Octavia Spencer: ‘My weight is not healthy’
Octavia Spencer should be on top of the world. Her many accomplishments over the past year make her the envy of her peers. But the 41-year-old actress, renowned for her portrayal of a sassy southern maid in ‘The Help,’ is worried, despite all the accolades.
“I am not healthy at this weight,” said Spencer to the media assembled backstage at the Screen Actors Guild Awards, where she won a best supporting actress trophy.
“Any time you have too much around the middle, then there is a problem. [And] when you reach a certain weight, you are less valuable,” she said, referring to Hollywood’s strict physical standards.
Spencer says that Hollywood should be more accepting of actresses of different sizes, including those who are thin.
“I feel for the overly thin women as much as I do for the overweight women. It … has to change,” she said.
Ms. Spencer indicated that her problem may stem from the fact that she overeats when she’s feeling down: “If more women ate, they would be a lot happier. Let me tell you, I am a lot grumpier when I don’t eat.”
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I like that she is honest about it.
she was so out of breath once she made it to that stage yesterday at the SAG awards. i felt sorry for her. but she looks like she already lost some weight. she looked great last night. so did viola davis.
Im confused is she advocating or protesting her weight! Lawd just shut up Im so over actresses getting paid and then complaining about Hollywood standards STFU!
Good Evening
I am so proud and happy for Octavia and Viola
Being healthy is important regardless of size. I am waiting on Zumba class now.
Why would she bring this up at a time when she’s on top of the world?I mean..yea we can see your mid section.Y you want to point it out?I actually thought she had already lost wieght but I may be confusing her for someone else.
She just wants to be a Jenny Craig person
She just wants to be a Jenny Craig person
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BINGO
and
for lying to me
“‘My weight is not healthy’” No girl,,,Its that roaming eye that aint healthy,,,,Chile I cant tell if you going right or left….I still luv you tho,,,Ol cock eyed fool
@tifan-BC she was out of breath when she went to get her award last night and said “whew…i need to work out”…they probably asked her about it.
She always looks depressed on the red carpet. Even when she’s smiling, it looks like she’s in emotional pain. I hope this doesn’t turn out to be a situation where we should have realized something was wrong.
YalStill!!!!!!!!!! Hey gal,,,,Happy New Year….Its been like 4ever since me n you shot the sh*t
How you doin girl???? Did you finally tend to that uh um ‘psoriasis’ on yo inna thighs???? As a plus sized person I know your pain girl,,,I know your pain,,,Aint nuthin worst than rubbing thighs,,,,Chile,,,,In about a week,,,My new jeans be toast rounst the thigh urrea 
Choco aka Hippie says:
Im confused is she advocating or protesting her weight! Lawd just shut up Im so over actresses getting paid and then complaining about Hollywood standards STFU!
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they wanna be famous i guess….they know going into it that Hollyweird is not fair. Not to the black, the older woman and shole not the fat woman….
@Sandra Chile,,,Its that White man of hers…He aint beatin the breaks off that thang,,,She need some Mandingo in her life,,,Yussssss…I could give it to her real good,,,,Knock that that weak eye straight,,,Chile,,,Ask whats her face
I puts it down….
Yall still crazy says:
She just wants to be a Jenny Craig person
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Good point
Precious got a second movie there is hope
silverlining
If she wanna lose weight im with her on it though
She has a pretty face
Sandra Rose says:
She always looks depressed on the red carpet. Even when she’s smiling, it looks like she’s in emotional pain. I hope this doesn’t turn out to be a situation where we should have realized something was wrong.
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I looked at the pic and ws thinking, for someone who won she sure doesn’t look happy! Maybe she’s going thru some things like she just found out she has diabetes or something
@BIG TYME
“she looked great last night. so did viola davis.”
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Well, this big-un looked busted but I ain’t goin lie, Viola looked about 20 years younger than she do in her movies.
@OCTAVIA SPENCER
“Spencer says that Hollywood should be more accepting of actresses of different sizes, including those who are thin.”
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No they shouldn’t Octavia Spencer…
I hate it when people try to do something they obviously shouldn’t and then wanna change the rules so that they are able to do it.
That’s a like a midget saying the NBA should lower the goals so they got a shot. IT’S JUST NOT FOR YOU!
@Man…I take it you was waitin for Viola to have a wardrobe malfunction just like me…Them t*ddays looked like they was just bout to fall out,,,,I aint mad tho,,,,Never looked at ol girl liked that,,,But shes a banger…
@BRENDEN
“I take it you was waitin for Viola to have a wardrobe malfunction just like me…Them t*ddays looked like they was just bout to fall out,,,,I aint mad tho,,,,Never looked at ol girl liked that,,,But shes a banger…”
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I thought her titties needed their own award. She must be auditioning for some role as a cougar or something cause she ALWAYS looked manly and chit to me with a mean azz scowl on her face.
She was ALL WOMAN the other night tho.
Oh Brenden
I was waiting for your honeybun, so you could pull the scabs off 
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But I didn’t mean to Choco
Hollyweird isn’t the place for The WEAK, The INNOCENT, The HONEST and The F-ing CLUELESS Though
Hello fam !!!
Hi @Vero *coy smile* I can put my left leg behind my ear,,,You aint know that huh?!?!! Yusss, Immag\ get chu suga,,,Imma get you!!!
YallStill…Ive missed you so much,,,These ol skinny heffas round hurre dont know how to ad lard to a;; they meals
I miss you so much suga,,,We may lose our legs to diabetes,,,But damnitt we gone go out with a bang!!! And a biscuit…HELLO!!! 
Well I think she looks beautiful!
I think Hollywood puts way to much on celebrities 
Job well done to Olivia, I am not saying don’t try to be healthy, but being healthy is in all ways, that means mentally and spiritually also !!!
Wonders if she lost a role due to weight?
@Cali….Oh,,,,So you gone just stroll up in here and not acknowledge a ninja?!?!?!!! Okaaaay, Ok I see how we doin it for 2012….Umhmmm,,,,Next time you need somebody to press yo ol thin azz edges,,,,Dont call me honey
Sounds to me like she’s just being honest. Hell, and that last statement was the truth, I’m a straight out raging b.itch if I miss a meal
and I’m thin. She’s beautiful regardless of her size but if she decides to lose weight I hope it’s because she wants to and not because she’s being pressured into it.
On another but kinda the same note: am I the only one who has noticed that larger black women always find designers that know how to accentuate their shape/curves without dressing them like a tent? Because she looks great but Melissa McCarthy (chick from Bridesmaids) dress looked like someone draped a curtain from her neck to her ankles
@Ms. Everything SAID:
She’s beautiful regardless of her size but if she decides to lose weight I hope it’s because she wants to and not because she’s being pressured into it.
^^^
EXACTLY !!!
@Vero…I like you
With the exception of the herp…I am disease free 
dont sleep babes,,,A lil outbreak here n there aint worf passin up on 2hunded a ninety six lbs of sexiness yuuuuuus bae bee 
Octavia has church momma arms…okay…we already knew this…and? She is embracing them. She is from Alabama. Home of the black woman with…church momma arms. My momma got church momma arms…summa my aunts got church momma arms…my grandmother had church momma arms. They allllll hail from Alabama. I warded mine off with curls. For now. You will be okay Octavia. Do some curls and go walking and it will be okay.
Hello erryones erryones
Congrats!!!…to ALL the sistahs winning!!
@step-Auntie Sandra….did you see the hulla-ballo about Christinia Aguilera singing at the Etta James tribute…and some brownish reddish stuff started running down her legs…from beneath her skirt???
any info step-Auntie?
Jdore says:
Sandra Rose says:
She always looks depressed on the red carpet. Even when she’s smiling, it looks like she’s in emotional pain. I hope this doesn’t turn out to be a situation where we should have realized something was wrong.
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I looked at the pic and ws thinking, for someone who won she sure doesn’t look happy! Maybe she’s going thru some things like she just found out she has diabetes or something
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Ooops…maybe I was wrong about Christinia. Cuz on ONE article seepy ooze was running down her legs..but on my subsequent research on other websites….the same pics of her don’t have it.
Sorry for the false alarm.
Dayum Photo shoppin news reporters!
that is all
Octavia deserves some credit for admitting her problem. Maybe she felt the need to proclaim the obvious to the world for personal reasons?
They say the first step to recovery is admitting that you have a problem.
Well she now has the means to hire a dietician, personal trainer, and whatever else she needs to transform her body and become a healthier woman.
I wish her the best.
@Sassy, if you ever read this I’m working from home today as well
and I’m loving it
IT’s not for the best reason though… the Education system is on strike, my son’ school is closed
Morning All!!
Good morning Vero & Tech
let’s all try to just be healthy.. we aint got to be thin… i likes my meat
BUENOS DIAS 
Morning Tatted & Latech
I walked in my classroom this morning to find two student laying on the floor in the dark…sweating like they just ran 3 miles.
They were fully dressed, but the girl hair was all over the place. And when I walked in, the dude was so scared I could literally see his heart beating through his shirt…..
I sent them to the office and told the principal they were wandering the halls. I didn’t wanna tell on them, but the AP looked at the camera and saw them walking into the room at about 6:15…..I didn’t get here til about 6:45.
What I am really pissed about is the fact that Im in a new room and I wasn’t the one to christen it….smh.
Good morning….
I have a long time girlfriend (+15 years) who’s losing it.
Her boyfriend of 19 years, then husband of 5 years, left her and their 2 young boys, for a ….. i don’t know how to call that. And now the new couple just had a baby last week.
I don’t know what to tell her anymore
@blue What in the world?!
Ohh about the post…. Im lost. Is she complaining about or advocating for her weight.
Either way, she makes enough money to purchase good food that’s also healthy.
She looked nice at the SAG Awards…
Morning everyone!!!
Morning btw and Lakes too
@BLU DAM…
THEY BEAT U TO IT!! 
Morning Makeup!! Gorgeous picture!! Morning Vero, Zoe, and Blu!
lovezoe says:
@blue What in the world?!
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And the girl, 16 years old, has 2 kids already…. smh.
SIS
YOU ARE SOOO STOOPID!
Heeey Blu
Zoe Zoe
I for one thought she looked hella nice @ the SAG awards. Why not use the actual pic of her there…NOT THE PIC ABOVE! Her dress was ca-yute too!
@ Tech – Thank you babe! I appreciate that!
Morning Vero……
Morning LaTech…
But as a teacher it’s your job to tell one them. As a parent, I would want to know.
@VERO HEY
YSO (my future baby god-mammy)
@Laker…
lmfaooo hell yeah they did…LOL. I didn’t wanna get them in trouble. But damn, they could have did it in the restroom or something. Or just skipped school and did it…..smh.
@SIS
@Blu
Whenever YOU talk about school stuff I ALWAYZ Think about “Lean On Me” Though
MORNING Everybody
@Marven
wassupppppppppppppppp… I was lurking on the post about the the lady who left her kids in the street. And I was lmfaooo @ your serenity prayer
@BLU..
THEY DIN’T WANT TO BE LATE TO CLASS.. SO FUK IT 
CHATTED!!
Did y’all see Man and Molyfe in the previous post? I think we may be “voting” on another banning soon.
Tatted
Blue that girl needs an intervention like whoa! Is she working on #3
@ Blu Im glad im not a teacher I would be treating kids like they are my own.
16 2 kids workin a=on a third 
@ Blu – I was saying that serenity prayer so I won’t clock rock on some of those ig’nant azz comments! Must I say another one for this morning before the madness get started?!
@AL
U DON’T BE SAYING HI TO A BISH NO MORE.. 
OH MORNING 
@YSO IS IT NASTY??
@ YSO – Something just told me to go check it out and I went in there a few minutes ago! Molyfe was getting it in, wasn’t she/he?! I was buggin that someone would go so hard for someone UNLESS it’s actually them or they are related…LIKE 1ST COUSIN RELATED!
AL-Boogie, E-Love
@Yso
Yeah, I know. And I really didn’t know what was going on…for all I know she could have just gotten raped.
And I lectured them before I took them to the principal. They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
I told her don’t start crying now, make better decision.
@ELOVE WHO THAT WHITE CHICK?
@vero
THAT is So very devastating for Your GF and There probably isn’t ANYTHING YOU CAN SAY (To Her…) that would make her feel any better about HERSELF (Truly SAD Situation)
I HOPE there is somebody within her Family Tree that can convince her to be Strong for HER KIDS… I KNOW It’s Easier said than Done BUT Her kids are STILL Very Dependent on HER Mental-Stability & Well-Being
Mr.BluPhi says:
@Yso
Yeah, I know. And I really didn’t know what was going on…for all I know she could have just gotten raped.
And I lectured them before I took them to the principal. They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
I told her don’t start crying now, make better decision.
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Now, I hate when ppl do some slick chit and then when they get caught, start ballin’ outta control. You whatten crying before I walked in that bish…..SWALLOW UP THEM DAYUM SOBS CUZ YO AZZ GOING TO THE PRINCIPAL! And she got 2 kids….Her mammy needs to be SHOT or sumfin’!
@ LAkes whats up baby ion mean no harm baby
right back at you
MY Peach
Some YT Georgia Bulldog Cheerleader who CLAIMS Her Body-Building ARMS are ALL-NATURAL and STEROID-FREE Though
vero says:
I have a long time girlfriend (+15 years) who’s losing it.
Her boyfriend of 19 years, then husband of 5 years, left her and their 2 young boys, for a ….. i don’t know how to call that. And now the new couple just had a baby last week.
I don’t know what to tell her anymore
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WOW! I wouldn’t know what to tell her. I guess in this situation, you can only be there for her as long as she lets you and I’m quite sure it’s hard, but after she wallows in it for a while, it’s time to snap her back into reality and advise her that she still has children she needs to raise, that are depending on her and she needs to get it together. God has something better in store for her….EASIER SAID THAN DONE, I KNOW!
@Elove
lmfaooo.. the students aren’t bad. But they just do the stupidest chit….
@Al
Yeah she needs her azz beat. And she such a pretty girl. And smart. And can play basketball…. I just dont understand
GOOOOD MOORNING YALL!
MAVEN
LAKER
YSO
BLUE
ELOVE
@ Maven dont say the C word around Blu CousbandPhi
@AL
… WELL YOU KNOW HOW US CANCERS ARE ALL EMOTIONAL 
.. THOUGHT U DINT WOVE A BISH NO MORE 
ELove says:
Some YT Georgia Bulldog Cheerleader who CLAIMS Her Body-Building ARMS are ALL-NATURAL and STEROID-FREE Though
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@ Blu is it that they werent even cousins doin all that the reason you Really upset
@blu them
makes them bad!! 
@wut thats one big bish..
@ Al-Boogie, what’s the “C” word?!
Morning Elove, that’s what I keep telling her. She’ll get over it eventually and the boys need her. But it’s hard.
(i forgot to say they’re 34, so they met they were 14)
WUT WUT
@ Mrs<—- Maven How are you and the fam
@ MAven Cousin
@Marven
And her mother works for the Houston Police Department….. and I believe I heard the principal say her father works for Haliburton.
her family has money, but no control obviously…
@Tatted @Wut-Wut
Whaddup BABIES !!!
Tatted that gravie
Mr.BluPhi says:
What I am really pissed about is the fact that Im in a new room and I wasn’t the one to christen it….smh.
Good morning….
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@ vero: he left her for a what?
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
@wut thats one big bish..
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Yeah but after listening to Octavia, shw had decided to give up her living as a hooters girl and go back to school to be a stripper…
***backflips*** with WUT who forgot me.
tatted, i try to be there as much as I can. she’s from one of the other french countries… so phone fb whatsapp text messages, you name it, we do it. but in the end, she has to go through the pain, accept it and wait until it dies. not easy. at all.
@ Blu Yeah that girl is out of control they need super nanny over there
she solves all your problems……. while shes there
@WUT
The Makeup Maven says:
Why not use the actual pic of her there…NOT THE PIC ABOVE!
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Sometimes photo editors have to make snap decisions in choosing a photo that goes best with the story.
the girl (she’s 25) had the nerve to text my friend when she met him saying she’d get him. so she better back off
Mr.BluPhi says:
@Marven
And her mother works for the Houston Police Department….. and I believe I heard the principal say her father works for Haliburton.
her family has money, but no control obviously…
… does it err time 
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Control starts at the veeery beginning. Especially with lil girls. Control wit a touch of fear… I WISH AAAANNNN ONE OF MY GIRLS ROLLL OFF IN MY HOUSE WITH A BABY!… Then you give this look
vero says:
***backflips*** with WUT who forgot me.
tatted, i try to be there as much as I can. she’s from one of the other french countries… so phone fb whatsapp text messages, you name it, we do it. but in the end, she has to go through the pain, accept it and wait until it dies. not easy. at all.
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Cartwheels summersault double one hand round off into a split back to my knees… I sowwwy!
HEEEYYY VERO!
16 and 2 kids??
@ Lakes you know we always gone be good after all the EDNA we have shared you know we good baby
What up Vero
@ AL-Boogie I’m doing great and my fam (my boo) is awesome!
Oooh, okay, cousin! I got it!
@al
ok making sure… don’t act all funny when baby comes oround.. 
@ GA Girl
THANK YOU BOO!
@SIS IS SISNLAW COMING OUT TO PLAY TODAY??
@ BLU – WHY ON EARFF YOU KEEP CALLING ME “MARVEN?”
@ Lakes you know I have to greet @ My Baby but I hear you
Gooood morning erry ones erryones!!
me trying to psyche myself up to go jogging ~~>
@vero
laker
maven (purdy self)
@ SIS – I don’t if she coming out to play today! She said she’s been tryna be good and get her work done.
AND it’s the end of the month and I guess those are really busy times for her! *le-sigh*
MZWhang I wanna
@AL.. OH I KNOW.. IT’S SESSY.. JUST MAKE SURE U DO A BISH RIGHT..
@ MsWhang – Heeey boo!
you going joggin? THAT SOUNDS AWESOME!
vero says:
the girl (she’s 25) had the nerve to text my friend when she met him saying she’d get him. so she better back off
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Mr.BluPhi says:
They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
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it sounds like the girl was raped. I bet she didn’t even know the boy. A counselor should have been brought in to counsel her.
@vero (Comment #105)
Could NEVER Happen under My Watch… TOO F-ing Serious about THAT Too becuz as A Father & PARENT that’s just UNACCEPTABLE Though
Young Females that end up being in that situation are MISSING SOMETHING Very Important & Viable they never got AS A CHILD growing up from THEIR PARENTS and/or GUARDIANS
@MZWANG.. I HATE UR FUKN GRAVI..
@vero….
thanks maven
hey elove
I WAS right about Christina Ag…havin brownish orange stuff start runnin down her legs when she was singing at the Etta tribute on Saturday. Turns out her spray on tan started melting. I’m dead.
@ Sandra Raped? she would have said something if she was raped. Crying just gives women a time to think of a good lie is all
Sandra Rose says:
Mr.BluPhi says:
They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
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it sounds like the girl was raped. I bet she didn’t even know the boy. A counselor should have been brought in to counsel her.
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Whatever happened was sad, but let’s not call this boy a rapist based off a they both looked nervous and then she started crying. She could’ve started crying because she got busted having sex!
@elove : I know ! some (most) young girls are fast these days so you gotta keep a closer look at them. Everyday !
@tatted : all he says as an explanation : he got caught up in a relationship too soo, too long. he didn’t ‘live.
I forgot to mention he’s a pro basketball player and i’ve known him and my friend we were still in college. She supported him from day 1.
Ugh. just talking about it makes me mad again.
vero says:
sandra…. A slut, whore, c*nt, b!tch, you name it…
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Oh… I honestly thought you were going to say he ran off with a man. In which case she is better off without the maggot. But that bites if it’s another woman.
I feel bad for her. She should go through the grieving process and then get her head together and take him to court for child support.
Whats up Chocolate lady
@ALBoy (Comment #124) —-> EXACTLY
SHE JUST CRIED TO GET SOME FUKN TIME.. HOW DO WE KNOW ITS THE FIRST TIME SHE FOUND
PROLLY SECOND OR THIRD.. 
More than likely, she cried she got caught.
i’m very surprised @her age. she looks older to me. she’s 41 right? #noshade jmo. i enjoy her work tho. saw dinner for schmucks this weekend & i hollered at her part!
GM SR & Fam
@tatted I know i’d have been crying too, of shame.
@laker & vero…stop hatin on my gravi. Ya’ll are just jealous!!
heyyyyyyy choc
The Makeup Maven says:
Sandra Rose says:
Mr.BluPhi says:
They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
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it sounds like the girl was raped. I bet she didn’t even know the boy. A counselor should have been brought in to counsel her.
Those were tears of shame, and tears of fear because she was caught laying it low and spreading it wide. How should she have acted? Giddy?
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Whatever happened was sad, but let’s not call this boy a rapist based off a they both looked nervous and then she started crying. She could’ve started crying because she got busted having sex!
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umm i didn’t hear melissa mccarthy complain about her weight when she won her award…….so if she won the award why is she EXPLAINING her weight to the master.. but then again i didn’t watch it so i may be TOTALLY out of line (NOT)….. HEYYYYY ROSEBUDS (AMBER STOLE OUR NAME WE HAD IT FIRST)!!!!!!!!
*motorboats tatted on the way out this post*
offtopic (already) I told my friend she looked REALLY pretty one day and my 12 year old neice looked at me all crazy and when the chick walked off she said ummm aunty when you tell another female she looks good you supposed to say “no homo” after it unless you gay … WTH???? SINCE WHEN i must REALLY be getting old….
ALBoy says:
@ Sandra Raped? she would have said something if she was raped.
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She’s 16 and her hormones are running over. At that age, girls cry for everything. Maybe she liked him but he raped her against her will, and she didn’t want to get him in trouble so she cried.
@Sandra, you didn’t read my post did you
(i’m impersonating you).
he met a girl at salsa lessons and left his wife for her. now they have a baby girl.
I hate to see folks get caught up and some women/girls cry rape thats the worst.’
Dont Lie
Last time i was deployed chick came to the clinic said she was raped we got everyione involved they did a rape kit she even gave them a guys name everything then after he was arrested questioned accussed and pretty much proven guilty off her words alone she said oh I was lying I just wanted to go home nothing happened
@lexi Grown folks say that no homo stuff.
OAN: Getting the car inspected I think they find stuff wrong to charge more than the $16 they get.
@ Fay when she was screaming like the Lobster
Whats up baby how you
MzWhang you got that right
Sandra :exactly what I told her. since he’s obviously has started a new life, a new family. MOVE ON.
she re-filed for divorce
But it’s gonna take time
Where did Yso go?
*pops in real quick* Sandra you really should try to see the glass half full sometimes instead of automatically assuming the worst… j/s with no offense intended. IF that girl was raped she had time and opportunity to say something, I’m thinking she was embarrassed or scared she’d get kicked outta school or something along those lines
Morning everyone
I want to greet all y’all individually but I have to watch my emoticon use. I’m one of SR’s biggest offenders.
The Makeup Maven says:
Sandra Rose says:
Mr.BluPhi says:
They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
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it sounds like the girl was raped. I bet she didn’t even know the boy. A counselor should have been brought in to counsel her.
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Whatever happened was sad, but let’s not call this boy a rapist based off a they both looked nervous and then she started crying. She could’ve started crying because she got busted having sex!
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EXACTLY!!! I walked in on my nephew and a chick at 4:00 in the morning.(My sister was watching my kids while me and my ex had a night out.) I was shocked. I screamed my sisters name the girl jumped up all sweaty and crying saying I’m sorry. My sister was like WTF where is your momma at and why don’t she know you are out at 4:00 in the morning? Im looking at her like… UMMM why aren’t you talking to your son too about sneaking girls in at 4:00 am and screwing in your house?
@lex, i cant stand that #nohomo chit. i mean ytf is that warranted? if i find another woman attrative, i have no problem telling her that. in fact sometimes i go out of my way to. y? bc i dont like the misconception women r all envious of each other & it takes nothing away from me by giving another woman a compliment. & it doesnt mean i wanna fluck her, so there #endrant
Morning Ms E
Whats up @ Zoe Mrs E YSO
@ vero…sooo sorry to read about your friend. Give her an extra hug from me. I’ve been cheated on before and it hurts like HELL. They say time heals all wounds..but in my case, revenge suuuure helped to speed things up!
Mr.BluPhi says:
They both looked soooo damn nervous. And the girl started crying.
I think the girl was crying both from being nervous AND scared that she was in BIG trouble.
vero says:
I have a long time girlfriend (+15 years) who’s losing it.
Her boyfriend of 19 years, then husband of 5 years, left her and their 2 young boys, for a ….. i don’t know how to call that. And now the new couple just had a baby last week.
I don’t know what to tell her anymore
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Hola, Vero
That is horrible, and I sorry that your friend is upset over loosing that piece of a man. But why was they “dating” for 19 years? Ain’t no man got no reason to be laying up with no woman for that gotdamn long. Girl hang in there and be strong for her. That’s the wrong part, cuase I know you want just shake her, but hug her and tell her it’s gonna be alright.
When are you going to start shipping Int’l
Whatever Octavia decides, I just hope she does it the healthy way and not stress herself out about her weight. Just work out, eat better and enjoy life. Stress and depression can lead to being overweight as well
esp when youre eating way too much
Sandra if you were my mama you would have had me in a variety of straight jackets, counseling, therapy, medicine, court rooms, shyt I was bad as heyull, not fuggin til I was 19, but I was bad as heyull
The girls ounds like the typical teenager whose been caught red handed in the act
Morning Ebestie
Fayla aka Ms. Whipped 
Blu Phi that is just horrible…you should have asked them lots of questions and embarssed the hell out them.
Al
902010, Yso, Everything, Ms. Sandra, Lovezoe, Hershey, Elove
lexdiamonz says:
umm i didn’t hear melissa mccarthy complain about her weight when she won her award
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I love Melissa. I even think she’s gained weight, but it’s her time to shine. I loved her on Gilmore Girls.
@ Cali whats up baby
thanks MzWhang. I told her. I’ve been through that too… but didn’t get revenge. What did YOU do?
I said they have been together for a total of 19 year since they were 14. They got married back in 2005 (or ’06)
Cali. how are you today lady
AL!!
hell yeah i was WEAK yo, chit was hilarious to me.
YSO!!
what i had been trying in the past is a 3 greeting limit per post, unless ERRYbody in here, then it becomes to much. #sigh
ChaBew
<—#nohomo LMAO how r u today darling?
VERO!!!
hey hunny bunch!
i have no problem telling her that. in fact sometimes i go out of my way to. y? bc i dont like the misconception women r all envious of each other & it takes nothing away from me by giving another woman a compliment. & it doesnt mean i wanna fluck her, so there #endrant
and gm purdy Fay. Imma order myself some Whip real soon!!
heyyyy Yso
Cali, vero, Al, et al
RE: Blu’s students
I won’t say that it’s impossible that the girl might have been forced just because she already has 2 kids or whatever. But I will say that based on what Blu says he observed, it’s highly improbable that she wasn’t a willing participant.
I say she was crying because she was scared too.
@mzwhang
Heeyyy BABY !!!
@vero
Ohhhh He’s ONE of THOSE Selfish-Azz Pro-Ballers Huh (FIGURES…)
I THINK Your Girl ended up Playing HERSELF in this situation becuz a Ridiculous Amount of Pro-Ballers aren’t Marriage & REAL Commitment Material ANYWAY Though (WORD) NOT Trying to be COLD in Anyway but TRUST ME… Dude has Shown HIS AZZ to Her before and I KNOW YOU Can’t help who you fall in LUV WITH but when you See OBVIOUS SIGNS of Deviousness & Deceit then CAUTION for Your Heart-n-Emotions need to be Considered (VERY Seriously before the Potential CRASH)
@FAYL
@CALI
@ Sandra is MoLyfe’s login still active?
I thought Molyfe was Monica
Fay Fay
#nohomo LMFAO
Ebestie
Hershey
Group
for ALBOY, FAYLA, CALI, and MZWHANG
On Topic Click the link its BG appreciation Day
Anna
MsEverything
GeminEyez
@ALBOY
That is the working theory. Though Molyfe has denied it more than once.
Vero, what’s ur country? if u r willing to pay the diff it would normally cost for shipping i’ll be glad to send u some
Mawnin’ peoples!
@ Yso Oh Ok
WHO THE FUK IS THE MOLY THING??
AND WHAT IT DO?? 
FEFE what up
What’s up and chit everybody?
Lakes!
hola mami!
CALI!!!!!
i’m so tied today 
Yso
@that
Elove : I know. Now she realises it. SHe kept fighting groupies off and he was good at the ‘I’m not like the rest of them. I know the value of my family and blah…. ‘
and especially for the kids. The little one, who’s 4 goes back to wet up his bed, sleeps with his mommy, wants a bottle again.
I’m still
@Vero – I’m good baby, thanks. I missed they was married….Ohhh well next! Me and my ex was married for 15 but together for 17. I cried off and on for about 2 years. It seemed like the end of the world…But I survived. Thank God I knew to get on my knees and pray, and eventually weeded MOST of the negative people out of my life. I’m sure you’ll be there for her, she’s going to need a good friend.
@ Lakes WHoa Mo is a friend of the blog and she was expressing her disdain for @ Mans opinion is all
@ CD I spoke to you earlier
@caligirl
Heeyyyy BABY !!!
@Fayla —>
Every time I Hear “Whipfinity” I HEAR BabyFace singing “You’ve Got THAT Whip Appeal” Though
@AL.. OH.. SO ANOTHER PILLOW…
Hello Al
@VERA
Your friend will be ok. People break up everyday and keep it pushing.
You fall outta love just as fast as you fall in love. Sympathize, but don’t pity her.
COSIGN @ALBoy (Comment #176)
I Fefe I clicked your link the other day and it took me back I used to play that cd all the time
FeFe
Chocolate Diva
Mzwhang!!
ty lady & how r u today?
FEFE
what’s the happs?
Hershey!! what molyfe do??
Fayfay : it’s guadeloupe. Does whipfinity lasts or is it something you must use fast? USPS isn’t expensive with Int’l shipping but it’s slow.
Morning Man
hadn’t seen you in a minute before yesterday posts 
@Elove – You hit the nail on the head! Many woman, which included myself at one time….before I read the cliff notes “Stop Being Stupid Girl” we think we can love a man enough, that he’ll stop being selfish. It don’t work.
<— STILL TRIPPIN' OFF OF CD'S GRAVI!
@Chocolate Diva
Morning BABY !!!
@LAKER
Molyfe only comments on Monica posts and she is very serious about her support. She came at Man, again, last night.
Some of us believe it’s actually Monica cause the last time they “conversed” Man got put up for a banning vote. But you ain’t heard none of that from me.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@VERA
Your friend will be ok. People break up everyday and keep it pushing.
You fall outta love just as fast as you fall in love. Sympathize, but don’t pity her.
_________
@Al, I haven’t changed my link in so long I forgot what song is on there… lol
Chocolate Diva, FeFe, Man
Man is right…
Damn him and Elove today.
@ fefe full of smoke Christion
@FeFe
Heeyyy SEXXY !!!
@YSO.. OH SO WE FANCY.. WE GOT HOOD CELEBS IN THE BLOG..
@Cali : ok that’s tough.
I keep telling her. Getting over a heartbreak is heart but people deal with it everyday.
I’ll give her Man’s advice. maybe a man’s point of view will help (other than her dad who wants to shoot the guy)
@Vero…nothing much..
Late one nite…I politely spray painted his TREASURED car bright neon blue…stuck crumpled up newspapers wayyyyyyyy up in the tail pipe…and broke off tooth picks in all of the car’s door locks and the lock on the trunk! And I made sure that I had an alibi…earlier that night I’d made a date to go to a jazz club with a sherrif’s deputy. My ex didn’t know what time the “vandal” had done damage to his car so I was all good.
Looking back on it, I shouldn’t have done it..it WAS childish etc…but I tell you what…IT SURE FELT GOOD!!
CD
i c that baby’s hair is still a shinin’
@YSO
“Molyfe only comments on Monica posts and she is very serious about her support. She came at Man, again, last night.
Some of us believe it’s actually Monica cause the last time they “conversed” Man got put up for a banning vote. But you ain’t heard none of that from me. ”
_____________________________________________________________________________
I’m still trying to figure why she came at me. I never even mentioned
‘s name.
Molyfe =
Sandra Rose@FEFE WERE IS LEVY??
WHy did Man call me Vera though ??
@ALBOY
I clicked your link. Is that what you and Miss Sofia get down to when she sends Stedman to walk the dogs?
@Al
Oh yeah, I used to play that song on repeat back in high school…I get nostalgic with music
MzW : oh ok
and 
@Fay
<—— Baby that Whipfinity aint no joke. Its the only thing she allows in her hair now. Yous a bad girl
our bodies connecting make a music all on their own
Who is Stedman?
@ FEFE I do too
@Lakes
Imma put Levy back up in a bit…I just had to show Gabriel some support since he’s going through bullchit with batshyt…
Faybaby – Why you so tired? I’m tired to, didn’t go to bed until 1:00a
@LAKER
Oh so fancy.
@MAN
You’re misunderstood.
I’m out…have a GREAT day erryones
@ALBoy (Comment #218)
Stedman is Oprah’s LONG-TIME Butler that use to LIVE with Her when she as still living in Indiana Though
@ALBOY
Ew.
MoLyfe’s grammar was
sooooo….
@ Yso dont ask questions about her you already know where Im gong to take it
@Chocolate Diva
Your Gravi is JUST So F-ing Krazy Though
It LQQKS LIKE The Love-Child of Oprah and @ALBoy Though
and Vero, When my and my ex asshole broke up I shed a couple tears and kept it moving by focusing on me and the kids. If your friend can find something to put all her focus on she’ll get over it a little easier. Now, I don’t spare one ittsy bittsy tear on that no good worthless son of a b!tch (cause his mama is a b!tch) but she’s just gonna have to give it time and keep it moving