAVE ALWAYS been approached by a chump talmbout he can/will do this or that. #nogame

    (The old me) Still took their money, but they never got my respect.
    Nowadays, I just laugh it off :coffee: and keep it moving...

  • 2know the ledge

    Not a good look for a woman to pursue a man. Nothing wrong with a woman letting herself know she is interested but pursing him naw not good. The man should do that b/c the chase is more fun when I do it. Letting the woman do it loses it's effect.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @IGO OH OK I GOT RAN OFF AND GAVE U 50 FEET... WHATS THE POINT? I SAID SSSCARED SO :shrug:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @FE FE
    "If a woman WANTS to be the pursuer that’s her prerogative…I said that I don’t pursue men, and it’s mostly because I’ve never had to…even men that I liked from afar ended up approaching me at some point in time…so I’m not really good at it, nor do I think it’s an attractive trait (for me…)"
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    k

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    man I wasnt gettin upset I was askin a question and makin a statement

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I dont approach men but I can't say that I wouldn't doesn't make me feel less attractive or more - just depends

  • 2know the ledge

    DAMN DOUBLE L 3x with the name love? got me all hot and things :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    2know the ledge says:

    Not a good look for a woman to pursue a man. Nothing wrong with a woman letting herself know she is interested but pursing him naw not good. The man should do that b/c the chase is more fun when I do it. Letting the woman do it loses it’s effect.

    _________

    :yes: I've heard MANY men say this very thing...

  • Crickett

    When I was single, successful men pursued me for my looks then they discovered my personality, then my intellect. The later scared off ALOT of them, couldn't handle a women who was a equal hustler. I would be married, divorced collecting settlements like Kobe's wife if I kept my mouth shut and spread it low and wide on demand. Kicks rocks

  • KDub

    @Yall you just described the telephone skills of my youngest bipolar sister. The baby.

    You can still be tawkin to that bish after... "Hey how are ya. Is mom there?"

    Her: No.

    Your Dumb Azz: Well how are you doing today....hello? Hello?

    THEN you are reminded that not only is her azz slow and mental...she rude as a summabish TOO. That heffa has not had a goodbye for anybody since 1989 on the phone. Not sure why it still pisses us all off still.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    WTF is pursuing a man tho cuz I think that term is relative :yes:

    Like my friend I have I didn't pursue but they way we met I guess you could say I initiated the communication he asked for my number tho so IDK

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    YALL
    I've been propositioned planty of times but never took them up on their offer because I never wanted a man to be able to say he did anything for me... in that type of situation anyway

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    THE MANAGER AND SUPERVISOR ARE GONE TODAY... I WANT TO GO HOME!! :wail:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    Knowledge
    it was a simple mistake :coffee:

  • I Go There

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    @IGO OH OK I GOT RAN OFF AND GAVE U 50 FEET… WHATS THE POINT? I SAID SSSCARED SO
    ____________________________________________________________

    My point is how can you say what I was doing (which was being nice...cause im always nice) when you were doing worse.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    WTF is pursuing a man tho
    ^^ IS CHRISSY PROPOSING TO JIMMY PURSUING?

  • iheart405

    Well forget you then Brown *humph* there was no messiness at all :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    As far as a man being generous I mean isn't that a given if he has any worth - not a pushover but I mean if we going out on a first date the guy could pay for it IMO it's not like I would expect that on every date now as far as paying my bills Im blessed to be able to do that for myself

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Choco

    I don't think there's anything wrong with letting a man know that you are interested, and that can be something as small as smiling at him, winking at him, being extra conversational, etc. But to approach a dude and ask for his number and straight start spitting lines to him would seem a bit "off" to me...but that's just my take on it...

  • OutsidetheBox

    I would be married, divorced collecting settlements like Kobe’s wife if I kept my mouth shut and spread it low and wide on demand

    :hahaha: Speak.

  • Yall still crazy

    Kdub,
    I say you don't talk to her on the phone ANYMORE! (overdramatic voice) :lol:

    You thinking somebody is listening and then realize they are gone! ROAR :mad:
    ------------------------------
    Crickett, I concur. And I know alot of guys who claim to want someone of some substance, but when they meet them it hardly ever works out and he ends up with a hoodrat.

    (not all men) But a whole lot of them think they want a strong smart woman, but they really dont know how to deal with/or handle it.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @IGO OH OK MY BAD... U GOOD? :hug: **IDK WTF IS GOING ON**
    I SOO HUNGRY!! IM MAD I MISSD THE RE-RUN OF SSCARED SKRAIT!! :mad:

  • OutsidetheBox

    My kid's father routinely tells me my problem is "I think too much".

    This is a "put down" aaparently. Ooh #burn? :shrug:

    :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    But to approach a dude and ask for his number and straight start spitting lines to him would seem a bit “off” to me…but that’s just my take on it…
    ______________________________
    Well yeah that's too much work IMO plus just not my role and hasn't been

    But a whole lot of them think they want a strong smart woman, but they really dont know how to deal with/or handle it.
    ____________________________
    Yep I think this is the case with some guys also

  • Yall still crazy

    This is the 1st time in my life where I don't need any outside assistance and the feeling is wonderful! I really can't describe it though :shrug:

    GOD is good...

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @kdub sis :rofl: no click... :lol: shyt is rude my brother does it and it piss me off dont say by nothing just click..

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Scott Disick can't wait for "Kourtney and Kim Take New York" to end so he can stop pretending with Kourtney.

    Anyone who has wasted their time watching Kourtney and Kim Take New Yorkknows that Scott and Kourtney’s relationship is a little on the odd side… they sleep in separate bedrooms, Kourtney can’t stand Scott and he spends a lot of time looking at porn (he even confessed his relationship is a mess to pimpmomager Kris Jenner). Scott actually left Kourtney for a day or two to move in with Jonathan Cheban after the couple stopped speaking over some petty nonsense.

    Meanwhile, Kourtney insults Scott and his family, finds everything he does annoying and then looks despondent when her sisters try to counsel her to pay more attention to the man she claims to love. That made it all the more shocking when Kourtney announced she was pregnant with the couple’s second child — still with no plans to get married despite rumors that Scott had bought Kourtney a ring.

    Well, it seems Scott may be looking to return that ring and leave Kourt for realz! In Touch Weekly is reporting that “unbeknownst to Kourtney, Scott has hatched a secret plan to ditch her, their son, Mason, 2, and the new baby – and move cross-country to New York.”

    “Scott has been reaching out to his old group of buddies in New York and telling them that he can’t wait to get away from Kourtney and her family for a while, start partying again and launch a club in the city,” a close friend of Scott’s tells the mag. “Scott wants a place in New York City where he can escape the family and get some space to do his own thing.”

    “He’s talking to potential producers and partners,” the friend adds. “Kourtney thinks the baby changed his mind, but it didn’t.” Even more shocking the friend reveals Scott and Kourtney’s relationship has been been a fake for a while! “His relationship with her isn’t real,” the source reveals. “He’s only still in it because he’s getting paid.”

    Jacked from Reality Tea

  • I Go There

    Ill say this... Nothing wrong with a woman persuing you and vise versa.
    If we are compatible and the respect is there im pretty cool with anything. She just have to know that I will make her an important piece of my life but she must do that same... now about spending money. Ill take a woman out and we can have dinner a movie, dancing the whole thing....BUT I will not give women money or pay their bills... You must have my last name in order to get that.

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    Men like the thrill of the hunt and everything, but maybe they want to chased once and a while too. Why shouldn't a woman go after what she wants? Within reason, of course. #NoFatalAttraction

    That feels like some Disney Princess sht to me, waiting around for my "prince" to come. Blech.

  • 2know the ledge

    @fefe Its a true statement b/c most men feel it is more worth while chasing after the woman. Some of us have let women do so much and when it comes time to actually purse them it loses its appeal when she is doing everything. That's just like giving it up the first date. Wow its saying to some of us you a KIM K. Real talk b/c if you gave it to me on the first then you are a great bed tech with other cats and you only good for that. Hell me I rather sleep with you in my head b/c hell all dudes do it but when it comes time to get your breezy on I want to know it was worth it. #IJS

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHOCO
    "As far as a man being generous I mean isn’t that a given if he has any worth – not a pushover but I mean if we going out on a first date the guy could pay for it IMO it’s not like I would expect that on every date now as far as paying my bills Im blessed to be able to do that for myself"
    ________________________________________________________________________________

    :yes:

    That's why I was like it ain't nothin to trip over. Those basically the rules of the game. Just how it go. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    My father (who is a serious male chauvinist) told me that the women's/feminist movement was a GIFT and a CURSE...that it was necessary because women deserved rights in the same areas as men, but that it really hurt the "role" that men and women played for centuries prior to the movement...he truly thinks that this is the reason why there are so many STRONG women and so many BYTCH-MADE men in the world today...

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I don’t need any outside assistance and the feeling is wonderful! I really can’t describe it though

    GOD is good…
    _____________________________
    And this is what fears me most like would I be able to trust someone else to take care of me and my responsibilities I've done it on my own for so long that I know I would have to adjust

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @choco they seem so miserable together on the show... and he is totally fed up with her and she is sooo beyond cold to him.. :shrug: why have another baby tho?

  • Yall still crazy

    :hahaha: @ kourtney thinking that a baby would keep the man SMH

    :gossip:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    That’s why I was like it ain’t nothin to trip over. Those basically the rules of the game. Just how it go.
    ________________________
    Well this is what Im accustomed to....

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    why have another baby tho?
    __________________
    im wondering if this baby thingy is another publicity stunt

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    Men like the thrill of the hunt and everything, but maybe they want to chased once and a while too. Why shouldn’t a woman go after what she wants? Within reason, of course. #NoFatalAttraction
    _____________________________________________________________

    Thats what Im talking about... aint nothing wrong with that.
    An it doesnt say anything bad about the woman if she does that.

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @IGO

    Exactly. I would not be cool asking some dude to pay my bills and we aren't even living together. Cause that leads to him wanting to tell me what I can and can't do in MY sht cause he's "contributing". :nono:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @FE FE
    "My father (who is a serious male chauvinist) told me that the women’s/feminist movement was a GIFT and a CURSE…that it was necessary because women deserved rights in the same areas as men, but that it really hurt the “role” that men and women played for centuries prior to the movement…he truly thinks that this is the reason why there are so many STRONG women and so many BYTCH-MADE men in the world today…"
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    I agree 100%... not only the feminist movement but the "war on povertly" inadvertently "rewarded" families with no male in the household.

    Made a lot of bitches and bitch made men. :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    Yall still crazy says:

    Ace, maybe more guys should ask those questions. I could just imagine the look on some of my friends (really just acquaintances) faces when they figure out what they’re being asked :shrug: and how they’d answer. SMH
    --------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Ask **** on your next lunch date...LMAO....I j/k ..i j/k... :rofl:

    no for real though..i just get a kick out of meeting women and first thing they say is they aint giving up any ...but yet want me to chase them because they "cute" :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    To me that's a given, if you ask me out then you're payin for dinner movies or whatever so I dont consider that bein generous. When I think of generous I think of gifts, shoes, purses, jewlry etc

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @CHOCO SOUNDS LIKE IT IS.... BECAUSE KOURTNEY WHEN SHE TALKS TO SCOTT SEEMS DISCUSTED BY HIM BUT SHE LOOVES DOING NAKID YOGA WITH HER AMIGA.. :think:

  • OutsidetheBox

    @Fe i agree with your father to an extent and I think its 10xs worse in the Black community because of our history. Black feminisim during that time was really interesting.

    :hi: @YSo!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I dont think the womens movent hurt us by any means that like saying being freed from slavery hurt us as well JMO

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHOCO
    "That’s why I was like it ain’t nothin to trip over. Those basically the rules of the game. Just how it go.
    ________________________
    Well this is what Im accustomed to…."
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    You and ever person over the age of 15. The only difference is some women bold enough to just flat out ask for the money while others expect it indirectly.

    It's all good cause either way they know we doin it for the puzzy anyway.
    :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    i just get a kick out of meeting women and first thing they say is they aint giving up any …but yet want me to chase them because they “cute”
    _______________________
    Ace ol buddy any chick that says they ain't giving up any upfront is a ROLLER in some form or fashion and when I say roller means that trick will give it up at anytime

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @OTB

    :yes: and he feels that the feminists (yt) USED black woman for their agenda when the reality of it was that we had much more to fix collectively as a people before just focusing on the WOMEN in our race... :shrugs:

    @Choco

    Ion really know how to feel about it, on one hand I don't think it hurt us, but I can see how people feel that it has...it's kinda like that cause and effect thing, when something CHANGES other things CHANGE with it, even if the initial thing was a "good" change...

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    It’s all good cause either way they know we doin it for the puzzy anyway.
    _____________________________
    Yep and it's still up to us on whether or not you are getting the pussy - If I wanna fuk you we may not even make it to dinner #REAL

  • KDub

    I am ready for somebody to offer to take care of me. Cause I been looking out for hard heads for a long time. Bring your bank roll cause it takes a lot to take care of this. I need hair money, nail money, I need rent, lights, I LOVE to eat...and I drink and I drank expensive sometimes...I shouldn't have to drank rail likka cause you buying! Cause when buying for myself I am buying off the top shelf. Hail...if you with ME and I am paying for us WE dranking off the top shelf. So why I gotta lower what I do for moi...just cause you ain't got it?

    I had a dude ask me once who took me on a date if I was tryna drink expensive cause HE was buying. Dude I drink this ish at my house (It was JUST yak)! I told the waitress I will pay for my own drink and start me a TAB. And picked up all my shat and moved to the other side of the bar. Nukka when you can take care of me as good as I take care of me...holla.

    And lets not forget traveling. Ask my husband what the fugg happens to you when Kdub ready to go to the beach on a Friday afternoon spur of the moment and you ain't gotCHO money right?? "Since you not going nowhere with ME broke...can you take the kids to my sister house so I can get a jump on traffic? THANKS!"

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    OTB!! :cheer:

    SUGAWALLS!! :hugs:

    I don't know what to call you anymore! :wail:

    I feel the same about being generous. Also, I don't have a problem paying if I'm doing the asking and date planning, etc.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @FE
    Yeah but I feel like I'd rather be a female living in today's times than back then I can say how anyone being liberated has hurt them unless they are sloppy in their actions in which case that is an individual problem

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    can't say

  • I Go There

    FeFe says:

    My father (who is a serious male chauvinist) told me that the women’s/feminist movement was a GIFT and a CURSE…that it was necessary because women deserved rights in the same areas as men, but that it really hurt the “role” that men and women played for centuries prior to the movement…he truly thinks that this is the reason why there are so many STRONG women and so many BYTCH-MADE men in the world today…
    _______________________________________________________________________

    There is NOTHING wrong with a strong woman... I like that.
    BUT I think some get the Meaning of the "Strong Woman" thing wrong. To me a strong woman means that she can stand and fight through adversity in spite of all the other things going and make it through. Also It means she knows what she wants and is able to let you know that. She knows the deal AND understands her flaws and tries to limit them. Now alot of women thinks a Strong woman means that you have to be confrontational and loud talking and acting a damn fool... Thats not being strong thats being a Bi**cH... There is a difference.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Choc IMO those things are NOTHING alike.

    Feminisim did contribute to the break up of families. Women can be as vicious and irresponsible as men. But the msg was that all men have the potential to be rapists and abusive.

  • Yall still crazy

    DJM

    I have been very fortunate to have been with dudes that WANTED to provide, and that's just the way that it was :shrug:

    #notjudgingthematall

    and have never been told what I could or couldn't do. I am too strong for that #plusiknowhowtoactanyway

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    And picked up all my shat and moved to the other side of the bar. Nukka when you can take care of me as good as I take care of me…holla.
    _________________________________
    :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    (knows one of the reasons I'm single is it's hard for me to "let the man be the man")

    I'm just so used to having to everything for myself, I don't know how to let go of some of that control. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Choco

    I agree 100%, I'd rather be a woman in modern times for sure...but I can't ignore the other variables that seem to have correlated with the change...

    @IGo

    Of course the word "strong" is relative...I think women have been the stronger sex since the beginning of time when it comes to holding the family together and carrying emotional burdens...but the man has always been the stronger sex when it comes to supporting a household and getting the bread and fighting battles...but nowadays that has changed significantly...

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    @IGO

    Exactly. I would not be cool asking some dude to pay my bills and we aren’t even living together. Cause that leads to him wanting to tell me what I can and can’t do in MY sht cause he’s “contributing”.
    _____________________________________________________

    Thats it right there... Dudes that give out loot like that use it as a control thing.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @OTB
    Im not gonna say feminism contributed to the break up of my homes that was the actions of my significants others and becuz of feminism I didn't have to sit back take their chit and muster and pull through Im happier without the significant others in my life

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :popcorn:

  • 2know the ledge

    Question for the ladies staying on topic with this: If a guy is being "100" with you and just letting you know he isn't looking for nothing but if the sex happens its cool and if it's not it's still cool do you believe him or just say its BS and keep it moving? Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    YSoSerious says:

    (knows one of the reasons I’m single is it’s hard for me to “let the man be the man”)

    I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control. :shrugs:

    _________

    and I think there is a conspiracy behind the fact that SO MANY women think and feel this way in modern times...

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @YALL

    I guess my attitude and my mouth make dudes want to put me in my place and sht. Hasn't worked yet, obviously. :lol:

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    (knows one of the reasons I’m single is it’s hard for me to “let the man be the man”)

    I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control
    _______________________________________________________________

    You not alone its alot of women like that but that. But women have to be that way sometimes because some dudes didnt do thier job.

  • Yall still crazy

    Dudes that give out loot like that use it as a control thing.

    -------------------------------
    :takingupforthosethatdidnttrytocontrol: :lol:

    There are some good guys out there :shrug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    If a guy is being “100? with you and just letting you know he isn’t looking for nothing but if the sex happens its cool and if it’s not it’s still cool do you believe him or just say its BS and keep it moving? Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?
    __________________________
    I would believe him until his actions proved otherwise - a lot of guyz have sex and the cooch is good not wanting a relationship but wants the puss all to himself would you be one those guyz who is really playing with his own emotions

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @2know

    If a guy is only interested in being "friends" with a woman he won't have to tell her that, he will just BE her friend...

    I think that men who say it up front but are also cool with :hump: the woman needs to proceed with caution...those situations always end up being messy...but that can be all good if the woman is looking for just sex as well... :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    OK I just remembered somethin I lied to yall before
    I did let this old dude fill my tank up right after Katrina when gas went up! He gave me his number and I told him it wasnt a gurantee I was gonna call.
    Thought I wasn't gon see his ass no more and bout 2 months later saw his ass at Walmart and he yelled "Hey you, you never called"

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @KNOW

    No. Unless he's gay or otherwise completely not attracted to the woman, I think he's gonna want sex eventually, even if he doesn't know it. But he usually does.

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @KNOWLEDGE
    "Question for the ladies staying on topic with this: If a guy is being “100? with you and just letting you know he isn’t looking for nothing but if the sex happens its cool and if it’s not it’s still cool do you believe him or just say its BS and keep it moving? Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?"
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    I think women view EVERYTHING a nigga say with an eye of skepticism these days.

    BUT if they feelin you, they'd hear you out even if they really think it's just bullchit deep down.

  • Yall still crazy

    Knowledge, I'm confused :smack: Just tell us what you told her :shrug:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    and I think there is a conspiracy behind the fact that SO MANY women think and feel this way in modern times…
    _________________________
    I think it's becuz there are not a lot of men who are established and taking care of their business as much as females....So yeah Im a little paranoid about that especially becuz I rely solely on ME

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    I’m just so used to having to everything for myself, I don’t know how to let go of some of that control
    :cosign: ITS HARD TO LET GO OF THE CONTROL AND LET ANOTHER PERSON DO FOR ME SINCE I BEEN DOING FOR MYSELF FOR SO LONG.. :shrug: THEN SOME MEN THINK BECAUSE THEY HELP A LITTLE THEY GOT THAT OVER UR HEAD SO I RATHER DO ME PAY MY BILLS AND DONT HAVE NOBODY TELL ME NOTHING...

  • KDub

    Or if a guy tells you he rather be friends with you first do you still believe him?
    -----------------------------------------
    How many other folks is he friends with at the current time is MY question.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    and we know this person s keepin it "100" how excatly

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I’m confused Just tell us what you told her
    _________________________
    I read that chit 3 times :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    :wail: at Yall

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    :rofl:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHOCO
    "a lot of guyz have sex and the cooch is good not wanting a relationship but wants the puss all to himself"
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    NO relationships! ... but be like this :mad: if you give the puzzy to another nicca!
    :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    i almost peed

  • Yall still crazy

    Choco and Brown :shrug:

    I wanna help :grill:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    :( well thank God we can put all those fraudulent rumors to rest..RIP Heavy, gone but never forgotten...

    Now WTH yall Tambout??? :popcorn:

    *wonders if LUSCIOUS is still not speaking to me* :think:

    YSo KDub YALL OTB IGo Choco :waves:

  • vero

    :bye: Fam !

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    I won't lie...I had to read it TWICE! :hahaha:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Man
    Exactly this is why I say he is playing with his own emotions cuz he is the one who will end up trippn off this friend chit

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    True Story(For the Fellas):

    Few Months ago i was giving my cousins friend girl a ride home(she 26).

    rewind 8 years

    Shes 18 i'm 20 she was a BAD *********** piece of work LSLH body out this world....i lusted for her something bad...but she would just tease me play with my head while letting the Hustlers and Wanna be gangstas Fuck the dog sh!t out of her...

    fast forward to present

    She lost her shape and dropped a kid or two...any on the way to drop her off(in my benz) she said

    "When are we gonna go out? I'm ready to settle down i done had all my fun...and i'm looking for something real..."

    My head translated that to "OHH i'm in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now....!"

    This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late?

  • KDub

    THEN SOME MEN THINK BECAUSE THEY HELP A LITTLE THEY GOT THAT OVER UR HEAD SO I RATHER DO ME PAY MY BILLS AND DONT HAVE NOBODY TELL ME NOTHING…
    ------------------------------------------------------
    And just cause you paid $35 on a wata bill do NOT mean your azz coming over to 1033 and take a 20 minute shower. Your azz gonna get a knock on the door after 15...just like them kids do!

    Or think cause you gave me $40 on some groceries YOUR azz is taking the leftovers to work for lunch!

    Yep. That's okay...I will pay alllll my own ish!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :hugs: @vero

  • OutsidetheBox

    Choc not you personally, women as a whole.

    The central msg of fem. was that women needed some type of liberation...that marriage was like a concentration camp or slavery for women.. thats why folks say it "contributed to the demise of the family unit."

    If you'll recall the fems. had a bunch of pseudo science saying that divorce would be "easy to overcome" for the children involved. We know now that is FAR from true.

    Divorce was suppossed to be an easy way out. Thats how no fault divorces came about. Now its easy to get up and walk away. JMO.

  • I Go There

    Thats why I will tell a woman that I date other women... I just find that women will be cool with that just to get in the door then switch it up.

  • 2know the ledge

    YALLC no confusion boo, its just a random question b/c some females feel that a dude is BS when he tells you most of them time he is cool if it does or doesn't happen. Most females YSO put it think dude is gay if he not looking to get into the woman panties. Hell sex is cool no doubt but real talk a dude can smash any chick he wants. If a dude is interested in a woman all the time he isn't in it to smash. Some of us do want to know the female. SEX doesn't be the driving force all the time. Its just some think what some of say IS BS and like Choco put it actions speak louder than anything.

    #JS

  • Yall still crazy

    Fay :waves: <---Diddly Dee banner

    :dead: Brown

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    Fay
    I guess I'm speakin to you cuz I feel like bein nice

  • Beautifuleve17

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
    ITS HARD TO LET GO OF THE CONTROL AND LET ANOTHER PERSON DO FOR ME SINCE I BEEN DOING FOR MYSELF FOR SO LONG.. THEN SOME MEN THINK BECAUSE THEY HELP A LITTLE THEY GOT THAT OVER UR HEAD SO I RATHER DO ME PAY MY BILLS AND DONT HAVE NOBODY TELL ME NOTHING…
    ````````

    :cosign:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Fayla, VERO :waves:

    @ Yall :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Ace

    I know you were posting to the guys but your #261 is OH SO COMMON!

    #basicbytches

  • pointhimout

    @ I GO,

    I too am all for dating multiple people, no commitment to anyone. Just have fun and date openly.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    so you sayin she wanted to give it to you because you were in a benz????

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    FAYLA!! :hugs:

    VERO!! :hugs: x 3012

    @ACE

    I hope you put that ho out yo car and hosed down the seats for good measure. I don't like broads like that. :mad:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @KDUB :rofl: THEY GIVE A FUKN DOLLA WANT TO USE A STACK BISH BOO BYE... MY EX WAS LIKE THAT FILLD UP MY TANK GOING TO CALL ME FOR RIDES ALL FUKN WEEK CUZ UR SHIT DONT WORK... UMMM NO :steer:

  • vero

    :hug: para todos :happy: !! Yso :kiss: where you been??????

  • 2know the ledge

    A yo, ACE i had that happen to me awhile back had this breezy from the old hood get at me after she saw or heard about my come up and she was the chick in the hood every dude wanted and drop a few seeds and came to give a shout after I was straight and found out I had only one seed and on my come up. I just looked at her like oh really keep it moving girly.

    GFTOHWTBS!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    “When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”

    My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”

    This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late?
    _____________________
    Yall be finding chickenheads I wish what a man was driving would make me want him MORE it doesn't if anything it may even deter me cuz Im thinking this nigg think he got it like that :nono:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    @KDub, would u be so kind as to a recap? :grill:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @ACE
    "True Story(For the Fellas):

    Few Months ago i was giving my cousins friend girl a ride home(she 26).

    rewind 8 years

    Shes 18 i’m 20 she was a BAD *********** piece of work LSLH body out this world….i lusted for her something bad…but she would just tease me play with my head while letting the Hustlers and Wanna be gangstas **** the dog sh!t out of her…

    fast forward to present

    She lost her shape and dropped a kid or two…any on the way to drop her off(in my benz) she said

    “When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”

    My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”

    This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late?"
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    YEAH THIS HAPPENED TO ME! Hoe use to clown the chit out of me an er'thang too. Bout 5 years later talkin bout she "always thought I was sorta cute and funny" and chit! :lol:

    After she had 3 kids in two years claiming 4 different daddies.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    laker I thought you and your boo lived together or was that the ex

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @KDUB

    Exactly. :yes:

  • Eazy Does It

    Hey Er'body :waves:

  • Beautifuleve17

    why is my comment awaiting moderation?

  • Eazy Does It

    Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

    @KDub, would u be so kind as to a recap?
    ________________________
    :yes:

  • KDub

    But on the flip side of the bill paying I MUST say I am an ubber bish and will throw it up in your face when the time arises. Who done seen Kevin Hart when he said his dad was spiteful and do ish like take back all the ish he purchased like the steak and the Xmas tree lights? Well that is Kdub. Your azz in there watching tv and I am mad...oh the DirectTV box going in my car trunk hoss. You put in on this? Watch THAT bish.

    I have also taken all the groceries out the house cause male was short or non existent the past two shopping trips. I will take all the groceries to my momma house and stop over there on my way home every day, cook, and bring 3 plates home. Which is ONE short if YOU plan on eating tonight. Or just say fugg the groceries and take me and the kids to eat and come back and eat Taco Bell in your face and not brang you ISH.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :waves: @Eazy

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @ACE LIKE THE BISH ON CEE-LO FUK U VIDEO... WELL TELL HER FUK UUUUUUUUU!! AND USE PLEANTY OF CLOROX AND FABULOSO TO DISINFECT THAT SEAT :grin:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    After she had 3 kids in two years claiming 4 different daddies.
    _____________________________
    SMH

  • I Go There

    Ace says:

    True Story(For the Fellas):

    Few Months ago i was giving my cousins friend girl a ride home(she 26).

    rewind 8 years

    Shes 18 i’m 20 she was a BAD *********** piece of work LSLH body out this world….i lusted for her something bad…but she would just tease me play with my head while letting the Hustlers and Wanna be gangstas **** the dog sh!t out of her…

    fast forward to present

    She lost her shape and dropped a kid or two…any on the way to drop her off(in my benz) she said

    “When are we gonna go out? I’m ready to settle down i done had all my fun…and i’m looking for something real…”

    My head translated that to “OHH i’m in a Benz! my pu$$y worn out now but i remember you use to want this..and i need to grab you now….!”

    This ever happen to any of you guys with a chick from the past trying to give you the time of day years too late
    __________________________________________________________________

    DAWG thats the story of my LIFE..... I gave this chic roses in the 8th grade. I had the biggest crush on her I seen her a few times during my high school years but she never gave me the play.... but would mess with the Thugs something hard. SO I finally get a chance to get with her my Senior year... but she was messing with some other dudes so I aint trip... she gets pregnant by one of the dudes and I was still cool with trying to be with her so when she had the kid I went over to check her out. She was there with her Homegirls and was just straight rude... I dusted it off... NOW soon as I got on FB she was one of the first chics talking about how she wanted to see me and get my number.... the broad has had 4 other kids since... She still trying to holla .

  • OutsidetheBox

    Thats why I will tell a woman that I date other women… I just find that women will be cool with that just to get in the door then switch it up.

    Ha. I make it a point to tell ppl Im just dating. BUT they dont let you just date no more.

    The problem is the urban community dont know what "dating" is. My white friends go on a date, chit dont work out, they :shrug: and keep it moving. If it does, good, they still aint trying to lock you down.

    Let me try to date openly around here. IM A HOE. Plain and simple. I dont care or let this bother me myself. But i often wonder what folks are thinking and what kind of judgment is being passed. Yeah.

    I have more male friends than female and chit has gotten back to me abou t"being" with so and so. Chit is hardly ever true but what do you do. Rhetorical LOL

  • KDub

    RECAP :yahoo:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    EAZY!! :waves:

  • Yall still crazy

    Gotcha @ Knowledge
    ----------------------------------------------------------

    Too bad, we didn't have this wonderful thought process twenty yrs ago :lol: IJS

  • Eazy Does It

    HEYYYY Fe Fe :waves:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I had my friend from way back in Jr High School donate to my Cable bill I told him he could write it off :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    After she had 3 kids in two years claiming 4 different daddies

    I had to pull out my math skills for this chit. :lol:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    :kiss: @LUSCIOUS

    FeFe..guhl..y i thought all this time yo gravi was bey?? :rofl:

    Vero!! :hug:

    @YALL "Diddly Dee banner" :rofl:

    &WTH HIS comin back dammit. it's done been too damn long since i seen her font on SR :mad:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @OTB

    We really were separated at birf. :yes: :hugs:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :waves: Eazy

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @lolita that was the ex he was esstra special with dinero bish had to dismiss him quick... he member a fukn quarter if he gave it to me :rofl:
    @kdub :rofl: i took my cable box and my microwave :rofl: mo'fuka couldnt eat or watch t.v take that bish!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Which is ONE short if YOU plan on eating tonight.

    Well damn. :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    OTB
    it happens, my cousin had 2 daddies and both of them died within months and when my mama went to the 2nd funeral I asked who it was and she said "that's so and sos dadyy" I was like didnt he die a few months ago and she said well............

  • Eazy Does It

    :waves: Yso, Kdud, Ace, Candi(is she in here), Tatted, Man, Alboy, Yall, OTB and everyone else im not too familiar with

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    RECAP! :cheer1:

    Yes, I know I been here the whole time. So what. :popcorn:

  • I Go There

    pointhimout says:

    @ I GO,

    I too am all for dating multiple people, no commitment to anyone. Just have fun and date openly.
    _____________________________________

    Yeah that way Im upfront women know whats up off top... and If I find a woman in that mix that I want to be with and cant live without then Ill go that way.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Actually Knowledge my friend said the same thing to me when we initially started talking - like we don't have to have sex all the time I just like spending time with you okay kool cuz the way I intepreted that chit was your sex drive is too much for me and I can't keep up but won't let go :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Fayla

    :cuss:

    Looka heeea! *OTB close your eyes and ears*

    That fierce bish in my gravie ain't no dayum Be :yawn: ce....she's stuntin' on all these "new age" hoes! ...get that chit right next time and pay attention! :mad:

  • Eazy Does It

    Choco how could I forget you :waves:
    we need a (muah) emoji

  • OutsidetheBox

    :yes: @YSo. :hug::

  • KDub

    RECAP
    ------------------------
    This is an old azz post Sandra came out of the vacation woodworks and recycled. IDK what happened other than most of us thought there was a banned person back but it was a false alarm. Thought we was gonna have to put out the mouse traps cause there was a gerbil/hamster on the loose.

    ANYHOW Ace posed a question about bishes need to pick they puss-cee up off his table and what is it worth or some shat.

    So the topic basically turned to "What have you done for me LATELY EDDDDDIE???" (From "Raw") and Fugg Nukkas/Get money stories.

    Most of the ladies up here though is like fugg re-evaluating my worf...and fugg yew too nuka.

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHOCO
    "I had my friend from way back in Jr High School donate to my Cable bill I told him he could write it off "
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    @Eazy

    Hey!...whose that in your gravi?

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Choco how could I forget you
    we need a (muah) emoji
    _______________________
    Why did I see your roll call and wanted to either :crying: or :argue: :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    *notices that Easy didnt speak to me*

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :dead: @KDub's recap... :wail:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    (chokes on :popcorn: )

    I hate that I love KDub. Truly, I do. :hahaha:

  • Eazy Does It

    She is I @Ace

  • OutsidetheBox

    Fe we know thats Naomi. Lets just hope she keep that phone where its at, mkay. :rolleyes:

    :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Man
    That nicca was like how much of a donation :lol: I sent him the link to my account and said use your card as one time only :rofl:

  • I Go There

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Thats why I will tell a woman that I date other women… I just find that women will be cool with that just to get in the door then switch it up.

    Ha. I make it a point to tell ppl Im just dating. BUT they dont let you just date no more.

    The problem is the urban community dont know what “dating” is. My white friends go on a date, chit dont work out, they and keep it moving. If it does, good, they still aint trying to lock you down.

    Let me try to date openly around here. IM A HOE. Plain and simple. I dont care or let this bother me myself. But i often wonder what folks are thinking and what kind of judgment is being passed. Yeah.

    I have more male friends than female and chit has gotten back to me abou t”being” with so and so. Chit is hardly ever true but what do you do. Rhetorical LOL
    ______________________________________________________________

    Thats where I learned it from... I was with some of my white homies and I saw how they did and girls were cool and they were too... I just took it up and went with it. Ive been told Im a player and all of that... But I rather tell a woman I wanna date her an thats it than push up on her with something that I may not be down with.

  • Eazy Does It

    A hampster on the loose :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    Fe I thought that was beyaki too

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    Eazy :waves:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @OTB

    :yes: she needs to be kept away from all phones and communication devices...but look up that house her fine azz billionaire boyfriend bought for her...bish got her own island and a house shaped like the eye of horus...

    #bossbytch

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    How many of yall got that "muthaflucka that got away" or "that muthaflucka that messed over you" and you would STILL :hump: they brains out that one time?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    @Eazy..

    She is...you...well then...Have you met MzDimplez? i think you two would be great friends....

    :biggrin:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :pc:

    Goes to change gravie so I can appease the Bey stans...

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @EAZY PURRTY PIC :yes: IS THAT U??

  • Eazy Does It

    Brown!! Hey girl..slight over look :heart: Hey hunny bunny

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    As long as a guy is upfront about not wanting to be "exclusive" we are cooler than cool. I just hate liars and sneaks. :shank:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
    ______________________
    Now that Im wiser I wouldn't I did that with a younger X and eventually you just can't :hump: anymore

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    KDub says:

    RECAP
    ————————
    This is an old azz post Sandra came out of the vacation woodworks and recycled. IDK what happened other than most of us thought there was a banned person back but it was a false alarm. Thought we was gonna have to put out the mouse traps cause there was a gerbil/hamster on the loose.

    ANYHOW Ace posed a question about bishes need to pick they puss-cee up off his table and what is it worth or some shat.

    So the topic basically turned to “What have you done for me LATELY EDDDDDIE???” (From “Raw”) and Fugg Nukkas/Get money stories.

    Most of the ladies up here though is like fugg re-evaluating my worf…and fugg yew too nuka.
    ______________________
    :dead: :rofl: TY guhl! you ILL kind!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    *chops off FEFE's finger* NOOOOOOOOOOO!

    Well hello there Easy I was bout to get emo and shyt!
    Yall know I'm sensitive

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    Sht...I been thinking that was Bey the whole time. Oops. :shrugs:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Yesss IGo these folks here used to have me dumbfounded...like, wait, how you working with her after yall been on 3 dates and now you seeing the other girl in marketing too? And yall all cool? Oh ok....

    EVERYTIME I "try" a "Black" fella like that, he be like :huh: "Nahhh I only wanna see you. And I only want you to see me..." I politely close the door on anybody who says that. Hence me needing to date outta my comfort zone.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @FEFE THAT AINT BEY? :shrug:
    @ACE :rofl:

  • KDub

    took my cable box and my microwave mo’fuka couldnt eat or watch t.v take that bish!!

    --------------------------------------------------
    Once in a not so proud moment in my life...I was in a relationship and it had been over for a minute. Dude refused to raise up outta my shat though. And in NC if somebody get MAIL to your shat and been there longer than 30 days you gotta get them legally evicted. Paperwork etc. I paid my entire light bill balance off...had Progress Energy cut them bishes off and flew to 'Bama for a week with my daughter to visit my grandmother. Needless to say when I got back that dude AND all his shat was gone. Like Mr. Chow in "The Hangover"...you wanna fukk on ME? I can be real nice. Real good to you. But if you fugg over me...

  • http://bigghostnahmean.blogspot.com/2011/11/big-ghost-presents-take-care-review.html SamYell JacksEm

    :think: I don't think I've ever had someone blow me off and "come around" years later. :shrug:

  • Eazy Does It

    !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

    @EAZY PURRTY PIC IS THAT U??
    ______
    :yes: thank you dear

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL :hump: they brains out that one time?

    __________

    :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    *pulls lakers aside*

    Look ..i need you to set Diabla down some where...we don't want to be running the pretty girl off....now go find Dimpz we need to make introductions....

    :biggrin:

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    As long as a guy is upfront about not wanting to be “exclusive” we are cooler than cool. I just hate liars and sneaks.
    ____________________________________________________

    I was suprised when I found women that were cool with it...Cause every now and then you get one or two that think they are different and want to change up you situation.... Its like the dude that meets the stripper in the strip club and then gets mad at her for still strippin.

  • Eazy Does It

    Yes Ive met MzDimpz...why do you ask @Ace

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    <-----NAOMI CAMPBELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    :dead: @Fe, *whispers* now u and me BOF know bey aint got SHAT on naomi (who uses her real age :rofl:) j/k thought i'd get a small rile outta the bey stans (ILY OTB :heart: & dontchu 4get it neeva!)
    Fe i just didn't look at the pic closely enough boo. now love me right :hug:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @OTB

    But then be tryna fck another btch behind your back. HMPH!

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @ACE **REMOVES DIABLA AND WRITES UP A E-SISTER WIFE APPLICATION** I GOT U SHE A LOOKER!! :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    KDUB
    had anukka stya with me once and baby THAT WAS THAT SORRY ASS CRY BABY ASS PISCES!
    Well anyway he went o work, I took off and 30 min after he left the locksmith was at the house and his friend across the stree called him at work and was like "Why yo girl changin the locks"
    by then i already had his shyt loaded up to take to his mama house

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @OTB
    "Yesss IGo these folks here used to have me dumbfounded…like, wait, how you working with her after yall been on 3 dates and now you seeing the other girl in marketing too? And yall all cool? Oh ok….

    EVERYTIME I “try” a “Black” fella like that, he be like “Nahhh I only wanna see you. And I only want you to see me…” I politely close the door on anybody who says that. Hence me needing to date outta my comfort zone."
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    Well, either way a nigga goin be jealous and possessive of the puzz. That's the way it goes. Nigga can either:

    a. tell you up front he tryin to own the puzz
    b. go to your job and do the murder suicide thing (alabaster inclined)

  • OutsidetheBox

    I just hate liars and sneaks.

    For real sis. There is little I hate more than a person trying my intelligence. My last exclusive, I caught this fool cheating after he begged to be one on one....didnt tell him right away BUT i did try the I think we should date other ppl line...of course, "he only wanted to see me."

    Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating. :lol: To this day, he be calling me a cheating, lying bish to mutual friends.

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @FEFE

    It's alright boo. We don't really care either way. :grin: :hahaha:

  • KDub

    How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
    -----------------------------------------
    I have two. One has been around since 1995. The other has been around since 2001.

  • Eazy Does It

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time
    _______________________
    I could hold up my hand to this one...as in count the fingers :hahaha:

  • I Go There

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Yesss IGo these folks here used to have me dumbfounded…like, wait, how you working with her after yall been on 3 dates and now you seeing the other girl in marketing too? And yall all cool? Oh ok….

    EVERYTIME I “try” a “Black” fella like that, he be like “Nahhh I only wanna see you. And I only want you to see me…” I politely close the door on anybody who says that. Hence me needing to date outta my comfort zone.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Yeah I had to do it when I was dating non black women first... once I was able to talk to a few black women about just dating some were on board. But its a trip just finding chics that are REALLY cool with it.

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    :shank: @IGo. i c how u do #hhmph

    Lakes :waves:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating.
    __________________
    When I have to do you this way please NOTE you are NOT CARED FOR!

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :dead: @ BROWN <---Just gonna go back to the OG name at this point.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    Easy
    have you been added to my email list??????
    I do think so

  • I Go There

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    Well, either way a nigga goin be jealous and possessive of the puzz. That’s the way it goes. Nigga can either:

    a. tell you up front he tryin to own the puzz
    b. go to your job and do the murder suicide thing (alabaster inclined)
    ______________________________________________________

    nah I just want to borrow it for a lil bit... then Im gonna give it right back to you... and you can go on about your business.

    :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @YSo

    Thanks for your honesty... :lol:

    @Fayla

    I gotchu bew...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    MY RIB

    I know I need to let that shyt go but that niccah still owe me a couple hunned

  • OutsidetheBox

    small rile outta the bey stans

    *chuckles* Samll is an understatement, Fay.

    Everytime someone bombs with that, I wonder if they ever think about it truly...if Bey is lying, all the girls of DC are lying and pretty much everyone who says they grew up w Beyonce in Houston is lying. :coffee:

    Oh and all the home vids...are lying... *snickers*

    But I get it girl, Beyonce is great after all. She can turn water to wine. :lol:

  • Eazy Does It

    Nope..im on no email list

  • 2know the ledge

    How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?

    _________________________________________________

    When I was younger I did that out of spite do. That was one of my best smash session. Angry and revenge sex is the best.

  • I Go There

    Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

    @IGo. i c how u do #hhmph
    __________________________________________

    Hey Fayla

    my bad.... I need to learn how to speak more.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @FAY :hug: HEY LADY!!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Well, either way a nigga goin be jealous and possessive of the puzz.
    ________________________
    This bit of advice you dished a year or so ago has helped me soooo much in understanding the possession versus the emotion becuz unfortunately or not for depending on the circumstance it's always trying to put the pussy on lockdown

  • Yall still crazy

    :waves: EZ
    :dead: @the recap

  • KDub

    :dead: @Brown. I had already tried changing locks but he called po po and I was forced to let him back in. YES.

    While I was IN Alabama that week I called my momma and was like ride to my house and see if his azz still there. I was like I am going to pay to have these tickets changed if he still there. My boss at the time was like take as much time as you need off. Moms went to the house and said that nukka been gone since Tuesday. Cause it was Friday and the papers was out on the stoop since Tuesday. That mean that nukka got home Monday seen I had the lights axed and left THE NEXT DAY.

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @IGO

    A lot of women aren't encouraged to think like that. Especially black women.

    We're told that good, hetero black men are on the verge of extinction so when we find one we have to hold on to him for dear life or end up dying alone. :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    Oh really knowledge
    tell us about this smash session and what made it so good :popcorn:

  • OutsidetheBox

    When I have to do you this way please NOTE you are NOT CARED FOR!

    And I promise I tried to rationalize with this man. I would even tell his mama I was out...thinking she would be like, "Boy fukk that bish, move on..."

    Nah. She on the back end telling him "dont let that girl get away". :lol:

  • I Go There

    OutsidetheBox says:

    I just hate liars and sneaks.

    For real sis. There is little I hate more than a person trying my intelligence. My last exclusive, I caught this fool cheating after he begged to be one on one….didnt tell him right away BUT i did try the I think we should date other ppl line…of course, “he only wanted to see me.”

    Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating. To this day, he be calling me a cheating, lying bish to mutual friends
    _____________________________________________

    :hahaha:

    Damn that was messed up.

  • http://bigghostnahmean.blogspot.com/2011/11/big-ghost-presents-take-care-review.html SamYell JacksEm

    How many of yall got that “muthaflucka that got away” or “that muthaflucka that messed over you” and you would STILL they brains out that one time?
    ___________________________________________
    I have 2. One I was too young to be thinking about sitting down and the other was my neighbor's girl. I was too into her mom (I think she liked me too) and didn't have the sense to at least try to hide it.

    I do have this one chick that I want to :hump: only because my performance was horrible. I don't have any attraction to her at all, it's just the episode I had with her sticks in my mind. I think it may have been a blessing though.

  • OutsidetheBox

    :lol: @YSo. Your sarcasm gives me at least 10 extra breaths in life. :lol:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :rofl: @KDUBANDLOLITA!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    YSoSerious says:

    @IGO

    A lot of women aren’t encouraged to think like that. Especially black women.

    We’re told that good, hetero black men are on the verge of extinction so when we find one we have to hold on to him for dear life or end up dying alone. :rolleyes:

    _________

    This is SOOOOOO true...and I really regret letting that ideology control me for so many years!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Nah. She on the back end telling him “dont let that girl get away”.
    _________________________________
    I had that done to me and realized thats cuz they didn't want to deal with his negligent azz - :rolleyes:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @OTB
    "Eventually I got tired of playing with that fool and let him catch me cheating."
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    When you ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO GET RID OF SOMEONE! ^^^

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    @IGO

    A lot of women aren’t encouraged to think like that. Especially black women.

    We’re told that good, hetero black men are on the verge of extinction so when we find one we have to hold on to him for dear life or end up dying alone.
    ______________________________________________________

    Oh that its... :lol:

    I forgot that we're the new whooping crane...

  • OutsidetheBox

    :lol: @IGo. I know BUT in my defense i tried to reason with that fool.

    One of them types who like to switch cars with ya, and go out with ya. :rolleyes: Just be straight flauging! i dont like that chit. A big part of making it for me is the level of respect we have for each other. Dont have me in the streets looking a fool. Chit irks me.

    I put a recorder in my car. And I dont think im too ashamed. I told that fool to leave me alone though. The chit I heard couldve ruined not just his relationship but at least 3 others. Dude was dumb.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    My mother hasn't ever had a conversation with me about a shortage of men - black men , men period it just came to us naturally and it's a trip cuz all of us are unmarried but not becuz she didn't tell us how to get or keep a husband we were just born in different times and none of us are really trippn about marriage thats what baffles me at times like now Im wanting to be married but that's still a few years off

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Man

    Well depending on the person sometimes THAT ain't even enough to get rid of that muhfuggah!

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    WELL IM OUTIE FOLKS HAVE A GRRRREAT DAY :waves:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I put a recorder in my car. And I dont think im too ashamed. I told that fool to leave me alone though. The chit I heard couldve ruined not just his relationship but at least 3 others. Dude was dumb.
    __________________________
    And his own momma knew this :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    cuz they didn’t want to deal with his negligent azz

    :hahaha: OMGeee this is exactly what my mama says about them :rofl: "They want you to take his bish ass offa they hands!"

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    OTB
    why not just end it instead of goin thru all of that

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :bye: @Lakes

    I'm out too y'all...take care and have a good and peaceful evening!

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @OTB

    What can I say? I'm a giver. :wink:

    I'll make sure not to stay a way too long now that I know I'm helping you to breathe and sht. :yes:

  • Eazy Does It

    Im so lost in this thread :wail:

  • I Go There

    OutsidetheBox says:

    @IGo. I know BUT in my defense i tried to reason with that fool.

    One of them types who like to switch cars with ya, and go out with ya. Just be straight flauging! i dont like that chit. A big part of making it for me is the level of respect we have for each other. Dont have me in the streets looking a fool. Chit irks me.
    _________________________________________________________________________

    When I stayed in Florida I had a homie that would use my car to do his dirt.... that dude was messing with at least 3 other chics. His wife thought I was the biggest Ho ever cause she would be looking for him and see my car... A few years after they divorced she finally apologized to me for acting like she did. LOL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    :waves: Lakes and Fe

    @OTB
    And she was right.... had his aunt all in our relationship I had to tell her Im a grown azz woman the questions you asking me about to get you insulted CLICK and then curse his stupid azz out MOTHUFUKA don't be having your aunt call me to defend your dumbazz actions WRONG MOVE

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @SAM
    "I do have this one chick that I want to only because my performance was horrible. I don’t have any attraction to her at all, it’s just the episode I had with her sticks in my mind. I think it may have been a blessing though."
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    I got one of those of too!

    She caught a nigga when they stamina "wasn't the best."

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    so JHud, Mariah, AND Janet have weight-loss endorsements...now does this mean Black Girls Rock :cheer: or we just fat :shrug:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Yep, Choc. She contributed greatly to me knowing that I was outty five thousand with her "excuses". :lol:

    He would complain to her, and in turn she would tell me stories about her husband saying "...you have to remember, I didnt raise him, I just married him..." :think:

    Eventually i got tired of that bish and txtd her back one time, "Well you DID raise this sack of chit, so what do you have to say for yourself.." I was livid. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    I got 10 minutes left :yahoo:

  • Yall still crazy

    <---messed around and messed with her 1st.

    It was not at all as I remembered :coffee: #willneverdothatagain

    #isthiswhatiwashurtingfromyrsago :wtf:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :cya: LAKER & FEFE

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Eventually i got tired of that bish and txtd her back one time, “Well you DID raise this sack of chit, so what do you have to say for yourself..” I was livid.
    _____________________
    Girl his family brought the worse and ugly outta of me - first I don't do all that we family chit cuz I date you we become family in due time so having your folks phone me is gonna get your head MOLLY WHOPPPED the nerve his aunt callin on behalf of her dumbazz nephew! I was like Yall REALLY DON"T KNOW ME! And proceeded with the profanity YEP LOUD GHETTO AND A BISH! When come fuggin with me

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @IGO

    You a good one for letting dude use your car for that. I would have been afraid of one of them chicks going Jazmine Sullivan on my sht. :no:

  • OutsidetheBox

    @Brown. Please trust me I tried. You know I aint one for sticking around. I have great intuition BUT I thought maybe I was doing something wrong and that I should approach my relationships from a different view. This resulting in him getting a lot of "forgiveness".

    Well, im back to my methods. Dont nobody know whats best for me, but me.

    Leaving that fool was one of the hardest things I ever did. I would belittle, talk down, everything. The cheating was the ONLY thing that did it.

    I thought I told/asked yall about that! He even had trouble getting it up at one point. I HAD NEVER HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME. I was personally offended. he blamed it on me too. Saying me being on him was the problem. :lol:

  • KDub

    I put a recorder in my car. And I dont think im too ashamed. I told that fool to leave me alone though. The chit I heard couldve ruined not just his relationship but at least 3 others. Dude was dumb.
    ---------------------------------------------------------

    I put my CELL phone in my car and said "baby drive my car tonight"....and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat. So when I walked up in the club (when he was suppose to be at his homie house) swinging on his azz I am still not quite sure why he looked so fugging SURPRISED. The young lady he was with did not look NEARLY as surprised as he did....I ain't NEVA told you to drive my shat EVER...so you didn't think it was a set up? Dummy.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    *waits for Eazy to give me her damn email*

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Saying me being on him was the problem
    _________________________
    Bullchit that mofo used his rod until the fuggin thing went slinky :vomit:

  • Eazy Does It

    eazye 2250 @ yah

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat. So when I walked up in the club (when he was suppose to be at his homie house) swinging on his azz I am still not quite sure why he looked so fugging SURPRISED. The young lady he was with did not look NEARLY as surprised as he did….I ain’t NEVA told you to drive my shat EVER…so you didn’t think it was a set up? Dummy.
    _____________________
    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    KDUb
    I had a rental car and I was a dummy and let dude borrow it, well that niccah felt the need to turn his phone off so I called the police and told them I fell alseep and he took the keys

  • Yall still crazy

    put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat.

    :casket:

  • Yall still crazy

    :dead: @Brown's man being a carjacker(and him not even knowing it) :rofl:

  • Eazy Does It

    These stories > :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    *hates that i love kdub*

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    @IGO

    You a good one for letting dude use your car for that. I would have been afraid of one of them chicks going Jazmine Sullivan on my sht
    ___________________________________________________________
    i was in my 20s
    I was trying to be a good homie and shyt...but dude was just wrong in everyway. He would get caught an say he was with me. I remember he had a cookout at his house and his wife asked me something about going to the beach... I didnt know what she was talking about... he got caught up that day. LOL

  • OutsidetheBox

    :hahaha: Fukking idiots! Ugh!

    Not a lick of sense! I got the idea from another chick...well, actually from another chick's man that I was seeing..he didnt tell me about her, but I dint hear from him for a while and I guess that fool mustve forgot he didnt tell me about his lady cause during a catch up convo he mentioned that she put a recorder in his car and heard him talking to me... :lol:

    I was like aint this bout a bish...but I kept the tip close. :lol:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    I put my CELL phone in my car and said “baby drive my car tonight”….and went right in the house and logged into Sprint and tracked MY OWN shat. So when I walked up in the club (when he was suppose to be at his homie house) swinging on his azz I am still not quite sure why he looked so fugging SURPRISED. The young lady he was with did not look NEARLY as surprised as he did….I ain’t NEVA told you to drive my shat EVER…so you didn’t think it was a set up? Dummy.
    _____________
    :dead: :ghost:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Has anyone in here had sex with an Asian Man Im so curious but scared to do it myself like the size the smell the size the body

  • OutsidetheBox

    Bullchit that mofo used his rod until the fuggin thing went slinky

    :BINGO!: :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    YALL
    I was in a lortab induced sleep when the popos came knockin on my door
    but that niccah was tryna be slick and go see the side piece in my shyt!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Sprint was the first company to let you see EVERYTHING on line.

    I used to love that Sprint account. :lol:

  • Yall still crazy

    A couple of weeks ago I caught an episode of Cheaters (it was aiight, nobody fought), and on there they advertise products, to catch somebody up. SMH

  • Eazy Does It

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    Has anyone in here had sex with an Asian Man Im so curious but scared to do it myself like the size the smell the size the body
    ------------------
    no but i wanna try a indian one

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    I guess I neva been in love like y'all been in love. Lenny Williams. :lol:

    @IGO

    And that's why even though women cheat at least as much as men, we get caught a hell of a lot less. A chick would have called her girl ahead of time and had all that sht worked out and her man would have been none the wiser.

  • OutsidetheBox

    :lol: Yeah there is a whole market for that type of stuff, but I can save folks the money.

    If you think so, youre prolly right. Or youre doing dirt yourself. 99% of the time thats the cases.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    FUGGGGG THat Im relying on my intution If I plant a trapping device and you are caught I can't be responsible for my actions but if I think you are cheating and I leave you just be glad it was a peaceful departure :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    I feel ya! He gets no sympathy from me Brown :lol:

    These cats ain't the wisest yo :coffee:

    Years ago, all we had was the speedometer checking :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    DUECES FOLKS!

  • I Go There

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sprint was the first company to let you see EVERYTHING on line.

    I used to love that Sprint account.
    _______________________________________________________

    LOL.... damn cell phones.

    I got a phone call one time and this dude was asking me if i knew his girl cause my nummber was all over his phone bill... I tripped. Too bad I had to drop ole girl she had some come back...LOL

  • Eazy Does It

    My Indian friend is soo cute, long black hair and all. Im just to scared to ruin the attraction after we decide to go live

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    If you think so, youre prolly right. Or youre doing dirt yourself. 99% of the time thats the cases.
    _____________________
    >>>>>>>we are here <<<<<<<<<<<<

  • Eazy Does It

    :cya: Lucious

  • Yall still crazy

    :lol: @ Leny Wms
    Oh
    Oh
    Oh
    Oh
    Oh
    Ohhhhhhhh

  • OutsidetheBox

    My BD told me over the holidays his girl hit him with a keylogger on the computer. :lol:

    Technology is not a dumb nicca's friend. :lol:

  • Yall still crazy

    :nightnight: Brown

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @CHOCO

    I'm with you. I'm not finna go Super Secret Squirrel when I can just get ghost on your ass. Your cheating has already proved you ain't worth that kind of time or energy in my eyes. :shrugs:

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    I guess I neva been in love like y’all been in love. Lenny Williams.

    @IGO

    And that’s why even though women cheat at least as much as men, we get caught a hell of a lot less. A chick would have called her girl ahead of time and had all that sht worked out and her man would have been none the wiser.
    ____________________________________________________

    While chics do cheat better they get caught up in they own shait with I find to be very problematic.

  • Yall still crazy

    Choco, I've never been with one, but something tells me that they get all kinds of freaky :rofl: Imagine them commanding positions and ish, with the accent :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :cya: @ BROWN

  • OutsidetheBox

    I can’t be responsible for my actions

    :lol: At first I was thinking I would fukk him up. You know I aint bigger than violence. I am from the hood afta all.

    But turns out I just laughed and laughed. I felt bad for that fool. Mostly cause he was soooo stupid. And cause it was sad that he really just couldnt man up.

    I woulda had so much more respect if he would just kept it 100.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Your cheating has already proved you ain’t worth that kind of time or energy in my eyes.
    _________________
    Exactly and imagine my fury when I did all that cloak and dagger chit to only confirm what I already knew so now I mad at me and you :shotsfired: :lol:

  • KDub

    He would get caught an say he was with me.
    -------------------------------------
    @Igo I call my BFF and we rehearse our whereabouts EXTENSIVELY where we "said" we was and everything. JUST in case we get nukkas who wanna get chatty at cookouts and shat. Her husband thought he HAD her azz one time... "So you and T went to getchall nails done last week?"

    Me: Yes. I got a french. She got hot pink. We both got our eyebrows done and then we went to the Applebees where we stayed and talked for a long time. Actually until they closed.

    This bish got her nails done...and then went and laid up at her ova man house til her fat azz husband got off work. Bish nails really WAS pink but I was just following the script SHE gave me.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    Eazy Does It says:

    My Indian friend is soo cute, long black hair and all. Im just to scared to ruin the attraction after we decide to go live

    ---------------------------------------------------------------------------

    :rofl: oh you still in beta testing?

  • Yall still crazy

    <--never been "caught" cheating. Igo, ladies really plan there ish out (produce fake documentation of where you "said" you were, take photos with the girls prior to leaving and send those pics as if they were just being taken etc.)
    djm :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    I feel you YSo and Choc but sometimes folks dont see things in black and white. I told this fool I knew, but he still denied it. And that made me mad.

    A huge part of it was me having to prove that I'm smarter. :lol: Yeah you talking trash but you know as well as I what really went down.

    That gives me a little satisfaction. DJM. Im still maturing. :lol:

  • vero

    :lol: @All these stories. Kinda missed being on here

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    My Indian friend is soo cute, long black hair and all. Im just to scared to ruin the attraction after we decide to go live
    __________________
    Dont know what to say would need more details co-worker?

    I woulda had so much more respect if he would just kept it 100.
    __________________________
    :yes:

    @Yall
    IJS tho you know can't discriminate but Im just thinking about a swift kick from Karate Man if I don't move quick enuf :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    This bish got her nails done…and then went and laid up at her ova man house til her fat azz husband got off work.

    :dead:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @OTB
    "I thought I told/asked yall about that! He even had trouble getting it up at one point. I HAD NEVER HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME. I was personally offended. he blamed it on me too. Saying me being on him was the problem. "
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    How you PERSONALLY offeneded that a nigga dyck couldn't get hard??? Nigga could have a circulation problem or had too much to drink (alcohol does that you know)! LOOOOOOL

    This chit had me dyin over here.

  • Yall still crazy

    :rofl:

  • I Go There

    Yall still crazy says:

    <–never been "caught" cheating. Igo, ladies really plan there ish out (produce fake documentation of where you "said" you were, take photos with the girls prior to leaving and send those pics as if they were just being taken etc.)
    djm
    ______________________________________________

    I agree yall do plan the shait better... I just find it funny.

  • Eazy Does It

    @Ace yes Im still fishing on that subject, good thing they arent big on sex or he woulda been left my azz alone

  • Yall still crazy

    Vero :waves: <--15 minutes long

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Ladies Ladies Ladies you don't use your friend as an alibi you use a co-worker he hasn't met yet and the group is going out for happy hour - chidddd my friend get mad at me and wanna spill the beans one day NAHHHHH Im good! I keep family and friends out of my lies

  • vero

    I spoke to Chi yesterday and she said :bye: to everyone !!
    No nasty comments please

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @YSO
    "And that’s why even though women cheat at least as much as men, we get caught a hell of a lot less."
    ____________________________________________________________________________________

    It ain't that women such "great cheaters." It's that men are just lazy cheaters because it's too much work and half the time we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance.... and get it.
    :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Shuddup Man. :rofl: AFTER I researched this yes I knew, but you missed the part about the recorder. He was fukking otha females but couldnt do jack when it came to me. I love oral like the next bish but you eating my pussy for 1.5hrs is not fun after the first coupla times...

    And I was personally offended cause I got that snappa and here he was...not snapping. That chit did a number on my self esteem! :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @YALL

    I feel like I'm missing out sometimes cause I don't have any good stories like some of you. You know, the whole "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" thing? Well, I've never let anything get that serious. My issues have issues, you understand. :coffee:

  • vero

    :lol: @Yall why not 5 hours ?

  • OutsidetheBox

    we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.

    This chit is some truth. I have vowed to not go against me again.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    Yall still crazy says:

    <–never been "caught" cheating. Igo, ladies really plan there ish out (produce fake documentation of where you "said" you were, take photos with the girls prior to leaving and send those pics as if they were just being taken etc.)
    djm :coffee:

    --------------------------------------------------------------------------

    got to check those timestamps on the file name....

  • Yall still crazy

    vero says:

    I spoke to Chi yesterday and she said :hi: to everyone !!
    No nasty comments please
    -----------------------------------------------
    Okay tell her we said hello :waves:
    --------------------------------------------------
    Choco, I got one bff, and that's just why. We both hold one another's "truths" :grill:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    No nasty comments please
    _______________
    Wrong Website :hugs:

    @YSO
    Maybe you aren't missing out to be honest we just have more stories to tell but if you're not into sampling then wait for the right one - I'm just to free spirited to not indulge while I wait :grin:

  • KDub

    That is the trick @OTB...to tell a lil bit of the truff and leave the rest up to well...interpretation.

    We did get our nails done.

    I did get a french mani.

    Her shat was hot pink.

    We did get our eye-braws done (@Lakes)

    We did eat afterwards. She ate at her man house cause he had cooked for her and I ate at Applebees...Curbside To Go.

    And...too bad we did this all in two diff. cities here in NC that are 35 minutes apart. And not even on the SAME DAY...but hey his Fat Albert looking azz did not need to know all of that.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Well, I’ve never let anything get that serious. My issues have issues, you understand

    :lol: Not too bad of a problem to have. My "experiences" daily contribute to me side eyeing and being cynical to everything about love. :lol:

    But im an eternal optimist too, so I stay crazy balalnced. :lol:

  • Eazy Does It

    OutsidetheBox says:
    I love oral like the next bish but you eating my pussy for 1.5hrs is not fun after the first coupla times…
    ______________
    after 20 mins I woulda started getting off track..."like what we doing here, or yeah now Im tired"

  • I Go There

    It ain’t that women such “great cheaters.” It’s that men are just lazy cheaters because it’s too much work and half the time we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.
    _____________________________________________________________

    I just dont have time to be lying an shait covering up shait and trying to be sneaky.... Cause to be real with yall I aint good at it. I found out very early that playing women was not in my repertoire... LOL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @Yall
    Her and I would too we just don't have the time to update one another so I use someone else all together and then we are both single soooo if were drunk one day someone may get their feelings hurt playing court investigator I had to tell one of her mates don't you know who you are dealing with he seem confused about his position in her life :rofl: :rofl: THAT NICCA HAD BREAD THO!

  • vero

    :cuss: @Choco
    at least you didn't say anything mean
    Yall something else !

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @OTB

    I see where you and others are coming from. I'm just not wired like that. Cross me and I will burning bridge faster than MJ's Jheri curl. :lol:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @OTB
    "we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it."
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    This chit is some truth. I have vowed to not go against me again.
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    If a bytch REALLY love me, she'll love me til I get this "faithfulness" and "Mahogny" chit right. :yes:

  • Yall still crazy

    Yso, I got oldddd stories, I's calmed down now :lol:

    You are just fine! :hug:

    Ace, you know guys ain't checking for nothing on a pic text that they think they just got from their boothang :rofl: #nottechnolicallysavvy

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    but hey his Fat Albert looking azz did not need to know all of that.
    _______________________
    :lol: :lol:

  • I Go There

    YSoSerious says:

    @YALL

    I feel like I’m missing out sometimes cause I don’t have any good stories like some of you. You know, the whole “It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all” thing? Well, I’ve never let anything get that serious. My issues have issues, you understand
    ---------------------------------------------------------------------

    Nuff said... I got ya

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    We did eat afterwards. She ate at her man house cause he had cooked for her
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------

    My red alert light went off right here..

    He cooked for her...so who the fuck was there for You..CAUSE YOU AINT THIRD WHEEL FOR NOBODY!!! (start argument

  • vero

    I don't think Yso said hi to me let me :cuss: a little more !

  • KDub

    chidddd my friend get mad at me and wanna spill the beans one day NAHHHHH Im good!
    ------------------------------------------
    That bish evvvvvva decide to turn on me and we been down since we was 8...I will tell her momma the shat we did in 1993 she still don't know about! :rofl: I will go and get my 16 yo goddaughter (her daughter) and show her them fuggin Florida Spring Break Girls Gone Wild pics of her momma!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    “faithfulness” and “Mahogny” chit right.
    _________________
    Can't even spell it right so she is fighting a losing battle

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @IGO
    "It ain’t that women such “great cheaters.” It’s that men are just lazy cheaters because it’s too much work and half the time we can plead for a second (or 17th) chance…. and get it.
    _____________________________________________________________

    I just dont have time to be lying an shait covering up shait and trying to be sneaky…. "
    ______________________________________________________________________________

    :cosign: NIGGA! I got dawgs that got two cell phones and alternate addresses and old beat up cars as "get-away" vehicles and chit. :smack:

    Ima stick with the tried and true "I messed up and it won't happen again." It's usually good for a time or three and you have to do ZERO work.

  • Eazy Does It

    Ever got a naughty pic from someone and scroll up to see if there was more than 1 recepient???!! :popcorn:

  • vero

    I feel weird now, cause I don't cheat, never have :shrugs:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Mahogny. :hahaha:

    after 20 mins I woulda started getting off track…”like what we doing here, or yeah now Im tired”

    :rofl: :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    Vero, because my arm still hurts from last week's 18 hour long wave. #topthatyso

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    Choco, one of my bff's dips tries questioning me alot, and I just chortle and give him the "you're kidding, right" look and change the topic :rofl: This is now a running joke with dude...

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @VERO

    *ahem*

    I gave you 3011 :hugs: when I saw your font earlier so... :cuss: yourself out. HMPH!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    @KDUB
    Nahhh my bff wouldn't spill my tea Im just sorta covering all bases less people who know and chit and really Im so good cuz I don't cheat really so I could say Im going to to mall and would be good - if he calls I answer even if Im at happy hour or hanging out with friends

  • I Go There

    NIGGA! I got dawgs that got two cell phones and alternate addresses and old beat up cars as “get-away” vehicles and chit.

    Ima stick with the tried and true “I messed up and it won’t happen again.” It’s usually good for a time or three and you have to do ZERO work.
    ______________________________________________________________

    See thats too much work to get some strange... I rather just keep it straight up and if she down then she's good...if not... Later.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Florida Spring Break Girls Gone Wild pics of her momma

    :rofl:

    My kids got into my box of oldies....memba them polaroids on the "strip" hanging outta niggas cars, tooting it up... :ashamed:

    I was more embarassed by my hair then anything tho. :lol: And them pics of when I drove my bubble to Daytona. Gawd Im so glad Im different now.

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    *monagomy*

  • vero

    :rofl: @Yso & Yall. you know I don't see! you type too damn fast and too damn much. i missed your posts :D but i :heart: you guys

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    one of my bff’s dips tries questioning me alot, and I just chortle and give him the “you’re kidding, right” look and change the topic This is now a running joke with dude…
    _________________
    :rofl: isnt it funny and sometimes sad when they are clueless :rofl: Ohhhh amusement at its best - this mofo got caught up on the puss and looks and she has been in his pockets for years and then said she couldn't stand fuking him anymore :rofl: this bish would call me and be like YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY :rofl: she said she wanted to tell him so bad how he doesn't please her :rofl: In the end the TRUTH PREVAILED :hahaha:

  • I Go There

    I was more embarassed by my hair then anything tho. And them pics of when I drove my bubble to Daytona. Gawd Im so glad Im different now.
    _______________________________________________

    I rode my bike to Daytona... It was some wild shait that went on during that weekend.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I was more embarassed by my hair then anything tho.
    _____________________
    :rofl: :rofl:

  • I Go There

    Eazy Does It says:

    Ever got a naughty pic from someone and scroll up to see if there was more than 1 recepient???!!
    ____________________________________________

    YEP.... :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    I'm out the bish....

    :cya:

  • I Go There

    Alright yall Im out... yall have a good one.

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :bye: @ ACE & IGO

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    speakin of embarrassed! I forgot but a couple of years ago, after the last hurricane came through I went to my Mom's house to help her clean up.

    all my siblings there and chit and we come across this box (get yall minds outta the gutter too cause my momma pure as spring water). Box got ol pics and chit in it, then they had some UNOPNED LETTERS from my Dad that was like 30 years old. So naturally, being niggas we read that chit.

    I hate my father for talkin to my mother so nasty. :(

  • Eazy Does It

    :bye: IGo and Ace

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    (hopes we have a brand new post tomorrow not that I'm complaining)

    #LoveMyLogin

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I hate my father for talkin to my mother so nasty.
    _________________________
    :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    :dead: @ in the end the TRUTH PREVAILED

    OTB, them throwback pic are a mess! You swore you were sharB, but when you look at them pics IT IS TOO FUNNY yo! :rofl:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @MAN

    That's what y'all get for being nosy. :hahaha:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :rofl: @Man.

    :bye: everyone. Bring yall good stories tomorrow; we all need some learning. TIA. :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    @YALL

    All my old pics have been destroyed to my knowledge and the knowledge of anyone who asks. :coffee:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    I think my dad had some sort of issues.
    The letter was 3 pages long and he described in vivid detail ALL the things he wanted to do.

    I don't even shake that niggas hand now. Real talk.

  • Yall still crazy

    I just had a flashback to Man talking about his mother months ago :hahaha:

    And yall would not let it rest that day :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    I think my dad had some sort of issues.
    The letter was 3 pages long and he described in vivid detail ALL the things he wanted to do.

    :dead:

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :bye: @ OTB

    I'm go and do something right now so I can have a story for y'all tomorrow. :grin:

  • Yall still crazy

    :waves: Good Night

  • http://youtu.be/W_CQEcLXe-E YSoSerious

    :nite: @ YALL

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Nite folks and :lol: YSO and her story telling for tomorrow

  • Aekelani

    Sandra i was so hoping for another post before the end of the day but I guess not :-(

  • http://youtu.be/32SSmvtMeEk YSoSerious

    @LANI

    Who is that in your Gravi? She looks familiar to me. :think:

  • H-Townmama

    @Yso
    Please go to the :kona:
    You know darn well where you've seen that face...just with a lot less color and life :hahaha:

  • Anna

    11 vero says:

    I won’t lie, since Sandra started talking about pulmonary embolism, I make sure I stand and walk frequently in my office. i could really sit there for hours.
    ~~~
    :waves: to all. I hope everyone enjoyed Christmas. I don't go back to work until Jan 4th.
    @ Vero I also make sure I get up and walk, stretch, and just move. I can sit at my desk at work 8- 10 hrs. a day. Let's get moving ppl. Let's get healthy, and lets make 2012 our best yr. ever. Happy New Year To All, especially to you Sandra, for keeping your "loyal readers, lurkers" in one room.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3bQrYBIp_0 LaTechGrad02

    Morning SR Fam!! Belated Merry Christmas!

  • Ms.kaylamomma

    Man, that is so sad! RIP Heavy D!

    Morning folks! :waves:

  • pointhimout

    sandra is on vaca huh?

  • cheeks8683

    Awww man...I missed the fun convo yesterday....

    Morning fam....

    Auntie is tere anyway to get a random post up because the more comments we get in this one the slower the feed will get...please and thanks :)

    Surprised u didnt post anything on the Taylor Lautner fake "coming out" People magazine cover

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjY5PM3hs_Q&feature=related MY FURLEY’S JUMPOFF AKA SUGA WALLS

    IM GONNA SUGGEST EVERYONE HEAD TO THE LEBRON BABY MAMA "I DONT KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS" POST SINCE THERE'S ONLY 32 COMMENTS THERE

  • pointhimout

    taylor lautner will have a lot of rich guys coming after him if he came out. come out for what though? to hell with the public, live ur life.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    *follows :hunching: into the Savannah thread*

  • pointhimout

    would have

  • chocolate divalicious aka CD

    Goodmorning Errbody :waves:

  • cheeks8683

    taylor lautner will have a lot of rich guys coming after him if he came out. come out for what though? to hell with the public, live ur life.
    __________________________________________________________________

    That he is gay....I was like annnnd...bout time :coffee: but apparently it was fake....On to the Savannah post :bye:

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    :waves: g'mernin! uhm can we go to the MJ post? this bish is alret heavy at 523 comments. what say yall? :popcorn:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :coffee: LETS MOVE THIS SHYT TO THE MJ POST... PLEASE AND THANK U... :yawn: <<< RAAAWWWRR!!