Janet Jackson and Wissam Celebrate Her 46th B-Day in France
Singer Janet Jackson and her boyfriend Wissam Al Man were spotted eating ice cream in France, where they attended the de Grisogono Glam Extravaganza at Hotel Du Cap Eden-Roc in Cap D’Antibes, France. Wissam and Janet celebrated the pop Icon’s 46th birthday while in France last week. The lovebirds are still going strong after 3 years together.
Photos: Michael Buckner/Getty Images Europe and Bauer Griffin
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awwwwww
Good for her
She is Beautiful
Still love Janet (cues “if I was ya girl all the things I”d do you”) 
Timeless/Flawless – That’s all I got :bravo:
Janet just ain’t cute too me, I don’t know why
her voice is mediocre at best. What’s the hype with Janet Jackson I’ll NEVER know 
get it Janet!
She looks cute and comfy
GAGIRL87 says:
Janet just ain’t cute too me, I don’t know why
her voice is mediocre at best. What’s the hype with Janet Jackson I’ll NEVER know 
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Gorgeous Couple Happy for her!
*Sidenote* I’m glad she’s find love and happiness I wish that for EVERYONE
I’m just glad she moved on from the hood leprechaun
Jenie don’t shank me
@GAGIRL
I think it her face works she’s had done the cheek implants the nose jobs maybe that’s what your seeing..
She looks so sad…
Troublemaker has blessed us with her presence
@ Yall 
I LOVE YOU JANET I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I DO OOOOOOO
@YALL you mean belated cause her bday was May 16th
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Choco aka Hippie says:
@GAGIRL
I think it her face works she’s had done the cheek implants the nose jobs maybe that’s what your seeing
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That’s probably PARTLY it but it’s something else off about that chick though
In the thundering rain
you stare into my eyes
I can feel your hand moving up my thighs
skirt around my waist
wall against my face
I can feel your lips
I dont wanna stop just because
people walkin’by watchin’us
I dont give a damn what they think
I want you now
I dont wanna stop just because
you feel so good inside of my love
I’m not gonna stop no no no
I want you all I wanna say is
*always wanted to get it in with this song playing*
Heyyy Ya’ll
I liked that song, all she does is *whisper*
@GA
I’ve noticed it but since I like her persona ya know
I
Janet….she seems at peace now…and I think her man is HAWT! 
@jenie thanks for #8 i didn’t want to have to be the one
@ga nice shoes girl
JANET!
That is all.
Choco
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GONE head Naija!!! :lighterup:
Frenchie
@YALL you mean belated cause her bday was May 16th
Dontchew be trying to make a scene with me, ya hear? 
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*snickers* Now let’s go
*makes room for Frenchie’s routine*
5-4-3-2-1
IT has become Alarmingly HARD to come to CERTAIN POSTS and Make Comedic Comments becuz So Many “JUST LUV” Said Celebrity Though
NaijaGal says:
In the thundering rain
you stare into my eyes
I can feel your hand moving up my thighs
skirt around my waist
wall against my face
I can feel your lips
I dont wanna stop just because
people walkin’by watchin’us
I dont give a damn what they think
I want you now
I dont wanna stop just because
you feel so good inside of my love
I’m not gonna stop no no no
I want you all I wanna say is
*always wanted to get it in with this song playing*
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ummm meeee tooo please dont judge me
GAGIRL87 says:
Jenie don’t shank me
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You know I love you
awww i want to go to france i like that top and blazer in the last pic
@ELOVE keep your “comedic comments” in the tea you sippin on
@YALL me touble maker??
NEVER :halo:
It aint nothing like a woman in love and know that she is really and truly being loved, Dam it makes me
ahhhhhh, I know that Feeling.
brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:
NaijaGal says:
In the thundering rain
you stare into my eyes
I can feel your hand moving up my thighs
skirt around my waist
wall against my face
I can feel your lips
I dont wanna stop just because
people walkin’by watchin’us
I dont give a damn what they think
I want you now
I dont wanna stop just because
you feel so good inside of my love
I’m not gonna stop no no no
I want you all I wanna say is
*always wanted to get it in with this song playing*
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ummm meeee tooo please dont judge me
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Me 3
but not really 
it’s quite dead in here ……………
Let’s go Frenchie, I know my way around
I WANT LOVE LIKE THAT YO
@YALL you find me a boo yet via the yellow pages?
The thread kinda worn off Janet by now huh?
Frenh thanks hunny
#challengingididntreallymeanit
@Frenchie-BABY
@Creamy
Don’t get TOO Emotional Baby becuz I don’t SEE ALL of THIS Genuine LUV (You Speak Of Though…) But I’m A DUDE So I Guess it isn’t For ME (To SEE Though…)
brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:
It aint nothing like a woman in love and know that she is really and truly being loved, Dam it makes me
ahhhhhh, I know that Feeling.
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yallcray
ready…ok…the weekends almost here, so for that let’s give a good cheer…cheers to your common sense advice, now come on and let’s snake it twice
*backflips and somersaults to land on Janet’s donkey booty*
French KI$$E$ says:
it’s quite dead in here ……………
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@ Naija You just made me download that off ITunes for later
@YSO
“JANET!
That is all.”
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She fall in and out of “love” kinda easily huh?
I bet Jermaine Dupri is somewhere thinking of jumping of a curb….
Choco aka Hippie says:
@GA
I’ve noticed it but since I like her persona ya know
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Janet don’t get no passes Choco give to her like you give it to Beyonce j/k
Frenchie, *rolls through rolodex*
I got this! It’s a work in progress. Do like I said and “get some” but I DO NOT want you putting out with the one I hook you up with, capiche? 
Dontchew worry yo
*cues Let’s Wait Awhile*
It aint nothing like a woman in love and know that she is really and truly being loved, Dam it makes me ahhhhhh, I know that Feeling.
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@Man… (Comment #44)
REALLY Dawg (REALLY NOW…)
NaijaGal says:
In the thundering rain
you stare into my eyes
I can feel your hand moving up my thighs
skirt around my waist
wall against my face
I can feel your lips
I dont wanna stop just because
people walkin’by watchin’us
I dont give a damn what they think
I want you now
I dont wanna stop just because
you feel so good inside of my love
I’m not gonna stop no no no
I want you all I wanna say is
*always wanted to get it in with this song playing*
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Whewww chile!!! This song just bring it out me!!!!
Have we done a “Songs to get it in” sub-post in awhile?
French KI$$E$ says:
it’s quite dead in here ……………
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Yeah, that’s what happens when there’s a mass banning…
@Elove that was for me, and any woman that is in love, cuase let me tell u bout my goood thang, that man is good to me, he loves me ahhh, chile and i cant even explain.
Oh Daddy <<<what your wife will be saying
@GAGIRL
Bey kool and pretty just dull and empty to me
Why did I know that would be your response
I grew up on Janet she’ll always get a pass
Naija
*snaking (left, right, down the middle, then doubling it up)
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Awww snap, I see somebody (Iheart) coming for my PIG TROPHY
It’s on!
@SANDRA
“Don’t get TOO Emotional Baby becuz I don’t SEE ALL of THIS Genuine LUV (You Speak Of Though…) But I’m A DUDE So I Guess it isn’t For ME (To SEE Though…) ” ~ ELOVE
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I bet Jermaine Dupri is somewhere thinking of jumping of a curb….
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@Choco u dont have that kinda love bew
I bet Jermaine Dupri is somewhere thinking of jumping of a curb….
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@SANDRA
“Have we done a “Songs to get it in” sub-post in awhile?”~DADDY WARBUCKS
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@ Iheart *whispers* Juicy’s “Beez In Da Trap”
I beez in da trap bee beez in da trap pimping ain’t dead and they ain’t saying nothing ah 100 mutherphuckers can’t tell me nothing!!!!
Min Min Sheen (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen) says:
I bet Jermaine Dupri is somewhere thinking of jumping of a curb….
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Yall do know Janet’s birthday was the 16th right?
lmao @ mass banning
BTW @ Sandra FREE SASO Free HTown (sup HTown) Free CD Free Tatted
hello frenchie
Chocooooo
hey boo
Min Min Sheen (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen) says:
I bet Jermaine Dupri is somewhere thinking of jumping of a curb….
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Mass banning
when I saw the ‘let’s wait a while’ video years later I said ‘that’s the dude that tried to rape Freddie (different world)
Dawn Sheen, that lil man probably sipping on a 40 on the damn curb
#aintmyfault #youhadasuperstardummie
NaijaGal says:
Oh Daddy <<<what your wife will be saying
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@Creamy
@Man…
@BROWNSKIN
“@Elove that was for me, and any woman that is in love, cuase let me tell u bout my goood thang, that man is good to me, he loves me ahhh, chile and i cant even explain. ”
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Niggas that do the most cheat the most.<<<FACT
I saw that NM video with Nas and Cb and w/o NM it is
@Creamy
I’ve always been loved like that I have it and have had it
@MAN
Let’s not start talking about women falling in out of “love” easily, mkay? You don’t have enough to stand on, even in those “Puzzy Wetters”.
@Man
Shut up!
NaijaGal says:
when I saw the ‘let’s wait a while’ video years later I said ‘that’s the dude that tried to rape Freddie (different world)
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I hate choo today!!! I say it with love!!!
Hey Dawn
Ysooooooooo
BTW @ Sandra FREE SASO Free HTown (sup HTown) Free CD Free Tatted
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@Naija
Yes, don’t my baby favuh look good in it
he sure does
@Ga, Don’t be whispering that to me
Did yall hear what those bastids did with GI Joe 2?! They’re not gonna release it until next March so they can mske it 3D. I think they just wanna be THE summer blockbuster and knew they couldn’t fukk with the Avengers.
To the
Yso for “pussay wetters” 
Look at this alabaster love here…
Janet showing her appreciation too….
and i think by all these posts Auntie is showing hers as well
(looks at picture of Janet and her bew)
You know you are juuuuust a touch off… when you blow on icecream like it’s hot….
DYMOND!!
@MAN
I see what you doing too. Ole hating ass.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@BROWNSKIN
“@Elove that was for me, and any woman that is in love, cuase let me tell u bout my goood thang, that man is good to me, he loves me ahhh, chile and i cant even explain. ”
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Niggas that do the most cheat the most.<<<FACT
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Choco aka Hippie says:
@GAGIRL
Why did I know that would be your response Bey kool and pretty just dull and empty to me
I grew up on Janet she’ll always get a pass
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MzDimplez1123 says:
Did yall hear what those bastids did with GI Joe 2?! They’re not gonna release it until next March so they can mske it 3D. I think they just wanna be THE summer blockbuster and knew they couldn’t fukk with the Avengers.
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Or there cutting Dewayne non acting ass out…one of the two…i like my reason better….
@ Ace…Um, isn’t Janet’s man Arabic or some form of Middle Eastern?
@Dymond
@YSO
“Let’s not start talking about women falling in out of “love” easily, mkay? You don’t have enough to stand on, even in those “Puzzy Wetters”. ”
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You right, because I’m sure she wasn’t in “love” every time.
…”malfunction” my azz.
Oh, you thought we forgot? Never see a classy woman doin chit like that.
Business decisions Cousin
#timingiseverything
MzDimplez1123 says:
Did yall hear what those bastids did with GI Joe 2?! They’re not gonna release it until next March so they can mske it 3D. I think they just wanna be THE summer blockbuster and knew they couldn’t fukk with the Avengers.
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That may be wise on they behalf though Dimpz. I took my sister bootleg and everything!! Ain’t nothing fugging with that movie for now. Still swooning for Thor!!!
@GIGI
But that’s what Man called them. Send HIM to the Kona. Hmph!
@ WUT I thought I was the only one that noticed that too
going to stuff my face
whoooooooooo pig!
brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:
It aint nothing like a woman in love and know that she is really and truly being loved, Dam it makes me ahhhhhh, I know that Feeling.
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@BROWN
“@Elove that was for me, and any woman that is in love, cuase let me tell u bout my goood thang, that man is good to me, he loves me ahhh, chile and i cant even explain. ”
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Niggas that do the most cheat the most.<<<FACT
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why ruin my moment I hate u soooo right now
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When a nigga TRULY love you, he think you should be content with him not doin a dayum thing. Ask your granny.
Hey Dymond
I hate when dudes try to feed me from their food
Ninja move your ass over and just hand me the damn spoon 
Anyway Happy Bday Janet
Hey Fe
and I’m off (again)
How anybody pussay getting wet with them spice girl sneaks Man?
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WUT, I have done it
So a lot of people lately are waiting to get married to have sex. I just saw on another blog that Megan Good hasnt bumped skins with her fiance and a friend of mine (a guy) just proposed to his girl and he said he hasn’t had sex in 5 years (the 5yr mark was the actual engagement date)…
Could yall do it??
@ Cousin and Fashion…I know but, I was all set to see it! I was even gonna pay for my girl’s ticket! I don’t wanna wait 9mos!
@ Fashion…I saw the Avengers in the theatre 2x. I concur on Thor’s hottness.
@SANDRA
“Look at this alabaster love here…
Janet showing her appreciation too….
and i think by all these posts Auntie is showing hers as well “~ACE
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MsFashion
I lubs you too sugah 
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Gigi26 says:
Dymond!!
Yes, don’t my baby favuh look good in it he sure does
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Why can I hear you saying favah?
. .
(Me)
.
( <–yall)
@GIGI
“How anybody pussay getting wet with them spice girl sneaks Man? ”
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I could show you! They come in a few weeks.
I know these hoes goin be all up under my nuts talkin bout they got them a athlete and chit.
@Man… SAID
When a nigga TRULY love you, he think you should be content with him not doin a dayum thing. Ask your granny.
The DEFINITION of SAID Woman is What We Call “A DOORMAT” Dawg
@JMO *raises hand* I can…and with Megan it may be the fact her fiancee is trying to be a 7th Day Adventist Pastor
@ JMO
I would want too, but I just need the dust knocked off this thang ere once in a while…
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@SANDRA
“Look at this alabaster love here…
Janet showing her appreciation too….
and i think by all these posts Auntie is showing hers as well “~ACE
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Don’t you got a little people’s speed dating session to go to somewhere bruh….
When a nigga TRULY love you, he think you should be content with him not doin a dayum thing.
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@MAN leave me alone Dammit
Oh Cousin
#hardyharhar
Ace, did you have something to do with this “date push back”?
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*tosses a My Little Pony @Jmo*
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NaijaGal says:
@JMO *raises hand* I can…and with Megan it may be the fact her fiancee is trying to be a 7th Day Adventist Pastor
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*adjusts Naija’s halo* struts off all sexy like
@JMO
I’ve done it before but I won’t again
JMO says:
So a lot of people lately are waiting to get married to have sex. I just saw on another blog that Megan Good hasnt bumped skins with her fiance and a friend of mine (a guy) just proposed to his girl and he said he hasn’t had sex in 5 years (the 5yr mark was the actual engagement date)…
Could yall do it??
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Sure….. with the most concealed chasity belt ever!!! Bish better have a double steel lock on it too. I understand people doing it but how do you restrain from a person you love so dearly??? People have to be realistic. Meagan don’t say anything about this man’s understanding of the Word of God or her’s (if she has any). She just picked a scripture to uphold.
#NotJudgingBeingReal
@JMO idk but I think I’m gonna try if for no other reason than the fact that I hate new relationship sex and I don’t have the time nor patience to get used to a new person and mold them to what I expect
ELove says:
@Man… SAID
When a nigga TRULY love you, he think you should be content with him not doin a dayum thing. Ask your granny.
The DEFINITION of SAID Woman is What We Call “A DOORMAT” Dawg
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splain that one cause i dont get it
#nooffenseshorties
@ Cousin….I’LL KILL HIM IF HE DID!
Booooooooooooooooo! First Lauren Jones (the hooker from Car Wash) then Halle now Janet
Imma start a petition online. This ish getting out of hand,,,I mean yeah he may have a billion dollars Janet,,,But is that really worff having to wash the tissue balls out of that hairy azz crack of his 
Ace says:
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@SANDRA
“Look at this alabaster love here…
Janet showing her appreciation too….
and i think by all these posts Auntie is showing hers as well “~ACE
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Don’t you got a little people’s speed dating session to go to somewhere bruh….
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*test*
@Man
@JMO
“So a lot of people lately are waiting to get married to have sex. ”
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SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIID!
. . . . . . . . . . . .
Man being a
Sandra, put him on temporary ban status please 
JMO Idk but i’ve been celibate for almost a year before, but I like that idea. Intimacy has been exploited imo and its not cherished and kept sacred like how it used to be.
JMO says:
So a lot of people lately are waiting to get married to have sex. I just saw on another blog that Megan Good hasnt bumped skins with her fiance and a friend of mine (a guy) just proposed to his girl and he said he hasn’t had sex in 5 years (the 5yr mark was the actual engagement date)…
Could yall do it??
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Nope… I need to know what exactly i commiting to for the rest of my life…as do you….
if i marry some garbage ass pussy then there WILL be some infidelity…we need to be sexually compatible for this to work without exceptions…
You seent that? Man is built too low to be tryna reach up and cut nigs throats like that.
Fattie, ut you can’t decide between Male or Female, so how you gonna talk smack about Ms.Jackson yo!
When a nigga TRULY love you, he think you should be content with him not doin a dayum thing. Ask your granny.
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In what world is this true??????
Gigi I’ve done it for over a year, broke down and now I’m back on it. And honestly I’m kinda pissed that I broke down because looking back it was not worth it
@BROWNSKIN
I’m trying to get you the best stage of “love”…. acceptance!
That’s when you KNOW he ain’t chit and got one or two mistresses… but it’s cool!
#helpful
@JMO (Comment #117)
This MLB Player Gary Sheffield (A KNOWN MAN-Whore…) didn’t have SEX with His WIFE until they got Married… She was a Christian Gospel Singer (Don’t know her NAME Though…)
Anyway HE found out later that SHE had a SEX-TAPE with R. Kelly and THEY were being Extorted by someone about SAID Sex-Tape Though
Waiting until MARRIAGE to have SEX is BEYOND FOOLISH — IMO
Jill Scott’s All
“All I”
You like
Don’t be scared
You never saw me like this before huh?
I been a goody daddy,but I don’t have to be
If you don’t want me to,I’ll be your nasty baby
No time for games,no rules just play
Hope you been thinking about the same thing
I’m just sayin’what’s on my mind
It’s been good,but now it’s time
To show love what we made of
No time for games,no rules just play
I hope you want me in the same way
[Chorus:]
Every time I close my eyes,all I dream about is
making love
I can’t even sleep at night,all I dream about is
making love
It’s just all the things I see,when you’re inside of
me,that keeps my mind going crazy
I can’t even think at night,all I dream about is
making love
… to you
I love the shower,out by the kitchen sink
Lay me where you wanna,make my
knees weak
No time for games,no rules just play
Hope you been thinking about the
same thing
I’m just sayin’what’s on my mind
It’s been nice,but now it’s time
To show love what we made of
No time for games,no rules just play
Hope you want me in the same way
[Chorus]
[Breakdown:]
Do you want it on the back?,it’s like that
Do you want it on the floor?,lover please
Tease me please me spank me feed me you
know what I need baby
[Repeat x2]
I’m just sayin’what’s on my mind
It’s been nice,but now it’s time
To show love what we made of
No time for games,no rules just play
Hope you want me in the same way
[Chorus]
… like that
… like that
Tease me please me spank me feed me you
know what I need baby
I
:shotfired:
<–Iheart's lil ole piglet
RIP
Anybody hungry? We've got fresh pig meat
Ace says:
JMO says:
So a lot of people lately are waiting to get married to have sex. I just saw on another blog that Megan Good hasnt bumped skins with her fiance and a friend of mine (a guy) just proposed to his girl and he said he hasn’t had sex in 5 years (the 5yr mark was the actual engagement date)…
Could yall do it??
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Nope… I need to know what exactly i commiting to for the rest of my life…as do you….
if i marry some garbage ass pussy then there WILL be some infidelity…we need to be sexually compatible for this to work without exceptions…
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YSoSrs says:
@ACE
You seent that? Man is built too low to be tryna reach up and cut nigs throats like that.
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Gigi I’ve done it for over a year, broke down and now I’m back on it. And honestly I’m kinda pissed that I broke down because looking back it was not worth it
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This MLB Player Gary Sheffield (A KNOWN MAN-Whore…) didn’t have SEX with His WIFE until they got Married… She was a Christian Gospel Singer (Don’t know her NAME Though…)
^^^I remember this,,,Ol dumb azz,,,Waited for the puzzzzy only to find out the puzzzzy had been foreclosed on years ago “hahaha:
@Porky you hush up heffa…Im a free spirit,,,We can luv who we chose,,,As long as its the same color!hmph
@ THE SELFISH LADIES AKA CELIBATE LADIES
Exactly what is the purpose of being celibate? No bullchit, for real. I mean, by being celibate what is that suppose to accomplish?
Maybe I’m just too logical but if you wanna fluck, you wanna fluck.
Heyyyyy Yall
and 
So the Men say “hell no” and the women say “yes, we can” #noobama
interesting …
@ Ya-Ya.. I guess I can’t really talk because when I use to feed my daughter, I would guide the spoon to her mouth,when she opened her mouth… I would too.
I couldn’t stop myself from doing it! I do it with every little kid I feed now!
Okay back to lurking and workin
So I’m back on Dry Island. I didn’t read the comments but a sistah is hurting!
Gigi26 says:
Gigi I’ve done it for over a year, broke down and now I’m back on it. And honestly I’m kinda pissed that I broke down because looking back it was not worth it
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I’m on it now and it wasn’t cuz I was hurt or anything but I just feel you miss out on a good man just fukking off with a bad one. I’d rather get to know you for what you have to offer besides your dyck slaying and puss eating skills. You see the clearer picture sometimes when sex is out of the picture imo.
Ace
now if you dealing with a female and get married to her and find out that she has garbage ass pussay, chances are she was a garbage ass female 
@Creamy
IF a Woman mentality is HER MAN (Husband, S/O, Soulmate…) doesn’t have to DO NOTHING regarding HER PRESENCE in HIS Life then that equates to being “A DOORMAT” To Me
I MEAN… WTF kinda of MAN doesn’t want HIS WOMAN To Feel Special Though (In EVERY WAY Imaginable…)
So are the dudes saying sex is more important than everything else??
@ACE & DADDY
Agree. Sexual compatibilty is essential to a long-lasting relationship. There’s some sht you can grow to like but then there’s some sht that is a definite deal breaker. Why wait to find out on your wedding night that your wife can only fck standing on her head an a tub full of olive oil?
@SANDRA
“Jill Scott’s All
“All I…”~GYPSY EYES
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@Gigi
Ace, but clearly you would marry the woman because you love her… you wouldn’t want to try to work it out if it was that bad? Shouldn’t love trump fukkin?
I don’t think I could do it personally but I wouldnt say its out the question though …
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@Yall …….
@BIBI
“So are the dudes saying sex is more important than everything else??”
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There’s “other” stuff?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@ THE SELFISH LADIES AKA CELIBATE LADIES
Exactly what is the purpose of being celibate? No bullchit, for real. I mean, by being celibate what is that suppose to accomplish?
Maybe I’m just too logical but if you wanna fluck, you wanna fluck
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Mine was unintentional and it’s happening again. Got some when I was in Atlanta for ex-hubby’s fune(that’s how I cope)
Been back in CT and I’m about to doe. I think I have blue balls!
I gotcho Porky!
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Man, when I’m not getting any it’s because I just don’t want any old dyck, I want the one I want
But I’m not practicing celibacy either, so
Man without knowing who is singing the lyrics read them Homey! Why are you hating!
Ms. Everything says:
@JMO idk but I think I’m gonna try if for no other reason than the fact that I hate new relationship sex and I don’t have the time nor patience to get used to a new person and mold them to what I expect
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@Man
U have zero sense.
Will u ever marry???
@Bibi please don’t generalize all us SR men… All PHROZEN is saying is that don’t place dates/timeframes and expiration dates on ANYTHING to do with relationships/sex.If it aint going to work it aint going to work whether you wait 90 days or 90 seconds. Grown folks know what they want,and when they find a good thing they’ll do what they need to do to keep it..
<–will also give it up on the 1st date, because I've already mind fukced and worked my way into your heart
#firstdatetakesprobablyabout3-4monthstogetto #djm #tryit
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Man,
For me celibacy is a choice. I want to know that the man that wants to be with me wants to be with ALL OF ME and not just my puss. If that is a dealbreaker with dude, then said dude wasn’t meant to be in my life. I am sharing a part of myself that I find to be important, to you when I have sex with you and that shyt is very serious to me. Not a lot of people take it serious that is why I choose to remain celibate now.
Is my font really white?
Wow…. New reationships sex is the best cause everyone pulling out their best work…No? Just me? Ok cool..
Phrozen1der says:
@Bibi please don’t generalize all us SR men… All PHROZEN is saying is that don’t place dates/timeframes and expiration dates on ANYTHING to do with relationships/sex.If it aint going to work it aint going to work whether you wait 90 days or 90 seconds. Grown folks know what they want,and when they find a good thing they’ll do what they need to do to keep it..
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@Phro during all the abstinent spells I’ve had over the years (there’s been more than a few) it’s never been about the man and always been about me. My sex drive doesn’t control me
I can live with it or without it. Sometimes I want it and I’ll go out and find it if it isn’t readily available and other times I just have no serious interest. But it’s never for the “so he’ll respect me” “so I know what he wants” things although I can say it’s nice to see where someone’s interests truly lie and sex can mask true intent. Plus good sex will have you holding on to a sorry negro longer than you should just cause the peen is good 
Phrozen1der says:
@Bibi please don’t generalize all us SR men… All PHROZEN is saying is that don’t place dates/timeframes and expiration dates on ANYTHING to do with relationships/sex.If it aint going to work it aint going to work whether you wait 90 days or 90 seconds. Grown folks know what they want,and when they find a good thing they’ll do what they need to do to keep it..
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Are you single??I’m currently celibate but I’m not waiting for marriage cause I never plan on getting married so…I have to wait to do something that is natural (have sex) because I don’t want to do something that is unnatural (commit myself to one person forever)?
JMO says:
So the Men say “hell no” and the women say “yes, we can” #noobama
interesting …
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I’m not saying it’s not possible…but just for scenerio sakes…
Single Man — Fluckin Whoever
Dating Man — Still Fluckin Whoever And can Manage if courting a celibate woman cause he still able to fluck whoever
Boyfriend — Has decided to give it a go with 1 Female…This is where Celibate woman has to make a decision…Either Turn the Celibacyt switch off here or live knowing He Flucking someone else….
Fiance’ — At this point We Live together…YOU CAN TRY being Celibate…but i garunatee you (atleast with me) you will be unsuccessful.
Husband –
New sex…you are trying to be nice and loving, he don’t know to pull hair, smack dat azz, or know safe words!
*ignores Gypsy*
#ikidikd
Phrozen1der says:
Wow…. New reationships sex is the best cause everyone pulling out their best work…No? Just me? Ok cool..
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@GYPSY
“Man without knowing who is singing the lyrics read them Homey! Why are you hating!”
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I saw it was by Jill Scott and assumed she was singing bout pancakes or doughnuts or some chit like that.
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Yoouse a Artist!!!!
@MsEverything
@JMo
@Bibi
Hellz NAW But Sexual Compatibility Shouldn’t BE IGNORED Though… IF That wasn’t such an issue THEN NOBODY should have a PROBLEM with OPEN MARRIAGES Though
And I KNOW My Retort was Extreme (But I DOES THAT At Times…)
@Phrozen that’s what my man got a good thang,
@Phro
gypsyeyes says:
New sex…you are trying to be nice and loving, he don’t know to pull hair, smack dat azz, or know safe words!
Mind fukc ‘em first! Talk about these things yo! Find out who likes what, tell how you like it, sess convos are healthy IMO, of course
No @ MAN! Read the lyrics Homey! That song came out of my head I just forgot to write it down!
MS. E says:
My sex drive doesn’t control me I can live with it or without it. Sometimes I want it and I’ll go out and find it if it isn’t readily available and other times I just have no serious interest.
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THIS.
You right Phro but to me its just a restraint that I have not a bargaining chip. But trust and believe when a female is celibate, she will see a true nigga’s intentions waay quicker
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@Phro maybe cause I’ve been married and long relationships but the best sex is when I know everything you like and you know what I like and we can be as nasty as we wanna be and not care about the after sex. Which usually takes awhile to get to
@MsFashion, I stolled it from OTB
Bibi says:
So are the dudes saying sex is more important than everything else??
^^I look for stability. If you are stable, you aint looking to me for money. I got sick of women looking at me like Im a damn atm. Real talk. I dont go to restaurants, I dont go to movies, Hell I dont go on dates at all,,,Ill cook yo azzz a nice home cooked meal,,,If you can come over, chill, eat, and fck,,,Then take yo azz home…Then we can kick it…Then we can start dating,,,Then I can start paying,,,But if you looking for me to invest in the booty before I get sum—-not happenin
If Im gone pay for it, why wait for it? Thats what outcall massages are for 
Ms. Fashion, She is a copycat & I am still highly offended
And now I’m leaving…
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Phrozen1der says:
Wow…. New reationships sex is the best cause everyone pulling out their best work…No? Just me? Ok cool..
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Truth
@GIGI
“For me celibacy is a choice. I want to know that the man that wants to be with me wants to be with ALL OF ME and not just my puss. If that is a dealbreaker with dude, then said dude wasn’t meant to be in my life. I am sharing a part of myself that I find to be important, to you when I have sex with you and that shyt is very serious to me. Not a lot of people take it serious that is why I choose to remain celibate now.”
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Uh huh…
So let me get this all the way straight, you HONESTLY believe that a man not getting NO puzzy from NO WHERE is MORE likely to make a wise decision?
That’s what you’re saying?
Oh @ Yall- it’s like that???!!! Fugg you and your font!
I just want to go on the record and say who the fugg ya’ll been new sexing with?! I see whay you all being abstinent!!
The first day you need to do a back handspring,somersault,tuck,toe touch,synchronized swimming stance… Eff the bullshat!! 
@Elove
I getcha.
@Phrozen-ONE SAID:
Wow…. New reationships sex is the best cause everyone pulling out their best work…No? Just me? Ok cool..
THIS is a GREAT WAY to obtain Real-Life STALKERS TOO Bruh
@Phro, I knew that … jus messin with u
@Ace,
@Yso, … Being celibate, when you think about sex, you don’t have an urge?? Like … an urge that only someone can fulfill?
YSoSrs says:
I’m currently celibate
explains alot.
@B2
“If Im gone pay for it, why wait for it?”
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Remember the Golden Rule:
“Put out or get out.”
Phro
*pops collars* 
I don’t know what is wrong with me cause my hawny is at a 25 on a list of 1-10!
@Gigi True..
@MsEverything I mean you learn that,but ummmmmm yeah my new sex has ALWAYS rocked..
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Phrozen1der says:
@ people who hold out on sex….. If you’re abstaining do it so that way YOU can think outside your PUSS or PEEN..don’t do it cause you think it’s going to make dude/chick stay longer cause he/she waited..if he/she wants to smash and dip he/she will do just that no matter how long it takes.
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That was one of my points. Check your reasoning for doing it.The puss don’t make a man stay. Change the way you think and act you will get different results. You will make better choices.
Meagan needs to learn to be modest. Nobody want to know when you spreading your puss. You been did that for other men now everybody know this man aint hit yet.
Ain’t nobody got time for all that!!!
@ELove Only if you sleep with everybody,you gotta know who you can certain things with
@JMo @Yall
JMO says:
Ace, but clearly you would marry the woman because you love her… you wouldn’t want to try to work it out if it was that bad? Shouldn’t love trump fukkin?
I don’t think I could do it personally but I wouldn’t say its out the question though …
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Love and Sex are two different entities (i think i explained it once before cant remember)
I can Love is a decision and Sex is a Physical Act.
I can Love a women and respect her calibacy but we can’t get married if i’m not getting everything I want out of it as well…this isn’t just for you…marriage is a two way street …The woman is holding out for her wants…am I not entitled to have what i want as well?
ION have these problems
Brenden that makes sense to me
MS. E says:
My sex drive doesn’t control me I can live with it or without it. Sometimes I want it and I’ll go out and find it if it isn’t readily available and other times I just have no serious interest.
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Ahhh ok
So let me get this all the way straight, you HONESTLY believe that a man not getting NO puzzy from NO WHERE is MORE likely to make a wise decision?
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Man get yo hoe logic out of here
I’m just saying for me, it ain’t a bargaining chip but I am not getting my rocks off to just any damn body cuz i’m horny. I don’t care to do that so i’d rather have a relationship before giving him the poon.
@Phro I can only think of 2 – 3 times in my illustrious and long history of new people sex (before I had the minions and learned responsibility) where it was really really good. Maybe it’s a female thing?? cause most of my close friends have said the same thing
And the mind blowing new sex over the years has always been accompanied by heavy intoxication. Usually it’s good enough to come back to but not mind blowing and sometimes it’s not even good enough to come back to
Jmo, are you still down here next week?
What the deal?
@JMO
Of course I have urges but I have ways to deal with them.
@YOU
Explains what exactly?
U folks have me thinking I have not gotten around as much as I should have
@Phrozen-ONE
It’s ALL A CRAP-SHOOT Bruh (TRUST ME…) Stalkers comes in ALL PROFESSIONS… It’s The “CONTENT of The DYCK” that turns them Str8 Out Though but I KNOW WHAT You’re Saying
@Man… SAID:
Remember the Golden Rule:
“Put out or get out.”
THIS is a Golden Rule for ALL-OUT Whores-n-SLUTS Though
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@B2
“If Im gone pay for it, why wait for it?”
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It aint even about put out or get out,,,You dont have to get out if you dont put out,,,But dont think Imma pull my wallet out…Lets be fckin adults,,,This aint high school,,,We all want sex,,,If you dont want sex, then take yo celibate azz on,,,I can respect you having a lock on the twat,,,But I cant respect being strung along
Dont try to play me,,,And dont try to get paid by me 
BB, dontchew be worrying about this stuff! #everythingwillbefine #thatsalligot
Brendbew, men pay without even asking when they enjoy the company #notmakingthisup #notstringingalongeither
yallcrazy says:
Jmo, are you still down here next week?
What the deal?
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you, dimpz and I still wanna do lunch?
I told my man if he want sex with other women, I told him to bring them home first let me test it and if i like it then i let you hit it he look like this
just gansta 
Iheart, I still am offended, and now I must leave
Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo says:
It aint even about put out or get out,,,You dont have to get out if you dont put out,,,But dont think Imma pull my wallet out…Lets be fckin adults,,,This aint high school,,,We all want sex,,,If you dont want sex, then take yo celibate azz on,,,I can respect you having a lock on the twat,,,But I cant respect being strung along
Dont try to play me,,,And dont try to get paid by me 
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Ace says:
JMO says:
Ace, but clearly you would marry the woman because you love her… you wouldn’t want to try to work it out if it was that bad? Shouldn’t love trump fukkin?
I don’t think I could do it personally but I wouldn’t say its out the question though …
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Love and Sex are two different entities (i think i explained it once before cant remember)
I can Love is a decision and Sex is a Physical Act.
I can Love a women and respect her calibacy but we can’t get married if i’m not getting everything I want out of it as well…this isn’t just for you…marriage is a two way street …The woman is holding out for her wants…am I not entitled to have what i want as well?
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You have a point Ace … I’ll give you that
brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:
I told my man if he want sex with other women, I told him to bring them home first let me test it and if i like it then i let you hit it he look like this
just gansta 
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…We don’t know how to act when we get what we want….
She’ll be getting poked by some man (I think a man) around that time.
I can take my lunch whenever I choose to, so we can do lunch, just call when you’re on the way
Sooooooooo
cuz of Brenden and Phro. Yall aint shat!!!!!!!! 
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yallcrazy says:
She’ll be getting poked by some man (I think a man) around that time.
I can take my lunch whenever I choose to, so we can do lunch, just call when you’re on the way
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@Yall
Your piggie is still slow iheart
@ACE it keeps the relationship interested we always on some new New, that negro think Im crazy as hell
he said so let me ask u this If i want to have sex with another woman u gone Fk her first and if you like it, then i can hit it right then and there,
I said
I want to watch us to see what you getting. that negro said WILL YOU MARRY ME TOMORROW 
yallcrazy says:
Brendbew, men pay without even asking when they enjoy the company #notmakingthisup #notstringingalongeither
—-> _/ BS!!!!!!!!! They are putting an investment on the coochie. Oh he just enjoys my company
There is no such thing,,,MEN DONT REALLY LIKE TO HEAR YOU TALK, LISTEN TO YOUR PROBLEMS, BE YOUR SHOULDER TO CRY ON! They arent even listening half the damn time,,,Theyre watching how your breast jiggle everytime you laugh. How you lick your lips every 6 mins or so. How small and soft your hands are whenever you brush your hair out of your face. Theyre thinking how they can ignore that light bit of fuzz on your top lip…And so on 
yallcrazy says:
She’ll be getting poked by some man (I think a man) around that time.
I can take my lunch whenever I choose to, so we can do lunch, just call when you’re on the way
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why you want me actin a fool… yall..why? …i do good by you ..buying you lunch …and errythang.. and you through in subliminals…did we not learn anything in that diddy thread? Did we nto learn ANYTHING??!?
*drinking whatever Gypsy’s drinking*
That’s cute @Creamy
Speak for yourself Brendbew, because I’ve got business plans and amazing ish going on in my head, amazing convo (if I do say so myself) And yes, it is like an investment, for me and for him.
They pay though
Ace says:
yallcrazy says:
She’ll be getting poked by some man (I think a man) around that time.
I can take my lunch whenever I choose to, so we can do lunch, just call when you’re on the way
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why you want me actin a fool… yall..why? …i do good by you ..buying you lunch …and errythang.. and you through in subliminals…did we not learn anything in that diddy thread? Did we nto learn ANYTHING??!?
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But Ace, I only used your words yo! Think about it…
Oh btw Lunch was awesome yesterday :griill:
@BRENDEN
You haven’t explained what my celibacy explains.
And I would like to add that celibacy is the debil…Condoms, birth control pills/shots,,,If you are a consenting adult,,,Theres no reason not to be partake-ing in sexual activities
Sex is freeing, stress relieving…You dont wanna be a ho,,,You dont wanna be…If you grown damnitt-Be all that you can be—HELLO…I gets it at least once a week,,,And Im single,,,I live by myself,,,If Sunday rolls around and I aint had none…Im gettin some that night-HELLO again…Keeps me happy 
And it takes the tension off my right hand,,,Win-Win
and Im offffffffff
Im just sayin,,,You can be kinda wishywashy,,,I think now I know why
No shade tho…But,,,Yeah,,,It explains alot,,,I mean I knew it wasnt a menstrual thing,,,Women your age dont menstruate 
Naw,,,But seriously tho,,,The mood swings,,,Sometimes you wanna play,,,Sometimes you wanna fight n instigate 
Maybe you arent a mean girl,,,As much as you are an in need of peen girl 
@BRENDEN
Interesting. But that is a nig’s answer for everything so…
“Love and Sex are two different entities (i think i explained it once before cant remember)
I can Love is a decision and Sex is a Physical Act.
I can Love a women and respect her calibacy but we can’t get married if i’m not getting everything I want out of it as well…”-Ace
If a woman (i.e. a christian) didn’t believe in sex outside of marriage could you date her?
I Run New York says:
“Love and Sex are two different entities (i think i explained it once before cant remember)
I can Love is a decision and Sex is a Physical Act.
I can Love a women and respect her calibacy but we can’t get married if i’m not getting everything I want out of it as well…”-Ace
If a woman (i.e. a christian) didn’t believe in sex outside of marriage could you date her?
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She would need to find someone who believes in no sex before marriage …unfortunately i don’t have those same “christian” beliefs. If I’m to accept her “no sex outside of marriage” then i need her to accept my “open relationship” until she is willing to take over where she he “choosing” not too..this is a big reason why people tend to pair up with someone in who follow there same ideologies…due to lack of compromise.
Her Belief: No sex before Marriage
His Belief: No marriage until i know i love the WHOLE package which includes the physical part(sex etc..)
They will not work without compromise and for Her to ask him to give up his beliefs without her budging on hers is not acceptable…so She would need to go find someone who has her same beliefs…..(which i dont’t)
“If I’m to accept her “no sex outside of marriage” then i need her to accept my “open relationship” until she is willing to take over where she he “choosing” not too.”
I got that your answer is no. But are you saying that you’re in to open relationships?
And for the ladies if there was a guy i.e. Tim Tebow you thought he was attractive and a good catch but was a virgin and was planning on staying one until marriage would you date him?