Psycho Mom Abandons Her Two Daughters On the Street

Frustrated moms sometimes threaten their children with abandonment if they don’t behave. But one Brooklyn mother made good on her threats, according to the NY Daily News.

Dalisha Adams, 26, spent all day Sunday screaming profanities at her two daughters, Dominae, 5, and Diani, 3.

Neighbors of Adams at the Breukelen Houses in Canarsie often heard her screaming at the girls and their older sister, who lives with an aunt.

“She was always yelling at the kids, ‘Shut the f— up,’” said the neighbor, who did not want to be identified, according to the NY Daily News.

“One day, I heard her curse out the little baby, ‘I’ll punch you in the f—— face,’” the neighbor said.

On Sunday, police say, Adams bundled the children into her car, drove them about two miles away from home and dumped them out on the sidewalk before driving away. That’s where an elderly couple found the girls wandering up and down the street in the cold. The girls were still holding their disposable diapers.

Police went door-to-door hoping to identify the children. Their search eventually led them to Adams’ apartment. Police used a crowbar to take the door off its hinges around 10:10 p.m, but Adams wasn’t inside.

Adams later turned up at the police precinct at 11:30 p.m. She was charged Monday with two counts of endangering the welfare of a child for abandoning her children in the cold, police said.

“She talks very dirty to the children and treats them nasty. She pulls their arm and curses at the children,” the neighbor said.

“It’s not right,” she said of the abandonment. “They’re better off with someone else.”

The girls are now in the custody of Children’s Services.

This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama

    :rolleyes:

    While I abhor her actions, your statement about forced BC is out of line.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :cry:

  • Bosstown

    She ought to be ashamed of herself. There are too many options out there for her to have done that!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Oh and I’m crying at that pic of the bish…. DAYUMMMMMM!

  • Brick City Born

    Sandra :nono: You will not blame this on the POTUS….some women just need to keep their legs closed if their not mature enough themselves to handle kids.

  • EB

    :no:

  • The Makeup Maven

    There are so many words I have ratt now! :cuss:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    so we not gone blur the babies faces? :no:

  • MsOnederful

    The crazy part is that’s my Aunt’s building in Carnasie. That woman should be ashamed of herself. SMFH

  • OutsidetheBox

    This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real!

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    This btch…I see myself getting real angry in this post… :kona:

  • Chocolate Diva

    This fukkin CUNT BYTCH sandwich needs her ass :shotsfired:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    This was wrong but at least she didn’t kill them. They were dressed warm and are young enough to hopefully grow from this.

    Had she dropped them off at a fire station or hospital she may not have been arrested.

    At the end of the day I’m happy the two girls are safe. Its a thin line btw sanity and insanity and if your life isn’t together that line can easily be crossed.

  • OutsidetheBox

    They look alike…where they daddy? ;think:

  • MsOnederful

    This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate. :no:

  • Chocolate Diva

    OutsidetheBox says:

    This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real
    ******************
    Going back to the other post because the chit Sandra say is ridiculous I swear

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    SAd to say but…

    “birth control mandatory for residents of public housing…”

    I agree with. I also think extensive psychological testing using real kids in real scenrios in a controlled setting needs to be completed before allowing ANY couple to proceed with a birth.

    Sorry.

  • Eazy

    No one should be forced to take anything. I do believe the only thing Obama should change is the prolong assistance to able people. There should be a cut-off/time frame for able people to receive any benefits

  • TiFan4Lyfe

    These hoodrats out here don’t love they kids….I don’t even think they know how to love a child, like nuture and be patient and sensitive so I don’t know why they keep popping them out.

  • Hershey

    The POTUS don’t shyt to do with this moron’s actions, if you go there, let’s go to the Bush’s and Clinton hell let’s make every President liable for shyt like this :nono:

    The children I :pray: are better off than with this sperm receptacle, fuggin idiotic wench need some eyebrows, still using MySpace, don’t deserve a pet rat let alone kids, waste of a life havin azz

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Otb thats my first question when I see children mistreated

  • OutsidetheBox

    I think she still would have been arrested no? The kids too old for that law to save her. I think your child has to be young or something.

    Isnt there a state where she could have dropped them off with no repercussions at all?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    @ Brick City Born: for most women their lust is hormone driven, which makes it impossible for them to not drop their panties. Birth control should be mandatory for them if they accept public assistance. If the Chinese can do it, why can’t Obama?

  • The Makeup Maven

    OutsidetheBox says:

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :cosign:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    And who made babies with that boogawolf, anyway?! Bish LOOKS unstable all smiling in that pic like she the Grinch.

    And where is these babies damn daddy?! He needs to step up two.

    @iscream
    You can only drop them off at a fire station or hospital up until they are 6 months, after that- you gotta keep em or its abandonment.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

    Some people arn’t meant to be parents… *looks in the mirror* :coffee:

    and :dead: @ auntie finding someway to blame this sh*t on Obama… I will give it to her she consistent…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dougie

    I understand your sentiment, but people being forced to take something or do something is no good and so many other things unmentionably wrong…we are in the land of the “free” right????

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    UHMM WHY ARE THESE CHILDREN PHOTOS BEING SHOWN?!?!

  • The Makeup Maven

    Just because your on the system doesn’t mean you can’t be a good mother! There are TONS of women/men who DON’T look to the system for help that are deplorable parents! LAWD, LET ME QUIT TODAY, BECAUSE A BISH WILL SURELY GET HER FIRST BAN TODAY! :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Dougie so those Canadians we talked about in the last post? Those good ole Iranians, yes this would have saved their daughters too right. :(

  • Blackswan

    So all ppl in public housing needs mandatory birth control but the likes of Casey Anthony should have children again??? Oh okay…………………

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Intense thats what I said

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    What was her explanation?
    You know we should NEVER rely on police reports. :nono:

  • Yall still crazy

    That’s a pretty ignorant statement! Some folks need to know that some important people came from the projects…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Sandra

    So you feel that we should be a Communist nation now???? :coffee:

  • Hershey

    @ Intense because they’re not alabaster

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    And why does this muskrat keep having kids, opening her legs, and not using birth control knowing she cant/doesn’t want to take care of them. The first clue is that the oldest one lives with an aunt.

    SIGH.

    There are WAYYYYYY too many options out here nowadays for ANYBODY to be caught popping out babies that they DON’T WANT!

    Patch.
    Pill.
    Abstinence.
    IUD.
    Shot.
    Condom.
    Swallow.
    Vacuum.

    Take your fukking pick! :mad:

  • OutsidetheBox

    The Chinese? The same ppl who wouldve killed you cause you a “girl child”?!?! :blink: :wtf:

  • The Makeup Maven

    <— HATES HERSHEY AND HER GRAVI!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    OutsidetheBox says:

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real!
    __________________

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple. She goes on birth control until such time when she is financially able to raise kids. What’s the problem? :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :dead: @Dougie calling that bish a “boogawolf” …. :rofl: such an insult to actual boogawolfs… :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    So glad they have a face to this monster! Boy she is one UGLY individual inside and out!

  • Hershey

    Maven, you betta leave Ramon alone (pronounced Ray Moan) :hahaha: shyt he’s sexy as heyull, can’t you smell what his thighs are cooking? :hurl:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @SANDRA
    “This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    That means it should apply to those that get most of their income from capital gains and therefore aren’t paying their share of taxes. They are on welfare too because my azz is supporting them! :mad:

    Either pay your share or don’t have kids. I agree Sandra. :coffee:

  • I Go There

    Hey at least she didnt sell em for crack….

    #Silverlining

  • The Makeup Maven

    Sandra Rose says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real!
    __________________

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple. She goes on birth control until such time when she is financially able to raise kids. What’s the problem?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Just actually got extremely pissed………

  • OutsidetheBox

    That broad statement is the problem. I lived in public housing in college cause it was all I could afford with my gits. (I still had to pay!!!)

    Sandra you need to meet some new people. Broaden your horizons.

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    Thanks ladies I wasn’t aware there was an age limit to the drop off service.

    I don’t agree about BC being mandatory for ppl on public assistance but I do believe that they should be tested for drugs to receive assistance. If people who work for the state has to do it then people who receive assistance from the state should have to as well.

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ Hersh – Ray-moan! YOU JUST MADE ME HATE YOU THAT MUCH MORE! :rofl:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @OTB oh no, those Canadian-Iranian parents wouldve failed the psychological testing part and not been allowed to have babies anyway.

    Their parents shouldn’t have even been able to proceed YEARRRSSSS ago knowing the customs of that country. That whole honor killing bs is for the birds.

    But in the US, we don’t believe in that. I have no say on the other countries and their customs, religious or otherwise.

  • OutsidetheBox

    And I am not a kid; I just play one of the internet!

    Grown woman with a grown woman’s mindset. We should do lunch! I’ll pay!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple. She goes on birth control until such time when she is financially able to raise kids. What’s the problem?
    ______________
    The problem is it’s not your business nor your decision its rude to put your views about other women and what they do with their bodies to folks so public housing is for who then?

  • Hershey

    @ OTB :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Sandra

    Your comments are disturbing because what you propose will no doubt be accompanied with so many other forms of invading privacy and lack of freedom…why don’t YOU see that???? :shrugs:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    SAd to say but…

    “birth control mandatory for residents of public housing…”

    I agree with. I also think extensive psychological testing using real kids in real scenrios in a controlled setting needs to be completed before allowing ANY couple to proceed with a birth.

    Sorry.
    __________________

    No need to be sorry. You are being realistic. The government determines their worthiness to qualify for public assistance, the gov. should also evaluate their worthiness to bear children, which end up becoming a burden on society.

  • OutsidetheBox

    You think Public Housing means free. :no: I just cant with you. You win!

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Grown woman with a grown woman’s mindset. We should do lunch! I’ll pay!
    ____________
    :clap:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ Brick City Born: for most women their lust is hormone driven, which makes it impossible for them to not drop their panties. Birth control should be mandatory for them if they accept public assistance.
    ———-
    Is that the same as the sterilization case in NC where women who were thought to be a burden to society were sterilized?

    Oddly, I think certain people should not be allowed to have children. Parenting is not a right it is a choice. I personally am tired of people like this lady having keep a ni–a babies nad living off the system. I know people with 8 kids 5 different daddies and that is not fair to tax payers or the kids.

    I have one kid and I am fixed. I had what I can afford, tolerate, and raise.

    I mean look at all the ppl on section this that and the third fussing about having to be drug tested in FL. IMO if you are on the up and up you abide by the rules, if not then you fuss and blame others.

    Granted some people are a victim of circumstance but I recently overheard a young girl talking about her 2 year old, 3 year old and that she would be 8 months on Tuesday… I just know when I decided to become a parent at 24 I made sure I could fully handle it on my own.

  • Hershey

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple. She goes on birth control until such time when she is financially able to raise kids. What’s the problem?
    ______________
    The problem is it’s not your business nor your decision its rude to put your views about other women and what they do with their bodies to folks so public housing is for who then?
    ________________________________
    :cosign:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    The Makeup Maven says:

    Just because your on the system doesn’t mean you can’t be a good mother! There are TONS of women/men who DON’T look to the system for help that are deplorable parents! LAWD, LET ME QUIT TODAY, BECAUSE A BISH WILL SURELY GET HER FIRST BAN TODAY! :coffee:
    __________________________________________________________________

    :cosign:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @ Brick City Born: for most women their lust is hormone driven, which makes it impossible for them to not drop their panties. Birth control should be mandatory for them if they accept public assistance. If the Chinese can do it, why can’t Obama?

    ————————

    because we are not communists…and it’s a slippery slope once a program like this is started…South Carolina is already embroiled in controversy about forced sterilization of “undesirables” in the 50s and the 60s..what made them “undesirable”? in most cases merely the fact that they are black. what makes you think they won’t do it again? These people who hate the LGBT community probably think some of them should be “fixed” so the don’t go out and have kids….remember it’s a slippery slope. Those who think they are immune are the next victims.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    TiFan4Lyfe says:

    These hoodrats out here don’t love they kids….I don’t even think they know how to love a child, like nuture and be patient and sensitive so I don’t know why they keep popping them out.
    ___________________

    :clap: Exactly. At some point the government needs to step in and control the birthrate of these hoodrats. Too many children are being abused and dying. :no:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    wait i was all types of outraged unitl i saw this “This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.”… WOW!!! Sooo much is wrong about this statement forreal!!! How many people out there are the first in their family to get an education? Should they not be allowed to have been born because the generation before couldnt read? None of us would be here cuz back in the day alot of our ancestors couldnt read.

  • The Makeup Maven

    I…JUST…CAN’T! :no:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    My mother spent her whole life in public housing. So did my Grandma. Both had multiple kids too. Guess I would/should have never been born then, huh? :coffee:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Fefe

    WE are forced to take certain drugs starting at birth anyway in this “land of the free”. I think we all needed a GANG of vaccinations before we could start school or go to daycare with other kids, right?

    Birth control wouldn’t hurt if it was added to the list.

  • The Makeup Maven

    It kills me when opinions become fact! Just because it’s what YOU believe, don’t make it truth! :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    The Makeup Maven says:

    Just because your on the system doesn’t mean you can’t be a good mother! There are TONS of women/men who DON’T look to the system for help that are deplorable parents! LAWD, LET ME QUIT TODAY, BECAUSE A BISH WILL SURELY GET HER FIRST BAN TODAY!
    ——————-
    Id be right behind you cuz hun-KNEE……. lemme just sit and observe the ignorace thats bout to fly in here :kona:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    :offtopic:

    There is a new “reality” show which focuses on Misstress, strippers, video dancers etc similar to BBW and RHOA of Atlanta… look at the types of things we celebrate. This is the message we send to the upcoming generation. Alter yourself, be an ass, and be somebody even if it is only for a season.

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    Just because you live in public housing doesn’t mean you don’t work. :|

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    Chocolate Diva says:

    This fukkin CUNT BYTCH sandwich needs her ass :shotsfired:
    _____________________________________________________________________

    The mother or Sa … nevermind

  • The Makeup Maven

    PrytiBrownIs says:

    The Makeup Maven says:

    Just because your on the system doesn’t mean you can’t be a good mother! There are TONS of women/men who DON’T look to the system for help that are deplorable parents! LAWD, LET ME QUIT TODAY, BECAUSE A BISH WILL SURELY GET HER FIRST BAN TODAY! :coffee:
    ——————-
    Id be right behind you cuz hun-KNEE……. lemme just sit and observe the ignorace thats bout to fly in here :kona:
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Baaaybee listen! :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    Either pay your share or don’t have kids. I agree Sandra. :coffee:
    ________________

    Thanks, Man.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss! :cuss:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @DAWN
    “There is a new “reality” show which focuses on Misstress, strippers, video dancers etc similar to BBW and RHOA of Atlanta… look at the types of things we celebrate. This is the message we send to the upcoming generation. Alter yourself, be an ass, and be somebody even if it is only for a season.”
    _________________________________________________________________________

    Always been this way. It’s just more blatant now.

  • Eazy

    :coffee:

  • http://gravatar.com/mure8noire mure_noire

    This lady should be dropped off in the hot a$$ Shara desert with a 12 ounce bottle of water and no sunblock!!!!!!

    I know this is off the subject…how do I change my gravatar? I have a login for gravatar and everything.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VMFNlXQ_xA&feature=related ELove

    @OTB (Comment #38)
    YEAH The SAME ONES that will line up TEENAGERS in public and SHOOT THEM DEAD becuz THEY want to think for Themselves :blink:

    And THEY ALSO killed Elephants for Their PENIS… They Believe if they EAT Animals SEX-ORGANS it will greatly enhance Their OWN Sexual Potency :coffee:

  • Chocolate Diva

    Stereotyping at its finest. Because one dumb muthafugga does something stupid as hell everyone is blamed for that chit. GTFOH.

  • The Makeup Maven

    FeFe says:

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss! :cuss:
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :cosign: IT’S A BUNCH OF SO CALLED “SANE & WORKING” BISHES RATT NOW THAT DON’T DESERVE NOT KIDS….

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @SANDRA

    You really want to trust the GOVERNMENT to determine who is and is not fit to be a parent? Really? Some of y’all don’t even want the government to tell you what doctors you can go to but you would trust them with something like this? Okay.

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    Oh, wait…I don’t know about having folks “fixed” so they can never have children. :no: I think that should be reserved only for folks who have once abandoned, abused, molested or killed children like Casey Anthony. They should hafta be fixed after conviction, no questions.

    I’m in favor of BIRTH CONTROL options for everyone else until such time as they are better able to have kids.

    Fixing EVERYBODY is a bit extreme.

  • greente

    I must say I agree with Sandra on this one. I do believe that the government needs to step in. This, however should have happened prior to the Obama administration so let’s not just blame him for this.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    OutsidetheBox says:

    I lived in public housing in college cause it was all I could afford with my gits. (I still had to pay!!!)
    __________________

    So having children in your situation would have been affordable? :shrug:

  • Chocolate Diva

    @JMO
    Hamster :coffee:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    Sandra Rose says:

    TiFan4Lyfe says:

    These hoodrats out here don’t love they kids….I don’t even think they know how to love a child, like nuture and be patient and sensitive so I don’t know why they keep popping them out.
    ___________________
    :clap: Exactly. At some point the government needs to step in and control the birthrate of these hoodrats. Too many children are being abused and dying. :no:
    ___________________________________________________________________

    If you keep allowing the government to “step in”, eventually they will change everything and possibly even limit what YOU’RE able to blog about … You don’t see that as a problem??

  • OutsidetheBox

    In Florida, its for TANF and the people protesting are like dudes with cancer and chit smoking government pot.

  • Yall still crazy

    What’s the topic now yall? :waiting:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss!
    _____________
    Right and the ignorant bliss is thick in this piece :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @dawn sheen

    I mean look at all the ppl on section this that and the third fussing about having to be drug tested in FL. IMO if you are on the up and up you abide by the rules, if not then you fuss and blame others

    —————————

    less than 2% of the people tested in fl were positive for drugs…it was a huge waste of money in a state that’s already strapped for cash. and guess what if a person tested positive then they could just designate a relative to get the check so no money was actually saved. Black people should really be more careful about participating in the demonization of the poor. We are not so far removed where the blatant discrimination of the era before the civil rights movement can’t be turned right back on us…it’s happening in a subtle way everyday..some of us think because we got a good job sitting behind a desk that we can’t be touched….i don’t agree..beware.

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    iscream says:

    Just because you live in public housing doesn’t mean you don’t work
    ———-
    When I was in 3rd grade we lived in the projects, we didn’t know we were poor. Both my parents were recovering addicts. They turned their lives around. They both worked. I learned a lot living in the projects for the short time I was there. I met some really great people, some who had lived there forever and some who strived to do better. All I know is life is about choice.

    When I was pregnant I couldn’t work due to bed rest so I had to learn how to go apply for assistance. They didn’t approve me because I made to much in the past so it seems those who need help can’t get it and those who need to lose the crutch, don’t. I ended up living off my 401k.

  • Chocolate Diva

    FeFe says:

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Tatted says:
    IT’S A BUNCH OF SO CALLED “SANE & WORKING” BISHES RATT NOW THAT DON’T DESERVE NOT KIDS….
    **********************
    :cosign:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    Chocolate Diva says:

    @JMO
    Hamster :coffee:
    _____________________

    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dougie

    But those vaccinations did not alter the natural state of our bodies…we were still able to adequately function as normal…like YSo said, you can’t mandate who is allowed a life and who is not allowed a life…yes, I wish these scaliwags would either close their legs or act responsibly, but FORCING them to do something is a bit much to me…I don’t want to feel like I live in Eastern Europe or Asia… :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.

    —————————

    there were 43 other presidents that didn’t see fit to do that either.

  • EB

    There is a new “reality” show which focuses on Misstress, strippers, video dancers etc similar to BBW and RHOA of Atlanta… look at the types of things we celebrate. This is the message we send to the upcoming generation. Alter yourself, be an ass, and be somebody even if it is only for a season.
    _____________

    I saw that story. They said Toya Carter’s husband Mephitz created it and she had her daughter Ragu on set :blink:

  • Chocolate Diva

    :offtopic:
    Did yall see Flavor Flav daughter mughshot. That bytch looks like she was throwing dem hands. :rofl: :rofl:

  • rjk8

    Black women these days are screwed up in the head. Take responsibility for your body. Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their daughters. If you don’t want a child or if you can not afford a child. DON’T HAVE A CHILD. Where did we go wrong?

  • Hershey

    Some of us wouldn’t even be here if this was an actual law… sometimes our personal views and opinions reveal who we really are… :shrugs:

    One of my favorite quotes:
    It’s better to be quiet and thought a fool, than speak and remove all doubt

    President Abraham Lincoln

  • The Makeup Maven

    Chocolate Diva says:

    FeFe says:

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Tatted says:
    IT’S A BUNCH OF SO CALLED “SANE & WORKING” BISHES RATT NOW THAT DON’T DESERVE NOT KIDS….
    **********************
    :cosign:
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I know a few on this blog….. :coffee:

  • Yall still crazy

    Dougie, you can “opt” of of your children being vaccinated though… #justbringupreligion
    —————————————
    I will say this though, IMO, there is no such thing as a planned parenthood, shyt just happens (usually, unless you’re older, & hell even them)then you decide whether or not you will continue on with your pregnancy.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Dawn Sheen says:

    I just know when I decided to become a parent at 24 I made sure I could fully handle it on my own.
    ____________________

    :clap: Good for you hun! There are too many women in public housing who should not be allowed to have any more children until they get off public assistance. They are not capable of birthing babies if they can’t even afford the ones they have. :nono:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    The Makeup Maven says:

    FeFe says:

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    IT’S A BUNCH OF SO CALLED “SANE & WORKING” BISHES RATT NOW THAT DON’T DESERVE NOT KIDS….
    ===================

    :cosign:

  • rjk8

    Correction
    Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their bodies

  • OutsidetheBox

    Sandra I had children BEFORE that situation and still managed to get a degree.

    Youre right. They dont deserve to live.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Hershey says:

    Some of us wouldn’t even be here if this was an actual law… sometimes our personal views and opinions reveal who we really are…

    One of my favorite quotes:
    It’s better to be quiet and thought a fool, than speak and remove all doubt

    President Abraham Lincoln
    —————
    I know I wouldnt and im NOT ashamed to say it.

  • Chocolate Diva

    @Tatted

    Chuuccccccccccccccccccch :coffee:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Yso

    That was different though. Back in your grandparents day, most folks on public housing were either disabled OR working (Black) folks that were just kept out of “better areas” by White folks and such. I’m sure your people wouldve had NO problem moving to another area or NOT being on public housing if given fair wages, and a fair shot. They probably were up and working everyday without fail.

    Since the late 70s, early 80s…its a different story now. Some (not all, but many) folks on public assistance for years and years and years with many kids do so because they don’t WANT to work/earn it and do better. The opportunities are there, but their motivation is not. It’s a big difference.

    I know a chick who is 23 right now. Got a 5, 4, & 2 YO and 5 month old. I want to kick her azz so bad…

  • OutsidetheBox

    datsmdubya2u Thank you. I cant even formulate my thoughts Im so dismayed. :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @dats

    AGREED. Class-ism is a second cousin to Racism…. :coffee:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    I like post like this it brings out two types of people those who can and those who cannot. It creates a roundtable of solutions and brings to light many of the problems we face in America. I do know you get in what you put out… parenting can be frustrating but if it isn’t for you, you know it once you find out you are pregnant… make adult decisions, not excuses.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    When I was pregnant I couldn’t work due to bed rest so I had to learn how to go apply for assistance. They didn’t approve me because I made to much in the past so it seems those who need help can’t get it and those who need to lose the crutch, don’t. I ended up living off my 401k

    —————————–

    You didn’t get it because you had a 401k. you had something saved up. assistance is for people who don’t have anything left at all. you were lucky. look at it that way. sorry if it pushed back your retirement but the taxpayer is not to support people who have other means.

  • Chocolate Diva

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra I had children BEFORE that situation and still managed to get a degree.

    Youre right. They dont deserve to live.
    **********************
    Fool u just made me spit my gotdamn water out. Girl I love yo crazy ass :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHOCOLATE DIVA
    “Did yall see Flavor Flav daughter mughshot.”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Flavor Flav has a daughter???

    God must hate her to make her have half his genes.

  • Yall still crazy

    Who are we to play GOD?

    I’m mad that it’s our money taking care of folks, but I’m mad at the system, not the babies :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    :no: I guess we gone ask obama to be Hitler now

  • The Makeup Maven

    :pray:
    God, grant me the serenity
    To accept the things I cannot change
    The courage to change the things I can
    And the wisdom to know the difference

    AMEN!

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.

    There are a ton of wealthy people who also abuse the system. Why should he or anyone solely focus on residents of public housing? :shrug:

  • rjk8

    @FeFe says:

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss!
    _____________________________________

    They don’t have to tell you or these ghetto hoodrats a dam thing. Only thing they have to do is stop giving you public aid and foodstamps. Watch have fast these rats start taking birth control and/or stop phucking.

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Fefe

    Birth control does NOT alter their normal function. I’ve been on it for almost 10 years and I still have evry bit of the same function I had before just with clearer skin. :-D

    Telling a bish to take a pill everyday so she doesn’t further add collateral damage to her situation will not kill her anymore than a MMR vaccination will.

  • ryand91

    I love how people love to vilianize poor people and black women. But that’s not even the point of this article, even though what she did was messed up, I’d rather her have done that instead of killing them.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    @Fefe

    WE are forced to take certain drugs starting at birth anyway in this “land of the free”. I think we all needed a GANG of vaccinations before we could start school or go to daycare with other kids, right?

    Birth control wouldn’t hurt if it was added to the list.
    ____________________

    :clap: I want to live in a peaceful world again. We cannot have peace with hoodrats on public assistance having babies like rabbits. Those babies eventually grow up and decide they don’t want to work for anything because everything they got growing up was free from the government. This is why BC should be mandatory in the hood until such time when these women can afford to raise their kids.

  • KDub

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple.
    —————————————————
    Umm…she could be in school, working part time, making min. wage at the job she has, etc. Market rate at one public housing I know of here in my town is $750. :shrug: Try working THAT out making $9.00 an hour with two kids, a car note, water, etc.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @rjk8

    I wish you knew what the FCK you were talking about in the first FCKING place! I have never been on public aid and I do not have children…go and pull a CLUE out of your azz!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Sandra I’d bet $5 right now that you havent even been a victim of the crimes youre so adamant against preventing. :no:

    Im scared of the Duggars too. Ooooh! *shudders* Too bad they live on acres and get medicaid! :coffee:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @KDub

    Umm…she could be in school, working part time, making min. wage at the job she has, etc. Market rate at one public housing I know of here in my town is $750. Try working THAT out making $9.00 an hour with two kids, a car note, water, etc.

    ^^^^^ If she has all those issues, then Sandra is correct….she really doesn’t need another baby. She can’t afford one. In school, working or not. She needs to be on some bc so she doesn’t pop out another one. She shouldn’t be FIXED, but just take preventative measures.

  • AllNYC

    This mess makes me so angry! I have heard people saying horrible things to their kids in the street. It breaks my heart because I can only imagine what they say at home.
    You can tell the momma wasn’t worth a crap because the girls did not know their last names. They didn’t know where they lived. A five year old should be able to tell you their FULL name and their mom’s FULL name. They should know what street they live on.

  • I Go There

    The Makeup Maven says:

    God, grant me the serenity
    To accept the things I cannot change
    The courage to change the things I can
    And the wisdom to know the difference

    AMEN!
    _____________________________

    Follow that cab…

  • Chocolate Diva

    I’ll be back later because some muthafuggas are starting to make Pillow look sane and I know that’s when its time for a bytch to bounce. JMO hit my email up when yall go off topic.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VMFNlXQ_xA&feature=related ELove

    @dats (Comment #90)
    TRULY Outstanding Comment Though :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dougie

    Birth Control alters your reproduction state, it alters your hormones…some women do not want that in their bodies and they should have a right to not desire that as well… :shrugs:

  • Yall still crazy

    Telling a bish to take a pill everyday so she doesn’t further add collateral damage to her situation

    We can’t do that though (well literally we can) but you can’t force one’s own beliefs on the masses. To some, birth control is like going against God’s Will.

    Re: BC. If that was the case, the gov’t would began doing this in the 60’s more widespread than just that NC town (I thinkit was NC) :coffee:

  • KDub

    Passes out candles to all the single mommas in here…and lights yall candle with my own….and cues up “Thanks For My Child” by Cheryl Pepsi Riley…. *turns in wayyyyyy up*

    Cause this post and the views of some…is some purity boolshat.

  • cheeks8683

    Wait…did the caption say her updated MYSPACE photo :blink:

    I didn’t know that website still existed :nono:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    :nono: Yall ain’t about to give me arthritis going back and forth with the dumb azz comments being posted … I’ll lurk until the topic changes :kona:

  • The Makeup Maven

    Sandra Rose says:

    I want to live in a peaceful world again. We cannot have peace with hoodrats on public assistance having babies like rabbits. Those babies eventually grow up and decide they don’t want to work for anything because everything they got growing up was free from the government. This is why BC should be mandatory in the hood until such time when these women can afford to raise their kids
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Please oh please tell me when we EVAH lived in a peaceful society. It wasn’t that long ago, our ppl were getting “hosed down” for wanting to eat w/dignity like everyone else, or we were forced to sit on the back of the bus, or our ancestors were forcefully removed out of their homes in the middle of the night to get lynched by a mob or our women were getting raped and misused! PLEASE, PLEASE TELL ME WHEN WERE EVER LIVED IN A PEACEFUL SOCIETY?! :blink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @FeFe

    FeFe says:

    @dats

    AGREED. Class-ism is a second cousin to Racism….

    ————————-
    The thing about it is that alot of the folk complaining about the poor are one or two missed checks away from needing assistance themselves…

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    YSoSrs says:

    You really want to trust the GOVERNMENT to determine who is and is not fit to be a parent?
    _________________

    The government already controls our fitness to serve this country, for government jobs, for public housing, for welfare, etc. Why not make it mandatory for women on public assistance to be on birth control? if they don’t want to comply then they don’t need public assistance. Maybe if they lived on the streets they would think twice about spreading their legs. :shrug:

  • KDub

    Re: BC. If that was the case, the gov’t would began doing this in the 60?s more widespread than just that NC town (I thinkit was NC)
    —————————————–
    Eugenics. It was more than a city. It was the whole state of NC.

    The board sterilized about 7,600 people, many of them against their will, between 1929 and 1974, in an attempt to remove mental illness and “social misbehaviour” from the gene pool. Among the victims were 2000 young people, some as young as ten years old.

    :wail:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    @Fefe

    Birth control does NOT alter their normal function. I’ve been on it for almost 10 years and I still have evry bit of the same function I had before just with clearer skin.

    Telling a bish to take a pill everyday so she doesn’t further add collateral damage to her situation will not kill her anymore than a MMR vaccination will.
    ____________
    But how do we monitor to make it MANDATORY to take birth control? Does she report to the office everyday to be force fed a pill? Or do we force her to take a depo shot? So now we’re forcing women to gain weight also cuz that depo shot is the devil. Or what about the women who for health reaosn cant take birth control because of the hormones? what do we do then? Theres too many variables and its a slippery slope. Yes, the birth control options should and ARE readily available but these women CHOOSE not to take it and unfortunately its nothing we can do to this.

    Just playing devils advocate. What about the middle class white woman who drove her kids into a lake and blamed it on a black man? Is what she did ok cuz she wasnt on public assistance? What about the lady who drowned her 5 children because she said her god told her to do it? was that ok too because she was in a priavte home and not the projects?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    greente says:

    I must say I agree with Sandra on this one. I do believe that the government needs to step in. This, however should have happened prior to the Obama administration so let’s not just blame him for this.
    __________________

    Something needs to be done because we are losing too many innocent people to the spawn of these hoodrats.

  • free

    rjk8 says:

    @FeFe says:

    Too much nonsense! I wish a muhfugga WOULD tell me what to do with my puss!
    _____________________________________

    They don’t have to tell you or these ghetto hoodrats a dam thing. Only thing they have to do is stop giving you public aid and foodstamps. Watch have fast these rats start taking birth control and/or stop phucking.

    ******************************************

    bada BOOM! women’s reluctance to regulate their own puss activities have resulted in ridiculous spikes in child abuse, child murders, malnutrition, starvation, and other assorted child-related hoodrattedness. ultimately, the children suffer.

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @tatted (the most beautiful)

    Please oh please tell me when we EVAH lived in a peaceful society. It wasn’t that long ago, our ppl were getting “hosed down” for wanting to eat w/dignity like everyone else, or we were forced to sit on the back of the bus, or our ancestors were forcefully removed out of their homes in the middle of the night to get lynched by a mob or our women were getting raped and misused! PLEASE, PLEASE TELL ME WHEN WERE EVER LIVED IN A PEACEFUL SOCIETY?
    ————————

    HELLO!!!! DING DING DING!!!!!! :cosign: da hail outta dat.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @DOUGIE

    I agree that some just don’t want to do better when given chance after chance. I know too many women that should have stopped a few kids ago or never started in the first place. But I still have a problem with some strangers deciding whether or not I can have a baby (be it temporarily or permanently).

    I think all this comes from honest anger and frustration at the system and the people who abuse it and their kids. While I don’t know the answers for these things, I don’t think forced BC or sterilization is the best one.

  • ryand91

    @KDub, go ahead and pass me a candle. You stay in Raleigh, right?

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    datsmdubya2u says:

    You didn’t get it because you had a 401k. you had something saved up. assistance is for people who don’t have anything left at all. you were lucky. look at it that way. sorry if it pushed back your retirement but the taxpayer is not to support people who have other means.

    ———-

    People with other means should include able body folks who receive public assistance who are able to work. In my case I was in the bed for 6 months during and 8 months after pregnancy. In my case there was no assistance for a tax payer who has been paying taxes since I was 15 but I feel ill and they couldn’t help but I was told had I not saved then I would have qualified… damned if you do damned if you don’t… it is the way of the world.

    BUT I do see your point. BECAUSE I have always grinded from the bottom it is hard for me to accept excuses…

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    “There are a ton of wealthy people who also abuse the system. Why should he or anyone solely focus on residents of public housing? ”
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    Don’t NO ONE get more from the system than the wealthy while puttin in the least! They spend so much time attacking the poor most people don’t realize it.
    :smack:
    :no: <smh

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Fefe

    It doesn’t cause permanent damage though (usually.) When they want to have kids and are out of financial ruin, they can come off of the pill, shot, iud, patch, whatever, and go right back to their plan.

    I’m not in favor of fixing folks who havent killed, maimed, molested, abandoned or abused kids yet, just saying bc would not hurt.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Mississippi Appendectomies for everyone. :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    KDub says:

    Passes out candles to all the single mommas in here…and lights yall candle with my own….and cues up “Thanks For My Child” by Cheryl Pepsi Riley…. *turns in wayyyyyy up*

    Cause this post and the views of some…is some purity boolshat.
    ————-
    sways side to side singing with you !!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dougie

    Some women also can’t take birth control for health reasons…I have a relative who has a cyst on her brain, and she cannot take BC because the doctor’s do not know if it will agitate her or make it grow…some women get blood clots from BC, some women just get all around fcked up…I’ve used birth control before, but I know of women who don’t want to use it for religious reasons… :shrugs:

  • KDub

    If she has all those issues, then Sandra is correct….she really doesn’t need another baby. She can’t afford one. In school, working or not. She needs to be on some bc so she doesn’t pop out another one. She shouldn’t be FIXED, but just take preventative measures.
    —————————————————
    I agree.

  • The Makeup Maven

    datsmdubya2u says:

    @tatted (the most beautiful)

    Please oh please tell me when we EVAH lived in a peaceful society. It wasn’t that long ago, our ppl were getting “hosed down” for wanting to eat w/dignity like everyone else, or we were forced to sit on the back of the bus, or our ancestors were forcefully removed out of their homes in the middle of the night to get lynched by a mob or our women were getting raped and misused! PLEASE, PLEASE TELL ME WHEN WERE EVER LIVED IN A PEACEFUL SOCIETY?
    ————————

    HELLO!!!! DING DING DING!!!!!! :cosign da hail outta dat.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    First off, thank you for the compliment and second :dead: @ your ding ding ding! :lol:

  • Eazy

    I could careless about birth control being forced to any woman, all I care about is the dependency one gets when receiving aide from the govt. There are no restictions on services given to families that are able to find work and actually pay taxes

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    rjk8 says:

    Black women these days are screwed up in the head. Take responsibility for your body. Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their daughters. If you don’t want a child or if you can not afford a child. DON’T HAVE A CHILD. Where did we go wrong?
    _________________

    :applause:

  • Ty

    This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.
    _______________
    :blink:

    Nevermind :coffee:

  • rjk8

    @OutsidetheBox says:

    That broad statement is the problem. I lived in public housing in college cause it was all I could afford with my gits. (I still had to pay!!!)

    Sandra you need to meet some new people. Broaden your horizons.
    ______________________________________

    Sandra doesn’t need to do a dam thing. She knows exactly what she’s talking about. You all act like you don’t know who’s kids are committing all of these crimes and who’s kids are failing in school. Sandra, they can’t handle the truth

  • Hershey

    Sandra Rose says:

    YSoSrs says:

    You really want to trust the GOVERNMENT to determine who is and is not fit to be a parent?
    _________________

    The government already controls our fitness to serve this country, for government jobs, for public housing, for welfare, etc. Why not make it mandatory for women on public assistance to be on birth control? if they don’t want to comply then they don’t need public assistance. Maybe if they lived on the streets they would think twice about spreading their legs.
    __________________________________________________________
    That’s a lie, I have a Gov’t job, and I work for and with some dayum morons, I know several people who aren’t fit to milk a cow for a living, but they sit on their lard filled azzes putting fresh tracks in their hair because they sweated them out over the weekend, and earn $45,000 to boot, spare me. :violin: :hurl:

  • KyCakes

    Chocolate Diva says:

    :offtopic:
    Did yall see Flavor Flav daughter mughshot. That bytch looks like she was throwing dem hands. :rofl: :rofl:
    ——————————————————————–
    Dazayna…You need more people, ma :no:

    I wouldn’t have even known how to pronounce her name, if she hadn’t been clowned on the Flavor Flav Roast on Comedy Central…..

  • KDub

    @KDub, go ahead and pass me a candle. You stay in Raleigh, right
    ————————————
    Yep…. (passes candle)

  • OutsidetheBox

    *sways*

    We gone play “Zion” next.

  • Yall still crazy

    The board sterilized about 7,600 people, many of them against their will, between 1929 and 1974, in an attempt to remove mental illness and “social misbehaviour” from the gene pool. Among the victims were 2000 young people, some as young as ten years old.

    ————————-
    Dougie, so you can honestly say that this ^^^ is cool with you?

    You know I can’t stand hoodrats, but I will never think of one of God’s children (babies) as not worthy of living :coffee:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    What about that SC girl who 2 year old son is missing cause folks say she crazy and they stopped looking for him. She in jail and pregnant again. She killed one kid now having another…

  • Blackswan

    Why is it just needed for ppl in public housing? Do you know how many ppl get gov’t assistance other than housing? Any type of gov’t assistance is considered welfare whether it be housing, food stamps, tax breaks or subsidies.

  • I Go There

    This isnt about kids IMO its about people not wanting to spend money for taxes to help others. Touchy subject… its also the so called “have” making rules for the so called have nots.

    I would go back to Africa
    but them Real Housewives Heffas there…. so what am i to do.

  • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

    Very sad and I’m sure the dad or dads are NOwhere around! Smh! I have a dear friend that is struggling to get pregnant with NO luck, then you see this fool acting a monkey! I swear the world can be so backwards at time! :coffee:

  • The Makeup Maven

    Must I do the serenity prayer again?! :no:

  • cheeks8683

    Hey at least she didnt sell em for crack….

    #Silverlining
    ________________________________________________

    And as horrible as this sounds, because this should not be an option and she was DEFINATELY out of order, at least she did not harm them any further which is the route alot of distressed parents are taking, Butto leave them on a busy street? Was she high? #realquestion

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra I had children BEFORE that situation and still managed to get a degree.

    Youre right. They dont deserve to live.
    __________________

    There you go thinking with your emotions. If you had your kids before that situation then it means you could afford them, right? Now, if you had another kid while you were IN that situation, that would have been irresponsible of you since you couldn’t afford to have another kid at that time.

  • caligirl

    KDub says:

    Passes out candles to all the single mommas in here…and lights yall candle with my own….and cues up “Thanks For My Child” by Cheryl Pepsi Riley…. *turns in wayyyyyy up*

    Cause this post and the views of some…is some purity boolshat.

    ________________
    Girl you just gave me some life, that’s was the jam…..

    Before she goes to work in a store, where I gotta re-count the change she gives me…Let’s get her some mental help, or throws my picks up food off the floor in the restaurant she works at…..Cause when you mad and crazy you don’t care.

    Let’s find out her real issues, we know that if you don’t have a job, no education, no support you don’t need a baby. DUHHHHHH :shrug:

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    I HATE HOW THE MEDIA BENDS/BREAKS THE RULE FOR THEIR OWN AGENDA

    IT’S OBVIOUS THE MOTHER NEEDS PSYCHIATRIC HELP, TO ABANDON THOSE CHILDREN LIKE THAT

    CPS NEEDS TO GET INVOLVED AND PROTECT THOSE CHILDREN, WHAT GOOD DOES IT DO, TO SHOW THE CHILDREN’S FACES, I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THEM GOOGLING THEMSELVES 5 YRS FROM NOW AND FALLING ON THIS PIC AND HOW DAMAGING IT COULD BE TO THEIR SELF-ESTEEM

    IT’S LIKE THEY’RE SAYING PO CHLLIN LOOK AT WHAT THEY’S MAMMYS DONE DID AND THIS HERE NICE WHITE OFFICER, DONE CAMES TO SAVE US, THEYS SUCH GOODS PEOPLE-GREAT PHOTO OPP, SEE NEGROES ARE ANIMALS LOOK AT WHAT THEY DO

    SHE DID, DAMMIT, AND SHE DOESN’T REPRESENT ANYONE BUT HER DAMN SELF

  • KDub

    sways side to side singing with you !!!
    —————————————–
    I you done seent the skruggle…sang with us (sways)

  • The Makeup Maven

    I Go There says:

    This isnt about kids IMO its about people not wanting to spend money for taxes to help others. Touchy subject… its also the so called “have” making rules for the so called have nots.

    I would go back to Africa
    but them Real Housewives Heffas there…. so what am i to do.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :lol: YOU GO THERE IF YO AZZ WANT TOO! HALF OF THOSE THERE DON’T E’EM WANNA BE THERE! :coffee:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Pryti
    All bc doesn’t blow you up. For those who cannot take the bc due to hormone issues, they should hafta sign a contract stating that if they get pregnant while on public assistance, they relinquish their assistance and may have to backpay it depending on how far into their pregnancy they were when they were diagnosed as “pregnant.”

    As for the parents who drown their kids, drive them into lakes: for that, I suggested everybody complete a type of psychological testing in a controlled setting with real kids in real life scenarios before being given the “okay” to proceed. Some of those folks were crazy from the start and shouldve been cut off before the babies were killed.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    rjk8 says:

    Black women these days are screwed up in the head. Take responsibility for your body. Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their daughters. If you don’t want a child or if you can not afford a child. DON’T HAVE A CHILD. Where did we go wrong?

    ——————————-

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Eazy says:

    I could careless about birth control being forced to any woman, all I care about is the dependency one gets when receiving aide from the govt. There are no restictions on services given to families that are able to find work and actually pay taxes

    ———
    I do believe the system needs to be revamped and it not be so easy to just live off the system. But to take control of a womans reporductive rights….thats unconstitutional.

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    rjk8 says:

    Black women these days are screwed up in the head. Take responsibility for your body. Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their daughters. If you don’t want a child or if you can not afford a child. DON’T HAVE A CHILD. Where did we go wrong?

    ———–
    I tell folks this all the time all I know is when my head goes cold NOBODY will ever be able to say I didn’t train up my child in the way that she should go. As a single parent I have NEVER spoken ill of her father to her although she has only seen him twice. I will spend my last breath ensuring that she knows to think, do, and be accountable for herself. She will not be a statistic, not now or ever. Just as I have never played the single mother victim role. TI said it best you be a victim, I’ll be a victor.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____
    THIS! Since we need the government to be all up in our reproductive systems and sht.

  • The Makeup Maven

    Sandra Rose says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra I had children BEFORE that situation and still managed to get a degree.

    Youre right. They dont deserve to live.
    __________________

    There you go thinking with your emotions. If you had your kids before that situation then it means you could afford them, right? Now, if you had another kid while you were IN that situation, that would have been irresponsible of you since you couldn’t afford to have another kid at that time.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Sandra, I would really appreciate you answering my question…post # 136 because that statement you made about wanting a civilized society tends to make many feel you were thinking w/your emotions as well….

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    “@Dawn Sheen says:

    What about that SC girl who 2 year old son is missing cause folks say she crazy and they stopped looking for him. She in jail and pregnant again. She killed one kid now having another…”
    ——–

    And she’s one of the ones who shouldv’e been forced to be sterilized after it was realize she killed the first one. I have ZERO tolerance for that.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    Telling a bish to take a pill everyday so she doesn’t further add collateral damage to her situation will not kill her anymore than a MMR vaccination will.
    ____________________

    Thank you! You’re on a roll today. :D

  • OutsidetheBox

    Everyone needs a friend! Skip my font for I loose my log-in. This topic is totally worth it! :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @Pryti
    All bc doesn’t blow you up. For those who cannot take the bc due to hormone issues, they should hafta sign a contract stating that if they get pregnant while on public assistance, they relinquish their assistance and may have to backpay it depending on how far into their pregnancy they were when they were diagnosed as “pregnant.”

    As for the parents who drown their kids, drive them into lakes: for that, I suggested everybody complete a type of psychological testing in a controlled setting with real kids in real life scenarios before being given the “okay” to proceed. Some of those folks were crazy from the start and shouldve been cut off before the babies were killed

    —————————

    I think dey do that in the middle east or Somalia or somewhere

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    SO U READY TO OPEN THAT PUZZY BUT NOT READY FOR THE KID.. SILLY HO3… :coffee: SO WHAT OFFTOPIC WE ON??

  • CFREE

    stupid bytch :cuss:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @BLACK SWAN
    “Any type of gov’t assistance is considered welfare whether it be housing, food stamps, tax breaks or subsidies.”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    :claps:
    How often do you hear of the “other welfare?”

  • OSHH

    SMH @ this story.

    What people need are parenting classes when preggo no matter what socio-economic demo you fall in. Those classes should be mandatory, then if the parent(s) feels as though they can’t handle the responsibility they have other options besides abuse.

  • The Makeup Maven

    datsmdubya2u says:

    rjk8 says:

    Black women these days are screwed up in the head. Take responsibility for your body. Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their daughters. If you don’t want a child or if you can not afford a child. DON’T HAVE A CHILD. Where did we go wrong?

    ——————————-

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    YOU BETTA :preach: I SEE WE GOIN’ BACK & FORTH TODAY!

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    Sandra Rose says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra I had children BEFORE that situation and still managed to get a degree.

    Youre right. They dont deserve to live.
    __________________

    There you go thinking with your emotions.

    —————
    I would give my left nipple if folks would learn to stay out they feelings…. good night… moon.

    Half the comments in here be feelings based which sucks.

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @BLACK SWAN
    “Any type of gov’t assistance is considered welfare whether it be housing, food stamps, tax breaks or subsidies.”
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    How often do you hear of the “other welfare?”

    —————-

    viva la tax breaks.. one hand washes the other BUT least I earn my tax break.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Sandra

    So you are Pro-Communism huh???

  • The Makeup Maven

    YSoSrs says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____
    THIS! Since we need the government to be all up in our reproductive systems and sht.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :applause: to my future child’s god-mammy!

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra I’d bet $5 right now that you havent even been a victim of the crimes youre so adamant against preventing.
    _________________

    That’s not true. I have been robbed and lost many valuable possessions to the spawn of hoodrats who grew up thinking they were entitled to our tax dollars and that they shouldn’t have to work for a living.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Sandra I had 5 of them mugs. And I do it all. Damn near about to pay child support to a non-custodial parent. But whatever. youve made up your mind. And thats cool. Glad you cant vote though. :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IWtxLhniC4&sns=fb Jerrica

    Birth control isn’t 100% though.

  • OSHH

    I agree that this system is as corrput as the day is long and a$$ backwards, the wealthy play it like a fiddle.

  • ryand91

    @Kdug, do you watch channel 11 news? Because I need help with kidnapping Fred Shropshire’s fine a$$.

  • Ty

    Eazy says:

    No one should be forced to take anything. I do believe the only thing Obama should change is the prolong assistance to able people. There should be a cut-off/time frame for able people to receive any benefits
    _______________
    They wont approve this Eazy :nono: The reason is because 75% of the benefits are going to alabaster citizens and they will not give them a timeframe to get their shyt together. They will just ride the system until lil Becky has kids and she will start to ride the system just like her sorry azz parents.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    JERRICA… NO THE FUK IT AINT!! :cuss:

  • KDub

    Birth control should be mandatory for them if they accept public assistance.
    ———————————————–
    Ummm so when I was 19 just left home, took my baby to step out on my own…moved to the pj’s and went to school part time and worked part time…I shoulda been on mandatory birth control?

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    @Pryti
    All bc doesn’t blow you up. For those who cannot take the bc due to hormone issues, they should hafta sign a contract stating that if they get pregnant while on public assistance, they relinquish their assistance and may have to backpay it depending on how far into their pregnancy they were when they were diagnosed as “pregnant.”

    As for the parents who drown their kids, drive them into lakes: for that, I suggested everybody complete a type of psychological testing in a controlled setting with real kids in real life scenarios before being given the “okay” to proceed. Some of those folks were crazy from the start and shouldve been cut off before the babies were killed.
    _________________
    So while we’re just asying eff the rights that women were granted as a part of the constitution….do we make black people slaves again? do we take our right to vote? do we make murder legal? like where does the slippery slope stop?

  • Chocolate Diva

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    ********************************
    This chit right here is the TRUTH :cosign:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    KDub says:

    Birth control should be mandatory for them if they accept public assistance.
    ———————————————–
    Ummm so when I was 19 just left home, took my baby to step out on my own…moved to the pj’s and went to school part time and worked part time…I shoulda been on mandatory birth control?
    ————-
    According to these people your child should have been killed IMMED! smh

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    PrytiBrownIs says:

    But how do we monitor to make it MANDATORY to take birth control?
    ____________________

    Blood tests every month when they pick up their WIC coupons.

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Ya’ll

    I said nothing about what happened int he Carolina’s years ago. I don’t support MASS STEILIZATION EXCEPT FOR CHILD ABUSERS.

    EVERYBODY ELSE JUST NEEDS TO TAKE SOME PREVENTATIVE MEASURES OR CLOSE THEIR FUKKING LEGS UNTIL THEY CAN AFFORD THEM AND ARE MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY READY TO TAKE ON THE RESPONSIBILITY OF BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR OTHER LIVES.

    That’s all.

    I ain’t said for the govt to go around pulling ya’ll ovaries out and burning them in effigy. Gosh.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Chocolate Diva says:

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people

    —————
    Does a praise dance all over this post bout this right here!!!!!!!

  • OutsidetheBox

    Im sorry? *turns off the person part of me* :blink:

    Its basically been said that I shouldve been monitored like a stray cat cause I lived in public housing. Forgive me, that evoked feelings. Wow. :blink:

  • rjk8

    @FeFe says:

    @Dougie

    Birth Control alters your reproduction state, it alters your hormones…some women do not want that in their bodies and they should have a right to not desire that as well… :shrugs:
    __________________________________

    No one and people don’t care how many kids you have, but don’t expect my tax dollars to finance your irresponsibility if you can’t feed, clothe and house them. People care that you can’t take care of your kids financially and aren’t raising them to be responsible adults. Look at the black community with all of these kids by hoodrats. Look at the schools with all of these kids of hoodrats. If you think that’s normal, you’re as hopeless as them.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    free says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born.
    ________________

    :applause:

  • Yall still crazy

    Good point Jerrica :thumbsup:

    You can say that agane OTB :coffee:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    THIS IS COMPLETE BULLCHIT!
    WOMEN and WOMEN ALONE decide whether or not to have children.

    If MY tax dollars didn’t act as a collection agent for WOMEN deciding to have babies with men that DON’T want to be fathers we would have FAR less people in the system.

  • cheeks8683

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    ********************************
    This chit right here is the TRUTH
    ____________________________________

    :clap: :clap: :clap: :bow:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    *sigh* …I can’t… :kona:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Sandra Rose says:

    PrytiBrownIs says:

    But how do we monitor to make it MANDATORY to take birth control?
    ____________________

    Blood tests every month when they pick up their WIC coupons.
    ____________

    dont take the piss all month and then pop a few in the days leading up to the blood test….doesnt make them any good at preventing preg BUT will get you your free milk cheese and cheerios. NEXT!!!

  • KDub

    @Kdug, do you watch channel 11 news? Because I need help with kidnapping Fred Shropshire’s fine a$$.
    —————————————–
    Fred is fione as HAIL. I done seen him up close! SHEW…BUT…he is married to the Hispanic chick on the same station. Cheyenne Rodriguez. They came to this area from…Texas I think together. (I am a former member of Triangle Minority Journalists Association)

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    If you believe in forced sterilization then they can start in the rural areas of Pennsylvania, Ohio, Indiana, Missouri, Arkansas, Alabama, Colorado, Washington state, Oregon and New Mexico, Texas where White folks on Welfare is Rampant Rampant Rampant.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :blink: LET ME GO GET THE FUK UP OUT THIS POST.. :kona:

  • rjk8

    @OutsidetheBox says:

    Im sorry? *turns off the person part of me* :blink:

    Its basically been said that I shouldve been monitored like a stray cat cause I lived in public housing. Forgive me, that evoked feelings.
    _____________________________

    Aren’t you the chick who had like 5 kids and was never married? If not, excuse me.

  • caligirl

    Don’t agree with what she did, but its alot sick girls out here, alot young females (some aren’t so young). Many don’t have anyone to assist them in doing the right thing. Poor thing may have been abused. Maybe not….WE, have all made the mistake that we believed a man or woman would love us no matter what. MANY of us missed the bullet and was blessed not to become pregnant. Maybe it’s because you were smart enough to take the pill or you had enough money to get an abortion.

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    KDubs says:

    If she has all those issues, then Sandra is correct….she really doesn’t need another baby. She can’t afford one. In school, working or not. She needs to be on some bc so she doesn’t pop out another one. She shouldn’t be FIXED, but just take preventative measures.
    —————————————————
    I agree.
    __________________

    :applause:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    Chocolate Diva says:

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    ********************************
    This chit right here is the TRUTH :cosign:
    ___________________________________________________________________

    We were “lurking” CD!! geez :smack:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Blood tests every month when they pick up their WIC coupons.
    _________________________________________________________________

    IGNORANCE!!!! :rofl: :rofl: WIC?? Lawd i die. I win! :champ:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @SIS

    DON’T DO IT MISS CELIE! :hugs:

    @JERRICA

    Exactly. BC isn’t a 100%. So what do we do with the women that we’re honestly taking their pills and ended up pregnant anyway? Forced abortions? Do some of y’all not see what a slippery slope this can become?

  • Hershey

    Sandra Rose says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    Sandra I’d bet $5 right now that you havent even been a victim of the crimes youre so adamant against preventing.
    _________________

    That’s not true. I have been robbed and lost many valuable possessions to the spawn of hoodrats who grew up thinking they were entitled to our tax dollars and that they shouldn’t have to work for a living.
    ____________________________________
    Rich white kids never commit crimes of robbery, drug manufacturing/distributing/use, they’re perfect right? You dumb azz ninja bishes in here arguing when you should be out getting a pill, shot, or sterilized so you don’t raise hoodrats…GTFOH with this fuggery, can’t no one tell me what to do with my cooch but me. I’m glad you have a blog Sandra and aren’t involved in creating laws :nono: I’m so thankful for this…and I’m not being emotional

  • Eazy

    Ty says:
    They wont approve this Eazy The reason is because 75% of the benefits are going to alabaster citizens and they will not give them a timeframe to get their shyt together. They will just ride the system until lil Becky has kids and she will start to ride the system just like her sorry azz parents.
    ____________
    and this is the problem

  • The Makeup Maven

    <—- what needs to happen is that these niggas AND YEP I SAID IT NIGGAS that impregnating these women need to get a vasectomy if this is the case! Why the woman ALWAYS have to be held accountable, as if she made the baby on her own! Make these azzholes take their azz to the military so they have no choice but to pay child support!

  • ryand91

    @Kdub, I know he’s married to her I don’t give a fluck lol. They have a baby on the way as well. I just wanted to know if you wanted to get in on my kidnapping plot, lol.

  • Ty

    Blackswan says:

    So all ppl in public housing needs mandatory birth control but the likes of Casey Anthony should have children again??? Oh okay…………………
    _________________
    No Casey deserves/allowed to be a parent since she can read and not receiving benefits from the state :smirk:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    THIS IS COMPLETE BULLCHIT!
    WOMEN and WOMEN ALONE decide whether or not to have children.

    If MY tax dollars didn’t act as a collection agent for WOMEN deciding to have babies with men that DON’T want to be fathers we would have FAR less people in the system.
    ——————
    I have always said that before you are allowed to collect for children there should be an active child support order on file!! (if im not mistaken some states have started this). Therefore the state has a man to go after for taking care of his responsibility. Cuz while we’re comin at these girls for having babaies…last i checked there were hood dudes getting them preg. why not sterilize them too?

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    THIS IS COMPLETE BULLCHIT!
    WOMEN and WOMEN ALONE decide whether or not to have children.

    If MY tax dollars didn’t act as a collection agent for WOMEN deciding to have babies with men that DON’T want to be fathers we would have FAR less people in the system.

    ——————
    I will never say this again BUT I agree with you man…

    I had a baby by a guy who didn’t want one BUT I wanted one. I haven’t bothered him to this day. It is rare but you have a point women have babies to keep men which never works. I mean look at all the outside babies running round from affairs and stuff.

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Pryti

    Hell yes!!! Wtf you need a constitutional right to get pregnant for right now if you cant even pay your own bills?! Fukking and popping out babies needs to be LAST on a LONG list of priorities if you are on public assistance right now.

    You gave up your right when you applied, sh*t! You gave up your right when I started subsidizing your income! And I don’t give a damn if youre black, white, yellow, purple or plaid!

    Your hot azz needs to take some preventative measures before you pop out another kid that we, the fukking village, has to provide the fiscal come-uppance for!

  • OutsidetheBox

    :hahaha: Prolly hurts you too your gravi less heart that I take care of all their honor-rolling ass by myself too. :coffee:

  • Yall still crazy

    But Dougie, you are fortunate enough to not have to depend on welfare.

    BUT FOR ARGUMENT’S SAKE: WHAT IF YOU WERE POOR? Would you be any less attracted to Mister? Would you love him any less, or he you?

    I doubt it.

    & That’s my argument, I just want you to see that we can’t control our urges, and sometimes accidents happen. Free will.

    NOW I AM NOT TALMBOUT THE :chickenhead: s that live by this creed and abuse the system.

  • lovezoe

    People kill me talking g about what was going on but didn’t do anything to intervene. I WILL call CPS of need be.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    THIS IS COMPLETE BULLCHIT!
    WOMEN and WOMEN ALONE decide whether or not to have children.

    If MY tax dollars didn’t act as a collection agent for WOMEN deciding to have babies with men that DON’T want to be fathers we would have FAR less people in the system.

    ————————–

    nuhhh unnn playa if you droppin your semen off you got to own up to it too. Go get a vasectomy if you don’t want kids then….

  • I Go There

    YSoSrs says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____
    THIS! Since we need the government to be all up in our reproductive systems and sht.
    __________________________________

    This the biggest thing right there. We talk about these mothers when we dont say much about these fathers walking around here doing nothing.
    I read back where someone was talking about crime and kids making poor grades in school.. thats not just the mothers fault its the fathers as well even more so. But the design of wellfare is flawed…. families got more money when the father wasnt around thus making father and the family unit obselete IMO… Now people want to cry about crime and the young lady with the 4 or 5 kids by diffent dudes if the family unit had stayed strong none of that would be going on. And now people think they can just put shait back into the horse by making laws like making women take BC pills… Sorry but that wouldnt work either.

  • The Makeup Maven

    And while we’re clampin’ nuts off, lets start w/Lil’ Waynes gremlin looking azz! :coffee:

  • OutsidetheBox

    Sis im cool. Ppl like that are all over the internet.

    Couldnt pay that bish mortgage to come at somebody on the turf like that though. It is what it is. We all great on the net! :coffee:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Hershey says:

    Rich white kids never commit crimes of robbery, drug manufacturing/distributing/use, they’re perfect right?
    __________________

    Did I mention black people? Are black people the only hoodrats living on public assistance in America? :shrug:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    I am going to make a comment then leave cause y’all gone read it wrong and smite me… some of the anger in this post stems from the fact that some in here ARE this girl…. or grew up with a parent like her. Life dealt those kids an ufair hand….

  • rjk8

    @datsmdubya2u says:

    rjk8 says:

    Black women these days are screwed up in the head. Take responsibility for your body. Teach your daughters to take responsibility for their daughters. If you don’t want a child or if you can not afford a child. DON’T HAVE A CHILD. Where did we go wrong?

    ——————————-

    Females of all races are freefluckin all over the place…the difference is pregnant white girls get a mtv reality show and get to go on dancing with the stars to make some change. Black girls get demonized and insulted and degraded many times by her own people.
    _____________________________________

    Sounds good and so self righteous that is until you look at the rate of kids by never married hoodrats. lol The illegitimacy rate is what 4 times their rate and that’s after 50% of the black kids are aborted. Try again

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    The Makeup Maven says:

    <—- what needs to happen is that these niggas AND YEP I SAID IT NIGGAS that impregnating these women need to get a vasectomy if this is the case! Why the woman ALWAYS have to be held accountable, as if she made the baby on her own! Make these azzholes take their azz to the military so they have no choice but to pay child support!

    ——————-

    Yep if we force the female to take bc the force the man into the military…he goin get shot anyway let them tell it. chile you won't be able to buy a dack if that starts happening..

  • Chocolate Diva

    @JMO

    Sorry I had Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____________________________________________________________________________

    Man says:
    THIS IS COMPLETE BULLCHIT!
    WOMEN and WOMEN ALONE decide whether or not to have children.

    If MY tax dollars didn’t act as a collection agent for WOMEN deciding to have babies with men that DON’T want to be fathers we would have FAR less people in the system.
    **************************************

    Well if the bastard kept his dyck in his pants he would not have a problem now would he. MUTHAFUGGA YOU PLAY YOU PAY GOTDAMMIT

  • The Makeup Maven

    I think a lot of ppl may be angry because they believe these comments to be dumb as chit!

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    Sandra Rose says:

    Hershey says:

    Rich white kids never commit crimes of robbery, drug manufacturing/distributing/use, they’re perfect right?
    __________________

    Did I mention black people? Are black people the only hoodrats living on public assistance in America?
    ———–
    You could have said black eye pea and somebody would have turned this into a post about Will.I.Am. selective reading… a requirement of this blog… :)

  • Chocolate Diva

    @JMO

    Come on lets go back in the —–> :kona:

  • KyCakes

    The older one is looking like “Welp, thems the brakes”

  • OutsidetheBox

    I WILL call CPS of need be.

    Me too. My family laughs about this. They all joke dont do that around Shaun. :lol:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    I am actually with Man & Dawn on #230.

    @RJK8
    I can’t agree with you on anything. You’re too extreme. And I believe OTB has 5 kids, a degree, a house and some more sh*t and I have yet to see her font about her kids stealing, robbing, shooting or killing so your theory doesn’t apply.

  • I Go There

    With this vesectomy talk yall know yall sounding like China… LOL

    That leaves too much room for the flood gates to open.

    Getting one of those isnt the easyiest thing on deciding to do it.

  • The Makeup Maven

    datsmdubya2u says:

    The Makeup Maven says:

    <—- what needs to happen is that these niggas AND YEP I SAID IT NIGGAS that impregnating these women need to get a vasectomy if this is the case! Why the woman ALWAYS have to be held accountable, as if she made the baby on her own! Make these azzholes take their azz to the military so they have no choice but to pay child support!

    ——————-

    Yep if we force the female to take bc the force the man into the military…he goin get shot anyway let them tell it. chile you won't be able to buy a dack if that starts happening..
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :ghost:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    The Makeup Maven says:

    I think a lot of ppl may be angry because they believe these comments to be dumb as chit!

    —————
    They are mad… like a french fry on the floor borad of Rick Ross car.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IWtxLhniC4&sns=fb Jerrica

    datsmdubya2u says:

    If you believe in forced sterilization then they can start in the rural areas of Pennsylvania, Ohio, Indiana, Missouri, Arkansas, Alabama, Colorado, Washington state, Oregon and New Mexico, Texas where White folks on Welfare is Rampant Rampant Rampant.
    ______________________________________________________________

    Especially Oregon.

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    Im eating brownies and cream cheese for my afternoon snack. What is everyone else eating?? :waiting:

    :pray: for a topic change cuz ION wanna work n e mo

  • Hershey

    @ Dawn no you didn’t!!!!!!!!!!

    lemme find out you think bad of me

    :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Sounds good and so self righteous that is until you look at the rate of kids by never married hoodrats. lol The illegitimacy rate is what 4 times their rate and that’s after 50% of the black kids are aborted. Try again

    ______________________________

    I need a link to the 50% abortion rate. and not from a right wing white so called “christian” website. They say black women are having more abortions to make white folks mad. All you have to do to make a white person be against something is say a lot of black folks are doing it.

  • ryand91

    @JMO, I haven’t had an afternoon snack. I had a steak and cheese for lunch but these iggnant nigs coming into my job have taken my appetite for the rest of the day.

  • OutsidetheBox

    No my poor daughter is getting weave checked by bully ass two parent ass kids! :hahaha:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    The Makeup Maven says:

    I think a lot of ppl may be angry because they believe these comments to be dumb as chit!

    _______

    :yes: My emotions ain’t in a dayum thang…This chick is NOT ME, and I don’t HANG with chicks like this…but one mandate is SURE to lead to another, and another, and another… :coffee:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    Chocolate Diva says:

    @JMO

    Come on lets go back in the —–> :kona:
    _______________________________________________________________________

    Wanna borrow Candi’s jump rope and play? —> :nino:

  • The Makeup Maven

    KyCakes says:

    The older one is looking like “Welp, thems the brakes”
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: DID I MENTION TODAY I HATE’CHO FUGGIN’ GUTS! :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VMFNlXQ_xA&feature=related ELove

    @OTB
    ALOT of these comments are PURE IGNORANT-Based becuz they’re Rooted in ONE’S Perspective that doesn’t include EVERYTHING THAT NEEDS to be Considered regarding the TOPIC AT HAND… And that’s where THE SEVERE FLAW IS Though — IMO :coffee:

  • rjk8

    @Hershey says:

    Rich white kids never commit crimes of robbery, drug manufacturing/distributing/use, they’re perfect right?
    _________________________________

    Fudge a rich white kid. I’m concerned that there are 8,000 black murders and 95% of them are committed by other blacks. Is that so hard for you all to comprehend? The black community is drowning because of all the these kids by young black women who can’t raise them.

  • free

    Man says:
    THIS IS COMPLETE BULLCHIT!
    WOMEN and WOMEN ALONE decide whether or not to have children.

    If MY tax dollars didn’t act as a collection agent for WOMEN deciding to have babies with men that DON’T want to be fathers we would have FAR less people in the system.

    **************************************************************

    man, i usually agree with you on this topic but, more and more, i find myself asking… WHERE IS THE FATHER?

  • I Go There

    The Makeup Maven says:

    And while we’re clampin’ nuts off, lets start w/Lil’ Waynes gremlin looking azz!
    __________________________________________

    If you can pay for em… then let that fool be

  • OutsidetheBox

    Brownies? Cream cheese?

    *frowns at celery and ranch cup* :(

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    datsmdubya2u says:

    If you believe in forced sterilization then they can start in the rural areas of Pennsylvania, Ohio, Indiana, Missouri, Arkansas, Alabama, Colorado, Washington state, Oregon and New Mexico, Texas where White folks on Welfare is Rampant Rampant Rampant.
    ______________________________________________________________

    Especially Oregon.

    _________________________________________

    Girl my neighbor lived in Oregon for 10yrs she said don’t none of them white girls work…

  • Chocolate Diva

    **Fugg it takes off kitten heels and jumps in with JMO :coffee:

  • The Makeup Maven

    Dawn Sheen says:

    The Makeup Maven says:

    I think a lot of ppl may be angry because they believe these comments to be dumb as chit!

    —————
    They are mad… like a french fry on the floor borad of Rick Ross car
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :ghost: now, Dawn, I usually don’t disagree w/yo’azz, but I do now and that’s fine, because I’m not gon always agree w/you, but I am glad that opinions aren’t necessarily fact!

  • http://gravatar.com/mure8noire mure_noire

    Somebody posted earlier about MTV giving pregnant teen white girls a reality show and giving pregnant teen black girls a hard time is so dead on.

    But what has me really upset is the fact that we have these so called “Distinguished Award shows” for the talented actors and actresses and its funny how the “talented” black actors and actresses always win for suspect or servant type categories. I think Louis, Whoopi and J Hud were the only ones who didn’t.

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Ya’ll

    Me and mister have been broke, in love and pregnant before. And common sense had to prevail. It is what it is. I wouldb’t be any less attracted to him than I am now, but honestly, there is a $135k+ income between us and given our amount of other bills, I still think we’re too “poor” to have babies. Not to mention the time, emotional and mental burdens.

    Folks just need to be accountable for beign responsible. Planning is not just saying one day: “let’s make a baby now.” It’s also the foresight to say: “lemme do what I gotta do to make sure I don’t get pregnant or aid in getting someone pregnant because we/I can’t habdle it right now.”

    The responsibility goes two ways.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Dawn Sheen says:

    I am going to make a comment then leave cause y’all gone read it wrong and smite me… some of the anger in this post stems from the fact that some in here ARE this girl…. or grew up with a parent like her. Life dealt those kids an ufair hand….
    ________________
    23 yr old woman and 26 yr old man get married and move into project apartment. Work hard at saving but at the time they need the help. In the 3 years they lived in public housing they gave birth to two daughters. They man and woman then both graduate from college during that third yeAr. He becomes and engineer and she becomes a teacher. In that same year they move out of public housing and purchase their own home. They raise their two daughters with out ANY help from public assistance. Send them to private school and all. One daughter then goes on to graduate from NYU at the top of her class and get a scholarship to Harvard Law school where she also graduated top of her class and is now a lawyer. The other went on to get 2 bachelors degrees and is working on her masters. Now, were they not good parents because they started out in public housing?

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    ryand91 says:

    @JMO, I haven’t had an afternoon snack. I had a steak and cheese for lunch but these iggnant nigs coming into my job have taken my appetite for the rest of the day.
    ___________________________________________

    :lol: Why the ignant?

  • Chocolate Diva

    KyCakes says:

    The older one is looking like “Welp, thems the brakes”
    *******************************
    I’m not trying to laugh at yo ass right nah :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IWtxLhniC4&sns=fb Jerrica

    Ummm…. Last time I checked “hoodrat” kids are not the only kids in school acting a damn fool and failing. I’m in school to become a teacher. You have no idea how many time I go up to the elementary school and kids who have a two parents home are not passing class and acting a damn fool cussing their teacher out. Just like my brother, he was bad as hell in school and we grew up in a two parent home where school was are main focus. Most kids are smarter than what they are being teached and are bored in class.

  • OutsidetheBox

    She do got her lil lips pursed like thats what she saying. :rofl: Yall stupid!1 :rofl:

  • ryand91

    @Pryti, :applause: :applause: preach! People always have these preconcieved notions about people based off of their circumstances. If people let others assumptions of them, define them a lot of us would have never made it where we are in life.

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    @Ya’ll

    Me and mister have been broke, in love and pregnant before. And common sense had to prevail. It is what it is. I wouldb’t be any less attracted to him than I am now, but honestly, there is a $135k+ income between us and given our amount of other bills, I still think we’re too “poor” to have babies. Not to mention the time, emotional and mental burdens.

    ———-

    I agree… I’ll keep my one and my sanity call me selfish but I like having extra. Kids cost money.

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    OTB … girl, my co-worker started me on that. Make some brownies and spread cream cheese on top … yuummm meh!!

  • Ty

    The Makeup Maven says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real!
    __________________

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple. She goes on birth control until such time when she is financially able to raise kids. What’s the problem?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Just actually got extremely pissed………
    _________________
    Girl me too!!!! So glad we have a damn constitution so people/government can’t dictate how the next person lives :coffee: The Chinese…really :shrug:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Folks just need to be accountable for beign responsible. Planning is not just saying one day: “let’s make a baby now.” It’s also the foresight to say: “lemme do what I gotta do to make sure I don’t get pregnant or aid in getting someone pregnant because we/I can’t habdle it right now.”

    The responsibility goes two ways.

    ^^ :yes: I AGREE.. WE NEED TO STOP AND THINK WAKE THE FUK UP.. KIDS ARE WAAAY TOO FUKN HARD TO HANDLE.. NO FUKN FARYTALE

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    PrytiBrownIs says:

    Dawn Sheen says:

    I am going to make a comment then leave cause y’all gone read it wrong and smite me… some of the anger in this post stems from the fact that some in here ARE this girl…. or grew up with a parent like her. Life dealt those kids an ufair hand….
    ________________
    23 yr old woman and 26 yr old man get married and move into project apartment. Work hard at saving but at the time they need the help. In the 3 years they lived in public housing they gave birth to two daughters. They man and woman then both graduate from college during that third yeAr. He becomes and engineer and she becomes a teacher. In that same year they move out of public housing and purchase their own home. They raise their two daughters with out ANY help from public assistance. Send them to private school and all. One daughter then goes on to graduate from NYU at the top of her class and get a scholarship to Harvard Law school where she also graduated top of her class and is now a lawyer. The other went on to get 2 bachelors degrees and is working on her masters. Now, were they not good parents because they started out in public housing?

    ————-
    Scroll up and read… I lived in the ghetto as a child… I’ll wait…

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Pryti

    No one said that couple were bad Parents!! But WHY couldn’t their azzes have waited a few years until they were OUT of public housing before having them?!

    That’s fukking dumb! No two ways about it! I have nothing to say about folks who already have kids and move into public housing because they caught a bad break. Or folks who have kids after public housing. But WHY do you NEED to have kids while on assistance?! The fact that you are ON assistance already precludes the notiont hat you CANNOT afford anymore mouths.

    Some of ya’ll are just debating it based on the principle and not the facts now. That’s not even a smart bet.

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @TATTED
    “Why the woman ALWAYS have to be held accountable, as if she made the baby on her own! Make these azzholes take their azz to the military so they have no choice but to pay child support!”
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    Because the WOMAN, and the WOMAN ALONE decides whether or not to have the baby. The MAN has NO say so at all but is extorted by the government to pay for a baby that a WOMAN decided to have.

    It’s legalized extortion to promote women into having babies to keep America’s citizen count high. Research it.

    If anything, more men should go to prison for NOT PAYING thereby bankrupting the system of legalized extortion.

  • caligirl

    datsmdubya2u
    Alot women are having abortions! PERIOD Whether they taking the day after pill or putting they legs up in the stir-ups. Those are facts.

    Got a girlfriend who is a DR. and has worked all over the east cost and she said she was surprised at the number of women. She quit, cause she got tired of her tires being slashed…..

  • ryand91

    @JMO, they are over here cussing me out because the IRS doesn’t have their money. One dude came in here trying to claim one of his kids who doesn’t live with him on his taxes, then got mad because we told him he couldn’t do it.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    ryand91 says:

    @Pryti, preach! People always have these preconcieved notions about people based off of their circumstances. If people let others assumptions of them, define them a lot of us would have never made it where we are in life.
    _____________________
    RIGHT!!! My parents worked muthfluxin hard to get their family where it is. I have aunts that abused the system and i talk down to them all the time with NO remorse BUT i know that my parents did 3 years and NEVER looked back.

  • KDub

    Welp Fred Shropshire me and @Ryand91 coming for your fine self sooner rather than later dawg :lol: My momma gonna be in on the kidnapping of him too….he made her switch from being a lifelong WRAL news watcher to watching WTVD just to see him :rofl:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    So, if people who can’t afford to have kids be forced to take BC please riddle me this..

    What happens when you can afford to have them, have them and then lose your job/source of income? Should you then give those kids to the system and let another person who is receiving assistant from the government raise them? :shrug:

  • rjk8

    @AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    I am actually with Man & Dawn on #230.

    @RJK8
    I can’t agree with you on anything. You’re too extreme. And I believe OTB has 5 kids,
    _________________________________
    The problem is you all want to promote and recognize this one example of a baby mamma that
    made it and MIGHT raise responsible kids to adults but don’t want to recognize all the OVERWHELMINGLY MAJORITY of baby mammas that it just doesn’t work out. Kids either end up dropping out, in jail or stuck in a minimal wage job. This is the reality that we must address. So yes applaud a baby mama that made it with her kids but let’s not act like this is the norm because it’s not.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    @Dawn I wasnt coming at you…i was piggybacking off the statement

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IWtxLhniC4&sns=fb Jerrica

    datsmdubya2u

    Girl yes. They are a trip.

  • bnatural

    :offtopic: Did I miss the post on Christina Aguilera’s tribute to Etta James?

    Was that discussed today at all? I’ve been busy at work…..

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dougie

    No offense girl, but do you realize how BLESSED you are…and that other folks aren’t as fortunate? So since they aren’t as fortunate they aren’t allowed to make mistakes or bad choices in life??? Iono, I understand your sentiment, I just wish that people would understand that these types of laws lead to other things that will eventually affect those who aren’t quite as “poor” but who also aren’t “elite”… :shrugs: Remember, there are really only TWO classes in this country at the end of the day, and the 1% doesn’t include most… :coffee:

    And, who are WE to dictate when God wants to allow a life into this world??? Our days of birth are not an ACCIDENT!

  • KDub

    So yes applaud a baby mama that made it with her kids but let’s not act like this is the norm because it’s not.
    —————————————————–
    Best words my momma ever gave a teen momma like myself was…you are only a statistic if you ALLOW yourself to be…

    :coffee:

  • Chocolate Diva

    @Ryand91:

    I filed my taxes yesterday and a dude was in there acting crazy because his baby momma filed their son and then told him afterwards. He ran the chit down said she was a habitual liar, slept with everybody, a loser and blah, blah, blah. :blink: The tax prepayer was like ok well since you cant file your child you will be getting back 320 dollars. He was livid :rofl:

  • OutsidetheBox

    KIDS ARE WAAAY TOO FUKN HARD TO HANDLE.. NO FUKN FARYTALE

    Lakes this is your opinion. Thats not a set in stone fact. I only got one that I side eye. :lol:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Iscream
    Most folks who were making it with their kids before losing a job/going on public assistance, will more than likely find a way to get out there and make it again. I can’t cosign anything about taking their kids from them..But WHILE on govt assistance….nobody in that house needs to become pregnant.

    Period.

  • lovezoe

    I believe if you have more than x number of kids while on public assistance, you should either get an IUD or lose benefits. People will make a way of no way when it comes Down to it. What I really wish is more food education for EBT recipients.

    OTB : I have called on a former friend. Warned her I was a mandated reporter. I’m all for discipline but you don’t beat a six year for almost an hour.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    FEFE says:

    My emotions ain’t in a dayum thang…This chick is NOT ME, and I don’t HANG with chicks like this…but one mandate is SURE to lead to another, and another, and another…
    _____
    Like I said, slippery slope. But dudes don’t want to register their DNA for future child support claims or get snipped to make sure they don’t knock up a chick that can’t afford to be a mother. Uh huh. I say what’s good for the goose is just as good for the gander. :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    @Pryti

    No one said that couple were bad Parents!! But WHY couldn’t their azzes have waited a few years until they were OUT of public housing before having them?!

    That’s fukking dumb! No two ways about it! I have nothing to say about folks who already have kids and move into public housing because they caught a bad break. Or folks who have kids after public housing. But WHY do you NEED to have kids while on assistance?! The fact that you are ON assistance already precludes the notiont hat you CANNOT afford anymore mouths.

    Some of ya’ll are just debating it based on the principle and not the facts now. That’s not even a smart bet.
    ——-
    Why is it that people believe that public housing is free? Do you kow what public housing costs in NYC? Their sudsidized rent costs more than most in other states. How am i not debating off facts. Thos were MY PARENTS!! Dont gett much closer to the fact that that

  • caligirl

    rjk8 says:

    Let’s not forget the kids that come from two family households and stay on dope, robbing folks and getting pregnant. Cause they be on welfare as well…..

  • Femme Fatale

    Fathers abandon their children all the fvckin time. Why do we never charge their azzes for child endangerment when they abandon their kids?

    Shyt has got to change! Is the sex that damn good?

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    @Ryan … :lol: Good luck with that!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Dawn Sheen says:

    I am going to make a comment then leave cause y’all gone read it wrong and smite me… some of the anger in this post stems from the fact that some in here ARE this girl…. or grew up with a parent like her. Life dealt those kids an ufair hand….

    —————————-

    My parents both worked all their lives I was never on any assistance..I just don’t look down on those who need it..and yeah one day i might have a reversal of fortune and need it so i would never demonize them because i don’t know their story. this bish in the story is sad no matter what…i don’t know why somebody would think lack of welfare would stop people like her from flucking….didn’t Auntie just say they can’t help themselves?….as bad as things are now they would be alot worse without assistance…not having welfare will not force females like her onto contraception…they don’t think that far ahead. period. it would just be a bunch of staving kids beggin in the streets like mumbai or some thrid world place like that.

  • ryand91

    @KDub, LOL girl me too. Once I saw his fine a$$ I said fluck Pam Salisby and ’em. I’m ready for them to get ride of Joel Brown’s ol water headed a$$, tho.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Fukk you yo. #emotions

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    KDub says:

    So yes applaud a baby mama that made it with her kids but let’s not act like this is the norm because it’s not.
    —————————————————–
    Best words my momma ever gave a teen momma like myself was…you are only a statistic if you ALLOW yourself to be…
    ______
    :cosign:

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    IF THEY STOPPED WELFARE TODAY, NOBODY WOULD RECEIVE A REFUND OR HAVE LESS TAXES TAKEN OUT OF THEIR PAYCHECKS

    YOUR DELUSIONAL TO THINK OTHERWISE, THE GOVERNMENT WOULD USE THAT MONEY STILL

    YES SOMETHING NEEDS TO BE DONE ABOUT WOMEN CONTINOUSLY HAVING CHILDREN THAT THEY CAN PROVDE FOR EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY

    BUT THE MINDSET OF TAKING THEIR RESOURCES AWAY OR FORCING THEM TO TAKE BIRTH CONTROL IS TREADING DANGEROUSLY

    IF YOU FEEL THE GOVERNMENT HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE AWAY RIGHTS OR FORCE THEIR WILL UPON THIS CLASS OF CITIZENS

    SOON AND VERY SOON, THEY WILL EVENTUALLY FIND A WAY TO JUSTIFY OR LEGALLY DO THE SAME TO ANY OTHER CLASS OF CITIZENS THEY CHOOSE

    BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR OTHERS, IT MAY BECOME YOUR OWN REALITY-SERIOUSLY, SOME OF YOU NEED YOUR HEAD EXAMINED, THE WELFARE OF THESE CHILDREN IS WHAT THE FOCUS SHOULD BE

    BUT IT’S OBVIUOS SOME OF YOU WANNA BE BOURGEOUIS ARSE NEGROES FEEL SO ENTITLED AND PRIVILEGED, THAT YOUR STARTING TO SOUND LIKE NEWT GINGRICH, WHEN SOME OF YOU PROBABLY ARE ONLY A FEW GENERATION OR SO FROM BEING BORN TO A SLAVE/SHARECROPPER WHO BY THE GRACE OF GOD, MADE A WAY OUT OF NO WAY-SO YOUR HIGH FALUTEY ARSES COULD HAVE WHAT YOU HAVE TODAY

    GENERATIONS AND GENERATIONS OF POVERTY AND WELFARE RECIPIENTS, WHO MAINTAIN THIS CYCLE, HOW COULD IT BE SOLELY THEIR FAULT, THEY DIDN’T CREATE THE SYSTEM

    AND HOW IS IT THAT SOME CAN GET OFF AND SURVIVE FINANCIALLY & SOME CAN’T ??? IT’S A MUCH DEEPER ISSUE THAN FUGGING BIRTH CONTROL-SERIOUSLY

  • The Makeup Maven

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @TATTED
    “Why the woman ALWAYS have to be held accountable, as if she made the baby on her own! Make these azzholes take their azz to the military so they have no choice but to pay child support!”
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    Because the WOMAN, and the WOMAN ALONE decides whether or not to have the baby. The MAN has NO say so at all but is extorted by the government to pay for a baby that a WOMAN decided to have.

    It’s legalized extortion to promote women into having babies to keep America’s citizen count high. Research it.

    If anything, more men should go to prison for NOT PAYING thereby bankrupting the system of legalized extortion.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Man, listen…I don’t/won’t EVER agree w/a statement like this. A woman cannot get pregnant w/out the help of semen, which is produce by a MAN. If that was the case, a bish would’ve been knocked up a many of time fuggin’ with these women out here, so I ain’t on it! If a man did not insert his dack, shoot off his sperm, the woman would not be in a position where she is thought to of made that decision alone! I still fuggs w/you though, Jeffrey! :hug:

  • ryand91

    @Chocolate Diva, that’s how this dude was. He has been in here 4 times since last week and every time we tell his slow a$$ the same thing. I thought I was going to have to pull my boxcutter out on him today.

  • KyCakes

    The Makeup Maven says:

    KyCakes says:

    The older one is looking like “Welp, thems the brakes”
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: DID I MENTION TODAY I HATE’CHO FUGGIN’ GUTS! :lol:
    ———————————————————————
    OutsidetheBox says:

    She do got her lil lips pursed like thats what she saying. :rofl: Yall stupid!1 :rofl:
    ———————————————————————-
    Chocolate Diva says:
    I’m not trying to laugh at yo ass right nah :rofl: :rofl:
    ———————————————————————-
    Y’all tell me that little girl ain’t thinking that.

    She’s like “This is some bullchit, but… :shrugs:

  • OutsidetheBox

    What I really wish is more food education for EBT recipients.

    That would be nice. :yes:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Fefe

    It ain’t got nothing to do with blessings/fortunate-ness, just common sense and selfishness.

    If you are on public assistance, with a kid, barely getting by, you do NOT need to have another one thereby making the resources you have LEANER and taking away some of the very little resources your ONE child has because it is now going to have to be stretched between two.

    It’s selfish to make a kid in the midst of that struggle that it did not ask to be in simply because you are too egotistical to take a pill.

    I don’t understand why people don’t see that. “I want a baby” is not a reason enough to just pop one out if you can’t afford it. Your baby shouldn’t come into bullsh*t circumstances that you are not out of yet simply because you wanted a new item to love. It’s NOT that simple.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Ty says:

    The Makeup Maven says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    You just negated anything you might have written before that… despicable. You and her. For real!
    __________________

    I don’t understand why the truth upsets you kids so much. If a woman is in public housing then she can’t afford to raise children. It’s that simple. She goes on birth control until such time when she is financially able to raise kids. What’s the problem?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Just actually got extremely pissed………
    _________________
    Girl me too!!!! So glad we have a damn constitution so people/government can’t dictate how the next person lives The Chinese…really
    ——–
    Theyre all for getting rid of a waomans constitutional right to choose but think they should be allowed to keep their right to vote? hmph. Dont serve up my rights to be forfeited and keep yours.

  • rjk8

    @iscream says:

    So, if people who can’t afford to have kids be forced to take BC please riddle me this..

    What happens when you can afford to have them, have them and then lose your job/source of income? Should you then give those kids to the system and let another person who is receiving assistant from the government raise them?
    ________________________________________

    Come on.Most people who complain about baby mammas are complaining about generational welfare. I believe that if the overwhelming majority of welfare kids turned out to be kids that got an education/skill and job and became responsible adults most wouldn’t have a problem with it. Money well spent. But, this mess we’re dealing with is just ridiculous and hopeless.

  • Yall still crazy

    I got you Dougie! :yes: I really do.

    Now, WHAT IF your BC failed? I for one, can not judge you one way or the other, but it’s up to you to make your decision.

    You’re getting older, and too many procedures (if you even had one-ION all that) isn’t good for your body.

    It’s just comes off weird from a woman to hear her discuss our bodies and what we can and can’t or should or shouldn’t do with them.
    :hug:
    I’m done with this yall. What’s the topic?

  • OutsidetheBox

    KY Im with you! She look like she might be thankful! :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @INTENSE

    Thank. You. :claps: :claps:

  • KDub

    Let’s not forget the kids that come from two family households and stay on dope, robbing folks and getting pregnant.
    ———————————————–

    Crystal Mangum the Duke Lacrosse rape accuser. Came from a two parent household. Had another kid after the whole debacle. And she is locked up right now for murda.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IWtxLhniC4&sns=fb Jerrica

    Wait, is the girl on top on assistance?

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    PrytiBrownIs says:

    Why is it that people believe that public housing is free? Do you kow what public housing costs in NYC?
    _____________________

    The point is if you are on public assistance – or live in public housing – you can’t afford to raise kids. And since some of our people can’t stop spreading their legs, the government needs to step in. The government runs our lives whether we want to admit it or not. I have no problems with the gov. making it mandatory for people living in public housing to practice some form of birth control or consent to being sterilized.

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @FEMME FATALE
    “Fathers abandon their children all the fvckin time. Why do we never charge their azzes for child endangerment when they abandon their kids?”
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    because 99% of the time the female has “custody” and the male gets “visitation” rights.

  • CookieMonsterZ

    Because the WOMAN, and the WOMAN ALONE decides whether or not to have the baby. The MAN has NO say so at all but is extorted by the government to pay for a baby that a WOMAN decided to have.

    It’s legalized extortion to promote women into having babies to keep America’s citizen count high. Research it.

    If anything, more men should go to prison for NOT PAYING thereby bankrupting the system of legalized extortion.
    _____________________________________________________________

    Part of me agrees, and then part of me doesn’t. Only because should ppl really be having that time of physical relationship if they’re not on the same page. It takes two people to mess up most of the time. I think that’s where the problem begins– dysfunctional relationships, one-night stands, physical abuse, etc. Who is setting good examples for relationships to prevent others from getting to the point of “extortion”?

    The whole child support system is primarily a waste though. Court costs for cases that the fathers don’t show up for, prison costs for deadbeat fathers. It’s a lose-lose.

  • Hershey

    Chocolate Diva says:

    @Ryand91:

    I filed my taxes yesterday and a dude was in there acting crazy because his baby momma filed their son and then told him afterwards. He ran the chit down said she was a habitual liar, slept with everybody, a loser and blah, blah, blah. The tax prepayer was like ok well since you cant file your child you will be getting back 320 dollars. He was livid
    _______________________
    :rofl: he’ll be on tonight’s news for choking that bish out

  • lovezoe

    I knock no one who is on public assistance, but why bring more kids in the mix. I know chicks with multiple kids multiple baby daddies on public assistance. My mom asked one girl we know did she get a tubal and she said no. Okay fine, but what are you doing to keep yourself out that situation?

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    There is a :newpost: up

  • Femme Fatale

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @FEMME FATALE
    “Fathers abandon their children all the fvckin time. Why do we never charge their azzes for child endangerment when they abandon their kids?”
    _______________________________________________________________________________

    because 99% of the time the female has “custody” and the male gets “visitation” rights.

    _________________________

    If he cares or can be found at all.

    I say for every abortion you claim women should have…the man should lose an inch.

  • I Go There

    Well said Intense….

  • KyCakes

    So I scrolled up again and I keep getting visually assaulted by Evelyn’s fake abs….

    #StopTheMadness

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    Everybody’s screaming about “our rights, our rights, our bodies!”

    Fukk that! I’m talking about what happens to the kids when they get here. They shouldn’t be doing they’re homework by candlelight because YOU bought them into a fukked up situation. They shouldn’t be eating ramen noodles and kool-aid every night for dinner because YOU bought them into an already flucked up situation. They shouldn’t come in with 2 extra strikes because YOU bought them into a fukked up situation.

    Stop huffing and puffing about “your rights” and “your bodies” and worry some about the persons coming OUT of it that if need be, will have to struggle WITH you….and it ain’t by their “choice” like it was by yours to make them!

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @RYAN
    “that’s how this dude was. He has been in here 4 times since last week and every time we tell his slow a$$ the same thing. I thought I was going to have to pull my boxcutter out on him today.”
    ___________________________________________________________________________

    He should have walked out the office, and did the taxes on his own and claimed the child. Both reports would get rejected and then both of them would need to “prove” who provided care to the child.

    Assuming that he is telling the truth.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VMFNlXQ_xA&feature=related ELove

    @Man… (Comment #284)
    I CHUCKLED at This Comment but It’s So F-ing TRUE Though :coffee:

  • caligirl

    Dougie – Understand where you coming from, I’ve been working since I was 14 and have always been blessed to have skills across many career fields. When I packed me and my 2 suitcases and left everything I had worked hard for for 15 years, I was devasted. Did I consider going on assistance? HELL YEAH! But I got too much pride….alot of people don’t have the skill set. Never had example of hard working. They need a Dougie in their life :wink:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IWtxLhniC4&sns=fb Jerrica

    Well everybody don’t have common sense. I’m 21 no kids and don’t plan on having kids or sex until I get married and my life is stable. Everybody doesn’t think like that. God gave everybody a CHOICE! Some people choices aren’t good ones but I don’t think it should be taken away.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    I’ll say this and then I have to digress on my end…I AGREE that if you are on public assistance that you need to not have anymore children, I AGREE with this…what I DO NOT agree with is forcing people to do something that alters their body in exchange for this public assistance, even if they are against it or don’t believe in it…that is morally bankrupt in my opinion..but that’s all it is…an opinion… :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    @rjk8

    Isn’t there a 5yr limit on welfare? if you’re talking about foodstamps and section 8 people who go to work everyday get those programs too…

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @FEMME FATALE
    “If he cares or can be found at all.

    I say for every abortion you claim women should have…the man should lose an inch.”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    i don’t know if this was meant for me but I have NEVER advocated, and NEVER WOULD advocate for women to have abortions.

    BUT, if a WOMAN SOLEY DECIDES to have a baby, they should be responsible for the baby. LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE IN THE WORLD. :shrugs: Why should men get extorted because a woman decides to have a baby?

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    DOUGIE says:

    I don’t understand why people don’t see that. “I want a baby” is not a reason enough to just pop one out if you can’t afford it. Your baby shouldn’t come into bullsh*t circumstances that you are not out of yet simply because you wanted a new item to love. It’s NOT that simple.
    _____
    I do see what you are saying but I still don’t believe it’s the government’s place to tell women what to do with their bodies. Period. Just cut them off completely if that’s the case.

    And it’s NOT that simple. Which is why the government has no business in it cause their record foe handling complex social issues is not exactly the best.

  • CookieMonsterZ

    The point is if you are on public assistance – or live in public housing – you can’t afford to raise kids. And since some of our people can’t stop spreading their legs, the government needs to step in. The government runs our lives whether we want to admit it or not. I have no problems with the gov. making it mandatory for people living in public housing to practice some form of birth control or consent to being sterilized.
    ___________________________________________
    I am more concered with the government drug-testing and making people on public assistance either be in school or job-hunting.

  • lovezoe

    I believe a man should take care of his, but if he dont/won’t get him to sign rights over. My mom washed her hands of going to court. Something needs to be done to revamp the system. I bet half the folks standing in line from them Concords at 5am didn’t have a job.

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Yall

    My BC DID fail! :lol: That’s how we ended up there. But that was my doc’s fault (note to everyone: antibiotics and bc do NOT mix. Antibiotics cancel out the other), but it was handled accordingly and it was what it was.

    I’m not a truly emotional person over things that don’t make any sense, so I was never emotional at all about it. It had to be done. It didn’t make any other sense. But I was still on the BC. Just didnt know clearing up an ear infection could fukk some sh*t up.

  • ryand91

    @Man, his $$ could barely spell so I doubt he can do his own taxes. He just needed to go on and accept the fact that just because you pay child support doesn’t mean you can claim a child on your taxes. Life sucks like that sometimes.

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @FE FE
    “I AGREE that if you are on public assistance that you need to not have anymore children”
    _________________________________________________________________________

    This includes a lot of the rich you know…
    :coffee:

  • rjk8

    @caligirl says:

    rjk8 says:

    Let’s not forget the kids that come from two family households and stay on dope, robbing folks and getting pregnant. Cause they be on welfare as well…..
    ______________________________________

    Prove it! What the breakdown vs baby mamma kids. :rofl: I fill sorry for you don’t know what you’re talking about.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    BLACK FOLK it’s called WELFARE

    WHITE FOLK it’s called a SUBSIDY.

    :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    Everybody’s screaming about “our rights, our rights, our bodies!”

    Fukk that! I’m talking about what happens to the kids when they get here. They shouldn’t be doing they’re homework by candlelight because YOU bought them into a fukked up situation. They shouldn’t be eating ramen noodles and kool-aid every night for dinner because YOU bought them into an already flucked up situation. They shouldn’t come in with 2 extra strikes because YOU bought them into a fukked up situation.

    Stop huffing and puffing about “your rights” and “your bodies” and worry some about the persons coming OUT of it that if need be, will have to struggle WITH you….and it ain’t by their “choice” like it was by yours to make them!
    —————-
    Ive never had Ramen noodles and didnt drink kool-aid for the firt time til college….NEXT sterotype you wanna throw at me?

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @RYAN
    “his $$ could barely spell so I doubt he can do his own taxes. He just needed to go on and accept the fact that just because you pay child support doesn’t mean you can claim a child on your taxes. Life sucks like that sometimes.”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    He prolly know someone that could do them. I’m just sayin. If I was him, I woulda filled that paperwork out so quick claiming that kid and sent it in without a second’s hesitation.

    Then when the audit came had all kinds of supporting chit. But then again, that’s just me.

  • MzDetermined

    I rather for her to leave them kids than to hurt them.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    lovezoe says:

    I believe a man should take care of his, but if he dont/won’t get him to sign rights over. My mom washed her hands of going to court. Something needs to be done to revamp the system. I bet half the folks standing in line from them Concords at 5am didn’t have a job.
    —————-
    RIGHT!!!!

  • KyCakes

    Dawn Sheen says:
    I agree… I’ll keep my one and my sanity call me selfish but I like having extra. Kids cost money.
    ——————————————————-
    :cosign: I’m with ya! My co workers ask me all the time why I don’t want another one. Two reasons:

    I’m selfish and am fully aware that I can’t handle another one by myself. Once was enough

    I have a thirteen yr old. That would be some wicked ish to start ALL OVER AGAIN!!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Man

    Yes, I know… :coffee:

  • KDub

    I am going to the new post. Cause while I waited until I was married and up out the projects before having baby number 2 (my kids are 10 years apart) I wish somebody woulda told me that I was wrong for any fruit I woulda bore out of my birth canal while I was still staying there. The chick next door to me while I was living there was my indirect classmate (she was younger than me) had THREE more kids while we were staying there…but she was in school, working, and had about 4 hustles. We used to call her kids “The Coogi Clan” cause they stayed fresh to def due to HER hardwork. She bought her a house and moved on and last I heard she was married with ONE more kid by her now husband. She now has 5 kids, a house, nice vehicles, two degrees, and a very nice job working with nonprofits.

  • lovezoe

    I think the DCF system needs help. Because of the foster care overload too many kids going home. Baby injested cocaine back home, just like these babies will be when she take a couple parenting classes. Doing my internship many grandparents/relatives got custody then turned the baby over to mama. SMH

  • ryand91

    @Man, true but when he initially came in he said the child didn’t live with him then the story changed today.

  • KyCakes

    datsmdubya2u says:

    BLACK FOLK it’s called WELFARE

    WHITE FOLK it’s called a SUBSIDY.
    —————————————————
    :yes:
    Just like when Hurricane Katrina hit.

    BLACK folks were LOOTING
    WHITE folks were just trying to FEED THEIR FAMILIES

    :wtf:

  • lovezoe

    I think if a man/woman pay CS they should be able to claim child every other year.

  • CookieMonsterZ

    I rather for her to leave them kids than to hurt them.
    _________________________________________________
    Agreed!

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @RYAN
    “true but when he initially came in he said the child didn’t live with him then the story changed today.”
    __________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:
    Well, I would claim whether the child lived with me or not. But again, that’s just me. Make the IRS catch that chit, then go through the hassle of making me prove it, then go through the hassle of making me pay it back.

    They’d be more likely to “cut a deal’ and ask me to send some of it back or something like that. But again, that’s just me and how I think and chit.

  • Femme Fatale

    BUT, if a WOMAN SOLEY DECIDES to have a baby, they should be responsible for the baby. LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE IN THE WORLD. Why should men get extorted because a woman decides to have a baby?

    _____________________

    What ‘decision’ are you referring to here? To have it or abort it?

    Extortion? Really?

  • Yall still crazy

    Yeah, antibiotics and BC are a no no. Surprised you hadn’t heard that one before. I truthfully hope that you don’t have to make them kinds of decisions again. :coffee:
    ———————————————-
    child support doesn’t mean you can claim a child on your taxes

    And it doesn’t mean that you can write off that money (as not being income), ION if I agree with the fairness in that though. :coffee:

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Pryti

    You probably wouldn’t have had ramen noodles and kool-aid, your parents were welfare queens having babies because they could. They were just broke for a while. While I’m glad that YOUR parents insulated you from a lot of the “normal happenings” around because they did what they had to do to get you up out of there ASAP, you gotta stop thinking about your OWN experience and think about the hundreds of other kids who are GRWOING UP IN THE PJs from the cradle to adulthood who did/will/are living about that.

    Your situation is a good example of a exception, it is not even CLOSE to being the rule for a lot of folks popping out kid after kid on public assistance. And sorry to say….just cause your parents made good, still doesn’t make it right. They could’ve waited a couple more years to pop ya’ll out and ya’ll woulda been just as successful.

  • Yall still crazy

    361 is not referring to your decision, just another situation.

    Yall know I’m Pro-choice…

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Pryti

    “*if your parents weren’t welfare queens having babies just because they could…”

    Typing too fast. Gotta go. BBL yall.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Ooooh chit. Its 4oclock! *Church lady hands*

    Glad i didnt let them chirrens weigh me down so I could get this cushy ass jobs that affords me to bid adieu when i want. :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    If you have more than two kids on welfare than yes you should be mandated to get a job for the next child or that child won’t be able to be on assistance! I agree that there needs to be some stipulations added to protect everyone but Im not with the gov’t just stepping into a woman’s wound!

  • rjk8

    I just hope they don’t return those kids to their mother under any circumstances. We’ve seen this too many times before. 26 two kids never married. What are the odds that she has more kids? Black women love “dem” some love public aid and welfare. Jezz What did your great grand mothers who weren’t on aid do to survive?

    1. Marry before having kids 2. work minimal jobs 3. Live with other relatives. 4. relocated to a place that had a jobs. You say that can’t be done anymore. The Mexicans are proving that to be a lie and all of them ain’t on a farm picking tomatoes either.

  • OutsidetheBox

    I think if a man/woman pay CS they should be able to claim child every other year.
    ___________________________________________________________________

    I let my daughter’s father claim her every year since birth. I have no problem with it; he is always there when she calls.

  • ryand91

    LOL @Man, you sure that won’t your a$$ in here early?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    If erry body waited until the could “afford” a baby most of us wouldn’t even be here.

  • heavn_sent

    I know I’m WAAAAAAAAY late, and somebody may have mentioned this already, but DC is putting a 5 year LIFETIME max on TANF (welfare).

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    just cause your parents made good, still doesn’t make it right. They could’ve waited a couple more years to pop ya’ll out and ya’ll woulda been just as successful.
    ________________
    Girl I lubs you but there are boundaries :nono:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    AndThenIHitMyDougie says:

    @Pryti

    You probably wouldn’t have had ramen noodles and kool-aid, your parents were welfare queens having babies because they could. They were just broke for a while. While I’m glad that YOUR parents insulated you from a lot of the “normal happenings” around because they did what they had to do to get you up out of there ASAP, you gotta stop thinking about your OWN experience and think about the hundreds of other kids who are GRWOING UP IN THE PJs from the cradle to adulthood who did/will/are living about that.

    Your situation is a good example of a exception, it is not even CLOSE to being the rule for a lot of folks popping out kid after kid on public assistance. And sorry to say….just cause your parents made good, still doesn’t make it right. They could’ve waited a couple more years to pop ya’ll out and ya’ll woulda been just as successful.
    __________
    I agree that my parents arent the norm. BUT the point that i am making is that you cant make sweeping generalizations and enact laws based on them. If that was the case, its a sad fact that before Obama MOST black people werent even registered to vote and didnt care to. Does that mean that we should ALL lose our right to vote? NO. It means that we should work harder to uplift and educate our people to be responsible productive members of the society they oh so love to complain about.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    If you have more than two kids on welfare than yes you should be mandated to get a job for the next child or that child won’t be able to be on assistance!

    ————————

    In Tx they don’t give cash assistance or TANF for beyond 3 kids…they can get some more food stamps tho’ but people who work get FS too..

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    but DC is putting a 5 year LIFETIME max on TANF (welfare).
    _______________
    Good! I didn’t know this tho I bet other states will follow

  • rjk8

    @KDub says:

    I am going to the new post. Cause while I waited until I was married and up out the projects before having baby number 2 (my kids are 10 years apart) I wish somebody woulda told me that I was wrong for any fruit I woulda bore out of my birth canal while I was still staying there. The chick next door to me while I was living there was my indirect classmate (she was younger than me) had THREE more kids while we were staying there…but she was in school, working, and had about 4 hustles. We used to call her kids “The Coogi Clan” cause they stayed fresh to def due to HER hardwork. She bought her a house and moved on and last I heard she was married with ONE more kid by her now husband. She now has 5 kids, a house, nice vehicles, two degrees, and a very nice job working with nonprofits.
    ______________________________________

    Wonderful, now tell us about all those baby mammas who are still stuck up in the projects. Right, you don’t want to talk about that.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    heavn_sent says:

    I know I’m WAAAAAAAAY late, and somebody may have mentioned this already, but DC is putting a 5 year LIFETIME max on TANF (welfare).

    ———————–

    It’s been a 5yr lifetime limit since Bill Clinton enacted welfare reform back in the 90s. these folks don’t know what they complainin about half the time.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    If erry body waited until the could “afford” a baby most of us wouldn’t even be here.
    ______________
    Right cuz I mean how do tally up child bearing and raising!

  • rjk8

    @OutsidetheBox

    This chicks screen name should change to grandmamma or baby mamma of a baby mamma. It won’t be long

  • lovezoe

    If we made vouchers for everything and stop letting recipients get cash Iin hand, we wouldn’t have these abuse issues.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Exactly. that limit has been there forever.

    I think they actually have “rolls” you could see what your families pay out would be (in Florida you can)…and that deters a lot of the women (I volunteer)

  • Bonnie

    @ intense
    Its about time someone here made some sense. You are treading on dangerous waters when you deciede to take away someone rights. People need to educate themeselves before making blanket statements about a certain group of people. I am almost postive that the majority of the that have disdain for peoplle getting assistance are one paycheck a way from poverty. Be thankful for you have today because you may wake up tomorrow with nothing.

    She was wrong on so many levels, but some of the people here are just hateful. I pray for those innocent children.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Ahhh go choke on my old tampons. :(

  • http://twitter.com/candyrayne215 spongebobfan

    instead of “mandatory birth control” these men need to step up, where was the daddy?

    while this story is sad, at least she didnt drive said car off cliff into river or something. glad the kids are ok.

  • heavn_sent

    @377: There were some limits but not like what they’re enacting this time. My hubby works for a Social Service agency here and they’ve been having all sorts of meetings about it..they will literally be terminating anyone who has been on it for more than 5 years…

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    datsmdubya2u says:

    If erry body waited until the could “afford” a baby most of us wouldn’t even be here.

    _________

    :applause: you better say that chit! My parents weren’t on any kind of assistance but I can SHOOOOLLLE remember some hard times at our home, lights turned off, gas turned off, etc….life AIN’T no crystal stair…PERIOD #shoutouttocandi

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @RJK8

    Both your ignorance and your seeming hatred for black women are in rare form today. :claps: :coffee:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    you better say that chit! My parents weren’t on any kind of assistance but I can SHOOOOLLLE remember some hard times at our home, lights turned off, gas turned off, etc….life AIN’T no crystal stair
    ___________________
    DITTO! Chid we had 5 kids in our family

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    just cause your parents made good, still doesn’t make it right. They could’ve waited a couple more years to pop ya’ll out and ya’ll woulda been just as successful.
    ________________
    Girl I lubs you but there are boundaries
    __________________
    :blink: am i the only one thats reading that as “your parents shouldve aborted you?” cuz hun-KNEEEEE listen

  • CookieMonsterZ

    And it doesn’t mean that you can write off that money (as not being income)
    __________________________________________
    Child support is income-exempt for the receipient, but for not for the sender.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    OTB got her a Pillow PET like I Did :rolleyes:

  • OutsidetheBox

    He/It?/She shows up on these kinda of posts only to do that. Im so cool on his half empty ass. Must suck to live that kinda life. :(

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    am i the only one thats reading that as “your parents shouldve aborted you?” cuz hun-KNEEEEE listen
    ____________________
    Girl ION but I mean Im glad it wasn’t said to me! You DO NOT SPEAK ILL OF MY PARENTS NOR DO YOU DECIDE IF THEY ARE RIGHT OR WRONG

  • rjk8

    @YSoSrs says:

    @RJK8

    Both your ignorance and your seeming hatred for black women are in rare form today
    _______________________________________

    I love black women but hate hoodrats. I know you thought they were the same but there is a difference

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    Choco aka Hippie says:

    am i the only one thats reading that as “your parents shouldve aborted you?” cuz hun-KNEEEEE listen
    ____________________
    Girl ION but I mean Im glad it wasn’t said to me! You DO NOT SPEAK ILL OF MY PARENTS NOR DO YOU DECIDE IF THEY ARE RIGHT OR WRONG
    ————-
    I started to go tf off but i was like “nah…no sane individual would go that hard? Not Dougie? no effin way” but um yea forreal tho Dougie? Thats how you feel?

  • OutsidetheBox

    All my pillows end up on the floor :lol:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    Wow at the unnecessary disrespect. Makes me wonder if certain people have rotten insides preventing them from baring children no matter how much money they have.

  • OutsidetheBox

    Good thing Im a squirrel cause surely that would bother me. :rolleyes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @ Choco and Pryti

    I agree wholeheartedly, that’s why I said that our birthdays are not an accident…who is anyone to tell me when and where my parents should have began to start procreating…LIFE is so much more complex than that… :coffee:

  • Ty

    YSoSrs says:

    i also wish every man had to sign up like the damn draft and submit to DNA testing, keep it on file, and then start matching up these kids as soon as they are born. all hell would REALLY break loose then.
    _____
    THIS! Since we need the government to be all up in our reproductive systems and sht.
    ________________________
    How about the government start fixing their own phuck ups before they start dictating what someone should or shouldnt be doing with their azz. The government is the biggest organized crime organization in the world yet folks expect them to streamline world peace :rofl: Imagine Herman Cain or Sarah Palin trying to tell u how to live your life because you are a considered a second class citizen with limited income :stop:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    You’re a man!!!! :rofl:

    I can’t.

    yeah they can have rotten inside as well… Mind, body and soul… :coffee:

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    FeFe says:

    @ Choco and Pryti

    I agree wholeheartedly, that’s why I said that our birthdays are not an accident…who is anyone to tell me when and where my parents should have began to start procreating…LIFE is so much more complex than that…
    ____________

    Im shocked that it went there. But you do notice it went there right before the exit right? OH……

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    Im glad the jacksons and the debarges had all dem kids

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    datsmdubya2u says:

    Im glad the jacksons and the debarges had all dem kids

    _________

    :clap: and we all know they would be CLASSIC cases of mofos needing to lay off the :hump: …just think of how bland our history of music would be without them… :coffee …everyone is here for a REASON!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2zEWXxKsrU datsmdubya2u

    FeFe says:

    datsmdubya2u says:

    If erry body waited until the could “afford” a baby most of us wouldn’t even be here.

    _________
    you better say that chit! My parents weren’t on any kind of assistance but I can SHOOOOLLLE remember some hard times at our home, lights turned off, gas turned off, etc….life AIN’T no crystal stair…PERIOD #shoutouttocandi
    ————————-

    My parents had so called good jobs (for black folk anyway) and still there were tight times. ppl don’t know what live will bring. I guess nobody should have kids cause they can’t tell the future huh? is that what they’re saying?

  • rjk8

    @OutsidetheBox says:

    He/It?/She shows up on these kinda of posts only to do that. Im so cool on his half empty ass. Must suck to live that kinda life.
    _______________________________

    As oppose to what, your life? :hump: :sperm: Quick, name all of your baby daddies. Maybe I don’t have time like you to sit up in here all day everyday. Look, good for you if you’re surviving w/o aid. But I’m going to hammer you when you come up in here acting like baby mamma life is a great piece of cake with your self righteous outrage when people ask baby mammas to be a little more responsible.

    One thing I’ve always noticed is those hoodrat baby mammas always want young black girls to have a baby just like them. Women keep your daughters away from those types. They have way too much influence with their fairytale’s. GTFOHWTBS

  • KDub

    Wonderful, now tell us about all those baby mammas who are still stuck up in the projects. Right, you don’t want to talk about that.
    ————————————————
    You are only a statistic if you allow yourself to be…

    :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    Lawd…He just won’t quit huh?… :no:

  • OutsidetheBox

    :no: All because I said his precious gubment shouldnt force BC on folks. #sad.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    @OTB dont feel bad. At the end of the day my mama shouldve aborted me. SMH

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Rjk8 arent you the same chick that had a crush on man :think:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    :dead: @AL

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Yso thats her right :shrug: How you doing young Lady @RJk8

  • OutsidetheBox

    :hahaha: e – :waiting:

  • rjk8

    @iscream says:

    You’re a man!!!! :rofl:

    I can’t.

    yeah they can have rotten inside as well… Mind, body and soul…
    ____________________________________

    Shake my head at these chicks up in here arguing everyday. Who told you the truth was mean? :thinking: It hurts sometimes but it’s not mean. It’s only mean when you’ve been lied to all your life. Well, sometimes it’s better to be rotten than a ripe young girl just waiting to be primed. :wink:

  • Yall still crazy

    With age comes wisdom :coffee: #thingsaintalwaysastheyseem

  • rjk8

    ALBoy says:

    @ Rjk8 arent you the same chick that had a crush on man
    _____________________________________

    Crush as in follow around, troll, constantly comment on or about, nope. Just speak the truth. If you can’t handle it, not my problem. I might comment on 10 post the entire year. ALBoy I can’t speak on you. Are you a man or woman? I don’t recall ever seeing one of your post. I guess that says a lot about what you have to say. I’ll be looking in the future :shotsfired1:

  • Yall still crazy

    Cookie Monster, that’s whom I was referring. The one that pays the child support. :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ RJk8 my fault maam Ididnt mean to hurt you feeling im a guy I was just asking I remember a lot of going back and forth you researching him and all I was wondering if you let him hit is all put your guns away act like a lady

  • rjk8

    @KDub says:

    Wonderful, now tell us about all those baby mammas who are still stuck up in the projects. Right, you don’t want to talk about that.
    ————————————————
    You are only a statistic if you allow yourself to be…
    ________________________

    I agree! But you brought up one young lady who got out. Did the rest of the babymammas in the projects also get out? :yawn: :rolleyes: :coffee:

  • rjk8

    @ALBoy says:

    @ RJk8 my fault maam Ididnt mean to hurt you feeling im a guy I was just asking I remember a lot of going back and forth you researching him and all I was wondering if you let him hit is all put your guns away act like a lady
    _________________________________

    LMAO No problem. It take one to know one. :homoswitch: Funny thing is you’re obviously up in here gossiping everyday “like a lady” calling me a lady. #Thatshitcray

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    Wait so you not a chick? :shrug:

  • Yall still crazy

    Wait :stop: is this who “investigated” Man and Dougie fact-checked his azz???

    That was some straight stalker behavior! I recall that day very well.

    Damn, yall remember everything :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Yall and thatss why I though it was a chick :no: I didnt know dudes did that Now I know and knowing is half the battle. :no:

  • rjk8

    @ALBoy says:

    Wait so you not a chick?
    __________________________

    Nah homie. Only :homoswitch: like you and women. Up in here all day everyday gossiping

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    Oh Ok bruh :lol:

  • Yall still crazy

    @Al
    Bottom or Top? :thinking: Bottom, right?

  • rjk8

    @Yall still crazy says:

    You obviously, must be a little hurt baby mamma. Did I hurt your feelings?

    Nobody investigating. Not once did investigate. I just told the truth. What you do with it is your problem. Not mine. Look, this little game of gang up is not going to work with me. #haveaseat. If you don’t like what I said or have to say don’t read my comments. Trust, I’m going to continue to say what I believe.

  • OutsidetheBox

    :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Yall I dont know what that means. I am however confused right now I mean i thought it was a chick I mean what dude you know besides politcians put out slander campaigns on other dudes for no reason Ok Newt :lol: do yo thang mane

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    WOW @RJK8 How come you are so defensive? YOu seem really angry about something that has nothing to do with this post

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Okay so someone let me know what info did he put out on Man

  • rjk8

    I said he was a white boy.

  • Yall still crazy

    :hahaha:

    Imma G yo :lol:
    ——————————————-

    and :dead: at me making up “what I remembered” AGANE @ Choco.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Oh!

    So why are you being mean and when I say mean Im not talking about stating your opinion but you seem to be attacking folks

  • trenee

    this is extremely sad. i do not have children, but even if i did, i would NEVER leave them out on the street! I would at least pass them over to a relative. i agree like some, that she didn’t kill them, but in their minds, once they’re old enough to understand in full, they’ll probably feel that way.

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    and at me making up “what I remembered” AGANE @ Choco.
    __________________
    Really sad bish today is not April fool’s day :rofl:

  • Yall still crazy

    Ok, so I just read your comments, and my finding are as follows: YOU ARE MATTER. MATTER = WEIGHT THAT TAKES UP SPACE

    I do declare…It must hurt….

    :hug: <–what your mama should've given you more of.

    Because real talk, none of us take this ish personal :coffee: Now put that in a pipe and smoke it :coffee:

  • Yall still crazy

    :nana: *exits stage right*

    Argue Alone Loser Dudegal…

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Argue Alone Loser Dudegal…
    ______________________
    :rofl: Dudegal

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    So man is white and RJ is a man? :smack:

  • rjk8

    I’ve been on this site longer than almost all of you all. I recalled him saying it. I said it and stand by it. That’s old news. I don’t have a problem with dude 90% of the time. I agree with a lot of his comments. We’ll I gotta go. To any extent, this is like high school. I mean the psychology is really myopic and adolescent at best. Sorry, but it doesn’t and will not deter me from saying what I want to say.

    Child abuse and baby mamas right to have unlimited kids without the financial means was the subject. I think it’s kind of important. I stand by my comments

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Oh!

  • Yall still crazy

    Good to know :shrug: <—with a dumb azz look on my face

    *snickers* I, too, stand by my statement :D

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Denise you learn something new err day on sandy rose

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    @AL … I see!! I learned a lot last friday! :lol:

    :no: <— smh

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVWchAnyH6k&feature=related ALBoy

    @ Denise :coffee:

  • http://www.buzzfeed.com/burnred/the-25-funniest-autocorrects-of-2011-281t JMO

    ALBoy says:

    @ Denise :coffee:
    ____________________________

    :rofl: :wink:

  • rjk8

    @Choco aka Hippie says:

    Oh!

    So why are you being mean and when I say mean Im not talking about stating your opinion but you seem to be attacking folks
    __________________________________________

    Maybe more people in the community should be “mean”. I mean dam……. the hopelessness. I’ll ask again where did we go wrong.

    Yeah, I’m a little hard on the hoodrats and baby mammas but the fact is if I had directed that same harsh tone to the gubement and blamed the “white man” not one of you all would have said a thing. So you all don’t have a problem with what I said it’s who I said it about that’s really the issue. Personal responsibility IMO is the first place that we should examine on where we went wrong. I’m out. Oh, and I stand by everything I said. Somebody needs to say it.

  • nybrn2

    Fathers need to step up period. Most women are on public assistance because dad is nowhere to be found or a deadbeat. The dads should have their wages garnished to help moms care for the children. It takes two to make a baby. You play! You pay!

  • AndThenIHitMyDougie

    @Pryti/Choco/Fefe

    Nobody said ya’lls azzes shouldve been aborted. Otherwise, I’d have straight up said, “your parents shoulda flushed you when you had the chance.”

    Cmon now….I ain’t :nono: been one to mince words on how I feel, no matter how rude it may seem.

    But I did say…your parents could’ve waited. And they could’ve. They maybe coulda used a condom or bc (if it was available then, I don’t know how old you are.) Hell, I’ve told my mother she should’ve waited with my brother and she feels the same way. It may not sound pretty, but it’s the truth. And that ain’t always pretty either.

    Your birthday is not an accident, but a lot of the circumstances leading to our bdays are purely accidental.

    And yes, I do believe everybody should wait until they are fiscally, emotionally, mentally and all other ways-ly able to care for their children. It’s a big burden and while a bit of struggle makes everybody stronger, too much struggle can fukk up a person like you wouldn’t believe. All I said is why bring your kids into some bullsh*t…if you cant wait a few years and NOT do that? It makes sense. Folks are too in their feelings, I’m speaking purely from logic.

  • Daisy

    @Intense :cosign: your comment abt the govt wld find another way to spend welfare money if it were to end tomorrow. We would NOT see one red cent of any of that money.

    I :pray: for these 2 little girls and for their mother who clearly needs some help. This story is so :sad:

  • BayMami_de4

    These 2 precious children will be in my prayers.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @Dougie

    I didn’t think you were saying that I should have been aborted, I think that was what Pryti was thinking that because of you telling her that her parents should have “waited” or something to that degree. Just because I am defending the rights of others does not mean that I fall into that group or category. My parents were married for two years prior to my birth and did not have me until they were ready, but some people go through difficult times and cannot predict how the future may turn out…that should be apparent by the many new numbers of poor folks in this nation due to its economic turmoil. I’m sure many of these folks in the unemployment lines and filing for bankruptcy could not have predicted how things would turn out with the housing market, their stock options, etc. CHIT HAPPENS! I just think it would be somewhat insulting to you if I were to tell YOU…”Oh Dougie, girl, you’re momma and daddy should have waited to have you because such and such and such…” Like who the fck am I to say some chit like that??? That’s very judgmental and lofty sounding and it makes it seem like my life and existence is somewhat more sensible than yours…You my e-homie, and believe it or not I agree with you on alot of stuff, it’s just that this is a subject that is not clean, cut, and dry, so many will have their own take on it and no one’s perspective is any better than the next person. We all have a purpose here on earth, and God decides all at the end of the day….have a good night chica! :waves:

  • DapisDaShizz

    ARE U SERIOUS SANDRA? Please look up facts before you go spouting foolishness on BC. In order to give out MANDATORY BC, there has to be testing, questionnaires, and a whole staff of people to ensure that these WOMEN, not the MEN, take their BC. Now what if she smokes? Oh forget it then because she may die of blood clots in her lungs then who takes care of her kids? What if she bleeds heavily while on said BC, oh then the gov will have to pay her EXTENSIVE medical bills. I could go on BUT…….

    GA does not increase your benefits if you get preg while receiving assistance. You keep the same low amount. I have been there but my OWN hard work and a LOVING man helped me get out of there.

    People who judge others like this need to open their eyes. I can’t blam you Sandra b/c your heritage probably is nothing like most of ours. My family did not own ANYTHING until my great grandmother bought land with her siblings after years of hard work. It was commonplace to have 9, 10 , 13, or 15 kids. These same kids grew up on farmland and moved to the cities because of the glamor. They still had 9, 6, 5 kids so more people could help pay the bills and watch the little ones. If one moved out they all would go by and help out with things in both houses. Now we feel like what our grands did was wrong or dumb and want to control something that is natural to these people. Who are you to say? I bet you would NEVER call the CPS or POLICE on one of these mothers until you see her beat her kid half to death. Not while they are making threats, slapping them, or giving out unusual punishments. If you really care about kids then let it be about them and not the amount of generational curses their parents carry.

    I still love you guys though.

  • DapisDaShizz

    Oh and BTW, the reason that I am NOT married is b/c my LOVING man died b4 we made it to the alter. He was not a dead beat dad and I am sure if he could return he would gladly trade ANYTHING to be with us for 1 day. So yes, I am a baby mamma in a sense and from the women I know we are the norm and the hood baby mammas are the exception. I see women everyday doing things to care for their family, and I don’t live in the upper crest neighborhoods where we seem to think good baby mammas live, lol.

  • NubianJ

    I agree with EVERYTHING that rjk8 said……and i’m a woman. Some of y’all are immature and delusional….

  • Mannie

    SR Said:

    birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.
    ___________________________________

    I agree… :kona:

  • boistop

    This is a heavy topic! I find it interesting some of the comments black people make about other blacks! Now I understand that there is a good portion of white folk living in projects and receiving welfare! Hell bet y’all didn’t know that Hasidic Jews receive a whole lot of funds for all those children they pop out! But no one seems to make such degrading comments about them! Remember this I don’t care what kind of fantastic job you have, all of us without the complexion for the connection is one paycheck away from needing assistance ourselves! The government does not develop all these plans that they do for the benenfit of black folk! So cut the high and mighty crap! Forcing birth control on women based on their living accommodations is no different than investigating what a particular disease would do to a certain group of black airmen!

    Please black people stop thinking because you drive nice cars and think you have nice jobs and wear nice clothes, and blogs! That white folks don’t still think you are animals! The days haven’t been gone that long!

  • ohpretty1

    Emotions took the logic out of so many of these comments. With that said @Dawn made a powerful comment that I’ve been thinking for years on this site.
    Have a good day folks.

  • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

    FeFe says:

    @Dougie

    I didn’t think you were saying that I should have been aborted, I think that was what Pryti was thinking that because of you telling her that her parents should have “waited” or something to that degree. Just because I am defending the rights of others does not mean that I fall into that group or category. My parents were married for two years prior to my birth and did not have me until they were ready, but some people go through difficult times and cannot predict how the future may turn out…that should be apparent by the many new numbers of poor folks in this nation due to its economic turmoil. I’m sure many of these folks in the unemployment lines and filing for bankruptcy could not have predicted how things would turn out with the housing market, their stock options, etc. CHIT HAPPENS! I just think it would be somewhat insulting to you if I were to tell YOU…”Oh Dougie, girl, you’re momma and daddy should have waited to have you because such and such and such…” Like who the fck am I to say some chit like that??? That’s very judgmental and lofty sounding and it makes it seem like my life and existence is somewhat more sensible than yours…You my e-homie, and believe it or not I agree with you on alot of stuff, it’s just that this is a subject that is not clean, cut, and dry, so many will have their own take on it and no one’s perspective is any better than the next person. We all have a purpose here on earth, and God decides all at the end of the day….have a good night chica!
    —————-

    Thank you for this FeFe. It was a rude, judgmental and insulting statement. My parents were great parents that have both worked steadily since they were 15 until they retired at 50. They nor I owe anybody an apology for having went thru 3 rough years. They have given too much back to their community and children since. I have nothing else to say to or about it tho.

  • http://www.twitter.com/missbl0ndee SunnyK

    “This wouldn’t happen if President Obama made birth control mandatory for residents of public housing and the illiterate.”

    ———————–

    SANDRA Please! As much as i would LOVE These Hoodrats to keep their legs close forcing BC On them is stupid!….I Dont believe in Birth control except condoms im sorry but them pills and shots mess your body up in the long run….Notice all those lawyer commericals about suing companies like YAZ