Remember the transgender person who was kicked out of the Miss Universe pageant for not being a biological female? Well, the pageant officials have caved under the intense pressure from the LGBT groups. It doesn't matter that this person has no chance of winning the coveted crown. The important thing is to be allowed to compete as a girl.

Disqualified Miss Universe Canada contestant Jenna Talackova better start practicing that wave: Officials have reversed their decision to kick her out for being born a boy. The 23-year-old can now compete on the condition she "meets the legal gender recognition requirements of Canada, and the standards established by other international competitions," although they still haven't clarified exactly what those requirements are. Source

My guess is that one of those requirements is to have a gay advocacy group in your corner that has the power and the money to topple pageant sponsorships.

I will also go out on a limb and guess that another requirement is to have powerful lawyers threatening to put the Miss Universe pageant on ice.

Thanks to loyal reader Dawn Sheen for the tip!

  • Ms.Fashion

    I am truly out done!!! Some things should just remain separate. Go find RUPAUL!!!! That is more suitable.... :coffee:

  • prynsexxx

    Uhm which one is the transgender, up top? OR is that the same person? :shrug:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI Feline Feminine

    :kona:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCr4EJSUcCU Zoe B.

    Ol' boy is cute :thumbsup:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI Feline Feminine

    This is so stupid to me...SO STUPID...

  • prynsexxx

    How did they initially find out that she was a he and is now he is a she?

  • cheeks8683

    I'm sorry I don't agree...I don't like when folks go about changing what God made them to be...So is Miss America gonna be unisex now? :nono:

  • The Makeup Maven

    :coffee:

  • luVn_liFe…

    :rolleyes: :no:

  • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

    Fake tits, fake azz, fake lips... I guess a fake puzzy fits right in..... :|

    Who run the world... Gayz.

    :homo:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    They're all fake and plastic anyway. :coffee:

    Besides, who really cares about Miss Universe anymore? :shrugs:

  • brown_skin83

    :whip:

  • Iheart

    :blink:

  • The Makeup Maven

    :no:

  • I Go There

    :lol:

    Damn.... Women cant have shait to themselves.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    SO YALL LEFT ME SSCREAMING FOR HELP IN THE LAST POST!!! :cuss:

  • £ the commenter formally known as Hershey

    That :gay: mafia is not's to be played with!

  • KDub

    And I SweaterGod Imma be watching JUST to see if anybody do that Leyomi fall during the talent segment. If somebody get out there and do that drag queen dance shat .....Imma die :ghost:

  • The Makeup Maven

    Le'me get my azz up outta heah!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    :think: I don't know if I agree or disagree with this ... lemme think ...

  • Vanguard Reese

    What is this world coming to?

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Oil Sheen Jones (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen)

    prynsexxx says:

    How did they initially find out that she was a he and is now he is a she?

    ---------------
    During the talent cmpetition there was juggling and s(he) went to revover the dropped balls and welp six in on ehand half a dozen in the other

  • KDub

    Damn…. Women cant have shait to themselves.
    ------------------------------------------
    A puss-cee that bleeds and has to be meticulously cleaned (forgot who said that on here) and the ability to birff some bad azz chiren. That is all we got.

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @YGO

    I don't know why women even want this sht. It's really for men anyway. Guess that's why they didn't want a he/she to compete. Fcks up their jack-off material. :coffee:

  • Iheart

    @Kdub, You know they gotta do the signature ShaBAM!!! :rofl:

  • I Go There

    KDub says:

    And I SweaterGod Imma be watching JUST to see if anybody do that Leyomi fall during the talent segment. If somebody get out there and do that drag queen dance shat …..Imma die
    ____________________________________________________

    It'll give a new meaning to the baton routine... Muthatfka got thier marbles falling all out the bathing suit... :lol:

  • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Oil Sheen Jones (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen)

    I will also go out on a limb and guess that another requirement is to have powerful lawyers threatening to put the Miss Universe pageant on ice.

    -----------
    That's better than putting a di ck in a butt

  • MissHarlem

    :no: tis all

  • Ni ni

    :crying: even Im starting to get confused now. I know the kids are confused...boys in the girlscouts, etc. I can barely tell girls from the boys on campus.

  • The Makeup Maven

    KDub says:

    has to be meticulously cleaned (forgot who said that on here)
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    *raises hand* THAT'LL BE ME, DUB! :biggrin:

  • I Go There

    YSoSrs says:

    @YGO

    I don’t know why women even want this sht. It’s really for men anyway. Guess that’s why they didn’t want a he/she to compete. Fcks up their jack-off material.
    _________________________________________

    Yeah cause the winner of those thing do look nice... now it really gon fk things up. Oh Well we always got The winner of those "shake what ya momma gave ya" contest...

    You know the ones where all the fellas are saying

    "Take that shait off"
    "Take that shait off"

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/a19fc5b0a5b0a826c0a201b8ac191b35.png mzwhang90210

    Hey Sandra!!

    :waves: @
    Hershey
    Laker
    Igo
    Maven
    Iheart
    Iscream
    FeFe
    Pryn
    Anybody I missed [insert name here]

    Ummm...these gay advocates irk my nerves!! Sit the hell down somewhere. How the hell is that fair a dayum transgender..thats NOT a woman!! HE is taking the spot of some well deserving NATURAL female out there. That group needs to go away with that friggin nonsense. :cuss:

    On the other hand they DO get ish done. Wish they could've been on the Trayvon Martin case...Zimmerman's arse would've BEEN in jail.

  • Vanguard Reese

    I'm looking at CNN. This storm in Dallas is crazy. I'm sending prayers up.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    :no:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded AWESOME

    :vomit:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    VANGUA :cry: I DONT EVEN WANT TO LOOK IT UP!!

  • I Go There

    WHats up MZ Whang...

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    Guess I'm the only one here who doesn't see the problem. :shrugs:

  • Vanguard Reese

    @Laker, be careful and take cover.

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ MsWhang :hug:

    *notice I'm keeping it ca-yute!*

  • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Vanguard Reese says:

    I’m looking at CNN.
    ______________

    Let me know when they arrest Zimmerman. Thanks. My patience is getting short. :waiting:

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ YSO - Nooope, you're not the only one!

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ SIS - I'm :pray: you make it home safe!

  • Iheart

    Hey MzWhang :waves:

  • yallcrazy

    I'm not certain how I really feel about this :thinking:

    I accept gay people, I "get it". But I'm not sure about this...

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    @SIS THANKS :hug:
    @VANGUARD I KNEW I SHOULD OF GONE HOME... I DONT EVEN LIKE WORKING WITH THESE WHITE FOLKS!! :wail: ON SOME REAL CHIT THO.. I'M TERRIFIED OF TORNADOS... :cry:

  • yallcrazy

    (motherly voice) Yes, Laker be careful! :steer: & turn on the NEWS RADIO just in case there's a shift or change in the storm. No music! News!

  • candibfly

    my thoughts: ion really care :coffee:

    but which one is she? the left or right?

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI Feline Feminine

    @YSo

    Why call it the "Miss" Universe pageant then....let's just call it the Universe Pageant...I can't explain the problem if you don't see it... :shrugs:

  • http://www.vibedeck.com/brandoncharles BCinKS

    This could go either way. They might get new viewers to see the transgender compete or they gone have a viewership of 19.4 b/c all straight men decide to tune into women's gymnastics instead to get their fill of T&A.

  • yallcrazy

    WING WING WING HERRO @Mzwhang

    ---------------
    :kiss: @Awesome

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    I'll be with @FeFe (Comment #3) Though
    :tape:

  • The Makeup Maven

    BCinKS says:

    This could go either way. They might get new viewers to see the transgender compete or they gone have a viewership of 19.4 b/c all straight men decide to tune into women’s gymnastics instead to get their fill of T&A.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    AND SEE! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI Feline Feminine

    @Smurfette

    Yeah this issue has NOTHING to do with gay people, it has to do with trying to call a Lion and Lioness and making folks accept that Lion as a Lioness with no questions asked...

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    :smack:

  • yallcrazy

    I can’t explain the problem if you don’t see it

    Not being messy, but I like this! I do alot of problem solving at work, and alot of people only can name the causes, but not me :grill:

    Anyhoo, I'm gonna use this one :wink:

  • Phrozen1der

    But he's transgender thus NOT a female,that's bull and ION care who is mad..... :coffee:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded AWESOME

    @Yall :kiss: I've never even heard of a guy watching this though.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    YALL YES :hug:

  • The Makeup Maven

    :whistle:
    I tongue kiss her otha tongue
    skeet skeet skeet - water gun
    OH..MY..GAWD..BECKY
    Look at her butt
    TUNCHIE

    DON'T KNOW WHY THAT WAS IN MY PART!

  • candibfly

    awesome :boob:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    AWWSOME :hug:

  • yallcrazy

    I just don't get how someone would want to alter their body.

    I mean you can love who you want, but changing physical characteristics :shrug:

  • candibfly

    :titties: no?

    y'all know what i meant tho :shakebutt:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded AWESOME

    Candi :kiss:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    Feel sorry for the girls that place behind this dude. :no: <<<smh

  • yallcrazy

    Boobs woman! :lol:

  • Phrozen1der

    @Maven :yahoo: <------Tony Montana

  • CFREE

    Which one is the tran? You still aint no miss tho :no:

  • candibfly

    oh, good thing i ain't say :vag: :lol:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @FEFE

    If this person is living as a woman and can be considered a "Miss" then no, I don't see the problem. Women have broken the gender barrier on several male-specific activities.

    I see all this sht as silly and superficial anyway so whatever. :shrugs:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Hershey (Comment #17)
    I've BEEN TELLING Peeps that This GAY Agenda & Neutral-SEX Identity Agenda was Soooo MF-ing REAL (Ohhh They Gonna Learn Though...) :coffee:

  • yallcrazy

    Yep they should just have a Transgender Ms. Universe

    This is some bs IMO because how can a regular woman compete against a surgically altered woman. Are the real women allowed to have plastic surgery?

    It's all some bs because if you need surgery (men or women) then you shouldn't even be in a competition no how! :rofl:

  • I Go There

    yeah I dont know guys that watch this shait...

  • Phrozen1der

    @Yall It confuses me.... :no:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    Yeah but they prolly won't win

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/a19fc5b0a5b0a826c0a201b8ac191b35.png mzwhang90210

    *waves* @ yallcray & ManI

    Huh? @ Maven

    I agree with Proz #57

    anywhoo... :buttshake:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @PHRO
    But he’s transgender thus NOT a female,that’s bull and ION care who is mad….
    _________________________________________________________________________

    This.

    And isnt' the whole POINT of compeition for people to have an EQUAL chance at winning??? Now, I don't don't know if the tranny has an "advantage" or a "disadvantage" (I would guess the latter) but it SHOLE ain't equal.

    I'm surprised dudes haven't tried this malarkey to steal female athletic scholarships from schools. Claiming they are "pre-operation Tranny's and therefore girls and should get those scholarships."
    :think:

  • NaijaGal

    So does that mean 'real' women can compete in the transgender pagents???

  • Phrozen1der

    <-----Humped my first girl under the covers after watching Miss America in 1994.. :coffee:

  • £ the commenter formally known as Hershey

    ELove says:

    @Hershey (Comment #17)
    I’ve BEEN TELLING Peeps that This GAY Agenda & Neutral-SEX Identity Agenda was Soooo MF-ing REAL (Ohhh They Gonna Learn Though…)

    ____________________________________

    Exactly, when's the last time Isaiah Washington's been heard from? Shyt they ended his career before quick got ready

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ PHRO - Why the fck did I :heart: that song??? It was stupid as shyt, but I rocked w/it EVERYTIME it came on! :lol:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    THE MAN IS THE ONE ON THE LEFT RIGHT?? :think:
    CHOCO :hug: THANKS MA! I WILL.. STILL GOT 2 HOURS OF WORK AND I DONT WANT TO DRIVE #SCARY

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @HRESHEY
    "Exactly, when’s the last time Isaiah Washington’s been heard from? Shyt they ended his career before quick got ready"
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Man that nigga is a janitor without a broom these days. That nigga ain't got chit!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI Feline Feminine

    @YSo

    I may have a soft spot for this too because I competed in pageants growing up and I'd be pretty pissed off if I placed behind someone who was born a MAN...that takes away from the competition IMHO...Them living as a woman and artificially altering themselves to look like one does not make them one genetically or naturally....

    Women breaking the barrier still stands in the fact that women compete in those male-specific activities against OTHER WOMEN... but ehh, I guess... whatever...

    And I'd like to know which one of them up top is the transgendered...I think it's the one on the right but it gets harder and harder to tell these days...

  • yallcrazy

    I demand a new post :lol:

    I'm at a loss for words :coffee:

  • Iheart

    Phrozen1der says:

    <—–Humped my first girl under the covers after watching Miss America in 1994..
    _____________

    :dead:

  • Phrozen1der

    @Man Right!!
    @Laker ;)

    @Maven That shyt moves me like a negro spiritual... :lol:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/a19fc5b0a5b0a826c0a201b8ac191b35.png mzwhang90210

    :waves: Naij & Choco

    :buttshake:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    THIS is ALL I'm going to SAY (And I'm OUT Dis BYTCH Though...)

    IF YOU wasn't BORN A WOMAN then I don't care HOW MANY Nips-n-Tucks you go through... You're NOT A WOMAN (To ME Though...) SEE @CFREE's Comment #69 Though :yes:

    AND I FEEL The EXACT SAME WAY regrading MEN Too (WORD !!!) :coffee:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    People change the body that "God" gave them all the time. Dye their hair, wear contacts, get tattoos and piercings...Exchanging your dck for a clyt is just a more extreme form.

    If one really feels they are trapped in the wrong body, should they suffer to make sure other people are comfortable? Just because you don't understand doesn't mean it's wrong.

  • I Go There

    Its all fun and games till one of yall ladies open up that ole Alaye calendar expecting to see some fellas and All of a sudden you see some Dude Named TNACK..and see that its Teresa the chic from HS that was in chemistry with you.

    :lol:

  • Phrozen1der

    @IHeart #IJS now they have an example :coffee:

  • yallcrazy

    SR fixed our asses, huh? :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded AWESOME

    Lakes(EVA) :hug:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    Dallas Police say possible tornadoes have touched down in the southern part of that city as a band of severe weather moves through northern Texas.

    Local television footage shows overturned and smashed semi-trailers on the ground in the southern portion of Dallas County. Dallas Police spokeswoman Sherri Jeffrey says twisters also have caused damage in the city limits.

    Weather service advisories issued Tuesday said storm spotters and radar shows separate "large and extremely dangerous" tornadoes both south of Dallas and Fort Worth.

    The weather service says "considerable damage" has been reported near Cleburne, south of Fort Worth, and Lancaster, south of Dallas.

    ^^ :no:

  • Phrozen1der

    @Yso You have a point,and I judges no one I just never understood it. To each his/her/shim's own.. ;)

  • http://www.vibedeck.com/brandoncharles BCinKS

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    @HRESHEY
    “Exactly, when’s the last time Isaiah Washington’s been heard from? Shyt they ended his career before quick got ready”
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Man that nigga is a janitor without a broom these days. That nigga ain’t got chit!

    -------------------
    He ain't even had a role on a BET movie since all that went down. It was tragic.

  • £ the commenter formally known as Hershey

    Here's my thoughts on this subject. If you're allowing transgenders to compete, it's no longer a Miss competition it's Miss/Mr. Why not allow a plus size woman to compete as well since the rules are being bent? I wish some scruffy big dude name Rasheed with a goatee and dreads would sue to compete, since they're allowing men into the competition

  • yallcrazy

    YSoSrs says:

    People change the body that “God” gave them all the time. Dye their hair, wear contacts, get tattoos and piercings…Exchanging your dck for a clyt is just a more extreme form.

    If one really feels they are trapped in the wrong body, should they suffer to make sure other people are comfortable? Just because you don’t understand doesn’t mean it’s wrong.
    ----------------------------------------
    :no: You can change your hair back, remove tattoos, and piercings, & all of these things are for "style" BUT you ain't swapping out your dyck/cli.ts regularly...

    I don't buy into to all that "I feel like I'm in the wrong body". God don't make mistakes. Man began with all these surgeries IMO.

  • 2know the ledge

    be honest who really watches these pageants anyway? i don't sooo....

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    5 year old Child: "Mommy, why do boys and girls have different bathrooms?"

    Mom: "Well, because boys and girls are different because they have different body parts. The girls bathroom is made for girls and the boys bathroom is made for boys."

    5 year old child: "Well, how do you know if they are a boy or a girl?"

    Mom: "They are whatever their lawyer says they are honey."

    5 year old child: :blink:

  • yallcrazy

    To each his/her/shim’s own..

    :dead:

  • Phrozen1der

    And he shouldn't have a job making comments like that! A wise man knows when to hold them and when to fold them.. :coffee: And he should left that deck of cards at the STO that time... :rofl:

  • Iheart

    @Phro, I'm mad that you remember it was 1994 :rofl: Ion even remember the fiirst time i humped :lol:

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    2know the ledge says:

    be honest who really watches these pageants anyway? i don’t sooo….

    ^^ I DONT :shrug:

  • yallcrazy

    :hug: <--straddling one. Meet me on the rooftop yo!

  • The Makeup Maven

    Now, I NEVER give my opinion on this shyt because this ain't my agenda and I generally don't give 2 fcks what ppl thank anyway...as in this case, but I'mma spit my piece...

    Ppl give a fck TOO MUCH about what otha ppl are doing with their own lives. As far as LGBT issues, there's ALWAYS a complaint, whether allowing them to get married, being LGBT in the first place, etc. There will NEVER be no pleasing ANYONE regarding this issue SO WHO GIVES A FCK??? People need to be more concerned with their own STRAIGHT/GAY lives. You got muhfuckas getting married 50/11 times, got 50/11 baby daddies while on the system, married while having men & women crawling in and out their sack, husband leaving out the front do'/cable dude sliding in the back. I DON'T GIVE A SHYT! Half the ppl complaining ain't gon EVER enter the pageant or know someone that will. We got mo' shyt to worry about, such as a killer running willy nilly in this bish & the po-po covering that shyt up, people still not having adequate healthcare (YET WE FEEDING, CLOTHING AND SHELTERING BISH'S THAT KEEP GETTING KNOCKED UP BY LOWLIFES ON PURPOSE) yet most common folk aint' got healthcare. I'm all for ppl having their own opinions, cuz shyt, they're like azzholes, but I'm sick of ppl using the bible/GOD, etc. for their complaints against why something ain't right, yet they bussin' it wide open on a regular for a man/woman that ain't they husband/wife! I'm so over hypocrites.

    NO OFFENSE GIVEN - NO OFFENSE TAKEN!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI Feline Feminine

    @YSo

    Ok but someone WITHOUT tattoos or piercings won't be allowed to compete against those WITH tattoos or piercings because they don't QUALIFY!

    This topic could go 'round and 'round.....the blo-han post is prolly a bit more light-hearted...

  • £ the commenter formally known as Hershey

    Man, I just don't care™ says:

    5 year old Child: “Mommy, why do boys and girls have different bathrooms?”

    Mom: “Well, because boys and girls are different because they have different body parts. The girls bathroom is made for girls and the boys bathroom is made for boys.”

    5 year old child: “Well, how do you know if they are a boy or a girl?”

    Mom: “They are whatever their lawyer says they are honey.”

    5 year old child:
    ___________________________________

    :rofl: damn it's 2012 ain't it?

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    @YSO
    "If one really feels they are trapped in the wrong body, should they suffer to make sure other people are comfortable? Just because you don’t understand doesn’t mean it’s wrong."
    ____________________________________________________________________________

    Nope, but to then turn around and try to FORCE your way into something that you don't techincally qualify for IS WRONG.

    What's the point of competition if you have to change the rules just because someone "feels" a certain way?????? :shrugs:

  • 2know the ledge

    Yallc what good's ma and the rooftop is pre occupied so we gotta do a new spot.

    Lakes how u

  • I Go There

    Phrozen1der says:

    And he shouldn’t have a job making comments like that! A wise man knows when to hold them and when to fold them.. And he should left that deck of cards at the STO that time…
    _________________________________________________

    Yep ole Isaiah was suppose to do a lil thing called shut the fk up.. and get that money.

  • Iheart

    £ the commenter formally known as Hershey says:

    Here’s my thoughts on this subject. If you’re allowing transgenders to compete, it’s no longer a Miss competition it’s Miss/Mr. Why not allow a plus size woman to compete as well since the rules are being bent? I wish some scruffy big dude name Rasheed with a goatee and dreads would sue to compete, since they’re allowing men into the competition

    _______________

    I sweater gawd you just described one of the contestants on rupauls drag race :rofl: I think shim name is Latreece Royale :rofl

  • candibfly

    i guess u can't understand it if it's not happening to u, so i just :shrug:

    anyway, i've lost all the will power to come to work. i'm taking off thur and fri :waiting:

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ PHRO - Okay. bish be rockin' like I'mma straight dude in this bish...WITH STILETTO'S ON, OF COURSE! :wink:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @YALL

    You know how I feel about God so I won't go there with this.

    I will say if you haven't lived it you can't know and therefore can't tell someone how to feel about their body. You don't just decide to go through major surgery and hormone therapy on a whim. There's gotta be something there other than vanity or simple gender confusion IMO.

  • Phrozen1der

    @Iheart :lol:

    @IGo Right!! :yes: like he wasn't kissing on a man in "Get on the bus" circa 1995..Oh the irony..

    @Maven LOLOL!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Man... (Comment #102)
    The CONVERSATIONS One had with their child Saayyy 20 years ago ARE SOOOOO MF-ing Different Since 2000 Though... It's JUST Absolutely Mind-Boggling the THINGS KIDS need to be AWARE OF Nowadayz !!! :coffee:

  • yallcrazy

    Twin, you just slide that in huh? (Th.Fri) :lol: & yeah I guess I don't understand it then :shrug: I do understand regular gay people, that's easy, but then there's all of this other stuff :shrug:

  • candibfly

    but u can call me smoove :whistle:

    don't remind me of the movie get on the bus :lol:

  • Ms.Fashion

    Feline Feminine says:

    @Smurfette

    Yeah this issue has NOTHING to do with gay people, it has to do with trying to call a Lion and Lioness and making folks accept that Lion as a Lioness with no questions asked…

    ___________

    Yes!!! Perfect analysis!!! :thumbsup:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    STILL GOT 2 HOURS OF WORK AND I DONT WANT TO DRIVE #SCARY
    _______________________________
    HOw come they haven't released yall from work it looks cray out there

    :waves: MSWHANG

  • yallcrazy

    YSoSrs says:

    @YALL

    You know how I feel about God so I won’t go there with this.

    I will say if you haven’t lived it you can’t know and therefore can’t tell someone how to feel about their body. You don’t just decide to go through major surgery and hormone therapy on a whim. There’s gotta be something there other than vanity or simple gender confusion IMO.
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    You brought up God first, that's why I continued.

    I hear what you're saying, but I don't understand it. Imma go look up gender confusion. brb...

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

    @Man... (Comment #111) :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

  • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

    And he shouldn’t have a job making comments like that! A wise man knows when to hold them and when to fold them.. And he should left that deck of cards at the STO that time…
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    Yep ole Isaiah was suppose to do a lil thing called shut the fk up.. and get that money.

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    If I recall correctly, he wasn't trying to clown the dude. He made a comment in private that happen to get back to the dude.

    If I was him I woulda denied it to the grave.

  • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

    2KNOW IM OK.. IM DOING.. AND YOU?
    AWWSOME :lol: AM I ALWAYS GOING TO BE EVA.. **REMINDS ME OF EVA MENDEZ..SHE SEESSY**

  • The Makeup Maven

    Knowledge :hug:

  • yallcrazy

    Jacked from the free medical dictionary.

    Gender Identity Disorder
    Definition
    The psychological diagnosis gender identity disorder (GID) is used to describe a male or female that feels a strong identification with the opposite sex and experiences considerable distress because of their actual sex.
    Description
    Gender identity disorder can affect children, adolescents, and adults. Individuals with gender identity disorder have strong cross-gender identification. They believe that they are, or should be, the opposite sex. They are uncomfortable with their sexual role and organs and may express a desire to alter their bodies. While not all persons with GID are labeled as transsexuals, there are those who are determined to undergo sex change procedures or have done so, and, therefore, are classified as transsexual. They often attempt to pass socially as the opposite sex. Transsexuals alter their physical appearance cosmetically and hormonally, and may eventually undergo a sex-change operation.
    Children with gender identity disorder refuse to dress and act in sex-stereotypical ways. It is important to remember that many emotionally healthy children experience fantasies about being a member of the opposite sex. The distinction between these children and gender identity disordered children is that the latter experience significant interference in functioning because of their cross-gender identification. They may become severely depressed, anxious, or socially withdrawn.
    Causes and symptoms
    The cause of gender identity disorder is not known. It has been theorized that a prenatal hormonal imbalance may predispose individuals to the disorder. Problems in the individual's family interactions or family dynamics have also been postulated as having some causal impact.
    The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (DSM-IV), the diagnostic reference standard for United States mental health professionals, describes the criteria for gender identity disorder as an individual's strong and lasting cross-gender identification and their persistent discomfort with their biological gender role. This discomfort must cause a significant amount of distress or impairment in the functioning of the individual.
    DSM-IV specifies that children must display at least four of the following symptoms of cross-gender identification for a diagnosis of gender identity disorder:
    a repeatedly stated desire to be, or insistence that he or she is, the opposite sex
    a preference for cross-dressing
    a strong and lasting preference to play make-believe and role-playing games as a member of the opposite sex or persistent fantasies that he or she is the opposite sex
    a strong desire to participate in the stereotypical games of the opposite sex
    a strong preference for friends and playmates of the opposite sex
    Diagnosis
    Gender identity disorder is typically diagnosed by a psychiatrist or psychologist, who conducts an interview with the patient and takes a detailed social history. Family members may also be interviewed during the assessment process. This evaluation usually takes place in an outpatient setting.
    Treatment
    Treatment for children with gender identity disorder focuses on treating secondary problems such as depression and anxiety, and improving self-esteem. Treatment may also work on instilling positive identifications with the child's biological gender. Children typically undergo psychosocial therapy sessions; their parents may also be referred for family or individual therapy.
    Transsexual adults often request hormone and surgical treatments to suppress their biological sex characteristics and acquire those of the opposite sex. A team of health professionals, including the treating psychologist or psychiatrist, medical doctors, and several surgical specialists, oversee this transitioning process. Because of the irreversible nature of the surgery, candidates for sex-change surgery are evaluated extensively and are often required to spend a period of time integrating themselves into the cross-gender role before the procedure begins. Counseling and peer support are also invaluable to transsexual individuals.
    Prognosis
    Long-term follow up studies have shown positive results for many transsexuals who have undergone sex-change surgery. However, significant social, personal, and occupational issues may result from surgical sex changes, and the patient may require psychotherapy or counseling.

  • Ms.Fashion

    @ Tatted

    What's wrong boo??? You sound fed up??? You should have kept drinking that coffee in the beginning of the of the post. You let some mofo have it!!!

    Come here :hug:

  • yallcrazy

    Answering Parents' Questions on Gender Confusion in Children

    by Glenn Stanton

    At the news of every child's birth, what is the first question we ask about the baby — even before we ask if the baby is healthy? We want to know if it's a boy or girl!

    Knowing the sex of the child is the first way we seek to connect with and understand the new human being. To be human is to be gendered — male or female. And one of the most important jobs of a parent is to help their children develop as healthy boys or girls and into strong, confident men and women.

    Here are answers to some of the biggest questions parents have about gender issues with their children:

    Is it normal and healthy for young children to participate in cross-sex behavior?

    Of course! The whole world of a child is exploration. The role of the parent is to make sure their children explore and learn about their world in safe and directed ways. My son has four sisters, and when he was very small he loved to play dress up with his sisters, even in their own dresses and sparkly shoes. This is fine at 2 years old. Not so much at 8 years old! It is important for parents to not overreact to such behavior but to slowly guide it in gender-proper directions. That is how kids learn.

    Remember, most little boys and girls have never been men or women before, and they need both mother and father to show them what being one is like, as well as what it is not!

    Is "tomboy" behavior in girls just as concerning as "sissy-girl" behavior in boys?

    There are important differences here. Tomboy behavior in girls is more prevalent and often more short-lived than distinct feminine behavior in boys. It is more important for parents to lovingly, calmly but confidently steer fem-boys into more masculine directions. Make sure you find masculine things your boy is interested and can find identification in. All boys need to be intentionally welcomed into the world of men, and both mother and father play a key role here. Girls, likewise, need to be introduced into the world of women.

    It is also important for parents to recognize that "tomboy" girls are much less likely to be teased for various reasons than "sissy" boys. Of course, teasing is always wrong, but parents must be aware of what things are more likely to attract harsh teasing and steer their children away from it.

    What about boys or girls who display strong cross-sex behavior in pre-adolescence?

    There are some children who, as they grow, will demonstrate stronger cross-sex behavior. Some of these boys will be obsessed with mermaids, frilly girl things and long hair. It is important for parents and extended family to look not just at the child, but the family system itself. Such behavior is typically a curious indicator of deeper problems within the family.

    Dr. Kenneth Zucker, one of the world's leading authorities on gender confusion in children, calls this dynamic "family noise" which he explains as unhealthy relationships between mother and father, parents and child, as well as sibling to sibling. He says allowing a boy to live as a girl might solve the immediate anxiety of such a child, but it would ignore the larger problem driving such desire, and it fails to serve the child and the family.

    Is it true that cross-sex behavior and transgenderism in children have a biological root in the brain?

    In a word, no!

    New developments in brain research indicate that the human brain develops with distinct male and female characteristics, but there is no data showing this drives cross-gender behavior.


    Dr. Zucker explains, "Gender dysphoria (confusion) is increasingly understood [by some]…as having biological origins [in] small parts of the brain. In terms of empirical data, this is not true. It is just dogma." 1


    Professor Eric Vilain, a UCLA geneticist specializing in sexual development, recently explained to the Atlantic Monthly that, "there is no evidence of biological influence on transsexualism yet." If we ever do find some hard-wired biological component for gender identity, he says, "my hunch is, it's going to be mild."2 He indicates that family factors play a key role.


    Another leading scholar in the field, George Rekers from the University of South Carolina, explains:

    Given the present state of our knowledge, we must tentatively conclude the main source of gender deviance is found in psychological development variables and social learning within the family environment, including the processes of identification with parental figures and peers of the same sex.3

    What is the best course for helping children who are gender confused?

    It should be remembered that very few children who demonstrate gender confused behavior continue to do so in their later teen years or early adulthood. Most grow out of it and learn to live well in their masculinity or femininity. This fact also speaks against a biological foundation.

    It is critical that both mother and father work together to provide loving but intentional direction. For boys, the mother should be the one to "push" the child from feminine behavior, and the father should "pull" the boy toward more masculine play and interests. One of the worst things is for dad to "shame" the boy for girl-like behavior. He should always work to welcome his son into the curious world of men. That is how healthy masculine identity happens.

    Harvard professor Jerome Kagan has spent 4 decades studying such children and he finds that parenting style is critical for helping children move out of gender confusion. Kagan says parents who are particularly affirming of their children's cross-sex identification ultimately have the worst outcomes in child health and well-being.4

    With children showing opposite-sex tendencies, mothers should deeply and carefully guard against overprotection and coddling, while fathers should guard against shaming and nagging. Again, mothers should become the pushers away from gender-discordant behavior and fathers the gentle pullers toward healthy gender-aligned attitudes and behaviors.

    #helpful

  • I Go There

    @IGo Right!! like he wasn’t kissing on a man in “Get on the bus” circa 1995..Oh the irony..
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    Yep thats right...

    @ Man

    Yeah homie I would have denied that shait and kept it moving.

  • 2know the ledge

    I'm holding it down try to keep my head above water.

    Tatted how you boo?

  • yallcrazy

    Yo, just tell me where to meet you? *headnod up once*

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ Ms.Fashion -

    Oooh, ain't nothing wrong. I'm not fed up. I just stated an opinion as so many others do. I know you're not use to it cause I don't do it much! :lol:

  • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

    SO is this the problem with Shiloh Jolie Pitt :coffee:

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ Knowledge - I'm good. How you male-crush???

  • yallcrazy

    I'm still reading it Choco, but could be :yes:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

    :yawn:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    @YALL

    Actually, I didn't bring up God, that happened early on in the comments. I used it to make a point about altering the bodies that "He" gives us.

    If folks have such a problem with this they should never change anything physical about themselves permanently or temporarily cause they are saying that God made a mistake somewhere. If he didn't give you straight hair or pierced ears you weren't meant to have them, right?

  • Ms.Fashion

    The Makeup Maven says:

    @ Ms.Fashion –

    Oooh, ain’t nothing wrong. I’m not fed up. I just stated an opinion as so many others do. I know you’re not use to it cause I don’t do it much!

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    :no: I am not used to that!!! That sound like some built up hostility!!!

    You gave all hypocrites the middle finga!!!

  • 2know the ledge

    I'm cool @ Tatted.
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    YallC we can go to the dark corner and since we can't use the mink we have to use other things :D

  • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

    He still has a dack so I don't think that it is fair. If he had the surgery and was 'completely a woman than I would understand more. To each his own but if Chaz Bono was not legally a man he wouldn't have been able to be on DWTS as a man.

  • yallcrazy

    If he didn’t give you straight hair or pierced ears you weren’t meant to have them, right?

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    But Yso, we are talking about serious body parts. And permanent alterations.

    I took your 91 as if you were saying it, ehhh :shrug:

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    I actually "learned" something from reading on it :coffee:

  • yallcrazy

    Chaz Bono still has a vagina and ovaries though

  • The Makeup Maven

    Ms.Fashion says:

    The Makeup Maven says:

    @ Ms.Fashion –

    Oooh, ain’t nothing wrong. I’m not fed up. I just stated an opinion as so many others do. I know you’re not use to it cause I don’t do it much!

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    :no: I am not used to that!!! That sound like some built up hostility!!!

    You gave all hypocrites the middle finga!!!
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    NOPE. No built up hostility. If anyone took issue with my comment, they know me...i'm here everyday. I really don't tend to have my comment dabated since I don't debate ppl's comments. I just stated on the issue.
    :biggrin:

  • yallcrazy

    :kiss: Knowledge

  • yallcrazy

    Tatted, I am sorry if I caused you to feel any certain way. That was not my intention :hug: #notdebatingyourcommentjustapologizing :D

  • The Makeup Maven

    @ Smurfette - NOOOOO, not at all. EVERYONE is entitled to their opinions. You don't see me debating NOT ONE PERSON's opinion on here. I just stated mine! No need for an apology. :hug:

  • http://youtu.be/hsYI8CPUQsc YSoSrs

    Yes we are talking about serious body parts. So the feelings of people that want to alter those body parts shouldn't be immediately dismissed and/or labeled as wrong.

    And the argument that boys need top do boy things and girls need to do girl things or they'll be fcked up for the rest of their lives I find ridiculous. Every tomboy doesn't grow up to be a lesbian or transgender.

  • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

    But legally Chaz is a man. He had it legally changed. I don't have a problem with any of this personally. It takes too much to worry about other people. I was just pointing that out.

  • The Makeup Maven

    YSoSrs says:

    Every tomboy doesn’t grow up to be a lesbian or transgender.
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    :cosign:

  • yallcrazy

    Oh, I don't think so either! I was a tomboy :shrug:

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    Gypsy, you are correct! I just read that in 2010 Chaz underwent female-to-male gender transition, and legally changed his gender & name. :coffee:

    Some stuff I just don't need to know about :no: