Medical Minute: Autism often diagnosed late in minority children
Early diagnosis is essential for children with autism, but minority children tend to be diagnosed later than white children, according to an article on Huffingtonpost.com.
HuffPo quotes an expert on autism who says cultural differences can lead to delayed diagnosis of autism in black children.
“The biggest thing I want parents to know is we can do something about it to help your child,” says Dr. Rebecca Landa, autism director at Baltimore’s Kennedy Krieger Institute.
She gives examples of cultural differences, for instance, toddlers pointing before they talk is a key early sign of normal development. But pointing is considered rude in some cultures, and some black parents might miss that important sign due to cultural beliefs and superstitions.
And some new parents don’t worry if their child is slow to start talking because other members of their family were slow to talk.
Singer Toni Braxton’s 9-year-old son, Diezel (pictured above), was diagnosed with autism at age 3.
“I’m lucky,” said Braxton in an interview with OK magazine. “I try to tell most parents ‘don’t dismiss the signs.’ It’s OK. When you find out early, you can get them all the help they need.”
According to Dr. Landa, minority children have more severe developmental delays when compared with their white counterparts.
Dr. Landa is hoping to change that statistic by examining the racial and ethnic disparity in language development at her well-known toddler treatment program at Kennedy Krieger Institute.
In one of her studies of language development, the minority patients lagged four months behind the white autistic kids.
One parent in Dr. Landa’s program worried that her son Matthew, then 14 months, wasn’t talking as well as his peers. Boys are slower to talk than girls, her family and friends assured her.
“I just knew something was wrong,” recalls Marlo Lemon, of Randallstown, Md.
Matthew was enrolled in developmental therapy by age 18 months, and was formally diagnosed with autism when he turned 2 and Lemon enrolled him in Kennedy Krieger’s toddler program as well. In many of his therapy classes, Lemon says, Matthew was the only African-American.
Now 7, Matthew still doesn’t speak but Lemon says he is making huge strides learning how to communicate using therapies such as manding.
“I want other minority families to get involved early, be relentless,” says Lemon, who now works part-time counseling families about how to find services early.
Among the early warning signs of autism are:
Landa says between 18 and 26 months, kids should make short phrases like “my shoe” or “where’s mommy,” and should be adding to their vocabulary weekly.
More info on the Web
Autism – Autism.com
Autism – Mayo Clinic
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Cha are you pointing and talking?
I hope Toni’s head is swollen from the Lupus meds because it looks like she is carrying around a globe.
I applaud Toni for her Autism efforts.
Autism is such a misunderstood disease, I am praying that a cause is eventually found because being a parent of a very young child I can’t help but think what if.
Some parents don’t know the signs and have crappy insurance and horrible doctors who don’t care to ask what developments the child is making.
I don’t know if the statistics about minority children are correct, but I do remember my Godson, who is autistic, showing signs early on that should have been VERY obvious to the parents and grandparents involved. I wasn’t even around him much but I noticed he was not talking and did not respond to commands, etc. I told my cousin that something was wrong with him and she kept saying that he was just too smart for his own good and that he knew what he was doing when he “ignored” people…he used to just stand in one spot and stare at the tv and if you tried to move him he would get very angry and scream. Finally after like 2 or 3 years of ignoring this chit they took him to get tested and found out that he was “mildly” autistic…I think had they been a bit more objective things could have been addressed much earlier, but they weren’t…I will say that he is 11 years old now and doing VERY well…he’s in the right schools and is getting the right attention…
Some parents don’t know the signs and have crappy insurance and horrible doctors who don’t care to ask what developments the child is making.
Co-Sign!
<—- CANNOT STAND KAH-BOOGIE!
you are BAT SHYT crazy, you know that???
Anna says:
Cha are you pointing and talking?
I just dont like talking about children period on this blog. I know this post is intended to raise awareness but everyone doesnt play fair and so there will indeed be some nignorant comments. Some comments will inevtiably end up getting lost in translation
Dont mind me though!
I applaud and envy any parent that has to endure this common concern, all children are beautiful to me and this should not set them apart!
I diagnosed my son, and told the doctors that he was autistic. I watched a program on television, recognized the signs, and got him treatment(speech therapist, occupational therapist). Autism does not mean that your child is stupid or slow. Their brains just operate differently than other children. My son is an A/B student at one of the best schools in the country, and is being SERIOUSLY scouted by many colleges. It also helps when you don’t treat them any differently. I never allowed my son to become a throw away child. It really is up to the parents to take control and be the guiding force in getting your child/children the help they need.
S/N: My son NEVER went to any special schools. He has always gone to public schools with everyone else. He has been on honor roll since he was enrolled, and has not had any disciplinary problems. Sure, he had to deal with some teasing, but what child doesn’t? I never wanted him to feel different, and I didn’t even tell him he was autistic until about a year ago. He is now 17 and college bound!
I saw this on the news this morning. Is there a blood test available at birth? Or is this just a “wait and see” type of illness?
#knowledgeispower
Both Toni and son(s) are very very good looking people! Toni little ol old self
TATTED TA TA’s
@ Kah it’s a dry tacky weave that’s making her head look ginormous
FeFe says:
…I will say that he is 11 years old now and doing VERY well…he’s in the right schools and is getting the right attention…
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Well, at least they finally took him to a doctor. Some kids grow up without ever realizing they were autistic.
Got that right Sandra, my daughter had attention problems last year, and behavior issues also, I took her to see a doctor, because I wasnt sure if it was a sign of ADHD or ADD, but she is fine and it helped her take her anger out in other ways , instead of throwing chairs, and biting and spitting, Woopins did not help. So I took other measures, and discipline her in other ways, and reward her every week for being good at school. It worked cause she looks forward to the goodie bag (where she chooses a toy out of) I get lil trinketts from the dollar store
@yallcrazy, it’s a wait and see type deal signs usually start showing in the first year or so.
There’s a lupus walk coming up, I just saw an e-mail about a week ago. I’ll post the info when I decide to donate…
That’s one painful disease (from what I hear)…
I do think it is inappropriate to have celebs kida’pics up though. Info can be shared without signaling out someone’s child.
Autism is such a misunderstood disease, I am praying that a cause is eventually found because being a parent of a very young child I can’t help but think what if.
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Same here, though there really are signs as soon as they start non-verbal communication. I freaked out over my oldest taking longer than usual to start talking properly and just put him in speech therapy. I would have done it sooner, but everyone else thought I was overreacting bc he’s a boy. Nobody listened to me until he started pre-school and the teacher said something. Always trust your gut and don’t let anyone tell you different.
CHA CHA
I SHOUTED YOU OUT IN THE PREVIOUS POST, BUT IN CASE YOU MISSED IT….HERE GOES:
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jeniefrumdabloc says:
Woopins did not help. So I took other measures, and discipline her in other ways, and reward her every week for being good at school. It worked cause she looks forward to the goodie bag (where she chooses a toy out of) I get lil trinketts from the dollar store
I’m proud of you for taking the initiative to help your daughter rather than ignore her behavior or beat on her.
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Thanks Ryan
Great idea Jenie!
@ Jenie
GOOD FOR YOU, MAMA!
@Yall, Lupus is VERY painful. I have fibromyalgia and my brothers BM has lupus. I have heard that lupus is similar to fibro and that ish aint no joke
Some days im in pain just from the damn wind blowing on my joints 
Thought I was about to attack a bish over my Dole Pina Colada juice
… ok, im done
@Cookie, I didn’t talk until I was three years old. My family had all grades of tests ran on me, I was just verbally delayed. I pray my daughter doesn’t have the same speech issues I did. I thank my speech therapist till this day he changed my life.
CookieMonsterZ says:
Nobody listened to me until he started pre-school and the teacher said something. Always trust your gut and don’t let anyone tell you different.
Good for you! And now you can spot the early signs in other children and educate other parents. Each one teach one! 
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Detective Iheart says:
@Yall, Lupus is VERY painful. I have fibromyalgia
. My mommy has fibromyalgia and sometimes the pain is unbearable!
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Iheart REAL TALK, LET ME GIVE YOU A
Tatted where have you been
Some parents don’t know the signs and have crappy insurance and horrible doctors who don’t care to ask what developments the child is makin
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John Q
Hello SR
jeniefrumdabloc says:
Got that right Sandra, my daughter had attention problems last year, and behavior issues also, I took her to see a doctor, because I wasnt sure if it was a sign of ADHD or ADD, but she is fine and it helped her take her anger out in other ways , instead of throwing chairs, and biting and spitting, Woopins did not help. So I took other measures, and discipline her in other ways, and reward her every week for being good at school. It worked cause she looks forward to the goodie bag (where she chooses a toy out of) I get lil trinketts from the dollar store
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:cosigns: My son was diagnosed with ADD last year. All of his kinder year no matter how much I whooped him it didnt help. At first I thought it was because daddy was deployed for the 4th time. I whooped him and whooped him and it just didnt phase him so finally I got with the teacher and we decided that he was displaying signs of ADD/ADHD. Took him to a child psychologist (sp) and now he is doing great!
The Makeup Maven says:
Detective Iheart says:
@Yall, Lupus is VERY painful. I have fibromyalgia
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Iheart REAL TALK, LET ME GIVE YOU A . My mommy has fibromyalgia and sometimes the pain is unbearable!
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Thanks Tatted
That pain is a beast at times but I just deal with it the best way I know how to.
Who do you think I am?
Don’chu know that he was my man?
But I chose to let him go
So why do you act like I still care about him?
Looking at me like I’m hurt
When I’m the one who said I didn’t want it to work
Did you forget I had him first?
What you thinkin
Stop playing me
He wasn’t man enough for me
If youdon’t know, now here’s your chance
I’ve already had your man
Do you wonder just where he’s been, yeah
Not be worried about him
Now it’s time you know the truth
I think he’s just the man for you
I love the way that we can share on here, and it not only helps us (to understand), it also helps the lurkers…
Good Job Auntie
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yo!
Hoburger No. 5, come give me a
Jenie
I’VE BEEN HERE! I haven’t seen YOU though. I got in late today! 
<– ONE MORE SINCE WE HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER!
@Ryan, It’s nice to hear that everything worked out for you.
Everything will be fine.
Thanks, Sandra!
Both of my brothers are heavily medicated on ADHD meds and I see absolutely no difference in their behavior. I think both of them are crying for attention, but they ain’t my kids and it’s not my place to say anything to my mom and stepdad about it. But whippings arent doing anything to change their behaviors.
Detective Iheart says:
The Makeup Maven says:
Detective Iheart says:
@Yall, Lupus is VERY painful. I have fibromyalgia
. My mommy has fibromyalgia and sometimes the pain is unbearable!
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Iheart REAL TALK, LET ME GIVE YOU A
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Thanks Tatted
That pain is a beast at times but I just deal with it the best way I know how to.
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I know. It’s becoming more common now-a-days. I had a co-worker who had it as well. Some days, it hurts my mommy to comb her hair!
@Ryan, mY nephew is the exact same way. He has been on and off of different meds for adhd since he was 5 or 6 and he’s 14 now. He has been in countless numbers of schools and still no change in his behavior. I tell my mom and dad that he just wants the attn of his mom and dad but they just want to keep changing his meds or upping his dosage
A third student has passed as a result from the school shooting yesterday in Ohio.
Took him to a child psychologist (sp) and now he is doing great!
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Good news! And I read your previous post, you are a strong woman!
iheart its something that has to be done, because the teachers will label them as problem children
when actually they need to be taught in a different way, my daughter had counseling sessions with a psychologist and he found no signs of it, but then again he said it was to early to diagnose. So we had a month of counseling sessions which helped, it was his idea for rewarded my daughter for the good behavior instead of spanking< that crap did not work. Rewarding good behavior promoted excellent behavior. My daughter has her moments, as all kids do, but I just tell her you want be going in the goodie bag this week. She looks forward to those cheap lil dollar toys 
Watching John Q still makes me mad.
ryand91 says:
A third student has passed as a result from the school shooting yesterday in Ohio.
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My God keep your kids covered in his blood I tell ya. Smh
ryand91 says:
A third student has passed as a result from the school shooting yesterday in Ohio.
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Are you serious??? It was just 1 student…and then 2. Now a third! Lord, I’m keeping the families in my
@Detective, my youngest brother is the worst. He destroys any and everything that doesn’t belong to him. I have a large canvas piece of art hanging up in my room, he took a pair of scissors to it for the hell of it. And I’m like my mom has to see something is wrong with this child and he needs some kind of intervention.
One of my lady’s friends came over not too long ago with her son (almost 5). All little dude did was stare at the tv standing motionless until I had my son take him to his room to play. My nearly 2 1/2yr old spoke way better than him. All his mom talked about was the check she was getting for him.
Lakes, where are you??
I am in the process of getting my baby girl diagnosed. You would not believe the uphill battle I have had! it has been extremely frustrating to tell the dr and others what I saw as abnormal and being dismissed. I’m blessed that my baby is verbal, but other signs are there and I’m thankful for her new dr taking the time to listen to me and actually observe her. I can’t wait to get her the therapy she needs to help her with expressing herself emotionally.
whoever said it doesn’t mean the child is slow! they are some of the brightest children I know and very creative.
Iheart REAL TALK, LET ME GIVE YOU A . My mommy has fibromyalgia and sometimes the pain is unbearable!
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I swear I thought at one time I had this what are the signs
My daughter never took an interest in education we talk to school personnel went to therapy they said she had ADHD put her on medz – she didn’t like them and lied about taking them but in the end I left her alone becuz she said they made her feel stuck and slow – she graduated and I’ve come to the realization she was simply not applying herself but each case is different
I am SO sad that a third student has died in that shooting….
Oh and I still CANNOT watch John Q to this day without tearing up!
@ samyell
Hate Ignants like that
@ samyell
Hate Ignants like that
Thanks @ Cookie
@Jenie, I am a firm believer of working with my sons teachers to come up with a game plan. When I tell you we tried EVERYTHING his kinder year we tried EVERYTHING. I tried to just blow it off as oh he’s just acting out cause his dad is gone, but in reality I just didnt wanna be one of “those” moms with a child that has ADD/ADHD. We started the diagnosis process at the end of kinder year and he was in counseling all summer to help him deal with his anger and outburst.On his first day of second grade he got in trouble and I knew then we had to go on the lowest dose possible of meds. He has been on that dose for almost 2 years now. We sat down and talked about the med and why he had to take it everyday before school and how it would help him. Now that if that joker forgets his meds he is quick to say “I didnt take my meds” and I dont even let that fly
He has days where he can go to school without taking meds and do just fine so he know that he has no excuse and he still has to use SELF CONTROL.
SamYell JacksEm says:
One of my lady’s friends came over not too long ago with her son (almost 5). All little dude did was stare at the tv standing motionless until I had my son take him to his room to play. My nearly 2 1/2yr old spoke way better than him. All his mom talked about was the check she was getting for him.
FeFe what shooting babe??
@ Choco – I think one of the main signs is that pain, for you, is a little bit more extreme than other ppl.
All his mom talked about was the check she was getting for him.
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Upside down frown #CREEPY
@Fay
the shooting at that high school in Cleveland…
@Tatted
I had that extreme pain it hurt to walk to open doors I went to a dr and he had me on percoset for 14 days it went away and stayed away for a while like a few years sometimes I get achy but now Im quick to take something for it – my primary care physician prescribes me muscle relaxers I take as needed
SamYell JacksEm says:
One of my lady’s friends came over not too long ago with her son (almost 5). All little dude did was stare at the tv standing motionless until I had my son take him to his room to play. My nearly 2 1/2yr old spoke way better than him. All his mom talked about was the check she was getting for him.
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THIS angers me so much!!!
Yes and it weighs on my heart that kids are going to school and killing one another its a sad horrific confirmation of what this world has become!
@ Fe…..Do you color your hair? I’m darken mine back dark when I take these tracks out.
<—-has no idea what shooting u guys are talking about. high school? college? this happened today?
i need answers ppl!
@H-Town
They are very artistic and intelligent people….have you seen the movie ‘Rain Man’ with Tom Cruise and Dustin Hoffman?
I have a soft spot in my heart for kids. I have a 13 y/o son that had a stroke at birth, left him deaf and he has some mental issues. Makes you value life a lot more and realize how blessed you really are to be able to do the things that you can do.
Sam… That’s a sorry bitch
@Fayla, it happened at a high school in outside of Cleaveland, OH yesterday.
@Dimpz
No, I can’t color my hair….every time I try to it thins out and breaks…
I wish I could color it more!
@Choco,like you said , each case is different. I was so SCARED to put my son on anything because I have seen what it can do to some kids because they are put on to high of a dose and I refused to let that happen to my baby
I just got with the teacher after he was on meds and told her if she sees any signs of him being “zombieish” or anything like that then let me know so we could try something different. I didn’t care if I had to quit my job and go to school with him everyday,but thankfully the low dose med helps him and he is still very much himself.
@Fe
So far London shows an interest in animals. she will be tree in April but can name over 50 animals and imitate the sound they make. She also loves to draw daily. she just made a jelly fish.
Yall should share the doctor’s names, because everybody reads and maybe it’ll help someone get into a doctor appt that will help. I can’t imagine how frustrating this can be…. #justasuggestion
Some people can’t do better because they don’t know how to do better
will be three*
@iamchan
I’m SO sorry to hear that….stay strong!
Dimpz i fuggin HATE i started coloring my hair (lighter) it’s just too hard on my hair. i did it for years tho b4 i realized it was a problem
we grey early in my fam, so i’ve been grey since like 24-25. (not bad, but that’s when they showed up, my sone has 2 already!) i HATE them!!!
now i want to go darker, but i scurred!
@ Lakes……There are alot of ppl like that. When my daughter’s Gma found out Jay was Autistic, that was the first suggestion she made, that I get a check. I respectfully told her hell no! He can function better than some “normal” ppl I know and i’ll be damned if I handicap him to get a check.
Last post on topic, dumb ppl piss me off.
Detective Iheart says:
Thanks @ Cookie
@Jenie, I am a firm believer of working with my sons teachers to come up with a game plan. When I tell you we tried EVERYTHING his kinder year we tried EVERYTHING. I tried to just blow it off as oh he’s just acting out cause his dad is gone, but in reality I just didnt wanna be one of “those” moms with a child that has ADD/ADHD. We started the diagnosis process at the end of kinder year and he was in counseling all summer to help him deal with his anger and outburst.On his first day of second grade he got in trouble and I knew then we had to go on the lowest dose possible of meds. He has been on that dose for almost 2 years now. We sat down and talked about the med and why he had to take it everyday before school and how it would help him. Now that if that joker forgets his meds he is quick to say “I didnt take my meds” and I dont even let that fly
He has days where he can go to school without taking meds and do just fine so he know that he has no excuse and he still has to use SELF CONTROL.
Sandra I never do any work fulling with your site I BLAME YOU 
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ADD and ADHD is hereditary, and heck truth be told a lot of us could suffer with this and never knew, because our parents blew it off, to just being bad. Even now with myself I have attention problems, and can only focus on one thing at time, like me on SR blogs
I have a large canvas piece of art hanging up in my room, he took a pair of scissors to it for the hell of it.
Needless to say my nephew went back to my parents house with a black eye and he never tried that again with my son but he did throw a ball at my younger nephew when he had to get off his computer and now that we are on this discussion it is making me think!
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Wow I have a nephew who lies his arse off about everything and he can be destructive when he gets mad! One time he lost playing my son in PSP and punched my son
My youngest has a speech delay and has been getting speech therapy since he was three. They attribute it to what he may have been exposed to in womb cause his birth mom is an addict.
His brother has a mild form of ADHD but he is not on medication cause I don’t feel he needs it at this point. Also, I have concerns about medicating kids and messing with their brain chemistry so young unless absolutely necessary.
Imo, ADD/ADHD is one of the most over diagnosed and over medicated conditions in this country cause it equals big business for the drug companies.
@ Fe…Your hair is naturally that dark?!
Jellus!
@ Fay…I feel you, i’m sick of this red though, I miss my dark hair.
@Chan
i love ur outlook!
thx Ryand91!!
@ Choco – Oh, okay. You may not have it then. My mom don’t always have symptons, but when she does…BOY OH BOY!
@ Fay – Some boy shot up a high school close to Cleveland, OH and 3 students have died.
name over 50 animals and imitate the sound they make. She also loves to draw daily. she just made a jelly fish.
God blessed her with YOU as her mother yo! 
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Awwww H
. I didn’t care if I had to quit my job and go to school with him everyday,but thankfully the low dose med helps him and he is still very much himself.
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Yeah Im glad I was smart enough to listen to my child and not some so-called degreed professional that knows nothing of my child! Now granted Im not saying no one is helpful but not all have all the right answers!
@Auntie i
ur blog & it’s posters. just something blessed about it!
Cousin, If I walk down Michigan, I go underground and make a right at Randolph right?
@Choco, my brother will lie his ass off too. A few months ago he decided to be Picasso and break all over the walls with White-Out after everybody else was sleep. Mind you he is almost 10 years old and tried to blame it on me.
Unfortunately I know a lot of hoodbooger arse bishes (some I am related to) that are so quick to have their child diagnosed with something to get a check. It’s sickening…….
They are not really interested in the growth and development of their kids…just getting that dough on the first of the month.
You may not have it then. My mom don’t always have symptons, but when she does…BOY OH BOY!
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Do the drs have her on pain meds – can she even move cuz at one point I was bed ridden for 3 days straight
@ H-Town
You are so correct, when you say how intelligent and creative they are. My son can make ANYTHING out of clay or play-doh. His genius amazes me sometimes. When he was 5, I showed him how to do multiplication. Showed him one time, and he was off to the races.
Confession: When we go to restaurants, I use him as my human calculator, to determine how much we should give in tips. Don’t judge me.
Imo, ADD/ADHD is one of the most over diagnosed and over medicated conditions in this country cause it equals big business for the drug companies.
I am all for getting those who need help the help they need.
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DON’T DRINK THE MILK. GOOGLE MONSANTO. OUR GOV’T IS ALLOWING THOSE HORMONES TO BE PUT INTO COWS. WHEN YOU GET SICK MONSANTO HAS THE CURE.
#knowledgeispower
@Jenie, I didn’t know that it was hereditary, but it makes a hell of a lot of sense cause me and my husband can have the attn span of a damn gnat
My po Chile was doomed from the beginning 
Imo, ADD/ADHD is one of the most over diagnosed and over medicated conditions in this country cause it equals big business for the drug companies.
@ H-Town….
You’re welcome!
ryand91 says:
@Choco, my brother will lie his ass off too. A few months ago he decided to be Picasso and break all over the walls with White-Out after everybody else was sleep. Mind you he is almost 10 years old and tried to blame it on me.
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That’s funny, but it’s not funny at the same time. What do you look like as grown as your are writing on the walls in White-out?
Cousin
You want me to meet you there? What time?
#notinaclique
@Dimpz
I actually used to dye it darker when I was in college because I liked the dramatic look. But that used to DAMAGE the hell out of my hair…a little over a year ago I tried putting some highlights in there and it was back to breaking off. My hair fluctuates so much in length and strength it’s ridic…I just hung up trying to dye it and realized that it ain’t in the cards for me!
I have a few grey strands on the side and I’m embracing them… 
@Choco, my brother will lie his ass off too. A few months ago he decided to be Picasso and break all over the walls with White-Out after everybody else was sleep. Mind you he is almost 10 years old and tried to blame it on me.
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My nephew is 13 and tries to blame chit on my nephew who is 6! His own parents don’t care for him and he may be better off as a result but the dna they passed down to him makes me have no respect for my sister or his father! And it’s my other sister his aunt who took him in after he was too much for my mom but his parents are some leeching azz fuks who have not a care in the world! I literally wanna kick my sista’s azz for her thinking her trifling azz don’t have to care for her child meanwhile me and the rest of taxpayers are providing that tramp a free ride! Girl I could go on but why does my sis call her welfare and all that other chit her income! What??????
@HTown
NO problem babes! wish i had someone when my son was diagnosed. it was terrifying @first 
Imo, ADD/ADHD is one of the most over diagnosed and over medicated conditions in this country cause it equals big business for the drug companies
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Good point!
Detective Iheart says:
@Jenie, I didn’t know that it was hereditary, but it makes a hell of a lot of sense cause me and my husband can have the attn span of a damn gnat
My po Chile was doomed from the beginning 
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@ Cousin….I’m gonna leave her at 1:35. I’ll call you as soon as I hit the ground. Thanks.
@ Fe….It looks Gawjus though.
Long time no see! They are a trip. Ma’am is making her sister stay sharp. she can identify her name verbally and visually. she has known her ABC’s since about 18 months by site, yet just learned the ABC song abt 5 months ago. She build thing with her blocks hours at a time. She can also spell a few words already. She loves to learn. dimpz told me teach them once and they master it, then leave them be….it’s true.
@Yall
Thanks for your kind words.
I’m thankful for her because she has helped me with patience
Fi, try using BIGEN, it’s in the beauty supply stores, and it doesn’t damage your hair, it covers the gray
With your length, you’d probably need 2 boxes (approx. $6 each) and follow the directions But– apply it with a toothbrush
@ Tisch….Michigan and Randolph @ 1:45ish.
@mistarie
Confession: When we go to restaurants, I use him as my human calculator, to determine how much we should give in tips. Don’t judge me.
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Choco aka Hippie says:
. I didn’t care if I had to quit my job and go to school with him everyday,but thankfully the low dose med helps him and he is still very much himself.
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Yeah Im glad I was smart enough to listen to my child and not some so-called degreed professional that knows nothing of my child! Now granted Im not saying no one is helpful but not all have all the right answers!
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He looks like his Auntie Tracy..cute
I really dig this place, all I heard about it was wrong…none of yall are bitter, just hilarious and thought provoking!
I just encountered this myself. When I lived in So. Cal. I had a school psychologist team tell me my Son had Aspergers. (mild autism)
Upon moving back to Denver, I tried to get my child tested, but there was a 9 – 12 month waiting list. It took a serous incident at his school to get him moved to the head of the list.
My beautiful, charming, caring and humorous Son has High Functioning Autism.
The initial testing that is done is called an ADOS. There are a lot of questions about observations you had about your child when he was 2-4 yrs old, as well as your current observations about initiating and maintaining friendships, how they deal in an environment that may be overstimulating, etc.
Children with HFA, can be independent, can be highly successful in school and future careers. There is a different parenting approach you have to take, but at the end of the day, these children can and are, normal.
Bless all the Parents, especially single Mothers, dealing with this diagnosis.
MzTisch, Kernel Fabian’s yo!
Be there or be square
Cousin, text when you are a block away.
#notinnocliquenomaam
MzDimplez1123 says:
@ Tisch….Michigan and Randolph @ 1:45ish.
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Nope, that’s okay now. The damage is done.
I’s brawt my lunch anyways. A bish been eating leftovers since I dropped about 500 hunn-annd on the kid’s b-day party.
Where yall heaux’s going anyway?
@Dimpz
Thanks hon!
*come hither* 
@Smurfette
*writes this down* …thanks girlie! I will try it out for sure…
Dimpz
iAmChan says:
I really dig this place, all I heard about it was wrong…none of yall are bitter, just hilarious and thought provoking!
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Imo, ADD/ADHD is one of the most over diagnosed and over medicated conditions in this country cause it equals big business for the drug companies.
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You know In Texas they are now giving those kids with any disibilities a general diploman (or something like that) and it wont be a regular one that you can use to get into college. And ADD/ADHD falls under that.
My sister is a Teacher and she was telling me about it.
MY late sister was born with menigitis and she couldnt walk nor talk… wasnt expected to live past 5 she made it to 20.
Yall
@ Cousin…….Ok.
@ Tisch……You coming to meet us? LOL
dimpz told me teach them once and they master it, then leave them be….it’s true.
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So proud of Dimpz and really happy she was able to assist! I agree with Fay in SR being blessed!
Believe it or not, there are doctors that taking medication is the last result
A lot of time its the kids diet and what’s in the damn food we’re eating, and their has also been some leaks to some vaccinations, but this is something that can not ignored and should be seen by a professional. I recommend praying that God leads you too the right psychologist. Cause Lord knows its stressful as hell, getting called off the job, not to mention embarrassing too, next thing you they kicking the child out of the school and daycare 
iAmChan says:
I really dig this place, all I heard about it was wrong…none of yall are bitter, just hilarious and thought provoking!
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(Ricky Ricardo voice) You gots some splaining to do
But watch yo back, because one wrong font, and it’s on
Who told you we were bitter? They must not be a part of the O.
@iAmChan
Choco aka Hippie says:
You may not have it then. My mom don’t always have symptons, but when she does…BOY OH BOY!
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Do the drs have her on pain meds – can she even move cuz at one point I was bed ridden for 3 days straight
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Yeah, she has pain meds. I think it’s more manageable for her now that she knows what she is in for. She sometimes have to walk w/a cane but lately, its been better. She takes pills each night to manage her pain because she sometimes cry in her sleep.
@MzTisch, girl I was mad but I couldn’t help but life. I was like that is the best lie you could come with at the moment.
@Choco, SMH these damn bloodsuckers. They make it hard for people who legitimately need aid. I have no type of insurance right now but because I have some CDs in my name, I do not qualify for Medicaid. Life isn’t fair tho, I guess. But her income, tho. Really? Wow
Ichan bitter tho
@SamYell
while embraced in a 
I work for a hospital and let me tell you!! Some of these parents WANT their kids on the meds. I get parents calling for children barely 2 years onld wanting testing for adhd and it just breaks my heart.
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Wow that’s really awful because a lot of time some kids just need some tolerance guidance and patience! I can’t imagine trying to med my 2 y o
Bitter huh?
@Jenie, the link to vaccines has been disproven. I know people like Jenny McCarthy are still running around and still touting that belief. But it has been disproved in a couple of studies by this point.
The people here are great! We are one big dysfunctional, but loving family.
Ichan we just keep 100% round these parts
Fi, google in your free time to see what people say. I know people that perm their hair and Bigen it same day.
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#justathought
Ryan, maybe you can move your money around (just for the time being) and have paperwork to state such, then put it back in a CD
Ok folks it’s been real. London is now asleep so mommy will follow suit!
<—-*wonders why I've never gotten this fcked up negative vibe that others observe about SR posters*
*pops gum*
I think my cousin son shows signs of early autism…but we are told not to say anything to her… -_-
????
But her income, tho. Really? Wow
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Yes girl and she is the most evil nasty bitter thing you could meet been that way ever since I was a child she was diagnosed with being bi-polar so that could be my nephews issue as well! I just get really frustrated with her she has called my mom so many names and will crank call my sisters work phone bish is violating so many boundaries but I aint going to jail for her I have a bad temper and I will be at that broads front door with a bat in hand my moms has begged countless times for me to stay away but when someone disrespects your moms its sends off a trigger!
@yallcrazy, it can’t be moved within a certain amount of weeks or months, they consider that being fradulent. I’m just going to have to bite the bullet and pray nothing major goes wrong with my health before I go back to school full-time in August.
HTF
FeFe says:
<—-*wonders why I've never gotten this fcked up negative vibe that others observe about SR posters*
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I think my cousin son shows signs of early autism…but we are told not to say anything to her…
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Damn shame I got a cousin bless her heart who shouldn’t have had her son and my other cuzo said he is withdrawn I know she was using while she carried him that’s what I can’t stand putting more troubled youth in the world
I was lurking on (insert name here)’s blog a while ago and I read some things that they had to say, as far as whats being said here, and how its full of “certain” types of people, so on and so forth.
See ya later gator @H
Some parents are lazy and want a pill to do their work for them.
@YGO
That’s why concerned parents should get second and third opinions. Doctors can be wrong or be part of a bigger agenda. Health care in America has been sold to the highest bidders for years now.
Chan, why are you on that wet condom’s site believing bullshatt?
The people here are great! We are one big dysfunctional, but loving family.
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Can’t get any realer than that
@iAmChan
Go on….
I was lurking on (insert name here)’s blog a while ago and I read some things that they had to say, as far as whats being said here, and how its full of “certain” types of people, so on and so forth.
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Well I’ll be I did not know I was famous on other blog sites
@Choco, she needs some serious help and prayer. It’s probably best you do keep your distance, she’ll eventually self-destruct.
@Sandra
Can we please get an emoticon showing an unconcerned person filing their nails???
Choco aka Hippie says: but when someone disrespects your moms its sends off a trigger!
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Got the chit right, my cousing call herself getting cute with my mom and dad on a email, I went straight ham on the azz
get second and third opinions. Doctors can be wrong or be part of a bigger agenda. Health care in America has been sold to the highest bidders for years now.
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This goes for all ages!
If the Dr. says something isn’t wrong & you feel otherwise–> off to Dr. 2&3
If Dr. says something IS wrong –> off to Dr. 2&3
ION but when I lurk on a certain bishy blog site I think their minds/comments have not evolved so I refrain from fratenizing
jeniefrumdabloc says:
Choco aka Hippie says: but when someone disrespects your moms its sends off a trigger!
IJS
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Got the chit right, my cousing call herself getting cute with my mom and dad on a email, I went straight ham on the azz
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That’s what made Sassy “laptop her cousin”
It’s posts like theses that make me appreciate the SR blog….big
to all of you…these moments make me appreciate the ‘simple’ things and blessings in life…I salute all you strong men and women
YSoSrs says:
Some parents are lazy and want a pill to do their work for them.
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I’ve never lurked on that other chick’s site…so I’m not sure what “types” are over there…
iAmChan says:
I was lurking on (insert name here)’s blog a while ago and I read some things that they had to say, as far as whats being said here, and how its full of “certain” types of people, so on and so forth.
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Boy that hating is spreading like AIDS. iAmchan I love this blog out them all ! Matter fact this is my home
Choco, we famous yo
#allgettingtalkedaboutandish
It’s probably best you do keep your distance, she’ll eventually self-destruct
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Im keeping my distance cuz I told her one time keep fukn with me and I will help put you out your misery! That bish think I’m crazier than her but it was real talk!
@Jenie
Some folks dont understand what hurt means until they find themselves sliced up!
yallcrazy says:
jeniefrumdabloc says:
Choco aka Hippie says: but when someone disrespects your moms its sends off a trigger!
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Got the chit right, my cousing call herself getting cute with my mom and dad on a email, I went straight ham on the azz
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That’s what made Sassy “laptop her cousin” IJS
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Stolen
*wonders if i’m HTF*
@FE
hey boo how’s your day going?
Choco, we famous yo #allgettingtalkedaboutandish
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Son who does that SON SON!
Here they go with these greasy deep fryed pork chops at my job
@Frenchy
Can’t call it…just a bit tired today but that’s expected every now and then with me…
takes my
from Naija and leans in to spread some gossip 
hoes talmbout us and ish on their own sites, like who does that? #backwardshustling 
I’ve never lurked on that other chick’s site…so I’m not sure what “types” are over there…
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Hmmmm a bit high schoolish IMO
@EAZY
i feel your pain
can’t get a good decent meal at mine!
*clears throat*
*does sign language signs* HTF
@FE redbull always helps well for me atleast
@Eazy
Where the hail is Dimpz? #inreallife
If you’re reading this
and walk faster 
i dont get it
i really don’t like the smell of pork chops cooking
Whoop, spoke too soon, BB in a minute…
@Choco
Really? Would you compare it to Bossip posters?
@Frenchy
I’ve been thinking about trying that 5-hour energy drink…
iAmChan says:
I really dig this place, all I heard about it was wrong…none of yall are bitter, just hilarious and thought provoking!
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DAYUUUUUUM….WE BITTER NOW!
(attitude voice) IT SAID HELLO THERE FRENCHIE
You ain’t so tough after all huh? 
BRB
@Choco, Re: Fibro
It took me about 2-3 years to finally get diagnosed. First they did blood work and thought it was Rheumatoid Arthritus (sp) because I had a positive RA factor. Gave me meds for that but I was still hurting. Went to a rheumatologist and was tested for lupus,sarcoidosis,cancer and some other stuff. It pretty much came down to a process of elemination.
We e-fight and all that shyt, but for the most part, I think we fcks w/each other!
TO ALL MY SR FAM!
FeFe says:
<—-*wonders why I've never gotten this fcked up negative vibe that others observe about SR posters*
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Me either
I just used to lurk and scan the page asking myself "how the fugg do you comment!!!" 
@Choco
Really? Would you compare it to Bossip posters?
@Frenchy
I’ve been thinking about trying that 5-hour energy drink…
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@Fe No Bossip is cave man some times NB they just seem like followers and impressionable high school adolescents
DO NOT DRINK A 5 Hour Energy Drink – I REPEAT DO NOT!
I was just reading it, gosh, lol. I came here because I like the convo, you all seem down to earth, and I don’t get the sense of being just another user name when I post.
@Tatted
U remember my pics on FB when I had my hair like shoulder length that were posted like a month ago? Well that was a quick weave that my sister did on my hair for a photo shoot and I HATED that chit…it was cute for the moment but I had to take that mess out after a day or so…why does she want me to do this chit for her again???!!!
I just used to lurk and scan the page asking myself “how the fugg do you comment!!!”
So I wasn’t the only one 
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FeFe says:I’ve been thinking about trying that 5-hour energy drink…
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Dat didnt work for me, But I love Full throttle (the blue can)
@Yall
#lamebishes
@Choco
Oh ok…
what’s wrong with the drink?
I think we fcks w/each other!
FUKS w/E O SIKE 
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If @Change is around I would suggest a better usage of words
iAmChan says:
I was just reading it, gosh, lol. I came here because I like the convo, you all seem down to earth, and I don’t get the sense of being just another user name when I post.
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@ Fe – Yeah, I remember! DAYUM, THAT WAS A QUICK WEAVE?? Cuz I was like “Fe’s shyt looking real healthy!” It was pretty as hell and you couldn’t tell it was a weave at all! She did an amazing job! Are you gon let her do it???
*ducks behind chair*
@Fe
That drink will amp you up quickly and then have you crash and it may not be until the next day you crash and it dehydrates you!
I used to scan the shyt out of SR for the longest too trying to figure out how to comment…I was
when I found out you had to be a registered user and for the longest I didn’t WANT to use my work email… 
Choco aka Hippie says:
I think we fcks w/each other!
FUKS w/E SIKE 
YOU ARE CRAZY, CHOCO! Hey, I did want to ask you how was your daughter doing???
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If @Change is around I would suggest a better usage of words
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iAmChan says:
I was just reading it, gosh, lol. I came here because I like the convo, you all seem down to earth, and I don’t get the sense of being just another user name when I post.
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we glad you’re here, yo!
FeFe says:
I used to scan the shyt out of SR for the longest too trying to figure out how to comment…I was
when I found out you had to be a registered user and for the longest I didn’t WANT to use my work email… 
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Yep …
@Tatted
Hell naw!!! The only reason why I let her do it this last time was because I told her no cutting or coloring was allowed…so she’s like “well I wanna give you this particular style and so Imma just wrap it up and put tracks on top…” I had no idea my scalp wouldn’t be able to fcking BREATHE!
@Choco
Oh wow, hmmm that’s creepy…it kind of works like No Doz then huh?
I’ve lurked here for the past couple of years though……now I’m in here. I feel like one of the cool kids parents.
@Choco
I also meant to ask you how your mom was doing?
I’m convinced that the people who post on that blog are all kin to Chikana (tiny’s friend)…
Fefe
Girl, eat them poak chops. Put some meat on them bones.
They taste REAL good. I like everything deep fried with lard, none of that vegetable oil stuff.
I’m just playing.
Well, we may not be bitter but we sure are territorial.
@CHANDLER
Since you are so comfortable now, we’re gonna need to see what you are working with. Just business, you understand.
@screw
@Tatted
and thanks for asking babes
She’s doing better I mos def hear her confidence and not taking any of that girl’s chit – Im just glad she’s got her esteem working for her like Im used to seeing
@Fe
And yes stay away from those drinks eat a energy bar or something
My mom is better but a handful none the least
We are the sweetest nicest posters
@FEFE
You’re welcome.
NB is for them children teeny boppers,
but her audience used to be so diverse like I had a lot of older e friends on there but the teeny boppers messed the vibe up imo I just stopped! COLD TURKEY 
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@ Fe –
THAT’S WHY I DON’T WEAR WEAVE. I need for my shyt to breeve! BUT, your sis does hair?? 
@Lakes
I agree…I just think people live vicariously through blogs sometimes so they may not know how to draw the line between reality and the Internet…
…folks get in their feelings and all emotional and chit… I’ve read some stuff on here that made me gasp but everyone has their opinions so e-banging and berating folks is just plain flat out unnecessary…
@ Choco – No problem.
good for her!
YSoSrs says:
Well, we may not be bitter but we sure are territorial.
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YSO
I was just gonna ask you how you feel about that.
@ YSoSrs
I’m not shy…..at all, lol. Note taken though!
@CHOCO
We stay on our grown woman sht here. Except when we don’t.
@ SIS – we ARE the sweetest posters!
@YGO
That’s just how we play with fresh meat. If Mocha let that run her off then she wasn’t gone last long here anyway.
Remember Kel Mitchell…the former teen star from “Kenan & Kel,” Good Burger & “All That”? Well, he recently got hitched!
This is Kel’s second marriage after getting divorced from Tyisha Hampton-Mitchell in 2005 after being married for 6 years.
Asia & Kel wed on January 8th, 2012. And by the way, the couple is still registered at Kohls, Crate & Barrel, Bed Bath & Beyond, Target, WAL*MART & Macys.
Asia is a female rap artist who describes herself as “Queen of Cali.” Kel tweeted from his love bubble a couple of days after the wedding:
My wedding day on sunday was everything I dreamed of! My wife is so beautiful! God is so good! I thank him for blessing me with her!…I cant stop smiling! Thank you Jesus!
Kel also made a guest appearance on a recent episode of “The Game.”
Fun Facts: Kel has two kids from his previous marriage–daughter Allure and son Lyric–and he owns and operates several Wendy’s franchises outside of Biloxi, Mississippi.
oh never mind
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I kind of thought he was
FeFe says:
@Lakes
I agree…I just think people live vicariously through blogs sometimes so they may not know how to draw the line between reality and the Internet… …folks get in their feelings and all emotional and chit… I’ve read some stuff on here that made me gasp but everyone has their opinions so e-banging and berating folks is just plain flat out unnecessary…
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@Tatted
Yep, she does hair, but I don’t go to her and I don’t feel bad for saying why. She is one of those ‘hood hairdressers who’s main focus is trends and styling. There is no concern or regard for hair health and retention. You will also wait forever and a day to get your hair done which I am just NOT ok with… I stopped going to her when I was in high school because of some stupid shyt she did in regards to the family, but she was sloppy and ‘hood back then and hasn’t much changed. We just have a better working relationship now, so I helped her out with her photo shoot, but she’s been trying to get me back in her chair for years but I’m too spoiled with my current hair dresser to go back to my sis…
YSoSrs says:
@CHOCO
We stay on our grown woman sht here. Except when we don’t
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FeFe says:
I’ve read some stuff on here that made me gasp but everyone has their opinions so e-banging and berating folks is just plain flat out unnecessary…
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Fefe u need esstra tuff skin on sr.. N be able to laugh at urself
I smell pork chops…….I sholl is hawngry <– my best Negro Spiritual voice.
ISO
Not that… Im talking about what IChan said about what folks say about SR.
What happened with Mocha?
Yso
I agree… Shait ain’t that serious..
good for her!
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@YSO
I KID
Well I mean isnt that the fun part we can play role reversal
WHO’S TERRITORIAL
No Naija
Mr Goodburger wasnt gay…
@CHANDLER
We made sure them poak chops have a whole lotta struggle and disappointment in them too.
@Naija
That’s nice to hear about Kel. I never thought he was gay, just different…
@Lakes
You DEFINITELY have to be able to laugh at urself!
Damm chops gave me a headache
@ Fe – OH, OKAY!
THANKS FOR THE INFO!
@Tatted
Did you see EJ get his beautiful face fcked up by the troll on Friday’s episode of Days?
FeFe says:
What happened with Mocha?
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@Fe
I agree with you I don’t think it’s that serious but I aint rolling ova for no one either
YSoSrs says:
@CHANDLER
We made sure them poak chops have a whole lotta struggle and disappointment in them too.
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My kids JUST saw Goodburger for the first time this past weekend.
Damm chops gave me a headache
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Damn shame and I bet your azz ate them like they was good cuz they probably were but the headache could be too much sodium so try and flush it out with plenty of water
@ Fe – NO I DID NOT! But I was told that Will was kissing some boy and that Rafe found out Sammi got it in w/EJ.
@YGO
About bitter bishes on SR…Sure there are a few but there are some everywhere. I don’t let their bitterness spoil my sweet and sugary nature.
Did the Ambasador of fluckery Yso give Chan the offi-shul welcome package
@SamYell
Welcome to Goodburger, home of the Goodburger, can I take your order.
@Choco no, my coworkers were eating them. Im still away from fried food..but the smell makes me want some so bad that I now have a headache! Im eating carrots pissed off right now
@FE and YSO
I hope Mocha didn’t leave over that pissing competition! Maybe the tone came off a lil strong but damn if that ran her off she wouldn’t have made it on SR Island! And for the record I didn’t say a thing to Mocha!
@Ryan chiby got banned
@Tatted
Girl Will almost RAPED that dude, ya hear me???? Like he couldn’t WAIT to tongue the SHYT out of him!
And yes, the troll (Rafe) found out about Sami and EJ
he went over there and busted in the house and sucker punched him and beat his face to a pulp….my baby got blood and purple spots all over his chit! 
YSoSrs says:
@YGO
About bitter bishes on SR…Sure there are a few but there are some everywhere. I don’t let their bitterness spoil my sweet and sugary nature.
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Lies told on SR
I think as woman/ladies we r all territorial…. But what’s urs you ain’t got to fight for… Just laugh n keep it moving
@Choco no, my coworkers were eating them. Im still away from fried food..but the smell makes me want some so bad that I now have a headache! Im eating carrots pissed off right now
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Well can you at least just get a piece of the meat and eat it for me I love fried pork chops
YSoSrs says:
@CHANDLER
We made sure them poak chops have a whole lotta struggle and disappointment in them too
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That fried chicken sure did last night… I put on that Mahalia Jacskon and let that Trouble of the World seep into them chicken bones.
Im ret to go run and cry in the cry
@Choco
What thread did this go down in? I missed it…
@Naija, thanks. I was just wondering.
@EAZY
Put that damn rabbit food down and take your hungry ass over there and ask for a poak chop.
Im ret to go run and cry in the car
I cant Yso, I just cant
I Go There says:
YSoSrs says:
@CHANDLER
We made sure them poak chops have a whole lotta struggle and disappointment in them too
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That fried chicken sure did last night… I put on that Mahalia Jacskon and let that Trouble of the World seep into them chicken bones.
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Detective Iheart says:
YSoSrs says:
@YGO
About bitter bishes on SR…Sure there are a few but there are some everywhere. I don’t let their bitterness spoil my sweet and sugary nature.
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Lies told on SR
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Detective Iheart says:
YSoSrs says:
@YGO
About bitter bishes on SR…Sure there are a few but there are some everywhere. I don’t let their bitterness spoil my sweet and sugary nature.
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Lies told on SR
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Amen to that shait….
I think as woman/ladies we r all territorial…. But what’s urs you ain’t got to fight for… Just laugh n keep it moving
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Are you talking SR or real life cuz if a broad step to mine in real life and don’t understand when he is tryn to igg her the only ones laughing will be folks at her! I aint fighting for no man but respect I will get! Jus sayn on SR I laugh that chit off until later
@I Go
@Fe, I do too
…. Until she start claiming RDJ and ish 
@iHEART
I only speak the truth so as to shame you devils.
The Trouble of the World you say?
@ Fe – Oooooh, so the troll to you is RAFE???
YOU ARE A MESS! I forgot that EJ was your baby daddy! I was also told that Sammi’s sis admitted she was in love w/Rafe! 
Dayum Iheart…we on the SAME page!
Everytime I cook in my cast iron skillet now I start hearing old Negro spirituals
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why im singing “wade in the water…” thinking about them fried pork chops now
Eh Mocha be back she know we playing
@Tatted
Yes, I can’t STAND Rafe…the actor sucks and the character is bullshyt and he better WISH he was half the man EJ is in his left nutsack!
And yes, Carrie admitted to Bo that she MAY be in love with Rafe…but I can’t stand her goody two shoes ass!
FeFe says:
@I Go
Did you hum a few old Negro spirituals while you was turnin’ it
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shole did… I had to let it in marinate in my special marinade. pulled out that flower and grease.. and went at it. I almost bought a can of Crisco… put that lard on it.
RDJ?
….and I wish SOMEONE would tell me what happened with Mocha!
Fe Fe your very pretty
I love your jet black hair..I asked hubby if I could go jet black or should I do my usual red hues or blonde and he said they typical male answer “I like your hair color how it is” 
@Fe
I don’t know which post per say but I think the jist of it was Mocha asked EGO did he plan on coming to the DC area anytime soon and he said No and then Lakes said Mocha should keep it moving cuz EGO is hers or something to that affect – my point is this is SR
@iHEART
I’m a lover not a fighter but I’ll crack ya teeth over that man.
@Fe, Robert Downey Junior
ISO
Hell yeah… Mahalia Jackson give that chicken extra dissapointment…. it taste like you got the water hose and the dogs called on you on your way to a freedom march.
….and I wish SOMEONE would tell me what happened with Mocha!
YOu make me laugh so much cuz you are so impatient you drive Mister batty doncha 
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LAKER BOOSKI what happen to Mocha Cashmere
CHALL DO NOW
@I Go
shole did… I had to let it in marinate in my special marinade. pulled out that flower and grease.. and went at it. I almost bought a can of Crisco… put that lard on it.
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@Yso, bet you wont crack my 32s to 64s (make sure the 4 is said fo)
Real n elife…. I got nothing to prove… N if he keeps ignoring her n she keeps at it the thirsty bish is her…. I no like fighting over ding aling…
Dang I missed that tug-o-war
@YGO
I hate you. I really do.
@ Fe – I
RAFE but I must admit that EJ should’ve won mayor cuz ‘ol dude cheated his azz off! I don’t Carrie and I cannot wait until the fiasco w/Bo and the student “essssplode!” 
swing low
sweet chariot
coming for to carry me home
Chichi idk.. What they did
<—His_Mommy
did u bishes miss me? i only popped in 4 a sec
Who fighting over ding-a-ling???
@lovergirl (Cha Cha?????)
Thanks girlie! And my hair really isn’t that black, I think the lighting may have it looking a bit darker than it really is…It’s pretty dark, but not jet black…
@Choco
Oh ok, I think I saw a bit of that…
and yes I AM impatient… 
pray for me….
@Iheart and YSo
Ohhhh, so there’s an affinity there for him like I have for Gabe… Gotcha!
Real n elife…. I got nothing to prove… N if he keeps ignoring her n she keeps at it the thirsty bish is her…. I no like fighting over ding aling…
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Ohhhh okay I don’t have anything to prove either but a thirsty bish aint one of my problems a dumb one could be tho! And again I don’t fight over a man let alone dack! But me laughn at a broad whose tryn to get with my man aint that humorous to me and the bish may get the wrong impression – a lot of times a look is enough!
am i less black because I don’t like watermelon? despise really…
and yes I AM impatient… pray for me….
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The first step is acknowledgement
I were you, I would say yes, speak, Lord. Speak to me.
Oh, Speak, Lord. Won’t you speak to me?
I was so blind, I was so lost until you spoke to me
Oh, speak, Lord. Speak, Lord. And hear my mind,
Oh, with your word, heal my soul
Oh, speak, Lord. Speak to me. Speak, my Lord.
I love you, Lord. Save my soul
While making rice and gravy to smother those poak chops that eazy brought up in here
: shrug:
I hope Mocha ain’t sore w/me…I WAS JUS’ E-PLAYING! Ion eem like Ding-a-Ling!
YSoSrs says:
@YGO
I hate you. I really do.
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I even put my black civil rights glasses on…
@CHANDLER
Yes. I’m afraid so. You must eat this whole watermelon with a huge coonish grin on your face or hand over you Black Card asapedly.
Send me a plate Iheart! With some mustard greens n jiffy too
<—– ABSOLUTELY HATES WATERMELON…..AND THE SMELL OF IT!
Ion eem like Ding-a-Ling!
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@Tatted
I think it’s going to end up coming out that Nicole set something up to MAKE it look like Abe cheated in the election, you know the DiMeras always have to come out looking fcked up…EJ just suffers at the sins of his father…he wants to be good but he wants to please his “fatha” too much… but I can’t even BLAME Sami for going to EJ’s and
when she thought their son was dead… Rafe (troll) is the biggest asshole on that show and his character is always made to look like the “good guy” and “hero” when in fact he has just as many secrets and sins that the show just glosses over…what ever happened to that chick that he would never talk about with Sami…he helped her cover up the attempted murder of EJ when she shot EJ in the head at close range…he helped Sami keep EJ’s child a secret from him when she didn’t want another one of her kids raised as a DiMera…girl, I could go ON AND ON about that hypocritical SOB… *breathes*
One and only time Im gon touch this…
First of all Laker was joking
second of all Im sure Mocha was jokin
third of all it aint that serious
forth of all lets drop it… for real
Gotcha covered Eazy :thumbs: Mustard greens with smoked hamhocks in it too
What the heyull going on in here? Who e-banging ova a dyck ain’t nobotty gonna get or see?
nevamind 
Yes. I’m afraid so. You must eat this whole watermelon with a huge coonish grin on your face or hand over you Black Card asapedly.
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@ IGO SIR YESSIR!!!
I kid, I kid
<<< Guess im a real nigra cause I looovvvesss watermelon and chicken
@iHEART
<—He laughs at your claims on him.
I dont like WaterMelon either… sht smells like overalls and bare feet.
One and only time Im gon touch this…
First of all Laker was joking
I didn’t take any of it serious nor do I think the others did! No one is really trippn at all IM CERTAIN OF IT! Just banter is all 
second of all Im sure Mocha was jokin
third of all it aint that serious
forth of all lets drop it… for real
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Ummmmmm
@Fe, You know that coulda been playing while Ms cealy was cooking mista breffus
<—likes watermelon, but will pass on it as well…I
other fruits so much more…. 
@CHANDLER
Yes. I’m afraid so. You must eat this whole watermelon with a huge coonish grin on your face or hand over you Black Card asapedly.
Oh my, do you see the darkness on my skin? I can’t give up the card, how bout I eat a watermelon Jolly Rancher and we call it even?
YOU HATE RAFE LIKE YOU HATE HALLE!
<— rafe & halle
<< Giving Yso the bish please look cause he knows where home is
@I Go
Blame me, I was persistent in needing to know what happened…
@YGO
Overalls and bare feet…Just when I thought I couldn’t hate you more today…
Igo…
you know I’m all sweet over here…
I Go There says:
One and only time Im gon touch this…
First of all Laker was joking
second of all Im sure Mocha was jokin
third of all it aint that serious
forth of all lets drop it… for real
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I Go There says:
I dont like WaterMelon either… sht smells like overalls and bare feet.
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Well Lets “banter” about something else…
Girl, I just cannot stand hypocrites!
and it may have something to do with the fact that they counter certain men I love! 
<—- DOES HOWEVER ENJOY WATERMELON JOLLY RANCHERS!
I like watermelon…
@CHANDLER
I take your request to the review board and we’ll see…I’ll put in a good word you at least.
Guess I’m a uppitty kneegrow I only eats my watermelon, seedless and cubed, and my chicken must be boneless
*stares down nose at the coonish kneegrows looking for a vacant curb to sit upon and eat their watermelon and lick grease stained fangas
Fe
Its all good…
you know I know yall heffas nosey….
Love me some mangoes and pineapples (except you can get good ones here in the states)
@ Fe – Well, I was nervous for Rafe like I was for Halle the way you went off! I was like……………..
Hide’a kids
Hide’a wife
Well Lets “banter” about something else…
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Always you’re not new here!
@CHATTED
I ain’t got to fight over what’s mine.
Let’s talk about sess
@Lakes, you like it cause it be your family on the side of the road seeling it to the nigras
I kid
<— ALMOST THOUGHT IT WAS 'BOUT TO GET REAL IN THE FIELD!
£ the commenter formally known as Hershey says:
Guess I’m a uppitty kneegrow I only eats my watermelon, seedless and cubed, and my chicken must be boneless
*stares down nose at the coonish kneegrows looking for a vacant curb to sit upon and eat their watermelon and lick grease stained fangas
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Guess I’m a uppitty kneegrow I only eats my watermelon, seedless and cubed, and my chicken must be boneless
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Snarls @ Hershey ole uppity ass
@HERSHEY
I hate you too.
I Go There says:
One and only time Im gon touch this…
First of all Laker was joking
second of all Im sure Mocha was jokin
third of all it aint that serious
forth of all lets drop it… for real
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I’m sure everybody know that the onliest one serious about e-beefin is me when they be e-lovin my baby appropriately an chit
Afternoon Mr. I Go There
@ YSO – I heard that. Soooo, I see you and Iheart are NOW having a R.D, Jr. gravi face/off, huh?!
@Tatted
Rafe will fck around and have me like Jada Pinkett in ‘Low Down Dirty Shame’ when she punched that soap star on the skreet!
@Lakes, you like it cause it be your family on the side of the road seeling it to the nigras
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WTF I dont know if I should laugh but seeing as how we all on joke time and not on banter time I guess I will teehee
*stares down nose at the coonish kneegrows looking for a vacant curb to sit upon and eat their watermelon and lick grease stained fangas
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the commenter formally known as Hershey says:
Guess I’m a uppitty kneegrow I only eats my watermelon, seedless and cubed, and my chicken must be boneless
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I’m half uppity cause I olny eat seedless watermelon, but I love chicken wangs so do I at least get to sit on the porch instead of the curb
*stares down nose at the coonish kneegrows looking for a vacant curb to sit upon and eat their watermelon and lick grease stained fangas
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I dont know what you talking bout… you must not know
Popeyes for the ballers and the ghetto eating Churches.
Baby!!!
Ain’t NOBODY studdin’ me but you!
@ Yso
In my raspy throaty Toni Braxton sangin’ voice
Ahem… I loves me some you, anotha Yso will neba do, I love me some you, anotha you will neba do
Change yeeey yeah
I’m sure everybody know that the onliest one serious about e-beefin is me when they be e-lovin my baby appropriately an chit
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Thanks for that! If anything the females e-beef/converse with one another
Thats why we need more men to pick on SIKE
Change
Whats up
@I Go
I dont know what you talking bout… you must not know
Popeyes for the ballers and the ghetto eating Churches.
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My next door neighbor died of Lupus two years ago. She was only 35 and she had an 11 yro son. She was sick a lot. She would blow up and look like Toni. She also said that they had her on steroids and all sorts of other medications so one day she was big bloated and the next day she would be really thin. Felt so sad for her son. He still lives next door with his dad, but he went from being a little boy to growing up over night after his mom died.
I am happy we squashed the beef before she died.
Mouths, I love you to Lakes
@Choco, I was NOT serious at all just joking 
@ iheart
Looks her up and down and
at least she’s not sitting upon the curb like those other kneegrows licking fangas, throwing bones and spitting seeds 
Fe
Wasn’t cliff hanger Friday on Days a banger!!!!
Sami is batchit cray tho
sorry but Elivis DiMera is a whore
Did you see how they look like they were about to go at it again when Rafe and Nicole left
Choco
now why dont you leave that shait alone… For real
@ Fe – I HATE’CHU YOU HEAR ME???
THAT WAS MY FAV PART OF THE MOVIE! That soap star was Brad Carleton from the Young and the Restless!
@ Hershey
You woulda been a “house slave” back in the day, lmao…..uppitty…hmmphh. lmao.
Cha, cha, change, yange, change changing you
adfjdfjkdsjflkdsjf change, change chan
<<< me humming and making up words n shyt cause being an uppity kneegrow Iono these songs.
Ill be back in an hour, it’s lunch time and I am hunting smothered poak chops from the ghetto corner store….let me grab my pistol.
<—Bobby (yes I call him Bobby) and I are above petty fighting. There are no other passengers on our plane.
<— BOUTTA LOOSE IT ON YSO AND IHEART CUZ THEY KEEP CHANGING THEIR GRAVIS!
Babe
Don’t get me startin
Aight yall im outta here for the day
iAmChan says:
Ill be back in an hour, it’s lunch time and I am hunting smothered poak chops from the ghetto corner store….let me grab my pistol.
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^^^^^^^ coonish shyt
make sure you find a clean curb to sit upon and eat your paok chops n gravy
@change
Yes, Friday’s episode was the chit…and
talking about Elvis DiMera…I won’t hear of it! He was on a BREAK from Nicole when he 
Sami…
And yes, everyone keeps talking about that look they gave each other…I think they definitely still love each other but there’s just TOO MUCH ugly history between them…they did have that look of “I hate you, but I want to FUKK you!”…
iAmChan says:
Ill be back in an hour, it’s lunch time and I am hunting smothered poak chops from the ghetto corner store….let me grab my pistol.
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@iHEART
Bobby says bye.
Fe – Did my Babe just fall asleep on me???
iAmChan says:
@ Hershey
You woulda been a “house slave” back in the day, lmao…..uppitty…hmmphh. lmao.
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what of course
@ SIS
hello heffas…i missed a few of u
s
anyhoo im just popping in 2 say heyyyyyy bews!!
Oh Damn…
Did is that HIS….
Shake em if Im right?
(screams)
MY BISH!! YOU’RE BACK!!
@Tatted
Hehehe hehehhe I think she did!
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IS THAT HIS!!!!!!!!!!!!
*gets the blue magic*
Hiiiiiiiis
Bad Influence
@Fe, meow… tis I bew
Is that MY Ho’boygurggghhh????!!!!???!?!?!?!?
Well welcom back
good to see you.
Yaaaay yeeah… We miss u…
FeFe says:
@change
Yes, Friday’s episode was the chit…and talking about Elvis DiMera…I won’t hear of it! He was on a BREAK from Nicole when he Sami…
And yes, everyone keeps talking about that look they gave each other…I think they definitely still love each other but there’s just TOO MUCH ugly history between them…they did have that look of “I hate you, but I want to FUKK you!”…
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What show is this?
Lakes hey bew!
Naija
Hello Everybody
It’s going to be.esstra fun
@Hershey
Days of Our Lives
Bad… Hey u sessy bish..
Choco
now why dont you leave that shait alone… For real
That was left alone months ago why don’t you tell Fe she asked back off! Again Im over here all laughs son! Perhaps you should join in on the fun – Cuz I have not come for you and don’t intend too!
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@IGo, u as well
Ho’Boygahhhh
*yanks Chocs hair* btch u see me?!
@His
Hot gravi Babes! Good seeing ya!
*sigh*
@HIS
You are just like FE impatient azzz
@ Fe here I was thinking chall was talmbout True Blood or sumthin, Ion watch Soap Opera’s my mom would make my bad azz take a nap while she watched them
makes me sleepy just thanking about them
*sigh*
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Ditto now I can’t say wtf I want but everyone can – NOT!
@ Fe check your email
:cracksknuckles:
I can’t see gravis Hmmp
@Hershey
Girl, I been watching Days for almost 20 years…I just can’t pull myself away…soap operas in general are not watched like they used to be but I have to see my Days…
Choco aka Hippie says:
*sigh*
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Ditto now I can’t say wtf I want but everyone can – NOT!
Uh-oh
@ Choco why do you feel Fe’s sigh was aimed at you?
#seriousquestion
@Fe, im loyal to CBS.. Victor Newman all day
(my mom had me watching Y&R since i was like 11) i know i jumped all in yall convo lol
@Choc, lol hey mamita
@ SIS – I want some rocky road ice cream!
@His
That’s how it was with me…my mom and grandma watched and they had me watching at a young age…iono what imma do if soaps get canceled!
Sis less go get us some
Hershey 431
Choco ain’t sighing at Fi, look at 418. Yall all crazy
@Fe
right! its the only way i get a fresh episode on a daily bases…
@Choco
Iono if you thought it was, but that *sigh* wasn’t meant for you at all…it wasn’t meant for anyone in particular…I was just sighing because I saw things about to go left in here again…
Well, I want some rainbow sherbert :dogpant:
Doesn’t the Original Whipfinity smell just like rainbow sherbert?
Is that @His!!
(Darth Vader voice) Fi, see #438
hello sexi!
@ SIS – It’s on! My treat!
@ Smurfette – I put rainbow sherbert in my daiquri’s. Does that count???
@JMO
hey bew
Frenchieeeeeeee
@Smurfette
(Darth Vader voice ) see #422
The Makeup Maven says:
@ SIS – It’s on! My treat!
@ Smurfette – I put rainbow sherbert in my daiquri’s. Does that count???
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Yes? 
Well, I lick my Whifinity, so I think that daiquiri counts
Air freight some Stat!
yallcrazy says:
Hershey 431
Choco ain’t sighing at Fi, look at 418. Yall all crazy
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I didn’t say she was fighting with her. I read Fe’s sign comment, shortly afterwards Choco made reference to her sigh #422 and #425. I merely asked a question. It seems that at times a general comment is taken quite personal in here so I asked if she felt it was aimed at her
back to minding mine and lebbin er’botty else’s da heyull alone
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
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Sis le go… I want a waffle cone too…. Yuum
Yall I likes that one too
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i’ve been craving ice cream all day!
FeFe says:
@Smurfette
(Darth Vader voice ) see #422
I refuse to go see. I’m being a bad bad girl *poutymouth* 
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BAD
Influence …You look so familiar…. 
@ SIS – My mommy leaving tomorrow morning!
I’MMA MISS HER! 
Jmo bish u left me
#pytteam
AWESOME! *reverse cowgirl*
Sis
CHA! i know i fondled u on ur FB wall heffa…*spells my name on ur back with my tongue*
Hi Bad Influence
Get it JMO
Obama needs you STAT!!!
Hershey, I didn’t mean anything mean yo
Ok, since we’re asking ?’s, who posted that to Choco 418? because that’s what I was cracking my knuckles over
I AM LOST YET AGANE (ala Brown)
Hershey! how u be doll?
Choco ain’t sighing at Fi, look at 418. Yall all crazy
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@Fe
I knew what you meant thats y I said I what I said I wasn’t the only one talking about it but I need to let it go for real! Like I said chit been gone!
Frnchie, have you ever had Culver’s Ice Cream?
Wonderful customer service too!
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*points at yew* You know you wrong, talmbout Ray Charles
Bad Influence says:
CHA! i know i fondled u on ur FB wall heffa…*spells my name on ur back with my tongue*
@Smurfette
She and I Go were having a bit of a misunderstanding that’s all…nothing serious…
I was just sighing because I saw the misunderstanding and didn’t want things to take an ugly turn…
But let’s fix all that and set up a nude hopscotch!
Where’s Mama Tatted going?
@Choco
mmmkay…just making sure!
*does what Cha told me to do*
rawr.
@Lakes … You didn’t do anything wrong!!!!
*whispers, I was in a meeting so I have no idea whats goin on*
*paging Cfree* NUDE HOPSCOTCH TIME YALL
Who had the body paint last? I ran out
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HERRO
@Yall
@ Smurfette – She going back home! She lives 2 hours away from me and she’s been visiting me since last Monday!
IMMA MISS HER!
@Tatted
A little
and 
always lightens the mood back up! 
yallcrazy says:
Hershey, I didn’t mean anything mean yo
Ok, since we’re asking ?’s, who posted that to Choco 418? because that’s what I was cracking my knuckles over
I AM LOST YET AGANE (ala Brown)
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Igo see # 380 wasn’t me
Cha, ION watch DWTS, can you give me some other useful information?
#equalopportunity
@Cha Cha
I read that, I could read anything past Jaleel White!
Jmo
my bish
Bad Influence says:
*does what Cha told me to do*
rawr.
Plays self in scrabble all ova your bawdy because I miss you HOBUGGGAH
HOLD ME REAL TIGHT
Aww Tatted
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Investigator needed
£ the commenter formally known as Hershey says:
Hi Bad Influence
Get it JMO
Obama needs you STAT!!!
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yallcrazy says:
Cha, ION watch DWTS, can you give me some other useful information?
#equalopportunity
Okay….
Your so fair
!*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
Jmo
my bish
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You funny as hell too
@YALL no i have not they got that in Jersey? wait is it a brand or a shop??
i
blue bunny icecream!!!!!!!!!!!
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i’m taking my ass to Maggie Moos tonight!
So, IGO “done it”. Case closed…
Mmm hhhhmmmm. Thank you Hershey
I thought that I was losing it for a moment… Hush! 
Sis… It be ok…
Good Afternoon –
What up to errrrrybody
Frenchie, it’s a take-out restaurant (w/seating and a drive-thru). Yummy!
I would say what kinda hangout Maggie Moos sounds like but I’ve already been saying stuff I shouldn’t have
@ Fe, SIS & Smurfette – I know. I’m just an only child and was titty fed (
) sooooo, she gon be missed-ed! 
If we do naked hopscotch can I go first? I ain’t implyin’ nathan, I ain’t sayin’ nathan, but my Flower bomb perfume is still quite fragrant and a bytch walked by me this MORNING who smelled of Red Lobster’s catch of the day…so lemme jump first, plus I have on a gawjuss yella lace bra n panny set
Jmo
Bad give me ones of these
Im with Yall all Yall Cray
Moons SR
My fav icecream is Stone Cold. Yes indeed. Cheesecake Fantasy…
I think I may go get me some. Stoping by by Trader Joes for some dinner.
Ebestie
@Smurfette
Maggie Moos has ice cream and frozen yogurt….it’s REALLY yum!
FeFe and Ya’ll Hello Dahhhhlings
Hershey, we lining up according to size, I mean height
Sis awww
@Ebestie – Hey baby cakes
£
@YC
it’s an ice cream shop! i guess the bootleg version of Coldstone
I ain’t sayin’ nathan, but my Flower bomb perfume is still quite fragrant and a bytch walked by me this MORNING who smelled of Red Lobster’s catch of the day…so lemme jump first, plus I have on a gawjuss yella lace bra n panny set
NOT PLAYING WITH ANY OF YOU GUYS 
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You just made me mad with Red Lobsters catch
@YC you should just say it anyway, will it make me laugh?
Strawberry cheesecake ice cream…. Yuuuuuum
Has anyone had Blue Bell Ice Cream??? They only sell it down south and I don’t think it goes pass Tennessee??
That shyt be the BOMB (Martin Lawrence voice). My fav from them was the Banana Pudding!
Cali, I read 507 in Alexis Carrington’s voice yo
Hey, where Carrington??? Yall are to blame (I’m sure)….
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It’s not a full moon though 
Choco, BANANAS
Shyt I want riat now but don’t need
a pizza (I HATE pizza)
cookies n cream ice cream from Coldstone creamery
McDonald’s french fries
double stack from Wendy’s
2 piece white from Church’s…with a peppa
shrimp alfredo from Red Lobsta
Cowboy steak from Longhorn
and a diet coke
*bigbishappetite
oh is it time 2 go awreddi?
everybody have a bitchin day!
Banana Pudding Ice Cream
:iwantit:
The Makeup Maven says:
Has anyone had Blue Bell Ice Cream??? They only sell it down south and I don’t think it goes pass Tennessee??
That shyt be the BOMB (Martin Lawrence voice). My fav from them was the Banana Pudding!
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In my freezer riat now!
Hey Tatted…Blue Bell is GOOD..I like Banana Pudding & Banana Split flavors
Sis…
@TAtted
Lol, I was titty fed too….my mommy wubs me! For some reason all this time I thought you and ur mom lived in the same city…
Choco, BANANAS It’s not a full moon though
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If I bend over it will be
Can’t eat ice cream
“Oh I wanna dance with somebody
i wanna feel the heat with somebody
yea! I wanna dance with somebody
with somebody who loves meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
@ SIS – What’s wrong babysis???
yallcrazy says:
Hershey, we lining up according to size, I mean height
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Good talls in the back, smalls in the front!!!
since I’m the most petitest I go first!!!
£ – i craved alfredo pasta today too!
@ Hershey – I SHOULD’VE KNOWN YOU’D KNOW ABOUT IT! I use to bash it out when I lived in Selma, AL.
@ MsYaYa
HEEEY BEW! That banana pudding is to LIVE for isn’t it! The chunks of vanilla wafers…..YOU AIN’T LIVED UNTIL YOU DOVE INTO ONE OF THOSE!
@Frenchie
Somebody WHO
Somebody WHO
Somebody who loves meeeeee
*fastforwards tape*
dontcha wanna dance, say ya wanna dance, dontcha wanna dance
@Tatted
I’m still not liking that your baby came in here and called Elvis DiMera a whore…so much offense and unnecessary disrespect thrown in that man’s direction…
N.E. ways….it’s been real folks, have a WONDERFUL nite!
What the fugg happened in here?
Shrimp
@ Smurfette – Girl yeah, Banana pudding ice cream and when I say they have the bananas in it and the ‘nila wafers….GIRRRRRL, SHIIIIIIID! You ain’t had a taste of heaven until you encounter Blue Bell Ice Cream!
All I know is reading is fundamental
If I bend over it will be
Just all kinds of crazies running around here (me included)
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Hershey, you will not in front after eating all that stuff you just listed yo
yallcrazy says:
Cali, I read 507 in Alexis Carrington’s voice yo Hey, where Carrington??? Yall are to blame (I’m sure)….
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That’s exactly how it was suppse to be read.
@Hershey – I went to Copelands and orderded up a whole bunch of shiat I know that would make me sick as hail ate two bites of each and had like 3 to go boxes. When I got to the house Mister was like
is wrong with you. 
@Fe, i might be here 2morrow bew
awww is that Gyps? heyyyyyy (its His_Mommy)
ok im outtie…..
@ Fe –
I KNEW WE HAD SOMETHING IN COMMON! Titty-fed babies. 
I was told if I had a child, I would have to titty feed. I just have a feeling that I won’t want anything tuggin’ at my nips while they are full of milk!
See yall manana
Gypsy, Igo did it!
*hits the high notes*
RIF back to you @CHOCO!!!
Good night Laker & His
@ Fe – Right, she came in, slung some crazy shyt then dipped out like it was nothing. I’d say that’s a common day, right?!
@ Gypsy
Words, were typed, words were misinterpreted, more words were typed, then more words were typed, then someone suggested we play naked hopscotch and I’m going first because Yall said I the smallest (team smalls) and I said I wanted to go first cause this bytch walked by me this morning smelling like Red Lobster’s catch of the day, and I have on some nice yella panny drawers and a matching bra, then we started talking about ice cream and I wrote a laundry list of shyt I want to eat but don’t need, people talmbout Tatted Mom’s lebbin who lives two hours away and she’s a titty baby and gone miss her mom’s saome kind of awful. I think fe was tidday baby too, so that’s where we are
Hey His! Where you been?
@French and Hersey – I made my own Alfredo for mister’s birthday with 2 percent milk and half and half. It was pretty tasty. If you aren’t worried about calories go for the real stuff, but it’s SO easy to make. I used some of the cheese I had left over from OTB’s 200.00 Mac and cheese recipe.
If I bend over it will be
Just all kinds of crazies running around here (me included)
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But that’s the norm
NEW POLL:
WHO IS CRUSHING ON HIS and HER GRAVI #ME
*states for the record*
Hershey is NOT going first in nude hopscotch, so just keep stretching.
I make the rules! (<–is also an only child)
yallcrazy says:
If I bend over it will be
Just all kinds of crazies running around here (me included)
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Hershey, you will not in front after eating all that stuff you just listed yo
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THE…..HEYULLL….I….WON’T
I can always count on you and KDub for a recap thank you. But that means I’m in the back for hopscotch cause of my heighth(the way my HS teacher said it)
NOPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I AM
HALF PINT! 60IN!
I can’t see gravis
Imma “check her out” later
I’m still not liking that your baby came in here and called Elvis DiMera a whore…so much offense and unnecessary disrespect thrown in that man’s direction…
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Don’t be like that Fe
@Gypsy
on we all in the same post 
I was sayn that about all the mishaps that occurred in here today and you are included 
I wasn’t sayn RIF to you
@Gyps I was banned over some dumb shyt…i managed 2 squeeze my ass back in here tho
The Makeup Maven says:
@ Hershey’s rundown! Now Hersh…I may be 1st in line because i’m only 5’2!
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Nah, I’m a whopping 5’1″ and a QUARTA!!! I’m first
@Choco- I just really wanted to font RIF!
do the words bend it over and buss it open mean ANYTHING to you? show up for hopscotch if you want to
*smirks & begins erasing the chalk lines slowly with one foot*
The Makeup Maven says:
@ Fe – I KNEW WE HAD SOMETHING IN COMMON! Titty-fed babies.
I was told if I had a child, I would have to titty feed. I just have a feeling that I won’t want anything tuggin’ at my nips while they are full of milk!
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Well
It ain’t about you
@Yall
She a sexy thang!
@CALI i only eat the good ish when i’m not on strict “eating plans”
and as of now i am not…come April i will be back at it! B-day & Summer time ready!!!!!!!
RIF? #lost
Hence the name BAD INFLUENCE.
I wanna find KDub to tell her I started my blog about single motherhood/dating. I put myself out there!
yallcrazy says:
*states for the record*
Hershey is NOT going first in nude hopscotch, so just keep stretching.
I make the rules! (<–is also an only child)
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I's da youngest
can't out pout me! Lemme go first Imma leave a brown cloud for you faint through 
Ok
because gravis begin showing in about an hour (round these parts nah Hmmp)
Well
I KID maybe 
It ain’t about you
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CHECK and MATE
Yall-Reading is Fundamental! How old are you anyway?
Somebody must didn’t see my foot in 563 *giggles*
Gypsy,
I was 21 fourteen years ago
yallcrazy says:
do the words bend it over and buss it open mean ANYTHING to you? show up for hopscotch if you want to
No, no, those words don’t mean NOT ONE THING TO ME
*smirks & begins erasing the chalk lines slowly with one foot
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TATTED YOU GO FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:shootsthebird:
do the words bend it over and buss it open mean ANYTHING to you? show up for hopscotch if you want to
No, no, those words don’t mean NOT ONE THING TO ME
*smirks & begins erasing the chalk lines slowly with one foot*
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Baddest Bish Award goes to @ YALL
so you should know about RIF then! 21 plus 14 years PEESH!
I must bid you all adieu
got a date with my friga-dare
Damn, I didn’t know I post comments with a bunch of ooompa loompas
@Choco- I just really wanted to font RIF!
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Kool but Im more interested in the blog you started
i already said i’m going first HEFFAS!
i’m the shortest
Damn, I didn’t know I post comments with a bunch of ooompa loompas
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That’s it whose for gagging and bounding up this lil whippa snappa
buenas noche mi gente
@Choco-click on my name. I just started tho!
I thought yall was in the other post!
Choco aka Hippie says:
Damn, I didn’t know I post comments with a bunch of ooompa loompas
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That’s it whose for gagging and bounding up this lil whippa snappa
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@GYP
No biggie can I comment
And JMO you a bad lil slick mouth heffa
Thanks Choco!
Of course you can comment!
I got ‘er Choco *sets up Chutes & Ladders game trap*
I’ll comment on it tonight Gypsy
Good night yall 
& Chan, keep up yo!
Thanks guys!
@GYP
I will register tomorrow to post but loved every word and enjoyed reading it! GO GIRL and DON”T STOP!
First I applaud your courage and second I was effn curse I type this long brilliant comment and I couldn’t post
got ‘er Choco *sets up Chutes & Ladders game trap*
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Thank you so much Choco. You don’t know how much your encouragement means. I was really hesitant about it but it’s here now.
I post on more than SR. I go to every blog for a different reason sometimes I post sometimes I don’t. I have things I love and hate about all blogs.
Parents please be an advocate for your child
Gypsy, I clicked on your name, but ION see anything
See ya tomorrow yo
Yall,
I changed the name of the blog. Click on it again with my most recent posts like this one. Thanks!