It is a well-known fact in the music industry that pop icon Whitney Houston was involved in a long term lesbian relationship with her personal assistant, Robyn Crawford, before she met Bobby Brown. It was whispered that Whitney and Bobby's relationship was initially arranged by her record label to dispel the persistent lesbian rumors.

In addition to introducing her to Bobby, Houston's tomboyish image was also revamped, and she was asked to wear wigs, in an effort to soften her image and make her appear more feminine.

According to the Daily Mail, gay rights activist Peter Tatchell said her marriage to Bobby Brown was a smokescreen.

"It’s important to tell the truth about this aspect of her life," he told the Daily Star.

It's a well-known fact that Whitney's lover, Robyn, and Bobby often clashed over Whitney's increasing drug use. Friends say Whitney was into drugs before she met Bobby, but once they got together, her drug use escalated out of control.

"Whitney was happiest and at her peak in the 1980s when she was with her female partner," Tatchell told the Daily Star.

Robyn and Whitney met when she was 16. Robyn dropped out of College to work for the singer.

After Whitney's death, Robyn wrote a heartfelt Valentine's Day tribute to her former lover. It was published in a newspaper.

"I can’t believe that I’m never going to hug her or hear her laughter again," she wrote.

And Bobby, 43, wrote in his biography that their marriage was "doomed from the very beginning."

"I think we got married for all the wrong reasons. Now, I realize Whitney had a different agenda than I did when we got married.
"I believe her agenda was to clean up her image, while mine was to be loved and have children."

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    :kona:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    :no: :kona:

  • bxjagal

    i don't believe it. Sandra the women hasn't even been buried yet come on.

  • Chocolate Diva

    Sandra REALLY is this the time for this mess. :rolleyes:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Hmph.

  • lovezoe

    Right behind you Fe :kona:

  • screwball69

    My mom said on Saturday that this was going to be brought up. :no:

  • Mother Jefferson

    Is that Cissy in the first pic Sandra? Cissy and Robyn must have been getting along in 1994, I heard Cissy beat her down once!

    :dead: at that platinum jheri curl

  • EB

    :kona:

  • Daisy

    :rolleyes:

    Robyn's open letter was beautiful and some people say loyalty is dead

  • Chocolate Diva

    Regardless if you want hits or not can you at least respect the fact that her daughter is grieving for her mom. That outside of superstar status this is someones mom, daughter, cousin etc. DISGUSTING

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    :coffee:

    Morning. :waves:

  • MRSJONESK

    Here we go.......And what difference does this make Sandra that she was a lesbian? Hell, all celebs have secrets and skeletons that fall out of the closet after so long. Nothing under the sun is new !!!!!!
    Good morning everyone!!

  • EB

    Amber Riley sang "I will always love you" on glee last night :clap:

  • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

    :typing: Web surfing til next post...

  • #IDCIYDKMN

    There is this thing here in America that we say, it's called "REST IN PEACE"...

    I :pray: that we allow her to be buried without having to hear about each and every thing that she has ever done.

    None of us are saints :coffee: <---not haterade

  • lexdiamonz

    can the media just let the girl RIP for real if she was sooo what all of "hollywood" gay

  • Roc

    Messy...messy...messy...

    @Daisy I agree

  • JustMe1

    Guess they forgot that she dated Eddie Murphy and Randall Cunningham... I was a kid at the time, but I remember that people thought that she and Cunningham would eventually get married.

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Sandra, could you please post Amber Riley's performance from Glee last night? I felt she did a great job performing Whitney's song.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    My thing is...so what if she WAS???? Do people still find this chit to be scandalous and controversial??? I know I don't... :shrugs:

  • Bre

    @Sandra, you should really remove this post. Extremely disappointed in this post, why not be respectful of the dead. Whitney has a young daughter that is morning her mother's passing. Somethings just should not be reported or posted.

    They never said these things when she was alive, but now in her death they are doing interviews. Crawl back under your rock!

  • Flawless

    :no: I find out so much stuff from this blog

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    screwball69 says:

    My mom said on Saturday that this was going to be brought up.
    ________________

    And if you recall, I brought this up in the comments section on Sunday. :coffee:

  • EB

    Bobby's sweater sleave says "don't trust anyone"

  • tcw684

    yuk at bobby's purple fingernails in that first pic. they gotta be black/purple like that? he is so vile to me.

    anyway, i get CHILLS down my spine when i see pictures of whitney smiling during her happier times. she lit up a room. this is a horrible and sad tragedy that i wished could've been avoided. aside from her obvious talent, she had so much life and love to give the world. so sad it had to be cut short but God wanted her....and he got her. now she can rest and be at peace and sing with the angels in heaven. love you whitney!

  • https://twitter.com/Mizz_Dallas mizzdallas

    This isn't new sandra... Morning! :waves:

  • Mr.BluPhi

    :ghost:

  • lexdiamonz

    and Cissy always struck me as somebody who REFUSED to see whitney as the scared lil girl she was... everybody blaming "the king of R&B" where the hell was her MOMMA AT

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Chocolate Diva says:

    Sandra REALLY is this the time for this mess.
    _________________

    Bobby admitted it himself in his book.

  • Bre

    Meant mourning, I am so frustrated I can't spell.

  • Chocolate Diva

    :offtopic: because I cant with this subject right nah. What category did my peeps fall into last night

    Valentines Day
    a. was a typical night because my man/woman treats me special everday
    b. he/she went above and beyond. I LOVE MY BOO
    c. I dont have a man/woman and I treated myself in more ways than one :wink:
    d. I didnt trip because I knew he/she would be spending Valentine's Day with his wife anyway :lol:

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Daisy says:

    Robyn’s open letter was beautiful and some people say loyalty is dead
    ___________________

    She was the only true love Whitney ever had. She was loyal to Whitney, and she tried to save Whitney from Bobby. That fight between Bobby and Robyn was a big scandal back in the day. :no:

  • screwball69

    Sandra can't let anyone go without attaching something :homo: to them. You name them, anyone, they were gay at some point.

    Sandra, you wrong as hell for putting this up or for even bringing it up. Let this crap ride on some 24s right into the Gulf of Mexico. This woman has a grieving family, this is not important at ALL. :mad:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    All I have to say is I love you Whitney, and have nothing else for this lesbian stuff :no:

  • Daisy

    "A lie doesn't care who tells it as long as it gets told" - My mama

  • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

    :kona:

  • kahmmillion

    I guess they couldn't wait until Whitney was buried before they started to trash her. :shrug:

    :sidenote: Why the hell are Bobby's nails so black?

  • renegadesince1985

    Everybody in Sandra's world is gay...... :rolleyes:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Regardless, she loved Bobby too so ummmm :kona:

  • TPtotalpackage

    Seriously Sandra???? Sometimes you do the absolute most when the least is all that is required.

  • http://www.twitter.com/karazinatl KaraZ

    Aunty Sandra, I know you like to "be real" but couldn't this have waited until she was in the ground first? We still don't know how she died, for all we know she died of natural causes or an aneurysm. Gosh this is too raw

  • Chocolate Diva

    I dont recall Sandra bringing up this much dirt about her Amy Winehouse and we all know a lot could have been said but Sandra was really protecting her image on this blog. Interesting :coffee:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Chocolate Diva says:

    :offtopic: because I cant with this subject right nah. What category did my peeps fall into last night

    Valentines Day
    a. was a typical night because my man/woman treats me special everday
    b. he/she went above and beyond. I LOVE MY BOO
    c. I dont have a man/woman and I treated myself in more ways than one :wink:
    d. I didnt trip because I knew he/she would be spending Valentine’s Day with his wife anyway :lol:
    _______________________________________________

    C. :cheers:

  • MRSJONESK

    Why can't we dwell on the impact that she had on her fans thru her music. Maybe even open up some kind of "give away" for a Whitney cd or something to your members.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFwik0Lon-g&ob=av2e FeFe

    @ChocD

    I choose option b. :yes:

    I had a great evening and wonderful morning... :)

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    I thought everyone knew this. I guess people thought Bobby Brown was lying when he said it years ago and disregarded it as the rantings of a "desperate and broke man."

    Why is this surprising anyway? Um... lots of, if not most, women have dabbled a lil bit at some point or another. I don't think the mainstream media will touch on it though.

    I also smell a "tell all" book in the works. Business as usual in Hollywood.

  • kahmmillion

    @ TPtotalpackage says:

    Is that you in the gravi?

  • Mr.BluPhi

    Chocolate Diva says:

    because I cant with this subject right nah. What category did my peeps fall into last night
    Valentines Day
    a. was a typical night because my man/woman treats me special everday
    b. he/she went above and beyond. I LOVE MY BOO
    c. I dont have a man/woman and I treated myself in more ways than one
    d. I didnt trip because I knew he/she would be spending Valentine’s Day with his wife anyway
    _______________________________________________________________________

    I pulled my back muscle this past weekend....so i pop 2 steoriods, a muscle relaxer, and a hydrocodone ....I was kncoked out from about 4 pm til about 5 this morning...

  • Chocolate Diva

    I forgot
    D. I didnt get chit and I mugged errbody who did :rofl: :rofl:

  • prynsexxx

    Annnnndd??? :shrug:

    I did just listen to Wendy Williams interview with Whitney and Whit was cutting Wendy up AND down. Wendy asked about Robyn and Whitney's reply:

    "She still is my friend, GIRL!" :nana: :karate:

    :rofl:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @CHOCOLATE DIVA
    "d. I didnt trip because I knew he/she would be spending Valentine’s Day with his wife anyway"
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    :rofl:

    You stupid.

  • lovezoe

    @CD- Even though hubby is deployed, I am going to go with A. Made sure I had something to open. Makes me happy. I am also looking forward to getting my IPad 3.

  • mia2bmore

    I wish people would let this woman rest in peace. Everybody has their skeletons. She's gone now let her skeletons stay where ever they hell they are! All this extra nonsense is unnecessary.

  • ItsIce

    This is not the time to be scandalous..
    :kona:

  • Strawberrys and cream

    As I said yesterday in a post it was

    Me,Tommy, bobby, whitney, & (Friend) :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

    Smh. I wish folks could just let her RIP. Regardless of how she lived life, she still has family & friends, especially a grieving child.

    People always looking for something to gain.
    :pray: for Bobbi Kristina. I couldn't imagine losing a parent.

  • TPtotalpackage

    @kahmillion Yes.

  • prynsexxx

    Chocolate Diva says:

    because I cant with this subject right nah. What category did my peeps fall into last night

    Valentines Day
    a. was a typical night because my man/woman treats me special everday
    b. he/she went above and beyond. I LOVE MY BOO
    c. I dont have a man/woman and I treated myself in more ways than one
    d. I didnt trip because I knew he/she would be spending Valentine’s Day with his wife anyway
    __________________________________

    e. we celebrated on Sunday b/c niggas be workin'n chit :coffee:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @TOTAL PACKAGE
    "@ TPtotalpackage says:

    Is that you in the gravi?"-KAHMILLION
    _________________________________________________________________________

    :warning:
    :warning:
    :warning:

  • Roc

    I did just listen to Wendy Williams interview with Whitney and Whit was cutting Wendy up AND down. Wendy asked about Robyn and Whitney’s reply:
    “She still is my friend, GIRL!”
    ____________________
    I was talking about this yesterday...Wendy couldn't do shait wit Whitney!

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Dawn Sheen

    I know y'all young heads think Sandra is shooting the chit BUT I remember this from when I was younger..............this was THE scandal back in the day... I didn't even know what gay was... it was SO taboo NOT like today where you can jack a Daniel on a Monday and Munch a crunch on a Tuesday. Whooooooooooooooooooooo Sandra I remember this you took it back with this post.

    Ain't nothing like the love of a woman... not the lust but the love.

  • Chocolate Diva

    :dead: at asking is that Kah in the gravi :lol:

  • http://thecubiclechick.com STLVixen

    I read Robyn's moving "letter to Whitney" on Sunday and she did speak rather candid about their friendship. I do remember hearing rumblings that Whitney and Robyn were "lovers" back in the day and those rumors persisted after Bobby.

    But her sexual orientation is not something that I want to remember her for. Right now, her family is grieving.

  • lovezoe

    Roc says:

    I did just listen to Wendy Williams interview with Whitney and Whit was cutting Wendy up AND down. Wendy asked about Robyn and Whitney’s reply:
    “She still is my friend, GIRL!”
    ____________________
    I was talking about this yesterday…Wendy couldn’t do shait wit Whitney!
    ======================
    I listened to that interview this weekend. Whitney GATHERED Wendell proper. "Watch what you say. Watch what the F you say"

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    Chocolate Diva says:

    c. I dont have a man/woman and I treated myself in more ways than one
    --------

    I went and watched some chicks shake they ass :yes:

  • imarie aka lalie

    Too soon for this. Why would you post something like this when fans are still in shock and mourning the loss of Whitney? This post is tacky.

  • Tertra114

    *sighes* Sandra girl, please.......just please

  • Strawberrys and cream

    #confession #2 I thought about a lesbun lover once, are yall gonna remind me of that when I'm dead #justcurious :coffee:

    confession #3 I lied to my Husband one time or maybe 2, cause I was in the wrong :coffee:

    confession #4 I stole some candy froma store when i was 9 years old I put it in my pocket. :coffee:

    anybody else got any confession they need to get out the way, u know how it is when u die, folks can lie on ya now is the time :waves: morning

  • TPtotalpackage

    Whether I believe it or not I don't feel that it matters. I just don't see how this is relevant now or ever. Whitney didn't have peace in life, I just wish that people could somehow muster of the decency to grant her peace in death. I am so glad she is with "that Jesus" because you folks down here. Chile.

  • I Go There

    Ive heard this one before... but the lady is dead now.
    if she was can we just let her have it and let it be

  • prynsexxx

    Is that Cissy or Loretta Devine in that pic?

    #seriousquestion

    #myeyesaintthebest

  • Daisy

    Wendys commentary was also beautiful/honest/raw and I don't think she was crying out of guilt either. The whole thing is sad and as a former addict I believe Wendy was really praying Whitney would finally make it over one day.

    The only thing I have ever been addicted to is sugar (which isn't good for a diabetic) so I can't even imagine being addicted to drugs. God bless all the addicts who made it out :clap:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/d2b59364a7129f94e128164e65a073ff.png mzwhang90210

    Gm erryones...erryones.

    :waves: FeFe, Fay Fay,Cream, Lovezoe, ManI, Pryn, ChocD, Blu..Ya'll and YSO!!!!

    If I missed eeeny ones....me sowwie.

    Re this post...im still :cry: over Queen Whitney so imma :korna:

  • Chocolate Diva

    TIME AND A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING AND THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT THE TIME :nono:

  • Anna

    lexdiamonz says:

    and Cissy always struck me as somebody who REFUSED to see whitney as the scared lil girl she was… everybody blaming “the king of R&B” where the hell was her MOMMA AT

    ~~~~~~~
    When you have a child singing for the Lord, you want them to continue. A mother can only raise/guide her child to a certain point. Her mother did not want this fame/money for Whit.

  • Genia

    If the media or social media was tasked with writing our eulogy, we would all hesitate before entering God's arms now wouldn't we?

    I wish we could be old school about her passing and let this woman rest. Be gratful for her presense and her God given gift she shared with us.

    Be mindful that she has an 18 year old daughter who has the rest of her life to live through. Be mindful that she has a mother, who has the burden of burying a child. I wish we could just be respectful.

  • sexyphillygirl

    Crazy as soon as she died, I asked where is Robyn at, I do remember this rumor from back in the day and how they say she was her lover.

    But for those who say Sandra shouldnt talk about this, this is a gossip website and she is just doing her job, just saying my opinion.

  • Roc

    @Cocoabana are you in Charlotte? Me and my man went to $2 Tuesday at Onyx.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded SamYell JacksEm

    Valentines Day
    a. was a typical night because my man/woman treats me special everday
    b. he/she went above and beyond. I LOVE MY BOO
    c. I dont have a man/woman and I treated myself in more ways than one
    d. I didnt trip because I knew he/she would be spending Valentine’s Day with his wife anyway
    ________________________________________
    e. My lady's sister went to the hospital for some mystery (re: fake) illness. Had half her family up there crying and shyt for nothing because all she really wanted was to see if her bd would show up (imo).

  • Chocolate Diva

    @Pryn
    Cissy :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    I don't even get upset by stuff like this anymore. Sandra isn't doing anything that everyone else isn't doing. It happens to all celebrities now; just par for the course.

    Folks will come out the woodwork to dig dirt and spill tea and the media at large will run with it all until they get a new thing to fill time and generate blog hits.

    :shrugs:

  • Hershey

    There's a time and a place for everything, and this isn't the time, but this blog is Sandra's place so have at it...but a little tact and class go a long, long way. Everyone heard these rumors, and if you haven't discussed this shyt in the past year why choose to bring it back up since the woman is dead? Must be a slow ass news day :coffee:

    #fukknmessy

  • sexyphillygirl

    @Anna-so true, I remember Whitney saying her mother told her, you know you could sing for the church you dont have to be in the entertainment world but thats what Whitney wanted. Her mother sang gospel and didnt want all the limelight.

  • TPtotalpackage

    Clearly I missed the joke and I am truly not in the mood so somebody please fill me in so I can :cuss: whoever need be the fluck out. Get myself :ban: and move on with my day.

  • lovezoe

    @Daisy- You are one of the sweetest people up here, always looking at the positive. With that said, Wendell full of ish. She knew folks was gone be watching the show because of her and Whitney's past so she had to say something.

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    SERIOUSLY WHO GIVES A FUG!!!

    LET THIS WOMAN REST IN PEACE, I DON'T CARE IF SHE FUGGED A TREE, HER CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE MUSIC INDUSTRY CAN NOT BE REFUTED-SIT AND SPIN!!!!

  • Chocolate Diva

    @Sam

    :hahaha: Did the bd show up?

  • CheBell

    I had to log in for this post. I actually remember this from back in the day too. I had forgotten all about this, but it has been talked about for years. Sandra isn't saying anything that hasn't already been written about and discussed.

  • prynsexxx

    Daisy says:

    Wendys commentary was also beautiful/honest/raw and I don’t think she was crying out of guilt either.
    ______________________________

    :rolleyes: :coffee: I didn't see Wendy wipe not NAN ONE tear.

  • Hershey

    Genia says:

    Be mindful that she has an 18 year old daughter who has the rest of her life to live through. Be mindful that she has a mother, who has the burden of burying a child. I wish we could just be respectful

    :preach: Some people wouldn't know respect if respect soaked hand slapped the black off their face...

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Dawn Sheen says:

    I know y’all young heads think Sandra is shooting the chit BUT I remember this from when I was younger…………..this was THE scandal back in the day… I didn’t even know what gay was… it was SO taboo NOT like today where you can jack a Daniel on a Monday and Munch a crunch on a Tuesday. Whooooooooooooooooooooo Sandra I remember this you took it back with this post.

    Ain’t nothing like the love of a woman… not the lust but the love.
    ____________________________

    Shooting the chit or not came we please show homage, instead of bringing up mess. :no:

  • http://www.twitter.com/cocoabana Cocoabana

    @ Roc, nah I'm in Jersey.

    In Sandra's defense, Jia posted this story as well. It's JUICY.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    prynsexxx says:

    Daisy says:

    Wendys commentary was also beautiful/honest/raw and I don’t think she was crying out of guilt either.
    ______________________________

    :rolleyes: :coffee: I didn’t see Wendy wipe not NAN ONE tear.
    ________________________________________

    ^^ Your absolutely right, that performance was faker than this chick 27peices eyelashes in my office :ha: Wendy

  • Hershey

    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    SERIOUSLY WHO GIVES A FUG!!!

    LET THIS WOMAN REST IN PEACE, I DON’T CARE IF SHE FUGGED A TREE, HER CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE MUSIC INDUSTRY CAN NOT BE REFUTED-SIT AND SPIN!!!!

    _____________________________

    :cosign:

  • Chocolate Diva

    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
    SERIOUSLY WHO GIVES A FUG!!!

    LET THIS WOMAN REST IN PEACE, I DON’T CARE IF SHE FUGGED A TREE, HER CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE MUSIC INDUSTRY CAN NOT BE REFUTED-SIT AND SPIN!!!!
    ***************************
    :cosign: RIP WHITNEY

    Can we please allow this lady to buried and mourned before us HUMANS who obviously dont make mistakes of our own :rolleyes: can start opening closets and letting skeletons fall out

  • sexyphillygirl

    @Coco-why when I saw the word JUICY on your post I immediately thought of the song JUICY GOT YOU GOING CRAZY lol, I need my coffee asap.

  • prynsexxx

    Chebelle says:

    Sandra isn’t saying anything that hasn’t already been written about and discussed.
    _________________________________

    NOW is NOT the time to discuss it. Why didn't she report this a couple of weeks ago when she had pics of her and Ray J posted everywhere? Instead she chose to talk about cougars and sexual peaks and whatnot. Why didn't she post this on days when we were left in here to fend for ourselves? Nothing towards YOU @chebelle...IJS

  • lovezoe

    Vanessa trying to get even more of Kobe money, Kobe GOTS to be the dumbest man on Earth.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Chocolate
    Z. Yesterday was a TUESDAY for MANY People (Just ANOTHER Day Though) :yes:

    NOT Trying to DEFEND/OFFEND Anybody but IF I DO Offend ANYONE (Ohhh Well Then...) Gossip Blogs weren't designed & created for a PLACE of Respect and/or Genuine Worship (From a Religious Perspective...) BUT I Could BE WRONG Though :coffee:

  • Torae

    Can we as a society RESPECT THE DEAD? I guess that is too hard to ask in a world full of cold heartless people.....ugh over it!

  • AirForceGirl

    :no: at this post. So disrepectful!!! :kona: going back to lurking status! Good day folks!

  • Hershey

    Prynn if you don't stopping preaching and chit!!! :rofl: Reporting this story then, wouldn't have been messy enough

  • Strawberrys and cream

    people get a kick outta mess, that is why they are in the business to be messy, every post SR.COM do about mess and gossip it gets the most hits, something that is SOOOO good and positive, it gets about 60-70 hits Real talk. but you don't have to partake in the gossip #helpful, if you really want whitney to rest , Prove it, and let the mess BY-PASS you #IJS :coffee:

  • sexyphillygirl

    @ELove-I agree 100% gossip blogs is here to talk about...gossip

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded SamYell JacksEm

    :yes: To get the car keys... :coffee:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/d2b59364a7129f94e128164e65a073ff.png mzwhang90210

    :offtopic: cuz I just can't with this post.

    Did anyone see the Target commercial during the grammy's that featured
    Middle school 11 year old Denise Bestman singing Adele's song "Rolling in the Deep?"

    That lil girl can sangggggggggggggggg..

    http: //www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVv_vWBEIWQ (remove the space behind the characters http:)

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    IT'S IN POOR TASTE TO WAIT TO DISCLOSE "ALLEGED" DIRT/RUMOR/ETC. AFTER SOMEONE HAS PAID THEIR DEBT TO SOCIETY

    WHERE IS REDEEMED AT?!?! SOMEBODY NEEDS TO COME THRU THIS MUG WITH SOME HOLY WATER, FOR REAL CAUSE SOME NEGROES AINT GOT NO DAMN COUTH

    BUT YET IN STILL WE DOUBLE TALK OUT THE SIDE OUR DAMN NECKS ABOUT, BLACK WOMEN MAKING POOR CHOICES IN MEN, NOT RAISING THEIR KIDS OR BEING GOOD MOTHERS

    BUT YET IN STILL IN THE SAME BREATH, PASSING JUDGMENT & CONDEMNATION ON OTHERS-BUT YOUR ACTIONS ARE JUST AS UNFATHOMABLE & DEPLORABLE-GTFOH

    IT'S ONE THING TO NOT KNOW BETTER AND MAKE POOR DECISIONS, IT'S WHOLE DIFFERENT LEVEL OF INSANITY & DELUSION TO KNOW BETTER AND INTENTIONALLY MAKE POOR CHOICES

    WHEN YOU BREATHE YOUR LAST BREATH, I WONDER WHAT WILL OTHERS SAY ABOUT YOU?? AND IF YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WOULD BE OK WITH SOMEONE SAYING THINGS LIKE THIS ABOUT YOU, DESPITE IF IT'S THE TRUTH OR NOT, ALL FOR THE SAKE OF BUSINESS -ROLLING EYES TO THE BACK OF MY HEAD SO DAMN HARD

    SMDH

  • lovezoe

    mzwhang90210 says:

    cuz I just can’t with this post.
    Did anyone see the Target commercial during the grammy’s that featured
    Middle school 11 year old Denise Bestman singing Adele’s song “Rolling in the Deep?”
    That lil girl can sangggggggggggggggg..
    http: //www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVv_vWBEIWQ (remove the space behind the characters http:)
    =======================

    Yeah. I watched their videos, PS 22. ALL those kids are incredible, but she has an undeniable talent.

  • Hershey

    @ MzWhang is that Mama Jones or Mama Cole in your gravi? :rofl: :thinking: Yes I've seen that lil girl sanging, she's got IT!!

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    THE PONIT ISN'T REPORTING GOSSIP, DO THAT WE EXPECT IT, BUT WHY NOT REPORT IT WHILE SHE WAS AMONGS THE LIVING TO DEFEND HERSELF AGAINST THE SO CALLED RUMOR?!?!

    ONCE SOMEONE IS DEAD, THEY CAN'T DEFEND THEMSELVES, AND THAT IS THE SHAME IN IT

    SHE'S PAID HER DEBT TO SOCIETY, IF THIS SHIAT IS SO NEWSWORTHY WHY BREAK IT AFTER HER TRAGIC DEATH

    BUT AGAIN THIS IS SR, AND AINT SHIAT SACRED ROUND THESE PARTS, COONING AND CLOWNING IS WHAT'S POPULAR AND GET'S YOU A HIGH FIVE

    CAUSE THAT'S WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT-THOSE WHO GO AGAINST THE GRAIN AND DON'T AGREE GETS DRAGGED ON THE REGULAR

    LET ME GO BACK TO LURKING, CAUSE I CANT FUG WITH YALL ON THIS SHIAT FOR REAL

  • Chocolate Diva

    @Sam
    :lol: #BURN

  • prynsexxx

    SamYell JacksEm says:

    To get the car keys…
    _________________________

    :rofl: DAMN!

  • I Go There

    *note to self

    Next time take only 1 Mucinex DM....

    Uggggghhhhhhh

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/d2b59364a7129f94e128164e65a073ff.png mzwhang90210

    :waves: @ Hershey

    RE: my gravi... :rofl:
    It's neither....just some random gravi but in original form its a GIF file and..the woman is spinning around in cicles...with a beer bottle in her hand.
    (But you're right about the resemblence!!)

  • Roc

    I have no clue how people think this post isn't in poor taste...wonder how you would feel if it was your family member.

    She was all up in arms about people walking a flukking red carpet the other day but bringing up the fact that Whitney may/may not have been a lesbian is OK? Who really gives a shyt?

  • kahmmillion

    @ TPtotalpackage says:

    @kahmillion Yes.

    ____________

    Just wondering.....It didn't look like one of the messed up gravis that we all have on here. Your pretty. #thatisall

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/d2b59364a7129f94e128164e65a073ff.png mzwhang90210

    @lovezoe & Hershey...that lil girl whewwww. Love her!
    I read that Adele has the lil girl's youtube link on her website.
    you go lil mama. And thank God you aren't 1/2 nekkid like some of today's lil hot behind heffas. :bow:

  • kahmmillion

    @ Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @TOTAL PACKAGE
    “@ TPtotalpackage says:
    Is that you in the gravi?”-KAHMILLION
    _________________________________________________________________________

    Yes, I'm the one one the right. :rofl: I can't believe they crowned me queen or king.... either way, I won...damn it! :party:

  • MUNCHOSGIRL

    Quick question Sandra, why do you quote The Daily Mail so often? Now to the topic on hand, I remember when Whitney was dating Eddie, and I also recall her engagement to Randall Cunningham as well as the ring. I swear fo m&m I have never heard this story. At the end of the day Whitney isn't here, may she rest in peace.

  • Strawberrys and cream

    #let the mess/gossip BY-PASS you :coffee:

  • kahmmillion

    @ Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @TOTAL PACKAGE
    “@ TPtotalpackage says:
    Is that you in the gravi?”-KAHMILLION
    _________________________________________________________________________

    Are you the one on the right on your gravi as well? :hahaha:

  • TPtotalpackage

    @Kahmillion Thanks. I didn't ask if that was you in yours because I knew it wasn't. Someone else posed that question. Thanks again though. Have a good day.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    And I do think this posts and posts like it are in poor taste and disrespectful. But we live in a tasteless, disrespectful society. This is just more of the same so I'm like whatever. Call me what you want for my reaction or lack thereof.

  • CheBell

    @prynsexxx I was only making a statement. I wasn't saying it should have been brought up now or whenever just saying it has been said before. Not trying to get anyone all worked up. Going back to larking.

  • Hershey

    Roc says:

    I have no clue how people think this post isn’t in poor taste…wonder how you would feel if it was your family member.

    She was all up in arms about people walking a flukking red carpet the other day but bringing up the fact that Whitney may/may not have been a lesbian is OK? Who really gives a shyt?
    _________________

    Amen! Pick a lane and drive in it Sandra. Kelly Rowland was wrong for smiling on the red carpet "while Whitney's body lay in rigor mortis upstairs" but then you turn around and post this BS :yawn:

    #poortaste
    #tacky
    #messy
    #thoughtless
    #insensitive

  • Ms. Everything

    All these people coming out with "info" on Whitney's true life need to :tape: What is it about celebrity deaths that make people come out the closet with all kinds of nonsense? She has a child, let that child and her family grieve in peace

  • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

    According to Bobby's sister (the one that sold the story to the Enquirer) Whit was just a freak plain and simple. She wasn't a lesbian. If anything she was a bisexual woman who got it in with anyone she could get her hands on to hear Bobby's sister tell it.

  • SouthernPrincess

    This is tacky, disrespectful and confusing!
    You mention how the Brown-Houston family trusted you to photograph memorable family moments, you seemed upset/displeased with people choosing to walk the red carpet while she laid in rigor mortis upstairs.
    Yet you choose to post such a salacious post about Whitney.
    Where does your loyalty, dignity and respect really lie?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Creamy
    People that Let WORDS on a BLOG (NOT Even directed towards THEM) get them all heated, frustrated and beside themselves is SO COMICAL to ME Though :lol:

    But at the SAME TIME It's somewhat Childish, Depressing and Pathetic that "SUPPOSEDLY" Grown-AZZ individuals would even let themselves get Caught Up (LIKE THAT...) :coffee:

  • Hershey

    SouthernPrincess says:

    This is tacky, disrespectful and confusing!
    You mention how the Brown-Houston family trusted you to photograph memorable family moments, you seemed upset/displeased with people choosing to walk the red carpet while she laid in rigor mortis upstairs.
    Yet you choose to post such a salacious post about Whitney.
    Where does your loyalty, dignity and respect really lie?
    __________________________

    I forgot about Bobbi's birthday party that they trusted Sandra to photgraph...guess loyalty dies with the person :shrugs:

  • sexyphillygirl

    @Elove-I never understood that myself but just because I am not emotionally attached I cant expect them not to be, but to get all worked up over someone thats not your kin is crazy to me but again this is my opinion.

  • Mother Jefferson

    Roc says:

    I did just listen to Wendy Williams interview with Whitney and Whit was cutting Wendy up AND down. Wendy asked about Robyn and Whitney’s reply:
    “She still is my friend, GIRL!”
    ----------
    :rofl: I love hood Whitney

    I honestly dont think this is "dirt". I really dont see the difference between this and if Whitney had an ex-boyfriend she remained close with :shrug:

    I've heard a long time ago that Cissy was jealous of Whitney for a while, and that was part of what led Whitney to drugs.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NST6L340KFc&feature=youtube_gdata_player MzDimplez1123

    This isn't new news though. :no:

  • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh0KE6b9VBVF8kuyOt gypsyeyes

    I need to pose a question: If your mom/dad died and he/she had some indiscretions, would you be mad at the funeral if someone came up and said, Sandra, I'm sad to see your mom/dad post but you know he/she was a freak? Was a crackhead, was an alcoholic. Would that make them any less dead or make you any less sad? Point is this, Whitney Houston is dead. She left behind friends,family and a fan base that loved her. Why would you along with the other media post these things?
    Someone asked you the other day about not posting on a particular show and you said that you are not posting that crap but yet you chose to post this. I hope that you re-evaluate your decision about this post and take it down.
    I know that you enjoy hits,comments and traffic to your post but at what expense. I'm just a person who enjoys coming to this site but I'm feeling just as guilty as the people that walked the red carpet with her body in that hotel for coming here knowing that you are posting this garbage.

  • omina-homina

    They met when Whitney was 16, but how old was Robyn?

  • caligirl

    Morning Family - Not siding with Sandra, but people gonna talk about you weather you dead or alive. The only way to avoid hearing rumors is not watch the news, read the newspaper or read blogs. My uncle died last year and he was not a celebrity but I found out some unsavory things. It's just how life is... :shrug:

  • sexyphillygirl

    @Mother J-I never heard of Cissy being jealous of Whitney, I wonder why they both had the same talent they both could sang...yeah I said sang lol.

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    NEGROE PUHLEEZE THAT SHIAT REALLY AINT THAT DEEP~

    I SWEAR SIMPLETONS, THINK BECAUSE YOU TYPE IN CAPS OR EXPRESS AN OPINIONLY STRONGLY THAT YOU SINCERELY GIVE A FUG OR HAVE FEELINGS REGARDING THE SITUATION

    AT THE END OF THE DAY NONE OF THIS SHIT MATTERS, I JUST HAVE AN OPINION ABOUT THE SHIAT-BOTTOM LINE

    AND COMPREHENSION IS THE KEY, THE GROWN ARSE STATEMENT THAT YOU CLOWNS KEEP REFERRING TO IF YOU CAN READ, I SAID I WAS GOING TO SKIP SCHOOL AND PRETEND TO BE GROWN

    HENCE WHAT HOT ARSE GIRLS WHO SKIP SCHOOL WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG THINK THEY ARE DOING

    AND THE SHIAT GOT TAKEN LITERALLY VERSUS THE WORD PLAY THAT WAS MEANT FOR BANTER

    DUH-KISS MY ARSE, SICK OF MOFOS TRYING TO MODERATE ME & TAKE JABS

  • caligirl

    If your mom/dad died and he/she had some indiscretions, would you be mad at the funeral if someone came up and said, Sandra, I’m sad to see your mom/dad post but you know he/she was a freak? Was a crackhead, was an alcoholic.
    __________
    The sad thing is that folks do this all the tme. Your claim to fame, standing in the communit or your bank account makes it no difference.

  • Strawberrys and cream

    ELove says:

    @Creamy
    People that Let WORDS on a BLOG (NOT Even directed towards THEM) get them all heated, frustrated and beside themselves is SO COMICAL to ME Though

    But at the SAME TIME It’s somewhat Childish, Depressing and Pathetic that “SUPPOSEDLY” Grown-AZZ individuals would even let themselves get Caught Up (LIKE THAT…)
    ____________________________________________________________________

    :coffee: <<<<have some ELOVE,

  • MsOnederful

    BOOM AS I STEP IN THE ROOM!

    First and foremost most of you on here complaining about what Sandra wrote. Can you guys just hang out @ NB's Holier than thou blog instead cuz this is just getting bad. Sandy writes what she wants and if anything she is bringing up stuff that is being mentioned in worst light on other blogs. The daily mail is dragging Whitney by her hair and she is not even buried yet. Auntie re-blogs a lil bit from the source and adds her WELL-KNOWN fact and some of you take issue with that. We come here for the TEA. We're sipping it and its HOT. Stop trying to dictate what Auntie writes. Hell we don't even know if it is in fact true. If ROBYN or Whitney never SAID it, you don't have to believe it. Don't get up in arms over a blog.. Sheesh.. Morning Everybody though :waves:

  • Hershey

    @ Intense whatchu talmbout? Who's fonting on you?

  • Hershey

    :coffee:

  • Mother Jefferson

    :coffee:

    "At the 1991 Super Bowl where Houston sung the national anthem, a very public altercation allegedly happened between Whitney and Robyn. Brown alleges that M.C. Hammer appeared, he and Whitney went off by themselves, talking and laughing and Robyn allegedly flipped.

    After Hammer left, Robyn went and grabbed Whitney’s arm and pulled her aside and started screaming at her. Allegedly, Robyn screamed, ‘Don’t ever disrespect me like that,’ Whitney allegedly jerked away and told her to go to hell and Robyn hauls off and slaps Whitney. Cissy Houston allegedly yelled, ‘don’t you ever put your hands on my daughter.’ Then wham! Cissy slugs Robyn in her right jaw with her fists and Robyn falls to the ground and Cissy kept punching and kicking her, yelling, ‘I’ll kill you, you stupid b**ch!

    Onlookers had to pull Cissy off her. Also, Ammons claims, Regina Brown once told him, one of the conditions of working for Whitney was that you never said a word about Robyn to anyone. To allegedly insure her silence, Whitney had given Regina many expensive presents: a gold Mercedes-Benz, a diamond studded cross, a corporate credit card, a calling-card account, diamond earrings, free air travel, $125,000 a year salary and free rent on her luxurious apartment."

  • http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh0KE6b9VBVF8kuyOt gypsyeyes

    Let me get some of that coffee @Hershey!

  • ChampionSound

    Say it ain't so... it's too early for this....

  • MsOnederful

    Hershey says:

    SouthernPrincess says:
    This is tacky, disrespectful and confusing!
    You mention how the Brown-Houston family trusted you to photograph memorable family moments, you seemed upset/displeased with people choosing to walk the red carpet while she laid in rigor mortis upstairs.
    Yet you choose to post such a salacious post about Whitney.
    Where does your loyalty, dignity and respect really lie?
    __________________________
    I forgot about Bobbi’s birthday party that they trusted Sandra to photgraph…guess loyalty dies with the person

    Is Auntie reporting what she may or may not have saw in Whitney's compound when she worked for whitney briefly? :coffee: This is all outside of what Auntie may REALLY know. :coffee: @Hersh not trying to come at you or anything. I'm just saying.

  • Hershey

    @ Gypsy :koolaid: join me :cheers:

  • Lala11_7

    I think its terrible that a relationship that was obviously VERY important to Whitney...is seen as "bringing up dirt"...can't hide the facts...when Robyn was in her life...she was alright...

    Thanks Auntie for the blog...

  • Hershey

    @ Ms, Is Auntie reporting what she may or may not have saw in Whitney’s compound when she worked for whitney briefly? This is all outside of what Auntie may REALLY know. @Hersh not trying to come at you or anything. I’m just saying.
    ___________________________

    My point is this, Sandra pretended to be greatly offended that the red carpet was walked on, while Whitney lay dead upstairs, ye two days later she posts some shyt like this. If she was loyal then, and felt such disdain over the weekend, why flip the switch during the week?

  • Daisy

    Wendy had tears falling on her shirt AND Wendy has cried before on her show when discussing her drug use. As soon as I heard abt Whitneys death Wendy was the 1st celeb to pop in my head cause I knew she would be sad and crying on her show Monday (which I record daily anyway). That was real and touched a lot of ppl she was honest and transparent I can't ask for anything more.

  • West Coast Chick

    call me insensitive, but at this point who really cares what her sexual preference was? she wanted to world to believe that she was not gay. The more important fact is that she is dead and her 18 yr old daughter, who has a history of abusing drugs, is distraught. I'm more concerned on how her daughter is doing and hoping that this issue would be a wake up call for HER drug use. And that Bobbi K gets the help SHE needs.

    everything else is speculation...being that she's not here to defend herself. Sandra treating Whitney like they did Michael Jackson after he passed....throw as much dirt on her name as you can before she's even buried. smh

  • MsOnederful

    ok @ Hersh I digress.

  • West Coast Chick

    And for the record, Bobby said Whitney introduced HERSELF to him, after an award show. (not a record label)

  • omina-homina

    This, supposed, lesbian relationship is full of speculation. Whitney said, herself, that she did not date in her 20s due to work. She was always working, so it makes sense that she and Crawford were always together and were very close.

  • West Coast Chick

    JustMe1 says:

    Guess they forgot that she dated Eddie Murphy and Randall Cunningham… I was a kid at the time, but I remember that people thought that she and Cunningham would eventually get married.
    ________________

    I remember that too. And Whitney NEVER look masculine. She's always looked like a pretty model, with or without the wig- FACT! (the pictures are on the net for your viewing pleasure) :coffee:

  • West Coast Chick

    omina-homina says:

    This, supposed, lesbian relationship is full of speculation. Whitney said, herself, that she did not date in her 20s due to work. She was always working, so it makes sense that she and Crawford were always together and were very close.

    ______________________________

    do you remember the alleged gay lover of micheal jackson....that came forward AFTER Micheal died.... but NEVER had shyt to say while Micheal was alive? :think:

    I guess everybody wants to jump on the Whitney money train and come up with stories that they NEVER would have thought of while she was alive....like say, a few weeks ago

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @ The PERSON that posted Comment #139
    I clearly Said/Stated "PEOPLE" and TRUST ME when I say THIS... YOU are the ABSOLUTE LAST PERSON "I Think of" or "Refer To" when I Make comments towards THE SR Board (WORD) :coffee:

    YOU are really thinking TOO HIGHLY of YOURSELF becuz I DON'T be in here TRYING to Clown YOU are TALK ABOUT You in ANY KIND of WAY (I'm not Here FOR THAT...) REGARDLESS of WTF You believe regarding ME :nono:

  • GAGIRL87

    I know all these things have to be reported but it's just tacky imo :no: & AGAIN Rest In Peace Whitney....

    Has anybody been watching "The Bad Girls Club"???? That awkard moment when it takes 4 people to jump 1 person :rolleyes: Jenna that yt bish had heart I like her :yawn:

    Everyone :hi:

  • Ty

    I thought they would've at least waited till she was buried before pulling out her skeletons. GMA was talking about how she went through her $100 mill. fortune this morning so its not just Sandra :coffee:

    Damn give them some air :(

  • Ty

    omina-homina says:

    This, supposed, lesbian relationship is full of speculation. Whitney said, herself, that she did not date in her 20s due to work. She was always working, so it makes sense that she and Crawford were always together and were very close.
    _________
    Its true :coffee:

  • JustMe1

    And I also remember that Cunningham & Wddie didn't like that she was into drugs. The reason why they both disappeared... In Bobby, Whitney found someone that liked to have the same kinda fun that she did... Jennifer Holiday admitted on CNN Monday night that her drug use started BEFORE Bobby. She said that she wouldn't call names, but that she hoped those people would be honest. I was glad that someone finally stuck up for Bobby. Jawn Murray did the same on Jane Velez's show.

    I just think we already know the dirt. Robyn & the lesbian accusations weren't a secret. But why must we drag this child of God down??!! Not Sandra in particular, cause at this point she is simply reporting the news. But what about the people that were supposed to be friends... Damn, give her time. Let her family grieve...

  • Lady_L

    Chocolate Diva says:

    Regardless if you want hits or not can you at least respect the fact that her daughter is grieving for her mom. That outside of superstar status this is someones mom, daughter, cousin etc. DISGUSTING

    --------------------------------------------

  • Fitness821

    I agree with both sexyphillygirl and Elove. One point that some of you are missing is the fact that Whitney gave up a good bit of her privacy when she made the decision to become a star.

  • elykyeznad

    Sandra,

    I just want to say that I am appauled that you would make a post about something as messy and non news worthy as this. Whitney Houston has shared her talents with us all these years and shared her personal life rather willing or not. At least in her death media people or specifically want to be media people "bloggers" like you will at least let her have some peace as well as her family. I read your responses to some of the criticisms of your post and I could not believe that it was so blank and non-responsive to the disdain for your amatuer journalism. As I recall you are a Lesbian too, how would you like it if once you die the only thing bloggers type about is "Do you remember that Dike Blogger Sandra Rose". Have some respect for yourself and others.

  • Crickett

    I read a book Whitney's bodyguard wrote in 1992. It detailed her relationship with Robyn, her fights with her brother, her going in the hood for drugs with her makeup artist- everything.

  • http://www.philly.com/ Jay Bee

    Rest Whitney! Your job and purpose on earth has been fulfilled. You made it! some are still tryna get to where u are and that with the Lord! you were chosen